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You see them in your chat. I'm not making them public
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:30 PM
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already sent
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:26 PM
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check your chat
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:19 PM
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cat got your tongue?
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:17 PM
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You’ll just say it’s someone else. I showed my pictures to some other inceltears clown and pictures of my wife and they said it was impossible someone that attractive would be blackpilled and that I must be stalking the couple in the photos which made me ROFL
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:01 PM
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I can send you pictures of what I looked like in my prime. I’m definitely not an incel. I’m the guy the incels think is stealing all the women.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:55 PM
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I’m not LARPing. Everything I’ve said about myself is factual
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:49 PM
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Homie the incel tears crowd you belong to is filled with the biggest subhumans anywhere. It’s hilarious that you think banging fat chicks makes you a Chad. It makes you a dumpster diver.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:33 PM
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No you aren’t
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:30 PM
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I’m going to guess 5’7 or 5’8” and you won’t say it because you know it means you aren’t attractive to women
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:28 PM
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I’m guessing it’s a height between 5’5 and 5’8” and you’re embarrassed about it
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:21 PM
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How tall are you really?
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:06 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:04 PM
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There's sex that's worth something and sex that isn't. Dumpster diving fat chicks and middle aged women when you're in your 20s isn't worth anything. I'm not an incel. I'm a 6'2" blonde guy with green eyes who has a wife and kid, and was in a fraternity and fucked in my prime. So an actual Chad. Not a guy who thinks he's a Chad because he bangs landwhales after shaving his head.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:54 PM
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Are the women attractive? Fat chicks don't count.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:49 PM
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So you're not a Chad. Another big tell would be women approaching you and asking you out instead of the other way around. Chads get approached.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:46 PM
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Did you get laid in your teens and early 20s?
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:44 PM
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If the answer to the previous question is no, you aren't a Chad. Chads are genetically superior males who get sex and relationships easily in their prime. You're probably just some betabuxxer that golddigger women hang around for money. That's not the same thing as being sexually attractive. You're just buying women.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:42 PM
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Were you getting laid regularly with non-overweight at least facially average white girls your own age in your teens and 20s? If no, then you aren't a Chad.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:36 PM
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Are you arguing that home ownership, parenthood, and marriage are completely out of reach, or that people will get them but have a lot problems and be miserable. Not disputing what you’re saying but it’s a bit unclear.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 06:52 PM
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A guy who is a Chad at 20 will probably still be a Chad at 40. And by 40 he might also have some money and status. So you have a guy who is not only good-looking and sexually attractive, but also a good provider. Men in general don't age like wine. Chad ages like wine. If you're getting nothing at 20, things aren't going to get better for you. An incel/nearcel at 20 is still an incel/nearcel at 40. And most men age like shit. Baldness is a huge attractiveness killer in men and there's a good cha…
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 04:45 PM
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If you’re good looking then neurodivergent girls might be an option. They might understand you better than NT girls.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 04:21 PM
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It’s the autism. The vast majority of autistic men never have any success with romance. It’s actually something that has been well studied. Have you tried dating non-NT girls?
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 04:10 PM
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Girls would have approached you, had their friends approach you, or would have just told you they were into you. When women are attracted everything is easy and obvious. Attractive guys can be shy/introverted and it doesn’t stop them from getting sex and relationships. Are you any combination of short (under 5’9”), balding, ugly, ethnic (especially Indian or East Asian), or non-neurotypical (autism, ADHD, mentally ill, etc). Those are the usual culprits when it comes to unattractiveness in men. …
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 03:16 PM
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You have to be tall and have a large frame to pull it off. But if you are tall with a large frame you will be attractive to some women regardless.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 02:40 PM
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Betabuxxing. You becoming a financial provider for a woman in exchange for sex and a relationship once you have a good job. If you went all the way through high school and college surrounded by girls your own age and got nothing despite trying that means you aren't attractive enough to get it without some kind of transaction taking place. At least with escorts it's a straightforward transaction where you just pay and get sex. There's no bullshit involved like with a betabuxx relationship where s…
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 02:02 PM
