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| 2 | Singing, Dancing and Generosity | CMV | SamGlass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 03:21 AM |
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| 1 | Gender Pay GapIf you go back in the conversation you'll see that the person I'm conversing with said value doesn't come from labor so much as it comes from capital. Thus, I disputed that claim. I know people get cheeky when they're proven wrong but look there's no need to be embarrassed. I answered all your inane questions so you should be thanking me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapI didn't say non-profits wear a halo. My point isn't to moralize anyway my point was solely to iterate that Capitalism is a profit-based market system. It's naive and non-factual to state productivity - or lacktherof - determines wages; wages are determined by factors underscored by a pursuit, on the part of employers, to maximize profits, and a pursuit, on the part of employees, to maximize wages. Wages hang in the balance of this constant back-and-forth. What I'm saying isn't even controversia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapLaborers manufactured and operated cottongins, supplied the raw materials to be spun on the gin. A cottongin without labor is worthless. The capital and the owner of capital - i.e. the tools of production and the owners of said tools of production - are literally worthless without labor, and the capital can not come into existence without labor, be the labor performed on his own part or by another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapI already answered these questions of yours: Did it cut down on man hours? No Did it increase production? With added labor, yes Did that piece of technology decrease the suffering of back breaking labor? No Did the gin add to suffering? Yes And now you're asking me if the cotton gin cotton ginned. Hmmm Let's trade places. What do you think, ma'am? Do you think the cotton gin cotton ginned? :P I'm dying, truly, to hear the profound observation you're foreshadowing with all these rhetorical questi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Gender Pay GapIncome just means earnings! Income doesn’t mean salary, it can be salary or hourly. Um, I addressed both salary and hourly. And you're acting as if I didn't lol. Observe... "As for hours worked vs income that doesn't make much sense. If you're a salary earner you make the same each week as the week prior no matter how many hours you do or dont work. And if you're an hourly earner, you can work 60hrs in 1 week but make less than the person working 30hrs if that person working 30hrs has a higher h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapWhat, if you'll pardon my asking, does your comment have to do with what we're discussing? You've interjected something I can't see related to the main question. The question was Are wages determined by productivity? Some other questions which have arisen are Is value created from labor? And Are wages influenced at all, in either direction, by an employer's desire to profit? With all due respect, nobody asked if Eli Whitney or any other particular entity made a profit off the cottongin, nor did … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapWho are you quoting and what is this about houses? I grasp that this is intended to be an analogy, but I really can't discern what parts of it are analogous to the conversation we were having. Employers seek to profit. You - as an employer - are seeking profit. If you, as an employer, are not interested in profits, then you'll operate a non-profit, or, on the other hand, you'll want or be willing for your enterprise to be employee owned and operated, which is a Communist thing. I wasn't being ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapWell if a person is always seeking a new, higher position, then that person is always moving away from being most experienced. To be the most experienced you'd have to stay doing the same thing for a long period of time. In fact that's a big problem. Many people complain about promotions because they have to leave the thing they're experienced doing and get trained in a whole new set of skills in order to receive an increase in pay and benefits. Thus, a company is usually running at a lower effi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapNo, I know it did. With the advent of the cottongin came a massive increase in the demand for slave-labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapIt's cool I knew what you meant. I might be critical of errors in logic but I'm never critical of vocabulary / typos , things like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Gender Pay GapWages aren't determined by an individual's productivity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapTo answer two of your questions, no; it increased man hours and it increased a suffering of back breaking labor. Combined with that increase in labor, it did, yes, increase the production of cotton goods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapDon't get all in your feels ijs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapThe cottongin was produced by laborers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapI can hear the squeaking of your brain hampsterwheeling rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapAnd you know what's even better than that? How profitable it is to, in the meantime, send huge swaths of men to laborcamps (aka prisons), then methodically limit or increase access to contraceptives and abortions so as to tweak how many fatherless spawn are sired to be laborers. Lol. Human labor is the singlemost valuable commodity on Earth. Considering how fucking miserable life was for a woman confined to the home, the general woman accepted this equally shitty fate rather happily. With a few … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapExcellence is rewarded at all income levels. Excluding the rare Communist employer, your excellence will not be rewarded unless it is profitable to your employer to reward you. Therefore, it is literally impossible for your sentence - quoted verbatim above - to be true. Assuming your employer isn't a Communist, I have to deduce they merely find it profitable to offer competitive wages. It means they are able and willing. Not everywhere you perform EXCELLENTLY will be / is able and/or willing to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapI'm sure you're trying to say something smart, but - and maybe I'm the stupid one here - I simply can't ascertain what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapOne of the primary reasons the post-war workforce got flooded with women is employers saw the value in employing a people who had little to no pre-existing system of organization for collectively bargaining for better pay. In short, women would accept lower wages. It was profitable to replace men with women. Cha-ching cha-ching! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Gender Pay GapAgain, an external force - employees job-hopping. 20 years ago job-hopping was strongly discouraged, employers peddled the notion it is considered poor etiquette, and it was said job-hopping would bar you from attaining quality employment and good pay due to your demonstrating a lack of - for example - focus, loyalty, reliability, grit, capacity for long-term planning - you name it! If an employer has an opportunity to profit or to accrue more capital, and he does not take it, he's a bad busines… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 12:34 PM |
| 8 | Gender Pay GapThe most accurate predictor of a child's future adult income is that of his or her parents - more accurate a predictor than academic achievement and law-abidingness both. Take that for what you will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Gender Pay GapWhat are you even talking about? If you increase your own productivity - as an employee - the boss doesn't have to raise your wage and usually doesn't unless compelled by external forces such as unionization, low unemployment / competition for employees, or even the employee simply asking, to name a few. Why should he raise your wage in step with your increase in productivity? Instead of giving you the value you create, he can use it personally profit or to accrue more capital. Thus employers do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Gender Pay Gap"Hence why wages have not kept up with productivity since the 70's." You...you just agreed with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:55 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?You're falsely equating my use of the phrase "public funds"/'public monies' with another phrase "social programs, tax funding and welfare", when there are a million and one ways, 'legitimate'/'legal' or not, to siphon off public monies. Stop being obtuse. If you were to account for all misallocations of public monies you'd find the extent to which males are beneficiaries of said misallocation is on par with female if not exceeding us. I dont even particularly care about this subject; my initial … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:01 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?So you're a single-father / primary custodian? Nice You make it sound like men don't utilize public funds and as if meanwhile all women do. You and I both know that's not in the least bit true. Why do you care about women and men being "equal"? I don't even know what a vague concept such as that is meant to mean. Men and women are different sexes, they'll never, on the whole, have identical biological imperatives nor reproductive strategies, and even within a sex, reproductive strategies vary wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Not your grammar, your logic. I don't really care about grammar or spelling; sound reason is more important, here. :] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 03:44 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?"less appealing men are just unqualified to be good mates" Never said that. To paraphrase myself, I said if you're perceived to be a good candidate for father and husband, a woman will pick you. If women aren't picking you, it's because you're not making the impression you'll be a good father or husband - be it because you're ugly (so you're going to sire ugly spawn) and/or be it because you lack demonstrable skills that could translate into quality parenting and spousing. If you really want a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?No what you said was I'm gaslighting you. But you put a paraphrase in double-quotations as if it's a direct quote. If you have to misquote someone in order to bolster your position in a debate or discussion then rest assured your position is coming off as either uninteresting or weak lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?I was kicked out of twoxchromomes ages ago hahaha. And it's not gaslighting bro look at your comment and you put into double quotation marks something I never said. Its not like you or I or anyone cant go back and check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Dont put words within double quotation marks unless you're quoting verbatim. If you're paraphrasing use single. Like this 'I'm an asshat'. See? You never said you're an asshat so it would be intellectually dishonest of me were I to put that within double quotations. When one misquotes another, that person comes off as infantile and emotional. 👍 And desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?You quoted me addressing male traits and characterized the content therein as "man-mate" (which I presumed was meant to be man-hate) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?I referred to men who want families who are capable as husbands and fathers. No you didn't say that lol and here's a quote And SO many men out there that would LOVE to fill this role of the reliable family man, but they just can't naturally get that pussy tingling enough See, you only mentioned that they'd LOVE to fill the role and that they have no capacity to attract. You made no mention of having a capacity for marriage or fatherhood. Men with those capacities have no trouble attracting mates… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Sounds like projection to me. Telling you males and females are different isn't hate, it's just a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Also it doesnt matter how badly you want a family if you have no skills to pass on to a spawn, no signals of possessing resources that you'll share generously (with mate and offspring), and no ability or willingness to fashion a peaceful environment. Merely wanting to be a dad doesnt make you dad material hahaha. If you're hot it's okay if you have no skills, intellect, patience or generosity, she can get someone else to do the dadding or she can enlist assistance from all the women and men in h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Who tf said anything about victims I literally called women stupid lmao. As for your tirade about pills that's so dumb humans aren't going to change 300,000+ years of intricate biological drives in just 50 years lmao. Besides that abortions hurt and can fuck up future breeding prospects, and pills can make you insane or mess w your weight and bloodflow. Females see coitus differently from males sorry to shit on the myth that males and females are the same. You have gonads, little gametes, y chro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Well I think that may be because if you have a working womb there's no such thing as "just sex". For women sex is - aside from potentiality for pleasure - the potentiality of gestation. For men, its putting ur peepee in someone else's peepee. Ooo-ahhh. Women, rightfully imo, think that to be a stupid concern as compared to growing a human. However for men the "validation" aspect (as opposed to the sensory pleasure aspect) is the implication brought on by sexual activity: "omg she wants to grow a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Singing, Dancing and GenerosityOh so does CMV mean like changemyview? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Singing, Dancing and GenerosityI'm confused is it too neutral or not neutral enough? Can you cite the infraction so I know what to fix / not do in the future? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Singing, Dancing and GenerosityOh shit you're right cause I actually think the thing I read specifically mentioned men liking women who can sing and women liking men who can dance. I guess it's just when I look at other cultures outside the u.s. (well, europeanesque u.s.) there's a lot more casual singing and boys and men casually sing elsewhere more than they do here so maybe I just conflated the singing and dancing things as equally interesting to both sexes. Like in some places it's still not uncommon for a guy to serenade… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Singing, Dancing and GenerosityOh man I feel you on the ballroom dancing. There's a lot of different dance styles I always thought I'd take a class for but never did. Idk how old you are but if under 50 I'd say its still worth it to set aside the time and $ to pursue it. Yolo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Singing, Dancing and GenerosityYes! I haven't rly left the u.s. much but it seems like ppl here are generally uptight and no fun lol. Heavily reliant on drugs and booze to cut loose. When someone is able to buck their inhibition and just do what they feel it makes them stand out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Singing, Dancing and GenerosityOhh I think I get it and I think I fixed it. Can u put it back? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Singing, Dancing and GenerosityHow do I correct whatever rule I violated? Not being a smartass I just dont understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Singing, Dancing and GenerosityYou're not wrong. But recently I was at a party and a guy there did sing poorly but enthusiastically and was a hit. He knew all the lyrics to all these different genres of songs, it was crazy. And he got everybody singing and it made the party fun. I guess they were like ok he sucks at singing so if I join in there's no way I can embarrass myself lol. And yea he was ugly. And yea he hooked up w a 7. Singing well would prob do a better job but I'm saying even just doing it poorly is an act of exe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Singing, Dancing and GenerosityYeah there have been many times a guy seemed like a lame to me or not attractive but then I saw he can dance well - or like you mentioned, was willing to dance enthusiastically but poorly having fun - and it made me wanna get to know him. I mean I'm all about the wallflower too I'm not hating on shy ppl but its undeniable that mf who gets out on the dance floor you just know you're gonna have fun. That humping thing men do at clubs tho doesnt count.. 🤚😂 hate when one slips behind you and thinks … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.When women cheat on spouses they usually cheat with men younger than themselves, not older. If that counts for anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Realistically speaking, what kind of women do men here expect to even get?Damn you went hard w this post 😳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | At least in the U.S., obesity is exacerbating all the other dating and birthrate issues.....Tl;dr Since we were talking about wants, I inferred he was talking about wants. If he wants to talk about something entirely different I don't know why he joined this conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | At least in the U.S., obesity is exacerbating all the other dating and birthrate issues.....Yes, very different, and so what you're talking about is very different from what I and the other commenter are talking about. If you go back you can see very clearly that our conversation - which you joined - was about women's wants. If you were to stay on topic and offer an observation congruent, it would be about men's wants. Do you know how to engage in a conversation? If you don't then you should mindfully practice that skill because it's very important for meeting and getting along with a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 01:40 AM |
| 2 | At least in the U.S., obesity is exacerbating all the other dating and birthrate issues.....No you said "and she brings..." which implied you were asking me what a guy wants in a woman. My response is that's up to the guy. My initial comment wasn't to state what 'men bring.' It was to expound upon the first person's observation that there is no singular formula for getting laid (i.e. being fit doesn't guarantee a woman will wana fugg u) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | At least in the U.S., obesity is exacerbating all the other dating and birthrate issues.....You decide what your own list is for what makes you DTF. (Embarrassed I needed to tell you that) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 03:52 PM |
| 14 | At least in the U.S., obesity is exacerbating all the other dating and birthrate issues.....Hygiene, tasteful dress and grooming, humor, dancing, singing, situational awareness, utility, dental hygiene, aromatic pleasantness, good posture, confident gait, knowledgability, grammar and spelling, bravery, humility, devotion, generosity... /runs out of breath | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 12:49 AM |
| 8 | At least in the U.S., obesity is exacerbating all the other dating and birthrate issues.....There's a time and place for it. Like a famine maybe? It's interesting some study observed male food-insecurity makes them more attracted to thick gals. Or at least bigger bobs. I never thought of it from the flip side but from the female perspective, maybe a fat guy might ting some alarm bells cause in her animal brain it's like "ok he takes exorbitant amounts of food for himself (leaving less for teh women and babies..)" Ultimately these kinds of choices are always a matter of one's personal m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 12:43 AM |
| 7 | At least in the U.S., obesity is exacerbating all the other dating and birthrate issues.....Love the Groucho Marx Reference! Lol! I, however, must challenge your appraisal. People actually much prefer batting within the confines of possibility, i.e. within their league: the problem is, rather, with the rise of motion pictures people woefully miscalculate what is possible. We're attuned to who finds us or is apt to find us attractive (likes us, enjoys us / is apt to, etc.), and veer - in terms of our own attraction - quite heavily in favor of them. If all day you hear sounds and see ima… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?You've already demonstrated you live in a lala pipedream world where contraception mitigates 100% of risks consequent to copulation. The fact you think contraception disposes of all the dangers posed by sex tells us you don't actually know that much about sex or about contraception. Pregnancy was just one risk/danger I bothered mentioning, and contraception doesn't even remotely resolve that one. (No form of contraception mitigates pregnancy 100%, and no form of contraception is without potentia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?Is that all we're talking about? You're concerned about blame? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?Name all the types of contraceptions and their risks to demonstrate your knowledgeability. Do it without websearching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?Also if a woman WANTS offspring contraception isn't going to help her. Contraception won't stop the father of an offspring from bidding adieu lol. Find a pill that does that then maybe you'll have a case against the rationality of society's fear and disgust with male sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?Shows how much you know about contraception lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?That's because sex is for making babies. Wanting to use someone to take their money is mean - especially if they really don't have any money to spare because they're poor, or if they are sincere working-class - but wanting to use someone to have sex is risking fucking up the life of a baby lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?If pump and dumps are a female only phenomenon, its because dudes can impregnate but can't get preggers. In reality its not female only. Some women spermjack dudes or use them as dildos. It just prob bothers dudes less since theres no risk they'll have to grow a person in their balls and be put out of commission for 2 years. bring on the non-commital pusssyyyy! If a person gives 2 fucks about their potential spawn they wont pump n dump. But at least for women they're disincentived also by their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?The male can opt for short-term mating strategy or long-term. The female has to gestate if insemination occurs so short-term mating strategy is entirely out of the question - she's disabled and infertile for 40 weeks and won't recover for 2 years (if ever) and also has a spawn now unless she just wants to let it die (not likely given the energetic investment she just made.) Obviously the male's capacity to indulge in a short-term mating strategy - given the consequences it poses to her - frighte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.So even in that scenario, women care less about “niceness” than “protection”. Protecting someone is nice. Putting your own well-being on the line to stand up for someone else is nice. Especially when you do it with no expectation of praise or something in return. You don't have to be big to do this. And you don't have to be aggressive, but you must have a capacity for aggression. This isn't unique to men, either, women do this all the time. For each other, for men, and for children. Not all of u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys."The problem is that in the modern world strange men are much less dangerous to women than they used to be." Methinks not. And if that's the case could all these "nice" guys please stop stalking us in their vehicles, grabbing our bodies unprovoked, and doing other weird shit? How about stop talking over us and calling us stupid? Will be a lot easier to believe men are generally non-threatening and nice when they..y'know, stop being threatening and, um, mean. :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.Most people preferring a thing does not create an objective fact out of thin air. Preferences are subjective. If you've only sampled women from 1 era that is not a good representation of women in general. Women have been around well over 200,000 years and across this huge breadth of time preferences changed in response to environmental stimuli. Always have and always will. Symmetry in general is something people enjoy all over the globe. The human brain doesn't have to work as hard when it sees … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.Of course boring nice guys aren't guaranteed to be nice either. But the odds seem favorable you know? How? What odds? You just said "nice [is] not guaranteed to be nice" Can you see why women struggle lmao The behavior most easily morphed into abuse is mate-guarding. Mate-guarding is also capable of morphing into protective instincts. The name of the game is to find a guy that will protect you from the various dangers posed by other guys without turning on you. Just like the name of the game for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.I did not miss it. The premise is false. I was talking about men who demonstrated by their publicly-known actions that they are not nice, Most abusers are not identifiable by their publicly known actions. Most abusers seem nice, especially in the public sphere. Idk why you're skipping this very important and common feature of abusers lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.Sure, the confounding factors you mentioned apply. But if you meet a literal convicted rapist and your family and friends tell you he's bad news, but he tells you he's a changed man, and you believe the literal convicted rapist over your friends and family, sorry, but there's something terribly wrong with your judgment. That's not a rational choice to make. Terrible judgement, you're probably retarded, yes. Not a rational choice. Its also not a common one. o.O. Sounds like this has happened to y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys."Fine, but if we agree that abusing women is not nice then we agree: women don't care if a man is nice...That was my point all along. Women barely care if men are nice. Nothing you wrote contradicts that." The thing I wrote which contradicted that: "Even if someone who partners w an abusive person is not someone accustomed to abuse as per their upbringing, most abusers start off really nice then gaslight you slowly until you think you're crazy and begin to doubt your own instincts. This is why "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys."...for a woman to prefer men who are shorter than they are and have narrow shoulders. Do these women exist? Yes..." That right there is an admittance that a taller partner is not "objectively" attractive. I hope you break out a dictionary soon because this convo is getting tired. Maybe your minimal grasp on your own primary language / mother-tongue, and unwillingness to learn, is why women aren't attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.It's subjective if it has to do with preference. How are you missing that? If females all prefered the same thing - and the preference was not subject to change - there would be no evolution. Most women to have ever existed are literally dead. So there is no way you've polled them hahaha Symmetry is appealing visually not sexually, and not just for females, and furthermore, not universally in terms of mate-choice for males or females. A visual pleasantness may prompt interaction but it will not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 07:54 PM |
