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Recommend Book: "The 48 Law of Power" With respect I disagree. Do NOT waste a single second reading a word form it.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 02:10 PM

to answer your question no primary intention is not to sleep with the girl.........it's more like to say hi and enjoy her company and i guess that's accomplished, basically to connect with her to develop a relationship.........am curious how you convey your interest from the get-go - because if it's in the supermarket checkout queue i'm not really sure how direct i can be know what im saying?
/r/seduction25/06/16 12:43 AM

so you slept with 15 girls over 2 months simple through day time meetings? now i hardly approach maybe less than 3-5 a week yet coffee instant dates are par. something just clicked........maybe even two or three coffees but the problem is that nothing really happens after that. any advice?
/r/seduction24/06/16 11:31 PM

am curious with the girls you were with: was it through day game or night?
/r/seduction24/06/16 02:45 PM
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For those reading - you want a wife who is: (i) hard working (cf: a wife who is lazy and refuses to be educated and not willing to do with what she can and has). (ii) speaks with discretion / can hold her tongue / speaks graceful (cf: shooting off her tongue at every foolish thought which enters her mind) (iii) tells the truth (cf: being a pathological liar) (iv) does not have a filthy temper (cf: having a sharp tongue and flies off the handle if things don't go her way) (v) a wife who is virtuo…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 11:35 AM
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"He that passeth by, and meddleth with strife belonging not to him, is like one that taketh a dog by the ears." 3000 years old and still as relevant as ever. The ancient sages wrote of this in the Proverbs of Solomon.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 10:06 PM
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I love happy endings. I concur and wish to add that: she complained that he didn't spend enough dough on her..........she spoke as if she was entitled to it, because she was a GF and a woman therefore is naturally entitled to jewelry and expensive holidays to Monaco etc. if her man could provide it - of course he would be entitled to nothing from her, because she is a modern empowered strong independent woman. The only story better than this one was where a girl told her boyfriend that she wante…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 11:40 AM
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Extremely insightful. thank you
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 09:06 AM
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people will have their opinions. here's mine - and a lot of folks in TRP will disagree with me. e.g. there is a cost to girls riding the carousel. they cannot eat the cock and ride it too. the same goes for men spinning plates - which is the male equivalent of the carousel. there is a cost to it. if that's what you choose then more power to you. don't be deceived that there is no negative side effects, that you can have a good 'ld time with no down side.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 09:40 PM
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She doesn't know him. She does know him. But Nothing happened. Something did happen. But nothing big happened. My friend, she's trickle-truthing you. Speaking the truth, to her, is like speaking a foreign language: her tongue just cannot make the right sounds and tones - she can't do it.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 12:07 PM
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hi folks do you know where we can learn more about a good diet and optimising it - google is filled with all sorts of stuff which can get extremely confusing - what works for you? i'm stagnating and need to get to at least 220 x5 reps before i can call myself a squatter
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 10:29 PM
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How does the 1000 cock stare look like? I can't watch the video because of my nofap/religious reasons, but am curious: any ideas?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 12:55 AM
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if i did that i'd have gotten knocked out. but i wouldn't want to do it in the first place. she did it because she feels entitled. why? because she's been doing it her whole life and nobody did nothing because she's a weak innocent girl.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/07/15 02:51 AM
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Cigarrettes are good when you're craving them now, but not so good when you're dying of lung cancer. please think carefully and make an informed choice. good luck to you.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 01:24 PM
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look closely: she tries to kick him in the balls
/r/PussyPass08/07/15 09:12 AM
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Those same eastern social values in fact protect women and the family as a unit..........if anything it gives "marriage" a chance..........but women in the western world want to feel empowered but they pay dearly for it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 10:11 PM
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after you've approached 1000 you won't be nervous. and THAT goes a long way. and then you can just be you.
/r/seduction04/07/15 08:08 AM
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if you put out, remember that this will make you less desirable for a relationship...let the feminist argue otherwise, but that's just a redpill truth. on the flip side if you're a guy it's very hard to get a girl to even notice you. there are monumental externalities and inefficiencies in this market.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 09:18 PM
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yeah that DNA is going to break up this family and it's inanimate - ugh gaddam DNA
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 09:59 PM
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OP sorry to hear your loss. But for the rest of us: what were the red flags: perhaps you can avert disaster for someone else?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 01:55 PM
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They are portraying him as a liar, that "evil lying bastard" - in truth John never lied about anything. I mean Phoebe lasted three full cycles......and if he wanted to lie, well then he wouldn't have let them near his computer or apartment, or let them know about each other to the extent that they would be able to communciate with eachother. John Tucker JDGAF. I luv it!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 01:50 PM
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my concern is some beta will misinterpet a shit test and continue..........best way to go straight to jail wtihout passing Go
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:17 PM
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the mods usually don't delete........so i'm guessing that it's the OPs or the posters who took it down.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:20 AM
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Just further proof that the vaaaaaaast majority of the feminist circle jerkers on 2xC are not: concerned with: (i) a frank assessment of the situation with a view to improving things or ensuring the past does not repeat itself.... .......they simply want to air their emotions and WANT other people to agree with them.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:12 AM
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"Nude photos were taken without my consent..." [She lied here on her 2xC post. Why? so she doesn't look like a slut] "so I took his phone and tried to locate his friends. That's when I stumbled across pictures of my breasts and butt that were taken the week prior in texts to his friends." [She lied here on her 2xC post. Why? so she doesn't look like a snoop.......and she tried to call his friends via his photo gallery?] I looked at the photo album on his phone and found dozens of nude pictures o…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:57 AM
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The fact that there is an elaborate ruse going on and she's putting off sex with the guy until the last possible minute tells you something - and that something doesn't bode well for Tom. You said it right there. Either she was playing the chastity card. Or she was was using it as some sort of dark triad power trip she read from Gone Girl. as you say, both are bad for our homie Tom.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:45 AM
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EXACTLY! (but it might be illegal - which is what some people are getting at) but see the reactions in the comments. Him withholding passport = abusive, controlling and scary her witholding sex from him (and lying about her chastity) = not abusive controlling and scary? un-fucking believable. some women femnist commenters are.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:42 PM
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ay and age.For a normal libido girl,the amount of self control needed to not give into whore culture is immense.And I ad I dunno bro.....two girls i know said they lost it then: one when she was in the 6th grade, and another in the 5th. and almost everyone in high school barring religioius fundamentalism, and even then i have my doubts.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:33 PM
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there's something poetic about reading this post of yours. i too have seen it all - and can hear stories about women falsely accusing young boys of rape to collect $1.3m dollars and their victims to spend the next 5 years in prison and the next 5 years with an ankle bracelet and a lifetime on a sex offender's list - all without batting an eyelid, but this story viscerally disgusted me. the woman did not: "explain what happened or why" she didn't engage in premarital sex - because she was playing…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:26 PM
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i agree 100% with you and would add that this guy's a beta chump: marriage IMO can be a good thing provided you marry sensibly, and you marry the right woman. the unicorn. if you can't find one then better remain single i say.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 09:59 PM
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There are women in this world who simply do not understand, they just do not understand that moaning an ex's name on your wedding night, especially when she held out sex from him and lied about her chastity - though he was "the one" - is a strict no-no: Getting upset, understandable. Leaving, already an overreaction. Taking her passport, controlling and scary. Be done with this guy, have nothing more to do with him. LOL she's the one who wanted to marry HIM.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 09:57 PM
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6 months later she hamsters to a potential BB sucker husband : "my past is my past babey": this after she boned old rich men for 1000 quid a day. there are liars, damned liars in this world, and hamsters.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 09:39 PM
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i don't know a lot but women are more confused than men, it's all about the feelz, the rationale comes later and is affected by the feelz;
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 11:29 PM
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the dumbest thing you would do right now is to not get a good lawyer. Pay EVERYTHING you have, even if you go into debt it will be worth it. If you don't you will lose everything anyway, including your reputation (if it has not already been lost). you have nothing to gain by not trying to get a lawyer.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 10:04 PM
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........AND I would add that i don't hear any men complaining that askMen is no longer "safe".
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:53 PM
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Here's how these girls think, but with the situation (sexes reversed) IMO from experience: imagine that you are lonely. and a girl that you are not particularly attracted to texts you saying wanna meet up tonight? ugh: another loser texting me, but it's something to do and i want to be wanted. i'll meet up with her. she buys me drinks. cool. i wouldn't even be out with her otherwise coz i don't like her anyways. she's interested in me. I"m not interested at all. i'll just have a few drinks on he…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 09:28 PM
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is really going on, and after reading so many posts on here over the past couple months with incredible clarity on men/women how dare you make me feel bad about my personal choices........it's insulting and degrading to me you ought to be a good boyfriend and be supportive of my past which cant be changed.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 10:51 AM
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She said she was 100% sure he was mine, that's why she didn't tell me. How can she be sure if she was banging (at least) one other guy around the time of conception.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 10:49 AM

