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ConversationSadKnight123/r/seduction05/02/25 04:54 PM
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SadKnight123/r/seduction20/03/21 12:12 PM
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Not much, there are better places and you'll never truly learn anything without actually putting into practice through trial and error, while implementing some times here and there. But the reads here are good tho for you to get new perspectives and sanitize your mind away from the normies/redpillers view of things from time to time.
/r/seduction19/05/25 06:20 PM
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Cut out porn of your life and limit masturbation. In my experience, after 2 or 3 weeks, your arousal and erection quality improves considerably.
/r/seduction19/05/25 10:28 AM
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You get more success on dating apps if you're good looking. Dating apps are based almost entirely on good looks and good photos. Cold approaching is harder, with a higher learning curve, but is way better if you're not gifted on the good looks department, since you can, face to face, display a lot of more attractive features than just looks. Also, the variety and quality of women tends to be higher than on dating apps if you know where to look. And when I say higher, it isn't necessarily just ab…
/r/seduction17/05/25 11:50 AM
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There's no point in self indulging in "truths" that won't benefit or serve you in any way. If that was something that you had the e power to change then I would agreed, but it's not. No point on dwelling about it, in fact, it can be destructive. It's far more helpful and constructive to focus on what you can change and improve on it.
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:31 AM
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What's the point saying to guys, specially the insecure, unconfidente guys around here, that "size matters"? How is this helping anyone? What a not blessed guy in this department can possibly do to change it? This part of the post feels like pointless brag to me. Size is just the same as looks, height and etc. You will impress women if you have them, but does it actually really matter and is it such a non negotiable trait you need to have if you want to get good with girls?
/r/seduction07/05/25 11:44 PM
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When I said otherwise? The point is: to be confident with women, first you need to get your fair amount of success with women. There's no faking it. You WILL be unconfident and anxious the first times.
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:17 PM
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Yeah, but the main point here is about being confident to seduce women.
/r/seduction05/05/25 06:04 AM
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Exactly. Success can be interpreted as several small things that will lead to the end go. The main go of seduction is getting women. You can improve your appearance and other things (which is already a type of sucess) and thefore improve a little bit your confidence in pursing that end goal. But you will never be truly confident with women and rip the benefits of being a confident man around them without first getting a fair amount of success with them.
/r/seduction05/05/25 06:01 AM
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You don't need confidence to achieve success. Sure, it helps, but it's not mandatory. What you need is action and trails.
/r/seduction05/05/25 05:56 AM
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Confidence is build with success. Nothing more.
/r/seduction05/05/25 01:08 AM
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It varies for person to person. There are shy people who don't talk much, but still appear to be interested and subtly demonstrate they like your presence. And there are the ones who are interested but act completely cold and are hard to read. There's still the ones who are very warm, but are not interested in you in the slightest. It's tricky, like you said.
/r/seduction04/05/25 11:21 PM
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Since when waiters are personal security of customers? Never heard of it my entire life.
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:26 PM
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I get that you're trying to help, but how can we know if a girl is just shy or really is not interested? There's really no way to know. In your case, you're just shy and if he kept pushing it, eventually he would succeed. But in any other case, another women might be not interested (which is probably the majority of the cases when the women don't reciprocate in any clear way). He pushing it, in these cases, could lead to nasty rejections or, on the worst case scenario, accusations of harassment.…
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:22 PM
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This is probably somewhat true. Fun fact: Even on video games like Skyrim where there are several npc's that the player can choose to marry I observed something like this occurring. I've seen, following the sub of the game, that the male players choices always vary with a wide range of choices. Now everytime I've see a female player it's always unanimously that they always choose the same Farkas guy. lol Even on a freaking video game... fortunately real life is a little bit more complex.
/r/seduction30/04/25 08:16 PM
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Probably will. I definitely would. Inviting someone you are dating to watch movies or netflix in your place is notorious for basically be one of the most popular and social safe ways to indirectly or subtly invite for sex.
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:40 AM
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I heard some regret the lifestyle and want have a family with kids and became conservative christians or muslims.
/r/seduction25/04/25 04:49 PM
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Keep looking. A lot of girls can be indeed boring and superficial or crazy, but just like men, eventually you will find some there are very interesting where the conversation flows naturally and effortlessly.
/r/seduction23/04/25 05:02 PM
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First you need to choose your platform. There are PC, PlayStation, Xbox and Nintendo. Then you buy your first game of your liking. You can buy them on physical stores or the digital ones (PC you can only buy digital nowadays). Then just start playing until you beat it. Buy a new one and repeat. Congratulations you're now a gamer!
/r/seduction14/04/25 03:50 AM
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You can always learn game. Being weapthy is way harder and most of the time a life long endeavor.
/r/seduction07/04/25 10:45 AM
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The same way they disagree with you
/r/seduction29/03/25 08:51 PM
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Everything is possible, but you would be making things harder for yourself while also being unhealthy.
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:45 PM
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The problem with this, specially as a beginner, is you being too friendly, platonic and eding up on friendzone. I feel like this can work with certain women, but with the majority of others you have to be more sexual, direct and etc. It's probably about not going to far on both ends of the spectrum.
/r/seduction26/03/25 07:49 PM
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Probably. Most redditors are autistic.
/r/seduction26/03/25 03:06 AM
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Being in shape definitely does. Being somewhat muscular is always better than just skinny. But being lean is the most important. The bodybuilder bloated look is not as appealing as one may think.
/r/seduction20/03/25 05:58 PM
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I don't think this is my definition of a "easy girl". For me easy girls don't play games, don't play hard to catch. If they want you they want you. They'll even make bold move themselves making your life easier. And yeah, I love those rare kind of girls.
/r/seduction15/03/25 06:27 PM
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So... it's still a numbers game. But the chances varies in your favour if you're attractive and get lucky.
/r/seduction14/03/25 08:00 PM
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Baguette
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:26 PM
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When do you sleep
/r/seduction14/02/25 09:47 AM
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"What I you waiting for? I'm right here". But of course it depends on how you deliver. It can sound awkward if you do it too seriously
/r/seduction12/02/25 02:23 PM
