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DiscussionSade_061102/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:45 PM
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Undoing failed contraception (an abortion) is different from stopping failed contraception
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:26 PM
1

How exactly does she stop it? By this logic men would also too (e.g. condoms)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:14 AM
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You can’t exactly stop failed contraception
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:53 AM
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That’s like saying you wouldn’t discuss living together until you already live together. You should be talking about children and unplanned pregnancies before they occur. It’s more so damage to the relationship. Relationships should be built on trust, if you don’t trust your partner and think they’ve been cheating, many people would rightly end the relationship there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:52 AM
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Speak to your partner, this is such a silly comment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:49 AM
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Women’s eggs are created early so they don’t drop in quality, in line with this, disabilities (especially genetic conditions) are much more common from older men than old women, so it’s very much the other way round
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:48 AM
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I mean looking at success of marriage and offspring health, couple close in age have much better outcomes. Additionally, men should not be having children after 45, it’s long been linked to serious disabilities and complications, so while they physically can, it can (and in many cases will) contribute to disabilities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:46 AM
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Plenty of men in this sub in fact do not know this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:37 PM
1

You usually need to try something sexually to know you don’t like it so this just isn’t logical
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:34 PM
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I have convos like that before everyone I sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:30 PM
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Heavy on this, most women will have their own problems, often times bigger problems than just dating. I simply don’t have the time, nor the energy, nor the care to fix someone else’s issues
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:16 PM
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That alone would not account for such a large difference
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:49 AM
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Interesting, I’m not sure why these studies have found different findings to most other research
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:48 AM
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If this were the case, women would attempt things like murder or sexual assault at somewhat similar rates, but this isn’t the case
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:29 PM
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You specifically said it’s not a gendered issue, but it clearly is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:49 AM
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Where did I say it was good or healthy? We know why the same women are raped already, individual vulnerabilities, e.g. women with disabilities, ethnic minorities, queer woman, all things that are not a moral failing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:48 AM
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Ignoring the fact that in dating, it’s predominantly men towards women is silly, it is a gender based, that’s just a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:44 AM
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Being raped more than once isn’t uncommon and is actually a really common shared experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:43 AM
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Why? Do you prefer women who play games
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:51 AM
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That sounds like a problem with you then that you need to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:34 AM
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There’s a lot of research that one of the core aspects to people who rape is entitlement, the core of the nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:26 PM
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That doesn’t make it right 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:17 PM
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Personally, I reject people who aren’t looking for the same thing as me, I.e. casual sex, we are not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:16 PM
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Personally, I don’t see how the response and problem is disproportionate when r@pe is one of the outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:10 PM
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Black people are in fact an ethnic minority in many places
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:47 PM
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By strangers, but total violence by others aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:46 PM
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I don’t know why you think not much coding was needed, especially in like astrophysics, books upon books of just pure coding
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:44 PM
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Ethnic minorities see more violence than non ethnic minorities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:42 PM
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There are too many factors to say, in places like the uk aswell, men experience violence more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:42 PM
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I absolutely have met people like that, hell, there are people like that who have done much much worse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:41 PM
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Because if men are putting effort in, why can’t they befriend and support one another?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:39 PM
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All the fields require logic, that’s how analysis and evaluation works. I should be more specific perhaps with computer science, computer coding machines for maths, physics (especially astrophysics), and any data analysis, was all considered women’s work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:47 AM
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Except like….psychology….biology….chemistry….medicine…and until very recently computer science
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:34 AM
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I disagree with this, while women seek help more, research accounting for that as well as biological correlates to depression all indicate that depression effects women much more at much higher rates
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:32 AM
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I haven’t seen any research that shows men are more likely to suffer from depression, depression is linked to higher estrogen levels and lower testosterone levels for both men and women, it’s also highly linked to anxiety, human fight or flight system, which we know is notoriously heightened in women, hence why 80% of autoimmune cases are from females. Females are more than twice as likely to attempt suicide, and much more likely to self harm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:29 AM
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This here, men need to learn how to foster strong platonic relationships, even with just other men. As a separate point, Women with higher sex drives are still able to get on with life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:23 AM
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If you asked and they agreed, no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:20 AM
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This is a big difference I’ve noticed between men and women, women who have good social networks while single will not see themselves as being “lonely”, however I know lots of men with lots of male friends who say they’re lonely because they don’t have a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:19 AM
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You don’t need to Center either, life should be a balance of romantic, platonic, and familial relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:12 AM
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Their point is, why are men also not befriending men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:10 AM
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I’ve seen a lot of the opposite, for things like not smiling or manners, “dating”, or “immature” behaviours, or becoming dirty, girls are punished more harshly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:08 AM
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If this is a nerve among men, why don’t you befriend one another? Most women have slightly more (or in some cases a lot more) women in their support system than men in their support system
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:06 AM
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I disagree that decentering for women is brief, you can still date while decentering men, the point is that many girls grow up believing that everything they do needs to be done with the purpose of attracting or making a man/men happy, which is just unhealthy. Instead of focusing your whole happiness on how many people you can attract or get (which I see a lot of young men do), the point is that romance and dating is one aspect of your life and not the centre of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:01 AM
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This isn’t necessarily true and imo is stigmatising, as someone with GAD and ASD, I can absolutely see how I was a living hell to be around untreated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:55 AM
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A healthy stable and non toxic person would not chase toxic men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:52 AM
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You don’t have to mistreat someone to be toxic, simply turning a blind eye to abuse or evident red flags, and making excuses for bad behaviour, as well as not communicating with your partner when you have an issues (perhaps because of how they’ll react), is toxic in itself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:51 AM
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Can you link the study please? This is absolutely not the case from the research I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:44 AM
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I mean the quote is very very true, when gay people were allowed in media and to get married for example, so many heterosexual people started saying that they were being “oppressed”, many still do
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/24 04:29 AM
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Why do I need to ask other black ppl
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/24 04:26 AM
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I think this is just your bias
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/24 07:58 AM
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In real life, on Reddit, on social media’s such as fb and instagram
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/24 07:31 PM
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I’ve experienced both, being objectified felt way better than being ignored and or bullied for not being attractive
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/24 05:39 PM
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I see misandry spoken about more than all of those combined
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/24 05:30 PM
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Never said that or anything similar
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:37 PM
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Find me these men with extremely high libido men coz none of the ones I come across will go more than 4 rounds
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:04 AM
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I agree, it asserts her femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:58 AM
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They’ve don’t studies into this, their is an effect on both men and women, although not majorly, the correlation is actually stronger in men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:57 AM
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I mean that was literally one of my points but okay, also tho, this isn’t unique to dating, it could failing an exam or test or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:26 PM
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You literally just agreed with me in the first half of your comment. As the second half, we test latent variables every single day by constructing scales of multi items for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:43 PM
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When we test this, we find that this isn’t true, women significantly consistently show more rejection sensitivity than men, including in dating/relationships. If someone is very significantly highly [rejection] sensitive, having only one way to get something you want doesn’t mean you’ll be able to do it, Example: we see people who get tattoos designs they don’t like, or are the wrong size/orientation purely for the fact they were too scared to tell the artist when ask if the stencil is okay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:49 AM
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Most people don’t live in tribes luv, and some modern tribes out there aren’t aggressive, including the men (arapesh and chambuli)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:12 AM
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Which goes back to my first point, if they’re both working around 40 hours a week (as most do), why does most of the housework fall on women just because they earn less? It is not true that paid/unpaid work added up, men do more, we also consistently see men having more weekly free leisure time than women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:10 AM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/345821241_A_positive_relationship_between_body_height_and_the_testosterone_response_to_physical_exercise#:~:text=Despite%20being%20a%20sexually%20dimorphic,et%20al.%2C%202021)%20. https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/physiology/articles/10.3389/fphys.2018.01373/full https://www.vice.com/en/article/qvqvpp/this-is-how-much-testosterone-actually-affects-muscle-growth https://youtu.be/AhNkSdrIYzg?si=yE8F2OxAXzy64Ovd https://tctmed.com/gynecomastia/amp/ https:…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:51 AM
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But when women work MORE hours, they still do MORE HW, so that isn’t a “fair share” because she’s working equal or more hours than him and doing more HW, even with avg working hours, women work more at home than the couple of hours of extra paid work that men do, so yes, that is the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:26 AM
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If they’re not attracted to the man why would they complain about not having enough sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:25 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:24 PM
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There are plenty of studies that back what I’m saying as well as filmed ones online, it’s very well documented
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:11 PM
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The argument was if he’s earning more, why should he be doing the same amount of housework, so yes, it could be all, often times it is almost all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:10 PM
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Except studies don’t show that women have lower iq, they do show worse visuospatial skills, idk about spatial reasoning tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:46 PM
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If that were the case, women wouldn’t complain about dead bedrooms or not getting enough sex in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:37 PM
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This isn’t true at all, many times, women will want to approach someone, we’re often too scared because we tend to take rejection much worse than men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:36 PM
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Male gaze vs female gaze, what women view as attractive men isn’t the same as what men view as attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:29 PM
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In the past tho, the ideology is that men need protection by being with a man, we now know that this statistically isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:23 PM
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If hours are tho, it should
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:16 PM
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Because if you’re both working 40 hours a week, why is only one of you then doing all of the housework and child care?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:15 PM
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I think this is just a difference in what men and women value, women value hard work and time, but men on Reddit tend to value earnings over that, it’s just which is more important, and to women, it’s not as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:11 PM
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Feminism does push for it, doesn’t mean most women aren’t too scared to do it still
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:09 PM
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“Sexual dimorphism” as in there is a threshold that triggers male development, if you put a room full of biological men tho, height and jawline is not correlated to natural t levels
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:08 PM
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Idk about assumptive, it is directly related to aggression as well as lack of impulse and emotion control tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:05 PM
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There are plenty of studies of men ranking which men in a group have high to low T based off of looks, muscle, tempermant, ect, and found that there was 0 correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:04 PM
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Yeah, like common sense is “most women probably want men with optimal levels because it’s healthiest and has the least side effects”, is that really that difficult to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:02 PM
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I disagree, I think aggressiveness does objectively make you a worse person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:01 PM
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I don’t know many women who want a man with a low libido
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:00 PM
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High T isn’t associated with being tall, and naturally also isn’t associated with being stronger, high t also actually leads to loss of libido and gynaecomastia
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:58 PM
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Because it’s usually only brought up as a way to discredit something else, I.e. homophobia/pride or women’s MH week
/r/MensRights30/06/24 05:48 PM
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As someone who is level 1 and late diagnosed, I really can’t mask atall
/r/MensRights19/06/24 01:12 AM
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I think being able to function on your own is a fairly good measure of “general maturity” tho, so when it comes to living, I’d argue it really is just a lack. I guess you could argue reaching higher places and lifting heavier things (I’m very short and weak) as a skill set, but even then, that’s not exactly the biggest contribution. I do get what you mean by socialisation, but I don’t think that discounts what I’m saying, I think it’s just the possible cause, a lot of my female friends were doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:46 AM
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Yep, teen girls in my school were dating men 10+ years older already
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:31 AM
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Because I moved out at 18 and new how to do it all, along with all my female flatmates, because we were all expected to do everything for ourselves at home but so many of these guys had never used a hoover
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:19 PM
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Rebellious ≠ independence, you can be independent and take risks without being rebellious and breaking the law
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:16 PM
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Some do, the majority is mothers though, the same with family members/parents who get old and ill, it’s typically the women, especially daughters, that will care for them. I don’t think a lot of men sign up for diving to unclog pipes either, I’ve never met one in my entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:13 PM
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The average age men and women have their first child and/or the average age gap in marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:12 PM
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Usually it’s referring to puberty, which is true for most, a lot of my guy friends often share their experiences starting at around 13, compared to around 9 on average for my female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:09 PM
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I disagree, why do you need to have a “rebellious” phase to get your own shit together?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:04 PM
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I guess “mature” is kinda vague, there are many different types: Controlling and dealing with emotions? We see this ability often much earlier in females than males cross culturally Language/reading? It’s Very consistent (I know for the UK atleast) that girls can comprehend and reproduce language at a more advanced level in boys early on in life, the gap is about 6 months, which is very significant at these young ages These are just a couple of examples, but with that being said, 1. Boys catch u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:03 PM
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“Gross” jobs, I’d argue women, it doesn’t get more gross that cleaning up people after vomit, piss, and shit imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:51 PM
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I thought they would be capable, until I moved to uni in house of 20 year old men and a lot of them didn’t know how to function or just take care of house💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:50 PM
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As a woman, I think I can explain this because I’ve also seen this claim a lot, since ≈12, girls constantly have older guys flirting with them, saying how much more mature they are so that they’d be perfect together, when you’ve gone 10+ years of your life with older men telling you how mature you are for your age, you start to internalise and believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:48 PM
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You’d be doing different tasks, so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:36 PM
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Because equal contribution does not equal = money, if she’s working more hours than him and earns less she’s putting in way more than 50% contribution
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:24 PM
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Why would equal housework = sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:54 PM
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But when women work more, women still do more housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:53 PM
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If you look at statistics, in comparison they dont
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:52 PM
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If she’s earning 10k a year because she’s bearing your child, how do you expect her to pay 50%?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:51 PM
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This sounds like my worst nightmare EVER omg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:46 PM
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But studies done on rating attractiveness aren’t asking women to rate men compared to other men, theyre rating it on level of attractiveness. Example: let’s say you have a group of female models, if you ask men to rate their attractiveness, the average might be 8 or 9, BUT, if you’re asking about attractiveness in comparison to each other in that group, the average will be set at 5
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:06 PM
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You can’t just fake alot of things tho, you’ll honestly just end up miserable not being able to do the things you actually love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:00 PM
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So a women only liking the “top 30% of men” doesn’t have the same men the women next to her seems the top 30%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:12 AM
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No, because a 5 to one women is a 1 to another and a 9 to someone else due to how much variation there is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:11 AM
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A symmetric bell curve doesn’t mean it’s anymore “accurate” though, when rating attraction we typically use 5 as okay (not bad not good), we don’t use 5 to mean average. So just because a women views most men as not being acttractive, doesn’t mean her rating is any less accurate When it comes to “looks matching”, it doesn’t really work as what women typically find attractive is much more varied compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:47 AM
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I’m asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:33 AM
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It’s kinda the opposite, how men with that complex love an “innocent” Madonna, but if she expresses sexual desire or has a sexual past, she is a “whore”. He has sexual desire and wants to sleep with the “whore” to not ruin his view of his innocent “Madonna”, this has been seen a few times on the dead bedroom subreddit where men have said they can’t have sex with their wife because it “takes away their purity”. Once they sleep with the pure “Madonna”, she now becomes a whore and can’t be loved
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:17 AM
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What do you mean “accurate”? We need to differentiate between “mid looking” and “average”, as a women, when someone asks me to rate someone’s attractiveness, I use 5 to mean mid/okay looking, not average, this doesn’t mean it’s not accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:22 AM
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I agree, but I think 18 year olds are naive and childlike, instead of insulting and shaming them, we should educate them to make better decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:18 AM
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This, it wasn’t motivated by a man, o wanted sex then had to go find a male
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:14 AM
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Women literally run to bi men, it’s not the consensus that women are Ickes out by it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:05 AM
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If this is the case, why do they not apply those same standards to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:04 AM
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I think it’s the typical Madonna whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:03 AM
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I think they mean “be yourself” in the sense of don’t fake the person you are, youre likes and dislikes, that kinda stuff, don’t put on a whole new persona because then you have to keep that act up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:00 AM
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This is true, I have really close male friends but they have traits that means I would never date them, maybe they don’t say what’s on their mind enough or they don’t practice introspection, there are many things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:55 AM
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Because people are more than their body count, just because someone doesn’t know your body count, doesn’t mean they can’t love you for who you are. By your logic there, men don’t want to be loved, not by family, partners, or children
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:18 PM
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So surly you think it’s in women’s best interest to be dishonest so they can get what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:51 PM
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Why don’t you own your own views and opinions as part of you and your “journey”? Also, unconditional love isn’t real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:40 AM
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You’re not being punished for a women not wanting to be less attractive. Would you say it’s best then if women are dishonest about their body count with men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:34 PM
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Most people who are deemed overweight tho are not 600lbs, they’re very rarely even high than 200 Let alone 600
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:07 PM
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Majority of the women Ik prefer men with low body counts. Why do men want more women to sleep with them tho if it makes them unattractive? What I don’t understand is why a man would do something to a woman to make her more unattractive on purpose, yeah, I don’t get it? I don’t know if I’m explaining it well, but it’s like you’re perpetuating the thing you don’t like, example: a man complaining about so many single mothers yet he has 5+ baby mamas
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:03 PM
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I don’t know about 0 places, astrology used to be one of the dominant beliefs a few thousand years back, I’ve heard atleast among the Egyptians, it’s easy to assume some places kept up these same beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:53 PM
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Surely Because you wouldn’t want to increase your body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:49 PM
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By your logic either 1. Men Do not have morals, since you say a lot of men do, men must then 2. Act hypocritical and go against their own morals
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:45 PM
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I shall pass on the message 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:55 PM
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That’s exactly my point tho, because women naturally carry weight differently to men and differently to the beauty standard, what’s healthy is considered overweight to a significant portion of people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:48 PM
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That’s more of a logic thing, if you think body count matters, why would you want to sleep with someone unless you’re in a relationship with them? You wouldn’t, because you’d want to keep yours and others body counts low
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:46 PM
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A nihilist doesn’t mean you don’t have morals or moral reasoning, this also isn’t a discussion about who has moral superiority since that is largely subjective. This is that you’re saying men lie to justify actions they themselves consider immoral, which honestly, I really can’t relate to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:44 PM
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Ohhhh, I do it now occasionally, but only if I’ve been sleeping with someone a while. Tbh, most people don’t want to risk it when you have a jaw tic😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:32 PM
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The head thing??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:24 PM
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If we’re going by visual obesity, men and women are very equal, personally I notice way more overweight men than women, but that could just be my own bias
