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| 7 | Question for blackpillers. Do you have any aspirations or goals outside of mating and dating or have you just accepted your station and are waiting for it all to end? Can be anything short or long term.Achieving financial freedom is my long term goal. Maintain good health and slowly looksmaxx. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Question for men who say women are overly shallow - If you genuinely believe that all (or essentially all) women only care about looks, why don't you focus on improving your looks?omg , you have a similar thought process as me. I'm a half blackpiller and half Redpiller and my focus rn contrary to popular belief is improving my looks.then the second thing i focus on Is Money and then social skills My belief is that, you must maximize your looks then start improving your money and social skills. Since looks attract and personality retains. You must pass the looks threshold. Even if you pass the looks threshold it does not mean that she is sexually attracted to you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Why when I ask for appearance and dating related advice it's dominantly men who bring up the gym and women usually speak of therapy and skincare?Why cant u do both? Gym and skincare? ( im doing both ) To my fellow looksmaxxers: Is there anything else?? | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manHow do men with high body counts become higher value? When I mean value , I am talking about SMV. ( Sexual Market Value ). Men with high body counts typically have better social skills with women. Highly likely to be more skilled in bed. Preselection. You appear on lots of women's radar since women typically favour men with experience. ( women generally like competent men ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:51 PM |
| – | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manI agree. Being called a "fuckboy" is one of the best compliments a man can get. Being called Husband/Boyfriend material is an insult. If you are able to obtain casual sex easily , you should be able to get LTRs easily. You also have higher 'value' if you are a fuckboy ( Due to high body count ). Doesn't matter what you do , you are still sleeping with women eitherways. When you have options , women will respect you more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:28 AM |
| 3 | HopiumNah I just said WTF cause how tf did he pull her? I assume he is just really lucky. Also wtf is the whitepill? | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/08/23 10:53 AM |
| 1 | HopiumWTF? | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/08/23 10:51 AM |
| 11 | Those of you who were blackpilled by life, do you think you will rope?No. If i end up alone with no bitches , Imma get a cat to accompany me. And besides , I still want to watch the slow decline of civilization or the advancement of civilization throughout my lifetime. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/08/23 08:21 PM |
| 12 | The men getting laid have better social skills than you, it has way less to do with how they have sex/looks/financesTreat women with respect and like fully fleshed out human beings, be kind, have a good relationship with your own family, be dependable emotionally, and most women will give you a chance. None of this matters. Looks come first. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/08/23 02:36 PM |
| 17 | "I see unattractive guys with girlfriends and wives!!1", well what about unattractive guys having ONE NIGHT STANDS and HOOKUPS?This is just AF/BB. I assume that most unattractive guys with girlfriends usually have vanilla sex. IF they even have sex at all. Just passionless sex. No desire or lust for the unattractive guy. You are right. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/07/23 04:31 PM |
| 17 | The end of the roadyeah missing out on teen love just means a few things: You are undesirable No relationship experience gained in a teen relationship. ( Women love competent/experience men ) You don't get to fill the joy of having your 'firsts' with each other. ( No first kiss , no first hug ). | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/07/23 07:11 PM |
| 8 | Watch as normies gaslight the shit out of OP in the comment sectioncOnFiDence | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/07/23 01:31 AM |
| 74 | A lot of women, especially those on the younger side, crave excitement and adventure, not stabilityYep. Unfortunately I am a boring person with the boy next door look. I hate myself , I wish I fulfilled the dark triad criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance?Yeah there is a high chance I would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Blackpillers: There's no downside to improving your physical appearance as much as possible, and getting in shape23.3 | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/07/23 01:59 AM |
| 12 | Blackpillers: There's no downside to improving your physical appearance as much as possible, and getting in shapeBut also do all you can to improve your physical appearance (short of plastic surgery or leg lengthening) and exercise. Yes that means go to the gym. Go to the fucking gym. Exercise. Lose weight. Lift weights. Get in shape. Eat clean. Don't use drugs. Don't drink to excess. Yes I am currently in the process of trying to looksmaxx myself through various methods. In 1 year I have gotten a good physique , got a skincare routine to clear my acne and a decent haircut and knowledge on styling my hair.… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/07/23 03:03 PM |