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Go get an escort if that’s what you want. If you reached your mid 20s and got nothing that means you’ll aways be paying for it one way or another. If it was going to happen on its own without some kind of transaction taking place it would have happened for you in high school or college/university.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 12:13 PM
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It’s a bunch of incels in denial who think that if they can just stop fapping that will be the key to finally getting a girlfriend. Zero understanding of your looks and being NT being the main determining factors in whether or not you get to have a romantic life.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 12:00 PM
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I think it’s the male equivalent of a woman having large natural breasts. They have to have something really wrong otherwise to be unattractive. I suspect most of the 6’ or over incels are just mentalcels with something like autism, ADHD, or mental illness making them act weird in social situations. Even then they probably have girls who are into them but are just too mentally and socially messed up to seal the deal.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 07:49 PM
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Blackpill aware men tend to be either really unattractive or really attractive. It’s the average guys who have been sold on goofy ideas like game, personality, and self-improvement attracting women. Chads are born, not made.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 11:53 PM
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Because it’s fun
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 10:36 PM
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Tall (5’9”) pretty white sorority girl turned pharmacist/hospital administrator I’ve never dated Asian. Wouldn’t want anything to do with an influencer.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 10:24 PM
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Men love women. You just have a bad attitude because you can’t get a Chad, and you hate the guys you can date.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 10:15 PM
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You bring this on yourself. You come here knowing you will get a negative reaction.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 10:05 PM
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You’re right. Some are better looking than she is.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:32 PM
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That’s what all of her posts are about. She revealed elsewhere that she looks like Lizzo (morbidly obese black singer who is a sub 5). She hates the dudes on her level and is bitter Chad and Tyrone don’t even want one night stands with her. She should hire a Chad gigolo to break her off so she stops being so angry.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:28 PM
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She’s less attractive than my wife or anyone I’ve ever dated. Looks like she puts on a ton of makeup too. Definitely not a natural beauty.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:18 PM
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Ah yes who can forget your fan favorite routine of busting out legal style exhibits like you are prosecuting someone in a court. This is totally not cray cray behavior. It’s fun to get you wound up because you have no sense of humor and take yourself so seriously. And you go off in a spectacular fashion. I’m sure you are an absolute delight in a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:14 PM
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You’re fun to pick on because you have such a chip on your shoulder. You probably have BPD.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:11 PM
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AnyIntroduction says in her post history that one of her boyfriends said she looks like Lizzo and laughed about it. She’s your typical bitter femcel who can date, but not with the Chad type guys she really wants. So she spends her spare time shitting on unattractive men who remind her of her exes.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:07 PM
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She’s mediocre looking. Probably like a 5. The dudes rating her are on her level more or less.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 08:00 PM
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6’2” Son just turned 6 but is as tall as an average 8 year old according to growth charts. He has already had 3 gfs that I know about and he’s only in first grade. He has blonde hair like I do.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 06:03 PM
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I got called a Chad once. But it was in a discussion about internet memes.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 05:52 PM
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I mean I could probably get away with saying some of this stuff, and people would probably just think I'm joking. But I'm a tall conventionally good looking guy with blonde hair who people tend to like. If inkwells or even just average guys express these views they will be labeled evil misogynists, killers, rapists, and terrorists.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 05:19 PM
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You think a guy would commit social suicide and express blackpill views with real people in real life? None of us talk like this out in the world. This is an anonymous board where we can pretty safely express our real views.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 05:11 PM
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An average thin white girl can easily become a mini-celebrity on social media. These are girls who an average guy could have easily dated in the not too distant past. Now they're Chad only. The status goes to their heads. And they can easily be on Chad's roster with the help of online dating. They also have a bunch of simps to help them out if they need anything. You'd have to be braindead to think this kind of thing happening isn't going to mess up the dating market for a lot of guys. A perfect…
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 04:52 PM
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I don't care about your rambling post.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 04:10 PM
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The data itself tells the real story. It also tells us that Chad harems are becoming a serious problem for single men. There's no other explanation for the discrepancy between single young men and single young women. Young women would rather be on Chad's rotation than date an average guy. I don't care about the bluepilled soycuck author trying to explain it all away. Of course they're going to bullshit about it. The data is extremely alarming.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 03:57 PM
