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leftist dudes didn't "let themselves be boxed in as soyboys" you perceieve them in a blanket way becUse of carefully sculpted propaganda over the last ten years. in reality most leftist men are pretty diverse in fitness, hobbies, professions, etc. most leftist men aren't even vegan/vegetarian. on the contrary conservative areas tend to have the highest rates of obesity, diabetes, beer gut inverted weird chicken butt bodies, not what i would call the epitome of masculinity. The young men might be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:37 AM
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i thought rich people were those pesky coastal elite liberals ruining cities funding chaos and screwing over the hard working middle class 🤨 I can't keep up anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:20 AM
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it's easy to say you don't have a mental illness if you don't believe in mental illness even existing like a lot of conservatives I know or they blame it on religious shit like demons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:13 AM
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umm. so I would actually say most women like men. your absolute blanket statements like this just aren't accurate to the real world. most women like men and the majority of those are simply attracted to men in their age range. like please just go take a walk in your closest downtown area and see the couples, the amount of college age women running around with silver foxes isn't gonna be a lot. most are gonna be with men their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:01 PM
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well I think we both know that when people refer to "age gap" relationships in these spaces they aren't talking about a 25 year old dating a 29 year old. nobody finds 3-8 year age gaps weird or controversial and I don't even see the point in bringing it up for debate. most of the men here complaining about the disapproval of age gap relationships are 40+ dudes going after 20 year olds. most 20 year olds arent into that. I myself was twenty once and I was indeed also not into that. my college age…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:44 PM
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most women date and marry within 2-5 years of their age. you can look that up to verify. in countries where women have the most liberty and economic freedom age gap relationships are less. this would show that when women aren't reliant on gold digging for resources in a society they go for men they are attracted to which is their own age. there also wouldn't be so many thirsty desperate older men constantly trying to pick up younger women and struggling because you g women would actually get wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:11 PM
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you keep saying "most" but statistically and anecdotally that's just not true. the majority of women are attracted to and date and marry within their age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:48 PM

well it's primarily men in the Ukraine government making these laws and it's primarily men who will argue that women don't need to have a place in the military. I'm not sure why it's the women you're angry with. maybe men should stop war mongering constantly 🤷🏻‍♀️ it's not like the women in these countries are stoked to see the men in their lives, boyfriends, friends, brothers, etc be sent off to die in another pointless war for rich men. but the men will continue to comply and show up for war a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:25 PM
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I guess I consider being asked out by a guy I've been around a few times at some social functions as "being approached". It's been like this for most people before the age of chronic Internet use. Like my parents met cuz my mom was living next door to my dad's sister and they were introduced that way. My aunt married a man she met in a college party. Now the only difference is there's more people trying to date solely on apps. I never even did dating apps they scare me. Everyone wants to live th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:10 PM
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i mean you don't know all men and my anecdote is a good as yours 🤷🏻‍♀️ but plenty of men in my world still actively approach women, but I'm in pretty active social scenes. that doesn't really work when you're a shut in (not saying specifically you I just mean in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:45 PM
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I think it's that you just might be overestimating the amount of grown men unwilling to ask women out. but most people I know ended up with men who asked them out on a warm approach. this is why people here stress the importance of maintaining a social life of some sort but a lot of men here act like that's just an impossible ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:36 PM

not in a romantic relationship but I had one for a room mate once. she was one of the worst people I've ever met in my fucking life. so many crazy stories I had to deal with before I got out lol. I honestly don't know how she made it so long without ending up in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:06 AM
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they are experiencing massive food insecurity right now for one, their school and medical systems have completely collapsed, there's still currently genocide happening there. What exactly do you perceive to be going well there?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:20 AM
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well look at the quality of life for everyone including men in Afghanistan rn. it's not exactly going well for them by any metric. I don't know what your definition of "killing your mind or conscience" is but the results evidently aren't great
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:00 AM
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I had 35+ dudes hitting on me since I was 14-15 and onward into younger adulthood. it was never a compliment or flattering to me at that age cuz I was brought up to know that men aren't looking at younger girls like that for any reason other than sex and control and to have someone they can groom into growing into their creepy preferences. I remember these men would be like "oh you're just sooo mature for your age" and I'm just thinking dude I went out with my friends last night to spray paint d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:33 PM
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yeah and don't get me started on the massive amount of "stepsister "step dad" step everything family theme shit like do men just sit around fantasizing about fucking their family members all the time?? why the fuck is that so common in mainstream porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:21 AM
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like these dudes will say "we're not pedos you women like the weird fucked up shit" then post porn of people fucking in children's setting areas?? they could make a set literally anywhere why is a children's room such a common setting?? it obviously sells a lot of they wouldnt make it. I wouldn't actually dislike porn so much if you didn't have to sift em through so much of this type of thing. it literally makes me like men less knowing this is what the like to watch in their spare time. I'll ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:36 PM
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Okay so why the fuck are they in a little kids room with dinosaur blankets with a "crybaby" sticker above them fucking?? See this is what I'm talking about with the weird children's themes like this is really what men jack off to??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:29 PM
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dude last time I got on a mainstream porn website the top videos were women literally vommiting on dicks and women dressing up in little kids clothes prancing around. there's men out there who jerk off to my little pony and anime characters getting fucked by tentacle monsters. human sexuality is weird and confusing. men jack off to all kinds of disgusting things. there's plenty of vanilla women out there they aren't hard to find if you don't like kink
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:51 AM

bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:39 AM
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this whole conversation is gonna be anecdote vs anecdote but in my experience true pick me women rarely have good relationship outcomes. I have a cousin who went through a massive pick me phase and it just landed her in abusive relationship after abusive relationship because she was such a doormat she couldn't/wouldn't stand up for herself and valued male validation over her own well being every time. most men don't actually respect women like this because being a total push over just isn't a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:35 AM
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religion is usually the answer. poor people tend to be more religious so they have more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:47 PM
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do you have a specific case you are referring to? I've personally not seen this outside of crime documentaries, and those cases ended up as documentaries cuz they were abnormal occurrence. you're way more likely to catch a felony having weed gummies in the wrong state than you are actually going to prison for raping someone. also criminals who are guilty are gonna tell people/the world they Re innocent most of the time I mean why wouldn't they? there's also the brand of criminals who don't see a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:53 PM
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I mean this most respectfully but you are very naive on the issue of how much the police force actually cares about rape victims. most cities have a backlog of rape kits that go untested for YEARS. I've never known a single woman who went to the police even right after a sexual assault and ever even got a call back after submitting evidence and a rape kit. life isn't an svu episode they do not in fact have a whole professional team emotionally dedicated to jailing your rapist. 90% of rapists get…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:31 PM
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I can't understand why the fuck policies that benefit both men and women are a problem with y'all if it contributed to a healthier more functional society. like I don't need a policy to ONLY benefit women I'm fine with men and women getting their lives improved wtf. like it's just such a selfish toddler brained mindset I don't even know what to say theres no reasoning with it it's like watching a kid throw a fit becUse their little sibling gets food at dinner time too. y'all vote like toddlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:27 PM
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okay so what specific insults have leftist politicians hurled at you? what specific problems do you personally have that they have dismissed? I truly want to know cuz my husband and every dude on the left I know is consistently confused on what the fuck y'all are talking about. they dont feel insulted or dismissed by the left in fact they thrive in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:43 PM
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I understand that you have evidently have nothing to add to this conversation that clarifies your stance or makes any debate so I'm gonna move on with my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:36 PM
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"oh yes, please make the economy completely unstable and increase wealth inequality while making basic life necessities less and less affordable everyday while increasing military spending its all totally fine and okay as long as you're patting me on the head and telling me what a good little strong alpha man that I am"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:34 PM
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if you don't like my answers I am open to your suggestions on what else you think they should focus on. I asked my husband just now for fun what leftists policies he has personally benefited, he said, "I got cheaper health insurance even with my preexisting health condition as well as help with much needed dental care he had to put off for years until the Obama era. I got to take family leave for 2 weeks to help my mom with my dying dads end of life care that the right big time opposes citizens …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:31 PM
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I already answered it. you just don't seem to agree that those policies help men for some reason you have yet to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:56 PM
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I JUST gave you a list of things leftists have improved or have attempted to improve. I'm not sure what else your asking for. if you don't see those things as a benefit to men's lives maybe you can provide some ideas of policies that would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:49 PM
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men always say that they are the more logical, less emotional gender. yet here you clearly state that y'all will pick the side that appeals to emotions by blowing smoke up your ass over the side that would logically actually improve your economic situation. maybe y'all should rethink that whole men are more logical thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:43 PM
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I literally didnt gloss over them. 9/11 and the 2008 housing crisis happened under bush. pandemic happened under trump. go back and read what I wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:18 PM
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all of those things benefit men. healthcare benefits men, workers rights benefits men, having affective accessable schools benefits men, veterans getting access to help benefits men, affordable housing benefits men. Having a literate society benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:15 PM
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dude. I was alive in the 90s when Clinton was president and shit was thriving. I was alive in the 00s when Bush was president and people lost jobs big time and their stocks and their houses. we had 50-100 grown middle aged adults applying everyday to the shitty pizza place I worked at cuz unemployment was so high. gas was over $4. I remember the 2010s when Obama was president and we went back to thriving, jobs were good and costs were low. I mean that era was super amazing and filled with optimi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:13 PM
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leftists- we want to expand affordable healthcare, expand workers rights, raise minimum wage, make college more accessable, help veterans get benefits and PTSD mental healthcare, do something about the rising wealth inequality and housing crisis, fund the school better instead of closing them right- yeah we're not gonna do any of that we want you all working for nothing and be happy about it you guys- leftists don't care about men 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:57 PM
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considering how I've personally known a pretty sizable handful of women with kids who have gotten married or remarried in the last three-four years as well as men I've known who have married women with kids I'd say men aren't as united on this boycott of single moms as you are stating here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:06 AM
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that's wild to me. my head voice never stops. I mean it's just my voice so it doesn't feel crazy. like how do you conceptualize stuff?? how do you decide what to write down if you don't hear the thought in your head first??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:08 AM
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I mean...not really? there's plenty of people in government with scarier auras than this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:05 AM
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girl I say this as a nuerospicy woman myself, not everyone is gonna be compatible with the lifestyle autistic or ADHD people need to have in order to be comfortable and that's fine. its just a reality that my quirks aren't gonna be desirable to everyone especially really nornal people. I won't date bipolar people for example and I don't have anything against them but after growing up around unchecked bipolar people my whole life I can't bare living with all that in my house again in adulthood. i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:23 AM
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it's political. leftist women don't like her cuz she's a right winger who deliberately tried to appeal to white right wing dudes. right wing women love Sidney Sweeney if only to support another conservative woman. Billie Eilish has the same body type, similar face, and probably even bigger boobs but she's not republican and leans into her artistry instead of her boobs so nobody brings that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:07 PM
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yeah like a year ago I was visiting my home town and I watched my friend flirt with this dude and she even gave him her phone number. not even 10 seconds after we leave the bar this dude who seemed normal and chil was just flooding her txts and calls begging to hook up and asking her all these sexual questions over and over that she didn't even respond to. she ended up blocking his number after he called like 10 times in a row at 4am. watching some dude just completely snatch defeat from the jaw…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:22 PM
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cooking doesn't really have anything to do with living with your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:34 PM
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who the fuck said anything about cooking? but actually I didnt learn how to cook until I moved out of my parents. my mom was too OCD to let me touch anything in the kitchen ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:26 PM
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I mean there's literally no way I would have met the people in my life now, built the skills I have now, would have started my business, or would have traveled/backpacked internationally like I did if I had stayed in my childhood bedroom up till now. exposure to the world just doesn't happen on the same level for people who stay with their parents long term well into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:24 PM
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I moved out of my parents house as soon as I could at 20 years old and I'll still inherit their house. and I'll have a life full of lived adult memorie of independence when that happens. I def would have ended up a stunted adult if I had stayed there my whole adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:12 PM
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people post criminal evidence online all the time. our local face book groups have businesses regularly posting videos of people shop lifting and vandalizing property. there's no law saying they can't do that. people post ring cam footage of mail thieves regularly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:40 AM
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you could maybe use the coincidence argument if she was some random unsolicited door to door person or something, but he literally consciously ordered her to his home through a service. I've never had a door dash take longer than like 1. hour 15 min, usually closer to 45 min. he knew she was coming it wasnt a coincidence or an accident. like y'all really just think it's fine to hang out naked with your house open to the street?? when has that ever been socially acceptable?? Especially when you k…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:25 AM
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bruh. he wasn't asleep when he made the order and he wasn't asleep when he pulled his pants down and he wasn't asleep when he opened his door. he set all this up before he sat down to "relax". were also giving him the benefit of the doubt that he wasn't actually just pretending to be asleep. it's not legal to fall asleep naked in view of the public street. if I left my bedroom open next tn my bed and fell asleep spread eagle with my twat out for everyone passing by in the street to see that woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:15 AM
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yeah I'm just not buying it, I know when the door to my house is open lol. if he didn't want to expose himself he would have put pants on before inviting a delivery to his home. it's a massive fuck up on his part and if on the off chance it was a mistake hopefully it's a wake up call for him to be more mindful and put his dick away when he knows people are coming over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:06 AM
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it's much wilder mental gymnastics to think someone not knowing an exact ETA of a delivery you know is coming within the next hour or so is an excuse to whip your cock out in your living room with an open door while you wait for them. there are men out there who get off on forcing women to look at their dick. I have no idea why y'all are so convinced this guy wasn't trying to do exactly that. and besides what if some neighborhood kids selling something door to door came by to have to see that? t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:00 AM
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the app tells you when your driver is coming and how many minutes until they get there, it's not a mysterious system. why the fuck would a person think it's a good idea to order food, take their pants off with their entire cock out with a wide open door immediately after ordering food. ive had a lot of deliveries before, never have I gotten naked when I knew someone was on their way to my house. you can be naked or you can leave your front door wide open, you can't do both. he chose to do both e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:53 PM
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"You’re assuming the man had mind powers, and know when the door dasher would come." the app literally tells you when your delivery driver is coming. you don't need mind powers to know that food you ordered to you house is now on its way to your house. were just assuming he can read the app he downloaded and knows how having fucking food delivery works at this point in his adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:45 PM
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that man was not asleep when he made the decision to make a door dash order, open the door, and pull his pants down. i can't believe there any argument to how this is appropriate. don't get naked with your fucking front door open it's not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:34 PM

met my husband at an outdoor rave a little over a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:24 PM
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I really don't care when it was ratified. it was just a way to keep slavery legal. if cooperations have a benefit to access to free prison labor then the state will have motive to put as many people in prison as possible. pretty much every conservative is fine with this system. theyre totally cool with prisoners undercutting wages but they'll throw a fit at some free migrant working fast food. it's an obvious inconstancy that shows conservatives don't actually care about there being a source of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:48 PM
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and Republicans want to out as many people in prison as possible so corporations paying off the government can have nearly free prison labor that costs pennies on the dollar working for them. states that have arrested a bunch of migrants (for prison btw not deportation) have already made more contracts with th government to enlist more prison labor for their cooperations. conservatives aren't anti slavery by any means. they want as many people in prison working for free as possible. I'm sorry bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:30 PM
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uhh I've lived near a few beaches in my life in the United States, men wore speedos pretty frequently and nobody cared. old men seem to be particularly fond of their speedos I've noticed 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:41 AM
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what have you sacrificed for your homies? what have you homies sacrificed for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:44 AM
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racism wasn't that long ago and is still ongoing? that first black little girl that walked into an integrated school is still alive today, she's got a Twitter account. a lot of those white people outside screaming and protesting her right be in a school with white children are also still alive. they vote too. both my parents remember Martin Luther King jr getting shot. my grandmother's were both white and they went through hell there entire lives regauardless . it's not ancient history. that's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:42 PM
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I know, this thread got me wondering how many middle school boys I knew who are adults now thought they had "super powers" over me cuz I let them borrow a pencil or didn't outright tell them to fuck off when asked if they could take a seat next to me or something 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:01 PM
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this is a lot of conclusion jumping about human psychology from a middle school girl scooting over to make room for a classmate it class. when I was that age if a classmate asked to sit next to me 9/10 I would have said yes unless it was someone I just straight up really hated, girl or boy. id hardly call that a "super power".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:54 PM
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I never understood why so many men here think that being extroverted and able to navigate social situations and being gentle loving partners are qualities that can't go together? my husband is very kind and loving to people he cares about but hes also fun at social gatherings and gets shit done at work. well balanced people can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:47 PM
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autistic people tend to be more interested in closely analyzing and discussing social dynamics in forum spaces like this so the demographics are probably skewed here for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:21 PM
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easy dopamine release. makes talking and socializing easier and more fun to a point unless it's overdone. on the the less fun end I guess it makes people with unresolved trauma or mental health issues cope with it momentarily but I never did that for me really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:43 AM
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but I thought the men/right we're all mad at Taylor Swift cuz she waited till 35 to get engaged/married like a bad post wall feminist but I don't know I can't keep all the rules straight anymore 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:48 PM
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dude. the "vikings" ended up establishing trade routes and stabilized their society after exploring and got "normal jobs" and the nords have cruise ships and regular boats now their boating tech isn't still from 1000 years ago??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:29 PM
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I love my Indian woman gynecologist she's literally the best doctor I've had that actually put effort into diagnosing my health issues...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:23 PM
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no, they had bigger problems like oh a random disease just came through and killed three of my kids overnight and the local church said it's actually our fault cuz we invited disease demons in some how and oh if that storm coming over the hill wipes out my crops my remaining family will starve and the king will take my land away and also there's a group of soldiers over the border there who really want to slaughter us for following the religion they don't want us to follow so we gotta prepare fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:21 PM
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what do you mean their societies were thriving? my ancestors history was full of war, genocide, famine, religious conflict, class warfare, etc...pretty much constantly. People throughout history had plenty of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:56 PM
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well a lot of them complaining here specifically about it are autistic shut ins 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:20 AM
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"bad boy" and it's just some dude who listens to loud music and smokes weed and maybe has some beers with friends sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:42 AM
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yeah def one of those who looks better with a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:03 AM
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he's got a butt chin tho 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:58 AM
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I dunno I just can't stay wit someone on the fast track to diabetes and liver failure. I'm watching my friend's dad with similar life habits just die slowly and painfully with his limbs rotting off from diabetes infections and heart problems due to eating horrible with no working out. it's a horrible painful way to be old and die and it's scary when someone actually wants that for themselves. his wife can't ever travel or do her hobbies or enjoy her own retirement cuz she has to take care of him…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:49 AM
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I invited him to the gym many, many times. I also invited him for walks, bike rides, to go out dancing. he just wanted to drink beer and play league of legends every second be wasn't at work. and hed complain if I cooked healthy food and he'd go get Arby's or a burger somewhere. he even made jokes (that apparently weren't actually jokes) that since he has a girlfriend he could get fat now. it was gross. after we broke up his brother told me he had a pattern of losing weight and going out to be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:31 AM
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he ended up being a massive alcoholic who dead bedroomed me six months in and became a shit in addicted to video games and rapidly gained weight once he thought he had me locked down. I bailed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:57 AM
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Yeah, plus there's other current celebrities like Billie Eilish for example has a lot of similar features as Sweeney, even the same big booby white girl body type and the huge droopy blue eyes but Billie still looks more attractive to me than Sweeney and I can't even put my finger on why, it's like her big eyes are more proportional to the rest of her face than Sidney. Billie has more of an alternative aesthetic though and she doesn't play herself up for the male gaze on the same level so I gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:15 PM
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that's funny cuz as a woman even before the whole sidney Sweeney hype debate I saw Euphoria and thought Zendaya blew Sweeney out of the water on attractiveness. Zendaya to me is really striking and uniquely beautiful, someone id absolutely notice on the street even if she wasn't famous. she's just got that high fashion model allure to me. Sweeney does nothing for me, I could find 6 of her in any sorority house across the country, I was surprised when men recently started acting like she was the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:42 PM
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you guys always ask why women enjoy hanging out with dirt bags and then smak yourselves right in the face with the answer when y'all say this. women enjoy them for the same reason YOU enjoy them. they obviously have enough to offer either with being fun/entertaining or social status access to make being friends with a dirtbag "bad boy" worth it for you so why is it so confusing when women also enjoy the company of men you enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:24 PM
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that's right when I stopped reading 😂 like dude it's Friday go outside and hang out with some friends or something fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:02 PM
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it is infinitely easier to replace a shitty job/boss than a shitty husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:10 AM
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yeah late August/early September was always the wildest party time here before everyone got too deep in their course work so I was just straight up confused walking through my old now dead main party neighborhood with nobody around?? especially now that the university has record enrollment like where they at??? I guess just home?? fuck man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:40 AM
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not sure what you mean by fucking up on social media but I've certainly never lost a job cuz I went to a party/event and danced and had fun. granted things are absolutely more expensive now but even when we were broke we still could get some cheap 40s or liquor we went in on and drove out into a random field to party in. or we would just hang out at each other's houses/apartments if going out was too much. the losing friend group for acting out of turn thing just sounds like over dramatic social…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:37 AM
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I don't understand WTF the kids are up to these days. I'm visiting the town I went to college in like 12 years ago and back in my day there were always parties on every block you could literally just walk outside and follow some bumping music and find a raging kegger and likely run into people you knew. now the streets are quiet on the weekends, I don't see any drunk 20 something's walking around in groups, the music venues and bars are empty or filled with a few older millennials. it's very odd…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:51 PM
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its totally valid to break up with someone if there's a mismatch in sex drive, I dumped a dude who dead bedroomed me before I met my husband shit was miserable I have too high of a sex drive. but if I always just accepted the first no when he didn't want it. no way I was gonna sit there and pester him about it, even if he gave in I wouldn't have enjoyed it because I knew he didn't really want it much. when it didn't get better I just ended it and found someone who matched my energy. pressuring p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:58 PM
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where on earth are you pulling that statistic? every source I find says between 60-70% are fathers in the United States. andecdotslly the majority of men I know have at least one child which again lines up with the stats. All the men in my family, brother and cousins have kids now. my husband's family all has kids except for him cuz he didn't want them and got the snip.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:50 PM
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I just don't understand how men even enjoy sex after having to basically put maximum pressure on someone to do it?? like I'd feel at bare minimum weird as hell trying to fuck a dude repeatedly who was clearly not into it. it'd be such a turn off. only thing I'll tolerate is an enthusiastic excited fuck yes in both words and body language. I don't know if that situation makes a man a full rapist, but it's definitely sketch to be able to get hard and and have an orgasm inside someone who has made …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:41 PM
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you do understand that child free men exist right? and that many of them have girlfriends and wives? usually who are also child free. some people enjoy love and companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:34 AM
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the reason society hasn't given men the right to paper abortions is because most people know that if men were given more leeway to abandon their kids than they already do then most men probably would. I'm sure being able to gain the privilege of your genetics getting to continue with no responsibility sounds fantastic and ideal for a lot of men. a lot of them sodo it anyways even when it's not legal and most of them get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:12 AM
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oooh wowww two whole percent in the last decade. wow yeah we should really just lock up all trans people just in case so that other 98% can just go wild. lmfaoooo only the dumbest of bigots can look at a situation and convince themselves that 2% is the majority problem we should be focusing on. Ive experienced so much violence from straight men and nothing but safety and welcoming from trans people. Get over yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:32 PM
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oh wow so seven out of literally thousands of straight dudes who committed shootings. so significant, much majority
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:16 PM
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lol and they call women the overly emotional sex. no I don't feel sorry for people like this. if you or anyone else can't handle an insult without trying to seriously injure or "flatline" someone you don't need to be freely running around the general population. get therapy before you seriously fuck your life and someone else's life over an emotional outburst.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:48 PM
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well then it sure is a good thing I went out to parties when I was younger and ended up meeting my husband at one now isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:01 PM
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never been told that so I can't relate. the vast majority of my old punk rock party group are succeeding in life now and are doing really well, men and women. so yeah I'd say they were a good choice. I have a lot of fun being with my husband and I made lifelong friends back then, professional connections, and fun memories. no regrets on my end 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:42 AM
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if partying isn't productive or ever healthy then why are so many people who didn't have a party phase so mad that other people did? you obviously feel like you missed out on something or you wouldn't be here with these complaints in the first place. like just be happy with your healthy choices you see as superior I guess. i have some great memories and now I own a business and live quietly with my husband. I'm not bitter about missing out cuz I made sure to not miss out. just find someone who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:28 AM
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for the same reason I stopped playing with my barbie collection. at some point my brain grew to a point where it wasn't fun anymore and I decided to move on the next age appropriate activity. it didn't HAVE to stop but a grown ass woman playing toys is weird usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:18 AM
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dude I dunno how else to explain that people grow and change. are you into the same media and activities as you were when you were 10? we're to into the same shit at 15 as you were at 20? i loved playing hide and seek as a child but in my middle aged life playing hide and seek would be considered immature. it's not that playing hide and seek is a bad thing, it's just a child activity. same reason 50 year olds don't go to college kid parties. it's not that college parties are bad, they've just si…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:15 AM
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I mean, no? age appropriate behaviors are a thing. I don't feel like there was anything wrong with enjoying playing leggos and barbies and park playgrounds when I was a child even though I grew out of it with age. just like I don't feel like there was anything bad about my party days when it was age appropriate and then I grew up. most people evolve with age. when I'm 65 I'll probably be into different activities than I am now in my 30s. doesn't mean there is anything wrong with what I'm doing n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:03 AM
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I thought we were discussing young dudes who party, not toxic abusers hats kind of a different topic 🤷🏻‍♀️ again plenty of rebellious party dudes grow up to have normal stable lives. someone chose to nerd their youth away now they are bitter that people who had fun are capable of stabilility and maturity now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:59 AM
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yeah I'm pretty sure they're bitter cuz they're realizing that nerding their youth away didn't get them as far as they thought it would. I knew wild dudes who dropped out of high school even, grew up, and now work six figure jobs and own businesses and are in happy long term relationships. these guys just refuse to believe that the 20 year old party boy can totally grow up tk be a stable responsible 40 year old and that it happens often. just world fallacy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:53 AM
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I don't think most young men or women are looking for a spouse or parent of the children before a certain age. an 18 year old woman bringing up marriage and babies to another 18 year old will guaranteed have him running for the hills cuz he isn't ready for all that. I feel like the guys here complaining about this are like the nerdy girl in this scene who felt superior because she did mature non party girl shit only to find her peers who fucked off and had fun were also just as successful. I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:47 AM
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I'm not demonizing anyone. I just don't really agree that "maturing faster" is a virtue always and I don't agree skipping out on young fun even makes you more mature than someone who didnt and later settled into having their shit together. in fact I'd argue that partying and rebellious fun is actually mature age appropriate behavior at that time 🤷🏻‍♀️ skipping that doesn't necessarily make you more successful or a better partner later. if you live out an average human life span you have plenty o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:33 AM
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I don't know why there always has to be such a dichotomy. my husband was quite wild and rebellious partier with a fast car in his youth. then he grew up and now he's the fuzzy lasagna on a Sunday guy who has a steady good job and a pretty chill stable lifestyle. a lot of women like me have a similar path and end up with men like this after we grow up out of our youthful party fun days. it was your choice to skip the fun and act like a middle aged mad in high school, I don't get wanting to be bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:05 PM
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why would you stick around long enough to marry someone who did that in the first place?? I don't understand not moving on after getting rejected. I don't even keep in touch with or know what happened to people I didn't end up dating from rejection...life moves too fast to reach back into the past to try and refresh failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:04 PM
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i hate to be the bearer of bad news but the elites were also raping away and getting off free in the 1100s as well as the 1300s. the elites have always been elites and men have always been men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:08 PM
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well I know why they do it. it's not emotionally comfortable to face that an already shitty man for other reasons is also a child rapist, it's not comfortable seeing that get out in your tight knit conservative Bible belt town. but it's illogical and dangerous to keep exposing kids in the family to him but they'd rather do that than face reality I guess. but also the culture has just kinda gone towards pedophiles just being accepted I guess I mean they're about to pardon Maxwell lol. it's totall…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:32 PM
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yes it was a typo, I accidently hit the space bar instead of the b.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:03 PM
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I've had plenty of married dudes, most of them ugly, attempt to hit on me in my life. they'd shoot their shot with lots of women and fail. just because a man doesn't have options doesn't mean he's not trying, most women consider attempted and failed cheating as...still cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:17 PM
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I mean it pretty much is socially acceptable to not want to date people based on those things. I've known men who were solely loudly only into dating Asians or latinas and nobody really gave a shit. lots of men will say they don't want to date a woman with an active eating disorder problem, my cousin got rejected multiple times for it when she was anorexic. smart men recognize it for the scary issue that it is. lots of men say they won't date women on ssris or whatever pills and nobody can legal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:57 PM
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see that just kinda goes into what I said about autistic men wanting the world to adapt to them and their weirdness vs wanting to adapt themselves. in a perfect world people wouldn't get uncomfortable around autistic people and their unusual behavior but at the end of the day people are probably just gonna choose to spend their time around people who don't make them feel weird at the end of the day. it's not fair but that's the way it is. when I was a kid I had to learn that staring at people an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:34 PM
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but the neurotypical family members aren't the ones cutting him off. they aren't being practical here. Cutting him off WOULD BE the practical thing but that's not what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:22 PM
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um, I think we just fundamentally disagree on what black and white thinking is. just because something is black and white and clear cut obvious doesn't make it not rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:14 PM
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hmmm again I disagree. I'd argue that allowing your emotions to muddy the situation enough to allow an abuser to stay in the "tribe" for the sake of cohesion and avoiding emotional discomfort is the complete opposite of black and white thinking. deciding to cut someone off for such a horrible thing despite whatever other perceived good they have is the black and white thinking. youve got it flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:02 PM
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they read it just fine, they just don't believe being a pedophile is an excusable enough of a trait to cut someone off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:54 PM
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I mean I don't really want to be around people who make excuses for a 20 year old raping and getting a 12 year old pregnant. and even continuing. to bring their children around him. if thinking that's weird and gross makes me a disruptive presence then meh oh well 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:41 PM
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eeeeh I disagree. I think the world would be a lot more structured and less chaotic if nuerotyoicals shared the same rigid sense of justice and need for consistency that a lot of autistic people have. like for example we recently had a pedophile in my family outted, every autistc in my family cut him off no questions asked, the nuerotyoicals in the family are all bending over backwards to make excuses for him. they don't see it as black and white at all. ive seen this over and over from multiple…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:34 PM
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I think a lot of times especially with high functioning up ringing is important to future fulfillment. I've seen some parents of diagnosed autistic sons coddle the fuck out of them, never correct social unacceptable behaviors at a young age cuz they don't want their disabled kid to feel bad about themselves but then the kid grows up and gets their behavior corrected through bullying and exclusion which is arguably more traumatic in the long run than being lovingly adjusted by your parents. autis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:06 PM
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from my personal anecdotal experience autistic men are often less adaptable than autistic women. a lot of autistic men I know seem to want the world to adapt to their quirks and views rather than having a willingness to adapt to what others expect and are less responsive to social shame than autistic women. for example in college I knew this guy on the spectrum who had an insane OCD level aversion to slang or what he considered "improper English". like everytime someone used some common urban sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:52 PM
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it's pretty obvious how prevalent autism is here by how much black and white absolutist thinking is displayed here a lot of the time. Autism is considered a disability for a reason. I feel bad for autistic men who can't wrap their head around social graces and being palatable to their peers the same way I feel bad for people who can't walk, but there's not really much I can personally do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:47 PM
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okay so you don't have any real suggestions on what we could actually do to help boys not fall behind, just threats on ways men can make the world shittier for themselves and everyone else. got it. very productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:40 PM
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what exactly are women and feminists supposed to do about men not caring enough about succeeding in school or professional settings? I thought men were more logical and generally smarter and more capable than us child brain women shouldn't they be able to figure out how to not underperform?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:25 PM
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even if something is manufactured or built in the United States it was probably done with domestic prison labor which is basically slavery with more steps. our society literally isn't capable of functioning without unethical slave labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:00 AM
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had Irish twins? so the guy had two kids close in age to with another woman so his current girlfriend moved in to help?? that's weird we're they poly or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:00 PM
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all the conservative women in my family are just massive doormats who always act like happy stepford wives but they drink constantly and take anti depressents so i don't think they really are. it's easier to make a marriage "last" when youre just constantly looking the other way when your husband cheats on you and does fucked up stuff "cuz that's just how men are". my very conservative aunt didn't even leave her husband when another women showed up with his fucking baby in the early 90s lol. I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:36 PM
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"The same could be said for men who women use for sex, barring a fucking crime. It's amazing how manipulation ceases to be an issue as soon as it's a man being manipulated and strung along. Women have no agency, even when they're doing wrong." Yeah thags why I don't think women should fuck men who havent put in effort and investment into getting to know them. A lot of women try and hold on to men who don't put in that effort and it was a mistake they shouldn't do that cuz men don't appreciate wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:43 PM
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I knew a woman who attempted to get into brick laying and other carpentry after high school cuz it payed well and her dad taught her how to do it when she was young. the men she worked with either boldy sexually harassed her the whole time and the others just made it clear they didn't want her there working with them cuz she's a women trying to do men's work. she quit after like a year and got an office job lol. men are the ones who make those "hard" trade jobs intolerable for women, not the wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:28 PM
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getting strung along for material stuff is a choice. don't give too much of yourself to people who don't reciprocate and this will cease to be an issue for you, and I say this as a former chronic people pleaser. the consequences of getting strung along sexually are potentially a pregnancy with a man who secretly hates you or an STD or even decreased social status for women in some places/cultures. for men it's some lost money for dinner/drinks. id take the later any day but I was born with this …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:13 PM
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women can only extract from you what you allow them to. if you're referring to money or attention that sucks when it happens but like obviously the loss/consequences isn't as severe as ending up with a pregnancy from a man who secretly hates you or an STD 🤷🏻‍♀️ men do know if they're a woman's type though. is she receptive to your sexual advances? if yes then you're her type lol. she ain't gonna touch you if she isn't attracted to you. Ive been in a relationship for over a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:06 PM
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literally no cuz men will still have sex with women they think are ugly or even loathe. no women don't typically keep men around as placeholder sex objects when they aren't actually attracted to them at anywhere near the rate men do, if they did men wouldn't be complaining about being sexless so much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:01 PM
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eehhh I disagree. if a man approaches me then he at least had to pick me out of a crowd and decided I was his type enough to make it worth the shot. if I chase him I have no way of knowing if I'm actually the type hes attracted to. this lines up with what other men I've known in real life have told me and it also lines up with what I've seen over and over again from mens actions. men simply don't often appreciate women they didn't have to chase and invest in at least a little in the beginning as…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:52 PM
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when did that happen?? I'm still waiting to be able to go out in public to have men leave me alone and I even have a wedding ring they still try to to talk to me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:32 PM
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because women will simply usually just reject a man she isn't into. a man will keep a women around even if he isn't attracted to her out of scarcity mindset and then jump on the internet and brag about "dumpster diving" and "slumbusting" in the meantime. I know to a man a woman using him and wasting his time sounds just fine but a lot of women don't want that. at least when a man approaches me I know he's probably more likely to actually be attracted to me since he thought I was worth the effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:49 PM
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no approaching women is just regular masculinity. men need to approach because they aren't as picky as women. women run a huge risk of being used as a placeholder chick when they approach men because men will fuck women they even hate if she throws herself into his lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:25 PM
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most of the women in my family either die of aggressive breast cancer before the age of 65 or if that doesn't get them they sit around brain rotting on Fox News/Alex jones day and posting racist memes on Facebook whether they have kids/grandkids or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:34 PM
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if men got into relationships with one woman they liked and stuck with her instead of lying to her and still trying to hit up women around town no matter how ugly they are then women wouldn't need these groups. I'm not sure why y'all think women are to blame for married/in relationship men not staying out of other women's dms. genuinely how else do y'all expect women to vet local men since you know we can't actually read minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:57 AM
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and because men have chosen to mass platform shit like Andrew Tate, Joe Rogan/adjacent stuff, Andrew Wilson, Pearl Davis, and the rest who spout these ideas about men without much pushback from all these men who supposedly disagree I'm not sure what else you want us to see. I do know decent men in person and theryr almost always in chill normal relationships. they sure aren't getting a wedgie bunch about these are we dating the same man groups cuz they know they won't be in them cuz they aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:27 AM
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so if a man is attractive enough to be capable of cheating he will. got it. nothing else about personality or nothing. just looks. and the ugly men will attempt to cheat and fail. tell me again why men deserve women's loyalty??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:43 AM
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everyone involved in dating "creates" the dating culture. it's not just women by a long shot. "This is on multiple levels not your problem. A cheating man going to a prostitute is actively removing himself from the dating pool. He's literally seeing a professional." Huh?? He literally didn't remove himself from the dating pool because he was dating my friend. He also was messaging tons of women in social media but he couldn't find a willing cheating participant so he last resorted to a prostitut…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:39 AM
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I don't date women so I can't comment on that experience. but I've had enough men both attractive and bridge troll level short bald ugly who were married or jn relationships attempt to fuck me and other women I know to understand that attractiveness levels in men aren't related to their desire or attempts to fuck as many women as they can if that's what they want to try to do. just telling women to date ugly men isn't going to fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:39 AM
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oooh and what type of man specifically is likely to cheat and what ones don't? please educate the class.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:32 AM
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women didn't create the male sex drive. you do realize that ugly men try to cheat too? I lost count years ago of how many married dudes, often with kids, have attempted to fuck me. Ugly, attractive, bald, short, autistic or not, it doesn't matter they will attempt to shoot their shot if they are bored enough. I had a friend who was dating this short hella autistic nerd not too long ago and she found out he was going to prostitutes on the side even though they were fucking regularly so yeah men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:31 AM
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"these men" these men are just men. women have been told over and over that men are naturally driven to spread their seed and that they are mostly not monogamous. all men are capable of cheating or attempting to cheat. not really sure how else you expect women to go about the nature that men present to us and insist upon themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:07 AM
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men consistently tell us that they want to "spread their seed" and fuck as many women as possible by their nature and that naturally monogamous men are the exception not the rule. women are simply trying to navigate this dynamic and tools like these groups are on of the few things they can use to make sure their men aren't hitting up every woman in town trying to cheat, as we are told is their nature. not really sure why this carries negative implications about women. we are simply listening to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:04 AM
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those groups exist because women are trying to AVOID dating the same men, not find men to share lmaoo. it's to figure out if the guy their seeing is actually taking it seriously or also trying to hit up other women in the community and also to out cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:56 AM

