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| 2 | How to get sex fasterYea I wouldnt lead off with an invite over to your place. That throws a lot of girls off, even naughty ones. Plus, the implication is already there, so it goes with out saying. Then you just gotta be fun and make her smile. Then the comment "hey my house is just over there. Want to grab a night cap" (or whatever) is more smooth and in rhythm with the night. | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 06:49 AM |
| 4 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?Couple factors. One is eye contact. You need to confidently look into her eyes, and smile in a way that it's clear you desire her. You both need to be drunk. She needs to happen to be in the right place in her mind. But if she's at a bar alone near closing time she's usually looking for something. I honestly have no idea what words I say - it doesnt really matter. I'm just straight forward, confident, and direct. Edit: Now that I think about it, I think I just caught them off guard a bit too. Li… | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 08:56 AM |
| 30 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?I definitely had more success when bringing girls back when i had roommates for all the reasons you've said. But I don't have any roommates now, and I just straight up directly ask, "Do you want to come back to my place?" and it works just fine. I've talked to girls less than 5 minutes before asking and they say yes. They need to be alone for that to work. If they're with friends you've gotta warm them up a little more. You'd be surprised how many girls are looking to go home with someone. You j… | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 04:19 AM |
| 2 | To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness?For me, yes. But in moderation. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Men who have been in many relationships, would you say most women have anger issues?In my experience, definitely yes. But I may have a type. Thanks mom. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | My Limiting Belief: Girls Don't Want Me to Approach ThemI usually don't just blindly walk up to women at random. Read the situation, body language, etc. See if you make eye contact. This can turn a cold lead into a warm lead. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Someone who doesn’t have a social circle or many friends for that matter. How can one meet women outside of online means?Join groups that do hobbies. Make friends with people. Don't even worry about girls, just have fun doing the hobby you like. Eventually you'll meet a girl that likes you. | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Can you make up for missing out on casual sex in your teens/early 20s?Thailand? | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.You're just giving her the best opportunity to like you. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 08:54 PM |
| 0 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?Eye contact. You meet them with your eyes before you ever talk to them. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 05:33 AM |
| 56 | How to get her to like you backYou don't. You find a girl that likes you and you like her back. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 01:28 PM |
| 5 | First cold approach, accidental....I think she cold approached you, my friend. | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 06:10 AM |
| 25 | Where to look for high income women?I'm about to move to NYC after 12 years in southeast Asia. I was feeling the same thing as you, that it's going to be way harder. This thread has helped. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 06:58 AM |
| 3 | I asked her out today, she told me she had a coffee with a friend but they’d love If i join. What do i do?I'd go and have a good time. Get to know both of them. Make them both like you. Make them laugh. Don't be flirty, but hold eye contact with the girl you like when she's laughing. Share the moment of that laugh and eye contact and show her you like her. But you can't be flirty openly in this situation, you've gotta play it cool. Subtlety is key. You're going to be hanging out with her friend sometimes if you date her, so they want to see if you're good in those situations. | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 11:57 AM |
| 8 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?Use your eyes to meet girls in public before you actually meet them. Basically just get caught looking at them, hold contact for like 1 second, and smile and look to the side. Then make eye contact again in a minute or 20 seconds or whatever. You want to look at them with desire, but subtly. It's human nature to meet eye contact eventually. If they look the second time, or smile, or kind of get caught looking at you, then find an excuse to go talk to this girl soon. If they don't respond, well, … | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?One thing ive learned is not to talk about body count with your SO. I learned this from a girl i was dating in my 20s. We both just never knew, and you know what? It's really notmy business anyways. It only leads to jealousy and negative thoughts. When I start dating a girl, I tell her, VERY obviously joking, that she is my first. Then a 'real' conversation' happens where I explain that I think her past is her past, and mine is mine, and it doesn't matter. We are here now, and she is the only gi… | /r/seduction | 12/06/23 02:50 AM |
| 3 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?Honestly is been nothing but positive for me. Im 38, and 'out' of the game because I found the perfect one for myself and been with her 3 years now. She's incredible and gorgeous. Having experience has helped me have extremely high confidence, enough to be able to get the girl im with now. That experience definitely mattered, as I know how to handle any situation smoothly with a beautiful girl. I'm not intimidated by beauty anymore. Each successive girl that was in my eyes the most beautiful gir… | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 05:36 AM |
