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| 1 | What technique or skill in way of seduction do you wish you had and why?not being old and nerdy | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 09:02 AM |
| 8 | Why do girls i used to talk to like my pictures of me and my current girlfriend?women like relationships of others and are happy when they see others in good ones | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Your fear of woman is not real, this is whyin social situations, there is no life-threatening danger this isn't the SA sub but I disagree with this. social interaction absolutely is or can be a life and death situation. impress the right person and it opens doors for you in life. piss off the wrong person and lose your job or worse. look at the wrong person the wrong way for just a moment and you can be ostracized, even to the point of someone trying to murder you. so, sorry, but there absolutely CAN be life-threatening danger just from … | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?I’ve tried everything that's literally impossible, especially since you're only 25. (if a 12 year old kid was saying this about grade 5 math (or whatever class) or something, what would you say? is the 12 year old kid right and grade 5 is literally impossible just because he says he "tried everything and it doesn't work"?) it doesn’t work it hasn't worked. you must know that you literally cannot have tried all possibilities, right? what you really mean is that you tried as hard as you're willing… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?well, we're back at the self-fulfilling prophecy. you're only "unhelpable" if you decide that you're "unhelpable". if you choose not to improve, then you won't improve; but it's still a choice. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?you might be right that I don't know the actual steps to take, I just know the general direction. I am pointing in the generally right direction, but for actually taking the steps, that is more up to you to figure out, if you can (if you will). maybe one thing I could suggest: it seems that you are letting negative emotions control you. one thing to realize is: negative emotions do not have to prevent you from doing things. find some things you don't do (such as but not limited to talking to wom… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?If the answer is "just change" then if I can't do that, CAN I CHANGE? well there's a difference between "can't change" and "won't change". everything you're describing seems to be that you "won't change" not that you "can't change". I have evidence for what will be in the future based on the past no you don't, because the conditions are not fixed. I tried ... and it didn't work. that is necessarily the case, for anything in life, that until you actually succeed, there is only failure. the whole … | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?If the answer is "just change" then if I can't do that, CAN I CHANGE? well there's a difference between "can't change" and "won't change". everything you're describing seems to be that you "won't change" not that you "can't change". I have evidence for what will be in the future based on the past no you don't, because the conditions are not fixed. I tried ... and it didn't work. that is necessarily the case, for anything in life, that until you actually succeed, there is only failure. the whole … | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 05:44 AM |
| 0 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?the "lie" is that you can't change your attitude. learned helplessness is a real thing. if you train a dog that he can't escape being zapped, then he will put up with zaps even when it does become possible to avoid them. a similar thing is occurring here. you believe you have discovered that it is impossible to have succeeded, and you extrapolate that to the future, believing that it is impossible to ever succeed, which is just false. you say "I literally have a bunch of evidence that what has b… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 05:25 AM |
| 0 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?well the point is that it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. "I can't" will, yes, lead to ultimate failure. whereas "I can" can and likely will lead to eventual success. you're stuck in "learned helplessness" land. you can get yourself out of there, but not with the wrong attitude. if you refuse to change your attitude then yes, you are dooming your future self. things can get better in the next 10 years, but only if you focus on the right path to get there. if you don't have the right trajectory, th… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?a problem is that your brain tries to tell you that you must succeed NOW or else the world is ending. but that's not true. if you're 20 then you only became an adult very recently (or even, you're barely or not even really an adult yet). you have literal DECADES to work on this. if you work on it you will be a completely different person in 10 or 20 years. you can't be perfect but you can definitely improve over time, and eventually get where you want to be, IF you work on it in the meantime. bu… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?overweight is something you can fix. you can also dress well and groom well. women (and men) will overlook some facial unattractiveness if the rest is ok or good. but yeah, weight is an important variable that you should focus on getting under control ASAP. one hard part I think is that socializing is a skill that cannot be practiced in private. in order to practice it you need to allow yourself to be ok with (or even expect) failing. if you're not ok with failing, then yeah, you'll never get an… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | how to pass this shit test?just treat it as a tease, although in person it would depend how she said it (I guess this is text?). in person, the key I think would be to smile. something like "ok, a mildly charming man" <smile>. or "oof, ok, well a man anyway" <smile>. I guess you could use smiley faces instead of smiling but I'm not sure that would work as well since the emotions are not as connected. | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 09:37 AM |
| 4 | Anyone here who improved their looks and got more success?what does "got my teeth sorted" entail? | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 02:03 AM |
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