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I mean it's not like there is zero connection. There are studies that show that polygamous societies (men that have multiple wives) have a significantly higher inequality and crime rates. And that makes sense - if on average a man has 2 wives, that leaves 50% of men, 25% of population alone. Some people will pretty much give up, some of them will resort to crime in order to raise their status. There is a reason why every developed country in the world is monogamous. I am fine either way, but it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 02:23 PM
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I mean if you swipe right for 20% of men, then you have high standards. I think it is very pretentious to say that average man is ugly. Ugly in comparison to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 12:06 PM
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So caring about women makes them less interested, and not caring makes them interested. Man genuinely doesn't care, woman is attracted - that is a really shit deal for a woman, and mostly doesn't apply to the people here Man cares, but acts like he doesn't - that is tedious Then what is the point in looking for a woman if you need to either not care about her, or if you need to constantly keep your guard up not to slip up that you care? Why would you even want a woman?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 04:40 AM
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SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU SEXUALLY Then this doesn't really make sense? just balls out state their intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:48 AM
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Most cases of the friendzone I had were in scenario like, someone brings a girl in our circle, and in the begging we don't seem to have many topics where we can talk. I don't think it is appropriate to start throwing myself onto a girl the moment she enters our circle, and if it is appropriate, I am shy and I am not a guy to do it. For the most part since we don't talk much, I don't actually have any feelings towards the girl. But after a month of interaction, we find a common topic and I find t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:44 AM
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Generally, yes, but the OP states that in comparison to the feminism which is very popular, MGTOW is shunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:00 AM
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In opposition to feminism that has nothing but healthy views on men? Generalizing men as oppressors, rapists, cheaters, all men should apologize and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:30 AM
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Because I was raised as a white knight, it made sense that if you shower women with compliments that they would reply in the same manner. It took few shitty PUA books to bring me to normal (not to make me successful with women, but to make me not despised by women).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 11:19 PM
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Well approaching s girl saying "you are so beautiful/smart/hot" 100% doesn't work because there is a million Indian guys saying the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 10:53 PM
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That can get pretty expensive, and also they really don't care about teaching you, they will do their job and that's it. Compare experience of few relationships, few months long where you had sex only few times a week to hiring prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 02:10 PM
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Eh, I actually lucked out and lost my virginity at the age at 24, met a girl at a party that I hosted. After we met 3 times she told me that she is not feeling it and that the sex isn't that good, so I have developed a whole new set of mental barriers to overcome - even if I meet a girl that I like I have no sexual experience and what if that ends up being a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 07:56 AM
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You assume that everyone wants to go around and fuck as many people as they can, which is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 05:53 PM
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I am not sure you are on point, I have some different experiences. I would say it is more that the woman just isn't turned on by you. That may be due physical attractiveness, self confidence or lack of sexual energy. I know few men who know how to create that sexual tension, and occasionally fuck their female friends. I am, on the other hand, polar opposite. As for "overestimating the relationship" - with one girl I have 35 000 whatsapp messages over the span of 5 months, and we saw each other (…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:11 PM
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That transition won't happen smoothly. Historical data shows that monogamous societies have much lower rates of violent crimes, robberies and other misdemeanors. It makes sense - imagine a a polygamous Muslim country where men are allowed to have multiple wives - let's say that married men have on average 2 wives. That leaves half of the men/a quarter of the population with no chance of finding a woman. Those men pretty much have nothing to live for. I am not a trad-con, I don't think that you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:43 PM
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The fact that your female ancestors (and everyone's for that matter) in a lineage of tens of thousands of years and thousands of generations did the exact same thing, makes it seem as a pretty normal thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 09:36 AM
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In many countries, the rape is defined as "penatration with penis or some object", and therefore women cannot rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:36 AM
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Losing half your pension to someone if you get divorced is a weird reason not to get married tbh Really weird.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/18 06:31 PM
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I for one was opposite of natural around women. I had zero experience, and to learn i had to try things. Without going into details it was a cesspool of cringe and awkwardness. Over time I gathered a reputation for being weird and generally disliked around women. More than 10 years passed since then, and I finally have a good grasp on interactions, but I am still afraid to do anything pushy or say anything slightly controversial to people I don't know. It makes for terrible dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:00 AM
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I want to weigh in on this. I agree with you, mind games work, and I know more than a few less than average guys who have a lot of success. But to get good at mind games you need to have experience. To have experience, you need to play mind games trough interactions. It's a catch 22. You need to break the loop and it can easily snowball from there. You have probably witnessed this - a late bloomer who had no experience, but after a first relationship it was smooth sailing. Being hot gives you le…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 06:13 PM
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It really isn't like that, there are a lot of average men having success. That being said, it most seems that it's a Catch 22. Average and below average men I know that are having sucess started early an have shitload of ineractions with women behind them, and they know how to behave and what works. If you are at 0, odds are against you to find a woman because of lack of experience, but you really can't get experience if you don't meaningfully interact wit women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 02:02 PM
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I hate witten description of memes
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 02:19 AM
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He actually helped her start her own chanel. She was oblivious to the money that could be made on YouTube, and once she found out how much he earned the troubles started.
