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Speaking for myself, yes I’m completely averse to anything with a stranger. The thought alone is repulsive to me. I will never understand it and I would rather be a prostitute than a slut (now let’s make it clear, I have a fulfilling career, tremendous family support, and would probably jump into the abyss before I turn to sex work, but at least the prostitute is smart enough to get something out of it). The attractive stranger also makes no sense to me. So what if he’s handsome? Good for him bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:51 PM
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Nothing problematic about that. You described the man as polite so he’s not lashing out at women or being aggressive. He’s simply minding his business doing what’s right for him. He does not owe women connection, friendship, or love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:05 AM
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This man is AMAZING!!!!!!!!. I especially like the Protective and Affectionate pieces. I would remove: encourage her to plan dates. That doesn’t make a man more attractive. That’s neutral. It’s just him expressing his needs and desires, which is very healthy by the way. I would remove the cum from PIV and 2 orgasms. Not needed for me. So long as he’s a passionate and generous lover we are golden. A disclaimer: I speak for me and myself alone: I don’t need nor do I want 2 orgasms every time. I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:47 PM
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Gifts are my love language. I never dated nor would I ever date the type of man who doesn’t like spoiling his woman. I was spoiled by my dad. Non-spoiling type of men don’t even register as men to me. I see them as defective. Right or wrong, it has served me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:09 PM
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I have plenty of male acquaintances but I do not have close friendships with men. I have big brothers who have my best interest at heart. They also have zero non-platonic feelings towards me, which is the true and only pure definition of friendship as far as I’m concerned. I would never turn to a man who is not my significant other for emotional comfort. I have female friendships for that. I feel like trying to have that kind of bond with men is creating confusion, and basically leading men on, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:06 PM
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All those characteristics exist in low quality men. I have seen them from afar, but never observed in my LTRs and here is why. Only looking for sex I embrace traditional values. I demand a serious courtship, a public title and commitment before sex is on the table. The ‘only looking for sex’ types shoot for cheap, easy, and promiscuous women. I’m expensive, the code to my chastity belt is commitment + provision, and the mere concept of providing sex to a man who has not done everything I ask for…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:29 PM
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I never feel insecure about my femininity. I was raised by a super feminine mother and a super masculine father, each very much into gender roles. Growing up a very much pampered princess made being ultra feminine a second nature to me. I’m also physically curvaceous and personality-wise very sweet and bubbly. I see femininity as my superpower. I love going through life as a pretty little rose people treat as a delicate doll. There’s pretty privilege and then the less talked about girly girl pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:22 AM
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Not true. You’re talking strictly about women who are promiscuous and/or easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:37 PM
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Only speaking for myself. I don’t approach because it’s not my job, because I don’t have to, because I find it masculine, low value, and because I only like men who have the cojones to go GET the woman they want and who embrace the roles of leader and pursuer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:45 PM
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He truly is perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:47 AM
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Facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:47 PM
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Woman: 14/15 and only because my n-count is less than 3 by choice. Courtship, commitment and provision or not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:19 PM
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Plenty of women like a clean shaven face and hairless chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:57 PM
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And forearms.🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:56 PM
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Many Republicans and conservatives hate Trump. Some people vote against an ideology rather than for a specific candidate. I also never said men like the ones I describe never vote democrat. I said they usually don’t, which means a portion of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:13 AM
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Does not change anything for me. While I’m 1000% pro-choice, I have a lot of conservative values and am not attracted to liberal men. The gentleman provider type who oozes classical masculinity, understands how to be a leader and doesn’t fight me to be the princess in the relationship, has always been my choice. That type usually doesn’t vote for the : what is even a woman? crew.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:02 PM
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Number 2. It’s the only scenario that mentions love and emotional connection. It’s more important for me to feel loved than have an orgasm. I do not need nor do I desire orgasm every single time I have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:58 AM
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Plenty of women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:49 AM
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Not wanting commitment means you’re looking for a flesh light. The only parts of the woman you’re interested in are the ones that are going to pleasure your genitals. Women who sign up for that are usually suffering from some sort of damage because they are literally willing to be used as detachable parts. I find it pretty sick but casual sex would be outlawed if I had anything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:45 PM
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Better question is would I go on a first date and no, but let’s play. My college boyfriend had his own apartment, I would never date a 30 year old who was not further in life than a 22 year old. If I split the bill on the first date it means 150% there’s no second date. Can’t even understand the sex part. Sleeping with randos is pure degeneracy. That would have never happened either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:39 PM
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Jensen sounds amazing. You made him entirely too attractive by giving him all that height and money on top of being someone I would be in a love bubble with. He hangs out with family, good enough, he’s not afraid of people. He’s just waiting for his soulmate to hop on a plane lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:25 PM
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100% honest. My number is an exact representation of my values. Compatibility is king and I ask a lot of questions to gauge what his history might be. I actively screen against degenerates, non-heterosexuals, polys and men who seek easy, promiscuous and cheap women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:28 PM
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There wouldn’t be a second date. I’ve never entertained men who split the bill and him being a neurosurgeon means nothing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:22 PM
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Gentlemanly behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:06 PM
