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SalesforceGeorge/r/askMRP23/06/25 11:22 PM
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First of all, your post is full of covert contracts. You’re complaining about things that your husband likely has no idea are even an issue for you. Fix that. Second, you keep externalising the problem as your husband not being “structured” enough, and that you can only be attracted to someone more “structured” than you. News flash: your husband is structured enough secure a career that allows him to get paid well AND flexibility to spend time with his young child. This was likely an intentional…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/26 05:14 AM
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Thank you so much for the thoughtful reply. Why not next her? It hasnt been all frustration, she is great in many ways, and although hard to admit, I suspect my issues will just reappear in my next relationship. Also because Im scared to be viewed as bad person or like I "wasted her time" What inside me is being irritated? Its a great question, and a few answers immediately pop up, but its probably deeper, so I will sit with that. Negative inquiry has been a game changer in our communications fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/26 01:40 AM
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2026-03-23 Stats: 32yrs, 5’9”, 175 lbs, 10% BF Reading: finished NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP. Started The Manipulated Man yesterday. Lifts: Bench 3 plates. Squat 3 plates for 3, DL 4 plates for 3 Thoughts: Lately, I have been reading books focused on spirituality. The Surrender Experiment, Power of Now, A course in Miracles. I have increased my meditation practice to 30 mins daily sessions. The insights I was getting from these sessions were getting more and more intense, and I was feeling lighter and…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/26 09:44 PM
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Very very interesting response, and something neither i nor any of the other comments had picked up. It’s true, I do look back at those years with mixed feelings. One part is proud, but another is ashamed. Some more reflection is needed. Also, I learned many many deep things about myself and about women. Mostly about women tbh, I never really thought about who “myself” was back then. I was whatever I needed to be to get laid. And most of the identity i broadcast, I stole from RSD and other picku…
/r/askMRP30/06/25 07:32 PM
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Yep that’s exactly what it is. Can’t believe it took me so long to realize this. Now I’m trying to actually implement it. Any practical tips on how you started to build frame and prioritize your own needs?
/r/askMRP27/06/25 08:46 PM
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Thank you for this. "She gets first dibs on your sexual attention, not exclusive rights. Maintaining the relationship is her job" I only discovered MRP 7 days ago so many of the concepts are new to me. When you say "Fix the bs you uncovered before worrying about this stuff," You mean the Frame, Covert Contracts, DEERing, anything else?
/r/askMRP27/06/25 12:47 AM
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Yeah I appreciate the advice. I agree. The thing is, you don't really notice it happening in the short term. You just feel a bit of rejection, try not to make a big deal about it. Think you're being a compassionate and considerate man. But then that's how the Covert Contract was formed. Then over time the resentment builds, but it was almost completely unconscious. And I was interpreting her lack of enthusiasm in pleasing me sexually as a statement that I am not enough. (Because I imagined that …
/r/askMRP26/06/25 10:40 PM
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Nice, im reading that book next. I did do this yes, but only because she kept declining my invitations to lean further into the wild stuff over and over again.
/r/askMRP25/06/25 04:14 AM
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No, thats not true. I have responded to and acknowledged constructive advice, even your own in your first comment. But at some point you decided to turn it into a pissing contest. Your ego is on life support because you know you dont have the discipline to survive in the arena I live in. So go ahead, get the last word. You need it more than I do.
/r/askMRP24/06/25 11:05 PM
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I lay out my life, my discipline, my choices, my frustrations, and your first instinct is to throw a tantrum about it. What are you projecting? You obviously saw something in my post that touched a nerve, and now you're acting like a kid trying to win an internet dominance contest. What do you gain by trying to convince me I'm powerless? You say “you can’t live out those bachelor dreams” I’ve already lived them. I’ve been the guy with options, women, and power. I’m here because I’m trying to und…
/r/askMRP24/06/25 10:36 PM
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She was never freaky, but she was more open to be led into the freak zone in the first year or 2 of the relationship. Most of the things we’ve done she’s done for the first time.