She has pretty much destroyed the last vestige of her reputation with this video. The next intriguing question for me is: whether there is a thirsty enough beta out there who is willing to marry her. I'm undecided on this one.
/r/MensRights07/06/15 11:42 AM

SFW??
/r/MensRights07/06/15 11:35 AM
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I'm glad you found out OP. She realised she couldn't manipulate you any longer. you called her out on it.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 12:01 AM
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I am curious what exactly is in the video. This mattress girl should be soundly beaten bamboo style and should have her mattress burned to the ground. in fact if you tell her where her mattress is I will gladly do mankind a huge f*cking favour and do the latter myself.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 07:28 AM
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if you were a woman this would be a problem. but since you are a man, these thoughts should occur not occur to you. 30 years old for a guy = 24 years for a girl. you're ripening into your prime. while girls your age are starting to fall off the cliff as their market value plummets.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 10:06 PM
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I think the problem was that you trusted her and you thought she was on your side, but really she has her own vested interests.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 12:45 AM
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Congratulations OP! I second this comment. OP please oblige us with the details
/r/MensRights27/05/15 11:25 AM
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I lied to him and told him that I won't do it and never have. I know it was shitty, but I didn't want him to get the wrong impression that I was trying to withhold things from him Friends, my brain simply isn't able to comprehend the meaning of this. I truly, honestly do not understand what is going on here. Is there any such this as a hamster translation service a la google translate?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 05:27 AM
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I'll rephrase but say the exact same thing, to ensure folks can really read between the lines. Basic point which confuses her: BB doesn't make her hot n horny. But BB lover her and she loves him back for it. Chad makes her hot and horny - despite the anti-depressants which "probably" "caused" her low sex drive. Chad doesn't love her. She wants chad to love her. Chad isn't her type meaning, Chad is perfect for getting her hot n horny but not for making her feel emotionally wanted. Chad probably p…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 11:58 PM
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attention bro she wants YOUR attention...........and she wants to know her market value........can she reel you in even though you're seeing someone?
/r/seduction16/05/15 02:39 PM
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hide yo kids, hide yo wife........ I'm surprised that this guy wasn't arrested for being the "aggressor". Maybe there is justice in this world after all.
/r/PussyPass29/04/15 01:18 PM
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he's got a lose mouth.......be careful what you tell him. girls will use him for the gossip value he provides - i guarantee that they wont' respect him, nor will they trust him.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 02:08 PM
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But that's just half the story: The Wright brothers were competing with the mighty US Army, which was backed by congress, and all their dollars and scientists and engineers. They had nothing, no money, no resources, but common sense and a little acumen vs the infinite resources of the US government: who do you think would have won? truly the most incredible story ever.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 04:44 AM
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order for her to stay attracted, it is a NECESSITY for men to develop an abundance mentality to even be on the or are not very attractive.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 11:31 PM
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She could just be hamstering: logically she feels nothing will happen and nothing would ever happen because she loves her husband etc........I wonder whether Kyle would have a different story. the situation is so absurd i'm gonna call troll on that one.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 09:16 PM
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"Just met?" yeah i've heard that before. From girls. translation: "I'm not a slut. I would never do that. I'm a good girl."
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 09:12 PM
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Oh Geezus! Quick recollection of Chuck thoundercock type of guys... and she's end up saying: "It's just a number" reply is perfect: "It's just a question" edit: just watched it again; they sound like actors.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 11:31 PM
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you've expressed in words what i felt viscerally. this girl is just one BIG headache. headache. she's pretty, but her CC riding and bitchiness makes the beauty seem as out of place as a diamond tiara on a pig's head.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 11:29 PM
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Depends on your SMV i guess. If you have high SMV then you go do anything. If you have lower SMV and are not getting results on tinder etc, then by cold approaching you are netting girls who would otherwise screen you from tinder, simply because you are displaying characteristics which cannot be readily ascertained from your looks: raw masculine confidence. It's "sexy".
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 01:50 AM
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.........AND i would add that you can blame a guy for not knowing what he ought to know. He ought to have known this. it is so commonsensical. You do not want a woman who's ridden the carousel. nobody should do this. It's like buying used toilet paper. "my past is my past" they cry - actually no, not only is that a lie, it is an outrageous one at that!
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 10:44 PM
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this is soooooo manipulative............basically masking her mordant characteristics with kid gloves............makes it harder to screen for girls like this
/r/seduction21/01/15 12:33 PM
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it's hardly creepy at all - in my opinion - more like a little "socially uncomfortable" . he approaches, he gets the answer he's looking for. he's what I call a man with balls. the more he does the better he'll get. 0:12 is the exact time that it's over. she ignores him. i think it's his appearance more than anything. I have noticed that whenever girls are not interested they just simply "ignore you" ...............ignoring you is literally the worst thing that they can do to you. here are some …
/r/seduction19/01/15 09:07 PM
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The best advice you'll ever get on this topic: be sure to read this, to read it carefully and apply it. thank me later. http://drrobertepstein.com/downloads/Epstein-HOW_SCIENCE_CAN_HELP_YOU_FALL_IN_LOVE-Sci_Am_Mind-JanFeb2010.pdf?lbisphpreq=1 pls post update on how it goes.
/r/seduction22/12/14 09:46 AM
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no regrets.....if she met someone richer handsomer smarter she would be saying leaving him was the best decision ever.......hypergamy 101: but she was silly in that she left her man to be single,most girls like that stick with the guy they have until they find someone better......I feel sorry for her
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/14 06:23 PM
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for a woman, the only thing worse than being noticed, is to not be noticed
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 11:20 AM
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LOLOLOL this is one of the funniest things i have read
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:45 AM
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hey i think ur kid is an excellent prop for daygame. you should give me your number.
/r/seduction20/11/14 09:31 AM
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Reading that made me truly realize far RedPill has come in altering my beliefs. I wouldn't have taken a second glance or thought a thing of that statement a year ago. I just seriously feel bad for the men who still fall for this. Dear brother can you pls translate for me, i don't think i quite understand?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:47 PM
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Extremely relevant: this example is AFTER marraige: she tries to hide her CC number count, lies about it, beta hubby finds her sex tapes, she is worried this will hurt the relationship. the hamstering is nauseating: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1282249
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:42 PM
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thaaaaaaaaaaanks i'm gonna learn how do it properly now
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:26 AM
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this was an awesome update dude.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:26 AM
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13 points 2 hours ago Eh... I don't think your number is very high and I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of. I do not tell men how many partners I've had, I honestly don't think it's their business. I don't care how many partner's they've had. I don't settle down easily, but when I do, it's for real. For me, a person's number is in no way reflective of who they are as a person. When I was younger I guess I felt a bit bad about it but I really couldn't give a damn now. As far as your repu…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 08:29 PM
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nd throwing them away. How else do you practice game without fishing and then tossing them back unless you find a daygame on the streets is for you. you CANNOT practice on church girls: you'll see them again, and word gets around if something goes wrong then you can be sure that you will get a bad rep. if they react badly on the streets well then at least you can be sure you will (almost) never see them again. hope this helps.
