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SaifEdinne/r/seduction23/11/19 02:32 PM
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My man! That was a good move.
/r/seduction19/02/20 10:34 PM
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What I do is understanding that the girl isn't perfect. That she has her faults too. Who knows, perhaps she's mentally unstable or something, so I'd rather not get too close too fast without knowing her better. The girl needs to win you over too, not only the other way.
/r/seduction16/02/20 07:06 PM
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Haha damn, is the mental side of you showing? I don't think I'm the one who's feelings got hurt here lmao. And don't worry, I'm a productive person. Time to time, I like to converse with butthurt kids on the internet to see how mental they can get ... well show me :p
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:31 PM
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What, you asked and I provided. Can't handle it, boomer?
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:23 PM
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Well, guess what? Your mentality sucks and it's really dumb. This.
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:10 PM
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That's different than being narcistic. They're not worshipping girls like some guys do, they're acting in abundance and show that they're not needy or clingy. They may be saying "fuck these hoes" but I'm sure that they act differently when they're with these "hoes". What OP is saying is that girls should be gratefull to be talking to you, that's what I'm talking about.
/r/seduction10/02/20 09:01 AM
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Yeah, that's true but it's not a lost battle. You made it seem like that :p
/r/seduction04/02/20 05:00 PM
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Short dudes can work out to get bigger too, I don't understand this stigma against short guys.
/r/seduction04/02/20 09:30 AM
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Anyways, I’m saying all of this because I don’t know how to just be comfortable with flirting with girls and being intimate. You're problem is this: "I just didn’t know what I’d say and I felt like the conversation would just die out." You're already putting yourself in a bad vibe without having even tried. If a girl shows interest, she would try as much as you to keep the conversation going. It isn't solely on you that the conversation could die out, it's also on her. Don't put so much pressure…
/r/seduction03/02/20 09:01 AM
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Baseless assumptions that are unnecessary.
/r/seduction03/02/20 08:55 AM
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Nope, I go for girls that are interested in me. I ain't investing time in a girl that don't want to talk to me, I'd rather talk to girls I can hold a conversation with.
/r/seduction20/01/20 05:43 PM
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I don't get OP, if a girl stops responding it means she isn't that interested. You can text her after some time to see if you can keep the convo going again, but if you're the one always initiating the convo after her not responding to you. Drop it and move on. Guys who are needy and creepy are the ones that keep continuing texting even while the girl never responds. Read the situation, if she doesn't respond to you repeatedly, then move on or don't invest too much time and emotion in her and te…
/r/seduction20/01/20 01:58 PM
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No it is not, because you're living your life in a way you want it to, because it fullfills you, and not solely because it will make you look good with others. If the sole reason someone does an activity (or follows a way of living) is to be more atractive to someone else, that's faulty reasoning in my opinion.
/r/seduction16/01/20 02:32 PM
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Yeah, this is just too cringe. Normal people don't think like this when having a conversation, and this will only lead to you acting like an ass if you're this narcistic ...
/r/seduction16/01/20 01:54 PM
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Hold up, are you serious? Men and women mistake signals all the time, some people are just very open and physical in a friendly manner that for others can be seen as showing interest while other people are so conserved that they don't touch others or initiate convos even though they're interested. Get off your high horse, the dude tried and got rejected. Nothing more, he didn't cling to her, stalk her afterwards or insult her so he has nothing to apologize for. Yes he fucked up and he'll learn f…
/r/seduction12/01/20 06:53 PM
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Yeah, at that moment was it awkward and trying to act normal in the coming conversations is not "acting the though guy" imo, it's ... acting normal and not needy. If he apologizes, that's when he'll be pathetic. Apologizing while having done nothing wrong, I don't think there are many other things that go lower than that. What happened, happened. Keep the relationship they have healthy and wait for the next opportunity. Don't push it after being rejected, no girl likes a needy guy.