| 0 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.An abuser may have other desirable traits beyond "absence of boringness and of ugliness" lol. Studies show people abused in childhood are a lot more likely to partner up w abusers in adulthood so your problem is less that you're ugly and boring and more that child abuse remains rather prolific lmao. Even if someone who partners w an abusive person is not someone accustomed to abuse as per their upbringing, most abusers start off really nice then gaslight you slowly until you think you're crazy a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.Lol ok, you're not making any sense; attractiveness is objectively subjective. Even if women choose copulating/cohabitation partners based on visual appearance (very unlikely) they are bound to vary by individual in taste or tolerance - given breeding strategy/intentions - and across time, enough for many different types of men to get selected. The proof? Look around you. The men out in public with spouses and girlfriends dont all look alike. (And imo are just about unanimously ugly) You have le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 05:43 PM |
| 0 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.Idk I think 9.99 out of 10 men are ugly, and yet I see women on their arms. So your analysis doesn't make much sense to me. You seem to think a significant portion of men are not ugly. Just take a look around you. Most of you are ugly. I could never think women pick men based on looks since the vast majority of women I've ever known or seen from afar are with men I find to be 0% attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.Women who wish to breed just aren't interested men who display signs they will be passive in a parental role. Want a parent that will actively engage with offspring, actively secure resources for offspring, actively tend to offspring when its ill or injured, can retain and pass on info effectively so he can actively imbue the offspring with useful skills and knowledge, etc. A man who doesn't do these things for himself and/or for a woman, and/or for his friends likely - its reasonably expected -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?Studying arranged marriages is literally where the word hyper-gamy comes from. You've never heard of bride-prices? Dowries? Ever hear of "daddy issues"? Lol. It's said that girls who had absent or irresponsible fathers tend to settle for lower-status men, dont engage in enough hypergamy. I cant really cite a source for that it's just common knowledge. "Daddy issues", it's basically a meme. It's a dude phrase. The popular idea since the so-called "sexual revolution" in the u.s. is that girls who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How did the genders get to this point?Statistically speaking what do you think is more common, situations where women take care of men long term or SAHMs/SAHWs? Ok so this is right out the gate an intentionally misbalanced comparison meant to obfuscate; you could have said Statistically speaking what do you think is more common, situations where women take care of men, or situations where men take care of women? / Statistically speaking what do you think is more common, situations of long term or SAHFs/SAHMs, or situations of longte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?Yep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?If the dissolution of the Soviet Union can't be credited to the Cold War, why was there a Cold War at all to begin with? If Socialism and Communism are so weak and pose no threat of succeeding, what was the purpose of Operation Cyclone? Why subject Cuba to six decades of trade embargo? Why not teach Marxian economics - to demonstrate its weaknesses, you know - in U.S. colleges? Saying the U.S.S.R. "collapsed" has the semantic function of mischaracterizing the dissolution as being independent of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?Women are notorious for avoiding responsibility - they make up the majority of caregivers to children and elders. They're very irresponsible. There should be reparations to men who had to suffer exiting women's wombs through the vagina. Cuz like ew! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | How did the genders get to this point?Thank you! Exactly! To be fair, biology actually can evolve very quickly - referring to microevoluion. But even morphologically evident macroevolution has been observed (very rarely, like a handful of times as far as I know) in some species to take place over the course of just a few generations. For a species like us, though, mammalian, with culture transmitted through text, who were already diverse/adaptable af, and absent the selective pressures to do so (we're so very adept at avoiding death… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?Omg that was not a coup attempt! Lmao! That band of individuals had no organization nor central leadership whatsoever. A coup is when a group of people attempt to overthrow a government and install their own. The Trumpers didn't take hostages, steal sensitive data, or do anything that signals an attempt at a coup. They were a disgruntled band of dissidents who were taking selfies while they stole useless items. It was essentially a meme!! At best it could be characterized as a protest, but even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?Nepotism, connections and such matter much more now. Nepotism, connections and [the private ownership of capital] have always mattered more under Capitalism. .. more than what? Than democracy. Capitalism is inherently undemocratic. Classical liberalism, progressive and radical for its time though it may have been, demanded the existence of unpaid work - SLAVES. And we had laws put in place to stop them. Name a few. If the laws were unsustainable then what good were they ever? Most laws protect t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 07:36 PM |
| 0 | How did the genders get to this point?...was illegally dissolved against the democratic will of the people.* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 01:18 PM |
| 5 | How did the genders get to this point?Omg 1000s of years. Lol. Modern humans have been around at least 300,000 years. Humans began settling into stationary societies and practicing agropastoralism just 10,000 years ago due to rapid environmental pressures. And our oldest preserved human text is only 6000 years old. Tradition - like religion and familial structure - is not intrinsically related to evolution. For an adaptable species such as ourselves, tradition is more closely related to material conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 01:04 PM |
| 0 | How did the genders get to this point?I mean isn't bride prices kind of factored into this? How about fathers wanting their daughters to marry into better-off families so that they can reap some residual benefits from the union? Incidentally, one of the criticisms of women today who grow up with no father (common today) is that they tend to marry down. :x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 01:01 PM |
| 9 | How did the genders get to this point?Biology interacts with environment. Men can and do child-rearing just fine. Women can and do work outside the home just fine. Ideally both parents will spend a substantial amount of time with children. Ideally all adults will perform some amount of productive work. (These were two traits natural to the human condition for hundreds of thousands of years). As it stands, now, however, even among the properties classes but especially among the proletariat, usually neither parent is with the children… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?Well said Also we can factor in interference. U.S. interference with U.S.S.R, and now Russia's interference in U.S. /snicker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 12:47 PM |
| 5 | How did the genders get to this point?It's just capitalism dude. Monopolies are a natural occurence in capitalism. This is capitalism functioning correctly not incorrectly. There also has never been a free market. The story we used to have a free-market is fiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 12:45 PM |
| 5 | How did the genders get to this point?The U.S. needs to adapt or perish. I'm ok with either one. But as for dividing/uniting the populace etc etc. , and your thing about China; China is the most powerful country on Earth. The U.S. has been agonizing over that for a long time, this isnt just some recent development. Who tf would carry out a coup in the U.S.? Lol. I mean who would be both motivated to and competent enough to do so? I think you may watch too much motion pictures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?Equality in the context of a cohesive society is a much older human tradition than inequality in the same context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 12:20 PM |
| 6 | How did the genders get to this point?That's such bs; my husband is at school right now that I paid for, he got there in a car I got the loan approval for and pay for, he'll be using a laptop and school supplies paid for by me. I actually don't know a single SAHM, but I know plenty of women who materially support men in their careers and schooling, then do 75% of the household cleaning childcare and home economics management. Gtfo w your generalizations The demise of men is largely due to capitalism, wherein the excess value from wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 12:16 PM |
| 4 | How did the genders get to this point?The U.S. has been in conflict with various portions of the entire world at some juncture or another for as long as the U.S. has been around. And there are plenty of very real threats that could be unifying us, were that the goal, but unification resembles socialism so don't put your money on the U.S. government wanting anything like that to happen especially at a time like this. The U.S. is a crumbling empire and capitalism is a crumbling economic paradigm. Sit back an enjoy the show. We're due … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 11:23 AM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?It seems like both sides want a loving partner but the reality is not everybody wants the same exact thing in the same exact form. Some people want multiple partners and some people want no partner at all and some, like you said, want just one partner; some want a partnership with the same-sex some want a partnership with opposite sex some with both and some with none at all; between all these different people with their different wants conflict simply arises. The conflict can be averted when pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?I wanted a I wanted a virgin but all the boys were wanking to pornos and chasing after the loosey goosies. In adulthood, my favorite lay was 33 and had been with 4 women (all LTRs) prior, and had lost his virginity at 24 or 26 or something like that. Our fuck was electric!! (A lot of non-penetrative stuff) Male-low-n-count is obv beneficial to women; less risk of venereal disease/STDs, less risk of baby mama drama, easier to train in bed, tend to be more respectful, tend to be more doting/open t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Ugly - hot peopleAlmost 100% of my crushes have been deemed ugly or unworthy of notice by my friends and peers my whole life. But now as an adult I've grown close with a lot of the women in my family and it turns out my cousin and sister share the same tastes. Everytime I ask them if they agree a man is hot, they say yes. I don't know if they're just agreeing with me to be nice and polite. And by that same token I don't know if my friends had ever lied to me any of those times they allegedly disagreed. My advice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Ugly - hot peopleMaybe a follower and not a leader | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Ugly - hot peopleActually studies have shown singing ability boosts female attractiveness to males a fuckton, and dancing ability boosts male attractiveness to females a fuck ton. Idk where I read this or when or what the context was but it was a legit peer reviewed study and I remember thinking "hot damn, they're right!". Lol. Just look at pop culture..dancers and singers make up most of the mainstream sex icons. In many of the remaining gatherer-hunter societies, particularly talented dancers and singers are g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Ugly - hot peopleA guy that's attractive and doesn't know it, who, instead of based on looks, likes girls based on their personality and intelligence. Erm, you might be a unicorn. I'd get out there and mingle if I were you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Ugly - hot peopleSomething you'll come to find to be truer and truer as you age is this: Different strokes for different folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?Worked on you one time didn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 03:09 AM |
| 9 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?Sexually disinterested* (speaking for myself) I have zero inhibitions and have tried sex but no matter how freaky it is I think sex is a real snore. I read that only like 25% of women have the reproductive structure necessary to have coital orgasms. I've concluded that sex is really no good but for trying to have a baby or to keep some manner of non-platonic intimacy between myself and my spouse (he feels the same, he's actually sex-averse) I think the sexually disinterested have a lot of diffic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?Get some dreadlocks and a flute and call yourself Kulami. Or get a face tattoo or even just an arm sleeve. Or wear colorful robes and pass out painted rocks to people. Or wear a mohawk or get some weird facial piercings. You have to be a "free-spirit", or at least look like one, if you want to get the poon. :x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 10:39 PM |