| 5 | Never be friendzoned againeeeh, some do, some dont. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:11 AM |
| 3 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeI've always said that just being normal in conversation puts you ahead of 95% of guys. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:13 AM |
| 15 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Girls found out about it. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itEnjoy the process. Don't be results driven. You're right there, just embrace it. Results will come. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | I get lots of matches online but never know what to say..You should be looking to meet up as soon as possible in the interaction. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Will having a lot of sex make me happier?Yes. Yes it will. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 04:36 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with womens fuckery?Laugh, turn around, and go meet someone else. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsKeep failing until you dgaf about failing anymore. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsYes, all the time. I just turn around, smile, and say NEXXXXXXXT | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meI moved to Saigon. Buddy on my pool team is 59 and his gf is 19. Nobody bats an eye. This whole age difference thing is just people being judgemental about a cultural social construct. Just do what you want to do man. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Welp what was she expecting even if it was a analogy or a jokeSo uuuuuh, how is this related to her being female? This is more of a justice served, is it not? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/03/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | A waiter at a restaurant waited until I went to the restroom to flirt with my gf, am I in the wrong to feel mad and disrespected?This happened to me before. I had met the guy before too. Inside I was a bit upset, but I just pretended I didn't care on the outside, made a joke about it, and moved on. I never talked to the guy again or went to that restaurant again though. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 05:10 PM |
| 6 | The Best Dating Advice I've Ever ReceivedThis is a variation of what I have discovered in my own experience: just dont be weird. All those pick up things are being weird. Just talk to girls like you would with any other person. If they like you, you just need to not fuck it up. Its not that hard, but 95% of guys are just so cringe when they talk to girls. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You actually take first dates to fastfood places? Bro... | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Is this an acceptable approach to women?Wow...ummm...yea i wonder why you have trouble with women... | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Is this an acceptable approach to women?If a stranger came up to you and said that, what would you think? | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 11:29 AM |
| 2 | 10 rules that i've learned from around 50 laysI've lived in Vietnam 10 years, and Ive been dating a Filipina about 1.5 years. I totally agree with you about being more feminine. I feel like in the US we had the whole women's right movement, which in of itself is a great thing, but it had this effect on women in general to act more masculine in general. I get that men and women CAN do the same things, but having gender roles in a relationship is somehow attractive in a fundamental primal way to both parties. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 05:33 AM |
| 1 | In last two years, I spent more than $25000 on hookers.Ummmmm | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | In last two years, I spent more than $25000 on hookers.Same in Saigon | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:15 AM |
| 3 | How does anyone deal with one word responses?Setup a date and quit texting her. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Don't do cold approach without having your life set together first (inner game)Moderation is the key to life. Balance. | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 05:36 AM |
| 6 | Approached 2 girls sitting with each other last night at the barDude you need the tough ones like that. It's how you desensitize yourself to that kind of feeling. I know it feels awkward, but it's a win just for going for it. If you keep trying and failing, eventually you'll just laugh that shit off and move on. | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Does height matter?Yea I live in asia now, and i feel tall as fuck compared to back in US. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 12:44 AM |
| 20 | The Easiest Hack To Get Anyone To Like YouI also read how to win friends | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 09:20 AM |
| 4 | How to really stop putting women on a pedestal?Here's the truth. You cant stop putting girls on a pedestal until you have success with a hot girl and then realize that they are just normal people that have their own negatives, insecurities, etc. Their shit stinks too. For me this was a gradual process. The first gf I had was 'so hot' in my eyes...hotter than I thought I could get at the time. Once I realized she was normal that became my baseline and my 'pedastal' line was pushed forward, and I went on to date the next version of a girl 'too… | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?Attraction is different for men and women. We use looks as like 80% of first impressions. Women use looks much, much lower. Probably more like 20%. They care about what energy you have. But the man above is right, style / gym / haircut do go a long way. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?This is the mindset exactly. Well said. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 09:26 AM |
