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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESSakurablossom90/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:06 AM
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I am 5ft tall so it's not hard for a man to be taller than me haha But I went on an almost date with a guy who said he was 5ft 8 I was like "oh okay it says in my profile I don't really mind about your height but cool" and then when I saw him from a distance he seemed alot shorter so I walked past him to judge, he was only 5ft 4 at the most I reckon. I eventually went up to him and said in a jokey way "I must have grown as im nearly as tall as you" he looked at me like 😑 that's the best way I co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:50 PM
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As a single mum - I could never bring my child to a first date, its just not a good idea for many reasons. My child hasn't met my boyfriend yet and we have been together over a year now, partly because some of our time together was over lock down but also because of how my childs dad introduced her to his girlfriend - he introduced her pretty much right away and told our child she would be her new mother and launched his gf into mummy duty. It sounds like this guy is trying to get you to be new …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 08:43 PM
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I'm glad im not alone but also sad that women have been made to feel like this. I mentioned it to my boyfriend after seeing this post actually and he said why would I want to degrade you that way, that's what teenage boys expect to happen from porn, luckily there are the odd few out there like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 02:53 PM
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Am I the only one who feels "cum on the face" is some kind of control alpha move and derogatory?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 12:39 PM
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My ex snored so loudly he would wake our baby then turn around and blame me for the baby crying and waking him up ☹️ he used to get so aggressive with me over his Snoring and refused to do anything about it and then said that because i ended up sleeping in the other room the baby that I "didn't want to put out anymore"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:53 PM
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Oh yes its that, leaving kid in their room for hours at a time whilst he games or leaving kid with his family so he can have 'his own time' because he can't deal with our kid for more than a couple of hours. Thanks, I need it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:57 PM
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No, he still managed to get his every second weekend though which is bad enough and I'm not allowed to say no to any extra time he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:50 PM
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My ex dragged me through family court my two years of college telling them the only days he could do was the ones when I was in college, it was a nightmare I'd have to miss days or id be in contempt, id go in the next day to college a mess trying not to cry all day. He hadn't even bothered with anything child wise until I started and he even used the fact i was in college instead of working to try and get full custody Jokes on him I still finished with the grades I needed to get into university …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:22 PM
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Nah its a cold poptart he dug out from the back of the cupboard, the foil was open and there was only one in there. He's not sure how long it was left in there, looks a bit stale but sounds like she needs some sugar to give her some energy to clean the house after she shovelled the snow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:37 PM
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Same here more or less but when I brought up lack of actual parenting in family court they just said I couldn't handle him being the fun parent 🙄 Yeh the fun parent who tires the kid out so much keeping them up until midnight so he can spend extra time with them, filling them with junk food and chocolate so they come home sick or constipated, no showers or teeth brushing so coming home dirty But silly me I'm just the boring parent with rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:32 PM
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A big part of me is like meh marriage what is it really needed for anyway and I think of the archaic reasons why marriage was needed like for purity (too late for that lol), togetherness (I mean you are together anyway), family alliances (is it just me that like finds it awkward when family's meet), for money like when women needed a man to get something like a bank account etc..... Those things aren't needed in this day and age, I remember how much of a hurry my mum was to get her partner to ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 09:11 AM
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Yes she will have to wait until she's 18 to change it legally. Unfortunately she's not even allowed to make the choice sooner as I may have swayed her choice 🧐 she's been saying since she was tiny that she wants the same name as me before he even came crawling back into her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:22 PM
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Wait Jake Gyllenhaal told Taylor Swift she was too young to date him years ago? Yet he's with someone younger now?? Maybe not the right type of young? Or maybe because he didn't want a Song about him to ruin his masculinity lol I really liked him as a teen and to be honest Donnie Darko is still one of my all time favourite films. But he's gone a bit weird over the last few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:29 PM
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Mhmm indeed, its very much a man's world here still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 11:14 AM
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Yeh I was told in court my daughter NEEDED her fathers surname so she would know her identity 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:28 AM
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No I live in the UK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:17 PM
