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Yeah I live in HCOL area. Because my truck payment and kids tuition bill is buried in there, not as bad as it seems. It’s a wash if I move out of 5 BR home with fenced year for the dog and into 1 br apartment near work. I only save about $200. But that’s not the issue.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 01:39 PM
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Dude. I hope you’re kidding. My brother threw me through a window and hung me on a nail. I beat him with a crescent wrench. He tried to run me over on my bike with dad’s van. He drove said van through a backyard rather than give up the chase Fast forward: I am the Godfather of two of his kids
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/26 03:16 PM
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I’ve been there brother. Recommend next level soul podcast. Watch some interviews with Thomas Campbell and his Big Theory of Everything. Google his views on suicide and the afterlife. Watch some YouTube videos featuring g psychic mediums (particularly Suzanne Giessman). They will change your mind on suicide as the way out. You don’t want to have to keep repeating the pain over and over. They made me persevere and gave me a new lease on life You don’t have to believe in anything at all to gain in…
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/26 02:32 AM
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I have paid over $500k in credit card disasters, across three different occasions. OP your wife is a disaster and it almost sounds like she’s addictive to self- and other destruction. Find those kids a safe environment then get the fuck out
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/26 12:51 AM
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Your experience matches mine to a T! When she decided to do something cuz it “felt right” I would raise all these potential pitfalls, trade offs, and different options that needed to be considered. Her response was always “we’ll figure it out.” I’m like “no we never ‘figure it out’ after you decide to blunder into anything. Let’s figure it out NOW, before we move out.” But that never happened. And so all I’ve ever done if clean up one clusterfuck after another for more than 20 years
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/26 01:42 PM
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This post resonated with me a lot. I’m very educated and very intellectual. She is kind of educated and very “nice.” For 30 years now we have had deep fundamental differences on how to raise kids, maintain a household, basically on anything requiring logical or strategic decision making. We are now in final stages of divorce but writing was on the wall twenty years ago
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/26 01:17 PM
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Yeah I left my attorney for far less than this. Hopefully you have other good local attorneys to choose from
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/26 04:21 PM
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I had this happen at your age. It got worse when I got on anti depressants (sertraline). Better when I got off but I still have moderate ED
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 11:33 AM
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In-laws seem to always think soon to be ex husband could be violent. I’ve know my in laws for 40 years and never displayed anything like that toward their daughter. But ex told me they were “worried about her safety” after I called them to express concerns about HER irrational behavior
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/26 05:57 PM
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Fishing in far north Canada. 10 day respite from my current life
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/26 09:50 PM
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I’m right there with you brother. It sucks like nothing else. Wishing you luck and peace
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 02:40 PM
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Omg! You described my situation to a tee! But now my kids are in their twenties. I think I lost them but only temporarily. I went through something similar with my dad. And then apologized to him when I was 30 because he was wise and I was an idiot. And then I tried to raise my kids the way he tried to raise me and faced the same resistance because my soon to be ex is exactly like your ex. Now my dad is dead and I miss him So no easy answers man! But I’m sure there are others. I am taking the “m…
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 10:47 AM
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Dude don’t do it. My wife and I were raised like you obviously were. Then she went crazy and let the kids do whatever they wanted and stroked unlimited checks. Nothing good happened from that and now we are divorcing (wish I did it 15 years ago)
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 11:01 PM
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I disagree. She is looking for insight from a man’s perspective. To understand. That’s legit. I do the same thing in the divorce_woman site. I found the woman to give me important insights
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 10:52 PM
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If you do it amicably, you and your wife can make choices for yourself and keep your money. If you go straight to court, your money is transferred to lawyers and you give a judge who doesn’t give a shit permission to make decisions for you
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 11:45 AM
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Great grandmothers using you for target practice? Fucking hilarious. See the same thing where I grew up. Everyone who stayed there looks 20 years older than the ones who left
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 10:43 AM
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Yup. I’m distracted as fuck at work and just hoping people don’t notice. But it is quite noticeable to me that I am not projecting myself well or performing g at a high level.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/26 05:04 PM
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I’m struggling with this same question. Kids are same age. My wife suffocated them with attention and kind of squeezed me out of the picture so she could hog it all. That’s one of the reasons we are getting g divorced. Just like my dad, I approached my kids as kind of an obligation. I brought them into this world, now I have a responsibility to clothe, feed, educate them, and teach them how to do stuff so that can survive and thrive once they are independent. Kids don’t seem to respond well to t…
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 01:50 PM
