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"Men here act like they have so much choice that they will be so picky and reject high n." Actually some context have no body as default option like in conservative country for example Asian countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:31 AM
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It matter to me for my dating scene i don't policies other to do the same. I think it best other find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:24 AM
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If certainly reduce risk even if it miniscule. So it advantage of look from that angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:23 AM
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It don't matter but I still won't marry a women with high N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:52 AM
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Majority people have 2 eye. Why don't you want to become exceptional?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:50 AM
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Then it reasonable for man to breakup with her because he wants to enjoy this with partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:39 AM
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Why all blue and pink pill make it all about sexual performance insecurity. Some care about body count because we are waiting for marriage ( religious reason) and want same that why it matters for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:06 AM
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Why all blue and pink pill make it all about sexual performance insecurity. Some care about body count because we are waiting for marriage and want same that why it matters for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:06 AM
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"But the body count itself isn't important, no matter how difficult or easy it is for women to get laid." Really??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:34 PM
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My fear of body count is because I am waiting for marriage for religion purpose. Why people think it all about not being better at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:54 AM
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It double edge sword. Sometimes it teaches you sometimes you just assume worst case because of some similarities. They is no absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:48 AM
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How the fuck are you red pill with that value. I think you need to change your tag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:05 AM
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Did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:33 AM
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Actually i am not womenless where I live waiting for marriage is common. It rare if you don't wait for marriage. But i do like to discuss or debate with people online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:30 AM
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I mean the reason I care about body count is because I am waiting for marriage. So i want someone who is also Waiting for marriage. Caring about body count can cause by many factors not only insecurity. I accept that insecurity is a cause but not only cause some want there partner with same number of n count some are conditions by society or environment they grew in. There are multiple reasons so you can't solve someone views atleast not then you identify the reason they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:41 AM
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(If you ever actually listen to real woman’s conversations about their partners, their talking about problems they currently have, who (tf) remembers what you did with an ex to the point you compare it to all your next partners? It just doesn’t happen dude) Actually some do. Women aren't monolith. They are fully capable of what any human is capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:21 AM
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Okay this topic so repeated i getting bored of it But I am interested in who changed there previous view regarding it? Like I still care about body count but now i don't judge other people who don't care about body count. I think it there choice and lifestyle they choose that different from mine. So I am interested who changed there views regarding body count from then you first encounter this topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:13 AM
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But you do say that it illogical right? So why can't people say it's not illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:11 AM
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I just don't want to date the promiscuous behaviour because of incompatibility i don't shame them or anything. But i get alots of reply saying that my preference is inherently bad or something. Which make me defend my preference. I don't have anything negative towards promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:09 AM
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It not unrealistic in other context like for example conservative country. I seen alots of men who have high n count marry women with low n count. And i live in india.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:06 AM
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How about men with high n count? Would it be perfect for him to settle with a shy nerd women after having his fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:04 AM
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About your first question. You can predict by how there lifestyle is Is they religious? There political views? That there love language? Are they battling some form of mental health issues? That are some ways but there more wats to find someone who is compatible with you on your views regarding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:01 AM
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I mean people never change easily they do but not easily. Also you are talking about 7 and 8 but sometimes it different lifestyle and compatibility issues like Some are Waiting for marriage some don't want someone who engaged in casual sex. Lots of different factors Body count is just one of the factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:58 AM
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I think both are different types of men. Some men complain about lackluster dating life some men complain about women only want casual nothing relationship. Both are different. Some are dying thristy some drown in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:53 AM
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Man i just watched the whole thing it fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:47 AM
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I mean if they are really hesitant about her past why would he Marry her? Let say he was desperate but a women with high n count should atleast able to differentiate between men who have problem with her past or not? I mean she got experience she is not some shy naive girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:37 AM
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I mean if they are really hesitant about her past why would he Marry her? Let say he was desperate but a women with high n count should atleast able to differentiate between men who have problem with her past or not? I mean she got experience she is not some shy naive girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:36 AM
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Maybe but maybe some times women are also fault. You can't just remove the accountability of women. Maybe she got bored easily because of stability maybe she was used to thrilling lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:33 AM
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Conservative women are not monolith. Also most women also enquired about her potential if he is waiting for marriage or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:29 AM
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Not even the hypocrite ones Those who have high n count but marry a low n count one? Are they still superior? If no then what about slut who marry the low n count men? Are you thought consistent despite the gender differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:26 AM