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And if we put their names on our kids it's against the law to change it to our own surname!!! I have on a family court document that if I have found to have changed childs surname from his then I will fined and maybe even imprisoned. Wouldn't be surprising if a male made that law up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:02 PM
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Bumble surprisingly!! He honestly is a gem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 02:51 PM
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Yikes what a loser shes dating My boyfriend used the WiFi at mine for a few hours to get some emergency work done and he was asking if I wanted any money toward the bill for it, when I told him no it was okay as I knew how important it was, he then went home and ordered me a pizza to my house as thanks and an apology for having to do work instead of spending all the time with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 07:45 AM
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It took me a year to tell my boyfriend that I love him because its my first relationship since leaving my abusive ex (which was 9 years ago now) I didnt want to reveal my feelings incase I got hurt He told me that he loves me back, it wasn't out of obligation he was waiting for me to feel comfortable as id never said it before and my ex would use it to gaslight or lovebomb me. We don't say it often but we know that we do love each other and that's what matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 03:32 PM
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I burnt out my vibrator, it got really hot and just stopped working 😳 I was quite upset as I haven't been able to find one like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 09:55 PM
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I thought my baby chomping on my nip when nursing was bad enough that was like having a mini jaws hanging off me, but a full grown adult 😨 the thought makes my nips want to retract in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:03 AM
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Its called the Daily fail here in the UK for a reason The only people that buy this and the s*n are scrotes and racists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:36 AM
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I feel like any person who has sexually harassed another person should have a non permanent tattoo for a month appear on their head If they have sexually abused a person it's permanent so everyone knows what they have done no amount of tattoo cover up or makeup would cover it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:25 AM
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about having no unsupervised males around young girls, not ever, not even in the periphery of the family. Especially unrelated males, in her words, “I don’t trust any of those motherfuckers.” This is why as much as my child wants to have sleepovers at her friends houses, I won't allow it. Even if she says I'm the worst mum ever (as kids do when throwing tantrums/going through puberty) no means no. I was going to sleep over a friends house once and her brother constantly made comments about wanti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:22 AM
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Society will tell women they have BPD, Bipolar disorder, and codependency before saying they have PTSD and an abusive partner! This Having been a victim of domestic abuse and been dragged through family court I have been told over and over that I am the issue, postnatal depression and anxiety was used against me just last year when I was having a panic attack in court about my ex having access to our child after using contact to abuse us both and demanding access to my property where I live what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:42 AM
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Better than what??? A Cheater??? Jeez.....the bar is low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:15 AM
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I saw this on twitter and a guy said that he would probably do the same if he hadn't interacted with a female in years I said I hadn't interacted with a male for 9 years previously and I didnt go on a killing spree Of course he had to say he was in the right and men need sex more than women 🙄 so I blocked and moved on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:45 PM
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So many men think periods are gross though My ex was the same, when we started dating I had my period and put a pad in the bin wrapped up and he got his mum to tell me that he thinks it is disgusting and he made her and his sisters put their stuff in the bins outside every time, that should of a been a sign (facepalm) but I was an idiot then and I know better. I dread when our child gets her periods in a couple of years, because for a young girl periods can be embarrassing as it is at first no m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:34 PM
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I mean I wouldn't mind if it was said to me "Sakura I want to spend the rest of my life with you, I'd like to take you to go pick out a ring" I'd prefer him to get it but that is an option I'll accept if he puts a lot of effort into proposing. But to shop and pay for your own ring eeesh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:56 PM
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My ex screaming, shouting and stamping his feet infront of our child.....oh wait that's more like a neon billboard I suppose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:16 AM
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They also go the extra mile to be super nice to strangers, acquaintances and certain friends. This is all to undermine her credibility if the woman ever dares to voice out the abuse. This is my ex to a T, he was super nice to everyone especially when he dragged me back and forth to court he had them eating out the palm of his hands Yet me and our child the abused ones were painted as liars, gaslit, undermined and now blackmarked forever now, which is great as he is taking me back to court again …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:57 AM
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Thats not even the worst part of it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:17 AM