/r/trpGAME18/11/14 01:01 PM
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i'm guessing since you go to church you have little to no experience with girls? i have had only the experienced gained by approaching and flirting with somewhere between 600-1000 girls over the course of this year. I have learned A LOT. here is my opinion: girls like this flirt with guys and PLAY them.......... watch out for girls like that....she's a good church girl right? she has a BF right? she probably doesn't want you........haven't you read about the girl in proverbs 7? she doesn't want …
/r/trpGAME18/11/14 12:53 PM
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an idea that might work next time is to text them earlier in the day to see if they are still on. Good work on arranging three in a row. i doubt date #2 ever intended on meeting up with you when she made those plans.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:41 PM
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dude im envious. what are your lifting stats: Bench, squats DL?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:30 PM
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am curious how much you lift. any stats on your: squat, bench, DL - reps per set?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:28 PM
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it's all the femi nazis on 2xC getting uppetty over all this.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:27 PM
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Sounds like this guy LET her walk all over him. and if you let people they will.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:36 AM
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mate spencer to spring, flinders to latrobe - isn't taht long a walk - that way you can avoid fatal situations
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:20 AM
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hmmmm all very good.......the hard part is reading and recognising and interpreting them as genuine: e.g. a piece of lint on my shirt: was that an IOI or was that just helping me out etc etc
/r/seduction14/11/14 08:08 AM
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for me like you said my purpose was to make a connection. but now looking at the big picture, i think i am falling short on: style mainly, or perhaps it is the approach itself. i started counting just so i could keep a record as to how much i was doing. have tried literally everything. i must have approached some 600-700 since the start of the year. have little to no approach anxiety. anyways, i only wrote that to inspire people: if they think that they weren't getting anywhere, well they can lo…
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:17 AM
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It's all about the feelz. This is why you can politely bring up reasonable counter-arguments against the "taking a break" hamster story, and women will still perceive it as a personal attack. In the hamster's view you are literally threatening to take down her emotional security, which is tied to her delusional self-image. Factual evidence that suggests an origin to female submissiveness in evolutionary biology? Offensive! Threatening! i want to save this portion of your comment. you have solved…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:57 PM
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no mention of men placed behind bars because of lying women? why not the outrage there? there was a guy theo theophilius - don't know the full details, but he was a rape legislation champion, making things easier to obtain rape convictions. And then someone accussed him of rape. He denies it. His own legislation was used against him! How ironic this world is. Its great to look like a champion, but only till someone falsely accusses you of rape.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:54 PM
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reducing anxiety is very easy. you have a HUUUGE advantage being good looking. it means a lot. you have probably been approached by girls in their sublte risk free ways wtihout knowing it, it's so much easier.
/r/seduction11/11/14 09:53 PM
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yeah it's really really difficult to know whether the x1 off was a result of pure luck, or was the result of some brilliant strategy/idea.
/r/seduction11/11/14 09:51 PM
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have you been in the US? I have. And it's no more socially acceptible to approach publicly there than it is anywhere in Europe. In fact, it is probably easier in Scandanavia because there are less peddlers out there than in other parts of Europe, so you will have less of a hard time stopping girls. It's tabboo everywhere, but really just an excuse not to do it. The man who does not want to work says "there is a lion outside, a fierce liion, i shall be slain in the streets"
/r/seduction11/11/14 09:44 PM
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this post mentioned trying out new things, trying out new ideas. what is there that is worth trying out? i do a lot of approaching on the streets. half the battle is to approach without them being startled. does anybody have any ideas on how to do this successfully?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 09:38 PM
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" lets kiss/cuddle in the car because there's to many people here, or this is too public" Make sure you're kissing her before hand though, and then take her to car to escalate. Plausible deniability. If you're kissing outside the car, then why say you need to go to the car to kiss? Why else? If she's smart she'll understand, but there's plausible deniability there **source: my friend did this with a Tinder girl it worked
/r/seduction07/11/14 10:29 PM
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escalate and let things progress naturally.
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:12 AM
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he's no beta that's for sure: he's drawn the line in the sand.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:59 AM
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My friend, you can BE like that
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:54 AM
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She realises she's getting old and the CC is starting to slow down: wait, better snap a beta who has never had a GF in his life.........oh and i want him to be asian coz i want asian kids, god forbid i intermarry and have half-black kids ugh.......but it's ok if it's a one-off thing, as a novelty, oh and i want to get back in touch with my cultural heritage.........and i'm not racist btw: and btw why should he care that i've slept with over 50 men in my past - my past is my past i can't change t…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:45 AM
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i think this is not a sex based issue, but an issue fundamentally due to the base nature of human being: people will be people
/r/MensRights06/11/14 01:24 AM
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hmmmm "I want him to go to jail because he said I looked "nice". " plus what about false accussations? i'm can't tell whether she is actually retarded (please no offence to anyone with mental issues or diseases or birth related issues - they can't help the way they are - but she most certainly can) or whether this is a satirical post. i can't tell. hamsters be hasterin'
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:30 AM
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All Economics can be summarised with these principles; no need to take a course on it: People want what they wanna want; they do respond to incentives but not always; given a chance to cheat, some will; given an incentive to cheat almost all will; if you incentivise some one he will work because he is hungry; but lazy people will not do anything they are so lazy they can't be bothered going to the bank to cash in a cheque they have in their hands
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:26 AM
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there's nothing more threatening to the plate than for her to think you're she's not worth of you condescending to a reply. she'll wonder what happened: why no reply?...........just ignore it.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:44 PM
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OP she was angry because you called her out on her BS. she's not used to men doing that. she was a shameless censorship pause liar
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:43 PM
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worried about it. I close women in their early 20s all the time. Provided I stay fit and high value and continue to expose myself to wo it's not sad: women in the early 20s have it really really easy compared to guys the same age. but then they tend to find it more difficult when they're 35 compared to guys the same age. in the end all is fair.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:34 PM
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glad you got the freely given concent verbally before escalating: girls like that can be very dangerous IF they regret the sex. if you had said anything to have ticked her off, watch out for a rape allegation, but you did well. thought personally ****watch out for girls who lie like that: lie # 1 - period, lie #2 - not having sex. she clearly wanted it. she just didn't want any responsibility for making the decision.......sounds like good plate material, sounds like you wouldn't want to date a g…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:39 AM
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awesome awesome. i'll try and make this my goal. atm i'm sitting on some 150 lb for Bench and some 180 on squats, nothing major, but i guess some serious lifting increases are in order.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 02:50 AM
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OP i'm happy for you this made me smile. am curious how much you lift/bench/deadlift etc weight x reps? do you consider yourself good looking - coz ur FR suggests that you had a LOT of choice that night. also the plate seemed keen when she placed you as a beta orbiter initially wow OMG how callow you were in your youth: while the love of your life was upstairs banging some other dude, while you were downstairs doing her homework. ouch that was cringeworth.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:12 AM
2

