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But I thought they just want someone to make them laugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:11 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:10 AM
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Anything that isn't explicitly advantageous to women mean men are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:27 AM
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That date gave me the ick. I'm a 5, he was a 7, but he didn't take me to a nice place, didn't tell me when where and how, and didn't pay. 1 star so I'm leaving the app. Anyways, plenty of dudes irl will still make the effort so why should I bother. That's women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:23 AM
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Nah. Women just get on, have a 5 to 1 advantage, wrestle above their weight class and leave in the first couple weeks. Easy mode for women, even if they have 4 kids and are fat as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:20 AM
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I get tons of matches. Same shit women up and down except they think they're exceptional because of the gender ratio imbalance (which they won't acknowledge).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:19 AM
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Wish you could spend a single day as a dude. Dealing with women is the fucking worst
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:17 AM
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This clowns again. Pretty sure gymbro is actually a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:15 AM
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Nope. They're both white dude wet dreams. Trump is a rich kid asshole caricature of an 80's movie high school bully and white folks ate that shit up. Tate is a fucking tool too. Incel clowns sucked his dick hoping he'd notice. Same with elon musk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:51 AM
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You gave a generic ass answer, I called it. I am salty. You're pumpkin spice latte basic but believe otherwise (i.e. generic psl loving, Uggla wearing, regular ass becky)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:10 AM
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Nah, guy is a fucking clown. But people love shitbags, that's why trump has been so "successful"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:08 AM
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Women dictate the rules, men take what they can get. It's pretty straightforward. Honestly, it's only naive and purposefully obtuse women who think otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:04 AM
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Yes. That's how language works
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:00 AM
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Dinner or drinks at the bar. Sometimes just a coffee or walk. Funny how women are easy when you're hot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:00 AM
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You're not, but have the benefit in the mating game. Am I wrong? Your preferences are generic. You admit that but don't like my language. Cool. I'll sugarcoat and you can be happy? Women are generic. Men are generic. Women in the 21st century have the mating game advantage, pretend their preferences (Tom Holland generic celebrity) are other than the same fucking generic preferences. Same hoes, you, pretend that anyone who calls that are unsuccessful in fuckjng women (see your comment above) as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:48 AM
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Thanks bitch! It's true though. Every woman says "but I'm unique " and is mostly full of shit. More men should know as kids that women are full of the same bullshit men are, women just get a pass because pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:19 AM
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Suggesting dudes selected by women are trash. Are you saying all dudes are trash? What was the selection criteria? Ohhhhhh, shallow features. But, yeah, women are wonderful and intuitive creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:16 AM
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I fuck regularly with my terrible personality. Good thing I'm tall-ish, jacked, good face, have a 6 figure plus job. Just calling it like I see it. The bitterness is dealing with women who, of course, are all wonderful and flawless. Slay queen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:05 AM
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Also a liberal, equality woman? Your preferences are the most generic, time worn woman preferences. "I'm an individual."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:00 AM
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You like that he's a movie star with a woman more attractive than you that likes him. Basic hoes being basic hoes, but dont realize it. I have a pumpkin spice latte for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:57 AM
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Genertic looking, thin, shy, not tall, not movie star is not getting shit. You making that first move for same dude working at cvs? Nah. Be honest. Women are shallow. Biology blessed that shallow behavior. Liberal west praised it but couched it as preferences. Slay fat queen. Know your worth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:56 AM
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Including the brits? Brits are among the ugliest. Unless you like pasty skin inbreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:06 AM
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You're high. That better looking woman is because dude has funds or they've known each other for a long time, she's been around, and she settled- queue realization that her guy was in front of her the whole time, it just took 3/4ths of the movie and 12 John hamm cocks to know it When looksmatch it's because dude made it happen. Looksmatch women can get 2+ points above and know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:28 AM
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Homeboy is a trash person. There's kernels of truth but dude is garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:23 AM
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So you're a friend incel? Careful here folks, this one is a danger to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:21 AM
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Fucking hilarious. But add that women trying to make women friends aren't required to dance like monkeys and prove they're not rapists at every turn. Fucking women. I love seeing women get even the smallest taste of dude life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:18 AM
