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| 1 | How to improve self-esteem ?Sounds like you don't know how to manage your thoughts objectively. This leads to you feeling anxious and beating yourself up. I would recommend this book: Feeling Good-David Burns | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 06:12 PM |
| 2 | I can never understand the "guys should get with as many girls" while "girls have to keep their body count as low as possible" comparison. Can someone explain?https://www.tiktok.com/@jamesreinke52/video/6897263472053079302?_d=secCgYIASAHKAESMgowxpC8OjIildFVj9%2FU%2BvP1jBl0g24jg6XpFIPvN%2FaJyUUxGLmz6OLCOwyVIMm6s6IpGgA%3D&language=en&preview_pb=0&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAAzrBCbdRt27tM2vpG0LK_m3gt8cEa8UoymyYWlhmqvtl0RUR69Wl3Iw3wjCZICWVe&share_app_name=musically&share_item_id=6897263472053079302&share_link_id=8e480de9-8603-47be-853b-7984f78d5add×tamp=1611074991&u_code=dej559bj72038l&user_id=6877597716052345858&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=andro… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 08:55 AM |
| 2 | I can never understand the "guys should get with as many girls" while "girls have to keep their body count as low as possible" comparison. Can someone explain?Haha I don't get if you're praising the red pill or making fun of it. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 11:23 AM |
| 12 | I can never understand the "guys should get with as many girls" while "girls have to keep their body count as low as possible" comparison. Can someone explain?Damn I didn't think about it biologically. Thank you for the explanation, I understand now! | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 11:21 AM |
| 2 | I can never understand the "guys should get with as many girls" while "girls have to keep their body count as low as possible" comparison. Can someone explain?This comment is amazing, thank you for sharing your insights as I now have a better view of the whole situation. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 09:25 AM |
| 2 | I can never understand the "guys should get with as many girls" while "girls have to keep their body count as low as possible" comparison. Can someone explain?I feel like you gave me a whole summary of the sidebar. I really appreciate you taking the time to write this whole comment. Thank you. I have more confidence in explaining this concept to my other friends now. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 09:17 AM |
| 2 | I finished reading The Rational Male and saw one part where he told us not to be selective about which rules we follow and which we don't. We should follow them all. However, is there any "rule" you disagree with/you think shouldn't be in TRP? If so, which one and why don't you agree with it?You're right. Thank you! | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 07:02 PM |
| 1 | I finished reading The Rational Male and saw one part where he told us not to be selective about which rules we follow and which we don't. We should follow them all. However, is there any "rule" you disagree with/you think shouldn't be in TRP? If so, which one and why don't you agree with it?I know. I lived in a Muslim country for most of my life. All women there (or a huge percentage) kept their virginity till marriage. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 06:52 PM |
| 2 | I know this might be a dumb question, but I think many people want to know this. How long does it take to read all the information on the sidebar?Thanks :) sounds even better | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 06:39 PM |
| 2 | I know this might be a dumb question, but I think many people want to know this. How long does it take to read all the information on the sidebar?You're right. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | I know this might be a dumb question, but I think many people want to know this. How long does it take to read all the information on the sidebar?Haha good one | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 04:05 PM |
| 2 | I know this might be a dumb question, but I think many people want to know this. How long does it take to read all the information on the sidebar?Thank you. I feel like this is the best answer | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | I know this might be a dumb question, but I think many people want to know this. How long does it take to read all the information on the sidebar?I honestly want to sit down and study everything on the sidebar but there are so many links into other links into other links and so on. It just seems never-ending and I would like to get some insight about this. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How do you admit your girlfriend is right and apologize without losing frame?Thank you so much. It's very clear now. I'll be sure to check it out! | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you admit your girlfriend is right and apologize without losing frame?Thank you. This is honestly the answer I needed to kick me in the butt. I appreciate it a lot and I'll read it when I need to think logically. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 04:34 PM |
| -2 | How do you admit your girlfriend is right and apologize without losing frame?You might wanna work on how you initiate people into red pill thinking. Your first reply was really good and made me think about my actions. Your second reply made me feel like shit and threw me to the floor. Your first reply made me want to read more about red pill, your second reply made me stay as far away from it as I could. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you admit your girlfriend is right and apologize without losing frame?I read the 3 books by Rollo Tomassi. You're saying that wasn't enough and that I should also read the sidebar? I went through the book again (the first iron rule) and brushed up on the part about frame. I didn't know I misinterpreted it THAT much. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 11:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you admit your girlfriend is right and apologize without losing frame?Wow. I never thought about it like that. I really liked your captain analogy. I didn't know that holding frame and establishing matters of fact are 2 different things. Thank you so much for making it clear to me. I'll start working on it with the new knowledge you gave me. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Is it normal to have days where you feel amazing, then days where you feel like a complete loser?Where is that line from? | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 05:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you react to a sex rejection? My gf told me "are you gonna be mad if we don't have sex tonight? I just don't feel like it today, I'm really tired" and I didn't know what to say. I just said no followed by awkward tension for the rest of the night.You're right. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 05:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you react to a sex rejection? My gf told me "are you gonna be mad if we don't have sex tonight? I just don't feel like it today, I'm really tired" and I didn't know what to say. I just said no followed by awkward tension for the rest of the night.You're right. Thank you. Can you please explain dread game? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 10:58 PM |
| 6 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?Exactly! Well said! We shouldn't feel bad and we should trust our gut feeling no matter what other people try to tell you. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:54 PM |
| 6 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?Thank you! The number of people I've talked to about this and have told me that "it's in her past, it shouldn't affect you" or "she was different then, now she's with you and she loves you, unlike the guys she was with before" is countless. They constantly wanted to make me feel insecure about it, and I feel like (from reading all the comments) guys are also butchered for being immature or insecure if they say their partner's sexual past affects them. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?I can't control it, and as I read through the comments, I'm not the only one. This gut feeling should be used as a red flag if you're considering an LTR in the future. But, of course, (and this is what I think you're talking about)if you want to spin plates, it shouldn't affect you, and I agree with you on that one. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?That's the solution if you're young. But as I read through the comments, for when you want an LTR in the future and you're a bit older, you should look for girls that have not had a slutty past (maybe she's had some LTR's only). | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?Thank you! It really helps me not feel "insecure" as other people have told me | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?I thought about this. But let's say a few years go by. Everything is going great. And then at one point there's a friend's gathering and she starts bragging about her high n's in the past. Or maybe she just casually mentions them. What do you do then? It's already too late since you've invested too much. That's why I think it's better to know from the beginning, because it will pop up sooner or later, whether you like it or not. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?Thank you! | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?Thanks for sharing! Really helps me feel like I'm not the only one that's gone through this. Anyway, I'm glad you've gone past the BP days and have bettered yourself! :) | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?"You simply have to move on". Easier said than done. But I don't think you've ever had that feeling in your gut and the constant sexual thoughts of your girlfriend with other guys. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?Come to think of it. She was super depressive. Another thing that comes to mind is a friend of mine. He said that he would have multiple FWB, but at the end of the day, he would still feel empty inside. He basically became a workaholic to avoid confronting those feelings. Wow. Glad to see I'm not the only one who thinks that people with high body counts are usually also the people who are the most depressed. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Why does a girl's past affect me and how do I stop it?Wow. Very well said. Thank you for clearing things up | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:28 PM |
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