oh yes you are right. i meant "not guilty"
/r/MensRights02/11/14 03:53 AM
2

People have their own opinions and will think what they want to think. don't let it worry you. she might think and say contradictory things (i) she's ok with men approaching her so long as they are good looking. (ii) anyone who approaches her is ipso facto a creep. (iii) all the good men are taken. let em think what they want to think.
/r/MensRights02/11/14 03:52 AM
4

it all comes down to resources. trying to prove someone is guilty of something is very very difficult and very expensive. if everyone pled not guilty then i promise you the whole system would collapse because the system would be flooded; waiting times would be extraordinary; unless the gov throws huge amounts of resources at justice infrastructure, plea bargaining is a cheap way of ensuring people get justice and makes sure everyone is relatively happy
/r/MensRights01/11/14 10:51 PM
83

that's just on paper. they're usually released earlier provided they can demonstrate rehabilitation..........which usually means saying "i'm sorry"
/r/MensRights01/11/14 10:47 PM
5

i wanted to first say, "dayum i'm envious" before realising i shoudl be like: "dayum i'm happy for OP".
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:35 AM
0

if only this happened to me when i was a school kid.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 05:21 AM
2

yes curious isn't it, back in the day, my father's grandfather: he married my father's grandmother when he was 21 and she was 15. nobody batted an eyelid those days. today it's like the worst crime possible.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 05:21 AM
2

nding it on things/occasions that provide utility to him. And he sure isn't spending whimsically on the desires of some s he got rich by "buying people out" *takes out baseball bats
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:05 AM
1

I was expecting pro-Will comments to receive some serious down votes - it being on 2xchromosomes
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:01 AM
-1

Let her know about your other plates
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:31 PM
2

hmmmmm thx for the post. i'd rather not intervene to help someone out than end up on some sex offenders registry for saving their lives. they'd gain theirs, but i'd lose mine. i've done some basic CPR training. hopefully the situation will never arise but i'll think twice before resuscitating a woman from now on. with a man i'll save their life in a heartbeat (pun intended)
/r/MensRights24/10/14 10:37 PM
2

wouldn't that be lovely! it would change the dynamics of the sexual market place.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:31 PM
2

hey this is not necesesarily a bad thing for a LTR - if she can't hang on to you in front of you, there's no chance when she's alone behind your back. good filter here mate.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:28 PM
2

holy smokes. Ray Rice for President!
/r/MensRights20/10/14 08:21 PM
1

same situation bro..........but i will say this: get used to "rejection" - in fact that's the wrong word for it. you have to fail your way to success in this game, as in most other things in this world.
/r/seduction20/10/14 10:08 AM
1

hey buddy, i've approached some 700 women cold approaching. i haven't gotten anywhere, but i do try...............perhaps look to me as a role model.
/r/seduction19/10/14 10:50 AM
3

my friend, getting laid wont' change anything. ANYTHING. trust me on this one.
/r/seduction19/10/14 10:45 AM
2

mate occa it up if you're overseas you're a novelty in the states mate
/r/seduction19/10/14 10:34 AM
1

holy smokes am envious of you. my number closes usuaslly flake!
/r/seduction16/10/14 10:28 PM
1

y you’ve ever heard, but she has a boyfriend and she is actually in a hurry to see him. She hurries off. The men all laugh in unison at The Man’s failure. “Your muscles weren’t big enough for her” says Jacob “You’re too short for her” sa and not talking plates neither
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 01:42 AM
1

comments like this make me throw up (see below) Gagging so bad right now - i see this all too often, especially on twoXchromosomes" Selection of comments: "Oh the poor men, how few opportunities they have in this world (the idiocy abounds)" "i'm soooooooooooo glad you gave him the space to really let his bigot views shine. thanks wweek!" "This guy isn't brave.. He sounds like a giant pussy to me.."
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 08:37 AM
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she's such a f-ing liar! unbelievable some plates can be.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 09:09 PM
1

put them on the sex offenses registry is what i say
/r/MensRights13/10/14 08:58 AM
1

probably paid staff to do the hard yards associated with msging girls chatting them up etc. getting them to come out on a date etc.
/r/seduction09/10/14 11:04 AM
1

OP like you - re your last piont: this is the type of reaction i get from certain friends of mine: "you talk to random girls on the streets??............um ok.........that's just creepy" etc. implying that i'm a creeper - there're not bad people, i don't blame them for thinking that way, but it's precisely that type of thinking that can get you down in the early stages when one still has AA (approach anxiety). so best drop the subject when with them........i don't like dropping good friends for …
/r/seduction09/10/14 11:03 AM
3

looks to me a flake.............the thing though is, given the right circumstance, she would have been down. the alarm bells just went off, she was uncomfortable.........she didn't know where it was all going............ but he held the frame reasonably well. her body language was not down, but there was a tiny bit of attraction there. she gave the number just to get rid of him.
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:47 AM
1

she's cute. i would go out with her. if i saw her at stephen'splatz i would definitely go for her number and then her heart!
/r/seduction08/10/14 12:33 PM
3

one thing i learned is that people judge based on how you react. imagine that same scene but you acting like a hero, like the president: other people will be forced to respond to your frame, if it is strong enough. if you're embarrassed then they will react accordingly. if you're unphased then they will respond differently. you have to try it to believe i.t
/r/seduction08/10/14 11:17 AM
1

how hot was the girl - any celeb look alikes? good job on getting the job done so quickly.
/r/seduction08/10/14 09:59 AM
1

what sources did you use for your research in developing these exercises?
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:31 AM
1

watch the video: there was a homeless guy who sleeps at 3-4 new locations a week by cold approaching. the length of time he can stay there is determined by "how well he lays the pipes" If he can do it homeless, you can do it as a student.
/r/seduction07/10/14 09:07 PM
2

mewhere?' And 'why is this chick talking to me?' After some more brief chit chat I made a comment about how "yeah, I really enjoy m where can i borrow a two year old prop. any ideas?
/r/seduction07/10/14 08:57 PM
1

dude you are so socially confident. you have swag, you are eloquent you tell stories about your life, and your share your feelings - you would be a king at daygame - it's very very hard to give any criticism.
/r/seduction07/10/14 10:54 AM
0

thx 4FOR the AMA. lay count from day time cold approaching?
/r/seduction04/10/14 09:48 AM
2

no you didn't get rejected, it was success like you said. the outcome is irrelevant in fact. ask enough girls and you will get "success" but the real success like u said is doing something and not doing nothing.
/r/seduction02/10/14 10:42 PM
1

First point is quite noobie, but worth saying for the noobs. Lots of guys have made that mistake (super glad I haven't), so right on. try johnny berba's "Please, please, pluh-eeeeeeeese kiss me!" pleading on hands and knees routine. He has a video of it on the internet. So it does actually work. well, to be fair to Johnny: he does not go on his hands and knees, and he is more experienced than me. edit: sorry pasted the wrong quote.
/r/seduction02/10/14 02:41 AM
0

where is the identical post on 2xC? but i do agree with you. half the stuff there is disgustingly naseauting.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 01:45 AM
5

change from "boyfriend" to "girlfriend" and cf the responses. btw where is the post?
/r/MensRights02/10/14 01:43 AM
1

no no if you hit him nothing would have happened.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 01:42 AM
1

