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| 1 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingleftist dudes didn't "let themselves be boxed in as soyboys" you perceieve them in a blanket way becUse of carefully sculpted propaganda over the last ten years. in reality most leftist men are pretty diverse in fitness, hobbies, professions, etc. most leftist men aren't even vegan/vegetarian. on the contrary conservative areas tend to have the highest rates of obesity, diabetes, beer gut inverted weird chicken butt bodies, not what i would call the epitome of masculinity. The young men might be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:37 AM |
| 4 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingi thought rich people were those pesky coastal elite liberals ruining cities funding chaos and screwing over the hard working middle class 🤨 I can't keep up anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:20 AM |
| 4 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingit's easy to say you don't have a mental illness if you don't believe in mental illness even existing like a lot of conservatives I know or they blame it on religious shit like demons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .well I think we both know that when people refer to "age gap" relationships in these spaces they aren't talking about a 25 year old dating a 29 year old. nobody finds 3-8 year age gaps weird or controversial and I don't even see the point in bringing it up for debate. most of the men here complaining about the disapproval of age gap relationships are 40+ dudes going after 20 year olds. most 20 year olds arent into that. I myself was twenty once and I was indeed also not into that. my college age… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .most women date and marry within 2-5 years of their age. you can look that up to verify. in countries where women have the most liberty and economic freedom age gap relationships are less. this would show that when women aren't reliant on gold digging for resources in a society they go for men they are attracted to which is their own age. there also wouldn't be so many thirsty desperate older men constantly trying to pick up younger women and struggling because you g women would actually get wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .you keep saying "most" but statistically and anecdotally that's just not true. the majority of women are attracted to and date and marry within their age range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:48 PM |
| – | Current dating is unfair for men because of woman have rid themselves of the responsibility that comes with the privileges they have, while men still have to still take on the responsibilities of theirswell it's primarily men in the Ukraine government making these laws and it's primarily men who will argue that women don't need to have a place in the military. I'm not sure why it's the women you're angry with. maybe men should stop war mongering constantly 🤷🏻♀️ it's not like the women in these countries are stoked to see the men in their lives, boyfriends, friends, brothers, etc be sent off to die in another pointless war for rich men. but the men will continue to comply and show up for war a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 10:25 PM |
| 3 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.I guess I consider being asked out by a guy I've been around a few times at some social functions as "being approached". It's been like this for most people before the age of chronic Internet use. Like my parents met cuz my mom was living next door to my dad's sister and they were introduced that way. My aunt married a man she met in a college party. Now the only difference is there's more people trying to date solely on apps. I never even did dating apps they scare me. Everyone wants to live th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 11:10 PM |
| 3 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.i mean you don't know all men and my anecdote is a good as yours 🤷🏻♀️ but plenty of men in my world still actively approach women, but I'm in pretty active social scenes. that doesn't really work when you're a shut in (not saying specifically you I just mean in general) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 10:45 PM |
| 7 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.I think it's that you just might be overestimating the amount of grown men unwilling to ask women out. but most people I know ended up with men who asked them out on a warm approach. this is why people here stress the importance of maintaining a social life of some sort but a lot of men here act like that's just an impossible ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 10:36 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵not in a romantic relationship but I had one for a room mate once. she was one of the worst people I've ever met in my fucking life. so many crazy stories I had to deal with before I got out lol. I honestly don't know how she made it so long without ending up in prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 12:06 AM |
| 13 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.they are experiencing massive food insecurity right now for one, their school and medical systems have completely collapsed, there's still currently genocide happening there. What exactly do you perceive to be going well there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 02:20 AM |
| 10 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.well look at the quality of life for everyone including men in Afghanistan rn. it's not exactly going well for them by any metric. I don't know what your definition of "killing your mind or conscience" is but the results evidently aren't great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 02:00 AM |
| 7 | If a Younger Woman With an Older Man Is “After His Money,” Then an Older Woman Should Be Even MoreI had 35+ dudes hitting on me since I was 14-15 and onward into younger adulthood. it was never a compliment or flattering to me at that age cuz I was brought up to know that men aren't looking at younger girls like that for any reason other than sex and control and to have someone they can groom into growing into their creepy preferences. I remember these men would be like "oh you're just sooo mature for your age" and I'm just thinking dude I went out with my friends last night to spray paint d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 10:33 PM |
| 76 | Certain parts of female sexuality give men the ickdude last time I got on a mainstream porn website the top videos were women literally vommiting on dicks and women dressing up in little kids clothes prancing around. there's men out there who jerk off to my little pony and anime characters getting fucked by tentacle monsters. human sexuality is weird and confusing. men jack off to all kinds of disgusting things. there's plenty of vanilla women out there they aren't hard to find if you don't like kink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:51 AM |
| – | Would this scenario be rape, or just regret? Is it playing victim/denying responsibility to claim rape?bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:39 AM |
| 10 | Simps vs Pickmesthis whole conversation is gonna be anecdote vs anecdote but in my experience true pick me women rarely have good relationship outcomes. I have a cousin who went through a massive pick me phase and it just landed her in abusive relationship after abusive relationship because she was such a doormat she couldn't/wouldn't stand up for herself and valued male validation over her own well being every time. most men don't actually respect women like this because being a total push over just isn't a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare statereligion is usually the answer. poor people tend to be more religious so they have more kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 09:47 PM |
| 20 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themI mean this most respectfully but you are very naive on the issue of how much the police force actually cares about rape victims. most cities have a backlog of rape kits that go untested for YEARS. I've never known a single woman who went to the police even right after a sexual assault and ever even got a call back after submitting evidence and a rape kit. life isn't an svu episode they do not in fact have a whole professional team emotionally dedicated to jailing your rapist. 90% of rapists get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:31 PM |
| 2 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!I can't understand why the fuck policies that benefit both men and women are a problem with y'all if it contributed to a healthier more functional society. like I don't need a policy to ONLY benefit women I'm fine with men and women getting their lives improved wtf. like it's just such a selfish toddler brained mindset I don't even know what to say theres no reasoning with it it's like watching a kid throw a fit becUse their little sibling gets food at dinner time too. y'all vote like toddlers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 10:27 PM |
| 0 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!okay so what specific insults have leftist politicians hurled at you? what specific problems do you personally have that they have dismissed? I truly want to know cuz my husband and every dude on the left I know is consistently confused on what the fuck y'all are talking about. they dont feel insulted or dismissed by the left in fact they thrive in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 11:43 PM |
| 2 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!"oh yes, please make the economy completely unstable and increase wealth inequality while making basic life necessities less and less affordable everyday while increasing military spending its all totally fine and okay as long as you're patting me on the head and telling me what a good little strong alpha man that I am" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 11:34 PM |
| 3 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!I JUST gave you a list of things leftists have improved or have attempted to improve. I'm not sure what else your asking for. if you don't see those things as a benefit to men's lives maybe you can provide some ideas of policies that would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 10:49 PM |
| 7 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!men always say that they are the more logical, less emotional gender. yet here you clearly state that y'all will pick the side that appeals to emotions by blowing smoke up your ass over the side that would logically actually improve your economic situation. maybe y'all should rethink that whole men are more logical thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 10:43 PM |
| 5 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!I literally didnt gloss over them. 9/11 and the 2008 housing crisis happened under bush. pandemic happened under trump. go back and read what I wrote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 10:18 PM |
| 5 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!all of those things benefit men. healthcare benefits men, workers rights benefits men, having affective accessable schools benefits men, veterans getting access to help benefits men, affordable housing benefits men. Having a literate society benefits men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 10:15 PM |
| 8 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!dude. I was alive in the 90s when Clinton was president and shit was thriving. I was alive in the 00s when Bush was president and people lost jobs big time and their stocks and their houses. we had 50-100 grown middle aged adults applying everyday to the shitty pizza place I worked at cuz unemployment was so high. gas was over $4. I remember the 2010s when Obama was president and we went back to thriving, jobs were good and costs were low. I mean that era was super amazing and filled with optimi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 10:13 PM |
| 7 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!leftists- we want to expand affordable healthcare, expand workers rights, raise minimum wage, make college more accessable, help veterans get benefits and PTSD mental healthcare, do something about the rising wealth inequality and housing crisis, fund the school better instead of closing them right- yeah we're not gonna do any of that we want you all working for nothing and be happy about it you guys- leftists don't care about men 😡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.considering how I've personally known a pretty sizable handful of women with kids who have gotten married or remarried in the last three-four years as well as men I've known who have married women with kids I'd say men aren't as united on this boycott of single moms as you are stating here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 07:06 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵that's wild to me. my head voice never stops. I mean it's just my voice so it doesn't feel crazy. like how do you conceptualize stuff?? how do you decide what to write down if you don't hear the thought in your head first?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 04:08 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I mean...not really? there's plenty of people in government with scarier auras than this guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassinggirl I say this as a nuerospicy woman myself, not everyone is gonna be compatible with the lifestyle autistic or ADHD people need to have in order to be comfortable and that's fine. its just a reality that my quirks aren't gonna be desirable to everyone especially really nornal people. I won't date bipolar people for example and I don't have anything against them but after growing up around unchecked bipolar people my whole life I can't bare living with all that in my house again in adulthood. i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 03:23 AM |
| 2 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenit's political. leftist women don't like her cuz she's a right winger who deliberately tried to appeal to white right wing dudes. right wing women love Sidney Sweeney if only to support another conservative woman. Billie Eilish has the same body type, similar face, and probably even bigger boobs but she's not republican and leans into her artistry instead of her boobs so nobody brings that up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 11:07 PM |
| 17 | Manners and boundaries are often one of the biggest faults of men when pursuing womenyeah like a year ago I was visiting my home town and I watched my friend flirt with this dude and she even gave him her phone number. not even 10 seconds after we leave the bar this dude who seemed normal and chil was just flooding her txts and calls begging to hook up and asking her all these sexual questions over and over that she didn't even respond to. she ended up blocking his number after he called like 10 times in a row at 4am. watching some dude just completely snatch defeat from the jaw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?who the fuck said anything about cooking? but actually I didnt learn how to cook until I moved out of my parents. my mom was too OCD to let me touch anything in the kitchen ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?I mean there's literally no way I would have met the people in my life now, built the skills I have now, would have started my business, or would have traveled/backpacked internationally like I did if I had stayed in my childhood bedroom up till now. exposure to the world just doesn't happen on the same level for people who stay with their parents long term well into adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?I moved out of my parents house as soon as I could at 20 years old and I'll still inherit their house. and I'll have a life full of lived adult memorie of independence when that happens. I def would have ended up a stunted adult if I had stayed there my whole adult life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightpeople post criminal evidence online all the time. our local face book groups have businesses regularly posting videos of people shop lifting and vandalizing property. there's no law saying they can't do that. people post ring cam footage of mail thieves regularly too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightyou could maybe use the coincidence argument if she was some random unsolicited door to door person or something, but he literally consciously ordered her to his home through a service. I've never had a door dash take longer than like 1. hour 15 min, usually closer to 45 min. he knew she was coming it wasnt a coincidence or an accident. like y'all really just think it's fine to hang out naked with your house open to the street?? when has that ever been socially acceptable?? Especially when you k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 12:25 AM |
| 2 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightbruh. he wasn't asleep when he made the order and he wasn't asleep when he pulled his pants down and he wasn't asleep when he opened his door. he set all this up before he sat down to "relax". were also giving him the benefit of the doubt that he wasn't actually just pretending to be asleep. it's not legal to fall asleep naked in view of the public street. if I left my bedroom open next tn my bed and fell asleep spread eagle with my twat out for everyone passing by in the street to see that woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightyeah I'm just not buying it, I know when the door to my house is open lol. if he didn't want to expose himself he would have put pants on before inviting a delivery to his home. it's a massive fuck up on his part and if on the off chance it was a mistake hopefully it's a wake up call for him to be more mindful and put his dick away when he knows people are coming over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 12:06 AM |
| 2 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightit's much wilder mental gymnastics to think someone not knowing an exact ETA of a delivery you know is coming within the next hour or so is an excuse to whip your cock out in your living room with an open door while you wait for them. there are men out there who get off on forcing women to look at their dick. I have no idea why y'all are so convinced this guy wasn't trying to do exactly that. and besides what if some neighborhood kids selling something door to door came by to have to see that? t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 12:00 AM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightthe app tells you when your driver is coming and how many minutes until they get there, it's not a mysterious system. why the fuck would a person think it's a good idea to order food, take their pants off with their entire cock out with a wide open door immediately after ordering food. ive had a lot of deliveries before, never have I gotten naked when I knew someone was on their way to my house. you can be naked or you can leave your front door wide open, you can't do both. he chose to do both e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:53 PM |
| 2 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism right"You’re assuming the man had mind powers, and know when the door dasher would come." the app literally tells you when your delivery driver is coming. you don't need mind powers to know that food you ordered to you house is now on its way to your house. were just assuming he can read the app he downloaded and knows how having fucking food delivery works at this point in his adult life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightthat man was not asleep when he made the decision to make a door dash order, open the door, and pull his pants down. i can't believe there any argument to how this is appropriate. don't get naked with your fucking front door open it's not that difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:34 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵met my husband at an outdoor rave a little over a decade ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same?I really don't care when it was ratified. it was just a way to keep slavery legal. if cooperations have a benefit to access to free prison labor then the state will have motive to put as many people in prison as possible. pretty much every conservative is fine with this system. theyre totally cool with prisoners undercutting wages but they'll throw a fit at some free migrant working fast food. it's an obvious inconstancy that shows conservatives don't actually care about there being a source of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same?and Republicans want to out as many people in prison as possible so corporations paying off the government can have nearly free prison labor that costs pennies on the dollar working for them. states that have arrested a bunch of migrants (for prison btw not deportation) have already made more contracts with th government to enlist more prison labor for their cooperations. conservatives aren't anti slavery by any means. they want as many people in prison working for free as possible. I'm sorry bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:30 PM |
| 2 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.uhh I've lived near a few beaches in my life in the United States, men wore speedos pretty frequently and nobody cared. old men seem to be particularly fond of their speedos I've noticed 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 03:41 AM |
| 8 | Female intrasexual competition is the reason why women tend to have few or no close friendswhat have you sacrificed for your homies? what have you homies sacrificed for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Men are no longer the center of universe and some men can't adaptracism wasn't that long ago and is still ongoing? that first black little girl that walked into an integrated school is still alive today, she's got a Twitter account. a lot of those white people outside screaming and protesting her right be in a school with white children are also still alive. they vote too. both my parents remember Martin Luther King jr getting shot. my grandmother's were both white and they went through hell there entire lives regauardless . it's not ancient history. that's w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 06:42 PM |
| 4 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.I know, this thread got me wondering how many middle school boys I knew who are adults now thought they had "super powers" over me cuz I let them borrow a pencil or didn't outright tell them to fuck off when asked if they could take a seat next to me or something 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.this is a lot of conclusion jumping about human psychology from a middle school girl scooting over to make room for a classmate it class. when I was that age if a classmate asked to sit next to me 9/10 I would have said yes unless it was someone I just straight up really hated, girl or boy. id hardly call that a "super power". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 08:54 PM |
| -3 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.I never understood why so many men here think that being extroverted and able to navigate social situations and being gentle loving partners are qualities that can't go together? my husband is very kind and loving to people he cares about but hes also fun at social gatherings and gets shit done at work. well balanced people can do both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 08:47 PM |
| 14 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menautistic people tend to be more interested in closely analyzing and discussing social dynamics in forum spaces like this so the demographics are probably skewed here for that reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 08:21 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵easy dopamine release. makes talking and socializing easier and more fun to a point unless it's overdone. on the the less fun end I guess it makes people with unresolved trauma or mental health issues cope with it momentarily but I never did that for me really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 02:43 AM |
| 2 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.but I thought the men/right we're all mad at Taylor Swift cuz she waited till 35 to get engaged/married like a bad post wall feminist but I don't know I can't keep all the rules straight anymore 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 05:48 PM |
| 4 | The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women.dude. the "vikings" ended up establishing trade routes and stabilized their society after exploring and got "normal jobs" and the nords have cruise ships and regular boats now their boating tech isn't still from 1000 years ago?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women.I love my Indian woman gynecologist she's literally the best doctor I've had that actually put effort into diagnosing my health issues... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it.no, they had bigger problems like oh a random disease just came through and killed three of my kids overnight and the local church said it's actually our fault cuz we invited disease demons in some how and oh if that storm coming over the hill wipes out my crops my remaining family will starve and the king will take my land away and also there's a group of soldiers over the border there who really want to slaughter us for following the religion they don't want us to follow so we gotta prepare fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 06:21 PM |
| 10 | Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it.what do you mean their societies were thriving? my ancestors history was full of war, genocide, famine, religious conflict, class warfare, etc...pretty much constantly. People throughout history had plenty of problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 05:56 PM |
| 9 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?well a lot of them complaining here specifically about it are autistic shut ins 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:20 AM |
| 12 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?"bad boy" and it's just some dude who listens to loud music and smokes weed and maybe has some beers with friends sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 12:42 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵yeah def one of those who looks better with a beard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:03 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵he's got a butt chin tho 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:58 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I dunno I just can't stay wit someone on the fast track to diabetes and liver failure. I'm watching my friend's dad with similar life habits just die slowly and painfully with his limbs rotting off from diabetes infections and heart problems due to eating horrible with no working out. it's a horrible painful way to be old and die and it's scary when someone actually wants that for themselves. his wife can't ever travel or do her hobbies or enjoy her own retirement cuz she has to take care of him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:49 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I invited him to the gym many, many times. I also invited him for walks, bike rides, to go out dancing. he just wanted to drink beer and play league of legends every second be wasn't at work. and hed complain if I cooked healthy food and he'd go get Arby's or a burger somewhere. he even made jokes (that apparently weren't actually jokes) that since he has a girlfriend he could get fat now. it was gross. after we broke up his brother told me he had a pattern of losing weight and going out to be s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:31 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵he ended up being a massive alcoholic who dead bedroomed me six months in and became a shit in addicted to video games and rapidly gained weight once he thought he had me locked down. I bailed lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 01:57 AM |
| 5 | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?Yeah, plus there's other current celebrities like Billie Eilish for example has a lot of similar features as Sweeney, even the same big booby white girl body type and the huge droopy blue eyes but Billie still looks more attractive to me than Sweeney and I can't even put my finger on why, it's like her big eyes are more proportional to the rest of her face than Sidney. Billie has more of an alternative aesthetic though and she doesn't play herself up for the male gaze on the same level so I gues… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:15 PM |
| 7 | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?that's funny cuz as a woman even before the whole sidney Sweeney hype debate I saw Euphoria and thought Zendaya blew Sweeney out of the water on attractiveness. Zendaya to me is really striking and uniquely beautiful, someone id absolutely notice on the street even if she wasn't famous. she's just got that high fashion model allure to me. Sweeney does nothing for me, I could find 6 of her in any sorority house across the country, I was surprised when men recently started acting like she was the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:42 PM |
| 3 | How exactly should men need to hold other men accountable?you guys always ask why women enjoy hanging out with dirt bags and then smak yourselves right in the face with the answer when y'all say this. women enjoy them for the same reason YOU enjoy them. they obviously have enough to offer either with being fun/entertaining or social status access to make being friends with a dirtbag "bad boy" worth it for you so why is it so confusing when women also enjoy the company of men you enjoy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 06:24 PM |
| 2 | If it was down to just the two of them, who would you pick and Why?that's right when I stopped reading 😂 like dude it's Friday go outside and hang out with some friends or something fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 09:02 PM |
| 32 | Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to womenit is infinitely easier to replace a shitty job/boss than a shitty husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Was you actual world view really challenged here?yeah late August/early September was always the wildest party time here before everyone got too deep in their course work so I was just straight up confused walking through my old now dead main party neighborhood with nobody around?? especially now that the university has record enrollment like where they at??? I guess just home?? fuck man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Was you actual world view really challenged here?not sure what you mean by fucking up on social media but I've certainly never lost a job cuz I went to a party/event and danced and had fun. granted things are absolutely more expensive now but even when we were broke we still could get some cheap 40s or liquor we went in on and drove out into a random field to party in. or we would just hang out at each other's houses/apartments if going out was too much. the losing friend group for acting out of turn thing just sounds like over dramatic social… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 01:37 AM |
| 7 | Was you actual world view really challenged here?I don't understand WTF the kids are up to these days. I'm visiting the town I went to college in like 12 years ago and back in my day there were always parties on every block you could literally just walk outside and follow some bumping music and find a raging kegger and likely run into people you knew. now the streets are quiet on the weekends, I don't see any drunk 20 something's walking around in groups, the music venues and bars are empty or filled with a few older millennials. it's very odd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Woman-loving-woman relationships do not have more intimate partner violence than straight relationshipsits totally valid to break up with someone if there's a mismatch in sex drive, I dumped a dude who dead bedroomed me before I met my husband shit was miserable I have too high of a sex drive. but if I always just accepted the first no when he didn't want it. no way I was gonna sit there and pester him about it, even if he gave in I wouldn't have enjoyed it because I knew he didn't really want it much. when it didn't get better I just ended it and found someone who matched my energy. pressuring p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lesswhere on earth are you pulling that statistic? every source I find says between 60-70% are fathers in the United States. andecdotslly the majority of men I know have at least one child which again lines up with the stats. All the men in my family, brother and cousins have kids now. my husband's family all has kids except for him cuz he didn't want them and got the snip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Woman-loving-woman relationships do not have more intimate partner violence than straight relationshipsI just don't understand how men even enjoy sex after having to basically put maximum pressure on someone to do it?? like I'd feel at bare minimum weird as hell trying to fuck a dude repeatedly who was clearly not into it. it'd be such a turn off. only thing I'll tolerate is an enthusiastic excited fuck yes in both words and body language. I don't know if that situation makes a man a full rapist, but it's definitely sketch to be able to get hard and and have an orgasm inside someone who has made … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 06:41 PM |
| 3 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessyou do understand that child free men exist right? and that many of them have girlfriends and wives? usually who are also child free. some people enjoy love and companionship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 01:34 AM |
| 6 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessthe reason society hasn't given men the right to paper abortions is because most people know that if men were given more leeway to abandon their kids than they already do then most men probably would. I'm sure being able to gain the privilege of your genetics getting to continue with no responsibility sounds fantastic and ideal for a lot of men. a lot of them sodo it anyways even when it's not legal and most of them get away with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 01:12 AM |
| -1 | Am I crazy for feeling bad for Raja Jackson…?oooh wowww two whole percent in the last decade. wow yeah we should really just lock up all trans people just in case so that other 98% can just go wild. lmfaoooo only the dumbest of bigots can look at a situation and convince themselves that 2% is the majority problem we should be focusing on. Ive experienced so much violence from straight men and nothing but safety and welcoming from trans people. Get over yourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Am I crazy for feeling bad for Raja Jackson…?oh wow so seven out of literally thousands of straight dudes who committed shootings. so significant, much majority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 10:16 PM |
| 5 | Am I crazy for feeling bad for Raja Jackson…?lol and they call women the overly emotional sex. no I don't feel sorry for people like this. if you or anyone else can't handle an insult without trying to seriously injure or "flatline" someone you don't need to be freely running around the general population. get therapy before you seriously fuck your life and someone else's life over an emotional outburst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpwell then it sure is a good thing I went out to parties when I was younger and ended up meeting my husband at one now isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpnever been told that so I can't relate. the vast majority of my old punk rock party group are succeeding in life now and are doing really well, men and women. so yeah I'd say they were a good choice. I have a lot of fun being with my husband and I made lifelong friends back then, professional connections, and fun memories. no regrets on my end 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 01:42 AM |
| 6 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpif partying isn't productive or ever healthy then why are so many people who didn't have a party phase so mad that other people did? you obviously feel like you missed out on something or you wouldn't be here with these complaints in the first place. like just be happy with your healthy choices you see as superior I guess. i have some great memories and now I own a business and live quietly with my husband. I'm not bitter about missing out cuz I made sure to not miss out. just find someone who h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 01:28 AM |
| 4 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpfor the same reason I stopped playing with my barbie collection. at some point my brain grew to a point where it wasn't fun anymore and I decided to move on the next age appropriate activity. it didn't HAVE to stop but a grown ass woman playing toys is weird usually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpdude I dunno how else to explain that people grow and change. are you into the same media and activities as you were when you were 10? we're to into the same shit at 15 as you were at 20? i loved playing hide and seek as a child but in my middle aged life playing hide and seek would be considered immature. it's not that playing hide and seek is a bad thing, it's just a child activity. same reason 50 year olds don't go to college kid parties. it's not that college parties are bad, they've just si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 01:15 AM |
| 5 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpI mean, no? age appropriate behaviors are a thing. I don't feel like there was anything wrong with enjoying playing leggos and barbies and park playgrounds when I was a child even though I grew out of it with age. just like I don't feel like there was anything bad about my party days when it was age appropriate and then I grew up. most people evolve with age. when I'm 65 I'll probably be into different activities than I am now in my 30s. doesn't mean there is anything wrong with what I'm doing n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 01:03 AM |
| 7 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpI thought we were discussing young dudes who party, not toxic abusers hats kind of a different topic 🤷🏻♀️ again plenty of rebellious party dudes grow up to have normal stable lives. someone chose to nerd their youth away now they are bitter that people who had fun are capable of stabilility and maturity now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 12:59 AM |
| 6 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpyeah I'm pretty sure they're bitter cuz they're realizing that nerding their youth away didn't get them as far as they thought it would. I knew wild dudes who dropped out of high school even, grew up, and now work six figure jobs and own businesses and are in happy long term relationships. these guys just refuse to believe that the 20 year old party boy can totally grow up tk be a stable responsible 40 year old and that it happens often. just world fallacy shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 12:53 AM |
| 7 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpI don't think most young men or women are looking for a spouse or parent of the children before a certain age. an 18 year old woman bringing up marriage and babies to another 18 year old will guaranteed have him running for the hills cuz he isn't ready for all that. I feel like the guys here complaining about this are like the nerdy girl in this scene who felt superior because she did mature non party girl shit only to find her peers who fucked off and had fun were also just as successful. I've … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpI'm not demonizing anyone. I just don't really agree that "maturing faster" is a virtue always and I don't agree skipping out on young fun even makes you more mature than someone who didnt and later settled into having their shit together. in fact I'd argue that partying and rebellious fun is actually mature age appropriate behavior at that time 🤷🏻♀️ skipping that doesn't necessarily make you more successful or a better partner later. if you live out an average human life span you have plenty o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 12:33 AM |
| 9 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpI don't know why there always has to be such a dichotomy. my husband was quite wild and rebellious partier with a fast car in his youth. then he grew up and now he's the fuzzy lasagna on a Sunday guy who has a steady good job and a pretty chill stable lifestyle. a lot of women like me have a similar path and end up with men like this after we grow up out of our youthful party fun days. it was your choice to skip the fun and act like a middle aged mad in high school, I don't get wanting to be bit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 11:05 PM |
| 9 | Would you marry someone who ignored you, rejected you, and only dated men she thought were far more attractive than you?why would you stick around long enough to marry someone who did that in the first place?? I don't understand not moving on after getting rejected. I don't even keep in touch with or know what happened to people I didn't end up dating from rejection...life moves too fast to reach back into the past to try and refresh failures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:04 PM |
| 6 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?i hate to be the bearer of bad news but the elites were also raping away and getting off free in the 1100s as well as the 1300s. the elites have always been elites and men have always been men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.well I know why they do it. it's not emotionally comfortable to face that an already shitty man for other reasons is also a child rapist, it's not comfortable seeing that get out in your tight knit conservative Bible belt town. but it's illogical and dangerous to keep exposing kids in the family to him but they'd rather do that than face reality I guess. but also the culture has just kinda gone towards pedophiles just being accepted I guess I mean they're about to pardon Maxwell lol. it's totall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.yes it was a typo, I accidently hit the space bar instead of the b. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.I mean it pretty much is socially acceptable to not want to date people based on those things. I've known men who were solely loudly only into dating Asians or latinas and nobody really gave a shit. lots of men will say they don't want to date a woman with an active eating disorder problem, my cousin got rejected multiple times for it when she was anorexic. smart men recognize it for the scary issue that it is. lots of men say they won't date women on ssris or whatever pills and nobody can legal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 11:57 PM |
| 12 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.see that just kinda goes into what I said about autistic men wanting the world to adapt to them and their weirdness vs wanting to adapt themselves. in a perfect world people wouldn't get uncomfortable around autistic people and their unusual behavior but at the end of the day people are probably just gonna choose to spend their time around people who don't make them feel weird at the end of the day. it's not fair but that's the way it is. when I was a kid I had to learn that staring at people an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.but the neurotypical family members aren't the ones cutting him off. they aren't being practical here. Cutting him off WOULD BE the practical thing but that's not what's happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 11:22 PM |
| 0 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.um, I think we just fundamentally disagree on what black and white thinking is. just because something is black and white and clear cut obvious doesn't make it not rational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.hmmm again I disagree. I'd argue that allowing your emotions to muddy the situation enough to allow an abuser to stay in the "tribe" for the sake of cohesion and avoiding emotional discomfort is the complete opposite of black and white thinking. deciding to cut someone off for such a horrible thing despite whatever other perceived good they have is the black and white thinking. youve got it flipped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.they read it just fine, they just don't believe being a pedophile is an excusable enough of a trait to cut someone off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 10:54 PM |
| 6 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.I mean I don't really want to be around people who make excuses for a 20 year old raping and getting a 12 year old pregnant. and even continuing. to bring their children around him. if thinking that's weird and gross makes me a disruptive presence then meh oh well 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 10:41 PM |
| 16 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.eeeeh I disagree. I think the world would be a lot more structured and less chaotic if nuerotyoicals shared the same rigid sense of justice and need for consistency that a lot of autistic people have. like for example we recently had a pedophile in my family outted, every autistc in my family cut him off no questions asked, the nuerotyoicals in the family are all bending over backwards to make excuses for him. they don't see it as black and white at all. ive seen this over and over from multiple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 10:34 PM |
| 16 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.I think a lot of times especially with high functioning up ringing is important to future fulfillment. I've seen some parents of diagnosed autistic sons coddle the fuck out of them, never correct social unacceptable behaviors at a young age cuz they don't want their disabled kid to feel bad about themselves but then the kid grows up and gets their behavior corrected through bullying and exclusion which is arguably more traumatic in the long run than being lovingly adjusted by your parents. autis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 10:06 PM |
| 30 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.from my personal anecdotal experience autistic men are often less adaptable than autistic women. a lot of autistic men I know seem to want the world to adapt to their quirks and views rather than having a willingness to adapt to what others expect and are less responsive to social shame than autistic women. for example in college I knew this guy on the spectrum who had an insane OCD level aversion to slang or what he considered "improper English". like everytime someone used some common urban sl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 08:52 PM |
| 68 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.it's pretty obvious how prevalent autism is here by how much black and white absolutist thinking is displayed here a lot of the time. Autism is considered a disability for a reason. I feel bad for autistic men who can't wrap their head around social graces and being palatable to their peers the same way I feel bad for people who can't walk, but there's not really much I can personally do about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with feminist leader Jessica Valenti that it is obscene to talk about young men falling behind when women have restricted access to abortion?okay so you don't have any real suggestions on what we could actually do to help boys not fall behind, just threats on ways men can make the world shittier for themselves and everyone else. got it. very productive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with feminist leader Jessica Valenti that it is obscene to talk about young men falling behind when women have restricted access to abortion?what exactly are women and feminists supposed to do about men not caring enough about succeeding in school or professional settings? I thought men were more logical and generally smarter and more capable than us child brain women shouldn't they be able to figure out how to not underperform? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Are porn viewers complicit in the abuse that is rampant in the porn industry?even if something is manufactured or built in the United States it was probably done with domestic prison labor which is basically slavery with more steps. our society literally isn't capable of functioning without unethical slave labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Happy marriagehad Irish twins? so the guy had two kids close in age to with another woman so his current girlfriend moved in to help?? that's weird we're they poly or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 06:00 PM |
| 12 | Happy marriageall the conservative women in my family are just massive doormats who always act like happy stepford wives but they drink constantly and take anti depressents so i don't think they really are. it's easier to make a marriage "last" when youre just constantly looking the other way when your husband cheats on you and does fucked up stuff "cuz that's just how men are". my very conservative aunt didn't even leave her husband when another women showed up with his fucking baby in the early 90s lol. I'v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men."The same could be said for men who women use for sex, barring a fucking crime. It's amazing how manipulation ceases to be an issue as soon as it's a man being manipulated and strung along. Women have no agency, even when they're doing wrong." Yeah thags why I don't think women should fuck men who havent put in effort and investment into getting to know them. A lot of women try and hold on to men who don't put in that effort and it was a mistake they shouldn't do that cuz men don't appreciate wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:43 PM |