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 02:18 AM
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I think it's a bit easier to prove a sexual assault if you do not wait a year (or 36) to blame the perpetrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 02:51 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 02:31 AM
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I am amazed by how they can't grasp the concept of the statistics. "How can you say those terrible things? I have anegdotal evidence of (being raised by a single mother)/(being a single mother)/(knowing single mothers) that proves you wrong!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 02:00 AM
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Fun fact: Koreans don't smell. The body odor doesn't come from the actual sweat, but from the bacteria that feed on the sweat. Koreans have different composition of sweat so that no bacteria grow.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/10/18 03:38 PM
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https://youtu.be/P73REgj-3UE
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 02:29 AM
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Holding to traditions may be bad, but that doesn't mean that every new idea is good. Monogamy/marriage has been proven to benefit society, and that's why it's omnipresent in first world societies. Research has shown that crime rate is far bigger in polygamous societies. And that makes sense. Let's say that there are 50% of men an women in a society,and that men have 2 wives. In order for that to be true, half of the men, quarter of the population must have no wife. Imagine living whole life alon…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/18 10:02 AM
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Dude, I don't know why I haven't seen you on this sub so far, but kudos. Very polite, articulate and to the point. If you have an youtube chanel, I would watch that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:03 PM
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I will take different angle from the rest of the commenters. Let's not go into whether TRP/PUA works. Feelings like attraction and especially love hold a special status in the society. "Nothing is stronger than love" and similar phrases are often heard. People think it is destiny to find someone special. Many movies and books trough the ages were written on that topic. Those are especially enjoyed by the women, who swoon at the Notebook. Now hypotheticaly, imagine if there existed a set of rules…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 07:54 PM
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From what he has said, his ex painted a different picture of him and the therapist maybe thought that he would agree.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 06:55 PM
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Your argument makes as much sense as blaming a woman victim of domestic abuse as "a man she chose. Nobody was forcing her at gunpoint"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 06:35 PM
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I have a friend from the neighborhood who did modeling for few years. She is very sexually active and prides herself in never giving blowjobs or just handjobs (any sexual act that doesn't end in her orgasming). She has few regular booty calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:02 AM
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Yeah, I mean it's not like people who commit crime (rape, robbery, murder) don't know that it's wrong, and we're just uninformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:03 AM
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If a hot guy in a suit with an Rolex comes up to a girl an asks her "hey sexy, wanna go to my place?", even if she refuses in most cases she feels falttered. If a chubby guy in a star wars T shirt does the same he is a sexist creep. That is nothing new. Point being if you are a hot guy, and you approach a 100 women, you are going to get decent amount of success and positive feedback. If you are not, you are likely to get called a creep, an in a lot of cases in closed environments like high schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 10:32 PM
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I think that tinder/OK cupid study, and similar ones show that women tend to be on more picky and looks oriented. For one they este 80% of men as below average looking. Second study went the other way, and showed pictures to women and ask them to imagine a description for a person. They imagined more positive traits when hotter guys were showed (funny, kind,...)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:05 PM
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The obvious ones, like sexual organs difference in muscle mass, and average height difference. The difference in hormones which significantly influences behavior. Women can be pregnant, man can't. And less obvious ones like difference in fields of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:59 PM
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Reminds me of story I read a couple of years ago. There was a robotics club in high school, and it was 6 guys who were friends. They got great results on competitions, so the principal ordered they have to accept few girls. They did initially, but they did nothing and got the credit. So when the principal didn't care they left, made a new club and girls failed miserably to even qualify for a competition.
/r/MGTOW03/05/18 09:36 AM
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Huh, wasn't familiar with that. At least that isn't the situation in East Europe, but the discussion was about USA
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 02:18 PM
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Well there are whole (primarily women) communities on Tumblr based around shoplifting. Posts are mostly techniques and tips, justifying there actions and "hauls" images and listing of all the stuff they have stolen today
/r/MGTOW18/04/18 10:03 AM
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What? Men are much more competitive than women, in sports, in workplace... Why do you think the phrase is "dick measuring contest"? To extend an olive branch, it may be true that men are not as intrinsically motivated as women, but you are wrong that women are the external motivation. It is competition and greed. It is not that men want to get better because they want better women, it's because they want better women than other men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 08:53 AM
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Are you saying that women are purposefully seeking to become single mothers? I know of such cases, usually women who look for the sperm donors, and some who have a partner "donor" in mind, but most of the cases I know (I know this goes by "anegdotal evidence") are cases of broken down marriages, or they get pregnant with someone in relationships and the baby daddy flunks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 08:44 AM
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Not to mention that wering a mask carries tremendous mental strain. It's no wonder that men commit 3 out of 4 suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:41 AM
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Is there a possibility to ad a clause or to word the prenuptial agreement differently in order to avoid this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 12:36 PM
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First and second wave, yes. But sexual liberation and third wave is no one's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 09:33 PM
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Sexual liberation comes at the cost of social stability. There is historical evidence that monogamous civilizations thrive faster and have lower crime rates. And it makes sense. If you allow for polygamy, rich, powerful, and hit men will attract much more partners than not-so-well-off people. This is supported by OkCupid study that women find 80% below average, Tinder stat that women swipe right 17% of the times, studies on Chimpanzees show that top males get ~10 females, while bottom 40% of mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 09:31 PM
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Or you know, use condoms? Or any other form of cheap/free protection
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 09:18 PM
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I would actually like r\iamverybadasswomen to collect this shit
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 09:07 PM
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Better yet, don't tell her "I put it", but "I found a porn video with you in it, <describe the video>", an have that be first and last message
/r/MGTOW08/04/18 08:44 PM
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Uh. Where do I begin? Why can't women be responsible for their own orgasm? Teasing isn't "painful" for men. Starting and stopping over some time increases arausal and leads to stronger orgasm in the end. How do you think Tease and denial was born? In the end I don't think your justification "alphas fuck really bad, betas rule". While your logic is sound, in the end betas get few relationships, and alphas fuck more, so they have more experience. While beta might be trying their best, often it's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 08:15 AM
