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Oh please. Most women think she’s disgusting. And don’t think those men committed sexual assault
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:48 AM
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Thanks. I teach my girls to keep their hands to themselves. My brother was abused by his second wife. She was tiny. He six feet tall. She’d punch him. I told him it was abuse. Women need to keep their hands to themselves even if men aren’t intimated or physically hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:45 AM
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Now we know why men have no social network.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:43 AM
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Take an improv class. No shit serious. Everyone will suck and you will learn communication skills. It’s practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:42 AM
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So this one girl that lives in Canada that you’ve met through Reddit. L M A O
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:37 AM
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No one made that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:32 AM
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Suuuureee
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:31 AM
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Having a job and having a degree are ciphers for desirable traits
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:30 AM
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Lmao. A millionaire and living off dad. No wonder they don’t have much respect. College education gives breadth of knowledge, worldliness, and exposure. I wouldn’t date any guy who is making bank but living off his dad. I sure wouldn’t have kids with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:29 AM
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No fucking way would I touch that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:25 AM
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That has nothing to do with whether women find RP attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:23 AM
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YES
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:21 AM
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“ No doubt there. There's a lot of hypocrisy and virtue signaling going on.” No, there isn’t. There is a huge difference between Cavil and Pascal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:20 AM
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Have you seen the women that men lust over? How much do you think Kate Beckinsale works out? Nicole Kidman? I wonder how much plastic surgery they’ve had. What about Ariana Grande? Are you kidding???? Like Jesus, why do you all expect women to be so very different than you? Men are allowed to lust after women with fake boobs and fake butts and perfect skin but women are supposed to consider Tommy at IT equal in hotness to Pascal? This is what drives me nuts about guys here - I’m sorry you aren’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:14 AM
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I do not get Cillian Murphy. Ug. Like Cumberbatch. But Pedro Pascal. Oh hell yes. And Tom Holland - have you seen that guy dance???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:03 AM
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Look. I had a Chad guy who wanted me to move in with him, even said he loved me. He had a degree from Georgia Tech, was six feet, six pack, a housing developer, and a huge house. Smart as a whip. Great in bed. I turned him down for my now husband, who is 5/7, didn’t have a degree (yet), built but not that traditional lankier look. He made me laugh. He was fun in bed. He made me feel special. He was also whip smart. Same values. And even when he gained a good bit of weight while we were dating be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:02 AM
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Look I’d classify as a feminist, but fathers are very important. They are not disposable and I wish they’d be more involved in general. I can’t imagine divorcing my husband but he has every right to our children as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:33 PM
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Have you had a miscarriage? I’ve had three. I was sad. But i didn’t consider it losing a baby or a child. To me it was just the start of baby, not a baby. Most people have this view. That’s why most people the world over approve of abortion in the first trimester at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:29 PM
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The condom has gone through substantial changes and development since first conceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:23 PM
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“ woman aborting, adopting or legally abandoning her own flesh and blood for any reason she likes, and nobody calls them deadbeats for doing so. Why can't a man do the same?” -mothers who abandon their children are called far worse than a deadbeat. I’ve watched it. A man gets pissy, leaves his wife and kids, and just send a check? He gets shrugged off. A woman abandon her kids with her husband, pay support? Holy shit is she crucified. No one criticizes either men or women for giving their babies…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:19 PM
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“ We do really need to treat parenting and raising children as a priority for men because we’re, in fact, better at it.” If most men are not in fact stepping up, then no men aren’t in fact better at it. It’s like saying “I’d have been a pro player if I’d tried.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:15 PM
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Well and hanging out at each others house is cheap and then you get cheap beer and the boys act out because testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:12 PM
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I love those
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:12 PM
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Once again proving that you all are focused on a very specific kind of woman - a party girl or clubbing girl, who is usually hot, a bit trashy, and very outgoing. I mean shit, I did club a bit in my 20s. My fiance then took me to Seattle and we went through the Boeing museum and I got to meet some of the remaining Red Tails. I took him to Tucson to see the DM air museum and boneyard - they have a Blackhawk! Many many girls don’t go to the clubs or do the party thing. The nerdy girls, the DnD gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:11 PM
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As one of those women with the more colorful past? NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:09 PM
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How are you having these conversations at 3 months? Wow. I wouldn’t expect a three month boyfriend having any input into that. I wouldn’t be asking for a car at three months. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:00 PM
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“ if she wants a Guggi purse. I'd rather buy her a Walmart purse and put the rest into stocks.” (I think you mean Gucci). This indicates really different values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:56 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:50 PM
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Lmao. I love watching men engage in stolen valor. Have you gone to war for your girlfriend? My husband doesn’t get to claim he sacrifices more in our relationship because his NEICE, uncle, and aunt enlisted. He also doesn’t get to make that claim because our DAUGHTER is enlisting too. Men bar women from serving and from selective service. Also men, “we sacrifice so muuuch for you! You won’t even fight in war!” I bet you claim men are the logical gender when your post included that complete whopp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:48 PM
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“ Men don't often don't have the option of being heard or understood through their words.” I don’t think this is a gendered thing. How many men claim that their wives left them out of the blue? And the wives are like, I said it was a problem 20x.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:35 PM
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Bezo’s ex wife was INSTRUMENTAL in the creation of Amazon. She both had the publishing contacts that allowed him to launch his Amazon business (which originally was only books) and also worked hard at it in the early years. There is a reason there was little noise over that split. His current wife is a success in her own right as an anchor, reporter, and helicopter pilot. The last was a surprise to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:32 PM
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If you want a woman that is so weak and passive that she does everything you want, you’ll have to smash her spiders. If you want a woman who can load her own pistol, smash her own spiders, kill her own snakes, you will deal with a woman with opinions that will want her way or compromise some of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:26 PM
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lol. I’m five foot and can chamber my 32 walther just fine. No way my dad wasn’t going to teach his daughters how to shoot - or my own husband. You wanted a weak woman, that’s what you get. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:22 PM
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He is the one who has never had a relationship over three months. What would you tell a woman? Choose better, lose your standards, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:12 PM
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Based on OP’s experience, the successful marriages are the ones where the women lead. 💅 after all, he keeps being dumped or breaking up because he won’t let the woman lead. Or maaaybeee there is no biological requirement that one gender should lead versus another and you are spouting pseudoscience. We each work out how our relationship functions. No man “leads” me. And I don’t lead my husband. 18 year successful marriage. We collaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:24 PM
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Mmm. First I’d like to give you support - it’s fine to be a bachelor and just date casually. There are many people out there - men and women - like you. Honestly, if something happens to my husband, I’ll be right there with you. But I doubt none of those women you are discussing haven’t made sacrifices. I’m sure you hear the men bitching about what they have to deal with, but never hear what the women say they’ve compromised on. So I’ve been married 18 years now. Let me talk about the sacrifices…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:56 PM
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So sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:25 PM
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I’ve lived this. I was the one who did more crazy sex with my first husband than my second. He knows BTW. He also knows that my first husband pressured me into those acts, that they made me feel like shit, and that cavalier and dismissive attitude helped end that marriage. It’s also why I know men by and large don’t value young, virgin, agreeable women. Anyway, I wasn’t going to be pressured into anymore sex that made me feel bad. So no, no anal, and no threesomes or open relationships. Any man …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:09 AM
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I see what you are saying, and I do agree. People punish their current partners for the wrongs of the past. I don’t know if that is what OP is driving at. Using the term passion is vague. I’ve always analogized it that former doormats become the most crazy over enforcing their boundaries. The smallest push against those boundaries - which happens in normal relationships - results in an extreme response. So someone who had a cheater boyfriend may hit the wall if her new boyfriend doesn’t pick up,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:08 PM
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Lmao. No. I mean sure, some. But not on average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:30 PM
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Lmao :) high five girl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:27 PM
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As a 49 year old woman who looks a decade younger, I still get lots of attention from men my own age. Shrug. I’m not as attractive as I was - age comes for us all - but I’m not ugly, at least to men around my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:23 PM
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Lot of divorced dads aren’t interested in more kids. Once kids are off the plate, there is no wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:21 PM
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I know, you all just cope so hard hoping that that hottie that turned you down is crying. Truth is, she’s married and happy with a retired Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:20 PM
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Some one is bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:17 PM
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Because she doesn’t want to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:16 PM
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This is good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:15 PM
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You all are so young. You all are going to spend your life in competition with ghosts and make yourself miserable because you can’t win against the dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:11 PM
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Right? And in truth they better change and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:06 PM
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That happens all the time. Happened to a friend of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:05 PM
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God so many grammatical errors in that… I need to stop replying on my phone but I hope you get the gist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:03 PM
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Your last paragraph floors me. Long before I was ever aware of manosphere or redpill - shit before tinder was a thing, we regularly in our twenties would tell men not to be doormats or “learn to say no,” to women. Or vice versa, say “learn to say no to men.” If you act like a doormat, you invite in people who want to walk on you. This happens with friends and with romantic partners. No one respects a doormat. No woman respects a push over man that will do anything at all for her. My husband ador…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:01 PM
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Oh bull. That’s negging and bad men do it all the time. I’ve lived it. They will deliberately compare their current girlfriends to their former in a negative light or imply hotter girls are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:51 PM
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And yet that is what they are doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:33 PM
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Boom
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:31 PM
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Here is the thing. I let my first husband pressure me into sex acts that were (1) deeply hurtful emotionally to me, (2) sometimes physically painful, and (3) destroyed our marriage. So I got some self respect and found the word no when it comes to men. My now husband has a better all around partner, but I won’t indulge in painful (anal sex) or destructive (threesomes) sex acts just because I did with husband 1. And I love and have loved my now husband far longer and far more deeply than husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:52 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:32 PM
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She is talking about what some people say HERE
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:23 PM
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Do you want to go back to those times? That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:17 PM
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Nah man. Don’t let anyone claim you or your girl is not high value just because you’re autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:12 PM
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More abortions, less sex, less children, less mid men having any success whatsoever. Fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:02 PM
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I like you - you are proactive and considered