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If every single girl you're approaching are looking at you weird and completely ignoring you (which is very unlikely) I'm sorry to say, but what you're saying is probably the least of your problems. It's way more probable that a lot of them would, at the very least, greet you back and move on. After the beginner gets used to it, now he has to learn how to develop the conversation further, then flirting, then asking her out, getting numbers and a series of other stuff. You only learn with practic…
/r/seduction11/02/25 01:39 AM
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Sometimes this tipes of advice are the best thing a beginner needs just to be pushed into starting approaching. You will not help any of them with tons of rules, lines, strategies, body language and other informations when they're just starting I aren't confortable to even just saying hi yet. Not mention it increases the chances of him being too much on his on head instead of acting authentically and being in the moment during the interaction. Beginner should just approach more, say "hi" more, a…
/r/seduction11/02/25 12:42 AM
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It's not just about sex, but about the intimacy, cuddling, love, companionship, the feminine side complimentig the masculine and so on. Despite my primal instincts desiring it sometimes, my deepest dreams were never about being a womanizer who slept with thousands of different girls, but finding that one sweet girl where I can love and be faithful for life. Some here may consider it to be cheesy, but it just is what it's. Everytime I try to think about my biggest dreams and desires that would ma…
/r/seduction10/02/25 02:32 PM
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For real. A lot of russian men are plain looking or ugly. Now the women are goddess. Of course there's exceptions from both cases.
/r/seduction09/02/25 05:57 PM
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What about not having your place yet? How do you do it? There are motels but they're also expensive in my region.
/r/seduction09/02/25 12:04 PM
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The best way to overcome oneitis is and always will be to go out and meet more girls. There's a entire world out there fully of great and interesting women. I lost the amount of times I thought someone was the one, my soul mate, only to meet someone else that made me feel the same over and over again. There are endless possibilities and good matches out there. It's never worth it to give in on cheap feelings of passion that comes and goes when it's not reciprocated or impossible to fulfill. You …
/r/seduction07/02/25 05:51 AM
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Girl's Chase and Kill Your Inner Loser both have topics about social skills in general, making friends, talking to men, women and etc. GC have eve articles on how to deal with manipulative people and overall conflicts, bullying and etc. There's a whole categorie abour social life. It's a extremely detailed site.
/r/seduction06/02/25 08:20 PM
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That sounds kinda cringe tbh. Just say "all right, have a good day" and move on. There's no need to anything more than that.
/r/seduction06/02/25 06:44 PM
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It's not a promotion. I gain absolutely nothing from this. I was just curious about what were the thoughts from the users here about the site. Specially because I'm usually always downvoted when I mention them on here. I recommend the site so much because it's simply goddamn decent, one of the best sites about seduction (probably the best) and helped me a lot. Simply as that.
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:12 PM
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That's Hector Castillo, one of the writers of the site. He's responsible for the youtube videos. The creator is Chase and he does a lot of the articles. All very good stuff.
/r/seduction06/02/25 05:41 AM
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What I usually do is to read the articles and if I find them to be very interesting I save and download them on google chrome for future re-reads or to continue another time if I wasn't able to read on one sitting. For me it works, specially because reading too much about this stuff and be way too hyper fixated on theory is addicting. The limited amount of articles for month is kinda of an incentive to practice what you read and take action.
/r/seduction05/02/25 10:34 PM
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I don't think it's that complex tbh. It's way more straightforward and simple than the classic pick up advices from the past where people were basically memorizing lines and acting like robots trying to get women. The articles are relatively long and very detailed tho, but for me the majority are a very pleasurable and totally worth it read. At first, when I first found the site, I also thought they were overcomplicating things that should be more simple, but the more I read it, more everything …
/r/seduction05/02/25 08:54 PM
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As a man, I love when the women are enthusiastic, look me in the eyes, keep touching, scratching and kissing me and sometimes take the initiative to do some things like put my member back into her when it slips out (this is so hot), keep moving back and fort during the intercourse contributing to the sexual movements and etc. There's probably not much more a woman can do since the man is the one on the active role. It's all about not being a corpse or a completely passive sexual doll on bed. But…
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:41 PM
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The first few times I got outside to try to deal with my sociao anxiety I decided by starting to just say "hi" or "good morning" to everyone I would encounter. I was so bad that I chicken out a lo of times before actually saying the first time. It was pure adrenaline and fear of a simple thing. The more you do it, the more mundane it becomes and the more natural you start to act. Same for approaching.
/r/seduction05/02/25 09:29 AM
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Other comments said it best, but just to add one: it's never a good thing to be hyper fixated on just one girl trying to win her over. There's no much you can do other than be straightforward and honest with them and see if they'll accept you. Seduction is about getting better with girls in general, so when you find someone special your skills and fundamentals will improve your chances and decrease the probability of your screwing everything up. It's not about winning a specific girl. If she rej…
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:53 AM
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I wrote several ways you can subtly show your intentions on my comment. And yes, your example is good enough when you don't know how to do it. Being that honest and sincere is always a good last resort option so you can be done with it instead of drag forever that situation. Friendzone is definitely always a risk and probably will happen most of the time if you treated her way too platonic during all this time with no sexual tension whatsoever. Now I don't know how to advise you on the demisexua…
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:36 AM
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Forget aboit "eating your vegetables". Eat lots of whole eggs, animal based saturated fats, meats and fish. That's are the major, most bio available testosterone building blocks. Ditch junk foods, eat that just occasionally. Ban sugar and vegetable oils from your life.
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:18 AM
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Have you checked your testosterone levels? Your diet, sleep quality, exercise also makes are huge part of this.
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:10 AM
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Are you an avid porn user and nutter by any chance? Because nowadays that's the biggest cause of ED. Even male teenagers have it.
/r/seduction04/02/25 09:03 PM
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Just look at Johnny Sins the guy is chill asf and always happy.
/r/seduction03/02/25 06:26 PM
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I'm not quite sure if I understood, but responding to the: If I come to the conclusion that I am not interested in someone sexually or romantically, but do want to hang out with them and bond with them in a platonic way, isn't that fine? It's not fine if I am attracted and have feelings for you and want to be more than friends. The friendship would be torture and not completely sincere on my part, so the best course of action is to walk away. Sure, maybe I could get over it depending on the case…
/r/seduction03/02/25 02:31 PM
