Saltywinterwind Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Just a small "Hi" Real talk.	/r/seduction	26/08/20 09:28 PM
1	Just a small "Hi" Hey dude I’ll help you out cause I’ve been there. You’re overthinking things and playing different narratives in your head. Playing if this happened then this will and that will. Fuck all that. It’s just your thoughts. People don’t think about you half as much as you do. Everyone lives their own lives. No one will remember you smiling at them randomly unless they want too. That’s also the point. They don’t need to reciprocate anything. Your smiling can mean a million things. So can the way they …	/r/seduction	26/08/20 02:34 AM
2	Just a small "Hi" :)	/r/seduction	26/08/20 01:29 AM
2	Just a small "Hi" It’s not the point for them to smile back. Its for you to smile. That’s it. If you smile at someone then you already won. A smile back is just the cherry on top. You stopping them to let them know you like their shirt, sense of style or something they have on is juat the side goal. Smile at enough people and you’d be surprised at who smiles back. It’s for you to get comfortable smiling at people and shit kindness is free so is smiling at someone. Sprinkle that everywhere. Smile at everyone. Make…	/r/seduction	25/08/20 11:59 PM
8	Just a small "Hi" This is one of those small things that lead to big things. My best friend told me this thing in college that still stuck with me to this day. He’d walk around and just smile at people. You’re doing it perfectly. Eyes lock and send them a smile. That’s it. She’s gonna remember you now and if you see her again. That’s confidence friend and your doing more then a lot of other guys. Shoot her a smile again when you see her and if you can stop and chat about something randomly or ask how she’s doing.…	/r/seduction	25/08/20 01:43 PM
4	Focus Less On Pick Up Techniques And More On Building The Man Yeah this is important too. Reading people is something I’ve always been good at so I can tell when someone is uncomfortable in a situation or angry or sad and it definitely helps me. Reading the room is an important trait to learn. Not everyone’s good at this and that’s what leads to awkward situations. When both parties are Vibing it’s when it’s easier. Good call on she may be pretty but personality wise she’s not your fit. To many people try to lie or change other people when you really can’t…	/r/seduction	27/07/20 03:55 AM
15	Focus Less On Pick Up Techniques And More On Building The Man This comment on confidence is exactly what a lot of males don’t get. You build confidence in everything you do. It doesn’t just show up. You work on it like you work on anything. You fail and fail and fail and keep failing till you find your way. People who try to learn from others don’t see that. What works for that guy probably won’t work for you. You need to find your own brand of confidence. Fantastic post brother.	/r/seduction	26/07/20 07:26 PM
8	One small step for me...one giant leap for my confidence This is exactly what you should be doing! Don’t try stupid cliche openers cause they don’t work and the girl has probably heard it tons of times. What works is exactly what you said. Make it something about the moment even if it’s small or stupid. It helps break the ice and then you can talk about other things or ask better questions! You know what to do! Just do out there and keep doing it! You’ll get rejected a lot more then you’ll get a good convo but the more you do it the easier it gets. Fo…	/r/seduction	12/07/20 06:53 AM
1	I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 Month I love you dude. As one dude who’s been there. Not exactly your situation but my own version of it. You did it. You worked your ass off to make yourself better and I help it improves all alerts of your life. Good luck out there. Hope you find some who loves you dude. You deserve it	/r/seduction	02/05/20 07:01 PM