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I was a white knight up untill 16,17 years old. Few things here: Older sister: My parents tried to have a kid for a long time, and then they got my sister. They pampered her to shit and I just happened Narcisistic mother: my mother is very easily annoyed and offended (eg. I mentioned that soup she made wasn't salty enough and she got pissed and yelled that no one in the house appreciates the work she does). She wore pants in our house (dad is very passive) and always favorized sister. E.G. My si…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 08:21 AM
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What kind of honesty is that? Have you ever read TRP field reports. Maybe not honesty per se but open discussion on ideas that would be deemed controversial in an average group of people. Topics that may be on some people's minds but are rarely discussed, especially in today's politically correct climate. That is not how that happens at all. What usually happens, when someone is exposed to a new idea, is that the person goes into the experience with preconceived notions that they want to affirm,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 10:48 AM
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I hate that attitude. Theory I developed over last few years is that there is no such thing as "talent". Everything is learned. If a a kid is drawing amazing drawings at the age of 15, it's probably because his parents bought him a lot of crayons when he was 4-7 years old and his/her idea of play time was drawing on a piece of paper. There is no person who never painted before, but first time they took a brush and a canvas created amazing painting. I was ashamed because before I was 20 I didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 10:26 AM
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Here you go: http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-surrey-38891663 Few notable sentences for those who want TL;DR Maria Mills, 51, received a £230,000 payout in 2002 but was in debt after "unwise" investments, the court heard. Mrs Mills works for two days per week as a beauty therapist, the court was told. Lawyer said his client was "unable to meet her basic needs".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 09:25 PM
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I see your comparison, but I think the RadFem point was drawn more because the women who complain about "men only wanting sex" still have sex and occasionall relationship, while nice guys and radfems usually don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 10:26 AM
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Well, less and less men want marriage as well. Alimony laws are fucked up, I recently saw a case where woman got judge to increase alimony payments 15 years after the divorce because she was short on cash. Essentially the original purpose of the marriage is for it to be a giant safety net for women looking to have a child. The tradition behind engagement ring is for woman to have a collateral in case a man leaves her. Whole MGTOW agrees with you, people shouldn't marry. So equivalent question mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 10:20 AM
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Doesn't that mean gold diggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:27 PM
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That is true, different girls prefer different men and different approaches. But being a "nice guy" that caters to women and showers her with compliments never works
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:55 PM
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Pretty much this. I was raised in a conservative Christian family, sex was a taboo topic - I never had birds and bees talk. My mother wears the pants in the family. This and some other factors add up over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:44 PM
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Okay, if only having ONS is bad and unfulfilling, how would it it feel if men wouldn't even talk to you, and you couldn't even find a ONS, let alone any relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 10:16 PM
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No reasonable debate can be put in 3 sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 08:44 AM
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Not often. Only times I hear "there are X percent of men in top 100 companies" is by women quoting inequality. That is not a measure of anything. A lot of rich tech meb are from times when there were even less people in STEM (HP, Google, Microsoft, Apple...), and as far as finance/banking goes - that requires greed and willingness to shit on people. Number of male/female CEO's is not indicative of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 10:57 PM
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Well most of men are told that looks don't matter. And most of men learn by talking to their friends/watching other people. So when a guy sees someone grope your ass in the hallway and you walk away with a giggle, he can naturally assume that you liked that. And may even try it because apparently - that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 10:49 PM
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Yup. From the beginning of the high school and well into college. Everyone told him that he is crazy but he was stuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 04:59 PM
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Maybe you misunderstood me. I was talking in the lines of what op was saying. We are not talking about clear cut where woman says no. We are talking when woman says no but actively tries to hang out with you. For example if you make your intentions clear, the girl says no. Okay, in a few days you say "I am home alone tonight, wanna come?" - and she actually comes. What OP is saying, and I am agreeing is that described situation is not clear cut. The situation I described happened to my (female) …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 04:58 PM
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1) How often does a woman get punched/attacked for saying no? I have never heard of that happening. Especially not at a bar or a house party. In this culture if a guy slapped a girl there would be 5 guys jumping at him. 2) OP is talking about ambivalent girls. For example my friend has this girl that when is drunk alway grinds on him and dances with him, but when she tries something she says no. And she calls him to go out with him. Or another case where my female friend on a party saw this tatt…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 04:49 PM
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Do you imagine some kind of logical discussion with girl where you convince her using arguments, where woman at the end goes "your argument makes sense, let's have sex"? It comes down to passion/lust/attraction and that can't really be achieved only trough words
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:46 PM
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I have a story in that topic. My friend had a crush ona common female friend. And that lasted for years. Initially he started talking to her and and escalating, but she eventually she said that she doesn't feel that way abut him. And after that she continued to talk to him like nothing happened. He tried escalating more trying stuff, but she would keep saying no. It kind of messed the guy up, at the one point he lied to us that they were in relationship. After few years of that she kind of got f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:42 PM
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I think you missed the point. At this point whole dating is "a social risk". Let me explain. Let's say you have a boyfriend and you had sex. In order to get to this point the guy had to: approach you call you out on a date make physical contact (hig/hand on hips/something) go in for the kiss escalate into Sex (grabbed your ass while you were making out or started taking his/yours clothes off...) All of the above are social risks. Do it to soon or a misjudge a situation (for example going in for …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:02 PM
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There was a post recently in r/foreveralone where a guy was amazed by what his good looking friend was texting women (dirty texts straight off, and it worked a lot), so he decided to try it. Whitin few months there were rumors going around campus, and women publishing Screenshots of their chat and calling #MeToo. That isn't something that just goes away
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 02:51 PM
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So only fat people can't find partners? No other reason, either you are fat and alone or you are at the right body wait and you can automatically find a partner, no matter what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 12:13 PM