| – | How is playing video games and watching porn holding modern men back?I think video games supply the feeling of reward and accomplishment that otherwise are what motivate people to do things that are productive - productive in terms of creating for one's family, for the whole of society, for one's self, or for one's employer. Video games fulfill the creative impulse in a way that renders no real-life material benefits or gains. For this reason, I find the phenomenon concerning. However I view the phenomenon as a symptom of concerning conditions, rather than - as m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesI didn't say everybody but you. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesI would love it if men were to behave more responsibly, what in tf are you talking about? LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesI [F], have never been in a relationship I didn't initiate. Kinda weird but I never even thought of this till you brought it up. Hmmm Could it be that women are initiating but ..just not with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 08:15 AM |
| 3 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesUsed to be those things provided by wives, to which you refer, rendered reciprocal benefits of some sort. Far as I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesIdk but my cousins a homo and he beds men with wives and gfs several times a week. So even of that minority that do settle down theres pretty good odds evidently that many of them arent actually settling down lol. Just is what it is... The male tendency toward promiscuity has always been understood as a norm, but it was traditionally corrected for by social customs. C'est la vie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesProbably less happy if they were capable of being impregnated by said hot women tho.. Also Idk who told guys that we can fuck every hot guy we come across. Many if not most hot guys have wives, gfs, or are gay, then the remainder will fuck you in such a way you dont get any pleasure so you might as well have stayed home and slapped yourself with a salami. If men want to see what it's like being a woman, they should just go homo for a while. Cause we aren't engaging in coitus w hot women...we're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 07:49 AM |
| 0 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesNot so according to my great grandparents. Gram was born in 1923 I think I trust her over you on this subject matter hehe. This Nick-At-Night 50s tv show shit todays young people got exposed to has them thinking the 50s were some era of tranquility and quaint innocence.. and it most definitely was not. I just continue to be stunned by how far removed from reality peoples' understanding of relationships and of history now is.. "If her daddy's rich, take her out for a meal, if her daddy's poor, ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesUhh, actually in the 50s it was the norm to date multiple people. Recent generations are far more prudish than prior. Which is funny considering most boys today have seen 100s of vaginas on the internet by age 13 lolol. Weird times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesa woman can put in minimal effort and achieve results. What results? Sincere question, as I want to be sure to understand you clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 07:14 AM |
| 5 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Just as often the terms are like this; Patriarchy (male) good, Feminism (female) bad. Why? Because males and females are inherently at odds with each other, reproductively. Our interests don't always overlap/align; they sometimes diverge. This is a biological fact, born of the distinct differences between male (small ovum) and female (large ovum). Of course average men are going to (explicitly or not) prefer the continuance of patriarchal rule and average women are going to prefer (explicitly or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 08:53 PM |
| -2 | Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTIONDiscerning what women like based on content created by men. Smart move, logical male brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreAll bullshit. Sounds good, but you've obviously taken pains to avoid addressing what the rest of us see plain as day. You can't even fuckin' count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 07:25 AM |
| 11 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreThis comfortably negates addressing those fields and positions in which brute strength is not the asset of utmost importance - which, frankly, as anyone in the trades and STEM fields can tell you, makes up the majority of them. Nursing requires upper body strength and women are not discouraged from that profession. Ever hauled around a bedridden 500lb man? Lol I feel you, mate, I just don't think you know enough. For example, Money?! Lol! Try land, water, and female access! And yes elder male le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymorePlayboy was started in 1953. Men are notoriously resistant to marriage. You say yourself they're deluded. And yet you're having women foot this cultural bill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreHow might one trap something in an imaginary trap? This question is more compelling than anything else you wrote. As for the quality of fathers of 1950, and the quality of the economy for that matter, you may wish to speak to some historians and economists, or merely an old person, for further insight. Women who have sex very selectively create another issue - sexless men. What do you do with them? All those angry horny men? (Ship em off to war maybe? /shrug) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreOh so now it's men and women ...? Lol, Ahhhh So women are benefitting more from taxes...because they're single moms? Wow if I knew you wanted to be a single mom so badly I'd have impregnated your balls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 09:36 AM |
| 4 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreYou said "Every trade in the US is trying desperately to be more inclusive of women right now." instead of "Every trade in the US is inclusive of women right now." Need we say more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 09:05 AM |
| 0 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreYou know, wouldn't another way to put what you said be "Men are subsidizing other men's babies"? Just wanted to check in with your analytical logical man-brain for a moment and make sure we're not missing anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreThat's utopian. And living in a late-stage Capitalist economy, utterly unattainable. Mind you, a democratic society (if global) would feature no wars, and (if national) definitely no sexually discriminatory draft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:44 AM |
| 0 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreI'm just saying, your reference to John Galt is pretty cringe my man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:37 AM |
| -1 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreAyn Rand wrote romance novels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:25 AM |
| 5 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymore"Having penises?" Bingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:21 AM |
| 6 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreAll-men would be my vote in a society that favors ushering boys toward this field and has a recent history of sexism so bad that women couldn't even vote in elections for representatives. I can safely assume male students have a stronger educational foundation and more stable confidence level, as well as superior training opportunities and financing, and reproductive freedom, with which to become more exemplary in whatever STEM discipline they choose. In an equitable society wherein sex wasn't h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:19 AM |
| 29 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreI tend to agree but you lose me at women choosing not to train for labor jobs. The women who do choose to train in the trades generally have a tough go of it, dealt a seemingly ceaseless array of obstacles, which serves as a lesson to all the other women - Don't bother. If you want a list of said obstacles feel free to ask. Also young men are sent off to wars generally by older men. Many women (but by no means all) would rather the warmongering diminish. And I don't know what a free society is. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:07 AM |
| 1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.How is making him wait different from making him wait???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.So you're arguing against...your being unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenYou tried to copy my joke and mimickery is the highest form of flattery. So, D'AAAWWWW Keep trying to be funny bro you'll get there one day :3 Women beg to fellate me but then they find out I don't have a dick. :0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:53 AM |
| 4 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.Who tf told you how you appear visually dictates sexual performance? I've fucked a few Chads I'd never call again. You know those scenes in movies where there's a gaggle of girls are at a slumber-party or some shit laughing making fun of some nerd who was into them? Good looks don't protect you from that treatment. Similarly, you can be traditionally unattractive but if you get a shot with a girl and you make it COUNT, she'll tell her friends about it and you'll get recommended for further pussy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys."..the vast majority of women apply different dating rules to different men based on how they feel about those men as opposed to how those men treat them. What is “I don’t have sex for the first 3 months of exclusive dating” for one guy is “U Up? Come over I’m lonely” for another guy." How I feel about a man has much to do with how he treats me. Also with how he treats others. If a woman tells one guy "I wait 3 months" and another guy "u up? Come over", she obviously trusts the second guy more, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.A girl who isn't interested in you isn't LTR material anyway. Unless you intend on using a tranquilizer gun and a cage in your basement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenD'aww | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenI have no idea why women wouldn't want to fellate such a charmer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierTwo paragraphs is not a book lol. Some women you said, but you implied a significant amount, a significant enough amount to warrant your initial comment. Just because I said 'most dont think that way' doesn't mean I'm saying you said "most". You don't know that many women, it's okay, no one's judging you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 11:41 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenIf you had a sense of humor this convo would go very differently than it has lol. Good luck! ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT women"You can dress better, be confident and be funny without being a narcissist." - Her "I do all 3." - You :s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenThinking you're clever doesn't mean you are clever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenIf you're only concerned with enjoying your life and deriving joy for yourself, then you aren't concerned with fairness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenBut you made it sound like you were concerned with fairness above all else, as opposed to your own self-interest. But someone deeply invested in and concerned with fairness will be considering first and firemost those aspects which sustain life, not those which merely make it enjoyable. Btw, as someone who has fucked a lot, there's nothing I'd rather do less. I derive much more joy from eating food and drinking water or having a hug than I do PIVing. If reproduction, on the other hand, is your a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenI think you misunderstood my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenSo, You think you're funny* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenWhat's a dark triad man lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenOmg is fucking that important? You aren't concerned with everyone having shelter and food and water first? Lol. Christ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenThis guy gets all the pussy. /squishing sounds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenGuys who follow the law are other guys' bitches. They're followers who will place the approval of other men over the approval and safety of their wives and children. This is not a reproductive advantage for any women, except perhaps for the elite who are paired with the men who make the laws you are made to follow, so don't be surprised the majority of gals don't like you. /shrug | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 07:12 PM |
