SaltdPepper Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum His next line is “hmmm should I end a relationship just because he doesn’t support hating all white people?” If this is what he believes liberal women are refusing to compromise on politics wise I think that’s reason enough to disregard the rest of the post. Dude’s head is in orbit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 08:08 AM
3	"Personality" and "social skills" are just attempts to moralizing dating and make lonely men feel bad I’ve read your other comments on this thread, and while you make well-reasoned points in those, I’m gonna have to argue against this one. Healthy women try to avoid abusers, but even they aren’t equipped properly to steer clear of them entirely. Abusive men, especially when we aren’t strictly speaking physically abusive, are everywhere, and can absolutely hide their violent or insensitive behaviors until whoever they’re with is in a vulnerable enough position for them to unleash said behaviors…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 07:48 AM
2	Is an average woman dating an average man considered "settling?" That seems like quite the jump to conclusions. Just because they’re questioning an inability to understand romantic love without an accompanying sexual element says nothing about them not being able to view romance on its own. Most people who engage in romance also engage in sex as a form of romantic intimacy. Romance by itself is increasingly rare in this day and age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 12:10 AM
1	The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the Selectors They “came” to you? That seems like something you should report to HR	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 05:58 PM
–	There is no real masculinity or femininity and societies really need to move on Not the end of history, but certainly the end of this iteration of society. It is eating itself from the inside out. Either compounding social factors or external environmental factors (or a combination of both, à la man-made climate change) will result in its collapse and subsequent recovery. Hopefully next time we can get past these stupid problems we’ve imposed on ourselves arbitrarily to cement the power of those benefitted by hierarchy. Generally, society needs to put on its adult shoes and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/26 10:21 PM
5	You're a slim, shorter (5'5 and under) 20-something Girl. What Are Your "Asks?" Are you still in middle school? This is a childish response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/26 01:23 AM
2	You're a slim, shorter (5'5 and under) 20-something Girl. What Are Your "Asks?" Libertarian socialism advocates for freedom of workers via collective ownership of their workplaces as well as the gradual de-commodification of basic physiological needs. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libertarian_socialism	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/26 12:30 AM
1	You're a slim, shorter (5'5 and under) 20-something Girl. What Are Your "Asks?" I have the same question as the last guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 04:18 AM
1	Would women’s dating problems change if they had fewer suitors? Not new here. I’m actually used to you and other women here getting rather annoyed at dudes whining about shit and being judgy over the preferences of other people, which I totally understand. Not sure then why you’d see that and want to emulate it, and then die on that hill. Really makes you no better than the dudes who complain about how women only go for “chad” because they think they’re too lazy to expand their options or something. Not wanting to date multiple people at a time is not a refl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 12:10 AM
2	Would women’s dating problems change if they had fewer suitors? I don’t see your argument here. “People are lazy for not dating multiple people at a time because I think they are”? Like, everyone’s judgmental, but not everyone goes onto a debate subreddit and defends their judgments based on nothing but their own feelings. I feel like you gotta come up with more than that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 09:38 PM
2	Would women’s dating problems change if they had fewer suitors? Not wanting to date multiple people at once sounds like laziness? That seems awfully judgemental Some people just don’t have the social energy to be putting on their best selves for multiple people at a time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 07:50 PM
4	Which relationships have you preferred throughout your life: the men you developed feelings for via them being “popular”, or those who hanged out alone with you for sufficient time? Recently an overwhelming majority of posts on this subreddit contain a ridiculous amount of spelling mistakes and can barely keep their point straight in the bodies of their own posts. There also seems to be a major incel movement developing in India and other Southeast Asian countries. I wonder if the two are correlated at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 08:41 AM
5	Would women’s dating problems change if they had fewer suitors? Idk I feel like that’s a normal preference for people to have. Most people I know don’t want to feel like they’re constantly competing with others, especially for romance. That’s Disney Channel romcom nonsense. Maybe talking to multiple people at once? But once you start going on dates I feel like it’s healthier for everyone if you focus on one person at a time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 08:36 AM
2	Would women’s dating problems change if they had fewer suitors? You didn’t ask any😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 08:32 AM
