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You can be both miserable and comfortable.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/26 05:34 AM
1

Look up Connor Beaton Man Talks on YouTube. I think you'll find his stuff helpful.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:37 AM
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Yes!!
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:33 AM
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I know women like that, too, to be fair.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:33 AM
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I hear you. I really do. But I promise you, this only gets better when you do something different... and you can. Nothing changes if nothing changes. I know men who have been divorced for decades that are miserable and bitter. Make a choice now. Don't take that route.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:32 AM
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That shit will kill you. Get it out. Men's groups, therapy, exercise, meditation, grounding exercises. It may not have been your fault but it is your responsibility. Take your power back.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:21 AM
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You don't love her. You love how she made you feel and what she did for you. Let her go.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 01:56 PM
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You're giving your power away. Until you take it back and focus on you, life will feel devalued.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 01:53 PM
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Ignore her. You're an adult.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 04:25 AM
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I'm not sure what that last sentence means. Nevertheless, you are responsible for your own happiness. There's so much freedom in that fact.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 08:24 PM
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She's happy. You're not.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 04:29 PM
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Great answer!
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 10:27 PM
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Just trust us...it will get better. I promise. It may be a different better but it won't feel like this forever. I guarantee it.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 10:26 PM
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Connor Beaton on YouTube has a men's group. I think there's several others as well. He's the one I'm familiar with though.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 08:31 PM
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Great idea
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/26 11:57 PM
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It's okay to feel the loss. Even if it wasn't a great relationship, it's still something that can be grieved. Life is full of uncomfortable feelings. Allowing yourself to feel them is the quickest way through it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/26 07:14 AM
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It's a classic avoidant coping skill. Look into it and figure out the root. There's a lot you can do differently moving forward.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 11:44 PM
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It does hurt. Accountability is a tough pill to swallow But you will be okay. It's how humans tend to learn, through pain. Take care of yourself. It will get better and you will start a new season of life with much better awareness and knowledge.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 11:40 PM
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If everyone likes a person, chances are they are not being real. It sounds like she was doing a lot of people pleasing. Most marriages do this. You do what is your obligation rather than what you really yearn to do. When the test of chronic pain hit, she couldn't pull it off anymore. Creating a space where you can both hear hard things and say hard things is so rare in relationships. It's easier to move on to the next person, rather than deal with the issues at hand.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 04:21 AM
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I think I will. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 08:25 PM
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I like to learn about men.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/25 02:21 PM
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As a woman, please listen to him.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 10:59 PM
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Very likely something pre verbal in you. Your nervous system is familiar with something she does, and staying is how you cope. Don't lose heart. You can break this toxic cycle.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 07:34 AM
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Regret ≠ Remorse
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/25 12:53 AM
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And one other thing, brave people are still afraid. They just do the thing while feeling fear. They don't avoid scary things.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/25 03:30 AM
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I don't think you're a coward. I think you're human. Extend grace to yourself, just as you would to others. There are so so so so many men in your same situation. I get it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/25 03:26 AM
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My opinion, be authentic whatever route you choose. You mentioned being Catholic and staying due to religious dogma, guilt, and/or shame. That's up to you, but making her pay the price would be a waste of both of your days. Individual counseling can help you determine where you stand, genuinely. Then own that. Blaming her is immature and easier than owning your own roll. I say all this lovingly. I was in a similar situation. I left. I owned it. We leave people we love. That's a raw truth many re…
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 09:08 PM
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Everyone has a prenup who gets married. You either wrote and agreed on one together, or you accept the one the state you live in has developed.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 02:22 AM
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*ex wife
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 01:10 AM
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I've never used chat Gpt. I read books.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/25 10:18 PM
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This.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/25 03:52 AM
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I think you're normal. It's very common for our minds and bodies to take on only what they can handle, in order of importance. You had a goal to get through the divorce. You did it! Behind that goal, this next season was waiting. You're not broken. You're not doomed. You're human. Even with divorce being the necessary choice, it sucks. It's a loss. This is grief you're feeling. Grief demands a witness. Connect with others...other men, preferably. I promise you're going to make it through this, a…
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/25 03:49 AM
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👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 We are responsible for our own happiness!
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 04:01 AM
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Orion Taraban It's not always pleasant, but it is always accurate.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 05:08 AM
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Yeah, I think at this point, she'll take it from whoever.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 07:49 PM
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She wants your attention so badly, and all you're worried about is your ego.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 04:36 PM
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You just gotta do the next right step. I think you'll likely do really well.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 09:23 PM
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Hysterical bonding and love bombing. Fun but toxic.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 04:01 AM
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