/r/seduction12/01/20 05:22 PM
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By apologizing, he'll lose any chance he ever had with her. Tension between them is what you make of it, if he makes it awkward then it will be awkward. Nothing more, you create the tension yourself.
/r/seduction12/01/20 05:15 PM
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I'll paste it here since the other post got deleted: Don't apologize! You did nothing wrong, you were honest with yourself and honest with her, so what would you even apologize for? If you want to text her, do it. But keep it casual and don't mention the rejection, now she knows that you're interested in her and if you can keep a normal conversation with her even after being rejected, she'll know that you're neither a clingy or a "nice guy" type. Don't push her for a date, the ball is with her n…
/r/seduction12/01/20 04:46 PM
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Try to make eye contact first, and see if she returns your smile. If she does, that's your cue to go approach her and ask her if she wants to dance. You can preface it with a "I like the way you dance" and then ask her if she wants to dance. Always works with me.
/r/seduction12/01/20 12:15 PM
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Act normal around her, it will only become awkward if you make it so.
/r/seduction12/01/20 11:14 AM
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You can drink from the age of 16 even, and get into clubs from 17-18.
/r/seduction11/01/20 01:54 PM
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I feel like she's giving you a wrong image, there are some girls who would dump you for being virgin but there are other girls who would put too much meaning to it. As in they would be too clingy etc. So yeah, keep it for yourself that you're a virgin. Perhaps later on in the relationship you can tell her. ​ Regarding the anxiety of losing your virginity, I know the feeling you're talking about. I had the same anxiety, I was a virgin out of choice because I wanted my first time to be with a girl…
/r/seduction09/01/20 08:25 AM
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They're quite the opposite. Being superficial is engraved in their genes so whenever some girl has her nudes leaked the entire region gives her shit for it. No ones likes to have their nudes leaked so I don't know why you used such an extreme example. I'm talking about a girl and guy texting each sending each other pics, and I don't necessarily mean nudes. There's probably a difference between country side girls and city girls (same with guys), that's seems logical enough; different kind of envi…
/r/seduction05/01/20 02:30 PM
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I thought that in the Netherlands the girls are very open with sending pics etc. A lot of girls likes to send pics of themselves to look for affirmation with a guy they're into or see something happen. I guess you should text/date with a vibe that gives this impression but you shouldn't try too hard to get a pic, it will only creep the girl a bit out since you're too needy to get a pic.
/r/seduction05/01/20 12:54 PM
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Hahaha omfg, you really have nothing else to do?? Did you really take the time to go through my post history, to find that one post where you can comment some useless, and not even original, diss? I'm rather autistic than as pathetic as you ;)
/r/seduction03/01/20 06:44 AM
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This is how I would open to them I'd approach them and start with: "Hey, you girls are looking good tonight. Do you come here often?" If they do, continue the convo with "It seems like a nice pub, so I understand why." or "Oh, so what kind of drink would you recommend me to buy?" (ofcourse less corny said and a bit more relaxed depending on how the girls acts) If they don't "You should! It's a fun pub and it has good music" (I don't know the pub so I'll just assume these things) ​ You should use…
/r/seduction02/01/20 03:45 PM
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This is kinda superficial ... because he gets a lot of girls, you're considering not hanging out with him? I'd say learn from him, see how girls talk to him, recognize the signs of attraction they give to him, etc And work out, make sure you also have something to show.
/r/seduction29/12/19 10:58 PM
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Haha but OP literally said it in their post so ... :p
/r/seduction27/12/19 06:09 PM
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Well I think she felt comfortable enough since she gave him her snap and are even sendings snaps to each other ... so I don't know why you're implying this
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:53 PM
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That doesn't matter at the moment, what matters is that (s)he overcame a mental obstacle. They achieved something that they didn't think they would be able to.