| 16 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.I knew a woman who attempted to get into brick laying and other carpentry after high school cuz it payed well and her dad taught her how to do it when she was young. the men she worked with either boldy sexually harassed her the whole time and the others just made it clear they didn't want her there working with them cuz she's a women trying to do men's work. she quit after like a year and got an office job lol. men are the ones who make those "hard" trade jobs intolerable for women, not the wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:28 PM |
| 5 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.getting strung along for material stuff is a choice. don't give too much of yourself to people who don't reciprocate and this will cease to be an issue for you, and I say this as a former chronic people pleaser. the consequences of getting strung along sexually are potentially a pregnancy with a man who secretly hates you or an STD or even decreased social status for women in some places/cultures. for men it's some lost money for dinner/drinks. id take the later any day but I was born with this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:13 PM |
| 0 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.women can only extract from you what you allow them to. if you're referring to money or attention that sucks when it happens but like obviously the loss/consequences isn't as severe as ending up with a pregnancy from a man who secretly hates you or an STD 🤷🏻♀️ men do know if they're a woman's type though. is she receptive to your sexual advances? if yes then you're her type lol. she ain't gonna touch you if she isn't attracted to you. Ive been in a relationship for over a decade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:06 PM |
| 8 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.literally no cuz men will still have sex with women they think are ugly or even loathe. no women don't typically keep men around as placeholder sex objects when they aren't actually attracted to them at anywhere near the rate men do, if they did men wouldn't be complaining about being sexless so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:01 PM |
| 6 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.eehhh I disagree. if a man approaches me then he at least had to pick me out of a crowd and decided I was his type enough to make it worth the shot. if I chase him I have no way of knowing if I'm actually the type hes attracted to. this lines up with what other men I've known in real life have told me and it also lines up with what I've seen over and over again from mens actions. men simply don't often appreciate women they didn't have to chase and invest in at least a little in the beginning as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:52 PM |
| 4 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.when did that happen?? I'm still waiting to be able to go out in public to have men leave me alone and I even have a wedding ring they still try to to talk to me 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:32 PM |
| -7 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.because women will simply usually just reject a man she isn't into. a man will keep a women around even if he isn't attracted to her out of scarcity mindset and then jump on the internet and brag about "dumpster diving" and "slumbusting" in the meantime. I know to a man a woman using him and wasting his time sounds just fine but a lot of women don't want that. at least when a man approaches me I know he's probably more likely to actually be attracted to me since he thought I was worth the effort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:49 PM |
| 9 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.no approaching women is just regular masculinity. men need to approach because they aren't as picky as women. women run a huge risk of being used as a placeholder chick when they approach men because men will fuck women they even hate if she throws herself into his lap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singleif men got into relationships with one woman they liked and stuck with her instead of lying to her and still trying to hit up women around town no matter how ugly they are then women wouldn't need these groups. I'm not sure why y'all think women are to blame for married/in relationship men not staying out of other women's dms. genuinely how else do y'all expect women to vet local men since you know we can't actually read minds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 05:57 AM |
| 5 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singleand because men have chosen to mass platform shit like Andrew Tate, Joe Rogan/adjacent stuff, Andrew Wilson, Pearl Davis, and the rest who spout these ideas about men without much pushback from all these men who supposedly disagree I'm not sure what else you want us to see. I do know decent men in person and theryr almost always in chill normal relationships. they sure aren't getting a wedgie bunch about these are we dating the same man groups cuz they know they won't be in them cuz they aren't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 05:27 AM |
| 6 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singleso if a man is attractive enough to be capable of cheating he will. got it. nothing else about personality or nothing. just looks. and the ugly men will attempt to cheat and fail. tell me again why men deserve women's loyalty?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 03:43 AM |
| 8 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singleeveryone involved in dating "creates" the dating culture. it's not just women by a long shot. "This is on multiple levels not your problem. A cheating man going to a prostitute is actively removing himself from the dating pool. He's literally seeing a professional." Huh?? He literally didn't remove himself from the dating pool because he was dating my friend. He also was messaging tons of women in social media but he couldn't find a willing cheating participant so he last resorted to a prostitut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 03:39 AM |
| 7 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singleI don't date women so I can't comment on that experience. but I've had enough men both attractive and bridge troll level short bald ugly who were married or jn relationships attempt to fuck me and other women I know to understand that attractiveness levels in men aren't related to their desire or attempts to fuck as many women as they can if that's what they want to try to do. just telling women to date ugly men isn't going to fix that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:39 AM |
| 4 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singleoooh and what type of man specifically is likely to cheat and what ones don't? please educate the class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:32 AM |
| 11 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singlewomen didn't create the male sex drive. you do realize that ugly men try to cheat too? I lost count years ago of how many married dudes, often with kids, have attempted to fuck me. Ugly, attractive, bald, short, autistic or not, it doesn't matter they will attempt to shoot their shot if they are bored enough. I had a friend who was dating this short hella autistic nerd not too long ago and she found out he was going to prostitutes on the side even though they were fucking regularly so yeah men w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be single"these men" these men are just men. women have been told over and over that men are naturally driven to spread their seed and that they are mostly not monogamous. all men are capable of cheating or attempting to cheat. not really sure how else you expect women to go about the nature that men present to us and insist upon themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:07 AM |
| 17 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singlemen consistently tell us that they want to "spread their seed" and fuck as many women as possible by their nature and that naturally monogamous men are the exception not the rule. women are simply trying to navigate this dynamic and tools like these groups are on of the few things they can use to make sure their men aren't hitting up every woman in town trying to cheat, as we are told is their nature. not really sure why this carries negative implications about women. we are simply listening to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:04 AM |
| 14 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singlethose groups exist because women are trying to AVOID dating the same men, not find men to share lmaoo. it's to figure out if the guy their seeing is actually taking it seriously or also trying to hit up other women in the community and also to out cheaters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 01:56 AM |
| – | Do you think that not being scientifically cool or good may be hurting your chances?oooh high school. I thought we were discussing adult stuff NVM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 02:00 AM |
| – | Do you think that not being scientifically cool or good may be hurting your chances?"Woman who licks her hand and rubs it on someone? That chick was absolutely looking for attention. excuse me, what? that's a really oddly specific example I've never seen in my life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.people still do all of those things? but those things you listed require either good outside weather in a specific season, which a lot of people already do when the weather is appropriate, or require money and time off or a backyard. in this economy a lot of people can't just afford sports games tickets or expensive beach trips regularly. also how would any of those things really reduce housework load? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.i guess it depends on the activity but I made lifelong friends from the extracurricular activities I was in as a child and did plenty of socializing during. I don't actually know about kids being more structured today. I grew up in the 90s early 00s and I was constantly doing sports shit (tennis mostly), dance classes, played in band, amd did l school theatre productions I was busy as hell constantly. my friend's kids literally just come home right after school and start playing video games and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 06:00 PM |
| 13 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.well now the problem is you've got a whole generation of men reaching adulthood who's parents didn't think pushing extra curriculars on like 60% of them was important like you don't think it is and now young men get on the internet and claim they are now a dangerously lonely and have no idea how to make friends and just go to work if they have a job and come home and play video games and watch porn all the time. social development and extracurriculars are quite important for not inceling your ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 05:23 PM |
| 12 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.what "things" do you suggest women should constantly be taking their kids out to that they don't already? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 05:12 PM |
| 27 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysvoting for trump literally doesn't benefit men either, or anyone else. y'all ate shit in hopes women would have to smell your breath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityyou didn't say anything of value either it's just a bunch of over dramatic straw manning. most mentally healthy men don't sit around stressing over the definitions of masculinity they just live their lives. most men can't even define "masculinity" very well in general without referencing working out or being "leaders" whatever the fuck that means most men are loyal followers not leaders anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityit's just weird to me to expect feminism to take on a stance considered widely immoral by most even on both sides . like male children need resources too?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityto be fair right wing conservatives aren't generally too keen on allowing men to skip on supporting their children either. it's a rather unpopular opinion that men be allowed to not have to pay for their offspring on both sides of the political spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinitythat doesn't have anything to do with anything I wrote? if you're gonna post a debate topic then actually debate the topic you posted, or at least bother to elaborate on your points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 10:29 PM |
| 9 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityI feel like men at large especially on the right completely misunderstand the whole toxic masculinity conversation very deliberately on purpose because I just don't see how y'all just go so completely off the rails twisting yourselves into pretzels so blatantly not getting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 09:02 PM |
| 11 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity"Healthy masculinity: video games, beer, lumberjack in the woods, pumping iron in the gym, being on the grindset, driving a Bugatti, walking into the room and everyone knowing that you are THAT dude." I genuinely can't tell if this is satire/sarcasm or not 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Would women prefer a man who has an ability(s) to obtain resources but currently has no resources to share with them or a man who already has a lot of resources but has no ability(s) to obtain resources?how does someone go through life having no skills or passions unless they're like just mentally not all there?? even the wealthiest trust fund babies I've known had hobbies and side hustles and investments they were into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Would women prefer a man who has an ability(s) to obtain resources but currently has no resources to share with them or a man who already has a lot of resources but has no ability(s) to obtain resources?"man who already has a lot of resources but has no ability(s) to obtain resources" I don't understand what this means. like his he disabled or something?? in prison?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:47 PM |
| 11 | Our understanding of traditional gender roles is entirely based off 50s nostalgiathis whole biological argument doesn't make sense. for most of human history most people and families were farmers/homesteaders. this whole model of a woman staying at home with kids vacuuming and making jello concoctions while the husband went off to some office or whatever for most of the day a new concept from like the 1940s. before that both women and children were doing work on the homestead, like hard work. taking care of animals, working crops, teaching the kids how to do these things all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Women don't approach men because of other women.well of course you can leave at any time. but the fact that the guy is intentionally wasting her time isn't always obvious, especially if you don't have a lot of dating experience, and smart men aren't just gonna come out and say that cuz well they want to continue wasting her time on their terms. noboody is saying they are shackled to a guy hey approached, but at least if a guy approaches me he had to pick me out of a crowd and decide I was his type enough to make the effort rather than just so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 01:35 AM |
| 7 | Women don't approach men because of other women.women don't approach men as often because they know a lot of men won't outright reject a woman they aren't attracted to immediately like women will to men. if the man doesn't have anything better going on they'll often waste the woman's time by keeping the woman as a placeholder or using her for short term cuz men are down to do that to women who aren't their type of they perceived as not good enough for them. its not much more complicated than that really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 10:43 PM |
| 5 | There is no reward for being a male centered woman.lots of women who look like pearl whi don't degrade themselves and grovel to redpill men find normal reasonably attractive men with good stable incomes who don't publicly cheat on them and fawn over sex workers on twitter like pearls boyfriend does. She even comes of a well off family probably with a fat trust fund she doesn't have to do any of this. I swear she has a humiliation fetish or something it's the only explanation. Id dead ass rather show my entire freakin butthole on the internet tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 09:40 PM |
| 5 | There is no reward for being a male centered woman.cuz women use the same internet men do. we can see all of it in plain view, it was only a matter of time before a woman decided to use it for rage bait clout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?I mean I've worked in quite a few bars and have also been to a lot of bars/venues and parties and its frankly jus pretty rare for people to get kicked out for any reason and when it does happen it's cuz the person was wasted. Only time I've seen a man get kicked out by a woman's complaint was cuz he actually did grope her in appropriately. Y'all act like getting banned just for approaching a woman politely is some constant occurrence. Bars want your money, kicking dudes out for talking to women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?oooh I realized youre not who I replied to, did this happen to you at some point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 11:15 PM |
| 15 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?how's that happen? I've never known a dude who got banned from a bar just for asking a woman out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | What’s the reason straight women wear makeup and get plastic surgery?yet to be determined. I think we might be in new uncharted territory on this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 09:27 PM |
| 2 | What’s the reason straight women wear makeup and get plastic surgery?"What do you call the fetish where people season their genitalia with Montreal steak seasoning before oral sex?" - OP I really need to remember to not go check out posts histories here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 09:01 PM |
| 2 | What’s the reason straight women wear makeup and get plastic surgery?if this was the case then women post menopause like late 40s and up wouldn't be huge customers of cosmetic procedures cuz they wouldn't be motivated by "reproductive success" anymore. but they do often when they can afford it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 08:52 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵ever see the movie Gummo? it's basically that in reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 03:43 AM |
| 1 | The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bitdo you think the vast majority of old folks in nursing homes don't have kids? I use to volunteer at one, the old people bitched about how their ungrateful brat kids never visited. like how many middle aged adults do you actually know who take care of their elderly parents constantly? most have kids and jobs of their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:06 AM |
| 4 | The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bitwhitetrashmaxx 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:02 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on the toxic narratives around men opening up to women?part of being socially competent is knowing when to unload on people and when not. for example, I met this random dude at a pinball tournament a while back and within 3 minutes of me meeting him he starts unloading about how he felt weird being put on a team of women cuz he had all these insecurities about growing up with only sisters and a mom and never being as good at stuff as his sister and I'm like yoooo I met you three damn minutes ago. it's off-putting when people do shit like that to eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 06:38 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on the toxic narratives around men opening up to women?yeah I dunno why they have such a hard time grasping this. nobody wants someone who's a chronic professional victim about every minor inconvenience in life or constantly expressing low self esteem without ever doing anything about it. that shit gets old even for same sex platonic friends. but if my husband didn't shed some tears when he had to put his dog down or scrape his favorite outdoor barn cat off the road when it got hit by a truck or when his dad almost died from a heart attack I'd be wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Female performers can get away with more than male performers canmost people just explain what periods are to their kids who are gonna have to be dealing with it or having friends dealing with it in a few short years anyway so their kid doesn't grow up sheltered to the point that they're this weird and hung up on period discussions. knowing what a period is isn't harmful either. way less harmful than alcohol lol. it's not some brain breaking information | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Female performers can get away with more than male performers canwhy would lying to your kid about being hungover because you over consumed too much of a generally harmful substance that the kid is too young to buy or consume be better than just telling the truth explaining that your on your period that happens once a month? lmaoo your standards of what kids need to be exposed to and influenced by make no sense. it just sounds like youre more upset that other people don't have the same weird hang ups about periods as you do than you are at Olivia Rodrigo. its… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 11:19 PM |
| 6 | Female performers can get away with more than male performers candude there's nothing inherently dirty or naughty about periods. my mom explained them to me and my siblings when we were like 5 cuz we kept badgering her on what the tampons in the bathroom closet were for. there's rapist men who still have careers and you're sweating a period joke?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 10:08 PM |
| 4 | How did you girls meet your significant other?sure abusers break rules, so do people who jaywalk, people who go 10-15 over the speed limit from time to time, people who pirate movies and music, people who have sold stuff or worked under the table for small amounts of money without reporting taxes, etc. I lived in a town once that had a law saying you couldn't own more than two sex toys lmaoo guess what I broke the fuck out of that rule. just because someone bends a rule they perceived to be harmless or useless doesn't mean they'll abuse you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 10:58 PM |
| 3 | How did you girls meet your significant other?I mean most of the dudes Ive known who sold grams/ounces of weed and shrooms, etc to their homies haven't ever been abusive to their girlfriends/wives so do with that info what you will 🤷🏻♀️ I dunno if I'd call it "sexy" but I like partying sometimes and I llove weed and occasional other things so it's more of a compatibility thing. Party people tend to be happier with other party people. I met husband at a party in fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 10:29 PM |
| 2 | How did you girls meet your significant other?weed and LSD and other psychedelics are fun and make life an enjoyable well rounded experience. idc if the government doesn't like it, men who can see through government propaganda and think for themselves and not lick boot for the sake of being an "upstanding citizen" are sexy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:10 PM |
| 6 | What do you think about the 45% of all men who have never approached a woman?Same thing I think about any stranger who doesn't talk to me, nothing. Indifference. I cant force people to be social. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsI dunno what being "too good" for a construction worker means. I dunno if I ever actually had one ask me out when I was single? My husband works in botany/agriculture shit and doesn't have anger issues sooo yeah didn't really want someone like my dad if that's what you're asking. Also construction workers usually make good money and have no problem getting laid or married? I was now asking if you think women should be exclusively dating men just like their dad or whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:52 AM |
| 9 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsOn their father's level? Lol what does that even mean. Was I only supposed to date 6'1 construction workers with anger issues or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Raising children an unpaid job!See Im a woman and I find taking care of kids to be way more stressful and draining than and job I've worked or my own business that I run now. Some people are just wired different and that's okay. Also just because something is enjoyable or fulfilling doesn't make it not work. I have a lot of fun running my business but it's still labor. I still want to get paid even though it's interesting and fulfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Men try to solve the problem, women try to avoid blameI could also ask you why you're giving personal anecdotes in your whole OP. You asked goofball, youre the one who posted this on a fucking debate forum lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 06:31 PM |
| 17 | Men try to solve the problem, women try to avoid blameMy dad would literally punch holes in walls and break/smash random stuff if anyone in the family even lightly insinuated he might be wrong about something so yeah my experiences have been quite different. We always had to act like our dad had infallible wisdom to tiptoe around his temper even when it was obvious he was very wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 05:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Too bad all its real meaning got lost in translation from ancient language a long long time ago. The King James version is fucking trash and so was he. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:06 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They don't care about women's political values because they literally see women as dumb children who will eventually just conform to whatever her mans beliefs are because they don't take women's opinions seriously, they see us as malleable and impressionable so those things get put on the back burner. They're convinced their magic dick will make you flip your values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Why do some women seek Egalitarian marriages instead of partial or full Financial dependence on a man?Yeah but if you have money in your name you can just leave. If the man has all the money that becomes much more difficult and dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 04:34 PM |
| 6 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.I'm not gonna doxx my location/neighborhood for some random on the internet who's clearly determined to not give a shit either way. But you could easily go search through your local sex offender registry and find tons of slap of the wrist nothing sentences for conviction if you wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 07:17 PM |
| 3 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.There was a recent local case where I'm at where a 50 year old man got convicted of raping 3 girls ages 13-14 and they let him out after less than four months in jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstraps" A lot of startup founders in Silicon Valley dropped out of school because they found it a waste of their time* I'm gonna need a source for this claim because I know a fuckton of people in high up tech positions and silicon valley as well as business owners and pretty much all of them have advanced degrees or continued education of some sort they did well in. Being an entrepreneur requires being able to sit down read a lot, do math, know contract laws, tax codes, labor laws, etc. While true you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 06:38 PM |
| 6 | The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstraps" real world like exploring uncharted lands" Homie typing this from a time machine in year 1490. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | People don’t “outgrow” or “change” away from their partner, they just don’t know who they are and so are at faultThe world would also be a lot easier to deal with if money grew on trees and I could fly but it just doesn't work that way. Change is the only constant guarantee in life, making peace with this fact will make life a lot less frustrating for you. Being completely stagnant in life sounds fucking miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 08:41 PM |
| 2 | What's are your standards for short term involvements/flings(if any)?Yeah the two shorter term flings I had when I was younger were pretty soon after breakups when I was on the sad rebound and wanted a distraction. Coincidentally both these flings had pretty severe diagnosed bipolar and while they were cute and fun and creative people who I enjoyed time with it became pretty clear early on that they were too unstable in some key ways that made long term with them unfeasible. I feel like most flings are results of people just looking for a distraction from sad shi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 07:49 PM |
| 6 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Further proof that men actually do prefer heavy makeup and fillers and plastic surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 07:05 PM |
| 16 | Male sexuality prevents men from being suitable life partnersI feel like your middle aged husband creeping on his teenage daughters friends is a lot more common and likely than your wife leaving for brad pitt lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why are so many of you so convinced that abusers are obvious, blatant, cartoonishly evil people that can be easily spotted?Lots of people can be dick headed in social situation but not abusive. From my experience my uncle was super abusive and cheated on every woman he got with and he always had a gaggle of bros supporting him and hyping him up and he never had trouble getting jobs or making money. I remember one of my husbands friends in our scene had the worst fucking energy to me and he made me super uncomfortable and literally nobody we knew saw it. Anyways like 2 years later he steals a bunch of money from our … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why are so many of you so convinced that abusers are obvious, blatant, cartoonishly evil people that can be easily spotted?I'm curious, so was he never able to hold down a job or keep friends? How did people generally react to him on public? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Why are so many of you so convinced that abusers are obvious, blatant, cartoonishly evil people that can be easily spotted?Yeah but this is all stuff you directly witnessed at your house. Do you think your dad's coworkers knew he was abusing y'all at home? Do you think the parents he socialized with at soccer games were aware of how he was at home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 08:58 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: Why are so many of you so convinced that abusers are obvious, blatant, cartoonishly evil people that can be easily spotted?Actual personality disorder level narcissism is actually fairly rare, I can think of maybe 5-6 people I've come across who truly likely had it. That being said, the male narcs I knew never seemed to have a shortage of men as long term buddies who had their back and supported and defended them. On the contrast the female narcs I've known had a really hard time keeping women around as friends. Which tells me either men actually are not better at picking out these traits in their peers, or if they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 08:50 PM |
| 23 | Q4M: Why are so many of you so convinced that abusers are obvious, blatant, cartoonishly evil people that can be easily spotted?Yeah I'm just not buying it. The amount of times I've seen a dude come into a friend group who was an obvious narc crazy shit bag to me who was gonna screw people over and people would tell me I was crazy and then sure enough, shit bag would soon enough be a shit bag. And it's usually always men who take up for these narcissistic shit bags until they finally get undeniably fucked over themselves. Ive watched my dad walk into shady situations with other men when my mom would be the one practicall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere?I've never understood the argument that women are more emotional in the workplace. I've never had women at a job yell at me or conworkers like i have men, never seen a woman throw stuff across the room like I have seen men do. Once had a male boss get mad at someone and threw his own phone on the floor smashing it to bits. I've had male coworkers get into actual fights with each other at the work place. I've had male bosses come into work drunk almost crying cuz they got into a fight with their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 07:23 PM |
| 3 | How many of you have ever mocked a guy based on dick size or know a woman who has?Muscle tone is more related to pussy tightness than "use". A 30 year old seasoned porn star who constantly goes to the gym and does Pilates/yoga who also regularly takes BBC for a job is gonna have a tighter pussy on average than an overweight 30 year old sedentary office worker who hasn't seen a gym since they were forced to go in high school and had sex with her six inch dick husband once a week. It has more to do with core and pelvic floor strength maintenance than anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 08:53 PM |
| – | A lot of women invalidate men's emotions and experiences by saying "go to therapy" in response to men's concerns about dating certain types of women.There's definitely someone out there for everyone. There's women who are actively working in legal brothels who are married outside their job. Pretty much every slut I knew in college is married and has kids now on our 30s if they wanted em. Y'all act like women should stress because some men don't want to date them. I've had a guy tell me he couldn't date me cuz I wasn't a natural red head and he wanted to marry a redhead and have redheaded children lol. I've known dudes who would only date asi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 07:37 PM |
| – | A lot of women invalidate men's emotions and experiences by saying "go to therapy" in response to men's concerns about dating certain types of women.You realize she probably found another dude to entertain her probably that night, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 07:29 PM |
| – | A lot of women invalidate men's emotions and experiences by saying "go to therapy" in response to men's concerns about dating certain types of women.Well sure there's men who won't date her for that, or they dont like her hair color, or they don't like her height, or they don't like how she talks, or they don't like her clothing aesthetic. There's all kinds of reasons why people choose to not date other people. I'm curious how did this conversation with this woman even come up? We're y'all on a date? At a party? At work? School? Random bus stop? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 07:16 PM |
| – | A lot of women invalidate men's emotions and experiences by saying "go to therapy" in response to men's concerns about dating certain types of women.Ah yes, a totally real encounter with a female where a topic that perfectly aligned with red pill just world revenge fantasies was openly discussed in person and you put that entitled promiscuous brat who definitely has no hope of ever finding a man now in her place and everyone stood up and clapped 👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 06:50 PM |
| 11 | Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive?I just looked it up and his ex wife wasn't even his secretary nor was his current fiance so I'm not even sure where you got that from so your point is moot anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 10:58 PM |
| 10 | Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive?A secretary of a multi billion dollar company. That's a far cry from a cashier or barista. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 10:49 PM |
| 2 | More women than men watch violent, misogynistic porn. What's the reason?Well yeah you don't need to tell me a lot of women have been sexually assaulted by men or at least had it attenpted, tons of women I know including myself have experienced men being predatory. Our culture leads to it because we let rapists walk free over 90% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 06:26 PM |
| 0 | More women than men watch violent, misogynistic porn. What's the reason?I don't understand what you think the problem is exactly or what the course of said problem is? Can you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 06:15 PM |
| 3 | More women than men watch violent, misogynistic porn. What's the reason?Soooo like are y'all trying to say that raping women should be a free for all for men since some women have raped dominance fantasies or what?? Is that really the bottom line y'all are going with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 06:09 PM |
| 3 | More women than men watch violent, misogynistic porn. What's the reason?This isnt exactly a mystery, this psychological phenomena has been explored and explained to death. "Rape fantasies" don't mean women want to be raped and it's scary that men will try to use this excuse to commit violence towards women thinking "rape fantasies" justify it. Rape fantasies are usually experienced by women who grew up in sexually oppressive religious purity culture communities where experiences sexual desire as a woman is shamed and considered dirty. However biology still does it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Why do men think they are funnier than women?Omg so a couple years ago I scored front row seats to a maria bamford show is a smallish intimate venue and oh man...she was intense and sooo amazing. Making direct eye contact with her for like half the show was something else. She really is peak comedy her commentary on living in normy society as a mentally ill person is just muah 🤌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that the most beautiful women aren't on dating apps?Probably pretty accurate. I mean how often do you see a advertisement for a rolls Royce? They don't need to advertise it's already wanted enough to not need to draw seekers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:16 AM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Y'all just be making shit up to get mad about at this point. No trans person I have ever met is gonna flinch at a cis woman calling herself a woman for fucks sake 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:49 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything."I was half hoping that when Trump got elected Caitlyn Jenner would be chosen as women's health czar, but that's the sad world we live in ;(" Well that was a unreasonable hope to have considering how hard the Republican party railed against trans people for months. trans people doing their thing doesn't destroy me existing in my biological sex I dunno I'm chillin. I still woman about in the world just fine somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:27 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.I personally haven't experienced any of this myself the trans people I know are generally pretty chill? I guess I'd need a specific example of what you're saying to understand why I should be pissed about it or not cuz and the end of the day I just really don't give a fuck about how people express themselves cuz trans people doing their thing has yet to affect me negatively in my personal life. People just existing doesn't piss me off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:09 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.I occupy spaces with trans people as a woman all the time and it's fine. I perform along with multiple trans people in a circus troupe, nobody has died. I personally am fine with them being around. I've even pissed in a stall with one in stall next to me one time 😲 I know that's some end of the world shit for y'all but it really was just....fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:01 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.And what does she think should happen to trans people due to her "concern for biological women and girls"? People used this same argument against black people during segregation and gay marriage and deciding to kill off the native Americans, etc. it wasn't in good faith then and I don't believe its on good faith now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 02:54 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.As far as I know there is no law against misgendering a person where I live, people do it freely all the time without jail or fines. It will however make some people who stand for trans people think you are an asshole and they may not want to fuck with you more after you do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 02:50 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Her ideas result in the removal of human rights and yeah I really don't care to debate that any more than I care to debate on why we should or shouldnt bring segregation back. It's a trash idea that doesn't deserve the validation of debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 02:47 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.What I know is that trans people have become the new cool minority for conservatives to scapegoat their problems on because small brained people need the elites to point out a powerless minority they can vent their frustrations on instead of the fact that the government is making them broke. The Republican party spent over a quarter billion dollars in marketing to market trans hate specifically to the smooth brains this election season because they know that giving their base a minority group to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 02:45 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.I mean, Rowling is the transphobe so that, bottom line makes her a bigot and intolerant. I just don't really see trans rights as a fun little topic to debate, these are people's lives and there is real threats to their rights to exist peacefully in society and Rowling specificlly doesn't seem to agree that they should be able to exist in society without penalty and yeah I don't care to "debate" a person's right to exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Q4All - How do we adjust the education system to suit boys? Does this NPR podcast series "Falling Behind: The Miseducation of America's Boys" present the issue fairly?Um well I'm American so most of the mothers I've seen including my own were non European. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 08:58 PM |
| 20 | Q4All - How do we adjust the education system to suit boys? Does this NPR podcast series "Falling Behind: The Miseducation of America's Boys" present the issue fairly?People probably won't like this take but I think a lot of boys struggles in not performing well in schools starts at home from my experience. Back when I was in elementary/middle school I remember the girls would get less than perfect grades and would be SOBBING terrified to go home because they knew they'd get grounded for not getting As while the boys would get Cs or Fs and shrug it off and laugh about it cuz they knew their parents weren't gonna care. However the boy in my social circle who's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 08:41 PM |
| 24 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).I actually had an older guy from a hobby group on tiny chat online get obsessed with me when I was 17. He actually stalked me online constantly messaging me on every account/online place he could find me on for like a couple years. I didn't even know what he looked like cuz he never turned on his camera in the group but he said he was 32. Still creeped me the fuck out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 10:02 PM |
| 40 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Some were technically attractive I guess but we didn't care. We thought middle aged dudes hanging out in spaces primarily occupied by 18-24 year olds were either immature or creeps or both. Like dude should t you be helping your kid or with their math homework or some shit why are you trying to buy probably underage or close to it women alcohol rn?? I wanted to date other college aged dudes and that's what I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:39 PM |
| 56 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Me and my friends thought it was gross and would make fun of those 35-40+ dudes who would try and pick up women our age in late high school/college. If it wasn't jealousy then when I was in it why would it be jealousy now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:21 PM |
| 18 | Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers).Or the amount of 40+ year old men who used to relentlessly hit on me when I was 17-20 and work or whenever else and tons online, it just made them look like the biggest losers I never understood why they thought they had a chance with me. I thought it was gross then and I still think it's gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:14 PM |
| -1 | Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild.I would tell any woman that believing a man they don't know well who said he had a vasectomy without any medical record proof is a bad plan and not recommended. That's a common thing for men to lie about and women should be aware of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 06:35 PM |
| 16 | Forced fatherhood is a huge problem that is rarely ever acknowledgedI am pro choice but I also think men need to be aware that not all women are always pro choice all the time. If a man thinks that the consequences of getting a woman pregnant would be turning his life or child's life into a living hell and he still chooses to not wrap his dick for the sake of "having better sex" and knocks her up and she doesn't want to abort that's on him to deal with at the end of the day. If he wants to trust a woman who would make his life hell with something that huge I'm n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 07:36 AM |
| 29 | Forced fatherhood is a huge problem that is rarely ever acknowledged"there is still a substantial difference in deceiving to get better sex than actually fucking trying to steal a baby from someone" 🤢🤢🤢 Lol this is where you lost me and also why i don't feel sorry for men on this one. Having unprotected sex is upping your chances for conception the same if it's only cuz you "want better sex 🤢" or because the woman "wants to steal a baby" (whatever the fuck that means) so the result is the same. Men willing to risk a pregnancy for better sex isn't more noble or l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 07:16 AM |
| 21 | Forced fatherhood is a huge problem that is rarely ever acknowledgedI had a dude try to get me to not use a condom once by telling me he had his sperm tested and he was infertile therefore didn't need one. That dude has a kid now with another woman hahaa. If I'd been stupid and had and believed him and had unprotected sex with him, I'd still be responsible for dealing with the pregnancy if it happened. You're always responsible for yourself. If you don't look both ways and cross the street when you have the right of way and a car hits you, it might be the cars f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 06:51 AM |
| 20 | Forced fatherhood is a huge problem that is rarely ever acknowledgedThey sound reckless and I would recommend not following their advice and insisting on wearing the condom or not sleeping with women who do that 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 06:43 AM |
| 28 | Forced fatherhood is a huge problem that is rarely ever acknowledgedPregnancies can happen whether one or both parties want it or not. Therefore you should probably be really careful with your sperm. And if youre in child free long term relationship why not just....get a vasectomy? Then you dont have to worry about your lady getting secret baby fever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 06:37 AM |
| 42 | Forced fatherhood is a huge problem that is rarely ever acknowledgedBirth control fails all the time for non nefarious reasons and men should probably be more aware of that. Women can genuinely forget to take their dose, certain medications like antibiotics can render them ineffective and doctors are bad about notifying people of this, i know a few people conceived that way actually. The glee I've seen in mens eyes when you tell them they can smash without a condom is only matched to that of a kid getting their first Nintendo 64 in the 90s. Almost every man I've… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 06:35 AM |
| 86 | Forced fatherhood is a huge problem that is rarely ever acknowledgedMost women I know who got pregnant unexpectedly was because men were whiny about condoms not feeling good and they insisted they could pull out in time and that it works. Many men are very careless about knocking up their sexual partners whether theyre underestimating the odds of their ability to impregnate someone or they just don't care. It's remarkably easy to get a guy to accidently knock you up and is something you have to actively protect yourself against when you have sex with them becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Just be what they wantI've never been able to wrap my head around this mindset. Trying to be the best version of myself is pretty much what gets me motivated to literally do anything with my time. What else is there to even do with the time you get in life if not to spend it getting better at things and gaining more knowledge? What do you focus on when you're awake? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 07:48 PM |