| 7 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?You'll notice that I didnt mention notches in this post. I've got enough notches, but they're really irrelevant after a few. | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 09:59 AM |
| 29 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?I was a shy, introverted nerd my entire youth. I happened to be very good at football (soccer), which gave me loads of self confidence over the years, but it didnt seem to translate to women. I went to an engineering tech school with really long winters, and it was just impossible for me to find girls for vast periods of time in that era. I just kind of accepted it. I worked as an engineer for a few years before moving out to California from the east coast on my own with no job, friends, or apar… | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How to date - Do you feel unprepared? Just remember this simple structureConvey passion in your mannerisms when you talk. Use your eyes and smile everything you say. Watch Jordan do interviews in the last dance. Hes always talking with a half smirk. People like that. Then talk about something you're passionate about so that all this stuff comes out naturally. I know it's more complicated than this, but it's really important. You can use this stategy when you ask questions too (like the other replier suggested). But it's just a good rule of thumb that get people excit… | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 09:54 AM |
| 5 | Never ever beg someone for attention, or beg for your exYea people are designed to notice underlying emotions in each other, evolutionarily. Whatever baggage you're carrying is going to be apparent. Totally agree. | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 11:27 PM |
| 6 | The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me."Men fall in love with their eyes, women fall in love with their ears." | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 03:15 AM |
| 1 | 2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I StartedI do think the things that you can't change matter They totally do. Big time. Didn't mean to imply otherwise. But end of the day I just focus on the things I can control, and everything else essentially becomes irrelevant. Cheers mate | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | 2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I Startedhaha i see your point. Maybe I'm using the wrong words, but some things you can change in 1 day (clothes / haircut / watch / glasses / contacts / etc.). This is what I meant by style. People dating subconsciously expect a certain level of self maintenance - it says a lot about a person and supports all the PUA mumbo jumbo about energy or whatever they call it. In movies or tv shows this type of thing is really heavily used and exaggerated. You can make a super attractive person into an ultra ner… | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 08:08 AM |
| 1 | 2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I StartedHe worked on his style. His looks never changed. | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 05:28 AM |
| 2 | 2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I StartedHis 'looks' didnt change. His style, fashion, and posture improved. The first 2 can be done in 1 day. That's what people mean by looks not mattering. This entire story supports that theory perfectly. | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 05:26 AM |
| 1 | The insecurity shown when trying to hide a fault often comes off as being way less attractive than the actual fault itself.Objectify the fault and laugh at it. Example: Say, you're going bald. If hair comes up, say something like, "Oh yea, I call my head the shiner now. Careful, if the sun hits it just right it could blind you!" I'm not bald (yet) so I'm sure there are better lines, but you get the idea. It shows that you fully accept yourself with the confidence level of being able to make fun of yourself. Plus it shows you've got a sense of humor. This is so much more attractive than any level of denial, hiding it… | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Stop putting pussy on a pedestal.Agree 100%. I think a lot of people date for looks early on, and when they get into their mid 20s+ they start to realize you actually need to have a connection with the other person. You never know where a girl is at on that (nor about the 1000 other possible factors going on in their life), but under the right conditions anything is possible in the dating world. I had a night like you described years ago that opened my eyes to this (this was also the night I realized that hot girls are just peo… | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 07:39 AM |
| 8 | Stop putting pussy on a pedestal.To girls, 'attractive' isn't what it is to guys. Physical looks are something like 80% to 20% (The Models guy says 10% in his book actually) of initial attraction for men and women, respectively. Just get a nice haircut & clothes that fit you properly, and you're good to good. The other 80-90% is based on HOW YOU ACT. You need to understand that the top 5% of hot girls get hit on all the fucking time. You ever been to a gay bar? After 3 hours at one you can kind of understand how creepy dudes ca… | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 07:28 AM |
| 54 | Stop putting pussy on a pedestal.I still remember the night I realized this. Absolute game changer. | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 01:13 PM |