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:10 PM
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Nah man, you don't buy drinks for girls to keep them "around". That's a wrong mindset, a girl should stick around for you and not for free drinks. You'll lose a lot of money if you think like this, at least I know some guys who did and girls can smell that shit. I went out with some girl friends, and believe me dude, some of them know they can get free drinks from thirsty guys. Dancing for 5 minutes for a free drink ...
/r/seduction24/12/19 10:14 PM
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Just when I'm joking around ;)
/r/seduction23/12/19 04:26 PM
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So you use a stereotype to say that another stereotype isn't true? :p
/r/seduction23/12/19 04:12 PM
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What has the midwest to do with that?
/r/seduction23/12/19 02:07 PM
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Is height such a problem? Until now, I haven't met a girl with height standards. I live in Europe though so perhaps it's U.S.-thing? I'm not sure.
/r/seduction22/12/19 04:21 PM
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This is literally the worst advice you can give ... she is already interested, why play with her feelings and destroy her confidence?
/r/seduction16/12/19 08:15 AM
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For cold approaches yeah, for club approaches it works quite well actually. But it works for me so .. but I alternate between openers depending on the situations. This is one I tried on a girl who was dancing next to me: "Hey, you have dangerous dance moves, wanna show me more?". In my language it sounds better though, it worked but not one I'd use often.
/r/seduction13/12/19 10:34 PM
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Nah man, interviewing a girl sucks for her. She not there to answer questions like she going for a job interview, she's there to have a fun conversation. And I don't mean saying what I feel for her, but what I think of her. My usual openers are "Hey , saw u walking/dancing/sitting there and thought u were cute." Leave a pause to gauge her reaction, if she responds, continue. If she doesn't respond herself, I follow up with a "a cute girl like you must have a cute name" or just a "what's your nam…
/r/seduction13/12/19 04:25 PM
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Those things will disappear while doing it more often. My first time just approaching a girl and telling her what I thought, my knees and legs were trembling, my hands were sweaty and it became hot. Now I've worked away everything except the sweaty hands but in hindsight, that's not really an issue. The more you approach, the easier it gets.
/r/seduction13/12/19 12:43 PM
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I've had it happen though, not sure if iit was game but I've been able to change a girl's mind after she clearly showed no interest in me. She came with a friend of mine to go to a club together, we were with 4 (3 guy and 1 girl). The guy and the girl weren't together and thus she was fair game btw. When at the club and after a couple of drinks, I approached her so that we'd dance together but she immediately showed she didn't want to. No matter, danced with my mates until I saw another girl sit…
/r/seduction11/12/19 10:41 PM
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To be honest, perhaps you should lower your expectations a bit. I don't understand this hypocrite mindset, people expect girls that are hotter than them to give them a chance while they won't even give girls that are as hot or uglier than them a chance? What's up with that? Another thing, don't come on too strong. Go into the conversation as someone looking for a fun conversation, not as someone thirsty for sex. She needs to convince you too, if you're easy to get, girls won't be that interested…
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:57 AM
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Hmm, that is worth a try.
/r/seduction27/11/19 07:14 AM
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That's not the problem here, she opens up and talks often. But it's mostly just casual convos, I'm trying to make it more intimate. Guess I'll just try to initiate more intimate conversations even when it becomes stale. Or would that be too much?
/r/seduction23/11/19 06:32 PM
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Hmm yeah, that's a possibility for sure. I'm not investing any emotion in this, she's interesting but I don't see any serious relationship in this. I see this more like trying to date girls that are a bit more difficult than some girl from the club.
/r/seduction23/11/19 06:27 PM
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Your sarcasm aside, this ain't "one trick". This takes effort and dedication to keep at it. You can laugh it off and keep doing what you're doing. I'm just sharing what worked for me, nothing more.