/r/askMRP24/06/25 08:11 AM
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Ok, I think I’m getting your point. And why do you think it’s not possible for me in particular? Other than the fact that I don’t want to be the guy that has to constantly imply that if she won’t give it to me, then I’ll just get it elsewhere? In a work context, that type of attitude is seen as bad taste, and ruins relationships between employer and employee. It’s smarter to lean into your skills and be recognised for your contribution, and only apply this “brass tax” approach if it’s unavoidabl…
/r/askMRP24/06/25 06:02 AM
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Sounds so easy right?
/r/askMRP24/06/25 05:55 AM
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Damn. I can't deny any of this. I have to figure out why i'm so reluctant to be more ruthless with my standards. Thanks for your comment. It is painfully accurate.
/r/askMRP24/06/25 03:02 AM
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Ok, I see it now. Thanks for pointing this out. I think you're implying is this: Mission comes first. So much so that any one person who is a net liability and not asset gets the boot. Emotional attachment, 7 years of shared experiences be damned. Placing any degree of responsibility for the completion of the mission in the hands of another is disempowering and not true OI? Damn thats hardcore. I am not there yet, admittedly.
/r/askMRP24/06/25 02:58 AM
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This is not my mission. My mission is what I will give of myself back to the world. I have a daily structure in place that ensures I continue to develop my natural gifts and leave my authentic impact to the world. But that's neither here nor there. The issue is I feel imasculated in my relationship. I can only imagine how much more powerful I can be in driving my mission if my lady desired me for the man I believe I have forged myself to be.
/r/askMRP24/06/25 01:19 AM
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Thank you for being one of the few to actually understand. I know my writeup seems gratuitous and unlikely but there are a few guys out there capable of that level of self discipline and it sounds like you're also one of them. She is not cheating on me. I'm certain of it. I have however cheated and been caught in the past. I owned up to all of it (even the times I was not caught for) and pledged to make a change so to not hurt her like that again. Even though I really wanted to to say that she b…
/r/askMRP24/06/25 01:03 AM
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Can you explain to me how the fuck that could be possible? What would a woman find attractive about a man wasting his life and potential?
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:55 AM
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What I want is to be with someone who respects me enough to accept my natural masculine desires, (however threatening to their ego) and values me enough to try to fulfil them.
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:54 AM
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Thank you dude. I, beginning to think this rage stage is a natural step in the process, similar to the Red Pill rage I got when I was first exposed to it as a single guy. No im having to face it all over again and come to terms with the concept that even after you are in a relationship, you cant just be close friends and care for each other AND bang. There has to be an chanllenge, a fear of loss, an adversarial nature to your relationship. You can never truly be on the same team. Bet my therapis…
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:44 AM
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we have a house together, and also im not good at handling her fear of loss when our conversations get serious and about potentially relationship ending stuff
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:36 AM
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Thanks man. I appreaciate it. This is helping me see that really where my issue lies is with owning what I want and not being ashamed of it.
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:33 AM
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Im not lying about anything. All the shit I wrote is 100% true and can be verified. Where I am weak is, I dont have the way or have ability to communicate the notion of "You're not being slutty enough for what Im used to from other girls" with a woman who I am so emotionally invested into. It seems far too superficial, selfish, calloused, etc. And also I dont believe that you can even negotiate stuff like that. (rollo also says this) So if you have any advice, that would be great, instead of acc…
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:29 AM
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Well because that life has its downsides too. No real deep connection, constantly in and out of relationships. Managing the emotions of multiple women. Most of the girls I was sseeping with before were NOT someone Id want as a girlfriend. The one im with now is one of the few that I actually thought was girlfriend material, but im really getting lowballed sexually.
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:23 AM
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Everything I have written is 100% true. But I find it very difficult to leave. Like im being some selfish, heartless asshole.
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:17 AM
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i have read it. and i know what a covert contract is. Obviously id never voice this comparison to my friend to anyone. Im aware it would put me in the "poor me" frame. But its honest. When i feel something is lacking in my life, I tend to look around at the outcomes of others to see if my expectations are realistic. Are you honestly saying you dont do that?
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:16 AM
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Yeah I know what a covert contract is smartass. Im just pissed that I have to communicate something so fucking basic. Appreciate your comment. I think youve pointed me in the right direction
/r/askMRP23/06/25 11:44 PM
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