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Ohhh.... that's a good one. And you're absolutely right. That "conservative" woman deserves to know what OP's values are, and decide for herself if she is okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:52 PM
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I never said anything about the frequency of which Otzi was getting laid. Perhaps you should go back and read what I was responding too. A lot of men think women are attracted to much older guys, and that is not true. I used Otzi as a possibility as to why YOUNG women are generally not attracted to much older men. That's it. The post was to address a manosphere stereotype. Nothing against Otzi, I'm sure he would be an interesting person to talk to and I might even watch Netflix with him while sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:18 PM
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I never said that. I said those days were probably well behind him. As in, he might of had a partner or a few partners, and had kids with those partners. But young fertile women probably preferred the young men of their time, not Otzi. Why does this matter so much to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:58 PM
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No, he wasn't "low status" or invalid or whatever. Humans always thrived by building communities. Heck, maybe he had a woman around his own age. However, I doubt all his joint pain, plus his age in a world where people barely made it pass 40 would make him an appealing potential father. If I had to guess, the days of fathering children with consenting young women were long behind him. Most young women just want the young guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:40 AM
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Everyone knows he was murdered, but he was definitely still old and no where near as fit as a man twenty years younger. They actually built models to show how Otzi may have looked when he was alive, and he was old. If he was a bit younger he might have been able to defend himself better. But who knows, no one is alive to tell us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:25 AM
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Young women are chasing around Chads but are secretly attracted to old men....what a dilemma. Also, have you heard of Otzi, the frozen ice age man they found in the Alps in 1991? When they reconstructed him, he was basically an old fart. From an evolutionary standpoint, he might have wanted a young women but surely they didn't want HIM. No, they wanted the guy who could fight off prehistoric lions and help protect the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:47 AM
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Or how about when you gotta pee super freaking badly and some random guy jumps in front of you just to call you beautiful....I was wearing a skirt maybe I should have just peed on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:49 AM
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Yeah especially if he pisses off some random New Yorkers. People here aren't exactly the friendliest bunch. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:44 AM
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I wonder how dumbfounded these people are when their eyes are hit with pepper spray...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:16 PM
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Oh they know how they come across. They just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:13 PM
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I'm not in the best position to be giving fashion advice, but I have one thing to say: Please, please do not dress like an old person, or like some boring suburban dad who sentenced himself to a boring life of lawn care. That's a typical "nice guy" look. "Nice guy" as in date me because I'm nice and have a job, not because I have ambition or anything else going for me. Avoid the mid-calf socks and khaki shorts. Also avoid tucking in a loose shirt with shorts. Avoid the so-called "mandals" (the u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:14 PM
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Not only that, but the pathetic methods sound kind of abusive. If that's how they treat someone they disagree with, I don't think those people were ever relationship material to begin with. I think women are doing the right thing by avoiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:11 PM
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I can't think of anyone more wrong to date than the dudes you are referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:41 PM
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This is the most pathetic way to get laid that I ever heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:38 PM
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If you read the entire thread, I was just letting someone else know what IFS means in this thread. It was described to me as a conservative think tank, so I just repeated the summary I was given. As for me, I don't care because the Institute of Family Sudies has no impact on my life whatsoever and I haven't heard of it until today. However, with a quick skim over the website it seems they are in favor of the Protestant faith and families headed by heterosexual couples. That might be where they g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:31 AM
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Fyi, I just got confirmation, it's the Institute of Family Studies, a conservative think tank. A lot of guys on this subreddit refer to studies conducted by this organization. So that's three IFS organizations we know about. But I think the International Foundation of Science is my favorite IFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:53 PM
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ARGH someone else just told me it was the Institute of Fiscal Studies (an organization in London that was accused of political bias) There are just too many IFS organizations! By far though, the International Foundation of Science is my favorite IFS. They are doing some seriously cool stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:49 PM
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Thanks for clearing that up. That's an across the pond kind of thing, so I'm definitely not familiar with that organization. I did a quick google search, and I'm definitely not qualified to make any commentary as to whether or not that organization is as impartial as they claim. At least...the OTHER IFS is doing something good. They provide grants to help scientists in developing countries improve their agriculture. Just a positive thought for the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:21 PM
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Are you referring to the International Foundation of Science? There are no IFS studies, because the IFS is a foundation that provides grants to scientists in developing countries. Grants usually cover research related to food production. And IFS has nothing to do with sociology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:09 PM
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That's a Mormon university. No ulterior motives there!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:19 PM
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People who are below certain annual income thresholds might find it worthwhile to see if they qualify for Medicaid, or a subsidy to pay for insurance. Many towns and cities across the country have nonprofit organizations that offer affordable mental health services with fees on a sliding scale. There might be local support groups in your area that exist for the purpose of helping people deal with social anxiety. Those are generally free admission, even if not professional mental health services.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:45 PM
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Men are more likely to die from violent disputes (involving crime), and at the hands of other men. Women are more likely to die from domestic violence, or just minding our own business. MEN (though not all) are responsible for these murders. I live in a city. I know for a fact, based on gender and size alone, you would be safer walking around than I am. Yet your response to my original post was condescending and rude, without taking into consideration how women feel about catcalling, groping, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:37 AM
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If you are so jealous of the "attention" women receive, I invite you to go to a prison and surround yourself with long-term, lonely inmates. You can also join a gay strip club, or become a gay male escort. Someone's bound to like you, I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:57 AM
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I'm not perfect but I do I take care of myself, and I don't want to date a guy who dresses like my dad. My Dad is in his late 60's. There are plenty of reasons to swipe on someone (such as different goals, personality, or compatibility). I don't care for the tallest, richest, or most muscular. If I swipe because of appearance, most likely it's because HE DRESSES LIKE MY DAD. ***Style is only one aspect of attracting people. I know there are stylish lonely men out there, so please spare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:57 PM
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I could walk around and actually feel....SAFE...🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:55 PM
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Are you sure they are trying to coddle people, or are they just insecure little twits who want to put other people down just to lift themselves up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:50 PM
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Freudian slips are not automatically sex related. A better example would be someone talking about veterans, but they say veterinarian instead, and it turns out their pet is sick. Or in this guy's case the weather is nipply today oh I mean nippy... I don't think this guy tried to hide anything. I think he doesn't get out much and fails to understand...how laughable these thoughts are. I highly doubt his fetishes are buried that deep into his mind, or even something he feels shame about. His ego c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:37 PM