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:52 PM
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He probably should have picked a basic Becky instead of Stacy. Should have picked better huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:51 PM
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“ but the problem is they've gotten their rocks off with many exciting guys while waiting for Prince Charming; so the settle guy will will never stimulate her sexually (and thus emotionally) enough to hang on to her with love alone.” You all watched too much sex in the city on your formative years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:49 PM
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But you tried. Learn from it and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:47 PM
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“…I can tell that even though I'm better than her in pretty much every way, she just wasn't attracted to me because I wasn't tall enough for her!…” Found the problem. No one is interested in dating someone who thinks he’s better than you because he makes more money or has a more extensive education. Would you want to date someone who thought she was better than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:45 PM
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Bull fucking shit. Ps 1970s are when women finally gained full rights here in the US. My mom wasn’t allowed into UVA despite a perfect 4.0 as a first year. They let my dad in even though his grades were far worse - because he was a man. When she was admitted, she was only allowed into nursing or education. She finished with a perfect 4.0 and got her masters with a 4.0. My dad fucked around, flunked out, and was given chance after chance because he was a smart man. I walked in as a first year 20 …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:39 PM
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If they had a happy marriage. It’s terrible about your half brother. Did you ever find him? I tend to agree with you, though - the more things changed the more they stay the same. I’m like you, I am older. My parents met in the late 60s. My mom actually dumped the beta bux good guy for my dad, more the Chad. They had to marry because he knocked her up. No bueno in 68. It was a bad marriage, an ugly marriage, and it ended in infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:28 PM
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So which is it? Is casual sex bad or good? Because on one hand I see people squealing over women (in particular) having high n counts. On the other I see complaints that people aren’t dating and are single. OP I agree with a lot of your post
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:21 PM
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Considering boomers lead and have led the stats for divorce, even to “gray divorce” now, I don’t think a few 50 year marriages indicate those marriages were better, at all. Divorce rates are actually trending down significantly in the later generations (see last link for that). You all have a real idealized and inaccurate view of marriages in the earlier generations. https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/articles/2024-10-22/seniors-who-split-rates-of-gray-divorce-have-tripled-since-1990#:~:tex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:19 PM
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That sucks. And bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:46 AM
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Is the fetus inside of the man? Yes. I really don’t understand why this is so hard - we each control our own bodies but we don’t get to control other bodies. I’d prefer my husband get a vasectomy. I can’t make him. You may prefer someone abort, but you can’t make her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:45 AM
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Nah it’s actually true. Women usually don’t say early on because of miscarriages. I had three or four. Can’t remember. Sucked. Was sad. Nothing like I’d be if my baby had died
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:41 AM
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What do you call it when a woman is pregnant - EXPECTING a baby. But go on, tell me all about the death certificates we issue for miscarriages, and all the funerals we have for those early miscarriages flushed down the toilet. Oh yah, none. Check Mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:40 AM
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So what? It still is. And we aren’t the fattest country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:36 AM
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Most women who have abortions already have kids. Maybe you should leave it to the person who has to endure it to decide whether pregnancy is “beautiful.” I’ve heard enough red pill men here talk about mothers, so it’s clear that they don’t consider pregnancy or motherhood “beautiful.” Any man demanding a financial abortion doesn’t consider pregnancy or parenthood beautiful. It will either lead to more abortions or more kids raised in poor financial circumstances. And bullshit that “feminism” tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:36 AM
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“ People that aren't anti abortion don't see abortion as fundamentally different from birth control.” This is incorrect. You should speak with more prochoice people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:18 AM
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This. I do not understand why people in the US are so slovenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:12 AM
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Not unpopular. I didn’t find birth itself magical, but there is an amazing and spiritual experience to grow your baby under your heart. I get you and I wouldn’t switch places for that experience either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:01 AM
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Woman here who has both had kidney stones AND given birth twice. Pregnancy is longer, more exhausting, and more painful (delivery) than kidney stones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:52 PM
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“ Like literally every girl has something ongoing.” They really don’t. There are a lot of girls just working their jobs or school and not dating. Two friends of mine I’ve known for a decade - one has just had a few dates in that period of time. She’s deeply religious so no ONS or situationships. The other, nothing at all. Nada. Also religious. I just don’t think guys see these women at all. They aren’t flashy. They work normal jobs and are average. There are a lot of guys like this - average dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:36 PM
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Gotta admit, I was scrolling through your posts to see what you look like :) Aw you are very good looking. And damn on the six pack. I’ve always favored a swarthy man and married one myself. Of course I have no idea what your personality is like. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:51 PM
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I like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:25 AM
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This is how this question feels: Man: “I’m the last man on the planet and we have to procreate to enable the human race to continue but I’m 20 years older than you are…” Woman: “ya, I guess since there are literally no other options!” Man: “Ha! See! Women don’t really hate age gap relationships and they should date us old guys rather than be alone with your cats!” This is such a set up of a hypothetical - I didn’t have to marry before 25 or marry a guy 20 years older than me to have kids. I marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:22 AM
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“ And I would argue most women actually agree with me, but don’t realize it due to the fact that we don’t experience a lack of options and are unfamiliar with how chrushing loneliness in the romantic sense can be.” Please speak for yourself only and stop talking down other women as if we all are just too dumb to know our own minds. I’ve had plenty of older female friends who’ve remained single or never had kids. It isn’t the hell scrape you paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:17 AM
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We don’t. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:14 AM
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And if men don’t take women their own age, I guess they’ll be alone too. That 20 year age gap gets worse the older a woman gets. A forty year old is pretty active. Fifty year old, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:13 AM
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Single and childless. I did have a 20 year gap relationship. No way. It was fun for a bit. I wasn’t manipulated, but no way building a life. It was clear fast. My mom has CP. I know exactly what it’s like to be a caregiver. And I knew it from a young age. My husband whom I adore is five years older than me but he wrecked his knees, feet, and thumbs by playing soccer for YEARS and as a keep (goalie thumbs). That shit catches up in your middle age. And don’t just assume you’ll say healthy. My bro …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:08 AM
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Most prenups are upheld
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:31 PM
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God I’m so sorry for your uncle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:26 PM
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(Who enforces the terms of a contract? The government)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:20 PM
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The first paragraph I really agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:17 PM
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“ Real life experience. In non-reddit world, men are much more mature than women. It’s that women pick loudmouths that are tall or good looking and then complain that all men are immature.” Or men (ahum) pick hot crazy women and assume all women are just as crazy. (Looking at you.) That social bullying is stereotypical mean girl shit. I was heavily bullied by boys growing up as well - called fat, cow, ugly, etc.. But people grow up and they change. They do. I like men in general now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:11 PM
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No woman are very catty and competitive too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:06 PM
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Not for men. The social message is that men don’t want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:03 PM
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Can’t speak for Reddit but it’s definitely common for men to do that on dating sites/apps
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:01 PM
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“ Men just don't give that to one another. It won't change.” I largely agree with your comment, but I note that other cultures do have far closer male-male relationships, so it is possible to change
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:57 PM
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YES!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:48 PM
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Women are attracted to more than a small amount of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:46 PM
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Weird. You think the only way a woman gets a loving partner is if the man is much much less attractive than she is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:44 PM
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And a man who drops his standards can find a woman that worships him, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:43 PM
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“ You are in a monogamous relationship, you shouldn't fucking lust after other people.” Oh you sweet summer child. Of course you lust after other people, but you should hide it as much as possible. Neither men nor women go blind when they get into a monogamous relationship. None of that excuses cheating or - out of respect for your partner - not showing that attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:41 PM
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Chadfishes usually have both looks and charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:37 PM
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lol at “soulpole.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:35 PM
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YES. My now husband moved me from neutral to 100 by coupling a funny personality on a decent body
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:33 PM
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Sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:32 PM
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Oh you sweet summer child - no. Women actually have the strongest sex drive in late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:23 PM
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It’s misogyny to assign all women bad personality characteristics simply for aging like every other human does. It’s like a woman who says they won’t date short men because all men under 5/10 are insecure, jealous, with napoleon complexes, like pissed off chihuahuas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:21 PM
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On fire there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:16 PM
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Why is it that men here are so concerned about AF/BB? Oh yah, insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:14 PM
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By your definition, this is pretty misogynistic, then: “ On average, younger women tend to be more attractive, less combative and angry.” Eulen just flipped it on you and you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:13 PM
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We’ve had inflation here, too. But I’m sure it’s totally fine to have a land war right next door to you in Europe. Totes fine. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:04 PM
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I can’t remember - is beta bucks good or bad now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:23 PM
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not all of us suffer from deep sexual repression
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:13 AM
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Yes some men and women get bitter and mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:59 AM
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Right? I had two kids the natural way at 32 and 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:52 AM
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It’s called marital rape and no birth control. So YES it is a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:55 PM
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Damn that sucks man. Sorry she’s such a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:54 PM
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Ah okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:51 PM
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Like, what is a terrible argument? That men aren’t “kept from” filing divorce papers? They aren’t. That you and your ex-wife viewed your marriage differently is not the same as your wife “keeping you” from filing for divorce. Marriage is a two “yes” and one “no.” Both people need to see it as worth saving to save it. I’m very sorry that your marriage failed, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:50 PM
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So, you think the one breaking the contract, ie filing for divorce, should suffer higher penalties than the one say cheating? Not all contracts contain penalty clauses, and public policy will often strike too onerous of penalty clauses if they do. And ultimately it is very unwise to push the concept of a commercial contract on to a personal relationship, especially with children involved. Any cop will tell you that the domestics are the scary violent calls, not some commercial dispute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:41 PM
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Men, if they seek it, usually get a 50/50 split for child custody
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:28 PM
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That’s an interesting view. There is a malaise that hits both men and women in middle age. And I know women are doing shit like cheating more on par with men now that they have the financial independence to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:28 PM