| 5 | Women sometimes contribute to themselves being ghosted, cheated on, & dumped...Okay I mean that's all still really vague. What "value" means can be different to each individual. But I guess I agree that someone wanting a poly relationship won't be compatible with a monogamous person, I'm still not sure what there is to debate there. Some people want open relationships, I'd say the majority probably don't in the long term though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 08:47 PM |
| 7 | Women sometimes contribute to themselves being ghosted, cheated on, & dumped...Soo your take is basically if you want to up your chances in the longer term with a polyamorous/open relationship man you need to be a polyamorous/open relationship woman. That's...technically true? What do you want us to debate here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:48 PM |
| – | Modern "Modesty" is just a trend and often isn't modest at AllI'm gonna wear an extra tight fitting outfit that still covers skin today just because 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 06:12 PM |
| – | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Most average/broke men who are rapists and predators get away with it. The conviction rate for sexual assault is like 10%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 04:31 PM |
| – | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you."but women tear us a new asshole anytime we say we don't wanna date a woman with a bunch of male friends." That's...not what the comment you replied to said. That's not what I said either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 04:12 PM |
| 10 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Uhhh you say the relationship isn't working out for you and wish the person well and break up. The only reason men do shit like that is because they get off on making talented women doing stuff they love give it up for them, it's a power dynamic game they have in their heads. And it's toxic 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:26 AM |
| 13 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Expecting your pro surfer partner to not post on social media is also toxic as well as stupid. He shouldnt have dated someone who's job is to be in swim suits all the time if he didn't like his woman being in swimsuits in the first place. That's what he should have done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:21 AM |
| 13 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.I mean I've been around a lot of couples in quite a few communal living situations and spent a lot of time around both men and women going through relationship problems and breakups so I've seen some shit on both ends 🤷🏻♀️ I guess I'd need specific examples of what you mean in order to judge if I think the behaviors are toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:18 AM |
| 12 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.It's the fact that he thought that he had a "boundary" for a pro surfer to not wear swim suits in public that is toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:16 AM |
| 82 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Women know that there are women who are toxic in various forms very well, but those of us with self esteem who decided we don't have time for that shit cut them out of our lives usually. The movie Mean Girls was super relatable to a lot of young women at the time for a reason. I absolutely know a few women from when I was younger who either because of legit mental illness or maybe just shitty people have almost no steady platonic friends anymore that don't bail after a few months of dealing with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Why do women seem to struggle to honestly admit to preferences which might be considered shallow?Young Alan Rickman was fuckin fiiine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItYeah I went to college in the late 00s and had pretty similar experiences, I dunno why these kids are so socially incapable now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 05:52 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I didn't "brutally shoot him down" I pretty politely told him that I was just here to see the band and had a long week and wasn't trying to really chat tonight after he just sat down at my table without even asking if he could join me. When he persisted I also pointed out that I was married, which he also did not fuck off after being told. Literally what else could I have done in that situation? I didn't cuss him out for just talking to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:38 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Then why are so many fat women not single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:03 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵A married woman just trying to watch some music and chil specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 05:14 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's fine to talk to women in bars, but if they make it clear they aren't interested and just want to watch the bans and/or have a wedding ring on then don't keep going after they say no. It's the not taking no for an answer that's the issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 05:12 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I guess I get it. I always just zone out and watch the band without paying attention to people unless they talk to me or I randomly see someone I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:48 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Like you feel like she wants you to come talk to her, or like she's scared your going to come talk to her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:37 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah I wish I could just wear a t shirt that says "not trying to be picked up just watching the band" lmao I remember there was a bar in college years ago who had glow bracelets at the door you could put on and the different colors meant you were single and down for potential romantic interaction or you were in a relationship. But also a wedding ring is kinda supposed to basically serve that purpose and it still don't work🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:32 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hmm can you elaborate on what weird thing you think is going on? I'm kinda confused by what you mean here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:30 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Thing is I live such an active lifestyle fucked up thyroid the fat would be gone in like a year. Men hit on fattie chicks too they don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:25 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm not annoyed by the attempt, it bothers me when they don't take my initial no for an answer and I'm forced to either be a bitch about it or just sneak off leave cuz I don't have it in me to deal with confrontation in the moment. There's been plenty of times I'm down for making friends in social settings but I've had a hard week and I just wanted to go enjoy a whiskey and watch a band play without having to explain to some dude why i don't want to fuck him, which is evidently not allowed so I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:20 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's an attempted excuse that works maaaybe 40% of the time in my experience. Like my social media for example, my relationship status on FB is clearly married with my husband tagged on it, countless photos of us doing shit together, and dudes will still ignore it and try and hit on me in my DMs. It takes like 5 seconds to check someone's relationship status or if they have photos with an obvious significant other and they still go for it cuz they don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:15 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I guess I just dont know how to look unwelcoming when Im just sitting with a drink watching a band trying to decompress from a stressful last few days. I feel like looking mad just makes men feel like they can open with a "why so glum" or some shit. I dunno there's not a solution really I'm just ranting. I just like live music and the occasional whiskey and I go into introvert mode sometimes but that's apparently not allowed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:10 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What do you mean? Men hit on married/in relationship women constantly. It's men acting like men lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:05 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm married...with a ring One of them said "oh well he ain't here is he?" Like fuck they really do not care 😑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:58 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have a real ring, I'm literally married lol. They dont care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:55 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Ehh I do have a decent bit of social anxiety. But the other night I tried to tell this dude who just came and sat next to me at the table in the venue I was alone at and when I said I just wanted to watch the band and didn't feel up to chatting he just starting asking me shit like " well what's the problem" " you look lonely why don't you wanna talk" "oh you're married well he ain't here is he?" and just wouldn't accept the damn no. I do get freaked out in small venues when this happens cuz ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:53 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's annoying when I make it clear it's a no and they just keep trying to convince me otherwise and then I have to leave and I don't get to see the band play 😓 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:43 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I really wish I could just go to a bar alone and have a drink and watch a band play or whatever without some random dude trying to come sit right next to me and talk to me. It's happened to me both times I've tried to do this in a week...like I'm not trying to be picked up or even socialize I just wanna sit and watch some music 😣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Many People On This Sub Think RedPill Is Wrong Simply Because You Can’t Apply ContextWho insulted Andrew Tate in this conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 01:26 AM |
| 8 | Women Aren't Going to Openly Discuss and Comment About the 20+ Short Term Relationships She Had, But It's Significantly More Common Than BPs Want to AdmitYeah when I was 22 id only had sex with two people by then. And I wasn't the only one not sure why men here have such a hard time believing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 12:27 AM |
| 2 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingSounds like all the more reason to be financially independent to me. Men tend to start wars and run off and die. Can't pay your bills with a dead provider in a society that blocks women off from income opportunities. Edit- You didn't really address any of my points either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 10:13 PM |
| 1 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingAll these religious communities do is convince women that's what's best for them. Women in traditional roles 50 years ago were zooted out on quaaludes and speed and other pharmaceutical goodies doctors handed them like candy to keep all that shit up, including my grandmother who was a pill addict most of her adult life until she died. My husband's grandmother died of liver failure from alcoholism and she did all the "right" trad things. I don't really see that as "happiness". If it made them hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 10:02 PM |
| 4 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingMost mainstream Mormons are monogamous these days, guess it depends on what you consider "unhealthy beliefs about sexuality". They're about in line with most religious sexual behavior standards as far as I know. But they are extremely "trad" they get married young, have a bunch of kids, generally have pretty rigid household gender roles, all things that red pill men here argue are the paths to happiness for women. But evidently they aren't happier than the single wine drinking cat ladies the dun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 09:02 PM |
| 9 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingI don't know why it's so hard for y'all to understand that many women are perfectly fine with being single unless they find someone who makes their time spent more enjoyable with him than time spent alone or with friends. What's the point of being with a man who is a net drain on your happiness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 08:19 PM |
| 11 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingMarried Mormon women in Utah have insanely high rates of anti depressant and anti anxiety medication use. According to y'all they should be the happiest demographic but believe me they are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 08:14 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.I dunno take it up with the men here and everywhere else on the internet who insist of reminding us that we morph into undesirable expired old hags when were older than 25 and if I guy takes us after then he's settling and resentful about it because men want 25 or younger 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:11 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.Because men here constantly say themselves that women aren't worth committing to unless shes 25 or younger. They say it's the older "post wall" women that are only good for sex, not commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:04 PM |
| 4 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.Why wouldn't I make friends with lesbians? I have a few, they're pretty awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:56 AM |
| 25 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.From what men here say, it seems like women should just ignore men or pretend they don't exist outside of bare minimum needed occasional communication/business if we don't want to fuck or date them. I mean what else is the solution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:18 AM |
| 5 | Young chronically single men thanks to their mothersI didn't ask if it was her choice, i asked if you think that's what women should do instead of raising the kid alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Young chronically single men thanks to their mothersSo if a woman realizes the father of her child isn't gonna be a strong influence on the son should she just abandon the kid on the street to save him from the torment of being primarily raised by a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.You don't have to be a clinical psycho to be abusive. Being insecure, entitled, or craving power of someone cuz you don't feel you can have it elsewhere is often enough. Introverted shy quiet less attractive men absolutely can fit this bill and it's naive and uninformed to assume otherwise. There's all kinds of trollish near incel level ugly men who end up murdering their wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 12:31 AM |
| 1 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.Do you seriously think there are no successful criminals out there? You think they're all stupid because you only see the stupid ones. The smart ones know how to not be seen which is gonna create bias in your perception. Which ironically makes you more vulnerable to being taken advantage of by the smart ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.My husband is very bold and confident, he's also one of the kindest most loving people I've met who has never laid a violent hand on me in the 11 years we've been together. My cousin dated a nerdy shy dude and he ended up throwing her against a wall and choked her 2 years into the relationship during an argument. I really don't think y'all are as good at clocking this shit as y'all think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.If abusers are so obvious to the outside and consistently rude to everyone then why do so many women who finally come out about their abusive partners get accused of lying about it? Why do so many women experience their peers defending their abusers? Saying she must be dramatic or misunderstanding him? Why do so many peers say "well he's always been nice to me/ everyone else"? This is a common experience. It's why so many men end up abusing multiple women, the smart ones know to not look like an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 06:26 AM |
| 7 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.Bro if you have crips in your school you're in the hood. I've never seen a crip in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 04:22 AM |
| 10 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”."The men when i was growing up, the ones who got a hold of a gun and started robbing people? Yeah, thats the guys the girls wanted, their legs were eagerly spread for the most violent monsters, ive seen this over and over my entire life, and find it funny when women on ppd like to deny this happens, its all ive ever seen." Most people don't grow up in the hood so when people deny it happens they probably are telling the truth from their perspective. Most people I knew growing up just dated their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 04:04 AM |
| 13 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.Lmao this is just factually wrong. Abusive men come in all shapes and sizes, economic status, and race. Plenty of abusive clean cut dudes out there, many of them work good jobs, go to church, are seen as normal people by their peers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:46 AM |
| 3 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.So women need to pick nice guys. But not TOO nice. But also if you pick the regular guy and he turns out abusive, then what? Still her fault I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:38 AM |
| – | LOOKS👀 N-COUNT🔢 AND DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I dated a guy a long time ago who grew up in a pentecostal church and left after adulthood, he basically said everyone just faking it trying to outholy each other. The same few people would start the speaking in tongues and gyrating and jumping around and the rest would slowly follow. He said he was definitely faking it cuz his mom thought he was gonna go to hell if he didn't speak in tongues so he mimicked it to get his mom to not be sad about him not "receiving the spirit" That's the feeling I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 04:02 AM |
| – | Subtle misandry is rampant in feminism and it really does contribute to gender divide."Let’s not forget the upper class founders of the feminist movement were virulent racists that would make white nationalists today look like Boy Scouts." Wait till you hear about the men who founded the entire United States. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:47 PM |
| 2 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?The bible also says men are supposed to gouge their eyes out when they have impure lustful thoughts about women but none of y'all seem to follow that one smh 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 08:18 PM |
| 27 | What's wrong with taking care of your kid?My favorite is when dudes here complain about the low birth rates and how existential of a problem it is for women to not have more kids, then they advocate for policies like "financial abortion" that would literally plummet the birth rate even more than it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?I don't really understand what point you are trying to make? The question was how would life be easier as a man than woman and I gave my endometriosis as an example of something difficult I wouldn't experience as a man? Not sure what the debate is, I have endometriosis and its a women specific thing and it sucks. And people have absolutely killed themselves over vision and eye problems so I don't know why you'd say that, even hypothetically. "If not for the endometriosis you all would be fine." … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?...endometriosis is a common condition directly related to menstruation. The flair ups happen during menstruation, mine do anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 07:36 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?Well I always had the standard for being treated well as you describe and my husband does that. If he didn't I wouldn't have married him, I wouldn't have accepted poor behavior from him whether he treated his ex the same or better, it's just not relevant to me wanting to stay or not. If you have standards for your relationships there's no reason to care if their previous partner got what they wanted if you're getting what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?"No women have killed themselves over their periods" Um yes they have. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-49933866.amp https://www.endofound.org/sarah-austin-whose-daughter-committed-suicide-due-to-endometriosis-pain-speaks-out https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.scmp.com/lifestyle/health-wellness/article/3172124/endometriosis-sufferer-had-period-pain-so-bad-she https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/stories-43242003.amp There's more on Google but I don't feel like copyin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 07:22 PM |
| 4 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?It still just seems like a skill issue? 18 year olds still had years of public schooling just like my generation did, the same venues where I live still exist, the same skate parks where you g people my age hung out still exist, the live music spots are still a thing with young people in them, sports still exist for young people, college parties still happen where I live with many young men attending them and hanging out with people. Musical instruments and the options of form of forming bands a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Yeah I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Okay so what would you say is the difference between men who claim no one calls them or wants to hang out with them and men like I know who have friends? Why would my husband and all his friends not struggle vs someone who does? What are they doing differently? What did the men I see hanging out in public in groups together do differently? How are they escaping this supposed systematic problem you claim the majority of men have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Men are way more likely to be violent criminals and repeat offenders than women are. Men who are likeable and put effort into fostering and maintaining friendships instead of sitting at home playing video games all fay expecting people to just show up and be their friend when they never leave the house. My husband manages this, his friends manage this. My brother manages this. My dad manages it, he had male friends over for bon fires at our house every other weekend growing up. My husband's dad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?If I could trade a monthly punch in the face over these monthly cramps/tender painful breasts/endometriosis flair ups, bleeding dark red sludge out of my pussy/lower back pain/hormone spikes for days at a time I'd take it in a HEARTBEAT. Also...my husband gets messages and phone calls has friends. So does my dad and my brother. They all also have people the vent to. Not sure why being a man would mean you get none of those things. He also hasn't been in a violent altercation since like high scho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers".It doesn't financially benefit literally anyone to have any kids ever. They are always a net drain on everyone involved. Especially tbe custodial parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers".Children/babies can't gold dig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers".If the father has money I feel even less sorry for him. He should know better the most. Plus he can actually afford the child that needs it if he does have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 02:22 AM |
| 13 | Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers".Pro lifers and conservatives already call women who have abortions and child free women in general all kinds of horrible derogatory names, what's one more? I still ain't having any kids ever, don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers".I don't understand why these men can't just find one of these baby killing abortion having child free women conservatives complain about there being way too many of to fuck if they don't want kids. Plenty of them out there, a lot of men argue too many so they shouldn't be hard to find. Don't bang pro life women if you don't want an oops baby it's not that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:25 PM |
| 9 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?I wouldn't want to be with someone who feels like they're constantly having to "overlook" the inevitable aging that comes with the passing of time or sees that as some sort of flaw. I don't see my husband aging as something I need to "overlook", I'm stoked that he gets to age because that means he's not dead and we get to spend time together still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:09 PM |
| 20 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?All the more reason to decenter men and make your own money. Why would anyone want to enter a long term contract to rely on someone who's overly observant of our imperfections forming every minute 🤣 that's just not a smart movem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 06:39 PM |
| 9 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?I'm sorry but the huge amount of adults I know with divorced parents who got remarried to other middle aged adults their own age doesn't back up your claim. You are massively underestimating the amount of divorced empty nester adults both men and women who are willing enter long term relationships and marriages with other adults their age 45-60. It's not rare or uncommon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 06:35 PM |
| 10 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?I have no flair but I'll bite. Okay most sure fire way I can think of to get laid quick- Buy a bag of cocaine. Go to a smaller-medium sized electronic music venue. Find women to do cocaine with. Party girls love dudes with drugs. Unless you have absolute zero negative rizz some slutty raver chick will absolutely get with the dude with coke. Might sound like unsavory advice for some but party dudes with drugs tend to get chicks in the rave scene | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 04:55 AM |
| 10 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerWeird I guess all these women I know who work decent jobs and make money who don't date "trad" conservative men are just outliers lol. I mean do you really not know feminist women focused on their goals who just want a partner who also has their shit together? I have a hard time believing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 02:28 AM |
| 6 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerWell shit then I guess we can just keep throwing men in prison for minor shit and make them work for cheap labor and stab each other and rot their lives away 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 02:24 AM |
| 15 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerWho is "y'all" specifically? Most women I know are working normal jobs with husbands who also work normal jobs and living normal pretty much equal lives. The only people I know actively pushing strict gender role relationships are trad conservative religious folks who are vocally also anti feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerI grew up in a red state where people would get 4-6 years in prison for a couple ounces of weed while a 35 year old dude in my neighborhood got 2 years probation for violently raping an 8 year old girl. Our justice systems doling out of punishments proportional to the harm of the crime has always been fucked, won't get an argument from me there. We don't have a true left party like Europe has, but the right has been very consistent on just throwing people in jail for even tiny crimes and forcing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 02:13 AM |
| 20 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerBruh feminism literally tells women to not rely on men for providing and to get their own independent resources and also to be aware of dangerous men and not put yourself in situations men could harm you and that men often won't or can't protect you. It's traditionalism/conservatives that push the whole women shouldn't be in the workforce and should raise babies instead while relying on a masculine provider to protect them. Feminists don't expect men to provide and protect them. Not sure where y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 02:04 AM |
| 10 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerIf you're talking about the "left" they vote for actual prisoner rehabilitation like Europe successfully has vs the right who votes to throw people in cages and force them to work for pennies for private corporations during their stay while stripping their rights when they get out making it more likely they'll become repeat offenders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 12:44 AM |
| 28 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerWhat exactly is feminism supposed to do to stop men from attacking and robbing and killing each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and datingCan you give an example of what you're talking about about? Men are the majority of government, period. Religious right anti feminist groups are the ones who advocate to keep men involved with their kids, red states generally give women the most custody and send men to prison who don't pay child support the most. Again, blaming "feminists" for that doesn't make sense. it's the religious right who want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 06:20 AM |
| -2 | The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating" In return, feminists bitterly and contemptuously dismissed the very concept of reproductive rights for men and used the enormous political power our gynocentric society granted them to block any progress on the issue." I don't really understand the rage at feminists with this. Feminists are the demographic most likely to get abortions if the sperm father doesn't want the child, or get abortions period. Feminists are way more likely to consciously decide to plan to have a baby instead of forcin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 06:02 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADToo late I already ate cherry pie for breakfast woops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 07:12 PM |
| 5 | The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world2011 was the early Instagram days. 2015 was the Instagram age, 2015-2018 were def when Instagram was at its peak right after peak Tumblr days but before tiktok blew up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 07:51 PM |
| 5 | The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world2012 was early Instagram days. 2015-2019 were peak Instagram days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 07:49 PM |
| – | Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to womenPlus men can and often do....just choose to fucking leave hahaa. I don't know a single dead beat dad who's actually in jail or ever has been for not paying child support. They really can just go live their lives if they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 09:24 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADstop using riddet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 08:41 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI knew a guy in high school who ended up going into gay porn who looked just like the guy in that photo lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 08:36 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNot everyone is into dudes who look like they smell like a can of Axe. This is what gay dudes are into. Id bet $10 this guy is gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 08:28 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhy'd they have to do such a huge song and dance like they just subdued fucking Magneto or some shit 😆 they seriously got the whole law enforcement/city office out around this guy like was this really necessary fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 08:11 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADJust in case men are confused when women say they're into nerdy scruffy dudes with dad bods who are fun to be around they're talking about this type of guy https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTYq45GLD/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 08:04 PM |
| – | Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalismI don't know a single man separated from his baby mama who genuinely wants to support and have a relationship with his children who doesn't unless they have a history of violence/abuse/addiction/ criminal record or something. It's actually pretty difficult to legally keep your kids away from a willing father who has their shit together. There's been actual studies that show that when men lose feeling for their spouse they also often emotionally disconnect from the children produced with that wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 07:23 PM |
| – | Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalismMen say they want kids and then bail once the kid gets here all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 06:46 PM |
| – | Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalismWhy would any women be motivated to have children if men don't want any part of helping with money or labor? Why would I care about the population falling if men think a few hundred a month to make sure that doesn't happen is too much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 06:16 PM |
| – | Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalismWe're all gonna die anyways, but if nobody has your kid you anyone elses then you won't have to pay for any offspring. You'll be free of responsibility is that not what you want? No man will ever have to worry about this from me cuz I'm chid free 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 06:11 PM |
| 4 | q4w: Being that women in the west fertility (number of babies born) has been declining, what solutions do you all propose to increase the fertility rate?"Nature will simply have to take it's course until psychologically fit and healthy people replace them." Well considering how the people who generally have the most kids are super low IQ impoverished mentally ill people or religious Fundie nutters I don't see society becoming more psychologically fit and healthy any time soon. Everybody just gonna be stupid and slaughtering each other over who's imaginary sky daddy is better. Same shit different century. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 11:08 PM |
| 5 | q4w: Being that women in the west fertility (number of babies born) has been declining, what solutions do you all propose to increase the fertility rate?"They do not care about the future, they do not care about society, they don't care about children. They fundamentally have a disconnect and ignorance of their own standard of living and the material reality needed to sustain it." Okay pls give me one good reason why I should care about humanity continuing? We're literally the worst. Over half the people I encounter these days are so stupid I don't even know how they haven't accidently killed themselves yet. We find stupid reasons to kill each o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:15 PM |
| 6 | q4w: Being that women in the west fertility (number of babies born) has been declining, what solutions do you all propose to increase the fertility rate?I don't have flair but... Nothing cuz I don't care even a little bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Q4W has Trump winning again made you think worse of men at large?Yeah same, it just made me lose what little faith I had in humanity in general. It shouldn't surprise me people repeat the same patterns over and over in history so were apparently just doing that. I've tried talking to some trump supporters I've known in real life and it's just...it's like the all hear completely different things from the man. Everyone just takes his words and twists them into things that sound good and completely omit the crazy stuff and they'll say he either didn't really say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 07:02 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "Cooking with Kya" deserves the backlashI'll take your word it but this is mostly what popped up for me from black creators when I searched about it on tiktok 🤷🏻♀️ I just don't get the issue. We're going on like month six of enduring Hawk Tuah, just let this woman cook her enchiladas and do her silly little song and dance and enjoy her 15 minutes of fame. It seems pretty harmless in the grand scheme of things. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTYQwAvXE/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTYQwyRpE/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTYQwxc9F/ https://www.tikto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:55 PM |
| 12 | CMV: "Cooking with Kya" deserves the backlashOmg people are just salty that a black woman went viral for doing the bare minimum for once like white women do every day. There's like tons of sexually charged cooking channels out there by white women with their tits out. This concept is nothing new. If a dude follows these he better be executing a damn good corn bread recipe out of it. I don't have any dislike for this woman she's just making money on social media the same way a fuckton of others do. If your man insists on following thirst tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 08:17 PM |
| – | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceIf my brain deteriorates to the point where I'm a huge raging cunt to minimum wage workers cuz they can't accept my expired two years ago coupon or don't have a product that was discontinued 10 years ago just euthanize me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | There needs to be a movement of men that advocate for freedom for men in society.I'm saying that women are believing men when they loudly say they don't want to care for or pay for their children and not having their children as a result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 03:04 AM |
| 24 | There needs to be a movement of men that advocate for freedom for men in society.I mean the child birth rate has been dropping significantly hugely in part because women have listened to men when they tell us they don't want to pay for kids they help create and can't be relied upon. I know I'm child free mostly for this reason. I doubt the government is gonna want to make it even easier than it already is for men to abandon their kids because the government wants more children born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 07:49 PM |
| 8 | The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women.I think a lot of men focusing so hard on this shit are made out of partial jealousy. Id bet if you presented a situation to most of these men hating this chick where they could have 100 different women come ride him switching out every 5 minutes consecutively they'd go for it in a heartbeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 07:41 PM |
| 8 | The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women.They think we're all out here fucking hundreds of dudes at one time because they'd be fucking hundreds of women at one time if it were an option for them. It's just projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4M- Hypothetical- your child's friends parent is accused of in appropriately touching another child but doesn't get convicted, what do you do?What do you mean? False accusations regarding sexual assault and how people should react to accused sexual abusers without hard proof/conviction are a very very commonly discussed topic on this forum pretty much daily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:33 PM |
| 13 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?Uh anecdotally? Most of my friends who slept around when they were younger are married now in their 30s and just working normal jobs and living life 🤷🏻♀️ most have kids, a few don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thingI mean, it's mostly men in these positions making these policies but you keep trying to pin it all on a single women. "Hamas snd Hezbollahs" Again ran by men, not affiliated with feminism. Everything in the United States has distanced itself from its racist origins. If we threw out everything that started from racism or eugenics we'd have to throw out most of what makes up our modern society. It what the United States was built on. Not saying it's a good thing but that's what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thingYour article says nothing about Sanger. This was all men. All the people in the article creating these policies are men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 03:44 AM |
| 6 | Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thing"Euthanasia was a feminist idea . Hitler, Himmler and Heydrich got their ideas for genocide from Margret Sanger thr feminist founder of Planed Parenthood . " Where do you people eVen get these ideas. Hitler was massively inspired by the successful American eradication and genocide of Native Americans. It's where he got a lot of the framework for gathering the Jewish population. This is well cited. And that was largely led by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 03:02 AM |
| 6 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemI dunno, but men commit suicide at higher rates as well as abuse alcohol and drugs at higher rates and they complain about being lonely constantly these days. Obviously a decent amount of them aren't doing so well solitary. I agree that learning how to spend time with yourself and sitting with your own thoughts is important. But biologically humans are social creatures, we get weird as fuck without human connection, I mean look at how badly covid isolation affected people. and touch is massively… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 04:29 AM |
| 8 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemWhen it's being used as an escape from human connection? Yeah. People absolutely turn fitness into an addiction. Particularity when described how you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 04:10 AM |
| 7 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemFunny that's exactly what heroin addicts say about drugs. Dude dopamine doesn't replace social bonds no matter where it comes from. It's not healthy to view working out as a replacement for that. Those are separate things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 03:35 AM |
| – | As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and CleaningOr you end up like the women having a horrible time over at R/tradwives haha. Honestly would rather be single over 30 than going through some of those women's stories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 05:34 PM |
| 3 | What are some non-mental-health related faults that you think more women have than men?Omg I've always hated this about myself. Anytime I get mad enough my eyes just start involuntarily watering like a lot no matter how much I try to control it. It makes it so hard to be taken seriously when I'm in a position where I need to stand up for myself lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 08:15 PM |
| 4 | If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3Uh huh, yeah and the war of the U.S invading Iraq was also totally about weapons of mass destruction 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 06:38 PM |
| 7 | If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3Wouldn't that just result in a bunch of single moms? I thought y'all hated that and considered it the worst possible outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the RedpillDude if you took a silly childhood rhyme that doesn't even make sense literally all the way up passed like 9 years old something went really wrong somewhere along the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 06:57 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyHis life wasn't ruined??? He's literally on tour as we speak. You can go buy a ticket to his show right now if you feel so bad for him and want to show him your support. I mean what do you expect people to keep throwing money at a sex pest when they could spend it on anything else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 09:24 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyLouis CK literally admitted to doing exactly what he was accused of doing lmao. Why does is matter if he was convicted or not, lots of people don't want to fuck with a weirdo who whips their dick out and jacks off in front of people regardless. Disgust is a normal reaction to have at someone who does that. It's not a punishment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 08:49 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietySo what the fuck is trump and the rest of the Republicans going to do about any of this? Nothing. If men voted against their interests because women don't like being raped I don't know how to help them. They obviously hate rape victims more than they care about these issues you listed and there's no fixing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:58 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyWhat specific solvable issues should we be focusing on instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:23 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyMost crimes happen to a minority of people. Should we just stop caring about those too? Men also get sexually assaulted by men, fuck them too I guess? What issue do men face that is as serious as sexual assault that they should have focused on more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 06:39 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyEven if it was that low...that still isn't that low?? That's literally one in five women you see walking around. That's not a low amount of women experiencing sexual assault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 06:06 PM |
| 13 | Men should generally never take dating advice from women."Let's say an evil wizard suddenly transforms a typical woman into a man and gives her one week to figure out how to get laid with a decent-looking woman (we'll say 6/10 or higher) in order to save her mother's life." I dunno man I bet I could convince at least one of my kinkier weirdo swinger homies to let me hit it in this magical scenario especially if they were aware my mom's life was on the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists.And I'm saying the demand will be largely filled with prison labor, not free las abiding young men. The system can't function without slave labor. They will always find a way to outsource for it or they'll just criminalize more people and make them work for 10 cents an hour in the prison industrial complex. This plan is already in place and happening it's not even a conspiracy theory it's very out in the open. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists."10+ million illegals being paid under the table to work jobs that should mostly be going to young American men." It's not like corporations won't just contract the government for more even cheaper prison labor when the illegal immigrants are gone. I mean they already do it now a lot, they'll just do it more so yeah there won't be all these high paying jobs availabe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists.I don't think I've ever heard anyone have a problem with "DEI" who wasn't just mad every time they see someone who isn't a white man in job position. Sorry to tell you but lots of non white people and women are just as capable of filling the things that are empty and emptying the things that are full and sitting in pointless zoom meetings as a lot of white men. Thing is if those women and non white people didn't have jobs conservatives would then call them welfare leaches or something. Ain't no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:57 PM |
| 49 | It's beneficial for society when women experience negative consequences for choosing the wrong manI don't understand, are you saying there should be other consequences besides the ones women already experience from shitty men or what? Like what are we supposed to be debating here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 03:24 AM |
| 3 | How often would you say you meet friends of friends?I meet friends of friends and new people pretty much every time I choose to go out 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 08:09 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBeats me, I thought Republicans were anti trans/drag queens/cross dressers 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 02:15 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI just don't really feel like enough people are talking about how fucking weird JD Vance's latest Xitter post is 🤨 https://x.com/JDVance/status/1862285652609388954?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Have YOU ever played for attention without even liking the guy enough for something real? Why?I mean you hung out enough for her to make you waffles apparently? Did you not feel any spark or some sort of primal desire to be around her more? If not then maybe there just really wasn't anything there. Did you you feel motivated to plan any dates for y'all to do or hit her up for plans to hang out after she pursued you? I'm not sure what advice to give with the limited information we have about you interactions and conversations you had with this woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Have YOU ever played for attention without even liking the guy enough for something real? Why?"she kinda pulled away by flipping it saying I wasnt interested in her lol" "I wasnt even into her." Well it sounds like she accurately read the vibe and decided to send you on your way instead of wasting more of both your time. Why is that so bad? That's how dating works. It doesn't sound like such a big loss if you weren't that into her anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 08:36 PM |