oooh high school. I thought we were discussing adult stuff NVM
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:00 AM

"Woman who licks her hand and rubs it on someone? That chick was absolutely looking for attention. excuse me, what? that's a really oddly specific example I've never seen in my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:55 AM
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oooh boy, after like a year and half hiatus from posting on my circus performance ig account I posted a pretty mids practice video just trying to dip my toes back into being on the internet and it's blowing going semi viral for some reason I'm gonna throw up 😭 I thought I was ready to be perceived on the internet again but yeah maybe not fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:28 PM
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people still do all of those things? but those things you listed require either good outside weather in a specific season, which a lot of people already do when the weather is appropriate, or require money and time off or a backyard. in this economy a lot of people can't just afford sports games tickets or expensive beach trips regularly. also how would any of those things really reduce housework load?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:08 PM
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i guess it depends on the activity but I made lifelong friends from the extracurricular activities I was in as a child and did plenty of socializing during. I don't actually know about kids being more structured today. I grew up in the 90s early 00s and I was constantly doing sports shit (tennis mostly), dance classes, played in band, amd did l school theatre productions I was busy as hell constantly. my friend's kids literally just come home right after school and start playing video games and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:00 PM
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well now the problem is you've got a whole generation of men reaching adulthood who's parents didn't think pushing extra curriculars on like 60% of them was important like you don't think it is and now young men get on the internet and claim they are now a dangerously lonely and have no idea how to make friends and just go to work if they have a job and come home and play video games and watch porn all the time. social development and extracurriculars are quite important for not inceling your ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:23 PM
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what "things" do you suggest women should constantly be taking their kids out to that they don't already?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:12 PM
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well for one thing the birth rate is on record for being the lowest it's ever been for the last two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:55 AM
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voting for trump literally doesn't benefit men either, or anyone else. y'all ate shit in hopes women would have to smell your breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:35 PM
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you didn't say anything of value either it's just a bunch of over dramatic straw manning. most mentally healthy men don't sit around stressing over the definitions of masculinity they just live their lives. most men can't even define "masculinity" very well in general without referencing working out or being "leaders" whatever the fuck that means most men are loyal followers not leaders anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:31 AM
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it's not diminishing to say that rape is charged as "1st degree SEXUAL ASSAULT" where I live. That's just simply what it is. If that bothers you take it up with the legal system. We got way off topic a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:01 AM
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I didn't diminish shit. i stayed the umbrella charge of what that would legally fall under in the state I live. that's not grasping at straws, those are legal definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:50 AM
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bro you're the one who can't even agree that rapists deserve prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:45 AM
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https://www.shouselaw.com/ca/blog/rape-vs-sexual-assault/ "Further, some states treat rape and sexual assault as the same crime." My state is a state where rape is charged under "sexual assault" take it up with their terminology I didn't write the laws. Sounds like you don't support male rape victims 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:23 AM
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that generally means the same thing but sure rapists should go to jail for rape lol. good job derailing on semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:18 AM
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explains what? that I think rapists should go to prison??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:09 AM
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getting a woman pregnant is just as much of a choice for the man as the woman when they engage in consensual u protected sex. men already have a massive amount of privilege in the human productive process that I just listed and it still ain't enough for you. if a man is raped the woman should go to prison for sexual assault and he should be free to surrender the infant to social services or adoption if that's what he wants to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:03 AM
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nature didn't make our reproductive systems equal I can't believe in something that doesn't exist. the fact that women have to be the ones to deal with a growing bowling ball that squishes our organs and stretches our skin and weakens our bones and wrecks our hormones. men don't have to deal with painful messy periods every month. men don't deal with constant fear of pregnancy if they don't want it, they'll never have to deal with the hard choice of abortion or carrying to term, they'll never en…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:35 PM
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and do you not understand that most women in the United States don't have the option to abort and even those who can often do not want to and will not under any circumstances cuz it'll anger baby Jesus or whatever. I totally support mens rights to get an abortion, unfortunately nature/evolution did pan it out so men have unteruses and don't have to face pregnancy. it's not my design don't blame me. the day you can get pregnant you can have all the abortions you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:27 PM
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abortion is illegal in most states in the US now becUse the government is unhappy with low birth rates. they also know that if men were allowed to legally bale on their kids that like 80% of them would and society would be full of more fatherless kids than their are now. feminism was about giving us the right to determine issues with our uterus and reproductive organs. you can still do whatever you want with your penis and organs and always have been able to do whatever you want with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:17 PM
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feminism is about fighting for women's rights. men already have those. Im not pretending most people don't consider it an issue if equality to force the rest of society to foot the bill for your genetic creation that needs food while irresponsible men skip off to leech off whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:04 PM
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it's just weird to me to expect feminism to take on a stance considered widely immoral by most even on both sides . like male children need resources too??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:54 PM
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to be fair right wing conservatives aren't generally too keen on allowing men to skip on supporting their children either. it's a rather unpopular opinion that men be allowed to not have to pay for their offspring on both sides of the political spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:48 PM
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that doesn't have anything to do with anything I wrote? if you're gonna post a debate topic then actually debate the topic you posted, or at least bother to elaborate on your points.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:29 PM
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I feel like men at large especially on the right completely misunderstand the whole toxic masculinity conversation very deliberately on purpose because I just don't see how y'all just go so completely off the rails twisting yourselves into pretzels so blatantly not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:02 PM
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"Healthy masculinity: video games, beer, lumberjack in the woods, pumping iron in the gym, being on the grindset, driving a Bugatti, walking into the room and everyone knowing that you are THAT dude." I genuinely can't tell if this is satire/sarcasm or not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:42 PM
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how does someone go through life having no skills or passions unless they're like just mentally not all there?? even the wealthiest trust fund babies I've known had hobbies and side hustles and investments they were into.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:09 PM
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"man who already has a lot of resources but has no ability(s) to obtain resources" I don't understand what this means. like his he disabled or something?? in prison??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:47 PM
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this whole biological argument doesn't make sense. for most of human history most people and families were farmers/homesteaders. this whole model of a woman staying at home with kids vacuuming and making jello concoctions while the husband went off to some office or whatever for most of the day a new concept from like the 1940s. before that both women and children were doing work on the homestead, like hard work. taking care of animals, working crops, teaching the kids how to do these things all…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:28 PM
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well of course you can leave at any time. but the fact that the guy is intentionally wasting her time isn't always obvious, especially if you don't have a lot of dating experience, and smart men aren't just gonna come out and say that cuz well they want to continue wasting her time on their terms. noboody is saying they are shackled to a guy hey approached, but at least if a guy approaches me he had to pick me out of a crowd and decide I was his type enough to make the effort rather than just so…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:35 AM
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women don't approach men as often because they know a lot of men won't outright reject a woman they aren't attracted to immediately like women will to men. if the man doesn't have anything better going on they'll often waste the woman's time by keeping the woman as a placeholder or using her for short term cuz men are down to do that to women who aren't their type of they perceived as not good enough for them. its not much more complicated than that really
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:43 PM
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lots of women who look like pearl whi don't degrade themselves and grovel to redpill men find normal reasonably attractive men with good stable incomes who don't publicly cheat on them and fawn over sex workers on twitter like pearls boyfriend does. She even comes of a well off family probably with a fat trust fund she doesn't have to do any of this. I swear she has a humiliation fetish or something it's the only explanation. Id dead ass rather show my entire freakin butthole on the internet tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:40 PM
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cuz women use the same internet men do. we can see all of it in plain view, it was only a matter of time before a woman decided to use it for rage bait clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:35 PM
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I mean I've worked in quite a few bars and have also been to a lot of bars/venues and parties and its frankly jus pretty rare for people to get kicked out for any reason and when it does happen it's cuz the person was wasted. Only time I've seen a man get kicked out by a woman's complaint was cuz he actually did grope her in appropriately. Y'all act like getting banned just for approaching a woman politely is some constant occurrence. Bars want your money, kicking dudes out for talking to women …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:50 AM
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oooh I realized youre not who I replied to, did this happen to you at some point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:15 PM
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how's that happen? I've never known a dude who got banned from a bar just for asking a woman out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:48 PM
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yet to be determined. I think we might be in new uncharted territory on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:27 PM
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"What do you call the fetish where people season their genitalia with Montreal steak seasoning before oral sex?" - OP I really need to remember to not go check out posts histories here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:01 PM
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if this was the case then women post menopause like late 40s and up wouldn't be huge customers of cosmetic procedures cuz they wouldn't be motivated by "reproductive success" anymore. but they do often when they can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:52 PM

ever see the movie Gummo? it's basically that in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:43 AM
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this is always the answer pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:04 PM
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I quite shaving my armpits like over a decade ago because the razorburn/irritation/itching was unbearable and I was like fuck it I'm just not doing this. I always wonder if people think it's some feminist statement rather than just a pure comfort thing that it is. nobody has ever confronted me about it in public though. back before like the 1920s it wasn't the norm at all for women to shave everything like they do now. it was promoted by razor companies cuz they wanted to double their customer b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:02 PM
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do you think the vast majority of old folks in nursing homes don't have kids? I use to volunteer at one, the old people bitched about how their ungrateful brat kids never visited. like how many middle aged adults do you actually know who take care of their elderly parents constantly? most have kids and jobs of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:06 AM
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whitetrashmaxx 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:02 AM
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part of being socially competent is knowing when to unload on people and when not. for example, I met this random dude at a pinball tournament a while back and within 3 minutes of me meeting him he starts unloading about how he felt weird being put on a team of women cuz he had all these insecurities about growing up with only sisters and a mom and never being as good at stuff as his sister and I'm like yoooo I met you three damn minutes ago. it's off-putting when people do shit like that to eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:38 PM
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yeah I dunno why they have such a hard time grasping this. nobody wants someone who's a chronic professional victim about every minor inconvenience in life or constantly expressing low self esteem without ever doing anything about it. that shit gets old even for same sex platonic friends. but if my husband didn't shed some tears when he had to put his dog down or scrape his favorite outdoor barn cat off the road when it got hit by a truck or when his dad almost died from a heart attack I'd be wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:14 PM
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most people just explain what periods are to their kids who are gonna have to be dealing with it or having friends dealing with it in a few short years anyway so their kid doesn't grow up sheltered to the point that they're this weird and hung up on period discussions. knowing what a period is isn't harmful either. way less harmful than alcohol lol. it's not some brain breaking information
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:31 PM
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why would lying to your kid about being hungover because you over consumed too much of a generally harmful substance that the kid is too young to buy or consume be better than just telling the truth explaining that your on your period that happens once a month? lmaoo your standards of what kids need to be exposed to and influenced by make no sense. it just sounds like youre more upset that other people don't have the same weird hang ups about periods as you do than you are at Olivia Rodrigo. its…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:19 PM
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dude there's nothing inherently dirty or naughty about periods. my mom explained them to me and my siblings when we were like 5 cuz we kept badgering her on what the tampons in the bathroom closet were for. there's rapist men who still have careers and you're sweating a period joke??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:08 PM
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no it's your logic because your brain evidently isn't capable of perceiving nuance. "The point is not all those who break the rules intelligently are good." Yeah no shit, and yet some are. Not all straight laced boot lickers are good people either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:22 AM
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see there you go again just saying random shit without applying nuance. but for the record I find illegal prostitution and pimping to be harmful to society and individuals in most situations and I don't spend time with people involved in those things for that reason. Hope this helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:04 AM
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"If anyone is an abuser then by your logic they are sexy because they break the rules." This is true if you just throw all nuance out the fuckin window lol. People who break the rules aren't inherently sexy because they break the rules, I never claimed this. It's not the rule breaking that makes someone sexy, it's being smart enough to know when and how to break and bend certain specific nuanced rules in certain specific nuanced situations when the rules are useless or stupid or immoral or fail …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:53 PM
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yeah but he grew weed like 20 years ago before it was legal too so according to you he should be beating me on a regular basis or something lol. you literally are more likely to get beat/killed by a man working for the police force than some dude selling drops of LSD at your local dirt rave 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:24 PM
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why do you keep bringing up abusers? my husband isnt abusive and we get a long great. he also loves growing weed and has for a long time. he just gets to manage a legal grow now cuz the dumb laws changed. no, I don't think abusers are cool because I don't have an issue with weed and I'm not sure why you insist on equating the two it's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:12 PM
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sure abusers break rules, so do people who jaywalk, people who go 10-15 over the speed limit from time to time, people who pirate movies and music, people who have sold stuff or worked under the table for small amounts of money without reporting taxes, etc. I lived in a town once that had a law saying you couldn't own more than two sex toys lmaoo guess what I broke the fuck out of that rule. just because someone bends a rule they perceived to be harmless or useless doesn't mean they'll abuse you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:58 PM
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I mean most of the dudes Ive known who sold grams/ounces of weed and shrooms, etc to their homies haven't ever been abusive to their girlfriends/wives so do with that info what you will 🤷🏻‍♀️ I dunno if I'd call it "sexy" but I like partying sometimes and I llove weed and occasional other things so it's more of a compatibility thing. Party people tend to be happier with other party people. I met husband at a party in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:29 PM
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weed and LSD and other psychedelics are fun and make life an enjoyable well rounded experience. idc if the government doesn't like it, men who can see through government propaganda and think for themselves and not lick boot for the sake of being an "upstanding citizen" are sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:10 PM
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Same thing I think about any stranger who doesn't talk to me, nothing. Indifference. I cant force people to be social.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:08 PM
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I dunno what being "too good" for a construction worker means. I dunno if I ever actually had one ask me out when I was single? My husband works in botany/agriculture shit and doesn't have anger issues sooo yeah didn't really want someone like my dad if that's what you're asking. Also construction workers usually make good money and have no problem getting laid or married? I was now asking if you think women should be exclusively dating men just like their dad or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:52 AM
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On their father's level? Lol what does that even mean. Was I only supposed to date 6'1 construction workers with anger issues or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:22 PM
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See Im a woman and I find taking care of kids to be way more stressful and draining than and job I've worked or my own business that I run now. Some people are just wired different and that's okay. Also just because something is enjoyable or fulfilling doesn't make it not work. I have a lot of fun running my business but it's still labor. I still want to get paid even though it's interesting and fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:56 PM
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I could also ask you why you're giving personal anecdotes in your whole OP. You asked goofball, youre the one who posted this on a fucking debate forum lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:31 PM
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My dad would literally punch holes in walls and break/smash random stuff if anyone in the family even lightly insinuated he might be wrong about something so yeah my experiences have been quite different. We always had to act like our dad had infallible wisdom to tiptoe around his temper even when it was obvious he was very wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:47 PM

Too bad all its real meaning got lost in translation from ancient language a long long time ago. The King James version is fucking trash and so was he.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:06 PM

They don't care about women's political values because they literally see women as dumb children who will eventually just conform to whatever her mans beliefs are because they don't take women's opinions seriously, they see us as malleable and impressionable so those things get put on the back burner. They're convinced their magic dick will make you flip your values.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:24 PM
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Yeah but if you have money in your name you can just leave. If the man has all the money that becomes much more difficult and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:34 PM
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I'm not gonna doxx my location/neighborhood for some random on the internet who's clearly determined to not give a shit either way. But you could easily go search through your local sex offender registry and find tons of slap of the wrist nothing sentences for conviction if you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:17 PM
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There was a recent local case where I'm at where a 50 year old man got convicted of raping 3 girls ages 13-14 and they let him out after less than four months in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:08 PM
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If you don't want your kid to attend a drag queen reading a book you can just go take your kid to do literally anything else that day. Why are y'all so obsessed with policing other people's shit? Btw your kid is waaaay less likely to get molested at a drag queen reading than that are church or a boy scout camp out but y'all don't wanna talk about taking the trash out of your own communities so you rail on the trans boogie man. It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:58 PM
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" A lot of startup founders in Silicon Valley dropped out of school because they found it a waste of their time* I'm gonna need a source for this claim because I know a fuckton of people in high up tech positions and silicon valley as well as business owners and pretty much all of them have advanced degrees or continued education of some sort they did well in. Being an entrepreneur requires being able to sit down read a lot, do math, know contract laws, tax codes, labor laws, etc. While true you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:38 PM
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" real world like exploring uncharted lands" Homie typing this from a time machine in year 1490.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:45 PM
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The world would also be a lot easier to deal with if money grew on trees and I could fly but it just doesn't work that way. Change is the only constant guarantee in life, making peace with this fact will make life a lot less frustrating for you. Being completely stagnant in life sounds fucking miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:41 PM
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Yeah the two shorter term flings I had when I was younger were pretty soon after breakups when I was on the sad rebound and wanted a distraction. Coincidentally both these flings had pretty severe diagnosed bipolar and while they were cute and fun and creative people who I enjoyed time with it became pretty clear early on that they were too unstable in some key ways that made long term with them unfeasible. I feel like most flings are results of people just looking for a distraction from sad shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:49 PM
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Further proof that men actually do prefer heavy makeup and fillers and plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:05 PM
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Wank baaaait
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:33 AM
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A lot of men here claim to exclusively be attracted to 18-24 year old women. If that's not you then congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:24 PM