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Freudian slip? More like full blown obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:19 AM
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My brain is sick too, because I think this post is hilarious. I have some screenshots of weird reddit posts, and this one made it to my collection. Cuz you know, if a guy has trauma related to a specific sex act, the first thing we should do is get angry and pressure him to let us stick things in his butthole. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:28 AM
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Not everything. Just ignoring the word 'no'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:17 AM
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Someone's triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:48 AM
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We all make mistakes and go through dark periods in our lives. Assuming the former incel never committed an act of terrorism or doesn't have a questionable internet history (such as praising pedophilia and rape), then I don't think being a former incel is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:07 AM
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You can't even comprehend the word 'no' and have to plot idiotic ways to get around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:03 AM
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Yes, as in let her reject you and don't play any bullshit mind games (like oh but wait I'm the one rejecting YOU). "Okay you're not interested? Sure, I understand. Let me know if you change your mind. Have a good night, and good luck with everything. " Just move on and don't play games. No need to mess with her ego. Be an adult and move on to someone who is actually interested in you. Using words like "slut" or last "last minute resistance" is rapey and problematic by default. It's a term coined…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:16 AM
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Or the "last minute resistance" / "slut defense" which is just an excuse to coerce unwilling women into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:07 AM
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If you find older men attractive, that's your thing. You do you. Most women were still building our lives in our early 20's. Another guy who is doing the same will work just fine, if not much better. In developed countries younger people usually don't date for marriage. I always found older men who specifically pursued younger women to be creepy. He's too good for wrinkles, gray hair, and sagging skin, but I'm not apparently? Ew. Besides, most women date men our own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:13 PM
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If you listen to these men complain, you would think humanity was about to go the way of the dinosaurs because women are "so picky" . Dinosaurs had trouble finding water after the asteroid hit, and men are literally gasping for the last desperate bit of sex available. All of this caused by Tinder. And a dick the size of RP bullshit? I'm imagined something bigger than a dinosaur tearing my body in half.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:00 AM
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Is too!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 01:54 AM
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That's the mentality of people on the sex offender registry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 01:34 AM
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No one deserves to be hit by their significant other (unless for self defense). Anyone who believes otherwise is not a nice guy or nice woman, and deserves to be single. It's a shame garbage like this is allowed on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:26 PM
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Catcalling has nothing to do with this post. But I do want to tell you, I have seen men harass and catcall 90 year old women (I feel sorry the elderly women). Florida is a weird place.....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:26 PM
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I think the medication Cialis is meant to make women hornier. And women who use it are usually in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:10 PM
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Spineless guy, Nice Guy.... neither super appealing as a dating partner. But I could at least be friends with the spineless person. I can't always tell the difference right away, but if it's in a dating situation it probably won't get past the first date anyway. I just don't want either as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:04 AM
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That is true, but I think Nice Guys have entitlement tangled in with their lack of spine. They don't know how to go for it like normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:54 AM
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The not nice part results from the lack of spine. They have no backbone because they can't honestly communicate their wants and needs. Then they play passive aggressive games when you fail to keep up your part of the agreement that you never actually agreed to.... because heaven forbid they open their weenie mouths and say something. Basically they're just a secretive pot of anger, ready to boil over because they can't communicate. I haven't dealt with nice guys in a while but that's how I remem…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:46 AM
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Uh...I filter strange men out so I don't get raped. If you really think these men are an option, you are seriously lacking in the empathy level. What a personal attack on me, to totally disregard the measures I have to take to prevent a stranger from sexually attacking me. I see nothing "lol" if you think dangerous sex pests are a viable dating option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:00 PM
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You're right. So many thirsty men approach women, with the obvious intention of using us as a cum bucket. It's like a plague of horny telemarketers. If someone approaches me at those locations, I don't even both looking at them, or determining their attractiveness level. I just ignore them. Life has kicked my ass. I have no time or energy for their crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:49 PM
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Wow...so much effort put into this post just to convince women to date stinky men. What next? A civil rights movement for stinky people? I'M NOT UGLY I JUST STINK!!!! Dude, just shower, wash the nutsack, wear deodorant, and brush your teeth. That's so much entitlement, to want assault a woman's nostrils like that. I don't like reading red pill stuff because it repulses me, but I'm sure there's something there about bathing. And if there's not, that's because it's so obvious it probably didn't cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:33 PM
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Gendered post? On the PPD sub? NO WAY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:57 PM
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OP never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:55 PM
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I live in a city. I'm wary about talking to either men or women who happen to be strangers. Women who approach me usually want money. Men who approach me want either money or sex. I think I was 18 when I started being extra wary around strange men. That's because they used small talk as an opening to sexually assault me. Alot of these men said I looked 13 to them. College was the first time in my life I was in the same vicinity as adult men who were not teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:54 PM
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The reason I think you owe it to yourself to get therapy for that specific issue is because that is what I had to do. I have a learning disability, and I sometimes I need help with social skills. I'm not sure how to help you. I don't know why you want a partner, how you relate to people, who you are targeting, or childhood issues that might influence how you think or act today. Those are just some factors. If I connect with someone, it's usually a person I have some shared interests with. They a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:53 PM
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That post was referring specifically to men who think a sexbot can solve their problems. There are some men out there who are lacking in empathy, or understanding as to how to form genuine connections. That's not a crime, no one has to be perfect. BUT the fact is if you don't understand relationships or how connections are formed, you owe it to yourself to get therapy. Demonstrating compatibility is tricky as it is. A person who thinks humans can replace robots already has the same compatibility…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:26 PM
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No, I'm thinking compatibility. Everything you listed means absolutely nothing without compatibility. Of course, it's not your fault if you're not compatible with every person you meet. As a matter of fact, that is pretty normal for 99% of human beings. But it's also not the other person's fault if you're not compatible. You think of dating as put in XYZ and you SHOULD get a girlfriend. That's turning human relations into a formula. Compatibility is the reason dating is not a formula. Also, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:56 PM
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My post was in reference to how unrealistic these robots are. If you think they are going to be replace women, you forgot about that aspect of being out in public with a woman so you can do things you enjoy together. That's very telling. Unfortunately, your list (good person, morals, built muscles, etc.) seems to be missing one very important aspect of dating. Can you figure out what it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:23 PM
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Being a subservient bangmaid probably won't make you happier. I have older relatives who died from things related to alcoholism and stress if you need proof. My family also has intergenerational trauma from the "good old days".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:46 PM