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63% of young men are single according to Pew Research. And the real number is certainly higher because a lot of guys will lie about their lack of dating success out of embarrassment. The blackpill does a good job of explaining female nature and what actually attracts women. It is well supported by research. It’s spreading because it explains the predicament that around 2/3s of young men are currently facing. I’ve actually seen a bunch of subreddits with rules against discussing blackpill. You ri…
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 03:27 PM
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Well yeah people are sensitive and often can't handle the brutally honest truth.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 03:54 AM
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You think I say blackpilled stuff in real life to real people because of what I say on an anonymous message board? lol
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 03:50 AM
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???? I'm not a narcissist but we literally just had a president with NPD who has a cult following. What are you on about? People often love narcissists, especially if they are also superficially charming.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 03:37 AM
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The bullying doesn't work on me like it does with the incels/nearcels you usually pick on because I'm tall, good-looking, and popular in real life. Psychopathic? No I have empathy. But I'm also pretty good at reading people. Most of them aren't hard to figure out.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 03:19 AM
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Bullying me isn't going to work the way it did with your ex partners.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 03:11 AM
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BPDs lie effortlessly. I've learned from experience to take their version of events with a huge grain of salt. It's also quite common for them to be abusive and then project that onto their partner. I live in reality where extremely short, fat guys are unattractive and generally romantically and socially invisible to women. I knew some guys who were as short (or even shorter at 5'4") as your ex. They got no action in college and are still single to this day.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 03:03 AM
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He was 5'6" and fat. You also said he had a bad personality (but that could be the BPD in you projecting your own traits on to him). I think it's fair to call him unattractive.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 02:06 AM
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I can see right through you because your disorder is actually quite predictable, so to you I must be a sociopath. lol
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 02:02 AM
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Yes. I've worked in mental health. I've dealt with BPD patients. BPD women are monstrous and very dangerous for less attractive men. They latch on to less attractive guys because they fear abandonment and know unattractive men are less likely to leave because they have few or no options. However you justify it to yourself, it really is best for everyone involved that you never be in a romantic relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 01:57 AM
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I'm sure you've bullied whatever unattractive men you've been in relationships with. It goes with the territory of having BPD. You probably also deliberately specifically sought out unattractive men because you knew they would stay and put up with the abuse and be less likely to leave because they have few or no romantic options (and BPDs have an intense fear of abandonment at the core of their disorder). Edit: no surprises that your ex was 5'6". Basically a no value guy (at least from a female …
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 01:49 AM
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There is DBT for BPD. But it really is best for people with BPD (and those they would harm) to never be in romantic relationships. The propensity for manipulation and abuse is much too high, and BPD is mostly something that manifests in the context of relationships. I never said I hate my wife. Being realistic about female (and human) nature isn't hate.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 01:44 AM
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You're on here bullying unattractive men anonymously because you wouldn't be able to get away with it to anywhere near this extent in the real world.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 01:34 AM
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You have borderline personality disorder and use they/them pronouns. Lol at thinking you have any clue what's normal. With the BPD I would imagine you are an absolute delight in a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 01:33 AM
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I do actually. I've kept some of them as friends in the past. Just because someone isn't my type physically or anyone I would want anything with romantically doesn't mean they aren't human. Dehumanizing ugly people is mostly a female thing.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 01:10 AM
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She now has a tall blonde son who is very popular with girls and women. Seems like she got what she wanted. Also kinda confirms the Sexy Son Hypothesis.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 12:31 AM
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What makes you think sorority girls are drastically different from other women? They're just the popular, physically attractive girls who aren't committing social suicide by expressing their true feelings and preferences amongst themselves and the guys they keep in confidence. Unattractive girls can't afford to be openly shallow. They don't have the social currency for it, and often have to rely on unattractive men for things.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 12:29 AM
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I know how triggering it is for you folks when they get Sonichu's arms wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:05 PM
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What argument does you having an autistic meltdown demolish exactly? You've basically just shown that you don't know the difference between loudly arguing and screaming blindly at someone during a tantrum.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:03 PM
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Did she draw Sonichu's arms wrong? Why were you screaming at her?