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OP I strongly recommend you get some therapy for your grief. What you are experiencing is “normal” (after a painful loss), unfortunately more common than we like, but importantly it CAB be overcome with the help of a therapist who will teach you how to take those thoughts. You WILL get through this and you WILL go on to live a happy life. Peace, brother
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 05:43 PM
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You remind me of where my wife and I were at a long time ago. We were high school sweet hearts, married for 28 years and now going through a hellish divorce. Things were fine at first. But then we started having kids and she seemed to change right away. Like a biological change. She seemed obsessed with the kids. Wanted to spend every minute with them. I just assumed we would raise kids the way were we’re raised. Nope. She had other ideas. Her philosophy was to let the kids do whatever the hell …
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 04:24 PM
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I agree about getting a hobby. If you find a woman doing your hobby that’s a bonus. If you don’t you still have a hobby that connects you to people
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 12:27 AM
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When I was working on my PHD in the 1990s, I was making $12k per year while my wife made $34k per year. When I finished 4 years later I was making 13k per year while she made $60k per year 30 years later I make $200k per year and she makes $400k per year
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 12:52 AM
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Amazing how these reminders always reach us when most needed. Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/26 11:25 AM
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I have been in your boat for many years and in the final stages of divorce. I accidentally stumbled into (non-religious) spirituality which has really improved my mental health. I started with Next Level Soul podcast, but that led to many many others (like WTF just happened podcast, This led me to begin studying near death experiences and reincarnation, for which we now have some fairly compelling medical evidence. If you accept what these people are telling us (as I now do) you begin to underst…
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/26 08:55 PM
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You could have your lawyer sit on your retainer until you and your wife hammer out the details of the split. If you can come to an agreement, the lawyer will just draft up the terms for ratification by you and the courts. Shouldn’t cost more than a few grand
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/26 03:00 PM
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Yes I experienced everything you wrote. I am seeing the consequences of my children choosing to live under the gentle vs authoritarian parenting and it is sad. I got 2 kids through college but one dropped out 1 class shy of the degree. The other chose to bartend rather than teach elementary school like they attended. None do any chores whatsoever and eat fast food in their beds. I scrape all the food off the walls and floor. I’m so depressed with what has become It’s almost driven me to ending m…
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/26 11:13 AM
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I know a lot of couples who divorced because one was gay. Most found a new mate but they remain close to their former spouse. Maybe it’s a blessing and your relationship can transform for the better? The alternative is that she gets more and more depressed because staying in a marriage denies her who she really is?
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/26 12:58 PM
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Be patient, my brother, this will all work out in the end. It’s going to take some time for the legal system to correct the imbalance. We are all at different stages of this up and down roller coaster. You’re just in a temporary downswing. My lawyer told me it’s hard but I need to be patient and let the system work. She’s been right about everything. Handle in there, brother, we are all rooting for you and the time you will soon be laughing with your kids again
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 12:58 AM
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I have exactly that. 30 years now and I am almost out. My friends like her more than me. But they have no idea what she’s like at home
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/26 04:45 PM
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Maybe we can help each other. My wife and are are just now terminating our 30 year marriage. I have a 22 year old daughter that i wish I was closer to. One of the reasons my wife and I are divorcing is because we never agreed on how to raise children. I wanted to raise them the way we were raised—teach them the value of education, hard work, personal responsibility. She insisted on letting them do whatever they hell they wanted. Give them unlimited money. With great consequence. You can imagine …
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/26 11:47 AM
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Dude. That is quite a story. I sat down at the train station to finish it all. You are a gifted writer. The good news is you obviously have a great relationship with your son. That is a testament to who you are as a man. Don’t beat yourself up over staying with your wife. We all tolerate a ton of (different shit) for a long time for reasons that can seem inexplicable to us and others. If you haven’t already done so, a cognitive behavioral therapist can do wonders in helping your process all that…
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/26 11:06 AM
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Just reading the title of this post, if the marriage is killing you you need to get out. Don’t end up like me….once it gets to that point it doesn’t get better
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/26 05:12 PM
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Sounds like you are doing the right thing to me, OP. Don’t see how keeping doors open to blood relationship could be such a bad thing or yield angst in someone else
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 04:53 PM
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Dude, trust me that shit gets worse with time, not better. I’m living proof of that and I waited waaaaay too long to end it
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/26 12:50 AM
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That’s the best “glass half full” story I have ever heard!