| 10 | Blue Pill Means You Pull the Wool Over Your Eyes About Women to Protect Your Own EgoOooh what the actual fuck is this take 😑 Encouraging people to stay with violent abusers is trash and that advice literally gets women killed. It's not up to women to teach men to not be shitty, I swear men are allergic to accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 02:48 AM |
| – | It's funny how the "strong independent women" bragging about their career/accomplishments are always completely mediocre and unimpressive.Soooo basically you have low self esteem despite all your self proclaimed grande accomplishments and potential and youre mad that other people don't have low self esteem. Im gonna hold your hand when I say this, other people hating themselves isn't gonna make you hate yourself any less. The only person all this bitterness is going to hurt at the end of the day is yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 10:18 PM |
| – | Modern Women Are Incapable of AccountabilityOkay so can you walk me through these dates and how these women aren't showing accountability during these dates? Like what does that look like exactly?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 01:57 AM |
| 11 | q4w: what fundamentally logical decisions do most women demonstrate that shows they are able to choose logical decisions such as choosing one over the other (E.g. foting).OP did it twice too lmao. Makes me think Russian troll. "Foting" said out loud sounds like how eastern European people I know pronounce "voting" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 10:10 PM |
| – | Women aren't attracted to dad bods, they can't keep up with fit men's standards.I was referring to OP "A fit man may not like the idea of having fast food or having a slice of cake because he wants to stay on track with his meal plan and wants to remain eating clean, women for the most part like to indulge and go out to eat, so a man that's unwilling to do so may hold her in lower regard as a result." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 04:55 AM |
| – | Women aren't attracted to dad bods, they can't keep up with fit men's standards.A. Never been into super muscular dudes, skinny punk rock dudes or sometimes hiker/slimmer natural muscles were also my main attraction. B. Why would anyone want to date someone who policies their food constantly? A lot of fitness dudes I've known borderline on practically having an eating disorder. I mean go off if you enjoy it but it sounds like it would get real old not only watching a guy i was with eat the same bland "clean" foods every day and also expecting me to eat the same and being we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceNah dude don't you know you're an abused discriminated against victim being personally blamed for every problem every woman has ever had and there's no way you go through life not being spit on and seether at and called trash by every woman you encounter and you definitely have no women in your life who tolerate your existence without reminding you how much you and all men suck. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceWhy would you assume all men on the left feel victimized by the leftists? Cuz they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceLike I said men in my leftist circles all report doing just fine and if they said otherwise I wouldn't minimize it. They're angry for us women not busy making it about themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceWhat exactly should I be held accountable for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 06:32 PM |
| -1 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceI don't even have time to list all the fucked up weird shit men have said to me and about women as a whole. I'm still not gonna want to burn the country down about it. Men are feeling just a fraction of the discomfort women have faced from men for soooo long and y'all can't handle it at all. I'm not a right winger but I realized a long time ago that victim complexes will hold you down in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceHow many people have you had to exile from your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:58 PM |
| -1 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceWhat makes you feel victimized while many other leftist men do not? What do you think makes you different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:57 PM |
| 8 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceYeah women never have to deal with anything offensive ever. I swear if I let it negatively affect my emotions so bad every time a right wing politician bitched about childless women or cat owners or women who work I would have killed myself a long time ago. I remember a black activist writer talking about how white people, especially white men, feel entitled to never feeling any discomfort at all and that's why they lash out so hard at the mildest criticism whether it actually applies to them or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceIt's cuz longer hair is associated with counter culture which is associated with being more left while conservatives tend to keep shorter hair. It simply was a signal that you were safe to open up to. Like do you just not have female friends anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceIf mean tweets that may very well be AI are enough to make a man vote for a fascist because his feelings were hurt the other side can have him. I have no time for men that week minded and easily influenced. I love how the right preaches masculinity and all that yet it really is the biggest bunch of cry babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceWho made you feel alienated and how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:16 PM |
| 5 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceI'm a white woman and I don't lol. I'm not a Karen and I don't behave the way a lot of shitty white women I grew up around behave so why on earth would I take that personally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceConsidering how most social media now days is AI bots I take most of it with a grain of salt these days. Seems like the AI rage bait is doing its job though because it's somehow made all these men think that they're the victims when pregnant women are bleeding out and going septic in red states and conservative want that for everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocence"Michelle Obama came out finger wagging, but like I said a lot of people (not all) shut up after the poll results came out." Soooo....not getting blamed. Got it Seems like the "finger wagging" was apparently effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:06 PM |
| -3 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceLiterally none of this was personally towards you whatsoever or even hostile sounding. Like dude pregnant women are literally going septic and bleeding out because of our fucked up laws in red states and you're bumming out this hard over some women bitching about situations and other men that werent even you?? Holy cow people are so sensitive now days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:03 PM |
| 5 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceNah I just dont think y'all want to hear that plenty of left voting men are doing just fine out here cuz that wouldn't align with this victim complex y'all have made up for yourselves. I know reddit will fool you but most people aren't hung up on gender war shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceWho is blaming black men and where?? I've seen nothing but people showing that most black men didn't vote for Harris? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:55 PM |
| -1 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceYeah sure of course. I talk about politics with male friends and relatives frequently. They never express this victim narrative y'all are here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceIf someone says that to me in person I won't ignore it. I will ignore rage baiting conservative influencers who scream it on Twitter though because I recognize it for what is, assholes trying to get clicks and views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:51 PM |
| 4 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceI know plenty of leftist women, none of us hate men for "being men". A lot of us are married or in relationships 🤯 I hang out in plenty of mixed gender leftists groups and none of the men I know feel victimized or hated on 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceWhat happened in real life that made you feel treated like a rapist, murderer, or bad person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceAs for the offline conversations how did this go exactly? I'm genuinely curious. Most people in public have been pretty quiet about the election irl so I'm just wondering what scenarios are happening where these people are blaming you in person? Like what do they say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceWho specifically is treating you like you don't exist or matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceWho specifically blamed you for roe v Wade being overturned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:24 PM |
| 7 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceI'm just pointing out that pretty much every dude in my life doesn't sit around whining about being lumped in with conservative men because they logically know they arent. The victim mentality in men here is something to behold. Y'all aren't the ones losing your rights not sure how y'all are the victims here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceNobodies demonizing you, youre just reading rage bait written about men who aren't you and still choosing to apply to yourself anyway for some reason. It's not logical. When I read people bitching about conservative women I don't get offended because it doesn't fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:21 PM |
| 6 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceWhy on earth would you feel guilty for something YOU didn't contribute to?? I don't understand victimizing yourself fr no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:15 PM |
| 5 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceI just now asked my husband if he feels guilty or blamed or alienated even though he didn't vote for trump and he just looked at me weird said "uh, no?" Then poured another cup of coffee. Y'all should get like him, he doesn't sit around thinking about gender war shit at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceIt sounds like you're reading rage bate on the internet and wanting to be a victim about it even if you don't identify with it. If you didn't vote for trump there's no reason to feel like leftist women hate you just because you're a man. Again I don't know anyone stereotyping left voting men. Pretty much every discussion I've seen rightly blames religious folks. There's plenty of leftist dudes out there who understand the issues and aren't making it about them by trying to make themselves sound … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:11 PM |
| 18 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceWeird I don't know any men who voted against trump who feel blamed or alienated along with conservative men by women 🤷🏻♀️ If the shoe doesn't fit... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Why Are Progressives So Bad at Marketing Their Values?It's because there's too much disagreement and infighting on the issues between people on the left. "The left" is a wide spectrum ranging from pretty much centrist establishment pushers who vote Democrat for a few issues all the way to straight up hardcore tankie communists. Some on the left are super anti all guns, some are pro guns and they fight eachother. There's tons of disagreement on trans/lgbt issues especially divided amongst younger and older Democrat voters. Some Democrat voters want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?You'd have to be bottom of the barrel low IQ level with mental health issues/severe drug problems to be 50 and less mature than the average 20 year old running around. If that's what you have to compare yourself to in order to justify relating to 20 year olds when your 30 I'm not sure how tight your argument is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?There's some emotionally stunted 50 year olds sure. And if someone doesn't perceive growth in themselves from 18 to almost 30 they may very well be on their way to becoming one of those immature 50 year olds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?If you don't feel like you've grown or matured at all since you were 18 that says way more about you than anyone else. Most people I know have grown and matured a lot from 18-28. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:18 PM |
| 2 | The Paradox of Choice Isn’t Real With DatingSure. It's silly to think men don't care what others think of their partners attractiveness. Why do you think so many men talk about how they'll bang women that are less attractive but won't take them out in public or acknowledge it? It's because they care about how their partner looks to others. I just thought it was funny that you said men don't care if others find their partner attractive while using a specific niche type of woman considered attractive and very desired by a wide cast of men a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 11:01 PM |
| 7 | The Paradox of Choice Isn’t Real With DatingThere's no such thing as a hot tall goth attractive woman with 0 dating prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:32 PM |
| 13 | Nature lovers dating city people? (Inevitable Issues)Why doesn't the dad just take the kids camping himself and leave the mom home to take care of stuff? I was a kid of a very outdoorsy dad and very not outdoorsy mom, we just went to do the camping/hiking/lake trips with my dad and my mom would stay at home cuz she hated being outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 04:46 AM |
| 19 | It took Kamala Harris loosing for women to gain some StandardsIt's not about "standards" it's about recognizing how dangerous women's health care is now and not putting ourselves in positions to breed with men until society decides this shits important. A woman in my county almost bled out while miscarrying twins at one of the two hospitals ran by Catholics here she ended up at handed her a bag of rags and told her "good luck". She had to get a ride to the other hospital across the county to get a life saving abortion she needed that she shou have gotten a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 06:42 PM |
| 6 | US women are not at any significantly higher risk of maternal mortality than the rest of the developed worldStill way cheaper than here. I remember my French friend calling me up freaking out asking why the fuck her usually $10 asthma medication costs $200 dollars in the u.s even with insurance she already pays and I was like yeah welcome to America babe that's how it is. I got like $10k in medical debt I'm blowing off from a single 5 hour ER visit that they horribly misdiagnosed me during and still had the audacity to charge me that much. It costs $4k to get a broken leg set. Stuff like Epi pens cost… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 08:49 PM |
| 7 | US women are not at any significantly higher risk of maternal mortality than the rest of the developed worldOof, you are massively underestimating how much healthcare in the United States costs. Dont blame you honestly, every European friend I've ever had did the same cuz it's truly that unbelievably fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Are there any women who have helped out their male friends after they were falsely accused for something by another woman?I don't have any me in my life to victim blame about this cuz this stuff just simply never happens in my social groups 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 02:01 AM |
| 10 | Are there any women who have helped out their male friends after they were falsely accused for something by another woman?Me neither 😭 these dudes act like it happens to them constantly. Like who are they spending their time around??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 11:38 PM |
| 30 | Are there any women who have helped out their male friends after they were falsely accused for something by another woman?I know I've literally never seen a dude I was friends with get into a situation anywhere close to this. My friend's ex beat the shit out of her and choked her when she dumped him and he claimed he was "falsely accused" but we all knew he did it cuz you could see her bruises and wounds, i literally took care of her after the incident. That's the only real life incident I've known of a guy claiming to be falsely accused of something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 11:35 PM |
| – | Mormon wives vs redpillersHow do they not "look" Mormon? They look exactly like every mormon woman I've ever seen walking around in salt lake city. their social media even confirms that they're all Mormon so not sure what you're going off about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 06:32 PM |
| 28 | Mormon wives vs redpillersLol these are all married religious women and men still mad. Just proves you can be a Mormon virgin trad bride doing your duty of making babies or a huge slut getting all the abortions and these men will still hate you all the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 12:14 AM |
| 2 | People who hate feminism don't have a viable alternativeAnd most women aren't ceos nor have a business either? And a higher percentage of women also live in poverty compared to men. Not really sure what your point is or how this refutes my point about affirmative action. Men have plenty of opportunity if they actually try for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 02:01 AM |
| 7 | People who hate feminism don't have a viable alternativeAnd yet men still own the majority of businesses and maintain most of the CEO positions and run most of the government. Y'all really overestimate how much "affirmative action" boosts women over men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Most woman only complain the compromises they've made in dating, not the non - negotiable exceptions they didn'tWhat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 02:49 AM |
| 6 | Most woman only complain the compromises they've made in dating, not the non - negotiable exceptions they didn'tMost of the ones on mine are bald, missing teeth, or they got meth face, or they're fat 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 02:38 AM |
| 9 | Most woman only complain the compromises they've made in dating, not the non - negotiable exceptions they didn'tDude there are some ugly ass abusive men out there lol. My aunt's abuser looked like a fat inbred thumb. Go look up your local domestic abuse arrests, you ain't gonna find a lot of lookers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 02:35 AM |
| 11 | Most woman only complain the compromises they've made in dating, not the non - negotiable exceptions they didn'tAdmit what? That people who are religious, with low self esteem, abused as children, etc are more vulnerable to accepting abusive situations or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 02:28 AM |
| 11 | Most woman only complain the compromises they've made in dating, not the non - negotiable exceptions they didn'tWhat are we to discuss here?? There's tons of research, data, a literature out there about how and why people end up in and stay in abusive relationships. It's not exactly a mystery, the information is out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 02:16 AM |
| 10 | Proposals for child support reform"That's true to an extent but most of the additional cost is "wants" as opposed to strict needs, like college, extracurriculars, consumer devices, designer clothing, and pocket money." Good parents who love their kids don't see these things, except maybe designer clothes, as optional. Not sure why so many men here love their porbably hypothetical kids so little that they don't care if they thrive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 03:14 AM |
| 9 | What do you agree with the "other side" on?One thing I can think of that I agree with the "other side" is that really fat people are pretty gross, people who let themselves gain tons of weight and don't care about fitness who expect everyone to view them as attractive in that state as they would if you were in better shape is real delusional. One of my exes totally stopped caring about his fitness after we got together gained like 70 pounds right after we started dating and I don't see how he thought I would think that was hot, like dude… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.Dude I'm not giving you a link with info about my home town, neighborhood, and my old best friends location of employment. It's weird that you want that information so bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 09:59 PM |
| 0 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.I do mind actually, Im not gonna doxx myself or my parents neighborhood here, nice try. Just go spend some time clicking around your local sex offender registry, theres even apps that will pull up every single one living in your GPS area with their crime and time served. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.Wow she actually served seven years. There's a male pedo in my hometown neighborhood who violently raped an 8 year old girl and he got 4 years probation. He owns a music equipment store downtown. A LOT of men who rape kids get slap on the wrists, if they ever see a court room at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 03:07 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWild that men would literally rather commit actual homicide and go to prison forever than just pay for their flesh and blood offspring to eat lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:53 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt's risen considerable it the last few years.b more prevelent than health related deaths this year. You're 35% more likely to be murdered when pregnant than not. I don't understand why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:24 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADhttps://sprc.org/news/with-homicide-the-leading-cause-of-maternal-mortality-new-research-shows-a-link-to-firearms-and-intimate-partner-violence/#:~:text=Homicide%20is%20the%20leading%20cause,period%20are%20rising%2C%20research%20suggests. https://www.bmj.com/content/379/bmj.o2499 Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:11 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhy is it that homicide by men is the leading cause of death for pregnant women? Why is pregnancy also the time you're most likely to be cheated on or hit for the first time? What is it in men's brain's that makes them snap and go crazy when they get their girl pregnant? This needs to be studied for real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:07 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Boys generally behave badly in school because their parents let them get away with it. You'd be surprised how many parents expect the school to fully raise their kids for them. The biggest complaint I've heard from my teacher friends is bad parents who won't discipline or deal with their child's poor behavior. More male teachers would be cool, now where are all these men willing to be male teachers at? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 03:39 AM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]If you don't want to raise your kids to care about school and good grades then dont 🤷🏻♀️ not sure what else to say to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 12:39 AM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]And yet only 14%-16% of engineers are women, the rest are men. Again you can just go to college if you want, there won't be any big scary blue haired feminists waiting with steel toe boots to kick you in the balls at the door way. Go, be an engineer or whatever. You can do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 12:04 AM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]It sounds like your parents did their job properly and that resulted in a son with academic success, good on them. Kinda backs up what I said about parents needing to do their job to encourage their sons to do well in school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 08:16 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Well who else is going to correct the behavior? If parents are correcting girls bad behavior and not boys bad behavior then who's the problem in that scenario from your perspective?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 07:30 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]There's no hurdles to keeping men out of college. These colleges want as much attendence as possible, out local university just upped enrollment by like 25k students that the city has no room for but they're doing it. I don't know a single guy who put even half assed effort into finding a college to attend who didn't succeed on doing so, it's not that hard. They want your money. They don't care if you have a dick as long as you have money, or at least lones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 07:09 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]I clearly said it's the parents who are the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 07:05 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]So how come there are so many boys and young men go to college and succeed? Why did I have no issue finding men in college to hang out with? Why were then men's dorms full of dudes? Why were the frat houses full? Why is the weekly pinball league I go to full of dudes in college? What makes those men different from the ones who don't go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 07:03 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Nobody is stopping men from going to college. Every guy I knew who wanted to go to college went to college except for like one because he was an illegal alien who's parent brought him over when he was two so he had to get all that sorted so he could go. Going to college isn't that hard. If men want to go to college they can go. I don't see how this is some social issue. If youre a man and you want to go to college, litterally just go. Apply to like ten of them, at least a few will accept you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:57 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Yeah I mean I've argued a lot about how much better the u ited states would be if we modeled after European schools but then I get called a communist or a libtard or whatever then usually so 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:46 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]From my experience no, not as much as girls. Especially in poor/lower middle class families. This changes with higher income families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:45 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]I mean yes, litterally? If a boy is doing child labor instead of schooling I'd absolutely ask what is going on at home and why the parents put that boy in that situation. This is one hundred percent a parenting issue how could it be anything else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:41 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]I'm just speaking from my experience in school. When kids were growing spit balls around the class and yelling out random disruptions at teachers, or sleeping, 9/10 times it's a boy doing the behavior. The parents at home usually won't address this behavior like they will in girls because of the whole "boys will be boys" attitude. When I had people begging me to copy off my homework or cheat off my test it was always a boy. My school has like an hour of PE and 30 min of recess for elementary kid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:40 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Care to elaborate how? Cuz I'd absolutely argue that 80% of the problems kids have in school these days results from their parenting at home. Many parents don't enforce academic excellence on their boys like they do their girls, didn't think this was even a controversial take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:35 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Sounds like parents need to tell their boys to get their shit together and go to school and pay attention? Other than the government funding better education, not really sure what else can be done. This seems like an attitude a lot of parents have that boys don't need school as much as their girls do for some reason so they don't push their boys to get good grades. I saw this a lot when I was a kid. Girls would get grounded for bad grades, parent didn't give a fuck if their boys got straight C's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 06:25 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhy is it our responsibility to get a handle on the middle east? Those people have been killing each other long before the united States was a thing and they will be long after it isn't anymore. It's been well over two years and Putin has still failed to take Ukraine and expand the war as he planned. I think we're doing an alright job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:44 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADShe's talking about assault weapons. We're litterally the only country that constantly worries about mass shootings. It's dumb. We're the dumbest country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:42 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADTrump never actually got around to deporting that many people he just made a bunch of noise about it. Also Harris has not once said she wants to ban guns. In fact she owns guns. Please just stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:28 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou're voting for an incestuous dirty old senile mam and probably pedophile. Also trump hires a LOT of illegal immigrants at his businesses. He doesn't actually care about that, he just blows smoke up y'all's asses cuz he knows y'all are dumb enough to eat it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:23 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDoesn't surprise me dudes here want the guy who constantly wants to fuck his own daughter https://youtu.be/8EPEkk6qWkg?si=wHJXeFwqj4y027OV https://youtu.be/atB91L_T0P0?si=owicMdzQU75sgyC3 Seriously who talks about their own kid like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:17 PM |
| 80 | Feminists talk about a glass ceiling preventing women from being President. I think that's BSI mean, do you really think they're isnt a significant amount of people out there, both men and women, who will not vote a woman into presidency no matter what? Maybe not as many as 50 years ago, but they exist. Trust me I have some in my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 08:46 PM |
| – | Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands.I mean have you been to a red state these days?? The deep south, aka the reddest part of the country, has the highest rates of diabetes in the world. I remember driving past those republican "they stole the election" protests in my majority liberal PNW town and they were all mostly fat, had liver spots, beer guts, etc. my husband's very conservative dad just had most of hos foot removed from advanxed diabetes complcations and has had multiple open heart surgeries and his conservative family memb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:54 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBeing forced to carry a rapists baby 🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 12:55 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Dating is being ruined with entitled peopleYeah I've yet to meet a man in real life outside high control religious circles who care about it, but according to men here they all care about it and the ones that don't secretly actually do theyre just too scared to say it 🤷🏻♀️ Although I realize people with extreme opinions often think everyone secretly agrees with them because of course their thoughts are the "natural truth". I learned this from the white supremacists I grew up around. They truly think everyone is as secretly racist as the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating is being ruined with entitled peopleI'm not the one claiming it, red piller men here claim it daily. Go talk to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating is being ruined with entitled peopleAsk red pillers and purity enforcers 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 12:09 AM |
| -4 | CMV: Dating is being ruined with entitled peopleI was talking to the guy I replied to because they have a red pill tag and harping on women about their n count is a popular rp position. If you don't agree then my comment doesn't apply to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating is being ruined with entitled peopleWish y'all would make up your mind on whether body count for women is a big deal or nah. Cuz women being shamed for a high body count while men are praised for theirs would absolutely be the higher cost here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 10:33 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWomen like well rounded, sociable intelligence. Competence. Most of the math competition dudes I knew in school were so autistic they couldn't think or talk about anything else. Also playing a musical instrument and being socially competent enough to be in a functioning band is a signal of intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it.I honestly wouldn't have an issue with porn if a lot of men who watch it didn't actually hate the porn stars the watch perform for being in the porn they enjoy and have orgasms to. Society, especially men, treat women who have done porn horribly. I'm not really comfortable with an industry that creates women for men to hate and take their frustrations on later on after they get their jollies from it. They get harassed, have trouble getting other jobs afterwards, get denied bank accounts, housing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 05:44 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOmg did she photo shop her droopy eye to make them looks even? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 01:40 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHe still would do it if he cared, it's not like you can't see the pile of dishes every time you walk into the kitchen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 11:49 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI mean she's not wrong, if he cares he wouldn't have forgotten to do the dishes probably over and over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 11:42 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI don't really see how being a "whore" is any kind of equivalent to the violence rape and murder shes talking about, you're just kinda proving her point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 11:40 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADhttps://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTFY2sntf/ She speak no lies here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 11:06 PM |
| 2 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?And what makes you think women don't feel like their world ended after their man cheats? Pretty much every divorce in my social circles in the last few years has occured because the man cheated and the women were crushed. Women also file for divorce way more often because they won't put up with it. This argument is silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 12:07 AM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?Yeah most normal people I know select partners over compatibility like lifestyle, health choices, conversation chemistry, sense of humor, taste in media,politics, intellectual interests, general enjoyment they experience around a person, etc. My husband isn't like other men because we're compatible in ways I'm not with any other men I've known and he feels the same for me, the fact that hes had sex before he met me isnt gonna make those other compatibility things matter less. I don't see men as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 11:31 PM |
| 2 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?"Like nearly societies on earth have tried to constrain female sexuality in some shape way or form. If you go to Africa and other parts of the world outside of Europe that is, a lot of women undergo FGM(Female genital mutilation) a practice invented to keep women from sleeping around" And you think that's reasonable?! Again, these men who do these things are sociopaths and are to be avoided. I have no desire to give men like this what they want because their views on women are abhorrent. Religio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 11:19 PM |
| 2 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?You can rationalize your hate for women being horny all day idc, if you're "having fun" is viewed by you as causing harm to women then that's gross. I would never want to be one of the good ones or whatever for a man who sees sex with promiscious women as "fun" but also sees them as worthless and wants a little princess when he decides hes done "having fun" with women he hates cuz thats fucking weird. If a guy doesn't view sex as a mutually beneficial activity that doesn't cause harm to either p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 11:11 PM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?I know there's men who think horrible things about women who like sex. I avoid those men. Like please, why would I want to fuck someone who sees sex with women as a thing that makes her worth less in society? A man who thinks his dick litterally causes harm to women and hates women's sexuality that much yet still tries to inflict this worth damaging things on women is a sociopath in my eyes sooo no thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?Why would you have to explain to your kids that their mom is "ran through" lmao. The amount of times I've wondered about either of my parents 'body count" is literally zero. Nobody I know has ever once expressed dismay over their moms sex life, it's not something normal people even care to think about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 09:11 PM |
| 2 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?I just wouldn't date a guy who expresses hang ups on sexual history, I don't have the energy to constantly soothe the insecurities of a man like that. I'm not gonna lie I'll just leave. It's never been a problem for me anyway cuz I always dated and ended up marrying in the punk rock scene where men are usually pretty secure on that front. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 07:17 PM |
| 8 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?Theres just so many men out there who don't have weird hangups about sex or have OCD retroactive jealousy issues so why would I waste my time on a guy who does. Shit would get annoying real quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLol yah the source does need to be considered. I guess it's possible to be THAT initially off-putting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 10:28 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDude bar owners know that a primary reason young men go to bars and spend money is to talk to women. They aren't gonna actively create an environment that makes men feel like they can't talk to women because that would hurt their bottom line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI grew up and went to college in a medium sized college town in the deep south. I've also never had a boyfriend get into a fight while we were hanging out. Y'all must run in some wild crowds. Oooh i just rememberd one time at a house party a guy friend punched his room mate in the face for grabbing his girlfriends ass. Again these people knew each other already though. Only time I've ever witnessed that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 08:01 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI mean can you walk me through step by step how these interactions went? Pretty much all men I know have never had this experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNot exactly. One time I saw a guy throw a full glass of beer at another guy who was dating the guy who threw the beers ex girlfriend and I guess he was pissed about it. They obviously had previous beef with each other before that evening though lol. I did see a pretty gnarly fight break out over a pool game once though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 07:48 PM |
| -1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI've worked in multiple bars in my life where people would flirt and hook up regularly, never have I seen a woman complain about a dude saying "hey" to her, never have I seen a man get kicked out for saying "hey" to a woman. I've also been to many parties and bars, never seen a guy get kicked out unless he was actively gropeing women or threatening them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 07:40 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADi just have a feeling there's more to the story than you just saying "hey" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 07:30 PM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhy do men here act like they're legit going to get arrested or beat up if they ask a woman out or even just talk to her? Men keep expressing that they're sooo scared to even approach women anymore because of me too but I've literally never seen a man get in trouble for just asking a woman out politely. I've known women with actual stalkers who couldn't get the police to care, why do these men think it's a crime to simply talk to women all of a sudden? It seems really hysterical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 07:24 PM |
| 6 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menWhen the data is there and men make a me too movement of their own ill take your claim seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 02:11 AM |
| 9 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menThe vast majority of rape victims are women, it is primarily a woman's issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 02:04 AM |
| 13 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menMen don't report getting raped because other men won't take them seriously like they don't take women seriously, you can't blame the feminists on that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 01:54 AM |
| 10 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menYou seem to have trouble with nuance. Nobody has their guard up "24/7" but having your guard up in public is always important. Again it helps absolutely nobody but predators to act like they don't exist. I'm not gonna help predators to make irrational people like you more comfortable with your irrational thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 01:09 AM |
| 18 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menWomen are told to not be promiscuous when we're young lmao. All we got was the wait till marriage speech growing up. And yeah, I firmly believe men should be taught consent, like drilled into their head because yeah they don't get it still apparently or we wouldn't be here rn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 01:03 AM |
| 20 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menTaking that personally is completely illogical if you don't see yourself as a potential rapist. Not sure what to tell you. Your discomfort in taking things like his personally for no reason isn't more important than justice for assault victims, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:56 AM |
| 12 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menThey're saying rapists are bad, and people who defend rapists are bad. Women coming out about their assault isn't saying men are evil. And there's no benefit to anyone but rapists/predators for women to let their guard down. Why would I want to benefit rapists? Why would YOU want to benefit rapists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:49 AM |
| 15 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menSooo care to elaborate on how you have personal be negatively affected by other women coming out about their sexual assault? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:46 AM |
| 17 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menI can't really imagine why you would, I don't feel guilty for crimes I don't commit, it doesn't make sense to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:42 AM |
| 21 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menThe me too movement was just women coming out about their sexual assault experiences without shame so that others who had been through it and the rest of society would realize it isn't rare and that's it's an issue that needs a spotlight so something can be done about it. I don't know any men who don't sexually assault women who felt negatively affected by the movement, they just think it's sad that so many women have had to go through that trauma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:31 AM |
| 11 | For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past?Speak for yourself not everyone is a sociopath 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do you find dating hard?At least emotional intimacy doesn't result in unwanted pregnancy or stds or and increased "body count". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Why do you find dating hard?My 46 year old neighbor just got married to a 58 year old very successful psychiatrist and part time local classical musician who's over 6 feet tall. This narrative that women can't find love with decent men over 40 is just....not accurate at all. It's revenge fantasy at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why can't you detect toxicity/misogyny in attractive men?It would seem you didn't read my comment at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Do you think it's harder to find a good job or a good partner?Oh it's 100% harder to find a good partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:30 AM |
| 19 | Q4W: Why can't you detect toxicity/misogyny in attractive men?I don't have flair but...I don't really feel like "sensing" misogyny is actually a thing. You'd be surprised how many dumbass dudes will straight up drop manosphere dog whistles on women first messages/or dates, there's nothing to "sense" because these guys aren't even being subtle about it. Less attractive men are more likely to consume manosphere content so misogynistic attractive men usually won't use that language as much and fly under the radar for longer in the early stages, plus attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:27 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOnce, a tiny one from my aunt for graduation. Never cared enough to test it, I'm not really a fan of diamond jewelry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:30 PM |
| 5 | How "find a hobby" people think that cities are / How it is in real lifeI live in a pretty medium size college town and my area has over half the things you mentioned you can go out and do 🤷🏻♀️ I've also lived in major cities where I never had trouble searching those things out so I just don't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:19 PM |
| – | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant. Why?Lmao I would bet $100 right now that that dude that drove off will be on Reddit it two years complaining about how his wife "blindsided" him with divorce papers and just "didn't see it coming". The divorce rates clearly show lots of women are only willing to put up with bullshit like that for so long. I literally know someone who divorced someone who did careless shit like that 'for fun" frequently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 12:02 AM |
| 3 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesI'm absolutely not doxxing myself to prove my life experience for coomers on the internet. But honestly the latter would be getting more attention than the former where I live cuz nobody dresses like the later and lots of people dress like the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 11:55 PM |
| 4 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesWell last time I went out in a tank and a little skirt I only got catcalled once sooo uncorking to your very unscientific unrepeatable anecdote I guess covering up gets me more attention 🤷🏻♀️ And comparing kids catcalling adults to grown ass pedophiles hitting on children is...weird and dumb as hell. Dressing like a prostitute isn't just revealing skin, it's a whole aesthetic with certain styles, fabrics, and patterns that makes a "hooker" look. I have outfits that show more skin than many pros… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:28 PM |
| 4 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receives"The real question is, how much do you get hit on when you dress as slutty as possible compared to when you are actively trying to discourage the male gaze" I'm telling you literally the same amount. That's why I don't factor it in when picking outfits, I wear what I feel comfortable wearing because it will be the same either way. I got hot on and cat called by grown men in fucking middle school wearing a modest school uniform. I don't know why it's so hard to believe that men don't care because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:39 PM |
| 3 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesBecause my lived experience has shown me that I will indeed still be pursued whether or not I show my skin or not. Men don't care if we are sowing skin or not, they still want pussy. Or they still want to make women feel uncomfortable in public. Last time I went out in the baggiest clothes in my closet I got hit on twice. How much more can I cover my skin? Men don't care, they still remember there's pussy underneath the clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:33 PM |
| 7 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesWhy do you think I'm lying? I don't really see the point in having these conversations if you're just gonna accuse someone of lying about their lives experience. Clothing amount doesn't make men forget that we have vaginas underneath that they desperately want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:26 PM |
