SallyTwoSocks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
493	We’re not “females” we are women. We are more than “someone’s daughter” we are PEOPLE.	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	SallyTwoSocks	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/20 08:38 PM
368	Another example of why vetting can never end, no matter how long the relationship	MALE DEPRAVITY	SallyTwoSocks	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/21 06:07 PM
1	What is an appropriate timeline to expect a marriage proposal?	DISCUSSION	SallyTwoSocks	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 05:12 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy? When I was 17 I got my first IUD specifically because I thought it would be “tamper proof”. I had heard of men taking off condoms, or poking holes on purpose, and I knew there was a very real risk of men stealing and destroying pill packs. I even knew about the risks of lovebombing during pregnancy scares, and I tried to grow myself into an absolute boulder of a person, just so I could never be swayed into making any permanent life decision I wasn’t ready for. Of course, now I know there’s liter…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 06:00 PM
187	Emotional abuse can be as destructive as physical abuse & everyone needs to know this. They refuse to see any kind of abuse that isn’t straight up punching women in the face, so when you try to tell them how they’re hurting you, these men will seriously go out of their way to gaslight you by being like what, I never did that! That’s not even a real thing! Wait what, you have evidence? Hmmm it’s very convenient that all this “evidence” seems really skewed in your favour, how am I supposed to just believe something like that? See, obviously it’s not true and this is just propaganda …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 03:58 AM
181	Are men even attracted to women? On top of that, they’ll shame women and call them “fake” or “plastic” and “high maintenance” and “trying too hard” and “tricking me by being secretly ugly under all that makeup” if they smear too many colours on their faces, add too much hair to their heads and eyelashes, glue on nails that are too long. They call us sluts and tell us we’re “asking for it” or “begging for male attention” if we wear clothes that are “too sexy”. Undermining their masculinity and making them feel short if we wear s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 03:39 PM
113	What's with all the stupid guys? The worst part about the whole learning disability excuse is that women have learning disabilities too. Probably pretty close to equal rates of men and women suffer from learning disabilities, but the diagnosis rate for women is WAY lower because the studies and diagnostic criteria weren’t made with us in mind, and women are generally better at masking symptoms so as to not be a burden and annoy other people. Girls are also conditioned to think they’re stupider than boys, so when little girls st…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 02:26 PM
31	Scrote's GF can't meet the same standards as his anime sex doll I’m surprised he hasn’t asked her to clean the cum out of it! You know, since she’s the one who’s already experienced at “washing lady parts” and all that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/21 11:41 AM
32	Scrote's GF can't meet the same standards as his anime sex doll He needs her to pay half the rent, cook for them, do all the dishes, and wash his underwear, and make sure she’s always putting fresh sheets on their bed because him and that anime doll are probably constantly soiling them with his juices. Oh and he needs her so that he can look like a normal person in public with a real living human girlfriend.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/21 11:39 AM
8	Father and female University of Oxford student call for porn sites to require proof of age I think there is an appropriate time and place for the words “male” and “female”, and you used it. They aren’t inherently derogatory or dehumanizing in the right contexts, because they have grammatical and scientific utility. Saying “woman athlete” or “man athlete” sounds grammatically wrong, and yes you could just refer to them all as “athletes” but there is a distinction because it’s a more specific demographic of athletes, and sometimes that distinction is necessary. In this case, it was nece…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 10:08 PM
10	Violence against women is pandemic. In 2020, 163 million Google searches for 'how to hit a woman so no one knows'. Meanwhile, we masked, vaxxed, and stayed at home for 84 million confirmed covid cases. Treat men like they are diseased and depraved until proven otherwise. This is a link to the Twitter thread from the author of the study which this article was based on, (not by the author of the article itself), admitting her faults in the research, apologizing for sharing false information, and thinking those who reached out to her for the teaching moment. https://twitter.com/katerinasyoga/status/1387082486643970050?s=21 This is a snopes article, a well known fact checking website, detailing that the article includes false data. https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 05:43 AM
58	Violence against women is pandemic. In 2020, 163 million Google searches for 'how to hit a woman so no one knows'. Meanwhile, we masked, vaxxed, and stayed at home for 84 million confirmed covid cases. Treat men like they are diseased and depraved until proven otherwise. This is a link to the Twitter thread from the author of the study which this article was based on, (not by the author of the article itself), admitting her faults in the research, apologizing for sharing false information, and thinking those who reached out to her for the teaching moment. https://twitter.com/katerinasyoga/status/1387082486643970050?s=21 This is a snopes article, a well known fact checking website, detailing that the article includes false data. https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 05:43 AM