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Kinda. The poll results would say one thing, but actual actions would be another. In my opinion. Have a look at all the professional women crying about not finding a "good man." Despite having more education, better jobs, etc. women still demand higher status traditional-ish men. Why? Every chick with "I hope chivalry isn't dead" on their online dating profile, expecting men to lead and pay, but still think they're feminist icons. Carry that fake torch. (Not a knock on feminism, I'm a fan, I jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:55 AM
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Eat nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:49 AM
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Rare, but good on you. Bet if we took a pole it's 75% of women opposed to your roles - even among liberal women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:48 AM
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People are like that. You're delusional if you think otherwise. Why are women especially picky on apps? Because they have a number advantage. Average dudes are not getting laid regularly. And it's not for lack of effort. Women dictate the rules, pick the same clowns (me) and still feel like they're underprivileged. Like I get it, you're all Cinderella and "know your worth, queen, yass queen, slay." But really, you're dumbass humans like the rest of us, you just have a pussy trustfund for half yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:44 AM
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Lol at dudes having tons of easy relationships with women (or men). Women can get commitment, they just want it from men above their own station. Women writ large are gassed up. As a dude, you don't really learn this until later. And that's no pill. Women are just people, selfish like us all. But in the mating game, they're like upper middle class white dudes in the other parts of life. They have an advantage but pretend they're underdogs. Both hilarious and disheartening at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:38 AM
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Nearly all men take what they can get. Even attractive dudes don't get casual all that easily and especially not with a looksmatch woman (let alone similar career, etc.). It's usually putting in too much effort for women, 1s through 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:53 AM
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It's that unattractive people, and especially young dudes, have no social value. They're basically bums or untouchables to be avoided lest they rub off on you. Women are super superficial and basically call the shots. A bunch of Jared kushners running around like they did something
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:40 AM
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They just hold a grudge, feeling like they're doing that equivalent dude a favor by granting him her time. I know bunches of minimum wage, average dudes, they are not getting dates, sex, relationships with much frequency. And especially not with equivalently average women. And when they do it's not because the woman initiated or drove any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:36 AM
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Do you initiate dates and pay for dates? Hold the attitude that you're the prize even with an equivalent man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:34 AM
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This fucker editing their response. Women are in that monkey state too. They just pretend they didn't get fucked by Silverback and then eat betas gathered bananas when winter set in
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:27 AM
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That's the rub. Women see what I wrote and think I'm saying it's easy for women. I'm not. It is easier and significantly so. The male counterpart has to work much harder in mating game to attract a similar mate. You absolutely could go on dating apps and to a bar or coffee shop a couple times in a week, make explicit effort (not passive look, look away bs), and have dates (plural) with decent men that week. You could be passive and still very likely have dates. Dates you don't have to pay for, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:24 AM
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For real. Gymbro is on here writing war and peace length bs regularly. I see his pfp, I ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:31 AM
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The scorn is men trying to feel gratified by the hope that the playing field evens out - not saying this is good or not. Women have the clear advantage for decades of life (especially the mating years), then are relatively even after until around geriatric age when the value flips because of numbers - dudes die off trying to become someone people actuallycare about. And still women cannot fucking stand it and think they're being put upon. Hearing women's bs about the mating game is like watching…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:08 AM
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This one. Adult women love children's fairytales.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:27 PM
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Wishful thinking. Seems like an average 35 year old woman with 3 kids would finally be equal in the mating game to an average 35 year old man without kids. But no, pussy stays overpowered, just less so over time. Men rarely become as in demand as their woman equivalent. And definitely not for just existing. Better hit the gym and get money. Women are gaslighter's about their power over mating. World spins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:21 PM
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Because the power dynamic benefits her. Power dynamics that benefit men are toxic. Not the other way round
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:43 PM
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It's probably one step back from this, but yeah. Gassed up women gaslighting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:28 PM
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Women like to get cheeks clapped by higher status dudes. Calling it a phase absolves them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:16 PM
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It's both. Gassed up women and sensitive dude. Had a women on tinder ask how tall I am, after a bunch of good convo back and forth. I'm tall-ish but I felt put off, given that she seemed to be enjoying the convo to that point. Thought about asking how much she weighs (pics had her on the chubbier side), but instead just ignored her. Indicative of women demanding all boxes be checked regardless of what they're bringing and dudes to just deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:13 PM
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Also black. Rape stats and sex doll using doesn't apply if the dude approaches first though? Clown college logic. Basically, you're rationalizing because you don't want to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:30 PM
