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DiscussionSade_061102/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:45 PM
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Plenty of men in this sub in fact do not know this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:37 PM
1

You usually need to try something sexually to know you don’t like it so this just isn’t logical
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:34 PM
4

I have convos like that before everyone I sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:30 PM
3

Heavy on this, most women will have their own problems, often times bigger problems than just dating. I simply don’t have the time, nor the energy, nor the care to fix someone else’s issues
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:16 PM
2

That alone would not account for such a large difference
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:49 AM
1

Interesting, I’m not sure why these studies have found different findings to most other research
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:48 AM
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If this were the case, women would attempt things like murder or sexual assault at somewhat similar rates, but this isn’t the case
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:29 PM
3

You specifically said it’s not a gendered issue, but it clearly is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:49 AM
1

Where did I say it was good or healthy? We know why the same women are raped already, individual vulnerabilities, e.g. women with disabilities, ethnic minorities, queer woman, all things that are not a moral failing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:48 AM
4

Ignoring the fact that in dating, it’s predominantly men towards women is silly, it is a gender based, that’s just a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:44 AM
7

Being raped more than once isn’t uncommon and is actually a really common shared experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:43 AM
2

Why? Do you prefer women who play games
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:51 AM
1

That sounds like a problem with you then that you need to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:34 AM
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There’s a lot of research that one of the core aspects to people who rape is entitlement, the core of the nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:26 PM
2

That doesn’t make it right 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:17 PM
1

Personally, I reject people who aren’t looking for the same thing as me, I.e. casual sex, we are not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:16 PM
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Personally, I don’t see how the response and problem is disproportionate when r@pe is one of the outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:10 PM
1

By strangers, but total violence by others aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:46 PM
1

Ethnic minorities see more violence than non ethnic minorities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:42 PM
1

There are too many factors to say, in places like the uk aswell, men experience violence more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:42 PM
1

I absolutely have met people like that, hell, there are people like that who have done much much worse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:41 PM
1

Because if men are putting effort in, why can’t they befriend and support one another?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:39 PM
0

All the fields require logic, that’s how analysis and evaluation works. I should be more specific perhaps with computer science, computer coding machines for maths, physics (especially astrophysics), and any data analysis, was all considered women’s work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:47 AM
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Except like….psychology….biology….chemistry….medicine…and until very recently computer science
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:34 AM
3

I disagree with this, while women seek help more, research accounting for that as well as biological correlates to depression all indicate that depression effects women much more at much higher rates
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:32 AM
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I haven’t seen any research that shows men are more likely to suffer from depression, depression is linked to higher estrogen levels and lower testosterone levels for both men and women, it’s also highly linked to anxiety, human fight or flight system, which we know is notoriously heightened in women, hence why 80% of autoimmune cases are from females. Females are more than twice as likely to attempt suicide, and much more likely to self harm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:29 AM
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This here, men need to learn how to foster strong platonic relationships, even with just other men. As a separate point, Women with higher sex drives are still able to get on with life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:23 AM
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If you asked and they agreed, no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:20 AM
3

This is a big difference I’ve noticed between men and women, women who have good social networks while single will not see themselves as being “lonely”, however I know lots of men with lots of male friends who say they’re lonely because they don’t have a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:19 AM
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You don’t need to Center either, life should be a balance of romantic, platonic, and familial relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:12 AM
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Their point is, why are men also not befriending men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:10 AM
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I’ve seen a lot of the opposite, for things like not smiling or manners, “dating”, or “immature” behaviours, or becoming dirty, girls are punished more harshly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:08 AM
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If this is a nerve among men, why don’t you befriend one another? Most women have slightly more (or in some cases a lot more) women in their support system than men in their support system
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:06 AM
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I disagree that decentering for women is brief, you can still date while decentering men, the point is that many girls grow up believing that everything they do needs to be done with the purpose of attracting or making a man/men happy, which is just unhealthy. Instead of focusing your whole happiness on how many people you can attract or get (which I see a lot of young men do), the point is that romance and dating is one aspect of your life and not the centre of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:01 AM
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This isn’t necessarily true and imo is stigmatising, as someone with GAD and ASD, I can absolutely see how I was a living hell to be around untreated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:55 AM
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A healthy stable and non toxic person would not chase toxic men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:52 AM
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You don’t have to mistreat someone to be toxic, simply turning a blind eye to abuse or evident red flags, and making excuses for bad behaviour, as well as not communicating with your partner when you have an issues (perhaps because of how they’ll react), is toxic in itself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:51 AM
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Can you link the study please? This is absolutely not the case from the research I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:44 AM
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I mean the quote is very very true, when gay people were allowed in media and to get married for example, so many heterosexual people started saying that they were being “oppressed”, many still do
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/24 04:29 AM
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I think this is just your bias
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/24 07:58 AM
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In real life, on Reddit, on social media’s such as fb and instagram
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/24 07:31 PM
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I’ve experienced both, being objectified felt way better than being ignored and or bullied for not being attractive
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/24 05:39 PM
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I see misandry spoken about more than all of those combined
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/24 05:30 PM
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Never said that or anything similar
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:37 PM
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Find me these men with extremely high libido men coz none of the ones I come across will go more than 4 rounds
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:04 AM
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I agree, it asserts her femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:58 AM
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They’ve don’t studies into this, their is an effect on both men and women, although not majorly, the correlation is actually stronger in men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:57 AM
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I mean that was literally one of my points but okay, also tho, this isn’t unique to dating, it could failing an exam or test or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:26 PM
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You literally just agreed with me in the first half of your comment. As the second half, we test latent variables every single day by constructing scales of multi items for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:43 PM
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When we test this, we find that this isn’t true, women significantly consistently show more rejection sensitivity than men, including in dating/relationships. If someone is very significantly highly [rejection] sensitive, having only one way to get something you want doesn’t mean you’ll be able to do it, Example: we see people who get tattoos designs they don’t like, or are the wrong size/orientation purely for the fact they were too scared to tell the artist when ask if the stencil is okay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:49 AM
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Most people don’t live in tribes luv, and some modern tribes out there aren’t aggressive, including the men (arapesh and chambuli)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:12 AM
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Which goes back to my first point, if they’re both working around 40 hours a week (as most do), why does most of the housework fall on women just because they earn less? It is not true that paid/unpaid work added up, men do more, we also consistently see men having more weekly free leisure time than women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:10 AM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/345821241_A_positive_relationship_between_body_height_and_the_testosterone_response_to_physical_exercise#:~:text=Despite%20being%20a%20sexually%20dimorphic,et%20al.%2C%202021)%20. https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/physiology/articles/10.3389/fphys.2018.01373/full https://www.vice.com/en/article/qvqvpp/this-is-how-much-testosterone-actually-affects-muscle-growth https://youtu.be/AhNkSdrIYzg?si=yE8F2OxAXzy64Ovd https://tctmed.com/gynecomastia/amp/ https:…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:51 AM
1

But when women work MORE hours, they still do MORE HW, so that isn’t a “fair share” because she’s working equal or more hours than him and doing more HW, even with avg working hours, women work more at home than the couple of hours of extra paid work that men do, so yes, that is the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:26 AM
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If they’re not attracted to the man why would they complain about not having enough sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:25 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:24 PM
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There are plenty of studies that back what I’m saying as well as filmed ones online, it’s very well documented
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:11 PM
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The argument was if he’s earning more, why should he be doing the same amount of housework, so yes, it could be all, often times it is almost all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:10 PM
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Except studies don’t show that women have lower iq, they do show worse visuospatial skills, idk about spatial reasoning tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:46 PM
1

If that were the case, women wouldn’t complain about dead bedrooms or not getting enough sex in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:37 PM
0