| 13 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesYeah it's never really mattered for me, I could wear booty shorts and tank top outside or I could wear pants 3 sizes too big and a huge jacket and get catcalled all or followed/bothered the same. Covering myself up has never made a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too."Legally, unless proven in a court of law, such events did not legally happen." So are you saying that since the police never caught whoever broke into my car last year and it never went to court, my windows actually never got busted out, my shit didn't actually get stolen, and I didn't actually have to pay over $800 to get my windows repaired? You realize how insane that logic is, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 04:14 PM |
| 0 | The argument of ‘superficiality’ contradicts our biological makeupMaybe not, but being smart and competent enough to achieve a high salary is biological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 03:20 PM |
| 5 | What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps?Well lots of couples get together like this sooo why not?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 10:30 PM |
| 4 | What would you do in this situation?Umm no you said he was 20, that's not "teen pregnancy" that's statutory rape that ended up with a pregnant minor 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 08:28 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsWhat consequence? Being sad because you couldnt force a woman to rip her body and wreck her mental health so you could pass on your genetic material?? That's nowhere near comparable to the consequences women face from abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 11:47 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsAbortion is an adult responsibility that men will never have to worry about experiencing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 10:09 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsEvery day men here make a post about how they shouldn't have to take care of their kids financially or labor wise and they're bitter at the concept even if they don't have kids. Are y'all really shocked that women don't want to bring kids into a world where a lot of men loudly don't and won't care about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:44 PM |
| 13 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phone"I have chosen a very special type of man that wants to know which child is "most his" by the highest percentage so he can claim that one as "his baby". He just likes the numbers, but they are necessary for child support too." Wat. Sry this might be one of the weirder things I've ever read in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 05:46 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDo gen-z young adults really not party like us millennials did? I keep seeing all the sentiments from you adults about how they wish they could have experienced gen z party scenes and I'm just like, are y'all kids not going to random house parties anymore, or meeting under random bridges or rural fields to get drunk? How did you guys seem to forget how to have reckless rebellious fun?? Maybe that's why some of y'all seem to have such issues having social lives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:53 PM |
| 5 | If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are?Drugs are also illegal, it's never stopped people who want to use them from using them. The local prostitutes here have no problem finding all the clients they want even though it's technically illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 05:10 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt's normal to gain a little weight, but the obesity rate in the united States is something else, especially in places like the deep south. Where I grew up older people are very fat on average, rates of diabetes are through the roof. But moving to the pnw I've noticed older people are far thinner and healthier. They dont have a huge list of health problems because they eat healthier and live active lifestyles. I know older folks here way up in their 70s who hike for miles still and run farms, ol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 09:13 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern dayWhy would you want a partner if you don't like socializing or talking to people?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 07:37 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern dayI adore my partner but I have friends too. My partner adores me but he has friends too. It's weird not to. If they don't need people why do they need me? If the answer is just "sex" that's not gonna work for me. Someone who is a loner shut in just isn't gonna be a good match for me, that's all there is to it. My husband probably would t have ever dated me if I didn't have any friends. We wouldn't have even met if I didn't have any friends 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 07:28 PM |
| 14 | The men who say that cheating for men is excusable are just sprinting away from both discipline and accountability."How are you going to stop the men with options from exercising those options when it's women who are willingly participating?" The same way you expect women to stop exercising their options for the sake of a monogamous marriage when tons of men are willing to participate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:59 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern dayWell I would A. Wonder why and how there's not a single other person on this earth youve encountered who you didn't want to talk to? B. Id wonder what made me so different than every other person. C. I'd be really worried you'd become hyper dependent on me as I'd be your only social outlet. It's a lot of pressure to be all the things to a person. Or worse they're the type of person to ignore you and neglect your needs until they just want sex because they don't value socializing, with me or anyo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:33 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern dayI don't think they are so different. When you break it down the only real daily consequential difference between me and my husband and friends I've been room mates with in the past is we regularly fuck and and kiss and cuddle. We talk about our lives, news, media, humor, and gossip like friends, we do activities together like friends, we text each other memes like friends, we have inside jokes like friends, etc. Lots of people have kids and still have friends. Sure they probably aren't going out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:53 PM |
| 18 | CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern dayIf a guy reaches adulthood and can't figure out how to effectively interact and make and maintain connections with other people or manage his time in a way that makes room for socializing then how is he gonna interact and maintain a connection with me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:37 PM |
| 24 | No hymen no diamond was a meme, but isn’t completely unreasonable if the woman expects her husband to be traditional"being a protector" LMAO what does this look like to you, so like if the pervert rapist robber kidnapper dude breaks in you're just gonna stand there and let them rape/kidnap/rob/ your family cuz "sry honey but you had sex before you met me I'm just gonna stand here or run 🤷🏻♀️" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do we men have to lie about loving the way she is?Probably the only thing I'll ever agree with red pillers on. Morbid obesity is pretty gross I don't blame anybody for walking away from a relationship because somebody gained a fuck ton of weight, I did once 🤷🏻♀️ It's not fun dating someone who can't do a bunch of stuff because they're too tired and sweaty from carrying their own weight around that they have too much of because they eat trash all day and won't do anything active. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:08 AM |
| – | In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together?We put all the money we save not having kids into retirement/investments that were growing. We will probably be alright if we're fortunate enough to make it to old age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 07:00 PM |
| – | In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together?How many kids have you had? I don't even care about "consuming product" I'm pretty low on the materialistic scale. But when politicians, cooperate entities, army recruiters, adoption agencies, for profit prison owners, medical institutions, etc are all loudly salivating at my uterus for the potential dollar signs it could make their already rich asses it's not very motivating in this climate to bring kids into for my problem with authority self. Not having kids and not feeding the soulless machi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 06:33 PM |
| – | In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together?People have the choice now days to not have to punch out child after child into poverty situations anymore so it's not shocking that many opt out of not being in that situation if they can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 05:53 PM |
| 3 | With respect to attraction, what is considered a "healthy male hobby"?"I think you're going to the extreme here but we cna run with that. What if your man was a writer? Would you be mad at him for canceling plans because he was too focused on writing his novel? Self published mind you?" If his writing hobby that he wasn't making any money on or had deadlines for was making me feel like there was constantly an 80-90% chance he was gonna flake on plans we made in advance and just made him unreliable and inconsistent in general like my ex did with video games then ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 04:37 PM |
| 7 | With respect to attraction, what is considered a "healthy male hobby"?I honestly never even really considered video games a "hobby" any more than I consider watching tv or tiktok a hobby, it's rather media consumption. Thing with dating men super into video games is that it's all they want to do. My ex would constantly cancel plans we had cuz he didn't "feel good" but would then just play video games all day. It's all he would focus on when he got home from work and on the weekends. You might as well be dating a heroin addict who's passed out all the time, they're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 04:17 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The requirement that your spouse be your best friend is genderedWell the best couples I know ARE best friends who happen to fuck and run a household together. I consider my husband to be my best friend, we do everything together. You're choosing the person you're going to spend more time with than anyone for the rest of your life so I don't see how anyone logically wouldn't want there partner to be their best friend. UNLESS you are a man who just sees women as service providers and views relationships as transactional. Those men probably don't care to be fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 07:51 PM |
| 14 | CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking pointsWell maybe old people should have thought about that before they more than tripled the world population and turned property into "investment opportunities" and implementing tax credit systems they didn't have to deal with in their youth making property in affordable for young people now. India has a huge young population and they got kids hunting cock roaches in the street for food, is that not a huge problem? Boomers made the obviously unsustainable ponzi scheme and now they're mad that it's no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 08:47 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking pointsWe have more people here than ever before. If we can't make shit work with 8 billion people what exactly are we gonna do when we double that number in a generation or two?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 08:10 PM |
| 10 | CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking points"Natality is less than 1.4 child per woman. I just dont understand why that's a problem. They're population has grown 3 million since 1950. I'd argue their country is nice BECAUSE they aren't having shit ton of kids. Go to India if you wanna see what happens when societies are constantly increasing their population by having tons of kids. Then tell me which lifestyle you prefer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 07:07 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking pointsWell a quick Google search pulls his stance on the existence of daycare immediately. Again you can read between the lines on what the implications of his stance are. There's a bunch of other stuff if you google it, just go listen to his speeches. "Despite his purported support for families, Vance has harshly criticized efforts to make daycare more affordable. He called the concept of universal daycare "class war against normal people." Vance said that "normal Americans" do not want to "shunt the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 06:44 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking pointsHe's spoken multiple times about how women in the work force drives down wages and that women should stay home to raise babies. You can use your big brain to read between the not so subtle lines to understand what he means by that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 06:28 PM |
| 9 | CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking pointsJD Vance, the vice presidential nominee for one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 06:22 PM |
| 19 | CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking pointsI just don't understand why everyone needs to have a bunch of kids. The human population on earth is literally 4x the amount of people from when my parents were born in the 1950s. Quadrupled in just a few generations. We've driven so many animals species extinct just on my short time in life and counting. We aren't even close to figuring out how to properly manage our resources efficiently like at all for the people already here. And yet the government is telling me I'm doing something wrong by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Intelligence and PromiscuityOooh conservatives who don't read even their own shit, color me shocked. This is why talking to conservatives is like slamming my head into a door. Y'all aren't even educated on your own party or stances. Dunning Kruger in full force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 07:54 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt's easy to be religious when you live under governments that will literally slaughter you if you aren't publicly a part of that religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 04:28 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI mean you don't have to be a mega genius to see common sense. It's like saying someone thinks their the new Einstein because they noticed the sky is blue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do the majority of people find their life partner between the ages of 25-30? What happens during this time to cause this phenomenon?That's generally the age when men who have the goal of marriage start having the money needed to make that happen so they focus on seeking long term relationships more. Plus I think a lot of people know on some level that dating is often pretty slim pickins after late 20s so people are more likely to stick with where they are if it's good enough. Also pre frontal cortex developed then so now people are focused on long term goals like career, buying a house and having children instead of living d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 12:11 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSocial security is what we put in. It comes out of paychecks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 06:50 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm honestly surprised it's as high as 8% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 06:39 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYaaaaasss we already have a massive exploding homeless elderly population let's make it so much worse!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 06:37 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLol no, I'd be pissed that he called to ask me instead of just telling her no in the first place. She can hit up her friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 05:40 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI never understood why people with differing reproductive goals get together. Or why didn't he bank some sperm before getting the snip just in case? Can't really be mad at anyone but yourself for not thinking all that though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 01:34 AM |
| – | I think I know the root cause behind the "men who hate their wives/gf" trend. Do you agree?" Curious fact is that this same woman then brought a foreigner lover into her husband's house and gaslit him into allowing said lover to live together with her." Alexa play Self Esteem by The Offspring. Lol but for real that's a really unhinged situation that guy should have definitely ejected from. This is what I mean when I say men will stay in relationships they aren't happy in for way longer than a lot of women will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 09:33 PM |
| – | I think I know the root cause behind the "men who hate their wives/gf" trend. Do you agree?If that's true but women file for divorce more then it's men cheating more. Thing is men often won't leave relationships they know aren't right for them, they'll just mentally check out and/or cheat, or they'll just be the shittiest partner until the woman breaks and finally files because the guy didnt want to look like the bad guy. I remember some years ago this guy in my social circle cheated on his wife. We asked him why he did it and he said like I said above, he wasnt happy in the relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 08:34 PM |
| – | I think I know the root cause behind the "men who hate their wives/gf" trend. Do you agree?Most of the divorces I've personally known of were because the guy went and cheated, even moved out on his wife and kids, then the wife files for divorce cuz I mean why wouldn't she, he's gone not even living in the house anymore. The man still did the monkey branching even though he's not the one filing for the divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 08:14 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMan he seemed funny and this situation was intriguing from the billboard but then I checked out his Instagram and nevermind he seems really weird and off putting based off his social media presence. No wonder he felt he needed this billboard lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 05:58 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm not a fitness trainer by any means but all my friends who are into aeriel silk/Lyra/pole fitness type shit have like perfect flat, lean muscular tummies. One of my friends was getting a bit of a beer guy a few years ago and she got into aerial classes and her stomach was totally flat in like 4 months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 08:15 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI also have a sapphire engagement ring! Never cared much for diamonds myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 06:25 PM |
| 10 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?It's hard to not write paragraphs about how amazing my husband is. He's really the most relaxing chill person I've ever been around, I rarely get stressed when he's around. He's very communicative, he's well read so he's good with articulating what needs to be said and he's good about checking in to make sure my needs are met and he knows how to state his needs. He's consistent, never had to worry about him flaking on anything. He makes an effort to resolve and prevent conflict so we can focus o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:43 PM |
| 1 | All the excuses used by age gap haters to interfere with age gap relationships can equally be applied to bigots trying to stop gay / lesbian relationships, as age gap haters use the same kind of infantalizing rhetoric, concern trolling and "we're doing it for your own good" gaslighting.I mean I've gotten death threats on tiktok for saying boiled eggs and avocado is a gross combination together. People on the internet are trolls and assholes and water is wet who cares. Block them and move on 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 05:56 PM |
| – | All the excuses used by age gap haters to interfere with age gap relationships can equally be applied to bigots trying to stop gay / lesbian relationships, as age gap haters use the same kind of infantalizing rhetoric, concern trolling and "we're doing it for your own good" gaslighting.Dude my husband is 7 years older than me, not one person has said a word to me about it once. Nobody gives a shit. People you know sent you sent you death threats?? For being in an age gap relationship?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 05:13 PM |
| 2 | All the excuses used by age gap haters to interfere with age gap relationships can equally be applied to bigots trying to stop gay / lesbian relationships, as age gap haters use the same kind of infantalizing rhetoric, concern trolling and "we're doing it for your own good" gaslighting.Dude I've known women who dated and even married men older than them, way less people give a fuck than you actually think. People on the internet having opinions isn't "meddling" this isn't some deep social justice issue you're trying to make it out to be. Older conservative family members have had strong opinions on who the kids couple up with since the dawn of time I don't think that's changing any time soon. Who even is this loser scum you are referring to specifically? I'm personally glad my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 05:05 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: How is it possible for normal women to experience constant catcalling/harassment in their childhood?"It's some weird Reddit thing where everyone grew up running off and frolicking outside all day when they were little kids." I dunno about everyone but I literally did. Me and my neighbors parents used to throw us out of the house pretty much all day during weekends and the summer and we'd go ride out bikes around all day or go play in the woods behind our neighborhood. It sounds like you grew up remarkably sheltered to the point you can't even imagine anyone growing up differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: How is it possible for normal women to experience constant catcalling/harassment in their childhood?Some people in the world have had different experiences or even more experiences than your 19 year old self. That's all there is to it. I don't see how you're having such a hard time accepting that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans and gooners are ruining the internet.Not sure what you interact with but my insta and tiktok feeds are pretty much just gardening/foraging/nature stuff, niche circus performance shit, funny and cute cats/pets, and crafting/diy stuff. Occasionally I'll get a half naked dancing woman but I just scroll on. Gotta train your algorithm better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | All the excuses used by age gap haters to interfere with age gap relationships can equally be applied to bigots trying to stop gay / lesbian relationships, as age gap haters use the same kind of infantalizing rhetoric, concern trolling and "we're doing it for your own good" gaslighting.I haven't seen this personally here and I take internet stories with a grain of salt, but if a relationship is capable of being fucked up by someone's opinion, the attraction and bond of that relationship wasn't that strong in the first place. Pretty much the only people who had anything negative to say about older men pursing me were my family members, and for good reason, older family members understand damn well why older men chase barely legal teens/college students. Of course not all young … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 08:22 PM |
| 5 | All the excuses used by age gap haters to interfere with age gap relationships can equally be applied to bigots trying to stop gay / lesbian relationships, as age gap haters use the same kind of infantalizing rhetoric, concern trolling and "we're doing it for your own good" gaslighting.The only people stop men who want to date younger women is the younger women choosing not to date them. When I was 18-24 I had quite a few older men show interest in me, sometimes pretty aggressively and it always grossed me out then and it still does now 🤷🏻♀️ You're legally allowed to date anyone of age who is willing, who exactly is interfering with that for you?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 04:01 AM |
| 18 | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.Today OP learned that big name musicians do drugs and have sex lmao 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:12 PM |
| 10 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.It's funny you bring up the Amish because they are actually insanely horrible to their women. My friend worked as a nurse near a large Amish village and the amount of women who would come in post partum with horrid vaginal infections because their husbands insisted on forcing themselves on their wives before they healed from childbirth was insane. Men there believe women have to satisfy them no matter what, they don't care if their wife is ripped apart from pushing out a baby. She said one time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 04:00 PM |
| – | Women who have been promiscuous in the past, how do you expect men to take you serious?Yeah I can't take someone seriously when they compare sex between two consenting adults to hitting children and kicking dogs 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:57 AM |
| – | Women who have been promiscuous in the past, how do you expect men to take you serious?"is a sign of moral rectitude" Not everyone agrees with you that having sex makes one immoral or a bad person though 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:27 AM |
| 2 | A question on consent culture?"Okay if you think that advice helps go for it, but the second a girl tells a guy the next day i wish you went further or said they didnt want to hook up and then do that guys likely hood to rape a girl goes up exponentially. That guys next rape is on you" Omg this rape apologist rhetoric is really gross. No, you are wrong, it is not the fault of any woman when that man goes on to rape someone. It's his fault and his alone. It's his responsibility to find someone more mature to fuck woman who ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 01:56 AM |
| 2 | A question on consent culture?You've argued multiple times that pushing through boundaries for sex is appropriate because some women will say no when they don't mean it because of slut shaming. No, you stop trying to fuck her, communicate, and if she can't get over being coy and embarrassed about saying not saying no to sex then she doesn't get the dick she wants until she works through that. Only rapists would do anything else. That's all there is to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Calling men who you disagree with "Weird" is A Toxic FemininityDisagree I think we should call out weirdos more than we already do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 11:38 PM |
| 3 | A question on consent culture?See there you go with being all over the place again as well as overly broad. Which specific part of rape culture are you referring to? The only people who try to overcomplicate rape culture are people who want to logic their way into redefining rapey behavior as not rapey, totally appropriate behavior. The path of these hyper specific scenarios you keep laying out is very obvious and clear cut to people who aren't interested in pushing or violating the boundaries of their partners or potential … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:18 PM |
| 6 | A question on consent culture?Oh I read it, I just think you're way overcomplicating things that aren't that complicated. This isn't hard to understand for people with any emotional intelligence who aren't severely autistic. You aren't getting the discussion you seem to want in these comments because you aren't being effective at addressing your points. Basically you're kinda all over the place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 09:46 PM |
| 3 | A question on consent culture?"If a two people are on a first date, for this its a Man and a W. W says to M "Why don't we go back to my place and have some coffee?" They get there and she takes off her clothing grabs a condom and opens it. He asks "So you want to have sex" and she responds "No", please tell me what you think he should do?" Well I would use my communication skills and ask her what else she would like to do naked with a condom if not have sex, see what she says, then go on from there. What other possible thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 09:26 PM |
| 2 | A question on consent culture?No I've never "playfully" said no to fucking someone I genuinely was interested in fucking. If I say no or stop it's because I legitimately wasn't comfortable enough to fuck them either because i wasn't comfortable with them yet or the setting felt off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 08:10 PM |
| 4 | A question on consent culture?"Say a man and a woman are fooling around, kissing, touching, etc. He starts to touch her down there, and she says, “Oh.. no, you can’t touch me down there,” in a sultry voice and bites her lip at him.”" This sounds like it was written by a 14 year old virgin, so cringe my spine literally arched back a little. Grown adults "fooling around" don't interact this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:51 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThe United States already has the highest incarceration rate in the entire world and we're still far from the safest country, what's throwing even more, probably decent percentage of innocent people in prison for longer gonna do. I'm fairly well traveled and there isn't any civilized nation worried about their kids getting blown out of their desk by an arch randomly on a Tuesday like we do even with the amount of people we throw in prison even now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:03 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOh wow, you def one of those men who are waaay better looking with a beard so yeah keep that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 10:53 PM |
| – | The "Hawk Tuah" girl represents what most men want, and women are angry by thisI haven't really seen women angry about this woman? The only hate I've seen her get in comments is from men about how low quality women are and all that and variations of calling her a whore "for the streets" and all that 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Women who are saying they are not interested in a suitor, are not withholding/concealing anything, they are just being nice.Ooh okay then! Best wishes for your marriage! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Women who are saying they are not interested in a suitor, are not withholding/concealing anything, they are just being nice.Well sure, I just hadn't heard of eye color being one of them outside of like weird white supremacist communities that are obsessed with blue eyes or whatever. I was just wondering what would motivate someone to focus on eye color and a thing to put on the checklist cuz that one's never even occured to me personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:49 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThe 90s were pretty rad tbh. Peak skating rink scenes, after school/Saturday morning cartoons, giga pets, peak Game Boy playing that was new and exciting, unsupervised outdoor playtime with friends, all the drama of the OJ Simpson and Tanya Harding scandals, fast food playgrounds were nuts, pizza hut had a "fancy" interior with a pretty amazing buffet and an arcade. Airports were still fun because pre 9/11. If you were an adult (I wasn't) you could buy a fucking house with a 40k salary. It was p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:44 PM |
| 7 | Women who are saying they are not interested in a suitor, are not withholding/concealing anything, they are just being nice."Then another said she likes guys with blue eyes not green. I get it I guess. I wouldn’t date anyone with brown eyes." Hold up, you and people out there select/reject dates over eye color??? I don't know if I've ever heard someone doing this in real life wtf, I never even consider eye color for attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?They usually don't lose though. I don't know a single divorced dad who had his shit together without a criminal record who could pass a drug test who went for at least split custody and didn't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 08:36 PM |
| 6 | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationThese things in my experience are based on poor communication, bad assumptions, misplaced home, and covert contracts. And I feel like young people tend to fall into these situations more due to poor social skills and boundary drawing. Man and woman are friends, guy confesses his attraction for her, she says no I just want to be friends, he says okay we can be friends. A lot of young women will assume he's ACTUALLY fine with being friends as he said, he thinks her continuing to not exclude him fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 11:08 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy single mom friend from college just got married at the age of 36 to a man who earns 6 figures working in tech and is 6 inches taller than her and pretty good looking. See post wall ladies out here with or without kids, it's not all hopeless! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 02:26 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIf you care about womens "n-counts" then this is extremely sociopathic advice to give. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 01:36 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADTraditional food from colder regions is always going to be more bland than the warmer regions you listed because they don't have climates where a variety of herbs and spices can be grown year round. They tend to be more meat/fish and starchy veg based for this reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 08:13 PM |
| -1 | Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy.Cool! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy.That's fine you can turn down whoever you want for sure. I've literally never had a man not pay my way on a date, at least early on in the relationship though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 01:23 AM |
| 21 | Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy.If men here are gonna constantly argue that sex with men lowers our value forever for future potential partners but men having sex with us makes them more valuable, then why shouldn't men be expected to pay for a mere dinner for the chance at his attempt to permanently lower our value by wanting to raise our body count. Look at it like an application fee 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeSooo are men not afraid of dying alone with cats/dogs/hamsters like us women are told we're supposed to be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Housework splitLol way to respond a debate with personal attacks. We're doing pretty well. Anyone who loves their partner has no desire to exhaust them or slave them around. How long you been married for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Housework splitHave you literally ever known a billionaire?? Their spouses aren't cooking and cleaning lmao they hire help. Lots of help. Rich people literally consider it low status to mark their wives do housework because they can afford not to. Some people here are so out of touch with how rich people live it's incredible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:29 PM |
| 6 | Housework split"And no, the millionare doesn't want to hire a maid." Well sounds like somebody is between a rock and a hard place 🤷🏻♀️ nobody is dating millionaires to become a full time made who also works as a cashier on their feet all day. Also sounds like a great way to exhaust your wife creating resentment and dead bedrooms. Just hire the damn maid if you make that much money, or marry someone making more money than a cashier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Housework splitAs a married woman who is with a man whos traded places making more or less money than me whole 11 year relationship, I'm absolutely not going to burn myself out doing all the housework while also also having a job, and my husband also doesn't want that because well, he likes it better when I'm not burned out. These attitudes OP has are gonna keep you men single, or future divorced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Housework splitAs a married woman who is with a man whos traded places making more or less money than me whole 11 year relationship, I'm absolutely not going to burn myself out doing all the housework while also also having a job, and my husband also doesn't want that because well, he likes it better when I'm not burned out. These attitudes OP has are gonna keep you men single, or future divorced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Singe- never married women, what do you want your legacy to be? How will you not be forgotten?I'm married with no kids but...everyone will be forgotten. I know the name of maybe one of my great grandparents, everyone else that died 70+ years ago is just a blur of dead people. Like I could have ten kids and then we all get wiped out in nuclear war 20 years from now and what was it all for? I know it sounds like some new age hippie shit but the present moment really is all we have 🤷🏻♀️ enjoy the ride while it lasts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:47 PM |
| 33 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.For real, I'll never understand how some of these adult men somehow missed the memo so hard on things that were common sense to me when I was like 10 years old. Like it has to boil down to low emotional intelligence or low critical thinking or observational skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:08 PM |
| 9 | Question For Women, Which Of These Men Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?Why no punk rock guy options 💔 if he's never had a colorful Mohawk or liberty spikes at some point in life I don't want em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Question For Women, Which Of These Men Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?Political centrists are just people too apathetic or lazy or keep up with current issues, or they just have no backbone to stand for certain issues which wouldn't work for me I can't deal with people who choose to live in a bubble and ignore what's happening in the world around them either out of privilege or apathy. Plus a lot of people who claim to be "centrists" almost always end up being more right leaning in my experience, or they go straight right wing when they do decide to finally have a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:49 PM |
| – | Women, has anyone in your circle of friends or aquaintances died giving birth?She was a healthy in shape 27 year old. Strokes are a leading cause of death for pregnant women. I had another friend about a year ago almost hemorrhage to death giving birth to her son, she flat lined twice on the table. I used to know this other woman who worked in a maternity ward who had some absolute horror stories of shit shed seen. Im not gonna count up the amount of dead people I know cuz it's a lot lol. A lot of car wrecks, some murders, suicides, diseases such as cancer, been a lot of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:51 AM |
| – | Women, has anyone in your circle of friends or aquaintances died giving birth?Im not changing my flair but I did know a women who died from a stroke from pregnancy induced hypertension about a month before she was scheduled to give birth, so not technically during child birth but close enough. I've also known a decent handful of women who suffered pretty severe life altering injuries from birth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:31 AM |
| 2 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?I don't know what any of that has to do with my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:28 AM |
| 6 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Why is "I bet you settled" some kind of gotcha?? If someone didn't secure their "primary choice" when they were twenty, and still couldnt so they had to settle at middle age, what has really been lost?? Like why does it bother y'all so much that a middle aged women found a relationship and why do y'all question her attraction to him so hard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:09 AM |
| – | Why Do People Come Back After Rejecting You?Could be for any sort of reasons. Could be just bored and wondering what old friends are up to, some people romanticise rekindling old potential flames, I think corny movies can be to blame for this. Could be feeling nostalgic and going down the "what could have happened" path people do as they age. Can't tell you how many times men do this to me. I've had guys who straight up bullied me in middle school/high school look me up on social media and send dms like "I actually had a crush on you and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 10:36 PM |
| 24 | The "would you rather be alone with a bear or a man?" thing is just toxic and not much of a statement.Noooo please no more bear thing 😭 this horse is dead, it's been beaten to a bloody pulverized pulp, dug up, beated more, and needs to be buried permanently. Please. Fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Morgan Stanley forecasts, 45% of prime working age women in the U.S (ages 25-44) will be single and childless by 2030—up from 41% in 2018.As a child free woman who is slowly losing friends without children to hang out with (not that I dump off my mom friends it just isn't yhe same), I assure you this isn't true, most women end up having at least one kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagementYes I literally do actually. I think people should be able to buy and consume drugs and people should be responsible for their own choices. If people didn't want drugs people wouldn't sell them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagementWell most men who do all of that watch porn anyway. Drake is a famously known example, he can and does get all the sex he wants yet he's still openly known for still being addicted to porn. It's a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagementWell it sounds to me like men need to get a little more motivated to curb their addiction to beating their meat to pixelated images if they think it's such a problem 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagementIf men are really that out of control with themselves then maybe they should stop trying so hard to control society and get out of the way and let women take the reigns because we don't really have such a psychological hindrance to our biological needs. We can live like lions and men can basically be considered useless to the pack until we need to reproduce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:49 PM |
| 5 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMI dunno I guess. I grew up semi rural, lots of women here do yardwork. I saw a middle aged lady painting the side of her house like a week ago in my neighborhood. I know how to and also do most of those things, and if I ran into a hickup YouTube can usually show you what you don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:46 PM |
| 11 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMI don't know what a honey do list is? I'm asking WHY yard work is a man's job, like I said you don't have to be very strong to do it, and its arguably more pleasant work than a lot of in house work. And I've never needed a tape measure to mow or cut weeds. Maybe a few times to measure plant distance while landscaping/gardening?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:30 PM |
| 21 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMWhen exactly did yard work become "mens work"? I've been mowing the lawn and weed eating as a household chore since I was like a ten year old girl, I still do to this day. It's not like you have to be particularly big and strong to cut weeds or climb ladders to clean gutters? Like id much prefer to mow my lawn over scrubbing down a bathroom floor myself 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagementWell take some accountability for yourself then. These women (and men) are just providing you and other men with what you want. If you don't actually want porn supported, get up and do literally anything else with your time than watch porn. Voting happens with your clicks and your dollars. You can't be bitter when people supply you with what YOU and millions of others demand in a capitalist market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagement"Most men understand that porn is not good for us. Its like a drug addicts feeling towards drugs. They know it is longterm harmful to them. " Well I don't really know what to tell you, if you truly perceived porn to be damaging to yourself at some point you gotta take some responsibility for yourself and hold yourself accountable to not keep consuming things that harm you. There's plenty of drug dealers where I live, but Ive consistently made the choice to not buy or use their product. If I made… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:10 PM |
| 26 | Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagementI honestly don't mind porn as a concept. Some people like to fuck on camera to share with the world, and a larger amount of people like to watch those films. A consensual and ethical agreement for the former to distribute content to the latter should logically be achievable in society to people who arent puritans. My problem is the fact that men will pop off hundreds of orgasms to women in porn, then turn around and literally hate and degrade the women they have those orgasms to. Porn stars regu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:52 PM |
| 15 | Feminism cant claim moral superiority on gender issues and gender equality without giving equal importance and providing equal effort to mens issuesPretty much all of these are issues liberals, which includes many feminists, rally for plenty. It's anti feminist conservatives that bat down any attempts at universal mental/healthcare that would help, it's anti feminist conservative who rally for higher incarceration rates. I live in a place where many drugs are decriminalized and guess what, it's not the feminist liberals telling us that we're doing it wrong and being too lax on drug users and saying we shouldn't spend money on rehabilitating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:32 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYeah, like if men don't care about supporting and bringing up the next generation then why should I? I'll keep my freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 09:03 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'll never have to worry about dealing with a dead beat dad cuz I'm child free. Learned from a young age that I never wanted to play with that dice roll. It's literally the only sure way to avoid that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:54 PM |
| 16 | Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last.Omg society is "collapsing" because of endless unchecked corporate greed and government lobbying/cooperate ownership of elected officials used to erode the middle class and make the rich more rich, not feminism 😑🙄 ridiculous scapegoating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:55 PM |
| 5 | There is nothing “creepy” or “predatory” about 30-40 year old men wanting to date or sleep with 20-25 year olds, it isn’t men’s fault women don’t age wellI used to get supremely creeped out when 35+ men would relentlessly hit on me when I was 17-22 🤢 did not want even a little bit. It made them look like the biggest pathetic losers to me, like id wonder why on earth these grown ass men thought they'd have anything in common with a college aged woman doing young people shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 02:30 AM |
| 4 | why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them?Oh I dunno. The only women I've personally known who were super focused on that were like sugar babies/intentional gold diggers. I don't think enough six figure women are gonna throw out another six figure man out that they're attracted to just because he makes 50k less than her at that time to really worry about it being some social issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 01:47 AM |
| 4 | why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them?It's not THAT rare I've known a decent handful of women who had to take significant time off work due to child birth injury. I don't understand your second sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 01:44 AM |
| 2 | why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them?Thing is I think a lot of women making 200k would be fine with a man making 150k 🤷🏻♀️ I literally know couples with that income and it's not a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 01:41 AM |