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And still are in a lot of jurisdictions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:26 PM
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Lord babe have you been through a divorce? It is hell
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:25 PM
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If they are seeking for happiness elsewhere - ie cheating - they are not abiding by their vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:22 PM
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This is a good point. My first husband wasn’t shocked to get the divorce papers - after all I had moved out - but he was still shocked that I would leave. But we’d been unhappy a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:20 PM
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I agree somewhat with this. I’d give it a different thrust - I think a lot of women expect men to change when they marry - ie get serious, be motivated, climb the social economic ladder. In other words, marriage is seen as a real dividing line between “before is play, now we get serious.” I don’t think men see it that way at all. The end result is that a woman may marry a happy go lucky guy and then get pissed when they don’t shift gears to get the better job, put down the video games, and get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:17 PM
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No men do too. But I guess if you dont want kids, that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:03 PM
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“ Also, I wonder how many of the women who say "yes" would still do so if society didn't often give women ways to keep their husbands' money after divorce.” I mean, I wouldn’t ever have taken the career hit that came with kids had we been simply keeping our money entirely separate. We are building a life together which means I (and he) make the best decisions for both of us as a unit. As an example I worked 3/4 time and took over ALL of the day to day child care so he could focus on getting his …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:01 PM
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He may be unhappy because she isn’t as good looking as she was, or they have too many kids, or he’s got the middle aged blah (hey I’m a woman and I got it).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:52 PM
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“ If men dealt with the legal paper work and kept women out of it, would you not think the man was being abusive?” The operative statement is “kept the men out of it.” Nothing prevents a man from filing for divorce. And his wife sure can’t keep him from doing so - if she is then yes she is abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:51 PM
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A simple review of a zillion studies into this will disproves your premise - women are more often financially worse off if they divorce. See eg: https://fortune.com/2023/08/23/divorce-laws-designed-create-unnecessary-financial-hardship-women-personal-finance/ https://www.charles-stanley.co.uk/insights/commentary/impact-of-divorce-on-womens-finances
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:49 PM
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I agree with a lot of this. I wish we had mandatory premarital counseling before people marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:45 PM
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So what - it was still a marriage ending event.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:44 PM
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No. She shouldn’t. Why the fuck should she? She did her goddamned TIME for society - she produced little taxpayers and obedient citizens who are productive. She married a man. Now she gets to live her OWN fucking life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:33 AM
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Yah that’s why women got to do their cock carousel, am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:25 AM
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Someone should have read Star Bellied Sneetches as a child
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:24 AM
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So in their league, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:22 AM
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This isn’t the Olympics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:19 AM
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“ say this as a woman who did STEM. In all my time in college, I was one of a grand total of three girls in the Computer Science student body. And mind you, I'm from Eastern Europe and education here is 100% free, all the way into grad and postgrad, so no one has the excuse of not having money for tuition.” That isn’t what it’s like in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:14 AM
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“ Stoicism? You mean the pseudo-spiritual excuse of a philosophy that is pretty much just glorified rationalization, and that couldn't save the society it was invented in from passivity in face of doom?” You could just admit you don’t know shit about stoicism and go on with your ignorance. The Romans didn’t invent stoicism. The empire lasted long past Marcus Aurelius. And most Romans didn’t practice stoicism. 💅💅 “If you like your grapes sour, more power to you. The rest of us have different pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:11 AM
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Have you ever listened to the song by the beetles, Eleanor Rigby? 1966. It is part of the human condition. You made comments like this: “ Lots of life's losers have been losing since they we're born. Stillbirths that just have to keep going and are often looked down on for it when someone takes the time to notice them at all. They're just unlucky. And because they're unlucky, people don't care about them.” But many people who haven’t been romantically successful - like apparently YOU - do have p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:00 AM
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Seriously. One of the first dating lessons I learned was NOtT using a guy as emotional support (like you would a girlfriend) until the relationship was well established. Ducked one of the first dating relationships up I had that alway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:22 AM
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How anyone can look at our society and its history and equate it to a female led organization like hyenas is comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:17 AM
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“ e i was bullied severly to the point i had to fight most of my classmates..• I was spat on by boys. And ruthlessly bullied in school. Maybe you need to understand that not all girls had your sister’s success.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:15 AM
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Let me know how you feel when that touch is a threat. How about when two gigantic fat women who are each a foot taller than you and weigh more than seventy lbs more than you EACH squish you between them so you can’t breath and you can’t move and tell you they are going to gag you with their pussy and spray down your throat. Tell me how touch starved you’d be. When people touch you with violence, you don’t like it so much. I let my husband touch me because I trust him explicitly. My two children …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:13 AM
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It’s the symptom of an unhealthy person, and this goes for women too. either it’s an attempt to manipulate you by love bombing; or or they are desperate for anyone which is insulting. Cults do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:10 AM
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I mean he literally put his finger on it - oh no we’ve devalued women’s work for years and now we don’t have babies!!’ Maybe you should have valued women’s work from the beginning if babies are so important?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:05 AM
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Women built the arsenal of democracy in WW2. I’m a lawyer. My SIL and my female cuz are doctors. My sis is in IT. Another cuz is a pilot. Not one HR minion among them. Most nurses are female. And nurses are what make the difference in patient moribundity and mortality in hospitals. If you want to walk out of a hospital in good shape, you better praise those nurses. And countries are panicking over low birth rates, a direct response to society constantly undervaluing the unpaid work that women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:03 AM
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“ When your lights and plumbing and internet don’t work because society is descending into chaos I hope all that stuff will save you.” Rosa the Riveter called and tells you women made the arsenal of democracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:52 AM
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Let me know when you impose those standards on men, any of them from Basic Bob to Chadwick. Most of the guys I knew weren’t interested in commitment or marriage until their late 20s early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:49 AM
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“ Everything else out of their mouth is just a non-sentient auto-reply script.” Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:45 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ. You gotta let those two fat chicks go. Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:41 AM
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Yes - omg - “how the world OUGHT to be.” But it isn’t. People aren’t computers. The part that really sends me around the bend is where many of these individuals think they are “perfectly rational” and they are just as governed by emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:41 AM
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Yes because kids take TIME. Who do you think is waking up at 2 am when they are sick? And you think some money replaces that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:33 AM
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Lmao- men are extremely possessive. That’s why they are so obsessed with Body Count.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:32 AM
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Women who are still single after 25 are smart. The most stable marriages are from 28-32
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:23 AM
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You fucked her doll. Sounds like you are just as low quality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:22 AM
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No no, only MEN are allowed to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:21 AM
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“ Millions of women across US are masturbating to that CEO murderer Luigi because he's hot.” Projection there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:19 AM
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You were smart. I married my first serious relationship at 22. Six years later, we were divorced. It had been a disaster. I was too naive to accurately judge a good relationship. That’s what is so comical about calling an 18 year old “mature.” On paper my ex was like a 7. Over six feet, blond and blue eyed, wiry, coming out of a great business school. Some people thought he as marrying down looks-wise. He treated me bad even though he married me. I left, not him. I married much better at 30. I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:09 AM
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You aren’t finding a mature 18 year old. That’s an oxymoron.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:03 AM
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I think because the early 20s are still sorting out who they are and want they want from a mate in life. Good for your parents tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:01 AM
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LMAO. This is hilarious. Earlier marriages are less stable. Most stable marriages are in the 28-32 sweet spot. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201606/the-best-and-worst-ages-to-get-married?amp In my experience - and so anecdotal - the marriages that are stable (including mine), the women were all in their late twenties, early 30s. Two of my friends married at 20/21. They are all divorced in a spectacular mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:00 AM
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Men should be socialized to fuck and marry land whales? And should be penalized by double taxes if they refuse? No? Then fuck off. I’ll date who I want. I don’t mind introverts - I married one - but I’m not vaguely interested in a “shy” guy. No way. This has got to be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:41 AM
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Wishing you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:36 AM
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So wait, my mom, who had THREE kids and paid taxes and is divorced because my father decided to fuck my mom’s good friend should taxed … But my dad who helped break up two marriages and didn’t pay a fucking dime of support should get a free ride? And my mom raised us - all that unpaid labor resulted in three six figure plus citizens who’ve never been in trouble a day in their life - And you want to punish my MOTHER
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:35 AM
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Divorced women have done their time. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:31 AM
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Bullshit. Look at every movie in the theaters now - skinny hot women as the leading ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:03 AM
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Right? How many fucking leading romantic interests has Adam Sandler played and he is FUGGLY. Not a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:01 AM
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Lmao. Go on, tell me how people see Lizzo and McCarthy as sex objects. Please. There are fat women in Hollywood - they are laughed at. Meanwhile, based on Wicked, heroin chic is back in style looking at Arianna Grande and Erivo. And the fat girl and fat guy friends of Grande were played for laughs. Only the skinny people can fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:00 AM
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It never was alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:52 PM
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But you know you need to get to the gym. Jesus. Look I’ve been skinny and I’ve been heavy set - but not even that fat. And every time I stepped into the doctors office or when talking to my family it was “you’re fat; loose weight.” At a certain point, it’s a given. It’s impossible to avoid the info that being in shape is better for attracting a mate, so people assume you already KNOW, so they don’t hit you over the head with it. As someone who was hit over the head - again and again - you stop w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:51 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:47 PM
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Like my husband is pretty heavy now. He has me. I love him. Being fat doesn’t preclude you from love. It makes it more difficult, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:45 PM
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Good lord. You all need to get off the internet and out into the world. And volunteer - a lot. A lot of gay men and lesbian women never found love. Don’t get me wrong - it isn’t fair and is terrible, but they still lived lives with people who love them. My sister has never been romantically successful. She’s on the spectrum. She has plenty of people who will mourn her when she goes. Like me. Romantic relationships are important, but they aren’t the only thing that defines a good life. You all ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:44 PM
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“ This Does not even bring up alimony or child support, which are systems at this moment designed to benefit women more than men.” No they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:09 AM
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Mostly a lot of time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:08 AM
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A bum dude a bum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:03 AM
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So you got fired? Or you got charged with harassment? Like dude I am sorry. She shouldn’t have run her mouth and given the shove off. But that shit could have happened in high school or college too. I’ll raise you the two cooks at work literally squishing me between them no consensually while I was carrying dirty dishes to catch a feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:01 AM