You don't think a woman in the most desirable age demographic men claim to want would know nothing about how men are? Also funny how men here constantly argue that 18 year olds are old enough and plenty old enough to date and fuck but now all of a sudden 19 is too young to have an opinion? An opinion that basically agrees with manosphere talking points at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:16 PM
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I feel like your middle aged husband creeping on his teenage daughters friends is a lot more common and likely than your wife leaving for brad pitt lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:12 PM
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Lots of people can be dick headed in social situation but not abusive. From my experience my uncle was super abusive and cheated on every woman he got with and he always had a gaggle of bros supporting him and hyping him up and he never had trouble getting jobs or making money. I remember one of my husbands friends in our scene had the worst fucking energy to me and he made me super uncomfortable and literally nobody we knew saw it. Anyways like 2 years later he steals a bunch of money from our …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:16 PM
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I'm curious, so was he never able to hold down a job or keep friends? How did people generally react to him on public?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:02 PM
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Yeah but this is all stuff you directly witnessed at your house. Do you think your dad's coworkers knew he was abusing y'all at home? Do you think the parents he socialized with at soccer games were aware of how he was at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:58 PM
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Actual personality disorder level narcissism is actually fairly rare, I can think of maybe 5-6 people I've come across who truly likely had it. That being said, the male narcs I knew never seemed to have a shortage of men as long term buddies who had their back and supported and defended them. On the contrast the female narcs I've known had a really hard time keeping women around as friends. Which tells me either men actually are not better at picking out these traits in their peers, or if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:50 PM
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Yeah I'm just not buying it. The amount of times I've seen a dude come into a friend group who was an obvious narc crazy shit bag to me who was gonna screw people over and people would tell me I was crazy and then sure enough, shit bag would soon enough be a shit bag. And it's usually always men who take up for these narcissistic shit bags until they finally get undeniably fucked over themselves. Ive watched my dad walk into shady situations with other men when my mom would be the one practicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:41 PM
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I've never understood the argument that women are more emotional in the workplace. I've never had women at a job yell at me or conworkers like i have men, never seen a woman throw stuff across the room like I have seen men do. Once had a male boss get mad at someone and threw his own phone on the floor smashing it to bits. I've had male coworkers get into actual fights with each other at the work place. I've had male bosses come into work drunk almost crying cuz they got into a fight with their …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:23 PM
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Muscle tone is more related to pussy tightness than "use". A 30 year old seasoned porn star who constantly goes to the gym and does Pilates/yoga who also regularly takes BBC for a job is gonna have a tighter pussy on average than an overweight 30 year old sedentary office worker who hasn't seen a gym since they were forced to go in high school and had sex with her six inch dick husband once a week. It has more to do with core and pelvic floor strength maintenance than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:53 PM

There's definitely someone out there for everyone. There's women who are actively working in legal brothels who are married outside their job. Pretty much every slut I knew in college is married and has kids now on our 30s if they wanted em. Y'all act like women should stress because some men don't want to date them. I've had a guy tell me he couldn't date me cuz I wasn't a natural red head and he wanted to marry a redhead and have redheaded children lol. I've known dudes who would only date asi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:37 PM

You realize she probably found another dude to entertain her probably that night, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:29 PM

Well sure there's men who won't date her for that, or they dont like her hair color, or they don't like her height, or they don't like how she talks, or they don't like her clothing aesthetic. There's all kinds of reasons why people choose to not date other people. I'm curious how did this conversation with this woman even come up? We're y'all on a date? At a party? At work? School? Random bus stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:16 PM

Ah yes, a totally real encounter with a female where a topic that perfectly aligned with red pill just world revenge fantasies was openly discussed in person and you put that entitled promiscuous brat who definitely has no hope of ever finding a man now in her place and everyone stood up and clapped 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:50 PM
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Then don't? It's not like Riley reid was ever gonna be an option for anyone here to reject anyway. Didn't she marry some hot parkour athlete a while back?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:22 AM
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I dunno I guess it just depends on the situation. I can see giving a childish amount of silent treatment could be considered abusive after a while, but I mean just kinda quietly going to do your own thing for a bit while you calm down so you don't say a bunch of stupid fucked up shit you don't actually mean that will just make things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:08 PM
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I feel like homie might need to come to terms with the fact that he might actually just be gay for exs new man lmaoo 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:35 PM
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Usually just grumpy silence until one of us breaks and rolls a spliff that we end up sharing then we usually just talk it out and get over it. Our fights usually dont last too long
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:27 PM
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I just looked it up and his ex wife wasn't even his secretary nor was his current fiance so I'm not even sure where you got that from so your point is moot anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:58 PM
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A secretary of a multi billion dollar company. That's a far cry from a cashier or barista.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:49 PM
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Yeaaah I think about it too haha. I'm a circus performer in pretty damn good shape with muscle mass married to a fairly skinny man only about half inch taller than me and when we get into playful wrestling matches he can still pin me down pretty easily almost all the time lmao I don't even get where the strength comes from cuz his muscles don't even look that much bigger than mine just looking at them. He can also lift way heavier shit than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:03 AM
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I obviously meant it's not a problem CAUSED by women, I'm done with this you're clearly just trolling in bad faith at this point cuz I refuse to believe you're actually this dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:41 PM
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Bro what part of this are you hung up on exactly? Yes being a tape victim is a problem. Not sure what is so confusing about this for anyone with an IQ above fucking 70.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:19 PM
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It's a problem for women caused by predatory men. Hope that clarifies it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:16 PM
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It really absolutely isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:58 PM
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Alright so let me clarify, you are saying that men rape women and justify it to themselves because women have fantasies about being dominated? You think that's the cause of sexual assault? And that's women's problem somehow? Am I getting that correct? Cuz it kinda just sounds like your in a non so round about way just trying to victim blame rape victims and that's pretty disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:49 PM
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I'm asking you bro you're the one making vague cryptic claims here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:42 PM
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Well yeah you don't need to tell me a lot of women have been sexually assaulted by men or at least had it attenpted, tons of women I know including myself have experienced men being predatory. Our culture leads to it because we let rapists walk free over 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:26 PM
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I don't understand what you think the problem is exactly or what the course of said problem is? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:15 PM
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Soooo like are y'all trying to say that raping women should be a free for all for men since some women have raped dominance fantasies or what?? Is that really the bottom line y'all are going with?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:09 PM
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This isnt exactly a mystery, this psychological phenomena has been explored and explained to death. "Rape fantasies" don't mean women want to be raped and it's scary that men will try to use this excuse to commit violence towards women thinking "rape fantasies" justify it. Rape fantasies are usually experienced by women who grew up in sexually oppressive religious purity culture communities where experiences sexual desire as a woman is shamed and considered dirty. However biology still does it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:42 PM
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Omg so a couple years ago I scored front row seats to a maria bamford show is a smallish intimate venue and oh man...she was intense and sooo amazing. Making direct eye contact with her for like half the show was something else. She really is peak comedy her commentary on living in normy society as a mentally ill person is just muah 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:39 AM
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I mean I could do more?? Last time I saw jim jefferies do a special he went on for like 20 minutes about all the sex positions him and his chick are into. Men constantly lean on juvenile toilet comedy. I don't know why we're trying to pretend they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:22 AM

Men's humor: "my fart my poop my dick _____!" Seriously last time I listened to a male comedian in the car somewhere it was Doug Stanhope doing a 15 minute bit about how awesome diarrhea is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:19 AM
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Probably pretty accurate. I mean how often do you see a advertisement for a rolls Royce? They don't need to advertise it's already wanted enough to not need to draw seekers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:16 AM

Y'all just be making shit up to get mad about at this point. No trans person I have ever met is gonna flinch at a cis woman calling herself a woman for fucks sake 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:49 PM

"I was half hoping that when Trump got elected Caitlyn Jenner would be chosen as women's health czar, but that's the sad world we live in ;(" Well that was a unreasonable hope to have considering how hard the Republican party railed against trans people for months. trans people doing their thing doesn't destroy me existing in my biological sex I dunno I'm chillin. I still woman about in the world just fine somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:27 PM

I personally haven't experienced any of this myself the trans people I know are generally pretty chill? I guess I'd need a specific example of what you're saying to understand why I should be pissed about it or not cuz and the end of the day I just really don't give a fuck about how people express themselves cuz trans people doing their thing has yet to affect me negatively in my personal life. People just existing doesn't piss me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:09 PM

I occupy spaces with trans people as a woman all the time and it's fine. I perform along with multiple trans people in a circus troupe, nobody has died. I personally am fine with them being around. I've even pissed in a stall with one in stall next to me one time 😲 I know that's some end of the world shit for y'all but it really was just....fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:01 PM
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No, I don't think people should be legally prosecuted for misgendering people. I do think it makes you a prick though and there's people who are going to use their free speech to call you out or not associate with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:56 PM

And what does she think should happen to trans people due to her "concern for biological women and girls"? People used this same argument against black people during segregation and gay marriage and deciding to kill off the native Americans, etc. it wasn't in good faith then and I don't believe its on good faith now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:54 PM

As far as I know there is no law against misgendering a person where I live, people do it freely all the time without jail or fines. It will however make some people who stand for trans people think you are an asshole and they may not want to fuck with you more after you do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:50 PM

Her ideas result in the removal of human rights and yeah I really don't care to debate that any more than I care to debate on why we should or shouldnt bring segregation back. It's a trash idea that doesn't deserve the validation of debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:47 PM

What I know is that trans people have become the new cool minority for conservatives to scapegoat their problems on because small brained people need the elites to point out a powerless minority they can vent their frustrations on instead of the fact that the government is making them broke. The Republican party spent over a quarter billion dollars in marketing to market trans hate specifically to the smooth brains this election season because they know that giving their base a minority group to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:45 PM

I mean, Rowling is the transphobe so that, bottom line makes her a bigot and intolerant. I just don't really see trans rights as a fun little topic to debate, these are people's lives and there is real threats to their rights to exist peacefully in society and Rowling specificlly doesn't seem to agree that they should be able to exist in society without penalty and yeah I don't care to "debate" a person's right to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:30 PM
5

Um well I'm American so most of the mothers I've seen including my own were non European.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:58 PM
20

People probably won't like this take but I think a lot of boys struggles in not performing well in schools starts at home from my experience. Back when I was in elementary/middle school I remember the girls would get less than perfect grades and would be SOBBING terrified to go home because they knew they'd get grounded for not getting As while the boys would get Cs or Fs and shrug it off and laugh about it cuz they knew their parents weren't gonna care. However the boy in my social circle who's…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:41 PM
2

Yeah I guess the comment got deleted so it ended up under wrong one...still completely unhinged that he thinks getting taken to parties as a 13 year old model to hook up with adults is a normal human experience. He literally just described the process of trafficking and he doesn't even realize it?? O seriously hope he's trolling cuz holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:31 PM
2

.....you realize this is describing exactly how people traffic minors. You were trafficked as a "model". This is trafficking and grooming a minor. The adults around you were trafficking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:26 PM
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I actually had an older guy from a hobby group on tiny chat online get obsessed with me when I was 17. He actually stalked me online constantly messaging me on every account/online place he could find me on for like a couple years. I didn't even know what he looked like cuz he never turned on his camera in the group but he said he was 32. Still creeped me the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:02 PM
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Some were technically attractive I guess but we didn't care. We thought middle aged dudes hanging out in spaces primarily occupied by 18-24 year olds were either immature or creeps or both. Like dude should t you be helping your kid or with their math homework or some shit why are you trying to buy probably underage or close to it women alcohol rn?? I wanted to date other college aged dudes and that's what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:39 PM
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Me and my friends thought it was gross and would make fun of those 35-40+ dudes who would try and pick up women our age in late high school/college. If it wasn't jealousy then when I was in it why would it be jealousy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:21 PM
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Or the amount of 40+ year old men who used to relentlessly hit on me when I was 17-20 and work or whenever else and tons online, it just made them look like the biggest losers I never understood why they thought they had a chance with me. I thought it was gross then and I still think it's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:14 PM
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I would tell any woman that believing a man they don't know well who said he had a vasectomy without any medical record proof is a bad plan and not recommended. That's a common thing for men to lie about and women should be aware of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:35 PM
10

"We are unguarded because we are noble." Bro y'all are unguarded because you want to get your dicks wet, unprotected. This attempt to make it sound deeper than it is is giving me a good chuckle though 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:13 AM
9

Lots of pro life women let themselves be lied to to have unprotected sex. Where do you think so many unplanned and teen birthday come from? People be reckless out here. Morning after pill gives me and many other women horrid side effects. Ive used it like three times and got sick every time for days, i would absolutely never use them regularly over condoms. I'm not even gonna unpack that final paragraph of self victimized drivel, stop living in fantasy world and wrap your junk Jesus fucking Chri…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:57 AM
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I am pro choice but I also think men need to be aware that not all women are always pro choice all the time. If a man thinks that the consequences of getting a woman pregnant would be turning his life or child's life into a living hell and he still chooses to not wrap his dick for the sake of "having better sex" and knocks her up and she doesn't want to abort that's on him to deal with at the end of the day. If he wants to trust a woman who would make his life hell with something that huge I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:36 AM
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"there is still a substantial difference in deceiving to get better sex than actually fucking trying to steal a baby from someone" 🤢🤢🤢 Lol this is where you lost me and also why i don't feel sorry for men on this one. Having unprotected sex is upping your chances for conception the same if it's only cuz you "want better sex 🤢" or because the woman "wants to steal a baby" (whatever the fuck that means) so the result is the same. Men willing to risk a pregnancy for better sex isn't more noble or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:16 AM
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I had a dude try to get me to not use a condom once by telling me he had his sperm tested and he was infertile therefore didn't need one. That dude has a kid now with another woman hahaa. If I'd been stupid and had and believed him and had unprotected sex with him, I'd still be responsible for dealing with the pregnancy if it happened. You're always responsible for yourself. If you don't look both ways and cross the street when you have the right of way and a car hits you, it might be the cars f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:51 AM
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They sound reckless and I would recommend not following their advice and insisting on wearing the condom or not sleeping with women who do that 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:43 AM
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Pregnancies can happen whether one or both parties want it or not. Therefore you should probably be really careful with your sperm. And if youre in child free long term relationship why not just....get a vasectomy? Then you dont have to worry about your lady getting secret baby fever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:37 AM
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Birth control fails all the time for non nefarious reasons and men should probably be more aware of that. Women can genuinely forget to take their dose, certain medications like antibiotics can render them ineffective and doctors are bad about notifying people of this, i know a few people conceived that way actually. The glee I've seen in mens eyes when you tell them they can smash without a condom is only matched to that of a kid getting their first Nintendo 64 in the 90s. Almost every man I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:35 AM
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Most women I know who got pregnant unexpectedly was because men were whiny about condoms not feeling good and they insisted they could pull out in time and that it works. Many men are very careless about knocking up their sexual partners whether theyre underestimating the odds of their ability to impregnate someone or they just don't care. It's remarkably easy to get a guy to accidently knock you up and is something you have to actively protect yourself against when you have sex with them becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:06 AM
2

I've never been able to wrap my head around this mindset. Trying to be the best version of myself is pretty much what gets me motivated to literally do anything with my time. What else is there to even do with the time you get in life if not to spend it getting better at things and gaining more knowledge? What do you focus on when you're awake?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:48 PM
5

Okay I mean that's all still really vague. What "value" means can be different to each individual. But I guess I agree that someone wanting a poly relationship won't be compatible with a monogamous person, I'm still not sure what there is to debate there. Some people want open relationships, I'd say the majority probably don't in the long term though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:47 PM
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Soo your take is basically if you want to up your chances in the longer term with a polyamorous/open relationship man you need to be a polyamorous/open relationship woman. That's...technically true? What do you want us to debate here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:48 PM

I'm gonna wear an extra tight fitting outfit that still covers skin today just because 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:12 PM

Most average/broke men who are rapists and predators get away with it. The conviction rate for sexual assault is like 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:31 PM

"but women tear us a new asshole anytime we say we don't wanna date a woman with a bunch of male friends." That's...not what the comment you replied to said. That's not what I said either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:12 PM
3

I've been a lot of places and really loved a lot of them and made some wonderful connections. If you're only attracting crazies in other countries maybe there's a reason you're attracting that 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:50 AM
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I'd have followed her so fucking fast lmao the United States is becoming the fucking worst. Me and my husband are trying to get out ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:41 AM
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I think you know that not wanting an alcoholic partner or differing on reproductive goals isn't the same as making someone stunt their whole career theyve out their life into, right? But if Im child free I'm not gonna date a guy who expresses wanting kids and try to change his mind. If I don't want to date a drunk I'm not gonna date someone who constantly drinks. I'm not gonna try to convince them otherwise literally been there done that. Like I said, I just thank them for the memories, break up…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:33 AM
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Uhhh you say the relationship isn't working out for you and wish the person well and break up. The only reason men do shit like that is because they get off on making talented women doing stuff they love give it up for them, it's a power dynamic game they have in their heads. And it's toxic 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:26 AM
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Expecting your pro surfer partner to not post on social media is also toxic as well as stupid. He shouldnt have dated someone who's job is to be in swim suits all the time if he didn't like his woman being in swimsuits in the first place. That's what he should have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:21 AM
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I mean I've been around a lot of couples in quite a few communal living situations and spent a lot of time around both men and women going through relationship problems and breakups so I've seen some shit on both ends 🤷🏻‍♀️ I guess I'd need specific examples of what you mean in order to judge if I think the behaviors are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:18 AM
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It's the fact that he thought that he had a "boundary" for a pro surfer to not wear swim suits in public that is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:16 AM
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Women know that there are women who are toxic in various forms very well, but those of us with self esteem who decided we don't have time for that shit cut them out of our lives usually. The movie Mean Girls was super relatable to a lot of young women at the time for a reason. I absolutely know a few women from when I was younger who either because of legit mental illness or maybe just shitty people have almost no steady platonic friends anymore that don't bail after a few months of dealing with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:55 PM
3

Young Alan Rickman was fuckin fiiine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:08 PM
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Yeah I went to college in the late 00s and had pretty similar experiences, I dunno why these kids are so socially incapable now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:52 PM

I didn't "brutally shoot him down" I pretty politely told him that I was just here to see the band and had a long week and wasn't trying to really chat tonight after he just sat down at my table without even asking if he could join me. When he persisted I also pointed out that I was married, which he also did not fuck off after being told. Literally what else could I have done in that situation? I didn't cuss him out for just talking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:38 AM

Then why are so many fat women not single?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:03 AM

A married woman just trying to watch some music and chil specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:14 AM

It's fine to talk to women in bars, but if they make it clear they aren't interested and just want to watch the bans and/or have a wedding ring on then don't keep going after they say no. It's the not taking no for an answer that's the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:12 AM

I guess I get it. I always just zone out and watch the band without paying attention to people unless they talk to me or I randomly see someone I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:48 AM

Like you feel like she wants you to come talk to her, or like she's scared your going to come talk to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:37 AM

Yeah I wish I could just wear a t shirt that says "not trying to be picked up just watching the band" lmao I remember there was a bar in college years ago who had glow bracelets at the door you could put on and the different colors meant you were single and down for potential romantic interaction or you were in a relationship. But also a wedding ring is kinda supposed to basically serve that purpose and it still don't work🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:32 AM

Hmm can you elaborate on what weird thing you think is going on? I'm kinda confused by what you mean here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:30 AM

Thing is I live such an active lifestyle fucked up thyroid the fat would be gone in like a year. Men hit on fattie chicks too they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:25 AM

I'm not annoyed by the attempt, it bothers me when they don't take my initial no for an answer and I'm forced to either be a bitch about it or just sneak off leave cuz I don't have it in me to deal with confrontation in the moment. There's been plenty of times I'm down for making friends in social settings but I've had a hard week and I just wanted to go enjoy a whiskey and watch a band play without having to explain to some dude why i don't want to fuck him, which is evidently not allowed so I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:20 AM

It's an attempted excuse that works maaaybe 40% of the time in my experience. Like my social media for example, my relationship status on FB is clearly married with my husband tagged on it, countless photos of us doing shit together, and dudes will still ignore it and try and hit on me in my DMs. It takes like 5 seconds to check someone's relationship status or if they have photos with an obvious significant other and they still go for it cuz they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:15 AM

I guess I just dont know how to look unwelcoming when Im just sitting with a drink watching a band trying to decompress from a stressful last few days. I feel like looking mad just makes men feel like they can open with a "why so glum" or some shit. I dunno there's not a solution really I'm just ranting. I just like live music and the occasional whiskey and I go into introvert mode sometimes but that's apparently not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:10 AM

What do you mean? Men hit on married/in relationship women constantly. It's men acting like men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:05 AM

I'm married...with a ring One of them said "oh well he ain't here is he?" Like fuck they really do not care 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:58 AM

I have a real ring, I'm literally married lol. They dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:55 AM

Ehh I do have a decent bit of social anxiety. But the other night I tried to tell this dude who just came and sat next to me at the table in the venue I was alone at and when I said I just wanted to watch the band and didn't feel up to chatting he just starting asking me shit like " well what's the problem" " you look lonely why don't you wanna talk" "oh you're married well he ain't here is he?" and just wouldn't accept the damn no. I do get freaked out in small venues when this happens cuz ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:53 AM

It's annoying when I make it clear it's a no and they just keep trying to convince me otherwise and then I have to leave and I don't get to see the band play 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:43 AM

I really wish I could just go to a bar alone and have a drink and watch a band play or whatever without some random dude trying to come sit right next to me and talk to me. It's happened to me both times I've tried to do this in a week...like I'm not trying to be picked up or even socialize I just wanna sit and watch some music 😣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:34 AM
3

Who insulted Andrew Tate in this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:26 AM
1

Maybe he can audition for the munchkins whenever they inevitably do a Wizard of Oz reboot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:46 AM
2

Meh, dudes who lie about being a decade younger and almost half a foot taller than they are on dating apps deserve to get roasted. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:44 AM
2

I think she's more dunking on him lying about his basic characteristics/age on a dating profile than it is about his height.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:42 AM
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Yeah when I was 22 id only had sex with two people by then. And I wasn't the only one not sure why men here have such a hard time believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:27 AM
1

Yeah when I was 22 id only had sex with two people by then. And I wasn't the only one not sure why men here have such a hard time believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:26 AM
7

It's actually crazy how much having children ages you. I know two women who are identical twins and one has two kids and the other doesn't have any. The one with two kids literally looks 10-15 years older than the other 😳 little vampires actually do be sucking the life right out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:39 PM
1

I mean the guy was pretty average, but he seemed chill for the 20-30 minutes they chatted. Dude decided to go the super desperate level 1000 clinger route in the middle of the night for whatever reason. It's just impressive how little fucking game men seem to have these days since when I was single over a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:39 PM
2

It was one of the more impressive fumbles I'd seen in a while. Just pure lack of decorum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:48 PM
4

Dude why are some dudes so good at cockblocking themselves out of a good thing? My friend gave her number to a dude at the bar she thought was cute and told him they could hang out later that week and he seemed chill. We leave, go to her house to smoke some weed outside, she goes to check her phone and shes got fucking 8 missed calls from this dude and like ten texts begging to hook up. At 4am. Had to block his number he kept calling so much. And like she probably would have hung out with him an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:32 PM
2

Uh I watched Mulan like once when I was 9 years old and no I don't remember much of it. Men usually go to war cuz their leaders force them to do so. Most of the men in my family who saw war were single when they got shipped off 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:24 PM
2

Sounds like all the more reason to be financially independent to me. Men tend to start wars and run off and die. Can't pay your bills with a dead provider in a society that blocks women off from income opportunities. Edit- You didn't really address any of my points either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:13 PM
1

All these religious communities do is convince women that's what's best for them. Women in traditional roles 50 years ago were zooted out on quaaludes and speed and other pharmaceutical goodies doctors handed them like candy to keep all that shit up, including my grandmother who was a pill addict most of her adult life until she died. My husband's grandmother died of liver failure from alcoholism and she did all the "right" trad things. I don't really see that as "happiness". If it made them hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:02 PM
4

Most mainstream Mormons are monogamous these days, guess it depends on what you consider "unhealthy beliefs about sexuality". They're about in line with most religious sexual behavior standards as far as I know. But they are extremely "trad" they get married young, have a bunch of kids, generally have pretty rigid household gender roles, all things that red pill men here argue are the paths to happiness for women. But evidently they aren't happier than the single wine drinking cat ladies the dun…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:02 PM
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I don't know why it's so hard for y'all to understand that many women are perfectly fine with being single unless they find someone who makes their time spent more enjoyable with him than time spent alone or with friends. What's the point of being with a man who is a net drain on your happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:19 PM
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Married Mormon women in Utah have insanely high rates of anti depressant and anti anxiety medication use. According to y'all they should be the happiest demographic but believe me they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:14 PM

I dunno take it up with the men here and everywhere else on the internet who insist of reminding us that we morph into undesirable expired old hags when were older than 25 and if I guy takes us after then he's settling and resentful about it because men want 25 or younger 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:11 PM

Because men here constantly say themselves that women aren't worth committing to unless shes 25 or younger. They say it's the older "post wall" women that are only good for sex, not commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:04 PM
4

Why wouldn't I make friends with lesbians? I have a few, they're pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:56 AM
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From what men here say, it seems like women should just ignore men or pretend they don't exist outside of bare minimum needed occasional communication/business if we don't want to fuck or date them. I mean what else is the solution
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:18 AM
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I didn't ask if it was her choice, i asked if you think that's what women should do instead of raising the kid alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:58 PM
3

So if a woman realizes the father of her child isn't gonna be a strong influence on the son should she just abandon the kid on the street to save him from the torment of being primarily raised by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:51 PM
1

You realize one can "lack shame" and still be an introvert right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:36 AM
1

Everyone's lives would be easier if that was an answerable question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:38 AM
1

You don't have to be a clinical psycho to be abusive. Being insecure, entitled, or craving power of someone cuz you don't feel you can have it elsewhere is often enough. Introverted shy quiet less attractive men absolutely can fit this bill and it's naive and uninformed to assume otherwise. There's all kinds of trollish near incel level ugly men who end up murdering their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:31 AM
1

Do you seriously think there are no successful criminals out there? You think they're all stupid because you only see the stupid ones. The smart ones know how to not be seen which is gonna create bias in your perception. Which ironically makes you more vulnerable to being taken advantage of by the smart ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:04 PM
1

My husband is very bold and confident, he's also one of the kindest most loving people I've met who has never laid a violent hand on me in the 11 years we've been together. My cousin dated a nerdy shy dude and he ended up throwing her against a wall and choked her 2 years into the relationship during an argument. I really don't think y'all are as good at clocking this shit as y'all think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:00 PM
1

