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Eh, I didn't write it for them. When I broke up with my girlfriend ( a while ago) I was on holiday... (she broke up with me to be fair, I was out of the country so there was not much I could do or say). Seeing as I couldn't do or say anything about it I didn't bother giving it the time of day. so what? we broke up? what does that mean? well nothing really. If you don't let it affect you it won't affect you. Yes it's sad. Yes sometimes when I am feeling depressed I miss her, but so what? It's all…
/r/seduction23/01/14 11:29 AM
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when the shock wears off I will feel bad. Don't - I know it aint that simple... but the long and short of most of life is about how you perceive it... this isn't negative - you are being released back into your comfort zone: But I want to get past that stage and just jump back into the more casual scene I'm use too. Just consider it as a chapter in a book, and jump straight into the next chapter. Don't get angry, don't get upset, just accept it and move on. If you want to get back into the game,…
/r/seduction22/01/14 03:17 PM
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Decide to get out of it. That is literally all it takes. When I was in sixth form I got so low to the point I was cutting myself, I didn't eat, I didn't work, I just.... didn't do anything. One day I woke up, I had a huge row with pretty much everyone I know, ended up really emotional and thought - this is bullshit. This isn't me, I am too awesome for this to actually be real. And from then it was all upwards. Forget things that aren't absolutely necessary. Go for a jog right now, I don't care i…
/r/seduction12/11/13 10:27 AM
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I agree with this, and as a 'young' entrepreneur it is bloody hard. generally I get 6-6.5 hours of sleep weeknights (i.e. waking on a weekday mon-fri) and then crash and burn for the weekends sleeping sometimes 13 or 14 hours a night to catch up on the deficit. Twinned with a bulking excersise routine it is unhealthy, but there isn't much I can do to fix it. Dunno why i siad any of that, just wanted to chip in xD
/r/seduction31/10/13 01:57 PM
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Thought I'd add my bit here. I feel that although looks does play a massive part (A land-whale you feel physically sick just looking at will never be a ten) it is more about the social situation and other factors as well. For instance, a stunning, thin, tall, blonde model, may rate lower than an average girl in some situations (it also depends on approachability) For instance, if I walk into a club and there are two gorgeous girls there, but one is being hit on and the other isn't, which is high…
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:32 PM
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Oh man, just got a chance to read it properly. The walkthrough on how to pull in a club xD I think you should submit this as it's own post. It is well worth the read and I think many people would benefit from it. Thanks again for this, Really awesome stuff. I am out again on thursday, so I will do my best to try it.
/r/seduction19/08/13 11:41 AM
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Thanks for such a detailed response - I really appreciate the help.
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:06 AM
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That's a good shout. It seems to be the bit transitioning from say.. neck touching to kissing, but I think that's more about going for it. Can't wait for next weekend xD
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:05 AM
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Thanks! I'll see how I can implement it.
/r/seduction18/08/13 10:45 PM
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Unfortunately bars like that (as far as I know) do not exist in a relatively close proximity to where I live (where we were is a good 20 minutes drive) so I have a club to work with and that is all. I like the idea of escalating and kissing before chatting, but my query is how to do so - I am less good at physical escalation and would love some tips/pointers.
/r/seduction18/08/13 08:52 PM
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Kino I struggle with. Mainly my game has to occur in clubs (really fucking awful ones too) because I live very rurally and there isn't anything else really. Any tips on Kino and ways to escalate? Also, congrats, you're a fucking machine.
/r/seduction18/08/13 01:37 PM
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I think friends ex's are off limits forever, whether or not they are cool with it. It's just not worth the risk.
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:32 AM
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Yeah in a way. What I mean is if there is a guy actively working on something then don't go in. If there is no guy present, game is game. Having said that, I've never let a girl cheat on her boyfriend with me. I think if the girl tells you she has a boyfriend, then obviously she cares about it. If she doesn't then how are you meant to know anyway?