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:01 PM
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Being an autist and screaming at people during a meltdown because you're socially retarded isn't what I'm talking about.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:57 PM
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You described an autistic meltdown/tantrum. I'm not really sure what that has to do with having a romantic/sexual relationship with a woman.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:48 PM
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Report back to me after you get a girlfriend and you have your first heated verbal argument. Also don't be surprised when your "women are wonderful" worldview gets shattered when she starts it because she's in a bitchy mood about something.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:41 PM
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It's interesting that you think that's how relationships work. Let's still see if you think they work that way after you actually have one. Just another example of you idealizing women.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:37 PM
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Yes they're normal. It's more likely to lead to violence if you're not having arguments and you let anger build up. I think you're so autistic that you don't understand what she's saying because human relationships are alien to you. Also you have zero relationship experience to draw on.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:33 PM
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Got herself arrested while trying to evict squatters from her mother's house while she was hospitalized for cancer and dementia. I told her not to go and that she should have had the sheriff handle it.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:27 PM
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Yes. The psychologist who wrote the article I just linked to for a start.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:24 PM
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Having a heated argument is not the same thing as domestic violence. It's normal to be angry at your partner. Suppressing it and then having it explode is what's dangerous.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:22 PM
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Wrong. And I'm saying this as someone who has studied psychology and rotated through psychiatry. Anger is a normal emotion. Verbal fights are normal in relationships. It's actually worse if they aren't happening. People are suppressing emotions and not communicating if that's the case. Couples are supposed to have fights. That's often how they grow, define boundaries in the relationship, reach agreements, get heard. And no it doesn't often lead to violence. Where did you get that idea? Have you …
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:16 PM
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Couples get angry at each other all the time without violence.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:12 PM
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You've never felt instant sexual attraction for someone who was really good-looking? Are you autistic or something? Because your whole take on human relationships is just strange. Like thinking people in relationships aren't allowed to be angry with their partners. Have you ever been in a romantic relationship?
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:04 PM
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People have crushes on attractive people. It's only perceived as creepy when it's an ugly guy crushing.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 07:56 PM
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It's creepy when the guy in that situation is ugly. It's romantic when it's Chad.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 07:51 PM
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I enjoy watching documentaries on serial and mass killers. Even the blonde girl he idolized had no clue who he was.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 07:41 PM
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You just said they "picked up" on his cowardliness and hatred of women. No women interacted with him enough to know any of that. They would have to be mind readers.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 07:31 PM
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See above. Thinking women don't judge men based on looks and social competence. Thinking women can read mens' minds and "just know" they're misogynists. Thinking women have a "sixth sense" about a guy becoming a mass shooter.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 07:29 PM
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Have you actually dated and fucked any women? Gossiped with them? You seem to ascribe angelic and magical properties to them that you would realize pretty quickly they don't have if you had more experience.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 07:25 PM
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The last season of Sex Education was the most recent one
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 07:09 PM
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And I'm sure they picked up on him being autistic because autistic people behave strangely in social situations. Women can't read minds or see into the future like you seem to believe.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 07:03 PM
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You're engaging in magical thinking. Women can't read minds. Women can't see into the future. I have a wife. I've never struggled with women. But I'm conventionally good looking - 6'2", blonde, green eyes. Once you realize it's mostly about looks and charm, it all makes sense and you don't have to come up with increasingly bizarre explanations.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 06:52 PM
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He hadn't killed anybody yet when they were ignoring him. All they had to go on was him being ugly, short, of ambiguous ethnicity, and behaving strangely (due to autism and mental illness). No women got to know him well enough to even know he hated women, and women don't have mental telepathy. Ted Bundy hated women and enjoyed murdering them. And yet women loved Ted Bundy. He was dating multiple women when he carried out his crimes. Women wrote him love letters in prison. Ted Bundy was a convent…
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 06:42 PM
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Women didn't date him because he was ugly and weird (non-NT). Lots of women love handsome criminals like Jeremy Meeks. ER wasn't handsome.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 06:35 PM
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No women dated him or even paid attention to him in real life. Clearly he wasn't attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 06:27 PM
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ER was a short, androgynous looking, half-Asian kid. He wasn't good-looking at all. He also had autism. He obviously shouldn't have done what he did, but let's not pretend he ever would have been attractive to women. He had the one two punch of subpar looks and being non-NT.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 06:18 PM
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It's literally a man in a dress though. It's not bigoted. It's just pointing out reality. If you want to dress like a woman, whatever. But not everyone is going to play make-believe with you.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 06:01 PM