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I think you're just avoiding and fleeing from what you truly want while playing too safe. If all you have are nice good vibe chats with no flirting, that's just a friend, not a potential lover. You have to let her know your intentions the soon as possible through teasing, flirting, asking her out, touching her on safe non sexual ways to make her confortable with your touch and etc. Just talking and friendly conversations will get you nowhere other than just be a friend. If you don't know what to…
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:48 AM
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Read this: https://www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-getting-girls-move-faster And this: https://www.girlschase.com/content/attraction-has-expiration-date And this: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-girls-last-post-youll-ever-need You welcome.
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:33 AM
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If there's something that truly makes you more honest in dating, that's seduction. Before starting this journey I was always the nice guy, pretending to be a friend because I was too coward to be direct, make a move, ask them out or get any rejection. The tipical friendly guy that would forever hope that somehow something would happen (which never did). Nowadays I consider every rejection to be already a victory. Just the feeling of being seen as a man by women, someone who is attracted to them …
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:05 AM
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Perhaps this is different for everyone, but seduction for me is simply learning to meet, date, have sex and relationships with women. This is not about changing yourself, put a mask and pretending to be someone you're not. It's about self improvement in a very important part of you life. It's about improving your social skills, style, charisma, looks, ability to flirt, to be a good lover, have a fulfilling sex life and eventually find a good long term relationship. Most people just wait for oppo…
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:26 AM
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Can't actually blame her. I wouldn't be attracted to fat girls either.
/r/seduction02/02/25 10:23 PM
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It's not that deep, it's just politeness. How you say things and your vibe is way more important than the words you actually say.
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:10 AM
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I'll be honest. I don't know how to advise you, specially about the autism and ADD stuff. All I know is that you have a long parth ahead to make a better life for yourself. So you definitely should start to do what you have to do the sooner as possible. First of all, you need to lose weight and get healthy. Start going for long walks every single day. Start with 5k, but aim to walk at least 10k steps a day. Improve your diet and start to eat whole food while avoiding junk the most as possible. E…
/r/seduction01/02/25 10:08 PM
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Go hire a hooker
/r/seduction01/02/25 09:16 PM
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The less you think about what to say, the better, more genuine and authentic it's.
/r/seduction01/02/25 12:21 PM
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Start approaching. Plain and simple. Get experience. You WILL suck at first. It's part of the process. Don't get invested into getting laid when you're starting out. Focus on minor victories, like being able to just say hi, then evolve to slightly longer conversations, then try to flirt and then try to get numbers and etc. As you gain experience, apply the tips and theory you learn here and other places, while working on your fundamentals. Eventually, sooner or later, you'll get laid the first t…
/r/seduction31/01/25 12:27 PM
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There a lot of 40 old guys who do exactly that. Nothing illegal about it and they get success. Your comment says more about you, your limited beliefs and fears than anything about OP.
/r/seduction31/01/25 11:23 AM
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Don't try to be reasonable with the pigs.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:58 AM
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The comment section on this post proves that most people on this sub are retarded. Nothing wrong with the post. Congrats.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/21 02:48 PM
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Have you ever heard about jelqing? I already saw lots of guy who swear by it. Of course it takes time and daily discipline, but anecdotally you can put at least a inche or 2 on your member. Look up this post about the subject on the Good Looking Loser site (is a great site overall about self improvement and getting women btw). https://www.goodlookingloser.com/get-hung/ultimate-guide-to-jelqing
/r/TheRedPill23/10/21 03:52 PM
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"Game" is basically knowing how to talk, flirt, escalate and interact with women with the objective to get them. There's no mystery.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 08:09 PM
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Lol. We most of the time love them based on just the looks. If she was a fatty ugly with the same exactly personality you wouldn't even put a glance at them. The true way to get over this is getting over your own hypocrisy and realize the truth that EVERY kind of love and sympathy, in essence, is conditionally on something. We just like to pretend it's not.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 07:26 PM
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Because it's easier to be bitter and complaining while loading yourself with self pity than actually face the work to change and improve.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 05:05 PM
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I don't know. I actually just found the site this year. Why would he be a fraud?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 01:04 PM
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I never said anything about fatties. I myself wouldn't bang them. Sure, a little chubby one, why not tho? Lowering your standards doesn't mean throwing them at the garbage, bro. Lowering your standards means going for average girls (even some below average) that are attractive enough for you, or have some attractive enough traits. lmao
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 10:52 AM
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Exactly. Unfortunately most guys here in his sub have such big egos do accept things like that. Even tho temporarily lowering their standards would be good for them, specially if they have no experience.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 07:35 PM
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This is something that Chris from Good Looking Loser always talked about. Getting in action with "averages" and even "uglies" (with good qualities) is way better than be in your home nuting to a screen. It will build you confidence, experience, self esteem, momentum and eventually, provided that you work on yourself, will make it easier for you to get more attractive girls you really want. It does not necessarily means you should bang everyone and everything, just that you should bed the chick i…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 07:08 PM
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"I think it’s mostly the modern Disney fantasy of “love” that has fucked up men’s view of relationships. “Good sex” should really be the priority and primary focus." This is probably my main problem while growing up. I grew up watching these kind of movies, I grew up watching and being a big huge fan of the original Spider-Man trilogy where Peter Parker were a huge simp, nice guy persona, not just with women but with everybody, that would fall in love in a very "cute" and hopeless way with his b…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 04:05 PM
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Ideally, yes. But is not always possible.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 02:23 PM
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You definitely didn't pick the overall message and are just nitpicking. Of course to succeed into lifting (and any of other endeavor) effort and consistency is necessary. It's about the marathon vs sprint mindset I'm talking about. And yes, lots of people have really bad days, are depressed and etc. Unmotivated days always happen sonner or later to a lot of them, me included. The message is that in THOSE days you don't quit, that they're not the end of the world and that you just need to try to …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 02:11 PM
