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| 2 | Girl told me im "cute, until I open my mouth."Or, "that's funny, because you're a lot cuter when you do open your mouth," and then mimic a bj with your mouth. | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 06:19 PM |
| 11 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!It's just horrible how the huge companies try to make poor people even poorer, trying to take advantage of everything. All kinds of dirty tricks just to save costs or force you to give them money. They're a business offering a service trying to make money on that service. If you don't like it, don't pay for it. They're not trying to make poor people even poorer, I'm not sure how you can possibly conclude that. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Why do some girls, especially ones who are more chubby, tell me to go find another girl, or that XYZ girl looks better than her, especially during the first date or first phase of getting to know each other?Do you think you know what I want better than I do? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Girl sent me this message when I expressed interest in more than a friendship. How do I respond?Hmmm, yeah I can see why she responded like that, but this actually isn't that bad because you weren't explicit and she was, so there's room to tease that she's being forward and misinterpreting your intentions. You could respond with something like, "Oh my, slow down there miss presumptuous, I'm not that easy. I'm not even sure I'm ready for a friendship yet! I just wanted to have some more fun and get to know you a little bit better. Let's go do x this weekend and see if you're friendship ma… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Girl sent me this message when I expressed interest in more than a friendship. How do I respond?Check out the book Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Girl sent me this message when I expressed interest in more than a friendship. How do I respond?This can easily come across petty and super salty. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Girl sent me this message when I expressed interest in more than a friendship. How do I respond?I'm going to take a different route than the other responses here. Although I agree that you probably messed up with whatever your text was, and you conspicuously didn't share it here.... it sounds like you guys hung out in some capacity and you both had fun. There can be many benefits to being friends with a woman you have fun with, aside from the obvious of having a cool person to hang out with, especially if they're attractive or have decent social circles. Being in public or social setting… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:42 AM |
| 8 | What should I do when girls do this?Are you dressed like a clown? We're gonna need a bit more context. How old are you, how old are they, what are you wearing, what do you look like, where are you doing this? This has actually happened multiple times to you? | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Tinder chick unmatched after seeing my Instagram. How can I build it up?Why are you so concerned about what they want? Worry more about what you want and what your standards are, start from there. ( Odds are it was a fake profile anyway. Do your own thing, worthy women will spot that and want to get in on it. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 11:12 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Just observe myself and not let ego take over everything. There you go. You've got it. Just keep your awareness about you. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 12:25 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I am not trying to judge you just to share the uncomfortable truths I believe to be the case here. I'm not sure why everyone is ripping on you, as if we all haven't been awkward af at one point or another. You do not see yourself as equal or worthy. You're emotional and lack balance. Your social awkwardness is demonstrated in that you do not understand how to properly calibrate your rapport in terms of showing interest, admiration, and affection. It should be reciprocal and roughly equal in term… | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This sounds boring and tedious. Come up with something fun or interesting to do, make plans to do it, and invite her to join you. If she doesn't, do it anyway and then tell her how much fun it was. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | I screw it with girls i find interesting and rock with girls i don't care about. Is there some trick to reverse this?Here you go my man: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wS5xOZ7Rq8 | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Guy makes girl split the bill on a dateProbably the mentality of, "that's why you're here." | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Why play hard to get when you are in a relationship???At that point was I even in a relationship? No, you weren't. This is something a lot of people do, not just women. It can be hard to reject somebody, especially when they haven't done anything particularly wrong. For some people they handle it by avoiding it, then when put on the spot they come up with all sorts of things to say so that you don't feel bad, not knowing they're actually making it worse by giving you false information that creates hope. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 18 | Went from a girl telling me I look like her little brother’s friend to hooking up with her in her apartmentWhy did you have to pretend? | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 02:27 AM |
| 1178 | The Petition To Fire Amber Heard From Aquaman 2 Is Now Reaching 1.5 Million SignaturesA link to the petition for anyone interested, looks like a few hundred away from 1.5M at this point. http://chng.it/FPTSRf7Mv5 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/11/20 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Fool me once..Not sure where this was, but in the US typically the person assaulted has to press charges. So, if he went through a legal ordeal, she probably had something to do with it. FWIW I actually have no idea. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/11/20 05:27 PM |