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The horror. How dare men feel desired? If we don't make men dance for our approval how will we patriarchy the patriarchy, patriarchy with a side of race patriarchy...patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:49 PM
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He's not entirely right but not really wrong. I fuck regularly (probably more than my share) but his points stand. Average woman is worth more than even high value men. I often treat women like shit, but I'm pretty hot so I get a pass. Women are the same as dudes, they just have a biological trust fund and get to be more frivolous (in the attraction) without admitting their frivolity. Anywho, ick or whatevs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:31 AM
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Sure. Ain't no dating without it though. That's your friend, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:29 AM
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My anecdotal evidence is that women are in relationships much quicker than the man they broke up with, especially if they don't have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:01 AM
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In my experience (living in NYC, LA, Miami, and SF) and that of my male friends, progressive women still want equal or better earning men and expect men to initiate and pay for things in the initial stages. Doesn't matter if the woman works at a coffee shop, is a teacher, is a director at a company. That is baked in. They want equal pay/jobs with women specific parental benefits, but also leading men in traditional-ish roles. Let's be honest, women have a benefit here (a recent-ish one) and won'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:00 AM
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You buying those drinks on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:25 AM
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Because women are privileged in the mating game and can dictate standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:22 AM
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It's a filter. Same as employers use, whether good or not. Women, though they won't admit it, are employers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:20 AM
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Women have lower sex drive and significantly more offers for sex. It's a buffet even if you're an ugly woman. Solved
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:18 AM
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Doesn't address the looksmatch question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:13 AM
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Or religious circles are a different kind of trash. Almost like many systems can be flawed in different ways. Do you dispute that women want equality of progressive times in many areas while maintaining the benefits of traditional dating? Equal of opportunity and pay is good. But then why should men have to initiate, pay, make more than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:08 AM
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The quiet part out loud. Women believe they're more valuable because pussy, expect better than themselves as a right or they take their ball and go home. Men never got pick of the litter. Men have always had to dance for women's approval and selection. Many were never selected. Men who survived wars had a good chance because of sex imbalances (see the absolute reverse in OLD). Women selected higher status if they could. Women now have more freedoms (good thing), but don't want to give up the sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:42 AM
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Pretty good take on this https://youtu.be/LVtsmqDT4eI
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:33 AM
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I thought women weren't a monolith like OP suggests - at least that's one of the 3-4 common rebuttals here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:18 AM
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Most men don't have healthy dating lives. Reddit is more extreme, but I know several normal, fairly successful, decent looking guys that struggle to get regular dates, especially if they're trying for women roughly equal to them. As far as marriage avoidance, I don't think it's all on men. Women are waiting longer and (they argue up and down this thread) going their own way rather than be with an average man. I think women have unrealistic fairytale views, waiting for some prince and holding a "…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:55 AM
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So your argument is both young and old men are selfish in bed, might as well go with a younger guy that can cum quicker (or at all)? Not trying to be antagonistic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:51 AM
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Nope. Traditional gender roles are garbage. Many men want more equality for women, but want that to come with the downsides of equality as well. Are you an independent modern woman, making more than many men? Great. But you still demanded traditional chivalry/initiative from men and a higher status man than you? If yes, you don't want equality, you want extra benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:47 AM
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People aren't a monolith but the emphasis from women that they're super unique is bogus. The "life isn't fair" piece is true but tough to swallow as society makes continual improvements in women's equality/equity (which is a good thing). That movement should be coupled with women taking a more proactive approach, rather than just enjoying additional benefits. That's the part pissing off men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:44 AM
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Agree in part. Women do the selecting all the way around. When casual sex is involved the man is usually more attractive than the woman. Women select like shit though and ask that we all pretend otherwise. Ex. She's selecting for performance here? And she knows this how? Physique? Sounds like red pill logic. If it's the first time, isn't that a shot in the dark? Isn't a central complaint from women that men (and I'm guessing younger more sexually successful men) are not generous in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:39 AM
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Agree. And apparently some (many?) men can't orgasm regularly (or regularly enough for the women in this thread). So, that men always get off and women don't argument sounds like bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:33 AM
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Celebrity doesn't mean you're hot. But these 3 dudes are specifically chosen and boosted up for that very thing. You can see how your average dude is irked, right? These near universally accepted hot guys aren't good enough. Hope I fit all the oh-so unique women with their unique criteria, after I dance for their amusement and selection. Better not misjudge a situation or make an inartful approach. But yeah, equal in the mating game