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I'm wondering if these people are planning to take the sexbots out in public. Are we gonna live in a reality in which we don't know which woman is real or is a sexbot covered in God knows what germs and goop that comes out of the male body??? They clearly don't know what it means to replace a human girlfriend, and that's very telling as to the REAL reason these men struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:10 AM
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The kind of man you described doesn't sound much like a father, or a decent person. If he literally reduces the mother of his own child to her body, he could probably use some feminism, or at least a condom. A lot of jobs have special rooms for breast pumping. As a matter of fact, there are millions of women across the world who are working moms. And their husbands are still around. I don't understand how this can even be a question. And porn generally doesn't show a woman's personality, or othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:59 AM
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If the father works from home, or if the parents are able to secure childcare, I don't see how that would significantly effect her work schedule. Of course, she might not work as many hours as a new parent, but neither would the father. It's obvious each scenario doesn't force a woman to depend on a man's income. I'm sorry, but I'm not following your train of thought that somehow connects a family's love of their father with a younger woman and cool car. I also don't understand your logic about …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:29 PM
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There is paid time off (often used for birth and first few weeks). Afterwards, there is daycare, or perhaps a grandparent who can help out. Or maybe the father can pause his career, or she can return to work in a few years. A man would stick around to pay bills because he is paying for his family's well being, and he loves his family. From my personal experience, men do not have any issues with educated women. I also do not see any sociological research, or evidence that would prove otherwise. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:30 PM
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The wages from both an earning husband and wife will pay the bills when she has kids. Most women prefer "ass for emotional intimacy and connection" rather than "ass for cash". For many women, the point of a degree is to do away with transactional relationships. Do you have any research that proves a guy cares less for his wife if she has a degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:29 PM
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Thankfully we don't need "betabuxx". That's what wages are for. I'm relatively new with understanding this term, but it seems to imply a transactional kind of relationship. And please, define what you mean by level of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:07 PM
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The point of a degree is to use it. "A worse marriage deal" doesn't make any sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:57 PM
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I love college! Seriously, overcoming my disability and getting a degree is one of the greatest achievements of my life. As for my job, it enabled me to travel around the world and pursue many different hobbies. My job also made it possible for me to move to a new city, where I had the chance to meet people and establish lifelong friendships. Thankfully, I never felt pressured to be tied up and waterboarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:48 PM
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Only desperate people who think they can't attract a mate believe women should marry men they are not attracted to. That's very sad. The reality is that marriage and raising kids is very hard work, and you need a solid foundation to get through the rough times. Some level of attraction, and natural chemistry are necessary to ride out the parts of marriage and life that are the total opposite of fairy tales. I almost got married to a guy I was not physically attracted to. I tried to do what was e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:45 PM
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Yeah, I'm reading this and I'm like wtf are MY presents? If anything, I'm the one giving away presents! Those presents are usually for friends going through a rough time, and unfortunately times are still rough because of the pandemic. I don't think you should be arguing with a creep who thinks of nonconsensual attention from men as "free compliments" and "free love". In his responses he might as well just admit to secretly jacking off while feasting on his dinosaur chicken tendies. This man nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:40 PM
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I know of this 24 year old guy dating a batshit crazy 42 year old woman. It's sad, because he is young and naive he believes they are in "love" (hint: it's based on unhealthy fixation and insecurities). The problem with large age gaps is the potential power imbalance. In this case, the power imbalances are related to money and life experiences. This man lacks both so they are used as weapons. This was eye opening. As a young woman, I had many problems with older men harassing and even sexually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:04 PM
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My dad was the primary breadwinner. "Traditional gender roles" were very stressful on his mental health. My dad always warned me to pick a person that can carry his own financial weight. I'm estimating the "financial weight" of a partner would be something like $50k+ (assuming we wanted kids). I make $60k, and expect my income to modestly increase over the next few years. Childcare in my area is about $1,200 per month on average. Retirement is expensive to save for. The jobs are out here too, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:35 PM
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I know. People say such outrageous stuff on this subreddit, and I'm like WHAT DID YOU DO TO GET DELETED??? How did you actually offend the mods here??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:28 PM
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I try not to post too often, but I enjoy a dumpster fire / shitshow as much as the next person. Sometimes, I see that post. That one post that is so unbalanced, so unhinged...that it causes just the right amount of repulsion and laughter. I'm like YEAH THIS WAS SO WORTH IT. And I have no idea why I'm like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:28 PM
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I can answer that. Most likely, she was piss drunk when she slept with the randoms she sees no future with. The guy who has to wait might be someone she met in a normal and healthy situation. She might even like him more, and decided to wait and see if he genuinely likes her. If he gets to know her better after sleeping with her, and decides it's not going to work out, I guess the rejection would sting harder. That's my guess. My approach to dating is different, so I'm not really offering you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:12 PM
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While you jerk it to Nekopara to vol 4...Pound them like an Idaho potato... Thanks, I live for comments like these on reddit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:32 PM
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If it helps, I'm an accountant but I wasn't born thinking oh yeah debits and credits, baby! I totally enjoy explaining to my boss why he latest "legal loophole" is actually tax evasion! Whoh! Oh and depreciating that asset is more fun than chocolate. Unfortunately, the dorky jobs are the often the jobs that earn something. That something pays for my Animal Crossing village, gym membership, art supplies, makeup, alcohol beverages, and so on. Ambition at work is about balance. If you find the righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:11 PM
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Cat callers and unwanted attention makes me feel unsafe. I have been sexually assaulted in public before by strangers, and by people I know as well. These men think I should be flattered by this. You don't see excess attention as a problem, even when I'm literally attacked over it. Hell, they're probably going to blame me for being attacked. Normal people do not enjoy cutting up live puppies. Normal people do not commit serial murders. And of course, normal, non-rapey men do not place dry dick o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:52 AM
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I can only shake my head when I see all these men blatantly dismiss millions of women who feel unsafe. The reason these men are not getting laid has nothing to do with women being picky. I see short, overweight, and imperfect men with dates all the time. The problem is the men on this post are delusional and an actual threat to women offline. I wouldn't be surprised if most of these men actually assaulted someone. I have to disregard all the times I felt violated because the REAL crisis is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:57 AM
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Hey note that study that says men who harass women online are losers? What are you doing right now? All because women preferring cats over rapey men has triggered you. I'm sure you're a real winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:58 PM
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Cat > Immature, bitter loser who calls overweight women names because he has nothing interesting in his offline life. Cat > MGTOW dumbass who ponders about marriages of hypothetical overweight women instead of playing sports, or doing something, positive that actual winners in life focus on. What can I say? Science backs me up: https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2015/07/91041/study-men-who-harass-women-online-are-losers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:31 AM