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Holding an LTR and everything that comes with it. Changing a lot of partners that leave you often draws trust issues. The mentality of changing a partner when things get thought. Willingness to settle. They are older/less attractive. Not to mention the emotional baggage they hold. Most of the things that younger women who don't do hookups, and only focus on LTR don't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 12:40 PM
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Pre-nups are only in the case of the divorce. First of all if we are making substantially different incomes, it would make me fell much better to know that my SO isn't using me for money. Secondly, the same way a person is planing "in case of devorce" with prenup, the person saying no to the prenup is also planing in case of the divorce - they don't want to give up the benefits they have. If they don't care about the assets, prenup is straight forward decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:16 PM
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You do realize that pre-nups are used are used in divorce. It makes no difference during actual marriage if you have pre-nups or not. So by not wanting a pre-nups you are looking for a safe guard in case of a divorce. It's hypocritical to bash your SO in case of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:06 PM
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It isn't much about number differences. Women are doing an equivalent of not wanting a regular job because they play the lottery and they are expecting a score. When 10 years pass and they are over thirty they consider that they may not win in the end and they start to look for the job, but now with no job experience. Even if there were equal amount of men and women, and everyone found a partner, 50% of women would be dating a below average man. That gets worse if you factor in that by OK cupid …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 12:39 PM
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Men aren't helping women. Women aren't getting the boyfriends, sex partners and husbands they want. Women are unhappy, and it's men's fault. By that same logic: Women aren't helping men. There are many forever alone me and they aren't getting girlfriends, sex partners and marriages they want. Men are unhappy and it's women's fault. The whole article essentially vases around that "delayed adolescence" and it's bollocks. Men have changes their ways much much more than men, especially in non US cou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/18 09:32 AM
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I have few good looking friends who are great with women. And first time I learned about Puck up artists was from them. To be clear they were good with women before they discovered the PUA, there was no magical transformation. But the same way there aren't may millionares saying "Yeah I have enough money. I don't need any more." they wanted more. They were saying that they aren't very interested in girls they can easily have, and they want go higher, to those women who are hard to get. I haven't…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:34 AM
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We seem to be on the same page. In my subjective experience, that is quite common. Most of the exceptions I have seen are from religious Christian couples. But aside from that it's either Tinder - date - fuck - maybe something else; or go to club or a bar, approach random girl, talk, kiss - few dates - fuck - maybe relationship. Rarely have I seen that a couple knew each other for more than a month before they started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:02 PM
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I am not saying that shouldn't be attraction, I am saying that physical attraction shouldn't be the whole basis of a relationship. There are also other kinds of attraction, non sexual. Like genuine enjoyment in being in each others presence, doing stuff together and so on. I think that is much more important than pure physical attraction for LTR, although there is no denying that sexual attraction has a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 03:52 PM
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you make the quality men leave because they can find sex somewhere else Depends on what you mean by "quality men". If you mean good looking, attractive, flirty man by quality men - then yes, you are making them leave by waiting. An that is because they are not interested in you they are interested in sex, and they don't think your pussy is worth the wait. But if you think abour LTR material, then i think it's better foundation for a relationship than instantly putting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 02:00 PM
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1) Move towards sexual attraction as a decider of what is good partner material. I feel that biggest move that happened with sexual liberation, is choosing relationships based on pure attraction. Due the nature of my Colledge I have a lot of female friends/acquaintances, and from most of them what I hear is that they dont do much with their boyfriends except sex. I am oversimplifying it here, but when they go out they go with each other, or with some of their male friends. Activities like going …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 01:52 PM
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I think looks play a big role, but you are pushing it. As people here said - if he was more atractie, chances are higher that he would get consent. But if girl has has strong feelings about not putting out on a first date, and the guy pushed, his looks wouldn't matter. So point is, he would have higher chance to get consent in the first place, but I no-consent scenario it would make no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 01:22 PM
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6 months is nothing. I wonder how will you treat each other after 5, 10 years of marriage when she is footing the bills. Most woman have no problem with each person paying their own bills, the problem comes when you start buying things and paying for them together. Like a car, or a house - then she will feel like she is paying more to get less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 11:07 AM
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Single men should do whatever they want. There are different kinds of love, towards family, towards friends, towards your partner, towards animals, towards your children. Dogs don't fulfill the need of approval, intimacy and love. It's like saying you shouldn't need a partner to feel love because your mom loves you very much. It's not the same. Some people find comfort in sex dolls. Who are we to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 11:58 AM
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She did have the guts, as is obvious from how she did stop it in the end. I got the idea that she misread aziz, and and expected an romantic relationship. She claims that after she shat by him she "expected him to massage her or play with her hair". She stayed there for an hour going along his bullshit. When it finally hit her head that there was only ever gonna be sex, she yelled "all men are the same" and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 08:05 PM
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You do realize that you can choose with who you are in a relationship with? I have always found it staggering why women stay with abusive boyfriends even after few incidents. One female friend wanted to break up with the guy, he drove to her home, grabbed her by the throat and slapped her. But he apologized later and said "he would never do that again". They were in relationships for another year after that. I don't think you can knowingly be in that kind of relationship after first incident, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 12:24 PM
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Not engaged or married, but yeah - only thing I learned from my mother was how to detect highly irrational women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 07:50 PM
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Mist of the "Screenshots the Pm" types of subreddits are trash. Like people forget that in oder to succeed you have to try a lot. Like that data is beautiful post shows. And sometimes you will think you have a clever introduction, and you miss completely. It just happens. And on niceguys - the guys actually think that is legitimate strategy to get women. I know because I was in that situation, being raised in Christian family, "treat others how you want to be treated",and having an older sister,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:41 AM
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It is a great thing if you fit instantly. But there are so many kinks/fetishes around. If they get you off and you want them filled, you ask for them. For example, one girl I know enjoys extremely when a guy licks along her spine. How would anyone guess that I beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 09:36 AM
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The truth is that by being a good human being, you are working against yourself and to the benefit of the others. The basis of this is Prisoner's dillema. While that is the simplest form, the idea remains the same. For example in a real experiment a proffesor from the University of Maryland gave the students neqt exam question: Select whether you want 2 points or 6 points added onto your final paper grade. But there’s a catch: if more than 10% of the class selects 6 points, then no one gets any …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 11:01 AM
