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Personally I only approach women that I find very attractive and who give me some indication that they are keen. Cold approaching shotgun style I don’t think works because women can sense when a guy is just playing the numbers game and doesn’t actually care about them. Everyone, especially women, wants to feel special. 26 in 3.5 hours is a lot of women
/r/seduction30/10/22 11:57 AM
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I take them to a cocktail bar 5 min from my apartment
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:48 PM
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dont. just text to make plans Just ask her when she's free to grab a drink. You didn't get her number to be her penpal
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:39 PM
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How’d you know I do boxing…
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:35 PM
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Honestly takes a long time and the friends I made when I first moved aren’t the same friends I have now. At first I met some through my roommate, then through my roommates friends. Then I changed apartments and met some through my new roommate and started hosting parties and had an excuse to ask for numbers from both guys and girls. These people reciprocated by inviting me to stuff. But tbh it’s hard. You almost feel like a woman dating and vetting men because so many are just weird
/r/seduction23/10/22 07:21 PM
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Lol happens to me as well
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:00 PM
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following because I have a similar problem. Only time approach works for me is when the girl is already super interested and starts asking me questions and acting all curious, otherwise its like pulling teeth
/r/seduction23/10/22 02:23 PM
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Moved to a new city with a better nightlife. Forced me to build my friend group from the ground up allowing me to choose people with similar dating goals. The city is also filled with attractive, in shape people forcing me to exercise 5 days a week so I don’t fall behind the competition
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:55 AM
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I was hooking up with a girl for a whole year and she didn’t know my political views even though I knew she’s on the complete opposite side of the spectrum. When she asked me why I never took her out on a date I finally told her who I voted for in the last election. She was in shock. She still hooked up with me again after that and we’re on good terms still I’d hide the book
/r/seduction22/10/22 08:23 AM
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I mean you’re 18 and I don’t want to sound patronizing but it sounds like everyone else on this thread has more life/romantic/friend experience than you and none of them has motivation to want to sabotage your life so idk why you wouldn’t take their advice more seriously. Talking to your friend to get his permission is a good idea but only if you think you can trust him. If your friend is toxic like you mention in another comment then idk why you keep him around anyway. I would just do what I pl…
/r/seduction21/10/22 11:55 AM
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I agree with all the other advice given. unfortunate you're being stubborn and I don't even know why you came to reddit if you're just gonna ignore it
/r/seduction21/10/22 08:51 AM
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Emphatic yes. A few hours before tho I think it’s important to rub one out before any big life decision. Before your wedding, before closing on a house, etc
/r/seduction19/10/22 03:31 PM
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You shouldn't be making any assumptions dude. You're totally in the dark. You shouldn't assume its jealousy. You shouldn't assume it's them. You shouldn't assume it's you. You'll simply have to get comfortable living in ignorance.
/r/seduction16/10/22 10:35 AM
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Being 23 doesn't make you the creepy old guy. It really could be anything. Maybe she has a boyfriend. Maybe her friend is controlling and toxic (I've had to deal with girls with friends like this who think they're doing their friend a favor by pulling them away). Maybe her friend was drunk. Maybe it really is you and you came off creepy with your vibe somehow. Or maybe she really didn't think you were good looking enough for her friend. Maybe mercury was in retrograde. Really it's impossible to …
/r/seduction16/10/22 10:16 AM
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You got some bad advice from the internet about not coming off needy and instead came off as an inauthentic insecure game player
/r/seduction15/10/22 08:27 AM
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depends if its a girl you know already (like from your social circle) or a girl you met online or through cold approach in my experience
/r/seduction13/10/22 09:51 PM
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I would’ve never picked France as the place to study abroad to begin with. It’s not a very welcoming culture. I know because I have French friends and whenever they’re hanging out with other French people I just stay home. They have no idea how to make foreigners feel included
/r/seduction11/10/22 08:45 AM
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In Argentina they do. I’ve often thought of moving there. Every Argentine woman I meet makes things so easy. They hit on you. They message first. One Argentine I matched on tinder sent me the first message and just said “drinks tonight?” My god once you experience this you start thinking it’s your birthright and start wondering why you ever expended any effort approaching a woman or thinking of a witty opener The girl I’m seeing now is from there. We met through friends and she hit on me at a pa…
/r/seduction09/10/22 10:29 PM
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It kind of curves up in the way, in porn they usually go straight up and down I dont want it to be uncomftorable for her, are you sure its okay? And yes i'll try
/r/seduction09/10/22 01:14 PM
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Top 10% isn't enough lol. Girls literally have thousands of likes on dating apps. 10% of them is still hundreds of men.