If abusers are so obvious to the outside and consistently rude to everyone then why do so many women who finally come out about their abusive partners get accused of lying about it? Why do so many women experience their peers defending their abusers? Saying she must be dramatic or misunderstanding him? Why do so many peers say "well he's always been nice to me/ everyone else"? This is a common experience. It's why so many men end up abusing multiple women, the smart ones know to not look like an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:26 AM
7

Bro if you have crips in your school you're in the hood. I've never seen a crip in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:22 AM
10

"The men when i was growing up, the ones who got a hold of a gun and started robbing people? Yeah, thats the guys the girls wanted, their legs were eagerly spread for the most violent monsters, ive seen this over and over my entire life, and find it funny when women on ppd like to deny this happens, its all ive ever seen." Most people don't grow up in the hood so when people deny it happens they probably are telling the truth from their perspective. Most people I knew growing up just dated their…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:04 AM
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Lmao this is just factually wrong. Abusive men come in all shapes and sizes, economic status, and race. Plenty of abusive clean cut dudes out there, many of them work good jobs, go to church, are seen as normal people by their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:46 AM
3

So women need to pick nice guys. But not TOO nice. But also if you pick the regular guy and he turns out abusive, then what? Still her fault I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:38 AM
3

You sent her muscle pics while she's mad at you? That's a weird one haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:33 AM
1

You're allowed to not respond to "hiiii" if you don't wanna 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:32 AM
2

I wouldn't respond to "what's good?" either I've known not one person who used that greeting who wasn't a total douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:28 AM

I dated a guy a long time ago who grew up in a pentecostal church and left after adulthood, he basically said everyone just faking it trying to outholy each other. The same few people would start the speaking in tongues and gyrating and jumping around and the rest would slowly follow. He said he was definitely faking it cuz his mom thought he was gonna go to hell if he didn't speak in tongues so he mimicked it to get his mom to not be sad about him not "receiving the spirit" That's the feeling I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:02 AM

"Let’s not forget the upper class founders of the feminist movement were virulent racists that would make white nationalists today look like Boy Scouts." Wait till you hear about the men who founded the entire United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:47 PM
1

I just simply wouldn't be or stay in a situation where my needs were not being met. That's all there is to it. If I thought a man was too cheap with me I'd move on to someone who wasn't. If I chose to stay that's on me 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:46 PM
2

The bible also says men are supposed to gouge their eyes out when they have impure lustful thoughts about women but none of y'all seem to follow that one smh 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:18 PM
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Uuuh how fucking rich do you think my husband who grew up lower middle class in the rural bible belt was in his 20s when he dated his exes lmao?? He wasn't taking his exes to Michelin star meals and buying them luxury cars or taking them to luxury resorts because he had like 1/10 of the income back then than he does now. This is all rich people problems you're describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:14 PM
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"Does he write little love notes in your lunchbox for you to open at work" I dunno if he's left love notes in my lunch box specifically but he's left them for me other places/times before. "Does he wake up in the morning to drive your car to the gas station to put gas in it?" I just get gas on my way home or when I'm out running errands so getting up specifically to go get gas would be kinda weird and not a productive use of morning time for us....he has gotten up early to get me a special coffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:31 AM
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I'm not sure I understand your question?? There's lots of nice to have things that can come from a relationship and my husband provides them well. He does a lot of things I appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:52 AM
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My favorite is when dudes here complain about the low birth rates and how existential of a problem it is for women to not have more kids, then they advocate for policies like "financial abortion" that would literally plummet the birth rate even more than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:19 AM
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That's why a lot of dating advice tells women to bail after two years if no proposal or talk of marriage happens if the woman desires marriage, to avoid this exact situation and wasted time. Waiting for seven years is actually insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:23 PM
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https://youtu.be/lEPs3HqXlQY?si=PO8VNVQBmM2Wwoo0 https://youtube.com/shorts/gGtIBxmLKwo?si=uPSNFq_gmWRd8h9d https://youtube.com/shorts/aBU02enESQM?si=dDCiPgiyTl-BJto8 Here's some to get you started. The one where she's like "okay now get up and do the laundry" had me cracking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:31 PM
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I mean they have period pain simulation machines they have attached men to and a lot of them did in fact keel over lol. There's videos on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:24 PM
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It's still very uncomfortable even for those with mild periods, and it is factually something the wouldn't have to deal with if they were men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:20 PM
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"Periods in and of them selves can't possibly be that bad." I mean you have no reason to think that other than feels but I can't magically make you feel the pain and negative symptoms women go so I guess we will just have to agree to disagree. Go ask the women in your life how they experience their periods if you want more perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:16 PM
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Endometriosis and all the other negative menstrual symptoms I get are not separate from being a woman. Men do not have these things, they don't have a uterus and ovaries. If you don't want to believe periods and their symptoms are incredibly painful for a lot of women I can't change your mind 🤷🏻‍♀️ I'd love to not have periods and to not have the ability to get pregnant. That's my answer to OP. If youd want to live as a woman deal with those things in order to get whatever perceived benefits wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:08 PM
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I don't really understand what point you are trying to make? The question was how would life be easier as a man than woman and I gave my endometriosis as an example of something difficult I wouldn't experience as a man? Not sure what the debate is, I have endometriosis and its a women specific thing and it sucks. And people have absolutely killed themselves over vision and eye problems so I don't know why you'd say that, even hypothetically. "If not for the endometriosis you all would be fine." …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:53 PM
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...endometriosis is a common condition directly related to menstruation. The flair ups happen during menstruation, mine do anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:36 PM

Well I always had the standard for being treated well as you describe and my husband does that. If he didn't I wouldn't have married him, I wouldn't have accepted poor behavior from him whether he treated his ex the same or better, it's just not relevant to me wanting to stay or not. If you have standards for your relationships there's no reason to care if their previous partner got what they wanted if you're getting what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:33 PM
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"No women have killed themselves over their periods" Um yes they have. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-49933866.amp https://www.endofound.org/sarah-austin-whose-daughter-committed-suicide-due-to-endometriosis-pain-speaks-out https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.scmp.com/lifestyle/health-wellness/article/3172124/endometriosis-sufferer-had-period-pain-so-bad-she https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/stories-43242003.amp There's more on Google but I don't feel like copyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:22 PM
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It still just seems like a skill issue? 18 year olds still had years of public schooling just like my generation did, the same venues where I live still exist, the same skate parks where you g people my age hung out still exist, the live music spots are still a thing with young people in them, sports still exist for young people, college parties still happen where I live with many young men attending them and hanging out with people. Musical instruments and the options of form of forming bands a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:37 AM
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Yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:17 PM
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Okay so what would you say is the difference between men who claim no one calls them or wants to hang out with them and men like I know who have friends? Why would my husband and all his friends not struggle vs someone who does? What are they doing differently? What did the men I see hanging out in public in groups together do differently? How are they escaping this supposed systematic problem you claim the majority of men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:09 PM
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Men are way more likely to be violent criminals and repeat offenders than women are. Men who are likeable and put effort into fostering and maintaining friendships instead of sitting at home playing video games all fay expecting people to just show up and be their friend when they never leave the house. My husband manages this, his friends manage this. My brother manages this. My dad manages it, he had male friends over for bon fires at our house every other weekend growing up. My husband's dad …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:02 PM
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If I could trade a monthly punch in the face over these monthly cramps/tender painful breasts/endometriosis flair ups, bleeding dark red sludge out of my pussy/lower back pain/hormone spikes for days at a time I'd take it in a HEARTBEAT. Also...my husband gets messages and phone calls has friends. So does my dad and my brother. They all also have people the vent to. Not sure why being a man would mean you get none of those things. He also hasn't been in a violent altercation since like high scho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:07 PM
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I also used to work in social work lol. In no universe is being single with a minimum wage job harder than having children with average child support. Of course people do what they can do get as much benefits as possible, children are fucking expensive and they need to eat. Social workers should be happy when children are fed and housed, not advocating for men to abandon their offspring so the kids can struggle more than they already probably are and become an even bigger problems for society in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:29 AM
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How does one live off their kids without child labor? I'm assuming you're gonna say welfare or some shit, but thats not enough money to live any decent quality of life alone because....children are net money sink and always will be. They will always consume more than they bring in, from a man or government.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:42 AM
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It doesn't financially benefit literally anyone to have any kids ever. They are always a net drain on everyone involved. Especially tbe custodial parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:23 AM
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Children/babies can't gold dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:00 AM
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If the father has money I feel even less sorry for him. He should know better the most. Plus he can actually afford the child that needs it if he does have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:22 AM
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Pro lifers and conservatives already call women who have abortions and child free women in general all kinds of horrible derogatory names, what's one more? I still ain't having any kids ever, don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:29 PM
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I don't understand why these men can't just find one of these baby killing abortion having child free women conservatives complain about there being way too many of to fuck if they don't want kids. Plenty of them out there, a lot of men argue too many so they shouldn't be hard to find. Don't bang pro life women if you don't want an oops baby it's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:25 PM
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I wouldn't want to be with someone who feels like they're constantly having to "overlook" the inevitable aging that comes with the passing of time or sees that as some sort of flaw. I don't see my husband aging as something I need to "overlook", I'm stoked that he gets to age because that means he's not dead and we get to spend time together still.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:09 PM
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All the more reason to decenter men and make your own money. Why would anyone want to enter a long term contract to rely on someone who's overly observant of our imperfections forming every minute 🤣 that's just not a smart movem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:39 PM
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I'm sorry but the huge amount of adults I know with divorced parents who got remarried to other middle aged adults their own age doesn't back up your claim. You are massively underestimating the amount of divorced empty nester adults both men and women who are willing enter long term relationships and marriages with other adults their age 45-60. It's not rare or uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:35 PM
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I have no flair but I'll bite. Okay most sure fire way I can think of to get laid quick- Buy a bag of cocaine. Go to a smaller-medium sized electronic music venue. Find women to do cocaine with. Party girls love dudes with drugs. Unless you have absolute zero negative rizz some slutty raver chick will absolutely get with the dude with coke. Might sound like unsavory advice for some but party dudes with drugs tend to get chicks in the rave scene
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:55 AM
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Woah it's almost like feminists have been discussing for decades about how women are pushed out of higher earning job opportunities due to a number of reasons because of...the patriarchy. How could men not be making more money on average. If you found two then guess what there are others out there. They aren't that unique I promise. If they weren't there wouldnt be so many men on the internet bitching about how there's too many career minded women and they can't find a women who wants to stay ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:55 AM
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Weird I guess all these women I know who work decent jobs and make money who don't date "trad" conservative men are just outliers lol. I mean do you really not know feminist women focused on their goals who just want a partner who also has their shit together? I have a hard time believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:28 AM
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Well shit then I guess we can just keep throwing men in prison for minor shit and make them work for cheap labor and stab each other and rot their lives away 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:24 AM
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Who is "y'all" specifically? Most women I know are working normal jobs with husbands who also work normal jobs and living normal pretty much equal lives. The only people I know actively pushing strict gender role relationships are trad conservative religious folks who are vocally also anti feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:16 AM
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I grew up in a red state where people would get 4-6 years in prison for a couple ounces of weed while a 35 year old dude in my neighborhood got 2 years probation for violently raping an 8 year old girl. Our justice systems doling out of punishments proportional to the harm of the crime has always been fucked, won't get an argument from me there. We don't have a true left party like Europe has, but the right has been very consistent on just throwing people in jail for even tiny crimes and forcing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:13 AM
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Bruh feminism literally tells women to not rely on men for providing and to get their own independent resources and also to be aware of dangerous men and not put yourself in situations men could harm you and that men often won't or can't protect you. It's traditionalism/conservatives that push the whole women shouldn't be in the workforce and should raise babies instead while relying on a masculine provider to protect them. Feminists don't expect men to provide and protect them. Not sure where y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:04 AM
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If you're talking about the "left" they vote for actual prisoner rehabilitation like Europe successfully has vs the right who votes to throw people in cages and force them to work for pennies for private corporations during their stay while stripping their rights when they get out making it more likely they'll become repeat offenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:44 AM
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What exactly is feminism supposed to do to stop men from attacking and robbing and killing each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:40 AM
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I often wonder if people who hate body hair on women (armpits, pussy hair, legs) realize it's because of a clever marketing campaign in the 40s to shame women for having hair to double the sale of razors. Like thats it they figured they could double their sales if they could convince society that some arm pit hair and leg hair on women specifically is disgusting and needs removal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:41 PM
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Women are absolutely not a unified voting block by any means I don't see how you could think they are. They are split between left and right, usually by religion, just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:53 AM
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Can you give an example of what you're talking about about? Men are the majority of government, period. Religious right anti feminist groups are the ones who advocate to keep men involved with their kids, red states generally give women the most custody and send men to prison who don't pay child support the most. Again, blaming "feminists" for that doesn't make sense. it's the religious right who want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:20 AM
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" In return, feminists bitterly and contemptuously dismissed the very concept of reproductive rights for men and used the enormous political power our gynocentric society granted them to block any progress on the issue." I don't really understand the rage at feminists with this. Feminists are the demographic most likely to get abortions if the sperm father doesn't want the child, or get abortions period. Feminists are way more likely to consciously decide to plan to have a baby instead of forcin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:02 AM
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Probably would have happened by now Im in my mid thirties and I drink less and less every year. Alcohol isnt a good enough high to get addicted to. I never understood why people like it so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:02 AM
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Never know what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:55 AM
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I mean I'm not an alcoholic lol I'm just bored with alcohol. It's not fun anymore even on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:53 AM
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Man I think it finally happened, pretty sure I'm just kinda over alcohol. I drank yesterday for the first time in like 3 weeks and meh it really is the most mids drug ever. Was medium ish fun and now my stomach just kinda hurts today and my energy levels are kinda meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:25 AM

Too late I already ate cherry pie for breakfast woops.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:12 PM
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2011 was the early Instagram days. 2015 was the Instagram age, 2015-2018 were def when Instagram was at its peak right after peak Tumblr days but before tiktok blew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:51 PM
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2012 was early Instagram days. 2015-2019 were peak Instagram days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:49 PM
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Do you hate women with muscles?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:08 AM
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Men hate average women. Can't even handle them in animated form.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:41 PM
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That woman has a fuckton of makeup on and a lot of styling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:40 PM

Plus men can and often do....just choose to fucking leave hahaa. I don't know a single dead beat dad who's actually in jail or ever has been for not paying child support. They really can just go live their lives if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:24 PM
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Approx 20-25% of men who have kids abandon their children. If a milk company is producing bottles that make 1/4 people who buy their milk sick, you don't blame the customers for choosing the wrong milk bottle, you realize something is off with the milk company for it to go wrong that often. I'm child free because a 1/4 chance of being a single mom is too big a dice roll for me. No thanks. Y'all need to learn to be more reliable if you want the birth rate to discontinue falling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:51 PM

stop using riddet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:41 PM

I knew a guy in high school who ended up going into gay porn who looked just like the guy in that photo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:36 PM

Not everyone is into dudes who look like they smell like a can of Axe. This is what gay dudes are into. Id bet $10 this guy is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:28 PM

Why'd they have to do such a huge song and dance like they just subdued fucking Magneto or some shit 😆 they seriously got the whole law enforcement/city office out around this guy like was this really necessary fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:11 PM

Just in case men are confused when women say they're into nerdy scruffy dudes with dad bods who are fun to be around they're talking about this type of guy https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTYq45GLD/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:04 PM

I don't know a single man separated from his baby mama who genuinely wants to support and have a relationship with his children who doesn't unless they have a history of violence/abuse/addiction/ criminal record or something. It's actually pretty difficult to legally keep your kids away from a willing father who has their shit together. There's been actual studies that show that when men lose feeling for their spouse they also often emotionally disconnect from the children produced with that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:23 PM

Men say they want kids and then bail once the kid gets here all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:46 PM
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Do you ever tell people you owe rent/mortgage/bills to that you won't be paying to support them through your labor? How did that go for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:18 PM

Why would any women be motivated to have children if men don't want any part of helping with money or labor? Why would I care about the population falling if men think a few hundred a month to make sure that doesn't happen is too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:16 PM

We're all gonna die anyways, but if nobody has your kid you anyone elses then you won't have to pay for any offspring. You'll be free of responsibility is that not what you want? No man will ever have to worry about this from me cuz I'm chid free 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:11 PM
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I think it's weird to have strong opinions on the looks of a video game character to the point of calling it "woke" or complaining about it at all. I can't remember a single time I've ever been unhappy with a game because I didn't find animated men in the game attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:48 AM
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I mean kinda? This certainly isn't the first video game that changed the faces of recurring characters a bit, especially with updated creation tech. It happens a lot. I'm not sure how that's really an issue of wokeness though. I don't get the fit throwing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:32 AM
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Dude what are you even trying to argue? The Witcher is literally a fictional fantasy story. One of many in existence in many media forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:22 AM
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You realize I dont iterally mean Nordic as in non fictional world shit 🤦🏻‍♀️ it's obviously a fantasy world but the game obviously takes inspiration from old stereotypical northern European aesthetic like a lot of fantasy stories do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:58 AM
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What exactly about Ciri doesn't have old world Nordic warrior vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:46 AM
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Omg she literally doesn't. She looks like every Nordic warrior looking woman from every Nordic warrior themed everything in pop culture. shed be well above average to most men if you magically turned her into a real woman. Y'all just mad she doesn't look like a teenager and has clothes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:37 AM
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All these dudes melting down over the new Witcher game is just hilarious, like how fragile you gotta be?? They call it "woke" ah yes nothing more woke than a thin blonde animated white woman existing lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:25 AM
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Only women I've ever known 22 or younger who dated men 15+ years older were either Just straight up shamelessly gold digging and weren't actually attracted to these older men They were drug addicts getting with their older drug dealer for drugs, which is also basically just sad gold digging. Had severe trauma from sexual abuse by older men during childhood and developed a weird fucked up complex about only feeling comforable sleeping with older men. Y'all are kinda delusional to think large amou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:05 AM
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"Nature will simply have to take it's course until psychologically fit and healthy people replace them." Well considering how the people who generally have the most kids are super low IQ impoverished mentally ill people or religious Fundie nutters I don't see society becoming more psychologically fit and healthy any time soon. Everybody just gonna be stupid and slaughtering each other over who's imaginary sky daddy is better. Same shit different century.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:08 PM
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"They do not care about the future, they do not care about society, they don't care about children. They fundamentally have a disconnect and ignorance of their own standard of living and the material reality needed to sustain it." Okay pls give me one good reason why I should care about humanity continuing? We're literally the worst. Over half the people I encounter these days are so stupid I don't even know how they haven't accidently killed themselves yet. We find stupid reasons to kill each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:15 PM
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I don't have flair but... Nothing cuz I don't care even a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:54 PM
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Yeah same, it just made me lose what little faith I had in humanity in general. It shouldn't surprise me people repeat the same patterns over and over in history so were apparently just doing that. I've tried talking to some trump supporters I've known in real life and it's just...it's like the all hear completely different things from the man. Everyone just takes his words and twists them into things that sound good and completely omit the crazy stuff and they'll say he either didn't really say…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:02 PM
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I'll take your word it but this is mostly what popped up for me from black creators when I searched about it on tiktok 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just don't get the issue. We're going on like month six of enduring Hawk Tuah, just let this woman cook her enchiladas and do her silly little song and dance and enjoy her 15 minutes of fame. It seems pretty harmless in the grand scheme of things. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTYQwAvXE/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTYQwyRpE/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTYQwxc9F/ https://www.tikto…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:55 PM
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Omg people are just salty that a black woman went viral for doing the bare minimum for once like white women do every day. There's like tons of sexually charged cooking channels out there by white women with their tits out. This concept is nothing new. If a dude follows these he better be executing a damn good corn bread recipe out of it. I don't have any dislike for this woman she's just making money on social media the same way a fuckton of others do. If your man insists on following thirst tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:17 PM

If my brain deteriorates to the point where I'm a huge raging cunt to minimum wage workers cuz they can't accept my expired two years ago coupon or don't have a product that was discontinued 10 years ago just euthanize me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:00 AM
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I'm saying that women are believing men when they loudly say they don't want to care for or pay for their children and not having their children as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:04 AM
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"Can you audit how the mother is spending the child support payments? Anything not spent directly on the child should be deducted from the overall amount." The average child support payment doesn't even cover half the average rent in my town. All the parent would have to do is present a rent/mortgage bill, or the grocery receipts, or the electric bill, or the gas receipts to show where the money is going lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:02 AM
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I mean the child birth rate has been dropping significantly hugely in part because women have listened to men when they tell us they don't want to pay for kids they help create and can't be relied upon. I know I'm child free mostly for this reason. I doubt the government is gonna want to make it even easier than it already is for men to abandon their kids because the government wants more children born.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:49 PM
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I think a lot of men focusing so hard on this shit are made out of partial jealousy. Id bet if you presented a situation to most of these men hating this chick where they could have 100 different women come ride him switching out every 5 minutes consecutively they'd go for it in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:41 PM
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They think we're all out here fucking hundreds of dudes at one time because they'd be fucking hundreds of women at one time if it were an option for them. It's just projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:35 PM
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What do you mean? False accusations regarding sexual assault and how people should react to accused sexual abusers without hard proof/conviction are a very very commonly discussed topic on this forum pretty much daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:33 PM
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Uh anecdotally? Most of my friends who slept around when they were younger are married now in their 30s and just working normal jobs and living life 🤷🏻‍♀️ most have kids, a few don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:44 PM
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I mean, it's mostly men in these positions making these policies but you keep trying to pin it all on a single women. "Hamas snd Hezbollahs" Again ran by men, not affiliated with feminism. Everything in the United States has distanced itself from its racist origins. If we threw out everything that started from racism or eugenics we'd have to throw out most of what makes up our modern society. It what the United States was built on. Not saying it's a good thing but that's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:46 AM
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Your article says nothing about Sanger. This was all men. All the people in the article creating these policies are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:44 AM
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"Euthanasia was a feminist idea . Hitler, Himmler and Heydrich got their ideas for genocide from Margret Sanger thr feminist founder of Planed Parenthood . " Where do you people eVen get these ideas. Hitler was massively inspired by the successful American eradication and genocide of Native Americans. It's where he got a lot of the framework for gathering the Jewish population. This is well cited. And that was largely led by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:02 AM
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I'm more focused on the fact that 100 men were willing to line up for that. What's gotta be wrong with them? Like seriously who would want to participate in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:32 PM
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Do you have any studies on testosterone levels being linked to suicide and addictive behaviors? If lack of testosterone made people self destruct youd think women would do it more than men but they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:14 AM
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I dunno, but men commit suicide at higher rates as well as abuse alcohol and drugs at higher rates and they complain about being lonely constantly these days. Obviously a decent amount of them aren't doing so well solitary. I agree that learning how to spend time with yourself and sitting with your own thoughts is important. But biologically humans are social creatures, we get weird as fuck without human connection, I mean look at how badly covid isolation affected people. and touch is massively…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:29 AM
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When it's being used as an escape from human connection? Yeah. People absolutely turn fitness into an addiction. Particularity when described how you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:10 AM
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Funny that's exactly what heroin addicts say about drugs. Dude dopamine doesn't replace social bonds no matter where it comes from. It's not healthy to view working out as a replacement for that. Those are separate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:35 AM

Or you end up like the women having a horrible time over at R/tradwives haha. Honestly would rather be single over 30 than going through some of those women's stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:34 PM
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Omg I've always hated this about myself. Anytime I get mad enough my eyes just start involuntarily watering like a lot no matter how much I try to control it. It makes it so hard to be taken seriously when I'm in a position where I need to stand up for myself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:15 PM
3

"today dare to suck at something new" Seriously though you should go for it! Dance is amazing for confidence, and you'll catch on quicker than you probably think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:46 PM
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Ooooooh a conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:13 AM
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Is it? I've read about it multiple places https://www.google.com/amp/s/fox59.com/news/national-world/customer-recalls-moment-luigi-mangione-spotted-in-pennsylvania-mcdonalds/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:08 AM
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Although I did just read that they got denied the 10k reward they wanted over a technicality 😂 billion dollar company can't even give em the 10k promised. Incredible. so that does make it better a little. What a bootlicking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:00 AM
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I truly wish that clown ass McDonald's employee who turned in that Luigi guy gets their medical care bid denied or delayed when they get a fucked up future illness. It's the only proper karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:45 AM
1

And yet republicans still made sure to butcher the hell out of it to keep private insurance companies in power before it passed. It will probably away this next term anyway and we will be right back where we started.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:31 AM
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Don't care honestly hahaa it's just a weird critique to have of women in comedy when I can't think of a single male comedian I've watched recently that didn't have constant sex jokes. I saw maria bamford live a couple years ago and she really didn't have that many sex jokes? Mostly mental health/situational/observational comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:28 AM
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"pen is much stronger than the sword" Literally in what situation ever? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:25 AM
3

Is it not lame when men do it? Last three male comedians I watched it was 80% sex/dick/poop jokes all the way through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:23 AM
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Uh huh, yeah and the war of the U.S invading Iraq was also totally about weapons of mass destruction 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:38 PM
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Wouldn't that just result in a bunch of single moms? I thought y'all hated that and considered it the worst possible outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:36 PM
7

Dude if you took a silly childhood rhyme that doesn't even make sense literally all the way up passed like 9 years old something went really wrong somewhere along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:57 PM
2

What are some examples of suffering and sacrificing situations you have in mind for these deep relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:44 PM
1

You're the one who made a whole post complaining against a movement to hold rapists accountable. There's no reason to be against such a movement unless you support rapists. That's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:30 PM
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And yet here you are defending sexual predators and are mad when they get called out. I already vote for the party that I think will benefit men and everyone else the most, which is not Republicans. No, I can't empathize with voting against your own interests to hurt rape victims or cuz your mad that they won't shut up. That isn't "not being able to empathize with men".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:28 PM

His life wasn't ruined??? He's literally on tour as we speak. You can go buy a ticket to his show right now if you feel so bad for him and want to show him your support. I mean what do you expect people to keep throwing money at a sex pest when they could spend it on anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:24 PM
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Dude. You know you can focus on multiple things at the same time? The left is the ONLY side concerned with what you are concerned about. These conversations are already happening and have been for years. The right wants to make it worse. It just sounds like you want women to shut up and take being sexually assaulted like before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:21 PM
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The probably good person??? Especially when things like my reproductive rights and rights to justice for sexual assault on are the line. Stop being so easily manipulated by a polite smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:55 PM

Louis CK literally admitted to doing exactly what he was accused of doing lmao. Why does is matter if he was convicted or not, lots of people don't want to fuck with a weirdo who whips their dick out and jacks off in front of people regardless. Disgust is a normal reaction to have at someone who does that. It's not a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:49 PM
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How is drug use more of a feminist issue than reproductive rights? There's already a larger percentage of people who are pro safe legal drug use on the feminist side and left than the right. Anyone with common sense knows this. Drug use criminalization and sexual assault are two different issues that involve bodily autonomy but they are the same. One is a personal choice to self harm, the other is a violent fucking crime against another person. And as you've said, we should focus on the majority…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:42 PM
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Okay so it's the left which included many feminists that focuses on fixing all those things so I'm not sure what the problem is. Assisted suicide is controversial on both sides for obvious reasons. That's not really a feminist issue anyways so why would feminists focus on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:26 PM
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What bodily autonomy issues do men not have that you are referring to exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:18 PM