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:20 PM
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Not agreeing isn’t insulting, saying “Personally, I don’t really like football” is different from saying “you’re stupid for liking football”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:17 PM
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There are memes, podcasts, and videos making fun of all of this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:16 PM
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“Only stupid girls like astrology”, “why would you like that, it’s so immature”, “You should get a real hobby”. Maybe I’m doing it wrong, but I’ve spoken about logic and science on every single first date, maybe this is why I’m single💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:16 PM
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Being selective and being non-promiscuous are very different things, through most of history, men and women have both been promiscuous and not fully monogamous until around the agricultural revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:14 PM
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You say there’s no incentive for guys to be honest…idk, maybe morals and values?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:12 PM
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I’ve never met a guy who didn’t get laid coz he said he didn’t like astrology, infact most of the guys I’ve slept with havent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:12 PM
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This just sounds like men have no morals and are only looking for self interest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:11 PM
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Congrats for figuring out how algorithms work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:40 PM
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BMI isn’t at all accurate, especially if you’re a gym goer or an athlete, as well as if you’re not white. I’m a size 0-2 US, yet I’m classed as borderline overweight 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:38 PM
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This! Most men are ugly due to 1. Putting in little effort, and 2. Having a different sense of what makes a man attractive compared to women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:35 PM
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30% of hetero relationships, the women has the higher drive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:57 PM
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My own opinion, late 20s (unless you’re religious)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:51 PM
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That’s true, until about 15 thousand years ago, women weren’t really monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:47 PM
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A lot of the time, makeup is a requirement for work when it comes to women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:45 PM
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Disapproval is completely different from making fun and insulting someone. Also, how is one supposed to know if a man is dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:40 PM
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Also, the same thing is never said about religion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:39 PM
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Delusional beliefs and hobbies are two different things, I like astrology and crystals, doesn’t mean I believe in it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:39 PM
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Wb Taylor swift, boy bands, makeup, tv shows, romance fiction, shopping, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:36 PM
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On that point that, what men usually find attractive in men and what women tend to find attractive in men are different a lot of the time. A lot of men find masculine men the most attractive or “ideal”, but a lot of women tend to find men who are a little more androgynous more attractive, e.g. Harry styles, young leonardo dicaprio
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:51 PM
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I completely disagree, atleast from what I personally see, I have people I’ve voted 10/10, who others have voted 2/10
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:49 PM
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Part of the criteria for npd is that it disables you
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:47 PM
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I don’t know, only you can answer that question.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:46 PM
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It is infact both
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 06:58 PM
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Yh, I wanna know his source?
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:46 PM
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Because beauty is subjective and what many other men deem a 5 I’ll deem a 10, vice versa
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:45 PM
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You know that’s an illness, a disability, right?
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:45 PM
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As for your second paragraph, you’re talking about impulsivity, which isn’t just relevant to sexual desire, but general emotion
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:31 PM
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If you look at the subreddit, it’s around 50/50, maybe 40/60, so close to being equal, and then when you look at studies, higher libido is 30/70
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:28 PM
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Well that’s what the studies show🤷🏽‍♀️ also, just take one look at the dead bedroom sub and you’ll see it’s very very common
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 09:10 AM
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How come the split for a higher libido in Hetero couples then is 70 30?
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 02:09 AM
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Yet to meet a guy who masturbates more than 12x a day
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 02:05 AM
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Yh, fun fact, it can make women tired and nauseous
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 01:19 AM
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If that were the case, it wouldn’t pertain to masturbation
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 01:12 AM
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What? So meany posts on there are from wives
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 01:12 AM
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All men I’ve spoken to have, the maximum I’ve heard is 4x a day. Take a look at the dead bedroom sub and explain that coz obviously you’re wrong
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 01:06 AM
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So what’s ur explanation about men wanting less sex/masturbation
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 12:53 AM
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I do, I just have self control and discipline, that’s all, I don’t simply let my feelings and emotional guide me
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 12:46 AM
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I’m not fucking just one guy, and I meant even with friends who I don’t sleep with, and most answers I get from guys in general
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 12:45 AM
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If I had less than a thousand, how come men masturbate and want sex at a lower frequency than me?
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 12:35 AM
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No, because I still have self control, I’m able to stay logical, but again, never met a guy higher than me, even on snris
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 12:33 AM
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PCOS (high testosterone) kills libido In women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:25 PM
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Just like T, there’s an optimum level Of E, high tesisterone completely kills libido way more than estrogen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:23 PM
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Because sex is pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:21 PM
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Even if you look at studies, there’s a big difference in libido between man - man, compared to man - women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:19 PM
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Equally, so does estrogen, hence why they treat with estrogen first, then tesosterone as secondary treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:18 PM
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Female and I’ve never met a man with a higher libido than me
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 09:16 PM
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I think it’s coz you called it disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:33 PM
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Yh this is soooo true, but no one wants this convo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:58 AM
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Correct, I am not white
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:57 PM
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As long as we communicate that we’re not dating or anything and we’re not exclusive, then I’d say it’s casual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:05 AM
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Not necessarily 🤷🏽‍♀️ could be just sex then leave, I’ve become friends with some who I hang out with outside just cause we’re legitimate friends, but there’s no obligation to meet outside of the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:03 AM
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Other men telling me not to trust any man and I’m not allowed a boyfriend till I’m in my 20s coz they’re all dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:54 AM
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Is this whole sub not men slut shaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:50 AM
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If I say I’m having casual sex with someone, I mean I’m regularly hooking up with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:47 AM
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Hanging out and going on a date are completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:46 AM
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No, no, please don’t lump us all in😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:42 AM
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There’s a link between porn addiction and ED
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:40 AM
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What people don’t mention is in the same study men were found to be chasing the top 20-30% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:39 AM
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Women have a higher libido 30% of the time compared to their male partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:38 AM
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Men don’t shrink tho? So that’s not rlly relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:07 PM
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How men who aren’t those things get picked then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:26 PM
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We have social dominance yes, but nothing like beta or alpha, a heavy basis of the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:10 PM
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You said redpill accept biology, yet they constantly push the idea that men are meant to have multiple women but women can only have one man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:10 PM
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It’s specific to weight gain and height, the examples you gave have nothing to do with weight gain or height?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:49 PM
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If fwb isn’t in the friend zone, the friend zone would pretty much just be “friends why I’m not attracted to” vs fwb “friends im somewhat attracted to”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:48 PM
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Fwb are friends, not a relationship at all, fwb literally are just friends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:46 PM
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Look at our closest living primates now, they don’t form monogamous relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:44 PM
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And we don’t have alpha and beta in humans OR wolves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:43 PM
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Bro, women were not monogamous in pre agricultural earth, we were way more egalitarian and didn’t have set jobs for genders
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:43 PM
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They don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:41 PM
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Sometimes I’ll have a random burts of confidence and self esteem (like a few hours), or it’s completely fake and a facade (9x/10)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:00 PM
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Ig maybe “fake confidence, arrogance” is rlly what can be detected
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:51 PM
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Women still do not get more money tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:47 PM
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The feminist movement advocates for body positivity anyway (with reason of health ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:45 PM
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There are hundreds of examples of men leaving their literal wives because they gained some weight after literally just giving birth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:44 PM
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You can fuck in the friend zone, just become fwb? It’s depends what you want tho, relationship or sex🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:41 PM
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The red pill literally rejects almost all modern psychology, biology, and history
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:39 PM
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Wow, I’ve found someone with a sane, reasonable, and non sexist answer, crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:37 PM
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But the red pill actively rejects biology and pre agricultural human culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:34 PM
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I live in the uk, I see like none of it applicable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:33 PM
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I think it’s just an internet, sexist, incel thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:32 PM
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Examples of these double standards you talk of
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:31 PM
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I don’t understand how that correlates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:11 PM
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Most women go for men within 5 years of their age, larger age gaps have a 90+% separation rate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:30 PM
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So would you be ok with your wife in the future doing the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:28 PM
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If you hire house cleaners and babysitters, then what are your responsibilities and how are you gonna pay for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:08 PM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:44 PM
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Yes, this is just common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:39 PM
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Obviously otherwise people wouldn’t be doing biology or psychology degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:08 AM
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When did you stop going for women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:04 PM
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Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:03 PM
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Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:02 PM
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Yes, I used anecdotal evidence because you said scientific evidence wasn’t valid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:02 PM
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I don’t believe I can continue conversing with you since you continue to deny science
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:01 PM
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The whole scientific method doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:57 PM
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Nope, I’m just superior
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:56 PM
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I don’t so I must be genetically superior
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:15 PM
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It’s not just what I’ve read but what I’ve seen, I’ve seen people admit to rape, police and via msg but that’s not enough evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:14 PM
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Because you think most female were monogamous gatherers when biology and archaeology literally disproves this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:14 PM
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Our ancestors and primates do not mate the same since they largely engaged in group sex and homosexuality (especially in females)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:12 PM
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Ok, most women want to have more than one sexual partner, that therefore must be due to underlying genes by your logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:12 PM
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Again, proving my point you knkw nothing about biology
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:10 PM
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Humans aren’t polygamous, we’re polyamorous, hence why all of our ancestors and primates rarely even form relationships, women for long had multiple sexual partners as it created more sexual competition
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:10 PM
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Most rapists that are reported are known and found by the police and there’s evidence, you can look all of this stuff up with a little research I don’t get why you can’t, even if a rapists admits to rape, that’s not enough evidence for a conviction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:08 PM
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You clearly don’t since you clearly don’t believe in evolution or biology
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:07 PM
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If you expect someone to always put u first before their own health then I think you need a reality check
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:06 PM
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That’s not true at all what😂 I’m not being dishonest I’m just being realistic and objective
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:05 PM
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Also I think you’re confused about what autism spectrum is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:04 PM
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Well then what’s the point in talking to women if we all want “chad”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:03 PM
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But you’re only talking about how men value men and what they want in men, women value men for sex as well as being capable of domestic house duties, he could earn 10k a year, it doesn’t matter he’s still high value from a womens perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:03 PM
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You said that’s what I expect, so show me evidence that I expect it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:59 PM
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I mean earlier on you said you should satisfy your partner as it’s your duty, therefor if a wife wants more sex that inidicates her husband is failing her, if it’s biological, she wouldn’t want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:59 PM
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Science, biology, medicine, psychology, and archaeology disagree with you my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:56 PM
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Scientific research shows men aren’t way hornier than women, example, 30% of women are hornier than the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:55 PM
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How come 30% of hunters were women then? How come female aren’t monogamous? How come male genetalia is adapted to remove other mens sperm?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:54 PM
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Ok, I know you know nothing about biology or evolution because women aren’t innately monogamous and we literally see this with the way the male body has adapted to this reality 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:52 PM
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Exactly, if the court cared about the truth they’d actually be convicting the rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:51 PM
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Again, if with evidence a rapist is insanely unlikely to get convicted, what laws favour women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:50 PM
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You know they write down their methodology in journal right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:49 PM
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So you have zero research to back up your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:48 PM
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Which they have studies on and it’s less than 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:59 PM
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How do laws benefit women who falsely accuse when near to no men are in prison on false rape accusations?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:01 PM
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So yes, not a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:58 PM
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So women can also fuck other men if their man doesn’t want all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:57 PM
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Referring to your first paragraph, show me where I said those things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:55 PM
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Should men also be forced to sleep with their wives when they don’t want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:54 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:53 PM
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No one has to fight a burglar what on earth are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:52 PM
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Continue to prove my point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:51 PM
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Yep, you just proved my point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:50 PM
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That’s not what women tend to care about tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:46 PM
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If you consider valuing both partners opinions as fighting slaves then yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:38 PM
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Women know what men value in them, it’s men that continue to refuse what they’re valued for. A lot of things men value are things that make women miserable, hence why most reject it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:37 PM
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Sounds more like you want a sex slave instead of a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:35 PM
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Because if someone abused my friend for example I wouldn’t exactly wanna chat or sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:31 PM
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How come every man on this sub says that they don’t like emotionality and find women too emotional then? Again, women don’t value men for money, men value men for money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:18 PM
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Also those are both measures than men usually use, ofc womens are a bit different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:15 PM
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You literally said that men care about what career a women had and what she earns
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:15 PM
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If you can’t help them with a problem or are just too tired, exhausted to, you’re allowed to say you can’t help them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:14 PM
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Well yes, if you’re ill perhaps and can’t go to work, you’re allowed to not go
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:13 PM
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Where did I say I expect the man to give me sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:12 PM
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As we as women are much more likely to continue to improve their communication and social skills through life, and of course Kin Keeping aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:11 PM
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Look at developmental biology, physically and cognitively women mature many years faster than males
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:09 PM
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Women tend to not care as much about career of their partner compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:07 PM
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Women who earn money are undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:06 PM
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50% of men isn’t exactly a minority? Also I’m the general population who aren’t married, 20% of women out earn men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:05 PM
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Sex isn’t a duty tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:52 PM
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That doesn’t explain why reports drastically decreased as well as men rarely reporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:51 PM
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That’s like saying “how do we known how much stronger men are than women?” Or “how do we know that women mature much faster” or “how do we know that X% of people go undiagnosed”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:33 PM
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If someone is your dad, is your uncle, aunt, partner (which is most cases) it’s not very difficult to find
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:22 PM
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The lack of reporting comes from lack of conviction, pretty sure it’s something like less than 10% of reported cases then lead to conviction, and then even less lead to any prison time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:20 PM
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Some sort of study that all professional female athletes are beaten by average males
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:18 PM
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Because they do extensive studies of various different sample sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:17 PM
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Most people don’t report, less than 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:13 PM
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So men who are falsely accused don’t need evidence to get convicted but men who are rapists can’t get convicted even when there is evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:12 PM
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So men who are falsely accused don’t need evidence to get convicted but men who are rapists can’t get convicted even when there is evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:12 PM
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Most raped are committed by someone the person knows, marital and familial rapes are most common
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:10 PM
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Statistically most police reported cases are true, it ranges from 99.5 - 96% depending on the area/country
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:09 PM
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Do you have access to any source for serena Williams and statistics for your fourth paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:06 PM
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Yh, that’s why the fail rate for women is higher
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:02 PM
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Yh, that’s why the fail rate for women is higher
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:02 PM
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About the press ups
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:40 PM
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I actually don’t know many men that can even do 10 pull ups, so not many women and not many men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:39 PM
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Women who can pass as firefighters, those who can’t don’t, it’s really not that difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:39 PM
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Bro the requirement is like 50 for both men and women? I know this coz my family have worked at the barracks for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:38 PM
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I think many times it’s a stance of loyalty, if some guy abused my friend, no, I’m not going to want to see him, let alone sleep with him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:37 PM
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Where did I say you had to like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:35 PM
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Well it obviously did if you went from not being able to look or talk to someone, to then being able to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:35 PM
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Well yes obviously if you’re telling people you don’t like X person because they did Y then you’re going to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:05 PM
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Surely that’s very disingenuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:05 PM
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How do you know dating someone will traumatise you unless you’ve dated them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:04 PM
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In men not women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:01 PM
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I tend to get really upset and angry about misogyny and sexism, but he’s so pathetic it’s scarily amusing, amusing how from a few msgs I can make someone so angry that they want to come and rape/kill me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:08 AM
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Can’t tell whether they’re a troll Or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:58 AM
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I’m pretty bad at masking at the moment and I’m always told by non autistic guys I’m too blunt, direct, not flirtatious enough, ask too many questions, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:52 AM
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Women may have more options, but if they only really get on with other autistic people, why would they choose to date someone they can’t fully be themselves around
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:16 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:03 AM
5