| 4 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.I only read your first sentence but I'm pretty certain your post nailed it, just wanted to make sure somebody said it. | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 02:42 AM |
| 2 | I need help after her not reading my message a week agoSo you asked for her number, she said no, then you proceeded to find her number a different way and texted her? That's creepy and an invasion of her privacy. For a woman to trust you, she has to feel like you're going to respect her boundaries. You did the opposite of that. | /r/seduction | 28/04/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | I need help after her not reading my message a week agoIn the last day, I tried to pick her number with the excuse to help me in a lesson You were dishonest about your intent. Also, how did you get her number, you said she didn't give it to you? | /r/seduction | 28/04/20 02:15 AM |
| 2 | I need help after her not reading my message a week agoYou tried to trick her in the beginning and she picked up on you being fake/trying to deceive her. This one is over for you bud, but now you know that being genuine is important. Take it as a lesson and move on. | /r/seduction | 28/04/20 02:03 AM |
| 48 | well done fathertheir right. In they're logic, FYI: You have these backwards. They're is a contraction of "they" and "are," as in, they are right. Their is possessive, "their logic." | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/01/20 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on: Texting should ONLY be for setting up datesHe said something to the extent of goats are like horned dogs, she thought he said they're horny dogs. | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on: Texting should ONLY be for setting up datesI'm not so sure what you said is any more intelligent than what she thought you were saying. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 06:41 PM |
| – | If you chase/ pursuit 1 girl at a time you will loose your mindOof. Bro, I want you to save this comment and read it again in a year or so. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | I approached a 9 today and got her number!You're still lying to yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 06:14 AM |
| 8 | Right in the ovariesThey do it by literally changing the definition of racism to something incoherent and logically inconsistent which fits their narrative. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/03/18 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Right in the ovariesThat's not really addressing what he said. Is the implication that such a person doesn't exist? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/03/18 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Attracted to him and want to seduce him.I think you should speak to a professional therapist before attempting to act on this. It's all around a terrible idea and you can cause immense pain to everyone in your family. Don't be such a selfish fuck. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Recommendations for bars in NYC?Keybar I lived next to this place for 4 or 5 months. I never went in, I always thought it was a hole in the wall gay bar from the outside, never noticed any attractive women going there. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Feeling discouraged. Gotta vent a little.This is terrible advice. You think Danny DeVito doesn't get laid? | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 10:03 PM |
| 9 | Feeling discouraged. Gotta vent a little.It sounds like you don't respect yourself and you're only improving yourself to sleep with women and get validation. Approval seeking is generally among the most repulsive behavior a man can display to a woman. It could be that they pick up on this and you're turning them away. Are you a man that you would respect? Are you a man that you would admire? Are you a man that you would want to sleep with if you were a woman? The only measure you should be worried about is your own, if you are at peace… | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 09:51 PM |
| 4 | A girl sweeps the ground with her eyes when she walks past me. Any thoughts?What sort of advice can you possibly expect to gain from this post? Read the post, as if it were somebody else who wrote it, what would you say to them? | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 09:25 PM |
| 10 | So frustrated, I want advice on how to build my social media presence and all I get is sour grapes and angry people telling me not to be on social media. Anyone want to help me out?I'm gonna be honest with you. You sound like a little bitch right now. All the arguments you made fun of are irrelevant and not even the point. Don't seek attention. Don't seek approval. Just do your thing. If you happen to put pictures up of your life and people enjoy them, by all means keep doing it and have at it. But, doing it for attention and likes is beyond pathetic. It should be a byproduct if anything. | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 06:15 PM |
| 37 | Dominatrix charged for extorting married manRight, but if you're going to do something like blackmail as a kink it still has to be agreed upon by both parties and you're going to want that in writing and signed by both. Safe, sane, and consensual. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/08/17 10:13 PM |
| 11 | I'm intimidatedSpeak for yourself, I think most people have standards for the physical attractiveness of their mates, I know I do, and she does not come close to the bottom of my barrel. I could much more easily date an attractive "unhealthy" person than an unattractive healthy person, within reason of course. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/08/17 10:31 PM |