So what the fuck is trump and the rest of the Republicans going to do about any of this? Nothing. If men voted against their interests because women don't like being raped I don't know how to help them. They obviously hate rape victims more than they care about these issues you listed and there's no fixing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:58 PM
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Okay but I'm asking you what you think they should decide to focus on, because you've decided that it shouldn't be sexual assault. So what should it be instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:55 PM

What specific solvable issues should we be focusing on instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:23 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:10 PM
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Sure it did. There's tons of issues that don't affect the majority of humans that a lot of people still care about but apparently to you they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:09 PM

Most crimes happen to a minority of people. Should we just stop caring about those too? Men also get sexually assaulted by men, fuck them too I guess? What issue do men face that is as serious as sexual assault that they should have focused on more?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:39 PM

Even if it was that low...that still isn't that low?? That's literally one in five women you see walking around. That's not a low amount of women experiencing sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:06 PM
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I mean how many preventable deaths has this mans business caused by scamming people out of money and not providing services they paid for? We often put people on death row in this country for murdering one person, why does guy get to be responsible for so many deaths while going unscathed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:26 AM
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For real tho. My neck and upper shoulders always wrecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:20 AM
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"Let's say an evil wizard suddenly transforms a typical woman into a man and gives her one week to figure out how to get laid with a decent-looking woman (we'll say 6/10 or higher) in order to save her mother's life." I dunno man I bet I could convince at least one of my kinkier weirdo swinger homies to let me hit it in this magical scenario especially if they were aware my mom's life was on the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:40 PM
1

Nooooo ballet for me haha. I should start doing kettle bell work outside again but they started hurting my knee so I stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:34 PM
1

Diet didn't change much but I have been drinking considerably less alcohol/beer Also been hiking and stuff more this year and doing a lot of outdoor gardening stuff this year. Not quite hank hill bad lol just smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:30 PM
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I've never calculated my BMI in my life haha. I just wanna fill out a tight dress and feel womanly in them. I looked cute with the little extra hip meat 😞 I want it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:25 PM
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I like bouncy ass over muscle ass. It's hard to obtain tho...I've always had a hard time keeping on weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:23 PM
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Noooo it's my boobs that look like the letter P. My ass is the bottom stick. Having 32DD boobs and no ass feels unbalanced. Protein power makes me gag, even the expensive stuff🥴 like chugging fucking chalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:22 PM
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I think a lot of it is cuz I cut out drinking so many heavy beers and consuming a lot less alcohol in general. My husband quit buying IPAs all the time hahaa he lost weight too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:34 PM
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Maaaan last year I had a cute little bubble booty and slightly curvy hips to go with my big boobs for the first time in my life and it was cool to actually have some curves instead of being straight up skinny but then I lost like 12 pounds over this year and my ass is back to almost completely flat white girl booty status 😢 I look like the letter P standing sideways again its tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:21 PM
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And I'm saying the demand will be largely filled with prison labor, not free las abiding young men. The system can't function without slave labor. They will always find a way to outsource for it or they'll just criminalize more people and make them work for 10 cents an hour in the prison industrial complex. This plan is already in place and happening it's not even a conspiracy theory it's very out in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:46 PM
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"10+ million illegals being paid under the table to work jobs that should mostly be going to young American men." It's not like corporations won't just contract the government for more even cheaper prison labor when the illegal immigrants are gone. I mean they already do it now a lot, they'll just do it more so yeah there won't be all these high paying jobs availabe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:04 PM
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I don't think I've ever heard anyone have a problem with "DEI" who wasn't just mad every time they see someone who isn't a white man in job position. Sorry to tell you but lots of non white people and women are just as capable of filling the things that are empty and emptying the things that are full and sitting in pointless zoom meetings as a lot of white men. Thing is if those women and non white people didn't have jobs conservatives would then call them welfare leaches or something. Ain't no …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:57 PM
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I don't understand, are you saying there should be other consequences besides the ones women already experience from shitty men or what? Like what are we supposed to be debating here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:24 AM
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5/10. Not conventionally unattractive but I like men more scruffy, he's too clean cut for my type and looks like he smells like can of Axe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:05 AM
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Translating this from public relations sugar coating language "I actually had problems with the guy but I don't feel like dealing with the drama that comes with talking shit to the media so I'm gonna say he was great and change the subject".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:30 AM
3

I meet friends of friends and new people pretty much every time I choose to go out 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:09 PM

Beats me, I thought Republicans were anti trans/drag queens/cross dressers 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:15 AM

I just don't really feel like enough people are talking about how fucking weird JD Vance's latest Xitter post is 🤨 https://x.com/JDVance/status/1862285652609388954?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:08 AM
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I checked my husband's, it's literally all just music, art stuff and memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:56 AM
1

I mean, it could be a million things. Maybe she didn't like the "negging" as much as you think she did. Maybe she is mentally unstable or has "daddy issues, in that case be glad you didn't stick your dick in the crazy and have to deal with even more actual drama. Maybe she's hung up on another dude, in that case bullet also dodged. Maybe she just didn't think you were that into her so she moved on. Maybe she just wasn't that into you when you spoke more. College age adults are notoriously fickle…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:47 PM
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I mean you hung out enough for her to make you waffles apparently? Did you not feel any spark or some sort of primal desire to be around her more? If not then maybe there just really wasn't anything there. Did you you feel motivated to plan any dates for y'all to do or hit her up for plans to hang out after she pursued you? I'm not sure what advice to give with the limited information we have about you interactions and conversations you had with this woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:22 PM
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"she kinda pulled away by flipping it saying I wasnt interested in her lol" "I wasnt even into her." Well it sounds like she accurately read the vibe and decided to send you on your way instead of wasting more of both your time. Why is that so bad? That's how dating works. It doesn't sound like such a big loss if you weren't that into her anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:36 PM
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Oooh what the actual fuck is this take 😑 Encouraging people to stay with violent abusers is trash and that advice literally gets women killed. It's not up to women to teach men to not be shitty, I swear men are allergic to accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:48 AM

Soooo basically you have low self esteem despite all your self proclaimed grande accomplishments and potential and youre mad that other people don't have low self esteem. Im gonna hold your hand when I say this, other people hating themselves isn't gonna make you hate yourself any less. The only person all this bitterness is going to hurt at the end of the day is yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:18 PM

Okay so can you walk me through these dates and how these women aren't showing accountability during these dates? Like what does that look like exactly??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:57 AM
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OP did it twice too lmao. Makes me think Russian troll. "Foting" said out loud sounds like how eastern European people I know pronounce "voting"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:10 PM

I was referring to OP "A fit man may not like the idea of having fast food or having a slice of cake because he wants to stay on track with his meal plan and wants to remain eating clean, women for the most part like to indulge and go out to eat, so a man that's unwilling to do so may hold her in lower regard as a result."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:55 AM

A. Never been into super muscular dudes, skinny punk rock dudes or sometimes hiker/slimmer natural muscles were also my main attraction. B. Why would anyone want to date someone who policies their food constantly? A lot of fitness dudes I've known borderline on practically having an eating disorder. I mean go off if you enjoy it but it sounds like it would get real old not only watching a guy i was with eat the same bland "clean" foods every day and also expecting me to eat the same and being we…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:42 AM
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I ain't the one blaming all men for electing trump. Most women aren't. This is a delusion y'all have made up in your heads. Plenty of people are blaming the religious crowds, you just filter that out and hear what you want to confirm your own bias cuz you want to be a victim. I'm sorry I'm done discussing this I got shit to do. Truly hope some mean tweets and passing comments from women talking about men who aren't you are the worst things you experience cuz trust me it's a drop in the bucket co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:20 PM
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"Idk, someone making eye contact with you while telling you how your sex ruins everything for a quarter of an hour feels personal for some reason. Someone making a point to imply that my courtesy is uncommon among men feels personal to me. Two ladies loudly complaining that they better finish their chit chat before the men make them finish, while those men are in earshot, feels personal. You denying it doesn't help." Dude you named one person bitching about their boss to you that you took person…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:16 PM
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No I'm saying y'all got twisted ideas on what abuse is. Not one person here has given me an actual example of abuse yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:57 PM
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Ooooh shit are you a boomer or older gen x? No wonder you got such a huge victim complex. My boomer dad would also agree with your talking points even thought he can't point to any abuse outside random strangers social media with no real life examples of anything. He's had every opportunity in the world to get the life he wants he just chose other shit yet he's still bitter because he just consumes internet rage bait all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:49 PM
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Nah dude don't you know you're an abused discriminated against victim being personally blamed for every problem every woman has ever had and there's no way you go through life not being spit on and seether at and called trash by every woman you encounter and you definitely have no women in your life who tolerate your existence without reminding you how much you and all men suck. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:40 PM
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I mean the fact that you think mean tweets and rude people on the internet is anywhere near the same ballpark of importannce as women losing healthcare maybe you're not such a good man after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:29 PM
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Why would you assume all men on the left feel victimized by the leftists? Cuz they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:28 PM
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Women are going septic due to lack of prenatal care in red states but yeah mean tweets are abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:26 PM
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I'm not abusing any men lmao. "What about all that historical discomfort you were just complaining about? What about all the "fucked up weird shit" you were just complaining abouy?" It's called resilience and realizing nobody is gonna come save me so I have to make a good life for myself on my own. Dude right wing politicians are advocating for taking voting rights away from childless women, making no fault device illegal, and not treating women with pregnancy complications, yet your minor incon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:24 PM
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Like I said men in my leftist circles all report doing just fine and if they said otherwise I wouldn't minimize it. They're angry for us women not busy making it about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:52 PM
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Yeah somehow with all the mountains fucked up shit men have said and done to me I still care about people's well being. How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:48 PM
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What exactly should I be held accountable for?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:32 PM
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Dude go outside and make some friends. I promise you nobody is abusing men in mass. Stop taking passive shit that has nothing to do with you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:24 PM
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I don't hang around conservative men but my conservative dad cries about everything all the time. Thinks white men are the most hated demographic in the world 🤣 he's 70 and has had so much opportunity in life he didn't grab and now he just blames Obama and the deep state constantly because he didn't get what he thought he should out of life. It's annoying AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:20 PM
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I don't even have time to list all the fucked up weird shit men have said to me and about women as a whole. I'm still not gonna want to burn the country down about it. Men are feeling just a fraction of the discomfort women have faced from men for soooo long and y'all can't handle it at all. I'm not a right winger but I realized a long time ago that victim complexes will hold you down in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:11 PM
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How many people have you had to exile from your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:58 PM
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What makes you feel victimized while many other leftist men do not? What do you think makes you different?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:57 PM
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Yeah women never have to deal with anything offensive ever. I swear if I let it negatively affect my emotions so bad every time a right wing politician bitched about childless women or cat owners or women who work I would have killed myself a long time ago. I remember a black activist writer talking about how white people, especially white men, feel entitled to never feeling any discomfort at all and that's why they lash out so hard at the mildest criticism whether it actually applies to them or…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:56 PM
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It's cuz longer hair is associated with counter culture which is associated with being more left while conservatives tend to keep shorter hair. It simply was a signal that you were safe to open up to. Like do you just not have female friends anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:35 PM
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Omg the cry baby incel vote isn't what got trump elected, it's the rural bible thumper mostly Christian married families and people who got convinced that getting rid of all the Mexicans and picking on trans people would improve their lives somehoe that got trump elected. Most people are not caught up in this I'm a victim gender war shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:32 PM
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I live in the pnw, I'm always in the woods with both bears and hippies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:24 PM
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If mean tweets that may very well be AI are enough to make a man vote for a fascist because his feelings were hurt the other side can have him. I have no time for men that week minded and easily influenced. I love how the right preaches masculinity and all that yet it really is the biggest bunch of cry babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:18 PM
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Who made you feel alienated and how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:16 PM
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I'm a white woman and I don't lol. I'm not a Karen and I don't behave the way a lot of shitty white women I grew up around behave so why on earth would I take that personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:10 PM
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Considering how most social media now days is AI bots I take most of it with a grain of salt these days. Seems like the AI rage bait is doing its job though because it's somehow made all these men think that they're the victims when pregnant women are bleeding out and going septic in red states and conservative want that for everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:09 PM
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"Michelle Obama came out finger wagging, but like I said a lot of people (not all) shut up after the poll results came out." Soooo....not getting blamed. Got it Seems like the "finger wagging" was apparently effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:06 PM
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Literally none of this was personally towards you whatsoever or even hostile sounding. Like dude pregnant women are literally going septic and bleeding out because of our fucked up laws in red states and you're bumming out this hard over some women bitching about situations and other men that werent even you?? Holy cow people are so sensitive now days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:03 PM
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Nah I just dont think y'all want to hear that plenty of left voting men are doing just fine out here cuz that wouldn't align with this victim complex y'all have made up for yourselves. I know reddit will fool you but most people aren't hung up on gender war shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:00 PM
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Who is blaming black men and where?? I've seen nothing but people showing that most black men didn't vote for Harris?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:55 PM
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Yeah sure of course. I talk about politics with male friends and relatives frequently. They never express this victim narrative y'all are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:52 PM
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If someone says that to me in person I won't ignore it. I will ignore rage baiting conservative influencers who scream it on Twitter though because I recognize it for what is, assholes trying to get clicks and views.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:51 PM
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I know plenty of leftist women, none of us hate men for "being men". A lot of us are married or in relationships 🤯 I hang out in plenty of mixed gender leftists groups and none of the men I know feel victimized or hated on 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:49 PM
2

What happened in real life that made you feel treated like a rapist, murderer, or bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:48 PM
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As for the offline conversations how did this go exactly? I'm genuinely curious. Most people in public have been pretty quiet about the election irl so I'm just wondering what scenarios are happening where these people are blaming you in person? Like what do they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:45 PM
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Who specifically is treating you like you don't exist or matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:26 PM
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Who specifically blamed you for roe v Wade being overturned?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:24 PM
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I'm just pointing out that pretty much every dude in my life doesn't sit around whining about being lumped in with conservative men because they logically know they arent. The victim mentality in men here is something to behold. Y'all aren't the ones losing your rights not sure how y'all are the victims here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:23 PM
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Nobodies demonizing you, youre just reading rage bait written about men who aren't you and still choosing to apply to yourself anyway for some reason. It's not logical. When I read people bitching about conservative women I don't get offended because it doesn't fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:21 PM
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Why on earth would you feel guilty for something YOU didn't contribute to?? I don't understand victimizing yourself fr no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:15 PM
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I just now asked my husband if he feels guilty or blamed or alienated even though he didn't vote for trump and he just looked at me weird said "uh, no?" Then poured another cup of coffee. Y'all should get like him, he doesn't sit around thinking about gender war shit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:14 PM
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It sounds like you're reading rage bate on the internet and wanting to be a victim about it even if you don't identify with it. If you didn't vote for trump there's no reason to feel like leftist women hate you just because you're a man. Again I don't know anyone stereotyping left voting men. Pretty much every discussion I've seen rightly blames religious folks. There's plenty of leftist dudes out there who understand the issues and aren't making it about them by trying to make themselves sound …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:11 PM
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Weird I don't know any men who voted against trump who feel blamed or alienated along with conservative men by women 🤷🏻‍♀️ If the shoe doesn't fit...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:56 PM
2

Well there certainly way more people doing those things closer to 30 than they were 16-20 that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:08 AM
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"Aging has absolutely I repeat absolutely nothing to do with maturity." This is what you argued, word for word. I don't see how anyone can argue that she doesn't mature people in the vast majority of cases. What are you defining as "mature". Most of the people i surround myself with are quite mature in most facets. They hold jobs, some run businesses, have creative/artistic hobbies, many are in long term relationships, own homes/land, and I'm in my 30s. Pretty much everyone I knew in my teens an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:41 PM
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I'm saying that yes, on average most 30+ people I meet are more mature than most 16-20 year olds I meet. Whenever this is not the case, it's generally because something went really wrong with that older person's life that I listed previous post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:25 PM
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It's because there's too much disagreement and infighting on the issues between people on the left. "The left" is a wide spectrum ranging from pretty much centrist establishment pushers who vote Democrat for a few issues all the way to straight up hardcore tankie communists. Some on the left are super anti all guns, some are pro guns and they fight eachother. There's tons of disagreement on trans/lgbt issues especially divided amongst younger and older Democrat voters. Some Democrat voters want …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:18 PM
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Your argument is that aging has nothing to do with maturity, an the reality is that for mentally healthy people who meet their developmental markers and don't get stunted due to shitty parents or severe mental health issues or drug use, it kinda absolutely does. If you don't feel more mature and grown at 28 than you did at 18 something somewhere went really wrong along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:18 PM
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You'd have to be bottom of the barrel low IQ level with mental health issues/severe drug problems to be 50 and less mature than the average 20 year old running around. If that's what you have to compare yourself to in order to justify relating to 20 year olds when your 30 I'm not sure how tight your argument is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:10 PM
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There's some emotionally stunted 50 year olds sure. And if someone doesn't perceive growth in themselves from 18 to almost 30 they may very well be on their way to becoming one of those immature 50 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:04 PM
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If you don't feel like you've grown or matured at all since you were 18 that says way more about you than anyone else. Most people I know have grown and matured a lot from 18-28.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:18 PM
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For the same reason men do? I can't think of one male comedian I've watched that wasn't at least 50% dick/sex jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:12 PM
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Well that's what showers are for
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:44 PM
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Hmm i see. I just wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't willing to go down on, it just seems like a natural routine progression of foreplay to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:41 PM
2

What's gross about it? Every sexual partner I've had was pretty enthusiastically into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:40 PM
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Oooh what do you not like about it? I enjoy both giving and receiving oral a lot so I'm tripped up when people say they aren't into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:21 PM
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Are there really that many straight men who don't like going down on women? I hear men say this on reddit but I've never met one irl. I figured it was just part of it hahaa I mean men actually pay for worn panties they wanna be down there so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:17 PM
2

Christians can't even agree on how to get to heaven, every denomination thinks all the other Christian denominations are going to hell, and there's so many of them. It's so funny like how does anyone take it seriously at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:15 PM
1

I went to NOLA like 6 years ago and almost got pick pocketed so many times 😤 managed to have a good time still shit was sketchy as hell, had to really watch yourself the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:55 PM
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Have you been to any other American cities? Cuz I can't think of a single one that doesn't have homeless and trash issues. My sister moved to Memphis two years ago and it's completely fucked there. There's tons of homeless camps in Houston and Dallas too. Every city has good and bad parts of town. I've just never understood why west coast cities specifically get all the shit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:52 PM
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"Portland, San Francisco, and Seattle" I mean neither of those three cities are even close to being in the top ten most dangerous cities in the country as far as crime rate goes 🤷🏻‍♀️ all the top ones on the list are in red states. I was in San Francisco not too long ago and I had a really good time. Same with Portland when I went two years ago. I feel like people just read bad stuff on the internet about a place and never travel there to see if it actually sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:29 PM
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"Portland, San Francisco, and Seattle" I mean neither of those three cities are even close to being in the top ten most dangerous cities in the country as far as crime rate goes 🤷🏻‍♀️ all the top ones on the list are in red states. I was in San Francisco not too long ago and I had a really good time. Same with Portland when I went two years ago. I feel like people just read bad stuff on the internet about a place and never travel there to see if it actually sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:27 PM
1

If a woman is a attractive then she has options, those things aren't separate. If you find a woman attractive, guarantee you other men do as well. If youve never seen a new hot chick come into a scene and watched every single dude around go nuts trying to get her attention partly because they'll feel like the winner over all the other dudes going nuts for her attention I don't know what to say cuz I've seen this so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:46 PM
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Sure. It's silly to think men don't care what others think of their partners attractiveness. Why do you think so many men talk about how they'll bang women that are less attractive but won't take them out in public or acknowledge it? It's because they care about how their partner looks to others. I just thought it was funny that you said men don't care if others find their partner attractive while using a specific niche type of woman considered attractive and very desired by a wide cast of men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:01 PM
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There's no such thing as a hot tall goth attractive woman with 0 dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:32 PM
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Why doesn't the dad just take the kids camping himself and leave the mom home to take care of stuff? I was a kid of a very outdoorsy dad and very not outdoorsy mom, we just went to do the camping/hiking/lake trips with my dad and my mom would stay at home cuz she hated being outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:46 AM
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I would honestly but she's still following me unfortunately andi don't want anybody here finding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:44 PM
1

Lmfao I just saw a local artist once respected come out about voting for trump the other day and now they're endlessly crying in their IG stories about being mass deleted by people and the compared themselves to gay people coming out of the closet in the 80s 🤣🤣 a straight white woman this is! These trumpers want to be victims SO BAD. Like yoooo you got what you wanted, be happy about it?? Sheeeessh this shits too funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:40 PM
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Hmmm yeah I moved states to work in the weed industry 7 years ago and made really good money. But I remember applying to about a hundred jobs in a week before I moved and only a few called back but I did get a decent bar tending job for the rest of my time there. It's a numbers game, getting that discouraged after only a few rejections isn't any way to get ahead in the world, you have to be persistent as hell. You can't feel that humiliated that easy in this world if you want to get what you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:21 PM
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I guess the "pull yourself up by your bootstrap" mentality switched sides because this all just seems like people blaming their own bad choices and lack of internal motivation on everyone else. Nobody but you can give yourself a purpose. Sounds like they need to blame their parents more than anyone else for not limiting their screen time 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:21 PM
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What exactly does me being a woman in my 30s have to do with making connections?? There's zoomers at these jobs too, some of them men 🤯 how did they make these connections??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:16 PM
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There's quite a few zoomers at my husband's job, they apparently figured out how to fill out a job application for the place? How do you think I got my contacts exactly??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:10 PM
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So why are there many gen zers out here thriving if that's their only option? I perform in a local circus troupe that's probably about half gen z and they all have jobs and hobbies and involved social lives. We have a college here with gen z young adults around and they walk around with friends and are seen out together in groups.How come they figured it out but these guys can't?? What's stopping them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:09 PM
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Fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:05 PM
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My husband got laid off last year and found another better job within 6 weeks. I needed extra money this month and hit up like 3 people I knew and picked up some random seasonal work pretty much immediately and made a couple grand. This shit is available to everyone. I had a guy friend move to a new city last month and found a decent job within the month there. Y'all are acting like shit is way harder than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:03 PM
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But it's not the only option? I'm just citing younger stated mens reasons for slamming so far right. Why is it anyone's responsibility but theirs for having nothing when they can just...go get something. I don't get what mental block they perceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:59 PM
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I had so much hope for this generation I really did 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:56 PM
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I still don't see how this isn't a personal responsibility issue?? It's up to you, the individual to make the choice to sit on rage bait social media all day or go do literally anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:55 PM
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I truly dont understand all these gen z dudes in the gen z sub whining about how they "have nothing" in regards to jobs, social life, education, dating, hobbies, etc. Like literally all the things millennials used to do are available to them now. The job market was even shittier for us in 2008-2009. Just...go outside? Apply for jobs?? Lots of places are hiring, most people I know are employed or have side hustles. Go to school??? Pick up an instrument and join a band??? Get into skateboarding?? …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:47 PM
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It's not about "standards" it's about recognizing how dangerous women's health care is now and not putting ourselves in positions to breed with men until society decides this shits important. A woman in my county almost bled out while miscarrying twins at one of the two hospitals ran by Catholics here she ended up at handed her a bag of rags and told her "good luck". She had to get a ride to the other hospital across the county to get a life saving abortion she needed that she shou have gotten a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:42 PM
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Dude I've literally watched two family members die of cancer because they couldn't afford treatment. It's absolutely way more expensive here by every measure. Americans are one bad car wreck away from financial ruin. It's not good here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:53 PM
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We pay about the same amount in taxes on top of our outside medical costs and we see none of it come back to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:50 PM
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Still way cheaper than here. I remember my French friend calling me up freaking out asking why the fuck her usually $10 asthma medication costs $200 dollars in the u.s even with insurance she already pays and I was like yeah welcome to America babe that's how it is. I got like $10k in medical debt I'm blowing off from a single 5 hour ER visit that they horribly misdiagnosed me during and still had the audacity to charge me that much. It costs $4k to get a broken leg set. Stuff like Epi pens cost…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:49 PM
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Oof, you are massively underestimating how much healthcare in the United States costs. Dont blame you honestly, every European friend I've ever had did the same cuz it's truly that unbelievably fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:39 PM
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Why is every Republican trump voter I know crying about people cutting them off for their views and how everyone just needs to be nuce? Like why do they want liberals to like them so bad? Theyve been calling us enemies of the state and calling for civil war and what have you and wanting to "own the libs" like okay cool you did that, congrats now enjoy it I guess? Now why can't y'all just hang out with each other? Why all the crying about how the liberals dont like them all of a sudden when they …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:05 AM
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I don't have any me in my life to victim blame about this cuz this stuff just simply never happens in my social groups 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:01 AM
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Yeaaah saving an extra maybe $300 a year in taxes on what would have gone to welfare isn't gonna foot a mental health bill or education bill that costs thousands lmao. They charged my homegirl $50k for a seven day stay in the nit house after a suicide attempt but yeah taxes 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:55 PM
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Well mens issues are heavily involved around suicide/mental health care and education, both of which Republicans are dead set of gutting funding for both of so not really sure what's gonna help y'all out there 🤷🏻‍♀️ they also want to increase incarceration.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:42 PM
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Me neither 😭 these dudes act like it happens to them constantly. Like who are they spending their time around???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:38 PM
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I know I've literally never seen a dude I was friends with get into a situation anywhere close to this. My friend's ex beat the shit out of her and choked her when she dumped him and he claimed he was "falsely accused" but we all knew he did it cuz you could see her bruises and wounds, i literally took care of her after the incident. That's the only real life incident I've known of a guy claiming to be falsely accused of something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:35 PM
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As somekne whos lived in cities and smaller towns in both red and blue states, city life is pretty similar either way. It's the smaller more rural towns where the culture shock comes into play a lot more. Living in small towns in red states is a lot like that movie Gummo. That movie gave me hardcore flashbacks of all the insane redneck fuckery I witnessed growing up rural in the bible belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:50 PM