For telling a guy that they don’t find them attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:48 AM
1

That’s a completely separate issue tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:33 AM
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If you’re looking specifically for a relationship tho, maybe you’ll only really mesh with other neurodivergent ppl, looking at my friends I really am finding this with the ppl I tend to get on rlly well with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:31 AM
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Feel free to disprove my statistics then, it is part of my degree after all. It’s nothing to do with political correctness, it’s about just because someone had a personality disorder, doesn’t mean they’re inherently dangerous. The issue is that most people with your logic are not able to apply it to any other situation, do you believe that black ppl or poor people are also a danger? If so, fair enough, it would at least be a consistent view point People with ASPD still have morals, there is no e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:29 AM
1

I’m pretty sure that’s training and not the fitness exam/requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:41 AM
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I feel like you are really stretching these sex differences, for example 30% of women have higher sex drives than men. Rape isnt related to sex drive btw Also there was no need to demonise a whole mental illness, you shouldn’t generalise a whole group of severely disabled people, even if some of them grow up to commit violent crimes that’s no where near all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:37 AM
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I’m not refusing to acknowledge the biological component, but the biggest influence of all is social conditioning, hence why many places have near to no murder or violent crimes, it’s heavily correlated to lack of intelligence and authoritarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:31 AM
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They have the exact same testing requirements, there’s no male, female standard, just a standard, hence why they’re not split up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:18 AM
1

Same solutions as “the answer to stop rape and murder is telling people to stop doing it”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:17 AM
1

You keep forgetting the different conditioning you and your wife have likely had
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:15 AM
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Homicides yes but aggression no, if it’s innate is doesn’t matter whether a man is good or not, because it’s innate and emotions/thoughts are hard to control
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:14 AM
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I think about 6 in 10 of my friends happen to be autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:12 AM
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I mean biology, psychology, and medicine all include sex and gender, so are all three of them pseudo sciences? Or just some 1 of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:10 AM
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Because they’re a difference between “testosterone levels” and “testosterone balance”, they’re not the same, the point I was making before tho was that testosterone levels don’t correlate to how masculine a male looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:07 AM
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I’m getting off topic a bit but my point is that everyone sucks at it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:04 AM
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Atleast in England it’s crazy hard, most people fail before training and some die during the training
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:03 AM
1