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There is a whole block in original post, did you not even read that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 10:29 AM
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I think it's different for people with lots of money. Here we are talking about rules of thumb that ring should be between 1 to 3 month salaries, that's 25% of your yearly income, or at least ~10k ball park and up I am sure that a rich person can spend 25k on a ring without impacting his budget, and happily swing his dick around how much he spent. But there is a high expectation on middle and low-middle class men to spend as ridiculous and significant amounts of money on rings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 12:39 PM
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I am not saying the man isn't competent, I am not familiar with his work, but army is far more stick leadership than carrot leadership. Cadets are trained into submission by Drill Sargents. It's easier to lead when disobedience is punishable by law. For example, if the guy is an excellent strategist, his job is to create a plan and rely it to the the team. There is no need, and often no time to explain why you think your plan is a good one. There is no one to convince but your superiors. The job…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 10:12 AM
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if you have to ask a question like that (how to get casual sex), you don't deserve it in the first place I can't agree with you. No one is good at something naturally. If a person has great "talent" for drawing, it's probably because parents have them a lot of coloring books and it was their play time. Same goes for any other skill. Raise a kid in a complete darkness, and he/she will never learn to use their eyes. People with normal childhoods take social interaction for granted, but there are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 03:47 AM
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And they try, but no one is expert when they start. So men seek out communities to help them. That is the whole point of the discussion that was linked by OP - men try to improve themselves and seek help in PUA/TRP/something else - while getting mocked by women and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 03:33 AM
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A lot of men today can't even find a decent girlfriend, for myriad of different reasons. One guy I know had helicopter parents, one was bullied and lacks confidence. You say "you should settle for an LTR" like you go out, find sutable partner on the first try and go into LTR. You know it doesn't work that way. You need to date around until you find a decent match. And for people who suck at dating, PuA gives some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 03:29 AM
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Sexual liberation brought decline of the traditional marriage and more freedom to women, and society today pushes women more, so there are now more educated women, earning more and having less dependency on men. Why is this relevant: Research has shown that one of biggest bringers of stability to civilization was monogamous marriage. Poligamy leaves some men with multiple wives, but if there is roughly same amount of men and women, that means a lot of men are left out. A lot of men with no sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 03:18 AM
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Why is there a problem with people having similar problems and interests grouping and discussing? That's essentially what PuA is, or subs like /r/seduction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 02:50 AM
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Other than that they should just work on their confidence first, keep trying and learn from their mistakes. Learning by trial and error is the lowest form of learning, and can't really be applied here. That makes sense for simple, repetitive tasks. Especially here where approaching women has so many variables, that just getting turned down gives you no info or insight. It's like trying to make pancakes, but you don't know the ingredients or what to do with them. You try something, and it fails m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 02:44 AM
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Jokes aside, you have to start somewhere. First step in being good at something is being bad at something. And as OP said, there are a lot of men who lack experience, or have a lot of bad experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 02:30 AM
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Attraction is what gets it started, but it's kind of habit that keeps it going. You probably know a couple that gets back together every time they break up, or a woman that can't hooks up with the ex that she dumped. People get used to people. Especially if you share a lot of experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 02:22 AM
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Not to mention that it's almost a catch 22. Expirienced guys know how to read signals, inexperienced don't. And you can't learn signals if you don't try. Being unattractive gets you labeled creepy for trying, and stops you from ever getting good at reading signals and knowing how to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 04:50 PM
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So, the problem is that you are hit on by unattractive creepy men when you want only attractive, high-status moneyed chads to you approach you. Is that correct? Ftfy - they are not creepy by themselves, they are creepy because they are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 04:46 PM
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You see some proportion of men that simply do not care even if repercussions were much harsher, in the same way that no matter the danger or punishment there are people speeding/driving drunk or doing some other non appropriate behavior. Those are mostly men who don't stand and think before they act and/or men who have had positive experiences in the past by going in strong/assertive. From that group of people come men who get intrusive when rejected, because again, they don't think about the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 12:15 AM
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This is equivalent to the books they advertise for men on porn sites
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/17 02:31 PM
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I think rage is to be expected. A lot of men over there are around 30 years old, never knowing how to feels to be loved. Hitting mid-life crisis alone, and realizing that the rest of their lifes will probably be the same. Is it super sane to vent and yell in the internet? Definitely not. But I think it's better for them than to bottle it up. I also don't think any of them are like that on real life, only on the sub do they vent. Seeing how the sub is filled with depression and suicidal connotati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:55 PM
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You can decrease extremism if you make them feel less shunned away. You don't need to force women or whatever you were suggesting. Acknowledge that some men have circumstances that they are bad with women. And that is natural. No need to mock them, to ridicule them and to brigade against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:14 PM
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Compassion is not greater need than food, but It's pretty high in needs list. Sex =/= compassion or warmth, necessarily True. But as stated even by some incels, they don't necessarily want sex, but for a person to like them enough to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:11 PM
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I wanted to write this kind of post for a long time. Some additional points I would raise: Problem is bigger than The Red Pill. There are many more men affected by the problem, and there are multiple groups that different schools of thought /r/ForeverAlone - accepted their faith for the most part /r/MGTOW (men going their own way) - men who may had relationships but find them not being worth it with the way women behave /r/incels - foreverAlone + sadness + bitterness + nihilism LDAR (not sure th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 02:58 PM
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Visit /r/incels (30 000 readers) or /r/ForeverAlone (50 000 readers if I am not mistaken) and bask into sadness and depression
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 02:28 PM
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Exactly. It isn't a situation where someone told you "be nice to girls", and you believed it. So all you need now is someone to tell you opposite. My father is borderline cuck, passive, never takes initiative, bad with tools. In our home he has no saying. My mom wears the pants, and she is easily offended (one time she got mad at me and my sister when we told her that she is easily offended, she started yelling "everyone in this house is attacking me and I am only one that does anything"). In mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 09:06 AM