-4	CMV: less marriages would be sexless if men made more of an effort Maybe you just need to trip balls so bad you deprioritize all this bullshit and do something that’s actually spiritually satisfying	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/26 06:31 AM
1	Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism" Eh, I’ve known a handful of people who fit that bill and I can’t say he’s far off. Although I agree some evidence of it would be nice lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 01:29 AM
2	Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism" I’d suggest looking up the concept of the Overton Window. The US’ window has shifted far to the right, which is why everyone is referring to the Dems as center right. And this is speaking to the DNC and mainstream Democratic politics, not to individual Dems like AOC or others who align themselves with the Dems for an ounce of political power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 01:25 AM
1	Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism" “As long as the characteristics affected by his class don’t match his class and instead my own preferences, we can date” Classism “As long as his character doesn’t match his upbringing in an African-American household and instead my own preferences, we can date” Racism Spot the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 12:58 AM
2	Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism" Hasan is a champagne socialist nepo-baby who shocks his dog like a stream prop. I’m as leftist as they come, but the dude comes off as a total sleaze and yet he’s maintained millions of followers because he’s handsome. This is the kind of thing OP is talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 12:44 AM
–	Chasing women is actually a waste of time. Well maybe you shouldn’t have posted on the open debate forum then	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 07:06 PM
–	Chasing women is actually a waste of time. Are you talking to yourself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 07:03 PM
–	Chasing women is actually a waste of time. God, nothing like the heinous crime of recording your voice instead of using text. Believe it or not, straight to jail! /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 07:01 PM
–	Chasing women is actually a waste of time. Are you a bot? You’re responding to a different person lmaoooo	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:59 PM
–	Chasing women is actually a waste of time. Try reading their comment again instead of jumping to ridiculous conclusions	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:58 PM
–	Chasing women is actually a waste of time. Thank you for this brilliant misinterpretation of their point. Truly a profound addition to the conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:56 PM
–	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. I wouldn’t ascribe that behavior to all feminists. TERFs and other “Radfem” types like JKR are the ones that started the Imane Khelif hate campaign.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 12:44 AM
–	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. Gender non-conforming	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 12:43 AM
3	Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generations This. Huge pushes by conservative media to repopularize “traditional” relationships as well as a general lowering of trust among people has caused the pendulum to unnaturally swing back towards sex negativity. It’s funny though, because GenZ is still fairly social and, on the surface, seems just as sex positive as millennials, but overall social battery/attention span is much lower and most sex positivity is black and white (groups having a lot of sex and groups having literally none).	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 04:20 AM
3	"Really good people don't demand a reward!" is bullshit logic. I mean, think of it simply in terms of outcomes. If you have two men, one generally “good” and one generally “bad”, you will have one good outcome and one bad outcome. Sitting there and hoping the bad one comes around because he sees the good one “doing good things out of the bottom of his heart” is counterproductive. You will never get a bad person to change by simply surrounding them with good, you need to make doing good result in some sort of benefit which outweighs whatever bad thing they m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 02:07 AM
3	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. Just because you claim it’s dishonest doesn’t make it dishonest. I quite literally took out “women” and “something” and replaced it with “racists” and “giving minorities equal rights”. Please go ahead and point out the dishonesty?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/26 03:13 AM
3	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. This is essentially what a conservative would’ve said during the civil rights era in defense of segregation. Not saying you are a racist yourself, that would be ludicrous, but your argument can be rearranged like: “Claiming that racists are cowards for not allowing minorities to have equal rights because it isn’t socially normal or expected is stupid lol” Do you seriously want society to act like this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/26 03:08 AM
4	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. Lmao yep, their argument could be applied to basically any social norms that have changed over the last couple decades. It’s literally why conservatism is so deeply ingrained in our society, because so many people are plenty happy just coasting by with what the system gives them. It’s like men saying “Why would we be cowards for not wanting to give women the right to vote, it’s not socially normal for that to be the case?”. Like obviously that’s a terrible argument. Women can vote now and look a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/26 03:04 AM
