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I think we both discovered why that woman thinks everyone is an asshole except her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:48 AM
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sort of reasonable argument here but you made a few sweeping generalizations. I think that's a mistake. all men are different, what you describe here is a very small catagory. i think you may be deep in some kind of selection bias. you meet the type of guys you meet (or, the type of guys who approach you)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:47 AM
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i only saw one happy marriage, they live together on a boat. married for 38 years. the husband is very soft and sensitive, and the wife adores him and respects him always
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:37 AM
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That's bombastic and unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:26 AM
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yeah, many people have this opinion about rollo. i can understand why and i agree with a lot of it. however, not everything he says is wrong. you have to use your brain and you have to be able to make responsible generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:41 AM
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rollo isn't jesus but trm has a lot of true facts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:45 AM
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rolo is a pua guy, and he's a cringe guy. recently i heard him talking about impregnating his ex simply because they both had good genetics. plenty of people use redpill perspectives to develop pickup strategies. The real grift is marriage, and redpill simply offers information that marriage doesn't really work well anymore because of feminism. someone like me, who is young, i see feminism as generally good and in very line with with what redpill teaches about how women and men interact
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:33 AM
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Redpill information sheds light on the lies that are fed to both men and women about society and what their roles aren't (we do not have roles). Men and women are the same, free humans, and we don't have to participate in this pre programmed charade. Women are humans with basic desires, and so are men, and these aren't the same as what society tells us we should want. if redpill is indeed just some pua cringe like what you said, than i can absolutely agree it's dumb. i just don't personally unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:03 PM
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in your understanding, what does red pill have to do with pua? redpill is just information about reality. people do all kinds of stuff with information
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:00 PM
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red pill needs another name because everyone is conflating it will manosphere misogynistic trash because youtubers are using the term synonymously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:00 PM
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well you are a poo poo head 😙
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:27 PM
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red pill is not even related to men. literally women can be red pill. buddy makes you sound stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:18 PM
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red pill just means that women are free and independent just like men, and they want to seek their own advantage, even if it hurts the man. red pill is not part of manosphere pickup type crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:12 AM
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i think the end result isn't bad per se, but the insecurity thing never gets resolved. so if it's a relationship built on a huge insecurity, it's probably not a good relationship (however i have no knowledge of what good relationship would actually look like)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:29 AM
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i don't know the answer but i sometimes wonder if it's about the need to feel secure. The women puts herself in a situation where she is so absolutely his best option, that in her mind it makes her more comfortable (feeling like he would never leave her). i've seen women do a lot of extreme things in order to feel more secure in a relationship (for example, only dating guys way below her smv) another similar thing could be not allowing the man to have any interactions with other women. this is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:50 AM
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it starts with red pill, which is a good thing, but the algo starts dumping manosphere slop on you and you start to conflate all of the radically different pop culture nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:44 PM
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emotional intelligence means that you understand emotions so well that you can totally control and manage your own emotions, and with extreme skill, you can manage other people's emotions. Emotional intelligence is very rare in people in general. i've never noticed it more commonly in women. it's just very rare thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:49 AM
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no redpilled people have anything against hoes. they provide genuine value to the world and make it more fun. trad/con manosphere type rhetoric is what's making people think hoes are gross... and non of those guys ever had firsthand experience with a liberated women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:57 PM
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yeah, but i guess i mean the men without options doesn't mean they are undesirable men. plenty of pretty shit men have options because they cultivate that by spending a lot of time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:31 AM
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i think men generally lack options because they don't cultivate options. a lot of attractive men have zero options because they are busy doing stuff. the side effect is that men lag way behind in relationship experience, and are likely to ignore red flags because the sex is so good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:38 AM
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yeah definitely. men ignore so many red flags because they are horny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 11:02 PM
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i never met anyone who told me sex was disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:23 AM
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I think the more important thing that these men would learn is how to avoid/identify psycho insane chicks from hell. I don't think women that require lots of performance and skill are worth it – – ordinary women are great. The real pitfall with men is, they are unable to identify the crazy ones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:40 AM
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i think it's fair if they negotiate what feels fair. this is massively case by case. personally i would just pay my stay at home wife a salary if she agreed to sign a prenup excluding alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:56 AM