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It makes sense talking about "on average" in context of Google if, as stated in manifesto (which again, you would know if you have read it) women and minorities have lower entry barrier, and are hired instead of more competent white males - and that was whole point and reason behind manifesto, I mean it is literally on 2. Page on TLDR
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 09:01 PM
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You would be amazed. Brianna Wu wanted to start her game studio, she was encouraged by her parents who gave her 200 000 dollars to start it. Trump got 1 000 000 dollars when he had an idea. Kids who don't have rich parents are at best told to stick to the school and hope for the best. And also there are summer schools for talented kids, where they are nurtured. But as you can imagine not every smart kid will get recognized and sent there. Some will be labeled as ADHD and get fed with Adderall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:21 PM
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1) it's one thing to acknowledge differences, other to start castrating people 2) science behind eugenics is the same science that allowed us to find genetic diseases. Science itself isn't flawed, it's people and their interpretation. (in a similar way you are misinterpreting my post) 3) Google engineer didn't not say "women are dumb, men are superior". He stared that men and women are different. Eugenics advocated that there are some clearly superior traits.. To expand this, races have clear di…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:15 PM
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I think you are overlooking one major component. Age. Okay if I were told something now I would doubt it, do my research and Form an opinion. But for fucks sake I believed in Santa Claus when I was 8. Kids take every as a dogma. Pretty much anything you tell them by the age of 10, and most of the things you tell them by the age of 16 they will believe. And for some things they can learn the truth, and be okay next day. But if it's something like religion where you were dogmatised, it will take t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:42 PM
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We don't receive same conditioning. There are many different circumstances. Go visit /r/raisedByNarcissist (i hope i spelled that correctly). Some people had helicopter parents. There are many variations, especially on the extreme ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:11 PM
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U feel like Christian wedding wows explain it pretty well: "... for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part." What is point of love, of marriage if I have constantly hold up this mask that I am unbreakable, that I am secure, that nothing can touch me. That would mean that my SO isn't in love with me, it is in love in my mask. Nit to mention that acting like that takes will power and energy. You w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:06 PM
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Google does have that right. But when you advertise you company as "Open to all ideas" it is hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 05:17 PM
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Is it really? Companies like Google, Apple, samsung have measures in place to deter and punish those who reveal company secrets. Company like Google can't take lightly people publishing internal documents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 05:14 PM
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He didn't do it publicly. He wrote internal memo when Google asked what could be done to improve workplace. Someone from Google who read that memo and was butthurt by it, published that private memo. The person that published such "controversial" internal document wasn't fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 05:11 PM
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As othera have stated, he didn't publish anything. It was an internal memo, that was written when Google asked what could be done to improve workplace. This became public when someone who was asshurt by the memo published it online. And yet the person who published private memo wasn't fired, the person who wrote it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 05:06 PM
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I am faacinated how people bash Christians when they reject evolution, but then deny evolution when it doesn't align with their argument. Traits of a woman and a man were shaped trough millions of years. It made sense to make man hunter, stronger and protector, because women would need to rely on men during pregnancy. So everything you said about men being more aggressive and more prone to crime is true. And same way it makes evolutionary sense that women are more compassionate and have strong c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 05:00 PM
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"Treat them like regular people" is misleading. You definitely don't want to treat them as you would, for example, your male friends. And second note, that advice makes much more sense to you, as you probably treat everyone in an assholish way. Not so useful if someone treats everyone in politicaly correct, non ofensive way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 04:32 PM
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Yup The context of your reply deeper in the thread is important It's a pretty bad idea to share your deepest feelings with strangers if you're looking for validation and support. Comparing venting online to opening up to a partner/ friend is pretty silly. First you say that women are not mind readers, when the linked askMen thread is about men confessing their insecurities to their SO. Then you reply with your comment (above) implying that their error of getting fucked, mocked about their insecu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 03:49 PM
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Being friends with a woman is most definitely not a way to get into a relationship with a woman. As some people stated here, most women decide from the start if you are boyfriend material. In my experience getting a female friend and a girlfriend are two incompatible routes that differ from the very initial approach. You can go from boyfriend route to friend route, if you are passive and don't make any advances. Other way around is highly unlikely. And as /u/wtknight said, for your idea to work,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 03:42 PM
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Did you even read the thread OP was referencing? A lot of the possts talk about opening up to their wife, which is definitely not too early in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 03:27 PM
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I mean she only talks about the men she swiped right (is it right? The ones she approved, never had tinder). The average man probably wasn't in her sample group because she swiped left. And "left" is where most men are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 11:45 AM
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Right? If you think about it you go to the club, bar, online to find someone and hope for the best, not knowing what you are going to get. But for example if you have classmate and after few years of hanging you get to know each other very well, and like each other it seems logical that next step would be dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 10:49 AM
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No one is good at everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 10:23 AM
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Women were always less violent than men. As for less mean and manipulative... That really depends. In todays society, in what OP is referring to women are more mean and more manipulative towards men than men are towards women. Saying you know more shitty men therefore women are better is logical fallacy. I am sure you do know more shitty men. But I know more shitty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 09:45 AM
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Define "better person"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 07:21 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 11:23 AM
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Some men do need it spelled out loud and clear. No one can be good at something by default. For good majority of men, these things come naturally, but a significant part of men just don't know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 09:29 PM
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Not wanting to have anything with women =/= wanting, but not being able It's a stretch, but easiest explanation I can think of is => not being hungry =/= not wanting to eat =/= being hungry but having no food. You are saying you were getting attention but you aren't that interested. For men of /r/fireverAlone it is mostly being interested and not getting any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:22 PM