1	"Social skills" are defined too vaguely to be a useful concept Noooo, attaching all their self worth to arbitrary societal expectations is muchhh more worthwhile	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 02:40 AM
–	How often do you have to communicate what you want during sex? Sounds like you’re just arguing to argue because that’s literally what they said	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 02:21 AM
2	If the majority of people you know are dysfunctional, that's your fault. Well aside from the fact that my comment was a joke, I’ve literally never seen or heard of anyone being into Anne of Green Gables enough to call it a “fandom” lol Like, I get the Wizard of Oz and Wicked, or Hamilton, or just musicals in general, a bunch of my friends are into those Or being into reading, but Anne of Green Gables? That’s like me saying women haven’t yet figured out about the Clifford the Big Red Dog fandom and that’s why nerdy women don’t find any good guys	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 07:29 PM
1	If the majority of people you know are dysfunctional, that's your fault. Oh I’m well aware that most women on this sub are only here to rage bait and that actual moderation is basically nonexistent. But to say that somehow means no woman genuinely likes nerd shit or gaming is silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 07:25 PM
0	If the majority of people you know are dysfunctional, that's your fault. Can I ask: Do you live on Earth?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 07:20 PM
1	If the majority of people you know are dysfunctional, that's your fault. TIL women subscribe to the “Anne of Green Gables” fandom	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 07:14 PM
1	If the majority of people you know are dysfunctional, that's your fault. TIL women subscribe to the “Anne of Green Gables” fandom	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 07:14 PM
13	The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapy If literally all you care about in life is getting laid right up until your looks fade I have a feeling, based on my experience, that there are more people that share this sentiment than we really want to admit, at least in younger demographics. Lots of people that are attractive seem to just go through the motions and are on a collision course for massive mid life crises when they eventually realize living life vicariously through their social media presence ends up not being fulfilling despite…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 08:48 PM
3	Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wing Why are we talking about blue states and blue areas vs. red states and red areas? I think he was pretty clear he was primarily talking about rural areas (which red states happen to contain more of). It, quite literally, is a statistic. Just saying it isn’t is asinine: https://www.ers.usda.gov/amber-waves/2025/august/us-obesity-rate-changes-differ-for-rural-and-urban-areas-as-well-as-across-regions	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 02:25 AM
7	When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously. Have you seen the Hulk before? The point is roided-out monsters like that are one in a million, and that the less successful but still noticeable examples of steroid use have become the standard for too many. It’s honestly a massive issue. Plenty of my friends have begun glorifying steroid use because plenty of fitness influencers have started going “open” about their own use. Young men should not be pushed into PED usage to get to some warped perception of “shredded” or “big” just as women shou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 01:58 AM
4	Men who dont get dates and relationships biggest problem with women And why exactly is this a thought that crossed your mind? Driving a guy to suicide? I don’t get either of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:48 AM
–	CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for less Y’all are funny	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 04:11 AM
3	CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for less Is trolling your one and only pasttime?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 09:34 PM
2	Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach? It’s absolutely a relic of sex-negative culture that pushes women into being ambiguous about their interest in men. Public sentiment towards expressing sexuality has changed over time, but prevailing behavior and communication patterns continue to be disconnected from said sentiment. This is why there’s so many contradictions when this topic is discussed. People’s opinions simply don’t match their actions, because their environments (or their egos, let’s be real) don’t allow for it. Like, I’m ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 04:42 AM
1	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands I saw the /s So I’m not sure what you mean by the rest of your comment? I’m agreeing with you by mocking OP’s logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 02:37 AM
3	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands But how is one supposed to know that the guy who clearly doesn’t floss also doesn’t want to take out the trash or clean the bathroom? /s It’s sad it’s gotten to the point that people like GoldSaifin respond so passive-aggressively when someone suggests the unbelievable notion of not dating men who live like farm animals outside of the bar, club, or the 5 photos they’ve uploaded to Hinge lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 02:25 AM