| 17 | Last night i realized I suck to be around sometimes because I offer no value, but I honestly don't know how or where to start. Help?Acknowledge you can control your thoughts. Acknowledge that you can think optimistic thoughts. Do so regularly. Mindfulness is key. The next time you notice you have a negative thought think of an optimistic replacement. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 09:09 PM |
| 2 | A vote not allocated toward a female candidate is a vote made by a sexistThat's actually how much she got. Same as Donald. Something like 48% of citizens 18 and over didn't vote for either of them. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/11/16 06:35 PM |
| 27 | Lyft Driver with Hula Doll Fired... Then Hired!I too like to go around making up shit that I don't know anything about. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/09/16 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I don't like the girls I hook up with, and I don't know what to do.Sex feels good and it's good for you. It's a powerful experience, and there's no shame in seeking it out for its own sake. It is also a skill that you should be proficient at, do it for your future biddy. =) You have to decide if you're okay with it though. If not, then say for X months you won't hook up with anyone unless they meet whatever criteria you set. You can reevaluate at the end of this time period. | /r/seduction | 03/06/16 11:01 PM |
| 20 | This rejection infield vid made me lolHe see's somebody on the phone in a car with their window up and thinks it's a good time/idea to knock on the window and say, "you're really hot," and try to start a conversation? That's just poor social awareness. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Girl told me to wait for a date until she's done w her FWBSo, what did you say if not yes or no? It sounds like he might be a bit more meaningful than just a FWB, that or she only likes sleeping with one person at a time. Either are fine. Only you can decide if it's "worth it" to "wait for her," but that sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy where you get stuck in this situation again in Feb when the next FWB pops up suddenly after the current one leaves. Have you told her that you're seeing other people too? I would have said something like, "yeah ma… | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 12:39 AM |
| 5 | Girl told me to wait for a date until she's done w her FWBThis is a sad and petty response. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 12:33 AM |
| 2 | I don't know if i can continue going to school. My heart hurts every time a girl walks past me.Listen up. You have all the necessary tools to fix this situation. You're introspective, you appear to be capable of objective self reflection (you should practice this more, do not bring emotion into it), you have the willingness to put in the effort, and want to change things. Great! You're fucking 9/10 of the way there. Next steps are simple, change how you think and how you approach interactions with people. Think of the most attractive and charming people you know, what is it about them tha… | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Going to a wedding with a girl and spending the night with her. How do I escalate throughout the day?My advice is to forget about thinking in this way. When you are with her, be aware of yourself. Be aware of your surroundings. Be aware of her. Do not think 10,000 things. If you are attracted to her, tune into this attraction. Feel it, feel the energy of it, and then put that energy towards her. Your actions will be in harmony with your intent, this is very important. Be aware of her resistances. If she is not resistant and you trust in your radar, be very bold in your actions, but with respect… | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 01:48 AM |
| 8 | How I get over feeling judgedStop judging yourself. There's nothing wrong with you, you're not doing anything wrong. What is there to feel judged about? | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 01:24 AM |
| 24 | Got this message from a female friend. I fucking love you guysEhh, I didn't really like it. I would have said something like, "shit I look better every day" | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 07:12 AM |
| 5 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderI'm curious about the worst dates you've had. Any funny stories worth sharing? | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 11:03 PM |
| -2 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderInteract with them like a normal human being. I know it sounds crazy, but it just might work. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 11:02 PM |
| 2 | How to f-close on first date without my own place?If you're consistently getting stopped at a certain point by different women you should consider the more likely scenario that you're doing something wrong instead of assuming it's the logistics. As long as you're somewhere private away from the possibility of people walking in on you, you should be good. Do you get too excited after a certain point? Do you get too pushy? Are you the only one advancing and initiating contact? Are you nervous and shaky? You should be able to get her aroused enoug… | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 09:01 PM |
| 6 | How to f-close on first date without my own place?F-close is hard to do on first dates Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 08:56 PM |
