| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 423 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social media | Outer Game | Salmon3000 | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 03:24 AM |
| 278 | When did women gain so much leverage? | Comprehensive | Salmon3000 | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Demographics problem | Outer Game | Salmon3000 | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Are online pick-up lines totally innecessary? | Fundamentals | Salmon3000 | /r/seduction | 30/03/24 06:53 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Is there a "right time" in life to have a hoe phase as a guy?After you have one or two girlfriends and before you're 35 would be the ideal | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social mediaI suspect that’s true. However, he has a very male-gaze-ish body—big arms and a beer belly. It’s the kind of body we know most girls wouldn’t find more attractive than a lean one. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 03:46 PM |
| 5 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social mediaRight? I don't know what it is. He studies medicine which for some people is seen as high status but I really doubt that's the only explanation. I know other people who are in medical school and they pull nowhere near as many girls as him. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social mediaThey're not random. For example, one of the girls I mentioned went to our same high school. She used to go in the afternoon while we used to go in the morning to this school. They never crossed a word. She has him in bf on ig, and one day he replied to a story and, well, the rest is history. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 02:27 PM |
| 8 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social mediaHe's in med school. He goes to the gym but he's not super buffed. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 02:21 PM |
| 73 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social mediaI feel the same way. I have another friend who, hands down, has the best texting game I’ve ever seen. He knows exactly how to tease, flirt subtly, build rapport, and time the invite to meet up perfectly. His approach is smooth, deliberate, and honestly kind of impressive to watch. Mark, by comparison, doesn’t even come close when it comes to texting. And I’d argue he’s less conventionally attractive too — this other friend is 6'2", dresses incredibly well, and has a certain reputation, if you kn… | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 11:56 AM |
| 19 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social mediaI have 700 while he has 1400. He probably follows around 1200 while I follow 900 accounts. However, I have friends with more followers (2000, 1500, etc...) who don't pull that much. My most attractive friend follows 800 and has 1100 (he has a girlfriend now)... Probably the ratio -having more followers than people you follow- is what indicates how popular your account is. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 11:28 AM |
| 12 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social mediaHaha I used it twice as a matter of fact! | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 03:51 AM |
| 1 | What are you struggling with the most ?I do | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 11:16 AM |
| 11 | What are you struggling with the most ?Demographics and time. It's very hard to find girls in their early 20's once you're out of college. Most of the girls I am surrounded with are of my age or older which makes it a bit more challenging. Having to work +40hs a week leaves you very little time to socialize and meet new people. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 11:44 PM |
| 2 | This is what happens when you speak from a privileged positionIt isn't simple. Like any social skill, it needs time, practice and consistency. Most people forget about one very important point made by Manson... You actually don't need to become extremely good at seducing women to get a girlfriend or to hook up more frequently. You only need to do okay. (Manson has had conversations with some clients asking them precisely that, 'why do you need to have the best-looking woman possible as your girlfriend?' 'Why do you want to get laid with so many hot women?'… | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 11:20 PM |
| 12 | I can't believe how many people in here still haven't read ModelsWhen I first read Models, most of its content seemed kind of obvious. "Don't try to be liked by everyone; try to be with people you like." "Dress well." "Find your own demographic." "Don't be needy." "Don't pretend to be something you're not." At first, these ideas can feel repetitive or even meaningless. That’s because we often see seduction as something external—something we do to get a hot/interesting woman or to gain peer validation. But the real shift happens when we stop viewing seduction … | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 07:13 PM |
| 2 | When did women gain so much leverage?This was a productive exchange. I value your thoughtful answer as well 🤙 | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 04:37 PM |
| 12 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsI mostly agree with what you said. However, I think it is misguided to equate social skills with seduction. Without the former, you don't get the latter, but you can perfectly know how to socialize properly and still suck at seducing women. That's why so many men who know how to be friendly end up being friendzoned like 1000 times by women. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 02:01 AM |
| 2 | When did women gain so much leverage?I think you got me wrong. I’m not saying dating is easy for women. I’m talking about relative differences between men’s and women’s experiences in the modern dating world. When I say women have it easier, I’m referring to the fact that, in comparison to men, women generally face fewer obstacles when it comes to gaining initial interest, finding casual partners, or receiving attention. This doesn’t mean women don’t have their own struggles—it just means the challenges are different. Over the past… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 10:45 PM |
| 10 | When did women gain so much leverage?I don't agree. Online dating is rigged for men. However, real life dating is challenging but more rewarding overall. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 11:18 PM |
| -1 | When did women gain so much leverage?I think they always did but it has gotten worse in the last years. Besides what I wrote above I just have anecdotal evidence to offer. I talked to my dad a few years ago about this. My dad always considered himself average when it came to attracting women, yet in his college years in the 80's he was still getting laid every week, sometimes on most days. He wasn’t in a relationship, but still had a lot of success. According to him, there were other guys who did even better because they pursued wo… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 09:28 PM |
| 7 | When did women gain so much leverage?I mostly agree with what you said. However, I feel the game has become harder for men. I ain't saying that it was easy back then, but now it feels more challenging. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 07:53 PM |
| 5 | I want to learn HOW TO LEARN to pick up girls / seduce girls90% of men looking for dating advice don't really have DEEP problems when it comes to flirting. The real problem is related to self-confidence, neediness, and being involved in social circles that don't have many girls available. Most of the needed "skills" to seduce women can be learnt intuitevely by practice. It's all about reducing your neediness by doing things that make you proud of who you are and being actively trying to polarize women so that you know if they like you or not. If you are … | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 06:39 PM |
| -1 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaThe less 'needy' of her validation you are, the better. It applies to many things not only women | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 04:44 PM |
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