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I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:37 AM
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The lack of accountability is incredible. Female sluts’ decision to emulate the degenerate behavior of males is their choice. They’re a disgrace to their gender as far as I’m concerned, but they made that choice on their own. I actually recognize they have a functioning brain. They’re not empty vessels simply ‘following men’. They observed the behavior of men and came to the stunning conclusion that it was something to aspire to. Not to mention, that decision to match men at their most chaotic, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:39 AM
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It’s not. I don’t have a promiscuous bone in my body and neither do any of the women I surround myself with. Sleeping with randos is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:14 AM
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Approaching men makes no sense to me for a multitude of reasons. I never needed to. Not my job. Mine was to be as irresistible, inviting, delightful, tempting and receptive as humanly possible. I consider it masculine and I like the man to be the only one who acts masculine in the relationship. I could never maintain attraction for a man who was not motivated enough to come GET me if he wanted me. The reason he did not do it is none of my business. I find it in incredibly low value. Like… why? 6…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:13 PM
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No. I don’t see bisexual men as masculine and I find their romantic and/or sexual interest in men to be such a turnoff. I’m straight. I like men who are also straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:16 AM
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Perfectly stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:13 PM
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Interesting. It’s heartwarming to see so many comments pointing out what a trash individual John would be if he went through with it knowing he has every intention to ditch Sarah. I agree. My first instinct as a woman however was that Sarah was silly for going to his place while so called making it clear she wants something serious. She sounds like a: I don’t usually do this airhead. Sarah needs to get a brain, some self worth, some self preservation instincts, something… quick or she’ll end up …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:43 PM
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Hmm… Never experienced anything of the sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:43 PM
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It’s very easy to see why they’re unsuccessful. Their attitude is extremely off-putting and they constantly demonstrate the fact that they lack the most basic skills for conversation, let alone flirting and seduction. They are narrow-minded. Some clearly have zero experience with women but will confidently tell a woman she’s wrong because THEY know what billions of women are thinking based on stereotypes. I wonder about their ability to process new information sometimes. They are convinced they …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:14 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:51 PM
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Not speaking for every woman but I feel I have a lot of privilege over men when it comes to relationships because of my looks, upbringing (spoiled daddy’s girl princess type), values (no sex without commitment), traditional female values (sex is the man’s goal not mine, therefore he needs to give me what I want to get what he wants out if me) and understanding of male nature. That’s why I smile when I hear men go on about how they don’t approach, don’t pay, and don’t wait for sex. K. For every m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:03 PM
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Indeed. No is a complete sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:44 PM
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Women should not pursue men or have sex without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:03 AM
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Yup! That’s the only way to do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:51 PM
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Automatic block. I like gentlemen who understand courtship. Only trashy, disrespectful h*es do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:55 AM
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I say wasting my body not for a woman who has sex but sex with a man who’s not deeply emotionally invested in her. Men saying it is considered sexist because of the men who pursue casual sex all the while looking down on the very women who allow them to slut around like they desperately want to. All the f*ckboys dumping on their female counterparts as unworthy of commitment after they’re done polluting the pool with gusto. They should be more grateful for women with no standards. They need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:28 AM
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You’re not a woman and clearly do not understand women. I always want to wait because I have no interest in wasting my body on a man who is not invested in giving me the things I want beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:15 PM
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It’s the joy of being around male energy while feeling sexually safe. There is no chance he’s ever thinking about my intimate regions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:26 PM
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You said at best the guy could be cute? Cute is GREAT. Cute is above average. I only date for commitment so I would definitely use the glasses and select for the wealthiest and most generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:57 PM
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I confirm!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:06 AM
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It is sad that there is so much degeneracy out there you think you’re a bit if a weirdo for having such an attractive and elevated vision of sex. The world needs more people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:00 PM
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5 years older. Younger men are automatically put in the little brother category.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:23 AM
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No. It’s my number one dealbreaker and the ultimate turn off. I also don’t care if it was long ago. The fact that he tried tells me everything I need to know. An actual straight man wouldn’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:28 AM
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A woman who does not have sex on the first date never needs to announce it. It will be obvious that she hold herself in high regards and is not cheap with her body. I would never bring up sex on a first date. We are so far from it, it’s in another galaxy. I’m are simply here to assess compatibility and disqualify those who can’t go the distance. Like the ones looking for easy lays.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:12 AM
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The not masculine cannot be stressed enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:00 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:17 PM
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Yes. Opening your body up to a rando who sees you as a fleshlight is absolute insanity. It’s less about her wanting you than it is about her having little respect for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:14 PM
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No. A ONS is the truest form of a woman being easy, promiscuous and lacking self preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:15 PM
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I do not agree with the assertion that chivalry is dead. It has never been my experience. I would definitely want it back if I thought it went anywhere. It’s one of the main elements I judge a man by. I can’t develop romantic feelings for a man who isn’t chivalrous with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:01 AM