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I mean life isn't some game with universal rules. Some people get karma for there bad some just live peacefully even after genocide and die peacefully. Life don't really have a certain set of rules its full of uncertainty and unpredictable outcome and choices
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:23 AM
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Chasing perfection is okay but you need to balance with rest and accept that something not change even if you gain knowledge about it. And there is nothing wrong with that you accept that you are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:19 AM
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Then it not insecurity because mental health is peaceful right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:10 PM
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Bro do you want to like be perfect or what? I know I have some flaw and that okay. I am willing to change it if it impacts my life but the body count thing don't impact on my life also i live in india small city Most people waiting till marriage even in worst case you end up with women who had 1-2 boyfriend but nothing high like 4-5(in my context it high)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:07 PM
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"Furthermore, there is no conflict regarding height and wealth - men usually do not want women taller than them and who earn more than them" I want it because i want to save my bloodline and it's nice to have a sugar mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:01 PM
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Now I just accept blue pill bs about if you care about body count you are insecure. But i like to be insecure and it doesn't affect my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:41 AM
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Why if they are not interfering in my life? Also i live in india where most are virgin till marriages. So it not even insecurity in this context it just normal here.( Not talking about tier 1 cities)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:40 AM
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Your tag say proud slut and you are saying not really pleasant for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:33 AM
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I seen your previous you also shame men who say body count matter instead of saying different values and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:28 AM
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Personally i live in india it no problem for me to find a virgin woman let alone a low body count Women. But i am waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:23 AM
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Bro i seen your reply i don't think you are blue pill you are more of a red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:21 AM
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So did Womens Don't have insecurity That influence there life desicion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:37 AM
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Sleep A Ltr or having family then B
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:35 AM
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I don't activity ask her but then I know after knowing someone it high I opt out without saying anything about the body count reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:32 AM
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I also live in conservative area and country so ig it different everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:45 PM
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Everyone do it some are vocal some are not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:14 AM
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Because it is easier to get sex from liberal women who think sex is just sex but hard to get from conservative women because most of them are religious so they think sex as more sacred. Also premarital sex is sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:47 PM
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I mean for them it is easier because they categorize women into fuckable vs wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:39 PM
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You know that that not how world work. so if a person got insecurity about his/her body shape = he/she got a bad body type? No They are just overly fixated on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:52 AM
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I don't get why feminist have the right to tell men what a healthy masculinity is just like men can't tell women what healthy femininity is. I am also feminist but I don't like this double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:51 PM
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Comparing two stereotype 🤦 Is like saying people in Africa eat only fried chicken but also saying they are starving
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:10 PM
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I have high body count but i care about women body count For settle down and have family
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:00 PM
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Body count insecurity = bad in bed Wrong assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:48 AM
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What wrong about insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:46 AM
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App to review men? Is men a object?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:13 AM
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Finally someone understands that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:03 AM
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True but that reality is I am not denying that. Also I am not shaming them also I am just explaining that some men play feminist role so good that get most benefit + zero to no consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:53 AM
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Yeah for money but some have madonna like a mistress on side Not all but i have noticed some Also Rich men always marry rich women but have an outside relationship with other of what they prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:50 AM
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Some women like to flex Like this My husband is my first boyfriend and I don't like casual sex They create separate distinctions from them like they hate them 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:47 AM
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You are assuming that that Traditional women = housewife and no earning Some men have different views on traditional Traditional = low body count but earning but not from porn or only fans
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:46 AM
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They have different women for different reasons Take ranaldo as an example Have a child with other women Also having relationships with baddie but not married to her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:44 AM
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But men masquerading as feminists are often called as true feminist by the world or society or the community they live in
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:14 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:12 AM
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That's what I am saying Misogynist but in tuxedo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:51 AM
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No Sometimes they flex like That xxx is my first boyfriend and say things like they don't have and like casual sex only dated serious there they reveal how many relationships they had
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:44 AM
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Well i debate with them about feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:37 AM
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You see their girlfriend is always like a christian girl or like that Also follow traditional roles and have typical traditional views related to sex and other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:30 AM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:24 AM
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Okay how do you think will happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:20 AM