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:31 AM
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;)
/r/seduction16/08/13 07:25 PM
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Haha, Shouldn't laugh but I find it funny sometimes. One of my go to openers is 'if I wasn't gay I would be all over you' (whilst wrapping my arms around them from behind) They are like "oh your gay?" And then I say 'well as far as I know anyway. I'm looking forward to being proved wrong.' Now I'm not saying it works every time, hell I only had it work once, but I have only used it four times so 25% aint half bad. Things like, you're too short or you're too young is bullshit. I love turning it o…
/r/seduction16/08/13 06:55 PM
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The thing that is always left out (as far as I have experienced) is the amount of effort it takes. Last night I went out (FR to follow) and I opened four sets and was shot down every time. Then some random girl pulled me. In terms of game, I had none, I learned a lot, and I still got a pull which was a nice surprise, but for me it's about the satisfaction of the attempt. I've had nights where I have felt godly and closed four sets, and others where I have opened four and closed none, but all of …
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:36 PM
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Personally mine are always changing as my game adapts and improves, for instance: Girls with boyfriends - If they are willing to cheat, it isn't about you it's about them. I don't have an issue with it if she doesn't. Don't hijack sets. Bro's are bro's. This goes for guys you've never met too - if someone is working game, let them. There are so many girls out there. Drunk girls are fine, as long as you are drunk too. No using drunks as easy targets. Generally don't be an ass. Neg, by all means, …
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:27 PM
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Nice FR. I like your writing style, I like your confidence and I like the fact I think I can see a little of myself in there :P Keep going, sounds like you are on for a great GREAT time at college. You know that guy everyone wants to be? I think that's gonna be you. Get in with the girls and the guys will follow.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:16 PM
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Sorry I sort of cut out halfway through, I was working to a point, but when I have the time I will write a full post about it.
/r/seduction15/08/13 10:19 AM
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booyakasha
/r/seduction13/08/13 04:58 PM
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Uh oh. This is a really hard thing to try and describe, but something I will try my best to do as I had a real problem with it at the start. Essentially you are talking about being a value giver... but how? Value giving is about adding value to a social situation (as it says on the tin) but this is easier said than done, especially because it is hard to give simple examples. What I did was I considered what someone else could do to make my night/day/weekend/life better, and then I tried to do th…
/r/seduction11/08/13 10:43 PM
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So for me the other day I can give you a little bit of info about the happenings before the FR. When I first got there, I was there with five (m) friends, and there were 2 guys and 6 girls already there. I made an effort to talk to them, but it is always awkward when you appear to be uber confident and interrupt a group of friends that are already engaged in conversation. To start with they all went silent and just looked at me, and I asked each of their names. One had an accent (was from france…
/r/seduction11/08/13 09:42 AM
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;)
/r/seduction10/08/13 11:02 PM
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Almost !
/r/seduction10/08/13 09:50 PM
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I agree, it's not that great. But in all fairness I didn't say it was.
/r/seduction10/08/13 07:51 PM
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England?
/r/seduction10/08/13 07:51 PM
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Interesting FR. English isn't your first language (I assume?) which makes some parts harder to understand, but I did my best. I would offer a warning right here, daygame is very different to night/club game, as people aren't in the space of hitting on/being hit on, so it is much easier to come across as a creepy stalker. I would say, if you are hell bent on talking to someone with headphones on, then a gentle touch is okay, but make sure you have something interesting to say - a good opener. Alt…
/r/seduction10/08/13 12:47 PM
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Being a flirt isn't necessarily a bad thing... Having said that, being a flirt as a student is seen as a bad thing. It's difficult with students, because the usual rules don't apply. For instance, a lot of my closest friends are at uni - in fact all of them are, whereas I work full time. Despite being the same age and very similar in many ways, when we go out things are seen very differently. For instance, as a student there is a likelyhood that the people you were 'flirting' with, you will see …
/r/seduction10/08/13 12:34 PM
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No I agree to be fair. It's mainland europe - what can I say?
/r/seduction02/08/13 09:27 AM
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Good. I'll keep em up.
/r/seduction02/08/13 09:27 AM
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Glad it might be of help.
/r/seduction31/07/13 07:56 PM
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aye, I think you might be right :)
/r/seduction31/07/13 07:56 PM
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What seems to be the problem officer?
/r/seduction31/07/13 07:56 PM
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Glad you like it.
/r/seduction30/07/13 10:54 AM
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Hill-billy seduction. What a beautiful art.
/r/seduction30/07/13 10:54 AM
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Haha, thankfully, I enjoyed it.
/r/seduction18/07/13 07:44 PM
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Thanks for such a great response. I really need to write better reports as I am a (semi)professional writer. I plan on writing some great ones, and as a writer I like writing to entertain my audience. I am really working to increase my FR relevance/value. And write better FRs. I personally love to read FRs of other peoples, and although I agree, some seem completely made up, I cannot truly know unless I saw it, so I give the benefit of the doubt. The worst case scenario is someone lied, and I tr…
/r/seduction18/07/13 07:43 PM
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Haha, thank you very much. I appreciate the support. Frankly people can call me what they like. It doesn't really bother me. I read the guidelines for posting FR's again, and hope to improve my future reports dramatically. As always, some things work and some don't but I think that even if they don't other people could try it (if they want to) as it could be a location based thing, or even just down to the individual pulling it off/on the receiving end. Thanks again for the support. Glad you lik…
/r/seduction18/07/13 07:34 PM
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Phew, missed a bad legal case there then. Thanks!