/r/seduction09/10/22 08:47 AM
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I mean it’s happened to me before…the hottest girl I ever went on a date with was from insta
/r/seduction08/10/22 07:48 PM
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I think a majority of them are looking for followers but I actually did hook up with a girl who put her insta in her profile. I swiped right but didn’t want to wait my turn so went to her insta and liked a pic
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:41 PM
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I have and I disagree. Eye contact is a sign of aggression among animals and prison gang members. Everywhere else it’s a key way of showing romantic interest. People in NYC don’t do it because the women there don’t do it and the men are afraid of looking like creeps by giving unreciprocated eye contact. It’s the same in every big walkable city
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:53 PM
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I mean you won’t even make eye contact for some dumb reason so he probably thinks you don’t even know he exists
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:48 PM
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Or better yet, get friendzoned and date her hotter friends
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:17 AM
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It’s not that they don’t show up. It’s that they act excited to and say they will and then don’t show up or reciprocate. It’s seems really inauthentic to me
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:11 PM
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Where is the generalization? I don’t see it. Is English your second language?
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:08 PM
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Okay doesn’t help but sure
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:06 PM
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Okay bro You either have reading comprehension problems or didn’t read my whole post. I do have close female friends that I think are good friends, but they aren’t the majority. Platonic relationships are hard for both sexes. I realize many men fake friendships to sleep with women. Personally I wouldn’t behave the way these women do and I don’t - and maybe that’s where you hear the condescension
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:04 PM
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Is that what I said? You should read the end of my post
/r/seduction23/09/22 11:59 AM
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But I don’t have this kind of behavior from my guy friends
/r/seduction23/09/22 11:57 AM
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I feel like if I do it it’ll come off as petty. Keep in mind I met her through friends. There’s still a chance I might bump into her again and don’t want things to be awkward. Like I don’t resent her or anything and still want to be able to be friendly and cordial
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:30 PM
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Yes so do I. Thats why i'm posting here. My logic tells me I shouldn't be
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:50 PM
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To say thank you
/r/seduction03/09/22 03:19 AM
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A girl that ghosted isn’t a girl worthy of your commitment. I suggest just keeping her as an fwb while you date women with more integrity
/r/seduction29/08/22 10:38 PM
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He’s not saying to ignore her messages. Just reduce the amount of effort your making
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:36 PM
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Or status or whatever it is women value in men. These men are just acting like women with options do but hold commitment as their bargaining chip instead of sex
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:58 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:48 PM
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There's no such thing as fuckboys. Its just something women created to feel better about men out of their league not wanting to commit to them. These "fuckboys" would still commit to the right girl but are open to fun like the rest of us. These women go for them because the "fuckboys" are physically attractive and have options. Just like how incels complain about women who have options not paying attention to them. Complaining about the other gender and creating labels is how we avoid self refle…
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:22 PM
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I think these decisions shouldn't be made on what specific women will like and rather what you personally would feel comfortable with for your lifestyle I personally dont give a shit about cars, so buying a nice car whether I can afford it or not, just seems dumb if its just to attract certain women
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:10 PM
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Impossible to know. It really depends on the girl.
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:27 AM
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How would she feel if you were doing the same?
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:40 PM
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I think even younger. Like after college hickies shouldn’t be a thing
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:13 PM
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I think it is in your younger years maybe but as you get older it gets really tacky
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:09 PM
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Sounds like you dodged a bullet
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:43 AM
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What’s wrong with wanting to hang out with a friend that’s moving away?
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:30 PM
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its not a test
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:28 PM
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Do a pub crawl
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:59 PM
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I see other girls. Maybe sleeping with a new one every month lately. But I’m not as into them as I I’d like to be. Also where did you get the idea she’s not interested? I already said in this country it’s frowned upon to date multiple people at once even at the beginning so her reasoning is pretty understandable. She was staring me at all night at the party
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:41 PM
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What makes you think I’m not seeing other girls?
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:01 PM
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I thought we had a lot of rapport. She’s from my social circle and we’ve known each other since august
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:57 PM
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I guess I was just wondering if the stats are normal. That only 1 out of every 10-15 dates gets a second date
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:50 PM
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Totally depends on the girl. I saw relationship material with some of these women and others not so much
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:37 PM
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What do you mean? I’m legit wondering if I’m doing something wrong to turn these women off
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:09 PM
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I’ve thought about this. But also concerned she might get offended like she’s getting blown off
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:27 PM
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Dude. You’re totally unhinged
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:54 PM
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Yeah I do and it works. Because it’s authentic and displays vulnerability (aka confidence)
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:52 PM
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Bars but you can use it anywhere
/r/seduction24/01/22 06:34 AM
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If you do it on your side you should last longer
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:56 PM
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you don't need pick up lines. Just go up to a girl and say "hey I thought you were cute and wanted to talk you" Its really that simple
/r/seduction22/01/22 01:43 PM
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She’s engaged now lol
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:53 PM
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she meant this as a compliment...makes it even more twisted
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:29 AM
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I have a few female friends but only one has ever actually been "supportive" when I was interested in other women. She actually set me up with her cousin at one point. The others roll their eyes when I suggest similar favors - favors that I'm more than willing to reciprocate. These aren't friend zone situations either, because I'm not romantically interested in them. I'm 28 now but when I was 19/20 I was friend zoned by a girl for about a year. I was pretty naive back then and had oneitis. I ask…
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:26 AM
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Thats what I'm afraid of lol
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:37 AM
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I mean I just had my date with one of them and have two more lined up this week….