Yes, because hardly any men also pass those same fitness standards. There are many many many women who have passed fitness standards, which most people who attempt do not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:03 AM
1

Where did I say or insinuate women were not as shallow as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:00 AM
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Some people I find from hinge or tinder happen to be autistic, I’m starting to think I attract them to be honest because most of my friends end up being autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:59 AM
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I’m yet to encounter them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:57 AM
1

Group From New Guinea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:55 AM
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Many are yes, but most are learned
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:54 AM
2

So you’re saying people shouldn’t do biology, psychology, or medical degrees???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:51 AM
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I can’t quite tell whether it’s scary or shocking that you can’t think why. Anyway, let’s say you’re right, if this is an innate difference, why should we allow men around kids? Vulnerable people? Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:50 AM
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So with men, there’s a girl you hate, after the sex do you still hate her? Or during it? At what point during the social interaction does the anger go away? Or even hostility?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:46 AM
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I already referenced this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:42 AM
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Atleast at most English unis, as well as in medicine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:40 AM
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It’s not a degree it’s a part of psychology and biology degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:40 AM
1

And psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:39 AM
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“Gender and sex studies” is biology
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:39 AM
1

Our fellow primates either rarely, or do not pair bond, few form monogamous relationships, the males and females collectively have multiple partners of both male and female
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:38 AM
2

You can’t go back to an ex if you’ve never dated them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:32 AM
1

Tchambuli
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:31 AM
1

Again, this is not universal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:31 AM
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Excess testosterone tho has no relation to increase muscle mass tho for example, hence why men and women don’t take hormones instead of surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:30 AM
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Almost all of human behaviour, down to what you find attractive, is learned human behaviour, even love is not innate to humans
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:28 AM
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I study biological, psychology, and gender and sex studies at uni, evolutionary biology and psychology is seen by most scientists as not far from a pseudoscience, mainly because it’s based on history that was then debunked and uses biased studies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:26 AM
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Deep voice, body hair, and muscles actually has near to no indicator of how much T a male has, this is why in studies where researchers get men to estimate how much T other men have, they all get it wrong. It’s just like how extra estrogen won’t give girls bigger boobs, or make them fatter/chubbier
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:22 AM
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Bodybuilder is an extreme example, but even an averge 6 pack from a swimmer, a lot of women don’t rlly care, also shoulders is an odd one to me that men like I completely forgot about that one. Women found muscles attractive in studies where they used samples of women who were conditioned to find them attractive, what makes men and women attractive isn’t universal (bar height I believe for men?)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:20 AM
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I often say to people not to ask me questions unless they want an actual answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:17 AM
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A guy asked me in person what I thought of him, I told him he was mid because I thought he was mid🤷🏽‍♀️, just like I told him his new mullet made him ugly when he asked me💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:15 AM
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If you don’t understand why something happens, you can’t fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:13 AM
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You’re so right, if you hate women innately so much, maybe you should, idk, leave them alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:12 AM
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I’m referring to money and muscles tho as I think I mentioned previously are found very attractive by men but not women, this is evident when you see body builders, many men are jealous of them, many women think they’re really ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:10 AM
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Where did I say that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:08 AM
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I don’t believe it’s a matter of separating sex from emotion, but possibly a matter of how men and women experience disdain perhaps? For example if I hate someone I’m not going to want to interact with them, even be in the same vicinity as them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:08 AM
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How come hormone levels are not associated with submissive behaviours then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:01 AM
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You’re completely forgetting that women were not even allowed to be frontline at war??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:00 AM
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Men commuting more violent crime is not universal, in some cultures men are viewed as nurturing and emotional where as women are viewed as aggressive leaders
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:59 AM
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That’s what men find attractive though, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:43 AM
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Have you heard of a trauma bond? It’s a big contributor to Stockholm syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:42 AM
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Move away from what argument
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:41 AM
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My point is it won’t stop unless you stop the root cause, this whole conditioning of older brothers and fathers teaching women how shit men are, they only want one thing, not allowed a bf coz they’re trash, I think you get the point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:40 AM
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That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:39 AM
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I know many women who have muscle, just a tiny bit, or boobs, bum etc who are classed as overweight but aren’t. Im a size 6uk but my bmi puts me as overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:38 AM
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Pre agriculture revolution men and women were equal. Top female athletics are way higher than the average athletic male? Ofc that’s general and the level of this depends on the sport. Innately, men and women are extremely similar, when you take sexist ideas out of the environment, men and women grow up to be, pretty much, the same (behaviour wise), hence why 30% of hunters were women, the non-monogamy from women and men, much more collectivism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:36 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:28 AM
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The answer is men, specifically fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:28 AM
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My sex drive is higher than all men I’ve met so I don’t think I am
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:28 AM
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Why are they exes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:26 AM
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Fun fact, it’s not evolutionary, it’s a social condition
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:11 AM
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A lot of it comes down to misinformation on nature vs nurture imo, most things many rp men (close to all) claim is “biologically” is actually conditioned and not seen universally, but few people will actually believe that even after all research is handed to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:07 AM
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Maybe I’m being cynical but I don’t really think you can more than just not being aggressive, abusive, etc as women are generally wary due to how many times things like that have occurred
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:01 AM
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I’m not sure how relevant this study is because “over weight” and “fat” are very different, for example a gym girl who lifts is overweight but not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:54 AM
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I think what women find attractive in men and what men find attractive/desirable in men are generally quite different tho, like most guys seem to emphasise money and muscles in what makes men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:48 AM
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Surely you would not enjoy and be distracted with disgust?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:44 AM
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Many women get killed for that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:42 AM
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As an autistic women, you should try and find other autistics if possible. The amount of guys I’ve met who say they want honest girls then when I say they’re boring or ugly on a date because they asked that get offended is astonishing, got called a psychopathic bitch just last month
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:40 AM
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I believe one of the biggest problems is because many men mistake what women like and/or want, for example most women don’t care about how much money a guy has or if he does or doesn’t pays for stuff, but for example guys who know how to clean, basic cooking, ect are favoured
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:31 AM
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Makes sense that if you don’t want equality for women, most women you tell that to aren’t going to be a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:27 AM
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Why would u fuck someone u disdain?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:26 AM
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And guess who tells women that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:25 AM
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Whether they want a relationship or just sex/fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:04 PM
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You claim no evidence is needed for an abuse conviction, why is it that less that 2% of rapists get convicted?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:03 PM
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Marriage and divorce is completely separate to custody, custody issues will be there whether they’re divorced, married, or never married
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:02 PM
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How come 30% of women out earn their husbands then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:01 PM
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Yh I agree, unfortunately in the west that still not the case for women :/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:00 PM
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What laws are one sided in the US court system them in terms of marriage and divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:59 PM
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I’m not from America, I’m basing my claim off of multiple studies that indicate men are happier married, and women are happier single and childless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:58 PM
1

Would you say the cost of any life long effects should be split aswell then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:02 PM
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Because if you intentionally lie about your intentions, you are the one to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:33 PM
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Cost is not just monitory tho, there are life long effects for women when taken
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:27 PM
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I never understand this stuff, if I’m not sure I simply ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:21 PM
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You realise marriage and divorce laws are the same for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:15 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:14 PM
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Not my opinion, It’s simple statistical research, show me a source that marriage makes men more miserable than unmarried men and vice versa for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:31 PM
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But when you compare it to women, married women are much less happier than single women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:08 AM
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The statistic is 30, 30% of women have a higher sex drive than their male partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:50 PM
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Ok, “hundreds” then, show that sex drive differences are bigger between men-men than men-women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:48 PM
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That’s not true, all scientific studies show that the gap is small from late teens to 30s where women then overtake
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:30 AM
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For some reason, married men are significantly happier than non married and single men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:23 AM
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If someone prefers a man who’s 6 feet tall it’s because they’ve likely been conditioned to want that, wanting a man who has a professional career ig could signify stability and hard work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:21 AM
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Also that wouldn’t explain why there are more women who have attempted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:39 AM
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No it doesn’t? Still More than like 80% of male attempts fail
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:38 AM
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What question
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/23 04:37 AM
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Sex drive and testosterone aren’t the same thing. https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare https://leighnoren.com/human-sexuality-blog/who-has-more-sexual-desire-men-or-women-according-to-science/ https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/ss/slideshow-sex-drive-changes-age Also, look up the differences in what sex drives means for men and women, because for a long time, female Sex drive wasn’t considered a “sex drive”, also women who expressed wanting sex we diagnosed …
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/23 08:41 PM
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Probably because science proves that there isn’t much difference
/r/AntiFeminists21/02/23 02:02 PM
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Would you say there’s an optimum height men in general prefer? Or is it completely different and there’s no range?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:41 PM
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You said its impossible, now you’re saying it’s unlikely? Come on now what one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:40 PM
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How do you know there are no 5’10 women celibate due to their height? Have you met every single one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:27 PM
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Yh, I’m from a very racist part of England
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:22 PM
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I’m not doubling down, it’s evident you’re not here to actually discuss and debate, but twist my words to argue instead
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:09 PM
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My statement was simple, where I live courts prefer men to take custody over women in the same situation, I’m just not too sure what you don’t understand about that but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:02 PM
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You may not agree but i statistics don’t care whether you agree or not tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:55 PM
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For example: People use anger and aggression interchangeably, I use them by their definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:51 PM
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Again, I’ll answer your question for a second time, most people do not use dictionary specific language and speak very colloquially, I do not, instead I use dictionary meanings of most words
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:50 PM
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Omg, if neither parents are criminals, the dad is more likely to win, if they’re both criminals, the dad is more likely to win, if the is a criminal and the mum isn’t, the mum is more likely to win, what don’t you understand by that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:47 PM
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That’s not what I said, I said men are favoured, but if someone has a criminal past, they’re less likely to get custody, it so happens that more men end up having a criminal past so even tho they’re favoured, they’re slightly less likely to get full custody
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:40 PM
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Because I use specific language which I believe most people do not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:38 PM
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But I literally stated other factors🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:27 PM
1