How do they not "look" Mormon? They look exactly like every mormon woman I've ever seen walking around in salt lake city. their social media even confirms that they're all Mormon so not sure what you're going off about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:32 PM
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Lol these are all married religious women and men still mad. Just proves you can be a Mormon virgin trad bride doing your duty of making babies or a huge slut getting all the abortions and these men will still hate you all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:14 AM
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And most women aren't ceos nor have a business either? And a higher percentage of women also live in poverty compared to men. Not really sure what your point is or how this refutes my point about affirmative action. Men have plenty of opportunity if they actually try for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:01 AM
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And yet men still own the majority of businesses and maintain most of the CEO positions and run most of the government. Y'all really overestimate how much "affirmative action" boosts women over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:39 PM
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The rates of offense are not even close for women. Claiming women do it as much as men is delusional as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:00 AM
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I mean can you point out any female offenders on the pastor arrested sub reddit? My cousin was raped by three men when she was thirteen who were higher ups at her pentacostal church, not women. These systems were set up by men for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:57 AM
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It's men. There's trailer park Broke nobodies molesting kids too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:37 AM
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It's a product of men being gross 😭 like it shouldn't be that hard to not stick your dick in a child but these men set up entire systems to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:35 AM
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Apparently the end game is to just keep raping kids and getting away with it as they are, nobody cares, their church won't fire them as long as they "repent".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:25 AM
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I used to think child molestation was just a bi-product of all these patriarchal abrahamic high control religions, but the older I get and the more research I do and the more I find out, the more and more I find that child molestation was the entire point of these institutions being created. Just a system made to give men at the top endless access to the children of the congregation in a setting where they can get away with whatever because their followers trust them endlessly from the threat of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:10 AM
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Meth addicts are also more likely to get laid, usually by other meth addicts. So what? Degenerates gonna degenerate 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:54 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:49 AM
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Most of the ones on mine are bald, missing teeth, or they got meth face, or they're fat 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:38 AM
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Dude there are some ugly ass abusive men out there lol. My aunt's abuser looked like a fat inbred thumb. Go look up your local domestic abuse arrests, you ain't gonna find a lot of lookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:35 AM
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Admit what? That people who are religious, with low self esteem, abused as children, etc are more vulnerable to accepting abusive situations or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:28 AM
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What are we to discuss here?? There's tons of research, data, a literature out there about how and why people end up in and stay in abusive relationships. It's not exactly a mystery, the information is out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:16 AM
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"That's true to an extent but most of the additional cost is "wants" as opposed to strict needs, like college, extracurriculars, consumer devices, designer clothing, and pocket money." Good parents who love their kids don't see these things, except maybe designer clothes, as optional. Not sure why so many men here love their porbably hypothetical kids so little that they don't care if they thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:14 AM
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One thing I can think of that I agree with the "other side" is that really fat people are pretty gross, people who let themselves gain tons of weight and don't care about fitness who expect everyone to view them as attractive in that state as they would if you were in better shape is real delusional. One of my exes totally stopped caring about his fitness after we got together gained like 70 pounds right after we started dating and I don't see how he thought I would think that was hot, like dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:33 PM
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Dude I'm not giving you a link with info about my home town, neighborhood, and my old best friends location of employment. It's weird that you want that information so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:59 PM
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I do mind actually, Im not gonna doxx myself or my parents neighborhood here, nice try. Just go spend some time clicking around your local sex offender registry, theres even apps that will pull up every single one living in your GPS area with their crime and time served.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:41 PM
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Wow she actually served seven years. There's a male pedo in my hometown neighborhood who violently raped an 8 year old girl and he got 4 years probation. He owns a music equipment store downtown. A LOT of men who rape kids get slap on the wrists, if they ever see a court room at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:07 AM
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Wild that men would literally rather commit actual homicide and go to prison forever than just pay for their flesh and blood offspring to eat lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:53 PM
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It's risen considerable it the last few years.b more prevelent than health related deaths this year. You're 35% more likely to be murdered when pregnant than not. I don't understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:24 PM
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https://sprc.org/news/with-homicide-the-leading-cause-of-maternal-mortality-new-research-shows-a-link-to-firearms-and-intimate-partner-violence/#:~:text=Homicide%20is%20the%20leading%20cause,period%20are%20rising%2C%20research%20suggests. https://www.bmj.com/content/379/bmj.o2499 Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:11 PM
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Why is it that homicide by men is the leading cause of death for pregnant women? Why is pregnancy also the time you're most likely to be cheated on or hit for the first time? What is it in men's brain's that makes them snap and go crazy when they get their girl pregnant? This needs to be studied for real
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:07 PM
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Nah more like 70-30
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:55 AM
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Like how often do me and my husband talk about current events vs past things/stories?? Shit I don't even know. Decent amount of both. Probably more stuff going on in the now but we both got lots of stories. Me and my husband do come from similar backgrounds though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:28 AM
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Uh, I'd be the one asking wtf an Amish and a not Amish are gonna talk about haha. Those two would never be compatible for anything long term anyway unless one converted or the other left the Amish society. I imagine it would just be a bunch of question asking and judgemental thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:21 AM

Boys generally behave badly in school because their parents let them get away with it. You'd be surprised how many parents expect the school to fully raise their kids for them. The biggest complaint I've heard from my teacher friends is bad parents who won't discipline or deal with their child's poor behavior. More male teachers would be cool, now where are all these men willing to be male teachers at?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:39 AM

If you don't want to raise your kids to care about school and good grades then dont 🤷🏻‍♀️ not sure what else to say to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:39 AM

And yet only 14%-16% of engineers are women, the rest are men. Again you can just go to college if you want, there won't be any big scary blue haired feminists waiting with steel toe boots to kick you in the balls at the door way. Go, be an engineer or whatever. You can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:04 AM

It sounds like your parents did their job properly and that resulted in a son with academic success, good on them. Kinda backs up what I said about parents needing to do their job to encourage their sons to do well in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:16 PM

Well who else is going to correct the behavior? If parents are correcting girls bad behavior and not boys bad behavior then who's the problem in that scenario from your perspective??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:30 PM
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So do we need separate schools for boys and girls? What do we do exactly about some boys not being able to sit for 30 min at a time? I don't know a single man who got turned down from every school they applied to, you are vastly overestimating quota admissions affecting mens ability to go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:16 PM

There's no hurdles to keeping men out of college. These colleges want as much attendence as possible, out local university just upped enrollment by like 25k students that the city has no room for but they're doing it. I don't know a single guy who put even half assed effort into finding a college to attend who didn't succeed on doing so, it's not that hard. They want your money. They don't care if you have a dick as long as you have money, or at least lones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:09 PM

I clearly said it's the parents who are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:05 PM

So how come there are so many boys and young men go to college and succeed? Why did I have no issue finding men in college to hang out with? Why were then men's dorms full of dudes? Why were the frat houses full? Why is the weekly pinball league I go to full of dudes in college? What makes those men different from the ones who don't go?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:03 PM

Nobody is stopping men from going to college. Every guy I knew who wanted to go to college went to college except for like one because he was an illegal alien who's parent brought him over when he was two so he had to get all that sorted so he could go. Going to college isn't that hard. If men want to go to college they can go. I don't see how this is some social issue. If youre a man and you want to go to college, litterally just go. Apply to like ten of them, at least a few will accept you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:57 PM

Yeah I mean I've argued a lot about how much better the u ited states would be if we modeled after European schools but then I get called a communist or a libtard or whatever then usually so 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:46 PM

From my experience no, not as much as girls. Especially in poor/lower middle class families. This changes with higher income families.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:45 PM

I mean yes, litterally? If a boy is doing child labor instead of schooling I'd absolutely ask what is going on at home and why the parents put that boy in that situation. This is one hundred percent a parenting issue how could it be anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:41 PM

I'm just speaking from my experience in school. When kids were growing spit balls around the class and yelling out random disruptions at teachers, or sleeping, 9/10 times it's a boy doing the behavior. The parents at home usually won't address this behavior like they will in girls because of the whole "boys will be boys" attitude. When I had people begging me to copy off my homework or cheat off my test it was always a boy. My school has like an hour of PE and 30 min of recess for elementary kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:40 PM

Care to elaborate how? Cuz I'd absolutely argue that 80% of the problems kids have in school these days results from their parenting at home. Many parents don't enforce academic excellence on their boys like they do their girls, didn't think this was even a controversial take.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:35 PM

Sounds like parents need to tell their boys to get their shit together and go to school and pay attention? Other than the government funding better education, not really sure what else can be done. This seems like an attitude a lot of parents have that boys don't need school as much as their girls do for some reason so they don't push their boys to get good grades. I saw this a lot when I was a kid. Girls would get grounded for bad grades, parent didn't give a fuck if their boys got straight C's…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:25 PM
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They're used in small shootings and household violence more because more people own them than assault rifles. My husband's mom's friend had a kid who shot himself in the face after finding his dad's gun in a glove box, that stuff is pretty common. When people show up to a mass shooting event they're is way more deaths than when they show up with a pistol. Assault rifles cuz way more destruction, gory bodily injury, and death when they are used. I know the data well, I also own a few guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:05 PM
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Yeah but go compare the number of deaths when a pistol or shotgun is used vs assault weapons. It's not even comparable. There's a reason mass shooters pick assault rifles when they decide to do their thing instead of a little .45 that fits in their palm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:59 PM
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Okay well enjoy your kids getting blasted out of their desks at school or the mall or the movies or wherever cuz some psycho got bored 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:47 PM
1

Why is it our responsibility to get a handle on the middle east? Those people have been killing each other long before the united States was a thing and they will be long after it isn't anymore. It's been well over two years and Putin has still failed to take Ukraine and expand the war as he planned. I think we're doing an alright job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:44 PM
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She's talking about assault weapons. We're litterally the only country that constantly worries about mass shootings. It's dumb. We're the dumbest country.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:42 PM
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Trump never actually got around to deporting that many people he just made a bunch of noise about it. Also Harris has not once said she wants to ban guns. In fact she owns guns. Please just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:28 PM
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You're voting for an incestuous dirty old senile mam and probably pedophile. Also trump hires a LOT of illegal immigrants at his businesses. He doesn't actually care about that, he just blows smoke up y'all's asses cuz he knows y'all are dumb enough to eat it up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:23 PM
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Doesn't surprise me dudes here want the guy who constantly wants to fuck his own daughter https://youtu.be/8EPEkk6qWkg?si=wHJXeFwqj4y027OV https://youtu.be/atB91L_T0P0?si=owicMdzQU75sgyC3 Seriously who talks about their own kid like this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:17 PM
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Dude lots of people travel wtf are you going on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:18 AM
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There's always gonna be someone disapproving of your choices, why wouldn't you just do what you want anyway??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:31 PM
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There's all kinds of niche side hustles and shit to get into. My fiance used to make like $50k on the side flipping niche art posters. I know another guy who makes 70-80k a year buying out a fuck ton of leggo sets and selling them off for 10x the price a couple years later to leggo nerds. Shit Ill likely make about 10k this year on the side selling rare-ish propagated plants out of my green house and that wasn't even THAT much work. None of those opportunities were a thing 40 years ago like they…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:24 PM
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Get our act together how? What does that mean to you exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:42 PM
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What steps exactly should women take to make men want to get their shit together andb be bare minimum motivated not live with their parents or be homeless? There's plenty of good jobs out there, more ways to make money today than ever before. How is an individual man choosing to live destitute my problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:32 PM
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No it just sounds like Islamic las Vegas and a lot further away. Doesn't seem like my vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:08 PM
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I mean, do you really think they're isnt a significant amount of people out there, both men and women, who will not vote a woman into presidency no matter what? Maybe not as many as 50 years ago, but they exist. Trust me I have some in my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:46 PM
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Did they dm you or interact with your account or just follow you??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:31 PM

I mean have you been to a red state these days?? The deep south, aka the reddest part of the country, has the highest rates of diabetes in the world. I remember driving past those republican "they stole the election" protests in my majority liberal PNW town and they were all mostly fat, had liver spots, beer guts, etc. my husband's very conservative dad just had most of hos foot removed from advanxed diabetes complcations and has had multiple open heart surgeries and his conservative family memb…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:54 PM
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And Europeans used to ritually kill people for "practicing witchcraft" and slaughter people for all kinds of other dumb shit reasons. Not sure why people think it's so much more moral when white people ritualistically kill people for superstitious reasons throughout history but yeah let's justify genocide against Aztecs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:37 PM
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Well there's tons of male cops who have done the exact same thing and never went to jail, a lot of them dont even lose their jobs, much less get 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:46 PM

Being forced to carry a rapists baby 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:55 AM
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If you have any siblings or cousins who have kids then it won't end.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:02 PM
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That's why you don't publicly announce your "girlfriend" after only a couple dates. From the looks of this post it seems he was the one trying using her to show off to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:23 PM
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Yeah I've yet to meet a man in real life outside high control religious circles who care about it, but according to men here they all care about it and the ones that don't secretly actually do theyre just too scared to say it 🤷🏻‍♀️ Although I realize people with extreme opinions often think everyone secretly agrees with them because of course their thoughts are the "natural truth". I learned this from the white supremacists I grew up around. They truly think everyone is as secretly racist as the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:40 PM
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I'm not the one claiming it, red piller men here claim it daily. Go talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:25 AM
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Ask red pillers and purity enforcers 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:09 AM
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I was talking to the guy I replied to because they have a red pill tag and harping on women about their n count is a popular rp position. If you don't agree then my comment doesn't apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:56 PM
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Wish y'all would make up your mind on whether body count for women is a big deal or nah. Cuz women being shamed for a high body count while men are praised for theirs would absolutely be the higher cost here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:33 PM
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You know where else was a melting pot of Europeans? Europe. They can't seem to stay in place though. If people didn't want America to be a melting pot then a bunch of white people shouldn't have moved to a continent already full of brown people, who then forcefully brought over a bunch of black people. I grew up in a multicultural area and it was a good experience for me 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:23 PM
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When did I say that? Most of these victims were little girls
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:27 AM
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Well they weren't drag queens, they weren't involved in he gay community, and most of them dated and married women when they weren't diddling kids sooo call it what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:23 AM
1

I know so many people who were sexually abused as kids. Not a single one was by a drag queen. Quite a few of them were from straight men in their church. All of them were by straight men from somewhere period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:21 AM

Women like well rounded, sociable intelligence. Competence. Most of the math competition dudes I knew in school were so autistic they couldn't think or talk about anything else. Also playing a musical instrument and being socially competent enough to be in a functioning band is a signal of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:11 PM
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We let church pastors read to children all the time, guess which one is more likely to diddle said children? Hint- it's not the drag queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:23 PM
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I, unlike a bunch of Republicans apparently, am not willing to give up my constitutional rights and live under a dictatorship just to punish drag queens for some reason. Y'all weird as fuck for that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:53 PM
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I honestly wouldn't have an issue with porn if a lot of men who watch it didn't actually hate the porn stars the watch perform for being in the porn they enjoy and have orgasms to. Society, especially men, treat women who have done porn horribly. I'm not really comfortable with an industry that creates women for men to hate and take their frustrations on later on after they get their jollies from it. They get harassed, have trouble getting other jobs afterwards, get denied bank accounts, housing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:44 PM
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Those people literally folded the second that one women climbing the barricade got shot in the face. Not one of those people were prepared to face actual violence. All it would take to beat a lot of those folks is cutting off their insulin supply lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:13 PM
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At least they both get to do cartwheels, that's true equality right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:03 PM
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To be fair a lot of his kids were conceived by IVF not actual sex lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:33 AM
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To YOU. You're not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:33 AM
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You're literally crying about it right now. She's been in a relationship for about a decade now. I don't know any tatted women who have problems getting men. Lots of men like tattoos. This revenge fantasy shit is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:16 PM
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Or you just get an edge boyfriend with tattoos. Women who get tattoos are totally fine with them coming with the feature of repelling men who cry about women being too edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:43 PM
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If the boot doesn't fit, don't throw a fit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:35 PM
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Most of the men here in in the comments of random women probably https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTF2LBKe4/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:29 PM
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Omg did she photo shop her droopy eye to make them looks even?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:40 AM
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He still would do it if he cared, it's not like you can't see the pile of dishes every time you walk into the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:49 PM
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I mean she's not wrong, if he cares he wouldn't have forgotten to do the dishes probably over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:42 PM
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I don't really see how being a "whore" is any kind of equivalent to the violence rape and murder shes talking about, you're just kinda proving her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:40 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTFY2sntf/ She speak no lies here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:06 PM
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How the fuck are cigars and marijuana considered a hobby lmao unless you're actually growing weed or tobacco for fun how can that be a hobby??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:26 PM
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And what makes you think women don't feel like their world ended after their man cheats? Pretty much every divorce in my social circles in the last few years has occured because the man cheated and the women were crushed. Women also file for divorce way more often because they won't put up with it. This argument is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:07 AM
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Yeah most normal people I know select partners over compatibility like lifestyle, health choices, conversation chemistry, sense of humor, taste in media,politics, intellectual interests, general enjoyment they experience around a person, etc. My husband isn't like other men because we're compatible in ways I'm not with any other men I've known and he feels the same for me, the fact that hes had sex before he met me isnt gonna make those other compatibility things matter less. I don't see men as …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:31 PM
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"Like nearly societies on earth have tried to constrain female sexuality in some shape way or form. If you go to Africa and other parts of the world outside of Europe that is, a lot of women undergo FGM(Female genital mutilation) a practice invented to keep women from sleeping around" And you think that's reasonable?! Again, these men who do these things are sociopaths and are to be avoided. I have no desire to give men like this what they want because their views on women are abhorrent. Religio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:19 PM
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You can rationalize your hate for women being horny all day idc, if you're "having fun" is viewed by you as causing harm to women then that's gross. I would never want to be one of the good ones or whatever for a man who sees sex with promiscious women as "fun" but also sees them as worthless and wants a little princess when he decides hes done "having fun" with women he hates cuz thats fucking weird. If a guy doesn't view sex as a mutually beneficial activity that doesn't cause harm to either p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:11 PM
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I know there's men who think horrible things about women who like sex. I avoid those men. Like please, why would I want to fuck someone who sees sex with women as a thing that makes her worth less in society? A man who thinks his dick litterally causes harm to women and hates women's sexuality that much yet still tries to inflict this worth damaging things on women is a sociopath in my eyes sooo no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:38 PM
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Why would you have to explain to your kids that their mom is "ran through" lmao. The amount of times I've wondered about either of my parents 'body count" is literally zero. Nobody I know has ever once expressed dismay over their moms sex life, it's not something normal people even care to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:11 PM
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I just wouldn't date a guy who expresses hang ups on sexual history, I don't have the energy to constantly soothe the insecurities of a man like that. I'm not gonna lie I'll just leave. It's never been a problem for me anyway cuz I always dated and ended up marrying in the punk rock scene where men are usually pretty secure on that front.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:17 PM
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Theres just so many men out there who don't have weird hangups about sex or have OCD retroactive jealousy issues so why would I waste my time on a guy who does. Shit would get annoying real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:46 PM
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Pretty much all skincare besides sunscreen and like one prescription retin a product is all a scam so you aren't missing out really. Literally all you need is sunscreen and to wash your face exfoliate sometimes. Moisturizer doesnt hurt but it won't do shit without sunscreen use and you don't need a super expensive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:47 AM
1

Well how else exqctly does one get a baby inside a woman who's in a relationship who alsk wants nothing to do with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:41 PM
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Yeah 😢🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:07 PM
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Lmao I was so busy yesterday I totally missed Elon making a gross rape joke at Taylor swifty wtf is this universe?? I keep having to remind myself that man is in his fucking 50s and not a 14 year old edge lord. To think back when I was in college everyone thought he was this super mega genius who was gonna sling shot into the future 😂 The repubos really aren't doing a good job at making the case that they aren't fuckin weird. Taylor don't want your weird sperm dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:54 PM
1

Because a lot of women feel more feminine when their man is taller. Same reason a lot of tall men express desire for and fetishize really short/petite women, it makes them feel more masculine. It's really that simple. It's not super logical but humans rarely are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:49 PM
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Well men who are 5'3 or shorter are a lot more rare than men in the 5'8-5'11 range. I personally don't even know any men that short.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:46 AM
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Think about what? My times abroad where I've watched English speakers go into a meltdown because people in bumfuck nowhere middle of panama or Columbia didn't know what the fuck they were saying when yelling English at rural locals? Yeah it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:38 AM
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They aren't illiterate, they speak and read their own language plus a lot of English they re learning. They'll eventually know even more words than you do. Maybe you aren't but Americans are notorious for going to other countries and screaming English at everyone. We're only as incompatibleas we choose to be. I've spent a lot of time in Spanish speaking countries, they aren't that different from us at any significant level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:30 AM
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The United States is like the only Western country where learning or even hearing another language besides English is anger inducing. All my European friends speak 3-5 languages or more, Americans are so fucking embarrassing with how we refuse to make ourselves a part of the rest of the world. My family reacted to me learning Spanish as shameful and weird and like...that's so embarrassing. My opportunities increased tenfold learning g some Spanish. I traveled around Mexico and Central America wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:13 AM
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Lol yah the source does need to be considered. I guess it's possible to be THAT initially off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:28 PM
1

Dude bar owners know that a primary reason young men go to bars and spend money is to talk to women. They aren't gonna actively create an environment that makes men feel like they can't talk to women because that would hurt their bottom line.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:05 PM
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It was a pretty chill college town I guess. I'm not saying fights never happened it town but it certainly wasn't a daily or even weekly occurrence. I saw more fights happen in the street in front of the business strip over who knows what than I did inside the actual bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:54 PM
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I grew up and went to college in a medium sized college town in the deep south. I've also never had a boyfriend get into a fight while we were hanging out. Y'all must run in some wild crowds. Oooh i just rememberd one time at a house party a guy friend punched his room mate in the face for grabbing his girlfriends ass. Again these people knew each other already though. Only time I've ever witnessed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:01 PM
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I mean can you walk me through step by step how these interactions went? Pretty much all men I know have never had this experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:55 PM
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Not exactly. One time I saw a guy throw a full glass of beer at another guy who was dating the guy who threw the beers ex girlfriend and I guess he was pissed about it. They obviously had previous beef with each other before that evening though lol. I did see a pretty gnarly fight break out over a pool game once though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:48 PM
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I've worked in multiple bars in my life where people would flirt and hook up regularly, never have I seen a woman complain about a dude saying "hey" to her, never have I seen a man get kicked out for saying "hey" to a woman. I've also been to many parties and bars, never seen a guy get kicked out unless he was actively gropeing women or threatening them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:40 PM
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i just have a feeling there's more to the story than you just saying "hey"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:30 PM
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Why do men here act like they're legit going to get arrested or beat up if they ask a woman out or even just talk to her? Men keep expressing that they're sooo scared to even approach women anymore because of me too but I've literally never seen a man get in trouble for just asking a woman out politely. I've known women with actual stalkers who couldn't get the police to care, why do these men think it's a crime to simply talk to women all of a sudden? It seems really hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:24 PM
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I mean the only man who's attempted to rape me was pretty quiet, short, and had the personality of a piece of cardboard. You can be "boring" and also a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:45 PM
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When the data is there and men make a me too movement of their own ill take your claim seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:11 AM
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Please enlighten me on the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:07 AM
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Again since you apparently didn't read it the first time "I also background check men before hanging out with them alone" Are you trolling at this point? No but I'd shoot someone if they tried to assault me and there was no other avenue to get away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:06 AM
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The vast majority of rape victims are women, it is primarily a woman's issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:04 AM
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Oh I knew most of the people there pretty well since high school, he was the new one around. And like I said I wasn't drunk, just tired he just thought/hoped I was drunk. None of those circumstances should have been bad, he was bad. I'm allowed to sleep on my friends couch. And yeah I put him on blast I told everybody. Two of my guy friends confronted him the next weekend when saw him show up to a party and told him they knew what he was and they were gonna beat the shit out of him if he ever ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:01 AM
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Men don't report getting raped because other men won't take them seriously like they don't take women seriously, you can't blame the feminists on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:54 AM
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I got my chl when I was 20 and I carry a gun that my dad bought me Because he hinks men are dangerous lol. I also background check me before hanging out with them alone before I got married and tried to date men vetted in my social groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:46 AM
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Ummm I've had one man attempt to rape me if we aren't counting randomly getting groped in a bar or something. He was dating an acquaintance at the time. He was white, like 5'7ish with short brown hair. He was just a regular dude, didn't know him well. Second time I was ever around him I fell asleep on a friend's couch when we were hanging out after a couple beers and he pretended to fall asleep on another couch in the room. Our friends along with his girlfriend I guess left to go get food and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:37 AM
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It's only insulting if youre a weirdo who gets offended too easily to the point they start wanting to make rape easier for rapists. Over 70% of women experience sexual assault in life. If us trying to protect ourselves bothers you so much I dunno what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:25 AM
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I didn't care, I decided it didn't apply to me since I'm not religious and decided to not take it personally. Which is what you should do. According to your logic so far we shouldn't even teach kids to not steal. Or anything else regarding good or bad cuz that would be patronizing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:13 AM
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You seem to have trouble with nuance. Nobody has their guard up "24/7" but having your guard up in public is always important. Again it helps absolutely nobody but predators to act like they don't exist. I'm not gonna help predators to make irrational people like you more comfortable with your irrational thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:09 AM
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Women are told to not be promiscuous when we're young lmao. All we got was the wait till marriage speech growing up. And yeah, I firmly believe men should be taught consent, like drilled into their head because yeah they don't get it still apparently or we wouldn't be here rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:03 AM
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Taking that personally is completely illogical if you don't see yourself as a potential rapist. Not sure what to tell you. Your discomfort in taking things like his personally for no reason isn't more important than justice for assault victims, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:56 AM

Right, we know men don't care about rapists, that's the issue lol. That's why so many women see men as potential predators, because you loudly say you don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:52 AM
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They're saying rapists are bad, and people who defend rapists are bad. Women coming out about their assault isn't saying men are evil. And there's no benefit to anyone but rapists/predators for women to let their guard down. Why would I want to benefit rapists? Why would YOU want to benefit rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:49 AM
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Sooo care to elaborate on how you have personal be negatively affected by other women coming out about their sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:46 AM

Well being loud obviously did something because we're still here talking about it years later. Sooo people should just be quiet and do nothing?? That's your suggestion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:44 AM
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I can't really imagine why you would, I don't feel guilty for crimes I don't commit, it doesn't make sense to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:42 AM

Well no but the idea is if people are loud enough about the problem then hopefully institutions like the police will be forced to start giving a fuck. Or we can just do nothing and keep things shitty like they are, which is what a lot of men here seem to want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:39 AM

Because the police don't give a fuck, like at all. The massive backlog of untested rape kits in every police department in every state proves this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:35 AM
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The me too movement was just women coming out about their sexual assault experiences without shame so that others who had been through it and the rest of society would realize it isn't rare and that's it's an issue that needs a spotlight so something can be done about it. I don't know any men who don't sexually assault women who felt negatively affected by the movement, they just think it's sad that so many women have had to go through that trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:31 AM
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Ive always had an athletic body type and it's never stopped fat overweight men who clearly never work out from trying to shoot their shot with me 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don't think most people of either gender care about dating someone with their same body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:45 PM
1

Speak for yourself, not everyone has such poor coping skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:57 PM
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I have zero clue how much money any man I've ever rejected makes now because I don't keep up with them or think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:55 PM
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It's just hilarious men here straight up regularly call men who date single moms cucks or insult men who date women over a 21 bmi all day but then come breaking their ankles crying running in defense of a guy who did both those things and insult someone who just observed it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:38 AM
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If you're looking for maturity ppd is not the place to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:50 AM
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Arent you too old to be getting butthurt and overly defensive over the situation of some asshole you don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:34 AM
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Its hilarious that you're on here defending an asshole stranger who probably wouldn't even like you if he knew you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:25 AM
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It's not triggering it's hilarious. My husband knows I showed him, we laugh at shitty people from our past together it's fun watching shitty people fuck their lives up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:22 AM
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I dunno I have a pretty cool circus show gig next weekend that might provide me more dopamine than my exes wife's lazy uneven eye did. Life is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:19 AM
1

Sry my ex knocking up a single mom who looks like Pearl Davis and aging poorly is so triggering to you 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:15 AM
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What other exchanges are you referring to??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:10 AM
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Quickly checking out a couple of pics on his wife's profile after she randomly popped up on my people you may know FB thing isn't being "obsessed" lol we haven't had anything to do with each other on over a decade. She was probably the one looking me up since she popped up on my thing, we only have one mutual friend that's an old co worker of mine from college.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:08 AM
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Not sure why it's relevant but my husband is the lead manager at his company right under the owners 🤷🏻‍♀️ he's doing pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:00 AM
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Oh for sure, we haven't had anything to do with each other on over a decade. But his wife's FB showed up on my people you may know thing so of course I had to creep a couple pics. Sometimes it's funny to see how things go for people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:59 AM
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He was the mean one lol, I'm just making observations, I didn't to this to his life this was all him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:57 AM
2

