| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | How to set up my new apartment to attract women? | SallyStruthersThong | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 08:37 PM | |
| 1 | Need tips on OKCupid profile | SallyStruthersThong | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 03:02 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Would you date yourself if you were a girl?How big would my tits be? This is important. | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 01:39 AM |
| 12 | Went on a tinder date last night, had a great time, she tells me she didn't feel a "romantic connection." How do you create a romantic connection?Be careful with this advice though, OP. I've had girls on both ends of the spectrum... Some who didn't like me because I wasn't assertive and some because I was too assertive. You really need to read the situation. I typically err on the conservative side of this issue but will bring up light or numerous banter about sex during the date. That demonstrates you're not afraid or inexperienced. If they want sex I've learned that they will show you their intent in some way. | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 01:58 AM |
| 35 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.There was a study on tinder done a few months ago. 3 fake profiles were made with the same bio. One was an "ugly" man, one was "average" looking man, and the third was an "attractive" man (based on polling of females). The 3 profiles were left up without contacting any girls and were continuously swiped right. All were in the same area. Within the first week the attractive profile got 50 messages from girls...not very surprising. What was surprising was that the average looking and ugly profiles… | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 01:56 AM |
| 7 | Regarding TextingThere's no rule against having a convo with a girl via text. If you're interested in a relationship you're going to have to get used to that. The point of the "text rules" on here are that when you first meet a girl you shouldn't be over texting because it comes off as needy or clingy. Once you have the first date or so, you'll want to step up the texting to small conversations every day if you want to stay on the top of her mind. That being said, you still don't want to do it and be texting her… | /r/seduction | 22/03/14 05:08 PM |
| 5 | The Sex God MethodI'm reading sex advice when I don't have anyone to sex. :*( | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 07:25 AM |
| 2 | 24, dont know where to goCheck out sites like meetup. You probably won't find super hot girls there like a bar but at least it'll give you a reason to be around some women with a shared activity | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 02:05 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/25/13How do you deal with a particularly bad night? Last night I was way off my game and made just about every rookie mistake you can. It was almost like I knew what I was doing was stupid but I did it anyways. Today I woke up feeling kind of ashamed and embarrassed for my performance last night and want to hide my head under the covers. I know I have to get back out there, however. How do you get back into a good state after a terrible night? | /r/seduction | 26/10/13 04:16 PM |
| 2 | How much do you drink while out?I drink to blackout regularly. I'm one if those ppl that you can't tell is drunk when they are. I keep my cool at all times b when I'm real drunk I'm more likely to risk hitting on the hot girl, so I do better that way. | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Workaholics: How do you maintain a balanced and attractive lifestyle?How did you warm up to managers and higher level employees? I have no problem holding conversations with people at my level in my corp. but when it comes to bosses and other higher up people my automatic filter kicks in and it's hard for me to talk about much of anything. These are the most important relationships to build and I feel like I blow it every day. | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 11:30 AM |
| 8 | The Ultimate Cheat Sheet to Meeting Women AnywhereBut where's the pickup? | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 10:06 PM |
| 0 | The Ultimate Cheat Sheet to Meeting Women AnywhereSituational or opinion opener>"hi">not acting | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 10:05 PM |
| 1 | New to college, and I don't know anybody.Hey as someone who just moved to a new city that's not in college, I know how tough it can be. There are a few points that are critical: Throw away your gaming system. It is a distraction and will give you an excuse to stay home when you should be out. Get out as much as possible. Join clubs, go to meetup.com, sports, find a band (if you play music). Don't be afraid to get out and join an activity even if you don't know anyone. Talk to neighbors. By simply sayo hi and engaging in small talk ever… | /r/seduction | 27/08/13 11:50 AM |