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Rape always end up being their solution for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:40 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:54 PM
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That’s true. Some women. They are called groupies. They are women who like inmates. You’ll find a type of woman who’s into any random thing. They don’t represent the whole of us however.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:49 PM
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Groupies are a specific type of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:46 PM
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Same here. I’ve seen men and thought, wow he’s breathtaking. Good for him! And moved on. His gorgeousness has nothing to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:43 PM
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The women in bars are there because they are high libido women open for business. They do not represent all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:53 PM
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By definition that means we don’t want it as much if we need emotional attachment. Nothing wrong with it, I never in my life had sex outside of a committed relationship and I find casual sex abhorrent, but plenty of men do not need that attachment because they want it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:52 PM
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I do not agree that girls gave the same sex drive as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:49 PM
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Girls who go to bars for ONS are a certain type of girl. The promiscuous kind. Plentiful women do not engage in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:48 PM
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That by definition means we don’t want it as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:46 PM
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Some women are fine with casual sex. Many are disgusted by the mere idea of being used as dumpsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:39 PM
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Not true. Your statement applies to a specific segment of women only. A man being attractive is only part of what’s needed for many women to want to sleep with him instead of masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:32 PM
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I don’t. Many bi women do not date bi men. No I don’t have any sources. Just heard enough bi women say they still want their men straight, and bi men raging against ‘the hypocrisy’.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:38 PM
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One thing sure to bring us to extinction overnight us to make all men bi. That’s the number 1 turn off and dealbreaker for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:55 PM
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This cannot be stated enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:38 PM
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We’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:26 PM
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Rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:51 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:33 AM
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I don’t care about men having a sex zone because I’ll never be in it. You have to go through the 12 labors of Hercules to have sex with me. I can’t be put in the sex zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:55 PM
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Muscular is not a selling point for me but I see your point and yes, a man being younger is always a dealbreaker. Just as I can’t picture a man shorter than me as a romantic interest, my attraction would greatly diminish if I find a man is younger than me. I do not seek equality in relationships but polarity. A younger man cannot activate certain things in me and I don’t do relationships where I can’t fully trust the man to lead. It would be a constant pain point. Nurturing as I am, what is a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:56 AM
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Lol good luck to your mate. 😊 I know some height queens out there will love climbing that tree. I don’t know him so I may be way off base. I will say that just as I had that epiphany that I was overlooking some people because my settings filtered them out, he might have a harder time locating the women who are a good match for him. That type of woman tends to be discreet, allergic to approaching men, constantly on the lookout for players in gentlemen clothing and therefore very skittish. They ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:00 AM
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All of the above. The man is the leader in my relationship and I’m not attracted to men who are shorter. I realized a few years ago that I do not register men shorter than me when I’m out and about. Many people go on and on about me being tall. Not quite. It has more to do with me being surrounded by women shorter than myself. I’m 5’6. One day I was in a crowded train station and I suddenly wondered where the below 5’6 men were as I never noticed any. I was floored to find out I have been lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:35 AM
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No, WE women don’t always have a FWB because plenty of women are against casual sex and find FWB arrangements abhorrent. I always make men wait and I’m not having sex with anyone ‘on the side’ because I don’t keep anyone ‘on the side’. The price of admission to my wonderland is sky high and it truly is an exclusive experience. Sex is only on the menu after commitment and since I’m 1000% monogamous, if a guy is waiting, so am I.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:24 AM
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I like men who are leaders and I need my man taller, older, stronger and richer than me if I’m going to look up to him and be happy in the relationship. I can’t be led by my little brother nor will I ever look up to him or take him seriously. Not interested in being anybody’s mom either. This whole set up just feels unnatural to me. Also my lane is unapologetically spoiled princess and no little boy is going to provide that experience for me. He would be looking to ME to bring the sugar. I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:14 AM
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Because a man might prefer the woman who was never promiscuous? And while her changing might be great and all, it absolutely does not erase the fact that she made those choices before?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:25 PM
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I don’t see where you’ve gathered that I wasn’t ambitious. I have a Master’s degree in Business and a career in finance. I’ve always had money by virtue of being born in it. I’m clear about my positions but I don’t overexplain myself to people who project their positions on me and all the other men as they have demonstrated that they are unable to understand that the way they do things does not apply to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:40 PM
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He’s not a good catch if he wants to split full stop. Your strategy is yours. It has nothing to do with what other men are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:02 PM
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I don’t throw tantrums. I said in another comment that I always pay if I know I’m not interested. I have money and I don’t have a problem with a man expressing his desire to split. Dates are to assess compatibility. It’s his right to want a 50/50 arrangement just like it’s my right not to want one. Don’t worry about where I will find the guy. Men who pay are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:58 AM