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/26 11:39 AM
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Sorry man. I’m just telling you what the chairs of those departments won’t tell you. My dad also got a PhD in history from a top tier state university. He spent the next 40 years teaching history 101 at a community college in bumbfuck Midwest for $40k/year. He died happy….but poor
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/26 02:41 AM
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I got a PhD in the social sciences 30 years ago. Glad I did it but professor jobs? The field was kicking out 1000 PhDs per year who all chased the same 5 jobs. If you study at Harvard you’ll land in Milwaukee. If you study at Milwaukee you will be uber eating for a living. Do it for the experience (it was awesome!) but have low (very low!) expectations for a living wage career coming out of the thing
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/26 01:51 AM
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Yup. She is emotional and doesn’t have an attorney. I have the best attorney in my county ($400/hr). Giddy up!
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/26 02:29 AM
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I’m with you brother. I’m in the early stages of a business separation contract with a woman I’ve been with since 16 (41 years)
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/26 01:11 AM
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I can identify with this. I often feel the same way. That wife and kids won’t care that I’m gone. But a lot of this is just in your head. Kids less than 25 or so often dont appreciate their fathers. I didn’t appreciate mine either. But you know what? Now that he’s dead, I miss him and think about him a lot. He was a good father. He tried to raise a good son. Lesson for me: don’t walk away from those kids because they don’t appreciate you now. Get out of the marriage that may be preventing you fr…
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/26 07:15 PM
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Dude she is taking advantage of you big time. I don’t see how she will win such a lobsidded deal at trial
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 05:00 PM
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Dude I’m here for you. Just beginning the journey myself. You can vent at me any time. Connect via DM and I will try to check in on you. Life is a classroom. And class is hard. But we all pass the courses eventually. You’ll pass this one too and land on your feet
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 05:12 PM
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I’m early in the process but I know a lot of old timers who find life/love after divorce. But you’ll have to change it up. You’re not 19 anymore. Don’t look for it in a bar…you’ll get in bad habits and your health will decline quickly. Start thinking about hanging out with women as a grown ass man. What do you like? Sitting on the back deck looking at nature? Find a woman that likes to do that. Or hiking. Fishing. Whatever. I was young when I met my wife. We had nothing in common but she was hot…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 01:30 AM
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Same at the boat dock….
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 05:50 AM
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Yeah I can avoid that by avoiding crazy people. Choose better
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 05:49 AM
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Haha! So stupid. As a guy I can still not give a fuck. Let those people do what they do. And hope to find someone who doesn’t do what they do. Too easy
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 05:38 AM
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What? What does my response have to do with the legitimate and very serious issue of domestic violence against women? Not making the connection here. I’m just saying I wouldn’t want anything to do with a group of people (male or female) who spend their time picking apart dating profiles. Shit, I hope life after divorce offers more than that
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 01:34 AM
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Dude. Find a wholesome woman. Go to church. Or to the boat ramp. Find a woman who fishes and doesn’t criticize dudes on Facebook
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 01:01 AM
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Get a dog. Long walks in the woods. Find new interests to explore and then find the podcasts. Listen to those when you walk. Get a headlamp and walk at night. Listen to positive music. Volunteer at school or somewhere else. You need to stay busy to help get off alcohol. Socializing helps immensely. Fishing helps me a lot. Set a goal. Master different conditions, lures, techniques, and then go get those bastards
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/26 11:53 PM
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Dude that is a lot of heavy shit for one guy to absorb. Your a much stronger man then I am. Wishing you peace, recovery, and the happiness you’ve earned
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/26 12:47 AM
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In my state you have to “demonstrate that one party has definitively determined marriage is over” and that there no chance to reconcile. It’s a pain in the ass for people who live under same roof when one wants to get divorced
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/26 12:30 AM
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So you are trying to sacrifice to defend a particular separation date? VA is atupid
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 10:37 PM
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Dude you described my situation almost exactly. Only difference is my wife until one month ago made twice as much as me (now unemployed). She has wrecked her credit/our financial future twice now. So to contain the damage I hired a lawyer who is sending letter offering to settle on Monday We should have gotten divorced 20,10,5 years ago. As my lawyer said “these things don’t get better with time.” It’s going to be financially devastating but I need to be my own decider so making the move. I regr…
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 08:29 PM
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I have a neighborhood of men whose connections with each other really flow through wives. When one of them disappears due to divorce we shake our heads and hope they are ok. But we rarely check in on them. I’ve had a few come slowly back to the social circle (men only) and then incidentally confide that they were in a dark place. And that is when men (at least myself) really engage them. Men don’t know that other men are hurting until its brought to their attention. Otherwise they assume all is …