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Well, there's a post In Andy's website that he clearly states that the most important thing in your journey is that you never quit and always aim to make at least a little bit of progress each day with consistency. Bad days, rut days, lazy days are okay, provided that you stay on the path, even if just a little. Since I started to following this, I'm as well making steady progress in comparison with before where I was obsessed with the "all or nothing" approach where everytime the inevitable fai…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 01:06 PM
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Not to mention that as you got more confortable with approaches and your confidence slowly starts to rise and your skin grow thicker and thicker against rejections lots of these things naturally come around. Or at least are way easier to be worked on like a skill without you being constantly feeling uncomfortable and sick from anxiety. To any newbie, the focus should be on this: dealing with the fear and uncomfortableness of the action. And just then you start implementing the fancy stuff to imp…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 03:56 AM
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If flatline means depression, unmotivated and low libido at the same time, I never had that. Even on this streak. Sure, unmotivated is a constant in my life with or without nofap. I simply have to push myself to do things most of the time. And the same thing for depression. My libido is consistent tho. I get a boner with just mere light thoughts and sometimes just for ridiculous things like my bag resting in my lap while I'm sitting on the bus with no stimulation at all. If a girl touches me or …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/21 08:05 PM
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Maybe it's placebo. You did nofap expecting to get these benefits like confidence. You got your confidence, that combined with your good looks, improved your overall vibe and the way of how people perceived you. I did my 5 months while in lockdown. Didn't have much of a social life to actually test it. But I know for sure that internally I still felt unconfident, and low energy to do my things. I didn't expect for any benefits tho. I just wanted to get rid of porn and compulsive masturbation add…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 05:06 PM
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Yep, people tend to think that nofap will magically better their lives. It will not. Only your actions and hard labour can shape and make you. Nofap is only a tiny minuciate aspect of self improvement journey. There are countless successful guys who still fap and watch porn and there are other countless abstinent monks who are still losers focusing on tiny little practices instead of putting real effort in what they actually need to do to better themselves. Not just nofap, but meditation and all…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 02:31 PM
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I did 5 months of abstinence and it didn't change a damn for myself to be completely honest. There was a improved libido, some days I would be so horny that women I'm not normally attracted to would start to be attractive. And my member got way better erections and appeared fuller and thicker. The benefits for me stopped right there. I didn't noticed better confidence, energy, deeper voice, strength, motivation, better overall health and other countless different benefits people claim them get f…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 01:05 PM
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Most of us have a problem in the modern world, thus meditation is needed.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/21 02:20 PM
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Go do the Good Looking Loser Approach Anxiety Drills. It's meant to you to suck, confront your fears, face awkwardnes, social tension and all that crap. Something that will get you social freedom. I didn't done that yet... but I did read stories of people that did and it changed their lifes. I think it's worthy and is very similar to a thing I used to do when I was trying to beat my social anxiety, like saying good morning to anyone I walk by on the streets (I know, stupid asf, but I was that an…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 10:58 PM
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Do nofap end your buddy will get up for almost anything.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/21 06:19 PM
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MGTOW, in theory, always was completely reasonable to me. It was just men deciding to not get married and going their own way. Specially considering the divorces rates and how fucked as man you can actually get from it (the fault lies completely on the modern law system instead of the general women tho). I even met guys who identified with that, but were completely normal healthy persons, who had girlfriends and etc. It's was all about not getting married. As least the movement was like this aro…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 07:43 PM
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I once saw a video on YouTube showing how fiction can help more with your life and inspire you than self help/self improvement books. Not saying that self improvement books are useless. There are a lot that are great. But people go to overboard on them and forget that reading is more than just that. Also no self improvement book is gonna help if you don't reflect on them, plan, and put them into action, wich is usually what most of these people do.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/21 04:59 PM
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No matter how handsome, rich, charismatic or good at 'game' you are. You'll never be able to get any girl you want. Rejection is inevitable and completely normal. Being good at those qualities only increases the chances of success or the chances that more girls will be attracted to you. But it obviously will never be 100% with everybody in the world. I honestly believe that seduction is a skill that you can get better with experience (not tactics, formulas or tricks) just like charisma, speech, …
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 12:53 PM
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I kinda know what you're talking about. I had severe social anxiety. To beat this I started to do basic stuff like saying "good morning" to random strangers in my daily morning walks. The fist days the adrenaline was insane. After a while I started to feel like I was some sort of criminal. That I was doing something dangerous that I wasn't supposed to. And that I was rebelling myself against something. The emotions and cringe was huge, but I push against it until they didn't bother anymore. Ever…
/r/seduction19/08/21 06:21 PM
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They do get better provided that they work on themselves, take care of their health, lived and got experiences and skills through life, have money and etc. An old guy who is a wreck, never worked on anything, and didn't take care of himself, will not be "better" just for being old. Probably the contrary.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 01:31 PM
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Yep. I've found this article today and the advice in there seems pretty solid and not just the same basic stuff people advise on the mainstream everytime. Specially about what you said about thrusting rhythm and other stuff... I know you're not seeking advice, but it's a interesting post anyway so I wanted to share. It also explains why the girls reacted badly to you asking for them what to do. Looks like what matter the most is dominance and passion, not just some orvely technical techniques an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 08:41 PM
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I agree with some things and views on the Red Pill community. But the problem, as yourself mentioned, is the extreme. And a lot of the guys commenting over there are depressed negative people who sooner or later will suck you down to their misery. There's a lack of honest logic in their extreme views, too much negativity disguised are realism, victim mentality and hypocrisy. They're pretty much the reverse hardcore feminists who trash men all the time. Even tho some of the Redpill's posts and co…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 11:11 PM
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Yes. Approaching is a skill. You'll never get good if you never do it.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 01:48 PM
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How I'll know women if i never initiate a conversation with them? Should I expect them to initiate a conversation? If this is the case then I'll die alone, because women never initiate anything. Should I expect them to fall from heaven on my lap through friends, social circles and randomness? I would probably die alone too. And what if I don't have friends and these big social circles? Should I stop approaching women because of the possibility of some of them being offended or annoyed by the mer…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 01:46 PM
1