| 9 | Here's a survey about manosphere stuff, feel free to participatewhat is the data gonna be used for? Do you mind sharing the data with this subreddit? | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 04:08 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhttps://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/14xtvs8/to_very_attractive_males_what_is_your_life_like/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4A What female body type do you find the most attractive?Most attractive: 1 and 3. 5 for muscle mummy domination. 😋😋 Least attractive: 4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 12:54 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever bought a course/product/book etc. from a manosphere content creator?Lol no | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/07/23 10:37 AM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenusually people in my country that don't have a house or room will go to a hotel to do the deed. Airbnb is really expensive here. In my country , some people will live with their parents till their 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:19 PM |
| – | Self Improvment Mega Thread WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICI doubt so. Most guys ( good with women ) have it come naturally. Only the defects ( me ) have to self improve. For some defects , they will definitely succeed but for some no matter how hard they try they aint getting a relationship. Still doesn't hurt to try self improvement though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:26 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenTime to go to r/wallstreetbets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:19 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenMate , a house in my country costs about a million dollars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:05 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenBruh what do I do if I don't have a house 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 03:55 PM |
| – | Question for the 35yo+ men who were/are the unlucky runts in your groups...(the ones that actually did try but still never found much luck)I will let you know in 15 years lmao. I hope this does not happen to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Incels do not hate women, incels hate female sexuality.Cats are good. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/07/23 05:30 AM |
| 18 | Henry Cavill exposes female attraction to dark-triad traits. Superman = Boring... Witcher = Hot...This is stupid. Why is everyone saying that personality matters?? Its like everyone thinks personality comes over looks for some reason. Its fucking weird. Personality matters only after you meet the looks threshold which most men do not. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/07/23 05:17 PM |
| 8 | Men who don’t want to date overweight women know it has nothing to do with healthFat women and men are unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 04:44 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else really want to get casual sex but can’t get motivated to deal with the bar scene anymore and dating apps are atrocious for men?Yep i want casual sex/FWBs but as a 6/10 male its impossible. Just wanna increase my value as a man. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/07/23 03:08 AM |
| 2 | What’s the solution to y’all actually getting dates with girls?yeah lol I already workout 3 times a week and ensure that I have clean hygiene. Hell i would say Im putting in more effort than some people that do get a girlfriend. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/07/23 05:31 AM |
| 3 | What’s the solution to y’all actually getting dates with girls?I will try to improve myself to reach my full potential. Im considering plastic surgery tbh but i dont really wanna do that.... If i still don't get a girlfriend then its time for sugar dating/escorts. Just to fulfill my sex drive. Once im old i will just get a cat and be a grumpy lonely old man. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/06/23 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Most important factors in dating rankedHeight Looks Money / Status Confidence Personality | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/06/23 09:16 AM |
| 5 | What do you guys do to cope?Gym , looking at cute cats and memes. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/06/23 04:41 AM |
| 3 | World War 3 will fix our problemsbruh plz dont start world war 3 just to get pussy 💀 | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/06/23 06:29 PM |
| 8 | What exactly is a chad?Don’t know if y’all know but the original IT just opened back up again. That sucks. Hmm i would say a chad differs depending on race? But their attractiveness level is 8/10. At that level , women will stare at you and give you signals. Women are more receptive of your approaches. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/06/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | "But I See Average Men With Women Everywhere" Does Not Defeat Red Pill or Black Pill.You guys need to know your level. If you're attractive enough that you don't need money or personality to get women that's great. But if not you're going to have to do some other things to make the thought of being with you somehow pleasant for a woman. There's no use complaining about it. Yes sir. Im currently improving my looks ( looksmaxxing ). My career. ( watching online courses. ) Financial stability ( Investing properly ). For personality wise im not sure how to improve that. 😂😂 Cause tha… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/06/23 03:02 PM |
| 3 | "But I See Average Men With Women Everywhere" Does Not Defeat Red Pill or Black Pill.While its true that my looks might be better than the 'uglier' guy. I am not attractive enough where woman will cheat on their boyfriend with me. That only happens to 8/10 men. I have heard of this theory called "first movers theory" or something like that. Where an average/below average guy gets a girlfriend before the girlfriend gets to date more attractive men. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/06/23 03:00 PM |