3	Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them? Plenty of dudes will get scratched, kicked, punched, bitten, or have their hair ripped out during sex. I’ve heard it from all of my friends (and have experienced it personally in a more limited capacity), but they just put up with it because they feel like it would “ruin the mood” to bring it up or that they’ve “gotten that far” so they should just ignore it. Lots of people are just total dipshits for better or for worse, and we as a society are wayyyy too easy on stupidity and really bad at rec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 01:31 AM
–	Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them? This account was created a day ago and only posts rage bait in incel subreddits. GTFO	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 12:37 AM
0	Women's repulsion of weakness, while more subtle, is as "shitty" as men's objectifying tendencies. God, could we yell this a little louder for the people in the back?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 03:36 AM
9	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 This sub is slowly dying but I still believe that bad faith commenters need to get banned. It’s mind numbing to read through the replies of 1% commenters who seem to just exist here to stick their fingers in their ears and ragebait endlessly. Like, the sub is called “purple pill debate” not “purple pill pissing contest” so can we keep it to debate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 06:26 AM
1	Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there 0/10 bait	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 06:21 AM
11	Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there Don’t you get it? You’re being manipulative. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 06:21 AM
6	Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there Fed has been sounding the alarm for a while. They decided to drop rates twice to appease Trump but it’s clear Powell knows what’s happening, watch his recent talk after the last rate cut where he talks about the “two-tiered economy” being propped up by the AI bubble. Once that bubble pops? I’ve said this on this sub before, but dating will be the least of everyone’s worries. Super stagflation inbound.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 06:19 AM
2	What do men mean when they say women's standards are too high As always, their gripes are less with feminism and more with the patriarchy clinging on desperately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 04:44 AM
2	The Minimum "arousal/attraction" threshold MUST be met before one can consider someone a viable dating option - regardless of compatibility. Holy appeal to nature batman!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 11:46 PM
3	Most women are too timid to find the right guy they'd actually love and respect I never said I did. And yet you implied pretty heavily that women are either looking for their “dream house” or they have the expand their options and include “houses with broken windows and no roofs”. I mean that’s such a clear false dichotomy you would’ve done well to clarify. So you are less social Uhh, no, that’s where you’re wrong and I think most young people are confused before they gain enough life experience to understand what “sociability” is. Sociability is not being the loudest or mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 01:06 AM
12	Most women are too timid to find the right guy they'd actually love and respect This is strange, do you really think the world is divided up into “social” and “unsociable”? Like the only two options are a highly confident and outgoing stud or a quiet, scared, awkward creep? I don’t know about you, but I live in the real world, and I and the rest of my friends have never had an issue socializing, going to music festivals, hitting up bars, etc, but we aren’t the highlight of the party or the loudest crowd in the room. For younger people, just being “social” is not enough. You…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 12:35 AM
–	It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partner This kinda stuff is so intriguing to me as someone who’s been getting into modern philosophy but I can’t help but feel like it’s falling on deaf ears in a subreddit like this. Nice compilation though, dropped a follow!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 04:42 AM
–	It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partner The more I read the replies to this post the more it looks like the thread of pure evil and hatred. Genuinely what is your problem with autistic people??	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 04:09 AM
–	It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partner Welcome to Earth bro, was it your first day two weeks ago? Lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 04:07 AM
0	Female double standards regarding insecurity Sometimes I need him to be there and manage crews of workers Dude, I hate it break it to you, but you might want to go looking for men on construction sites, because you aren’t going to find a guy who can “build or remodel your house along with leading crews of workers” on any old day in any old place lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 09:48 PM
2	We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka Polygyny “It looks like the Roman Empire is going to speed run how fast it can be conquered by the Germanic tribes.” “It looks like the European, African, and Asian peoples are going to speed run how fast they can get infected by the Bubonic Plague.” “It looks like the monarchs are going to speed run turning over their empires to the people in bloody revolutions.” Yep, most configurations of human civilization, no matter how powerful, will eventually fall, who would’ve thought? If the dollar continues to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 07:25 AM