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Thanks. There’s nothing wrong with what he wants either. Women who split the bill exist. The existence of women who don’t does not erase the women who are open to it. No need to fear that women like me are contaminating the good women he’s after. If I had that kind of power, I would have cancelled casual sex years ago. Clearly I’m no threat lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:30 AM
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I don’t do anything for the benefit of “the dudes”. I thought I made that clear. Any man who thinks billions of women are all the same with the many examples of female breadwinners and women strung out of broke men lacks the basic intelligence to understand that no one group is a monolith. Stop asking for women’s truth then cry about it. Plenty of women have shared that they happily split. I’m a spoiled princess who never has to. I’m not diluting my truth to make anyone comfortable. Focus on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:56 AM
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I don’t mind. I will never approach a man so it makes zero sense being angry at men approaching. Somebody has to do it and it takes balls. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:47 AM
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Yes because there are cute guys who will pay and I’m 100% opposed to 50/50. My experience is that men who want to impress you like to care of you. I don’t have the scarcity mindset of those who are not used to being taken care of. That’s my baseline. A man taking care of me is the number 1 thing I expect of him. I fully respect the men who have a different outlook. They’re simply unattractive to me because only provider men are attractive to me. I don’t get wrapped up in looks. I’m about status,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:43 AM
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Men should do what they want. That’s how they will find a woman who shares their values. I personally do not date men who split but I also don’t attract liberal 50/50 men so that’s not an issue. I always have money to pay for whatever I consume when I have decided there will be no other date. Me paying for a date is the unmistakable signal that it’s the last one. I do not care for egalitarian relationships and I’m turned off by men who are not chivalrous and have their calculators out where othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:30 AM
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I would not go on a date with a man who splits however, other women would. Men who want to split need to focus on the women who share their outlook on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:12 AM
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I don’t care what his reasons are. One, he would know early on that I expect marriage. Two, it’s the highest level of commitment and we’re never moving in together before an engagement. Three it’s a class and culture thing and we don’t match if he’s not marriage-minded or worse, thinks it’s appropriate to have children out of wedlock. Trust me he’ll marry some other chick fast and in a hurry. All that means is he doesn’t want to marry you. Your self esteem is in the earth core if you want marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:42 PM
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I find submissive men unappealing. A man devoid of pride, and any territorial and protective tendencies to the point that he allows his wife to be a wh*re with other men is a species I don’t understand and cannot respect. Something went wrong with his nature. I don’t know what’s up with his masculine make up but he’s fundamentally defective. I find cucks so, so, so very pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:50 AM
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I would never approach a man so I don’t have any scenarios about it. I’m attracted to men who go after what they want. Whatever his reason for not approaching, whether it be absolute disgust or devastating anxiety, it makes us incompatible. I don’t like, look up, or feel desire for men who are meh about me or very interested but too passive to do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:24 PM
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Never done drugs and I’m super anti drugs so that relationship would be done. You can be a social drinker if you don’t mind drinking by yourself but that’s it. I don’t even think I’ve met a drug addict. If I have, my prim, proper and conservative demeanor probably chased them away which works for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:12 PM
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Those women are sick and no one can convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:19 AM
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Thank you for the detailed and thoughtful response!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:57 AM
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High maintenance in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:52 PM
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Hookup culture only benefits men. I think the women who participate in it are morally bankrupt and a sad sack who have cheapened sex, commitment and put the most vulnerable among us (meaning the broken girls who think they have to allow men to degrade them because well, that’s what the slores are doing and calling empowerment I guess…)in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:27 PM
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Drugs are a dealbreaker. I’ve never done any drugs and have a negative opinion of illegal substances.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:32 PM
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Umm, men are the ones who use the die alone with cats thing against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:51 PM
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When did feminism promise to open a space for male issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:02 AM
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If I have to share him he does not have everything I want. One of my top 3 turn offs is a wandering d*ck. I find it so trash and gross. There is no point being with someone who is disloyal and does not respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:17 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:11 PM
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Lol this is clearly bait for see! This is why I won’t wait for sex with a woman who’s had casual sex with Chads before me. Hey I was never among the women who were mad about it because I don’t have a so called “dual mating strategy”. My rules are always the same because they’re not linked to the man but to who I am, which means there is no man beautiful or rich enough to bypass the milestones every one has to reach to get to the promised land. I don’t have casual sex and everyone will court, wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:17 PM
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Women need to have accountability. Men cannot normalize women approaching without women’s participation. I will never approach because I know how wrong it is on every level and there are not enough men on earth crowing about it to change my mind. Stick to your standards, stop arguing with men whose only mission is to cheapen you, and let the misguided women approach, propose and offer themselves up as flesh lights. Don’t save them. They don’t want to be saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:02 PM
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I see you’re a fan of content machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:30 AM
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I like my men territorial, masculine and natural born leaders. A man who would agree to share me, his woman, whom he’s supposed to protect, is a cckhold punk a* b**atch. I would lose ALL respect for him. You mean you’re going to allow another man, to get up inside your woman, then go behind him to clean up like a b*tch? You’re gonna let another man, kick you out of what is supposed to be your throne, and become YOUR boss, in YOUR house? I have nothing but loathing for a man who would stand for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:00 AM
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Women are not a monolith. I don’t like aggressive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:37 PM
0

