SanDiego2027 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Weird how everything fell into place like I predicted it would... Congrats on the detachment...	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/26 09:18 PM
1	The change is wild Did you have ground rules set around the separation? Were you trying to recreate trust and build goodwill during the separation?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/26 09:17 PM
3	STBX sleeping with someone else My wife continues to say "there's no malice, there's no villain in this." Of course I wanna say, uh you are, but I know it's not worth it.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/26 10:57 PM
1	When She Says She Wants Out, Step Aside and Show Her the Door Remarried already??? And when exactly did she meet her new spouse?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 11:46 PM
1	Stay or Go Look the reality is you need 3 years to solidify that Visa or you lose your kids and your place in this country. Slow play counseling for a year and drag it out so you're at least not going to lose every single thing in your life. Focused Self preservation.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 06:37 AM
2	How to emotionally detach? No contact, but if you have kids, low contacts. If you have kids, Save the pics on a drive and delete them off your phone. If you feel the urge to say something, write it down in a journal instead, then after write about one recent time she twisted your words or invalidated your feelings.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 06:31 AM
7	STBX sleeping with someone else OP highly recommend you read the book Radical Acceptance. It's a bit woo woo but it makes a lot of sense Also: Do not let what she does now or says about the relationship now with her shit colored glasses on let define you, your worth or how you were showing up in the relationship. It's all a ploy for her to justify her detachment and "falling out of love" so that her guilt of blowing up your lives doesn't consume her. It means nothing. Be mindful, try to see things for how they truly were and n…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 06:15 AM
20	Need to hear some positive stories about remarriages. You are legit marrying someone else a year after divorce? God speed. This explains the 60% divorce for 2nd marriages.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 09:43 PM
3	Old love letters resurfaced Is she single? 8.5 yrs is decent proof you can remain sober if that was the entire issue. Shoot your shot.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/26 08:58 PM
1	Potentially sold myself short but maybe no IDK how it works in the UK but the home equity would become a joint asset here in California, despite only her family contributing the entire down payment as a gift to the COUPLE.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/26 08:48 PM
1	My thoughts on Walk Away Wives Just drop the rope. It's hard but if you pursue it will only push her away. Communicate only logistics if reeeeallllyyy needed, that is all.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/26 03:40 AM
1	Which type of lawyer did you go with Fighting for what exactly? Your best route is a voluntary mediation, why spend thousands on lawyers when the law is clear cut in most states.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/26 03:33 AM