| 3 | What to do if girl feels your desperation .haha that's the spirit. Learning to accept when to say the word 'next' was the single most important lesson I learned from this community in terms of eliminating the types of internal pain you've recently experienced. It also helps the abundance mentality in that you understand that sometimes things just don't work out and that's ok, let's go try again! It exudes confidence rather than desperation (polar opposites in the attraction world). Another thing to note is a pattern I've noticed where ma… | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | What to do if girl feels your desperation .Next. | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Anyone in Tokyo: Tips for "inviting" date to a love hotel?I'm in Vietnam and most people local live with their family until like 30 or when they get married. This is true for guys and girls, and the houses are generally crowded with shared bedrooms etc. Basically they don't really have any other options than to go to these 1-2hr love hotels. I've been here a long while now and dated a lot and honestly I still have no idea how to smoothly suggest this to anyone that isn't a straight slut. Also, it's relatively cheap for housing here for foreigners so I … | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 10:00 AM |
| 15 | I'm a 24 year old male virgin - help/adviceCurious, why do you say that, specifically? I never really saw it as a bad thing. I mean, it's obviously not their first choice or anything, but I can definitely see how it could be a good jump start under the right settings. | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 06:10 AM |
| 53 | I'm a 24 year old male virgin - help/adviceunexpected kinky ending... | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 06:05 AM |
| 1 | I hate social media but it helps attract women. Help?haha, I have a strict 'No meeting friends on Reddit' policy after last time someone found me in the real world....but hey just find my on faceb-...oh... | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 06:00 AM |
| 1 | How do I take girls off the "pedestal"?One day I realized that they're just people, same as me. Talk to them like you'd like to be talked to by a good friend. Casual and fun. The day I had that epiphany is when the pedestal was no longer in my life. A little success with girls does help this as well, as you see the above in person. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | I hate social media but it helps attract women. Help?I did this from FB before I quit. Just Google it, it's right there in settings. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 02:07 AM |
| 4 | I hate social media but it helps attract women. Help?Yea I get that people get caught up in it, and it can give a little social lubrication in dating, but honestly I deleted all social media 3 months ago and have had no downside at all. I hate how fake and superficial it can be. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 02:05 AM |
| 16 | The BEST Way To Flirt (The Power of Misinterpretation)Girls top 3 features of an attractive man include sense of humor almost across the board... | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 04:06 AM |
| 5 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Great post, well said! I'd very much like to read Part II: LTRs. I'm several years into a relationship, and I think a lot of your points here apply to keeping the fire alive in a relationship, but there are many more specifics that are more applicable to living the LTR life. I evolved as a person with the help of this community and got the girl of my dreams. But over time it became easy to forget the fundamentals of what got me here, and the relationship has had stale streaks. There isn't the sa… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever gotten all the supposed signs a girl is into you but it turned out she wasn't?Some girls just want attention...next | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | First TryMy man | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Three ‘Cheat Codes’ For Pulling Girls From ClubsYea, this for sure. | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 12:06 PM |
| 10 | Judge Tracie Hunter complying with guilty criminals.I'm not sure because I havent been sent to prison before, but I would imagine it may be a bit emotional. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/07/19 09:44 AM |
| 3 | First date with a girl I met at clubJust get her to talk about herself. "If every job in the world paid the same exact money, which job would you want to do." You can go a lot of differebt directions with that one. Make jokes with a bit if teasing along the way. Very light teasing. The jey is that everyone likes talking about thenselves. Get her ti do that. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 12:54 PM |
| 1 | 2 women who murdered a young girl fall to the ground and begin to squeal after they receive life in prisonWow. That extremely intense emotions. I dont know or care what she did....Im sure it was bad....but that reaction is the strongest ive ever seen. That's incredibly intense. I can't imagine.... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/12/18 10:22 PM |
| 7 | You only need to be 20% better than the average male.8s and 9s are not 20% of the population. You need a bell curve, it's actually far far less than 20% despite being 2 out of 10 digits available | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 02:44 AM |
| 6 | “Fuck It” -- The Magic Words -- How I Learned to Approach Any Girl.I actually learned this from the movie Blow, when George was about to talk to Pablo Escobar for the first time. Helped my life immeasurably, especially with women. | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Most of you guys could probably start off by making this one little change, and most of your social problems will be solved.I realized one day that I am ahead of 90% of guys for the sole fact that I'm not creepy as fuck when I talk to girls. I feel like most guys have no comprehension of social cues and don't learn from their experiences. Like, why the fuck do they think that shit will work? Just talk to them like any other person and you'll go far. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 04:02 AM |