| 0 | Response for when a girl says "Tell me a secret."Yes, do you see the differences? | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Response for when a girl says "Tell me a secret."Not even close to this. It's context. They just had sex, there's an intimate connection. Some of you guys need to get out of your own heads, worrying about "game" and "tactics." Just fucking exist. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Response for when a girl says "Tell me a secret."...and out and probably back in again and judging from your name, I'm guessing this is where you get off the boat. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Girl asked for my number and then rejected me?Don't try to buy her company. Once you're physically involved you can start doing things like buying her dinner or paying for dates. Or, at the very least, don't mention that you'll be buying her food or spending money on her until it's time to do so. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 06:22 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you get mixed signals?Were you in a public space? If she lets you get her alone after the first attempt, she'll probably be more receptive then. | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 03:41 PM |
| 3 | First "date" with girl, what about pretending is not a date?"...is this a date?" "It's us getting a drink together, I don't like labeling things but I'm interested in getting to know you better, you can call it whatever you'd like." | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 09:18 PM |
| 6 | Girl takes hours to reply but whenever she does, she replies in detail and ask questions to keep conversation goingIf you know that want to go out with her already, then ask her out. If you want to get to know her better first because you're not sure if you want to go out with her, then do that. If you're "strategizing" and faking behavior to try and manipulate her then you're playing a losing game. If you don't want to date somebody that plays games with you, then don't play games with them. | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 04:58 PM |
| 2 | No, intelligence is not a turn-off. Yes, how you act IS a turn-off.The information, objective or not, was entirely irrelevant to your post. One trait of great writers is that they show, they don't tell. I try to apply this to my life and let others create their own judgments, if they're into that sort of thing. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 07:16 PM |
| 7 | No, intelligence is not a turn-off. Yes, how you act IS a turn-off.One way is reciprocation of, and leading with, emotional trust. If somebody opens up to you, they tell you something beyond small talk that is personal to them, you respond by sharing something equally as exposing. If you get comfortable with this, you'll then be able to work at leading in this way instead of just reciprocating. You'll be able to offer observations that expose who you are, or personal memories, or really anything that elicits an emotional reaction from yourself, and this will bu… | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 07:07 PM |
| 1 | No, intelligence is not a turn-off. Yes, how you act IS a turn-off.I don't frequent these parts too much, but whenever I do you always have solid advice and observations. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Swept her off her feetShe should have just ignored it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/11/14 11:43 PM |
| 9 | Ever reject a girl after she rejected you?Did I play this right? Generally I believe if you have to ask this the answer is no, or perhaps mu is more appropriate. Basically the question is based on a false premise that you should be "playing" things a certain way. The answer, every time this question is asked, can be found by asking a different question. Was your action or response authentic and honest? If you're single and interested in her, which I assume you are because you're posting here about the interaction, then you fucked up. Fu… | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Self deprecating humorMaybe you forgot the humor part. | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 09:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I not appear so thirsty on a first date?Well, in the poker world it means basing the merits or effectiveness of a strategy or action based on the specific outcome in a single instance. For instance, lets assume that when you say "Hi how are you?" to people, and get a positive response 90% of the time. If, after one of the 10% times you get a negative response you think, "I shouldn't have said that, but instead tried something else because it didn't work this one time," that is outcome dependence in the poker sense applied to social in… | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 10:07 PM |
| 2 | How do I not appear so thirsty on a first date?Most women will not go on a second date if there is no chemistry on the first, and any other advice will hurt his chances greatly. This is true, and I would agree with your original comment if you said: "If you don't have chemistry with her on the first date, I wouldn't expect a second." Having a goal is neither needy nor outcome dependent. You can try for sex or anything else and still not care if it doesn't work out, but that doesn't change it being a good goal. Having a goal is attaching a pr… | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I not appear so thirsty on a first date?May I ask, how old are you? How old is she? | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I not appear so thirsty on a first date?It's good that you can recognize when you make a girl uncomfortable. If this is happening to you repeatedly, your calibrations are off. You should use touch to build desire, but touch alone will not create desire where there is none. | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 06:28 PM |
| 10 | How do I not appear so thirsty on a first date?Being sexually thirsty isn't necessarily a bad thing, being sexually needy is. If you're having trouble escalating physically, in that it's actually turning women off, you're probably doing it incorrectly or for the wrong reasons. Physical touch should be a natural expression and manifestation of the desire between two people. You should not try to escalate physically for the sole sake of "getting sex." Instead, if you desire her, then let this physically manifest naturally. If what you desire i… | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 06:22 PM |
