SaltySeas54004 Archive

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1	Pandora's box in strangers Nice guys can snap yes. Often they are the ones that do. When we're young our nativity doesn't understand "power in surrender" and our willpower muffles out sound advise in preference to our own desires. I do believe women at large, have a responsibility to channel mens' emotions and they do so unknowingly. To say something utterly not their fault would make sense if a meteor landed on your house. But to be in a relationship with someone where the relationship is transactional/ a long process of…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/23 04:21 AM
6	How do I deal with arguments with a man that says mean words when angry and tells you he hates you? Man here. I have plenty experience using mean words and name-calling my ex. I'll tell you this postmortem... He doesn't understand your value because he feels small in his life as he feels his value is undermined. What he is feeling could be bitterness, angst, contempt, unfulfillment. Regardless, he isn't demonstrating that he is open to deal with those things, fear is driving his brain. He's probably got some kind of thorn in his side that he doesn't even realize. Your man needs to be among men…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/23 02:45 PM
2	How to know when to move on? An analogy is probably best. Let's say your a 6th grader going on an overnight camping trip with your class. You go about enjoying the bus ride, mess hall, lodging, camp activities, skits, hikes, learning first aid maybe some map and compass and you have a great time with friends and family. The adults in this analogy put together the trip, they determine the direction, the when, the where, the how. They kids go along the trip and enjoy it as it unfolds as new experience in their lives. That is …	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/23 04:59 PM
5	How to know when to move on? Your first two sentences alone describe a young and foolish man. Standing out is fine, when the people are actively looking for a leader. Controversial opinions are fine, so long as they hold water. Standing your ground is fine, as long as it's for the people. Many people gesture signs of leadership which is what you probably feel a sense of, toward him. And that's fine but upon closer inspection you reveal that he's willing to undermine his greatest supporter, you. That's no good leader. His wo…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/23 04:17 PM
2	How to know when to move on? When the benefit does not outweigh the cost.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/23 03:53 PM
3	Pandora's box in strangers You're absolutely correct. Everyone has baggage. And a mature individual would seek out some process to deal with it healthily. A highly conscious individual would definitely seek professional help like a therapist. However, if I may explain, that's not how we naturally operate. Let's just say I have experience with the military as an instructor of sorts. I teach personel about combat, survival techniques and dealing with as many situations as possible. But the teaching environment is the easy p…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/22 09:05 AM
12	Pandora's box in strangers Speaking from experience [28M]. OP, I'm very aware of this Pandora's Box you mention. I hope this doesn't derail from your original focus: I've been on the side where my Pandora Box has been opened and I've clearly hurt the ones I've loved. So much so, we don't even recognize the damage we've done until we all but gave up. I've reflected on my lowest moments for years; not a day goes by where I haven't learned something new about those darkened days. Here's what I've learned about Men and their …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/22 08:45 AM
15	How to be a man's muse? Reflect on this perspective: There are parents who think they need to push their kids to do x y or z activity to be driven or passionate. This is not valid as doing so invalidates the child and dampen their natural inclinations. Children don't need motivation to do things out of their interest. They simply do and will learn to navigate accordingly. This does not mean they will learn the correct lessons. This remains the same among adult-adult relationships. The job of the parent is simple, valid…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/11/22 08:27 AM