Again, that does not mean who is most likely to win
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:20 PM
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You’re literally changing the dictionary definition of a word here so there’s rlly not much more I can do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:12 PM
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No because we’re arguing different things, favoured isn’t most likely to win, it’s who’s more supportive or liked
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:53 PM
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I am diagnosed, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:11 PM
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Favoured isn’t the same as who gets custody most wtf are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:06 PM
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I have no idea, sorry I’m severely autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:05 PM
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I mean all I said is I want a man who can clean and you said they’re high standards, so I am genuinely confused what you’re going on about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:59 PM
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Where I live they are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:58 PM
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Not sure what you’re on about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:50 PM
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Can most men really not do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:43 PM
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You said men aren’t favoured, not that they get custody less, these are not the same things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:35 PM
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Men aren’t favoured in custody, i said they are, but they get custody less not because they’re significantly discriminated but because they take past crimes into account which men are more likely to have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:59 PM
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things like breasts and arse are also more examples tho, or atleast that many men pretend to care a lot about if men don’t actually care
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:05 PM
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If group 1 only has A and B to make them “unattractive” but group 2 have A B C…u get my point I think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:59 PM
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Omg seeing a man hoovering >>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:50 PM
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I wouldn’t even date a guy who can’t cook basic meal and clean ect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:49 PM
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Sorry, that’s what I meant to say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:47 PM
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Men can definitely look way more polished tho, if guys actually put effort into hair and skin care they could go from a 2 to a 7 just from that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:46 PM
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You said men are favoured I’m custody, this shows they’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:44 PM
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So as in there are skewed statistics when it comes to custody equality, more men than women will have crime records, this is looked at in family court
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:38 PM
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I honestly think tho that this is just because girls put more effort into appearance, most straight girls find most girls attractive compared to few men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:37 PM
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Completely depends on the person honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:27 PM
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They legally can’t if there’s a prenup, and where I live men are actually favoured slightly now when past crime is taken into account when it comes to custody (uk)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:23 PM
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Really? I’ve been told by countless men I’m ugly coz I’m not white?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:19 PM
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I mean there’s a reason why one womens 10 is another’s 2, where as I’ve never seen much variation in men when it comes to rating women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:16 PM
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I guess since I’m not a guy I can only say this from men I’ve encountered ofc, either in person at uni or a lot from online, I’ve been told I’m ugly or even just shamed for being fat (low bmi, but I have a tilted uterus so you can see that at the bottom of my stomach), short hair, curly hair, mixed race, boobs/bum not the right size or shape, too short, dressing alternative, tattoos, piercings, hip dips, musclar, longer labia, brown eyes, and ofc the list goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:15 PM
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Since men usually make more money, the house is a lot of the time only in their name so they have authority to kick their wife out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:08 PM
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Like men can be skinny or muscular and they’re still attractive, but muscular women are seen as gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:00 PM
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Ahhh, the confusion is in the male vs female gaze, men aren’t conventionally attractive (this is what men find/think is attractive) is stereotypical masculinity, when it comes to women, a large amount of women actually love effeminate men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:00 PM
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“Displace from a country or traditional habitat” how am I wrong you don’t even have to move house let alone out the country
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:37 PM
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You haven’t even responded tho have you🤦🏽‍♀️ if the best precaution is being with male family members, why aren’t you called women stupid who see male family members?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:25 PM
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If they don’t want to be blamed for it as you have been doing then Yh, they would have to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:24 PM
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So you don’t see any male family members or friends? Because those would be the best precautions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:23 PM
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The issue isn’t whether you think it’s an effective solution, the issue is you’re saying they’re to blame for not dressing ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:23 PM
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You keep saying you’re not but you’re literally blaming women to not want to feel ugly so there’s a minor smaller risk they’ll get harassed. You’ve said it works the same way for men, you’ve now just said it doesn’t work the same for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:22 PM
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I don’t think you quite understand what I’m saying tho, you’re more likely to be harassed wearing pajamas around family members or friends then half naked in a club, so how is making yourself feel uglier a good precaution?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:19 PM
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Again, you’re saying people have to make themselves feel uglier otherwise they can’t complain
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:18 PM
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What counts as a risky situation tho? Because let’s go with fact and statistics, women are more likely to raped by male family members then random at a club, so should women not see male family members? Or brothers since sibling sa is incredibly high?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:17 PM
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I mean you are tho, you’re saying how women can’t complain if their tits are out and they get harassed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:15 PM
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Well obviously you’re gonna complain about getting harassed are you dumb? You’re saying it goes both ways, so would you hold a man to that same standard when it comes to going topless? Wdym by precautions tho, like when do the precautions stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:14 PM
1

“Uprooted” actually means you’re moving you’re whole life, careere, home town, why would you necessarily have to move out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:12 PM
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You can’t make a “smarter choice in what you’re wearing” unless you’re talking about heels vs trainers, again, almost all assaults are either a, someone who already knows the person, or b. Premeditated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:05 PM
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The most common way of women being drugged is actually by a close friend or family, when it comes to clubs a lot of the times it’s a needle while ur dancing or whatever (atleast in the uk), or even bar workers. I just don’t understand how a girl leaving the house with friends means it’s her fault she’s been drugged or raped you’re actually mad, I’d really thought people had gotten past victim blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:03 PM
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Yes it does? How can you blame someone for being assaulted due to what they’re wearing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:01 PM
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Womens are definitely way more specific, conventional male beauty is just muscular, tall, and lean, for women it’s literally short, white, skinny, no uterus fat, also curvy, no hip dips, long straight/wavy hair, not muscular, ect. When you actually look at what men find attractive vs women in general even, women have a large range ofc, but male “conventional beauty standards” are actually geared to what men find attractive, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:00 PM
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But makeup isn’t a long term thing, you can’t always have makeup on, also many men wear mascara or even eyeliner now, also I think jaw shape is actually a much bigger thing for men, I always see photos of men showing off their jaw shape
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:56 PM
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Considering it likely means someone’s drugged and assaulted u, I doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:54 PM
1

Who said yiy had to leave with your children?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:52 PM
1

Why is dressing how you want then blamed for being assaulted/harassed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:51 PM
1

Ending up naked on the floor don’t necessarily mean you made stupid decisions wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:51 PM
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Someone could be naked passed out on the floor it’s no excuse for anyone to assault them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:24 PM
1

How is dressing how you want them blamed for being assaulted or harassed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:24 PM
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People look unrecognisable after losing weight tho? How many attractive traits can women actually change that men can’t? Coz tbh, I just the main thing that determines whether a man is attractive or not is hairstyle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:22 PM
1

So are women to blame for being raped or assaulted of they go to a party or get rlly drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:19 PM
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They wouldn’t be being uprooted wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:18 PM
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Many people become abusive if forced to stay in a relationship with someone but once separated and have time to learn and change, they realise that that person simply just wasn’t for them and that’s ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:02 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:23 PM
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That doesn’t explain anything tho? You wouldn’t be dating a man, and you wouldn’t be dating a muscular, I’m saying let’s say you see a girl at a bar you find her maybe an 8/10 looks and personality and she tells you she’s post op trans? They would still have everything you value in a partner so I’m just trying to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:13 PM
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But you can’t blame women not wanting to change how they look for men??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:01 PM
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Pretty sure 6’7 women are more than 1 in 10m? And from what I’ve seen, women who are 5’10 and above are rejected a fair amount due to their height, and sometimes for short girls aswell but it’s not nearly as much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:47 PM
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I meant that women can obviously groom and everything, but bald women or women with short hair will be seen as much less desirable than bald men, then female features like waist, breasts, and hips can be changed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:45 PM
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I think it’s because of how many people who advocate for nuclear families are less well informed and less intelligent. For one, they act like nuclear family’s are “in our nature”, even tho humans weren’t even monogamous until recently, just like our primates now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:39 AM
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A co parenting family is way more healthy than an abusive one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:34 AM
1

Well yes, that is the whole reason that men with a Madonna whore complex are never rlly happy and become red pilled or incels
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:29 AM
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Did you not say that if women don’t want people to sexualise them they should change their looks to be less attractive and appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:28 AM
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Damn, I’m also surprised about that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:17 AM
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Come on now, don’t tell me you can’t use you’re critical thinking skills to realise that this is because of the orgasm gap and shame put upon women if they have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:14 AM
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So because some men lack brain cells women are supposed to make themselves look more ugly? Where’s the logic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:11 AM
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Madonna whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:09 AM
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And I didn’t say large body count necessarily I just said the same as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:07 AM
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My point was that logically, how can you have one standard for yourself and a different one for a girl when it comes to relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:06 AM
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So you’re allowed to be experienced but women aren’t???? How can you turn a girl away who has the same body count/experience as you wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:04 AM
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So you’re allowed to be experienced but women aren’t??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:00 AM
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Do you hold yourself to the same standard atleast?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:19 AM
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From experience, when a girl makes the first move a fair few guys will call her desperate or a slut, so I don’t bother anymore tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:09 AM
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Honestly women are just more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:05 AM
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This is literally the same for women tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:03 AM
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This is so untrue tho, skin care? Hair? Hygiene? Nails? Gym? Clothing? Ect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:02 AM
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Yh, but because they attempt less, this would suggest that a lot less men suffer with severe suicidal ideation, which I don’t think is necessarily the case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:55 AM
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You asked If you can ONLY date women under that age, then yes that’s fucking creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:15 PM
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I don’t know, why are you in here? Where did I say a 23 year old is a child? You said I’m not allowing men to have preferences because I said that 50 year old men shouldn’t be waiting for girls to turn 18 to date them to dump them when they’re 25
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:39 PM
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If you can ONLY date women under 25, and the only thing stopping you from going younger is the law, and you don’t think that’s borderline noncy, you’re stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:32 PM
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Sorry I don’t agree with pedos Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:31 PM
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Depends on how large the age gap is obviously, and how on earth am I disproving myself? You can have preferences without being a borderline pedo who goes for women under 25 your whole life, I swear some people here go to the ends of the earth to try and justify borderline pedos
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:35 AM
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Driving someone home and buying them flowers isn’t taking the lead
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:32 AM
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R u joking ofc it wouldn’t?!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:48 AM
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It’s the one people are talking about rn due to Leo and his new gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:41 AM
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I have a growth disorder, I’m not meant to grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:34 AM
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I rlly hope English isn’t your first language
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:34 AM
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Because if you’re 50-60 and praying on 16/17 yr olds waiting till the day they turn 18, you’re a predator, same with 17 yr olds that go after 13 yr olds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:32 AM
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You said when there’s no age gap, Leo and his girlfriend have an age gap
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:31 AM
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Men are allowed to have racial preferences, weight preferences, breast and bum preferences, body preferences of their women after pregnancy, tattoo/piercing preferences, but a girl says she wants a guy who’s X inches taller than her and it’s worst thing ever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:43 PM
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How is it predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:41 PM
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Yep, I’ve gotten this response before, heartbreaking in an argument with a friend I must say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:56 PM
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No but I can see that English is for u
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:55 PM
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If women were monogamous there wouldn’t be other sperm?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:54 PM
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If someone asks for your truthful opinion, you then can’t be offended if u don’t like their opinion🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t usually ask questions that I might not like the answer to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:53 PM
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Some say that you’re “leading them on”??? Makes no sense Ik 💀 but if u don’t sugar coat stuff they can get aggressive or just unpleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:53 PM
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True, there’s a big double standard when it comes to women not being allowed to say that they don’t find someone attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:31 PM
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I don’t keep count, one guy raped me, and another tried to assault me, one wasn’t too bad but he did call me a cold hearted psychopathic bitch, I’ve gotten a fair few side comments of “so you think you’re too goo for me then?”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:29 PM
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A lot of men can’t take that honesty, hence why women have learned to sugarcoat things, for our own safety aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:26 PM
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only wanting to date someone you’re attracted to isn’t shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:25 PM
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A lot better advice in comparison to this sub that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:02 PM
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I don’t recall saying it was before he had status, but it was when it was a lot lower compared to now Maybe I got the years wrong but I mean before 1D we’re actually together and they were single singers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:00 PM
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Harry styles then is nothing when u compare him to what he is now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:28 PM
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Since all of those example have to be done through either ivf or assault, and in the case of assault pregnancy tests are usually done for the assault anywU
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:10 PM
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The last three are the same thing? So if a women hadn’t been assaulted or gone through ivf, why would she need a test?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:10 PM
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Testosterone and lizard brain aren’t the same thing lmao, women still have lots of testosterone, more than oestrogen actually
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:08 PM
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If men rlly struggle to control this lizard brain they shouldn’t be in any places of power
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:07 PM
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No idea what you wrote, I personally couldn’t understand it, but it was to get out other mens sperm from women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:07 PM
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Well come on then what are these examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:23 PM
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Go back a few thousand years, ever searched up why the end of the penis is shaped the way it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:21 PM
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It’s crazy how men haven’t progressed past a lizard brain isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:12 PM
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That’s not true lmao humans weren’t monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:53 PM
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How many other ways could the child not be his if his wife hadn’t cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:52 PM
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Maybe community work would be a better first option then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:48 PM
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A few of those things aren’t exactly taking the lead tho? Also taking the lead (ig we could also call it positive dominance as there’s a fine line between this and toxic dominance), isn’t the only trad masc trait I.e. aggression, independence, unsympathetic, confidence, pride, height, muscles, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:47 PM
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If they don’t find you attractive they don’t find you attractive, I’d personally just say Thankyou and move on if that were the case, and if they’re horrible to you about it then I doubt they’re even remotely mature enough to have sex or get into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:43 PM
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That’s just because women are more attractive ~ coming from a straight women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:37 AM
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The constant posters and merch all around town of a 17 yr old was outrageous I assure u
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:15 AM
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Push it to 2011*
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:14 AM
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Before he was famous most ppl didn’t know him, where he was known tho, he was more sought after before the rest of the world knew him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:13 AM
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Yh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:50 AM
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As a girl, who has many female friends, who studies this topic, a lot of girls will find this wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:48 AM
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I think a lot of girls liked him for being the awkward school boy, but obviously people get older and change
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:45 AM
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There used to be poster and merch of him everywhere, now, there’s nothing in England
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:45 AM
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Because the duck up is literally on men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:18 PM
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Or it could more so be if they choose to have a kid, then leave the child’s life, they then have to get a vasectomy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:16 PM
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Ur mum
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:12 PM
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My point was that if you make it known to a girl that you’re not misogynistic, she’ll be fine with a guy who doesn’t do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:12 PM
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As a girl I think it’s so wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:09 PM
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In the uk yh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:08 PM
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I mean I’m saying this as a women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:07 PM
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How does that explain him being more attractive before his high status?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:22 PM
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Your point was women like men with class a status, in England it’s more attractive for someone to be within ur class/status
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:19 PM
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No I’m being serious, you could just be like hi I think you’re so you want to talk, then they can say whether they want you to keep on talking or not. In places like the gym I can understand ppl are just there to work out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:17 PM
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Actually he was more sought after then than now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:15 PM
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In England, ABSOLUTELY
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:15 PM
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Yep, it’s one of the most disgusting traits a person can have imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:33 PM
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As someone from London and who’s been to America, I can promise you it’s not if you think status is important. Men and women have often dated within their class, why do you think only certain Londoners knew cockney?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:32 PM
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Bro he had girls running after before he was famous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:28 PM
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Why do you have to either be conservative or aggressive? Why don’t you just flirt and ask if she wants to shag like a normal and competent person?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:27 PM
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Omg I never realised there was such a difference, I think a lot of men must confuse the two then because the amount of controlled men is actually sad istg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:25 PM
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Stereotypically masculine is tall, muscular, short hair, body hair, ect in the west. This guy isn’t from New York tho, his English culture is very different to how men act in the us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:22 PM
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He often does look female or androgynous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:20 PM
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So you mean to say long hair, dresses, slim/skinny, makeup, are currently stereotypically masculine in the west? Throughout time doesn’t really mean much when masculinity has changed completely, from skirts being made for men to now it being seen as unaccounted for many men to wear them, or pink being for boys and blue for girls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:02 PM
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When you take into his whole body, physique, current hair, personality, and style, no, he’s not stereotypically masculine at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:07 PM
10