| 2 | How do I not appear so thirsty on a first date?Whatever his goals are, they are his own, and he shouldn't change his goals to suit your desires. Not everyone dates to fuck anyone they can as soon as they can, and there is no correlation between sex on the first date, and 2nd dates or relationships. Sure, sex is great, and sex on the 1st date, or the night you meet somebody can be fantastic, but making that your goal going into the date is needy and outcome dependent. | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Don't underestimate the power of "Hi, what's your name"?I don't think "meeting" somebody (introduction) is the same as volunteering information about yourself in the manner you're suggesting. Sure, you can just start talking to somebody and maybe wait until they introduce themselves or ask for your name, but I prefer to take the lead. I certainly wouldn't just start telling somebody what I do, or where I'm from without being asked, unless there is a story involved or something relevant that requires this information as preface, but that is different … | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:22 PM |
| 5 | Don't underestimate the power of "Hi, what's your name"?If you're acting outside of culturally accepted norms, you have to acknowledge this fact or you'll come across creepy. "I know this is weird but..." etc. It lets them know you know what is accepted and what isn't, but you're bold enough to break the norm. Otherwise you may seem like you don't understand social convention. This is pretty huge actually. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 02:22 PM |
| 6 | Don't underestimate the power of "Hi, what's your name"?Telling somebody your name isn't seeking validation, that's absurd. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Don't underestimate the power of "Hi, what's your name"?Talk to them like a normal human being. Did you notice something about them? Bring that up. Do you want to know something about them? Ask. You should have a natural curiosity about the person, let that drive the conversation. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 02:18 PM |
| 2 | A girl, who seems to like me, starts ignoring me.You should have taken the dog from her and controlled it by walking it at your side. Really all you have to do is have some balls and make a move. Don't pour out your emotions to her, don't tell her how awesome she is and that you want her in your life. Leave her alone for a couple days, then ask her to do something. When you're alone together there will be opportunities to kiss her, you just have to man up and do it. | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 06:46 PM |
| 1 | "You could have had sex with me twice by now and it wouldn't have been rape"I agree. I probably would have asked her if she knew what a "safe word" is, then given her one or had her choose. I would have made sure we were both on the same page that if she wanted me to actually stop what I was doing, she would use the safe word, then I would have had my way with her. | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Escalating when she's overI would advise against tickling, some people genuinely don't like it, and it can be really uncomfortable. Just take baby steps, and be relaxed about it. Like mindfully said, sit next to her, close to her. Notice her hand? It looks soft doesn't it? Do you want to hold it? Then go ahead and put yours on top of hers, if she opens her hand to yours, she's accepting it. If she pulls her hand away, then she doesn't want to, or is for some other reason hesitant. You can parlay this into running the bac… | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 10:49 PM |
| 3 | [F] wondering how to seduceQuite. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 05:33 PM |
| 5 | 5 years ago, I was a beta male with no girl friends who hardly ever got laid. This is me today. Thanks r/seduction!"I was just selling dick" "She's honored to be in my presence" "Can you hook me up with your mom?" These cracked me up, good stuff. | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 07:38 PM |
| 4 | [FR] I thought sex was being thrown at me, my friends perspective was slightly different. F-CloseIt doesn't matter, what you're doing now is the thing you want to avoid, which is harping over silly details and things like this. Either do, or don't, don't spend hours lamenting over the decision. | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Seriously what are you waiting for? Get in the gym. Now.In two months I went from 120 lbs to 144 lbs at 5'11". Here is my 2 month progress report with some info on what worked for me. Good luck. http://www.reddit.com/r/gainit/comments/1m5cmc/progress_2_months_progress_120_lbs_144_lbs/ | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Seriously what are you waiting for? Get in the gym. Now.I'm guessing that you consume a lot of sodium. Canned soups, microwaveable meals, things like this? | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 06:30 PM |
| 3 | OUTER GAME: 7 ways to isolate your target at a bar/clubSmartass one-liner, Welcome to seddit and it's recent influx of AFCism. not contributing at all to the topic not even discussing what the article itself is about The hypocrisy is palpable. | /r/seduction | 23/09/13 08:11 PM |
| 49 | OUTER GAME: 7 ways to isolate your target at a bar/club"7 ways to isolate your target" This is the most rapey sounding title I've seen in a while. | /r/seduction | 23/09/13 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Doesn't feel like techniques are working; What am I doing wrong?Outcome Independence Doesn't feel like techniques are working I feel so shitty about not being able to pick up women. Outcome independence isn't some "technique" to use as a trick to get women. It's a state of mind, it's a way of life. You can't just say, I'm going to be outcome independent tonight, and then get pissed off when "it doesn't work." That's not even close to being outcome independent and shows a gross misunderstanding of the underlying principles. Aside from that, it looks like /u/S… | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 02:09 PM |