This isn’t true at all, many times, women will want to approach someone, we’re often too scared because we tend to take rejection much worse than men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:36 PM
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Male gaze vs female gaze, what women view as attractive men isn’t the same as what men view as attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:29 PM
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In the past tho, the ideology is that men need protection by being with a man, we now know that this statistically isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:23 PM
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If hours are tho, it should
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:16 PM
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Because if you’re both working 40 hours a week, why is only one of you then doing all of the housework and child care?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:15 PM
1

I think this is just a difference in what men and women value, women value hard work and time, but men on Reddit tend to value earnings over that, it’s just which is more important, and to women, it’s not as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:11 PM
1

Feminism does push for it, doesn’t mean most women aren’t too scared to do it still
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:09 PM
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“Sexual dimorphism” as in there is a threshold that triggers male development, if you put a room full of biological men tho, height and jawline is not correlated to natural t levels
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:08 PM
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Idk about assumptive, it is directly related to aggression as well as lack of impulse and emotion control tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:05 PM
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There are plenty of studies of men ranking which men in a group have high to low T based off of looks, muscle, tempermant, ect, and found that there was 0 correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:04 PM
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Yeah, like common sense is “most women probably want men with optimal levels because it’s healthiest and has the least side effects”, is that really that difficult to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:02 PM
5

I disagree, I think aggressiveness does objectively make you a worse person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:01 PM
5

I don’t know many women who want a man with a low libido
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:00 PM
5

High T isn’t associated with being tall, and naturally also isn’t associated with being stronger, high t also actually leads to loss of libido and gynaecomastia
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:58 PM
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Because it’s usually only brought up as a way to discredit something else, I.e. homophobia/pride or women’s MH week
/r/MensRights30/06/24 05:48 PM
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As someone who is level 1 and late diagnosed, I really can’t mask atall
/r/MensRights19/06/24 01:12 AM
2

Yep, teen girls in my school were dating men 10+ years older already
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:31 AM
2

Rebellious ≠ independence, you can be independent and take risks without being rebellious and breaking the law
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:16 PM
4

Some do, the majority is mothers though, the same with family members/parents who get old and ill, it’s typically the women, especially daughters, that will care for them. I don’t think a lot of men sign up for diving to unclog pipes either, I’ve never met one in my entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:13 PM
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The average age men and women have their first child and/or the average age gap in marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:12 PM
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Usually it’s referring to puberty, which is true for most, a lot of my guy friends often share their experiences starting at around 13, compared to around 9 on average for my female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:09 PM
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I disagree, why do you need to have a “rebellious” phase to get your own shit together?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:04 PM
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I guess “mature” is kinda vague, there are many different types: Controlling and dealing with emotions? We see this ability often much earlier in females than males cross culturally Language/reading? It’s Very consistent (I know for the UK atleast) that girls can comprehend and reproduce language at a more advanced level in boys early on in life, the gap is about 6 months, which is very significant at these young ages These are just a couple of examples, but with that being said, 1. Boys catch u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:03 PM
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“Gross” jobs, I’d argue women, it doesn’t get more gross that cleaning up people after vomit, piss, and shit imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:51 PM
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As a woman, I think I can explain this because I’ve also seen this claim a lot, since ≈12, girls constantly have older guys flirting with them, saying how much more mature they are so that they’d be perfect together, when you’ve gone 10+ years of your life with older men telling you how mature you are for your age, you start to internalise and believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:48 PM
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You’d be doing different tasks, so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:36 PM
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Because equal contribution does not equal = money, if she’s working more hours than him and earns less she’s putting in way more than 50% contribution
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:24 PM
1

Why would equal housework = sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:54 PM
1

But when women work more, women still do more housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:53 PM
1

If you look at statistics, in comparison they dont
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:52 PM
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If she’s earning 10k a year because she’s bearing your child, how do you expect her to pay 50%?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:51 PM
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But studies done on rating attractiveness aren’t asking women to rate men compared to other men, theyre rating it on level of attractiveness. Example: let’s say you have a group of female models, if you ask men to rate their attractiveness, the average might be 8 or 9, BUT, if you’re asking about attractiveness in comparison to each other in that group, the average will be set at 5
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:06 PM
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You can’t just fake alot of things tho, you’ll honestly just end up miserable not being able to do the things you actually love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:00 PM
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So a women only liking the “top 30% of men” doesn’t have the same men the women next to her seems the top 30%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:12 AM
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No, because a 5 to one women is a 1 to another and a 9 to someone else due to how much variation there is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:11 AM
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A symmetric bell curve doesn’t mean it’s anymore “accurate” though, when rating attraction we typically use 5 as okay (not bad not good), we don’t use 5 to mean average. So just because a women views most men as not being acttractive, doesn’t mean her rating is any less accurate When it comes to “looks matching”, it doesn’t really work as what women typically find attractive is much more varied compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:47 AM
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I’m asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:33 AM
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It’s kinda the opposite, how men with that complex love an “innocent” Madonna, but if she expresses sexual desire or has a sexual past, she is a “whore”. He has sexual desire and wants to sleep with the “whore” to not ruin his view of his innocent “Madonna”, this has been seen a few times on the dead bedroom subreddit where men have said they can’t have sex with their wife because it “takes away their purity”. Once they sleep with the pure “Madonna”, she now becomes a whore and can’t be loved
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:17 AM
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What do you mean “accurate”? We need to differentiate between “mid looking” and “average”, as a women, when someone asks me to rate someone’s attractiveness, I use 5 to mean mid/okay looking, not average, this doesn’t mean it’s not accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:22 AM
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I agree, but I think 18 year olds are naive and childlike, instead of insulting and shaming them, we should educate them to make better decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:18 AM
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This, it wasn’t motivated by a man, o wanted sex then had to go find a male
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:14 AM
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Women literally run to bi men, it’s not the consensus that women are Ickes out by it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:05 AM
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If this is the case, why do they not apply those same standards to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:04 AM
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I think it’s the typical Madonna whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:03 AM
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I think they mean “be yourself” in the sense of don’t fake the person you are, youre likes and dislikes, that kinda stuff, don’t put on a whole new persona because then you have to keep that act up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:00 AM
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This is true, I have really close male friends but they have traits that means I would never date them, maybe they don’t say what’s on their mind enough or they don’t practice introspection, there are many things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:55 AM
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Most people who are deemed overweight tho are not 600lbs, they’re very rarely even high than 200 Let alone 600
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:07 PM
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I don’t know about 0 places, astrology used to be one of the dominant beliefs a few thousand years back, I’ve heard atleast among the Egyptians, it’s easy to assume some places kept up these same beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:53 PM
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That’s exactly my point tho, because women naturally carry weight differently to men and differently to the beauty standard, what’s healthy is considered overweight to a significant portion of people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:48 PM
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That’s more of a logic thing, if you think body count matters, why would you want to sleep with someone unless you’re in a relationship with them? You wouldn’t, because you’d want to keep yours and others body counts low
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:46 PM
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A nihilist doesn’t mean you don’t have morals or moral reasoning, this also isn’t a discussion about who has moral superiority since that is largely subjective. This is that you’re saying men lie to justify actions they themselves consider immoral, which honestly, I really can’t relate to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:44 PM
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The head thing??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:24 PM
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If we’re going by visual obesity, men and women are very equal, personally I notice way more overweight men than women, but that could just be my own bias
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:20 PM
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Not agreeing isn’t insulting, saying “Personally, I don’t really like football” is different from saying “you’re stupid for liking football”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:17 PM
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There are memes, podcasts, and videos making fun of all of this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:16 PM
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“Only stupid girls like astrology”, “why would you like that, it’s so immature”, “You should get a real hobby”. Maybe I’m doing it wrong, but I’ve spoken about logic and science on every single first date, maybe this is why I’m single💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:16 PM
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Being selective and being non-promiscuous are very different things, through most of history, men and women have both been promiscuous and not fully monogamous until around the agricultural revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:14 PM
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You say there’s no incentive for guys to be honest…idk, maybe morals and values?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:12 PM
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I’ve never met a guy who didn’t get laid coz he said he didn’t like astrology, infact most of the guys I’ve slept with havent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:12 PM
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This just sounds like men have no morals and are only looking for self interest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:11 PM
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Congrats for figuring out how algorithms work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:40 PM
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BMI isn’t at all accurate, especially if you’re a gym goer or an athlete, as well as if you’re not white. I’m a size 0-2 US, yet I’m classed as borderline overweight 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:38 PM
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This! Most men are ugly due to 1. Putting in little effort, and 2. Having a different sense of what makes a man attractive compared to women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:35 PM
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30% of hetero relationships, the women has the higher drive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:57 PM
1