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:29 AM
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The song and dance blows. It's not cute or fun. Arguably, the discontent from men (and definitely 100% on this forum) is related to this very thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:26 AM
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So yeah. You, generic woman. Pooh poohing 3 celebrity men. Tbh, women should just do the approaching since you're controlling the game anyways. Just select who you want. Won't always work but it'll work more often than now. But no, no no, let's have men dance for your selection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:32 AM
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I don't think men are gatekeepers of marriage either. You mean because men are "required" to do the asking. There's plenty of other pressure that goes into it as well. Assuming you're right, men are lucky to get to that point after that uphill climb of driving it to that point. Approaching doesn't mean liking, but standing around getting approached is much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:29 AM
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Can we get the honesty about the game being rigged in women's favor? Advice for guys - approach wherever and regardless. You'll get rejected a bunch because it's a forever seller's market and women are sellers. Women have the advantage. Most won't admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:40 AM
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Given the above - where are you on the women have it significantly easier in the mating game argument? Sounds like you just exist and expect men to cater to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:35 AM
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I think people give it a pass when directed at men. Emotional abuse doesn't leave physical bruises
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:29 AM
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People underestimate the effect of male on male physical aggression on life. Same with women using emotionally abusive tactics on women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:20 AM
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True. As a dude other dudes will try to test you though. Often guys will want to be your friend or want to fight you for no reason other than being a competitor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:03 AM
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As a dude who has been 20, not many are fucking 4 times in a row. Especially not after you've been with a woman a couple times
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:54 AM
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Isn't one of the cliches on this forum that men always orgasm and women don't? And provided as a/the reason women don't like casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:52 AM
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Love it. 3 celebrities and even then women are like "not good enough".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:42 AM
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They're lying. Legends of the fall and fight club Pitt was drowning in pussy. All these gen z chicks cosplaying 90s style would've sucked him off too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:41 AM
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This but add that it holds for above average dudes too. Women make men jump through hoops regardless and it's exhausting. I get shit tons of matches online (and relatively easy numbers irl) but have to drive the whole thing. With work, and life, and everything else I have no interest in dancing for women - they all expect it, 1s and 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:34 AM
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Both are shallow but women have the advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:29 AM
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So, basically, women have it easier because of the mating ritual, and men are required to treat them better than women treat an equivalent man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:10 AM
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Fair enough 🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:57 PM
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Eh, I just go low effort and harvest what I can
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:56 PM
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Average woman is treated significantly better than average man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:43 AM
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So many words to say "let them eat cake"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:10 AM
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Old is somewhat positive for men in that they don't have to get face to face rejection. Women don't like old because they're gassed up, think they're more attractive than they are, get pumped and dumped, blame that on all men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:03 AM
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It's opportunity for men. Women, though they can't/won't admit it, they always have options. Most men have very few throughout life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:40 AM
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Mostly agree, except women's openers on bumble are also trash Hi, hey, wave emoji, gif. They also don't bother helping to move the conversation along, especially if they're more attractive. It's like pulling teeth talking to women on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:38 AM
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For a few men with lots of matches there's decision fatigue yet few looksmatches (it's usually several rungs less attractive women) and the fatigue of having to initiate, carry conversation, get them to a date, pay for that date, be fuckable but not be boyfriend material because then she'll make you wait
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:35 AM
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Nah. You'd be crying if you had the zero interest the average guy gets. Attention for women isn't distributed equally but nearly all women get attention. Like that Seinfeld joke from the 90s "Wherever women are, we have a man working on the situation right now. Now, he may not be our best man, okay, we have a lot of areas to cover, but someone from our staff is on the scene. That's why, I think, men get frustrated, when we see women reading articles, like "Where to meet men?" We're here, we are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:29 AM
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Men have to always be selling. Women can just shop when they feel like it (then pretend they're in the same boat)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:22 AM
