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| 5 | Attachment perspective on strategic dating for womenHey, another therapist here. You are right in a sense - you tend to have a default attachment style you’ve learnt in childhood. If you meet someone (so if an anxious meets an avoidant for eg) who triggers your default style, it can feel pretty reactive, and a lot of people confuse this with love/heartache etc. You can be particularly vulnerable if you are in distress or crisis, so bereavement, transitions, etc. The good news is by working with your attachment style with awareness, you can take c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 10:44 PM |
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