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They care about it because they want to blame anyone but themselves for their crap dating life. It's not because she saw him dropping that vial in her drink. Or that he had to keep physically pushing his chin upwards so it wasn't as obvious he was staring at her cleavage. Nah, she just overvalued herself because of some crappy one night stand with Chad back in college. She's too dumb to otherwise know what she can get, so she needs McRapey scream into the internet void about her so-called looksm…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:20 AM
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You should complain to management. Just tell them he makes you uncomfortable and doesn't respect your space. Or you yell at him to back off. Don't assume he doesn't know better. He does. He just doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:09 AM
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During a group conversation, I might ask him some questions, or somehow try to include him in the conversation so he doesn't feel left out. If it's a one on one conversation, I might give it five or ten minutes before politely backing out. If it's some nimrod on the train or the gym who just won't shut up when I'm clearly busy / unavailable, that's when I start fantasizing about the pepper spray. 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:06 AM
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My practical solution is to stop harassing women and accept rejection like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:48 PM
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That is just as damaging as harassment. And it IS harassment to post someone's picture online for the sole purpose of getting people to insult that person. Another day, another male redditor trying to excuse abusive behavior. It's much easier to harm random women than it is to face being a loser. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-intersect/wp/2015/07/20/men-who-harass-women-online-are-quite-literally-losers-new-study-finds/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:21 PM
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What kind of a creep allows men to post women's pictures online and say horrible things about her? A woman has dating standards you don't like, and your reaction is to cause severe emotional damage through dozens of horrible posts? Men who behave like this online are misogynist morons, and are guaranteed to be a threat to women offline as well. Your subreddit doesn't indicate any trends related to women. It's just a venting spot for rapey men to cherry pick random women and avoid taking responsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:40 PM
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You won't be unemployed forever. The job market really sucks right now. It's probably better to focus on finding work instead of dating. No one can fault you for that. I graduated into a shitty economy as well, and I managed to make something of myself. You will too, you'll see. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:55 AM
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Six figures? As a millennial, if I want a guy my age worth six figures... well, good luck with that. Or if he did make six figures knowing my luck most of it would be paying down student loans anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:49 PM
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Moms and wives work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:55 PM
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Speak for yourself. I personally think it's an AMAZING IDEA to get yourself in thousands of dollars in debt, and take 20+ years to pay it off just because some guy MIGHT be mildly impressed by a bachelor's degree that everyone else has. I'll have you know my degree in accounting brings all the boys to the yard. My ability to create nested formulas in Excel has only bought me the Chad-iest of Chads, because that's all us women care about. Not the ability to travel or have a decent lifestyle. All …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:30 AM
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Once again, the comment about men building civilization just for women has no basis whatsoever in anthropogeny. You then went on to babble about a bunch of crap that has nothing to do with the study of prehistoric humans. Yeah, men did all that just to get laid. The ancient Roman Colosseum might as well be a giant, erect penis. Under the anonymity of the internet, you can't admit you said something silly. It's been almost eight hours. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:10 PM
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You're right, I cannot wrap my head around it. Somehow, I don't think it helps that our culture has reminders of sex every where we turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 07:09 PM
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Fake anthropogenic facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:15 PM
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When did I say anything about an evil man object?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:01 PM
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But I'm not the one making up anthropogenic facts to compensate for a lack of sex life. And men do respect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:20 PM
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You never answered my question. Another day, another redditor making up random "facts" because women refuse to touch his peepee.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:16 PM
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Civilization was not built just for women. Both genders decided they had enough of chasing megafauna and scavenging for food. Men wouldn't otherwise mind living in a cave, but they built civilization just for women? What are your qualifications for anthropogeny? What are your sources? None.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:10 PM
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That episode was meant to be a critique of how shallow society is. The Beautiful People Club was meant to be a parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:24 PM
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Also, I do recognize that attractive people (both genders) generally ARE treated better by society. I just don't think it's to the same extent has high school. We all have bills to pay and not enough energy to focus on stupid crap, or to be creeped out just because someone isn't dating material. For example, I don't have enough time to be creeped out by my landlord, the mail man, guy at the deli, and so on. There's just no time to be bothered by the existence of random people. I watched Season 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:03 PM
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If someone has an outright mean attitude towards people just because of their physical appearance, they're stuck in a high school mentality and need help. I don't think those kinds of people feel endangered at all. I think they are just being bullies, which is entirely different from reacting to threatening behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:35 PM
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Unfortunately, I have to pay forty bucks to read the whole thing. The heading didn't say if the study indicated who is more "serious". It just said women avoid facial disfigurement. They could hit themselves in the neck, or another vital part. This would make things easier for viewings, and might be less traumatic for loved ones (but your speculation could be right as well). Not only that, the article only speculates on women who own a gun. Personally, I don't have a gun. But the difference betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 08:09 PM
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Is a woman not having sex with a random stranger a bad thing? I don't understand how anyone can expect a woman who is walking around, probably not thinking about sex to suddenly think, "Great idea. I think I will fuck this random dude who can be another Ted Bundy for all I know." No, I was thinking about my Animal Crossing island, or maybe some bill I have to pay. I'm not gonna suddenly be hot and horny because some random weirdo in the street approached me. Some men have trouble believing this,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:49 PM
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I thought it was about the access to whatever it is you're using to try to kill yourself. Women might ingest a lot of pills or sink chemicals, and men might be more likely to have a gun. The gun for obvious reasons is more effective. If someone attempts suicide, I'm thinking more likely than not, in that moment they really want to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:22 PM
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If there's ever a bad vibe, it's probably from instinct. I think instinct happens when your unconscious mind notices some subtle, weird behavior. If anyone (man or woman) reading this post feels a bad instinct towards someone, DO NOT SECOND GUESS YOURSELF. Do not feel guilty, or shallow. You owe nothing to someone who is making you uncomfortable (conventionally good looking or not), so do what you gotta do to feel safe. This isn't high school. No one gives a flying crap if someone outside the "b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:08 PM
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You know, the other day I found out this guy I liked is EIGHT YEARS younger than me (35F and 27M). Understand, I look very young for my age and probably act very young. My family aged well.... But I suddenly imagined a date with him turning into a Scooby Doo episode. Oh that's not who you think she is (pulls off mask) THAT'S YOUR GRANDMOTHER BWA HA HA HA!! But I appreciate your kind words. I feel less creepy now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 04:47 PM
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I'm thinking all men are capable being faithful. It's a matter of the choices they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:27 PM
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I know men cheat. While you're at it, tell me how wet water is. I am close friends with several men who could cheat if they wanted, but choose not tom I am a feminist, but I can still see the good in people. Men are complicated beings just like women are, and men are capable of being faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:21 PM