My own opinion, late 20s (unless you’re religious)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:51 PM
0

That’s true, until about 15 thousand years ago, women weren’t really monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:47 PM
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A lot of the time, makeup is a requirement for work when it comes to women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:45 PM
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Disapproval is completely different from making fun and insulting someone. Also, how is one supposed to know if a man is dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:40 PM
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Also, the same thing is never said about religion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:39 PM
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Delusional beliefs and hobbies are two different things, I like astrology and crystals, doesn’t mean I believe in it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:39 PM
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Wb Taylor swift, boy bands, makeup, tv shows, romance fiction, shopping, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:36 PM
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On that point that, what men usually find attractive in men and what women tend to find attractive in men are different a lot of the time. A lot of men find masculine men the most attractive or “ideal”, but a lot of women tend to find men who are a little more androgynous more attractive, e.g. Harry styles, young leonardo dicaprio
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:51 PM
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I completely disagree, atleast from what I personally see, I have people I’ve voted 10/10, who others have voted 2/10
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:49 PM
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Part of the criteria for npd is that it disables you
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:47 PM
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I don’t know, only you can answer that question.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:46 PM
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It is infact both
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 06:58 PM
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Yh, I wanna know his source?
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:46 PM
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Because beauty is subjective and what many other men deem a 5 I’ll deem a 10, vice versa
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:45 PM
-2