/r/seduction17/07/13 07:33 PM
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I agree, I am definitely not a role model. The blah blah blahs were mainly skipping stuff that wouldn't contribute much to the FR, makes it less of a diary entry. Maybe I do sound like an asshole. But that doesn't bother me. I don't say that stuff to people, obviously, it's just the stuff that goes on in my head. Next time you head out, try thinking like an asshole - see if it works for you.
/r/seduction17/07/13 06:58 PM
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:'( Norwegian women are the shiz! I bet you're having fun!
/r/seduction17/07/13 06:08 PM
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WOO WOO Spoons! If you are in england and relatively close to me then we should sarge together. I have two mates that have also joined seddit in the last few days, and they have a huge amount of game already.
/r/seduction17/07/13 05:58 PM
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I never looked at the start as it being off that they didn't answer my question - that's an interesting observation. I don't think they were particularly put off by it, but I am fairly confident, and although it actually was my first night, the important bit for me was that I opened. I think the fact that I am naturally really confident means that people may not believe I am new. Similarly, the whole copying Mystery thing, I don't think is so much of an issue as we are in the UK, and it's much l…
/r/seduction17/07/13 05:57 PM
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Aye, Thanks for the definitive answer - I found it in the posting guidelines too xD Top answer!
/r/seduction17/07/13 05:32 PM
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Very true. I have just written my fourth FR, and I think it is the first time I feel like I have some interesting points to add to the community. I am going to write a separate post about each because I think I can expand on some of the common knowledge.
/r/seduction17/07/13 04:34 PM
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Agreed. Similarly, FR needn't be about good post/bad post. I don't think they are definable like that. what makes a good field report? and honest one, or one that says what the readers want to see? For this reason, I think the ones that are the least eventful need the most attention. Similarly, I just spent over an hour typing one up for submission later - it's huge, and not hugely eventful, but I would still love other user's opinions on how I can improve and refine my technique - even two D/Vs…
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:51 PM
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No worries ;)
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:42 PM
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No I agree, but a post's success lies on the first 3 votes. if they are down, bad luck. if they are up, you aer okay.
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:41 PM
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But that's shit too. So what? don't upvote it, fine, but don't downvote it. I wouldn't believe half the shit that I have done - I don't believe half the stuff in 'The Game', but I still read the hole damn book because I find it motivational. I can't say things definitely did or didn't happen, but that, at least for me, is not reason enough to downvote it. If I saw it with my own eyes and brought it here, and then it was downvoted I would feel shit.
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:27 PM
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This is something I also agree with. when I read the sidebar, I seem to remember /u/TofuTofu suggesting that you FR after every night out, not only to get feedback, but also to have records of your progression, and frankly I think it is just rude to undermine someone's progression when they report back. I personally never downvote FR, sometimes I don't believe what is said, but I won't downvote it because it is nothing to do with me. If some sucker wants to lie on reddit, fine, they only affect …
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:25 PM
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I'm not sure I fully understand what you are saying.... :/
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:12 PM
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World's best wingman ;) - haven't pulled in more than a year x.X what is going on!!!? Although the read is a little confusing, I will have an FR in a bit for ya'll. Bud, for future reference start your title with [FR] - this is how you define it as a field report (it has its own colour and everything)
/r/seduction17/07/13 11:16 AM
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BRO'S BEFORE HOES UNLESS THE HOES HAVE NO CLOTHES.
/r/seduction14/07/13 12:06 AM
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Of course! And unfortunately the set of 10 left early, and the 4 and 4 were scared off when he nicked one of their phones, but the final set of 5 saw it, and C got some serious points for shrugging it off. We won't be inviting them though, as one of them bit O, and the coke head is their dealer, and we don't really want the connection or the possibility of him knowing where we live. I forgot to mention, the girl that bit O was the daughter of the artist. Such a small world.
/r/seduction30/06/13 11:49 AM
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Yeah about outcome, I was glad I approached that night, and went home happy. O is still taking the piss because he went home with a number, and now calls himself the sarge master x.x But yeah, I could have stayed with her, didn't fancy it, I was there to practice approach, and that's what I did. I am pretty sure she was engaged, obvs not 100%. Her friend who was with her was HB4 at best, She had another group of friends but they left and then came back much later, but I had already moved on.