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Trannies are always obvious and ridiculous looking. Heck my wife makes fun of them more than I do. She'll whisper and be like "that's a man in a dress" while snickering. We live in Florida by the way.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 05:51 PM
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I'm convinced the incels and nearcels in denial posting over on places like Inceltears, nothowgirlswork, niceguys incelexit, etc and so on have far less real world experience with women than blackpillers, which is why they idealize women so much.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 05:37 PM
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Hanging around my wife's sorority sisters and hearing the stuff they would say about ugly, short, balding, and weird/socially awkward guys back when I was in college blackpilled me harder than anything on the internet. Women will gossip around their gay male friends and Chad friends much the same way they gossip with other women. My own wife has told me she thinks short guys are gross, and that she only ever wanted kids with a tall blonde guy (I am a tall blonde guy and we have a kid). She has s…
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 05:33 PM
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The amount of trans shit being shoved down our throats on netflix shows is especially weird. I can count on one hand the number of trans people I've encountered in my 40 years on this planet. But you would swear every other person is trans based on these shows. Also what was with that Game of Thrones show with the black people with the white mops on their heads? It was completely distracting and stupid.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 05:28 PM
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Young women in 2023 would rather share a Chad, flip over to lesbian relationships, or stay single than date an average guy. They get nothing sexually or socially out of dating an average man. Average men are not sexually attractive to women, and dating one makes them look stupid to their friends.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 01:16 AM
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I hung around my wife's sorority sisters back in the day. They absolutely LOVE ripping on guys they think are ugly. Short and balding guys especially. They also compared dick sizes of the guys they've fucked. If you're small you will be getting ripped on behind your back. Lol at the "compassionate gender" nonsense. Women are merciless bullies both to unattractive men and especially to other women they see as competition or low status. The difference is the bullying is psychological and backstabb…
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 04:30 PM
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My wife sent her friend to approach me and ask me out for her. She's shy and was afraid I would say no. Her friend was a lot more outgoing. Same thing though basically. Even though she's shy, we fucked all night long on the first date. If a woman is into you it will be obvious and things will move forward easily. You shouldn't be having to force anything. You probably aren't missing signs of attraction. You will know if she's attracted. The girl I dated before her when I was in high school was v…
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 04:15 PM
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Just came from a town Halloween bounce house event in the park for kids and their parents that I took my wife and son to. Took a hard look around at the dads. They were all tall and conventionally good-looking, and most of them were white. I'm 6'2" and was on the shorter end of the guys there. A lot of them were around 6'3" to 6'6". I didn't see a single dad under 5'10". These weren't necessarily guys with amazing jobs. Some are doctors and lawyers and so on, but a lot of them are just blue coll…
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 01:18 AM
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Yeah I saw a lot of this in high school and college. Dudes who were usually some combination of short, ugly, ethnic, and socially awkward telling elaborate and obviously fake conquest stories about sleeping with lots of girls. In reality these guys were romantically invisible to girls and were virgins. One of my college friends was like this. He was an ugly, nerdy Jewish dude who looked and sounded EXACTLY like Kyle’s Jewish stereotype cousin on South Park. I would talk to the girls he claimed t…
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 04:49 PM
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63% of young men are single according to Pew Research (an extremely mainstream survey group known for its election polls)
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 06:50 AM
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Yep. Many women would rather stay single or flip over to lesbian relationships (women are all bisexual to some degree) for long term companionship if marriage and kids with Chad isn’t going to be an option. Average and below average guys just don’t do anything for them socially or sexually. Women have plentiful and deep friendships and can get hookups easily. They don’t experience the kind of severe loneliness that men do when single. Any loneliness women experience is by choice. The idea that t…
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 05:27 PM
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I’ve seen it before. The dudes are all subpar looking and probably neurodivergent.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 06:04 PM
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Getting extremely into the gym is often a cope for guys who don’t have the genetics (height, face, hair, jawline, etc) to attract women. And you’re right about how they often go way too far with it and end up looking like bulging, roided-out mutants. It makes them even less attractive to women, who prefer lean natural physiques. Anecdotally all of the extreme gym rat dudes I’ve known were physically unattractive incel/nearcel types who were unsuccessful with women. There’s an element of self-hat…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 03:39 PM
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Baldness is one of the biggest attractiveness killers in men. Most guys just don't have the face, skull shape, height, and frame to pull off looking decent bald. The options for balding men are all bad. Growing it out looks bad. Hair plugs look bad. Drugs can have horrible side effects. Toupees look bad. Shaving it off almost always looks bad, and will make you look like a cancer patient or like you just joined the army in most cases. Bald celebrities like The Rock or Jason Statham aren't releva…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 12:43 AM
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Mocking or attacking me doesn't change how women work. I mean I could have my wife hop on here and tell you how she thinks short guys are gross. I had kind of figured out all of this stuff on my own from just observing women.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 10:22 PM
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I jumped on here because I find this stuff amusing. The Inceltears/incelexit crowd are hilariously delusional about women and relationships, way more than any incels. You're completely clueless about how female attraction works, most likely because you've never experienced it.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 10:08 PM