Finally, a sane person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:25 PM
1

How do we explain Harry styles being voted one of the best looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:24 PM
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If that were true how come women have height limits and how come men don’t prefer taller women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:06 PM
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There’s nothing fucked with being short? Also being short isn’t all to do with genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:38 PM
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First one I completely disagree with, and the last 3 most women prefer because if we do it we’re seen as “desperate” or a “slut”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:18 PM
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On reflection, I think I do that with all the people in my life anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:50 AM
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If you look at what women gravitate to you’d see that most of us prefer people with emotional maturity and expression/communication, as opposed to just shouting coz someone’s angry as they don’t know how to express themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:49 AM
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These aren’t people I’ve just “heard about” tho, I’m talking about people in my real life. In my opinion, if a guy is accused of rape it’s more likely to be completely ignored than effect him socially
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:44 AM
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Ahah, Thankyou sm for the distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:41 AM
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It’s gendered because it’s men that are told that they’re not allowed to cry because it’s not “strong and manly”, toxic femininity is a whole separate thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:46 AM
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I’ve seen way more men shaming men for that than women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:16 AM
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I’d argue majority don’t like traditionally masculine guys tbh, every women Ik has said they prefer a guy who can show emotion and actually listen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:15 AM
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And let’s not forget about the 27 yr old who kidnapped and raped my best mate when we were 14 and the guys girlfriend try to fight my friend for “stealing her man”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:29 AM
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Another one I know got to stay at the same uni he was at while his victim had a mental breakdown, ended up in a psychiatric ward so the uni kicked her out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:27 AM
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I know multiple rapists, their friends don’t care, they admitted to rape, they admitted it in msgs aswell, and their friends just don’t even care, neither do the police
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:26 AM
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But rapists who are accused of rape live life without many, if any, legal and social consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:36 PM
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You said society despise men, how many posts have u seen bashing men? If society hates men surely there would be many here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:08 PM
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Funny how scared men are of women falsely accusing them when they’re 50x more likely to rape someone than be falsely accused
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:05 PM
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Considering rapists lives go on and more than 98% of them don’t spend a day in jail, for some reason I find that untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:02 PM
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Have you seen this sub? Where r all the man haters?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:58 PM
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If you’re going for children, then Yh, you’re creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:49 PM
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The judging is when people abuse people who don’t fit the beauty standard as they believe th beauty standard is the same everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:23 AM
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Considering the women would be forced to carry the child a mandatory vasectomy would make a lot more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:43 PM
1

What consequences will it have for the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:55 PM
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Women not going into those jobs often had nothing to do with whether women are more likely to die in those jobs than men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:53 PM
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Look up statistics, women in those jobs are way more likely to die than men, even look up seatbelts and car crashes, in car crashes, female passengers are way more likely to die than male ones due to seats and seatbelts never being tested on women, there’s plenty of research on this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:52 PM
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A lot and this is shown by sexual desire being almost the exact same in countries where men and women are more equal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:47 PM
1

Men have killed women for not giving them their phone number, can’t be risking that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:46 PM
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But men are taught they’re allowed sex and women can’t, when you look at all studies they’re very similar, more similar than different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:40 PM
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I’ve been saying this for the longest time Thankyou
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:39 PM
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So men can go round and have sex but women can’t? Yh right 💀🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:38 PM
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And how do you expect women to feel safe in equipment not designed for them meaning we’re way more likely to die in the same job
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:35 PM
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How do you expect a women who can’t walk to be a builder for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:34 PM
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They are, just can’t for some jobs, infact more men are unemployed than women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:50 AM
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How does that explain why more DIFFERENT women attempt? You’re showing evidence that if anything mens mental health is taken so much more seriously, since when ever a female attempts or commits she’s “attention seeking” ofc. “If they wanted to kîll themselves they would”, so are like the 90+% of males who fail also attention seekers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:49 AM
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It’s the “canary in the coal mine”🤦🏽‍♀️ I mean I guess if you believe that women do suffer 2-3x more meanwhile calling them all attention seekers I can’t exactly change your mind at this point you’re too far gone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:46 AM
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I mean it’s not because if you take suicide statistics as evidence for how much men and women suffer you’d be implying that women suffer 2-3x more than men, I don’t believe that this gap is true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:44 AM
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And your comment shows how womens mental health isn’t taken as seriously as this subreddit seems to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:19 AM
1

But there are actually more women who attempt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:18 AM
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That’s an example, it takes well of 6 months a lot of the time to recover from a c section for example, employers simply can’t pay wages until recovery
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:26 AM
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Can’t exactly be doing a physical job when you’re like 8 months pregnant can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:58 AM
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Since you cant seem to effect evaluate a “study” (even tho it’s an article and not from the research paper), I see no point in continuing this convo with u
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:46 AM
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I was going with how all thoughts were shown to be proportional, so women and men need almost the same amount of sleep, women just slightly more, but men think about it like x2, same for food and sex alright in those cases it’s men slightly higher than women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:45 AM
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No actually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:43 AM
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Not for my area, we’re considered wealthy lmao. Luckily it’s not my dad it’s my stepdad, but he’s a bit of an asshole, especially since he earns more, works less hours, and doesn’t pay any rent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:43 AM
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There’s maternity and paternity leave, but pay isn’t much after a couple weeks so a lot of women go back to work soon after, so ofc they wanna spend as much time with the baby as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:41 AM
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Lol, you should’ve read the whole article oh no it proves you wrong 😂🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:38 AM
1