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 11:50 AM
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Do you live in a community property state that splits 50/50? I’m in an equitable distribution state
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/26 08:09 PM
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So she can take say $200k from my 401k and then default on her card debt? Thats fucked up if true
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/26 08:04 PM
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Fair question: I don’t have visibility into her bank or credit cards so I am guessing based on this being my 3rd rodeo with her. We separated everything in May while she had a high paying job. She should have been debt free at that time I just found out she lost her job (never told me) and knew she would lose it three months ago. And now she is starting her spending spree. I have retained an attorney (meeting tonight) and I will make her settlement offer. If she declines and we have to try the c…
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/26 08:01 PM
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I have no idea what her debt load is but she is newly unemployed yet taking my kids on $10k vacation. Last time she was unemployed she ran up $250k on joint credit card debt on JOINT accounts….in 4 months! Now we have separate cards and bank accounts. Share one bank account for house hold expenses, one car loan and a mortgage. My understanding is judge can order my to pay $100k on her individual card. If I don’t, card company doesn’t care what divorce decree says—they have a contract with her an…
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/26 06:59 PM
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Yeah I’m just starting the process because this is the fl3rd time she’s done this. I’m worried about it accumulating while we are going through separation/divorce process and then getting stuck with it at the end
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/26 05:57 PM
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Mad respect for acknowledging that, learning from it, and passing on these wise words. Peace brother
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/26 02:48 PM
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I don’t have advice for you but I have same question so following thread
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/26 12:48 AM
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Dude. I know. My wife and I have been talking about divorce….for 22 fucking years. But now I am finally doing it even though I know it will be devastating financially. Lawyer says this shit gets worse with time (trust me) and says it is far better to rip the ban aid and “deal with the shit” after. I wish I took that advice 20 years ago. Don’t waste your life like I did. It doesn’t get better on its own but can get worse
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/26 04:02 PM
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I haven’t gotten that far. I know my personal debt situation, I know nothing of hers. Only one meeting with my lawyer so far to jump start process
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/26 02:14 AM
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She doesn’t want to sell whether she can afford or not. So I’m hoping that is enough for her to accept my proposal. Then I can walk away debt free with my retirement is tact which is all I want
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 09:12 PM
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Thanks I’m in VA (also equitable distribution state). My lawyer pretty much told me the same thing. She said judges aren’t going to try to calculate stuff. Each take have if assets and liabilities. My spouse is a house hoarder and credit card fiend so I am worried about the debt AND the ability to sell my house. About $600k in equity. I am sending an offer to her that we both take our respective retirements (pretty comparable) and debt (I have none, no idea what she has), and she take the house …
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 09:05 PM
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When this is over, are you responsible for half the debt she wracked up? My wife lost her job and I am just starting process. She also likes to wrack up tons of credit card debt and I’m very worried. We separated our credit cards already but I think I’m still going to get a ton signed to me
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 08:30 PM
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Dm me brother. I am feeling the same way. I’m happy to exchange phone number and talk to you. Maybe we can help each other. I’ve been exactly where you are with the love/lost and loneliness. I didn’t think I’d ever get over it. But it did wash away after 6 months and I look back and say “why did that bother me?” So I can absolutely help you get through that. My devastating stress right now is how to prevents financial devastation during/after divorce. Maybe you can help me get past that. Please …
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 03:19 PM
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$600k
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 01:14 PM
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Lawyer says in 90%of cases VA judges won’t impute. She’s a fucking senior level accountant for fucks sake!
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 01:04 PM
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The lawyer is proposing we each keep our respective retirement account and debts in our name. I would also give her house ($600k equity) but she has no current way to pay mortgage. If she accepts, does that imply no alimony? Or is a judge going to reject it because she has no way to pay for it? She could sell and cash out?
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 12:58 PM
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I’m afraid she will rack up $250k in credit card debt in 6 mos like she did last time. So I think I’m fucked either way?
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 12:51 PM
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He had me at “fake tits”
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 12:27 AM
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I’m almost 57, my man. I’m right behind you !🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 12:26 AM
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Yeah 4 weeks is still early (but I remember non stop thoughts for 4 weeks). Paralyzed me in work meetings. People noticed. By week 8 or 12 or so (this is memory from 15 years ago) they will get further and further apart. I remember around 1 year (maybe less) I said to myself “wow, I haven’t thought about her all day! What a relief!” and that was it. It was a long year, sure, but I’ve had some great days since then. You will too!