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This is on par with the guy who made a post about his wife's "mental state" after having a baby 2 WEEKS AGO questioning her sanity because of obvious sleep deprivation where he wasn't helping out at all But because he's a male he made it seem like she was mentally unstable or something, made me really feel for this woman as I have been in her position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:03 PM
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I find it odd to be friends with exes, but that'd because in experience they are always still interested and then stuff happens behind your back 🙄 so I'm not friends with any of my exes nor do I have their numbers or anything at all. My ex is still in my life unfortunately because we have a child together and despite his abusive behaviour and narcissistic tendencies I have no choice otherwise il end up with unpaid work or jail time, so I have him in my life until child is 18. Edit: I am 30 if th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:34 AM
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I used to do this for my child when they were two and it even got too simple for them haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:02 AM
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Yup he's allowed his girlfriend around our child and he's allowed his friends around our child but I have to be alone forever apparently 🙄 He even tried to get family court to say I couldn't have a relationship as it was inappropriate to have males in the house around our daughter (what he lead with initially) and when I said "what about girlfriends?" He nearly exploded. Of course the court told me not to be the silly one Better safe than sorry..... or dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 08:48 PM
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This is why my childs father nor my child know I'm in a relationship Not because I want to hide it from my child, but children blurt things out and my ex has said even though I left him 9 years ago and he moved on with the woman he cheated with "if I have myself or our child around any other males he will find out and I'll be sorry" And judging from his past abusive behaviour, reading these stories about males and their possessive behaviour and how shit family court is here in the UK I'm not eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:38 PM
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Yup my ex told his mum that I cheated on him! That I took our baby to a guys house and cheated on him with our baby there 😂 His mum believed him aswell, then 8 years later in family court he brought it up over and over like he was the victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:28 AM
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This is why as awful as it sounds, im glad my child has no care for her father, she knows exactly what he is like and expects nothing except for one day being old enough to not have to see him ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:42 AM
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Yes, a few years ago I went to a convention and made friends with a group of people, we talked on WhatsApp and we'd meet up etc, one of the guys messaged me separately and then couldn't take the hint I wasn't interested so I blocked him and after the group turned on me for "not giving him a chance" I left it. I started getting things in the post and pizza ordered to my house at first I thought it was someone I knew as it was around my birthday anyway and it being very close to Christmas I though…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:36 AM
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What's she going to excuse him of next? Him having other nude photos of his developing daughter like when she gets pubic hair? Absolutely disgusting, she needs to report him to child protection and his ex needs to know Also to answer her question no its not normal to have photos like this, I would never take photos of my daughter like this but then I'm not a scrote man or a pedo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:05 PM
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Men be like "my ex is f**king crazy" Why we appear 'crazy' - men gaslighting us, working us up until we get to this point of tears and frustration then they laugh at us for being this way and that's the point they wanted us to get to so they can say "I'm doing nothing wrong here you are over reacting 😂😂"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:03 AM
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The way my ex did it was by saying I was the main bread winner as even on maternity leave my pay was significantly higher than his, so it was my duty to pay the bills etc whilst he paid for his games, junk food, alcohol etc with whatever was left and his wage and didn't help towards rent, bills or food. He also took my card away from me on many occasions so I couldn't leave him with the baby as "what's mine was his", he spent £2000 id gotten saved up for baby stuff and the first few months of ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:25 PM
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Its like when males say the more sexual partners a female has the more stretched out she is, I used to hear it referred to as "bucket vagina".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:50 AM
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Its the "I feel like an awful girlfriend" for me Who damaged her that badly that she has to feel like she's the bad one in all of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:32 AM
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Not all scrotes have dad bods haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:00 AM
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Sign me up! Il go to Costco and get a crap tonne of antihistamines for my cat allergy but it will be worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:23 AM
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She stated to us that she had to do that because it was her part as the only daughter in the family and it was a Muslim thing to do. And yes I know that the first university was founded by a Muslim woman which I was very happy to know about because its pretty awesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:24 AM