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Overtime, you can become more attracted to people, and of course eventually less attracted to them. No attraction or romantic feeling lasts definitely. They don't always start instantly either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:07 AM
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i'm not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:04 AM
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I might have misunderstood your comment, but this behavior doesn't seem to differ from women who like to play around, or women who are new (low body count). regardless of the past, some women will just decide that you are 'the one' or something. I know like in theory, if I met a 30-year-old virgin woman, she probably isn't just interested in hooking up and that's it. But I never really found that specific kind of person in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:02 AM
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married women are owned by their husbands. marriage is a sale of a women's reproductive ability edit for clarification: ( i think this is strange and cruel, women should be free to do whatever and whoever they want at any time)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:01 PM
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what is 'human autonomy'
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:56 PM
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what is 'talking about'?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:54 PM
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my understanding of the world was that women were good, men were often bad or dangerous. Women longed for some man to provide for them and care for them and in return they would give the men deep and lasting romantic love and loyalty. i was told i would meet the 'one' and we would know instantly. i was told that women do not lie or scheme when it comes to love, and i should listen to them because they have superior 'emotional intelligence', honesty, and purity. what gives me a sense of freedom i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:45 PM
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this whole comment thread is like an argument with my ex-girlfriend about supplements. She just wants to make you mad because it's exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:41 PM
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I don't think data will convince you. But here's the real core of RP – – women are free and independent. They do not belong to Man. No contract, no love, no relationship can control people. We are free. Women do not owe men anything. Not even loyalty, not loving wives, not service. That was the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:39 PM
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It's reality, I don't see an alternative. RP doesn't tell you what to do or how to live. I just tell you the reality. You can deal with that however you want. But at least you have a chance. Women don't belong to me, I don't have to take care of them, they don't owe me anything. We both have rights and free will. We are free and able to do what we want, and that's gonna change overtime. That's really the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:34 PM
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yeah i do see this problem with many red pill perspectives. many women are absolutely predatory with regard to dating, but some believe this is intentional. the truth is, all women are predatory with dating but only a small fraction of them are actually conscious of that. so, red pill comes off as unhelpful because many people get angry about the truth and they resent women, because they attribute ill intent from women. the 'small class of grifters' are dangerous but easily avoided. just use you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:04 AM
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i'm speaking very generally. probably there are very talented workers who can put on a very convincing show. i heard stories of guys getting married to Thai workers???? and then she slowly extracts everything $$$ from them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:45 PM
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hoes are fun and full of life. prostutes are cold inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:34 AM
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? can you explain? most women love to have sex with men. i don't see women avoiding men at all. the hoes seem especially happy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:56 AM
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yes 100% i agree. you could date a higher level but it's far more laborious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:51 AM
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i don't think having lots of sex makes a woman impure, it's actually really convenient because you don't have to make any commitment to get sex from them. on top of that, they have sexual skills, and it's easier to break things off when you get bored. hoes are phenomenal people and i commend them for the good they provide the world
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:50 AM
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that's damn right, and it's because fuck zone is an ideal place, because it's a type of relationship that is on your terms as a man. it's better for her also because she would lose desire for you if you made the relationship legitimate. and Men KNOW this, and that's why we feel it's wrong to marry a fuckzoned women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:14 AM
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FWB stuff is often a nice-guy equivalent strategy for a women to slowly 'earn' commitment , then they get bitter that all the sex they 'gave' your earned them no boyfriend benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:29 AM
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The term red pill doesn’t come from anger or resentment, it comes directly from The Matrix. Neo is offered the choice: take the blue pill and stay in the illusion, or take the red pill and see reality as it is. In dating and modern culture, the “red pill” simply means accepting reality rather than the comforting simulation. At its core, red pill thinking is about recognizing human nature. Men and women alike pursue advantages in dating, and both will use strategies...sometimes consciously, somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:09 AM
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rp is all screwed up right now because it's getting fused with dating strategies and manosphere advice. RP simply states the nature of the reality of relationships between men and women. pay or don't, not related to RP. manosphere dating strategy type content is basically just expressing resentment at the pay thing, these men still want relationships, and they are struggling to accept the 'demands' of women. from a red pill perspective, women can demand whatever they want if they have the levera…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:54 PM
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just go with life. no need for strategies like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:05 PM
