SamuelNMEvander Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	I wasted my 20s, now 30 year old - did I mess up my SMV & how to salvage it?	Fundamentals	SamuelNMEvander	/r/seduction	10/06/24 09:00 PM

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1	35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start? Well, thank you. What comes to AI, I don't overuse it. The purpose is to open one's mouth. chatGPT can generate topics as a general guideline, not a written law. The chicks don't care if they dig the guy. Ofc it'd be preferable to have a coach who knows what to say. But AI works in their absence. I'm fairly independent when it comes to seduction so I don't use wingmen. And I have slight asperger's but I don't use my lines word to word. I choose what to use & constantly train AI to generate lines…	/r/seduction	24/11/25 05:58 PM
1	35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start? Start with simple greetings for strangers if your eyes meet. Chat with cashiers. Ask for directions downtown. Form up an anatomy of approach, openers - fluff - closers. Keep notes & form sone lines & topics with chatGPT to get you talking. Get some coaching if you can't do it alone. Start with small to calm your nerves with experience. Then pick target rich locations & sarge. Malls, bars, clubs, libraries, cafe... And get back to being employed when you get the hang of it.	/r/seduction	24/11/25 09:46 AM
6	My bf doesn’t know what turns him on or what seduces him #1. Sounds tricky. It seems like his arousal system is failing. Try to profile his sexual health. Try to ask him if he consumes porn heavily & regularly. If he's desensitized, you can't do much. #2. If he doesn't consume porn, then at the very least he should take care of his health to have a good sex life (exercise, nutrition, good sleep, less alcohol, less tobacco). A good sexual health is a must. #3. If his sexual health is functional, then communicate & try to explore what turns him on. "Hey…	/r/seduction	03/11/25 02:16 AM
6	When she says " I just want to be alone" The lesson is that sometimes you didn't do anything wrong. It sounds like she just wants to go fucking around because she got tired of relationships. She only told you that she loves you so that you don't feel mad about it. She tries to placate you while putting up distance.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 02:07 AM
2	She reached out like she misses, but now just watches my stories with her friends P.S. If you want things to change with her, do something about it. You'll have to just approach & signal availability. And if she likes you, eventually she'll come around. Because she understands that she can attain you. But because your phone died. She thought you rejected her. This fucked her ego & now she's protecting herself from any further rejection from you. Even if you didn't mean it. It's about how she perceives you. I know it's retarded, but ego tends to complicate human interactions. …	/r/seduction	03/11/25 01:50 AM
3	She reached out like she misses, but now just watches my stories with her friends It's due to varied attainability. Sounds like this girl felt rejected by you. She likes you, but is basically auto-rejecting you to protect her ego. I've had something like this happen this fall. Either you have to learn to open them again by approaching them in the hopes that she won't reject the guy outright, or just move on. She might even be jealous if you talk to other girls. Because she likes you. But bcs if a girl feels rejected by you just bcs you happened to be unattainable by pure happ…	/r/seduction	03/11/25 01:48 AM
3	Guys who have only been able to meet women via apps, how do you deal with the feelings of alienation from the fact you’ve never gotten a date with someone you first met in real life? I'm the other way. I feel bad that I struggle to get matches on apps & then the matches never turn into dates. In all my times with Tinder, I've only ever had one date. All my relationships have come from real life interactions with people.	/r/seduction	02/11/25 11:56 PM
0	Help a 19 year old guy fix his dating life Consume girlschase.com & look into daygame & cold-approaching. College is the best place to ask women out because it's so target rich with girls. Really just obssess over game & go out of your way to approach lots of girls in or out of the college. Streets, bars, pubs, malls...	/r/seduction	02/11/25 10:16 PM
-1	Cold approach beginner If you're bad at it, do what I did & just consume game content, make notes & ask topics / liners from chatGPT. I've developed an anatomy of an approach: Openers / Fluff / Closers. So, with an opener you're trying to get their attention & getting to the point. The easiest part because you're letting them know that you're into them. No need to ask for their boyfriends because they'll just tell you if they do have a boyfriend. "Hey/excuse me (grab her attention first), I think you're interesting & …	/r/seduction	02/11/25 10:09 PM
1	Have you asked anyone “I wanna fuck you now”? Most of the success stories here are about the guys warming up the girl before asking them for sex. So let me add that I don't ask her for sex. It's wordles. We flirt & spend some time with her. Eventually I start making out / foreplay with her (doesn't include sex yet, mostly light touching, kissing & eventually caressing). Eventually they get so turned on that none resist sex. Because female sexuality is slow & receptive.	/r/seduction	22/09/25 02:03 PM
1	Is it really true that a lot of girls flirting signs is just eye contact and a smile? Not an australian but just approach & try to flirt. Don't seek IOIs bcs they're not trustworthy signs. You have to focus on seeking compliance, which is the only reliable indicator of genuine interest. Many girls who give you no attention might be into you because while they might recognize your value, they feel like they can't access you. Think about it. You might see many pretty girls every day downtown but only be surprised & open-up if some of these attractive girls actually approached you o…	/r/seduction	01/07/25 10:38 PM
2	Is it really true that a lot of girls flirting signs is just eye contact and a smile? Nothing wrong with that. That's why we do it. To get laid, as well as being social. But we shouldn't be attached to the outcome because anything could happen & approaching has kinda crappy ROI. So you need to just approach a lot. Talking to a lot of people makes you social.	/r/seduction	01/07/25 10:16 PM
1	I wasted my 20s, now 30 year old - did I mess up my SMV & how to salvage it? Got it. I'm in a good shape. I just need to get all the other stuff in order.	/r/seduction	15/06/24 07:15 PM
1	I wasted my 20s, now 30 year old - did I mess up my SMV & how to salvage it? Yeah. It's really a hindrance.	/r/seduction	11/06/24 04:33 PM
1	I wasted my 20s, now 30 year old - did I mess up my SMV & how to salvage it? I attend gym but to talk to anyone there?? Little scary.	/r/seduction	11/06/24 12:30 PM
1	I wasted my 20s, now 30 year old - did I mess up my SMV & how to salvage it? Thanks, already feeling better!	/r/seduction	11/06/24 12:27 PM
6	I wasted my 20s, now 30 year old - did I mess up my SMV & how to salvage it? Let's say that female attraction has become more frequent now that I've taken care of myself. But thanks for the thorough comment! This really lifts my spirits!	/r/seduction	10/06/24 09:50 PM