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“ What was considered harmless and normal in my parents' day is now considered harassment. Normality changes, and I'm convinced people back then had much thicker skins than people today.” Yah I loved it when the fat middle aged cooks drew pictures of me sucking their dick and smashed me between them when I was trying to get dirty plates into the kitchen. It was awesome. Oh yeah and when my fifty year old boss tried to get me drunk when I was 17 so he could fuck me when I showed up at his winery …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:58 AM
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I do NOT get the attraction of driver at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:18 PM
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It is true that culture does influence it. In the Middle Ages, women with a nice round bottom, a little pooch, and small perky boobs was considered super hot. And a super high forehead. Ick
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:17 PM
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Slay means awesome or win that shit according to my GenAs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:16 PM
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It’s a general you. If ONE is dating a girl who is so shallow she’d ditch a nice guy because her friends look down on him for being short, she and those girls are shallow. No one said word one to me about my now husband. They didn’t care he was shorter than average. They cared that he was a good guy, who liked me, and was more my equal in intelligence and ambition. But we aren’t shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:14 PM
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Oh I wasn’t implying you cared about height rather than the lie. I just was agreeing that us shorties can tell. And that it’s the lie, not the shortness, that is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:09 PM
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Men get affirmative action to get into college. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:06 PM
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“ "my gender never used to work for money,…” Because men kept us out of jobs, universities, and professions. Remember, no private firm would hire Ruth Bater Ginsburg even though she graduated first in her law school. First. You don’t get to slam the door shut on women’s faces while simultaneously expecting us to be grateful for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:04 PM
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“ Men are half the population, and by far the more accomplished and productive sex. Therefore, their feedback will always be crucial.” Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:59 PM
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“ We're at a strange point in society right now where it's fine to grill men for having too high standards for women, but it's taboo to do exactly the same with the genders reversed.” Really? Are we grilling men for wanting a skinny girl? When men complain they can’t find a girl, they are told to lower their standards. But women are told the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:55 PM
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“ We know for a fact that it's significantly harder for men to date, find relationships, and have sex than it used to be. This is a kill shot to the biological essentialism idea of attractiveness. It's obviously false.” Do we actually know that? GenZ is having less sex but less than boomers at the same age? What about before that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:53 PM
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My friend group of women never gave too much of a damned about height
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:14 PM
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Not really. You are dating shallow women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:13 PM
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I’m 5 foot. My ex was 6.2. I know exactly how tall 6 is. I was fine with a shorter man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:55 PM
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“ Men claiming they like fat women but still drooling over fit women…” Snork men don’t claim to like fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:54 PM
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“ th) so it’s more likely that that in 2022 men just shifted down in order to have a chance.” So men do get women just not what they think they deserve. Yah fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:52 PM
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This. I like em lean and mean. Today’s body builders are not my cup of tea
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:40 PM
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Great attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:38 PM
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“ We've all heard it, that women don't like men that are in good shape. ” Lmao - “women” don’t say this. WTF? Did your momma tell you that? Or your Grammy? You’d have to be blind - just like a big woman would have to be blind, deaf, and dumb to think men find a big girl more attractive than an in shape girl. Maybe there is a small subset of women who prefer an out of shape man - just like there are some men who like really big girls - but not most women. What people do say is that women consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:34 PM
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I always come to find your posts. I know they are going to be good. This is one of your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:03 PM
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Aw she sounds like a gem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:12 PM
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Nah. It’s double standards because we are equal human beings and we both - men and women - value monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:00 PM
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Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:58 PM
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Good dude you are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:51 PM
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And when we criticize a man wanting to date a much younger woman, we are called bitter jealous hags
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:49 PM
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NO. And my bro did it. My parents had kittens and for good reason. It was NOT a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:47 PM
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Please. Men bitch nonstop over women preferring good looking guys! “in fact if you criticize a woman's standards that will just get you called an incel….” And when you criticize men’s preferences for 16-21 year olds, no matter how old he is, women get called bitter old hags. Get a thicker skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:45 PM
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If this was so true, women wouldn’t average guys a year or two older
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:42 PM
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It’s not the least bit taboo to discuss it. Men are just salty that they get the side eye for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:41 PM
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I agree. My bro began dating a woman 20 years his senior at 19 and they married over everyone’s objection. It was…. Questionable. And yes my brother had big problems and spent years in counseling. Oddly he was also quite successful with girls his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:40 PM
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Real interesting window
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:32 PM
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I like Asian boys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:32 PM
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Nah - in the US the most stable marriages are at around 27/28
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:31 PM
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Or mine -> college -> married -> grad school -> career -> divorce -> date and enjoy life -> marry -> kids -> career… etc etc .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:30 PM
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I suspect - but do not know - that my now husband spent a lot more on a prior girlfriend, his first serious serious one, in the initial stages of dating. That relationship did not end well. By the time he met me, he was doing much better financially but was more cautious about spending money because he didn’t want to be used. It made him trust me more that I didn’t demand expensive dates or gifts. And, honestly, I’d have been suspicious had he done so. We both have scars. So we took it slow, we …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:22 PM
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You know what, you are right - if it is k security, it’s one that is instilled via societal pressure and scorn on men - just like looks pressure on women, so not a shock that guys feel this way. I should have been more empathetic. I can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:47 AM
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Yes but they like to pretend it doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:43 AM
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Yah she sounds like a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:42 AM
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I was the prude my first marriage. Virgin until I met him. He treated me like trash. I find it complete bullshit that a man will treat a virgin better at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:39 AM
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Yes, I was one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:36 AM
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Good thing I’m not projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:34 AM
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Yes. My husband didn’t go blind and neither did I.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:16 AM
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Oh boy for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:13 AM
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Nah dude is right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:11 AM
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But I bet you claim that it’s women who are emotional … and you say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:11 AM
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Nobel winning economists support Harris not Trump’s economic plans. https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2024/10/23/politics/nobel-prize-economists-harris-economic-plan And at least some are predicting a 75% chance of recession. https://www.marketwatch.com/amp/story/one-strategist-lifts-recession-probability-to-75-after-trumps-win-and-recommends-how-to-position-for-it-6d482eb9 But sure Smoot Hawley and operation wet back worked great, right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:07 AM
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So deep insecurity. Yesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:52 AM
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And then you wonder why you are in a dead bedroom ten years later
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:49 AM
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Yah guys used to be drawn in by my sister’s looks, intelligence, and talent, and then back away quickly. She is deeply anxious and prone to fighting. Not everyone is cut out for marriage but these guys think hot means marriage material. Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:45 AM
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If it’s so important, pay for it. This is how the US works - capitalism. If it’s valuable PAY FOR it. From feudalism, to slave labor, to indentured servitude, to the illegal, and to the artificial limits on women’s employment and salary, the western world has allowed a narrow few to make out like bandits on the free or artificially cheap labor of the very poor, women, the labor class. Well now you can’t hire a smart woman at a low salary to be your legal secretary. Smart women go to law school s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:34 AM
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Lmao at this bullshit hyperbole -“ Selfishness as a virtue is practiced and lauded far beyond the most shameless wall street tycoon.” No one with half a brain will take you seriously when you push such horse shit. Why on earth would any woman believe that refusing to live a life of economic stress is MORE selfish than musk grubbing for another 500 million. I say this as a woman with two children - it is insane to chide people for refusing to take a life time hit in earnings and drastically reduc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:22 AM
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Like a lot of STEM majors, he thinks only numbers matter. There he’ll wonder why he never gets into management. Soft skills are king.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:34 PM
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Right - dude the importance of effective communication is essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:21 PM
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Chipping in here to back you up. I double majored in archaeology and environmental science. I took all the pre-reqs for med school, including physics, biology, etc. I then went to law school and now do very very well. This guy sounds like my hub - hard ass IT numbers guy when I first met him - and then he got his doctorate in CS - enterprise informations systems based on an idea out of a sociology course. I helped perfect his writing. And then he realized how essential soft skills are, and the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:20 PM
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“ One of the most important aspects of talking about red pill stuff is it’s directed at types of women we want to date and their behavior. Guys don’t normally meet or want to be with a cat lady. She’s asexual, weird, or some reason guys don’t want her, so she’s been single a long time.” This is such an amazing acknowledgement. I wish I could book mark this for next angry man (not you) that complains women ignore him - the truth is, it’s only certain women they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:38 PM
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I think she means “unmarried.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:36 PM
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Yes, and that consumer spending is for households. I do the vast majority of spending at my home because I do almost all the groceries, all the kids stuff, most of the household stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:33 PM
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I don’t think people are using the same definition as you. The OP is referring to never married women without kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:32 PM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:30 PM
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Tangled was the last Disney movie focused on falling in love with Prince Charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:29 PM
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Plenty of jobs like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:24 PM
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And that is your call to make of course. I’m not saying that you need to remain in the relationship. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:19 PM
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They do - have you seen the studies that show the counties that no longer have a media ecosystem swung the most heavily that way. We need a VOA inside the US
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:17 PM
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I see you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:16 PM
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Heh. We shall see won’t we?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:15 PM
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I know you aren’t Fuentes. I’m saying people can have a very negative reaction to Fuentes and close their legs. That impacts you even though it’s not meant to punish YOU. I acknowledged it was an emotional response. Look, you don’t like Trump fucking up your sex life - I get it - but why blame your partner? So let me give you an example - I’m in Ga. As soon as Roe fell we got a six week abortion ban. I had to talk to my teen girls - 16 and 14 - that the world had changed. BC fails - I ought to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:10 PM