| 12 | "But I See Average Men With Women Everywhere" Does Not Defeat Red Pill or Black Pill.What's weird about a guy with a better personality who's more pleasant to be around having a girlfriend while you don't? Lol I like how you assume my personality is bad. Looks come first , personality comes second. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/06/23 02:24 PM |
| 9 | "But I See Average Men With Women Everywhere" Does Not Defeat Red Pill or Black Pill.I feel like there is a difference between a male 5/10 and a male 7/10+ sex lives. A 5/10 male sex experience will be limited and consists of only starfish sex. Over time , it will lead to a dead bedroom kind of scenario. While a 7/10+ male sex experience will consists of trying out kinks and being able to see passion and lust from the woman. I consider myself a 6/10 and I see uglier guys in public having girlfriends which is quite weird to be honest. Why?? I have no idea man. They probably h… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/06/23 01:40 PM |
| 17 | Let's Debate about the IG followers rulebro , this literally means you have to wipe out a huge percentage of women if you have this rule. Any girl with more than 100-300 IG followers is undatable. I would say that if any girl exhibits any 'influencer' qualities there is a chance she might be undatable . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 02:21 AM |
| 12 | “There’s plenty of fish in the sea bro!🤣”Life as a male ( below 7/10 attractiveness ) | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/06/23 04:51 AM |
| 18 | ⚠️⛔️Suifuel Warning⚠️⛔️*WATCH AT YOUR OWN RISK!One of the reasons why I am blackpilled. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/06/23 03:11 PM |
| 27 | High School Bully Had Sex With The Victims Girlfriend And Ruined His Lifebad guys always win. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/06/23 03:49 AM |
| 2 | You get $10,000 if you can make your date reject you in under 1 minute, how do you do it? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC1) I cant even get a date so I cant even participate. Lets say I do get a date. All i have to do is to show up. My mere presence and looks will cause the woman to leave. Or instantly say i want a FWB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 04:21 PM |
| 15 | american womens obsession with height needs to be studiedI wish i was 185cm. Instead im 177cm. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/06/23 04:00 PM |
| 8 | I'm basically an incel in a chad-lite's body: AMAHow do u know that ur a chadlite? Do girls even approach you? Have u tried dating apps? | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/06/23 12:36 AM |
| 2 | What if humans laid eggs?Cool! More scrambled eggs for me to eat. 😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 07:43 PM |
| 3 | why should women date you?Yes! Adoption is definitely the way to go for cats! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:43 PM |
| 4 | why should women date you?What I bring to the table: 6/10 in Looks Has goals to be financially stable Kinky. Will try my best in sex. Romantic/Loving Will have good communication skills for you Fit with nice body. Likes cats. Will purchase a cat in the future. What type of woman I think I deserve: My looksmatch. 6/10 Fit Financially intelligent/stable Loyal + Honest + Kind Likes cats Kinky Equal sex drive to mine. Not Fat Introverted or willing to put up with my introvertedness. Has some nerdy hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:00 PM |
| 12 | Not all women can be bought, but more than enough canwoman wanting you for sex > paying for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Serious Question. What do these hot girls look for?It depends on your goals. LTR or Casual sex. For LTR , it will be a combination of wealth , status , looks and personality. There is a chance that the women will 'settle' for you and eventually the marriage will lead to a r/deadbedroom situation. ( Woman is attracted to you based on the resources/stability that you provide instead of being aroused by your physical appearance). For Casual sex its mostly , Looks. And yeah , being wealthy has more weight now due to today's economy. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/06/23 06:59 AM |
| 4 | Serious Question. What do these hot girls look for?Well firstly , im not 100% blackpilled so my beliefs are a little different compared to other blackpillers. Looks matters the most , followed by money and status. Personality only matters once you have passed the looks threshold. I believe those hot women are just using those average guys as the beta provider anyways. I guess you can say im blackpill leaning red. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/06/23 06:48 AM |
| 6 | Serious Question. What do these hot girls look for?Unlikely. They usually have money to compensate for their looks. If your stats are higher than those dudes just go after the girl lol. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/06/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | The state of the dating marketTf is transmaxxing? | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/06/23 12:01 PM |
| 5 | My blackpiller guide to self-improvement and more positive outlook on life.Yep I agree , Im trying to looksmaxx myself to abuse the halo effect. You can have a skincare routine as well its really important. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/06/23 02:47 PM |
| 8 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?I do. Ideal option would be a couple of FWBs on rotation for now since im young. I want the option to obtain casual sex easily. Casual sex is harder to obtain than LTRs. If you are able to obtain casual sex easily you will definitely be able to find LTRs. I definitely would prefer a nice genuine relationship with lots of sex but it seems like its impossible these days. Feels like if I get into a LTR it will probably be with a woman who is only attracted to me and not aroused by me. AKA im boyfri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 07:27 AM |