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 12:18 AM
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Yeah it becomes the EZ way out of shitty situations. I don’t want my kids to ever see that as an option. I passed a homeless guy in the subway today. Cops were making him pack his shit and move. I thought “if that guy can power on, I can too. I have it much much better than him.” Made me feel guilty as hell for feeling sorry for myself
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 11:54 PM
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That sucks man. I had an intense crush like that. I was beyond obsessed with her. Took almost a year of mental pain but I bounced back and don’t even think about it anymore. Hope the same happens with you. Peace to you brother
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 11:51 PM
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Thanks, man. Sad story. So glad you’ve been strong enough to overcome that
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 09:53 PM
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Dude. Thank you so much for this. I will definitely do this
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 09:51 PM
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Good on you for finding a GF to cuddle with!
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 06:40 PM
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Really appreciate this. Great insight to keep us grounded
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 06:39 PM
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Yeah man. Really important to keep that in mind. Thanks for setting me straight that helps
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 04:54 PM
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Haha! I love that. Kind of feel the same way. Shame to waste it not doing something spectacular, like a clandestine suicide mission for the CIA to take out a nuclear armed terrorist or something
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 04:52 PM
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I also listen to Jason Stephenson “lucid dreams” on YouTube. He’s got a bunch of videos. They are about 3 hours but only 30 mins are him talking the rest is gentle music. When I wake up, I recite it again, listen to Jason and fall back asleep. My go to for about a year now
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 04:17 PM
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Thanks man. That perspective really resonates with me. I hope I am less spiteful in the future once I’m past this shit. I don’t like to live like that but it keeps me fueled for now
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 03:43 PM
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Glad you pulled out of it, man. I have a dog and hope I don’t have to give her up when I move out. I consider that a major sin and the dog and I would be crushed
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 03:42 PM
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Thanks man. I needed this!
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 01:57 PM
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I like that good for you. My kids are older so I’m focusing on spite right now
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 01:09 PM
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Btw when I can’t sleep, I started reciting in my head “life is a classroom. You need to be resilient” over and over. I know it sounds stupid but it calms the nerves and after 4 or 5 times I will be calm enough to sleep
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 12:53 PM
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Just talked with lawyer yesterday. And she talked me into giving stbx a good deal that includes the house she wants which she can’t afford. A lot of equity in it. But I walk away with my retirement accounts in tact which give me mathematical certainty of a good life. If she takes it (which she should, but probably won’t) I’ll be good to go. I’m going to incur a shit ton of debt either way and it’s going to be hell until finished. But I can see faint light at the end of the tunnel which may or ma…
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 12:51 PM
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Crazy you mention 3:30. I’ve been waking up every day at 3:30 am for 15 years….ever since I put my golden retriever down at that time. Finally googled it….thats when barrier between the physical and spiritual world is thinnest. Some say that’s when your dead friends and relatives are sending you messages. I didn’t believe in any of that stuff but kind of resonates the longer it goes on
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 11:33 AM
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I’m with you brother. I’m going through the exact same thing
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 11:30 AM
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The lawyer I talked with talked me into offering a pretty good deal to her in the hope she accepts it immediately. One and done. It’s one I can live with easily as it gives me mathematical certainty (my full retirement in tact which will provide a decent life). It’s a slightly shitty business deal which I will be happy as hell if she agrees to it. Otherwise she’s going to lose the house (which she desperately wants) and whatever is left in equity will be eaten up by her inevitable credit card de…
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 11:52 PM
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This is good advice thanks. ESP on the retirement issue. I thought it would be”help” if her cards were just in her name (most are now) but that she could argue that debt on her cards was accrued for the joint household or something. She has no qualms about paying a mortgage by 30% interest cards which is crazy to me
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 07:38 PM
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Also, I notified my wife via email last summer I considered us “separated” but living together. We established separate bank account in April. Does that cover me as far as “intent to separate/divorce”
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 05:50 PM
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Dude, you described my life 15 years ago when I started seeing a therapist. I will tell you the same thing she told me: “For God sake, don’t stay together “for the kids”. Well, I ignored her and I stayed together for the kids. Biggest regret of my life. The messy house is now a hoarder condemnation. I’m fleeing my $1.2m home at the earliest opportunity (unfortunately there are several other timing variables I now think non stop about for last 3 fucking years). The hell gets worse with time unles…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 12:42 AM
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