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On my college course last year we had this muslim girl who had aspirations to continue on like the rest of us and go to university, she was forced to drop out near the end of the year with no grades as her dad said she was wasting her time getting education and had to get married instead and take care of parents etc. She was such a smart girl and she would of been able to get into any university she wanted 😔. I tried not to have an opinion too much as I am of no religion so its on a level I coul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:09 AM
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No he won't as he doesn't see the point as his girlfriend drives I dont know how she does it when she has kids to look after herself to be honest driving him 2 hours there and back to pick up/drop off our kid for contact and taking him to work and stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:02 AM
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This My ex also uses her as a taxi driving him everywhere because he's too lazy to get a bus or learn to drive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:05 AM
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🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:11 AM
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Its like when you see selfies of men in their bathroom and the toilet lids up and you can see all kinds of 💩, sometimes even actual 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:37 PM
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This right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:44 AM
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As a single mother who has been single for 8 years while her ex has continued to tell me "you will never find anyone as a single mum", before I left him he would tell me id never leave him because I didnt want to be a single mum Being a single mum is 10000x better than being with a manchild who can't do anything without his mum and who cheats, lies and abuses women and id rather stay single than have to deal with another man like this and id say that to any woman He didn't show his true colours …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:39 AM
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I cried quite a few times when my ex tried to force it there, he was like oh the pain will be over soon you'll learn to enjoy it and stuff like that One of the many reasons I stopped staying in the same room as him before I left for many other reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:28 AM
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she buy some fucking children's toothpaste for him because he might like the taste more!! Jeez this is what I did for my child bought special non mint tooth paste to get her to brush her teeth, she's 8 not in her 20s lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:50 AM
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My ex was like this and is still like this, on his weekends which he dragged me to court over as a power play still moans about having to have our child and 9/10 times she has sleepovers at her cousins so he can play xbox or spend time with his gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:03 PM
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Haha thanks I'd love to take credit for it but its from New Girl 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:21 PM
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And to still look perfect when they go to bed and when they wake up, sexy clothing at all times is a must none of those cartoon pyjamas or sweat pants or hoodies with messy buns. Also must never been seen to consume too much food or calories, no eating on dates and definitely nothing expensive if he 'has' to pay which he will use against her at some point and call her fat for eating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:21 PM
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And probably thinks the towel washes itself every time he uses it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:39 PM
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And who taught them to say "You're a really nice girl but xyz" I know I'm nice, I am too nice!! and I'm not a girl I'm a woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:02 AM
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My ex was apparently single when I had our baby, I was in hospital for two weeks with her and during that time he started and then when I got out of hospital and wouldn't have relations with him he went more hardcore with the cheating to the point he even brought a girl home with him to our home Even in family court he told them that he cheated because it was my job to provide him with these relations as his girlfriend so because I didn't due to post natal depression and having had a baby etc, i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:25 PM
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There was a celebrity here in England whose wife passed away from cancer and he moved on pretty quickly after milking it hard of course, I felt really sorry for their son as he was obviously really close to his mummy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:20 PM
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Sounds like he needed to do what my ex did when I left him, move his mum in to look after him.....this was 8 years ago and she's still there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:59 PM
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No chance of that happening here hehe been single for a very long time and the guy I have been speaking too I havent been able to meet due to the pandemic and lockdown in the UK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:53 PM
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I remember questioning someone once because they said they needed to see what their husband needed first I was like dont you have needs too? And she flipped at me saying I wouldn't ever understand as I have never been married so I don't understand mens needs come first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:36 PM
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This is why as a single mother of a little girl, im terrified of bringing home the wrong person one day When my mum remarried I was 17 but it didn't stop him ogling me when we went on holiday in the pool or making jokes about my bra size when my mum would sort the laundry out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:03 AM