113	Violence against women is pandemic. In 2020, 163 million Google searches for 'how to hit a woman so no one knows'. Meanwhile, we masked, vaxxed, and stayed at home for 84 million confirmed covid cases. Treat men like they are diseased and depraved until proven otherwise. (I am a woman I promise!) I was initially very shocked when I saw that somebody came up with real numbers to track women’s abuse in some way. It’s sad that we live in a world where this was an incredibly believable headline, because women are being abused and we know it. But this article is NOT TRUE. The author genuinely did backtrack her statements because she discovered that her research methods were flawed. These figures actually aren’t real. Hopefully somebody eventually does do the research…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 02:12 AM
30	Violence against women is pandemic. In 2020, 163 million Google searches for 'how to hit a woman so no one knows'. Meanwhile, we masked, vaxxed, and stayed at home for 84 million confirmed covid cases. Treat men like they are diseased and depraved until proven otherwise. This was an incredibly believable headline, sadly, but this article and the numbers genuinely aren’t true. It’s awful that we live in a world where so many women could see such a headline and instantly believe it was true, because we KNOW that people are abusing women. We don’t know how many exactly, but we know that it’s too many, so to see a confirming figure it was like “finally somebody is talking about this!” but this article is NOT FACTUAL. The author of that article corrected herself late…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 02:02 AM
182	Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character. When I was 19 I had been dating a guy for a little over a year, and we had tried stuff like blindfolding during sex, because we were 19 and trying new stuff we thought might be cool because everything was pretty new to us. I felt okay with it all because after a year together, working on college homework together, meeting each other’s parents, going on weekend trips, I thought I knew him. What I didn’t know is that sometimes while I was blindfolded, he was secretly taking pictures of me and my n…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/04/21 04:50 PM
20	Men will never understand how vulnerable it feels to be a woman My brother was driving us home from the grocery store the other day, and he told me that sometimes he thinks about honking at pedestrians to scare them a little bit. So a minute later, as we’re going down the road, there was this woman who was out for a run. I had to tell him, “DO NOT honk at her. You can’t honk at random woman pedestrians. She will definitely be afraid that you’ll yell obscenities out the window at her, or be afraid that you’re going to follow her home to murder her”. He had NO…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 07:50 PM
79	As it should be. Pretty much. If you can’t open your own bank account or own property without a husband, then the only tactic for survival is to trim yourself down to the perfect people pleaser for men’s standards and get yourself any husband that’ll take you. It wasn’t a worthwhile investment to choose a difficult woman, so the more quiet and well behaved, the easier it would be to get her to do whatever he wanted. Now that women can do pretty much anything imaginable by themselves, then we just don’t need to s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 08:14 AM
82	I literally cannot remember the last time a woman approached me in public for anything. I will literally climb the grocery store shelves before I would approach a man to grab something from the top shelf for me. A tall woman, I’d ask maybe if I really couldn’t reach by myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 09:05 AM
96	Every day the bar descends deeper into hell... Not even going to touch on how that’s So Gross. But like he actually was proud of the fact that he couldn’t (didn’t try to?) satisfy you??? Glad they’re an ex!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 05:18 PM
109	"nOT aLl mEn ArE bAD.." So true. So many men love to derail women’s facts and stories with ridiculous “what-abouts”, that often are completely unrelated to the original topic entirely. And when you don’t argue with them or come back with a perfect rebuttal then they think they “won”. There was a time I had been reading a Twitter thread of women sharing stories of the disadvantages they’ve faced in medicine because studies historically did not include us, doctors don’t listen to us, and symptoms can be different for us …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/21 04:43 PM
85	NoT aLL MeN Actually, it’s the woman’s fault for not choosing the very safest neighbourhood no matter how expensive it costs to live there, and not double checking that nobody followed her home, and not having better locks on all of her doors and windows, and not having a good enough security alarm system, and not keeping a guard dog, and not keeping a dirty pair of men’s work boots on the doorstep to make it look like a man lives there. Like gosh, why even own a home anyways? You’re just ASKING for people …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/21 05:40 AM
29	Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincess Shoutouts to my HVM grandpa for sticking around with my grandma for 56 years, and through 2 cancer diagnoses. He held shit down for her, went to all her appointments, took over so many chores she couldn’t do anymore (on top of the ones he already did), and even at 80 years old, he took care of her around the clock until the day she died. There were lots of hard days, but she went out knowing exactly how much he loved her. Often times the rest of the family would try to have somebody at their hou…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/21 07:16 PM