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yes i am - it's tremendously liberating. Going through the mental shift is hard, that's what RP typically refers to as Red Pill Rage. After you go through it though, and you see how men and women truly are, it's freedom. I do not own a women, i do not have to give her anything, she is just as capable of labor as i am. Women come and go. i do not owe them anything for sex or kids. it's just for fun. If a 30 year old women has no job, no savings, and she can't pay her half of the rent, she is a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:59 AM
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i think that sounds very healthy and almost detached, outcome independent. if you really do operate this way... you are indeed budhistpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:17 AM
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oh, no-- the horror of RP is the realization that women aren't inoccent delicate beings simply looking for true love and who need to be protected and taken care of. 'Female nature' is not interested in the well being of men, or even love, it is a clever and scheming machine built by evolution to seek for the advantage of women and for reproduction. And worst of all, it's subconscious to most women. they actually think they are seeking true love, when in reality they are just carrying out deep ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:07 AM
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you probably have to define RP, i don't understand how someone can go through RP rage, and genuinely come out the other side with any possibility of seeing things so naively again. i think guys can get stuck in the rage and bounce back into the fantasy again, simply as a cope. but if you can swallow the pill and accept the cosmic horror of the situation, and you reach peace and stability again, how can you possibly accept the romantic delusion again. All RP men wish they could plug back into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:03 PM
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relationships come in many forms. sexual relationships require some kind of mutual sexual thing. if your girlfriend makes excuses when it comes to the sex part, it's over. sexual relationships always start with sex and mutual desire, but it's temporary. generally one partner will start making excuses when they start to get bored of the relationship (obviously it doesn't happen to each partner at the same time)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:46 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:22 AM
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if she's attracted to you, she will climb a mountain to have sex with you. if she's making excuses, just go find someone else to have sex with. typically, a woman's interest in a man declines over over time. i think the beginning of that decline is an excellent time to cut and run. you can easily test this-- just ask your girlfriend or whatever 'hey i need you to give me a blowjob' if she makes some excuse or says anything even remotely disrespectful or distancing, it time to go. and it's funny …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:04 AM
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in many western countries, legal sex workers will cost you a 2 day road trip and $2500. Also, hiring professionals is pretty shameful in western cultures. i can have sex with 3/10s women for free and just close my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:50 PM
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i would never have traded my wife for anyone, but when i found her cheating, i was very happy to divorce her. she had a lot of bad qualities i was looking forward to being free from... but my loyalty to her to her to true even though i was getting a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:43 PM
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most people have baggage by 30. guys including. i'm just saying that in your example, it's really the women who is attracted to the older guy for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:08 PM
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yeah so true 😂 i feel like as i get older, the more i notice how most people are absolutely crazy under the surface. i have so much baggage myself that i could never maintain a close relationship, or even understand why people would want that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:06 PM
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after i had my own kids, my attraction changed from 19-30 to 25-30 ( i am 32) By their 30s, many single women tend to carry heavy emotional baggage, while those in their early 20s are slightly less likely. Younger women are often seen as more open and suitable for a long-term partner (though who really wants that? it's a tremendous responsibility). Most men don’t get much choice, they settle for what’s available. Most guys would be perfectly happy with a woman who’s simply respectful and support…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:23 AM
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yeah, I went through a period in my marriage I had to prioritize the kids, followed by work. My wife wasn't able to adapt to the temporary situation. In order for her to be happy, she needed frequent vacations several times a year, and dinners out several times a week. Now she is a single mother with no money, and she doesn't do any of those things, and she is very very nice to me. She's much nicer to me now that she ever was during the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:10 AM
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I think a great strategy in this modern era is to just have multiple casual relationships, multi dating, in your spare time while you prioritize work, and if one woman sticks around for 2-5 years without exhibiting mental issues/depression/psychosis, it might be worth commitment (and that could mean marriage)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:04 AM
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I got full custody of my son, and partial custody of my daughter (basically unlimited and reasonable visitation, overnight visits, etc.). Minimum one overnight visit per week. I also kept the house, and all of my financial assets, with only a small amount in support payments per month for a few years. I was able to get such a good deal because I encouraged her to go and chase her true life with this other guy. being married to her was very difficult, because nothing was ever good enough, and she…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:59 AM
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You are right... let me try to put it more clearly. Geo-maxing often gets frowned upon because it’s associated with sex tourism, but that’s largely a misunderstanding that's coming from a woman's perspective. From a woman's perspective, it's hard to wrap their minds around the idea of a man who has zero options. So if you're doing all this stuff to go abroad, it must be for another reason. This is also why a lot of women feel strangely threatened by men going abroad. It isn’t about seeking submi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:51 AM
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yes -- relationships go through hard times especially when you have young kids. she didn't have good enough character to stick through a few hard years where our times together were limited so much. my kids are fucked up now, but at least i don't have to financially support a shitty partner who can't hold a job for the rest of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:50 AM