| 3 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenUh serial killers have markers of being social losers. So where do you get the social dominance thing? Genuine question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenYou get laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierEnough women for you to address them without specifying them as a minority in your initial comment. I, personally, don't think I know ANY women who aren't aware males are biologically predisposed toward sexual attraction. I don't know any women who remain unaware that boys experience involuntary boners lol. You said "some" but I read it as "many". Let's pretend your "some" meant 4 out of 10 think that. If I say "most don't think that" I could be referring to a ratio anywhere between 1/10 to 4/10… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierIt's not an ad hominem, it's a rhetorical question meant to communicate that you appear to have little familiarity with women. We agree only because no one can disagree; you've stated the obvious. It's absolutely bizarre that you think women don't generally agree with your very common and commonsense evaluation. Your conclusion is not profound, and the fact you think it is suggests that you don't know many women or you don't know many women well. We are disagreeing now; my point now is that you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 06:19 PM |
| 0 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenDepending on our situation and culture, we can balance them. That's not a complete sentence, and thus says nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:34 AM |
| 9 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenIt's not the use of the word instinct that's the problem, it's that you're severely overestimating your own ability to discern reproductive strategies, as evidenced by the fact you think all women share the same one lol. There are infinite reproductive strategies; that's precisely how evolution works. One entire sex does not share one sexual instinct lmao. If that were the case, there wouldn't be evolution. There are some instincts males and females veer toward on average, but not by any means u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:23 AM |
| 9 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT women"You can dress better, be confident and be funny without being a narcissist." Daaamn, mic drop! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:06 AM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierHow many women do you know? Like 3 including your mom? To be fair, the average women do take much more care of their appearance than the average men. Hence the jokes about taking longer for them to get ready to go out. They think about looking good, smelling good, and moving gracefully. Indeed, they are trained to take these features into account very young. Also you may notice women try to make their noodie pics artful and attractive, while men will just send you a log (i.e. his wiener taking u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | For those who have ever been overweight: how do you view weight in the context of social and dating life?I'm not overweight but I think overweight people probably have it harder. I'm asexual so no one is sexually attractive to me, the fit model and the fat average joe both elicit the same amount of tingles from me - which is to say zero. However I can and do appreciate aesthetic beauty, and so I can say with confidence some fat people look better than some thin or even fit people. More visually appealing. A fat guy with a good nose, or good hair and teeth, or whatever, a nice haircut and well-fitti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierIt took me a minute to understand what "but their actions don't account for all of it" meant. Now that I understand you're saying women's actions aren't what account for women's desirability, all I can think to say is... "Um..Duh" Females are more desired because males are here - generally speaking - to provide genetic diversity and females are here - generally speaking - to cull the heard. So males have a more single-minded approach to PIVing (which manifests in enthusiasm) while females have a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierOk then OPs complaint is no problem, either; he can get a blowup doll. :0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.I mean I didn't break out the measuring stick but the girl I met who recommended him told me 11 so that figure just stuck in my mind I guess lol. U rite tho, prob more like 9-10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.I agree except for the height thing. Scenario; I have my pick between a 6'9 dude w an 11in. dick and a 5'5 dude w a regular sized dick. Tall dude is kinda dumb, doesn't share my politics, and can't carry a convo. I've already hit it, but I won't hit it again. 5'5 dude is chill, has wit, doesn't act competitive or jealous when I'm talking to other guys, and shares interests w me (in this instance, cars and racing). I haven't hit it yet, but probably will soon and likely hookups will become a regu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 05:45 AM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierEnjoy suffering I see... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierI mean, I've gone without food and shelter and for a time without mobility. So it's nothing to me to go without romance. Maybe if I'd had an easier life I would be able to grasp your suffering. I've been beat up multiple times and threatened with a knife (butcher knife to the neck to be precise). Have you? Or are you just being abstract? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierYou're the one who brought up rape not me. I merely had brought up the chase. If you're mad about women withholding romance from you imagine how it'd feel if men were to force romance on you. YES YOU. Will you enjoy that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierI'd feel worse about forcing my genitals on someone than withholding them from someone. You? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 08:36 PM |
| 3 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierFine don't enjoy it; it's a free country! xD It wasn't meant to shock you. And when I am followed by men in vehicles, or have belongings stolen "to get [my] attention", or am asked for a kiss by men I do not know, that's not rape. I'm assuming you would not enjoy those things, but hey if you found a way to enjoy such activities good on ya. I know how solitude is, having lived as a hermit upwards of a year literally in woods, and I can say having experienced desirability and solitude, both, I pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 08:19 PM |
| 6 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierHow about the peace of mind you have knowing you'll never get preggers and have to grow a person like a plant inside your organs, and most likely will never have hundreds of men trying to put their things in your bussy with or without your consent. Now that's the good life, enjoy it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 07:48 PM |
| -2 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierOpen the box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 07:19 PM |
| -2 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierBoys/men can hug and touch each other too if they're okay with being on the same social rung as girls/women. Are you worried about being called a girl or a fag? No? Then hug away, mate I think in most countries male touch is regarded as normal. Only in the neurotic west is there such a touch-deficit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 07:16 PM |
| 10 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierSo you're saying men are unsupportive of each other? And should stop being sex-obsessed? Quit lying! You man-blaming feminist you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 07:08 PM |
| 11 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierI was happier when single because I didn't have to compromise, it was easier to stay focused on my interests at my own pace and at liberty to do so however I pleased, it was easier to save and budget money, I purchased only healthy foods I enjoyed, and I could have undisturbed sleep, or even choose not to sleep whenever I wanted to. I also only had to clean up after myself, do my own laundry, and cook for one, so my chores were halved. I was happier in a relationship because I had someone to sha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 07:04 PM |
| – | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessI think motion-pictures in general have deleterious effects on socialization, unsettling one's ability to be attuned to real-life social cues. I suspect the sexual stimulation of porn exacerbates said unsettling of social inclusion two-fold. Ain't rocket-science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Declines in drinking, increased computer gaming and growing percentage who live with parents all contribute significantly to the decline in casual sex, for menI mean, is it women's fault that men aren't picky? o_0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Declines in drinking, increased computer gaming and growing percentage who live with parents all contribute significantly to the decline in casual sex, for menYou haven't been alive very long have you? There's these things called books you can read to find out about how life was before your birth. Highly recommend, 10/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 04:45 AM |
| 6 | What argument here has changed your mind?Yeah dude I found a pic of me at age 12 a few years back, a pic from the summer I first started being talked to by grown men about "blowjobs". I was stunned. I looked like I was 9. I didn't even get tits till my 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 02:34 AM |
| 6 | What argument here has changed your mind?I think I would also use this to acknowledge that if girls were guys a lot of them would do many of the things they complain of guys doing - due to biology and upbringing/acculturation. Finding the roots of undesirable behavior can assist us in achieving improvements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 02:19 AM |
| 5 | What argument here has changed your mind?Due to evolution? Women aren't generally at liberty to go exclusively for who they're attracted to. Males (among primates at least, including humans; in some other species it's not so) engage in mate-guarding to stop females from pursuing those they find attractive. Older males mate-guard younger females and prevent them from pursuing the younger males. That's why when old fuddyduddy fuckface is at work, the self-possessed female is fucking around with the poolboy. It's an old trope for a reason… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:39 PM |
| 3 | What argument here has changed your mind?In that case you say "Yeah I dont trust you." What's so hard about that? And if she's cheating then you should want a divorce anyway. Right? Like I still don't understand the secrecy aspect. Why do you want to keep your negative feelings a thinly veiled secret? lol. I still don't see the benefit. (Or, as you put it, what fallout is avoided) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What argument here has changed your mind?I wasn't talking about women or men I was addressing this individual who said they want to do something in secrecy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:52 PM |
| 6 | What argument here has changed your mind?But the baby doesn't belong to just one person. Would you like your spouse to be able to subject your shared baby to any medical procedure or testing without any knowledge on your part? Probably not. Also why would you want that for anybody? I'm just saying I don't understand the motive nor the benefit of hiding DNA testing (or any other medical act relating to a baby) from one's spouse. Is it cause you're scared of pissing her off or something? Coz fuggin'a if you can't have a mature conversati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:30 PM |
| 3 | What argument here has changed your mind?What does that have to do with hiding paternity testing from a babymomma? Lol @_@ Stay on track. I'm a history enthusiast so you're preaching to the choir kiddo and yet way off topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 5 | What argument here has changed your mind?"becoming a first time mother at 37 are pretty slim." Well she suggested that she doesn't want to. But I wanted to point out that whether or not odds are slim really can't be known unless you know the woman you're speaking to. The women in my family don't hit menopause until late 60s, and multiple women in my family bore offspring at 40. And not just any offspring, thriving ones who are healthy, play sports, and perform impressively academically. So I think I, personally, can look forward to pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:20 PM |
| 17 | What argument here has changed your mind?I'm so glad you're acknowledging the multiple generations. It was so annoying and confusing as a child, then as an adolescent, then as an adult, for males outside of my generation to be trying to engage in coitus with me. Super distracting, distressing, and discouraging. When I think of how much incels get mad at women I'm confused as to why they arent more mad at their male elders who try to dip into their mate-pool. Like, I'd have been far more receptive toward boys/men my own age over the cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:08 PM |
| 3 | What argument here has changed your mind?Question; why in secrecy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a markSuch a weird post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.It's theorized women go for tall cuz of wanting protection from danger. I don't know if dudes go for this or that for any reason similar. And actually I think it's a myth altogether that dudes don't like fat chicks. One time recently actually I saw a guy online bitching saying he hates the body positivity movement cuz fat chicks get to have self-esteem now and it makes them harder to access for fucking. So who knows I just stay out of it its outta my paygrade. Read a study once incidentally that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 07:14 AM |