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:35 PM
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Well, it ain't wishful thinking completely. I stopped using dating apps, started doing body exercises in the evening and morning, switched over to going to the gym quite often (easy switch when you're already doing exercises each day and keeping at it). Started doing that for half a year and now I'm having a couple of dates each week or 2 weeks since 2 months. I'm not ripped or something but slightly more athletic than the average guy, that shows a bit and also gives a bit of a confidence boost.…
/r/seduction20/11/19 03:18 PM
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You should spend doing sit ups or something, something productive. Now it's 7 minutes, next time it will be 15 minutes and before you know it you'll be buffed, confident and talking to women. Sounds better than wasting time on tinder each evening, no?
/r/seduction20/11/19 11:26 AM
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I don't think this is good advice. If you're going to give someone a compliment, it should be genuine imo. Otherwise it'd sound fake.
/r/seduction23/10/19 09:20 AM
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I'm not American, so nope.
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:15 PM
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I don't get it. Why would "looking in the mirror" = getting a million buck be a compliment?
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:12 PM
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One, i replied 2 minutes after you whereas you waited 20 minutes for this reply. Two, I never said that she's crazy or messed up. It is strange that she is looking for intimicacy and so on while making extremely clear that she only wants to be friends. But I can also see how she wants to take it slow whereas this guy is going too fast. I would've handled it differently and OP did acknowledge that he fucked up. Three, you do whatever you want man. Don't blame others for what you want to do. Unfol…
/r/seduction24/09/19 08:32 PM
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He expressed his feelings but she rejected them, twice.
/r/seduction24/09/19 07:41 PM
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So when you're at a mate's room, you also go into bed with him and put your head on his chest under the blankets?
/r/seduction24/09/19 07:25 PM
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Or anywhereelse where people go out
/r/seduction22/09/19 08:03 PM
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I should rephrase: "Hobbies that actually matter to me" I love video games, so I started modding and coding. I've got an IT job too so it complements each other well. Another 2 hobbies of mine I recently started doing is kickboxing and wall climbing. It's fun, makes you disciplined, works your body and makes you confident (and I love martial arts so win-win). Playing video games is not a bad hobby to have, just don't make your life revolve around playing video games.
/r/seduction09/09/19 04:56 AM
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There's casual playing video games and there's extreme playing games where you neglect working out, going out, skip meals, ... He's probably talking about the latter one which was what I did. I stopped doing that ans invested a lot more time into going to gym, work and hobbies that actually matter. Improved my social life too by doing that.
/r/seduction08/09/19 08:45 PM
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Then I'd say ask her out to do something less touchy and more romantic. Going for drinks or dinner, to begin with instead of asking her to your room immediately. That's what I'd do
/r/seduction03/09/19 08:29 PM
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Depends on how badly it went.
/r/seduction03/09/19 04:16 PM
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Super Saiyan Pro Tip: Start a Furniture Assembly company so that people will pay you for building furniture. Steady supply of furniture to be built, means more tinderdates while making money.
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:16 PM
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You don't have to be that "fun guy". I'm also an introvert and I'm rather quiet than talkative. You need to find the girl that suits you, not change yourself to suit girls. And what do you mean with "treat women with respect"? It kinda seems like a "nice guy" statement. Treat women like you'd treat anyone else, respect if they deserve respect, and playfull if you like them, shitty if they're bitches. If you're "trying" with every girl, girls will know and don't like that. And the girls you have …
/r/seduction07/08/19 05:45 PM
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Yeah, you shouldn't send them another text. Keep your game going, it's a snowball effect. The more you keep going, the better it's going to get. Don't get hung up on the girls that don't text back, just keep going.
/r/seduction07/08/19 05:37 PM
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I'd rather meet up, go out and do stuff. It's not like I go 3 days without texting, mostly it's 2 days tops. Or is that too long and should I put more effort into this?