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Women are on for a few weeks, get tons of matches, make men dance, date one for a month until they "don't feel the spark," blame men, take 3 months off, rinse repeat. Privilege on privilege on privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:20 AM
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Nah, there's always more dudes than women at bars and clubs. Clubs try to limit the number of dudes for this exact reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:15 AM
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People are tribal clowns fighting over resources. Color and sex are easy identifiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:35 AM
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It's not really just sex with strangers. It's a whole set of cascading advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:32 AM
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This is commonly known and said among men. Men take what they can get. It's women who pretend this isn't true. Not sure if it's biology or cultural, chicken or egg or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:27 AM
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Point is average men don't get flattered by attractive women. It only works the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:59 AM
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Rich people also have concerns of people using them, doing bad things. I'll take mo money those problems tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:53 AM
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This guy is correct (morally right depends on viewpoint)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:51 AM
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Sure, but this doesn't happen to average men. Never does an average man (i.e. absent looks, fame, wealth, status) have models giving them any attention, especially not sexual attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:36 AM
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It absolutely doesn't. Like saying, I don't care the reason (the reason being key), these workers at Foxconn China are still demanding these factory jobs that pay next to nothing. We, at Foxconn, have no choice but to let them take these jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:18 AM
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You think all these job seekers are without qualifications? Ask all the millennials with college debt whether that degree was really necessary for the work theyre doing. Who pushed that requirement though? Employers doing the choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:58 PM
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Tons of colorism in these groups too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:56 PM
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When a woman says a company treated her worse for maternity leave we'll say tough luck, there's bio and cultural differences, and add a winky stay mad cherry on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:55 PM
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This one? https://www.cnbc.com/select/who-pays-on-the-first-date/ I doubt it's because men want to. It's more an expectation and you'll lose if you don't. When you don't hold the cards you play by social rules. Do we really think men wouldn't prefer women approaching us and paying for our meals?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:50 PM
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It's also opec oil cartel like behavior. Keep prices high by discouraging undercutting each other
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:16 AM
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Cold comfort - hey men, you can have an equalish playing field, you just have to wait until you're 40 or 50 and the women already have kids. Just like both me and Michael Jordan now have an equal chance (0%) at playing in the NBA. He was able to get while the getting was good, because of biology Better to have men be desperate. I think it's more that women don't want to face rejection, hide behind the slut/initiator mask. Why not have new age independence and traditional privileges? Going Dutch …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:04 AM
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Not sure I get what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:44 AM
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I'd be interested in seeing it. I've yet to find the options to be even close among the sexes. Norms totally do. Men being required to initiate and drive explicitly gives women the options (i.e. the chooser of options). Women can initiate but they don't/won't because they don't have to because they have options. Maybe it's biological (expensive eggs, cheap sperm) or cultural or both. Imo it's pretty clearly in favor of women having more options
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:43 AM
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True but better to have matches than not. *insert water in desert, drinkable water in ocean cliche
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:34 AM
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The distribution of interest is uneven but imo favors women more than men. There's the okc "study" cited way too often in this thread. Questionable but interesting. https://archive.ph/pLAWq This one from hinge (which they pulled for some reason, but cached available) is interesting. https://web.archive.org/web/20190719163307/https://hingeirl.com/hinge-reports/whats-the-biggest-challenge-men-face-on-dating-apps-a-qa-with-aviv-goldgeier-junior-growth-engineer/ One more for good measure. https://we…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:25 AM
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Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:05 AM
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Fair. In my experience interest isn't spread evenly among women, but more evenly than their male counterparts. Women also tend to sit back and choose from openly expressed interest. Not all employers get applicants, but more than candidates get recruited by employers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:01 AM
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Men expected to initiate - women's options may be equal but are expressed to them more openly giving option of choosing. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/200908/are-women-always-more-selective-in-mate-choice-men Wildly lopsided ratios in acceptable meeting places - online dating, bars, adult rec leagues, etc. etc. https://www.statista.com/statistics/975925/us-tinder-user-ratio-gender/ Women initiating breakups/divorces at considerably higher rates than men - …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:50 AM
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I have eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:41 AM
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I'm mocking women (who, credit to you, "borrow" these and other words/phrases blacks and gays used to use)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:39 AM