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Eh plenty of women voted for him. My view of the American public writ large was already pretty low but this was also part of an anti-incumbent back lash world wide post pandemic. It’s been painful and pointing out it was worse elsewhere doesn’t really help (although it’s true). That said, everyone poor is going to get it good and hard financially. I’ll enjoy saying told ya so to every muthefukkknt maga nut in my neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:02 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:58 PM
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Like, you are a really stand up guy. People like Fuentes screaming “your body my choice” is deeply impactful. Reactions to that won’t be cooly logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:57 PM
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I agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:59 PM
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Ignore him. He copies and pastes the same comment over and over. Look at his history. It’s boring
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:55 PM
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Sure. There are some fucked up women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:54 PM
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Yes. If a woman hangs around a guy getting used and doesn’t wise up, that’s on her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:52 PM
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This is disingenuous. Men here constantly say that they “protect” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:47 PM
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CO-SIGN. 150%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:42 PM
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My man? Yes I expect him to step in and help de-escalate the situation if I can’t handle it. He hasn’t had to as of yet. Here is the thing - I would absolutely step in too. If I saw my man losing a bar fight - dude is 53 now, come on - I’d absolutely team up on the asshole. The goal is to win by any means necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:41 PM
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I’ve been in a bottle fight in a bar with a drunk girl. I’ve taken a full punch from a man before. I took Krav Maga for years because of this. Most people don’t really know what it’s like - but yes men are much more likely to have gotten in a fight with other men so they do have better understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:38 PM
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Interesting view
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:35 PM
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That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:34 PM
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Interesting. I’ve heard the saying but no idea it came from that poem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:31 PM
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Hmm, another man who thinks tiktok attention grifters are real life and ends with an attempted insult. I’d say that the only one who has trouble with facts is you. She made a solid point about the definition of “single” in the MS study and you responded very emotionally with insults and “TokTok” rather than with data. You didn’t even attempt to address her point. Look in the mirror, boyo. You’re too emotionally invested in your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:26 PM
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Those aren’t cat ladies. They’ve been married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:20 PM
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You all haven’t seen the turn Disney made a decade ago and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:20 PM
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Does she want to marry? Like Jesus, I’d rather stay single than marry someone that is “meh” to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:19 PM
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But they MARRY and have children
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:18 PM
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It isn’t dying alone. My sister is single and has family - me and my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:16 PM
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“ In 2021, major investment banks started to pour money into pet related stocks. This includes pet foods, toys, health, accessories and even pet strollers.L Because men and women - married or not - are buying and spending more and more money on animals rather than kids. Pet ownership has gone up; kids have cratered. It has nothing to do with “cat” ladies. We have two kids, three cats, and two dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:15 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:10 PM
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Or she doesn’t really want one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:09 PM
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100% top to bottom. I know three “cat” ladies so to speak. One is my sister. She’s actually quite physically attractive - an athlete her whole life, actress, singer and musician, intelligent, and definitely not a party girl. But she is likely on the spectrum, can be very very abrasive, and had some terrible experiences with men very young. She’s a great aunt to my kids though and will always be part of us. She also has several friends and travels extensively. Like crazy shit like horseback tours…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:06 PM
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Yes - I’ll answer without being a dick. I watched my husband’s cousin get taken to court by the child’s father to establish paternity and to establish custody rights. Just like when a man tries to dodge responsibility and the mother takes him to court to establish child support (and also will need to share custody). Seen that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:47 PM
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Oh good I’ll delete my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:11 AM
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Lmao. What bullshit. Did you just ignore the fact that most people in the military are men, as are most law makers. But sure … it’s women’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:11 AM
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Really? Tell me where I can get out of child support if you refuse to give up your adoption rights? Oh I can’t. I don’t get a financial abortion - why the fuck do you? Look at that - it’s equal. Oh you want to compel me to abort once I’m pregnant? Does that mean I get to compel you to get a vascetomy so I don’t get pregnant? I mean if you want to control my body, I guess I get to control yours. Look at that - it’s equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:09 AM
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God thank you. And the same guys will whine about no casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:06 AM
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I don’t get to control a man’s body - or I’d force every man I fucked to be compelled to have the snip. But I can’t. Because it’s his body. And you don’t get to control another person’s body - which means once you’ve handed off the sperm to some else, it’s out of your fucking hands. Don’t like the idea that the woman might do something you don’t like with the sperm, don’t give it to them. You all don’t understand what abortion is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:05 AM
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It isn’t slut shaming. I don’t get to control a man’s body - or I’d force every man I fucked to be compelled to have the snip. But I can’t. Because it’s his body. And you don’t get to control another person’s body - which means once you’ve handed off the sperm to some else, it’s out of your fucking hands. Don’t like the idea that the woman might do something you don’t like with the sperm, don’t give it to them. You wanna talk about double standards? How about all men who engender an unwanted pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:03 AM
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No double standard boyo. You just can’t fucking stand you don’t have the right to tell what goes on with another person’s body. I don’t get to control a man’s body - or I’d force every man I fucked to be compelled to have the snip. But I can’t. Because it’s his body. And you don’t get to control another person’s body - which means once you’ve handed off the sperm to some else, it’s out of your fucking hands. Don’t like the idea that the woman might do something you don’t like with the sperm, don…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:03 AM
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Sure sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:53 AM
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No sweet, that would be you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:52 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:50 AM
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No - We BOTH get to control what happens inside of our respective bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:50 AM
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Not everywhere and only in narrow circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:49 AM
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Crabs in a bucket - the human condition. My sister and I got ugly competitive for a while when I glowed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:42 AM
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Can I say I see you? My mom was always prettier than me. It can feel really not great in a way. I’m glad my daughters are prettier than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:39 PM
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This exactly. Pretty people - male and female - get better treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:34 PM
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I’ve known a false accusation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:32 PM
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No dear. We believe in equality. We can’t force you to have your balla cut off for accidentally knocking a woman up. You can’t force us to abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:30 PM
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We women abandon our children far less than men do. By your definition that makes us the far stronger gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:28 PM
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Sure. And don’t use the public roads, don’t call the police …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:27 PM
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You have agency. It’s called not dispositing sperm in other people - condoms, vasectomies, gay sex, blow jobs, all within your agency
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:25 PM
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Only because it’s in her body. Just like a man she can’t correct that mistake once it’s out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:23 PM
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Look, don’t give your sperm to other people. It’s simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:21 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:19 PM
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“ But women can just give the child up for adoption, and absolve their motherly responsibility…” Not without dad’s consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:18 PM
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A man once again confusing a person’s body with money. You do have BC options, king
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:18 PM
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All I have to say is that Lily is laughing her ass to the bank with all this online noise and controversy - whether it’s the puritans getting off with sex shaming or the “Captain save-a-ho’s” of either gender. I am dealing right now with a truly sex trafficked and abused girl - 14 and a kid already - desperately trying to ho herself out for her boyfriend for love. None of her family - not even her mom - came to get her from DFACs. My youngest is 14. We still watch cartoons together. I save my co…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:10 PM
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She is no Gisele Pelicot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:03 PM
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Snork. Single women interested in swinging are so rare they are called unicorns
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:02 PM
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Please - what social media where
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:01 PM
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I feel little empathy unless - as is asserted - her parents have been grooming her for this. Gross And I feel the same sympathy for her as I do child actors like Gary Coleman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:58 PM
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“ Women think the men are gross and when asked think Lily Phillips is not responsible for her actions and is a victim of the men.” I’m calling pure bs on this. Now I didn’t go look for discussion on it but here I didn’t see one WOMAN say she was a victim of men. Instead it was a man that was arguing that women needed to be second class citizens to “protect” them from men. Me I said she was fully responsible for her decisions and it was her choice. No victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:31 PM
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“ It's simply not true at all. If it were true, they would wear makeup at home, which doesn't happen.” I don’t wear make up at home. What? And I often don’t wear it when I’m out. Sometimes it’s just a little eyebrow color since they are so blonde. But I have beautiful skin
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:05 AM
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You are missing the point - women without makeup may signal she’s lesbian or uninterested in men. It’s like going to a bar in sweats versus a shirt with a plunging neck line. The boobs are the same but send very different signals
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:01 AM
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It’s reality tv. The first person to survive Naked and Afraid was a woman. https://www.victoriaadvocate.com/361mag/entertainment/goliad-county-native-sets-record-on-tv-survival-show/article_033bfa6c-9dd3-5d43-a854-dadcb8c6e4b5.html I guess that means that women are better surviving the wilderness alone - righhhttt?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:57 AM
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It always fascinates me how people dismiss civilization’s massive benefit to themselves while tapping away on their computer in the US or other developed country. If you don’t consent, be free - go to Alaska and live off the grid. Or to Somalia or one of those other counties without a centralized government - no more taxes and no more bullshit laws. Otherwise, you are just another fat and happy libertarian house cat, decrying your central air and warm blankets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:52 AM
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Are you kidding me? Inkidu was not sacrificed to the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:48 AM
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We LIVED through this. Jesus CRACK OPEN a HISTORY book! I bet you guys think you’d always be the kings and not the slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:47 AM
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“ OP is right though, civilization is predicated upon men giving up their autonomy and domesticating themselves for the collective aggregate benefits to women and children.” Once again, a man who never asked himself what happened to male serfs. And the fact you throw CHILDREN in there, as if their existence doesn’t benefit men themselves (or do you think you’ll be 25 forever? And that your little soldiers keeping the warlord next door in check will auto spawn forever?) we have such soft and out …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:46 AM
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“ . Public education, welfare, police, and military cause distortions in the market that benefit women more than men. Men don't need social stability for survival nearly as much as women do.” One more of those libertarian house cats who loll around on the web fantasizing about a dystopian future. Get thee to Somalia, the male paradise, to see how that works out for most men. You may think it is better to rule in hell than serve in heaven, but all of us - men, women, and children - fare better wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:42 AM