| 2 | why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them?I don't know how to add flair but it's because potential child birth. If moms spine cracks or mom gets a huge hernia during child birth or worse and can't work, you have to have a partner with money or your children/family is fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you?Count for what? I just simply wouldn't date a guy who wasn't into it. There's too many men out there who love oral sex to settle for someone who doesn't like it for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A woman's ideal future partner MUST stack up to all of her past partners... COMBINED, which is not realistic."You are coping. None of your exes propositioned you for marriage, so your comment is coping with that fact." Yes I am c0ping so hard with my cute little homestead on a coastal foothill with my garden, animals, and adoring husband I've grown a sweet life with in ten years of travel and adventure. It's sooo terrible. "He lasts the longest, has the biggest pipe, has the best cunninglingus, and can go for rounds, which NONE of your exes were able to do?" Yes, correct. " Ma'am, no other man on this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 05:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV: A woman's ideal future partner MUST stack up to all of her past partners... COMBINED, which is not realistic."So, all your exes pumped and dumped you, but your husband was the only guy who got down on one knee to proposition you for marriage? Being that you still are looking back at your exes makes me think that your husband wasn't your best lover by leaps and bounds, huh?" I don't really see the point in this discussion with you because you're obviously just here making incorrect sweeping assumptions in bad faith. Do you consider any relationship that ends a "pump and dump"? When adult people date whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 04:36 PM |
| 5 | CMV: A woman's ideal future partner MUST stack up to all of her past partners... COMBINED, which is not realistic.I don't know anyone who thinks this way. Most people know that a single person can't be everything to you, but the important stuff like good communication chemistry, good sex life, complimentary life goals, are usually what gets focused on in the end. I can say with certainty that my husband is the only man out of every previous partner I've had that I would ever want to be married to based on what I know about my ex flames and how their lives played out, it really is the best fit for me. My hus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 04:19 AM |
| 13 | Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you?For real lol wtf even is this OP. Oral is hot AF both ways and I wouldn't tolerate a sex life without it. I've never had a guy not perform oral first encounter enthusiastically, are there really straight men out there who don't like eating pussy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:19 AM |
| 2 | What are some red flags you've personally experienced from the opposite sex?Not really? In the 3-4 months we had been dating up to that incident he'd pretty much been the perfect boyfriend, communicative, attentive, fun loving, polite, etc. I had also known him previously just from my social circles for about a year before we got together and he always seemed chill, our mutual friends thought we would be good together. That's why it was such a feeling of whiplash when he got an attitude like that the one time I couldn't deliver sex that day, it seemed really out of char… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 06:34 PM |
| 9 | What are some red flags you've personally experienced from the opposite sex?One red flag pretty early on that I regret overlooking in my worst previous relationship was this one time I started my period while we were hanging out and I was cramping really bad and just having all the general discomfort I have from my period, and he got super pissy and rude about it because he "thought he was gonna get laid" and i was in way too much pain for sex. I almost dumped him right then and there for it and I definitely should have, but he apologized profusely later and brought ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 09:20 PM |
| 8 | Patriarchy is not enforced by men. It arose naturally to benefit both men and women.You know married men used to die in war/hunting accidents as well and disease frequently in history and would also leave/run away sometimes, this creating single moms, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 02:59 AM |
| 9 | If you don’t agree with no fault divorce, how much are you willing to change?I mean, a lot of divorced women leave because they were taking on most of the childcare shit anyway without help from the man and theyre exhausted. Why would you leave the kids with the parent who refused to do parenting/house work the entire marriage and made it the woman's work? He probably doesn't even know what to do day in day out like the mom does, this is usually the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 02:16 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBut men still do it. These ladies of the night aren't hurting for work and I've known of three relationships in the last few years that ended because the man was visiting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 05:16 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAny man can cheat if he wants to because local prostitutes always exist. Don't have to be attractive, just need $100 to go to the sketchy rub and tug on the edge of town. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | RP theories lack nuance and draw extreme conclusions.K. Still not sure why you chose to come at me and not the guy I was arguing with who used to term originally but whatever 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | RP theories lack nuance and draw extreme conclusions.I just used it because he specifically brought up "childless girl bosses". I don't think he's talking about house wives hustling Avon in the daytime after the kids go off to elementary school, the topic is childless single women trying to climb the corporate ladder. I'm saying those women generally amass enough money to have kids without a husband if they want it bad enough, not sure why your coming for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | RP theories lack nuance and draw extreme conclusions.I think maybe you responded to the wrong comment cuz I didn't mock or condemn anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | RP theories lack nuance and draw extreme conclusions.Yeah but they wanted their kids more than they wanted to be single and childless 🤷🏻♀️ There's also plenty of married women who cant stand their husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 04:09 AM |
| 0 | RP theories lack nuance and draw extreme conclusions.If it's something you really want it's doable. Broke single moms are a thing. Also I thought we were talking about girl bosses, they probably have money. Plus theres government assistance. People make it work every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 04:06 AM |
| 0 | Self-improvement is a scamSo what else do you wake up and do all day? Genuinely asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 04:04 AM |
| 4 | RP theories lack nuance and draw extreme conclusions.If these childess women wanted kid bad enough they'd just have them. Getting knocked up is easy and even if you did get married there's no guarantee the father will stick around or not die anyway so why even wait around for that if you really want kids. I knew this trust fund chick who wanted kids but was sick of men so she just went out and fucked a dude she thought would make a pretty kid, ghosted him, never told the two guys of oher two kids, and now she's a mom. Any woman girl boss with enou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?This really isn't the gotcha you think it is, I wouldn't ever date someone who's personality I didn't think would be compatible with mine. Looks arent enough for me to go out with someone. That goes for all men 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?Did he get ear surgery? His cartilage fold things and general ear shape/placement are shaped completely different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?I don't think that second guy you mentioned is bad looking? I know men who look like that who can pull women. I don't know his content but I mean if he was able to get famous he obviously has something interesting or charismatic about his personality or people wouldn't be drawn to his content in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?I don't think that second guy you mentioned is bad looking? I know men who look like that who can pull women. I don't know his content but I mean if he was able to get famous he obviously has something interesting or charismatic about his personality or people wouldn't be drawn to his content in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?I guess? I dunno I'd have gone in a date with a guy looking like him in my younger 20s if he had a decent fun personality, in fact I have an ex with some similar features, but I kinda have a thing for kinda goofy looking redheads lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?They put Ed Sheeran in the bottom 15% 😭😭 I literally know quite a few gen z women with massive crushes on him wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:59 PM |
| 11 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?They put Ed Sheeran in the bottom 15% 😭😭 I literally know quite a few gen z women with massive crushes on him wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Self-improvement is a scamUh, it doesn't? Nothing will help you play video games except playing video games. It's just that most people find people who's only focus is video games well, boring. It's boring to be around someone who's playing video games all the time and you can't really be mad when people find your chosen interest boring. At that point you gotta weigh how much you care about being boring over how much you care about keeping a potential partner engaged because they enjoy spending time with you 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Self-improvement is a scamIf you just want to sit around a place video games all day and night, never work out, never have hobbies, never go out, never advance in a career or business, thats fine. Just don't complain when a horny hot naked chick never shows up to you gaming room to fuck you in between call of duty rounds 😭 I truly don't understand how people don't want to self improve and become better versions of themselves for THEMSELVES not to get women or men. Like what else do you wake up excited for?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 07:29 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Women have it harder in dating...by men, who straight dudes aren't having to date if they want to find a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:16 PM |
| 13 | Q4W: Why is it mostly other women behind the trad wife backlash?Lol that lady doesn't even have kids. Like please come back and show us your perfectly situated curated life after throwing three different aged small kids into the mix. It's just weird cosplay, why are they so hung up on the 50s specifically it was ONE decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 05:31 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: Why is it mostly other women behind the trad wife backlash?What do you mean you don't pick your boss? If you go in for an interview and the boss doesn't pass the vibe check you just leave. I've always picked my boss. If I don't wanna work for someone I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 05:22 PM |
| 38 | Q4W: Why is it mostly other women behind the trad wife backlash?Yeah the social media "trad wives" are a joke. I know women who work REAL traditional wife life, you know actually running homesteads and raising their kids at home. They aren't dressing in fancy retro 50s dresses and doing fancy updos and perfect makeup, they're wearing overalls or just jeans and T-shirt while waking up at 6am to feed the kids some whipped up scrambled eggs maybe some bacon and hopong the kids eat it all, getting them to sports practice or school, if there's babies they gotta d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 05:19 PM |
| 16 | Q4W: Why is it mostly other women behind the trad wife backlash?It's infinitely easier to get away from and replace a shitty boss than it is to get away from and replace a shitty husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Some women are abused not allNot sure why you don't believe it there's a lot of data to back it up, men def beat their women more when they are pregnant and often for the first time when pregnancy occurs. https://www.focusforhealth.org/the-dangers-of-pregnancy-in-an-abusive-relationship/ They also murder them https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/hsph-in-the-news/homicide-leading-cause-of-death-for-pregnant-women-in-u-s/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever directly addressed the fact that toxic, abusive men and often downright assholes consistently have exponentially more success with women then genuinely wholesome men?Uh, what? I don't know what you're trying to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever directly addressed the fact that toxic, abusive men and often downright assholes consistently have exponentially more success with women then genuinely wholesome men?I've had quite a handful of toxic run ins with men as well as platonic "friends" and it didn't turn me into a toxic person who wants to hurt others. Truly decent people don't turn shitty because they experienced shitty, it's a trait of resilience. If I let toxic men define my future and stop me from being decent to people I wouldn't have found the good people I have in my life now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone ever directly addressed the fact that toxic, abusive men and often downright assholes consistently have exponentially more success with women then genuinely wholesome men?Genuinely asking in a non snarky tone cuz I'm curious, what do you perceive yourself doing extra to be the entertainment that you don't want to do otherwise, and what specifically do you wany women to do to be more entertaining? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 06:59 PM |
| 11 | It isn’t victim blaming to suggest that certain behaviors increase the likelihood of sexual assault and encourage women to avoid these behaviors for their own protection.Oh look it's an example of shrodingers rape culture. Women are always simultaneously in massive danger of being raped to the point where we need to take all the precautions to avoid rapists while simultaneously women are too dramatic about the risks of being raped and are also usually probably making it up or at least exaggerating the situation when we report we were raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop.Again yeah, i know sex workers exist. I'm not a sex worker, but I did go to school to be a therapist over ten years ago before I pivoted careers and I worked internships working at women's shelters that took care of/rehabilitated trafficking victims who had horrible experiences being groomed, usually as a teen by a pimp so I've learned quite a bit about the "industry". I also am a part time local circus performer and there is oddly some sma overlap of some people who have done stripping/sex work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop.I'm well aware that there are women doing sex work out there but having a pimp is something women get groomed into or they fall into one who promises them a way out of bad times. Most modern day sex workers don't have a pimp, the internet has made them obsolete in many ways. Independent women aren't just messaging men asking them to traffic them and take some of their earnings. If you're gonna make up crazy shit involving sex workers at least keep it consistent with what actually happens in sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop.Whaaaat you mean you aren't buying the very believable story that some random woman hit up this very already rich hot guy asking him to take a cut of her sex work earnings just because? 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop." she hit me up a year before she met him and asked if I would pimp her out and we could make money together and travel." Yes this is totally very believable and definitely happened 🤣🥴 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 06:35 PM |
| – | How are western women not embarrassed?Yeah same, I'm a married Western woman, most of my friends are married at this point. I've already been to three weddings this year, all three western brides. We're doing fine OP needs to go outside more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 05:14 AM |
| 10 | Why does TRP make people so angry?Because parts of the rp are dehumanizing as fuck. This guy I used to know in real life who was into red pill shit straight up looked me in the eyes one day at work and told me he didn't think women truly felt love or had real emotions. Like how the actual fuck is anyone supposed to react to that? This was someone i had known for a few years, telling me I'm basically a reptile because his ex girlfriend broke up with him after he cheated on her and some girl in high school dumped him for some othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 04:46 PM |
| 9 | Is there such thing as a trapped woman in a relationship in today's age of feminism?There's sevral states where young teen girls can be married off to adult men with parents signed off permission and those girls are legally not allowed to divorce those adult men until adulthood which is insane. Those girls usually fall pregnant very young in the mean time and are saddled with children and they often have a very very difficult time leaving even once they can legally divorce after turning 18. It happens in a lot of extremely religious communities especially in the deep south. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 03:40 PM |
| – | Political idealogyThe punks I grew up around and dated weren't so much into the skinny jeans that was more the "skater" and emo/scene kids. Some were pretty skinny sure but a good lot of them actually had some decent muscle tone. But the guys in all those categories/stereotypes and body types never seemed to have trouble getting girls back then, seemed like being being skinny as fuck was a plus even sometimes. I've always liked men on the thinner side. Skinny pale malnourished looking dudes with tattoos and skinn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 06:34 AM |
| – | Political idealogyI've found the punk scene produces men who meet that balance pretty well in my experience. I ended up marrying one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 06:12 AM |
| 3 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?It's not a handful, the majority of higher ranks in fashion are men, this is well known and documented, you can Google it I'm not gonna do it for you. It's a weird hill to die on but you're just simply simply wrong. Yes beauty sells, that's why beautiful women get more privilege in the world, because men like beauty. Men use women to market everything and it works. If men liked natural they'd reward natural beauty but they don't. Men cheat on their wives all the time when they stop doing their m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?"This the case in the fashion industry the most, which is an overwhelmingly female dominated industry," Yeah you're just simply wrong on this point, almost 90% of major fashion companies are owned and ran by men, the models you see aren't the ones running the show and calling the shots it's primarily men in the higher ranks. And no, fashion is absolutely not the only industry that enforces makeup standards, you're either really young, don't have much job experience, or you just don't pay attenti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:26 AM |
| 4 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?Not really sure what your point is. If you think a woman in the corporate world or any work/business situation who shows up to work everyday with no makeup, hair air dried straight out of the shower, maybe a ponytail some days is gonna be taken as seriously and treated with the same respect and professionalism as a women who clearly spends time on neat updos and buns and some layers of appropriately neatly done makeup then you're just simply delusional and haven't experienced the real world. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?Lol what a piece of shit father, imagine that poor kid having to deal with the fact that his own father thought he came out so ugly that he took fucking legal action about it holy fuck. People that concerned with their kids looks just don't need to have kids period, it's always gonna be too much of a dice roll for those kinds of people and they'll probably end up disappointed and find a reason to treat thr kid shitty because of flaws they perceive. Also did he never meet any of her family? Did h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?Men tell women they prefer makeup by voting with their dollars all the time, if they preferred it they wouldn't constantly give women who don't wear it shit for not "looking put together" hell I've even heard men call women who won't wear it abrasive feminists because they see not wearing it as a rebellion against men to not put effort into their looks for men. Make bosses will literally withhold promotions from women who go natural in the corporate world Studies have shown men will tip women wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?What are you even talking about? Do you know nothing about 70s fashion? Women wore a lot of makeup that decade I'm well familiar with vintage makeup styles. Even my mom's told me a lot of people in public "look sloppy" in public now because many people just go out bare faced in their sweat pants and pajamas with no makeup. None of the women I know from that generation leave their house without makeup. You probably just don't notice women who don't wear makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 03:53 PM |
| 8 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?Trend? People have been wearing makeup for thousands of years. The social expectations to wear it were a thing when my grandmother was young, she never left the house without "putting on her face" as she put it. I think we're well past makeup being a "trend" at this point. It's pretty embedded in society and has been for a long long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 03:40 PM |
| 38 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?I don't think it's deceptive, honestly don't care either way, makeup is fun sometimes who gives a fuck? If men in general appreciated natural beauty of makeup they wouldn't give all their time and attention to women who wear makeup over those who go natural 🤷🏻♀️ studies have shown women in the service industry receive considerably more tip money when wearing makeup, usually from men. Many restaurans actually require female staff to wear makeup as part of the uniform because they know it makes m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 04:43 AM |
| – | The sheer number of reports of men responding in anger to being “rejected” by women says way more about women’s entitlement and inflated egos/delusional standards than men having some natural affinity for hostilitySeeing as to how Im married and have been in the relationship for over 11 years now, a guy throwing a fit because I reject him is litterally pissed off that I won't cheat on my man. How is that not entitlement on his end? Expecting me to blow my life up and fuck up my relationship so he can get his ego preserved is like the ultimate entitled behavior it you ask me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 09:17 PM |
| – | Nearly half (44%) of Gen Z young men haven't dated in their teenage yearsI'm not shocked, have you tried talking to any teenagers lately? Theyre completely addicted to screen time and can't hold a conversation to save their lives. I try and talk to teens in my family from families I know and it's all just one word answers from them about everything. The second the can get away from you they are back on a phone or video game. I imagine they aren't much better at talking to each other, much less dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?It's because these rp men want a young virgin waiting for their alpha selves at the end for marriage after they're middle aged and done and bored living a high ncount promiscuous lifestyle and now want a serious family. A young virgin who also wants a virgin to marry fucks up that fantasy for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 05:24 PM |
| 33 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?All these dudes in your comments trying to talk you, a virgin woman, into budging on wanting a virgin man to marry or telling you it's not possible is cracking me the fuck up right now. Especially coming from this sub lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Attraction to older women (30+) is more unusual than attraction to legal teensMy grandmother had my mom at 43 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 03:07 AM |
| 11 | If women were forced to marry beta males in the past, then why do they grieve for them today?It happened before I was born so I didn't know her or my grandfather ever. Still sucks a lot though. I wish i could have known her. My dads always been pretty fucked up about it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 10:07 PM |
| 46 | If women were forced to marry beta males in the past, then why do they grieve for them today?I never had such a golden view of the past. My grandfather stabbed my grandmother to death after beating her and their kids for years in the 80s. My aunt was divorced three times and died single declaring shed never marry again. My other aunt's husband cheated on her and knocked up his mistress and there was massive amount of drama around that with eventual divorce. A lot of my great grandparents never grew old together from death of disease and all that. When exactly was the golden age of relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:01 PM |
| 23 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?Well who else's responsibility would it be? If youre not gonna take responsibility for turning your wife on someone else probably would happily? Is it not your wife's responsibility to turn you on if she wants you turned on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 11:42 PM |
| 3 | What do you think it is about avoidant, "emotionally unavailable" men that makes them so intoxicating to, what seems like, the vast majority of women?Well you kinda answered your own question in your own post. " I don't really enjoy it anymore because the connections are inauthentic as hell and it's hard to respect someone who pines to be treated like an afterthought, who only tries their hardest when they exist in a perpetual state of uncertainty and anxiety " Women don't enjoy super clingy men who pine for them on a level that is undignified and lacks self respect for this same exact reason, it's annoying and off putting. The opposite of an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 08:02 PM |
| 41 | Why are so many dudes whipped?Believe it or not when people get married and or have kids they have responsibilities to their household and other people's schedules in their family to consider. People are busy as they get older they don't always have time to go out with the boys all weekend. It's not about being "whipped" or not having a backbone. Women also tend to go out less when they get older and are married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:52 PM |
| – | Most men now prefer women with experience and not virginsYeah that was my experience back when I was still a virgin as a non-religious young adult. Men would bail/ghost the second the found out I never had sex before. I ended up not telling the first guy I had sex with I was a virgin cuz I was sick of men being fucking weird about it, it ended up not even being the big deal I made it into in my head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:13 AM |
| 3 | If women aren't reporting rape/SA – who's to blame for terrible statistics?Can you explain why you think police/law enforcement care about helping rape victims? Over 90% of reported tapes lead to no conviction, and if there is a conviction the rapist often gets a slap on the wrist (Brock Turners case wasn't unique in this at all it just got famous). Over 50% of rape kits, even higher in some states, never even get tested they just sit in evidence because police don't care. I know it's hard for you to believe but women get blamed for their own rape most of the time. Rep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:05 PM |
| 10 | Women enjoy sex, but is it ever mentally "fulfilling" to them?Well my husband came home after work yesterday fucked me into the bed frame until I was surfing the rings of Saturn and Ive still got a but of afterglow I'm enjoying as I get things done today so id say yes, it is fullfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on women selling their virginity?I mean I kinda get it for someone youre in a relationship with but I don't understand it for a stranger you are paying you likely won't interact with ever again. And having to pay 4 million dollars for it doesn't mean shes actually "willing" cuz she wouldn't be there without the fat incoming check. You weren't the first guy she was genuinely willing to fuck, you just offered the most money?? I guess it's just some weird fantasy fulfillment shit I dunno. I wonder how many of these women selling t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on people making claims such as “I’m in my 30s and I get mistaken for a teenager all the time”?That they're probably autistic. Autistic people litterally age slower than nuerotypicals. I've always gotten mistaken for being younger than I am, even got denied entry to a couple of bars before cuz they thought my id must be fake cuz they thought I looked like a teenager and it was annoying, but it's because I'm autistic. My autistic friends also look way younger than they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 04:03 PM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on women selling their virginity?Okay but I'm asking why it would be so incredible. You just keep repeating that it's incredible I'm asking why it's so much more incredible than sex with anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 03:58 PM |
| 7 | What's your opinion on women selling their virginity?" The pleasure of knowing he's her first will make it incredible for him." I guess I'm asking why this is a thing? Like what is it about paying a stranger to "be their first" makes it so incredible? I don't get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 03:12 PM |
| 42 | What's your opinion on women selling their virginity?It's baffling to me that there's are men out there who would pay millions of dollars for the awkward experience of having mediocre sex with a virgin who probably doesn't even like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 12:40 AM |
| 11 | Wanting less competition for elite or high status jobs is what really behind the sudden tradwife push in some manosphere spacesWat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 08:57 PM |
| – | If Society “Doesn’t Hold Women Responsible”, What SHOULD Society Be Doing to Them?There's so many child molester men in my home town that got slap on the wrist nothing sentences like 6 months-2 years probation, that's if they get any punishment at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 04:48 PM |
| 10 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilitiesYou really need to do more research, tubal litigations can and sometimes do absolutely cause pain during sex later on as well as scarring and other complications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilitiesEh, men constantly argue that our gender biological differences excuse them of cheating, not doing certain jobs, chores, slut shaming womens sexual experiences, etc cuz men are "different" but all of a sudden cry and demand equality in reoroduction cuz they don't biologically have a uterus. Men abdnond their kids all the time, even kids they said they wanted originally. Every other day a man makes a post here about wanting to abandon his kids, i say just give them what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:22 PM |
| 9 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilitiesYou might be misinformed here, tubal litigations are much riskier procedures in many ways than a vasectomy, and often less effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:16 PM |
| 5 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilitiesYou should be mad at OP because he wants to "damage the lives of children" as you put it by not being a father figure in their lives, which is the direct result of him getting what he wants. Men are the ones wanting to be cut out of the equation so the children become damaged, hence the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 05:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilitiesWell sure, but a decent percentage of those people are going to inevitably have kids, and now we've circled back around the OPs proposed scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 05:48 PM |
| 4 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilitiesSomebody has to raise immigrant children too they need the same shit as non-immigrant children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 05:35 PM |
| 3 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilitiesCan you explain how I'm being more sexist than the men here arguing to not be responsible for their children? I'm simply listening to them and believing them and trying to come up with solutions. Again not sure why you're more mad at me than the OP 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 05:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilitiesHow am I sexist? The OP and other men here are the ones arguing to want contribute to all the problems you just listed, not sure why you're more mad at me than you are them? I'm just trying to come up with solutions to make the best of a shitty situation these men say they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 05:15 PM |
| 6 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilitiesOkay but if men refuse to pay child support or involvement who is gonna raise the kids and make sure they don't die all day if not mom? The money has to come from somewhere because capitalism. Last I checked most jobs aren't cool with women being their babies to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:35 PM |
| 5 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilities" they arent financially responsible for those kids the taxpayer is." As it should be 👏 seriously where else is the next generation of humans gonna come from if not for heroes like her? Men don't want the responsibility, and money for the next generation has to come from somewhere and mom is too busy raising kids to work. Men should just step back, let their taxes pay for their offspring so they don't have to worry about it anymore. They can go do more important man stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:31 PM |
| 9 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilities"I don't understand why you would want to incentivize single motherhood." If you don't understand why go reread the OP, men don't want the responsibility of taking care of their own kids so why shouldn't we cut men out of parenthood?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:19 PM |
| 11 | CMV If 2 people agree beforehand that if the woman gets pregnant she’ll abort, and she subsequently changes her mind, the man should be able to opt out of all rights and responsibilitiesI agree. We should cut men out of parenthood completely since they are so unhappy with the responsibility of it all and pay women to raise the kids all day. It really would be the best thing for the next generations, unless these men just want the birth rate to drop to near zero. It's not like your average child support was anywhere near enough anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | The red pill argument that HVM can step out on their wives/gf's is stupidYou would be wrong. Unless you don't consider pro athletes to be "chads" https://www.justia.com/sports-law/divorce-and-family-law-issues-for-professional-athletes/ "Unfortunately, marriages of professional athletes tend to end in divorce more often than ordinary marriages. Estimates place the rate of divorce anywhere between 60 and 80 percent, which makes a lasting marriage the exception rather than the rule. " | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 03:28 PM |
| 85 | The red pill argument that HVM can step out on their wives/gf's is stupidMen will argue up and down that it's fine for men to fuck other women when in a relationship while simultaneously being flabbergasted that women file for divorce 80% of the time like it's some great mystery. Like can you even imagine being stuck at home dealing with screaming kids, doing chores and whatever while your partner is out going on dates and doing fun things and having sex instead of helping you raise his own kids?? Only someone with the lowest of low sense of self worth would ever dre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Being a traditional woman doesn’t mean you don’t have standards.Yeah sure but as a woman if you get it wrong at end up with an abusive asshole the consequences of having no education or job experience/skills because you put all your eggs in one man basket to take care of you are catastrophic. It is always best to have your own shit going on in case you need a backup plan if your husband ends up being shitty or like he accidently dies or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 07:48 PM |
| 3 | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.What outcomes??? Men who were misogynists before the stupid bear debate are still misogynists. Men who weren't still aren't, normal people who touch grass regularly already forgot about this dumb debate and don't care. Nothing has changed 🤷🏻♀️ it's a internet meme that will probably cease to be discussed in like 2 months as we will have moved on to some other stupid shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 07:28 PM |
| -1 | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.We have an insanely high black bear population where I live and yet there hasn't been a recorded bear attack in my region in like 80 years. I've had a few close encounters and they just run off to the trees. Way more men in this area have caused physical harm to women as well as men than literally any bear on the woods here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Being a traditional woman doesn’t mean you don’t have standards.When exactly was it working perfectly?? Back in the 50s and 60s when nuclear "trad wives" became mainstream women like my mom's mom were consistently zooted out on quaaludes and amphetamines being doled out by doctors in mass to get through it all because it's not a natural healthy balanced life to live. So yeah she was miserable and it didn't go perfectly for her. My dads mom was a Christian trad wife good girl who did everything for her husband and four kids and my grandfather still murdered h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 11:19 PM |
| 27 | Being a traditional woman doesn’t mean you don’t have standards.Well go look at any of the former trad wife stories who's lives and children's lives are in complete shambles because they let a man control their lives and it went badly and now they have nothing to show for it. Relying on men for your livelihood is a horrible idea, 100% better to just go get your own money. Nothing in life in certain and too many men aren't reliable for the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 09:08 PM |
| 89 | Being a traditional woman doesn’t mean you don’t have standards.Most men who say they want a traditional wife could absolutely never afford to properly keep one, especially with kids without subjecting them to poverty or worse. Most of them would also end up resenting one, throwing the whole "you're worthless cuz you don't bring in income" every time there is a conflict. But if she did work he'd resent her for being a boss bitch and not taking care of the kids at home. There's no win for women when dealing with men like this, no matter how high of standards … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 08:48 PM |
| 7 | Why do people, especially women, have such a hard-time accepting that humans are also animals?Using other mammals to excuse men not giving a fuck about their children is wild because mothers in the animal kingdom aren't constrained by capitalism and government rule by their own species. Momma monkey doesn't have to come up with money so other monkeys don't kick them out of the tree and starve them out. Momma monkey doesn't have to leave her baby at monkey daycare or monkey babysitter while she commutes to monkey work to get money so she can buy food. Momma monkey doesn't have to worry ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Do some women actually worry when a guy who seems 'too good to be true' ?Well yeah there you go, if they have your social media info and name they can find out a lot about you. Don't exactly have to be Sherlock Holmes to figure out if a guy is serious or a player from internet presence and asking around social circles. Women who don't want to deal with a player will just look for "safer" options like these women did, because as I said, you would indeed be too good to be true from their perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Do some women actually worry when a guy who seems 'too good to be true' ?Not sure why you are being so aggressive. You stated that you ended up knowing who these women ended up with later on so I assumed these were women you were connected to through real life social circles of social media and not random street approaches because how else would you know their romantic business but maybe I assumed wrong so 🤷🏻♀️ you're story just kinda doesn't make sense if you didn't know these women from outside random street encounters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Do some women actually worry when a guy who seems 'too good to be true' ?I don't think I'm lost. If a woman has a goal of being a wife to a monogamous man and having kids and she assumed because of your vibe or look or reputation or whatever other reason that you are a player, which is true based on how report on your lifestyle, that woman wouldn't be wrong, you would indeed to too good to be true for women with goals of marriage/family, regardless of her self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 10:23 PM |
| 4 | Do some women actually worry when a guy who seems 'too good to be true' ?Ooh, but you also said you aren't monogamous and not interested in marriage some days ago unless I'm confusing you with a different user, so for women who do want those things it wouldn't make sense to take anything further with you, it's obviously more logical to find someone who does want those things, and sometimes those men are indeed out of shape or whatever. Its not a result of low self esteem to not settle on someone who's going to waste your time if you want a monogamous married family a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Do some women actually worry when a guy who seems 'too good to be true' ?Haven't you stated before that you're non monogamous/poly?? These women who blew you off probably just didn't want to be involved in that sort of situation, it doesn't mean you have low self esteem just because you don't want to get with a guy who isn't monogamous or already has a girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 03:29 PM |
| 13 | The View has declared men useless on mainstream televisionPeople aren't focused on cancelling something they forgot existed, can't boycott something you didn't consume in the first place. Though the outrage bate is quite clever marketing, they got people like you going out to remind people this irrelevant show for old people is a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 10:21 PM |
| 35 | The View has declared men useless on mainstream televisionTIL the View is still a running show LMAO. Who even watches that show anymore I haven't seen anything about it in over a decade, that shit was cringy middle aged stay at home mom programming when I was in elementary school 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Are women lying to themselves and others when they answer bear question.Thing is where I live we have a huge black bear population but they aren't really all that dangerous because they just aren't that aggressive. I've personally had three close encounters with them in the woods and they just run off, my friends dog chased one up a tree one time. There hasn't been a recorded bear attack in this region since the 1940s. A local man did just shoot his wife in the head like 3 weeks ago though 🤷🏻♀️ If I gotta choose between these local black bears and the local crazy b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 12:44 AM |
| 4 | Women are more suitable as corporate slaves."Most hobbies are done on the cheap." Clearly you've never met any male musicians, or men into antique cars or motorcycles, or men with any kind of outdoorsy sporty/camping/climbing hobbies, or men who collect any kind of art. I know plenty of high earning men who are always on top of buying the latest high tech phone, fancy appliances, other nerdy shit that women don't care about. Hell I have an ex who would blow 3k, going into debt, on a new pair of speakers or acoustic equipment set up so his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 12:34 AM |
| 7 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?Uhh, I personally haven't seen women in my life expressing trying to change their behavior in favor of men because of red pill stuff. Closest thing I'd know of women buying into it positively from the male perspective is online spaces like the trad wife movement or r/redpillwomen but ironically women in these spaces often recommend women avoid men who consume redpill content cus even they know those men are likely to make lousy long tern partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:50 PM |
| 10 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?I'm saying that red pill makes perfectly normal men who wouldn't/didnt have trouble dating before act in ways that repulse women. Women have caught on to RP dog whistles and behaviors since it's become more mainstream and its just made women not want to deal with these men when they see them post Andrew Tate shit all over their Facebook feed. It's made women realize more and more that we shouldn't rely on men and be as self reliant as possible because we can't know if a guy is secretly obsessed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 06:59 PM |
| 9 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?I definitely think so. I've known two men in my scene who were for sure into RP content, like dropped dog whistles on it regularly, shared RP/Andrew Tate content in a positive light, etc. like clock work both these men complain regularly on Facebook about always being alone and how much dating sucks for them. Thing is neither of these men are particularly unattractive, one of them is over 6 feet tall and the other one I'm not sure but he's not short (I'm 5'9 and he's a little taller). The first … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 06:49 PM |
| -2 | How frequently do you think bears commit sexual violence against people compared to men?Yeah, at least if I get attacked by a bear people won't ask if I actually consensually let the bear attack me and am just lying for whatever reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existWell sure nobody really wants to pay for anything ever, but they will if they want it bad enough. Men would do exactly the same if they could fuck women above their league unapologetically 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existThey are selling women for random shit in Afghanistan literally today. Arranged marriage is still very much a thing in some places. Men's sex drive also drives them to do things like fuck kids. I know men will fuck anything, often no matter what the cost, that's the whole point of my OP. FFS we just went in a whole circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existA hundred years ago women in a lot of countries got sold off by their fathers for a goat, maybe two if she was extra pretty. People also fucked hundred years ago, that's why the whole concept of a shotgun wedding was a thing. If a male six wants to put his dick in someone he thinks is "ew" that's a him problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existI don't have to fuck someone to know they are attractive. That's what my eyes and other senses are for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existWell if they don't want marriage or kids and are just down to ride the sugar baby train for a while until you or they get bored and move on to the next bloke then I guess that could work for some. Sounds like a headache to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existThat's kind of a non answer but right on. Do the women you date know you're just keeping them as placeholder chicks like do you tell them upfront you're just using them until you find whatever it is you want or do they think you're actually gonna marry them or make a family with them one day? Or are they child free swingers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existA decent amount of undesirable women are down to be alone than get with a guy who doesn't get them wet, but apparently that's a problem for many men too 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existDrugs are illegal too but that doesn't stop anyone from selling, buying, and using them. Lot lizards and sketchy massage parlors and back page working girls exist within driving distance of most men all over the place, and you can get it for under $200 if you know where to look , cheap hookers are not THAT luxe of an expense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existI'd say the type of man less likely to cheat are men whos main source of validation/self esteem doesn't come from how they're gonna convince the next woman to fuck them. You've expressed a need for sexual variety/novelty, do you perceive your sexual desires to be vastly different from other men? Or do you think men vary on the level of desires they have to collect harems? I'm told over and over on this sub that men are only as loyal as their options and they all want to spread their seed and tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existIve known several men who cheated even when their wife/partner was fucking them regularly. When asked why they pretty much all said something to the affect of being addicted to novelty and variety. One friend of mine who was practically a nympho had sex with her man constantly and he still cheated his excuse was he "just wanted to see if he could". It's about the validation of getting someone new in bed for most of these men, their self esteem relies on it. I've known some people with open relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existYou don't need high end escorts to cheat, I've known women who got cheated on with lot lizards and sketchy massage parlors that are in almost every medium size town everywhere if you know where to look. Thing about not choosing narcs is narcs tend to hide the fact that they are narcs pretty well, at least for long enough to get their claws in a person. People who aren't educated on narc tendencies aren't gonna pick up on it usually until they're deep in it. It's one of the main reasons narc men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existI'm actually not miserable I'm doing pretty alright these days I just come here when I'm bored/on the toilet but thanks for checking in! I've just been told on this sub many many times that all men crave sexual variety and feel extreme urges to "spread their seed" and that it's dumb for women to expect that to not be their nature. I guess you're saying I shouldn't believe them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existWell according to many men here they all want to cheat. I've even made the argument you're making here and men have told me flat out that I was wrong and all men crave multiple partners. I'm just listening to them and believing them 🤷🏻♀️ I'm not gonna tell men their thoughts and feelings aren't what they insist they are. You really think no men working at target ever cheat on their partners?? I know plenty of women who have been cheated on and none of these men were famous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existWell I wasn't in their bedroom obviously but she told me they were fucking several times a week and I've never known her to be a prude 🤷🏻♀️ he told her he simply has an addiction to hookers and has for a long time and hid it from everyone but he wanted the stability of a relationship. Men cheat all the time even when tbeyre getting laid at home, it's not about the amount of sex, they're addicted to novelty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 07:25 PM |