2	We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka Polygyny Atheism and agnosticism baby! We don’t have to deal with these wild contradictions because we accept that the world is arbitrarily and wildly unfair, and then try to amend that as well as we can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 07:19 AM
3	Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing You look great bro!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 11:52 PM
4	Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing But clearly being a “cave troll” doesn’t bring them joy because they’re here complaining about how women won’t date them for their looks. You cannot have your cake and eat it too, sometimes life requires effort unfortunately, even if it is unfair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 11:50 PM
3	"Women make it obvious if they're into you" they don't lol c is next to v on the keyboard	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 11:01 PM
1	Men have it harder in dating than women do “Nobody wants to work anymore!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 09:30 PM
1	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? Right, agreed. Wayyy too many people give up before they’ve even had the chance to fail. Like, I can often tell who on this subreddit has actually been active in the dating scene vs. those who are basing their views of it entirely off what they’ve read online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 03:25 AM
1	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? I think the issue is that it’s more like 40% of men (above average), but people here like to take on this defeatist mindset that only the most elite and stupid attractive “chads” get women. Nah, I think it’s more so: 20% of men get a lot of women or end up with the apex of women, 20% are attractive enough to get pretty consistent hookups because the top 20 are quite rare to come across, 10-30% in the middle get into relationships here and there but don’t get hookups, and then the bottom 30% are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 01:33 AM
1	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. While I get where you’re coming from and don’t want to be overly pessimistic, the issue I’m seeing is that the same problems that are spawned on most short-form video platforms like TikTok, YT shorts, and Instagram Reels, would carry over in an implementation of the same thing to dating apps. Adding some sort of audition or interview feature would help alleviate some of the problems you get with the limited amount of personal info you can put on your profile. However, like I said, it’ll still ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 10:08 PM
2	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. Unfortunately I don’t think that would help. Anyone could easily put on a face or act the way they think will land them the most matches, even if uploading videos of yourself was the standard. You’d end up with the same problem just via a different route.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 08:20 PM
1	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) I deadass don’t know what you’re trying to say here, because those words were never in the same sentence, and their position seems pretty reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 07:25 PM
1	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity I don’t think you understand how intrinsic violence is to masculinity. Who were the hunters of old times? Who plays the most physical sports? Who runs the MMA, WWE, and other boxing organizations? What do boys do with their friends? What demographic accounts for 95% of domestic abuse cases? Hell, who, up until recent times, fought in wars? I’m sorry, but you can’t look at me with a straight face and say that you get upset when the APA rightfully labels violence as a masculine quality. It’s not l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/25 12:55 AM
1	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity What do you think traditional masculinity is then? Holding the door for your madam and bringing her roses on her birthday after coming back from war? There is a particular constellation of standards that have held sway over segments of the population, including: Anti-femininity, achievement, eschewal of the appearance of weakness, and adventure, risk, and violence. Oh so the “horrible awful disgusting APA guidelines” are… making an observation on toxic masculinity. Tell me, oh wise one, if those…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 12:52 AM
0	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity Lmao, you’re being so incredibly vague about this whole thing when ctrl-c ctrl-v exists dude. I already know the APA guidelines don’t say what you or the other commenter think it does. Stop getting your panties in a bunch over nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 12:37 AM
3	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity Cuz whatever that guy’s whining about doesn’t actually exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 07:47 PM
1	Reddit women are a minority the basic "normie" girl is pretty darn patriarchal Wow, out of a sample size of two.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 06:15 PM
2	A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting. I’m not miserable Exclusively posts on PPD and AskMen Sure dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 10:00 PM
1	Befriending women will not make a difference In what world do good people put down others? I hate that this shit is normalized to the point that someone who is “normally a nice person” can treat people they don’t even know with such malice that they might as well be talking about a rat or some garbage they discarded. I couldn’t even fathom saying anything to the effect of what you’ve listed, and the people I know wouldn’t either. So either the people you’re talking about don’t exist or are worse humans than you think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 01:24 AM
