SadAbstinence Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls. (at least from what i could read) Yeah. There's a lot that I left out. But my parents had a much wilder childhood than I did. They left the church and came back. I just find it hypocritical they put so much stress on me to stay steadfast from start to end. It was not something prepared to work in an age where a young woman would go far away from home, far away from her parent's supevising, in a place filled with young males that would flirt with her and young females that would provide an exampl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 02:19 AM
12	Not sure if this has been posted here before, but u/moorekom's recent post reminded me of it. Reverse dual-mating strategy? She had a good man but threw him away because she had stronger 'giner tingles for another guy. I asked a girl to wait for me and this happened. It made me stronger I suppose. But very cynical. Never waiting again. She wasn't as bad as OP because she wanted me, but it was still fucked up.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	12/04/20 02:09 AM
6	It was college so it doesn't count I asked a girl to wait for me and this happened. Yes, the probability is almost none, unless you're in some restrictive religion or if she's unattractive with a low sex drive. If she's waited until her wedding night she probably has a low libido and doesn't care about sex, so the marriage would be a deadbedroom.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/04/20 10:29 PM
3	The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls. Good on you. Sex is natural, and the internal pressure only fucks people up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/20 10:26 PM
3	The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls. My mom flat-out encouraged me to start birth control when I turned 16, as did other relatives. That's amazing. I wish my parents weren't so fucked up. I find that making it about other people (e.g. parents' wishes, future spouse, etc.) is unhealthy and sets people up for disappointment. So true. I think I tricked myself into thinking it was what I wanted. Idk if my gf felt the same but I was her first love so she was ok with my terms at the time. I plan on raising my kids Catholic, so I will def…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/20 06:42 AM
1	The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls. That could describe my middle to high school gf. But then again we were both "technical" virgins. She was sex obsessed and the initiater most of the time. Gave insane head to make up for the lack of fucking. I remember her commenting that if I wasn't religious and asked her to wait for marriage, we would have fucked since middle school. That said no nymphomaniac virgin dont lasts for long. She last for university and gave her virginity to someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/20 06:26 AM
15	The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls. I was a catholic virgin until a year or so ago. Was super idealistic. I tried and failed. Dated this girl since middle school. She wanted to have sex but I was religious so I asked her if we could wait. She was happy to wait for years. She went abroad for university and gave her virginity to someone else... as a mistake. I fucked her anyway when she came back home crying to me. I thought it was purposeless to keep it at the time. After 7 yrs of dating I thought she was the one. So I probably won…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/20 06:15 AM
1	No worries, she's an exception. Yes for real. Too lazy to go back into that dumpster fire of a tweet. He probably did get defensive.	/r/MGTOW	28/01/20 03:18 AM
6	No worries, she's an exception. some simps are beyond saving he saw the tweet and people making fun of him. His choice? Send her 50$ instead of the usual 20$	/r/MGTOW	22/01/20 03:13 PM
19	Gentleman, introducing my wife. Still take it now. It's better not to find out later.	/r/MGTOW	21/01/20 03:19 PM
1	Rational perspectives on my likelihood of finding a virgin? well you're the person who is choosing to still date her at this point. yeah. i'd've broken up with someone over cheating I thought I would too, but soon I learned that my forgiveness could be earned. and sunkcost fallacy is a serious drug.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/19 02:26 AM
1	Rational perspectives on my likelihood of finding a virgin? I stayed a virgin until we reunited. But sometimes I think I should've forgot about her when she confessed cheating. or did you hook up with someone too? I kinda wish I did. Then I'd have no reason to care about her breaking her promise, because that would be the two of us. And lol she went to a robotics club in uni too. And is bi too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/19 02:05 AM
1	Rational perspectives on my likelihood of finding a virgin? Exactly. And it's even impossibly difficult if you've been dating them for years. Dated a virgin since HS. She wanted to fuck, but I was religious so I told her I wouldn't have sex with her. In uni we had a long distance relationship and she gave it to someone else while I was gone. Despite that, we're together now, but it stings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/19 12:13 AM