Yes, and in mine 24hr I do the fasting from one lunch to the next. So I don't actually need to endure the entire day on this state, but just the afternoon, night and morning of the next.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/21 05:01 PM
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I can't imagine myself doing more than 24 hours yet. But I guess I'll go back to my weekly one 24 hours. This shit is hard and boring (since you need to avoid any physical activity in the days you do it, wich is different from normal water fast).
/r/TheRedPill08/08/21 03:58 PM
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I deeply feel you bro. This never happened to me, but I can imagine it and I know I would be destroyed emotionally if this ever happened. Damn I got already destroyed for way less, like a very nice girl that I was really liking who was decent and exact my type but politely rejected me... lol. It was tough to move on and to be honest, I still didn't completely, I'm still a little depressed and still dream about that girl while having a hard time getting attracted to others even if they're prettie…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 02:44 PM
1

You forgot sleep (crucial), and the mantaince of low body fat levels (no necessarily ripped, about 10 to 15%). These two are proven to optimize testosterone.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/21 08:06 AM
2

Even if you truly can't handle meat, why do you need soy? There's also are eggs, fish and chicken. You don't need soy. Unless you truly want to become a vegan, and even then I believe that are alternatives.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/21 08:03 AM
1

How many days you dry fast and with what frequency you do? I used to dry fast 24 hours 1 time per week and notice some skin problems getting a little better, but unfortunately I stopped.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/21 07:58 AM
1

It's my personal choice, honestly. It's extremely addictive and I always feel like shit after watching it. Being 24 years old with no experience also doesn't help. I'm tired of watching people do their stuff while I'm just here alone, wasting my life with instant gratification while feeling more miserable by the day. Also, I already watched tons of lesbian stuff. I don't think porn can help you get better at your sex life. Actually a lot of people always claim that porn =/= real life and everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:14 AM
1

No, thanks. I ditched porn from my life. I'm not relapsing this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:05 AM
1

