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4	Need help filtering out the smart women. Intelligence follows a normal (Gaussian) distribution. That means that a minority of the populace is really stupid, half is below average, a minority is really smart and half is above average. Mostly, there's this huge blob right around the 'average' mark. Statistically, 50% of the women has an above average intelligence. How smart do you want them to be? If you mean uni-level education, disciplined and ambitious but still able to have fun, you're talking about a minority. And then you have to a…	/r/seduction	06/11/12 12:57 PM
1	Girls talking about other guys in front of you 'Ridicule' might be a bit too strong - English is not my first language ;-) Would 'make fun of' ruffle your feathers as well?	/r/seduction	22/08/12 01:04 PM
2	Are all nightclubs like this? Gosh, this is proof reading what's on here is completely different than actually applying what you learn. Are you a great dancer? Or can you dance like nobody is watching? Got a wingman/woman for social proof, your body language down to a tee and somewhere to bounce to for a convo? Then this is the proper habitat. If the above does not apply, you'd better stick to your fishbowl. Anything is possible, but I can't close without a few minutes worth of conversation. If I don't have a wingman I'm not really having fun in these venues until I get some contact going.	/r/seduction	20/08/12 07:53 PM
9	Are all nightclubs like this? Gosh, this is proof reading what's on here is completely different than actually applying what you learn. Well. A 'club' =/= a 'club'. What you've described is basically how most clubs in my vicinity operate. We have very few clubs with a seating area where the music is marginally less loud and no pubs with a dance floor. And those are the type of clubs/pubs where pickup does work for me. One of my favorite venues (but terrible for pickup) is used for concerts too - it's a 50 x 30 yard room with a podium, a balcony that is closed on dance nights and a smoking area where you can only talk if the door…	/r/seduction	18/08/12 11:08 AM
7	Girls talking about other guys in front of you Heh. I turn this into a game. I ask them to point the guy out to me, agree with them, say something complimentary about him and then start to ridicule him (and their taste) slightly. This tends to shift conversation away from the guy and to a discussion of their taste. Two options: They don't see you as a potential mate. They do and they're shittesting you. If #1, have some harmless fun. You're not doing this just to get laid, are you? If #2 keep your cool, joke around and continue kino, convers…	/r/seduction	14/08/12 08:43 AM
3	Not sure if this is the right subreddit, but I need help. BADLY. once I know I can do this I'll be happy. Hell no man. You are looking for an utopia. You're 16. That means that you have at least one or two years ahead of you where your hormone levels fluctuate immensely. And even then, it's not over. As you get older, there is much less stuff you're experiencing for the first time. But as you have not finished high school, not to mention college, uni or a career, you're smack in the middle of a time of your life where you are constantly adapting to new ever-c…	/r/seduction	13/08/12 02:21 PM
8	Does abundance mentality cause cognitive dissonance? It is not about the factual abundance, it is merely a means of steeling yourself against rejection. It is self-elected self-deception. We do this all the time. Depressive realism* is the notion that a severely depressed person appraises his or her self as a whole; more realistically than a non-depressed person in an identical situation would. They may have a very rational view of their person and feel that they have little to offer to the world. Self-esteem is key to confidence. In order to rega…	/r/seduction	27/07/12 11:56 AM
1	Tips on approaching girls at beach as a teenager? Game the parents too. Seriously, if you only talk to their little girl, you're just the boy trying to get in her pants. If they think you're funny, harmless/responsible and sociable, they'll be a lot more tolerant.	/r/seduction	20/06/12 12:05 PM
1	Anxiety as a virgin/Cyclical failure Unhelpful advice: Hop on over to /r/sex and search for a guide on cunnelingus. Read everything, aim to become exceptional. Although great sex requires you to calibrate, it's a good starting point. I'm not sure about your past experiences, but I think your issue is better worked on in a stable situation. Take it slow. Or, give her the time of her life and she'll be down for seconds. Either way, focus on getting comfortable around her. Once you've succeeded once it becomes significantly easier.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 01:02 PM
1	Studied Seddit for 4 weeks; Need Analysis on What Happened. Yeap. PUA is often a gamble. You take a leap of faith and hope to get the close. 'Just going for it' works best when there's a time constraint, few or no shared experiences and when you successfully built sexual tension. It's a goal-oriënted strategy, but your tactics vary on a situational basis. What would you like (not want!) from her? If she's a slow starter, get her comfortable and keep stretching the limits. If this takes more than a few months get it out in the clear: she's a candidate, bu…	/r/seduction	16/06/12 09:33 AM