Hamster?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:36 AM
1

They don’t show why men commit, what disorders or situations are most likely to make men commit, why men are so much less likely to attempt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:36 AM
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I’m from England, every one I know who was pregnant worked up until the day before or the day they went info hospital and started back at household chores after a couple days
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:35 AM
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Alrhough I’m confused how this would prove men have a higher sex drive when men think about sleep more even tho women require slightly more sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:34 AM
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Can you please post the full source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:32 AM
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England
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:31 AM
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But if something is only treated in men, how are women being taken care by it when it comes to the flu? Prostate cancer has always been taken much more seriously, that’s why it take almost a year of a women going to the doctors to even get tested for breast cancer vs a couple visits for prostate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:31 AM
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Don’t shoot me if you disagree I’m just the messenger, take it up with all the researchers that conducted all the scientifical studies 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:27 AM
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“History”, you mean women literally being non monogamous until recently 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:26 AM
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I am going by the sample of this subreddit for these debates since most of the men here say that this is “all men”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:26 AM
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Women being expected to carry children kinda excludes them from being able to do a lot of jobs, also considering almost all safety wear, machinery, vehicles, seatbelts are made and only tested on men, it’s not surprising women don’t want to go into those fields when we’re 70% more likely to be injured and 17% more likely to die due to ill fitting equipment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:24 AM
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I’m literally the one who said it’s NOT to do with money it’s to do with time and effort
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:19 AM
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99% of women don’t care about how much a guy earns, couldn’t care less whether the man earns more or less. I’ve never seen a man pick up more of the work when the wife is pregnancy, my mum went to work the morning of her c section and started back doing all the household chores 2 days later when she got out of hospital
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:18 AM
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When the sample is the global population that all men are found to have a weaker immune system due to the effect of testosterone, it’s not so much a sample bias
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:16 AM
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In terms of contagious illness like influenza, men, because women are more likely to be asymptomatic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:15 AM
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Therefor, evidence from current study’s would suggest that men are not far more sex driven
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:14 AM
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If you look at almost every single study, they say that male and female sex drive are very similar, more similar than different, but mens is usually slightly higher
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:13 AM
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My point is that the difference isn’t large, it’s very small, and there’s more within group variance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:11 AM
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Going by this sub, slut shaming women is absolutely not shit on and white men are loved
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:10 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8188967/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:09 AM
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Yes, I have considered, and I have learnt as it’s part of my degree, influenza isn’t treated unless symptoms are serious, which is much more likely to occur in men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:04 AM
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It is in all cultures, im not even from the US, it’s influenza but men will almost always have worse symptoms (goes for most contagious illnesses) due to a weakened immune system. Considering evidence shows women have invented many things and are less prone to illogical impulsive outbursts which are directly correlated to not enough estrogen and or too much testosterone, biology disagrees with u
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:55 PM
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It’s a well known fact women have a MUCH better immune system, this is where the term “man flu” comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:46 PM
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It literally would because partners are putting in 50/50 effort
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:46 PM
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I don’t believe men have ever been shamed for their own sexual nature as much as women have been so far, despite science, archeology, and biology, many people still try to share the view that women innately don’t like (shouldn’t have) sex even tho women aren’t innately monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:45 PM
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Considering male and female sex drive has less variance than within male group, I’d say most female can fully sympathise, however, obviously we’re disgusting worthless sluts to many if we say that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:41 PM
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No one shames mens mental health and emotions more than other men, and this is why most of mens mental health charities is almost made up completely of female volunteers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:30 PM
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Suicide stats don’t rlly show much about mens mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:24 PM
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If he’s not earning as much because he’s working less hours he can just do a bit more of the house work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:20 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:00 PM
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It’s thought to be a lot less traumatising than jumping from a great height
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:05 PM
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Funnily enough practicing abstinence is the biggest cause of abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:48 PM
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No, overdose
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:32 PM
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In fact stay at home dads are now more common than stay at home mums 1/9 to 1/11
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:31 PM
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Very few mothers are sahms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:27 PM
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On average men only work 4 more hours than a week than women, at school it’s almost always women doing the school run, cooking, cleaning ect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:26 PM
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If you look around you aswell as stats it’s very little compared to women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:27 PM
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Oh I wish the the uk men were like that💀 I’m so sick of seeing my mother take care of childcare, while working over 40 hours a week and cook and hoover every day and pay all the rent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:18 PM
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In very very few it’s just the men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:16 PM
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Mainly because difference in men vs womens wages is around 5k a year
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:09 PM
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I’m reality, a lot of marriages earn similar wages, in most marriages women pay for the house, the food, the clothes, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:08 PM
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I think it’s around 20-30% Among married couples, when it comes to hours tho, men work a few hours more a week, think it’s something like 40 hours to 36 for women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:07 PM
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Living life on easy mode is what would make you shamed for ur inadequacies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:05 PM
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Sorry, I meant to say attempt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:04 PM
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In some relationships both do yes, but in a lot It’s just the women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:04 PM
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Women make more attempts AND are more likely to commit suicide, women pick methods that will be mentally easiest on the person who finds them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:39 PM
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I’m going off of uk stats, you’re still not grasping my point, if partners are working equal number of hours and put 50/50 money wise but the women does everything else, the relationship isn’t 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:35 PM
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But working a job + child care + house hold chores is way more than just working a job without all the added stuff ontop
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:33 PM
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Majority of fathers have very little involvement compared to women, which considering men on average on work a couple hours extra a week and do very little household chores, no where near 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:10 PM
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I’m not I’m actually speaking for a majority
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:06 PM
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How is that a payment when the women is paying for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:05 PM
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Working and childcare and household chores is way more hours than a 9-5 5 days a week
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:04 PM
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That’s what I’m saying tho, men can’t expect women to do it all plus work and cook and household chores then claim it’s “50/50” coz they’re contributing the same financially
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:03 PM
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You can “pay it off”, but not financially, it’s things like helping with household chores, cooking sometimes, being involved and taking care of ur child
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:01 PM
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That’s not quite true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:00 PM
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Yes it does, pregnancy and birth can never be financially paid off
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:34 PM
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I’m saying that women are expected to do all of those mothering tasks for free
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:33 PM
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50/50 isn’t money
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:32 PM
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Not if they want husband which 98% won’t adopt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:31 PM
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I think that’s op’s point, most women I know who have kids are still expected to work cook child care and clean while pregnant and straight after
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:30 PM
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Men have it so much easier making money as well as having bio kids
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:29 PM
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Compensate doesn’t mean money lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:28 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:27 PM
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50/50 doesn’t mean paying all bills, it mean doing more housework when your wife can’t work for a month coz she had an emergency c section
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:26 PM
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Women live longer due to the immune system
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:23 PM
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Considering more men are unemployed than women, and women have to look after the children and house as well as work, women pay well over their fair share
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:21 PM
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But women have to do all of that without getting paid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:19 PM
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If they’re both working the same hours, share housework but the women also has to go through pregnancy and childcare, that’s not 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:18 PM
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Omg, finally someone on this subreddit who sounds a bit more sane! I’d agree (although I say this from someone not being in a romantic relationship) that relationships (romantic and platonic) aren’t always 100% perfect, and if you want them long term then sometimes there are going to be things that you both need to work on to overcome it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:15 AM
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Because if she’s already putting in more effort into the family/marriage, he can’t expect her to then do even more by working out when he’s not gonna step up and take on some of her responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:16 PM
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Ok but can you do all of that plus taking care of the kids, the school run, and all the house work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:14 PM
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You have to think tho, if you don’t want to compromise when it comes to childcare and housework, how is she even supposed to have the time to work out? Unless you don’t want children then obviously that’s not needed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:13 PM
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I mean with some children it can be very difficult to get them to eat so giving them any food they want maybe the only way for them to eat and not starve
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:10 PM
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I’ve heard of so many men breaking up with their partner just after a new baby because her body changed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:08 PM
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As a girl, I’d say it’s pretty reasonable, especially if you as the man take care of your appearance, obviously nothing model level ya know but the both of you taking care of skin, hair, healthy (ish) diet to stay in a healthy weight range, the gym if either of you like. Tbf, for the most part it just comes to taking care of your body and good hygiene, if you can do that well, I think appearance and fitness comes with it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:07 PM
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Yh I’m talking about a different one, these women weren’t from Florida they broke away from a tribe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:51 PM
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I don’t think I’d sacrifice it for any money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:27 AM
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20F, absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:26 AM
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Yes, we see this in biology and evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:05 PM
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But you can be fuckzoned and friend zoned at the same time, best of both worlds imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:57 PM
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All I stated was biology and evolution of how humans have not always been monogamous 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:53 PM
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Damn, never realised how above average I was, I’m flattered
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:49 PM
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Oh shit, only just realised you were an incel, Yh that makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:41 PM
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Because you said you wanted fo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:40 PM
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Supposedly half of working women by 2045, that’s significant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:39 PM
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Yes, there are women in all of those jobs, even tho all harnesses and safety equipment was made to only fit men, there are still some women in those fields
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:15 PM
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Never said they didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:14 PM
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I give up, I don’t believe I can fully have a connection with you since you don’t know how to evaluate a study and causation/correlation. I don’t go to college
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:12 PM
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I mean if you can be bothered you can go to the university of Sussex psychology bsc and find references and topics through there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:11 PM
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I mean biggest factor is people realising that some ppl don’t like kids, richer and more intelligent women are less likely to marry or want children
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:09 PM
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“Show me where men act different” Provides examples* “YOU DONT UNDERSTAND”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:09 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:08 PM
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My point was that women on need men to protect them from men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:08 PM
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They could be self sufficient tho, religious communes have achieved this as well as preppers, although investment in the beginning is often needed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:53 PM
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If it’s untrue feel free to take it up with the whole of stem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:50 PM
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Completely untrue, women weren’t monogamous by any means, you can even see this evolution with women experiencing orgasms easier the more they have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:49 PM
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Where did I say women can’t protect themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:47 PM
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No, it’s I’m too lazy to look through all of my work to get the references
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:46 PM
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If all we focused on was healthy offspring, beauty standards would be completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:46 PM
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But people are no longer forced to have kids, many ppl are choosing to be childless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:45 PM
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Very little of behaviour is from testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:44 PM
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I provided the tchambuli as well as the arapesh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:44 PM
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Articles don’t evaluate studies tho so it’s out of context, again, this is literally my degree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:42 PM
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Considering about 1/5 of women Ik have been raped, and multiple studies reference it, I’d say it’s true, 98% of rapes aren’t reported
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:42 PM
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In the uk atleast ik
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:40 PM
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It’s literally the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:40 PM
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No idea what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:22 AM
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Irrelevant because that’s the same for both?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:21 AM
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You can’t send me a blog post when my information and knowledge is coming from scientifical research studies 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:20 AM
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You’ve literally just proved it, it’s different across the globe because it’s learned behaviour, take a baby from the tchambuli tribe and raise them in England and they won’t have the values or traits of their tribe. Also humans have evolved passed just wanting highest reproduction, if that were the case we’d still be non monogamous, but no most are monogamous and birth rates are decreasing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:20 AM
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If that were the case how stem men are more desired? Many of them are the antithesis of cultured
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:16 AM
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I mean more than 1% of men have admitted to stuff like that so I’m ofc going to believe that it’s more than 1%. Your brother being abused is irrelevant and whataboutism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:15 AM
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What trades are you referring to because I’m not away of any that 98% of men are in due to increased physical strength? And majority of physical labour isn’t even close to men using full or even half their strength, so considering women have about 2/3rds the strength of men (on average obviously), jobs are literally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:13 AM
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He can get that his own age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:09 AM
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Also articles are not the same as a research study lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:09 AM
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What on earth are you talking about? Majority of schools literally being mixed gendered already benefits boys so much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:08 AM
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It’s not common for either to marry or have kids with someone 20 years younger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:07 AM
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Where’s your source for the 70% stat? And I mean considering 4% of college men admit to rape and 11-14% admit to sa within the last year my answer is way too much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:05 AM
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I’ve looked into it and this is what’s coming up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:46 AM
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I mean celebrities have bought islands and built on them and so far I think it’s all worked out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:26 AM
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Yes and so do women? Not as much due to fertility and stigma but it’s still not uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:25 AM
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My point is that “male behaviour” is dependent on how you grow up, it’s learned
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:25 AM
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Again, if it was all biological, how come these aren’t found universally?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:23 AM
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Again, how does this explain that these aren’t universal and can be changed depending on how you raise someone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:08 AM
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But that’s the exact same men, men prefer women they deem of higher sexual status? When it comes to power and money tho, women don’t cate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:07 AM
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There are literally hundreds of islands you can buy tho that would be habitable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:05 AM
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Personally I wouldn’t no, and many, these tribes still exist today I’m pretty sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:04 AM
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That’s because only recently were women allowed to participate, when it now comes to the current schooling system girls outperform boys in every subject including maths and science
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:03 AM
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We must be talking about two separate communities because it wasn’t an experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:55 AM
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If men have thicker skin why is impulsivity and aggression seen when things don’t go mens way? Literally kill and rape women because they can’t get their phone number or because their football team lost
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:54 AM
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But women are competing and continue to do so, also 1/6 women are either attempted to be raped or actually raped
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:52 AM
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Intelligence isn’t a masculine trait and most women also don’t care about status/wealth. Funnily enough men with some feminine qualities are actually much preferred than one who have none. It’s also pretty objective that someone you can’t have an actual conversation with IS boring
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:49 AM
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Arapesh men and women have evolved to both be much more gentler and there’s little aggression at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:41 AM
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Behavioural stereotypes and height aren’t the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:40 AM
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Tchambuli tribe for one, women gather food and men take care of children
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:39 AM
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So? Global research into crisis, poverty, money, war ect does come from people with humanity degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:36 AM
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Women still have many disadvantages compared to men tho, the level of sexual harassment and rape in the male dominant fields is one of the main reasons from women leaving, as well as women having to sacrifice their career if they want bio kids
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:34 AM
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How does this explain tribes/communities where both men and women lack stereotypical male traits and live collectively? Or where gender stereotypes are reversed in others?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:32 AM
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Yes but not against men when women only have half the upper body strength and 2/3rds lower strength than men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:30 AM
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True, but stem and humanity degrees I’d argue are both very useful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:28 AM
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I never once said women were the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:27 AM
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I don’t live in the US, can’t relate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:26 AM
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There’s a difference between finding someone attractive tho and staying with them as a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:26 AM
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Lazy people who have no ambition are boring, it’s insane men would prefer that over than independence and intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:25 AM
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But there would be very few women with a male hormonal profile, so women wouldn’t magically develop men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:23 AM
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They left, succeeded, then men literally came and destroyed a shit ton of it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:19 AM
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Infact more women now graduate with degrees compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:18 AM
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There are plenty of women entering stem now so I’m not understanding your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:15 AM
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Jesus Christ there are so many islands available to buy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:10 AM
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I can guarantee you know near nothing about biological innate female nature
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:08 AM
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I mean it literally proves that women don’t need men, why would they need protection if there were no men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:06 AM
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No one truly wins in the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:04 AM
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Much of technology and inventions was funnily enough made by women but their husbands took credit so it was taken seriously. In the world wars women did it all bar fight
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:01 AM
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I never thought of this you’re actually so right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:59 AM
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There are, just not in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:58 AM
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It’s funny because when you actually go and look at African tribes some of them are the complete opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:56 AM
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No one is attracted to a bum who doesn’t work and has no ambition in life tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:55 AM
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The vast majority of MEN in the west, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:43 PM
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All of these issues will be fixed if you’re just straight up honest oh my god
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:43 PM
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This is what we’re saying tho, when a women says he’s in the friend zone, they literally just mean that they’re friends and don’t want to be in a relationship or fuck them (most of the time). Like all of womens best friends who are female are also “in the friend zone” because they’re friends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:40 PM
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Ssri’s are shit💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:41 PM
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Although wealth is definitely important when it comes to starting a family
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:40 PM
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Success doesn’t necessarily have to be high status or wealth tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:39 PM
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Because if you look at past homosapien life, we were less monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:25 PM
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I think the hot girl phase probably starts ending around mid 20s for women and late 20s/early 30s for men, but this isn’t necessarily a higher level of maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:24 PM
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It’s only women with children who care about status and wealth tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:14 PM
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Honestly you don’t NEED to know really, you can probably tell the range by how well you learn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:11 PM
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There’s definitely atleast a correlation to intelligence and iq, however this is ofc not the same for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:10 PM
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I guess because most generalisation aren’t real and just come from misunderstandings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:09 PM
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There have been countless studies providing evidence that the more intelligent a women is, the less likely she is to have children and get married, and the happier she tends to be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:04 PM
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But women definitely prefer someone within a couple years of age to them, this is why age gap relationships with older men have some of the highest divorce rates
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:02 PM
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As a women, Ive heard most women say that looks are the 2nd most important thing to personality, so things like intelligence and honesty would come first. Then status and power are more like a bonus (atleast for younger women, it’s a bit different for women who already have children), ambition and a drive to be successful in the future is so much more important than status and wealth to most women. You can be piss poor but if you’re hard working your way up the ladder to future success you’re ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:00 PM
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I mean we do though, it’s just that there was much more variety than today, we know that a lot of cultures were unluckily to be complete monogamy, we also know that some cultures had “third genders” due to burials found by archaeologists, we know that some communities were fully collective and had no set parents (as some still do today), we know that others held massive emphasised on homosexuality, and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:48 PM
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Or infact some cultures don’t really differentiate different gender roles and stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:41 PM
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As someone who’s doing a degree in this, it’s honestly like 90% this, this is why in some other cultures, especially when you look at tribes, gender is COMPLETELY different, in some it’s even the opposite to how it is in western society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:41 PM
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How would this apply to simple fwbs tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:29 PM
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I mean before Christianity, women were supposedly a lot less monogamous, as well as men, many cultures thrived on a much more collectivist ideology, funnily enough this is why humans have developed to have much bigger penises for their body compared to other mammals, it’s literally to scrape out other mens semen (lovely ik). On whole I fully believe that education from young will fix so many double standard and prejudiced issues we have in society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:28 PM
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I’ve actually done a little bit of research on it, funnily enough the more a women has sex, the easier it gets for her to orgasm? (Atleast this was the case in the past for homosapiens). As humans we’ve continually developed more and more awareness of the world, think about the fact that we were probably never even able to really see what our own faces and bodies looked like without mirrors? With more awareness comes more barriers and therefor more anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:23 PM
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Also intelligence comes way above social class, I hate not being able to have conversations with someone’s where we can learn from one another
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:17 PM
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I mean statistically the happiest demographic are unmarried childless women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:14 PM
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The con of birth control and other chemicals and medicines only being tested on men is that it makes it harder for women to finish, I believe it would’ve been a lot easier a few thousand years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:00 PM
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I agree with some of what you said, but there are so many ways to make sex so much more equalised to give men more power, infact I can see it already starting. With birth control and body autonomy for women on the rise, women no longer have to worry as much about getting pregnant, now if we try and remove the double standards about women having sexual vs men, this will again equalise it a bit more for men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:55 PM
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We were less modest tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:49 PM
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Yh, not to mention women had sex with multiple partners before Christianity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:48 PM
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Advantages: Taken much more seriously in stem, and would’ve got an autism diagnosis like 20 years earlier, unlikely to be raped and less sexual harassment, stronger, almost always orgasm during sex, no slut shaming, wouldn’t have to sacrifice body or career for bio kids, quicker muscle gain Disadvantages: Orgasm wouldn’t be as good, mental health not taken as seriously among friends, likely less emotional understanding and more impulsivity, slower maturing, worrying about too much or too little …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:42 PM
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Lmao that’s simple not true, western men have a lower EQ that’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:34 PM
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Well duh orgasms are natural to both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:30 PM
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I never even thought of that it’s so true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:45 AM
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No it depends whether you had casual sex with them or sex during a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:39 AM
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If he’s specifically targeting her because of her age, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:15 AM
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That’s not the Madonna whore complex, and women don’t get “over sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:14 AM
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But she wouldn’t lose sexual interest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:47 AM
1

