SanAntonioCacti Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	Man thinks because you matched with him on tinder, you should have sex with him 😒 gets pissed when a girl doesn’t many women aren’t taught how manipulative and dangerous men are. we need a learning curve. i refuse to hate on young women for being naive. there is no way that many women could know how bad men are without firsthand experience. edit in response to your edit: because when i was 18, i could have had people over at my apartment without expectations, and without choosing to put them in danger. my own projection, a pickme mom and liberal feminist conditioning warped my view into believing that most …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 03:49 PM
18	The goal should be: Power couple at the end of the world. i didn’t suggest rolling over and being submissive either. this post wasn’t about being a warlord yourself, it was about romanticizing a man doing it for you. what are you doing in this scenario? and are you not part of the community being lead? either way, a man capable of being a warlord would be horrible. imagine the lying, manipulating, murdering etc he would have to do to get to the top. men respect violence. you’re welcome to go off and deal with that alone, though!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 02:19 AM
9	The goal should be: Power couple at the end of the world. i physically cringe when i see women on here talk about how they want to be lead and/or when they enforce gender roles rooted in female submission.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 01:49 AM
128	Men can't respect women and suddenly it's the woman's fault because of what she was wearing or what she said to turn him down. Projection much? “i don’t respect women who wear revealing outfits so obviously any woman who wears that just doesn’t respect herself.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 04:31 PM
117	Don't fake your orgasms! do you remember that trend on reddit awhile ago where men would say that they’re not responsible for our orgasm. 🥴	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 01:15 PM
51	Movie Recommendation for Halloween (The Love Witch) its because she is comparing the sexual liberation movement of the 60s to modern day hookup culture.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 03:21 AM
81	Movie Recommendation for Halloween (The Love Witch) this movie is about how men hijacked women’s sexual liberation movement in the 60s. much like then, and even today, women are the topic of free love movements. people say that women who sleep around are whores, women who don’t are prudes, women have the right to choose, women should be monogamous and house-wifey etc. it seems as though every time we talk about hookup culture, women are the topic, but what about men? doesn’t it take 2 people to engage in casual sex? how have men and their actions…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 02:25 AM
22	“iT’s JuST pRimAL” I guess we’re all going against our very nature by not leering at strangers! some people believe that it was grandmothers/older women who were the most essential to the survival of the human race. this could explain why women lose the ability to have children halfway through our lives and why women naturally live slightly longer as women without young children could have been the backbone of early human societies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 03:48 PM
46	A pick me at my university replying to someone saying they're not comfortable with their partner watching porn exactly. even when i was a libfem i knew that there was something off about porn. i couldn’t even get myself to watch it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 03:29 PM
62	“iT’s JuST pRimAL” I guess we’re all going against our very nature by not leering at strangers! what environmental factor would have caused men to be promiscuous while women monogamous? that makes zero sense. how would men going around fucking over women and women crying about it be advantageous to our species at all?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 02:15 PM
131	Look at this incel bullshit, they've put "sex" under basic physiological needs. Normalizing rape logic as "education" 🙄🤮 i would put it in the love/belonging category and no lower. it’s also telling that they chose to put “sexual intimacy” there and not romantic relationship...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 02:13 AM
31	To sum this article up: being thin is attractive to men because it indicates being young and no previous pregnancy NOT because being thin increases fertility or health. Yepp. Thin not necessarily healthy. I think this article is wrong and it has more to do with porn. that also doesn’t make sense. i could grow 3 inches and gain 50lbs and the average man would still be able to restrain me. there isn’t a reason for us to be excessively small. edit: we’ve also been social animals since before we were even humans. what do you mean “catch us”? do you think that we were like feral cats running around independently and yowling for mates? surely tight-nit communities consisting of family and lifelong friends didn’t allow such horrid mistreatment of their mothers/daug…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 02:08 AM
85	To sum this article up: being thin is attractive to men because it indicates being young and no previous pregnancy NOT because being thin increases fertility or health. Yepp. Thin not necessarily healthy. I think this article is wrong and it has more to do with porn. evolutionary psychology is known to be garbage. there is zero reason for men to have evolved to seek out women with low waist:hip ratios. what environmental factor would have encouraged this behavior? in fact, there is no solid reason for men to have any biological preferences at all other for their partner to be female and premenopausal (and it’s not like prehistoric women made it to menopause anyways). to suggest otherwise would mean that they believe that children of women with higher waist:h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 01:32 AM
48	Idk if this is a joke or not but regardless it’s disgusting. women with low libidos are shamed and then they treat us like this when we enjoy sex and seek it out. can’t win.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 06:15 PM
92	Man admitting that women don't like sleeping with him and never orgasm from it 🙊 same. misogyny really killed my sex drive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 10:02 AM