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I think character has something to do with it If my dad left my mom just for some younger chick who wanted his money, that would destroy the family he created. My dad loves my mom, and would never want to hurt her for something as stupid as an opportunity. There are wealthy men out there who have the opportunity, they just choose not to do so because they don't suck My dad raised me to expect the same from any guy I'm with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:12 PM
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She probably should of focused more on the excuses coming from the manosphere. That would have been a really good point. She talked about Johnny Depp, not the lame excuses men make to rationalize his behavior. No matter what, some people just have excuses for everything. Most of the research they use is pure crap, and they have no credentials to analyze statistics or research. You would think some kind of credibility would be necessary before trying to smear half the human race. The reality is, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 05:49 PM
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But the thing is, how am I taking casual sex for granted if I don't want it? Maybe I'm also taking for granted the cute little mice in my kitchen that leave crap every where. I mean, I always wanted a pet snd now it looks like I have five so... I think you are looking at symptom and not cause. Know what I'm REALLY taking for granted? The fact that for one reason or another, I can go without sex long enough to the point I really don't care about casual sex. Or sex anything. I don't mean to say on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 04:56 PM
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I suppose women who like hookups might take for granted how easy it is. However, women as a whole taking it for granted? No, because hooking up for casual sex isn't a priority for most of us. Hooking up still isn't worth the risk, even if taking the safety precautions you mentioned. I don't want to sit, or even interact in public with a potential sex maniac. Even talking to these people makes me feel objectified and anxious. Public isn't totally safe either. There are manipulative predators who …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 04:26 PM
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Why are these men isolated? Why can't they go out and make friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:52 PM
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Short men had to be born somehow. This isn't a recent phenomenon, as short dudes have been reproducing for millions of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:44 PM
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Sorry, but I gotta object to something. You really have to consider what a fling on a whim looks like for most women. The kind of men who would do such a thing are um.... rather unsavory and kind of dangerous to be around. If I wanted, I could walk outside and get laid right now but I assure you the results would be not be a hot porno. And I might be removing tics from my vagina for weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:39 PM
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For better or worse, attraction is in part based on things we can't control. Height, boob size, facial features, etc. Saying "I can't help it" is kind of pointless. Dating isn't a rewards system.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:28 PM
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No, it just shows Johnny Depp was in a broken marriage, and maybe an asshole to his wife. Celebrities have that problem of thinking they are invincible. But he obviously didn't know Amber was batshit crazy. I assure you the men in my family would not do such a thing to their wives. Why would you think that ONE instance of a filthy stinking rich celebrity would reflect a trend of all men? Why would you cite Johnny Depp and not actual research? What is the point of your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:21 PM
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I say throw this SMW stuff out the window and get a dog instead. 27 years old? WHO CARES I HAVE A PUGGLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 05:30 AM
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A dog sounds nice actually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 05:04 AM
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Preach it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 06:37 PM
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Don't compare us women. As a matter of fact, throw your stereotypes out the window because that's how you ended up where you are now...living a freezing cold country and disillusioned with the dating options. Just a thought...having a girlfriend or boyfriend really isn't that important. You really shouldn't take dating advice from freaky internet philosophies espoused by weirdos with no credentials (I'm think of my sister and the FDS cult...shudder...). Dealing with people, and life in general j…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 02:43 PM
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It depends on the person. I don't believe myself to be neurotypical, so I can't say the typical person would feel lucky (cuz uh, you know... neurotypical...?) I have a good career. I'm athletic, traveled alot, and have a lot of hobbies, so I'm not boring. People like my sense of humor, and I think a lot of men think I'm pretty. But I seriously struggle with things like cooking and cleaning. Not everyone can handle my weaknesses, and I accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:58 PM
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I don't think I can ever date a guy significantly younger than me. I just couldn't relate to him. It wouldn't be fair to ask him for something serious, or to even sleep around with him before he had a chance to form his own values. In short, I would feel like a creeper. I don't think I'm hardwired to anything. I think it's just empathy, and I want a relationship with an equal. Not a young man to manipulate. Not only that, I hate Tik Tok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:03 AM
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It's hilarious but true 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:16 PM
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You shouldn't call anyone "ugly". Just say you're not attracted to them. I don't think you meant any harm, but if you want to find the right partner it will help to leave unnecessary negativity out of your language. Anyway, going for a girl who you're not attracted to won't solve your problem for long. Eventually, your human instinct is going to kick in, and you find yourself lusting after other people. You're emotionally invested in a person you're not attracted to, and you are going to have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:06 PM
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Oomph. I predict you just hit a lot of men in the feels. It's easier to blame women than to change yourself. Dating is often the part of our lives we have the least control over, because we need someone else to act accordingly. This applies to both genders. I also think economic factors such as student loans, heavy workloads, living at home, etc., make dating harder. As a woman, I could easily get casual sex but I don't care because I don't want it. I usually like guys around 5"4 to 5"10 in heig…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:00 PM
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A year isn't long enough for change. If she truly likes you, hopefully she learned her lesson and she will change so she has healthy relationships in the future. I don't know what to say about her friends. Personally, I was never friends with any women who cheated (or if they did, I was unaware of it). It is true, I have some friends with serious problems and I would never emulate it. But in your case, I can't say for sure because their problems with cheating hurt other people, and I don't know …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:24 AM
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Men pay all the taxes, huh? Well if that's the case I'll let the IRS know, and they can send you my tax bill. 😂 Men can be stay at home dads too. But of course, blame the women and not force men to take responsibility for THEIR actions. Child, remember that time is money. And the best you did with your time is to make an argument based on obvious double standards. You take responsibility and delete your two-day old troll account.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:36 PM
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ASSUMING THE NUCLEAR BLAST DOESN'T KILL YOU FIRST!!! 😱 Otherwise afterwards yeah it might be an interesting death....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:33 AM
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We don't want those robots becoming TOO intelligent, or else they could just get up and walk away like a regular human. And let's not forget what Skynet did. If Skynet sends a sexbot back in time to kill John Connor, we'll know how this turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:06 PM
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The claim that women initiate most non reciprocal dating violence is initiated by women originates from Swahn's study. He based it on urban youth, and as you said, it's a much smaller subset of the population. His data collection methods and definition of terms were incomplete, so his study doesn't support the claim about women and nonreciprical dating violence. Of course, men can be victimized by women as well (and their claims might not taken seriously, just as female victims are often dismiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:09 PM
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Non reciprocal violence, huh? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3027431/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:37 PM
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As a woman, I cannot defend myself the way a man could. I'm also more likely to be SEXUALLY victimized. My post was referring to sexual violence. And yes, men are the ones initiating violence against both men and women. Instead of pointing out men on men violence when trying to downplay threats of sexual violence against women, it's better have a discussion about why men are more likely to initiate physical and sexual violence against others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:31 PM