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You don’t get the reflected glory of the best of the male gender just because you happen to have a penis. You don’t get to bitch that women must “ Show a general attitude of gratitude for your privilege” of living in a society made by Oppenheimer or Einstein. Just like a trust fund baby, you want to demand respect by yelling “do you know who my daddy is?” It’s the same attitude white men used to have in the colonial days, pretending they were superior to the “natives” with technology stolen from…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:35 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:17 AM
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50% of people in med school are women. Same for law school. It isn’t a fucking DEI degree or HR job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:16 AM
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“ men’s need for women is mental/instinctual.” No, it really wasn’t. Men needed women for survival as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:15 AM
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“ ( well really, any group is substantially less likely to be assaulted )” Just gave your point away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:14 AM
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First. Good on you about textiles. I agree. Second, I also can throw a punch. I’ve spent years in martial arts, including Krav Maga. My upbringing gave me no reason to think any man would protect me, not even my father.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:13 AM
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“ Essentially an obese woman stuffing her face in front of you while you're starving, you put your hand out and she slaps it away and tells you to learn how to deal with starvation.” But you aren’t looking for food, you are expecting sex from a person. You aren’t asking a woman to share food with you but her body. Like WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:08 AM
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This comment should be higher
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:35 AM
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Women can get sex easier. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:20 AM
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What laws are those? Most are 50/50 custody nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:03 AM
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No, it’s just not misandry - unless you think all the men voting for it and putting it in place are also misandrists?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:03 AM
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Lmao. Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:01 AM
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“ r if women accepted that in general, if pairing and birth rates are down, we have a problem. How to address it is another debate. But at least admitting society has a problem is a start.” You know what is so tiresome about this? That you all never ever bitch at men to settle down and have babies. And plenty of men don’t want to do it. And no, I don’t consider it per se a problem - because it ignores the fact that a continuously increasing population is ALSO a massive massive problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:58 AM
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Lmao. I’m sure that’s why birth rates in places like Saudi Arabia are cratering
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:52 AM
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IFS has an agenda. “The mission of the Institute for Family Studies (IFS) is to strengthen marriage and family life and advance the welfare of children through research and public education.” I cite them and are aware of them, but I have reservations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:50 AM
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I’m so glad for both of you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:46 AM
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I will note that she wanted college educated
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:55 PM
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One guy who thinks reality tv is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:44 PM
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The additional step is that while society requires both men and women to function, it does not require an individual man or woman to be sexually active or marry to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:43 PM
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You don’t get pussy because Einstein figured out relativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:40 PM
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Lmao. Since women are also necessary with society, I guess that means you should be forced to date some woman no matter how unattractive she is. Hope she showers at least. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:39 PM
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Women very often are protecting themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:37 PM
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Lmao. So pathetic. Women were building the tanks and planes that won ww2. Of fucking course they can build the factories too. With choice 11% of the construction industry now is women. And then this: “ But it's still obvious that it is not true that I could do anything any human has ever done.” No shit Sherlock - you couldn’t do what Oppenheimer and Einstein did. But I ALSO bet you couldn’t do what Ada Lovelace or Katherine Johnson did either. Does that mean that men are no good at math??? Six m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:36 PM
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“ Society would have significantly fewer issues if 90% of women stopped working than society would have if 90% of men stopped working.” Yah, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:22 PM
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Absolutely - men and women together are needed for civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:21 PM
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I wish. It just hasn’t turned out like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:19 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:19 PM
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It’s the libertarians are house cats problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:18 PM
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Reading comprehension isn’t your strong point. She said we have the freedom now, not when our mothers were young. Let’s see - my mom (despite being a perfect 4.0) was BARRED from attending UVA as a first year. When she was allowed admission at year three, it was only into the nursing school or education school. My dad, with worse grades, was admitted as a first year at the same time mom was denied. He could join any school. He also royally fucked up while my mom cruised through her masters too a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:16 PM
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Well it’s not like the c suite has the reputation of long term thinking - but thanks for proving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:10 PM
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Women and men “gatekeep sex.” How you guys blame this on women and then shame the fuck out of promiscuous women cracks me up. I think prostitution should be legal tho. And yes dads can be great single parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:09 PM
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Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:07 PM
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Those guys who built my house? They got paid. They don’t get anymore appreciation than the (largely) ladies who clean my house for money. I am polite, I pay them for their work, and I treat them well as an equal human being. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:05 PM
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FUCK THAT NOiSE. Let me know when you all praise women in general for raising - often entirely alone - the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:03 PM
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“ She should be grateful to men in general…” Get the FUCK outta here with that bullshit. I’m not praising men in general just because Ghandi and Einstein existed. And you don’t get patted on the head for being a member of their same gender ANYMORE than you or men in general should be condemned for sharing the same gender as Hitler, Mao, Pol Pot, and Stalin. Are you praising the entire gender of women for the single moms out there raising the next goddamned generation? No? How about thanking WOME…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:02 PM
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Interesting view.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:02 PM
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Ah I see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:01 PM
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“I know how men think and it’s disgusting” Lmao - the number of men from all walks of life, including hurly burly construction workers and old Latinos (who are anything but feminist) say this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:57 PM
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This exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:54 PM
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“ Also, immigration was so bad under Biden that latino-majority border towns voted 75% Trump.” That is not backed up by facts just so you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:54 PM
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What a great analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:53 PM
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Okay, so: Men in general are much less likely to harass, much more conscious of sexual assault and issues with consent. They are. Men are far more interested in being involved dads and more likely to share house hold tasks - the surveys on millennials show this. And also my experience. Men are less likely to enforce female gender standards. Men are healthier (aside from obesity). They drink less, they smoke less, they will go to the doctor. My two daughters are attractive. This isn’t just mom bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:50 PM
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Lmao, I can’t believe this was downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:44 PM
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Bullshit. No, that is complete bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:39 PM
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Right? I think the guy may be incredibly caring and warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:38 PM
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What do you think of The Master and Marguerita? That was the first Russian novel I ever read. And do you have any recommendations? I’ve read War and Peace and Anna Karina.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:37 PM
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This entire post is about commitment. If that isn’t what you want, do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:29 PM
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But a lot of those women also have a cherry wood table (I do - seriously)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:28 PM
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Let me tell you the advice that worked for me ladies: “Goodness what beautiful diamonds.” “Goodness had nothing to do with it, dearie.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:25 PM
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And now we are back to the misogynistic “wall.” And yet post 30 women still get a lot of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:20 PM
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Which is actually healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:19 PM
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Then don’t date those women. No one requires you to date a man hater. I sure as f—k wouldn’t date a woman hater
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:18 PM
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Seriously - she got the money to buy the houses - smart smart. My husband’s first degree was as an EE. It is so useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:16 PM
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Good job girl!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:15 PM
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Right????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:14 PM
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You’ve never taken self defense courses and it shows. I recommend Krav Maga.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:12 PM
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Two against one - whether they are both female or not - is a great deterrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:11 PM
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With more money we can hire cleaners. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:10 PM
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Backing this brewing lawyer up. I also am an attorney and my husband a highly paid IT professional. We both provide. We hire cleaners. He appreciates my special occasion banana bread but it’s special occasion for a reason. In my family growing up, it was my dad and brother who were the cooks and they are good! We believe we play to our strengths without consideration of traditional gender roles. And my husband likes me happy and well rested more than stressed out. Edited to add: and he knows I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:09 PM
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Yes!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:29 AM
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YES!!! Or the magical “my vajajay will cure him.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:26 AM
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Lmao. The population is still growing but “the world is literally dying.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:20 AM
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I doubt you’ve ever cracked a history book. I doubt you’ve read one scholarly article. And god knows you all won’t listen to a word anyone else has to say. But on the off chance you are actually open to new information: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/death-sex-money/id870688022?i=1000628548348 That’s Burstyn, an actress, relating what the sixties were like. Tell me what was the most awesome. The cops shrugging off her beating as a family matter? Or not being able to get insurance on a car…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:03 AM
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Oh honey, I listened to grandma. You didn’t. Listen to the abuse burstyn - a fucking high paid actress - put up with. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/death-sex-money/id870688022?i=1000628548348
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:55 PM
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Yes you can. It’s called freedom. I get flapper and Edwardian shoes from American Duchess. And wear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:51 PM
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If you were gay you couldn’t have consensual relationships. It was literally illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:49 PM
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YES!!! You are singing my song.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:47 PM
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I see you asking the question and not getting much in an answer - I think men by and large are BETTER now. I say this as a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:46 PM
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Fuck no. Grandma had to deal with grandpa hitting her, drinking all the money, and cheating. If being an adult is too hard on you, find a daddy to take care of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:21 PM
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Lmao. And it was legal for your husband to beat you? 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:19 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:18 PM
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Men: “men should just lie so they can get sex.” Also men: “why are women so suspicious and don’t trust us???”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:02 PM