You know that’s an illness, a disability, right?
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:45 PM
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As for your second paragraph, you’re talking about impulsivity, which isn’t just relevant to sexual desire, but general emotion
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:31 PM
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If you look at the subreddit, it’s around 50/50, maybe 40/60, so close to being equal, and then when you look at studies, higher libido is 30/70
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 05:28 PM
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Well that’s what the studies show🤷🏽‍♀️ also, just take one look at the dead bedroom sub and you’ll see it’s very very common
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 09:10 AM
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How come the split for a higher libido in Hetero couples then is 70 30?
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 02:09 AM
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Yet to meet a guy who masturbates more than 12x a day
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 02:05 AM
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All men I’ve spoken to have, the maximum I’ve heard is 4x a day. Take a look at the dead bedroom sub and explain that coz obviously you’re wrong
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 01:06 AM
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So what’s ur explanation about men wanting less sex/masturbation
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 12:53 AM
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I do, I just have self control and discipline, that’s all, I don’t simply let my feelings and emotional guide me
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 12:46 AM
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I’m not fucking just one guy, and I meant even with friends who I don’t sleep with, and most answers I get from guys in general
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 12:45 AM
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If I had less than a thousand, how come men masturbate and want sex at a lower frequency than me?
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 12:35 AM
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No, because I still have self control, I’m able to stay logical, but again, never met a guy higher than me, even on snris
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 12:33 AM
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Female and I’ve never met a man with a higher libido than me
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 09:16 PM
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I think it’s coz you called it disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:33 PM
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Yh this is soooo true, but no one wants this convo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:58 AM
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Correct, I am not white
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:57 PM
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As long as we communicate that we’re not dating or anything and we’re not exclusive, then I’d say it’s casual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:05 AM
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Not necessarily 🤷🏽‍♀️ could be just sex then leave, I’ve become friends with some who I hang out with outside just cause we’re legitimate friends, but there’s no obligation to meet outside of the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:03 AM
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Is this whole sub not men slut shaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:50 AM
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If I say I’m having casual sex with someone, I mean I’m regularly hooking up with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:47 AM
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Hanging out and going on a date are completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:46 AM
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No, no, please don’t lump us all in😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:42 AM
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There’s a link between porn addiction and ED
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:40 AM
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What people don’t mention is in the same study men were found to be chasing the top 20-30% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:39 AM
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Women have a higher libido 30% of the time compared to their male partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:38 AM
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Men don’t shrink tho? So that’s not rlly relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:07 PM
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How men who aren’t those things get picked then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:26 PM
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We have social dominance yes, but nothing like beta or alpha, a heavy basis of the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:10 PM
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You said redpill accept biology, yet they constantly push the idea that men are meant to have multiple women but women can only have one man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:10 PM
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It’s specific to weight gain and height, the examples you gave have nothing to do with weight gain or height?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:49 PM
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If fwb isn’t in the friend zone, the friend zone would pretty much just be “friends why I’m not attracted to” vs fwb “friends im somewhat attracted to”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:48 PM
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Fwb are friends, not a relationship at all, fwb literally are just friends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:46 PM
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Look at our closest living primates now, they don’t form monogamous relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:44 PM
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And we don’t have alpha and beta in humans OR wolves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:43 PM
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Bro, women were not monogamous in pre agricultural earth, we were way more egalitarian and didn’t have set jobs for genders
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:43 PM
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They don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:41 PM
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Sometimes I’ll have a random burts of confidence and self esteem (like a few hours), or it’s completely fake and a facade (9x/10)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:00 PM
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Ig maybe “fake confidence, arrogance” is rlly what can be detected
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:51 PM
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Women still do not get more money tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:47 PM
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The feminist movement advocates for body positivity anyway (with reason of health ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:45 PM
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There are hundreds of examples of men leaving their literal wives because they gained some weight after literally just giving birth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:44 PM
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You can fuck in the friend zone, just become fwb? It’s depends what you want tho, relationship or sex🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:41 PM
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The red pill literally rejects almost all modern psychology, biology, and history
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:39 PM
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Wow, I’ve found someone with a sane, reasonable, and non sexist answer, crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:37 PM
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But the red pill actively rejects biology and pre agricultural human culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:34 PM
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I live in the uk, I see like none of it applicable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:33 PM
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I think it’s just an internet, sexist, incel thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:32 PM
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Examples of these double standards you talk of
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:31 PM
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Most women go for men within 5 years of their age, larger age gaps have a 90+% separation rate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:30 PM
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So would you be ok with your wife in the future doing the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:28 PM
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If you hire house cleaners and babysitters, then what are your responsibilities and how are you gonna pay for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:08 PM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:44 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:53 PM
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Because if someone abused my friend for example I wouldn’t exactly wanna chat or sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:31 PM
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I actually don’t know many men that can even do 10 pull ups, so not many women and not many men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:39 PM
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Women who can pass as firefighters, those who can’t don’t, it’s really not that difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:39 PM
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Bro the requirement is like 50 for both men and women? I know this coz my family have worked at the barracks for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:38 PM
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I think many times it’s a stance of loyalty, if some guy abused my friend, no, I’m not going to want to see him, let alone sleep with him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:37 PM
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Where did I say you had to like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:35 PM
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Well it obviously did if you went from not being able to look or talk to someone, to then being able to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:35 PM
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Well yes obviously if you’re telling people you don’t like X person because they did Y then you’re going to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:05 PM
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Surely that’s very disingenuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:05 PM
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How do you know dating someone will traumatise you unless you’ve dated them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:04 PM
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In men not women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:01 PM
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I’m pretty bad at masking at the moment and I’m always told by non autistic guys I’m too blunt, direct, not flirtatious enough, ask too many questions, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:52 AM
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Women may have more options, but if they only really get on with other autistic people, why would they choose to date someone they can’t fully be themselves around
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:16 AM
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That’s a completely separate issue tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:33 AM
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If you’re looking specifically for a relationship tho, maybe you’ll only really mesh with other neurodivergent ppl, looking at my friends I really am finding this with the ppl I tend to get on rlly well with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:31 AM
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They have the exact same testing requirements, there’s no male, female standard, just a standard, hence why they’re not split up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:18 AM
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I think about 6 in 10 of my friends happen to be autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:12 AM
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I’m getting off topic a bit but my point is that everyone sucks at it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:04 AM
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Atleast in England it’s crazy hard, most people fail before training and some die during the training
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:03 AM
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Yes, because hardly any men also pass those same fitness standards. There are many many many women who have passed fitness standards, which most people who attempt do not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:03 AM
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Some people I find from hinge or tinder happen to be autistic, I’m starting to think I attract them to be honest because most of my friends end up being autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:59 AM
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I’m yet to encounter them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:57 AM
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Group From New Guinea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:55 AM
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I can’t quite tell whether it’s scary or shocking that you can’t think why. Anyway, let’s say you’re right, if this is an innate difference, why should we allow men around kids? Vulnerable people? Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:50 AM
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So with men, there’s a girl you hate, after the sex do you still hate her? Or during it? At what point during the social interaction does the anger go away? Or even hostility?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:46 AM
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You can’t go back to an ex if you’ve never dated them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:32 AM
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Tchambuli
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:31 AM
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Again, this is not universal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:31 AM
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Excess testosterone tho has no relation to increase muscle mass tho for example, hence why men and women don’t take hormones instead of surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:30 AM
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Almost all of human behaviour, down to what you find attractive, is learned human behaviour, even love is not innate to humans
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:28 AM
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I study biological, psychology, and gender and sex studies at uni, evolutionary biology and psychology is seen by most scientists as not far from a pseudoscience, mainly because it’s based on history that was then debunked and uses biased studies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:26 AM
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Deep voice, body hair, and muscles actually has near to no indicator of how much T a male has, this is why in studies where researchers get men to estimate how much T other men have, they all get it wrong. It’s just like how extra estrogen won’t give girls bigger boobs, or make them fatter/chubbier
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:22 AM
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Bodybuilder is an extreme example, but even an averge 6 pack from a swimmer, a lot of women don’t rlly care, also shoulders is an odd one to me that men like I completely forgot about that one. Women found muscles attractive in studies where they used samples of women who were conditioned to find them attractive, what makes men and women attractive isn’t universal (bar height I believe for men?)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:20 AM
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I often say to people not to ask me questions unless they want an actual answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:17 AM
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A guy asked me in person what I thought of him, I told him he was mid because I thought he was mid🤷🏽‍♀️, just like I told him his new mullet made him ugly when he asked me💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:15 AM
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If you don’t understand why something happens, you can’t fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:13 AM
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You’re so right, if you hate women innately so much, maybe you should, idk, leave them alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:12 AM
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I’m referring to money and muscles tho as I think I mentioned previously are found very attractive by men but not women, this is evident when you see body builders, many men are jealous of them, many women think they’re really ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:10 AM
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Where did I say that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:08 AM
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I don’t believe it’s a matter of separating sex from emotion, but possibly a matter of how men and women experience disdain perhaps? For example if I hate someone I’m not going to want to interact with them, even be in the same vicinity as them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:08 AM
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How come hormone levels are not associated with submissive behaviours then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:01 AM
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You’re completely forgetting that women were not even allowed to be frontline at war??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:00 AM
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Men commuting more violent crime is not universal, in some cultures men are viewed as nurturing and emotional where as women are viewed as aggressive leaders
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:59 AM
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That’s what men find attractive though, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:43 AM
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Have you heard of a trauma bond? It’s a big contributor to Stockholm syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:42 AM
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Move away from what argument
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:41 AM
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My point is it won’t stop unless you stop the root cause, this whole conditioning of older brothers and fathers teaching women how shit men are, they only want one thing, not allowed a bf coz they’re trash, I think you get the point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:40 AM
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That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:39 AM
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I know many women who have muscle, just a tiny bit, or boobs, bum etc who are classed as overweight but aren’t. Im a size 6uk but my bmi puts me as overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:38 AM
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Pre agriculture revolution men and women were equal. Top female athletics are way higher than the average athletic male? Ofc that’s general and the level of this depends on the sport. Innately, men and women are extremely similar, when you take sexist ideas out of the environment, men and women grow up to be, pretty much, the same (behaviour wise), hence why 30% of hunters were women, the non-monogamy from women and men, much more collectivism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:36 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:28 AM
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The answer is men, specifically fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:28 AM
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My sex drive is higher than all men I’ve met so I don’t think I am
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:28 AM
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Why are they exes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:26 AM
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Fun fact, it’s not evolutionary, it’s a social condition
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:11 AM
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A lot of it comes down to misinformation on nature vs nurture imo, most things many rp men (close to all) claim is “biologically” is actually conditioned and not seen universally, but few people will actually believe that even after all research is handed to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:07 AM
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Maybe I’m being cynical but I don’t really think you can more than just not being aggressive, abusive, etc as women are generally wary due to how many times things like that have occurred
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:01 AM
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I’m not sure how relevant this study is because “over weight” and “fat” are very different, for example a gym girl who lifts is overweight but not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:54 AM
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I think what women find attractive in men and what men find attractive/desirable in men are generally quite different tho, like most guys seem to emphasise money and muscles in what makes men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:48 AM
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Surely you would not enjoy and be distracted with disgust?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:44 AM
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Many women get killed for that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:42 AM
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As an autistic women, you should try and find other autistics if possible. The amount of guys I’ve met who say they want honest girls then when I say they’re boring or ugly on a date because they asked that get offended is astonishing, got called a psychopathic bitch just last month
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:40 AM
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I believe one of the biggest problems is because many men mistake what women like and/or want, for example most women don’t care about how much money a guy has or if he does or doesn’t pays for stuff, but for example guys who know how to clean, basic cooking, ect are favoured
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:31 AM
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Makes sense that if you don’t want equality for women, most women you tell that to aren’t going to be a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:27 AM
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Why would u fuck someone u disdain?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:26 AM
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And guess who tells women that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:25 AM
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Whether they want a relationship or just sex/fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:04 PM
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Yh I agree, unfortunately in the west that still not the case for women :/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:00 PM
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Would you say the cost of any life long effects should be split aswell then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:02 PM
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Because if you intentionally lie about your intentions, you are the one to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:33 PM
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Cost is not just monitory tho, there are life long effects for women when taken
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:27 PM
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I never understand this stuff, if I’m not sure I simply ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:21 PM
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You realise marriage and divorce laws are the same for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:15 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:14 PM
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Not my opinion, It’s simple statistical research, show me a source that marriage makes men more miserable than unmarried men and vice versa for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:31 PM
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But when you compare it to women, married women are much less happier than single women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:08 AM
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The statistic is 30, 30% of women have a higher sex drive than their male partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:50 PM
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Ok, “hundreds” then, show that sex drive differences are bigger between men-men than men-women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:48 PM
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That’s not true, all scientific studies show that the gap is small from late teens to 30s where women then overtake
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:30 AM
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For some reason, married men are significantly happier than non married and single men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:23 AM
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If someone prefers a man who’s 6 feet tall it’s because they’ve likely been conditioned to want that, wanting a man who has a professional career ig could signify stability and hard work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:21 AM
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What question
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/23 04:37 AM
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Sex drive and testosterone aren’t the same thing. https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare https://leighnoren.com/human-sexuality-blog/who-has-more-sexual-desire-men-or-women-according-to-science/ https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/ss/slideshow-sex-drive-changes-age Also, look up the differences in what sex drives means for men and women, because for a long time, female Sex drive wasn’t considered a “sex drive”, also women who expressed wanting sex we diagnosed …
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/23 08:41 PM
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Probably because science proves that there isn’t much difference
/r/AntiFeminists21/02/23 02:02 PM
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I have no idea, sorry I’m severely autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:05 PM
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I mean all I said is I want a man who can clean and you said they’re high standards, so I am genuinely confused what you’re going on about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:59 PM
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Not sure what you’re on about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:50 PM
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Can most men really not do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:43 PM
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Omg seeing a man hoovering >>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:50 PM
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I wouldn’t even date a guy who can’t cook basic meal and clean ect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:49 PM
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Completely depends on the person honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:27 PM
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Who said yiy had to leave with your children?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:52 PM
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So are women to blame for being raped or assaulted of they go to a party or get rlly drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:19 PM
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They wouldn’t be being uprooted wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:18 PM
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Many people become abusive if forced to stay in a relationship with someone but once separated and have time to learn and change, they realise that that person simply just wasn’t for them and that’s ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:02 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:23 PM
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That doesn’t explain anything tho? You wouldn’t be dating a man, and you wouldn’t be dating a muscular, I’m saying let’s say you see a girl at a bar you find her maybe an 8/10 looks and personality and she tells you she’s post op trans? They would still have everything you value in a partner so I’m just trying to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:13 PM
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But you can’t blame women not wanting to change how they look for men??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:01 PM
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I think it’s because of how many people who advocate for nuclear families are less well informed and less intelligent. For one, they act like nuclear family’s are “in our nature”, even tho humans weren’t even monogamous until recently, just like our primates now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:39 AM
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A co parenting family is way more healthy than an abusive one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:34 AM
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Well yes, that is the whole reason that men with a Madonna whore complex are never rlly happy and become red pilled or incels
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:29 AM
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Did you not say that if women don’t want people to sexualise them they should change their looks to be less attractive and appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:28 AM
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Damn, I’m also surprised about that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:17 AM
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Come on now, don’t tell me you can’t use you’re critical thinking skills to realise that this is because of the orgasm gap and shame put upon women if they have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:14 AM
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So because some men lack brain cells women are supposed to make themselves look more ugly? Where’s the logic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:11 AM
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Madonna whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:09 AM
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And I didn’t say large body count necessarily I just said the same as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:07 AM
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My point was that logically, how can you have one standard for yourself and a different one for a girl when it comes to relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:06 AM
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So you’re allowed to be experienced but women aren’t???? How can you turn a girl away who has the same body count/experience as you wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:04 AM
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So you’re allowed to be experienced but women aren’t??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:00 AM
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Do you hold yourself to the same standard atleast?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:19 AM
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From experience, when a girl makes the first move a fair few guys will call her desperate or a slut, so I don’t bother anymore tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:09 AM
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This is literally the same for women tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:03 AM
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Yh, but because they attempt less, this would suggest that a lot less men suffer with severe suicidal ideation, which I don’t think is necessarily the case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:55 AM
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R u joking ofc it wouldn’t?!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:48 AM
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It’s the one people are talking about rn due to Leo and his new gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:41 AM
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Because if you’re 50-60 and praying on 16/17 yr olds waiting till the day they turn 18, you’re a predator, same with 17 yr olds that go after 13 yr olds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:32 AM
-1