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Health and safety would be good examples. Another example is feeling respected. I don't feel privileged because of my gender. I have to deal with threats like roofies, catcalling (which can escalate into stalking and sexual violence), dating violence, workplace sexism, mysongny, and so on. I do not deny men have their own issues and pain to deal with, but it's still extremely disrespectful to claim women are privileged while we are dealing with overwhelming sexual violence and mysongny
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:20 PM
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You are correct people can't help their height due to genetics. But so what? Men sometimes aren't attracted to certain facial features. The way our faces look is also the result of genetics. The debate should be whether height preferences are a deal breaker or if it shouldn't matter. People are often attracted to things that are the result of genetics, fair or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:26 PM
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As a woman I don't want to say I'm not attracted to certain men because of X physical characteristic. You never know when someone with that characteristic might come walking along, and then their feelings can be hurt. At most, I prefer to say, "I like to date this kind of person." It's better to focus on likes than to rub the dislikes in someone else's face. Imagine if I stood in Times Square with a megaphone, and I'm like I DON'T LIKE THIS KIND OF GUY OR THIS KIND OF GUY OR THIS KIND OF GUY. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:54 AM
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People can complain about body standards (in dating) all they want. But if they want change, they should discuss underlying attitudes for dating preferences and use positive messaging to address it. Or at least address stereotypes. They should not target individuals, or shame people as a whole for not sleeping with them. THAT is when it becomes creepy. Far too many people (regardless of political affiliation or whatever pill) don't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:07 AM
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When you're in the beginning stages of dating someone, you're basically getting to know each other. This might even involve sex. How can a guy guarantee he won't change his mind if he doesn't completely know the other person yet? Fucking a guy doesn't turn him into my own version of Princes Leia. If he isn't feeling it, he should respectfully back out. I don't own him, and I have no right to him. If the guy lied about liking her just to get laid, I can certainly understand the anger. She might b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 05:54 PM
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I don't know how most American men feel about grooming (I have no reason to pay attention). In my neighborhood, it seems like most young men do care about their appearance. But my neighborhood consists of residents who are minorities or immigrants, so their behavior might not represent most American men. Most American men (even those frustrated with dating) do bathe and brush their teeth. I don't think that's a fair characterization. That being said, the guys I liked in the past didn't have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 05:37 PM
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Well I suppose fat shaming isn't exactly working in China, or obesity wouldn't be rising. I'm aware that countries exposed to western food are experiencing health problems, and that is very sad. But no matter what, they're not going to eat exactly the same as Americans, because they are not American. It's not due to shame, it's just the food people are used to eating. So I doubt their societies will reach America's obesity rates. Hopefully that never happens. Even with obesity rising with income…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:10 PM
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Are you talking about American food? I don't think all American food is terrible, but I don't know where we as a society went wrong. All I know is when I went abroad, I was totally shocked at how easy it was to find better food (England was the exception). The problem of crap food is so embedded in American society, that shaming is a solution thought up by people who lack critical thinking skills, and too lazy to bother with real solitions. I found it easiest to eat better healthy food when I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:50 PM
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Where did say it was impossible? I just said shaming wasn't necessary for people to prefer their own country's food. There are more people in China, so there might be more KFC'S. But just because there is a KFC around the corner doesn't mean you need to be shamed into not eating there every day. Especially since local food in Asia can be cheaper. I traveled around the world, and I assure you American food is not irresistible. Shaming is not necessary when the alternative is just crap quality and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:25 PM
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Believe it or not, people can recognize food of their own culture as preferable to American food. American culture and food are not so amazing that people need to be shamed into rejecting it. To think otherwise is an American centric world view, and a bit arrogant. There are other issues in Asian societies that are dealt with through shame. In places like South Korea and Japan, the shame often leads to suicide. But the suicides are not related to American food consumption, or one denying themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:58 PM
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That's because a lot of Asian Americans (assuming recent immigrants, or family that immigrated) take their cultural traditions with them, which includes avoiding nasty American food. No shame or guilt required. They are simply carrying on a lifestyle they are used to. For anyone wanting to initiate real change in this world, shame is simply the easy way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:40 PM
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I just looked at all your responses to this post. You basically just created this post to insult women, instead of trying to learn something from someone. I'm sorry you have enough time to waste so you do such worthless things. Please be assured you are 100% at fault for your problems with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 03:31 AM
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Women are always told don't pursue. I heard it before. Some women say they only know for sure he likes them if he asks her out, he's not confident enough if he's not a mind reader, hunter, masculine energy, blah blah blah. Maybe they really think that way. Or maybe, it's a cover so she can avoid emotional pain that comes with rejection. If guys do the asking and mostly get rejected, I imagine many would be used to it by now. As a woman, asking people out is a recent thing for more (past few year…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:07 PM
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I appreciate your response. The red piller is toxic. Just ignore him. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:52 AM
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I can send out messages to 80 guys too. Hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hey wassup hi hi hi hi hi hi dick pick hi. 2/3 of all male messages are sent to a third of women. That means the other two thirds of women are not getting that many more messages then you. There's not enough messaging to go around. Women typically don't initiate first contact on dating apps. And if unattractive men are at such a huuuuuge disadvantage, what the hell do you want me to do about it? I'm not go…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:11 AM
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Huh? No, men primarily message the top third of women. Women are attracted to the top 20%, according to the survey. That just looks similar, and that's fine. I never said don't go for attractive people. If it makes you happy, I don't care. One cannot be wrong for being attracted or unattracted to someone else on a dating app for consenting adults. One cannot be wrong for not giving attention if they are not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:33 AM
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Nope, the trend would both genders are aiming top tier, whatever that means. One is no better than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:23 AM
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It's not bad. You do what makes you happy. That's your business. Both men and women can date whoever they want, top 20% or top third or whatever. Basically, both genders in the survey wanted their...umm.... "top tier" partner. Alot of men fuss about this 20% stuff, but they forget that men have their one third thing going on as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:58 AM
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Oh of course. No one finds family members unattractive because INCEST IS DISGUSTING. No, it's because of the ugly and how your family members rate in terms of looks. / SARCASM Fyi, your hypothetical "if" is really creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:48 AM
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I don't find my Dad attractive, but he's not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:14 AM
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Just because you're not attracted to a guy doesn't mean he is ugly. A lot of guys are looking for genuine connections, too. They don't deserve to be insulted any more than I do. A lot of incels / red pillers cite out that "study" to avoid responsiblity for themselves and shame women into dating crappy partners. But the survey shows 2/3 of men messaging the top third of women. So their survey shows male users are not much better, AND it's not even sociological research done in a clinical setting.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 11:17 PM