Men are looking for a man who’s most likely to cheat? And where is your research that women build up a tolerance for getting laid? Libido and urge literally changes with age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:48 PM
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Your generalisation as to cheating and impulse control
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:35 PM
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But they don’t lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:06 PM
1

Better control over intense emotions and less impulsivity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:24 PM
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Yes but estrogen also increases body hair, I’m talking about fat around the stomach, not the legs. Men don’t tend to like wider pelvic floors though was my point? And beauty standards are different dependent on where you life, kylie Jenner is seen as really ugly in many places around the world
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:23 PM
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My point is that these generalisations and stereotypes you’re stating aren’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:21 PM
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It’s not the truth at all considering statistically men cheat more than men, what do you mean by build a tolerance?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:20 PM
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You’re looking at this from a very Eurocentric view
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:44 PM
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Also in the west women have long been known to have better self control and engage in less impulsive behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:43 PM
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By your logic a man simply trying to have sex tho lacks self control, so if anything it would be the other way round when it comes to how many sexual partners men and women have
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:42 PM
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Anyway, my main point is that your preference is by far innate, if that were true it would be 1) universal, and 2) traits that suggest further chance of survival
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:40 PM
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As well as estrogen, hair on women was actually a sign of fertility, as was added fat around the stomach, and ofc wider pelvises which is odd because obviously most men find tighter pelvic floors more physically pleasurable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:38 PM
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Because it depends on CULTURE, ie: the country you’re from, in some places in the world there’s a whole feeding season where mothers feed their daughters as much as they can so they can gain more weight as the heavier is seen as better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:51 AM
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No it’s predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:48 AM
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Most guys don’t dress well or take good care of their hair tho? Also some cultures prefer very overweight men and women, some cultures it’s the men with the longest hair or more scars ect
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:02 AM
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It’s quite the opposite, it’s not innate at all, infact biologically it would be the hairier the better, but standards are depent on culture
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:35 AM
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Men and women much more similar than different, there’s variance within groups than between groups. So how can argue it’s ok for one sex to have casual hookups but it’s not ok for the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:08 AM
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It absolutely can be, especially depending on what the beauty standard is where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:32 PM
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If the average women was as good looking as the average man, men wouldn’t find many women attractive either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:50 PM
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I honestly think because women tend to take better care of their appearances, women on average a wayyyy better looking than men, as a straight women I’m saying this, and most women know this, most women I see I find attractive, it’s just that most men aren’t attractive compared to women. When it comes to catcalling, mainly because a 14 year old doesn’t want to be hit on my a 30 year old builder??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:49 PM
1

Targeting younger people is, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:26 PM
1

That’s simply not true, you can’t have one rule for men and another for women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:18 PM
1

Do you keep your own body count low then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:55 AM
1

Because it’s predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:46 AM
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Also 9/10 is a lot when you don’t even have to consider someone’s personality to hookup with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:41 AM
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When women complain about being used for sex, it’s because the guy lied about wanting a relationship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:39 AM
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You realise all humans are visual creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:34 AM
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“Targeting”😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:33 PM
1

The point of a situation tho is that you’re already semi dating and doing relationship stuff together
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:20 PM
1

Wdym, it’s physically pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:06 PM
1

Really? I’ve never ever heard this to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:55 PM
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Just because someone claims to be that doesn’t mean they are no matter how hard they try, you can’t change the English language
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:08 AM
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Considering about 98% of women are feminists, I doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:07 AM
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The higher variance in men tho is a normal distribution, so why would men have to settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:01 AM
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I don’t understand what you’re trying to say, obviously women don’t want men to play them or act like assholes just because they find some men attractive and others not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:14 PM
0

Well Yh because you don’t need to know someone well to sleep with them, if you don’t know someone well and they’re not that attractive to you then why would you sleep with them? If you don’t know someone one, hell, you don’t even have to like them, but if they’re rlly attractive it makes sense why you’d sleep with them, surely men do this aswell?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:57 PM
0

You can’t date someone you don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:48 PM
0

Surely the only way to get to know someone is over time? You can’t jump through hoops for that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:28 AM
1

Most people have evolved from older simplictix mammal brains
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:23 PM
1

It’s not validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:53 PM
1

This, if men didn’t put womens bodies on such a pedestal and stop obsessing over then this wouldn’t be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:45 PM
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Fwb, and Yh antidepressants decrease most means libidos
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:43 PM
2

Lose weight then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:42 PM
1

Be more picky then or stop complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:41 PM
1

Women questions “players” intentions, as in many guys will say that they want a relationship but actually just want sex, guys question promiscuous women regardless of intention, big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:36 PM
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Because we know a lot of guys hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:33 PM
0

“Daddy issues”, so you’re saying most women have issues caused by men 👀👀👀😂
/r/MensRights11/01/21 02:17 PM
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Again, that is the same with any movement
/r/MensRights11/01/21 02:02 PM
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That’s not what it means, but ok, keep on with lies hun, whether u believe it or not, the dictionary exists 😂
/r/MensRights11/01/21 11:46 AM
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If someone is not for equality, they are not feminist, atleast in UK, I can’t say for what other countries definition is
/r/MensRights11/01/21 08:55 AM
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Like I said, all feminist means is that u believe in equality of sexes, so I don’t quite know why u would hate ppl so much for wanting to be equal, and again, if one didn’t want equality/to be equal, one would not be a feminist
/r/MensRights11/01/21 08:31 AM
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“Like this person here”, who, where, you didn’t anything?🥴
/r/MensRights11/01/21 08:16 AM
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All of the petitions put forward to the government
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:29 PM
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Feminism is a word
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:14 PM
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It was on Instagram, there page bio was about MRA, and they talked about it a lot, what’s MGTOW?? X
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:13 PM
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But if u think men are evil, I’d argue ur sexist, so u couldn’t be a feminist (or atleast a modern day feminist, Ik the term has changed slightly throughout the decades)
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:12 PM
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Feminists are currently the main force trying to change the definition of rape, unfortunately, UK government wants there to be a distinction between the two (I’m assuming ur referring to English law on rape)
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:10 PM
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If ur an ex feminist, it means that u don’t want equality for the sexes, I just assumed that most ppl on who would be for equality along with men’s rights, but I guessed I thought wrong 🤷🏽‍♀️. Like u say, when MRAs do it, it’s often rewarded, encouraged, ppl supporting it and shaming ppl online (not necessarily on reddit but on other platforms and irl)
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:08 PM
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Just a couple days ago actually, someone in the MR community told me to kill my self, an all this stuff about how I should be ashamed that I’m not married (I’m 18🥴), how there’s no such thing as women loving men, ya know, just the usual x
/r/MensRights10/01/21 05:57 PM
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Most feminists, everyone on this group is likely a feminist (under the presumption that most ppl want equality). I’ve encountered lots of MRAs trying to hurt women, saying how the world should be rid of women, that I should thank the men in my life for not raping me, how men shouldn’t be fem and women should be masc, how women should be modest, etc
/r/MensRights10/01/21 05:55 PM
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These comments/statements apply to every group of ppl, MRA, anti racism groups, etc, so I’m confused as to the point ur trying to make? X
/r/MensRights10/01/21 05:46 PM
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Feminism does a lot for men aswell tho, not in the past ofc, but the point that 1. Feminists aren’t sexist (as it’s mutually exclusive), and 2. Modern feminism tackles issues that affect both men and women x
/r/MensRights10/01/21 05:19 PM
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You can’t be a sexist feminist, that would go against feminism, technically speaking, everyone for men’s rights (equality), is a feminist as they want equality for sexes. If u talk to a “feminist” and they’re sexist, they’re not a feminist
/r/MensRights10/01/21 03:58 PM
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