11	So-called "petty" deal breakers Teeth are SO important too. After those baby teeth are all gone, the teeth you have are all you’re ever gonna get. Dental issues are super painful and expensive, so you already know if somebody doesn’t take care of their teeth, they’ll probably avoid the dentist too, but act insufferably moody all the time once they start having pain and problems.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 03:11 AM
37	The teachings of LVM 🤡 LVM logic: What? Your BARE MINIMUM is that you want me to wash myself regularly, clean up my own messes around the house, think about and take care of my own responsibilities without having somebody plan it all and cut it up into bite sized pieces for me, AND I have to be held accountable for my actions???? That’s too much. You’re crazy. They’d never admit it in exactly those words though. They just call you a demanding bitch or something.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/21 08:40 PM
14	Another example of why vetting can never end, no matter how long the relationship They don’t even consider the major health risks associated with pregnancy and birth (the most severe of which being literal death). Their whole thought process is just “haha she gets fat and cranky for a few months, and then she’s stuck with me for life”. But of course if a woman gets pregnant and the LV boyfriend doesn’t want it then “she just wants my money and she’s trying to trap me, but also I will never wear condoms and birth control is for whores”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 09:26 AM
103	Another example of why vetting can never end, no matter how long the relationship Yeah. Imagine thinking you’re such hot shit that you can make permanent life and body altering decisions for somebody all for the sake of setting back their progress and self esteem. This is why we don’t just “give him a chance” or “settle for any man” because they’ll probably try to pull some NV behaviour like this. Low value men just can’t stand to see women trying to do better for themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/21 08:10 PM
22	The Energy We’re Taking into 2021 Literally. The pornsick guys of today don’t understand foreplay or any part of “buildup” because they have so much access to such aggressive porn. Before, porn was about getting whatever you could have access to, and it was usually pretty mild stuff, sometimes it was just a blurry tit on a tv screen, or a lingerie magazine. These days, people can pick out exactly what race, genre, and specifics they want to see in full HD quality, then just skip forward to the “good parts”, so they no longer see…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/20 03:55 PM
20	The Energy We’re Taking into 2021 I had an ex who couldn’t finish during regular sex at all. The only way he could ever finish was from aggressively jackhammering himself with an absolute death grip. And of course he still found a way to make it my problem “I’m so sad bc I can’t cum inside u 🥺” No more pornsick scrotes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/20 03:38 PM
18	This reminds me of the time when my ex made me fill foolish for wanting to be a baker We must have dated the same guy. My ex was the same way	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/20 10:39 PM
44	Wow... It’s so easy to say you’d do something like that, but 13 year olds, especially fragile ones after having a parent leave, probably wouldn’t be so good at standing up for themselves like that. When you’re young, you’re dependent on your parents for so much, so that incompetent father could have just as likely started revoking privileges for her because “if you don’t take care of me, I won’t take care of you” and that’s a precarious situation for a child to be put into.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 02:28 PM
57	Wow... Bingo! My unemployed 24 year old brother has 3 chores. (Up until a few years ago he had 0!) Drive me to work sometimes (other people in the house also do this). Take me to the grocery store once a week, and push the cart (I plan the dinners and grocery list for the week). Don’t leave the gas completely empty in the car. The rest of his day he spends sleeping, or playing computer games. I swear he’s addicted to World of Warcraft. He has so much free time that he could probably have SO many skills…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 02:21 PM
1	Remember ladies! Women age like milk and men age like wine 😌 That’s such a terrible lie that gets fed to women constantly. When men get old and go grey they become a “silver fox” (and then they think they’re such hot shit that they can still keep dating 20 year olds). When women get old and go grey they’re undesirable and used up. We aren’t an asset made to exponentially depreciate in value after the age of 30.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/20 03:35 PM
14	The “Arrangement” 🤣 “Has not worked out in the past for reasons I cannot say” Hmmm? Why could that be? Let’s explore some of the possibilities. • There was no “previous woman” but he wants to make this ad sound like something that a person has actually agreed to, so hopefully he can trick some desperate woman into being his bangmaid. • The previous woman left because she realized he’s a short, fat, old, racist who still lives with his parents and can’t cook for himself? • His idea of “cuddling” also included the wo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 01:32 AM
21	We’re not “females” we are women. We are more than “someone’s daughter” we are PEOPLE. Because nobody “owns” men. Women are only defined by who’s in charge of them (eye rolls)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 03:36 AM