| 2 | First Ever GirlfriendChill out and don't react to that shit at all on the surface to her. Acting like you don't care will make her crave your attention. The opposite approach comes off as needy, and very unattractive. Also, don't worry about looks. Took me a long time to realize that looks aren't as high of a priority to girls as it is guys. We think differently than women in this way. Lastly, keep an eye open. She has a few signs of mental instability which could lead to cheating or playing games. That doesn't mean… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Examples of best Tinder profiles?riiiiiiiggghhtt.... | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | I want to say how positively surprised I'm with this subredditIf he fucks the girl within 20 minutes, then she IS a slut. So if that's the type of girl you go for, then yea, all the girls that he has slept with actually are whores. I can see how someone's view may be jaded by that experience. But it's his own fault for going for girls like that in the first place. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 03:35 AM |
| 2 | I want to say how positively surprised I'm with this subredditYea, when i first started reading this sub, about 7 years ago now, I came looking for tips for getting girls, and I ended up changing my whole life for the better. Being the better person is what ended up getting me girls, including the one I've been with for a while now who is better than I could have imagined back then. I have so much more self confidence everywhere in life. It's a great community at it's core. (not to say some of the shadier advice doesn't exist, but you pick and choose what … | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 03:30 AM |
| 16 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in her.I think you are jaded by the experiences you've had with women. You probably attract, or are attracted to, a certain type of girl - one who is like you described, who cheats and is dishonest. I understand that many girls are like this, and I have dated several myself. That sucked really bad, and I can see how it would make you lock yourself up and never fully give 'her' the key. This happened to me exactly. However locking yourself up like that is depriving yourself of the opportunity for one of… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Woman tries to "open" her 20 year marriage. It doesn't go quite as planned.yea, but...hotel? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/10/17 06:35 AM |
| 1 | You're not good enough, you're not smart enough, and people don't like you.Well said. Never convince yourself that you are content. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/17 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Holy shit I took action and it worked outI wouldn't do anything too fancy at first - too much pressure. Just find something you want to do, send a text saying something along the lines of, 'Hey, I'm doing (this thing at this place on this day). It should be fun. You should join.' | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 12:37 PM |
| 3 | How can I progress fast with girls during the next 7 months?Talk to every female you see, fully not expecting to get any. This includes old ladies, young girls, hot girls, ugly girls, all girls. This desensitizes you to the ideas of rejection and makes you comfortable talking to anyone. Talking is the key to getting girls. | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls from chatting to actually meeting on Tinder?To add onto this, I find that asking her to do something specific works well, instead of arbitrary drinks sometime. Something along the lines of, Hey, I'm doing fun thing at time or day, shoot me a text if you want to join xxx-xxx-xxxx. Girls like guys to have a plan. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 06:53 AM |
| 2 | NEVER Do This On A DateYou need to train yourself not to do this. Similar to confidence, it's kind of a fake it til you make it thing. Stop reflecting negative stuff - you need to have a filter on at first, and only reflect the positive things from within. Everyone has good things about themselves, and people like to see that enthusiasm about those thing in other people. In time this is what creates the positive unconscious mind. | /r/seduction | 29/06/17 06:12 AM |
| 1 | I was friendzoned for the 3rd time. What doThe biggest thing that has changed from when i was in your shoes is that I have become an expert at identifying when girls are not interested in me, and I quickly move on. It took a lot of, what i thought at the time, were near misses that ended in the friend zone to build these skills. Don't get discouraged, keep at it. | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 05:07 AM |
| -1 | Antifa tough girl smashes phone, gets arrestedWouldn't he lean the other way if liberals got into power though? I think his job is to just make fun of who ever is in there. Haven't seen too much of him lately as im out of the country though... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/05/17 05:20 AM |
| 4 | 5 Self Confidence Destroying Dating Lies We Tell OurselvesIt was actually quite insightful. Pop it on while youre doing some menial task, bam, 2 birds stoned at once. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Older guys, how did you actually find opportunities to meet women as you got older? How do older guys create a target rich environment for themselves?Shit, they're a lot cheaper than that over in Asia...just a thought. Edit: Just be careful they don't bite your nose off! | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 06:57 AM |