If you don't mind, can you share those skills and tricks your learned by accident?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:30 AM
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Would you appreciate a woman for herself and not her looks? I highly doubt it. It could happen, but it's rare. Take off all the looks or overall value and most people are not interesting at all. This is reality. Even "good personality" is a kind of value. Do you really think yours is so great that people should appreciate you just for it? If you saw another person who is exactly like you, would you find this person interesting, fun to be around, to talk to, reliable, smart and etc despite it's l…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 07:59 PM
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Negative thoughts are an addiction. It's mind blowing how they can ruin your entire day, drain all your joy, will, and motivation for life... What you said is true. There's even no need to force yourself into "think positively". This is just tiring and feel very lame and pointless. Paying attention to your negative thoughts, ignoring and let them die is already enough for your mental well being.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/21 06:42 PM
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I never honestly understood the insecurity with going bald. A lot of the most badasses and manly characters and actors on movies, games, shows and whatever are bald. Lots of soldiers anywhere in the world have shaved heads as well and lots of girls find them sexy. First time I got a girl in my life was when I shaved my head in my teenage years (probably not because specifically for this, but people said I looked manlier). I'm not going bald, but if this ever happen, it will definitely not be the…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 03:28 AM
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At least he slept with you. The same has happened with me and I didn't even kissed the girl. lol Oneitis is a disgrace.
/r/seduction04/05/21 01:06 PM
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The point of the post is just not to put pretty women on a pedestal. Showing that they're nothing special and are just other human beings that shit and can be annoying. It's useful for a lot of beginners who are too afraid and anxious around them.
/r/seduction04/05/21 12:57 PM
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Eugene Sandow was a great adviser of doing high reps with light dumbbells. The guy was not just very aesthetically but very strong. Both kind of training have it's place. But I feel way better on the high rep, light weight city. The pump is orgasmic, the energy awesome. Heavy lifts here and there feels good as well, buy doing it all the time you only feel more miserable with risks of injury growing higher and higher.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 10:12 PM
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Yes. And the more you try do act like a badass, say the right things, do the right things, the more robotic and awkward you are. The more you think, the more you plan things in your head, the worse is. Some of my best interactions was when I didn't put much thought on it. When I didn't focer anything or tried to act in a certain way. When you're out of your head on the present moment, having a good time, the right cool things to say come naturally.
/r/seduction25/04/21 11:31 PM
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Wtf... don't know anything about it. I love everything about vaginas. Of course some of them a better looking than others tho... I even feel like a poet while seeing one. Everything about a women's body is highly appreciated by someone who is truly straight, even the fucking forehead, with the vaginas being the number 1 arousing part. Specially if it's is all open in your face inviting you for action. I feel even weird to have to say all of this. But if you are not aroused by the sight of a good…
/r/seduction25/04/21 08:32 PM
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For me, it's. You have to find out what you want out of life, what is worthy pursuing for you. But this isn't just for women, it's also for yourself. Those qualities and skills will help you in several other parts of life as well.
/r/seduction25/04/21 03:50 PM
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Start taking action to fix what you can fix. You can't be taller, but you can learn to accept it and be confident despite of it. No matter how ugly you think you're, you can always get more attractive. You can always improve things like posture, facial expressions, your voice, gesticulation, body language, find the right haircut, lose body fat (it's mind blowing how a face can get way better In a low body fat percentage) and gain some muscle. The amount of little things you can do to keep improv…
/r/seduction25/04/21 02:58 PM
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You should always try to improve and maximize your looks but you should never ever be obsessed with it or be relying on it for your sense of confidence and self-worth. A pimple that suddenly appeared on your face, the wind that messed up your hair, your bad sleep last night that maked you locked like shit temporarily should not disturb your inner peace and confidence. If it's, you're obsessed. Looks matter and makes things easier, but confidence and personality is way more important. Specially f…
/r/seduction25/04/21 10:55 AM
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Realistically, for the most part looks is the most important for women, but even for them, it's not everything. I already met not so pretty girls who have wonderful personalities and were very feminine. I would choose them over a shalow 10/10 snob for a relationship any day. It's interesting to see that a good personality and femininity can make any woman way more attractive. I think this goes the same on the reverse when girls met masculine dudes who are not that handsome, but are confident and…
/r/seduction24/04/21 07:07 PM
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Doesn't matter "how this is seen today". It's not a crime, so keep doing it. There's a Girl's Chase post about why cold approach is the best way to consistently meet new girls that's pretty insightful. Go read, keep doing it and pay no attention what other people think. Specially the kind of idiots on your post. Here's the link: https://www.girlschase.com/article/dating-rules/why-cold-approach-works-better-anything-else
/r/seduction23/04/21 07:10 PM
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Maybe you're right in some extent. But I think that are different kinds of confidence and the most solid form of it only comes with success. Seeing through your own eyes that you're capable. The brave 3 year old maybe is naturally more outgoing but he could very possibly get frightened and loose his confidence after bad experiences. The other anxious 3 year old can have no confidence at all but still risk and do what frightens him anyway, (which is already a success in itself) and gain confidenc…
/r/seduction23/04/21 06:28 PM
3