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Because this is a loophole Where you can be a misogynist without getting consequences of it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:18 AM
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If a man calls himself a feminist, then dumps you because of your body count, he is a piece of shit. Period. That's what I am saying if men dump you but he is cautious for fear of getting called a misogynist So he used another reason like not being compatible and etc like that But still is misogynist in the truest sense of World
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:17 AM
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What if people start for fear of not labeling as misogynist more if they got jobs or professionals where it can become detrimental
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:13 AM
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So u are saying that it is not possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:10 AM
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Some are anecdotes some i seen on reddit but that is not what i am trying to say I am saying that I would get away from the misogynist label if I just told others that I am feminist without changing the harmful ideology. Think like this Where man commit sins but don't stop but tell others that I am just a reform man now but if he gets caught he puts all the blame on devil as if is not doing that intentionally
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:09 AM
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I am talking about choosing low body count women over high body count they just justify their behaviour to not attraction or incompatibility but are just misogynists who care about women's body count or sexual history
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:56 AM
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For example search where men try to be feminist but after sex they just ghost Also they used consent without honestly when trying to get sex from a woman who has a high sexual partner They shamed radical feminist when in circles of liberal feminist and vice versa They hate trans people but call themselves radical feminist but are just homophobic And many more They use feminist labels to Gain social capital Avoid scrutiny or criticism. Get closer to women they’re interested in (sometimes leading …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:51 AM
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It became real if people are using that right now If you do research you see patterns that matches what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:42 AM
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I am not saying this is the norm What if people start labeling them feminist but they're just misogynists? And also think that people are not changing they're just polishing their misogynist's ideas into feminist ones. Imagine people started supporting abortion right not because of female body female choice but to escape the parenting if they knock them out. And society calling a male feminist supportive because he respect his girlfriend only fans But is secretly a pimp. You can hate trans peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:39 AM
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But you are avoiding them or excluding them that is still as bad as shaming them. Also don't you see some common points in this situation and incel situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:58 AM
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Your right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:46 AM
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Then didn't that invalidate the core principles of feminism That Women's values are not tied to their sexual history. Also I used ai because english is my 4th language and I have mild dyslexia where i struggle to write my thoughts but the whole argument is still written by me i just used ai for checking grammatical mistakes and making sentences for my thoughts or argument
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:41 AM
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What if you told him about your history in mid relationship? He can still break up with you by saying we aren't compatible and i want to focus on a career like that. It's still a culture where women value is often ties to her sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:38 AM
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But it's still enforce purity culture. By indirectly saying that women value is ties to her sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:36 AM
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It's work sometimes They may have ONS or FWB with you even if you are not conventionally attractive. They save or like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:33 AM
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There is nothing wrong with that But personally if I know a woman during her hoe phase even when she changed i don't date her. I am not taking about woman who had her hoe phase and get over it before meeting me. I
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:31 AM
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U got my point I don't know why but I can't be able to explain that in post Mild dyslexia maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:21 AM
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So even if all the world became feminist there would still be inequality? So feminism is not the solution to inequality why some people act like it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:11 AM
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That my point was They are feminist in the eyes of the world But not in private
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:06 AM
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Yeah I used ai because english is my 4th language and I have mild dyslexia where i struggle to write my thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:03 AM
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fair I didn’t mean to sound like I was stating a fact for everyone. Of course high body count women can find love, and plenty do. But some guys, even the “woke” ones, still have internal biases. They’ll support sexual freedom publicly but still choose more “modest” partners privately. It’s not about worth — it’s just how conditioning shows up in dating preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:59 AM
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Sorry' i was using liberal as for more sexually active women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:54 AM
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You're right no one is obligated to date anyone, and personal preference matters. But the concern isn’t about forcing attraction it’s about the disconnect between public values and private choices. Even in a society that embraces feminism, subtle inequalities can persist. Many men who support women’s autonomy still tend to choose partners who align with traditional ideals modesty, restraint, or limited sexual history even if they don’t consciously realize it. So while no one is shamed outright, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:51 AM
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Yeah but if feminist became a mainstream ideology still there will be a power imbalance like choosing conservative women over liberal women. Would it still be called as slut shaming in another sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:46 AM
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I also think so They are just scoring brownie points but somehow girls think that they are better than other men But they are the same just not vocal about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:43 AM
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Yeah your right but They are not choosing liberal women for romantic relationships as if they are indirectly saying that liberal women are not wife material. Also if they are choosing conservative women over liberal women confirm that they are still following purity culture isn't that a feminism fighting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:41 AM
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they do But I also think they use the label of being a feminist make them have more girls interested in them 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:31 AM
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Is it sarcasm or really an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:28 AM
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