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Add it to the broad category of romance theater that women crave. So strong, so independent, slay queens, yasss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:25 AM
0

You go to job interviews and make demands in a recession? No. Same situation for men seeking women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:22 AM
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Or he understands the game. You apply for jobs and list your requirements on the application? Of course not. You dont have the power to decide that the employer does, unless you're exceptional- see Aaron Judge
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:19 AM
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Having equivalent preferences as a man gets you fewer matches and dates. Men have broad shotgun scatter, numbers game approaches for a reason. Men take what they can get above relatively lower thresholds. The mantra - women have more options, won't admit it because they don't want to give up the privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:18 AM
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Being friendly and sociable isn't enough. Those are great, but you'll still eat a bunch of rejection as a man. I have many women friends, including sisters, and they're generally oblivious to what being a man is actually like. We did a bumble comparison and it was night and day. Hung with a group of 4 women at a bar, they all complained all night about not getting dates. All late 30s. 2 of them already had dates lined up for later that night from bumble. Still, several guys approached our table …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:48 PM
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How to square that preference for OLD vetting (where there's a clear numbers advantage for women) with the constant complaints about men not approaching in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:38 PM
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The patriarchy equation is obvious, duh. Jeff Bezos did --> Bezos is a man --> other men are also men --> all men are Jeff Bezos
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:32 PM
2

I don't like ballet or performance art but I think they're still worthwhile and am not slamming endowment for the arts funds (paid for by the taxpayer)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:29 PM
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Nobody said anything about entitlement to relationships. You're falling back on tired tropes. Thought this was the age of privilege call-outs? Women shout about male privileges (and they're often right), but can't admit advantages in other areas (like less effort in the first phases of relationships). Work on yourself bs implies men aren't good enough as 3 dimensional people. It's bootstrapping logic. Same people who think bootstrapping is bs in economics will tout it in the mating game
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:27 PM
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Professional sports are also good. You don't like seeing the most athletic humans competing against each other? These people are geniuses at body kinesthetics. Tax payer funded stadiums are bs, but sports are good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:23 PM
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Nope. Was reciting what some moms tell their sons. Your generic "be friendly" advice is similarly unhelpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:20 PM
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Fair. I think men are bummed that people aren't even fake nice to us. They don't care about our looks or personality. Seems like 1 out of 2 ain't bad. Better than having to constantly dance for approval
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:18 PM
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Philosophically, nobody can dispute anything then. I say I see dragons daily. You say, seems unlikely. I say, you're disputing my lived experience. Ends the discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:13 PM
1

Regularly? How regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:41 AM
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Was disputing your invisibility. Did it inartfully. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:39 AM
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Yep. Like reading comments on wallstreet journal versus fox news. Women here seem interested and willing to engage in good faith, if not interested in altering the structure (wsj). Amusing in the uniformity of the beliefs in this group. Still better than the bs on other subreddits/ig/tiktok (foxnews) related to sex relations. Doesn't discount or diminish the amusing, dumb dude posts here either. Tons of those too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:35 AM
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It's not the sports, it's the allocation of taxpayer funds that are the waste. Sport is actually a pretty good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:15 AM
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Hooray inequality! Nothing the US loves more than pretending it's a meritocracy while maintaining the unequal status quo. Call me the Thomas Piketty of incels
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:12 AM
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I got a 30% on that test. Is that good?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:09 AM
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Buddy is giving mom advice. "Just go to the church, there's nice ladies there. And bring them flowers." Being a friendly dude (in the most general of senses) is good, but not the solution to how do I meet and date more women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:06 AM
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Missed the point dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:57 AM
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Be careful what you wish for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:56 AM
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Yep. That little screenplay, Billy Madison, grossed $26M and debuted as #1 in the box office in 1995. Guessing you and most on this thread weren't even sperms in 95. To the point, your point was bs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:50 AM
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Yep. Mine was more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:33 AM
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Bus Driver: That Veronica Vaughn is one hot piece of ass, I know from experience dude. If you know what I mean. Billy Madison: No, you don't. Bus Driver: Well, not me personally but a guy I know. Him and her GOT IT ON. WOOO-EEEE. Billy Madison: No they didn't. Bus Driver: No, No, they didn't. But you could imagine what it'd be like if they, eh, eh... everybody on, good, great, grand, wonderful, NO YELLING ON THE BUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:31 AM
