Sam_I_Ams Archive

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3	Shit test compilation thread This is exactly the kind of attitude I'm talking about. Y'all can't seem to comprehend that women also pursue relationships, women also get rejected, women also feel lonely and like nobody will ever like them. Romance and sex do not fall easily into our laps. You see women at bars being approached by men and take that as evidence that women have it easy and are spoiled when it comes to romantic partners. The reason we will often reject men when out drinking is because they are often creeps tryin…	/r/seduction	09/12/18 11:23 AM
3	Shit test compilation thread Agreed. I'm a woman but the way men talk about women on here makes me feel more like I'm some kind of alien to be figured out and overcome, rather than a real person.	/r/seduction	09/12/18 08:00 AM
1	I do the same things with every single girl and it makes me mad that I do it. But I never change. Need help I dont know if he's only looking for a hookup and no intimacy. Might be both. "Not settle for a girl who lets him be unconfident" lol what the fuck kind of phrasing- how about pick a girl that makes him feel confident? Relationships can help make you bold. I know it worked for me.	/r/seduction	22/10/18 05:55 AM
2	I do the same things with every single girl and it makes me mad that I do it. But I never change. Need help I guess you could try focussing on finding a girl for a relationship rather than a hookup? With one of my bf's we went the first 3 months of our relationship without having any sex. I didnt mind and in fact liked how he took it slow since my previous relationship was pretty traumatizing sexually (he was already taking it slow before he knew about this). With another boyfriend, I was the one to initiate making out with him while we were cuddling and watching a movie. So... i guess youre just kind…	/r/seduction	21/10/18 01:15 PM
2	How do I approach this cut girl that eats alone at my schools dining hall? Oh, well thats good! Was kinda thrown off by the not coming off nice thing. But in that case, your plan sounds perfectly fine. Are you looking for advice then as to how to approach her the first time/start getting to know her? Personally I would just walk up to her and ask "mind if I sit here?". Then depending on how much you know about her try to start a conversation off that. Maybe there's something interesting about her that you can ask about (I noticed youre always doodling, and I was really…	/r/seduction	19/10/18 10:57 AM
2	How do I approach this cut girl that eats alone at my schools dining hall? This comment will probably make me unpopular here but its what i believe and what works for me so I'll share anyway. Feel free to ignore my advice if its not for you. "I don't wanna come off as nice" thats your first mistake. Are you hoping she's desperate for attention and wanting to make clear she'll only get it if she puts out? If you like her, be her friend first. Make her feel 100% certain that whether she puts out or not, you'll still be there. Only then can you hope to be anything real wi…	/r/seduction	19/10/18 10:28 AM
2	Guys a little help here? Thats true! He definitely shouldnt have shot her down like that. For me the calling her weird and too excited stood out much more than calling her man but youre right, all together it does make it even worse.	/r/seduction	17/10/18 09:06 AM
3	Guys a little help here? Can confirm. (Source: am a girl. Regularly say "man" to my female friends, and they say it too)	/r/seduction	16/10/18 09:08 PM
10	LMR - Boyfriend but very strong signals. What to learn from this? Personally I wouldnt do it. Is sex really worth fucking some dudes life up? He could have serious trust issues lasting for years from this. He could miss his chance at ever having a happy family because of that. This could seriously impact his entire future. What would your friends think if they found out? And your family? Do you really want to be that kind of person? If she really likes you and wants you, more than she cares about her bf, she should break up with her bf first, because that mean…	/r/seduction	16/10/18 11:46 AM
2	17 year old wants to fuck me. How long have you known her? How do we know you didnt groom her into this? Grooming or not, she is too young for you, and waiting for her to turn 18 doesnt make it any less creepy. Best course of action here would probably just be to slowky break contact, since whatever your relationship to eachother is, it cant be healthy as long as she wants to have sex with you. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but she's so young that even if she's 100% on board and taking all the initiative theres no way to en…	/r/seduction	16/10/18 11:34 AM