SaltyLocation9556 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	N-Count Megathread What if they had a phase of seeking out lots of casual sex and increasing their n-count but then had enough of that and now sincerely want to settle down?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/21 11:49 AM
1	Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPD Frankly, no data, just anecdotal, I have been through this myself and observed it in others.	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/21 04:22 PM
1	Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPD In my case it was both, my parents broke me down and normalized the traits and then it was natural for me to seek them out in others. Part of what makes this hard to overcome is that so much of this illness comes from your family so healing from it often means rejecting your family and upbringing and not everyone can do that for various reasons.	/r/ExRedPill	02/01/21 02:15 PM
5	Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPD It can be both. Red pill is what happens when guys with high intellectual intelligence but low emotional intelligence get emotionally abused. They know it’s not their fault, but try to extrapolate their personal experiences to all women because they are into systems and get their concept of women from toxic sources, not by looking at each individual woman in their life. You can have empathy for the woman with the Cluster B disorder and the man she abuses at the same time, and understanding the d…	/r/ExRedPill	01/01/21 07:42 PM
3	How Many Here Have Experienced Good Relationship(s)? Yeah this question has a false basis, all relationships are good until they turn bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/20 12:22 PM
1	Bonding or the thrill of someone new? Emotions are physical though, they are neurological processes. Sex dumps oxytocin and prolactin into your brain whether you want it to or not, and the effect of those neurotransmitters is to produce a feeling of bonding and closeness with whoever’s around you. The intellect is what comes into play when people choose not to respond to those feelings of bonding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 12:07 PM
6	There’s no “good women” anymore because being a “good woman” is horrible. On the other hand, this gives us the freedom of not being accountable to anyone. We both know the downsides of that, but nobody’s going to be throwing a hysterical bitch fit if we decide we want to go on a random road trip or trade in the car or take up an expensive new hobby. Every life has its tradeoffs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 11:02 AM
16	There’s no “good women” anymore because being a “good woman” is horrible. It’s knowing that every relationship in your life is surface-level and that no-one will mourn your death. Hard truth. There are maybe a dozen people on the planet that would even notice if I died, and most of them would get over it within a couple of weeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 10:43 AM