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Guy I know - short too - is a teacher and always has dates. I’d date a teacher or a nurse in a heart beat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:59 PM
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No that’s your problem. You think your wild speculations are fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:55 PM
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I thought the first paragraph was great. I hope you reconsider the second
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:53 PM
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Just curious - do you think the Chads of the world lose a piece of their soul by sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:52 PM
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All I see are people pointing out that if she’s a damaged woman for doing this, so are the guys. Equal deserts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:50 PM
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He’s either a troll or a full on misogynist. It’s amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:50 PM
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Swimming in astroglide I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:48 PM
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Studies show that women surgeons have better outcomes misogynist. God I hope you aren’t still in the military. And god I hope you don’t have daughters. If you have a wife, she’s a fool. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38726676/#:~:text=We%20found%20that%20patients%20treated,moderate%20certainty%20of%20the%20evidence%5D. Perhaps men shouldn’t be surgeons anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:47 PM
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I won’t believe evidence because it’s flawed! Instead I’ll believe my own insecure baseless speculations of high school kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:42 PM
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Sounds like men are morally depraved. Maybe they should be locked up by society, for our safety. Is this a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:39 PM
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“ A woman sleeping with 20 dudes over a few years would be considered disgusting in the past.” False - anyone with a smidgen of anthropological experience or knowledge of history would know this is wrong. I will note again - men are such sheep that they will cut part of penis off of their baby boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:38 PM
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Religion convinced men to cut off a part of their baby boy’s penis for no reason before we had sterilization techniques or anesthesia. Seems like men are pretty much sheep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:35 PM
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You are such a fucking bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:33 PM
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So what - teen boys engaging in risky behavior like speeding pressures other teen boys to do the same. And? Should we just lock them up? And most women aren’t being encouraged to sleep around because some porn actress pulled a 100 car train. I don’t need you regulating MY sex life thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:33 PM
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Yes because he’s a “good guy” just trying to save the poor innocent stupid porn star. As always infantilizing women. And then that girl dog walks him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:30 PM
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Such a great analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:29 PM
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Look I know you want to fuck Lily, but she’s making bank. Stop trying to save strippers. Same stupid —- I saw twenty years ago in the clubs when some idiot mid fell in love with a stripper, gave her money to “save her” (and fuck her), and then got dog walked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:28 PM
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“ But feminists decided that women should be free to do whatever they want whenever they want … “ Yes women, just like men, should be free to do what ever they want. “…and when people were trying to explain what the consequences of some of these choices they made are going to be bad for women, they were not going to have ANY of it. “ Are you fucking kidding me? You are literally here bitching about this random woman doing something you don’t like. Women hear constant criticisms of their actions.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:26 PM
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Women don’t like sharing men. That’s why “are we dating the same guy” exists
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:11 PM
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“ Most women don't understand women value looks more than they think.” You women don’t know what you value - let me a man tell you! Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:10 PM
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I’ve seen nothing but an avalanche of men loneliness pieces but none about women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:09 PM
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Those two obese women? They may be the only women living rent free in your head but they aren’t the only women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:08 PM
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No one is claiming that no man has seen a rom com - stop strawmaning - but that men aren’t the audience and aren’t sucking that stuff up like say MCU
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:06 PM
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Abs are largely genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:05 PM
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She’s on the spectrum dude. Come on. She’s not representative of the majority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:03 PM
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I can’t wait for you all to reduce the number to 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:02 PM
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Men get affirmative action https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html#:~:text=Declining%20male%20enrollment%20has%20led,policy%3A%20affirmative%20action%20for%20men.&text=In%20the%20spring%20of%202021,an%20email%20they%20were%20expecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:59 PM
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Men get affirmative action. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html#:~:text=Declining%20male%20enrollment%20has%20led,policy%3A%20affirmative%20action%20for%20men.&text=In%20the%20spring%20of%202021,an%20email%20they%20were%20expecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:58 PM
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You sound awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:57 PM
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Lmao. No you don’t. I’m not some dumbass Z. I’m GenX with a lifelong interest history and family formation. Long before “no fault divorce”, men* traditionally didn’t want to marry or have children. That’s why the nomenclature around marriages for years all echo imprisonment - ball + chain (1924, first use), bachelors/stag parties, “lock down” the man. NONE of that language is used regarding the bride’s “loss of freedom.” No one put a shotgun to a woman’s head to marry, but shotgun marriages for …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:52 PM
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Oh please. My mom told me that shit. Or your older sisters. My dad never said a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:44 AM
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I’d say they are more likely to settle with men because more options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:41 AM
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Nope lots of men saying “I can fix her.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:38 AM
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A man broke up his marriage for Casey Anthony. Men aren’t any better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:38 AM
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lol that’s some cope right there. Women are attracted to the hottie criminal because he is a hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:37 AM
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And those criminal hotties aren’t struggling for relationships too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:33 AM
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No they are not cherished. My first husband didn’t cherish me even though he was the only one I fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:27 AM
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Men absolutely go for these women for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:25 AM
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“ Most men find insta baddies and strippers hot just for sex. Not for relationships.” Lmao. I’ve personally known four or five guys completely dupped into thinking the stripper or OF really wanted to be with him! One of them was a federal judge. He ended up in club fed for a year. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:24 AM
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“ Also, women are the ones who control access to her body. Her body, her choice, HER RESPONSIBILITY. ” His dick, his SPERM, from his BALLS - his choice, his body, and HIS RESPONSIBILITY. You all really think men have so little self control? Why would you ever have the capacity to lead a country or a business if you can’t control your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:22 AM
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“ Men KNOW that insta-baddie str@ppers ONLY want money. Men don't keep it a secret.” Lmao - the number of men I’ve known to desperately believe that the baddie wants only them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:18 AM
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51 men not 71. Still Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:17 AM
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For men (primarily) here who claim that women should KNOW a guy’s a POS, I give you Gisele Pelicot: https://cssh.northeastern.edu/wgss/gisele-pelicot-victim-in-france-sexual-assault-case-refuses-to-stay-anonymous/ 71 men - normal men - a soldier, a nurse, a prison warden. All raped her unconscious body. Not all abusers are so pathologically duplicitous as Pelicot’s husband but abusers don’t start with abuse, they start with charming, charisma, playing on dopamine. This works on men too - I watch…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:16 AM
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Do you want to know how pathetic and panty drying it sounds to people for a man or a woman to claim they wouldn’t “get” anything if they left? I’ve watched women just hang around some POS man because “he’s the best I can get.” And I will tell you what I tell them - have some fucking self respect. Because here is the thing - you have NO chance of getting anything better when you hang around abuser man. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:09 AM
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If you read the comments you might be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:04 AM
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So all men who don’t have kids should also have no welfare state. And men who abandon their kids and refuse to pay for them should also have no welfare state. And single mothers who did it all alone should get bonuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:01 AM
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So when society was deeply unfair to women, were we justified in bombing and killing people? Just checking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:58 AM
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Guess we’re just going to have to figure it out then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:55 AM
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Men don’t want to marry or have kids. All this blame and pressure on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:55 AM
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See this is what is so funny. Men don’t want to marry, men don’t want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:50 AM
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That is not modern therapy, wow. Modern therapy focuses on modalities like cognitive behavioral therapy which focuses on changing behaviors. Maybe update your view on therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:45 AM
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This. All because assholes keep trying to use AI to replace intro coders. It is so stupid. Husband has 30 years as a software developer and information technologies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:37 AM
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Lmao. Y’all never worked in a nursing home or cleaning people’s houses and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:34 AM
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This must be some of that really intelligent non-emotional discourse I hear from “the logical sex.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:33 AM
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Songs are a good finger on the pulse of people’s concerns. I will tell you something I did to my now husband. We were early dating. And we got on really well. But he was a bit leery because I had a shitty ex. And he thought I was too into him (my hub). See that’s part of the danger of chasing men. And I did chase him a bit after he first asked me out on a few dates. So he dumped me. This is too intense. And you have a crazy ex. And I don’t think I’m mentally in the place to date seriously. So I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:29 AM
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“ Men swiping on every woman when they’re looking for an LTR…” No men swipe on everything whether looking for an ltr or ons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:01 AM
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“ But we aren't, and this is an unfortunate side effect of feminism” Fucking NO. See this is bullshit. Feminism says that women should have the same legal rights as men, can be just as intelligent as men, and thus if meeting the same standards as men, should be considered for the same jobs. And before you say well we lower the standards, no we don’t. Men get affirmative action to get into college. It’s just done on the sly. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:58 AM
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I loved nerdy men. I still do. My husband is a brilliant mathematician and in IT. He also could do push ups with me on his back. But I also neuro atypical. My entire family is mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:53 AM
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One of my boyfriends who I had dated for a while got me black out drunk so I’d sleep with other men. I wouldn’t do it sober. So getting me drunk was fine so that he could watch men fuck me. I managed to avoid it by spraining my ankle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:49 AM
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This exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:46 AM
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“ Your argument relies on the "appeal to common sense" fallacy.” Stop ChatGPTing shit. You’d don’t know what the common sense fallacy is. I relied on my experiences in childhood, the advice passed on by my elders, watching my two kid experiences now. That isn’t common sense - that’s relying on anecdotal data and observation. Not the strongest, but not a common sense fallacy. I also indirectly inferred a specific childhood period when humans become attuned to this. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:46 AM
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I think these are great ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:28 AM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:27 AM
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Yes because apparently men fucking damaged women is “success.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:26 AM
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Literally read the comments of the men drooling all over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:25 AM
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And men who can’t get a girlfriend to date are the minority too, so thanks for proving you don’t matter. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:23 AM