| 8 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existNot sure if they can do anything. Men claim often that they crave variety and aren't naturally monogamous, gotta "spread their seed" and all that. Can't expect men to not be men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 06:53 AM |
| 6 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existA close friend of mine just kicked her low t beta awkward short autistic boyfriend out of the house because she found out he was visiting local prostitutes the whole time they were together. Men are men 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 06:51 AM |
| 7 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes exist"that part was funny but a little weird. who thinks like that? Does make me wonder if this isn't embellished somewhat, and that can make the argument suspect, as tho it isn't enough to stand firm on its own." Most people find it incredibly embarrassing when they decide give someone a chance even though they didn't find very attractive and that person still attempts to play them. Its a pretty common complaint among people who have been in that position so not sure what you think is embellishment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existAnd why are those desirable men cheating just because they are being chased? Because men like variety and desire to collect harems over being in a monogamous relationship. The men nobody are chasing still want to run around with multiple women but they can't, not with out paying anyway it's not because they are morally superior. Is a bank robber who wants to keep robbing banks but can't cuz they're locked up in jail any better morally than a bank robber actively robbing banks because he's free? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existAll men have options because prostitutes exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 05:48 AM |
| 13 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existUndesirable is whatever you personally aren't attracted to. None of this has anything to do with what I posted about undesirable men being less likely to cheat on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existOkay well I am clarifying that we are specifically talking about prostitutes so you don't have to be confused anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:49 AM |
| 7 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existIt's in the introduction part where it breaks down percentages by country. The results you pasted are from Sweden. I live in the United States, not Sweden so I didn't see any point in bringing up Sweden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:48 AM |
| 11 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existYeah but I'm saying that even women who settle aren't safe from being cheated on. It's not usually obvious when someones character is one that will cheat, or attempt to cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existYeah I've heard from a lot of sex workers that many of their clients are usually married/in relationships so that's not surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existYes okay? If you paid attention to the title we're discussing full in person prostitution services in this specific context. Though I am aware that men who are married or in relationships also seek out those other things you listed as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:38 AM |
| 6 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existYeah they really are the least convincing group ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:35 AM |
| 10 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existIf fuccbois don't want to settle because they don't have to, the guys who aren't desirable enough to be fuccbois arent gonna be any happier about having to settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existThe adults around you should have protected you. Again I'm so sorry I hope you're doing better now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:29 AM |
| 8 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existIt's estimated that about 14-16% of men (and about 23% of military men) in the United States see a prostitute at some point in their life, so no it's not a huge number but it's not exactly a small number either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:28 AM |
| 6 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existYour source says " In the U.S., 16% of men reported having paid for sex at least once in their lives, and 0.5% reported doing so at least once a year" Which is 2% more than what I said before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:22 AM |
| 8 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existThere's tons of former and cureent sex workers talking about their experiences on YouTube and other social media outlets. They talk about seeing married men all the time. The stat I found said about 14% of men in the general population visit one at least once in life and 23% of military men visit prostitutes. Which isn't a huge amount buts it's not small either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:15 AM |
| 8 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existWell yeah of course those services don't appeal to everyone, but I'm betting the women providing those services there aren't short on work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existHoly shit he was 21 and you were 15?? I'm sorry that sounds like a terrible experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 03:58 AM |
| 14 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existActually no, the most common demographic of men who visit prostitutes are married. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1961-01092-001 And I've seen many sex workers both current and former confirm that most of their clients are married men. I don't know about half but I know it's not rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 03:55 AM |
| 9 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existUndesirable is in the eye of the beholder. Why do "Chadrones" want sex all the time without relationships but basic bob wants both? I'm betting basic bob actually does want the first too. Men are men, Chad or bob. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 03:49 AM |
| 7 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existI guarantee that there are sex workers selling services within a drivable distance of wherever you are rn whether or not you live in the legal state of Nevada or not. And no men seeing them isn't rare. These women basically have all the work they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 03:46 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Young people in general just don't want commitment, male or female, beautiful or uglyI never said only losers use prostitutes, I said it's an option for them if they get a mind to cheat. Rich good looking men are absolutely not the only people who go to prostitutes, my friend in back in high school had a fat short bald broke dumb as rocks truck driver father gave her mom Chlamydia because he was addicted to lot lizards. A friend of mine recently just last month threw out her short autistic awkward wormy looking also not rich boyfriend because she found out he was purchasing serv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 07:14 PM |
| – | Why would many women rather die than get raped?Yeah it's insanely traumatic. Not only is there the repulsive violent violation you just experienced, statistically by someone you know, but then there's the having to tell your trauma over and over to law enforcement and medical professionals, and if you don't go the to to report it you just hold it in which is a whole different type of torment. Women, especially in strict religious and conservative cultures often get blamed for their own rape, which adds to they trauma. 90% of rapes never end … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 06:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Young people in general just don't want commitment, male or female, beautiful or uglyYeaaah the whole unattractive men can't cheat on you due to his lack of options argument doesn't really work because prostitutes exist. I've literally seen women in my life date an awkward unattractive "safe" dude using your logic here only to find out the guy was going to asian happy ending massage parlos or hiring other local prostitutes because men tell us over and over again that they need variety. When there is a will there's a way, selecting ugly men ain't gonna protect you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?Men were still abandoning their kids back in ye good ole days when women didn't have rights and did what they were "supposed to do" all the time. The whole reason child support laws were put into place was because men abandoning their families and leaving women who couldn't legally work or own property and children destitute and it was becoming an actual problem for society. Yes there are single moms, but birth rates are plummeting well below replacement rate. There has been a record number or b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?If women are so damn bad at child rearing, why don't men step up and do it? Why do men so often consider child rearing women's work by default if we are just gonna fuck it up so damn bad? If so many men don't care about their kids to stick around and make sure they become functional adults for the next generation, why should women? Do any of yall really still wonder why the birth rate is crashing? Women have realized men are unreliable parents who don't care so more and more are opting to be chi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 06:30 PM |
| 11 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRWtf are verbal consent games lol. People figured out a long time ago how to establish consent without sounding like a dweeb. It's called "dirty talk". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 11:27 PM |
| 14 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRYeah this is just black and white thinking. Sex is more complex and nuanced than you're making it out to be. It requires emotional intelligence to really grasp the art of sex and recognizing when it's time for "lovemaking" and when it's "fuckdoll" time. Hint- sometimes there's room for both in the same sex session, crazy huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 11:15 PM |
| 15 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRA man can be a patient attentive partner who pursues consent who also enjoys a little rough or kinky bedroom fun, they aren't contradictory traits, in fact Id argue that they shouldn't contradict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 11:07 PM |
| 7 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRWho besides lesbians who don't like dick is denying these things? Most people like good sex?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 10:59 PM |
| 17 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRYes women like good dick and getting thrown around in the bedroom can be pretty fun. In other news tonight, bears shit in the woods and fire is hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 10:20 PM |
| – | How can a guy bag an ethereal dimepiece in LA without having a $20MM megamansion in Beverly Crest? [20 pics]A. Who the fuck even are these people and how do you know about them?? B. Are you claiming the guy in front of the Eifel Tower is conventionally unattractive, cuz he isn't. This couple doesnt look mismatched at all if I saw them walking down the street I would think they were just a normal couple. Some of you guys seem to have really warped views of what's attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 06:19 PM |
| – | Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating?Thats funny, the other day I was told on this sub reddit that women ignoring and not dating violent men is what turns them into mass shooters and women are also bad for that reason. Seems like women are bad no matter what we choose 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single?Why do you think you know what's it like to be a woman if you aren't? Men typically want children more than women, probably because they share less of the burden and don't have to have their bodies stretched and ripped apart. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbc.ca/amp/1.7119845 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 06:21 AM |
| 5 | Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single?Well most women do end up having kids so I guess it's "normal" in the way most people do it. But there are plenty of women AND men don't want kids or there wouldn't be a whole child free movement. You see men on this very forum arguing for the right to abandon their children daily. Parenthood isn't for everyone, there's people who definitely aren't built for it and it's a good thing when they understand this about themselves instead of bringing unwanted kids into the world they'll resent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 06:07 AM |
| 8 | Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single?My parents know I'm capable of socially making my way through the world and making decisions. Treating your kid like there is something wrong with them because they want something different out of life than you is a good way to end up being one of those parents saying "why doesn't my kid call or visit me anymore??" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 05:58 AM |
| 9 | Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single?Def a new perspective I've heard, most dad's I know are horrified at the idea of their daughters getting laid and want to stay as far away from thinking about that as possible. I'd be so weirded out if my dad talked about my conception window lol. But I don't even want kids so 🤷🏻♀️ What if your daughter didn't want kids? Or just didn't prioritize being in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 05:47 AM |
| 11 | Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single?This is so strange to me, I can't imagine my dad even giving the smallest fuck if I'm in a relationship or not. Definitely not enough to "desperately" hunt for one for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Billie Eillish and double standards in sexualityHmmm, here's absolutely plenty of intellectual, body positive content and conversations and literature about male masturbation out there and id argue most of it comes from progressive spaces so I'm not really sure what you are complaining about? There's billion dollar industries catered towards male masturbation, it's not even really taboo, at least in my circles anyway. What kind of backlash do you think this woman deserves for this comment?? Lots of people have masturbated in a mirror this isn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 09:44 PM |
| 9 | If this is what the blue pill is promising men if they treat women right I don't want itHow is this guy a victim?? Nobody put a gun to his head and forced him to date someone who refuses to make him cum for two years, buy a ring, and then sign a marriage certificate. He was a free agent the whole way through. He's the one who deluded himself into thinking that would magically change after legally binding himself to her. It's not pressuring or objectifying to discuss your sex life with someone you're actively fucking already. Asking someone why they refuse to make you cum after you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 10:08 PM |
| 13 | If this is what the blue pill is promising men if they treat women right I don't want itThis story smells fake but we'll discuss like it isn't. Why on earth would this man marry a woman who wouldn't make him cum for two whole entire years? He acts like she sprung this hang up she has on him after marriage but it's obvious she had some kind of issue. If they have this big of disagreements in reproduction they are incompatible and need to divorce. This won't get better and I don't think many would disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 09:46 PM |
| – | Guys looking for a LTR benefit more from splitting the billWell if the red pill idea/argument that women lose value for future relationships after every man she's been with and men gain value after every woman they've been with is true, then of course it makes sense that men should be paying for the opportunity to potentially "damage" women for future relationships opportunities. Seriously why would women want to lose both value and money dating a man? That makes no sense if men want to live life like red pill is accurate in this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 03:50 PM |
| 15 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityNah I disagree. There's plenty of men out there who know for sure their kid is theirs and they still don't care if they eat or has school supplies lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 09:13 PM |
| 4 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityWell I agree abortion should be available, it should be used widely. The fact that we constantly have to have these sad debates about whether or not children should be supported just proves how much humans suck, we really should just stop reproducing and go out like a fart in the wind. We don't deserve this cool existence on this cute planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 09:08 PM |
| 6 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityWell I think aborting an unwanted kid is preferable than abandoning an unwanted kid. If men don't care about the next generation why should women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 09:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityI'm saying they don't need a kids or a man 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 09:03 PM |
| 15 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityWomen have kids with men who said they wanted kids who then leave 1-3 years in because fatherhood is too hard for them all the time. I know someone who's husband literally packed up and moved to fucking Spain overnight because he decided parenthood was a mistake and didn't want to pay child support, for the kid he said he wanted with the woman he married. I know for a fact most of the men in my family take care of their kids out of legal and religious obligation and the resent the fuck out of it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 08:26 PM |
| 10 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityBecause then the taxpayers, or everyone else, has to then pay for it. I just don't think most men would opt in to pay for their kids if it was legally viable and acceotable for them to squirt a genetic "legacy" out into the world to then bail and make it everyone else's problem. The government obviously isn't ever going to go for this anyway because then the birth rate would plummet even more than it currently is and those in power certainly don't want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 08:12 PM |
| 17 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityIf men are gonna kick scream cry throw up slide down the wall about paying for their kids existence then I'm into the idea of women just aborting every pregnancy that happens from here on out. Men on this forum constantly complain about the low birth rates and child free women, but they sure don't want to parent or pay for the next generation themselves. If they don't care why should women shoulder the responsibility of giving a fuck? Quit pushing kids on these men ladies, they don't want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 08:01 PM |
| – | If women desire commitment and men desire sex, why does the former prefer already committed ones but the latter doesn't?"We keep hearing stories of guys who got a lot of female attention wanting to sleep with them after they started wearing their rings or when they landed in a relationship." We are talking about sex are we not? Men try and pursue married women every bit as women pursue married men 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:46 AM |
| – | If women desire commitment and men desire sex, why does the former prefer already committed ones but the latter doesn't?As a married woman who has been hit on by tons of men while it was obvious I was in a committed relationship, I don't really see how anyone can say women are the only ones going for taken men? Men try and fuck/steal "taken" women all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:24 AM |
| – | Can someone explain why women are seen as the romantic gender ?Probably because men are always the ones sending dick pics and "want sum fuk" adjacent type messages less than five minutes into every conversation on dating apps/online pick up attempts. Kinda hard to view men as the romantic ones after experiencing that so many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:16 PM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…Everyone in the world has a gut when they hunch over unless they have an eating disorder, even people who regularly work out. I agree with who you replied to, men are delusional about women's bodies. Y'all are convinced that Instagram angles/poses that make your stomach disappear are reality all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:50 PM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…We aren't talking about me I'm not posting myself on this forum ever. Like please point out where exactly these extra 15 pounds on this woman is? https://youtube.com/shorts/IxJCCPURSu4?si=O4OAvc76KIcdy6U6 Do you like women looking like Holocaust victims or...?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:39 PM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…Is the extra 15 pounds in the room with us right now? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:26 PM |
| – | Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women??Yeah they complain on this forum constantly about the birth rate being too low, just flabbergasted that women don't want to have ten kids each, then they make posts like this. Like why do y'all think women should want to have kids that y'all don't want to have, pay for, or take care of?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 09:22 PM |
| – | Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women??"Imagine if your father said that about your mother, while preggo with you." I don't have to imagine it lol I've lived it. My dad's reminded me many times that my existence was a burden to him, he originally didn't want kids. He stayed 100% out of religious obligation. I know soo many women who were in committed relationships with men who wanted kids only for the guy to bail a year or two in because parenthood is just too much for them and they hate it. I'm tired of hearing men complain about th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 09:17 PM |
| – | Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women??Well some money for the human you made is better than no money. But for a lot of men even just throwing a couple hundred bucks a month at the issue while someone else does the hard dirty work is still too much to expect. If men don't care about the next generation of of our society why should women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 08:09 PM |
| – | Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women??Men frequently abandon kids thry said they wanted after theyre born and we can't know when they will and wont. So many men only support their kids because it's legally required, we really should just free them of this burden. Yall make these posts every other day. Quit imposing kids on these men ladies! They don't want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 07:20 PM |
| – | Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women??I really do feel sorry for men being expected to pay anything for their kids 💔 it's not fair. Women really should stop burdening them with babies and abort every pregnancy that happens so men won't have to worry about being responsible for children they resent the existence of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Splitting the bill is not about money, it is about balance of interestYou can believe what you want 🤷🏻♀️ my dating strategy worked out great for me and it works out for a lot of other women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Splitting the bill is not about money, it is about balance of interestDo you personally think women's "body count" matters? Do you disagree that most if not all men actually care about it? Thing is women can't tell when a man they're interacting with is into red pill shit. I used to be more egalitarian or whatever in my dating beliefs when I was younger, but the more I've learned about male sexuality the more I've come to conclude that it is in women's best interest to let men pay for dates early on as it demonstrates investment. I've just simply never had a man w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Splitting the bill is not about money, it is about balance of interestOh no and no. I'm just arguing from a red pill perspective since a lot of men here are that. And the red pill men argue that ALL men care about body count and if they don't they are lying or are simps, so I guess women should believe them and and accordingly. Since the red pill stuff is gaining mainstream traction and more and more women are encountering men who are into it dating in the wild, its important for women to be aware that men think their value decreases from being with them and proce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:45 PM |
| 4 | Splitting the bill is not about money, it is about balance of interestAccording to the red pillers here all men are secretly obsessed with our n counts and think their magic penises lower our value when we touch them. If men want a shot at lowering our value forever, as I said dinner is a pretty small price for the fact that she's gotta potentially go on with lowered value after you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 03:50 PM |
| -2 | Splitting the bill is not about money, it is about balance of interestIf men are going to always insist that women's "value" is forever lowered because of the amount of men she dates, especially if they have sex, the least the guy can do for trying to "lower her value" for other future men with his is dick is pay for a damn dinner 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s."like what should that be illegal?" Never said it should be illegal not sure why you're going off about that? Just because I think a choice is selfish and not the smartest move doesn't mean I think it should be illegal. But just because you can do something doesn't always mean you should. "^ As if we didn't have enough of a woman-centric view of the situation before this statement. Lol." Well considering how a woman is going to be expected to carry, birth, and probably taking care of the kids th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s."you’re basically saying that if you haven’t impregnated a woman by 45 then forget about it." I mean, yes?? Why would anyone want to have kids that old? In ten years you're gonna be actual grandpa age, you're likely not gonna have the energy to chase kids around and be a proper dad who can do proper dad stuff. Plus sperm quality degrades at that age considerably. And any youngerwoman you marry runs the risk of becoming a young widow, with kids on top of that which isn't a great deal. I really do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:34 AM |
| 10 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosI've never had a guy straight up punch me, but I did have a huge football player sized dude push me into a wall really hard at a crowded party after I said no thanks when he crassly walked up to me saying he wanted to fuck me. Another time at an outdoor campout party I had a dude I didn't know try to talk to me when I got separated from my now husband in the crowd and I told him I was trying to find someone and he started yelling "don't you fucking ignore me!" Over and over while chasing me, fol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:17 PM |
| 11 | We really need to stop accepting women claiming the "emotional labor" in relationships, its laughable and dilusionalMy dad used to go into fits of screaming rage and punch holes into walls and smash random electronics and other shit if he couldn't find a pen or the dogs water bowel was slightly out of position or something and my mom had to constantly run around to make sure everything was perfect so he wouldn't throw one of his fits, but yeah women are the children in relationships. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 06:38 PM |
| 8 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagYeah I didn't understand it. He just completely lost interest in sex for the last six months of our relationship nothing I did worked 🤷🏻♀️ only man I ever had such an issue with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagDepends on who you ask lol but yeah I hit a lot of the conventionally attractive markers. Never had trouble getting male attention and he was the only man I ever dated who dead bedroomed me or even had a lower sex drive than me 🤷🏻♀️ I really think looking back it was because he was insecure because he started gaining weight pretty rapidly after I moved in and I was in good shape working out regularly and biking primarily for transportation. I'd try to address it but he'd always just say he wasn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 09:39 PM |
| 10 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagOh for sure I wouldn't argue otherwise. His rigid need for extreme routine just wasn't a spectrum trait we shared and it was a compatibility issue. Plus I have way too high of a sex drive to be able to go months without sex. Again a compatibility issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 09:04 PM |
| 16 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagIt wasn't that I minded hearing about his day because I definitely did. I would just get overwhelmed with the sheer amount of details he would throw on me for so long without really letting me have input in the conversation. Like I felt like I could replace myself with a cardboard cutout of myself and he'd go on the same. Yeah I definitely would get tired of that. I actually had a very neurotypical ex who did this. He would express and unload his depression and suicidal ideation on me frequently… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:10 PM |
| 20 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbag" It's ok that he prefers only to talk about his 3 favorite topics, he's autistic and will talk about mine when important." Ooh I know what you mean. My autistic ex used to talk AT ME about his work every day. He'd come home and give me a literal two hour long play by play of every detail of every task that day, every customer interaction, everything he cleaned, every phone call every piece of gossip about his coworkers lives. I swear I knew his coworkers more intimately than my own and I never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:49 PM |
| 17 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagYeah it really sucked breaking his heart cuz he wasnt a bad person by any means, but he did seem to have a hard time perceiving my needs, but like not in a sociopathic malicious way if that makes sense? I felt bad for him cuz he didn't seem to have a hard time getting his foot in the door with women, he had girlfriends before and after me but he couldn't seem to maintain them likely for the same reasons I had. I didn't share his autism trait of needing a rigid routine all the time which definite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:27 PM |
| 32 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagI'm an autistic woman so I do feel for autistic men. I dated an autistic guy for a while over a decade ago and it was chill at first he was really sweet and pretty fun to be around. About 6 months in he completely dead bedroomed me out of nowhere, started drinking a lot more (or just hid his drinking less) and played video games every second he wasnt at work, and started gaining a lot of weight from eating lots of fast food all the time. He never wanted to go out and do the things we did when we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Men Shouldn't commit anything significant to women or minimize commitment to womenSo men are down to pay for kids now? How much do you think a women should get from men to have them take care of the baby? Every other day a thread gets posted where a man argues that men shouldn't be on the hook for their kids, the evils of child support and that "financial abortion" should be a thing, and soo many men here will agree. Why would women want to have kids with men who resent their existence and the responsibility once we push them out? I say we just relieve men of the responsibili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Men Shouldn't commit anything significant to women or minimize commitment to womenYeah that's fine. I think women should stop having children if that's what y'all want 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Women being immediately drawn to men they see with other women is less about preselection and more about herd mentality/competitiveness."There are zero advantages to dating a man who lacks social proof and a social support system." Yah it really is that simple I don't know why these guys gotta complicate it to hell. Every man I ever dated had a consistent social group and those groups always consisted of some women, I can't imagine being with a man who didn't have that going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 03:09 AM |
| 5 | If the woman you meet is a virgin, what makes you think she’s going to stop being a virgin for you when she hasn’t done so for men she’s dated in the past?I didn't even tell the first guy I had sex with that I'd never had sex before. I was sick of men being fucking weird about it. They'd either run for the hills when they found out, or they'd geek out and get obsessive about it (it was usually older 30+ men who did this 🤮🤮) Being a virgin for a while as a young adult was weird, wasn't a fan, 2/10 experience really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?Theres two types of men out there Ones who say "Oooh nooo she's only fucking me and spending time with me to use me for my money 😭" "Yay sweeeet she's fucking me and spending time with me because of my money 😁" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Why do people get so defensive about casual sex/hookups?Sooo you hate casual sex non committed sex yet you do it yourself. I see, it's like a self loathing issue you project on others. It makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Why do people get so defensive about casual sex/hookups?Yea, frankly I think a lot of men have rape/degradation fantasies. They WANT the sex they are doing to a women to "ruin" her somehow, physically or mentally. When she actually genuinely enjoys the the sex well that fucks that first part up for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 05:56 PM |
| 3 | The phenomena of single women dating married menSome toxic people get off on the perceived validation the get from getting someone to cheat on, and sometimes leave their partner with them. Its messy and it usually blows up in these people's faces one way or another, but mate poachers are a thing 🤷🏻♀️ Men do this a lot too, I can't tell you how many men have proceeded to try and make a move on me when it's very obvious to the world on my social media and everything else that I'm happily married, even my husbands now former "friends" and co wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 09:18 PM |
| 9 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?How would I even know that?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Uh I mean I guess some do? But even if you did manage to mananage to make a woman who wants a bad boy assume you make bad illegal money, isn't she gonna be disappointed when she inevitably finds out you just work a boring normie job making 70k? Why wouldn't you wanna just get it out there and weed out that type early lol this makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 06:55 PM |
| 8 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Tbh if a guy I was getting to know was that dodgy about talking about what he spends his days doing for a living Im gonna assume it's something sketchy/illegal like drug dealing/money laundering and probably bail cuz socially that's really a really weird way to approach things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 05:25 PM |
| 21 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Statistically you probably won't. Do you really just plan on sabotaging anything that could maybe go well relationship wise over the fact that you might maybe get rich ✨someday✨ like why are you even worried about this if you have no "gold". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 05:19 PM |
| 14 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Omg isn't it? The only ex I have who expressed concern multiple times about fearing gold diggers made $15 an hour after taxes driving a forklift around a wearhouse 🤣🤣🤣 Like dude absolutely no serious gold digger on this earth is coming for your forklift paycheck, it's too funny. And no he wasn't going to school or anything to make more money in the future, his brain just got rotted by manosphere paranoia shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 05:15 PM |
| 20 | Is there an epidemic of straight Millenial/GenZ women falsely claiming to be lesbians?Not saying it doesn't happen I just don't think it happens often. Tbh the whole premise of this thread just kinda sounds like an excuse to go harass and try to "turn" or convince lesbians to bang men, which lesbians, actual or pretending, find annoying as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 04:10 AM |
| 41 | Is there an epidemic of straight Millenial/GenZ women falsely claiming to be lesbians?I don't think there's as many straight people faking being gay as there are gay people faking being straight. Sexuality is usually a bit more complicated than just solidly being gay or straight, and these things can shift throughout someone's life and circumstances. Research the Kinsey scale for more information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) traditionally seen as "feminine" that you find attractive in men? Men, what's something traditionally seen as "masculine" that you find attractive in women?I always liked longer hair on men and skinnier frames which I guess some would say is feminine, though my preferred type was always crusty punk and metal head dudes and those aesthetics tend to somehow apply more masculine energy to those traits somehow. The man I ended up marrying has all this going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 09:29 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?I don't think a lot of men actually want to have kids, or even rather BE present fathers. I think a lot of men want women to want kids because it's something they can dangle over women's heads like a carrot for sex and the potential of commitment but they don't actually WANT the kid. This is why child free women drive a lot of manosphere women crazy, it takes away a piece of their possible leverage they would have in a relationship. Also why it's way too common for men to bail on their kids and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the scriptI literally can't think of a dumber way to spend time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 11:16 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls like to take an article of clothing from boyfriends?I was always a fan of boyfriend hoodies and jackets because they smell like him, not sure if it's a pheromone thing or what but the combo of my mans scent plus the larger size usually softness of the garment is strangely comforting. I suppose for some there's also the feeling publicly "claimed" aspect for some women. Like, I get privileges to wear this cuz this is my man or whatever, but for me it was mostly the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 10:49 PM |
| 2 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisYou don't have to, I'm going on a 3 day hiking trip this weekend here in a couple hours I'm not gonna respond but yeah have a nice weekend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the scriptI'm not making it up lol go to Instagram right now and look at literally any niche hobby video of a woman, there will be plenty of men in the comments making fun of her looks in some form or fashion even if her video has nothing to do with her looks. I've been on social media a long time for my circus performance/clothing design shit Im into. Men trolling women in the comments this way is a fairly recent trend that has increased exponentially over the last couple of years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:00 PM |
| 7 | Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the scriptMen get SO emotional about this lol are you serious? If they didn't they wouldn't constantly be in every woman's comments on the internet these days telling them how "mid" they are or making posts like this OP every day, they would just do other things with their time. Some men desperately want women to see themselves as ugly and it's weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the scriptIt's not that I'm delusional to my value in the eyes of others, it's just that for the most part I don't care, especially from strangers. I've lived as someone with low self esteem and higher self esteem, the latter is way more fun I gotta say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:43 PM |
| 13 | Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the scriptI dont know if I am underestimating it considering that initial post you linked got over two hundred comments filled with men ranting and raging about women thinking they're "tens" plus all the other frequent rants on the internet ranting about women's inflated sense of self esteem that we aren't supposed to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:35 PM |
| 16 | Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the scriptI've never really looked at myself or others with a number rating system before, but if anyone ever asks me I'm gonna call myself a ten just for the sake of watching dudes get their tail feathers all ruffled at the fact that I dont have low self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Consequences for high status menEveryone is the gate keeper of their own genitals. This notion that men HAVE to mindlessly fuck everything that is an option is actually so degrading to men. You're acting like promiscuous men have no agency over themselves and are slaves to their penises. If men, including attractive men, dated with intention and settled down early like y'all expect women to magically want to do instead of endlessly exploring options maybe things would be better for the less attractive men. But y'all don't wann… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:17 PM |
| 2 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisThey're responding to biological urges they don't care to control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:56 AM |
| 4 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisIt comes from mens endless relentless horniness while also wanting women to be in a subservient position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:56 AM |
| 7 | Consequences for high status menAre you asking me why do men want to fuck everything that moves without expectations of commitment or family or stability and get upset when they can't?? I don't know ask men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:54 AM |
| 13 | Consequences for high status men"They want to have their cake and eat it too. Wife and kids at home, girl(s) he sees on the side. It happens. Some of the women/wives are ok with it. I'm not saying I agree with it or think it's right, I'm just not denying it happens." WE KNOOOOW lol, why else do you think women decided to decenter men, make their own money, entertain only guys who are attractive or make it worth their time, and opt to stay single if they can't get what they want?? Because what you described isn't a good deal fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:58 AM |
| 8 | Consequences for high status menRules are set by women? Nobody is stopping men with options from choosing one and commiting instead of living the promiscuous lifestyle. There's another post just today from a man complaing about women wanting commitment with comments comparing women asking for commitment to sexual coercion lol. A lot of men with options don't want monogamy, they say it here themselves, and the ones who do wouldn't if they had a lot of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:51 AM |
| 11 | Consequences for high status menK but if men actually prefer monogamous lifestyles like the guy I replied to said then why do they feel like they missed out on something? It's almost like that's not what they actually prefer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:47 AM |
| 11 | Consequences for high status men"Almost all men were fine and happier with the way the world was monogamous with every man fucking only a single woman and vice versa." If men were so happy with that then why do so many of them go into promiscuous mode the second they are attractive or rich enough to do so because they now can? Men here constantly argue about how men need "variety" and will seek it if they can get it. "Ironically, many of these men find more “modest” girls later in life (because the qualities to attract one are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Consequences for high status menLike what experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:26 AM |
| 1 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisLike what consequences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:21 AM |
| 16 | Consequences for high status menSo men don't like women when they don't get to fuck women, but they also don't like women when they do get to fuck women lol. The ole double bind strikes again, can't win either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:16 AM |
| 6 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisBecause they don't like women. They want to have casual sex with women, then they want women to have negative consequences from it while the men have no consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:55 AM |
| 3 | A woman pushing for commitment can leave a man feeling the same way a man pushing for sex makes a woman feelLol and some other dude the other day posted about how upset it made him when women didn't consider themselves exclusive to him after the first date and sooo many comments agreed with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Has exclusivity stopped being the default?I think it's always a good idea to communicate your needs and expectations, whether you want 1,2, or 3. It woul certainly result in less hurt feelings, sadly young people often suck at good communication 🤷🏻♀️ It honestly surprises me so many men here have such narrow views on thinking there's exclusivity after a single date. I just searched "how many dates until exclusivity" here on reddit and most of the answers from people were like 4-7, so I really don't think the majority of people see thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 05:05 AM |
| 6 | Has exclusivity stopped being the default?When I was younger in like late high school/college I never assumed anyone I went on a date with wasnt seeing or sleeping with anyone else unless communicated otherwise and people I dated operated the same, so I guess it was the default. It was pretty normal for young adults to explore their options and see multiple people for a while until they found someone they really enjoyed and had good chemistry with and then they would declare "exclusivity" and cut off others they might be seeing. From wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:38 AM |