| 2 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.I mean u can call some womens' preference for tall dudes a fetish if u want I wouldnt complain if that caught on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 06:43 AM |
| 2 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.The definition of fetish is needing the thing to get off. A fetish is when u can't whoopy without it. Idc about the subject at hand just thought I'd offer that factoid up for whoever wants it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?Most girls I knew always wanted something serious. The CC seems to be due to guys appealing to that impulse. It's never been a secret dudes use "I love you" "You're the only one I want" "What we have is special" etc. to get sum poon. Am I wrong? Not saying all romantic guys are lying, just that slutty guys adopt that persona in order to get laid. So imo the 30+ women seeking LTR and marriage aren't different from younger women at all in their aims, they're just, imo, more aggressive/assertive an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 09:07 AM |
| 6 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?Sunk cost fallacy. Abusers are nice at first, and by the time shit starts hitting the fan the chick feels like she A.) Has already put so much into the relationship she doesn't want to ditch it and/or B.) Feels it's her responsibility. Other times $ is a factor as abuser may threaten to ruin her job, break her shit, wreck her car, whatever. If one gives credence to such threats, sometimes it just feels easier to stay. You weigh out the consequences and staying often wins out cause you convince y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenWut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenHe may have accidentally linked objectification (reducing a person from another group to his or her exploitable assets - which may include, but is not limited to, the evaluation of others in terms of genetic material and posession of sexual organs) to sexual assault (which includes, but is not limited to, grabbing other peoples' genitals uninvited). Presumably negative / objectifying talk about men among women would elicit an increased willingness to harm men in some way or another. This goes fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenTake it up with the guy who brought him up. Or go read something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenIf she wasn't saying it to defend Trump, why did this conversation take place in the context of discussing Trump? As of '16 you'd been on earth maybe 10 to 15 years and never heard your mom or her friends speak badly of men before? And only then found out she does so? What would compel her to tell you, at that moment, after, evidently, keeping it a secret from you your entire life? Lol Serious question I'm not even joking that would be weird af. Her answer was very vague I'd love if you could ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenTriggert | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 04:15 AM |
| 0 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenYou didn't realize you came forth from the loins of an uncouth strumpet? Or that your mum voted red? Or that it was your cake day? Whatever the case, you're welcome. I wish you many merry fights with your whore mum! Your family's dysfunction is heartwarming. 😌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 09:30 PM |
| -1 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenIs that all you've got?┌( ಠ‿ಠ )┘Presumably, anyone who is familiar with it's meaning. But I could be wrong about this.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 04:22 AM |
| -4 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenI don't think anyone fainted, I think they were just embarrassed for him. It's unbecoming of an elder to speak as if he's still a boy. The talk wasn't what I would characterize as "rough". If it doesn't need defending, what pray tell are you doing right this moment if not defending it? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 02:08 AM |
| -13 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenI'm sure your mom's an uncouth strumpet, I'm just also sure she voted for Trump and wanted to defend him from potential criticism, even if at her own expense. Happy Cake Day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenLmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 12:51 AM |
| -1 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenYour mom voted for Trump, so her response to you likely was overstated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?More big emotions, I see... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Logical people tend to adopt questions moreso than beliefs - but when beliefs, flexible ones - informed by science. I'm assuming you're a woman, since you are so foolish as to adopt a stance that is inspired more by emotion (your adoration of men), than by a careful analysis of the data at your disposal here in the Information Age. You say "in general" very flippantly, seemingly comfortable disregarding that males are predisposed to a wider array of harmful genetic mutations, many of which impac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 04:57 AM |
| 2 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Idk what it's like these days, but in my girlhood girls were told to hang back lest they be regarded as sloots. (But even the virgins and asocials were called sloots so ultimately all those who vigilantly practiced chastity and modesty did so in vain! MUWAHAHAHA!) I'm guessing little has changed since I hear little boys running around saying "THOT" every chance they get. Aw shucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 04:29 AM |
| 1 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?I think scientific inquiry into this very topic determined marrying does indeed have an, ahem, effect upon men's communication, values and expectations. Saying it has an effect isn't to say it's guaranteeing anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Want to? I don't know. But I can say from experience it has some benefits depending upon one's particular needs. Say a person sucks with money, it's good to have a spouse to handle the finances. Or if a person sucks at following a good diet, it's good to have a spouse to do the meal planning grocery shopping and cooking. Or if a person has a shallow or sheltered worldview, it's good to have a spouse with some imagination. Or if a person really doesn't want the risk of STDs or accidental pregnanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 04:07 AM |
| 2 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?And yet men get longer prison sentencing, In a court system implemented by blood-shedding imperialists, motivated by religions featuring andromorphic Gods, then placed into prison facilities literally built by the hands of men, at the order of dignitaries who are men in the majority. You might say you're being penalized in the penile system. Hehe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:32 AM |
| 2 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?Women have had their achievements stolen by their husbands since time immemorial. Well, only significantly to our knowledge within the last 10,000 years. There's evidence that before the Neolithic Revolution men n women were super chill with each other and primarily cooperative. (For context modern human has been kickin around for in the ballpark of 200,000,000 years+) But home-boy is definitely incorrect about the women-on-men'z-backz thing. Women and children brought in the bulk of foodstuffs.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?Woah! That's amazing cause usually I've heard men argue that hookers are necessary for the continuance of civilization cause without them men would been too preoccupied with the jizz in their peens to invent stuff n stuff n things n junk.. A pimp once explained to me that historically hookers offered a "safe" sexual release, thus keeping the practice of the nuclear family-unit in tact cause A.) Hookers posed no risk to other women in terms of ability to steal the husband, as marrying a hooker wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:03 AM |
| 2 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?Heterosexuals* FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:52 AM |
| 3 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?Oh it's about money? And status? I think of the education demands as being about wanting to be with someone who is knowledgeable and/or values learning to an equal or greater degree than one's self. Like, I already have to have mind-numbingly tedious conversations with my toddler, so it's really important to me that my spouse remains a source of intellectual stimulation. If a guy isn't very literate or informed, conversing with him and trying to co-parent with him is going to be maddening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:50 AM |
| 3 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?My hubs didn't go to college but he did go to prison where he read a lot of books. Worked for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:34 AM |
| 2 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?That's a good way to get an std. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:33 AM |
| 2 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Not at all! He is on Abilify and Wellbutrin. I don't know the exact dosage. We had to fiddle around with it; I remember we went too low with the Abilify then went to high with the Abilify and then finally settled at a dosage that works for him. The two medicines together cover pretty comprehensive list of symptoms. His Abilify was prescribed specifically for treating aggression but it also helps him have restful sleep. It's better known as the sleep medication but like I said the two medicines t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | AskMen post discussionYeah right. Probably lots of people are trying to f*ck you and you're just pretending you're lonely so that you can get attention. We all know ya sluts just try to play innocent and act like they can't get any to hide the fact you're a thot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 02:25 AM |
| 2 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?My husband isn't diagnosed w adhd, he was with other things like c-PTSD, bipolar, etc, (every doc has a different take) but he would qualify as adhd because his impulse control was always shit. As a kid just did virtually anything other kids told him to, spoke with no filter, acted with no filter, had no time for authority figures, off the wall 'delinquent'. He struggled with addiction from young adulthood until he finally saw a doctor, got a therapist, and started some meds (plus yoga and other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?I think so. Substance dependency in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?I said alcoholism. But as far as studies regarding promiscuity, off top of my head promiscuity has been reported as observed commonly in people with impulse control disorders. Maybe related or not its observed in people who were abused as kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Unfaithful translates to "lacking faith", i.e. lacking faith in the relationship. Marriage doesn't need to be ordained by the government. You can propose lifelong commitment, wear rings as signals to other suitors that you're both committed, have a meeting of families and engage in a celebration of union, and merge resources without the government doing anything about it. Marriage has existed since before the Neolithic Revolution, before streets and cars, before organized government and globally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Arguably the alcoholism is connected to her ADHD, thus linking the promiscuity to her ADHD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 02:29 PM |
| 2 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?If you haven't put a ring on it, it's not yours. Traditionally, (I'm talking your great-great grandparents and so on) kissing was not considered "cheating", and "dating" was considered trying different guys on for size to see which one's a good fit. When you're "engaged" to marry, that's when it's expected that you stop seeing other people. Again, I'm saying traditionally. What you're expecting is entirely unrealistic and unhealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men."By the way, if you want to argue that it's up to men to simply exercise authority over women" Nope; just over themselves. :) "without ever presenting a source" /shrug. It's been years, perhaps a decade. I don't keep a rolodex full of scientific journals at my bedside. And this isn't a college paper, it's a fuggin reddit comment thread. Failure to cite a source isn't half as idiotic as presenting numbers that objectively make no logical sense with regard to supporting your position. It didn't es… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 08:24 AM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Honey, I hate to break it to you, but if someone's cheating on you and allows any room for you to find out, then that person doesn't consider you to be of high-value. We weren't discussing cheating, we were discussing LTR vs ONS. If someone's cheating on you and invests a great deal of energy into keeping such a secret from you, then that person probably values you highly for one thing and, and values someone else for another thing. Since you aren't hitting all the marks consistently, then you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 09:49 PM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?What logic? I asked a question . Lol! Um, anyhooo So when that person said women in their young 20s flock and stalk my brother And you said those girls are trying to use him for whatever perceived advantage You meant Those girls are.. trying to find out if he's someone who would look out for them and be someone who cares about them Right? Just wana make sure I'm following you. :) Seems like you've merely stated the obvious But no not all relationships are advantageous. Some are abusive, taxing, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Ah seems she touched a nerve lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?If a relationship isn't advantageous in some respect or another, what motive is there to pursue it or to thereafter maintain it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 10:07 AM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Lol, TradCon has very little relation to Biblical scripture..I can't speak on the other Abrahamic texts, but the Christian Bible is often even at odds with TradCon rhetoric. TradCons have co-opted the Bible symbolically - they havent adopted Biblical teachings literally. As an aside, since you criticized this commenter for/accused her of feminism, that she comes off that way is likely because the Bible is more of a 'feminist' text than most people will tell you. But you can only know if you read… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 10:02 AM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Right because typically people inexplicably don't love to date those who put them at a disadvantage. 🤡🌎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 09:33 AM |