| 8 | The Perfect DHVIf she grabbed her phone out in the middle of the date and was texting "her best friend", seriously with eye contact, and then walk away This makes you seem like a child throwing a temper tantrum when you don't get ALL of the attention you want. How do you know her friend isn't recovering in the hospital, or something like this? It's fine if you won't tolerate people texting constantly about superfluous topics while you're supposed to be on a date, but there is a better way to handle it. The fir… | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 09:27 PM |
| 4 | The Perfect DHVI like where you're coming from. FYI, you can safely ignore anyone that says "DHV." You can generally presume they're more interested in facades, appearances, and getting laid than actual seduction. There is a lot of quality stuff around here, you just have to weed through the terrible mindsets, angst-driven-terminology, and night-club PUA bullshit. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 09:17 PM |
| 5 | I'm 27 an am sick of dwelling in the subreddits that only encourage my loser lifestyle. I've decided to make a change, and ask you guys: how can I change my life?Awesome! I love seeing posts like this, good for you dude. Seriously, you haven't wasted any time, you've merely learned a lot of ways not to do things! Taking personal responsibility for EVERYTHING in your life is absolutely the way to start, keep that attitude and you will accomplish everything you want. The most important thing is to invest more energy in yourself, and your opinion of yourself than you do in others. If you're unhappy with being fat, then you better get your ass to the gym on … | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 03:20 AM |
| 3 | [FR] - First time working a Mother/Daughter set. Went better than expected (x-post from GothamSeddit)Push her by the hips until her ass hits the wall, then move in with your body to push the rest of her up against it. | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 01:39 AM |
| 2 | How do I create sexual tension in a conversation, face to face, and by texting?Haha, I know, me too... Super cheesy | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 03:28 PM |
| 21 | Help me shift from boyfriend worthy to sex-worthy only.After sex, just tell them you love them. | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 09:59 PM |
| 10 | How do I create sexual tension in a conversation, face to face, and by texting?Depends on how bold you want to be "It's not where I want it to be, but I'm working on that" wink or strong eye contact with a devious smile. "Ugh, it's like a boring monologue from (insert crappy play/movie here). I need a better supporting actress." Or you could try the atomic approach with something like: "It's alright, but from the looks of you, it's about to get a whole lot better." | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 09:35 PM |
| 19 | How to deal with haters?"I appreciate all the attention, but you're not my type." | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls is like writing an essay. 3 examplesHer: "You're not gay are you?" "Why? Do you have a penis?" | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls is like writing an essay. 3 examplesIf you would look for and upvote the helpful comments instead of people criticizing without offering any insight, then a "bad post" will produce good conversation. | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Talking to girls is like writing an essay. 3 examplesIt's okay dude, we're not here to judge. Well, some people are, but they're the ones that are probably worse off than you are. It takes guts to put yourself out there like this, the good news is, you have them, and it seems you're not taking it too personally. | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Talking to girls is like writing an essay. 3 examplesGreat question! I went back and forth a few times thinking on this one. I think if you try and make her jump through too many unrealistic hoops, you risk coming across as a jerk, and not the good kind of jerk. What I don't like about "Opps, didn't guess. Good luck next time." is that it doesn't really feel playful to me. It makes it seem like you actually cared that she guessed right, which is kind of absurd and superficial. That being said, if she's somebody that you know you'll see again with … | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Talking to girls is like writing an essay. 3 examplesis that awkward? I think you should spend a little while considering what this question conveys in that situation. You were asking her if what you said was okay. You were looking to her for approval, and to let you know if you can keep talking to her, this is a big no no. Consider this type of dynamic instead: You: Hey, you have nice legs Her: smiles Thanks You: No, thank you. Now tell me, what do you think of these babies? Lift up your pant leg to reveal pasty white hairy legs, and put your fin… | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 06:14 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Decided to try something new, can't believe it worked! F-Closepeople will remember it and think you're weird and creepy. Creepy (usually) isn't what you say, it's how you say it and your awareness of, or obliviousness to, social cues. If a person has a high degree of social awareness they can get away with a lot more, presuming they know how to properly deliver it. That's not to say you can go up to somebody you've never met and tell them you want to wear their skin like a latex gimp suit... actually, that's kinda funny, but I digress. Back to how vs what.… | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 08:13 PM |
