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| 17 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyone | Lifestyle | SafeShirt6 | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 12:20 PM |
| 12 | have you ever met promiscuous girls who sleep around with these characteristics? | Field Report | SafeShirt6 | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 05:30 PM |
| 3 | How much does a bad reputation impact? | Lifestyle | SafeShirt6 | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 08:38 AM |
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| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI'm only interested in cute girls. That's the truth. I rarely enjoy talking to other guys, also because most people waste time talking nonsense while I'm very focused on my online activities. I can't stand hearing people complain and gossip. I don't want to waste time drinking beer or chatting about football with time-wasters, that's the point. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyone:( | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI don't think anything, I just know that I need a girl to touch my body without me having to pay her first | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneIn the past, I was even suggested to practice combat sports to increase my self-esteem. I'm not joking. Just imagine if I had enrolled in a boxing school to pick up girls | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI don't have friends. I abandoned social life when I realized it didn't help me with girls: in social circles, the really attractive ones were always very few and never available. And I don't like social life, I've never been interested in male friendships, so I said to myself: okay, I just do what I like, having 'friends' didn't help me with girls anyway. I wasn't joking when I talked about buying stocks: the point is that only money would be a valid reason for me to give up going out with a pr… | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI've had many sources, even better ones. In the end, seduction is always the same, the various methods and theories are different perspectives of the same thing. They're different angles. I don't see big conflicts among them. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneDo you think a solitary lifestyle and no hobby is really lethal with girls? The only thing that would make me cancel a date with a girl is knowing that Apple's stocks are about to explode, so I'd go buy them. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneYou think the lack of hobbies is the problem? I consider my work as a hobby too. I've never had interest in anything else, I find everything boring. I don't even like traveling. I've done a few trips, so I can use it as a conversation topic. I see guys who, for example, have cultural hobbies like theater, poetry... I really don't understand what they find so interesting about it. But I know well that if you tell a girl you're an actor, she gets excited immediately. I envy those who can play that… | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:28 PM |
| 2 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneIn theory, yes, but in practice, things are more complex... There were times when I felt full of enthusiasm, maybe because a cute girl smiled at me or because of some success at work... but this didn't change the result with girls in the slightest. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:21 PM |
| 2 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyone"techniques and approach based on desperation," desperation?? why? | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:18 PM |
| 2 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneIn reality, almost none of the seduction techniques of PUAs are "abusive" or manipulative. It didn't work for me, but certainly not because it makes me seem like a manipulator or a criminal. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:18 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI apply the technique of looking the girl in her right eye (also explained in The Game). It's meant to create tension. She doesn't necessarily have to blush, but just look away before I do. That's the technique I use. I agree with you, it's not a magic pill, it was just an example. Sometimes the girl SEEMS involved, but then she doesn't let me escalate. The last time I asked a girl out, she said 'let's see' and then comes back to me looking scared and says 'no'. She said it as if I asked her to … | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneThe only thing that makes me happy is financial satisfaction (very difficult to achieve) and having sex. Everything else doesn't interest me in the slightest. The absurd thing is that I see guys who are successful with girls who have far fewer resources than me. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:05 PM |
| -5 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneSentences without real meaning | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneHmm... I don't know, but I don't think so. I don't feel "depressed". I spend 90% of my mental energy on work. I don't have hobbies (because I don't like anything except my online work) | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:01 PM |
| 0 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneBeing skinny doesn't mean being neglected. I'm an ectomorph, naturally skinny (60kg x 175), not because I eat little. Even a marathon runner is as skinny as me. So it's not an excuse, it's a logical observation. And if you ask me why I don't go to the gym, it's because I don't like it | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:56 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneYou're wrong, I know very well that there's no technique that can work on its own. I know well that kino without emotional involvement of the girl doesn't work. You're not talking to a clueless reader of the Mystery Method. I've even participated in a boot camp, I know exactly what mistakes you're alluding to. It's not my case. Let me give you an example. Applying eye-contact technique, I got seemingly positive feedback, but over time, I realized there's a big difference between getting positive… | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:54 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI have nothing against it, if a girl were available, I would be perfectly capable of undressing her (having been with many prostitutes) | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI want to win, of course, but it's not true that I pretend with girls | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneexcuses for what?? | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneTherapists hardly ever solve problems like this; they don't have the skills for it. The problem isn't my belief system, it's much bigger than me | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI wanted to understand if others also share this unsolvable matrix I find myself in or if they were in it and how they solved it | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:40 PM |
| 0 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneMany comments are based on what should be, not on what is. I know it well. Many don't realize how complex the issue is. Those like me and you who have tried and tried again have experienced it firsthand. If there was a simple answer, we would have found it already. I mean, if you're never the kind of guy that girls love to be around, the one they even kiss on the cheek, it's very serious. It's not just a flake on a date or one who resists in bed. All my life, I've been looked down upon by girls,… | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:38 PM |
| 0 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI'm serious | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:32 PM |
| 2 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneTried therapy already, wasted time and money. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:31 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneAlready done, I've been with dozens of prostitutes. It helps a lot in satisfying sexual needs and becoming sexually confident, but after a while, it's not enough anymore because it's all fake | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:30 PM |
| 2 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI don't know what you mean by happiness, but I think it's too philosophical a concept. A man's life is based on two fundamental points: money and pussy. It's not about philosophical abstractions about happiness, it's about the fact that the lack of money or girls causes serious damage to well-being. It's a biological truth, NOT cultural. It doesn't matter what you believe, because the lack of these two things will eat away at your soul, whether you like it or not. So no, it doesn't matter what I… | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:28 PM |