You said when there’s no age gap, Leo and his girlfriend have an age gap
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:31 AM
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Men are allowed to have racial preferences, weight preferences, breast and bum preferences, body preferences of their women after pregnancy, tattoo/piercing preferences, but a girl says she wants a guy who’s X inches taller than her and it’s worst thing ever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:43 PM
1

How is it predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:41 PM
5

Yep, I’ve gotten this response before, heartbreaking in an argument with a friend I must say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:56 PM
1

No but I can see that English is for u
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:55 PM
1

If women were monogamous there wouldn’t be other sperm?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:54 PM
5

If someone asks for your truthful opinion, you then can’t be offended if u don’t like their opinion🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t usually ask questions that I might not like the answer to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:53 PM
4

Some say that you’re “leading them on”??? Makes no sense Ik 💀 but if u don’t sugar coat stuff they can get aggressive or just unpleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:53 PM
3

True, there’s a big double standard when it comes to women not being allowed to say that they don’t find someone attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:31 PM
13

I don’t keep count, one guy raped me, and another tried to assault me, one wasn’t too bad but he did call me a cold hearted psychopathic bitch, I’ve gotten a fair few side comments of “so you think you’re too goo for me then?”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:29 PM
13

A lot of men can’t take that honesty, hence why women have learned to sugarcoat things, for our own safety aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:26 PM
19

only wanting to date someone you’re attracted to isn’t shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:25 PM
7

A lot better advice in comparison to this sub that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:02 PM
1

Since all of those example have to be done through either ivf or assault, and in the case of assault pregnancy tests are usually done for the assault anywU
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:10 PM
1

The last three are the same thing? So if a women hadn’t been assaulted or gone through ivf, why would she need a test?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:10 PM
1

Testosterone and lizard brain aren’t the same thing lmao, women still have lots of testosterone, more than oestrogen actually
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:08 PM
1

If men rlly struggle to control this lizard brain they shouldn’t be in any places of power
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:07 PM
1

No idea what you wrote, I personally couldn’t understand it, but it was to get out other mens sperm from women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:07 PM
1

Well come on then what are these examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:23 PM
2

Go back a few thousand years, ever searched up why the end of the penis is shaped the way it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:21 PM
1

It’s crazy how men haven’t progressed past a lizard brain isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:12 PM
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That’s not true lmao humans weren’t monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:53 PM
0

How many other ways could the child not be his if his wife hadn’t cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:52 PM
1

Maybe community work would be a better first option then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:48 PM
1

A few of those things aren’t exactly taking the lead tho? Also taking the lead (ig we could also call it positive dominance as there’s a fine line between this and toxic dominance), isn’t the only trad masc trait I.e. aggression, independence, unsympathetic, confidence, pride, height, muscles, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:47 PM
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That’s just because women are more attractive ~ coming from a straight women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:37 AM
1

Yh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:50 AM
0

As a girl, who has many female friends, who studies this topic, a lot of girls will find this wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:48 AM
3

Because the duck up is literally on men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:18 PM
2

Or it could more so be if they choose to have a kid, then leave the child’s life, they then have to get a vasectomy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:16 PM
1

My point was that if you make it known to a girl that you’re not misogynistic, she’ll be fine with a guy who doesn’t do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:12 PM
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As a girl I think it’s so wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:09 PM
-3

I mean I’m saying this as a women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:07 PM
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No I’m being serious, you could just be like hi I think you’re so you want to talk, then they can say whether they want you to keep on talking or not. In places like the gym I can understand ppl are just there to work out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:17 PM
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Actually he was more sought after then than now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:15 PM
1

In England, ABSOLUTELY
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:15 PM
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Yep, it’s one of the most disgusting traits a person can have imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:33 PM
0

Bro he had girls running after before he was famous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:28 PM
2

Why do you have to either be conservative or aggressive? Why don’t you just flirt and ask if she wants to shag like a normal and competent person?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:27 PM
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Omg I never realised there was such a difference, I think a lot of men must confuse the two then because the amount of controlled men is actually sad istg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:25 PM
10

Finally, a sane person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:25 PM
2