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:58 PM
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This is what I’m expecting
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:34 PM
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Haven’t been intimate with them yet. But have 3 dates lined up this week already. 3 are from a wide social circle that I’ve spent the last year and a half cultivating and 2 are from dating apps. 1 is a girl I was sexting a year ago while she was overseas. I kinda got bored and stopped messaging her when I started seeing someone else…I reached back out to her two weeks ago because I knew she was back in the country. I don’t know what I did differently really. Tbh pre Covid I had a pretty steady d…
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:32 PM
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Really only maybe have feelings for one tbh
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:10 PM
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Only 2 of them from apps. Others from my social circle
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:26 PM
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Dude you need help. I don’t give off that vibe. You’re just projecting your bitterness. I know this for a fact because secure men will comment here congratulating me and actually giving me advice
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:45 PM
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Why do you assume I’m bragging? I’m coming out of a serious dry spell. I legit don’t know what to do. I’ve only slept with one woman since Covid started
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:41 PM
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Women are trapped in their dating realities where they assume it’s as easy for men to get women as for women to get men
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:53 AM
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I think Americans are less mature when it comes to dating specifically but more mature in other respects like work ethic and financial independence. Most other countries frown upon someone in their twenties starting their own business and in Europe it feels like no one ever works and just takes a cigarette break every half hour.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:29 AM
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I’m 28 and I rarely match any woman in this country over the age of 24. They all filter me out because they want men over 30. I’m usually matching 19-24 year olds and most Americans would frown upon it. But when in Rome…
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:02 AM
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Keep in mind Reddit is really biased towards American culture and Americans are weird about age gaps compared to most of the world. Take advice here with a grain of salt I’ve realized this because I’m a US expat that’s been living overseas for nearly 3 years
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:53 AM
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Night. I work during the day. Weekends during day I’m usually at beach in the summer. Why?
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:18 AM
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Could also be a contributing factor
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:56 PM
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Dope. My best days are ahead of me
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:04 PM
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Maybe I’m only 28 so what do I know
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:39 AM
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Assuming they’re in shape and have a full head of hair, then late 20s to mid 30s probably. If you take care of yourself, time is on your side
/r/seduction15/01/22 10:37 AM
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I go out a few times a week but Would limit my drinking. Now I don’t drink at all. It really affects your sleep. I’m not always staying out late though. Usually I’m in bed by midnight I think a lot depends on the kind of city you live in. My city is high energy. You walk down the street and every bar is busy constantly. It gives you a constant overbearing cloud of Fomo and forces you to get out of your apartment
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:26 AM
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Women in their mid to early twenties are in their prime and get more attention from men then they’ll ever get again in their lives. Them having more options than 30/40 year olds as well as having more romantic experiences than teenagers, means that they’re less likely to pay attention to you
/r/seduction15/01/22 08:28 AM
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“I thought you were cute and wanted to come talk to you” Keep it simple and authentic
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:17 PM
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6 figures in 6 months of 2020 with 1/4th of the operation I have now can definitely equal 7 figures in some good years
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:12 PM
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Launched in mid 2020 and made six figures with a much smaller operation throughout that year. I know the nature of my business pretty well and feel like I represented things correctly.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:04 PM
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Hmmm good idea. But seems like a lot of effort. Lemme try one last dick pic
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:01 PM
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No logic at all. She didn’t even respond to the poem I wrote her
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:09 PM
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I'm been thinking of starting kickboxing classes for a few months now. Just need move around my schedule or skip the gym some nights. Should be a similar experience.
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:45 PM
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Invested? I only blew up her phone with like 40 texts. Is that too much?
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:19 PM
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Could be. But not sure how she has time. She's in school and a bartender. her date with me was her only night off.