Google says that's also legal in the UK 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:41 AM
1

What country do you live?? 19 and 17 is totally legal where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:33 AM
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Hahahahaaa I just saw a picture of my shittiest most toxic ex's wife who was a single mom he accidently knocked up from his work and guilt married ( after he used to say he'd neeeeever date a single mom lol) and she looks EXACTLY like Pearl Davis but fatter. Like same weird uneven eyes and stringy red hair and thin lips and everything. And my ex also lost all of his hair and has aged like 20 years in the last decade since I last ran into him. Incredible. Loving this for him so much. My week has …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:19 AM
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Speak for yourself not everyone is a sociopath 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:25 AM
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Flare checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:58 PM
1

Well most people who are rageful and un attractive are gonna have a hard time at any age to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:03 PM
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At least emotional intimacy doesn't result in unwanted pregnancy or stds or and increased "body count".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:26 PM
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My 46 year old neighbor just got married to a 58 year old very successful psychiatrist and part time local classical musician who's over 6 feet tall. This narrative that women can't find love with decent men over 40 is just....not accurate at all. It's revenge fantasy at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:10 PM
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Oooh you have my favorite eye color!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:51 PM
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I know it's easier said than done, but you really should work on the bitterness before entering a long term relationship, or youre gonna end up taking it out on the one person who doesn't deserve it and it will sabotage a potentially good thing. I've seen it so many times in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:47 PM
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Well that's why I said men with low self esteem in my OP, not red pill men. It's just the takes from men here plus my life experiences have confirmed to me that dealing with low self esteem men just ain't worth the stress it brings most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:43 PM
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I won't argue against that. But once you give a man like that a chance so often they will just suck the life out of you with their insecurities. No amount of compliments and enthusiastic sex is gonna make up for those decades of bitterness most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:38 PM
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Like actual npd? None. There was one dude I went on two dates but it didn't go anywhere cuz he seemed...off, with who I'm pretty sure was a narcissist just based on his weird vibe and behaviors I witnessed through the grape vine later on but yeah actual NPD is pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:35 PM
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Nah I've dated men with low self esteem who probably weren't into red pill shit. They still sabotaged the fuck out the relationship with their low self esteem and well as other aspects of their life constantly. It's stressful and not worth dealing with. No amount of trying to lift someone up and love them won't make them love themselves if they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:33 PM
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Men here with their takes always remind us why avoiding relationships with men with low self esteem is crucial. Like imagine you're trying to have a chill relationship with a dude and he's just constantly paranoid and grilling you about being "alpha widowed" or constantly comparing himself t "chad" or constantly thinking you're gonna cheat, or the man is just constantly straight up jealous of you. Why would any women want to deal with that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:03 PM
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It would seem you didn't read my comment at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:08 PM
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Oh it's 100% harder to find a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:30 AM
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I don't have flair but...I don't really feel like "sensing" misogyny is actually a thing. You'd be surprised how many dumbass dudes will straight up drop manosphere dog whistles on women first messages/or dates, there's nothing to "sense" because these guys aren't even being subtle about it. Less attractive men are more likely to consume manosphere content so misogynistic attractive men usually won't use that language as much and fly under the radar for longer in the early stages, plus attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:27 AM
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Once, a tiny one from my aunt for graduation. Never cared enough to test it, I'm not really a fan of diamond jewelry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:30 PM
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I live in a pretty medium size college town and my area has over half the things you mentioned you can go out and do 🤷🏻‍♀️ I've also lived in major cities where I never had trouble searching those things out so I just don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:19 PM

Lmao I would bet $100 right now that that dude that drove off will be on Reddit it two years complaining about how his wife "blindsided" him with divorce papers and just "didn't see it coming". The divorce rates clearly show lots of women are only willing to put up with bullshit like that for so long. I literally know someone who divorced someone who did careless shit like that 'for fun" frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:02 AM
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I'm absolutely not doxxing myself to prove my life experience for coomers on the internet. But honestly the latter would be getting more attention than the former where I live cuz nobody dresses like the later and lots of people dress like the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:55 PM
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Well last time I went out in a tank and a little skirt I only got catcalled once sooo uncorking to your very unscientific unrepeatable anecdote I guess covering up gets me more attention 🤷🏻‍♀️ And comparing kids catcalling adults to grown ass pedophiles hitting on children is...weird and dumb as hell. Dressing like a prostitute isn't just revealing skin, it's a whole aesthetic with certain styles, fabrics, and patterns that makes a "hooker" look. I have outfits that show more skin than many pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:28 PM
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"The real question is, how much do you get hit on when you dress as slutty as possible compared to when you are actively trying to discourage the male gaze" I'm telling you literally the same amount. That's why I don't factor it in when picking outfits, I wear what I feel comfortable wearing because it will be the same either way. I got hot on and cat called by grown men in fucking middle school wearing a modest school uniform. I don't know why it's so hard to believe that men don't care because…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:39 PM
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Because my lived experience has shown me that I will indeed still be pursued whether or not I show my skin or not. Men don't care if we are sowing skin or not, they still want pussy. Or they still want to make women feel uncomfortable in public. Last time I went out in the baggiest clothes in my closet I got hit on twice. How much more can I cover my skin? Men don't care, they still remember there's pussy underneath the clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:33 PM
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Why do you think I'm lying? I don't really see the point in having these conversations if you're just gonna accuse someone of lying about their lives experience. Clothing amount doesn't make men forget that we have vaginas underneath that they desperately want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:26 PM
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Yeah it's never really mattered for me, I could wear booty shorts and tank top outside or I could wear pants 3 sizes too big and a huge jacket and get catcalled all or followed/bothered the same. Covering myself up has never made a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:29 PM
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"Legally, unless proven in a court of law, such events did not legally happen." So are you saying that since the police never caught whoever broke into my car last year and it never went to court, my windows actually never got busted out, my shit didn't actually get stolen, and I didn't actually have to pay over $800 to get my windows repaired? You realize how insane that logic is, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:14 PM
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Maybe not, but being smart and competent enough to achieve a high salary is biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:20 PM
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Well lots of couples get together like this sooo why not??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:30 PM
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Umm no you said he was 20, that's not "teen pregnancy" that's statutory rape that ended up with a pregnant minor 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:28 PM
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"Are you being honest with this? Because those men have a nickname, and it is 'deatbeat.' Nobody who is mature enough stands up for those guys." I mean are YOU being honest? Weekly there's child support topics on here with tons of men whining about maybe having to pay child support for kids nobody even wants to have with them and they get tons of upvotes from men here and rarely do i see them get called out without the guy getting down votes for "white nighting" "If anything, men attack women fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:06 PM
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I mean literally yes? They had to cut open her stomach to get me out and she almost bled to death twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:03 PM

What consequence? Being sad because you couldnt force a woman to rip her body and wreck her mental health so you could pass on your genetic material?? That's nowhere near comparable to the consequences women face from abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:47 PM

Abortion is an adult responsibility that men will never have to worry about experiencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:09 PM

Every day men here make a post about how they shouldn't have to take care of their kids financially or labor wise and they're bitter at the concept even if they don't have kids. Are y'all really shocked that women don't want to bring kids into a world where a lot of men loudly don't and won't care about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:44 PM
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Idc if I have kids or not, if I had dementia I'd want to go out before it got bad enough too. I've seen people go through it, it's horrific for the person experiencing it and for everyone around them. If I could take an extra high dose of morphine and slip out and not have to go through my mind melting away slowly over several years then yeah, count me in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:00 PM
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"I have chosen a very special type of man that wants to know which child is "most his" by the highest percentage so he can claim that one as "his baby". He just likes the numbers, but they are necessary for child support too." Wat. Sry this might be one of the weirder things I've ever read in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:46 PM
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I wouldn't break up with him for this being cheating, Id break up with him for being mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:57 PM

Do gen-z young adults really not party like us millennials did? I keep seeing all the sentiments from you adults about how they wish they could have experienced gen z party scenes and I'm just like, are y'all kids not going to random house parties anymore, or meeting under random bridges or rural fields to get drunk? How did you guys seem to forget how to have reckless rebellious fun?? Maybe that's why some of y'all seem to have such issues having social lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:53 PM
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Drugs are also illegal, it's never stopped people who want to use them from using them. The local prostitutes here have no problem finding all the clients they want even though it's technically illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:10 PM
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I don't think people are referring to those who gradually gain like 10-20 pounds as they age into their 50s and 60s when they complain about their partners bodies changing. Nobody is ever as tiny as they were as a teenager. But I've seen people gain 50-100+ pounds after getting into a relationship within just a few years while still fairly young, including one of my exes. That's absolutely a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:08 PM

It's normal to gain a little weight, but the obesity rate in the united States is something else, especially in places like the deep south. Where I grew up older people are very fat on average, rates of diabetes are through the roof. But moving to the pnw I've noticed older people are far thinner and healthier. They dont have a huge list of health problems because they eat healthier and live active lifestyles. I know older folks here way up in their 70s who hike for miles still and run farms, ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:13 PM
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And I'm explaining that it would weird me out that someone wasn't willing to socialize with other humans ever outside of the quest of getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:13 PM
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I just listed the other reason I'm with him 🥴 Not really sure what any of this has to do with me considering people with no friends red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:09 PM
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Sex is a big part of it sure, but he's also a lot of fun to be around. And he's a good housemate. We get along well. Probably because he's good at socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:57 PM
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Because I wanted someone to regularly socialize with, travel with, go dancing with, build a life with, have physical affection with, etc. if I didn't like socializing I certainly wouldn't want someone in my house during all my free time who needed me to go out to music events and birthday parties and stuff with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:50 PM
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Why would you want a partner if you don't like socializing or talking to people??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:37 PM
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I adore my partner but I have friends too. My partner adores me but he has friends too. It's weird not to. If they don't need people why do they need me? If the answer is just "sex" that's not gonna work for me. Someone who is a loner shut in just isn't gonna be a good match for me, that's all there is to it. My husband probably would t have ever dated me if I didn't have any friends. We wouldn't have even met if I didn't have any friends 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:28 PM
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"How are you going to stop the men with options from exercising those options when it's women who are willingly participating?" The same way you expect women to stop exercising their options for the sake of a monogamous marriage when tons of men are willing to participate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:59 PM
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Well I would A. Wonder why and how there's not a single other person on this earth youve encountered who you didn't want to talk to? B. Id wonder what made me so different than every other person. C. I'd be really worried you'd become hyper dependent on me as I'd be your only social outlet. It's a lot of pressure to be all the things to a person. Or worse they're the type of person to ignore you and neglect your needs until they just want sex because they don't value socializing, with me or anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:33 PM
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I don't think they are so different. When you break it down the only real daily consequential difference between me and my husband and friends I've been room mates with in the past is we regularly fuck and and kiss and cuddle. We talk about our lives, news, media, humor, and gossip like friends, we do activities together like friends, we text each other memes like friends, we have inside jokes like friends, etc. Lots of people have kids and still have friends. Sure they probably aren't going out…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:53 PM
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If a guy reaches adulthood and can't figure out how to effectively interact and make and maintain connections with other people or manage his time in a way that makes room for socializing then how is he gonna interact and maintain a connection with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:37 PM
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"being a protector" LMAO what does this look like to you, so like if the pervert rapist robber kidnapper dude breaks in you're just gonna stand there and let them rape/kidnap/rob/ your family cuz "sry honey but you had sex before you met me I'm just gonna stand here or run 🤷🏻‍♀️"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:39 AM
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Probably the only thing I'll ever agree with red pillers on. Morbid obesity is pretty gross I don't blame anybody for walking away from a relationship because somebody gained a fuck ton of weight, I did once 🤷🏻‍♀️ It's not fun dating someone who can't do a bunch of stuff because they're too tired and sweaty from carrying their own weight around that they have too much of because they eat trash all day and won't do anything active.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:08 AM
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Thanks mister cynical doomer!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:52 PM
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If money goes away then I'll grow my food on my 5 farm and fish salmon out of my creek until I die 🤷🏻‍♀️ it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:26 PM

We put all the money we save not having kids into retirement/investments that were growing. We will probably be alright if we're fortunate enough to make it to old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:00 PM

How many kids have you had? I don't even care about "consuming product" I'm pretty low on the materialistic scale. But when politicians, cooperate entities, army recruiters, adoption agencies, for profit prison owners, medical institutions, etc are all loudly salivating at my uterus for the potential dollar signs it could make their already rich asses it's not very motivating in this climate to bring kids into for my problem with authority self. Not having kids and not feeding the soulless machi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:33 PM

People have the choice now days to not have to punch out child after child into poverty situations anymore so it's not shocking that many opt out of not being in that situation if they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:53 PM
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Dude your link litterally says a female prostitute or an offensive word against promiscuous women. Which goes against what you said about it not being derogatory 🤷🏻‍♀️ Yeah I don't regret any sex I've ever had. Not sure why anyone would in most cases. Most of that shit about pair bonding is overstated in my opinion and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:29 AM
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Whore is a slang term for prostitute, they are interchangable/ mean the same thing. So you consider your pair bonding abilities to be broken because of your high body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:20 AM
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Most of the sources I've seen survey the average being about 7 for women and 16 for men in the United States. I guess we just have differing opinions on what "huuuuge" means. I don't think they were having sex for money, just fun. But yeah me and a lot of other people out there dont think having sex makes someone a bad person or deserving of being called derogatory things like "whore".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:05 AM
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Or I've just always ran in circles where people don't give a shit about "body counts". I don't know any grown adults who talk about caring about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:26 PM
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I literally haven't had a guy ask my body count since high school. It makes me wonder if a lot of the dudes here are in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:39 PM
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9 over a lifetime really isn't high though? I know people in college who got that many in a couple months just going to parties and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:35 PM
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"I think you're going to the extreme here but we cna run with that. What if your man was a writer? Would you be mad at him for canceling plans because he was too focused on writing his novel? Self published mind you?" If his writing hobby that he wasn't making any money on or had deadlines for was making me feel like there was constantly an 80-90% chance he was gonna flake on plans we made in advance and just made him unreliable and inconsistent in general like my ex did with video games then ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:37 PM
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I honestly never even really considered video games a "hobby" any more than I consider watching tv or tiktok a hobby, it's rather media consumption. Thing with dating men super into video games is that it's all they want to do. My ex would constantly cancel plans we had cuz he didn't "feel good" but would then just play video games all day. It's all he would focus on when he got home from work and on the weekends. You might as well be dating a heroin addict who's passed out all the time, they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:17 PM
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Well the best couples I know ARE best friends who happen to fuck and run a household together. I consider my husband to be my best friend, we do everything together. You're choosing the person you're going to spend more time with than anyone for the rest of your life so I don't see how anyone logically wouldn't want there partner to be their best friend. UNLESS you are a man who just sees women as service providers and views relationships as transactional. Those men probably don't care to be fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:51 PM
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Was this thread supposed to make me want kids? Cuz the OP and all the comments just did the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:47 PM
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To be fair I've had my fashion design work shared on Facebook pages without credit and have just straight up had my photos stolen before and it drove me nuts but I never took it as far as that person haha. I'd understand more if you removed the watermark but yeah, it is considered good internet manners to link the creator/designer when reposting their work somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:44 PM
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Yeah I disagree with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:10 PM
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Omg I know what child tax credits are, he wants to more than double it and tax childless people even more. I'm not even against child tax credits, but I like how you glossed over the rest of his stances and went for the least inconsequential one. Again I don't think you're arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:55 PM
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Well maybe old people should have thought about that before they more than tripled the world population and turned property into "investment opportunities" and implementing tax credit systems they didn't have to deal with in their youth making property in affordable for young people now. India has a huge young population and they got kids hunting cock roaches in the street for food, is that not a huge problem? Boomers made the obviously unsustainable ponzi scheme and now they're mad that it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:47 PM
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We have more people here than ever before. If we can't make shit work with 8 billion people what exactly are we gonna do when we double that number in a generation or two??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:10 PM
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He advocates banning abortion, he advocates for penalizing people without kids with higher taxes, he advocates for not letting people without kids vote. You don't have to legislate forced parenthood exactly but his goal is to make people without kids second class citizens with far less rights,which results in people being forced to have children if they want their rights back. I just can't really see how you're arguing in good faith at this point. Either your head is in the sand or your doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:31 PM
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"Natality is less than 1.4 child per woman. I just dont understand why that's a problem. They're population has grown 3 million since 1950. I'd argue their country is nice BECAUSE they aren't having shit ton of kids. Go to India if you wanna see what happens when societies are constantly increasing their population by having tons of kids. Then tell me which lifestyle you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:07 PM
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Alright let's use our cause an effect skills and context clue searching skills taught to us in like 4th grade. If a politician believes all women need to have babies, as he has stated, and day care is bad and shouldn't be used or considered normal, as he has stated, and that moms should not value work as much as they do rasing banies, as he stated, what kinds of policies do you think this politician is going to back once they are granted the power to do so?? Go on, think about it real hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:58 PM
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Okay, what intent are you perceiving from his words? Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:50 PM
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Well a quick Google search pulls his stance on the existence of daycare immediately. Again you can read between the lines on what the implications of his stance are. There's a bunch of other stuff if you google it, just go listen to his speeches. "Despite his purported support for families, Vance has harshly criticized efforts to make daycare more affordable. He called the concept of universal daycare "class war against normal people." Vance said that "normal Americans" do not want to "shunt the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:44 PM
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He's spoken multiple times about how women in the work force drives down wages and that women should stay home to raise babies. You can use your big brain to read between the not so subtle lines to understand what he means by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:28 PM
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JD Vance, the vice presidential nominee for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:22 PM
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I just don't understand why everyone needs to have a bunch of kids. The human population on earth is literally 4x the amount of people from when my parents were born in the 1950s. Quadrupled in just a few generations. We've driven so many animals species extinct just on my short time in life and counting. We aren't even close to figuring out how to properly manage our resources efficiently like at all for the people already here. And yet the government is telling me I'm doing something wrong by …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:43 PM
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"The woman I'm dating rode me this morning (she was hesitant on PIV for a bit). I assumed she was on birth control because she didn't ask me to use a condom and I was too horny to question it. Well long story short, she got mad at me for not pulling out, and had me go get her plan B." Lol this is why I don't feel sorry for men having to pay child support. "Why the fuck is a single tablet 50 bucks?" Because for profit healthcare system. And also they know it's cheaper than a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:47 PM
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I'm a straight woman btw. But I do know a lot about executive dysfunction and and neurodivergence and sex doesn't really make people with ADHD have less ADHD for men or women. If anything sex makes me relaxed and way less motivated. If men and my husband have morning sex I'm gonna be needing that extra cup of coffee to keep myself from going back to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:14 PM
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Eating fast food and bullying high school kids with after school jobs are both an L tbh 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:08 PM
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Yeah I've been trying daily just set a timer for 20 min and focus on nothing but cleaning a part of the house until it beeps. It surprises me how much gets done in that amount of time when I don't let myself get distracted. It's def helped me keep a more organized space in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:17 PM
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Having executive function issues is so shitty and annoying sometimes. Always way harder to just decide what needs to get done when and making the first step is so daunting for absolutely no reason. My brain makes mountains out of the easiest tasks, then when I finally work out all the steps and get over the anxiety hump to actually do the thing its always a way easier, less of an ordeal than my brain talked me into thinking it would be. You'd think I'd have figured out how to more efficiently ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:56 PM
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I don't understand why anyone ever did. Shit got blown so far out of proportion, people are so fuckin dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:50 PM
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Oooh conservatives who don't read even their own shit, color me shocked. This is why talking to conservatives is like slamming my head into a door. Y'all aren't even educated on your own party or stances. Dunning Kruger in full force.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:54 PM
1

It's easy to be religious when you live under governments that will literally slaughter you if you aren't publicly a part of that religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:28 PM
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I mean you don't have to be a mega genius to see common sense. It's like saying someone thinks their the new Einstein because they noticed the sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:26 PM
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That's generally the age when men who have the goal of marriage start having the money needed to make that happen so they focus on seeking long term relationships more. Plus I think a lot of people know on some level that dating is often pretty slim pickins after late 20s so people are more likely to stick with where they are if it's good enough. Also pre frontal cortex developed then so now people are focused on long term goals like career, buying a house and having children instead of living d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:11 AM

Social security is what we put in. It comes out of paychecks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:50 PM

I'm honestly surprised it's as high as 8%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:39 PM

Yaaaaasss we already have a massive exploding homeless elderly population let's make it so much worse!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:37 PM

Lol no, I'd be pissed that he called to ask me instead of just telling her no in the first place. She can hit up her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:40 PM

I never understood why people with differing reproductive goals get together. Or why didn't he bank some sperm before getting the snip just in case? Can't really be mad at anyone but yourself for not thinking all that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:34 AM
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Some women like being woken up by sex, some women absolutely do not. You should probably clarify which one your partner is before flipping the coin and guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:37 PM
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It sounds like you don't understand how the medical system works. They would ha e ran that std test during intake without even telling you anyways so this who thing is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:06 PM
1

It literally is an accusation. Just keep it confidential like the std medical records/rest results would be if you are that worried about it. Or deal with the consequences of a degraded relationship after accusing your wife of cheating. Or drop it and accept your kid is probably yours. Those are your options 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:02 PM
1

And you don't find accusing your wife of cheating if you have no reason to suspect she did problematic??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:58 PM
1

You won't get paternity frauded if you do the 23 and me omg.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:55 PM
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Well, in one scenario the stakes are literally life and death involving medical tests that likely would have been run anyway without even telling you. In the other you just want to accuse your wife of potentially cheating instead of just buying a 23 and me or whatever and swabbing your kids cheat without making it a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:53 PM
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If my kid was dying and the only potential solution is a doner transplant from the father but first they have to DNA test to make sure he's the father and an actual match, then sure. That's the only equivalent scenario to all this that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:50 PM
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But this just isn't a great metaphor for that since it's standard medical practice to std test people once a year, at least they heavily encourage you to do so. Men can and should do it too, everyone should.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:46 PM
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Well you can just do a secret DNA test on your kid if you're that worried about it. It's literally no extra effort to give my doctor the okay to run a full panel std test when they're already running my blood work and swabbing my bits for a pap smear. Plus my medical tests and results are confidential. Sometimes they just run it anyway without asking, especially in the emergency room. They tested me for stds without even telling me when I had to go to the ER with severe abdominal pain from what …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:27 PM
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Well yeah of course, why wouldn't I? Im married and I still get a yearly std test when I go in for my annual check up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:20 PM

" Curious fact is that this same woman then brought a foreigner lover into her husband's house and gaslit him into allowing said lover to live together with her." Alexa play Self Esteem by The Offspring. Lol but for real that's a really unhinged situation that guy should have definitely ejected from. This is what I mean when I say men will stay in relationships they aren't happy in for way longer than a lot of women will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:33 PM

If that's true but women file for divorce more then it's men cheating more. Thing is men often won't leave relationships they know aren't right for them, they'll just mentally check out and/or cheat, or they'll just be the shittiest partner until the woman breaks and finally files because the guy didnt want to look like the bad guy. I remember some years ago this guy in my social circle cheated on his wife. We asked him why he did it and he said like I said above, he wasnt happy in the relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:34 PM

Most of the divorces I've personally known of were because the guy went and cheated, even moved out on his wife and kids, then the wife files for divorce cuz I mean why wouldn't she, he's gone not even living in the house anymore. The man still did the monkey branching even though he's not the one filing for the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:14 PM

Man he seemed funny and this situation was intriguing from the billboard but then I checked out his Instagram and nevermind he seems really weird and off putting based off his social media presence. No wonder he felt he needed this billboard lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:58 PM

I'm not a fitness trainer by any means but all my friends who are into aeriel silk/Lyra/pole fitness type shit have like perfect flat, lean muscular tummies. One of my friends was getting a bit of a beer guy a few years ago and she got into aerial classes and her stomach was totally flat in like 4 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:15 PM

I also have a sapphire engagement ring! Never cared much for diamonds myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:25 PM
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It's hard to not write paragraphs about how amazing my husband is. He's really the most relaxing chill person I've ever been around, I rarely get stressed when he's around. He's very communicative, he's well read so he's good with articulating what needs to be said and he's good about checking in to make sure my needs are met and he knows how to state his needs. He's consistent, never had to worry about him flaking on anything. He makes an effort to resolve and prevent conflict so we can focus o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:43 PM
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Pretty sure if youve gone ten years without getting death threats about an issue until you made an inflammatory thread about it in a sub notoriously full of.angry trolls actually shows the opposite that lots of people really aren't really that unhinged about their rage against age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:43 PM
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I mean I've gotten death threats on tiktok for saying boiled eggs and avocado is a gross combination together. People on the internet are trolls and assholes and water is wet who cares. Block them and move on 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:56 PM

Dude my husband is 7 years older than me, not one person has said a word to me about it once. Nobody gives a shit. People you know sent you sent you death threats?? For being in an age gap relationship??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:13 PM
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Dude I've known women who dated and even married men older than them, way less people give a fuck than you actually think. People on the internet having opinions isn't "meddling" this isn't some deep social justice issue you're trying to make it out to be. Older conservative family members have had strong opinions on who the kids couple up with since the dawn of time I don't think that's changing any time soon. Who even is this loser scum you are referring to specifically? I'm personally glad my…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:05 PM
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"It's some weird Reddit thing where everyone grew up running off and frolicking outside all day when they were little kids." I dunno about everyone but I literally did. Me and my neighbors parents used to throw us out of the house pretty much all day during weekends and the summer and we'd go ride out bikes around all day or go play in the woods behind our neighborhood. It sounds like you grew up remarkably sheltered to the point you can't even imagine anyone growing up differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:38 PM
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Some people in the world have had different experiences or even more experiences than your 19 year old self. That's all there is to it. I don't see how you're having such a hard time accepting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:31 PM
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Well I have gotten a strong feeling from some of those videos that a lot of it is just subtle but also not so subtle fetish content.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:44 PM
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Not sure what you interact with but my insta and tiktok feeds are pretty much just gardening/foraging/nature stuff, niche circus performance shit, funny and cute cats/pets, and crafting/diy stuff. Occasionally I'll get a half naked dancing woman but I just scroll on. Gotta train your algorithm better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:36 PM
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I haven't seen this personally here and I take internet stories with a grain of salt, but if a relationship is capable of being fucked up by someone's opinion, the attraction and bond of that relationship wasn't that strong in the first place. Pretty much the only people who had anything negative to say about older men pursing me were my family members, and for good reason, older family members understand damn well why older men chase barely legal teens/college students. Of course not all young …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:22 PM
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Not to mention all the income they make with their social media presence while telling women to stay home and not make any money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:12 PM
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I've never understood people who plan out their kids talents and interests before they're even born. Just seems like a path to disappointment since kids are individuals who might not be remotely interested in what you thrust upon them. Also I'd be so weirded out if my parents told me they chose each other so I'd come out good at certain stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:04 PM
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Why are the trad wife influencers always specifically making sourdough bread in their videos with their big titty 50s cosplay dresses. I swear the last three I saw pop up were all doing it, like in the same step of making the bread too. Who eats that much sourdough?? Why the obsession that bread specifically lol. There's other breads and baked goods that are tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:01 PM
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The only people stop men who want to date younger women is the younger women choosing not to date them. When I was 18-24 I had quite a few older men show interest in me, sometimes pretty aggressively and it always grossed me out then and it still does now 🤷🏻‍♀️ You're legally allowed to date anyone of age who is willing, who exactly is interfering with that for you??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:01 AM
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Today OP learned that big name musicians do drugs and have sex lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:12 PM
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It's funny you bring up the Amish because they are actually insanely horrible to their women. My friend worked as a nurse near a large Amish village and the amount of women who would come in post partum with horrid vaginal infections because their husbands insisted on forcing themselves on their wives before they healed from childbirth was insane. Men there believe women have to satisfy them no matter what, they don't care if their wife is ripped apart from pushing out a baby. She said one time …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:00 PM