If that were true how come women have height limits and how come men don’t prefer taller women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:06 PM
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There’s nothing fucked with being short? Also being short isn’t all to do with genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:38 PM
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First one I completely disagree with, and the last 3 most women prefer because if we do it we’re seen as “desperate” or a “slut”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:18 PM
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On reflection, I think I do that with all the people in my life anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:50 AM
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If you look at what women gravitate to you’d see that most of us prefer people with emotional maturity and expression/communication, as opposed to just shouting coz someone’s angry as they don’t know how to express themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:49 AM
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These aren’t people I’ve just “heard about” tho, I’m talking about people in my real life. In my opinion, if a guy is accused of rape it’s more likely to be completely ignored than effect him socially
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:44 AM
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Ahah, Thankyou sm for the distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:41 AM
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It’s gendered because it’s men that are told that they’re not allowed to cry because it’s not “strong and manly”, toxic femininity is a whole separate thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:46 AM
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I’ve seen way more men shaming men for that than women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:16 AM
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I’d argue majority don’t like traditionally masculine guys tbh, every women Ik has said they prefer a guy who can show emotion and actually listen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:15 AM
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And let’s not forget about the 27 yr old who kidnapped and raped my best mate when we were 14 and the guys girlfriend try to fight my friend for “stealing her man”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:29 AM
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Another one I know got to stay at the same uni he was at while his victim had a mental breakdown, ended up in a psychiatric ward so the uni kicked her out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:27 AM
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I know multiple rapists, their friends don’t care, they admitted to rape, they admitted it in msgs aswell, and their friends just don’t even care, neither do the police
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:26 AM
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But rapists who are accused of rape live life without many, if any, legal and social consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:36 PM
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You said society despise men, how many posts have u seen bashing men? If society hates men surely there would be many here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:08 PM
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Funny how scared men are of women falsely accusing them when they’re 50x more likely to rape someone than be falsely accused
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:05 PM
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Considering rapists lives go on and more than 98% of them don’t spend a day in jail, for some reason I find that untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:02 PM
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Have you seen this sub? Where r all the man haters?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:58 PM
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If you’re going for children, then Yh, you’re creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:49 PM
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Considering the women would be forced to carry the child a mandatory vasectomy would make a lot more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:43 PM
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What consequences will it have for the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:55 PM
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A lot and this is shown by sexual desire being almost the exact same in countries where men and women are more equal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:47 PM
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Men have killed women for not giving them their phone number, can’t be risking that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:46 PM
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But men are taught they’re allowed sex and women can’t, when you look at all studies they’re very similar, more similar than different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:40 PM
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I’ve been saying this for the longest time Thankyou
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:39 PM
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So men can go round and have sex but women can’t? Yh right 💀🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:38 PM
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How does that explain why more DIFFERENT women attempt? You’re showing evidence that if anything mens mental health is taken so much more seriously, since when ever a female attempts or commits she’s “attention seeking” ofc. “If they wanted to kîll themselves they would”, so are like the 90+% of males who fail also attention seekers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:49 AM
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It’s the “canary in the coal mine”🤦🏽‍♀️ I mean I guess if you believe that women do suffer 2-3x more meanwhile calling them all attention seekers I can’t exactly change your mind at this point you’re too far gone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:46 AM
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I mean it’s not because if you take suicide statistics as evidence for how much men and women suffer you’d be implying that women suffer 2-3x more than men, I don’t believe that this gap is true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:44 AM
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And your comment shows how womens mental health isn’t taken as seriously as this subreddit seems to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:19 AM
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But there are actually more women who attempt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:18 AM
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Not for my area, we’re considered wealthy lmao. Luckily it’s not my dad it’s my stepdad, but he’s a bit of an asshole, especially since he earns more, works less hours, and doesn’t pay any rent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:43 AM
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There’s maternity and paternity leave, but pay isn’t much after a couple weeks so a lot of women go back to work soon after, so ofc they wanna spend as much time with the baby as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:41 AM
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They don’t show why men commit, what disorders or situations are most likely to make men commit, why men are so much less likely to attempt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:36 AM
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I’m from England, every one I know who was pregnant worked up until the day before or the day they went info hospital and started back at household chores after a couple days
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:35 AM
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Alrhough I’m confused how this would prove men have a higher sex drive when men think about sleep more even tho women require slightly more sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:34 AM
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Can you please post the full source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:32 AM
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England
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:31 AM
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Don’t shoot me if you disagree I’m just the messenger, take it up with all the researchers that conducted all the scientifical studies 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:27 AM
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“History”, you mean women literally being non monogamous until recently 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:26 AM
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I am going by the sample of this subreddit for these debates since most of the men here say that this is “all men”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:26 AM
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I’m literally the one who said it’s NOT to do with money it’s to do with time and effort
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:19 AM
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99% of women don’t care about how much a guy earns, couldn’t care less whether the man earns more or less. I’ve never seen a man pick up more of the work when the wife is pregnancy, my mum went to work the morning of her c section and started back doing all the household chores 2 days later when she got out of hospital
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:18 AM
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Therefor, evidence from current study’s would suggest that men are not far more sex driven
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:14 AM
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If you look at almost every single study, they say that male and female sex drive are very similar, more similar than different, but mens is usually slightly higher
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:13 AM
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My point is that the difference isn’t large, it’s very small, and there’s more within group variance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:11 AM
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Going by this sub, slut shaming women is absolutely not shit on and white men are loved
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:10 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8188967/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:09 AM
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Yes, I have considered, and I have learnt as it’s part of my degree, influenza isn’t treated unless symptoms are serious, which is much more likely to occur in men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:04 AM
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It is in all cultures, im not even from the US, it’s influenza but men will almost always have worse symptoms (goes for most contagious illnesses) due to a weakened immune system. Considering evidence shows women have invented many things and are less prone to illogical impulsive outbursts which are directly correlated to not enough estrogen and or too much testosterone, biology disagrees with u
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:55 PM
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It’s a well known fact women have a MUCH better immune system, this is where the term “man flu” comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:46 PM
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It literally would because partners are putting in 50/50 effort
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:46 PM
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I don’t believe men have ever been shamed for their own sexual nature as much as women have been so far, despite science, archeology, and biology, many people still try to share the view that women innately don’t like (shouldn’t have) sex even tho women aren’t innately monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:45 PM
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Considering male and female sex drive has less variance than within male group, I’d say most female can fully sympathise, however, obviously we’re disgusting worthless sluts to many if we say that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:41 PM
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No one shames mens mental health and emotions more than other men, and this is why most of mens mental health charities is almost made up completely of female volunteers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:30 PM
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Suicide stats don’t rlly show much about mens mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:24 PM
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If he’s not earning as much because he’s working less hours he can just do a bit more of the house work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:20 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:00 PM
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It’s thought to be a lot less traumatising than jumping from a great height
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:05 PM
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Funnily enough practicing abstinence is the biggest cause of abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:48 PM
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No, overdose
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:32 PM
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Oh I wish the the uk men were like that💀 I’m so sick of seeing my mother take care of childcare, while working over 40 hours a week and cook and hoover every day and pay all the rent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:18 PM
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Living life on easy mode is what would make you shamed for ur inadequacies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:05 PM
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Sorry, I meant to say attempt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:04 PM
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Women make more attempts AND are more likely to commit suicide, women pick methods that will be mentally easiest on the person who finds them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:39 PM
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I’m going off of uk stats, you’re still not grasping my point, if partners are working equal number of hours and put 50/50 money wise but the women does everything else, the relationship isn’t 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:35 PM
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Majority of fathers have very little involvement compared to women, which considering men on average on work a couple hours extra a week and do very little household chores, no where near 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:10 PM
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I’m not I’m actually speaking for a majority
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:06 PM
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That’s what I’m saying tho, men can’t expect women to do it all plus work and cook and household chores then claim it’s “50/50” coz they’re contributing the same financially
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:03 PM
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You can “pay it off”, but not financially, it’s things like helping with household chores, cooking sometimes, being involved and taking care of ur child
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:01 PM
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That’s not quite true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:00 PM
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Yes it does, pregnancy and birth can never be financially paid off
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:34 PM
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50/50 isn’t money
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:32 PM
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Not if they want husband which 98% won’t adopt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:31 PM
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I think that’s op’s point, most women I know who have kids are still expected to work cook child care and clean while pregnant and straight after
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:30 PM
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Men have it so much easier making money as well as having bio kids
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:29 PM
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Compensate doesn’t mean money lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:28 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:27 PM
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50/50 doesn’t mean paying all bills, it mean doing more housework when your wife can’t work for a month coz she had an emergency c section
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:26 PM
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Women live longer due to the immune system
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:23 PM
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Considering more men are unemployed than women, and women have to look after the children and house as well as work, women pay well over their fair share
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:21 PM
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But women have to do all of that without getting paid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:19 PM
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If they’re both working the same hours, share housework but the women also has to go through pregnancy and childcare, that’s not 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:18 PM
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Omg, finally someone on this subreddit who sounds a bit more sane! I’d agree (although I say this from someone not being in a romantic relationship) that relationships (romantic and platonic) aren’t always 100% perfect, and if you want them long term then sometimes there are going to be things that you both need to work on to overcome it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:15 AM
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Because if she’s already putting in more effort into the family/marriage, he can’t expect her to then do even more by working out when he’s not gonna step up and take on some of her responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:16 PM
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Ok but can you do all of that plus taking care of the kids, the school run, and all the house work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:14 PM
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You have to think tho, if you don’t want to compromise when it comes to childcare and housework, how is she even supposed to have the time to work out? Unless you don’t want children then obviously that’s not needed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:13 PM
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I mean with some children it can be very difficult to get them to eat so giving them any food they want maybe the only way for them to eat and not starve
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:10 PM
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I’ve heard of so many men breaking up with their partner just after a new baby because her body changed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:08 PM
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As a girl, I’d say it’s pretty reasonable, especially if you as the man take care of your appearance, obviously nothing model level ya know but the both of you taking care of skin, hair, healthy (ish) diet to stay in a healthy weight range, the gym if either of you like. Tbf, for the most part it just comes to taking care of your body and good hygiene, if you can do that well, I think appearance and fitness comes with it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:07 PM
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I don’t think I’d sacrifice it for any money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:27 AM
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20F, absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:26 AM
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But you can be fuckzoned and friend zoned at the same time, best of both worlds imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:57 PM
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Damn, never realised how above average I was, I’m flattered
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:49 PM
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My point was that women on need men to protect them from men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:08 PM
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If it’s untrue feel free to take it up with the whole of stem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:50 PM
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Completely untrue, women weren’t monogamous by any means, you can even see this evolution with women experiencing orgasms easier the more they have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:49 PM
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Where did I say women can’t protect themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:47 PM
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No idea what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:22 AM
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Irrelevant because that’s the same for both?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:21 AM
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If that were the case how stem men are more desired? Many of them are the antithesis of cultured
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:16 AM
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He can get that his own age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:09 AM
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We must be talking about two separate communities because it wasn’t an experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:55 AM
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Intelligence isn’t a masculine trait and most women also don’t care about status/wealth. Funnily enough men with some feminine qualities are actually much preferred than one who have none. It’s also pretty objective that someone you can’t have an actual conversation with IS boring
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:49 AM
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How does this explain tribes/communities where both men and women lack stereotypical male traits and live collectively? Or where gender stereotypes are reversed in others?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:32 AM
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Yes but not against men when women only have half the upper body strength and 2/3rds lower strength than men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:30 AM
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True, but stem and humanity degrees I’d argue are both very useful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:28 AM
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I never once said women were the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:27 AM
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There’s a difference between finding someone attractive tho and staying with them as a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:26 AM
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Lazy people who have no ambition are boring, it’s insane men would prefer that over than independence and intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:25 AM
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But there would be very few women with a male hormonal profile, so women wouldn’t magically develop men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:23 AM
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They left, succeeded, then men literally came and destroyed a shit ton of it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:19 AM
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Infact more women now graduate with degrees compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:18 AM
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There are plenty of women entering stem now so I’m not understanding your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:15 AM
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Jesus Christ there are so many islands available to buy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:10 AM
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I can guarantee you know near nothing about biological innate female nature
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:08 AM
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I mean it literally proves that women don’t need men, why would they need protection if there were no men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:06 AM
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No one truly wins in the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:04 AM
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Much of technology and inventions was funnily enough made by women but their husbands took credit so it was taken seriously. In the world wars women did it all bar fight
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:01 AM
4