| 1 | What a year can do..Good post. I'm about 6 months in myself and I have noticed a lot of these same points. The only issue I have at this point is with motivation. Getting myself to hit on the HB9 at the party when it seems so much easier to hit on the HB6 is a problem I'm having. Getting yourself into that vulnerable mindset eats up a lot of energy. Any advice on how to keep pushing yourself? I keep finding myself taking the easiest route. | /r/seduction | 23/06/13 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Confessions / Venting from a 50+ PUAWhen you approach do you use direct, indirect, or situational openers? And why? | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 02:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Daygame in the city, got a number and insta-dateGreat stuff! If you had instead found the girl with a friend (a 2 set) how would you have played it differently. I'm decent at one on one but whn you add friends into the mix the whole situation becomes infinitely more intimidating. | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 05:21 PM |
| 1 | I'm too lazy to go out todayAll I can say is that it's a slippery slope. I'm in the same boat as you. After a few months of great improvement, I got lazy and stopped forcing myself to go out and spent more time just bumming around with friends. This past weekend I went to two parties and started falling back into AFC mode. I found myself feeling too lazy to talk to hot girls at the party and ended up going home by myself. PU isn't like riding a bike. It's like excersizing. If you stop, you will start to lose all the ground… | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Mystery Method and PUA literature.Art of section is a great book that will touch on a lot of things puas won't. Whereas MM and models is more about how to approach and get laid, the art of seduction is about how to get a woman to fall in love with you. It's worth a read and will open your mind to some new concepts but its not as formulaic and simple as some of the other methods. | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 04:31 PM |
| 1 | The 19 Essential Rules of Text Game!Pretty good stuff. I got a girls number a little over a week ago and I've been texting her about every other day. Usually open with a joke that makes her laugh and then ask her to hang out afterwards but she's told me she's been busy with work every time. It's possible she's right, but how should I know when to give up and be certain that she's blowing me off? I don't want to be that creepy guy that keeps bugging her but I also don't want to give up too early. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 03:17 PM |
| 3 | I'm going to burn everything to the ground!Not every night goes well. For every 3 steps forward there is likely to be one or two steps back. Keep on keepin on. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep girls hooked on your conversationA lot of the responses so far has been about what to say but few people have addressed how you say it. A monotone voice will ruin ANY story. Practice by listening to your favorite comedians or speakers and notice how the tone of their voice fluctuates throughout their sentences and stories. Record yourself telling a story and then try raising volume at certain points and also the pitch of your voice until you find the dynamic that makes your story sound more interesting. Your voice is an instrum… | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 05:48 PM |
| 2 | "Practice" Girls - Good Practice or Bad Habit?Ugly girls have hot friends. Also, the social momentum and experience you build on these dates is obviously beneficial. And who knows, you may end up falling for one if she's cool enough. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 12:43 AM |
| 1 | A quick guide to clubbing"if you have a hot girl that you're friends with (and not banging), bring her to the damn club" I have a hot friend that I go to clubs with, but I don't know how to utilize her. Usually a bunch of guys come up to her about 20 minutes after we get in and then I'm basically on my own. Any suggestions? | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 06:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Day 2 F CloseGreat FR. Lots of good stuff in here. Sometimes when a girl doesn't seem into my kino I back off. Are you suggesting I keep going? | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 01:52 PM |
| 1 | How to take full advantage of my career strength and money (X-POST from askseddit)Wear expensive, nice clothes to the bars (or wherever you go). Wear an expensive watch. Buy expensive drinks while you're out. Bud lights don't say that you're wealthy. Nice shoes, etc. when they ask you what you do, tell them you're a doctor (everyone knows doctors make good money). Mention the university you graduated from. Tell them your BMW is getting fixed in the shop. You get the idea. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 12:18 AM |
| 7 | Burning the set to the ground via TextI think his point was that if you're taking a shit and have your phone out, there is no sunk cost because you wouldn't be doing anything worthwhile anyways. I don't think sunk costs apply to a text that takes about 30 seconds to think of and send. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Can you create attraction if there is no initial attraction?There are millions of examples of men initially repulsing women and later seducing them. Read "the art of seduction" by Robert Greene for some ideas. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 01:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm 20, 5'5" and look like I'm 14I'm in the same boat as you. When you talk about light heartledly joking off the "you look young" remarks , do you agree and amplify? ("Actually I'm 12) or do you go a different route? When a girl told me I have a baby face I told her that she could b my sugar momma which went over well but that joke only works in a few scenarios. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 01:16 PM |