They need to leave. Another man will propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:44 PM
0

I agree. It’s embarrassing and I don’t understand how a woman gets to that point. I mean I would have to be broken beyond repair to even entertain the thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:42 PM
1

Men know if they want to marry you. You are silly to propose to them to force the issue or waste your life waiting for that same dude who will marry the next chick in no time flat. The woman he chooses will not have to beg.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:37 PM
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It’s not shameful just not interesting. I went twice for two girlfriends’ birthdays. I was cringing the entire time. I don’t like seeing men gyraying all over the place in thongs. I kept wondering how many of them also worked at gay clubs. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:04 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:44 PM
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Nope. I found them creepy when I was 17. I guess having old pervs lusting after you since you’re re 12 does that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:43 PM
2

I’m not a single mother. I’m just sceptical about those rich dudes you speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:26 AM
3

Women who sleep with strangers lack boundaries, self respect and all sense of self preservation. The women following the so called sex positive propaganda have contributed to ruining dating with their relentless campaign to cheapen themselves and the rest of some of us by association. The women who allow themselves to be pushed into casual sex because ‘that’s what the others are doing’ are weak minded and lost causes. So you turned yourself into a high traffic Cosco sample stand because a flock …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:37 PM
2

I was raised by a high flying bank CFO whose friends were all diplomats, politicians or finance bros. Both my brothers are finance bros. If there is such a thing I’m a finance sis lol. I’m used to white collar men with at least a Bachelor’s. They don’t have to be in finance but I heavily relate to white collar men. Surprising, I know. I did not even know my ex was a banker before I decided I would be dating him. I have a sixth sense for that suit n’ tie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:24 PM
6

Gentlemen Prefer Blondes 👩‍🦳
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:53 AM
6

You have rich dudes lying around you can pawn single mothers off to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:30 PM
-1

Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:01 AM
3

I never call back men who give me their number. I never understood why a man would think it was a good idea until I read the OP. Glad it’s working for him. It’s a turn off for me as I like leaders and go-getters but he’s clearly looking for women who don’t mind pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:00 AM
3

We cannot repeat this enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:11 PM
2

Don’t you think you might be attracting a certain type of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:14 PM
0

Never cared for a six pack. Money and status on the other end? That’s my priority because I’m not motivated by sex but by lifestyle and it’s very easy to love a man who gives you what you want and want to keep him happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:00 PM
2

As a woman I will say women are not all focused on the same thing. I’m truly interested in money because I grew up with a father who had loads of it so my baseline for lifestyle is such that I can’t relate to a man who can’t match what I’m used to. I was also raised to value personal success which means I’m not complacent about my own career and goals and I value the same drive in others. Some women here have expressed that they are the primary breadwinner in their relationships and are fine wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:55 PM
1

The world is vast. In some countries, being a foreigner who can facilitate access to a first world country is worth a lot. Time to hop on a plane.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:20 AM
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I agree with that. I’m eager to pay if I know I’m not seeing him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:58 AM
1

There is no rule. There’s only your values and what you’re looking for. I find the 3 date rule degenerate but I also only sleep with men I’m in a serious committed relationship with and it takes months. You simply have to be the reciprocal of what you’re looking for. I look down on men who rush sex. To me they’re used to easy chicks and that makes them low value. The men I’m into look down on women who pass it around to randos like freebies. Find your match!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:01 PM
2