2 dates that's about it. i think i'm walking away from girls who are actually interested. that's my theory. no matter how ugly i am i should have had a little more success. i realised this the other day when i started walking away from a girl and she's like "um......ok?" meaning she was interested and found it strage that after approaching i walked away. or youi'll find girls commonly say "i have to go" - some really do wanna go meaning they don't want to talk to you but others don't really want…
/r/seduction01/10/14 10:10 PM
2

yes i have a friend who says she was "raped" by her ex boyfriend. i asked more pointed questions. vague nebulous answers. alarm bells went off in my head. she says she "would date me". i am very concerned. she seems to tell lies.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 10:22 AM
1

(1) i built a habit of approaching. (2) over time AA just decreased. well over 600 approaches. at least. perhaps upper limit would be 1200. i have no idea. (3) initially it was very scary. now very much less so. (4) i have not had any success per se. but i can say i am not afraid of approaching.
/r/seduction29/09/14 10:09 PM
1

general suggestion is that asking personally questions immediately is not a good idea, apologising and asking is generally a bad frame to come from IMO ------> but don't take my word for it go try it out.
/r/seduction29/09/14 10:07 PM
1

the line can work if presented with the right vibe. you can say almost anyting with the right vibe.
/r/seduction29/09/14 09:54 PM
1

loved reading this. you called her out for being a lying hoe. she got angry..........loved how she said she loves her fiance yet is lying to him about massages and is coming to share a plate with you.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:48 PM
-1

it's obviously his fault - i mean he's a guy.
/r/MensRights21/09/14 10:00 PM
1

"Megan stop" he demurs. Shamlessly pandering to the camera. btw she gets what she deserves.
/r/MensRights21/09/14 09:58 PM
1

20-40 approaches per week. about the same number of "rejections". done this since the start of the year.
/r/seduction21/09/14 12:54 PM
2

excelletn thanks. will also review sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:53 PM
2

no sweat suggestions. here are my suggestions: (i) locate the girls that are DTF by how they dance, body language, and whether they give you IOIs. second: approach those girls and give them a light squeeze on the arm. then you will know whether you are in or out. easy. repeat till succesful. you can't fail with this approach.
/r/seduction21/09/14 12:52 PM
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Thanks for your comments. but what on earth is a plate. google and urban dictionary didn't give me an answer: plate A section of the crust of the earth, which is cracked. Each plate moves slowly over a very viscous thick liquid called the mantle, which itself covers a liquid metal core and solid inner core, mostly made of iron and nickle. These plates are called "tectonic" plates. These types of plates may make contact with each other in various ways to cause earthquakes and form volcanoes, tren…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:38 PM
2

not enough detail: it could even mean that she is not interested in you and that's a polite way of saying so.
/r/seduction20/09/14 02:14 PM
1

in my opinion, the cheapest is daygame and probably the most beneficial. then there is running, walking and body weight exercises.
/r/seduction20/09/14 02:12 PM
1

kudos OP, kudos how did you meet her?
/r/seduction20/09/14 02:10 PM
0

more girls will automat. reduce outcome dep
/r/seduction20/09/14 11:21 AM
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if you tried identifying her you would probably have the pants sued off you too. how unjust this world is!
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:12 AM
1

with over 3 billion women on the planet, cute girls are seriously the least scarce commodity in the world. the Least. they want u to think otherwise, but hey, once you start walking the streets in public, you realise how much choice you do have. internalising that fact alone will mkae you realise that there is nothing special about cute girls whatsoever.
/r/seduction09/09/14 01:06 AM
1

it's x1000 worse with women - they do it all the time. rid yourself of the behaviour by realising that there are literally billions of women on the planet. hot girls are literally the least scarce commodity in the universe. then you wont' care so much about one attractive guy here and there: so waht?
/r/seduction08/09/14 08:49 AM
1

say with conviction: "IT'S MY PERSONAL CHOICE!" and nobody will ever question you for a second. nobody questions me in my experience, in fact girls who like you will think it's actually "awesome" that you "saved yourself for someone you love" when it comes up in conversation - etc. use it to your advantage not disadvatnage!
/r/seduction08/09/14 08:47 AM
1

she must WANT to see you in order to reply. create a good uplifting interaction is my suggestion.
/r/seduction08/09/14 08:43 AM
1

ahhh madcow rippetoe training think of just approaching 5x5 with GLL approach anxiety program (google this) and then progress to just full blown approaches on the street. just like the gym, it takes a while for your social muscles to get used to the strain.
/r/seduction04/09/14 12:39 AM
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excellent. my advice: repeat this about 2-6000 times and you'll be a grandmaster
/r/seduction02/09/14 11:53 PM
2

direct: I like you i think you are cute - that's why i'm talking to you. indirect: hey is that a good laptop you're working on? (She is not sure whether you are talking to her because of the laptop or because you think she's cute. subconsciously she knows, but she's never sure. when you're direct she is 100% sure)
/r/seduction02/09/14 11:05 PM
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I feel sorry for the guy, putting up with this girl who doesn't really want to be with him and has to debate in her mind and with reddit whether to see him again................hopefully he will find a girl who KNOWS that he is the right one for him. and i do hope that she finds what she's looking for.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:36 AM
2

basically like in coffeeshop or library, pool or anywhere that is not a pulic street......yes it is difficult, but only at first, you must grasp at straws: the best thing to do would be to head over to r/ photo etc and look for non-personal opinions: e.g. is this a good laptop? is that a good phone? do you know anything that's good on the menu. but they key is the practice when you're off the street or when you are walking by people: what would you open them with? then when you see a girl you wa…
/r/seduction02/09/14 03:04 AM
1

my two cents: in closed venues you have to be super carefully not to scare away the cat......indirect opening is always best here: so they are never 100% sure whether you are hitting on them.
/r/seduction02/09/14 12:59 AM
1

i don't have an answer to your question, but i will say that this is a really good thing when girls accusse you of this. "literally almost cried"? no my friend, this is great news.
/r/seduction02/09/14 12:56 AM
3

there is also a game society for women, believe it or not. it's even on the sidebar: fPUA
/r/seduction01/09/14 12:33 AM
0

excellent question: here's my take on it: (i) get them to commit x2 verbally and you'll know if they are serious (ii) if they allow for the planning of logistics: e.g. "Sammie come visit me if you ever come to NC" "would love to - wait: are you sure you'll remember me and want to hang out with me 2 years later". "ummmmm yeah............." "ok well what's your telephone number and address" "hey maybe we should just stick with FB for the moment, and if you do come - dont' come just for me btw - if…
/r/seduction01/09/14 12:32 AM
1

here's my opinion: she could be busy so no rush. she might forget to call you back. so leave it like that for maybe two days and then call again. if she doesnt' reply then wait some more time - she could be busy again. if after the third time she doesn't respond i would say don't call again for the fourth time, perhaps even delete her number so you CAN"T call her even if you wanted to. gir's are pretty passive they don't want to burn bridges so them not returning your third phone call = i'm not …
/r/seduction01/09/14 12:27 AM
-1

I never let that be known. The girl who flaked told me two days ago that I seemed like such a happy person and she needed that in her life. girls say all sorts of crazy things i wouldn't get too caught up with what they say.
/r/seduction31/08/14 05:45 AM
1

i still didn't get the guide...........where do i download it from?
/r/seduction30/08/14 11:14 PM
-1