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That is the point. I would guess that you don't get more sex because you chose / you focused on the other parts of your life. When society around you is built around relationships and sex, not being able to achieve that fucks you up. Especially if "not being able to achieve that" spans 20+ years. Not wanting to is completely different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:07 PM
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For majority they are. There are many reasons why (looks, fucked up family, bullied growing up...) why a lot of men can't or don't know how to achieve relationships. And the fact that you mentioned, that sex and relationships are everywhere fucks you up. Seeing how life is turning out smoothly for everyone around you while you are stuck in mid twenties really does a number on your psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:02 PM
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Oh wow
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/17 10:26 AM
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You are off topic and irrelevant to this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 01:01 AM
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I think you hit great purple point here. Explains most of the arguments on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 01:00 AM
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It takes few years of being bad socially to even realise that you are doing bad. But when you are alone, or in some cases have been alone by age 25, 30, 40 it fucks you up. And what makes men angry is pressure for them to do everything, whilst not knowing how. I am sure you gave seen someone either play a video game, or try to make something, or find a job... It's okay when you fail 2, 3, 4, 5 times. But every time you fail it gets more and more annoying. You star thinking is it me? They managed…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 12:46 AM
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Hey requires only "hey to you too" as reply. It's not meant to spark a conversation, it is mean to open/start conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 12:34 AM
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If you are interested in finding out, crate fake tinder with pictures of your male friend or some average guy. Then a) see how many matches you get, and b) try to talk to the girls. I don't know how many times I have seen tinder conversations mocked on reddit. If you are simple like "hey" you are too generic, if you go in derail "I like your profile..." you come of as creepy... Pretty much anything that guy say is mocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 12:31 AM
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So I am guessing 3 times as much me suicides compared to women is just because men innately have "bad character"? You are talking about not getting attention from the guy you want, while we are talking about not getting any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 12:23 AM
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For me it's how I meet the girl. My best female friend doesn't wear makeup, and looks great. I can't imagine her wearing makeup, and on rare occasions she puts lipstick, it doesn't feel like her. On the other hand few girls I know who wear makeup constantly, when I hang with them I remember them with makeup as their default look. They look weird without it, because I almost never see them without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 12:13 AM
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Try to imagine it like this. Imagine it wasn't a girl that was touching you, it was a fat sweaty guy. Or you woke up and that fat sweaty guy with missing teeth was sucking your dick. Now imagine that for some men, it i makes no difference that it was actually an attractive woman doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:18 PM
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Let's say a TRP guy sleeps with a woman, leaves her and criticises her, where ever. And then goes on and repeats that with second woman, third, forth... If he isn't changing, it would almost seem like woman are attracted to that kind of guy. Maybe if he behaved differently he wouldn't have chance with those women to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:23 AM
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Upvote for Domain name server
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:16 AM
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Up vote for this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:21 AM
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And... What? I don't know how many brawls have you been in, but there are no rules. Being chivalrous will get you beaten at best. When someone attacks you with a weapon (stick, knife, bottle), and you manage to land a sucker punch, you would be a fool to stay. What even would he gain by staying?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:19 AM
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Why are you looking at the people so 2D black and white. Bad people good people can do bad things and bad people can do good things. Your logical fallacy is by definition - ad hominem. You are focusing on nothing else, but the person himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:40 AM
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It is a bit of overreaction, but there is a big difference in the fact that isis is half a globe away, but Antifa is stirring up shit here. And as the people have said, communism that Antifas promote killed about 100 million people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:34 AM
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Okay. True. That is assuming you want to do good. You really don't gain much by doing good except for feeling of doing good I it self. It is nice to think all the people are altruistic and want to help all those around them, but it son the case. Many people find no joy in helping others. Also, I would argue that a charity run by some celebrity could do much more than I could ever do even with PhD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:34 AM
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And I would argue that those who just take from this world live better life. You get nothing from giving to the world than your own sense of doing good. Most of the successful people didn't get there by being nice and honest. On the other hand, how many scientists can you name that created things like touchscreen, automatic transmission, camera, television, Internet, the different cures for diseases or similar stuff. You may know few, but there are milions of man hours of research and Labour spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:24 AM
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I would call that being a douche. I wouldn't imagine being ultra alpha like what you have described. In my mind it would be something like Mike from Breaking Bad/Better call Saul. He is always calm, no threats work on him. And he is always in control, no way to fool him, or catch him off guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 11:22 PM
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I don't know if you are a woman so that conversations aren't spoken near you, but I have also heard a lot of bad stuff from people who had experience dating single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 11:12 PM
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Seeing how things like Homer's Iliad were based around 10 year war that started because man took another man I would say the op is on the right track.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:53 AM
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Well heck, by your definition nothing is stable. Even the moon is slowly getting further from the earth by 4 centimeters every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:50 AM
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Jokes on you! I probably won't have any!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 05:59 AM
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People got tired of all the liberal shit they had to put up with. All those wymen/tumbrl shit/white privilege/SJW stuff they were bombarded with. 4chan is often associated with all right. It is full of FA/incel people (although they go by robots on r9k).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 05:57 AM
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I am student of STEM university. I am sad to see how many fellow students are alone. Nobody talks about that, but I know people for a few years and I know they, at least in that period, had nobody. And also I know at least 3 guys who had 5+ partners. I am, of course, in the 0 group. What worries me is seeing proffesors, great people, great lecturers who are doing amazing research, with no wife and nearing 40ies and 50ies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 05:54 AM
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Not really, at least not for everyone. World isn't a fair place, and some people are just going to get screwed by life. Of course self improvement can help your chances not to be in screwed group of people, but it isn't a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 10:26 PM
