Saimdusan Archive

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1	Curious what this sub thinks about "cold approaching" Don't cold approach. Instead, aim for an invitation to approach. Eye contact that is welcomed (don't continue to stare if they don't welcome it.) The problem with this is that if you rely on this entirely you're likely to be so out of practice and so afraid of approaching that you just won't do it even if you have the perfect opportunity, and the opportunity may be too intimidating because you're not really outcome-dependent (you're not approaching because you're the kind of person who likes tal…	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/21 12:45 AM
1	Curious what this sub thinks about "cold approaching" If you've already gotten a first date out of doing it once, you're probably socially calibrated enough to not be weird/creepy about it. I'd say go for it; why would you avoid something that works for you because someone on the internet who doesn't know you thinks it's bad? I think working on your social skills is a very noble pursuit. Given that, I think making a general project of interacting with strangers more over a period of several months could be a good way to go about it. Personally I fi…	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/21 12:40 AM