Your optimism and enthusiasm is making hard for me to make excuses.
/r/seduction23/04/21 05:53 PM
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Forget about confidence for now. Forget about being a badass. If you're inexperienced in something it's totally normal to be insecure. People like to force themselves into being confident, but that generally never works and only makes you look weird and inauthentic. You need to embrace humbleness, go out and start to interact with women (and people in general) now. Slowly getting more confortable with the situations. You need to risk doing uncomfortable things. You need to fail. You need to get …
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:17 PM
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They have confidence in their purpose and in what they do. But I doubt they would have confidence going out to get laid if they decided to do it. Confidence most of the time is a byproduct of experience and success in a certain area.
/r/seduction23/04/21 11:58 AM
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As someone recovering from this shit again, this post was a good help. I don't wish anything bad to the girl tho. She was nice and rejected me very politely (which maked the oneiti's feeling even worse lol). Not particularly interested in fantasizing a similar situation in my head where I would possible be in a good place on the future and she would start to desire me with all the roles inverted. I'm the one who needs to stop putting women on a pedestal, no matter who they're or if they're my "p…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/21 10:59 PM
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I already recomend it before and will do it again. Read the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. You can find the PDF. It's really good about the subject on how to improve your sex skills. Virginity for a man is nothing special. It definitely sucks all the time for the majority of us simply because you don't know what you're doing, plus, you're nervous. So it will only get actually good with experience. Be glad you finally got over the first time. For now one, as long as you actually seek to improve i…
/r/seduction14/04/21 02:13 AM
2

I want to beat my anxiety, but I don't want to be dependent of a pill for it. I don't have a good experience with anxiety medication.
/r/seduction11/04/21 05:17 PM
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Be completely on the moment, stopping thinking or trying to imitate someone or mechanically do something, while enjoying the girl with passion and desire is probably the best advice about the subject. We just think and worry to much.
/r/seduction06/04/21 07:04 PM
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Read the Sex God Method book by Daniel Rose (you can find the PDF). If this do not help you, probably nothing will. Just know that the book is full of unmainstream and political incorrect advice. But they are realistic and make sense if you truly think about it...
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:57 PM
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Looks fun if you don't take it personally. Now you have a lot of stories to tell as well. You're living the life. You're on the hunt. Way better than always pussying out and never live because of fear.
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:53 PM
2

Completely agree.
/r/seduction29/03/21 03:19 PM
2

This is something about life that I truly hate.
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:40 AM
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Relatable. Sometimes I get into the hype of banging several girls and have a lot of fuckbuddies, but in the end I feel like what I really want to is just to have a good girlfriend that really likes me, be intimate with her and etc.. Of couse... putting myself as a priority always. You don't need to bluepilll just because you're in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 12:02 PM
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I don't know if I would be much of a help but feel free to DM me. The only tip I can give is to not take to long to move.
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:26 PM
1

I have terrible stretch marks around the body and a bit of loose skin after losing weight. Hard to overcome this insecurity.
/r/seduction19/03/21 01:25 AM
1

I'm reading this article about becoming a good "conversationalist". It's very good. Maybe you can pick up some insights on how to improve in this aspect. But remember that practice and experience are the only true way to learn things like this. So you can't procrastinate about it focusing on reading theories and tips all the time. Let the majority of your learning come from raw experience. https://www.girlschase.com/content/conversationalist
/r/seduction18/03/21 06:47 AM
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I don't know, maybe your friend is just more charismatic and likable than you (things that you can improve). Can you do the same with guys, talk to a few totally strangers and make a conversation with them the same way? If you do, maybe something internally on you is viewing women as different, making all the situation feel awkward. The only way to beat this is through action, anyway. So keep forcing yourself to hang out with girls until you learn it. Allow yourself to fail and experience all ki…
/r/seduction17/03/21 12:16 PM
2

It isn't technically hard to get female friends. Just treat a woman in the same friendly way you would treat a male friend, without any sexual intent, just friendly conversations and interactions. The problem is that it's hard, because you're a man, and most of the time deep down you'll always feel some kind of sexual interest to the girl unless she's way too unattractive to you. So if you can afford it, just try to interact with women, be around them and talk to them. Without any sexual/emotion…
/r/seduction17/03/21 11:51 AM
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You just have to make the best out of the card you have dealt and stop being jealous of the others. This is pure truth. A lot of other men around here and other subreddits should nail this mindset deep into their skulls and stop with the whinny bs about not being a 6'5 tall viking blessed with "chad" genetics, that's pretty much the current most favorite fetish nowadays. Improve yourself, be the best you can for you. Get the best of life you can with what you have, even if it means living life o…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 08:45 PM
2

You got depressed after just ONE "rejection"? Really?
/r/seduction11/03/21 02:45 PM
2