| -6 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneeeehhhh... "loving yourself without women, be yourself... " they're just the usual nice phrases. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:21 PM |
| 5 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneWhat does that have to do with anything? I don't need girls to take care of the rest of my life. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:19 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI dress better than average, not elegant, just casual, but still well-dressed.. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI don't pretend, in fact, I'm very straightforward with girls. If I'm feeling good, I say it, if I'm feeling down, I say it. No pretense | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:06 PM |
| 0 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneIt doesn't work | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneIt's my own conclusion too | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:04 PM |
| 3 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneAbsolutely. I too have a 'boring' life. I like it, but it's not something you can make an adventure movie about. I've also noticed that the more girls know about me, the worse it gets. Gossip can have devastating effects | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:02 PM |
| 0 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneYeah, I know this because I see others scoring. Others, not me :) | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:59 PM |
| 0 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneAs I was saying earlier the gym isn't the solution to the problem. Girls don't stay away from you because you don't go to the gym, they don't refuse to kiss you on the cheek for these reasons. I've always seen this "evergreen advice" of going to the gym as if it were the solution to every problem. Yet being skinny doesn't stop many other guys from having girlfriends.. Also, it's true that I can seem a bit rude sometimes, but often it's just a reaction to rejection rather than its cause | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneWhat do you mean, "cock block" ? | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI see guys with my same body shape constantly having girlfriends. I weigh 60kg x 175 centimeters. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:50 PM |
| 3 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneSorry, can you explain more this point? Are you saying they have too much information about me? | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI know what you mean, but the answer is no, the gym isn't the solution to the problem. Girls don't stay away from you because you don't go to the gym, they don't refuse to kiss you on the cheek for these reasons. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyone(double comment) | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:38 PM |
| 2 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI'm skinny, and financially, I'm better off than average (but not rich). I am very confident, at times, I almost seem arrogant. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:36 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI'm skinny | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:33 PM |
| -1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneIt's not like in work/business where effort and dedication pay off. Here, everything is different, it feels like an impossible game for me. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI can't say I don't like my life. I don't like that I've never had a girlfriend. If you mean a causal relationship between liking your life and getting a girlfriend, I see examples every day that refute it. Most guys who have a girlfriend are frustrated with their job, and not just that, yet they still have a girlfriend | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:26 PM |
| 4 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneAlmost no one in the world has 'everything they desire, except for a girl'... maybe only billionaires can say that. We are all striving for more success at work, or at least, I certainly am. I definitely had enthusiasm and positive energy, but the countless rejections gradually destroyed them. If there's one thing I've understood, it's that a happy and enthusiastic attitude DOES NOT make you attractive. Many get confused about this. Just because appearing depressed makes you unattractive, many b… | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:22 PM |
| 2 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI've made so many attempts, otherwise I wouldn't have written this post | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:15 PM |
| -2 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyonefollowing the PUAs meant much more to me than just delivering lines: I learned push & pull, eye contact techniques, deep immersion, kino, qualification and the importance of breaking rapport to escalate. Yet in my case, it feels like using a water gun. The absurd thing is that I have no fear or anxiety with girls, and thanks to the prostitutes I've been with, I'm very familiar with the female body. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | How much does a bad reputation impact?Trying to convince myself that I'm cool didn't work at all there. When you have a bad reputation as unsociable, you can tell yourself whatever you want, but you have scorched earth around you. At least, that's what I've seen. You keep trying to believe that it's not true, but at some point, you start denying the evidence, losing touch with reality. However, reality clearly tells me that I'm out of the game. I see it when comparing my results with those of other males who effortlessly receive smi… | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How much does a bad reputation impact?It has to do with seduction because it was the environment where I tried with a couple of girls. The rapport I had with the girls working there gave me the impression of being appreciated, but then I realized it wasn't true at all. I started to understand it when I bumped into them on the street, and they pretended not to see me. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How much does a bad reputation impact?Also you’re just talking about the employees of the shop. Random women that come into the shop have no idea who you are or know anything about you. So I don’t even see how any of this matters unless you’re only trying to hit on the workers there. In which case reputation does matter a lot since they work together and talk all of the time. But then again, you can also just not try to hit on the employees of this bar and meet millions of other women. I just don’t see what the issue is here or why … | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How much does a bad reputation impact?A regular would normally have some status at a bar, just from being there, staff would treat him better not worse, even if he is an unusual guy. For some reason you fail to authentically connect to the staff. There will be something in the way you behave/think that has created that situation. It could be something, you are not aware of, that only is relevant in that specific conditions. Maybe the conditions to work there are not that great, so staff tends to be in a rather negative mood. You wou… | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | How much does a bad reputation impact?Unfortunately, I don't have any woman to bring :( Yes, in the past, I flirted with a couple of girls there, but without being needy or creepy. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How much does a bad reputation impact?Do you mean I shouldn't try with the girls from that place? | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 10:10 PM |
| 2 | How much does a bad reputation impact?I don't go there to flirt, just for coffee. However, sometimes I see some girls I like but I find a wall in front of me. I ask the question because I spend a lot of time there when I'm at the pc to work. It's not just that I can't seem to attract the attention of the women I find attractive at this coffee shop. Even when I try to engage in casual conversation with them, I can sense that they have a negative perception of me. It's as if they're judging me based on my reputation as a regular custo… | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 09:05 AM |
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