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When I was 15 all the girls in my class were into dating older men who had come over from other countries to live here in England because they would show off with money, cars, buy them stuff etc And when these older guys got what they wanted or the girl ended up pregnant they ditched them and the girl always ended up with one of the guys mates. It was really sad. I remember the girls in my class asking why I was still a virgin at 15 and why I'd never had a boyfriend but at that age those things …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:04 AM
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Every single time I have had these instincts about a guy I have been correct, whether it was back in the myspace/msn days of old or in my last relationship 7 years ago I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:23 PM
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Yes my mum was a single mum, she managed to find a man who not only welcomed me and my siblings into his life but has been there for us through exams, house moves, breakups, having our own kids, anything basically all while supporting my mums career and boosting her up never putting her down never getting upset because she moved up through work and began to earn more than him its never been an issue for him. While I may not have liked him at first (I was a teenager after all I suppose) I recogni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:25 AM
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Gives you some insight as to why these scrotes look down on single moms so much. They don't like there being any evidence of another man on a woman's body. He wants to be the only one to mark her for life. As a single mother I can agree with this My childs father said to me "no other man will want you now you have had my child as you have been tainted" And whilst my short period of online dating I had someone say to me "They don't date single mums because someone else has had them"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:48 AM
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Exactly A father can get a new job What matters more is his child's safety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:13 AM
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Definitely!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:42 PM
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When I said I like short men, as I am only 5ft myself. I was told by a guy I was "Lying to appear virtuous" Yet if id say I prefer tall men then I have had this reaction You really cannot win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:35 AM
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Did you and I date the same guy??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:33 PM
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I told people I was busy this weekend so I didnt have to leave the house or have a face paced weekend. Saturday was me cleaning (which i enjoy and was getting crazy since starting university the other week), spending time playing games with my child, then we ordered pizza and watched a movie Sunday will be lazy pyjama day for us, maybe do face masks and play hair dressers. before back to the grind Monday and the inevitable stress of having to see narc ex for handover Friday which is stressful fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:37 AM
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Yup I have in the past my late teens early 20s, googled how to loose weight down there and to get the perfect shave as I have been told in his exact words "Your vagina is too fat and hairy, the only saving grace is that you will be tight because you are small" because of what he had seen on porn. But the same went for breasts- because gravity affected them without a bra they were vulgar saggy and unattractive. When we all come in different shapes and sizes, different volume of hair down there an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:20 AM
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He could be a murderer and he's still gonna have em lining up around the block. Even Chris Watts has ladies sending him letters and a new girlfriend and he murdered his whole family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:10 AM
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Ahhh so this explains why I didn't get any kind of response after the last date I went on where I finished all my pizza and he couldn't his....it was because I ate all my food Right,gotcha 👌 while I'm at it next time il order a leaf salad, no dressing and an ice water
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:06 AM
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I hate this, I said to a guy a while ago what my job was and he said something similar about his call centre job and hating it. And I said oh why don't you see if something better comes up if you don't enjoy it? And he was like ehhh its money I guess Why make comments about not enjoying your job etc when you arent doing anything about it, like not choosing too, it's different if you can't but not having ambition or even drive is such a turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:10 PM
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Reason 151 why I don't have Facebook or social media other than reddit 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:59 PM
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They wouldn't see much of me haha i wear a swim top dress thing and swim leggings and definitely no cleavage for them to gawk at as for the makeup hello setting spray this isn't budging at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:04 PM
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I remember reading in a mums group i was in years ago and alot of the women were married and they would say stuff like "Oh you went out in a dress today to the park? My husband would never let me do that with other men about!" or if it was working and sending toddler to nursery "oh my husband would expect me to stay home while the child is at nursery and to use his card to treat myself as long as he can see what I buy" And I was sat there like even if I wasn't single as heck I would never let a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:28 PM
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8 years for me! Sex toys definitely are better no disappointment there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:36 AM
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