| 7 | How can I learn to get better with women, without having to become a "pick-up artist"?Theres a difference between being nice, and being afraid. You should be courteous, but bold. | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 01:34 AM |
| 2 | How can I learn to get better with women, without having to become a "pick-up artist"?What I did, which worked extremely well, was to read the information here or in books, and pick and choose the tips that fit into my personality. I didn't change myself at all, really, except that I became more confident and willing to go for what I wanted. Dont take everything you read at face value. Analyze it and see if you can incorporate it into your style of 'game'. If you've ever seen the Will Smith movie Hitch, he explains this pretty well. He basically says that guys are nervous, becaus… | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 01:31 AM |
| 8 | Do you guys ever get just bored listening to people?With that attitude, I'm sure they're lining up anyways... | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Got the number and set the date, but no rapport built. keep texting?Don't text until date day. | /r/seduction | 25/12/16 10:45 PM |
| 1 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...All you can do is focus on yourself. Listen to the guy above - improving YOURSELF is the only thing you can do. You are gaining data now on how girls react to certain things you do. You need to be ultra self aware during this process, and pay attention to what works and doesnt based on their subtle body language. When something works, keep trying it, and improve that. This is all confidence is - experience doing something that works for you. | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 09:16 AM |
| 1 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...You're not necessarily trying to get girls when you're starting out. You're basically training your social-emotional response 'muscle'. The goal is to overcome those self doubts that you have and to not fear rejection, thereby making you more confident in the process. You're experiencing growing pains, and take it from someone in your shoes 6-8 years ago, every rejection is a gift from the gods. Think of it like lifting weights. Your muscles hurt and it seems hopeless at the start to get jacked.… | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Effect of weed on gameive been a heavy use smoker from ages 14-32. Basically every single day from morning to night stoned with a few exceptions for drug testing for college soccer and some jobs. Ive worked on drones as an engineer, several other engineering jobs/interneships, I've been a teacher in Vietnam, Ive refereed socccer games (tough one there) and got very high gpa in engineering school, all stoned as fuck quite successfully. I am the poster boy for being able to smoke weed constantly and still live life suc… | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 09:21 PM |
| 1 | PSA: When you start closing consistently, remember to protect yourself.This shit happens all the time out here in SE Asia. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Too soon?THAT'S who to blame for this shit. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/11/16 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Thinking about QUITTING DRINKING? Here's how you can start (and what to expect in the early stages of sobriety)haha I wish I could do that. I just end up getting stoned anyways and powering through the tasks begrudgingly. On a side note, ive noticed what you described about thinking through projects (amongst other things) well while stoned, but I never thought to actually implement it effectively like that at certain stages of a project. I've always seen it as a burden, albiet a necessary burden for balancing my whole world out (I'm like that stoner on Road Trip kinda). And although it can help certain t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/16 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Thinking about QUITTING DRINKING? Here's how you can start (and what to expect in the early stages of sobriety)Yea, exactly...all of these could be true for most people | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/16 12:24 PM |
| 4 | Thinking about QUITTING DRINKING? Here's how you can start (and what to expect in the early stages of sobriety)'Sober me couldn't have pulled a girl as hot as you...' 'Hey, I love drinking, I just dont feel like it right now...' 'I've had enough to drink...' 'Just a personal choice / health choice / personal commitment to someone I respect' 'I feel like remembering my 30s...' It doesn't really matter. Just don't sound contentious or bitter in any way, and play it cool. Girls like positivity, so just make it into a fun positive thing somehow. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/16 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Thinking about QUITTING DRINKING? Here's how you can start (and what to expect in the early stages of sobriety)I smoke weed when i dont drink and it COMPLETELY eliminated boredom. Ambition suffers, however. But seriously, in times that I quit booze, I chill home with the girl, video games, and some weed. I'm wasting time, yes, but so was drinking. At least now I can get up in the morning and enjoy my day, my girl doesnt worry about whatever mischief I may get into out boozin, and I save a TON of money....enough to pay for the PS4 in less than a month incredibly. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/16 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Thinking about QUITTING DRINKING? Here's how you can start (and what to expect in the early stages of sobriety)I've dabbled with moderation for the last 10 months of so now. I'd have something like 15-20 drinks over a 2 month period. But then also have my weeks/months of heavier drinking as well. I am proving that I CAN moderate, but its a really good point that sometimes 2-3 turns into 12+ unexpectedly. And yes, at almost 32, the hangovers are becoming unacceptable, haha. Overall, since my experimenting has started, I find myself more energetic sober, which leads to just an overall aura of happiness tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/16 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Thinking about QUITTING DRINKING? Here's how you can start (and what to expect in the early stages of sobriety)I also drink and get most of my girls while sober. Also, better girls. My game is much more on point. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/16 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .yea...fair enough...my theory is just a theory, haha | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .I found a trick. I moved to Vietnam 4 years ago. Girls are much much different in different countries :-) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .Oh no man, i didnt mean to say you couldnt still have them, or that dating had anything to do with it. I was just wondering if you feel like you're missing out on something by not having them on some level. Or if you feel like the other people who settle with kids and family are the ones missing out, so to speak? Either way, im wondering what you would describe as the 'missing out' part, either way. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .What's your perspective about having (or i assume not having for you?) kids? If you don't have them, did you ever think you would when you were younger? And how do you feel about that decision? I feel like both roads have their advantages and disadvantages, but I think you'd have some great insight either way... | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .In broad strokes i agree with you. But if there is a girl that you find that can be in your life while you still maintain your frame, and you can be sure to a level of certainty that it will continue that way, then long term companionship is a great thing. Maybe not marriage if you disagree with the institution, but life in general. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 02:36 PM |
| 0 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .It IS possible, you know, to have a wife that gives you pleasure in other ways than sex. But I agree that I could still be happy single when im older. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .Great comment. I appreciate the perspective shift you described. I'm low 30s now and i feel my way of thinking has changed so much in the last 10 years, and I feel like your comment described what I am basically aiming for in the next 10. It's good to know life is still awesome, just different. Cheers | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .My personal theory is to have your fun and get it out of your system, learn, and then strike while the iron is hot. I really like some of the core ideals on this sub, and I have picked and chosen some very valuable wisdom from here over the years. I'll say now, I'm not a true RP-er because of some of the more extreme views, but here is my perspective. I think you should follow the core rules of TRP in life to be better as a person, which leads to greater availability of women naturally. I think … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Share your tips for skin care, hair loss and grooming techniques for men.I can confirm that Vietnamese girls love my white ass compared to my darker counterparts. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 01:22 PM |
| 13 | guy's gf shows him a red pill truth with her throatOne of the best things ive gotten out of RP is the part where you wouldn't fight the guy anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Anger isn't a phase.Lots of truth in there, cheers | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Anger isn't a phase.Constant anger is definitely a sign of weakness and insecurity to me. It's a shield. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Anger isn't a phase.I think you're onto something, yet you don't have all sides of the spectrum yet. Anger has it's purposes, yes. It can act as a catalyst to action, as you mentioned. This catalyst is basically one of the most primal levels of protection for us though. A survival of the fittest attribute that was immensely important since the time way before human life forms developed. It makes sense not to accept life if you're getting fucked, and to do something about it, because it can mean the different betwee… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Poster gets cuckolded by his girlfriend, she gets pregnant with another man behind his back, pressurises OP to reverse his vasectomy so he will be the father without realising, and after all that OP isn't sure if he wants to leave her. Some men... seriously!How the hell is not making a decision when you have high emotions a beta thing? You obviously dont think clearly when you're angry. I mean yes, of course he should choose divorce in the end, but waiting a day to finalize his decision isn't beta in any way shape or form. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 12:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Two year married Red Pill journey - lessons and observationsIt just doesnt seem sustainable for long term happiness to me. Everything else makes sense. But to be fair im only 30 and not married, so it hard to really put myself into a frame of reference that includes kids... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 05:37 AM |
| -2 | [FR] Two year married Red Pill journey - lessons and observationsSeriously....i use this to make my life better and be a better person. OP uses it to boost his ego, fuck younger girls, and get his wife 'in line'. Fair enough, if that's what you want, go for it.... | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 12:10 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my height (5'3ish) puts a serious cap on my alphanessCant get hot girls? Move to Asia. Too short? Move to Asia. Im telling you, its a whole new world. I didnt move here for any of those reasons, but once i got here I saw the light. Just trying to inform others :-) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 08:05 AM |