Why? What if it’s not their fault? Edit: Oops nevermind, I saw your answer below.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:32 AM
2

I was looking for that category too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:18 PM
4

I don’t know what the acceptable number is but yours would be a green flag to me. Granted, promiscuity is in top 3 turn offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:25 PM
4

Cold approaching is not wrong. Women are not a monolith and we don’t all think it’s problematic. I understand the women who feel unsafe and inconvenienced. I personally don’t see it as something negative. I see it as a human being having the courage to start a conversation with another human being. So long as they are polite, cognizant of personal space and know how to exist gracefully when they see it’s not going to happen, what’s the harm? The majority of men who have approached me have been p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:33 AM
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Just here to say that Pearl is not actually submissive. She’s a loudmouth grifter pandering for cash. Also some men value looks above so called submissiveness. Up to them to decide if she makes the cut…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:12 PM
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You have to be a full, stable, fulfilled being by yourself to be a positive addition to someone’s life. A man who can’t maintain ONE positive friendship with another man has some kind of issue. Again they don’t have to be super BFFs. I also believe in polarity. I’m very feminine and I like my man masculine. There is a kind of nourishment you get from being with your kind that is important. My girlfriends emotional support affect my female hormone positively and make me more grounded. He needs so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:37 PM
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I don’t want a man who wants to take on that role. That’s not attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:22 PM
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Not true. I trust a man to raise a man. I help my man relax through feminine energy, not boss energy. Think of a king being pampered, massaged from head to toe, fed grapes, the works. I will trigger a whole lot of bosses and add that I don’t even need to be asked to make that sandwich. What I will not do is take on the masculine role in my house. I’m not elevating my testosterone levels when I have a man who’s built for it. I’m built to be fully femme and I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:19 PM
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Well said. Being the leader to a man is the ultimate p drier for me. I want absolutely no parts. Only male I’m willing to lead is the one I’ll birth and then I’ll take more of the nurturer role when he starts growing into a man. I’ll leave the captain of this ship stuff to his dad. I don’t want to reside in that boss energy the second I clock out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:03 AM
0

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:58 AM
1

I find it borderline humiliating to be with a younger guy. Does not sit well with my DNA. The lack of status alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:56 AM
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I’ve never been into to younger men. One year younger and I automatically place them in the little brother category. Even my high school boyfriend was two years older. I just can’t take a man seriously if I’m older than him. Turns me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:55 AM
1

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:49 AM
2

Men be and women are not the same. Personally I like a man I can look up to. I can’t do that if I’m paying his bills and can’t be the baby in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:48 AM
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I don’t care if no woman is interested in him. Other women don’t determine what I do. I care if he does not have one friend he can call when he needs a bro. It’s healthy for a man to have other male friends in his life. They don’t need to be super BFFs like me and my girls but he needs one bro out there who cares about him and understands his masculine experience in a way I can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:19 AM
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I would say I find 15% of men attractive and by that I only mean I’d think oh he’s cute and seems to have his ducks in a row. That does not translate to sexual attraction which is sparked by courtship and commitment. I don’t find the rest repulsive. They’re human beings simply existing. Nothing about that is repulsive. They only become repulsive if I find out that they are of low moral character. I would easily be friends with the ones who are of good character. They can become more attractive b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:50 PM
3

Yeah, that would be a problem for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:28 PM
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Chilvalry is alive and well. 50/50 is a scam, especially for working women who will do 100% of the pregnancy, 100% of the delivery, 100% of the recovery, and the lion share of the childcare. The math ain’t mathin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:23 PM
2

Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:56 AM
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Better sex ed had zero to do with a quality man giving me commitment. I don’t have sex for the experience but as part of sharing intimacy within the confines of an exclusive, committed relationship. Therefore I would always lose if I didn’t have sex on my terms. You are completely bypassing the fact that sex with any man who is not committed to me is ALWAYS a loss. And please don’t bring Chadwick Chadmax Von Chad into this. He too is useless unless he has wifed me up. Once again your theory does…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:52 PM
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Meaningless, lonely and miserable is what. That nightmare fuel OP describes is akin to a bunch soulless, empty meat suits flapping in the wind, humping each other as they come and go. When you realize he has concocted this ‘fantasy’ as some remedy so once again men can gave more sex, it gets even more disturbing. Basically excise the humanity (really the ability to say no) from people cause dudes need to f*ck. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:10 AM
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There is a major flaw in your theory. Women are not only refraining from sex because of the risks. Even if every single risk you could imagine was removed, I still would not want more sex than I currently do. Sex without commitment from a quality man will always be extremely unappealing for a significant portion of women. There is absolutely no situation where person A has no reason not to want sex with person B? I can think of dozens starting with: not attracted to them, not interested in them,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:56 AM
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Some women love to be put on pedestals. I’m one of them. It just depends on who’s doing it. Love bombing is different though. It’s a manipulation technique that does not work on people who know the signs, have high self esteem, ask a lot of questions, speak up every time something feels off and don’t allow themselves to be rushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:59 AM
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And those views guarantee they will remain sexless, unloved and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:02 AM
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Well said. Rehabbing a man is the dumbest thing you can do. As soon as he levels up, he will leave you, the silly Barbara-the-builder workhorse who saw him through the dark times, to go try to impress a shiny new woman who has never seen him at his lowest and can look up to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:22 PM
0