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Your geeky/unattractive male friends absolutely did not get casual sex when they wanted. Extroverted, attractive, wealthy men don't get casual sex when they want. It's degrees of effort for all men and exceedingly more than their woman counterpart
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:22 AM
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So genetics dictate here? Genetics make men better at math? Genetics make men better leaders? Heads of household? Better workers and entitled to more pay? Slopes are super slippery. Black (African american?) diamond difficulty even.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:14 AM
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I think one of the great lessons [middle class white guys] learn is that all the [paid education, benefit of the doubt, parental funds for a down payment on a home] they receive from their late teens to thirty was not due to their sassy personality, or their humor, or their intelligence or career and all the things they think make them special. Then [if this ever goes away] they are suddenly confronted with the reality that 90% of that [self proclaimed individual success] was due to their [unear…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:09 AM
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Huh? Have a fork for that word salad?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:01 AM
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That's why I cross the street when black people approach. Better safe than sorry. *Nothing suspect here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:59 AM
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Nah, even fat women have more interest than non-fat all else equal men. Just seemed that way because you don't know it could be worse
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:57 AM
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I do really well with women, but it still takes effort. Tbh women and their views on the ease of attracting women is hilarious. Like, women are the game and have no idea how it works. Women, and their passive attempt bs would not work for 95% of men. Hell, you'd probably get punched for being a creeper by just hovering around. I'm on these threads because they're amusing, providing more evidence how ridiculous and limited women's view of the mating game is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:55 AM
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We'd raise the bar, call you a creep and incel and tell you to your face that you're the problem and that you need to "work on yourself"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:43 AM
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We'll slowclap for you right after we cheer Jared kushner for his success developing relationships totes separate from born advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:40 AM
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So women view all men as predators regardless of behavior and dudes are wrongly butthurt? Ah, women are individuals and men aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:38 AM
1

Tbh, women should just be upfront about the selection. They do the choosing, pretend they don't, all the while making men dance for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:34 AM
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Women would be salty af if they received compliments at the low rate average dudes do. Same reason older women feel "invisible." How to square "we hate all the compliments" with westelm caleb successfully lovebombing every 20 something totally unique individual independent woman in NYC?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:15 AM
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Finally a woman on this site admitting their egos are gassed up by online praise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:49 AM
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Right. You're not concerned with where and how to get food if it's always available to you. "But sex isn't a necessity like food, stop comparing women to food." OK, you're not concerned about getting places when you have access to a reliable car. Men are like hitchhikers relying on the kindness of strangers who view the hitchhiker as a potential killer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:07 PM
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This is said a lot and I don't think it's true. Single women are 3 seconds away from a date on an app, or at a bar, or those "friends" hanging in your orbit, so the concern is less. Even faster if you just want sex for validation. Whereas men, you're like a farmer, if you aren't tending the field regularly you won't have a harvest. Even tending the field often results in no food.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:46 PM
1

Flip your thinking. Men are so undervalued they'll match with women who don't have pics. Many men will commit to a ham sandwich at this point. Would really love the mating game to be flipped for even a single day, women's heads would explode. "Oh I'm not actually funny or interesting or successful or good looking, it's just a seller's market"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:56 PM
0

Many words, but nah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:29 AM
1

Nah to your post. It's butt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:14 AM
2

"Putting out time and money to be rejected" - 99% of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:56 AM
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I know. He took Stacy to Michelin star on date 1 and you to starbucks. You don't like it, filter yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:54 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:49 AM
1

Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:48 AM
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Take 10 mins to set up an old profile, don't even need a profile pic as a women, you'll have several dates. This bullshit about it being only ig models is exhausting. Women have the advantage but can't admit it. Groundhogs day everyday with the dumb denials
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:47 AM
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It's called being a woman. Women say this like they did something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:41 AM
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Eh, I'd say choose wisely, ask directly and keep it moving regardless of the response. Women already consider all men to be predators and cops and white knight friends like beating heads. Sounds like a recipe for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:42 AM
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Best they can get = realistic expectations Women are out here thinking they're unique individuals 1 thirst trap away from landing Chris Hemsworth. The delusions of 20 and 30 something women is unreal. Would be funny if it wasn't so exhausting to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:36 PM
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Losing your job during the great recession. Macro trends and luck usually trump individual effort