Running is just bad on the joints if you overdo it or don't use proper form. While doing it you shouldn't feel the impact on the the knees at all... If they are starting to hurt, you're simply doing it wrong. You should aim to absorb them on your thighs and glutes (also all the force to run should come from glutes). The Impact should be always on the muscles instead of joints and ligaments. Pain can also be a useful guide when you're learning how to run properly in my experience. You change a li…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 12:54 PM
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You may work hard and no succeed. But you will always definitely fail if you do not work at all. Unless, as you said, you're luck... As others already said here, working hard isn't enough sometimes. You need to use your brain to try to figure out the solutions to your own particular problems and go to action improving bit by bit of any of them. And you should really ask and be honest with yourself: are you REALLY working hard enough?
/r/seduction10/03/21 02:36 PM
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Women at least can have some implants on their boobs and workout their butts... a man can't increase his height, dick size and other attributes a lot of women value, for example.
/r/seduction07/03/21 01:48 AM
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Looking forward for that.
/r/seduction06/03/21 05:15 PM
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Nice post. I'm on my own way of self improvement. A bit slowly but advancing in certain areas. What did you did and do to improve yourself to achieve this confidence. I still can barely talk to people without sound boring. Still struggle to talk with girls (being them attractive or not), let alone flirt with them and "escalate". But at least I'm not the overweight pig I used to be and people are starting to compliment me and some girls I think are starting to notice. I don't feel completely invi…
/r/seduction06/03/21 01:43 PM
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Except that for most girls a guy been shorter than them is almost always a turn off. The only way a short guy can counter that is been indisputable confident despite of it. Being bulky also helps. Of course he could be insecure about other things, but height (a thing that there's no way he can possibly change) isn't one of them.
/r/seduction06/03/21 01:30 PM
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This is kind of something I'm already trying to do, specially on conversations with people in general. Focus on them, listen attentively what they're saying instead of focus on my mind trying to figure out what to say next and etc. Being more of a listener and less of a talker. I think I'm slowing increasing my social skills focusing more on this right now. But when it comes to women, I don't know how to flirt. I talk, the conversarion sometimes flow, but that's no tension, no sexualization and …
/r/seduction04/03/21 07:37 PM
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Holy shit, this is life changing! Thanks!
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:46 PM
1

How do you flirt? How someone do that?
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:45 PM
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Being nervous is natural. It's better to be authentic nervous than faking confidence in a weird way. Confidence has to come naturally as your experience increases. I don't like the "fake it until you make it" approach.
/r/seduction04/03/21 12:20 AM
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This. I was needing something very simple and basic to start to follow to improve my social skills that, to be completely honest, are terrible. Focus on creating the habit to really listen and paying attention to what other people are talking is probable a good start. This is something that I often neglected being always lost on my own thoughts while interacting with others and being anxious to what shoud I say or do when my time to speak comes. Making a effort to maintain eye contact while othe…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/21 02:21 AM
1

How to make this "interesting and funny" one liners. My brain can't come out with one when I'm by l myself, let alone with women.
/r/seduction28/02/21 07:10 PM
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Not for me, but I really needed it. Thanks.
/r/seduction28/02/21 01:14 AM
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Forget about women then. Focus entirely on developing your social skills. Start to create the habit of talking with people (men, women, child, elderly). Practice, practice, practice. The goal is to get over your anxiety and learn to get calm and confortable while doing that while getting used to other things as well like maintaining eye contact, speaking clearly and etc. It doesn't matter that much what you say. Don't focus on that. Conversations should be effortless and fluid. Deep down, your m…
/r/seduction04/12/20 07:39 PM
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Exactly. The OP can be triggered all she/he wants. Women advise on dating have never been usefull in my experience (and same for a lot of folks I talked). Most women just advise that same cliche old shit like: "be nice, gentle, romantic and sensitive", "compliment her", "buy her some chocolate" (I actually did it one time lol) and etc... It was just when I started to following advice from other men that were actually successful, that I started to go somewhere with my game. Of course there's some…
/r/seduction04/12/20 07:25 PM
1

Incels are reverse feminists. They love to pull the victim and blaming card.
/r/seduction03/12/20 09:18 PM
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Mentally healthier? I agreed. But stronger? Bruce's discipline, will power and self control has no match.
/r/seduction03/12/20 09:16 PM
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I personally prefer when the girl demonstrates she likes me and is also active. I never seen any girl who took the initiative any less than the others, in fact, I tend to admire then more, because it's not that common. I don't like games. If you're interested, you're interested. But this is me... Other people out there for some obscure reason, seems to like a "challenge", wich for me is a waste of time.
/r/seduction02/12/20 12:24 PM
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I would advise you to stop overthinking and overanalyzing seduction/dating/flirting in a intellectual or rational manner since in it's core it's something instinctive/primal that we work more on the intuitive "feeling" side of our brains and often doesn't make much sense at all, lol. Women tend to test men to see their reactions, to play with them and test their confidence and character. It isn't something they rationally do, it's just the way it's. You beat their tests by actually being confide…
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:57 PM
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I think that if you're making this post, she already won this little game. You shouldn't care about this at all.
/r/seduction01/12/20 03:13 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's true or not. You gain nothing from this mindset. It will bring you absolutely nothing other than misery, insecurities, depression and sadness. Doesn't matter who you are, or how you look. You can always get better and be better. It's true that white people (both men and women) are perceived as the best looking people in the world by media wich maked them more desirable for the general population (years of Hollywood, tv shows and games have done this), but it shouldn't m…
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:51 PM
2

Seduction, martial arts, exercise, workout, nutrition and etc. All things I binged on the theory for too much time and didn't put a lot of effort into practice. Information is good, but it's not without practice, trial and error and pure and simple experience. Thanks for the post. As someone who is too addicted to my cellphone, usally always surfing the web searching about these topics and not puting enough into practice, I really needed this.
/r/seduction22/11/20 03:48 AM
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There's a lot of practices people claim anecdotally to raise testosterone, but you're right. The only few things that are actually proven without doubt to raise it is high quality sleep everyday, balanced and sufficient nutrition (with cholesterol and fat included), vitamin D (sun), and low body fat percentage. Be stress free, active, good posture and strong mentally (confident and masculine) also can help a lot. These last ones are more like a loop. Practicing them will help raise testosterone …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 10:53 PM
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