| -1 | What is the female equivalent to the alpha male? As a woman in the dating world, I would like to know what I can do, besides looking attractive, that will up my game.this is only right during the "building attraction" phase. Being too available- whether you're a man or a woman- is an Unattractive quality and comes off as clingish or needy. In the first 2 weeks to a month it's not good to be coquettish but at some point it is essential to seduction. You're right that she should never say no, though. Maybe, possibly and probably are much better than "no". | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 01:09 PM |
| 2 | This guy I'm dating wants "to be seduced"...where do I even start?Read the art of seduction by Robert Greene. It will let you know exactly what to do. | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Is going to a Daniel Johnston concert on a first date a good idea?Lol unless she's a big David Johnson fan then no. If you take her to his concert and she's never heard him than she's going to think you're as crazy as he is. | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 03:13 PM |
| -6 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?Here's a great one for the library. Go find a copy of "how to meet women for dummies" or any pick up book and then walk up to her with it. Hold it up to your face and read to her "did it hurt when you fell from heaven?", lower th book give her a wink and a smile (Or any other cheesy pick up line). As long as you play it up as a joke you'll get a good laugh and you can follow up with something like, "so how is this stuff working on ya?" After this joke opener, follow up with something moe serious… | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 05:55 PM |
| 7 | Complete novice to the game going to college in 5 months. Would appreciate any adviceEye contact, confidence, playfulness, stand up straight. I wish I had discovered this place before I went to college. I can't stress these points enough though. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Rejection.Tell yourself everyday "there is no such thing as rejection, just girls with bad taste." | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Average guy. My short life-story with my weekend recap.I used to bang a girl hat always used to tell me I didn't need a condom because she was on birth control. I always used a condom anyways because I knew that she was kind of a slut. 6 months after I stopped seeing her she got pregnant by some other guy. Since I was in school and she was just a townie I think she was actually trying to get pregnant by a college guy so she could find a hitch out of that town. She was minipulative like that and I wouldn't doubt it for a second. Always wear a condom. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Hey r/seduction, how do I flirt/try to get women when I'm fat?I had a neighbor in college who had great game but was fat. He wasn't enormous but he clearly had a big gut. He was always the life of the party and could make anyone laugh. He got laid a lot. A lot more than me. I'm in great shape. I think women care more about social proof than just physical attractiveness. Good job on the weight loss. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 03:03 PM |
| 5 | I'm a girl and I got a number from the person leading karaoke at a bar, and I gave him mine. What do I do now?Just do it now. The longer you wait, the higher the chance hell forget who you were | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Simple technique that can help a tonMan, I can relate so much. In high school I had terrible acne and would go weeks without looking in th mirror because I knew if I did my confidence would be shot and I would not talk to anyone the est of th day. Now that my skin is better, I finally have starts looking at myself, but rarely try poses to practice before sargeing. | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 12:17 PM |
| 2 | I just came back from an Improv class and heard a brilliant line from the instructor.I think his point was to not be too available. It's cat string theory. If you don't make her want to impress you, than she's going to walk all over you, get bored, and leave. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Which dance style is best to learn to be able to dance in your everyday clubs?I'm considering something like this even though I'm really only interested in being a competent club dancer. Would the skills from salsa translate or should I look for a different style class? Also, I'd bet that women would have their defenses up pretty high if a man joins a dance class. Did you have trouble opening with your nw girlfriend? | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Small Talk Give You MomentumAs someone who sucks at small talk, could you give me any advice/material? | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 07:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] OKCupid Date/F-Closed, Techniques used insideHow are the girls on OKcupid? I've been considering trying it recently but the other free dating sites I've browsed in the past was full of either fat chicks, old widowed women, scams, or women with kids look for LTR. Also, is it free? | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 06:44 PM |
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