17	We’re not “females” we are women. We are more than “someone’s daughter” we are PEOPLE. I like that better honestly. Little doggies ARE royalty	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/20 09:59 PM
44	We’re not “females” we are women. We are more than “someone’s daughter” we are PEOPLE. I’m totally cool with “male” or “female” being used in a scientific or animal breeding context. It’s hard to remember the proper name for every type of male / female animal. But it’s really not that difficult to use the proper terms for your own species, and there’s a lot of options. Men, guys, boys, dudes / women, ladies, girls, gals.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/20 09:06 PM
122	We’re not “females” we are women. We are more than “someone’s daughter” we are PEOPLE. I hate when men use the term “females” to refer to women. It isn’t more correct, or more polite, or even more specific. It’s almost dehumanizing. The proper name for adult female HUMANS is WOMEN. Just like female horses are mares, female chickens are hens, female cattle are cows.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/20 09:00 PM
119	Anyone else notice this? That’s just such a disgusting concept. Getting your gf to gain weight and dress poorly on purpose to damage her self esteem so she thinks she has to stay with you because she forgets that she can do better. I also hate when insecure guys shame their girlfriends into dressing sloppier because before they wore clothes that made them look “too good” so that MUST mean they were trying to get attention from other guys.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 05:37 AM
16	🤮 FWB NVM wants a live-in bangmaid 🤮 Do not provide wife perks to a boyfriend/ friend with benefits/ casual fling. That is not an incentive for them to get more serious or treat you better, that’s an incentive to keep doing the bare minimum because they know you’ll keep giving it your all anyways. Who would want to work harder to get the treatment you’re already getting? That’s just bad business.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 12:05 AM
62	Warning from a woman in the military. Subs like that are so toxic. They cherry pick articles to share about women’s crimes and arrests (sex offenses, domestic violence, stealing, etc), false accusations against men, women being nasty in divorces, as if men don’t do these same things (and probably way more often). Men on subs like that also love to complain that women get “easier” physical testing requirements for military and police jobs (because our bodies are physiologically built differently), but they pass it off as just “women …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 06:12 AM
41	I’m slowly learning this I can totally see men stringing this analogy both ways to manipulate women. “You’re just a gentle garden, and I’m a gardener so now I’m going to control and micro manage every part of your life to make you into exactly the woman I want “ Or “I’m a messed up damaged garden, and you’re my gardener so I expect you to care for all of my needs and make me a better person, but don’t expect much in return because that’s not my job. My success should be your happiness. “	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/20 06:30 AM
4	Saying a man will act right for the “right woman” is deeply misogynist and a huge lie. I agree with you. I hate the idea that we feed women that it’s their fault they’re being disrespected and treated poorly because they’re not “the right woman”. But I also hate that we feed the idea to men that they can treat women poorly if they want to, and if she fights back and says you can’t do that to me, then she’s just not the right woman. I feel like these ideals can also be used to breed jealousy among women, so we constantly strive to be better than everyone else instead of working to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 08:45 PM
2	Saying a man will act right for the “right woman” is deeply misogynist and a huge lie. I agree with you. I hate the idea that we feed women that it’s their fault they’re being disrespected and treated poorly because they’re not “the right woman”. But I also hate that we feed the idea to men that they can treat women poorly if they want to, and if she fights back and says you can’t do that to me, then she’s just not the right woman. I feel like these ideals can also be used to breed jealousy among women, so we constantly strive to be better than everyone else instead of working to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 08:45 PM
10	Saying a man will act right for the “right woman” is deeply misogynist and a huge lie. I agree with you. I hate the idea that we feed women that it’s their fault they’re being disrespected and treated poorly because they’re not “the right woman”. But I also hate that we feed the idea to men that they can treat women poorly if they want to, and if she fights back and says you can’t do that to me, then she’s just not the right woman. I feel like these ideals can also be used to breed jealousy among women, so we constantly strive to be better than everyone else instead of working to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 08:45 PM
5	internal screaming, forever He probably went online after this and made some post about how “bitches have such high standards. Can’t do anything without getting nagged about it.” And then he’ll go on to ruin some other girls life because “I’m so damaged. The last girl I talked to tried to control my entire life (by expecting me to brush my teeth every day)” but I’m sure he has a list a mile long of everything he would expect her to do. Like shave, and wear makeup (but not too much like those other bitches), and look like a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 02:19 PM
48	At least you got picked 💁‍♀️ Probably that he expects her to be his therapist as well as mommy, cook, maid, sex doll, etc	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 04:18 AM