She sounds like a bitter feminist
/r/seduction28/08/14 09:02 PM
2

just realised how quickly she's onto him: in the first .001 seconds she knows, and she basically fobs him off before he opens his mouth. the dude doesn't realise until a few seconds later. watch carefully. girls are so much further ahead of the curve than guys. if this guy gets IOIs and approaches: he can't lose. but cold approaching with girls who are seated: numbers game. pure numbers game.
/r/seduction26/08/14 11:17 PM
0

wow so you f*ed some chrisitan girls? wow am surprised i thought they were SUPER frigid. am curious how many u banged?
/r/seduction26/08/14 11:10 PM
2

women are the most risk averse creatures on the planet. therefore this advice won't resonate well with them. generally giving strong IOIs will work much better for them, while still allowing them to be monumentally risk averse and passive. e.g. "make eye contact across the room for 3 seconds" is something they can do rather than for example, walking up to a guy and saying "I like you" the latter is setting themselves up for a potentially brutal rejection.
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:05 PM
2

it takes 4-5 passes for the average guy to even realise. (read it in some book) the key is to be persistent. women are the choosers in this game. the women who get guys give out lots of IOIs (Indicators of interest). The guys who get girls are good at responding to IOIs and chase. The guys who are bad with girls do not recognise or respond to IOIs. The girls who are bad with guys do not send out enough IOIs or their "sexual market value" is considerably depleted considering her wants: e.g. a 55 …
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:03 PM
1

heir eyes, linger for like 1-3 seconds, then smile. They are now ridiculously intrigued. Why did you smile at them? Who is this guy that looks at what personally i think it works only after she's attracted to you, never before.
/r/seduction26/08/14 12:58 PM
1

yeah my experience i was friends with a girl but i suspect she liked me not sure why, i gave her NO reason to (at least consciously that is): then she starts msging me a little too often .....every second day for example...if not every day........and makes subtle insinuations or touching me a little too often e.g. when sitting down she lays her head on my shoulder, grabs my arms squeezes my thighs, says she's so drunk she needs me to take her home (not sure whether this was a subtle booty call t…
/r/seduction25/08/14 10:32 PM
1

OP thanks for ur post. I Don't completely agree, here's my take on it: For guys looking for gals: looks are Predimoninant, qualities come second. For girls looking for a LTR qualities come first predominantly, looks come second. For girls looking for sex on that same night, looks are the ONLY thing that matters - these girls are even more selective on looks than guys.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 10:16 PM
1

oh yeah made my realise taht all this game conversation is BS with warm leads - all that matters is the non-verbals really and getting physical IMO. Personally if i were you i would have made her miss her train or got on the train with her. the mouth and brain raltionalising things, but emotion and logic overpowers them. tell me she would rather catch a train than meet the man of her dreams? nice story. lucky you saw her again. perhaps should have jumped right in there the first time. warm appro…
/r/seduction24/08/14 01:30 PM
1

details detail! more details!
/r/seduction24/08/14 01:12 PM
2

Lads I've learned something today and yesterday: watch very carefuly for subtle IOIs. If you get one, and you have to watch REALLLY CAREFULLLY: then you know that she will be down for your approach and SECONDLY: you can really go in with confidence knowing the result will be positive: best part is that she wont' even realise she looked at you, that information alone is worth gold. TL;DR Watch very carefully for IOIs, if you get one: then pounce
/r/seduction24/08/14 09:58 AM
0

OP those are incredible stats. I"ve had some 600-700 approaches and only two dates. but a fistful of numbers. MIND=BLOWN re: your results. the only thing i've gained is blowing them out of the water with my confidence. Ah Martin Luther King. He did pause very well. and had powerful vocals. delivered with emphasis. "I HAVE A DREAM". What a great leader - and man oh man, what a playa he was. 18 holes a day a still time to play golf. He probably wrote the reverend playbook back in his day. Don't be…
/r/seduction24/08/14 09:45 AM
3

It's really subtle. Like when walking down street with her they will check u out which won't normally happen. It really is amazing
/r/seduction17/06/14 10:03 PM
1

no sir i think you might just be mistaken.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 02:21 PM
-2

WHY NO A+? (corrected Asian dad grammar)
/r/seduction05/06/14 01:01 PM
1

is that a picture of her or just a random girl - the one on the link?
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:41 AM
1

madisonpua.com isn't coming up with anything?
/r/seduction05/06/14 03:04 AM
1

oh yeah dont i know it!
/r/seduction05/06/14 02:03 AM
1

yeah there are a WHOLE bunch of these things in "Body Language" by Alan Pease. chair position. leg position. hand position, arm position, table arrangements, facial expressions etc
/r/seduction05/06/14 12:49 AM
1

there are 3 billion women on this earth. there are plenty of opportunities! so even if 200 people don't like you, you have total abundance ----> my friend this should be your mentality. secondly, how do you know they don't like you? you may may be mistaken. gluck.
/r/seduction04/06/14 02:15 AM
1

all the time. and the worst is that you don't know what happened. could be anything.
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:32 PM
1

I think you gotta make the boundaries abundantly clear to him: when he's sober. he's been doing it because there are no consequences to his actions. if he does it again make sure he knows the consequences. HIM: "hey we going out tonight?". You: "sorry mate i can't afford to be cockblocked tonight" and he'll get the msg very quickly i think.
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:21 PM
1

keep a back burner list.......... i just delete the number outright.........but i understand what you are saying. i've received msges from girls MONTHS after the interaction. they said that the number was lost in their notebook app or whatever. it happened again on FB, i msged a girl and she didn't reply for about 1.5 months later. i was curious why - so i checked her FB and she seemed to have been very active throughout that period - so she'd received the msg but ignored it. and for some reason…
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:13 PM
2

it's pretty hard to unwind and unchange and unlearn that behaviour. it's something that i'm working on atm.
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:28 PM
1

it works sometimes but other times it's too generic: you'd have to make it specific to her and not to everyone else: e.g. i saw your red jacket and i think it looks nice on you.
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:27 PM
1

It would be interesting to see your ideas on paper.
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:25 PM
1

excellent thank you for this post. i'm saving it. am going to restart my running regimen with this in mind instead of general condition once i recover from sickness. and the clothes. i'll get that sorted out.
/r/seduction22/05/14 12:26 AM
1

of course you're a good man. can't reveal identity on the net. am terribly envious of you. are you a good looking guy btw or can any man do this?
/r/seduction20/05/14 12:33 PM
1

what's even more crazy is that when you are out with a woman, other women send out IOIs like crazy. this never happens when i'm out by myself.
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:36 AM
0

Photos photos!! i wanna see this HB10. i wanna google her what's her name curious how hot she really is
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:33 AM
1

they can't tell dude. they guess and you let then know the truth. what's wrong with having your V-card? i've got my V-card and nobody does nothing to me. in fact, the tables are turned: it's a romantic thing to be able to say i'm saving it for the one i will marry - which i am btw.
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:28 AM
1

just casual reading. btw i do approach. i wish i had more time to do it though.
/r/seduction20/05/14 12:39 AM
4

wow
/r/seduction20/05/14 12:38 AM
1

What if I don't get IOI's before approaching anyone? then you are simply playing the numbers game. I can't see why some girl would prefer me over some random buff dude with a square jaw (if looking at a superficial level). girls are not guys. a million years ago if a girl slept with a guy and he left her, she'd be left for dead. there's no way she can survive and outrun predators carrying a baby 8 months pregnant. her criteria for a mate is not just looks. it's MUCH MUCH MORE. you are going to a…
/r/seduction19/05/14 01:01 AM
1

oh there most definitely is. try reading the handshake section of this book. they devote a lot of space to it: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/24hogn/the_definitive_book_of_body_language/
/r/seduction19/05/14 12:56 AM
1

nice that you braved yourself up to do it. sounds like a flake Let us know if she responds.
/r/seduction16/05/14 12:36 AM
1

keep it simple. offer a handshake and DO NOT LET GO until she obviously wants to let go. try this over a day and see how it goes.
/r/seduction16/05/14 12:20 AM
1

you can have more practice but usually people who are interested will give you something to work with over the first five minutes, choosing carefully will help prevent some of this: Then as per usual I get rejected, either by getting walked away from or some bullshit excuse. By the second or third set of this I feel pretty drained and even though I try not to, I get caught up in the feedback and feel pretty lousy. watch for the girls who give out IOIs to you. and you can approach them with full …
/r/seduction16/05/14 12:19 AM
2