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I think... there is no universal answer (beyond the generic advice you can find online). We live in a very individualist society, and different women want different things. If someone wants a date from the opposite gender, their best bet would be to think about their type and the kind of qualities their type might be looking for. I don't think the dating preferences expressed here can represent the preferences of women as a whole (In preferences I mean beyond the bare minimum of showering) The a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:15 PM
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You're doing yourself and the other girl a favor by not settling. I'm in my 30's, and single, due to things like social anxiety, career, dealing with injuries, and yes, refusing to settle. There are always people who say you have to lower your standards and settle. The problem? I settled before, and the relationship was MISERABLE. We were two very different people, and I could never be attracted to him. He could never please me, and was desperate for approval. Hell, ten years after I dumped him,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 12:12 PM
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Sexy toaster. Damn 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:15 PM
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Strangers who approach me either want money for their crack addiction, sex, buy their lame ass CD, or in rare cases convert me to their religion. They're everywhere. They're like locusts. At this point I just ignore them. They are ignored so much by everyone else that they expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:32 AM
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That was the most... perfect imitation ever! EVER lol. My sister adopted that attitude (acting overly defensive and treating people like shit cuz the KWEEN doesn't tolerate minor, unimportant disagreements). First it was her dating life, then her friends... then me when I tried to ever so gently point out her behavior and anger issues.... I was like fuck it and blocked her first. Hopefully in a month or two it turns out to be just a phase...Or else I might have to block again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:31 PM
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I had my guy friends around long before this thread ever started
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 04:13 PM
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I already know why they are assholes When I said I don't hang out with bitter people I got some very disrespectful responses, explaining why these people are assholes. Acknowledging that regardless of your reasons of becoming who you are, the fact that people don't want to deal with shitty attitudes is a threat to certain people. I'm not saying these incels or black pillers don't have problems...but if they allow their problems to turn them into nasty, resentful people no one of either gender wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 01:14 PM
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Sorry, no. I don't use Instagram very often. The men that contact usually only make comments about my physical appearance, and not my content (meaning they are after only one thing and I'm not willing to give it). OR, the more likely scenario... the guy isn't one guy. It's multiple guys, on the same account, trying to get me to wire money to some fake charity overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 12:17 PM
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Thanks. And I sincerely wish you the same. Also, I happen to be a fan of rainbows and unicorns.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 12:13 PM
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But people do want to hang out with me. I already told you, I have alot of male friends, ranging from multiple body types and physical appearances. There was no reason to make this about sex or "banging". The fact is, I just don't hang out with rude and disrespectful people. So if someone is "bitter", I wouldn't have him/her in my life. This doesn't have to bother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 12:04 PM
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And again, if their bitterness causes them to disrespect me, I'm not going to hang out with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:55 AM
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Kind of self perpetuating isn't it? Become an asshole because you're lonely. Then stay lonely forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:52 AM
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Not receiving a blowjob is no a reason to hate an entire gender. I have nothing to do with their dating problems, and I'm not going to be friends with them if they are disrespectful. I have male friends of varying body types, races, and physical appearances. I'm friends with them because they were in a place I could notice them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:50 AM
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A large portion of men on reddit who blame women for their dating problems and act as if everything is all hopeless usually have a mysongnstic view of women. I probably wouldn't talk to them in real life. For one thing, if they really believe all that crap they would probably talk down on me or do something invasively creepy, and I would avoid them. Not only that, but if you read their freaky theories on how dating and the world works, one kind of gets the idea they don't have very active social…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:21 AM
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Good, I'm glad for you The point is, the majority of women do not view themselves in the same light as a model and they date accordingly. *edit: sentence structure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:41 PM
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Sorry, if you're on a date with me and the best you offer is "Oh, I'm your looksmatch so blow me", you're not getting a second date. Those women on the Instagram profile you showed are likely trying to date different men than I date. None of the guys I have ever dated would have a chance with a model, and the same goes for the majority of women. Just because a woman isn't a model doesn't mean she has to date anyone, and that means she doesn't have to date you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:46 PM
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When did I write that men aren't allowed to feel disappointed or lonely? Oh, that's right I didn't, because that's not what we were talking about. The discussion whether or not "high standards" (AKA boundaries for your body and time) are an entitlement. I wrote that setting boundaries is not entitled, because having a standard on who gets your body and attention is different than thinking it's your RIGHT to have it from someone else, regardless of the other person's feelings. Disappointment and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:27 PM
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Once again, you can want what you want. As long as you don't believe you are OWED, at the expense of someone else's rights, you are not feeling or acting entitled. I never wrote anything implying "buyer beware". This has nothing to do with broken products. I reviewed some of your posts, and I can see why you would try to gaslight women into thinking they violated your "rights" to their bodies by the simple act of setting boundaries of their own. Remember, hate hurts you more than anyone else. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:42 PM
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People want all kinds of things. If I recognize that some who I like is not obligated to date me, how is the want entitled? I'm not taking anything, and I don't BELIEVE it should be given to me if the other person opposes it (regardless if I ACT on the belief or not). I can want whatever I want. It's only an entitled feeling if I BELIEVE it should be given to me, regardless if I act on my feelings or not. If I act to take, it's an entitled ACTION.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:11 PM
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A high standard is a WANT. An entitlement is the refusal to understand or care that your wants end where someone else's boundaries begin. If a guy out there meets my so-called "high standards", I am not entitled to a date if he is not interested. I can want whatever I want. It's only if I don't respect what other people want does it become an entitlement. Regardless of my wants, I have no right to another person's time or attention. OP was clearly referring to a want and not entitlement. Rejecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:45 PM
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Average men are fat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:27 AM
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I work and pay taxes too. Women work and pay taxes. It's the law, enforced by the IRS regardless of gender. As a matter of fact, I probably pay more taxes than you. Pathetic comeback. Of course, YOU would not recognize that telling men that using coercive tactics to get access to female bodies is the same as advocating against rape. Trying to shame or insult women into being with you is a coercive sex tactic, and that is what rapists do. The claim that women are too dumb to know our value or how…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:52 PM
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Uh someone sounds bitter. Touched a nerve there, didn't I? There's a difference between rape and money If you make up excuses for rape, that might have something to do why you can't get laid. Some women (such as myself) have money and don't need silly little misogynist men to get the things we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:02 AM
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I don't sit with my friends and grade the looks of random men, or tell them who they should be attracted to. If my friend attracted to a guy that I know to have red flags indicating physical danger or extreme assholeness, I kind of have to say something. But unattractive? If you're into someone, who cares what I think? Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. And yes I acknowledge the pettiness but I will not stop her from going for the guy I don't find attractive because that leaves the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:23 AM