| 2 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?All you've demonstrated is that males' and females' values differ. To a female a HVM is one who meets her needs/demands. It doesn't matter to her that the males needs/demands be met! To a male a HVF is one who meets his needs/demands. It doesn't matter to him that the females needs/demands be met! Why, when we're merely hairless monkies, that is... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 09:24 AM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Just popping in to emphasize liberalism and feminism are not well-aligned, so saying you're in a liberal-leaning environment doesn't by any means suggest these women are genuine feminists. Mkay carry on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 09:17 AM |
| 2 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?My impulse is to agree w the mamma's boy thing, but tbh I've seen more than a few mamma's boys make great spouses. Ijs I mean the kinda mamma's boys who had to do yard work, fetch stuff for mamma, be handy, and had happy childhoods. Not the kind who are given everything they want to shut them tf up cuz mamma deep down resents him and overcompensates out of guilt for said resentment Lol, or let's him run wild unsupervised which seems indulgent but is actually a form of neglect. I've known a coupl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 09:09 AM |
| 2 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?You sound great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:54 AM |
| 2 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?That sweet-spot thing is interesting, and makes sense to me! Good insight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?If you've ever engaged in romance with men, you'd know it's liable to go wrong 4 times LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:50 AM |
| 2 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Wise words, here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:45 AM |
| 3 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?I agree with this take! NERDLOVE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:45 AM |
| 6 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?I think she's referring to bio. You don't have to gestate offspring and breastfeed it for it to stay alive and carry on your germline. You can just nut in someone and leave the rest to them. It's not a matter of whether or not you want to bail or stay, it's a matter of "can" bail or "can't" bail. Women can't bail without giving up at least 1/10th of their reproductive success-power. A dude can - physically speaking - bail and nut in 50 more wimin, thus minimizing the impact of said bailage. In t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?I personally envy everyone who avoided dating and marriage. I still have journals from when I was a girl, listing out things I wanted to do. The pressure to pair up with someone was intense, so I agreed to do that, on the presumption that all the things I wanted to do would get merely delayed...but.. I never realized they'd get entirely pushed to the wayside... forever. I was naive. I must concede that taking on a dependent is character-building. If you've never taken care of a child, a parent, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 07:57 AM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.I know you think you're making compelling arguments somehow, but I'm afraid you aren't. All you've said is 'Im right and you're wrong' but with more words lmao. Allow me to demonstrate: "In a situation where 5% of men are promiscuous and 95% are not...[50% of women would be sluts]" Wut? You're just pulling numbers out of your ass. Scientists have already studied this and it's consistently observed that the predictor for female promiscuity is male promiscuity. When males are compelled to adopt am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.OK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Damn you know a lot about the husbands of porn actresses. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:32 AM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Were you responding to my comment? If so I'm perplexed. But since you clearly have something to say; What mindset is that? Also explain the dooming, if you will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Can you say that in English? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:36 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Well idk I'm not a porn consumer and I don't keep up with what the sluts are doing. I guess the guys they're with are attractive and you disagree. Clueless? Do you mean the husbands don't know their wives did porn? Lol . I doubt that. And which comment? It was a separate comment, my first one, not this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:14 PM |
| 0 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.When you produce shitty cars, shitty food, and shitty people, don't improve production, import better ones from abroad - I like the way you think! Hehe. Sounds sustainable. Surely when she arrives here and secures her rights as a citizen (see: product to be consumed) she's going to be so grateful and remain loyal to you till death. :0 Unlike cars and VCRs, human beings are sentient and observe, react to, and adapt to environmental conditions, mate! Lol so best of luck to you! No sarcasm I genuin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 11:39 AM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.If you believe that your sex past doesn't matter (after reading all posts), then do what you think :) I literally said I'm not drawing a conclusion. So I explicitly made it known that my intention wasn't to conclude that sex past doesn't matter. I truly was only perplexed by your analysis of swingers. It's possible, but how likely? Come on :D I think it's the most likely scenario, that's why I pointed it out. I vaguely recall hearing swinging was predominantly an activity enjoyed by husbands tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.It's not a conversation, it's a lifestyle. Walk the talk, or else no one's going to take you and your alleged values seriously. It can't just be about "stop stealing our women" - No - it has to come from a genuine heartfelt interest or thoroughly cultivated interest in monogamous values. If you can imagine you would ever engage in extra-marital coitus, you've already lost the game for your team. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:53 AM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.It wasn't a poor word-choice. It was the use of a nonexistent word. I didn't call you a fool, I merely contradicted your confidence on the subject at hand. I don't know what point you made which needs refuting. How would one venture to quantify "Females are primary benefiters from civilization"? Do that first and then maybe you'll prompt me to engage in a dispute with you. It might be helpful if you first demonstrate that you even know what "civilization" is. Are you using it as a verb or did yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Nope. Picking at the generality of your limited knowledgeability. Nothing more nothing less. When you assume the role of authority on a subject, it's wise to keep that cultivated appearance consistent. English is your first language and you're older than five, no? If you don't know a word as common as "beneficiary", what should make me think you know much about anthropology? I'm just using context clues. Sorry. Not asking you to be a scholar. You could have used the correct word and still I woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.If you have little knowledge of words I can only assume you've interacted with / consumed a negligible amount of data and information. It's a fair assumption, imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:38 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.So, like, [80%] of men must switch from involuntary celibacy to voluntary? Or else engage in coitus with the females of another species? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:33 PM |
| 0 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Wut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Civilization? Primary benefiters? I think you meant "beneficiaries". Something tells me you have no idea what you're talking about. xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Ok but Sweden's not so fucking dumb that the people of that nation think the people of the U.S. have it better than them. Alas, besides, self-reported sexual behavior is known generally as to be flawed so even if you turn to statistics, you still don't know who is engaging in coitus, nor of what quality, of what frequency, and with what number of partners said coitus is occurring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.I'd like to point out that it's entirely possible - and even more probable - for someone to be a virgin or sexually inexperienced, then get married, then start swinging later in age (for any number of reasons ranging from pleasing a libidinous spouse, to making up for the prior lack of sexual exploration), which makes me question the efficacy of your use of swinging as exemplary of sluts-only-getting-ugly-dudes. Does the matter of women engaging in extramarital sex at the behest of their husband… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.So what you're saying is ugly men should love sluts (as demonstrated by the swingers)? And poor/unaccomplished men (such as your ex's new beau) should also love sluts, for otherwise, all these men would simply never get any poon. Am I reading this right? Lol Another thing I want you to clarify Will males reject slutty females? Majority will. You say it's ugly men, as demonstrated in the swinger community, and unaccomplished men, such as failed musicians, who hook up w sluts. You also say a major… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Yeah biologically it makes sense for females to, in the post-modern world, practice high rates of abortion, avoidance of males, and moderate rates of male-infanticide. I don't think the evo-psych crowd would stand by justifying any of those behaviors with a "this is female nature". That zen-type approach, such as is exercised toward male sexual behaviors, dissipates rapidly among the evo-psych crowd when the chickens come home to roost hehe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 08:40 PM |
| 0 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.You're saying that 80% of men "rejecting [me] as tainted" is going to stop me from pursuing coitus/marriage/domestic-partnership/procreation/whatever with the guy I'm attracted to (a man who you'd argue is, by virtue of his being desired by me, a member of "the 20%") How would 'being rejected' by men I don't even seek approval from in any way shape or form impact me? Just curious how you think this works. ;) Also if "80%" of undesirable men rejecting me CAN make me give up my pursuit of the man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 08:26 PM |
| 4 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.It's true. Male chastity is what determines the predominance of monogamy. There's plenty of research on this. In some eras and societies male chastity was expected and male sexuality was heavily policed, thus monogamy more easily flourished as a cultural norm. So all these homies crying about not getting laid / about female sexual behavior really only have their slutty bros to blame. They refuse to accept or acknowledge this, since they themselves don't particularly wish to practice monogamy the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 08:02 PM |