Girls increase attraction for you once you've slept with them. The reverse is generally true for guys. It's totally natural
/r/seduction15/05/14 08:03 PM
1

Choose whom you approach very carefully
/r/seduction15/05/14 07:59 PM
1

I've had girls "need help" finding their room.
/r/seduction15/05/14 07:57 PM
1

incredible. most girls look away within 0.5 of a second. she must have had a lot of balls to hold that contact. nice work on scoring! it was too easy for you. :)
/r/seduction14/05/14 03:04 AM
1

wait a second. so you made eye contact and smiled while she was still some distance away from you, and while she was walking towards you?
/r/seduction12/05/14 09:07 PM
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there's no rush...........
/r/seduction07/05/14 07:24 AM
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She says she really has to go but stands there talking to you for another ten minutes until you order her to go. Perfect example. Listen to the actions and not the mouth
/r/seduction03/05/14 08:31 PM
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Improv acting
/r/seduction03/05/14 08:30 PM
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to see and then approach and to develop and learn the skills in order to build rapport and connect and attraction.
/r/seduction03/05/14 02:35 PM
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nice work! which uni was this?
/r/seduction03/05/14 01:27 PM
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Here's the Time article from the comments section: http://time.com/59786/how-to-flirt-backed-by-scientific-research/
/r/seduction16/04/14 10:40 AM
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Great. now repeat again with: My thoughts: -talk louder with more confidence -thinking of shit to say is pretty simple
/r/seduction16/04/14 10:16 AM
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one word: Napoleon Bonaparte!
/r/seduction12/04/14 10:15 PM
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my only comment. Please approach us. NO don't do this. some girls just don't want to be approached and you'll get a drink thrown in your face (figuratively). they'll walk all over you heart. cast not the pearls before the swine. first look at her and judge if she wants to be approached. some girls have a permanent frown on their faces. bad idea to approach when she's in a bad mood. some are in a terrible hurry. after judging, Approach and if her facial expression gives you a hint of not wanting …
/r/seduction12/04/14 12:40 PM
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this would be extremely interesting if you managed to vary the content of your messages and to see the results. perhaps try multiple messages and see which one works better. basically what you are saying is that if you say something like that and you get a positive response, then YOU ARE IN!
/r/seduction12/04/14 12:32 PM
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I know that must sound like a dumb obvious question, but that's the situation I'm in. Something about that scene is so scary for me for some reason, even though I have almost no anxiety now during the day. Maybe because it's so foreign because i never was part of it. there's no easy way to start, but to just do it. imagine jumping into a lake of icy cold water. it's a huge shock. but i think it's a good way to go about it. try asking 10 girls on the street for the time. do that for 10 days and t…
/r/seduction12/04/14 12:11 PM
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she's so into it at the start..... here are my thoughts which may or may not help you. i hope it does. armchair expert advice: you gotta make it more specific, make her think that it was not a cookie cutter opener, say something like "I saw your red jacket" or I saw "your necklace" rather than just saying "i saw you" the two percenters make all the difference when added up, not to mention the body language and tone and eye contact, and how receptive she is to the whole approach. good work on app…
/r/seduction12/04/14 12:07 PM
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So now it's time to get out there again and play the game. you said it yourself. excellent. keep going. keep going!
/r/seduction12/04/14 10:52 AM
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Good luck mate. good luck. perhaps you may benefit from hearing my story and goals: today i'm going to go out and go for about 20 approaches. i have to use a number like this to force myself into interactions. i am going to do some prep work for this at the moment which consists of: (i) looking at my eyes in the mirror so i'll have the confidence to do that with the strangers that i talk to. eye contact is crucial for creating attraction and intimacy. (ii) power posing. again this is heavily bac…
/r/seduction12/04/14 10:52 AM
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this is not an asian girl from australia? (if it is you should have seen her FB post mentioning this same incident)
/r/seduction12/04/14 10:44 AM
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It's always the coque Bloch friend
/r/seduction11/04/14 11:11 AM
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She seems to have gone our with a lot of guys too
/r/seduction11/04/14 11:07 AM
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Lol you haven't seen the YouTube videos where girls go around asking for sex from strangers. Success rate out of ten: fifty percent. When a guy asked, success rate 0% out a 100 girls approached. Girls are the flowers. They have to look good and give off indicators of interest to the honey bees who do the approaching. THAT'S ALL. ugly girls will have a hard time, as will men who lack the confidence to talk to girls.
/r/seduction11/04/14 10:27 AM
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Her words say one thing while her body says another. She's experienced and she knows what she's doing. Sounds very disturbing. Last thing you want is "i told him to stop but he didn't" rape claim. There are plenty of same and emotionally healthy girls out there......two cents
/r/seduction11/04/14 10:16 AM
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Write back to let us know I'd she calls or not
/r/seduction11/04/14 10:09 AM
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i never started. alcohol has very few benefits, and all of those are "fake". just tee-total that's really the only way. it will be a constant battle forever and there are no easy solutions.
/r/seduction27/12/13 11:49 PM
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wow you are utilising a lot of psychological principles a la RObert Cialdini there. (1) Commitment. girls are more likely to do the things that they have written down. e.g. if they say they are dventurous they will stick to it. (2) negotiation. ask for something crazy, and if she won't do it, ask for something more normal. she will be more likely to say yes, and more than that, she will be more likely to follow up on doing that. = less flakes. it's brilliant. first get them to commit and then as…
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:08 AM
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I have read numerous cold approaches and I squirm in my seat every time. Some of you may use this with success, but I honestly think it so frequently comes off as creepy, I steer clear. When I do approach a woman, I feel like she already knows me. My buddies and I have found a spot at the bar in her vicinity and we've exchanged looks. She's seen me make an ass out of myself on the dance floor and walk away without a care in the world. I dropped her a random compliment while I was at the bar gett…
/r/seduction10/09/13 03:12 PM
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That being said, a huge pet peeve of mine are those challenges where guys go up to random women and ask WHAT TIME IT IS. I get you have AA, but we all have cell phones so that will come off as weird. If your AA is to the point that asking someone for the time causes anxiety (and there's nothing wrong with that, you gotta start somewhere!) ask instead if they know where [important public transit stop, landmark in your town that everyone knows] is. folks any other ideas on how to kill AA? i've got…
/r/seduction13/01/13 11:59 AM
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congrats: It was amazing that a complete stranger would begin talking about family life after just five minutes of meeting! I probably could have #-closed then, but decided against it and told her to have an awesome trip. great. personally i approached one girl today. tomorrow i'm plannign to approach at least 5. to build confidence and morevoer to improve in my interactions. wish me luck!
/r/seduction12/12/12 12:57 PM
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(1) make sure you hear it and repeat it. (2) i use an alliterative technique: Likable Liam; Smart Sam, Gregarious George - much more likely to remember this.
/r/seduction12/12/12 12:52 PM
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I've been trying hard to lose the weight let's put this into context. i've been running appx (on average) 30kms a week for the last 10 years. sometimes i run more +50km, sometimes less. i rarely drink coke, i don't smoke, and I don't eat fast food 24x7 (once a week max). that's just to maintain the status quo. if you wanna lose weight, well, let's see, I would push for +70km a week. more like 15km a day. that's over 100km a week and combine this with a healthy approach to eating, you will lose w…
/r/seduction12/12/12 12:25 PM
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i like this because it cuts striaght to the core of people: i mean, what defines a person: it is their character? And ladies love the feeling of being loved not for their looks but what's inside (haven't we heard that mantra before - yet they will not hesitate for a second to spend hours of their lives perming their hair, makeup, accessories, spending $$ on clothes, push up bras all to putatively make themselves more attractive to the opposite sex).....so you get to the core of who they are. the…
/r/seduction27/08/12 01:35 AM
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just goes to show that the "be yourself" mantra women espouse don't really work if one has an innate natural sycophantic bent; i guess confidence is the king of aphrodisiacs. dude congrats on identifying the problem and fixing! i'll keep it in mind myself.
/r/seduction26/08/12 03:26 PM
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"If you like her you should buy her a drink!" OMG I hear this all the time. from girls. and my response is exactly the same as OP: "Really? Are you fucking kidding me?". i buy drinks only for friends/family/people i already know.
/r/seduction02/07/12 02:31 PM
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Eventually, I closed with "Hey, I have to get going, but this shouldn't be the last time we see eachother. Put your number in my phone". And she did. I really really like that one. and I really really like you: (i) dreaming it: "I was in the mood to open a set. As I quickly ate my croissant, I made quick mental notes of how I was going to approach the barrista, and how I could at least temporarily isolate/engage in conversation. As I looked outside, I saw a girl standing alone taking pictures wi…
/r/seduction27/05/12 10:17 PM
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This is interesting. associate name with vivid pictures in the mind. so when you see the same person, the associated pictures immediately spring to mind so you won't forget. but what if the name is non-standard. one trick that's worked for me is to remember something else that starts with this the person's name. e.g. sue. Sugar sue. Sue definitely was not sugar, but i remember her name nonetheless. i remembered a girls name at a partry and she stuck with me for quite a while because of it. names…
/r/seduction07/01/12 08:48 PM
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ugly girls rarely respond well - in my experience at least.
/r/seduction22/12/11 07:13 AM
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YES make intentions clear from the beginning. u'll be surprised how well girls respond. (most don't even know what to do).
/r/seduction18/12/11 11:57 AM
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disagree with desperate part. she might like the guy.
/r/seduction18/12/11 11:57 AM
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they're never angry with me, always with the girl. how can one know if she's got a BF anyways?
/r/seduction16/12/11 04:10 AM
1