| 7 | What is your standards for a long term relationship?Tbh idk yet But here are some of my standards that I have formed with no dating experience: Attractive. My looksmatch or higher Fit. As active as me. Non smoker. Good body type Good personality. Kind , helpful , optimistic. Kinky and open minded. Financially smart. Has goals for DINK. Takes care of her appearance. Average IQ. Has hobbies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:33 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTheir profiles barely have any info. I dont want to compliment them on their looks since every guy probably does that. Do 'likes' fall off as you use the app longer though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 06:54 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4ALL: How do I start a conversation with people that I have matched with? So i just started using dating apps and I have some people liking my profile. Not sure if they are bots/scammers. Im pretty sure that when you start using dating apps , your profile is 'boosted' and you get more likes to incentivize your stay on the application. Im an introvert and I don't talk to lots of women. 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 05:11 AM |
| – | Observation from people watching at the airport...Isnt there some study/evidence that states men are less attractive than women in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 09:17 PM |
| 6 | A question for young men on what you value when it comes to dating apps / dating in general.I would love a serious relationship but I don't think that is possible given the current dating climate. In my country , in order to buy a house you need to be married or be single over the age of 35. My country incentivises marriage due to its low population. I honestly wouldn't mind marriage if I am able to find the "one". Someone that I can spend time with and go through life together. But that is unrealistic since I am not a high value male. If i do get married it will be because I am a safe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:09 AM |
| 5 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipI cant im not attractive enough for women to break their rules for me. 💀 I live in a small country so if I approach women and get called a creep it will spread like wildfire. You have a fair point though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 03:50 AM |
| – | CMV Casual sex as a attractive man gets old fastI am so jelly of OP. 😂😂😂 I mean yeah I agree finding a girl that loves you ( Serious LTR ) is better than casual sex. But this is rare af. They will probably divorce you or cheat on u lol. ( highly likely since i am not an 8/10 ). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you are single , your only option will be to purchase a house by your own after the age of 35 or purchase a private property at any age. The rule only applies to public housing in my country. And housing in my country is expensive af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 07:43 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf I am an inexperienced male who is a virgin and never had a gf before. What should be my dating strategy? Go for short term relationships? Find FWBs. Increase my body count to increase my value. Go for long term relationships and get a happy ending. 💀 ( I would love this but uh I don't think this is possible anymore ). In my country , you need to get married to get a house below the age of 35 lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Why Are You Single?I'm a weirdo ( im a nerd ) and I'm socially awkward in most of my interactions. I also hate bars/clubs. Sometimes I hate socializing too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Why Are You Single?I'm unattractive. ( I think? ) I'm broke af. I can't socialize | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 03:35 AM |
| 7 | Self Improvement Discussion ThreadHere are some things on my radar: Upskilling myself. Gotta watch some online courses on web development. Looksmaxxing. Need to continue to improve my skin and physique. Increasing my finances. Invest , don't spend too much on weird stuff and try to increase sources of income. Getting a gf lol or at least a FWB. Probably will need 5 years for this :( Challenges: I am a lazy ass. I hate socializing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 04:24 AM |
| 6 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?Im just waiting for JOI from blade runner. It will probably fill some void about relationships but deep down I know it will never be real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Aside from "Women's standards are too high or No more good men" Why do you think YOUR single?I have been mainly trying to focus on improving my looks. Found a good barber for my haircuts Got a skincare routine for better skin. I have acne :( Going to the gym and improving my body. Improving my fashion sense a little. Lack of masculine traits. Going to the gym. Maybe trying to be more assertive? Not sure lol its a complete 180 from my personality Too broke. Educated myself on personal finance Started investing into good ETFs. Trying to improve career wise for a well paying job in the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:42 PM |
| 4 | Aside from "Women's standards are too high or No more good men" Why do you think YOUR single?Im ugly but i think im around 5-6/10. No women has shown attention so far. Im probably delusional thinking that im 5-6/10. ( or maybe a 7?? ) My height is around 1.75 meters. Above average in my country but still too short regardless. Too broke. Lack of masculine traits. Poor social skills. Also im a god damn weirdo. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Decided to play around w/ my FWB’s tinder…Damn this is depressing how am i gonna find a FWB. :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 08:44 AM |
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