2	The best, most long lasting, and most passionate relationships are when the women makes the first moves Well if that’s how you view passivity then you should’ve probably said that outright. I’m sure you can think of situations in which there is an attractive, outgoing man who you’d like to hit on. You would just pass up the opportunity to date a man like that because he didn’t think to ask you out first? Seems more like you’re passive and value an active man to even you out, in which case I’m not really sure why you’re engaging in this discussion because your situation doesn’t apply at all to what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 07:24 PM
1	The best, most long lasting, and most passionate relationships are when the women makes the first moves Well, I’m not saying these are passive men, that’s just you filling in the gaps. The guys you are asking out should be people you are attracted to first and foremost, which is most likely confident men. Doesn’t mean you can’t beat him to the punch and ask him out first🤷‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 07:05 PM
3	The best, most long lasting, and most passionate relationships are when the women makes the first moves I mean it can’t be that hard to tell when a guy is just dating to have an easy chance at getting laid vs. dating because he’s into you. Like, you asked him out because you liked him in the first place, not because you felt like he was lonely and you wanted to cheer him up. Some random loser isn’t going to be the guy you pick, so the basis should already be there for mutual attraction. If you aren’t getting what you want out of a relationship, then dump the guy. I don’t understand how the possibi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 07:02 PM
2	Q4M: How many of you here are neurodivergent? Yeah anyone who knows they’re autistic enough to understand, process, and talk about it effectively online are not autistic enough to not function properly, they just often aren’t learned enough to effectively engage with society. I agree with you there. ADHD I don’t think is an adequate excuse for not being able to date. If anything I’ve seen a lot of people with ADHD being amazing at socializing and actually way more successful in the dating world, just not as successful career-wise (but that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 07:34 AM
3	Q4M: How many of you here are neurodivergent? Not relative to how society functions currently. There’s a huge body of study behind psychology that decides just that. I understand it’s arbitrary, and that the distinction in many cases is unnecessary, but that some people do possess symptoms to a degree of severity which makes it far more difficult for them to function properly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 04:37 AM
4	Q4M: How many of you here are neurodivergent? Doesn’t mean they’re all to the same degree of symptoms. Hence why it’s called a “spectrum” and not a binary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 04:31 AM
–	CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look good Homie, your brain is COOKED if you instinctively compare most women to SOFIA VERGARA	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 10:25 PM
–	CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look good I’ve seen some of the most dirt poor, ambition-less people walk around with designers clothes and accessories. It’s a one time purchase and indicates nothing other than one’s inability to manage their impulses unless they have an entire wardrobe full of designer clothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 10:20 PM
1	CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look good I think I know one singular person who bases his attraction on if a woman has a BBL, fake lashes, or plump lips. The vast majority of men don’t gaf about extreme cosmetic procedures, and the vast majority of women don’t get them. I don’t see what the problem is here. Seems rather self-inflicted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 05:45 PM
2	CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look good Are you sure you’re blue pill mate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 05:27 PM
1	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is I’m 17 and haven’t made my first million yet, is my life done??	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 08:42 PM
3	Saying that romantically unsuccessful men have bad personalities is ableist Right? This sounds like some slice of life game where all the women are video game characters and this guy was the main character. No way in hell this actually happened.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 05:59 AM
9	"Lower your standards" is good advice for women but bad advice for men Sounds rather vague, and you can hardly conflate “leftists” with “left of center moderates” for chrissakes. If you want to make an argument, maybe just talk about the fact that we seem to have too many liberals focused on the wrong issues, instead of filling a reply with enough straw men to fill a cornfield on a subreddit which isn’t exactly concerned with labeling Trump a Nazi or wondering whether Israel is illegitimate. One thing at a time dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 01:30 PM
9	"Lower your standards" is good advice for women but bad advice for men Literally none of those are left of center moderate beliefs. Do you support mass shootings at conservative rallies/protests? Get a grip dude, Jesus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 01:24 PM