| 12 | The pinky promise (as kino)Thinking something doesn't mean you want to do it. You're making a false equivocation. If you're in a position similar to kissing a person, you're most likely going to think about kissing them, that doesn't dictate what the reaction to those thoughts will be. | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 04:24 PM |
| 4 | Is the "strong silent type" just a hollywood trope? How does a man attract by simply being comfortably handsome in a corner and grunting a suave comment once and while?questioning why girls actually come up to me even tho im not the guy wearin tight jeans and rainbow colored clothes or have a faux hawk Seems like a self-solving mystery to me. | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 07:29 PM |
| 3 | ~2 years in. 12 more things I wish I knew.Regarding: a note on the frame. Sometimes you need to take it to a level unknown to you. I have a story from 2 weeks ago, where I went out with these two girls, and 1 spilled some shit all over my car, and she was a little drunk and denied it. I saw it. My response? "I know you did it, stop acting like a child." "I did not!" She pulled out some sort of fake anger, and I did not take the high road when I replied: "SHUT THE FUCK UP. RIGHT. NOW. I HAVE TO FUCKING CLEAN UP AFTER YOU BECAUSE YOU SPIL… | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 10:26 PM |
| 8 | you're too young for meThank you captain obvious. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 09:25 PM |
| 69 | Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations.both of us like anal, but one of us really isn't going to be happy about it. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 11:08 PM |
| 13 | " I tell you on behalf of women: there is not one of us who does not prefer a little rough handling to too much consideration." Letters of Ninon de L'Enclos, Celebrated Beauty of the Seventeenth Century (crtl+f to find the letter, XVI)You can be nice, but be confident, don't be timid, and place your values beyond reproach of any validation she may or may not bestow. It's the "I don't know, what do you think" bull shit that will kill you. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 07:20 PM |
| 12 | " I tell you on behalf of women: there is not one of us who does not prefer a little rough handling to too much consideration." Letters of Ninon de L'Enclos, Celebrated Beauty of the Seventeenth Century (crtl+f to find the letter, XVI)Pasted from the source: XVI How to Be Victorious in Love Is what you write me possible, Marquis, what, the Countess continues obdurate? The flippant manner in which she receives your attentions reveals an indifference which grieves you? I think I have guessed the secret of the riddle. I know you. You are gay, playful, conceited even, with women as long as they do not impress you. But with those who have made an impression upon your heart, I have noticed that you are timid. This quality might aff… | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 07:18 PM |
| 3 | How to Compliment a Woman the Right WayMake up your mind, is it a rule or is it a guide line? For whom are these types of rules and guide lines made? | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 10:29 PM |
| 9 | How to Compliment a Woman the Right WayBecause nothing says alpha like counting how many compliments a woman gives you. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 10:07 PM |
| 11 | The Big Compliance Test List"I want to see something, stand like this for a second." Demonstrate briefly and/or physically place her in a stance of your choosing. It helps to use a famous or well known pose, like wonder woman or something. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 07:59 PM |
| 1 | WTF is this ? Makes me angry ...Have you tried 'not giving a fuck'? | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 08:38 PM |
| 3 | So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible.Nice article. So it's close to .25 seconds, or about half the time of the pitch. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 01:32 AM |
| 1 | So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible.The decision to swing or not happens when the ball is about half way to the batter. This leaves roughly .25 seconds to actually swing at the ball. The decision is made subconsciously with the first .25 seconds of data from a pitch. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 01:30 AM |
| 2 | So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible.No human reacts that fast. The decision to swing or not happens when the ball is about half way to the batter. This leaves roughly .25 seconds to actually swing at the ball. The decision is made subconsciously with the first .25 seconds of data from a pitch. If you waited until the ball was within striking distance to start swinging you would never ever hit the ball. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 01:28 AM |
| 2 | So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible.There is no conscious decision making that goes on. It either looks good or it doesn't. It starts with the pitcher's wind up and release. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 10:04 PM |
| 19 | Beginner Protip: Turn off the text tone for your phoneIM AN ADULT NOW MOM, STOP CALLING ME! | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 09:48 PM |
| 5 | So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible.While I applaud the analogy and advice, your figures are pretty far off. 1/40th of a second is .025 seconds. It's 60 feet from the mound to home plate. That would mean the baseball has to travel 2,400 feet per second or 1,636 miles per hour in order to only have 1/40th of a second to make that decision. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 09:19 PM |
| 39 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?How did you respond? | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 08:39 PM |
| 21 | I am Cajun: woodsman, alcoholic, beard connoisseur, and lead instructor at Love Systems. AMAThings I wish I knew 10 years ago for $1000, Alex. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 02:58 AM |
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