/r/seduction24/06/13 09:19 AM
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Yeah, I am really hitting a path of self development at the moment, having some fun, making more friends, really enjoying life. Thanks for the feedback!
/r/seduction24/06/13 09:14 AM
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Yeah, Any other thoughts? And thanks.
/r/seduction23/06/13 10:33 PM
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I don't mind though, and thanks for the feedback. I agree, if you dont even stick around then what hope can I have, but at the same time I would rather not compete with him, he is my best mate at the end of the day, and despite being a bit of a dick I still love him.
/r/seduction23/06/13 10:32 PM
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Where are you based? perhaps try to link with another seddit user?
/r/seduction21/06/13 12:41 PM
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Hey, had to chip in, only because I also use the system but I really think the point is missed when taken out of context. Like that cluelessmusician said, it is all about preference and relativity anyway, so it should, fundamentally be unoffensive. An example of this: a friend of mine is really into blonde bimbo, fake tan, implants look, which really does nothing for me - so someone he would call a '10' to me is a '5' but I still understand that because he finds her attractive it is more nerve r…
/r/seduction21/06/13 12:00 PM
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Yeah, it's a shame really as I am working fairly closely with them (we are sales reps with split commission) and they are really good fun - definitely value givers, and I feel I subtract from that and that is why, but I dont know how to change.
/r/seduction18/06/13 04:15 PM
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Hmm, but at the same time you dont want to seem like an asshole. I will experiment with diferent things and see what works. Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction18/06/13 04:14 PM
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They are there when I go though, they just don't seem to want to go with/meet me there. I may be trying to read too far into it, they are notoriously bad at sticking to agendas.
/r/seduction18/06/13 02:18 PM
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Hey Fly-By, I would be really interested to hear your thoughts on what exactly constitutes to value giving. (I have struggled with this question for a while - there is a comment about it above/below) How can one contribute more, or be seen to contribute more, without seeming like they are seeking approval?
/r/seduction18/06/13 01:38 PM
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Hey Tofu, Another great post and addition to the guide, Thanks! I also have some questions about it - I believe this is what I need to work on personally, more so than anything else. However, although I understand the idea of being a 'value giver' I struggle to integrate it into my interactions. I find being a value giver is more about being interesting and fun to be around, and although I can talk a lot and joke and mess around I feel as if I am always being humored by the people I am with. How…
/r/seduction18/06/13 01:30 PM
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Yeah, I didn't even think of that. I can get a room in london for <50 a night, and then day game or night game or whatever really. Top stuff, Thanks for all the tips and pointers.
/r/seduction24/05/13 12:35 PM
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But the problem is that most people attending such events (who are beginners) are not familiar with the music so they won't know any better. Testing blue bar. And, salsa tunes have a very specific beat behind the music, which is uncommon apart from in 'salsa music' (at least in my experience, maybe I am one of those noobs). I just need to put some money together to move to a city, but surprisingly I have found a good job and it would be difficult to commute from the nearest city >1hr (I know thi…
/r/seduction24/05/13 12:05 PM
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Oh man, you just brought up a whole host of stuff there. I don't know how to do the blue bar thing where you have been copying my stuff, but when it comes to 'Dj's kind of suck ass' Jesus, the available DJ's here are shite, and the ones that are used are atrocious. I have a friend that is into music and DJ's himself, and he actually does better mixing and playlists that the majority of 'club DJ's' To put this into perspective, I went to some sort of special event at one of the clubs that was mea…
/r/seduction24/05/13 08:34 AM
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Honestly I would love to move, I really, really want to for numerous reasons (not least of which is better internet connection, I will admit) but the social scene is severely lacking where I live. Salsa isn't even that important to me, although it is fun, but because of the lack of venues (period) there is a severe lack of venues that offer such things, and suitable music never comes on in your average club type place. There is a pub and a hotel in the nearest town (o.O) which is only 10 mins dr…
/r/seduction23/05/13 02:09 PM
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I agree with this completely, although I have never seen it explained so thoroughly and in layman's terms. Congratulations there, that's one of the best explanations I have ever read. On a completely different note, where can you dance salsa, apart form at lessons?! (or I guess I was in more of a club than lessons) The point is, the club was full of 50+ retirees and no where else offers anything similar (I live in really rural England which may be a contributing factor). I think this affects my …
/r/seduction23/05/13 12:09 PM
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Salsa is fucking awesome. And seeing as the guy MUST lead it puts you in an alpha mindset fairly rapidly
/r/seduction23/05/13 10:23 AM
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