| 7 | Has exclusivity stopped being the default?"exclusivity from the point you start dating someone was the default state of every relationship (unless specificied otherwise explicitly), and was on the obvious part of the spectrum, where you wouldn't mention it explicitly" If a guy told me he thought we were exclusive after meeting for one single first date I'd wonder if he'd lost his fucking mind. Back when I was in the dating game 10-15 years ago before I got with my husband people didn't consider themselves exclusive until it was declared… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 02:29 AM |
| 7 | Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they thinkAre you seriously here telling someone they should have stayed in an abusive relationship?? 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I mean why what's the point? Some people just simply don't see spending a block of time with someone they aren't into and they can tell the other person isn't into them as fun. She was probably anxious that if she continued the date with you that you might accuse her of wasting your time, as men do sometimes in these situations. It honestly just sounds like you wanted an internal ego boost by being the first to express rejection and she beat you to the punch by calling it a night and you're sour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 11:06 PM |
| 6 | Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock.This is one of the worst analogies I've ever heard. People were traveling to bang foreigners before, during, and after the time of Woodstock, and people have been getting fucked up and partying outside for a long time as well. Sex was part of Woodstock sure but it wasn't the main point, seeing popular bands play and hanging out with people was the point. The majority of people who went to Woodstock probably didn't even have sex at Woodstock. I've traveled a decent amount and I've been to music f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:45 PM |
| 4 | Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock.Dude you realize outdoor music festivals with people on drugs and tits out are still a thing and have been for quite some time right? The modern day version of Woodstock is events like Bonnaroo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 06:42 PM |
| 4 | How would you describe “lady game”?Have you dated men? Because I have. A bit of aloofness and mystery and building some will we or won't we tension goes a lot farther than just blurting out "I like you!" and making yourself super available. Most get turned off by overly eager to please right out the gate women. I get this is anecdotal but a lot of women in these comments disagree for a reason, men often do respond to some aloofness positively for a lot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How would you describe “lady game”?Well it's a balance for sure, 6 months is way too long. But there's plenty of men out there who convince themselves they have a shot and that the woman is really playing hard to get when she's simply not interested. That's not every situation obviously some women play it too coy for too long and it doesn't work like your specific situation. I've found men do want a little challenge though. A little "I could take it or leave it" attitude on the outside goes a long way in my experience even when I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 10:06 PM |
| 26 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”If she would have stayed for the whole date and cut off contact after because she wasn't interested a lot of men would be upset saying she led him on and wasted his time. There's no win really 🤷🏻♀️ you weren't interested you said yourself so just move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 08:34 PM |
| 10 | How would you describe “lady game”?Right??? Like the friend zone these men complain about constantly wouldn't exist if men didnt obsess over women who "play hard to get." Women are constantly trying to shake men obsessed with them just cause the man perceives her playing hard to get when she just plain doesn't want him lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 07:17 PM |
| 7 | How would you describe “lady game”?Not in my experience at all, men try way harder in my experience when you play a little "hard to get". I guess this is one of those "watch what they do not what they say" things. There wouldn't be so many women desperately trying to shake off persistent men they've made clear they aren't interested in if most men really hated women playing hard to get that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruelIf you don't fit in with what I'm talking about then you're not who I'm talking about and you shouldn't take it personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you vet someone?Its actually really common in domestic abuse situations for the first time a man ever hits/beats his wife/partner to be after she falls pregnant. This is because this is the stage in the relationship where he feels like he has her the most trapped and at her most vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 09:45 PM |
| 13 | Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruelI get what you are saying, but this reply sort of feels a bit like "no true Scotsman" territory considering how every man who brags about very intentionally using and exploiting women here, or wanting to, has a redpill tag. If that wasn't ever the red pills true purpose it definitely got turned into that man many of it's followers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 07:13 PM |
| 3 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?And a lot of poor people end up mismanaging money and blowing it all if they randomly get a large sum of it. They aren't jealous because they'd do things differently cuz many of them wouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 03:57 PM |
| 9 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?"who have options and who are more likely to cheat or mistreat a woman because these kinds of men know that they have options." If all that keeps a man "good" is his lack of options to not be bad, how does that make him not actually bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Is there a female equivalent of "betabuxx"?Pretty much all women are sexually desirable to men to some degree, men will fuck anything. Men often dead bedroom women too, I've had it happen to me a long time ago. The dead bedroom sub is a lot of men but there is a significant amount of posts from women. But if you've always consistently dated with intention of marriage without chasing promiscuous women and not going through your youth categorizing women as "recreation only" or "wifey material" then cool you arent really the demographic of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Is there a female equivalent of "betabuxx"?You're going down the exact same train of "logic" pedos/creepy dads and uncles use to molest and rape their family members, what the actual fuck 🤮 I really hope you're just a troll cuz you need serious help/intervention other wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Is there a female equivalent of "betabuxx"?Yeah I'm talking strictly within the context of red pill terminology/concepts not really normies showing appreciation for their wife making something cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 11:00 PM |
| 7 | Is there a female equivalent of "betabuxx"?Yeah don't get me wrong I actually am a wife lol just not to a rp loon husband. But itd be weird if my husband referred to me as "wifey material" or said he loved me for reasons these red pill men have for wanting a woman I have been real hesitant about his intentions. I enjoy my married life but I don't make being a wife my whole identity, I actually never even planned on getting married until I met my husband it wasn't an intentional goal of mine at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Is there a female equivalent of "betabuxx"?"If a man ever calls you “wifey material” it means he thinks you’re stupid enough to stay in a relationship and be his servant while he cheats on you LOL!" Literally. And women are just supposed to magically want this arrangement and when we don't it must mean we're broken/defective somehow cuz that's supposed to be our nature we just gladly fall into or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Redpill is the result of failing the blue oneWhat dating advice did Tate offer other than "get rich (vaguely somehow) then collect a weird harem of poor disadvantaged sex workers/cam girls probably from a third world country you pay to hang out with you and take social media photos with you" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 07:52 PM |
| 26 | Is there a female equivalent of "betabuxx"?"Wifey material" is the female version of beta bucks in like every equivalent I can think of. The manosphere has always done a horrible job of making being a "marriageable woman" sound like an enticing position from a red pill perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 07:35 PM |
| – | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.How do you want to act in a relationship instead of how you feel you're "supposed to act", like what does that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Many men think cheating is alpha and high value. Many men justify cheating with these beliefs."Since women often tolerate or reward nonmongamous men, it looks like they too consider it high value behavior" The fact that women file for divorce at a considerably higher rate than men says otherwise. Women don't "invest" more into cheaters lol, even when they do stay they often detach slowly, keep the guy around to use him for something, or they go revenge cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?If these women were content with average men and not living a lavish lifestyle they'd just get with their local men instead of chasing foreigners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:12 PM |
| 10 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersBecause again, pregnancy and child birth have a decent chance of creating scenarios where women can't make their own money, at least for a period of time. Then yeah, the family would require the father to make the money. If men could give birth then what you are saying would be true, but they can't, so again women have to consider these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:32 PM |
| 8 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersI'm not sure what point you are trying to make. We live in a capitalist society, money is required not optional. Have you not noticed how expensive everything is? Housing, food, transportation, utilities, health care, and other random shit has all gone up in price. Most women, and men for that matter can't support a household with kids on one income, or sometimes even two or one low incomes. Women have to think about things like, If my spine literally breaks during childbirth or any other number… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 11 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersNot sure what makes me a victim lol. I don't have to condemn myself to poverty I can make my own money and I'm child free. But if I wanted to have kids marrying a guy with no drive to do anything bigger than work at Arby's would be colossally stupid. Kids are expensive. So again, what logical reason would a woman have to select a guy who can't/won't make enough to provide for a family if that's the goal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 04:24 PM |
| 35 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersPlenty of them ended up in relationships. Do you really think there are no men in the restaurant industry in relationships? Some of them even have kids too 🤯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 04:12 PM |
| 15 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersWhat logical reason should women have to want to condemn themselves and whatever future children they may have to a life of poverty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:59 PM |
| 55 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersWhen I was in the restaurant industry in college all my co workers were fuckin each other like bunnies 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?"Just the fact that you're from here makes you "interesting" to them." They find them interesting the same way a stripper finds the club customers interesting. Also this notion that latin American women are "submissive" is hilarious to me based on my experience growing up around them and traveling in central/south america a lot. Like some of the craziest most hardcore bitches I've ever known were,Columbian, Costa Rican, and Brazilian women who werent putting up with ANY bullshit from a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:50 PM |
| 24 | Is it even possible to "fix" the issues around dating apps?How to fix dating apps- Step One- Get off dating apps. Now you're free! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 11:10 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think."There isn't a 12 year old girl on the planet who wants her teachers and coaches to leer at her sore, embarrassing breasts. Being saddled with the weight and responsibility of male sexual proclivities and behavior is a burden men will never know and never acknowledge." Yeess so much this!! I got banned from wearing shorts to school in 4th grade by my teacher and principle because "my legs are too long and it's gonna distract the male presence at school" and I just remember being like...but I'm..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?"There is no fun in "unraveling a person." That is called "vetting" and it is a chore you need to do to remove undesireables from your life." Hmm speak for yourself I had a blast with this stage of relationships when I was dating, it's like the best part of it, it's honestly sad you see it as such a chore. I always saw "unraveling" someone as an adventure. Im still having fun learning more about my husband as we grow together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:30 AM |
| 6 | Why are men encouraging women to settle for men they aren’t attracted to when they know that women aren’t going to pour into a man she doesn’t like ?What efforts are you speaking of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:25 AM |
| 6 | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?The fact that men here see getting to know someone for any length of time as a "price" is so foreign and honestly pretty gross to me. I can't imagine getting into my relationship looking at the fun of unraveling a person as a "price". Like no wonder some of y'all are so unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:23 AM |
| -2 | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?That specified nothing. So you do think because a women had sex before that you should have free access to her body right when you want it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:17 AM |
| -2 | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?What effort are we speaking of here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:14 AM |
| -2 | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?To red pilled men it means they believe that because she had sex before that her body is now a free greenlight to be used by all men for the rest of forever right when they want it, and if she doesn't she is denying them their entitlements as men and they'll be salty about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:07 AM |
| – | Why should men believe you? Where are the bluepill success stories?Me and my husband got together without him being a red pilled douche. Most people I know are partnered up at this point 🤷🏻♀️ I assume mostly without red pill "philosophy". Most people are out here just living their lives and not on manosphere spaces trying to break down every human behavior into little boxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:00 AM |
| 11 | Why are men encouraging women to settle for men they aren’t attracted to when they know that women aren’t going to pour into a man she doesn’t like ?"Wow, sitting in the park and eating home made sandwiches. That is really going to the end of the Earth. Do you see why we don't care?" Y'all get mad when women want expensive dates, then y'all get mad when women are fine with cheap dates like sandwiches at the park. What do you guys want exactly?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 01:55 AM |
| 6 | What is it like for locals in non-Western poor and conservative countries?What do you mean, what jobs do older women lose in Panama?? I was just there last year there were plenty of "post wall" women working various jobs.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 05:27 AM |
| 13 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Looks like the guy you're talkng to posts on Reddit 40-80 times a day. He's not gonna tell you were he "meets" all the women who are all over him because he's making it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 07:23 PM |
| 4 | If two guys go for a woman at the same time, what could you do to make her choose you?I had a friend trying to decide between two guys pursuing her not too long ago. One friend of ours said to check their Instagram following to decide. Dude one was following like over 200 porn stars, guy 2 was following friends, family, hobby/art/music accounts. She went with guy 2. Solid advice from friend honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:25 PM |
| – | I don't think women should have "no porn" policies unless it's an addiction or causes problems for her or is cheating, I don't think it's right for men to be denied thatAnd you act like just because something is available that you have to click on it, pull your dick out, and pop one off to the thing you're here whining about. As per your own quote- "I stop watching porn if the woman stops looking at social media" You're not even willing to stop. I don't take you seriously anymore than I would someone who bitches about societies drug problems who then goes and buys a little baggie of shit from their neighborhood drug dealer every day. You actively fund the "prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I don't think women should have "no porn" policies unless it's an addiction or causes problems for her or is cheating, I don't think it's right for men to be denied thatMen are the ones who want porn, desperately according to the very comments on this thread. Even the "free" sites make millions and millions of dollars a year through ad revenue. Men absolutely do not say they don't want women making porn, they very much so want them making it. Women wouldn't make it of it didn't pay, and it pays because men want it, and they're willing to pay for it through subscriptions or clicks on tube sites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 10:24 PM |
| 9 | I don't think women should have "no porn" policies unless it's an addiction or causes problems for her or is cheating, I don't think it's right for men to be denied thatI wouldn't have such an issue with porn if men weren't so hateful and disrespectful towards the women who put in the labor to make the porn they enjoy. Having orgasms to women in porn and then turning around and complaining about how damaged the woman are and how they don't deserve any kind of decent life after making porn is such a fucked up paradox of male sexuality I can't get down with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 08:18 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about the SMV flip?Uh, the guy who isnt you fucking your woman in front of you would be the alpha. This is some weird cuck fantasy shit. But you do you 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 07:18 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about the SMV flip?So your plan is to act like a little whiny boy when she doesn't treat you right, then stay with her after she cheats and treat her like shit while she's off getting side dick from someone probably less whiny? Yeah real alpha shit right there 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 06:54 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about the SMV flip?Soooo considering all that, what exactly do you think you have to offer a woman? Like from her perspective, what would motivate her to want to be with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 05:05 PM |
| 11 | What do you think about the SMV flip?Oh boy, you're really just making the argument on why women should avoid late bloomer men. Be real, would YOU ever want to date a woman holding on to this much bitterness and resentment from their youth that you now gotta jump through hoops to soothe and probably fail to soothe despite your efforts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys.My cousin was really into dating guys twice her age when she was like 19. She never went to college, is severely bi polar, and was molested by older men from her church a lot when she was a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Switching around "Commitment" for "Sex" may allow more empathy between the sexes?Oh man, hate to tell ya but Christians are like the biggest offenders. My cousin was raped by her families church leader when she was 11. My husband's christian family had a girl come out that a family member had molested her for years and guess what, the disowned HER for causing problems and "causing drama". My church i grew up in had multiple charges child molesters in the congregation and absolutely nobody gave a shit, just let them continue creepin. Not to mention all the scandals the Cathol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 10:04 PM |
| 9 | Switching around "Commitment" for "Sex" may allow more empathy between the sexes?Aaaah all this. 10-15% of girls get molested/raped as children, you'd think all these men who claim to want virgins would be enraged that so many women come out of childhood with it forcefully taken from them but...silence. Girls and teens also see how much attention and money slutty women get, even from married men and then men are SHOCKED when other young women do exactly what these men want them to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:13 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?Cuz a lot of men suck at taking care of themselves. I know for a fact my dad would have died over a decade ago if my mom wasn't around 100% managing his diet and medications and holding his hand through a lot of other self care stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:22 PM |
| 7 | Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himselfA few reasons -Considerably higher rates of domestic violence statistically. I know multiple women who went through it on some level with their army vet partners. -PTSD ain't nothing to fuck with. Recently helped a friend move out of her army vet now ex boyfriends house because he freaked the fuck out during an argument they had and he pulled out a gun and pointed it at her. She moved out next day while he was at work cuz it scared her so bad. She also had been enduring other intense mentally il… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 01:56 AM |
| 4 | Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself" he said he was an army vet and she immediately pressed the red button. they asked why and she said, "lmao idk! army guys are just weird" Can't really blame her on that one I wouldn't want to date former army either 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himselfHmmm I thought men liked to have variety, you know, "spreading their seed". Should you not be stoked that you're not tied down by this one women who got the ick and you are now free go seek more variety? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?Why is looking at things from ancient human perspectives productive in any way? We're soo far removed from all that, we have little evidence of these people's day to day lives, so much of it is guessing. Chances are they were "civilized" in some form even if it looked different than our modern ways. The list of animals that have sex for pleasure like us is very small, most wait until they are ready to make get pregnant and then stop until ready again. We're supposed to be a logical species, mind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 02:41 AM |
| 2 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsYou do realize that those women were probably bullies themselves. I was an awkward autistic girl who got ruthlessly bullied by girls, those girls dated their shithead bully male counterparts. They rewarded behavior they saw in themselves. Birds of a feather and all that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 02:17 AM |
| 2 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsThe girls who bullied me in grade school never seemed to have issues getting male attention, the dated and fucked the boy bullies who were in the same "cool crowd". Like is this a shock to anyone? Bullies of both genders tend to run in the same crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 02:07 AM |
| 6 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?Yeah but y'all forget the logic that just because y'all have infinite sperm doesn't mean y'all have infinite money or time or capacity to be dealing with infinite baby mamas and children needing things and attention from you so your kids grow up well adjusted. Plus a lot of these men claiming to want to "spread their seed" are using condoms, demanding birth control or demanding abortions, they just want the sex part they don't actually want to make as many babies as the sex they want to have, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?Of sex? No. It does affect my ability to perceive someone as a grown mature adult though. What good reason is there for me to stay with someone who talks like a toddler regularly when there are many options of grown adults who communicate like an adult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 06:22 PM |
| 18 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?I've never disliked uncircumcised dicks so I can't really relate to that either. All genitals look fuckin weird to me, seeking out pretty genitals hasn't ever been on the agenda for me cuz I don't think any of them are particularly pretty I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:51 PM |
| 4 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?Oh, where at? I dated this guy like 12 years ago people weren't exactly discussing "icks" on tiktok back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?I guess I've just never seen any genitals that were "aesthetically pleasing" they all look pretty weird to me. I just view them as fleshy mechanisms for pleasure and bodily functions, not really for looking at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:41 PM |
| 85 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?I never understood the aversion to longer labia thing, it doesn't really change the functionality of anything? Biggest "ick" I ever got from an ex was that he used to use this weird baby/toddler voice whenever he would ask me for something. Told him many times I hated it, especially when he did it in public but he never stopped doing it. Not sure what media I consumed to make me weirded out by it it was just cringe as fuck. I wouldn't call that feminine though, it was childish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 02:13 PM |
| 5 | How would you know if your partner was cheating?Cheaters are sloppy as fuck a lot of times. Here's some ways I've personally seen people catch their cheating partner- They popped positive for an STD while being in what they thought was a monogamous relationship. Mutual friend found dating profile of cheating partner and sent her screen shots. My friend found a pair of panties that def weren't hers stuffed in her boyfriend's mattress. Other friend found eye lash extension in boyfriends bathroom that def wasn't hers (affair partners often like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 08:18 AM |
| 12 | Men having lower standards of cleanliness is not a "flaw"If you want to live like a slob you do you. I agree it doesn't make you a bad person, but it's certainly going to put a huge limit on the amount of women willing to be in a relationship/marriage with you 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 02:36 AM |
| -1 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?Back when I was a virgin at like 19 men wanted nothing to do with me, like would run for the hills when they found out I'd never had sex except for like 40+ year old dudes who would get overly excited and fetishy about it which creeped me the fuck out. I felt I had to lie to my first sexual partner about it cuz I didn't want him to freak out and leave, still don't think he knows he was my first to this day lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 12:09 AM |
| 14 | Ladies be honest, how many of you are truly interested in dating an older man?Yeah hard agree with this. My husband's dad is 14 years older than his mom and he's got all sorts of health problems from age as well as bad diet and she's still relatively healthy and in good shape. She's basically spending her retirement playing nurse for her sickly elderly husband and it's depressing as fuck cuz I know she wants to travel and do things older healthy people do but she's stuck. Also I want a LIFE partner, not someone who's gonna be elderly and dead in a couple decades. Plus wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:49 AM |
| – | I think one thing that scares men out of dating is how disposable they've realized they are as romantic/sexual partnersYeah cuz men never treat women like disposable objects 🙄 Thing is, now that women's financial freedoms aren't legally tied to their husbands or fathers, some men are now getting treated the way they've been treating women for the bulk of history and they don't like it. And before you come at me with "but women file for divorce more 🥺" yes we are well aware that y'all are down to keep women around as house servants/child care takers/sex objects long after men have checked out of relationships emo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeWhere are you getting 1% from?? Approximately 1 out of 36 kids are bor with autism as it is, that's more than 1% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeEdit-bro even your own source agrees with me "men in their 40s have a sixfold increase." Ooh it's higher than that https://www.healthline.com/health-news/does-older-sperm-cause-autism https://www.spectrumnews.org/news/risk-of-autism-spikes-for-children-of-older-men/ https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/295063 There's more if you want it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeWaiting till youre 50 to reproduce is a great way to make sure your kid comes out autistic. I know a couple of men who had kids with 20 something year old women and every single one of their kids is autistic as fuck. Not sure why y'all think your sperm doesn't degrade with age cuz it absolutely does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:33 PM |
| – | Women, if you’re fatter than your dating profile pics, let people know or use newer photosI don't think this is a problem for just women, a friend of mine sent me screenshots of one of my exes dating profiles a not too long ago to laugh at and every single one of his pictures was 10-12 years old. He's considerably older looking with less hair now in person lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:04 AM |
| 13 | What do you consider cheating?Yeah that's the vast vast majority of Instagram accounts women and everyone else have, just pictures of their lives, friends, family, partners, pets, food, blah blah blah, usually set to private. Most people aren't posting half naked pics on IG, my recommended content is all hobby shit I like, gardening, and cats being funny, no titties and ass or OF promoting cuz thats not the content I seek out. If you only see tits and ass that's because that's the kind of content you spend your time viewing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 05:24 AM |
| 15 | What do you consider cheating?Which girls?? I know plenty of women who post their partners on ig and other social media if they have them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 03:39 AM |
| 26 | What do you consider cheating?Can I just ask, is there a reason why some of you guys who are so worried about your girlfriend going to bars to be shady don't just go to the bars and clubs with your girlfriend?? Me and my husband go out to see live music and socialize pretty frequently, when we want to go out we just go out together?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?My husband has moved with me to these places and has also not had trouble meeting new people and making friends and he's a man 🤷🏻♀️ all his friends are also dudes and they made friends too. Not sure what's stopping you exactly. It's as difficult as you make it I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?I think someone who says they got a special message from a magical being nobody else can see or hear who then goes and points a sword in someone's face and says they have to follow exactly what they heard the magical being say or else Ill kill you is mental illness. That's literally how religions get formed, and people either follow it because they don't want to be killed by said mentally ill person, or they follow because they can't cope with their own mortality and need the religion as a crutc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?There's nothing natural about modern day religion 🤣 I mean sure if you just throw out everything in history that isn't modern Abrahamic faiths that people were forced into following through extreme violence and colonization. Nothing natural about any of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?This is some appeal to history fallacy shit that just doesn't hold water. If your model was the natural default we wouldn't need to constantly lecture people and push religion with the threat of hellfire if they didn't behave, they'd just fall in line naturally. There have been many cultures throughout history that were more open/relaxed sexually. The individualistic nuclear family concept is pretty new, thousands of years ago children were raised communally many places by both neighbors and ext… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Is it more difficult?? I've moved towns twice in the last four years and haven't had any issues making friends in either place. I don't see why it would be harder now than before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Hmm I enjoy meeting people and making new friends so that's never been a "problem" to me. Being able to socialize and network is important for a lot of things in life, not just for finding a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:22 PM |
| – | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Me comment mentioned nothing about standards or expectations so I'm not sure what youre going off about. Did you respond to the wrong comment?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:12 PM |
| 6 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?I always dated men from my friend groups, ended up marrying one of them eventually 🤷🏻♀️ why do you think you shouldnt? It's literally the best way to vet I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Well yeah duh of course, it's pretty well documented in the world of psychology that purity culture fucks up sex for a lot of women. Plus why would you want to have sex with men who secretly or even not so secretly hate you while being stoked that their magic dick is ruining you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 07:52 PM |
| 12 | Do you believe in the idea of "just be her first?"Yeah I wouldn't get back with the first guy I ever had sex with if he begged me, he's changed so much over the years I dont even find him attractive anymore. And he definitely was not the best lay I would ever go on to have 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Considering how many men in these spaces believe sex with a man literally devalues or "soils or ruins" a woman as I've heard it so gracefully articulated and yet they intentionally try and have sex with a lot of women anyway even though they think it permanently harms them and makes them worth less makes male sexuality pretty demonic if you believe that's really a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 07:17 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.And I'm saying OP is absolutely free to date whoever he wants for whatever reason he wants, but he will find that there are many people who don't see sex as something that requires "forgiveness" or "accountability" because they don't inherently view sex as something harmful or criminal like the OP obviously does. Why are y'all so hung up on the opinions others have on your preferences? I could say I'll only date men who are 6'5, 8in dick with a 7 figure income who has never touched a boob before… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 07:16 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.Nobody is refuting anyone's right to have whatever preferences you want to have, obviously nobody can force you to associate with anyone you don't want to, but some of y'all are VASTLY overstating the difficulty promiscuous women have in finding a long term partner when they feel they are ready to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 07:00 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.Most normal well adjusted mentally healthy people don't view sex as some horrific sin that requires forgiveness from anyone. Literally the sluttiest women I went to high school and college with are married now. In college I used to know two twins who actually would compete with each other on how many men they could fuck, guess what one is now married to a successful movie producer and the other is married to a guy who made a lot of tech money and both men are attractive. Former and current porn … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 06:10 PM |
| – | Women consistently rate themselves as being far more attractive than they are, and despite what people here say men rarely do thisSee this is what women have been saying, mens attraction to us means nothing because y'all will literally fuck anything or anyone. This fact alone It makes attention from men about as valuable as a call from a telemarketer or a south asian scammer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 05:22 PM |
| 21 | How can men prevent sexless, transactional or “bait & switch” marriages or long term relationships?I had a guy dead bedroom me once, I just broke with him up and moved out. Not having kids helps make for a clean break so I guess get a vasectomy so you don't have to worry about that part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.That's definitely not true, I care about a lot of things I have an abundance of. If that many men are that capable of "not caring about starving bastards" then why should women care either. We'll just simply choose to not birth them 🤷🏻♀️ at least then there won't be starving kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.If all it takes for men to not care about kids starving is to be physically attractive then....what does that say about men lol. Why would being unattractive make someone care about kids all of a sudden? Guess what a lot of average and ugly dudes don't care about being dad's either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:35 PM |
| 7 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.??? I asked you, I already stated in my op that I'm not having any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 07:57 AM |
| 11 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.How many kids you have so far? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 07:54 AM |
| 6 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?I said nothing about it being against their will. Women should voluntarily stop providing kids since so many men don't want any responsibility in the matter. Like why bother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 07:18 AM |
| 3 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?Who's coercing anyone sexually? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 07:14 AM |
| 3 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?I'm just looking out for the men so they don't get baby trapped and forced to pay child support 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 07:10 AM |
| 4 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?K? I didn't say there wouldn't be anyone to sell eggs, I said you would have to deal with women to purchase those eggs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:19 AM |
| 20 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.More and more people, especially men it seems increasingly don't want to pay for or take care of kids anymore and women don't want to risk being single moms so they give birth less and less. Not really sure what you can do to fix that. I never want to have kids I don't want to deal with all the potential bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:16 AM |
| 5 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?"mature men will be able to have kids with out ever dealing with a women" Paying women for their eggs is dealing with women lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:02 AM |
| 3 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?I'm not being sarcastic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:13 AM |
| 3 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?I really do feel for you dudes, it's not fair to expect y'all to pay for the offspring you make or to be involved in any way. I absolutely think women should stay aborting every pregnancy that is conceived from here on out so y'all can be free from this potential burden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:04 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Although it should remain legal, it is immoral for a woman to remain pregnant if the man doesn’t want the child.Women should absolutely just start aborting every pregnancy that ever occurs from here on out for y'all so you will never have to worry about having to pay a dime for a kid you made ever again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?Mentally healthy, well adjusted people don't view sex or marriage as a tool of using people. Lots of men have fun in their twenties and still argue they should be able to cheat one sided so that argument doesn't really work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:40 AM |
| 5 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?If men want to sleep around, go for it whatever. We're talking about people who get into relationships/marriages who want to have one sided open relationships. I'm saying if you want to fuck a bunch of people don't bother being in a relationship or be in a double sided open relationship. Men are free to get what they want, just don't expect women to sit around taking care of your kids and shit while youre out banging whores 🤷🏻♀️ you'll just end up getting "divorce raped" and then you'll be on h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:28 AM |
| 11 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?Sucks to suck in your twenties I guess 🤷🏻♀️ Life isn't fair, if you don't want to settle in your peak then dont. But chances are if women were THAT repulsed by you in your twenties, it's probably not gonna get that much better later on. Men don't usually get more attractive, they just get more gold-diggable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:03 AM |
| 10 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?I mean, I assume he wants her to be faithful too, that's usually the exchange. Most of these men want one sided open marriages on their end though. Why even get married in the first place if youre just gonna cheat, piss your wife off, then deal with the drama of divorce. Or just be in straight up open marriages on both ends 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 02:44 AM |
| 12 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?With that logic, why should women limit themselves to just one? Whats her incentive if she's got endless options? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 02:37 AM |
| 57 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?Men feel entitled to do whatever they want, and men also feel entitled to women doing whatever men want. Like that's it that's the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:58 AM |
| – | Any tips to avoid being betabuxx?By never having any buxx and instead being a betasuxx. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:48 AM |
| 7 | What's the difference, in principle and in morals, between pump-and-dump and serial monogamy?Hmmm so you think people who get into long term relationships are immoral and people who have endless causal sex till they die are more moral? Interesting take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:46 AM |
| 15 | What's the difference, in principle and in morals, between pump-and-dump and serial monogamy?Well first off you're assuming that all "serial monogamist" always go into long term relationships with the intent to leave in a few months, which isn't usually the case I feel, pump and dumpers pretty much always have the intent to bail immediately and go into that situation knowing they will ghost afterward. A lot of people (not all of course we are doing blanket statements for sake of discussion) who jump into relationships frequently do often intend to make it work long term at first but the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 11:18 PM |
| 5 | How do you think you guys will handle it once it's over and you're settled down?The irony is if OP caves into his urges and bails on his family he'd later be on here crying about getting "divorce raped" and having to pay child support for his kids and red pillers would be laughing at how his ex is now a worthless ruined post wall single mom and it's also all definitely her fault somehow even though according to the RP she did everything "right" by getting married pre-wall and building up a red pilled dude and staying faithful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 08:32 PM |
| 6 | How do you think you guys will handle it once it's over and you're settled down?Dunno if you noticed but red pillers here aren't usually big advocates of women "building themselves" or being educated. Most of them their women dependent and "submissive" to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 07:26 PM |
| 8 | How do you think you guys will handle it once it's over and you're settled down?Where did OP say anything about how his wife looked? Did I miss that part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:24 PM |
| 5 | How do you think you guys will handle it once it's over and you're settled down?Yeep all this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:35 PM |
| 15 | How do you think you guys will handle it once it's over and you're settled down?This post is a perfect example of "if you build him, he will leave." Way too often when women try to build a life with a man young he immediately gets the urge to bail when he reaches success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | You're not forced to be with women who don't want you.Sry nobody wants you to put it in their butt 😢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 04:43 PM |
| 2 | You're not forced to be with women who don't want you.Yoooo I cannot even fathom resenting my husband for not wanting to repeat a sex act he had a bad/painful/traumatic experience with before that's insane and completely lacking empathy. this attitude so many of y'all seem to have is rapey as hell wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 04:57 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe average age of marriage 200 years ago was 22 for women and 25 for men. The whole young teens getting married regularly back then thing is largely a myth. Not saying it never happened but it wasn't as common as people try and say it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:17 PM |
| 6 | Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive?Hmm I don't really see how your wife helping out with a family business is being "submissive" but I dont know you're day to day dynamic so okay. Me and my husband help each other out with our business stuff all the time, but never think of it as either of us "submitting" lol that's just being in a relationship where you have common complimentary goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive?I mean, being submissive by definition makes you weaker than the person you are submitting to. Semantics I guess. Someone who always puts their partners needs and wishes above their own is absolutely more vulnerable to abuse than people who are more assertive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive?I mean its just kinda common sense if you know how abusers operate do you really need studies? Abusers seek out people who will take their shit over people who won't take their shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 05:00 PM |
| 14 | Ladies (non-exclusively), what are your thoughts on population collapse?Its Schrodinger's woman in the redpill, we are all baby feverish fiends desperately trying to get knocked up and baby trap some poor unsuspecting man who now has to pay evil child support when he just wanted casual sex while were also simultaneously evil baby hating witches refusing to fulfill our reproductive duty and collapsing society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Ladies (non-exclusively), what are your thoughts on population collapse?I don't really care for humans too much, creating more of them feels deeply counterintuitive. Besides that I've just simply never met a mother who's life I envied or admired or wanted, even mothers with money and supportive husbands and families. It's never appealed to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:47 AM |
| 14 | Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”?Straight men fully understand consent real fuckin quick whenever a gay man gropes them/feels them up/aggressively hits on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of women say that men like b*tc3s?They were pretty normal dudes. She's dating a guy with a six figure income rn and she's actually stuck with this one for a while, we shall see how it goes. I don't get it but if it works it works I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 06:48 AM |
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