13	An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans Users i don’t think that was intentional. bella thorne isn’t at fault for the existence of the sex industry.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 03:24 PM
37	An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans Users “it’s just a joke”, no you used it in an insulting manner. also yeah i’ll defend the young girls/women in porn, but not the industry and demand. the sex industry is horribly exploitive and the average worker is absolutely not going to have a good time in it. these children have suffered enough. the amount of cam girls/prostitutes could decrease by 75% and male depravity and the sex industry would still be thriving like it is now. now imagine if the demand decreased 75%, that would cause some cha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 03:22 PM
0	An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans Users why? she didn’t post nudes. she played depraved men and won.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 03:08 PM
77	An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans Users prostitutes are typically very young and vulnerable people who will probably face consequences for this sooner or later. i think that our time is better spent criticizing the demand rather than the supply. so long as there is a demand for sexualizing content, there will be a supply for it as it is impossible to get 100% of women onboard with fds. also let’s not call women bitches as an insult. if one of us is a bitch, we all are.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 03:05 PM
13	Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not you shifting the conversation to women and criticizing our clothing is blaming women. also, does a egirl pornstar reflect the average women? it does not. does a man who demands pornographic content reflect the average man? yes. so why are we putting so much effort into criticizing a tiny minority of women when we could be tackling a much bigger issue? it is useless to try to get 100% of women on board with fds. so long as there is a demand for sexualizing content, the supply will exist. using your m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 02:42 PM
76	Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not you women are not responsible for how men react to our bodies. one day we’re shaming women for wearing tank tops, the next it’s v neck t shirt, the next regular t shirts. before you know it, anything other than complete head to toe coverings will be considered scandalous. do not give them an inch or they will take a mile. the problem identified is MEN do not shift the blame to other women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 01:37 PM
14	Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not you let’s break it down. the original post was about a man who is putting the blame of his own shortcomings onto women. the problem identified is him, right. then you come in and shift the conversation to be about women and our choices, putting blame onto women. what made you want to shift the conversation? is the root of the problem really what women think is a cute outfit? by making women the topic, you identified women as the issue. why are we to blame for everything? i would call that pickme beh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 01:33 PM
14	Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not you it sounds mentally exhausting. imagine scanning your surroundings every so often so that you can get upset at random female strangers and then bash them online. what a life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 01:21 PM
19	Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not you mind your own business.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 12:53 PM
16	Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not you yes and i am afraid that my peers think less of me, but it was mostly negative attention from men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 12:49 PM
30	Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not you i have literally never in my life seen a woman in public in her underwear. what are you talking about? music festivals? yeah i also find those outfits cute. at one point in my life i probably would’ve worn nothing but pasties and sheer skirt with underwear visible. do you think that if we had a female only music festivals that suddenly all women would want to hide their bodies? nah, we would dress worse. i guarantee you. the decision to hide my body has more to do with men than my decision to be…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 12:47 PM
36	Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not you i used to dress really skimpy. wanna know why? it literally had nothing to do with male attention. i saw something cute and i wore it, no second thought. is it my fault that men and pickmes (you) decided that my motives were that i wanted male attention and that i didn’t respect myself? thanks for telling everybody that because everybody agrees you. i guess that it’s easier to believe that women do everything for male attention. i now hide myself and i’m not happy with it. are you?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 12:29 PM
46	Take note and next we will start praising narcissists for not blaming themselves for everything. 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/20 05:57 AM
20	As a former gym rat (thanks covid), this makes me angry. Just a few, sadly predictable, comments. but they want us to stare so this doesn’t exactly work. 😒	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 09:44 PM
65	Saw this Q on relationship advice, and this was some of the "advice" the top person is not a pickme, they’re a man poorly LARPing as a woman. they start of pretending as if they’re a woman but notice how he drops “us guys”. i knew that they sounded male before that mishap lol. edit: unless there are more than 2 people commenting. i can’t tell where one persons comment ends and another begins.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 05:15 PM
52	That's how LVM treat women for hookups she is not the one on trial here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 11:52 AM
104	Romance novels vs. Pornography... hmm 🤔 nice. they groom us to hate ourselves and then come in and sexually exploit us when our esteem is nice and low...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 02:16 AM