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:22 PM
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Was ghosted last week by a girl who I met in real life at a New Years party. She also showed high interest on the date and she even initiated the kiss at the end. I think it’s probably not anything you’re doing wrong, it’s just that you get lost in an ocean of penis and these women have tons of good options if they’re attractive. They’re probably talking to multiple guys as well and that’s why they ghost
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:50 PM
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I’m totally financially secure so it’s not really an issue. It’s just when I have a bad year it makes me feel incompetent at my work
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:36 PM
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I rarely double text. You could say my ego is stronger than that urge lol
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:49 PM
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How do you think she felt it? I think everyone here is assuming when I say gf potential I’m already in love with this girl. The key word is potential
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:48 PM
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Like the mark Manson advice ;)
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:33 PM
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What’s the common thread? The girl in this situation had two drinks (not enough to get hammered) and at the end she went for the kiss and we made out for a few seconds and parted ways. Nothing sexual. You seem to be obsessed with gaslighting me
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:25 PM
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This post is about a totally different woman. And I posted it around the same time as the last one. You’re drawing connections that aren’t there If you need evidence you can just look at the time stamps. Girl I met at the bar is from 2 months ago. This girl is from last week
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:21 PM
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What now?
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:17 PM
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I agree with you somewhat though I'm not sure how these girls would sense how invested I am. The reason I'm invested in this one is probably because its so rare that I'm on a date with a girl I feel like I'm not settling for. The truth is I respond to everyone within an hour (assuming I can) just out of politeness whether I like them or not. I'm not triple texting or bombarding them with messages either. In some ways though, you're right. I won't deny it. Working on it
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:47 PM
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Yeah could’ve worded it better. You’re right. Thought about that after I texted Still doesn’t justify ghosting though…
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:57 PM
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Man if she wanted to talk to you she would have I've had women reach out weeks after ghosting with lame excuses
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:42 PM
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I mean I don’t think it’s clingy of me to see gf potential in a girl after one date. I obviously would need to date her for a couple of months before getting into a relationship with her. Wasn’t expecting anything so soon What I mean is that 90%+ of the women I meet have zero gf potential so when I finally meet one that does it’s kinda of a bummer when it goes nowhere
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:39 PM
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Told her I had a good time with her and to let me know when she wants to grab dinner. Maybe too soon idk. I used to wait longer to text women after dates but felt like it really didn’t make a difference and don’t like playing games.
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:30 PM
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Hey ____ when are you free to grab a drink?
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:38 AM
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Weed those people out of your life
/r/seduction07/01/22 11:57 AM
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I try and reply within an hour assuming I can. At some point you realize that all chemistry comes from authenticity and it’s inauthentic to play games
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:06 PM
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Disagree. This is taking games too far and she’ll know why you’re doing it
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:14 AM
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Just wait a few hours (cuz you have a life) and respond
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:35 AM
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wtf did I just read?
/r/seduction21/12/21 08:03 AM
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don't. they're paid to be nice to you. Its 2 steps away from falling in love with a stripper
/r/seduction16/12/21 01:16 PM
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I once had a girl i know ask me out. She literally Dmed me and said “wanna grab a beer tomorrow”. Once we started talking logistics she just went silent I didn’t double text or anything but it was definitely on my mind and I thought it was super weird. All my friends started gaslighting me telling me I shoulda said this or that. But turns out the problem was her because she reached out two weeks later apologizing profusely and saying she got sick but was too embarrassed to say anything. This 29 …
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:19 AM
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They’re sad depressed saps. My former roommate was one of those
/r/seduction15/12/21 04:04 AM
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Funny how that works. Do they usually hit you up or you bump into them or something?
/r/seduction12/12/21 07:28 PM
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100% agree The great irony is that usually when the woman offers friendship and I say "no thanks I was interested in more" they get very offended and give me a disgusted look
/r/seduction12/12/21 06:28 PM
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Good luck! If it doesn’t work out don’t let it prevent you from initiating again
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:49 AM
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You could literally say anything. Keep in mind most men don’t get as nearly as much attention from the opposite sex as women. It’s not like our DMs are usually blowing up. You shouldn’t assume we both have the same experience in the dating market. Men’s meter for desperation/creepiness isn’t nearly as sensitive. If he thinks you’re cute he’ll respond
/r/seduction09/12/21 02:25 AM
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It really depends on the pics you’re taking. I have some pics that got 4.2 and others that got 9.3
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:33 AM
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She asked me to finish on her face. Which I think is degrading but not kinky and yet it’s consensual. So there
/r/seduction26/11/21 01:08 AM
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Kinky doesn’t mean degrading. I didn’t say she asked for anything kinky
/r/seduction25/11/21 10:34 PM
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I promise there was just the right amount of snark
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:27 AM
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Which part? Lol
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:34 AM
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No. its counterintuitive but women actually love men that challenge their opinions. Its refreshing for them after meeting so many men that will simply say or do anything for a morsel of sex My suggestion is to be authentic. Lying about your beliefs to get laid is downright dishonorable and also counterproductive. I once got in a political argument with a raging feminist at a party. Later it turned into a ONS where she asked me to do some pretty degrading things to her. go figure
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:56 AM
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You need to set definite dates. Saying “let’s plan for Thursday” without a time and place booked is setting yourself up to get stood up or cancelled on. You need to reach out in a way that lets you plan a definite date
/r/seduction16/11/21 10:58 PM
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