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“ A history lesson would also reveal some biological lessons for you too - like the fact that due to a woman needing at least 9mo to gestate…” That would be a biology or human embryology book, boyo. Shoulda stayed in school. “ And thus, virtually all of society has been structured around protecting female life at the expense of male life, with children as another protected community.” Really? Is that why men could legally beat their wives? To “protect” them? I guess rape as part of war crimes fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:21 AM
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We only know about Gisele because they recorded it. https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ckgr2yym0nko.amp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:01 AM
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Tomorrow it will be 9/9/9 right? Anyway to justify your rage at women. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:57 AM
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Hehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:55 AM
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You guys sure like to pretend you know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:54 AM
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For what? It’s been fifty years. My first year class at UVa was the first where women outnumbered men. That was GenX. The highest divorce rates are the boomers. GenX and Mel have BETTER numbers. When they marry they stay married. Men and women marry - they just settle down later. And from what I see, redpill isn’t about marriage or kids. It’s about getting sex from many woman and has NOTHING to do with family formation or kids The ones who seem so angry are those who desperately want to be chad …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:53 AM
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No. Made lesbianism is a recognition that some women (and some men) are NATURALLY on a sliding scale of sexual attraction and romantic attraction (which can be different). So as an example, I am bisexual. I’ve had sexual and romantic relations with women before. I still am attracted. But I am more attracted to men. Had I had a terrible experience with men, I might have simply dated women. That doesn’t mean my sexual attraction was socially conditioned or changed. It means that despite being attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:48 PM
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Because fucking a guy that isn’t sexually arousing to a woman is like a man fucking a gay guy when he’s straight. Like if I am not aroused sex hurts. It’s gross. And they get body fluids in you. Blauuuhhh. Having some bad flashbacks. I’d rather fuck a girl than an unattractive to me guy. So if you are so thirsty for sex, go for Grindr. But you don’t because it isn’t pleasurable to you. Well sex with some unattractive guy isn’t pleasurable to US either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:24 PM
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Not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:19 PM
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He is excellent - he is not making the argument OP is making
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:19 PM
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Never heard of the MRS degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:17 PM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:15 PM
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This is not how DEI works but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:14 PM
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My husband has been in IT for years. He prefers women coders and developers. Say they are better. They listen. He consults to the c level on enterprise architecture in a fortune 100 company.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:13 PM
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Right. Like how does state law in Cali allowing me to have a checking account by myself help me in Georgia. AND why is it that men NEVER had to face the same limits? They could have a checking account in Cali or Georgia
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:07 PM
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Yah and my ex said I was fat and masculine and ugly while I walked out the door - while also begging me to come back. People say mean shit to hurt. And I wasn’t fat. Dick is easy to replace. A good partner? So very difficult. It’s why when I crossed paths with my now husband I put my hooks in him and didn’t let him go. No man has compared….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:03 PM
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Whose fault is it that the bar is low for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:00 PM
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Sure. Plenty of trashy women. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:00 PM
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He thinks he deserves better looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:59 PM
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And those who assault deserve what they get and my daddy is a Tennessee red neck and taught me how to handle that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:59 PM
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If you had to pay Andrew Tate for common sense, dude… damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:56 PM
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You mean common knowledge from any middle school? 💅 like what the fuck? Were you homeschooled by fucking nuns? If your mommy said “be a nice boy” that’s because she thought you’d already figured out the “be in shape and have decent social skills part.” You wanna call it red pill? Well it isn’t unless my 80 year old mom and 83 year old dad are fucking redpill and Andrew Tate owes them for copyright infringement. My youngest girl right now is experimenting with hair and makeup because she’s yup in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:55 PM
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It really is revealing that men consider success to be how many women they bang. Whether or not those women are hot, or high quality, or the kind you want to marry, nope. So long as she has a hole, he’s a stud. Maybe start defining sex for men by a different standard, boyo. My hub has a wife that adores him, still gets head and sex regularly, two children and a lot of money in the bank from both our hard work. Sounds like success to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:45 PM
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“ Sure, men had lots of "power" at various levels in society over the course of humanity, but they also had lots of responsibility to the wellness of women, children, and society.” Only someone who has NEVER cracked a history book would say this. Yes, men could legally beat their wives, hospitalize them against their will, and rape them. Oh and take all their money and spend it how ever they liked. If men had exercised a smidgen of responsibility, feminism wouldn’t have gained traction. Jesus. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:41 PM
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“ instead you've created a culture of meaningless sex, single motherhood, rampant STD spreading and bitterness.” Men of course have no agency. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:37 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:35 PM
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“ destabilizes society over time as less families form.” Facts not in evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:34 PM
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When one looks across the long arc of history, it is not circling the drain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:33 PM
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First, look at the definition of a strawman. I never said all women want to serve or there would be a stampede. Second, look at recruitment numbers - looks like a majority of men don’t want to serve either. None of your comment addresses my actual point, which thus remains undisputed - men have blocked women from serving for years, so they cannot whine that women don’t serve. Is this what counts as thoughtful analysis. Phew.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:29 PM
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You guys aren’t HOLDING women up. We are all working for society. And we are all paying taxes for society. My money educates the boys and the girls. I’m good with that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:25 PM
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So deadbeat dads are the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:21 PM
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Study history. Men regularly had to buy sex. I’m good with legalizing prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:18 PM
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Who just was elected?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:16 PM
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10”%><sup>%</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:16 PM
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Those two obese ladies are living rent free in your head, for Christsakes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:08 PM
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Here is my question - if you excuse men for being offended and radicalized by feminists, why don’t feminists get excused for reacting to all the years of chauvinism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:01 PM
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Meanwhile, we get another post from a man absolutely salty that women are doing better than men and that’s why Tate flourishes so MEN should just magically have high paying jobs in their early twenties for reasons…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:47 PM
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No, I will tell you that it is primarily conservative rws and men who have kept women from serving. It’s pretty hilarious that, on one hand, men claim women don’t deserve full status because they aren’t subject to the draft and don’t serve…. While on the other hand men are refusing to LET women serve. Women had to sue to access the Citadel and VMI. Right now, Trump’s DOD candidate is against allowing women to serve in combat. And yes, I’m going to tell you to not be a sheep. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:19 PM
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Welp maybe kitty is better? Do they actually delete the other words?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:14 PM
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I’m not sure - she’s 16 now. And thanks for the nice response. She’s a great kid. She has a great dad (my husband). I’ve been working with her to see that many boys/men are great. But bad experiences like that used to be swept under the rug more than now. So what you hear as women just hate men now could instead be women voicing bad past experiences with men. And with age that may mellow - I hope it does
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:13 PM
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“Imagine a scenario where men were able to get high paying jobs easily, all men got married at 22 and started having kids in their early/mid 20's. Men like Andrew Tate wouldn't have a voice, because he'd be speaking to nobody.” Lmao - why should MEN get high paying jobs for having a penis? Man you all gone communist? I’ve done better than most men. Why don’t I get the high paying job? Maybe you mean everybody but it sure comes across that you think men should just have it or otherwise they’ll th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:05 PM
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Try the 70s. My mom - still alive and kicking - was not allowed into UVa as a first year despite being a straight A student and beating most men’s asses because she was a woman. My GenX is probably the closest to full equality. These things function on generations. You all are young and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:47 PM
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So if you want accolades for that - going to defend your country - why do you claim that makes you disposable? Are you Pavlov’s dog? Reacting to social conditioning without among yourself why? I actually agree that society treats some young men - the poor in particular - as disposable. I understand what CCR meant when they sang “I ain’t no senator’s son.” But the answer is to push against the narrative and demand better treatment from the government, which is primarily rich and male, not punchin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:41 PM
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Another thought - no evidence for this - we lost a lot of young men in WW2. Those that came back had the pick of jobs and of women (gender disparity). Same for Vietnam. Lotta young men dying sadly or deeply injured coming back. Same thing - good jobs (if not as many) for those who made it back. I’ve talked to older ladies. My mom literally raised me with a focus of attracting a high quality man. Women were absolutely expected to compete. I wonder if the change now isn’t just due to women having …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:32 PM
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Men get affirmative action: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:21 PM
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Why don’t you take a few land whales and fuck em for the team?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:20 PM
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Women ARE constantly attacked on social media, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:19 PM
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So you DO want to be disposable cannon fodder? Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:18 PM
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My kids are genx. Both girls. First, fuck you referring to a woman’s kitty as shrimp tacos. My oldest girl doesn’t like men. You know why? She was stalked for almost a year by a boy. As to the point that WE had to get involved with administration to get him to KNOCK it off. He took pics of her, he made constant sexual overtures to her, and he wouldn’t take no for an answer. She was terrified. And she’s on the spectrum so she was really scared. All because she had boobs at 14. Now she spends her …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:17 PM
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I’m GenX also, a woman. Men get affirmative action - https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html They have lower grades but are admitted over women. I wonder what you’d say if less qualified women were admitted? I bet you supported the end of affirmative action. Here is my problem - no one here talks about actual systemic actions we can take for young boys - except those dreaded BLUE states like California. They are expanding community colleges and trade schools to ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:11 PM
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No. Women have an easier time finding a man who will fuck her, not a partner. It’s really hard to find a partner in the actual definition of that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:55 PM
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No they don’t: men GET affirmative action https://www.ivywise.com/ivywise-knowledgebase/the-truth-about-the-gender-gap-on-college-campuses/#:~:text=With%2520a%2520more%2520limited%2520pool,%E2%80%9Caffirmative%2520action%2520for%2520men.%E2%80%9D https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html https://www.thenation.com/article/society/college-admissions-gender/tnamp/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:51 PM
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Men get affirmative action. https://www.ivywise.com/ivywise-knowledgebase/the-truth-about-the-gender-gap-on-college-campuses/#:~:text=With%2520a%2520more%2520limited%2520pool,%E2%80%9Caffirmative%2520action%2520for%2520men.%E2%80%9D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:49 PM
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Men get affirmative action: https://www.ivywise.com/ivywise-knowledgebase/the-truth-about-the-gender-gap-on-college-campuses/#:~:text=With%2520a%2520more%2520limited%2520pool,%E2%80%9Caffirmative%2520action%2520for%2520men.%E2%80%9D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:49 PM
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Would you date a really fat woman in sweatpants and giant t shirts who is insecure (gotta hand over that password) and who can’t hold a conversation. Or do you want to date a good looking athletic and confident gal who dresses nicely. You all discover what most of the rest of us learned in middle school and then think you’ve found some amazing cheat code. The rest of us find it hilarious. I always knew that if I wanted more male attention - and good quality male attention - I needed to lose weig…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:47 PM
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