SammyTPoker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How to advance with this girl in school? Just listen to her. Girls like talking about themselves. Ask good quality questions about the stuff she tells you. Rinse and repeat.	/r/seduction	24/09/18 10:28 PM
2	How to advance with this girl in school? Just ask her out to drinks after class.	/r/seduction	24/09/18 10:22 PM
1	Cancelling and reschedule A girl who is actually interested will. You don’t want to waste your times on the girls who it feels like pulling teeth. Those girls will be even worse on the date.	/r/seduction	24/09/18 10:21 PM
1	Cancelling and reschedule Girls will make plans and then flake later. Just always respond like you would if you had tonnes of options: “That’s cool, just hit me up when you want to reschedule”	/r/seduction	24/09/18 10:18 PM
2	Cancelling and reschedule It sounds more like you are scared of losing them than inefficiency.	/r/seduction	24/09/18 10:18 PM
0	What should my first message be to a woman who I don’t know? Don’t build her up. She is one of many potential options for you. Just say something like this. “Hey I just wanted to let you know that I find you absolutely breathtaking. I’d love to take you out for a drink sometime. When are you free?”	/r/seduction	23/09/18 12:08 AM
3	How to message a girl that I met 3 months back and recently added her on fb? Just send something like this. “Wow, you’re still alive?” her response typically a lol with something “We should definitely get drinks and catch up, when are u free” plan date time and location Profit.	/r/seduction	22/09/18 04:35 PM
1	What should i do, confusing interaction Couple points and a question 1) how on earth do you makeout without kissing? 2) when girls have a bf etc you should leave them alone unless you are looking for just a hookup. If they’re open they will next the “beta” and chase you. 3) don’t do lunches. Those are for platonic friends. It sure is hard to get back at someone’s place when you do that. 4) tell this girl where you stand. That you want to touch her etc and if she doesn’t want that then she needs to leave you alone so you have the space…	/r/seduction	22/09/18 03:30 PM
8	Anxiety before a date Literally just force yourself. You’ll find it tough at first but it’ll get better over time. I used to feel the exact same way because you build it up in your head and don’t think it can ever live up to your expectations.	/r/seduction	22/09/18 03:26 PM
1	What had I to do? You miss someone when they aren’t around. Not when they are constantly bothering you. You need to have the mindset of someone who has lots of options. If you did, you wouldn’t chase this girl like you did. You would express your interest and leave it there.	/r/seduction	20/09/18 06:38 PM
1	What had I to do? Don’t ignore her but stop chasing her and take her off that pedestal. If you keep treating her like a celebrity she has no choice but to treat you like a peasant. Give her the space to change her mind on her own accord and take this as a lesson for next time	/r/seduction	20/09/18 10:04 AM
2	Why you should stop "Gaming" girls Great post. I’m surprising no one has upvoted this yet.	/r/seduction	20/09/18 09:50 AM
1	What had I to do? Sounds like you came across very needy and scared her off. She seemed interested at the start, despite everything you did wrong. You need to give her space, and let her come back to you. At the same time, you need to learn to value yourself more. Trying to force your way into someone’s life is a recipe for disaster.	/r/seduction	20/09/18 09:41 AM
1	Want to ask a girl out but I think she might have lost interest Lol how about ice cream or some dinner?	/r/seduction	20/09/18 01:34 AM
1	Want to ask a girl out but I think she might have lost interest Well then just get the courage to ask her out for drinks. There’s no point building it up in your head. Get your answer (not by telling her how you feel, but asking her out). Here’s how I would do it: “Hey when are you free for us to grab drinks” positive answer* should be followed up with okay well how’s X place at Y time? anything but a positive answer should be followed up with okay well let me know when you are free / change your mind My fear is that if you don’t make a move when girls show …	/r/seduction	20/09/18 01:15 AM
1	How should I slide into this girl’s DMs? Just initiate contact and then ask her when she’s free to hang out. Then pick a place and meet her there and escalate escalate escalate.	/r/seduction	10/09/18 11:51 PM
3	Natural way to girls at work ? You got this bro. Remember this always: your time is the best gift you can give anyone. If you truly believe it, you will always command high value.	/r/seduction	10/09/18 05:40 PM
2	How to reframe this? Just tell her to look at her schedule and get back to you	/r/seduction	10/09/18 12:04 PM
1	Should i go see this girl or not Sounds like a case of blue balls. Ask her if she’s gonna stop being a prude this time. Otherwise, she’s just wasting your time.	/r/seduction	10/09/18 01:13 AM
0	She wants everything apart from sex It sounds like she’s made you into her friend. The next time you make a move and she rejects you just say “Hey, I’m looking for a sexual thing and if that’s not something you’re into let me know so I can find it elsewhere” And then don’t ever call or text her again. If she’s into you, she will come around. If not, it’s her loss.	/r/seduction	09/09/18 09:41 PM
14	Natural way to girls at work ? A lot of relationships start at work. You can definitely go for it, if that’s something you think is worth it. Just start talking to her and once she starts talking to you about personal stuff, say to her “hey how about we grab drinks after work, when are you free?” You ask once. If she’s not interested she will come up with excuses and then you tell her to “get back to you when she figures out her schedule”. That way you don’t burn your bridges and keep it open because she could have a bf or be…	/r/seduction	09/09/18 09:20 PM
5	i look too young for girls my age Bro, get to the gym and lift. Even shorties with a bunch of muscle look sexually appealing to women. Also grow some facial hair	/r/seduction	09/09/18 09:12 PM
2	What could I have done better? Well she had her back to you the whole time, so she didn’t really have the chance. Seems like she was enjoying herself, and I would have just turned her around in the escalation and then kissed her. A girl who is interested will ask you what your name is, which is why I never tell my name until I’m asked.	/r/seduction	09/09/18 09:09 PM
1	looks/money MATTERS. but if we use our brains, i think we can get around it Are you physically fit? Most girls who are just looking to sleep around, want to pick a guy who is good in bed. Otherwise, what value do you provide because all girls know that they can get laid if they want.	/r/seduction	09/09/18 09:08 PM
3	What could I have done better? You went forward the whole way. Instead I would have put my arms around her waist and when she moved it to her boobs then I would have just taken my hands off after a bit and then put them around her boobs later and then twirl her around. Like you can’t keep progressing because it doesn’t build anticipation. If you go backwards she starts thinking, “wait what’s wrong” and then you escalate a little further and further until she’s back at your place.	/r/seduction	09/09/18 09:05 PM
1	What could I have done better? You escalated well but you should have went a little further. She was clearly very receptive. If you twirled her around and eventually went for the kiss with some two steps forward one step back, she would have probably returned it. Asking for her snapchat is a weak move, just ask for her number next time so you can take her out.	/r/seduction	09/09/18 08:59 PM