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That's their choice, so it's consensual. Do you know what that means?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:17 AM
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Oh crap that sounds like my younger years. I have a learning disability, and I think I'm a little neurotypical as a result. I was super freaking awkward. It took me longer than other people my age to "glow up" and develop social skills that are helpful for dating. I'm not going into any further details, but I will tell you this: Any yearbooks with pictures of me in it must be incinerated immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:24 AM
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I think that people's sex lives are no one else's business but their own. Your claim of hypergamy is a smoke screen to not trust women's choices with their bodies, and just mere coercement to get attention you are not entitled too. And you're using laughter to coerce women into sleeping with men they are not attracted to. For thousands of years women have dealt with institutionalized sexual violence. It's so creepy and rapey when men attempt to use societal pressure or lame terms like "hypergamy…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:18 AM
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Okay, well if you want to give up. The fact is, no matter how much you complain, women are not going to give you a chance just because you exist. It's seems I hit a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:11 AM
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If you're bitching about hypergamy that's basically what you're doing. If this guy wants pity, he is not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:57 PM
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Women's bodies are not a resource. Money is inanimate, and is necessary for things like shelter and food. Our bodies are not a public park, and we cannot be sued by the EEOC or ACLU for not providing access. Women's bodies are not the solutions to your problems, and it is very rapey to suggest we are morally obligated to give our bodies away just because you lack game. It's also very rapey to suggest women as a whole lack the self awareness to know what kind of partners we should choose. That so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:53 PM
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I don't understand what you are trying to get at here. Even if the so-called average guy's dating life sucks, what am I supposed to do about it? Give a pity date /pity fuck to some random guy because you think he feels like a dancing monkey? Because you think he might of been accused of being creepy? Because you know, accusations that could be red flags for my safety are just a huge turn on and really indicate long term potential. "Getting laid" depends on several factors, and it's hard to avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:26 PM
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You're right. It's kind of like when they interview you for a job and ask why do you want to work there? Yeah, the company might have a cool mission, or product, or whatever. But by the end of the day, we're in it for the money! Being self interested is what makes the world go around. There is nothing wrong with adding value to our lives as we see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:57 AM
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In regards to physical appearance, I find things such as obesity, lack of physical fitness, old age, Kim Jong Un-like haircuts, crappy clothing, rotting teeth, double chin, and gorilla like body hair, to be unattractive. I tend to like slimmer faces, but I also dated guys with stronger defined jaws. If the guy is wearing lame khaki shorts and no sense of style, and does nothing with his hair, I'm just like whatever I'm not interested. I usually date guys who are 5"5 to 5"10 (I'm 5"6). I also don…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:40 AM
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No worries, I appreciate your words. If it makes it any better, I'm very intimidated by six foot tall men. In my mind, I refer to them as giraffes. I'm also aware of the fact that I'm probably not going to marry Dr. 90210, and that I'm probably not going to afford an expensive house in Los Angeles (CURSE YOU CALIFORNIA BUILDING CODES). I believe most women have reasonable dating preferences, and that we know our limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 03:52 PM
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You're right, my dad is pragmatic LMAO. Our preferences are based on our personal needs, and not reflective of the other person. I think it's something people should try to remember when they are rejected. Sometimes that person isn't the right fit, and to not be so hard on yourself over that (in spite of the fact rejection sucks).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:45 PM
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As I said, I would prefer that any guy I am with at least makes around the same amount of money I do. I already explained my reasons. I don't think it's shallow at all. I don't think any of my preferences, financial or otherwise are shallow. I have other factors that I take into consideration besides income. But we were only discussing the financial aspect. I'm not asking to marry a millionaire. I want someone who would be able to afford to raise a family with me, and of course to have other cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:34 AM
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Yeah... I'm not a building owner, or a business owner of any kind. So I definitely can't be that woman. Keep in mind, I only have the preferences I have because of my own earnings. It's not meant to emasculate guys who make less (especially since not too long ago...my own income totally sucked). I just didn't choose the life path of Dr. 90210, and living expenses are out of control. My grandfather supported a family of five, owned a home, and sent his kids to Catholic school on a single blue col…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:57 AM
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I'm glad that you are eager to be a supportive husband when you are married. I'm sure there is someone out there you can work out finances with based on your situation. My cousin found someone. He is a bit bored being a stay at home Dad, though. That being said, for my circumstances and goals the guy really should not earn significantly less than I do. But keep in mind, I'm not a rich dentist. I'm just an accountant, making cost of living calculations based on my after tax paystubs. You don't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:03 AM
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I live in a very expensive city, and I can't afford to be the sole breadwinner. If I commit to someone, he should at least earn around my wage, so we could raise a family together. Even if I lived outside the city, there are still goals such as saving for retirement or a downpayment on property. I think my income requirements are fair so we could both pull our own weight. I remember as a kid my dad was super stressed out, being the primary income earner. My mom worked, but it I guess it wasn't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 03:08 AM
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I think I will go to the Chad men with basic social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:52 PM
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Yeah... because you can be totally trusted to determine if you are some random girl's "looksmatch". You're not calling a random woman (way out of your league) ugly for the sole purpose of getting laid... no way, not you. You are just totally objective, no ulterior motives whatsoever. It's not like you're basing your 80/20 crap on a random consumer survey conducted by a for-profit dating site.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:55 AM
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Well, every day I can see at least a few guys on the subway or the street that I think are attractive. But I really don't think it's safe to look at random people for too long. And I have no reason to analyze the looks of random men. But immediately starstruck, like holy shit you are one hot bastard? Never, ever immediately (at least not since middle school). The fastest I ever fell for anyone was within a few hours of hanging out, in a non dating context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:44 AM
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By Indians, are you actually referring to native americans? I was using the context of social situations (such as going to a bar or making new friends), not colonization and imperialism. While many native americans still suffer from discrimination, keep in mind many still have a functioning social life. I saw pictures of people who self identify as incels. I don't see anything wrong with their appearance. Some seem to lack a sense of style and grooming habits to make them appealing to others, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:15 PM
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I hate lack of health insurance, and that really sucks. If you check, there might be places in your area that offer affordable mental health care. My hometown in Florida is very conservative, but there are nonprofits that offer mental health services for those with lower incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:24 PM
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Not really. I mean, what if the guy was wearing cargo shorts with dirty socks and flip flops? What if his hair and clothes are unwashed? Or he is slumped down, unable to give eye contact because he lacks confidence? Even if you're not "conventionally attractive", alot of the times people will give you a chance if you give THEM the chance to get to know you. If you are confident, friendly, and give eye contact, you should at least be able to make some new friends (healthy friendships should take …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:22 PM
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But there is therapy for poor social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:40 PM
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