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:21 PM
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Men are like farmers, you're constantly planting and tending crops to get sex and relationships going. Women are upper middle class consumers, they just hop to the store or get groceries delivered when they feel like having sex or a relationship. Easier to be chill about it when you have access whenever you feel like it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:05 PM
0

Or men understand that nobody is particularly special, that most people are average, that there is no "the one", and that all that is perfectly fine. It's comical adult women have children's fairytale attitudes toward the mating game
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:57 PM
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They don't like Chris Hemsworth at the start of the movie but are wet 2 hours later because women don't have spontaneous attraction and are also full of bs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:26 AM
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Won't happen. Women don't approach so men have to. Nobody likes rejection, but women, like Saudi Arabia, has a monopoly on resources and can dictate standards. Women love the ability to make men dance because women are all very special individuals and "all men are trash" *incoming same 3 redditors claiming women do approach, without acknowledging that it's super rare if you're not Idris Elba
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:11 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:03 AM
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It's not. Women think they've done enough by showing up. The entitlement is exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:11 AM
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Women are incredibly judgemental. Men are considerably more accepting. Women think they're special, demand to be treated as such. Men know that everyone thinks men are disposable, are generally happy with small acknowledgements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:09 AM
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Zzzzzzzzz
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:38 AM
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Doesn't help that the word is diluted and basically means anything a guy does that you don't like. It's like woke or hipster. Doesn't mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:28 PM
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Women go from nerd to hottie star of the movie without glasses. Apparently contacts is all it takes to go from 5 to 10
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:26 PM
1

Have a woman friend take over your dating app and try to get some dates for you. Their approach is hilariously terrible and doesn't work. In the mating game they're born on 3rd base and think they hit a triple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:21 PM
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So much typing. Men know we have to put in considerably more effort than our woman counterpart. Most women deny this is true. Other women, like you, respond with "life's unfair, tough shit." Same feelings if men said there is no pay gap or discrimination against women in other areas of life, and if there is, tough shit, life's hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:04 PM
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How to reconcile this with all the other posters saying men and women have equivalent difficulty in dating. If I understand it, you had 20 roughly even dudes vying for you. You did what other than exist and pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:50 PM
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Drunk, old and eat pray loving women approach and even then at 1/100th rate. Not sure how you think that counters my women don't approach statement. Save the "you must be autistic because I don't like what you're saying" bs. This argument is tired garbage. What else, oh you tossed in biological determinism. That's a good one for either side to put forward or knock as convenient. Easier to be a house seller in a seller's market. Women are the house seller. That you and other women dispute its eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:40 PM
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Used? What were her motives and expectations? Who here thinks a 5 woman matches well with a 10 man? If you think yes, reverse genders and see if it holds
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:06 AM
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Mike Tyson, Ray Rice, Adrian Peterson, Steven Jackson, etc etc. Women reward men for displays of aggression. It also backfires
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:03 AM
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Ok. It's drunk women, old women and women on vacation - many times all 3 at once. They'll approach. Women's effort is what? Makeup, clothing, decent shape? Same as dudes (minus makeup) plus personality, confidence, social status, AND still forced to initiate and drive. Dating ain't socialism, true. If this applied to other areas people would cry. Paid less? Tough, this ain't socialism and life ain't fair. Hilarious though that most women can't/won't admit they have it easier than their equivalen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:57 AM
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Who would have thought boxer who gets paid to fight people also fights his family. Floyd Mayweather is exciting tho 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:32 AM
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Attractive dude here. Former quarterback at large school (backup). Well paid professional job. 3500+ likes on bumble. Women do approach but 1/100th the rate as dudes approaching women, and even then its mostly older women or women who have been drinking. Hell, dudes approach and hit on me more than women. Women typically just hover - behavior that would be called creepy if it was a man. Approaching must be horrific or women would do it more. Women simply don't put in effort because they don't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:26 AM
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Exciting and dangerous protects people? Nope. Exciting and dangerous is more risky. It's almost like women say one thing and do another
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:40 AM
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Women want the tough guy, because "men are dangerous predators." Guess who the dangerous predator is? Same dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:38 AM
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Putting in effort, i.e. approaching, must be a horror, given that women actively avoid approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:34 AM
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These are terrible. Think about stopping
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:45 AM
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