/r/seduction28/07/19 04:27 PM
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It depends though, I'm not one who texts alot but I was dating this girl that had this need to text everyday. I said to her that we don't have to talk each day and that it's normal that we won't have something interesting to talk about each and every time. She literally responded with "Why not?". So there are girls that really crave for attention through texting. How do you handle this situation, we broke up but this is for future relationships, when I don't want to text back a lot without her t…
/r/seduction28/07/19 04:10 PM
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It is, lately I've been paying more attention to the clothes I wear and my overall looks and I've gotten a bit more (the change is notable higher) attention from girls. Girls staring at me, glancing and smiling when our eyes meet. So yeah, that is good advice for sure.
/r/seduction22/07/19 02:13 PM
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You're not insecure? Yet you did surgery to improve your looks, this shows you were insecure. I know ugly people dating hot, or above decent, girls because of their game. So no, looks aren't everything. It's game above all else. A good girl friend of mine is insane hot, but she has 0 game. She has been in 2 (perhaps 3) relationships at the age of 22.
/r/seduction22/07/19 02:10 PM
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Perhaps you showed too much interest at once? She seems like a free soul, more of an open relationship type and not a serious date-and-relationship type of girl.
/r/seduction15/07/19 05:07 PM
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Lol, girls do approach guys. That is possible, I've had it happen to me too quite often ... but that was in the time I didn't know how properly escalate things. I'd hit myself if I could go back in time.
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:14 AM
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Once I was texting a girl and she was talking about wanting to have tattoos. I asked where she would set one and she responded with "A place that isn't visible". I teased her with "I'll find it, no worries". This is teasing, it was a sexual hinted answer but still playful and she could laugh with it.
/r/seduction10/07/19 08:34 AM
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You shouldn't be afraid of messing it up, especially in the beginning of dating or a relationship. Don't do things you wouldn't do normally or you don't feel comfortable doing. Yes, you can do the occasional favor but only if she's willing to return it. If a girl isn't willing to put some effort and insteads only demands, don't be afraid to reject her demands and act uninterested if she asks too much. Don't break it off completely, always leave a door open for her. Like this you'll show her that…
/r/seduction05/07/19 04:20 PM
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Well it worked for me, I'm just speaking out of my own experience. And fyi, I know plenty of plumb guys who got fit and strong dating hot girls they were dreaming of 8 years ago. So it depends from person to person, there is no 1 formula. You need to ask yourself what makes you insecure, and work on it. What goes through your mind when you're doubting whether or not you should approach or text that one girl, and make sure you won't have to think about that anymore the next time you see a girl. T…
/r/seduction05/07/19 12:10 PM
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And that is
/r/seduction05/07/19 12:03 PM
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Who says I didn't? I'm still working on my body and self image but realising that girls are as insecure with dating made it a lot more easier for me to flirt/talk with girls. I recently had a relationship of a couple of months (broke up since we were too different and other reasons) which began with me texting this girl I knew with the mindset that she is probably also insecure. Mind was blown when she admitted that she was insecure and actually was into me. Now I'm talking with a girl, but I st…
/r/seduction05/07/19 11:59 AM
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Knowing that girls can be as insecure as you guys. Loving yourself (I know, quite cliché). If your self-image is bad, you won't have any confidence to talk to a girl. A great way to fix this is to go to the gym. And the most important thing is, not to try too hard (imo). It can put off girls if you try to hard to please her. Be true to yourself and don't do or say things you really wouldn't do/say otherwise.
/r/seduction05/07/19 10:31 AM
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If you're like me, then it may seem like no girls are interested. I've recentely started dating a girl whom I thought had 0 interest in me and I know her since my childhood. Go and start texting those girls, and ask if they have anything to do this summer. Imo, online dating is superficial. Try dating the girls you've already spoken to. Makes it easier and less awkward as a first time meeting with a girl.
/r/seduction12/06/19 06:04 PM
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Nicely said, gotta remember this one.
/r/seduction08/06/19 07:52 PM
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I don't see anything wrong here though, this is a first time she asked you a favor. If she's willing to do you favors too at least. Respect comes both ways.
/r/seduction24/04/19 12:22 PM
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