We do because many desperate men have low standards and are not actually interested in you. They are searching for a hole to fill. Any hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:00 PM
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I will never understand why this has become a controversial statement. It’s obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:57 PM
2

This woman agrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:56 PM
1

Are you planning on having children?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:05 AM
3

It’s always refreshing to hear from a man who takes sex seriously. Renews my faith in humanity every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:27 AM
2

Maslow is wrong. Sex is not a basic human need for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:59 AM
3

And how we should have empathy for the poor men who are forced to enter relationships when all they really wanted was casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:14 PM
3

A man providing sex really has little value. He’s not giving me anything important by providing sex. That’s mostly for himself. Protection and commitment on the other hand have enormous value.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:07 PM
2

Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:45 PM
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With me, the trad guy. It’s not even a competition. The modern man you described is unappealing in appearance, personality and in his expression of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:37 PM
2

I can’t stand the word either. Unless I’m talking about a law firm, or business, I associate it to a community I have nothing in common with. I’m starting to feel the same about person. He’s not some mystery entity, he’s a man and I’m a woman. I adore my boss for calling us ladies when the boys are out of office. This non descript thing creeps me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:31 AM
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Couldn’t agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:21 AM
2

Even while ovulating, manny women do not feel that need. I’m
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:19 AM
2

That’s because it’s 100% true when it comes to some women. In my case, me paying for my half absolutely means I’m never seeing the guy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:54 PM
2

I appreciate you Sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:58 PM
6

Promiscuous Stingy Whiny Lacks ambition Angry Effeminate Pushy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:56 AM
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No. Many of us do not hide that desire. We simply don’t care about sex all that much. What is clear is that just like men say that the majority of men are invisible to women, it’s becoming clear only promiscuous women are visible to men. There are a ton of women who do not care about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:40 AM
2

Matt. H?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:37 PM
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Not necessarily. Having sex would mean having to deal with a man. For some, self pleasure wins specifically because its a man-free solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:14 PM
2

Screaming at distribute some pum pum.😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:28 AM
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No. Plenty of women are not interested in casual sex, full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:16 AM
4

Same difference. If he touches another man he’s disqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:27 AM
4

Exactly. It’s not fear, it’s disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:26 AM
1

I would not. It’s the biggest ick ever for me. I like my man to embody a specific type of masculinity that can only be embodied by a heterosexual man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:25 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:39 AM
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Not for traditional women. We are repulsed by the non-providing types and find no value or masculinity in useless boy toys. Barbara The Builder type women who have enough masculine energy for two and love feminine and passive princess boys might be into it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:34 AM
1

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:30 AM
1

I don’t do casual sex, ever, and I only do serious relationships. I don’t like tattoos. They’re a sign that we probably have incompatible values and lifestyles. Right or wrong, I associate them with bad boys and a liberal-leaning perspective. I’m also only attracted to the kind of men I grew up around: clean cut, clean shaven white collar types, who look like a billion bucks in a suit. No piercing, no ink.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:24 AM
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Exactly. Sex is not a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:00 PM
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I except my man to have enough cojones to approach me. I like men who are strong and who are leaders. The fact that I have to approach a man myself kills off any attraction I could have had for him. Will I need to carry him over the threshold too? No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:37 AM
1

Tik Tok being 60% in no way means 60% of the female population is on Tik Tok?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:06 PM
0

Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:15 AM
1

I agree. Men who are convinced traditional women don’t exist tend to filter them out when dating by exhibiting through the kind of behaviors traditional women find abhorrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:12 AM
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I personally don’t. I want a man I can look up too. I like a leader. Someone who is exactly at my level is a coworker . Someone who’s below is a subordinate. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:09 AM
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I’ll leave it to the progressive girlies to formulate rebuttals to this. As for myself, I’m proudly conservative and an unapologetic spoiled princess. I provide the highly feminine experience. I WILL treat you like a king and love every minute of it. I do not play progressive games with men. Thankfully, my conservative aura is such that I never seem to attract the ‘well feminism said’, 50-50 men who are confused about whether or not they should open a door or pull a chair. We repel one another o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:51 AM
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I don’t think that’s fair. I’ve come across plenty of regular men who are naturally masculine without emulating criminals. There’s sooo much between the overcompensating thug and the emasculated girly man. I will also add that some men have started to cloak their masculinity. They act non-descript around women who have a lot of masculine energy and turn into charming knights in the presence of a highly feminine, soft and appreciative woman. If women want more masculine men, they should make an h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:21 AM
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That’s certainly true for me. I enjoy it tremendously when I have it, which is always in a committed relationship with a man who has earned it by investing in me to a degree I find satisfactory. Yep I said earn. When I’m single and not looking, I’m in full monk mode and thriving. I maybe find 30% of men attractive… like beautiful paintings in a museum. I only become attracted to a man who demonstrates a strong and consistent desire to give me what I want on top of checking my boxes. He’s then gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:08 AM
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🔥Thank you for this amazing and truthful comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:42 AM
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I’m not entirely sure what you mean by baggage but I will say a man with a high body count, an affinity for casual sex, one night stands, being community d*ck, etc. is gross and a major ick. Ex girlfriends who are somehow still in the picture are a complete dealbreaker. Previous kids are unacceptable. All this shows a lack of discipline, self respect, vetting ability, understanding of the importance of contraception, you name it. I’m attracted to men who have the same values I do; committed rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:11 AM
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Single. I come from a family of financially abundant and high achieving males and I’m ambitious and successful myself. I’ve never been attracted to men who aren’t driven, or live a lifestyle incompatible with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:15 AM
5

The egg doesn’t chase the sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:58 AM
1

😄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:46 AM
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Feminism is what’s allowed me to have the right to have a bank account, rent an apartment, not be beaten and raped in complete impunity, and use my brain power for something else than being a slave to some tyrant. It changes nothing to my nature and does not make males more more attractive. Dating men is not fun. When I dated, the goal was a committed relationship after a traditional courtship. Having to vet and unload a bunch of disrespectful men used to cheap, easy low hanging fruit is not fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:42 AM
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The men in those romance novels always end up opening up emotionally. Read the book to the end before critiquing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:48 AM
1

It might be effective when it comes to uplifting marginalized body types. I’m in full support of the media giving representation to more than one type of body. Human beings come in various packages and should celebrate themselves and be confident in who they are. Now when it comes to dating, people will continue to like exactly what they’ve always liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:39 AM
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Not true. Tall men have longer limbs and larger hands, all of which is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:00 AM
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It has no bearing on looks for you. Many women, me included find height attractive by itself. When a tall man is around, I’m conscious of his presence and mentally whistle in my head before I even see his face. It’s pure instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:56 AM
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That’s only a schizophrenic message to those who think 4 billion of women all share the same brain. Many like tall men, some don’t mind short. A fraction of women saying all bodies are beautiful still do not represent all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:53 AM
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I’m one of those women who doesn’t like beards or chest hair. I also don’t associate lack of body hair with childhood. A man doesn’t need body hair to be manly and virile. I can’t even think of the last time I saw a man with a beard yet 99% of men come across masculine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:42 AM
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Not true. I don’t do FWBs or situationships. Ever. I’m either in a serious committed exclusive relationship or a blissfully happy nun. Stop applying your sexuality to all women. Many women are completely celibate for years on end. Those types of women tend not to scream it from the rooftops because the sexually dehydrated men and other equally thirsty women who are constantly advertising how much hornier they are then men, canNOT believe that unlike themselves, some people out there have complet…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:18 PM
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And block him before I reach the car. He’s clearly looking for a very different type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:57 PM
2

I’d pick only one. He would be the one who would give me butterflies AND have the qualities I value: gentlemanly, comfortable with the traditional roles of provider and protector, smart, resourceful and the one who was the most passionate about me. I’d get a top 10 and have them compete Bachelorette-style. The one who would crush the competition by demanding my heart would win all. I’d marry him, have his babies and be faithful to him for the rest of our lives. I find casual sex and cheating rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:24 AM
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Not true. Some women do care. I find a high n-count repulsive on a man. That sounds like a lack of standards, discipline and self control. I would hate to discover I married a male slore and I have lost respect for guys in the past based on their number.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:19 AM
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A is the only choice. Educated, works in finance, family oriented, interesting hobbies, a social life. I sense he might have enough traditional qualities for me. I’m intrigued. He seems well-adjusted with a serene demeanour and a bright future. B had no red flag but his bio does not peak my interest. C is an absolute no. Using a they pronoun for a woman is a major red flag. He seems super liberal which is always a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:18 AM
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