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I'm a 6'2" blonde guy with green eyes who has been with the same woman for 20 years and has a kid. Everything incels/blackpillers say about female attraction is 100% correct. I have no insecurity because I have nothing to feel insecure about. Women have always found me attractive. When she inevitably dumps you because she was never attracted to you, we can talk about it.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 09:48 PM
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Define long term. Does she want marriage and kids with you? Are you having regular sex? Is she sexually attracted to you? Is there a huge income disparity? Plenty of guys who failed in their teens and 20s can get horrible oofy doofy betabuxx deadbedroom transactional relationships once they have a high enough income. But that doesn't disprove the blackpill. It just means some used up woman settled for you. If you weren't dating and fucking in your prime years in your late teens and early 20s, th…
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 09:23 PM
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Are you romantically successful? In a long term relationship? Married? Do you have children? You strike me as an incel or nearcel living in denial who desperately doesn't want the blackpill to be true.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 08:52 PM
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I was a very casual gym goer. I went mostly to hang out with some friends and guys from my fraternity. I never got deep into it, never took steroids, never had huge muscles. I would describe myself at that point as a tall, lean pretty boy with nice blonde hair and green eyes. My wife was raised Catholic and didn't believe in premarital sex. But lost her virginity and had unprotected sex with me all night long on the first date. She had to get Plan B the next morning. Her religious upbringing and…
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 07:37 PM
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How you perform in real life with real women is your real rating.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:44 PM
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In some cases yes. I knew a few who were tall and fit. Didn't change things for them. Girls just didn't want to date them.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:42 PM
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I live in the US. The Indian and Muslim guys I knew in college and grad school were all incels who couldn't get a date if their lives depended on it. And that was 15-20 years ago before dating apps took off.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:32 PM
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Dadbod white guys will probably have a much easier time dating than he will, especially if they're tall. His ethnicity knocks him down that much. Most western women won't date guys who look Indian or Muslim.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:27 PM
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He might be a 7/10 in India or the Middle East. In the West he looks way too ethnic for most women and he's a statusmaxxed and gymmaxxed 5-6/10. That chubby white girl is probably as good as it's ever going to get for him.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:22 PM
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You know by how women respond to you. Attractive guys can effortlessly ask out women and pretty much always get a yes. Women often approach attractive guys. They smile at them, laugh at their jokes, get that lovey "Chadstruck" look around them. Average guys face a lot of rejection, but might occasionally get a grudging yes. Incels might get laughed at or get looks of disgust. For the most part though, incels and normies are invisible to women. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference, …
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 12:33 PM
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I’ve reproduced and been with the same woman for 20 years.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 11:15 PM
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It’s how it works when you are the oofy doofy throwaway boyfriend who gets tossed aside for Chad. If she was really attracted to you she would have wanted marriage and ultimately kids. Reproduction is the end goal and the ultimate measure of success.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 11:12 PM
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That’s how things happen when you aren’t attractive enough for them to commit.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 11:06 PM
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She still lost attraction and broke up with you, so it’s not a success.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 11:04 PM
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So you’ve never had any long term success, but you think you know something.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 11:01 PM
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Why wouldn’t any of them commit? Are you conventionally good looking?
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 10:56 PM
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Elaborate. Long term relationships? Married? Kids? What do you define as success?
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 10:43 PM
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Are you successful with women?
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 10:40 PM
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I'm romantically successful by incel metrics. My wife and I started fucking and dating at 19. She was low mileage. Only one previous partner, and they never had PIV sex. My wife is attractive. We fucked on the first date. We've been together for 20 years and have a son. I had nothing going for me at that point besides looks. I'm 6'2", blonde, and have light eyes. I didn't have a job or money at that point. I also have absolutely no game. I think the Blackpill is more obvious to very unattractive…
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 10:35 PM
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I’m convinced women are biologically hard-wired to weed out non-NT men the same way they are hard-wired to weed out physically unattractive men. It makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. Would you really want guys with mental problems reproducing?
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 07:40 PM
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Yeah any of those could cause serious social problems. How do things go when you try to make friends or talk to girls?
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 07:05 PM
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Do you recall what they diagnosed you with?
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 06:54 PM
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Do you have autism spectrum disorder or ADHD? Any mental illness? Being neurodivergent or mentally ill can be as big of a dating death sentence as being short or ugly. It's a big turn off for girls when a guy is weird or inappropriate in social situations. It's very common for autistic men to struggle with dating, friendships, and employment.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 06:39 PM
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If you get nothing in your prime in your late teens and early 20s, things are unlikely to improve as you get older. Best case scenario is that you can get a transactional/betabuxx relationship with some used up woman. But why would you want that?
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 07:49 PM
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