I never thought of this you’re actually so right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:59 AM
1

There are, just not in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:58 AM
3

It’s funny because when you actually go and look at African tribes some of them are the complete opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:56 AM
2

No one is attracted to a bum who doesn’t work and has no ambition in life tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:55 AM
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The vast majority of MEN in the west, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:43 PM
8

All of these issues will be fixed if you’re just straight up honest oh my god
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:43 PM
9

This is what we’re saying tho, when a women says he’s in the friend zone, they literally just mean that they’re friends and don’t want to be in a relationship or fuck them (most of the time). Like all of womens best friends who are female are also “in the friend zone” because they’re friends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:40 PM
3

Ssri’s are shit💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:41 PM
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Although wealth is definitely important when it comes to starting a family
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:40 PM
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Success doesn’t necessarily have to be high status or wealth tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:39 PM
1

Because if you look at past homosapien life, we were less monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:25 PM
1

I think the hot girl phase probably starts ending around mid 20s for women and late 20s/early 30s for men, but this isn’t necessarily a higher level of maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:24 PM
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It’s only women with children who care about status and wealth tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:14 PM
1

Honestly you don’t NEED to know really, you can probably tell the range by how well you learn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:11 PM
1

There’s definitely atleast a correlation to intelligence and iq, however this is ofc not the same for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:10 PM
1

I guess because most generalisation aren’t real and just come from misunderstandings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:09 PM
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There have been countless studies providing evidence that the more intelligent a women is, the less likely she is to have children and get married, and the happier she tends to be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:04 PM
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But women definitely prefer someone within a couple years of age to them, this is why age gap relationships with older men have some of the highest divorce rates
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:02 PM
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As a women, Ive heard most women say that looks are the 2nd most important thing to personality, so things like intelligence and honesty would come first. Then status and power are more like a bonus (atleast for younger women, it’s a bit different for women who already have children), ambition and a drive to be successful in the future is so much more important than status and wealth to most women. You can be piss poor but if you’re hard working your way up the ladder to future success you’re ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:00 PM
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I mean we do though, it’s just that there was much more variety than today, we know that a lot of cultures were unluckily to be complete monogamy, we also know that some cultures had “third genders” due to burials found by archaeologists, we know that some communities were fully collective and had no set parents (as some still do today), we know that others held massive emphasised on homosexuality, and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:48 PM
1

Or infact some cultures don’t really differentiate different gender roles and stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:41 PM
1

As someone who’s doing a degree in this, it’s honestly like 90% this, this is why in some other cultures, especially when you look at tribes, gender is COMPLETELY different, in some it’s even the opposite to how it is in western society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:41 PM
1

How would this apply to simple fwbs tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:29 PM
3

I mean before Christianity, women were supposedly a lot less monogamous, as well as men, many cultures thrived on a much more collectivist ideology, funnily enough this is why humans have developed to have much bigger penises for their body compared to other mammals, it’s literally to scrape out other mens semen (lovely ik). On whole I fully believe that education from young will fix so many double standard and prejudiced issues we have in society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:28 PM
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I’ve actually done a little bit of research on it, funnily enough the more a women has sex, the easier it gets for her to orgasm? (Atleast this was the case in the past for homosapiens). As humans we’ve continually developed more and more awareness of the world, think about the fact that we were probably never even able to really see what our own faces and bodies looked like without mirrors? With more awareness comes more barriers and therefor more anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:23 PM
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Also intelligence comes way above social class, I hate not being able to have conversations with someone’s where we can learn from one another
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:17 PM
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I mean statistically the happiest demographic are unmarried childless women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:14 PM
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The con of birth control and other chemicals and medicines only being tested on men is that it makes it harder for women to finish, I believe it would’ve been a lot easier a few thousand years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:00 PM
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I agree with some of what you said, but there are so many ways to make sex so much more equalised to give men more power, infact I can see it already starting. With birth control and body autonomy for women on the rise, women no longer have to worry as much about getting pregnant, now if we try and remove the double standards about women having sexual vs men, this will again equalise it a bit more for men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:55 PM
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We were less modest tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:49 PM
1