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I feel like it's more a case of demand and supply. Let's be honest most of the men get fit to attract women. Those who don't are either in happy relationship or already fit and happy with their lives. I know a lot of girls who could go from 7,8 to 10 if they started doing any exercises at all. They are skinny, but still out of shape and floppy. They just don't feel the need. They get enough attention as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 10:19 PM
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28 purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 08:32 PM
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It's kind of catch 22, people get more confident as they have more partners, and get more partners as they are more confident. Hot people get a free ticket to get on that cycle. So naturally it is rare to find insecure hot people. I know one guy, girls that know him claim he is hot AF, but he settled for a somewhat bitchy girl below his league. As far as I know it has probably something to do with his parents, I don't know what exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:45 AM
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Well yeah. You can't be alpha if you are afraid you will offend someone. There was some study conducted on OkCupid where they gave compared how many messages people get versus how other people rate their profiles 1-10. And people who got the most messages didn't have the highest score, they had most scattered score (think like controversial on reddit, loot of good scores, lots of bad, little ones the middle). If you think about it, it makes sense. Priced tattooed chick is going to be rated badly…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:25 PM
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Shy, avoid eye contact, look at the floor, avoid physical contact, talk in low timid voice, pause in conversation, unsure in what you are speaking, uncomfortable making any advances
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:55 PM
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I mean the men who opt out weren't really competition
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:10 AM
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The guys that woman like are very scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:08 AM
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I just mentioned that, because on this thread when you mention scenario: you are in her house, or she at yours, and you are laying in bed, everyone claims that if she pushes back from Sex, she may only want to cuddle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:59 PM
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We are talking about a scenario where she is silent. I think in your scenario all problems would be solved if she said "hey, sorry for leading you on but I don't want to have sex tonight, because I recently got out of relationship/I am tired/I am drunk/for no reason at all. Do you mind if we just cuddle?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 02:52 PM
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I recently had this discussion with my friends. We were also split on that topic. From what we concluded men from our group who have more relationships, and only meet women to date, believe women and men can't be friends. It is mostly because they can't imagine themselves just being friends with a woman. Logic is "if I know this woman, and I like her, well then I should be in a relationship with her". Second group of men are ones who believe women and men can be friends. I fall in that group. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 11:07 PM
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Impossible why? Because they don't want, you don't want it something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 10:51 PM
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Question was more in the lines of what would you do if you found out your current SO won you over using guides, not if your SO started reading guides while in relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 10:49 PM
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I think the discussion was more in direction if women did force a man into Sex, double you call it a rape, rather than could she actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 10:42 PM
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Unless it's very pronounced like eyeshadow and/or 1 inch eyelashes I don't really notice makeup. But what I do notice is change. When a girl that wears makeup most of the days, one day doesn't she looks frckin terrible. On the other hand, my female friends who almost never put on makeup, look good all the time. Fir me its matter of what I get used to in first few weeks of hanging around girl. If she never wears makeup, I just get used to that default state and never notice a thing. On the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 10:31 PM
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Although rare, it is possible. Don't know all the factors at play, but I know few guys who dropped out of high school, confident and popular with girls. One of them is low tier drug dealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 12:39 PM
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Tits are physical. Equivalent would be "do you like abs on men". We are talking about personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 12:36 PM
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I have one, that I assume is 50+. She told me about 15 of them over the years. once we were talking about sex and she told me "yeah, Guy A was really good, and Guy B also, but all those in between were average". I knew about Guy A and B, and I knew there was like 1 month between them. She is very liberal (almost libtard) narcissistic girl, who was also a model. Has terrible body image / self esteem. Comes from quite wealthy family. Mostly she is secretive about partners, but on few occasions she…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 11:37 AM
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/thread For example if a person is covered by tattoos and piercings, thex wouldn't rate very high on a absolute scale, but to certain demographic they could be 10/10. Doesn't matter if it's girl or guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 02:25 PM
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Putting aside what most people have said here - that term "white knight" is misused (and it is), and assuming you meant nice guys: I think the difference is in intent. PUA-s learn new things in order to seduce, nice guys think that their approach is valid. I was white knight for a while when my generation started dating. When I was growing up, watching movies like ones with Hugh Grant, and chick flicks in general, made me seem like that is what girls want. They were all swooning, complaining why…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 08:56 AM
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What about women who stay for years wit their abusive boyfriends/husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 09:15 PM
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My female friend has had boyfriend for 2 years. Pretty alpha guy, leader of rowing section at University. She addmited to me, that she still longs for a guy she met 3 years ago, during the 2 weeks they they were on holidays. Guy is from another country, and they had some plans to meet after that, but it seems he was just making fool out of her. She said she wouldn't know what she would do if she saw him tomorrow. My point is, i don't think many younger people rationally look for long term relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 09:02 PM
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Still, I have seen cases like woman divorcing her husband after a year of marriage, to be with low class drug dealer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:54 PM
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As for "women not wanting beta males", there are few experiments linking scientist showing that for example puppies that are punished randomly are more attached to scientists that puppies that are rewardedpunished randomly are more attached to scientists that puppies that are rewarded. The group only puppies that was randomly punished or rewarded became most attached to the scientists. In other experiment ducklings were imprinted into following a wooden duck, and then discouraged from that impri…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 01:55 AM
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I mean, he gains nothing by being nice to her. She is obviously trying to use him. I was in similar position. Usually it does not matter if you seem as rude, often you are their only hope. Sometimes they will find someone else, sometimes they will start sucking up to you.
/r/MGTOW18/02/17 10:46 AM
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He should respond to her! 3 days after the deadline, saying "yeah, it must be flu season, I also had flu"
/r/MGTOW18/02/17 02:59 AM
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