| 1 | I feel like my height (5'3ish) puts a serious cap on my alphanessya man. height isnt an issue for me, but just being white in asia is fucking awesome. I can get a MUCH higher percentage of all girls, including very hot ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 08:04 AM |
| -2 | I feel like my height (5'3ish) puts a serious cap on my alphanesshaha if you're 5'3" you'd need to be in the East Coast of Asia to get those results... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 11:47 AM |
| 4 | I feel like my height (5'3ish) puts a serious cap on my alphanesslol, i think you copied the TIL from last week word for word | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 11:39 AM |
| 2 | I feel like my height (5'3ish) puts a serious cap on my alphanessI do have a solution for you, albeit a bit outside of the box. I'm from America and I live in Vietnam now. I feel tall as fuck. Anywhere in Asia should do. Life surprisingly is of a higher quality for me than back home. I would imagine if this hieght thing is such a big deal to you, moving to Asia would all but solve the problem. Everyone is short here, guys and girls. Cheers | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 11:39 AM |
| 8 | I love hearing this kind of stuff.yes, that does indeed suck | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/08/15 09:35 AM |
| 11 | I love hearing this kind of stuff.thats not how prenups work...those are only for money you had before you got married, not money you make while married. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/08/15 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Trophy Hunter attempts to play the sexism card when called out for killing a giraffe and posting it on social media.aaaah, the irony... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/04/15 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche GameI find a couple things here interesting. First is perspective. It's interesting to me how your perception of this interaction has been completely different than mine based on perspective. Our past experiences have shaped our egos in ways that we each perceive an identical situation completely different. This is actually a good exercise for spiritual growth. In any case, my perception does not and never has had any level of anger what so ever. First it was just humor, unfortunately for you, at yo… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/03/15 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche Gamehaha, damn, you still going? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/03/15 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche GameBetter than a foolish old man getting trolled on reddit | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/03/15 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche Gameah ah ah, try again | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/03/15 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche Gamehahaha i keep getting messages from him everyday still | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/03/15 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche GameNah, I'm an adult. Probably older than you. I just like being smarter than other people, that's all. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/03/15 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche GameI dunno, honestly, it's just fun to fuck with you because you got so mad. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/03/15 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche GameHere's my 'neural' argument. Your comment implied that you might being lacking some synapses up there. Ergo, you started it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/03/15 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche GameStraw Man Argument | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/15 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche GameI'm a white American from New York, highly educated, and I have never laid a disrespectful hand on a woman in my life. I want you to take a minute and read your last 2 posts. Imagine someone else wrote that. What would you think of that person? You even tried to use the same insult that I used. Twice. You've got some demons if you're ego gets this threatened by a comment from an internet stranger. Anyways, keep on keepin' on Big Mikey! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/15 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche GameSomebody is cranky this morning. It is not cognitively difficult to draw the connection between this video and PPD. Don't say stupid things and people won't treat you like you're stupid. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/15 06:49 AM |
| 0 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche GameIts close enough to draw the connection | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/03/15 04:21 PM |
| 19 | Woman slaps drunk fan at Wild-Avalanche GameOK, this is a bit complicated, but i'll try and break it down in a simple way so even you can understand. First, the girl slapped the guy, thinking "hey, im a girl, no one can hit me, right?" Then she got hit, indicating that the pussy pass (ie her notion that she can hit a guy and not get hit back) was denied. Some of those words are kind of big, so if you need to know what they mean, type them into the white empty space on google.com and a definition should come up. You keep on keepin' on Big … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/03/15 10:37 AM |
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