Yeah I can't take someone seriously when they compare sex between two consenting adults to hitting children and kicking dogs 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:57 AM

"is a sign of moral rectitude" Not everyone agrees with you that having sex makes one immoral or a bad person though 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:27 AM
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Dude please learn how to communicate because talking to you is like banging my head against a wall. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:44 AM
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"Okay if you think that advice helps go for it, but the second a girl tells a guy the next day i wish you went further or said they didnt want to hook up and then do that guys likely hood to rape a girl goes up exponentially. That guys next rape is on you" Omg this rape apologist rhetoric is really gross. No, you are wrong, it is not the fault of any woman when that man goes on to rape someone. It's his fault and his alone. It's his responsibility to find someone more mature to fuck woman who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:56 AM
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You've argued multiple times that pushing through boundaries for sex is appropriate because some women will say no when they don't mean it because of slut shaming. No, you stop trying to fuck her, communicate, and if she can't get over being coy and embarrassed about saying not saying no to sex then she doesn't get the dick she wants until she works through that. Only rapists would do anything else. That's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:45 AM
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Disagree I think we should call out weirdos more than we already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:38 PM
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See there you go with being all over the place again as well as overly broad. Which specific part of rape culture are you referring to? The only people who try to overcomplicate rape culture are people who want to logic their way into redefining rapey behavior as not rapey, totally appropriate behavior. The path of these hyper specific scenarios you keep laying out is very obvious and clear cut to people who aren't interested in pushing or violating the boundaries of their partners or potential …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:18 PM
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Oh I read it, I just think you're way overcomplicating things that aren't that complicated. This isn't hard to understand for people with any emotional intelligence who aren't severely autistic. You aren't getting the discussion you seem to want in these comments because you aren't being effective at addressing your points. Basically you're kinda all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:46 PM
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"If a two people are on a first date, for this its a Man and a W. W says to M "Why don't we go back to my place and have some coffee?" They get there and she takes off her clothing grabs a condom and opens it. He asks "So you want to have sex" and she responds "No", please tell me what you think he should do?" Well I would use my communication skills and ask her what else she would like to do naked with a condom if not have sex, see what she says, then go on from there. What other possible thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:26 PM
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No I've never "playfully" said no to fucking someone I genuinely was interested in fucking. If I say no or stop it's because I legitimately wasn't comfortable enough to fuck them either because i wasn't comfortable with them yet or the setting felt off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:10 PM
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"Say a man and a woman are fooling around, kissing, touching, etc. He starts to touch her down there, and she says, “Oh.. no, you can’t touch me down there,” in a sultry voice and bites her lip at him.”" This sounds like it was written by a 14 year old virgin, so cringe my spine literally arched back a little. Grown adults "fooling around" don't interact this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:51 PM

The United States already has the highest incarceration rate in the entire world and we're still far from the safest country, what's throwing even more, probably decent percentage of innocent people in prison for longer gonna do. I'm fairly well traveled and there isn't any civilized nation worried about their kids getting blown out of their desk by an arch randomly on a Tuesday like we do even with the amount of people we throw in prison even now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:03 AM

Oh wow, you def one of those men who are waaay better looking with a beard so yeah keep that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:53 PM
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I used to know a woman in college who was small built and baby faced who would tell random dudes, usually older men, hitting on her when she didn't like them sometimes she was like 16 when she felt like trolling/social experimenting.. Thing is like half the dudes would get even more excited about it and just kept hitting on her 🥴🤮 a lot of grown men truly are interested in fucking 16 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:06 PM

I haven't really seen women angry about this woman? The only hate I've seen her get in comments is from men about how low quality women are and all that and variations of calling her a whore "for the streets" and all that 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:27 AM
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Ooh okay then! Best wishes for your marriage!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:33 PM
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Well sure, I just hadn't heard of eye color being one of them outside of like weird white supremacist communities that are obsessed with blue eyes or whatever. I was just wondering what would motivate someone to focus on eye color and a thing to put on the checklist cuz that one's never even occured to me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:49 PM

The 90s were pretty rad tbh. Peak skating rink scenes, after school/Saturday morning cartoons, giga pets, peak Game Boy playing that was new and exciting, unsupervised outdoor playtime with friends, all the drama of the OJ Simpson and Tanya Harding scandals, fast food playgrounds were nuts, pizza hut had a "fancy" interior with a pretty amazing buffet and an arcade. Airports were still fun because pre 9/11. If you were an adult (I wasn't) you could buy a fucking house with a 40k salary. It was p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:44 PM
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"Then another said she likes guys with blue eyes not green. I get it I guess. I wouldn’t date anyone with brown eyes." Hold up, you and people out there select/reject dates over eye color??? I don't know if I've ever heard someone doing this in real life wtf, I never even consider eye color for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:30 PM
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They usually don't lose though. I don't know a single divorced dad who had his shit together without a criminal record who could pass a drug test who went for at least split custody and didn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:36 PM
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Politicians are very competent at gaining power and serving their interests and the interests of the elites paying them off, it just looks like incompetence to the plebes they are fucking over who don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:08 PM
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These things in my experience are based on poor communication, bad assumptions, misplaced home, and covert contracts. And I feel like young people tend to fall into these situations more due to poor social skills and boundary drawing. Man and woman are friends, guy confesses his attraction for her, she says no I just want to be friends, he says okay we can be friends. A lot of young women will assume he's ACTUALLY fine with being friends as he said, he thinks her continuing to not exclude him fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:08 PM
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It's hilarious seeing people say Kamala Harris is too young to run for president, even heard one call her a "young woman" like this is probably the first time these misogynistic conservative men have ever referred to a 59 year old woman as "young" 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:23 PM
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The guy is a burly middle aged 6'2 muscular Cajun dude with a high paying job, if he wanted kids he would have had em by now. Or he did and just doesn't acknowledge them or they don't have anything to do with him? He never mentioned kids tho and they weren't at the wedding like her son was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:05 AM

My single mom friend from college just got married at the age of 36 to a man who earns 6 figures working in tech and is 6 inches taller than her and pretty good looking. See post wall ladies out here with or without kids, it's not all hopeless!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:26 AM

If you care about womens "n-counts" then this is extremely sociopathic advice to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:36 AM

Traditional food from colder regions is always going to be more bland than the warmer regions you listed because they don't have climates where a variety of herbs and spices can be grown year round. They tend to be more meat/fish and starchy veg based for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:13 PM
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Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:39 AM
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That's fine you can turn down whoever you want for sure. I've literally never had a man not pay my way on a date, at least early on in the relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:23 AM
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If men here are gonna constantly argue that sex with men lowers our value forever for future potential partners but men having sex with us makes them more valuable, then why shouldn't men be expected to pay for a mere dinner for the chance at his attempt to permanently lower our value by wanting to raise our body count. Look at it like an application fee 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:10 AM
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Sooo are men not afraid of dying alone with cats/dogs/hamsters like us women are told we're supposed to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:05 PM
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Lol way to respond a debate with personal attacks. We're doing pretty well. Anyone who loves their partner has no desire to exhaust them or slave them around. How long you been married for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:48 PM
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Have you literally ever known a billionaire?? Their spouses aren't cooking and cleaning lmao they hire help. Lots of help. Rich people literally consider it low status to mark their wives do housework because they can afford not to. Some people here are so out of touch with how rich people live it's incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:29 PM
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"And no, the millionare doesn't want to hire a maid." Well sounds like somebody is between a rock and a hard place 🤷🏻‍♀️ nobody is dating millionaires to become a full time made who also works as a cashier on their feet all day. Also sounds like a great way to exhaust your wife creating resentment and dead bedrooms. Just hire the damn maid if you make that much money, or marry someone making more money than a cashier.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:24 PM
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As a married woman who is with a man whos traded places making more or less money than me whole 11 year relationship, I'm absolutely not going to burn myself out doing all the housework while also also having a job, and my husband also doesn't want that because well, he likes it better when I'm not burned out. These attitudes OP has are gonna keep you men single, or future divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:23 PM
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As a married woman who is with a man whos traded places making more or less money than me whole 11 year relationship, I'm absolutely not going to burn myself out doing all the housework while also also having a job, and my husband also doesn't want that because well, he likes it better when I'm not burned out. These attitudes OP has are gonna keep you men single, or future divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:23 PM
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I'm married with no kids but...everyone will be forgotten. I know the name of maybe one of my great grandparents, everyone else that died 70+ years ago is just a blur of dead people. Like I could have ten kids and then we all get wiped out in nuclear war 20 years from now and what was it all for? I know it sounds like some new age hippie shit but the present moment really is all we have 🤷🏻‍♀️ enjoy the ride while it lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:47 PM
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For real, I'll never understand how some of these adult men somehow missed the memo so hard on things that were common sense to me when I was like 10 years old. Like it has to boil down to low emotional intelligence or low critical thinking or observational skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:08 PM
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Why no punk rock guy options 💔 if he's never had a colorful Mohawk or liberty spikes at some point in life I don't want em.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:51 PM
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Political centrists are just people too apathetic or lazy or keep up with current issues, or they just have no backbone to stand for certain issues which wouldn't work for me I can't deal with people who choose to live in a bubble and ignore what's happening in the world around them either out of privilege or apathy. Plus a lot of people who claim to be "centrists" almost always end up being more right leaning in my experience, or they go straight right wing when they do decide to finally have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:49 PM

She was a healthy in shape 27 year old. Strokes are a leading cause of death for pregnant women. I had another friend about a year ago almost hemorrhage to death giving birth to her son, she flat lined twice on the table. I used to know this other woman who worked in a maternity ward who had some absolute horror stories of shit shed seen. Im not gonna count up the amount of dead people I know cuz it's a lot lol. A lot of car wrecks, some murders, suicides, diseases such as cancer, been a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:51 AM

Im not changing my flair but I did know a women who died from a stroke from pregnancy induced hypertension about a month before she was scheduled to give birth, so not technically during child birth but close enough. I've also known a decent handful of women who suffered pretty severe life altering injuries from birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:31 AM
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I don't know what any of that has to do with my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:28 AM
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Why is "I bet you settled" some kind of gotcha?? If someone didn't secure their "primary choice" when they were twenty, and still couldnt so they had to settle at middle age, what has really been lost?? Like why does it bother y'all so much that a middle aged women found a relationship and why do y'all question her attraction to him so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:09 AM

Could be for any sort of reasons. Could be just bored and wondering what old friends are up to, some people romanticise rekindling old potential flames, I think corny movies can be to blame for this. Could be feeling nostalgic and going down the "what could have happened" path people do as they age. Can't tell you how many times men do this to me. I've had guys who straight up bullied me in middle school/high school look me up on social media and send dms like "I actually had a crush on you and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:36 PM
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Noooo please no more bear thing 😭 this horse is dead, it's been beaten to a bloody pulverized pulp, dug up, beated more, and needs to be buried permanently. Please. Fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:30 PM
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As a child free woman who is slowly losing friends without children to hang out with (not that I dump off my mom friends it just isn't yhe same), I assure you this isn't true, most women end up having at least one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:30 AM
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Yes I literally do actually. I think people should be able to buy and consume drugs and people should be responsible for their own choices. If people didn't want drugs people wouldn't sell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:24 AM
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Well most men who do all of that watch porn anyway. Drake is a famously known example, he can and does get all the sex he wants yet he's still openly known for still being addicted to porn. It's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:17 PM
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Well it sounds to me like men need to get a little more motivated to curb their addiction to beating their meat to pixelated images if they think it's such a problem 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:46 PM
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If men are really that out of control with themselves then maybe they should stop trying so hard to control society and get out of the way and let women take the reigns because we don't really have such a psychological hindrance to our biological needs. We can live like lions and men can basically be considered useless to the pack until we need to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:49 PM
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I dunno I guess. I grew up semi rural, lots of women here do yardwork. I saw a middle aged lady painting the side of her house like a week ago in my neighborhood. I know how to and also do most of those things, and if I ran into a hickup YouTube can usually show you what you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:46 PM
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I don't know what a honey do list is? I'm asking WHY yard work is a man's job, like I said you don't have to be very strong to do it, and its arguably more pleasant work than a lot of in house work. And I've never needed a tape measure to mow or cut weeds. Maybe a few times to measure plant distance while landscaping/gardening??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:30 PM
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When exactly did yard work become "mens work"? I've been mowing the lawn and weed eating as a household chore since I was like a ten year old girl, I still do to this day. It's not like you have to be particularly big and strong to cut weeds or climb ladders to clean gutters? Like id much prefer to mow my lawn over scrubbing down a bathroom floor myself 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:21 PM
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Well take some accountability for yourself then. These women (and men) are just providing you and other men with what you want. If you don't actually want porn supported, get up and do literally anything else with your time than watch porn. Voting happens with your clicks and your dollars. You can't be bitter when people supply you with what YOU and millions of others demand in a capitalist market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:15 PM
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"Most men understand that porn is not good for us. Its like a drug addicts feeling towards drugs. They know it is longterm harmful to them. " Well I don't really know what to tell you, if you truly perceived porn to be damaging to yourself at some point you gotta take some responsibility for yourself and hold yourself accountable to not keep consuming things that harm you. There's plenty of drug dealers where I live, but Ive consistently made the choice to not buy or use their product. If I made…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:10 PM
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I honestly don't mind porn as a concept. Some people like to fuck on camera to share with the world, and a larger amount of people like to watch those films. A consensual and ethical agreement for the former to distribute content to the latter should logically be achievable in society to people who arent puritans. My problem is the fact that men will pop off hundreds of orgasms to women in porn, then turn around and literally hate and degrade the women they have those orgasms to. Porn stars regu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:52 PM
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Pretty much all of these are issues liberals, which includes many feminists, rally for plenty. It's anti feminist conservatives that bat down any attempts at universal mental/healthcare that would help, it's anti feminist conservative who rally for higher incarceration rates. I live in a place where many drugs are decriminalized and guess what, it's not the feminist liberals telling us that we're doing it wrong and being too lax on drug users and saying we shouldn't spend money on rehabilitating…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:32 PM

Yeah, like if men don't care about supporting and bringing up the next generation then why should I? I'll keep my freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:03 PM

I'll never have to worry about dealing with a dead beat dad cuz I'm child free. Learned from a young age that I never wanted to play with that dice roll. It's literally the only sure way to avoid that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:54 PM
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Omg society is "collapsing" because of endless unchecked corporate greed and government lobbying/cooperate ownership of elected officials used to erode the middle class and make the rich more rich, not feminism 😑🙄 ridiculous scapegoating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:55 PM
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I used to get supremely creeped out when 35+ men would relentlessly hit on me when I was 17-22 🤢 did not want even a little bit. It made them look like the biggest pathetic losers to me, like id wonder why on earth these grown ass men thought they'd have anything in common with a college aged woman doing young people shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:30 AM
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Oh I dunno. The only women I've personally known who were super focused on that were like sugar babies/intentional gold diggers. I don't think enough six figure women are gonna throw out another six figure man out that they're attracted to just because he makes 50k less than her at that time to really worry about it being some social issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:47 AM
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It's not THAT rare I've known a decent handful of women who had to take significant time off work due to child birth injury. I don't understand your second sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:44 AM
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Thing is I think a lot of women making 200k would be fine with a man making 150k 🤷🏻‍♀️ I literally know couples with that income and it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:41 AM
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I don't know how to add flair but it's because potential child birth. If moms spine cracks or mom gets a huge hernia during child birth or worse and can't work, you have to have a partner with money or your children/family is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:34 AM
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Why would anyone be motivated to go out and get an autism diagnosis if it meant they can't legally get laid for the rest of forever afterward? It's already a pain in the ass to get diagnosed with little actual benefits or treatments available, high functioning ausitcs would just keep it to themselves as they have been for most of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:56 AM
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Why would anyone be motivated to go out and get an autism diagnosis if it meant they can't legally get laid for the rest of forever afterward? It's already a pain in the ass to get diagnosed with little actual benefits or treatments available, high functioning ausitcs would just keep it to themselves as they have been for most of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:56 AM
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Count for what? I just simply wouldn't date a guy who wasn't into it. There's too many men out there who love oral sex to settle for someone who doesn't like it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:00 PM
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"You are coping. None of your exes propositioned you for marriage, so your comment is coping with that fact." Yes I am c0ping so hard with my cute little homestead on a coastal foothill with my garden, animals, and adoring husband I've grown a sweet life with in ten years of travel and adventure. It's sooo terrible. "He lasts the longest, has the biggest pipe, has the best cunninglingus, and can go for rounds, which NONE of your exes were able to do?" Yes, correct. " Ma'am, no other man on this …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:10 PM
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"So, all your exes pumped and dumped you, but your husband was the only guy who got down on one knee to proposition you for marriage? Being that you still are looking back at your exes makes me think that your husband wasn't your best lover by leaps and bounds, huh?" I don't really see the point in this discussion with you because you're obviously just here making incorrect sweeping assumptions in bad faith. Do you consider any relationship that ends a "pump and dump"? When adult people date whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:36 PM
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I don't know anyone who thinks this way. Most people know that a single person can't be everything to you, but the important stuff like good communication chemistry, good sex life, complimentary life goals, are usually what gets focused on in the end. I can say with certainty that my husband is the only man out of every previous partner I've had that I would ever want to be married to based on what I know about my ex flames and how their lives played out, it really is the best fit for me. My hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:19 AM
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For real lol wtf even is this OP. Oral is hot AF both ways and I wouldn't tolerate a sex life without it. I've never had a guy not perform oral first encounter enthusiastically, are there really straight men out there who don't like eating pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:19 AM
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Not really? In the 3-4 months we had been dating up to that incident he'd pretty much been the perfect boyfriend, communicative, attentive, fun loving, polite, etc. I had also known him previously just from my social circles for about a year before we got together and he always seemed chill, our mutual friends thought we would be good together. That's why it was such a feeling of whiplash when he got an attitude like that the one time I couldn't deliver sex that day, it seemed really out of char…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:34 PM
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"So you are the person who believes that clothes make the man, i.e. if I change from a socially dislikes clothing into socially liked clothing, have I changed as a person?" I mean, clothing choice as well as other preferences for other things is a part of what makes a person who they are. How you choose to express yourself to the public is a part of the self, they aren't separate things. Your personality may be the same, but personal style is usually considered an aspect of personality. "Them on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:51 PM
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"That's not how I see it. I have remained the same, it's just that got a better frame, which is really what people seem to appreciate instead of me for me." You didn't stay the same though, you changed your social presentation. "Why do you believe I was unlikeable?" ....because that's literally what you said in your OP "people and women are finding me likeable only after I got confident and more social"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:41 PM
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What does extending an olive branch to a socially awkward guy look like exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:39 PM
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I've never understood resenting people for liking the better version of you more than the shittier version of you. Like how else could or should it possibly work? Its like being resentful because an employer wouldn't hire you until you gained the qualifications needed for the job. If you want people to like you, you have to be likeable. Asocial and insecure people are annoying and not likeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:06 PM
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One red flag pretty early on that I regret overlooking in my worst previous relationship was this one time I started my period while we were hanging out and I was cramping really bad and just having all the general discomfort I have from my period, and he got super pissy and rude about it because he "thought he was gonna get laid" and i was in way too much pain for sex. I almost dumped him right then and there for it and I definitely should have, but he apologized profusely later and brought ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:20 PM
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You know married men used to die in war/hunting accidents as well and disease frequently in history and would also leave/run away sometimes, this creating single moms, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:59 AM
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"And she put tape around her boobs and started working out. But what is the tape for." Tape is to reduce tits bouncing while working out that causes pain and tension in the neck and back muscles for a lot of women. It's not seductive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:50 AM
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Do you really think abusive men come out on the first or even fourth date slapping a woman in the face or throwing her against the wall? Abusive psycho men usually aren't stupid, they know they won't get what they want publicly being an asshole. They know to wait a while, often years to build up mostly good memories with the victim so when they do lash out violently, the person is more likely to think it's a fluke or a one off because of all the times things have been good. They may even blame t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:45 AM
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I mean, a lot of divorced women leave because they were taking on most of the childcare shit anyway without help from the man and theyre exhausted. Why would you leave the kids with the parent who refused to do parenting/house work the entire marriage and made it the woman's work? He probably doesn't even know what to do day in day out like the mom does, this is usually the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:16 PM

But men still do it. These ladies of the night aren't hurting for work and I've known of three relationships in the last few years that ended because the man was visiting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:16 PM

Any man can cheat if he wants to because local prostitutes always exist. Don't have to be attractive, just need $100 to go to the sketchy rub and tug on the edge of town.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:41 PM
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K. Still not sure why you chose to come at me and not the guy I was arguing with who used to term originally but whatever 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:09 PM
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I just used it because he specifically brought up "childless girl bosses". I don't think he's talking about house wives hustling Avon in the daytime after the kids go off to elementary school, the topic is childless single women trying to climb the corporate ladder. I'm saying those women generally amass enough money to have kids without a husband if they want it bad enough, not sure why your coming for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:54 PM
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I think maybe you responded to the wrong comment cuz I didn't mock or condemn anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:02 PM
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Yeah but they wanted their kids more than they wanted to be single and childless 🤷🏻‍♀️ There's also plenty of married women who cant stand their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:09 AM
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If it's something you really want it's doable. Broke single moms are a thing. Also I thought we were talking about girl bosses, they probably have money. Plus theres government assistance. People make it work every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:06 AM
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So what else do you wake up and do all day? Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:04 AM
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If these childess women wanted kid bad enough they'd just have them. Getting knocked up is easy and even if you did get married there's no guarantee the father will stick around or not die anyway so why even wait around for that if you really want kids. I knew this trust fund chick who wanted kids but was sick of men so she just went out and fucked a dude she thought would make a pretty kid, ghosted him, never told the two guys of oher two kids, and now she's a mom. Any woman girl boss with enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:02 AM
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This really isn't the gotcha you think it is, I wouldn't ever date someone who's personality I didn't think would be compatible with mine. Looks arent enough for me to go out with someone. That goes for all men 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:11 PM
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Did he get ear surgery? His cartilage fold things and general ear shape/placement are shaped completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:11 PM
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I don't think that second guy you mentioned is bad looking? I know men who look like that who can pull women. I don't know his content but I mean if he was able to get famous he obviously has something interesting or charismatic about his personality or people wouldn't be drawn to his content in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:07 PM
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I don't think that second guy you mentioned is bad looking? I know men who look like that who can pull women. I don't know his content but I mean if he was able to get famous he obviously has something interesting or charismatic about his personality or people wouldn't be drawn to his content in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:06 PM
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I guess? I dunno I'd have gone in a date with a guy looking like him in my younger 20s if he had a decent fun personality, in fact I have an ex with some similar features, but I kinda have a thing for kinda goofy looking redheads lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:02 PM
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They put Ed Sheeran in the bottom 15% 😭😭 I literally know quite a few gen z women with massive crushes on him wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:59 PM
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They put Ed Sheeran in the bottom 15% 😭😭 I literally know quite a few gen z women with massive crushes on him wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:59 PM
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Uh, it doesn't? Nothing will help you play video games except playing video games. It's just that most people find people who's only focus is video games well, boring. It's boring to be around someone who's playing video games all the time and you can't really be mad when people find your chosen interest boring. At that point you gotta weigh how much you care about being boring over how much you care about keeping a potential partner engaged because they enjoy spending time with you 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:48 PM
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If you just want to sit around a place video games all day and night, never work out, never have hobbies, never go out, never advance in a career or business, thats fine. Just don't complain when a horny hot naked chick never shows up to you gaming room to fuck you in between call of duty rounds 😭 I truly don't understand how people don't want to self improve and become better versions of themselves for THEMSELVES not to get women or men. Like what else do you wake up excited for??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:29 PM
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...by men, who straight dudes aren't having to date if they want to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:16 PM
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Lol that lady doesn't even have kids. Like please come back and show us your perfectly situated curated life after throwing three different aged small kids into the mix. It's just weird cosplay, why are they so hung up on the 50s specifically it was ONE decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:31 PM
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Lol that lady doesn't even have kids. Like please come back and show us your perfectly situated curated life after throwing three different aged small kids into the mix. It's just weird cosplay, why are they so hung up on the 50s specifically it was ONE decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:31 PM
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What do you mean you don't pick your boss? If you go in for an interview and the boss doesn't pass the vibe check you just leave. I've always picked my boss. If I don't wanna work for someone I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:22 PM
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Yeah the social media "trad wives" are a joke. I know women who work REAL traditional wife life, you know actually running homesteads and raising their kids at home. They aren't dressing in fancy retro 50s dresses and doing fancy updos and perfect makeup, they're wearing overalls or just jeans and T-shirt while waking up at 6am to feed the kids some whipped up scrambled eggs maybe some bacon and hopong the kids eat it all, getting them to sports practice or school, if there's babies they gotta d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:19 PM
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It's infinitely easier to get away from and replace a shitty boss than it is to get away from and replace a shitty husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:00 PM
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Not sure why you don't believe it there's a lot of data to back it up, men def beat their women more when they are pregnant and often for the first time when pregnancy occurs. https://www.focusforhealth.org/the-dangers-of-pregnancy-in-an-abusive-relationship/ They also murder them https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/hsph-in-the-news/homicide-leading-cause-of-death-for-pregnant-women-in-u-s/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:15 AM
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Uh, what? I don't know what you're trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:19 PM
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I've had quite a handful of toxic run ins with men as well as platonic "friends" and it didn't turn me into a toxic person who wants to hurt others. Truly decent people don't turn shitty because they experienced shitty, it's a trait of resilience. If I let toxic men define my future and stop me from being decent to people I wouldn't have found the good people I have in my life now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:13 PM
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Genuinely asking in a non snarky tone cuz I'm curious, what do you perceive yourself doing extra to be the entertainment that you don't want to do otherwise, and what specifically do you wany women to do to be more entertaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:59 PM
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Oh look it's an example of shrodingers rape culture. Women are always simultaneously in massive danger of being raped to the point where we need to take all the precautions to avoid rapists while simultaneously women are too dramatic about the risks of being raped and are also usually probably making it up or at least exaggerating the situation when we report we were raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:33 PM
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Again yeah, i know sex workers exist. I'm not a sex worker, but I did go to school to be a therapist over ten years ago before I pivoted careers and I worked internships working at women's shelters that took care of/rehabilitated trafficking victims who had horrible experiences being groomed, usually as a teen by a pimp so I've learned quite a bit about the "industry". I also am a part time local circus performer and there is oddly some sma overlap of some people who have done stripping/sex work…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:31 PM
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I'm well aware that there are women doing sex work out there but having a pimp is something women get groomed into or they fall into one who promises them a way out of bad times. Most modern day sex workers don't have a pimp, the internet has made them obsolete in many ways. Independent women aren't just messaging men asking them to traffic them and take some of their earnings. If you're gonna make up crazy shit involving sex workers at least keep it consistent with what actually happens in sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:17 PM
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