| -1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men."Fittest" doesn't mean strongest, lmaooo, fitness is determined by an analysis of environmental factors. "Women don’t care about what’s best for society, they care about what’s best for them and their children." Isn't society entirely made up of women and their children? Or are you a result of your father's virginal birthing of you out of his dickhole? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.It's so funny that anyone thinks they know how much coitus is going on. Not all men kiss and tell. The man who can engage in coitus without broadcasting it to his fellow man does exist (and, because of the recent and yet recurring vilifying of female sexuality, he is highly sought after). Meanwhile the woman who rejects coitus (or in contrast, who engages/ed in a small amount of coitus / with a small number of partners) is apt to be rumored, by male peers both known to her and unknown to her, to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?Aw honey, no. Idk about males but it's my observation ladyfolk rely on a lot of cues to stir attraction - mannerisms, the sound of one's voice, how one smells, one's reactions to stimuli, how one interacts with others, pheromones, and so on. Tinder is a remake of the dating app Grindr, which is geared toward men. Tinder just isn't realistic. Plus historically, pairing up between the sexes was overseen by family, community, and friends. Men are more easily accepted by women once they've been 'vet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.You seem to be saying mens' workload, in terms of sexual relationships, outweigh's womens', in that you said men must do "extra" work. "Extra" implies the meaning of 'more-than'. If I'm misunderstanding you, do feel free to correct me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away."didn't" ?...like novels are things of the past!? Lol! Tell me about some of the biases to which you're referring you've observed in some of the novels you've read. :) "All media always been the same" Fuck, there's some literary scholars and film directors turning in their graves rn, my friend! XD. If you don't read books that's fine, but just accept that the world is much larger than the tiny wittle wee world you're exposed to on your smartphone. Not all media is the same. Media is plural for m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.Care to elaborate? And can we take a moment to appreciate the comedy and irony of that cryptic response? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.Omg, kid, social media has hardly existed more than two wee decades so what are you even talking about lolol. Most of the shit you see online is pseudo-journalists being edgy to generate click-traffic and collect ad revenue. Same on TV "news". Then people just run with it. Are young people really this stupid? Take a break from the tech and go read some novels. It'll chill you out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 01:59 AM |
| 0 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.Lol. I don't envy men, but please stop acting like gestating an offspring takes zero work. That's preposterous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Redpill is the fastest way to scare women away.Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 08:06 AM |
| 1 | If the only good thing about the relationship is the sex, why bother being in a relationship? Just be fuck buddies./googles isogamy So are ya'll talking bout the babies being made w 2 ovum? Or something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Just get an instrument that takes virtually no talent to play, wear some wacky clothes, and use an accent or say cryptic things. Girls love stupid shit like that. Peacocking. Making one's self appear exotic. It's 10 times easier than getting loaded with $ or gymaxxing. Then once you have her attention, just pay attention to what she says and be nice to her. Even if the chick you're interested in doesn't go for you, she'll recommend you to her friends. Whatever method of courting you choose to em… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for income"and no longer have to resort to prostitution as they can now work in any profession/field." That's like saying men no longer have to join the military because they can now work in any profession/field. [People] have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for income Selling your body is what the majority of us do. I know so many people who've sustained injuries at their places of work ranging from debilitating back injuries, to hearing loss, to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Da gummint | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Someone's gettin' those assets n monies! Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 4 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Capitalism demands a "reserve labor force" to keep wages low and inflation low. So, conceivable, the job shortage in the U.S. is manufactured. The outsourcing of jobs to regions overseas is, presumably, part of the methods used to keep wages low (i.e. increase profits) and inflation low (i.e. maintain the value of said profits). A lot of people mistakenly view the results of job-outsourcing as unintended. But, unemployed and impoverished classes of people are absolutely necessary. I'm responding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 05:39 AM |
| 10 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?I don't know much about those years the boomers were teens - the 60s and 70s. The way I understand it, a large number of bad decisions lead us to the point at which we find ourselves today. But the prosperity they enjoyed didn't just POOF up and disappear. There's tell that millenials will be quite well-off when the baby-boomers pass away and unload a lot of hoarded wealth, over the next 20 years. It's a rather unprecedented intergenerational wealth transfer about to (and beginning to!) take pla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What makes a positive male figure for children?Lol. Nice. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsWhat the fuck are you so angry about? Lol. So what are you talking about like a diety, a she-god or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsWhich one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsWhen who had sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | What makes a positive male figure for children?Holy shit, I didn't even think about that! I just can't imagine...being pissed at a kid for losing a competition? be it sports or something else, that's wild I guess if the parents are putting their stakes in a child securing a scholarship via competition or something like that - wherein its a financial motive - then that can make a little bit of sense to be invested in it, but not to be pissed. Creepyyyy And omg thank god I didnt have a dad into sports! Lol! He'd yell about other stuff but not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | What makes a positive male figure for children?Given the fact males are extremely diverse - in fact, diversity (in genetics if not in character) is the prevailing "purpose" for a species to even have males - I find it peculiar one could conceive "Being a man" as being a uniform one-size-fits-all role. Traditionally, being a man means "being disposable" Sacrificing self for the benefit of wife and offspring. Is that still in today? I thought that had fallen out of style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsEver? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsYou can opt your dick outta her vag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsAn illusion of choice must be cultivated. If men think they have no say, they won't play ball (be invested in becoming fathers, husbands, fulfilling fatherly and husbandly duties). That's what abortion laws are really about. That men are big children who must be manipulated into behaving with decency. The middle class and wealthy have always continued to secure safe abortions in those rare and brief eras of abortion outlawing, and poor women managed to terminate pregnancies also by various creat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsAbstinence is easy for asexuals. Like me. Lol. But over my lifetime I've gathered it's not appealing to many people. Esp when you factor in those frisky years called adolescence. Maybe more and clearer education about sex stuff. For example, penis in vag shouldn't be called sex. That should be called coitus. Sex is actually the term for creating an organism from the genetic material of two separate organisms. Coitus is the fucking. Many living things sexually reproduce without coitus (like flowe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:12 AM |
| 1 | What makes a positive male figure for children?Oh fuckyea dadding king! Love this description! Well, except i think the gender stuff was already confusing lol but i feel ya | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:06 AM |
| 2 | What makes a positive male figure for children?Ooo keep competition friendly, good one! I forgot all about that! I've def seen some adults get wrapped up in competing with a child, like they forget it's a friggin child. I hate that. You can only impart good sportsmanship by NOT having a meltdown over a competition lol. Like yeah, be competative, but dont get straight up salty! Its so embarrassing! Gotta say, though, to the kid, its probably amusing af. I'd laugh my ass off if my stepdad got all worked up over competing with me in some game o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:56 AM |
| 1 | What makes a positive male figure for children?Studies actually have shown mom's are generally more callous toward sons than daughters, taking longer to respond to male babies crying and being less sensitive toward boys emotions and needs. A healthy mother-son relationship would be just like a healthy mother-daughter relationship, imo; communicating clearly, setting boundaries and sticking to them, imparting worldly knowledge, encouraging interests, providing realistic and pragmatic descriptions of how the world works, and demanding the fulf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | What makes a positive male figure for children?While I'm tempted to agree, I have seen boys model themselves, happily, after their mothers. It's probably easier and quicker if there's a man also around to model one's self after, I'll hand you that, but in the absence of a man - and an absence of stigma about women - I believe a boy would have no qualms taking cues from his mum on what's good and productive behavior. I've seen it be so (If she does, indeed, model good and productive behavior.) The times I've seen this carried off without a hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | What makes a positive male figure for children?Gee my mom was the total opposite. She was very much a "dust yourself off, mate!" type parent lol. Some may even describe her as callous or negligent (even though she's plenty affectionate!). Her parenting style drove my grandparents insane lmao I've heard it said that protectiveness skips a generation, like a pendulum-swing. Those with hypervigilant parents may seek to parent differently and so become under-vigilant, and vice-versa. (Ditto to authoritarian v.s. lenient/coddling parenting styles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | What makes a positive male figure for children?This is how I think of my new step-dad to my little brother (I'm way older and out of the house). Ever since my mom married this new guy my little bro is so much more respectful, less combative, more confident/driven, and just all-around happier. I'm so exceedingly grateful for this addition to our family. He's exactly as you describe. My first stepdad, on the other hand (my little bro's dad...my mom's second marriage...before this one, lol) straight up pushed me and my siblings out of the house… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 05:31 AM |
| 2 | What makes a positive male figure for children?Thanks for sharing! So on-point. Very well-said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 05:20 AM |
| 1 | What makes a positive male figure for children?Stuff I think good dads and moms do (My comment can be boiled down to; Talks, Laughs, Plays, Teaches, Watches, Encourages, Informs. But lest such sound too simple, here's further detail..) Rough-houses / physical play; creates a precedent for physically active lifestyle, informs defensive techniques applicable to irl situations, improves motor skills Actively demonstrates the importance of consent; stops tickling when the child says "Stop", actively respects age-appropriate basic privacy, seeks … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 05:13 AM |
| -1 | Male privilegeFeminists popularized the criticism of MGM At least in the U.S. MGM is a practice divorced not only from medical science but also from religion. Families accept doctors doing this for virtually no reason. The fathers and male doctors want the boy babies to go through it as they did, to invalidate the trauma, and in some situations this manifested in the egotistical claim he'd like the boys penis "to match" his. Doctors have the added incentive of monetary profit, as it stacks one more medical bi… | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/20 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Im only fifteen and Im fucking done already.Who are they doing this with? Lol. Each other?! | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/20 09:59 AM |
| 2 | My friend shit tested his girlfriend and led her believe he lost everything when he actually became a millionaire.Anarchy | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | My friend shit tested his girlfriend and led her believe he lost everything when he actually became a millionaire.I didn't know anyone asked this question but for to be polite.. lol | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/20 09:42 AM |
| 2 | E-Girl tried to leech for freeStay a virgin for purity, David. And no girlfriends. No girls until you get married. And never look at vegenes or boobies. That's disgusting. You don't want to be disgusting. Don't be like this disgusting girl at your school. Be better. Be not disgusting. Be such so that you don't disgust other people. Because everyone else's opinions matters. You don't matter. So please don't disgust us. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Yet another movie that portrays men as lazy and immature and women as the responsable and adults ones. Can you imagine if the roles where reversed?Fems everywhere are thinking: "Aye! Now you all know how it feels! >:)" Lol. They win. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/20 04:54 AM |
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