–	Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are. Well if you take the time to read what I had to say, you’d see that I absolutely was engaging with the context, it’s just that the context was broadly nonsensical. Good luck out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 11:02 PM
–	Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are. Ah, I see you aren’t interested in having any discussions where it isn’t immediately apparent what points to cherry pick. Glad I tried I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 10:55 PM
–	Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are. Okay first of all, I’m not OP, so saying “I” brought up anything is flat out wrong. Third spaces have existed in society forever, only recently have they started degrading and dying out because of a combination of factors including, but not limited to: Late-stage capitalism, gentrification, inflation, overconsumption, and the internet (i.e. social media). In fact, nobody ITT from what I can gather ever mentioned that third spaces “need to be built for dating specifically”. What I can see is that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 10:48 PM
1	Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are. Do you seriously believe that adding more neutral third spaces is going to contribute to women being harassed? Women are already harassed in private spaces and whatnot because men and women don’t mix very often due to a lack of socialization. But yeah, the solution throughout history for problems in integration has always been to segregate people and never let them actually meet the other side on an even playing field. That worked really well in the 1900s, I’m sure doing it for men and women is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 10:23 PM
1	Do guys in the top 10-20% act similarly to these women people complain about? Quite self-explanatory really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 08:58 PM
1	Why do women seem to struggle to honestly admit to preferences which might be considered shallow? Lmao right? If it was that easy Reddit in general wouldn’t even exist. In fact, if everyone just “sucked it up and moved on” literally nobody would be having discussion because what’s the point? Life’s not fair so you should just put your head down and shut up. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 07:21 PM
2	Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period... Did I measure development with GDP? Way to put words in my mouth. China doesn’t have the largest GDP because it’s developing, because its GDP per capita is low, and because its people are poor. That doesn’t mean its economy isn’t growing, what kind of stupid statement is that? China still does the manufacturing of most of the free world. Your societies “organized around a sacred object” would fail pretty quickly if China stopped that trade.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 08:07 AM
1	Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period... I would read that article again. It says immediately: Despite major achievements in modernization — the country’s GDP is only second to that of the United States — China still has a long way to go before it becomes a “developed country”. Although China has made great economic progress, its development is uneven. So clearly China’s economy is growing and currently very strong, and that fact is affirmed by the article you say disproves me. It’s just that the country isn’t “developed” which has a m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 07:45 AM
1	Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period... “Nothing is worse than government schools” except public education is the only reason you and I are able to talk about this right now. How do you think your parents and your parent’s parents learned how to read? It wasn’t because they were all homeschooled, that’s absurd. Do you think it’s the government schools leading people to vote conservative all over the world? That our economy is collapsing? Also good luck learning anything beyond a high school level, people say they can teach themselves …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 07:37 AM
2	Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period... That’s because public education gets funded less and less in America, to push kids into evangelical christian private schools and destroy actual learning. The government wants more kids to be illiterate so they can be put into the workforce and not know enough to fight for their rights. The school voucher program is an example of that. Homeschooling is a bandaid to the actual problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 04:41 AM
2	Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period... China continues to be secularly based and its economy is growing insanely fast and on track to become the largest in the world especially if the US continues to hurt itself. Saying that society must be structured around a sacred object is just ignorant of reality. Really seems like theological societies tend to hate each other more and kill each other more. Also, the existence of religion in many places gives rise to extremism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 04:35 AM
6	Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period... So are we just going to assume the economy won’t adapt? Humans have survived for centuries through all sorts of population increases and declines. It literally isn’t the end of the world. While climate change and overpopulation/overconsumption will be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 04:26 AM
1	Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period... For your own mental wellbeing stay off this subreddit lmao. I don’t get OPs mindset either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 01:10 AM