i once walked up to a girl and asked her......well before i opened my mouth she said, "i have a boyfriend", rolled her eyes and played on her phone. i was humilated epic fail. it's funny now. but it wasn't when it happened.
/r/seduction07/12/11 05:21 AM
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this is a huge step. and now you realise that all of last year's fuss was about nothing. truly nothing. congrats
/r/seduction01/12/11 10:37 AM
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imagine it. then imagination flows naturally into reality seamlessly.
/r/seduction13/11/11 01:01 PM
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experience builds confidence. it's actually really really easy to meet girls, and approach, and get them interested. ONCE you break through that barrier. you're halfway there. don't overthink it. just do it.
/r/seduction13/11/11 01:00 PM
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this exactly. OP should look at people in the eyes of whom he feels comfortable with.
/r/seduction03/11/11 10:30 AM
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oh man please wind back the clock perhaps 2 years ago and i was in a similar situation. not as nervous, but similar. buying food never bothered me. ok so i'll tell you what worked for me. (1) they key is: gradual changes - build em up over a period of time. and over time you'd be asking people for directions, the time, whether they are single, whether they like chocolate; whether they'll be your lover - whatever. you can be as egregious as you want. (2) so you "can't look people in the eye" (wel…
/r/seduction03/11/11 10:28 AM
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/r/seduction12/10/11 11:41 AM
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Go bak in there and do it. and then post a FR. I am eagerly waiting in anticipation.
/r/seduction12/10/11 11:33 AM
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(1) I'd recommend doing what seems comfortable to you. for me it's no problem talking to a girl in class, but if you're uncomfortable about the whole situation then it's much easier to say hello i'm blah do you like this class; rather than omg i think you're gorgeous marry me. (2) talk to other people in the class whom you haven't spoken to before randomly for practice. then talking to her won't seem as difficult. (3) things like this are ok in a bar where you might never see her again, but if i…
/r/seduction12/10/11 11:28 AM
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my ex mentioned she would like to get back together. she's probably doing it for her rather than for you. imagine that. bringing back those old wounds. then again, people do make mistakes, and some do change. more power to you. there are wonderful girls out there, if you take the time to discover them.
/r/seduction12/10/11 11:20 AM
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because they can make you answer where you are going. everything else, you don't have to answer. and everything you say WILL be used against you in some way, rest assured. that's why the best policy is to shut one's mouth.
/r/MensRights08/08/11 02:05 PM

you should have one already on speed dial. Also, never talk to the cops: (1) name, (2) address, and (3) where you are going are the only three questions you should ever answer. then shut up.
/r/MensRights08/08/11 11:42 AM
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Firstly, my condolences. The mistakes of our ancestors have been passed on in a pithy gem of a proverb, which I hope people everywhere will take to heart: "Don't stick your .... in crazy". Too late for you, but for the rest of us there is still hope.
/r/MensRights26/07/11 01:35 PM

It's pretty hard to get upvotes in 2x - especially if your user ID is masculine.
/r/MensRights26/07/11 01:32 PM

GADDMITT the "fathers" should still have to pay childsupport this is an absolutely outrage
/r/MensRights26/07/11 01:30 PM
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If this was on 2x you would be massively downvoted. you choose a good subreddit for this discussion.
/r/MensRights19/06/11 01:24 AM

well i've been on the receiving end of a similar thing - the receiving end of an angry reply. don't know the facts in your case, but in my case i thought i was just providing an interesting link which related to her situation. i totally didn't mean to be rude, but perhaps it can be interpreted that way. maybe that was the case with her sending that to you? it's hard to gauge malicious intent without speaking to her etc.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 12:41 AM
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interesting what you are saying. i normally see germane on tv with brett.
/r/MensRights02/06/11 09:40 AM

Six downvoters. They must be from 2xChromosomes.
/r/MensRights01/06/11 02:16 AM
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Child abuse (i.e. the painful cutting of a BABY"S foreskin) cannot be justified on the grounds of religion. To do so is absurd. The kids can make up their own minds whether they even want to practice their religion when they are old enough, but to subject a child to this painful procedure is pure and simply, child abuse.
/r/MensRights31/05/11 03:20 PM
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The judge would have surely given him a suspended sentence if he had raped and killed her.
/r/MensRights25/05/11 02:50 AM
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If you had posted this comment, or the majority of the ones below to 2X it would be downvoted to hades. i've never ever been able to get upvotes in 2x with a neutral opinion. I think it's because i have a male name.
/r/MensRights23/05/11 02:27 AM
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I have begun on my journey to being able to talk to people, women especially. First step get rid of AA. Today I set the goal of saying "hi" to 5 random strangers (male/female). I have said "hi" to two people already. one was like WTF why u talking to me. the other was cool. I missed some easy opportunities. Three more to go. wish me luck. Edit:1 to go.
/r/seduction02/05/11 08:28 AM
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