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i think the divorce was a good thing though, i don't want to financially support a women for the rest her life who's loyalty and kindness depends on whether she is being entertained enough. too bad for the kids though, they are very confused and disturbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:46 AM
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no, she killed the marriage because she was bored during a temporary hardship period. Marriage goes through hard times especially when you have young kids and you really have to be able to put aside your selfish needs for entertainment. now, She begs me to get back together about once a month. her life is dramatically worse now because she has to work a job and clean her house, and take care of the children 50/50. somehow she finds time to date weird guys. everything stayed the same for me excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:43 AM
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It’s hard to imagine what it’s like to be a man with very few romantic options. If you only meet one woman a year who’s interested in you, you don’t really get to choose based on compatibility... you just take what you can get. When men move to a place where dating is easier, they can meet multiple women in a short time. That allows them to figure out what they actually want in a partner and make a more rational choice, instead of settling. Having options is important because it lets you filter …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:11 AM
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I upvoted your comment because it made me think, and I have sort of a counterpoint based on my own experience -- before my wife cheated on me, she nagged me constantly about spending more time on her, spending more money, planning more trips, ect. I couldn't fulfill those needs because I was too busy, we had two young kids, my work was going through a tough time, etc. we split childcare 50-50, and housework 50-50, but I was responsible for earning 100% of the household income. I told her that I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:06 AM
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i think you might have idealized relationships too much. they are temporary emotional dramas that two people enjoy together for 1-7 years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:02 PM
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you are over thinking this -- hoes are fun but not good for relationships. Women who have too many past sexual partners are probably hoes. sex work is disgusting. women who have sex with a guy aren't made more disgusting. it's just suspicious if they have 89 ex boyfriends because that probably means they are a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:57 AM
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being single is great though, why throw it away without getting some kind of trophy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:02 PM
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yeah i've always been confused about this-- being left alone except when people are genuinely interested in you is not only a peaceful way to live, it's also giving you reliable feedback on whether or not you are likable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:01 PM
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'i don't see this relationship going anywhere because you are nuts, so unless you get pregnant, we are just going to stay girlfriend and boyfriend until i can't stand it anymore'
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:53 AM
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yeah who care about body count if you are just having fun. it's just more experience. it only matters if you are a dumb enough to actually want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:47 PM
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that's what happened to me but it unfortunately ended in divorce, but i still get to stay out here in asia where i am more comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:30 AM
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so i have a theory about that, i think some kind of self selection bias is occurring with me. i never approach women, i only deal with women who approach me. this may be creating a dynamic where my number of sexual partners is extremely less than with the type of women who approach random men. i don't chase women because it's not very interesting to me. the women who chase me probably chase lots of men in general because it is very interesting for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:10 AM
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personally, there are 2 reasons i would have a negative feeling about being some womans sexual partner #89: her true love was probably was guy #3 i will never be able to live up to her fantasy version of a parter if 88 others failed. of course if it's just casual sex i really couldn't care less about body count. it's great that she's experienced and ill enjoy asking for funny stories about her romantic experience. i had 2 fwb type situations this year and the dating history stories was my favori…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:43 PM
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good men get ignored because they are at the bottom of the status pile. so, women never even look at them as options. If you go to asia, you can get yourself shuffled higher up in the deck of status/visibility, and this will give you more visibility. that can lead to more dates, and that leads to you making better dating choices based on compatibility. furthermore, the cultural and language barriers have an accidental side effect of making you seem less awkward socially. if you are an average ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:00 PM
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people are happy whenever they get what they want (for about 5 minutes). romantic love is not even remotely critical for a humans unless they desperately believe they are missing out on it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:56 PM
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i never seen or known any man who found lasting love, seems like it usually lasts a few years at maximum. after that some will stay together just because it's harder to go back to living alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:19 AM
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yeah, the best strategy for men is to lie about everything and be pushy (if they want to maximize the sex). a higher percentage of women respond to that than with honesty and reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:10 AM
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isn't that the point? Isn't that the strategy? If you go to a foreign country as a man, especially in Asia, you're going to appear to be relatively richer and more attractive. You're gonna have a relatively higher status. This gives you more visibility of the dating market. This gives you more choices. So in the USA, maybe you'll get one date a year… In Thailand you can get three dates in a month. So you have more choices to choose a suitable partner. I don't think there was anything wrong with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:13 AM
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