Yh, not to mention women had sex with multiple partners before Christianity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:48 PM
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Advantages: Taken much more seriously in stem, and would’ve got an autism diagnosis like 20 years earlier, unlikely to be raped and less sexual harassment, stronger, almost always orgasm during sex, no slut shaming, wouldn’t have to sacrifice body or career for bio kids, quicker muscle gain Disadvantages: Orgasm wouldn’t be as good, mental health not taken as seriously among friends, likely less emotional understanding and more impulsivity, slower maturing, worrying about too much or too little …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:42 PM
1

Lmao that’s simple not true, western men have a lower EQ that’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:34 PM
2

Well duh orgasms are natural to both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:30 PM
1

I never even thought of that it’s so true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:45 AM
2

No it depends whether you had casual sex with them or sex during a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:39 AM
1

If he’s specifically targeting her because of her age, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:15 AM
4

That’s not the Madonna whore complex, and women don’t get “over sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:14 AM
4

But she wouldn’t lose sexual interest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:47 AM
0

But they don’t lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:06 PM
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Yes but estrogen also increases body hair, I’m talking about fat around the stomach, not the legs. Men don’t tend to like wider pelvic floors though was my point? And beauty standards are different dependent on where you life, kylie Jenner is seen as really ugly in many places around the world
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:23 PM
1

Anyway, my main point is that your preference is by far innate, if that were true it would be 1) universal, and 2) traits that suggest further chance of survival
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:40 PM
1

As well as estrogen, hair on women was actually a sign of fertility, as was added fat around the stomach, and ofc wider pelvises which is odd because obviously most men find tighter pelvic floors more physically pleasurable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:38 PM
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No it’s predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:48 AM
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It’s quite the opposite, it’s not innate at all, infact biologically it would be the hairier the better, but standards are depent on culture
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:35 AM
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It absolutely can be, especially depending on what the beauty standard is where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:32 PM
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If the average women was as good looking as the average man, men wouldn’t find many women attractive either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:50 PM
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I honestly think because women tend to take better care of their appearances, women on average a wayyyy better looking than men, as a straight women I’m saying this, and most women know this, most women I see I find attractive, it’s just that most men aren’t attractive compared to women. When it comes to catcalling, mainly because a 14 year old doesn’t want to be hit on my a 30 year old builder??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:49 PM
1

Targeting younger people is, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:26 PM
1

That’s simply not true, you can’t have one rule for men and another for women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:18 PM
1

Do you keep your own body count low then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:55 AM
1

Because it’s predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:46 AM
0

Also 9/10 is a lot when you don’t even have to consider someone’s personality to hookup with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:41 AM
3

When women complain about being used for sex, it’s because the guy lied about wanting a relationship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:39 AM
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You realise all humans are visual creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:34 AM
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“Targeting”😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:33 PM
1

The point of a situation tho is that you’re already semi dating and doing relationship stuff together
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:20 PM
1

Wdym, it’s physically pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:06 PM
1

Really? I’ve never ever heard this to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:55 PM
1

Just because someone claims to be that doesn’t mean they are no matter how hard they try, you can’t change the English language
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:08 AM
1

Considering about 98% of women are feminists, I doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:07 AM
1

The higher variance in men tho is a normal distribution, so why would men have to settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:01 AM
1

I don’t understand what you’re trying to say, obviously women don’t want men to play them or act like assholes just because they find some men attractive and others not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:14 PM
0

Well Yh because you don’t need to know someone well to sleep with them, if you don’t know someone well and they’re not that attractive to you then why would you sleep with them? If you don’t know someone one, hell, you don’t even have to like them, but if they’re rlly attractive it makes sense why you’d sleep with them, surely men do this aswell?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:57 PM
0

You can’t date someone you don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:48 PM
0

Surely the only way to get to know someone is over time? You can’t jump through hoops for that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:28 AM
1

Most people have evolved from older simplictix mammal brains
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:23 PM
1

It’s not validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:53 PM
1

This, if men didn’t put womens bodies on such a pedestal and stop obsessing over then this wouldn’t be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:45 PM
3

Fwb, and Yh antidepressants decrease most means libidos
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:43 PM
2

Lose weight then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:42 PM
1

Be more picky then or stop complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:41 PM
1

Women questions “players” intentions, as in many guys will say that they want a relationship but actually just want sex, guys question promiscuous women regardless of intention, big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:36 PM
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Because we know a lot of guys hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:33 PM
0

“Daddy issues”, so you’re saying most women have issues caused by men 👀👀👀😂
/r/MensRights11/01/21 02:17 PM
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Again, that is the same with any movement
/r/MensRights11/01/21 02:02 PM
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That’s not what it means, but ok, keep on with lies hun, whether u believe it or not, the dictionary exists 😂
/r/MensRights11/01/21 11:46 AM
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If someone is not for equality, they are not feminist, atleast in UK, I can’t say for what other countries definition is
/r/MensRights11/01/21 08:55 AM
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Like I said, all feminist means is that u believe in equality of sexes, so I don’t quite know why u would hate ppl so much for wanting to be equal, and again, if one didn’t want equality/to be equal, one would not be a feminist
/r/MensRights11/01/21 08:31 AM
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“Like this person here”, who, where, you didn’t anything?🥴
/r/MensRights11/01/21 08:16 AM
1

All of the petitions put forward to the government
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:29 PM
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Feminism is a word
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:14 PM
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It was on Instagram, there page bio was about MRA, and they talked about it a lot, what’s MGTOW?? X
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:13 PM
0

But if u think men are evil, I’d argue ur sexist, so u couldn’t be a feminist (or atleast a modern day feminist, Ik the term has changed slightly throughout the decades)
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:12 PM
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Feminists are currently the main force trying to change the definition of rape, unfortunately, UK government wants there to be a distinction between the two (I’m assuming ur referring to English law on rape)
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:10 PM
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If ur an ex feminist, it means that u don’t want equality for the sexes, I just assumed that most ppl on who would be for equality along with men’s rights, but I guessed I thought wrong 🤷🏽‍♀️. Like u say, when MRAs do it, it’s often rewarded, encouraged, ppl supporting it and shaming ppl online (not necessarily on reddit but on other platforms and irl)
/r/MensRights10/01/21 06:08 PM
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Just a couple days ago actually, someone in the MR community told me to kill my self, an all this stuff about how I should be ashamed that I’m not married (I’m 18🥴), how there’s no such thing as women loving men, ya know, just the usual x
/r/MensRights10/01/21 05:57 PM
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Most feminists, everyone on this group is likely a feminist (under the presumption that most ppl want equality). I’ve encountered lots of MRAs trying to hurt women, saying how the world should be rid of women, that I should thank the men in my life for not raping me, how men shouldn’t be fem and women should be masc, how women should be modest, etc
/r/MensRights10/01/21 05:55 PM
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These comments/statements apply to every group of ppl, MRA, anti racism groups, etc, so I’m confused as to the point ur trying to make? X
/r/MensRights10/01/21 05:46 PM
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Feminism does a lot for men aswell tho, not in the past ofc, but the point that 1. Feminists aren’t sexist (as it’s mutually exclusive), and 2. Modern feminism tackles issues that affect both men and women x
/r/MensRights10/01/21 05:19 PM
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You can’t be a sexist feminist, that would go against feminism, technically speaking, everyone for men’s rights (equality), is a feminist as they want equality for sexes. If u talk to a “feminist” and they’re sexist, they’re not a feminist
/r/MensRights10/01/21 03:58 PM
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