SandJA1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	You know what? I see so much negativity in this sub. Is it actually detrimental to our goal?		SandJA1	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 07:39 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Sexual Victimization by Women Is More Common Than Previously Known - Could we finally be seeing academic acknowledgement of female sexual perpetration? Won't isn't the same as can't.	/r/MensRights	14/10/17 02:07 AM
1	Sexual Victimization by Women Is More Common Than Previously Known - Could we finally be seeing academic acknowledgement of female sexual perpetration? Case in point	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 11:16 PM
1	Sexual Victimization by Women Is More Common Than Previously Known - Could we finally be seeing academic acknowledgement of female sexual perpetration? If you cannot sense the negativity here, you may be normalized to it.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 10:12 PM
1	Sexual Victimization by Women Is More Common Than Previously Known - Could we finally be seeing academic acknowledgement of female sexual perpetration? lol. I just had a comment removed because I linked to the more positive sub. here's the deleted comment: Comments. I joined this sub years back because I wanted to connect with a positive movement but I quickly learned that people in this sub are mostly negative and rarely charitable in their assessment of others. Now I keep to slash r slash MensLib. It's so much more positive and mentally healthy there.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 08:32 PM
1	Sexual Victimization by Women Is More Common Than Previously Known - Could we finally be seeing academic acknowledgement of female sexual perpetration? Comments. I joined this sub years back because I wanted to connect with a positive movement but I quickly learned that people in this sub are mostly negative and rarely charitable in their assessment of others. Now I keep to /r/MensLib. So much more positive and mentally healthy there.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 08:24 PM
-2	Sexual Victimization by Women Is More Common Than Previously Known - Could we finally be seeing academic acknowledgement of female sexual perpetration? I forgot how caustic and bitter the sentiment is in this sub.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 06:38 PM
1	Female pay gap? Hmm.. Maybe I didn't do a good enough job of expressing my understanding, then. Well.. first, I have a question for you: women shirk the responsibility of raising kids The way you worded that makes me think that you might believe in the traditional family model: that it is mainly the females responsibility to raise the child and the male's to provide income. Am I correct?	/r/MensRights	17/03/15 08:48 PM
1	Female pay gap? You didn't truly read anything I actually said, did you?	/r/MensRights	12/03/15 06:31 PM
1	Female pay gap? Will you quote to me what language I've used that has lead you to that conclusion? I'm pretty confident I've not argued that it's company's fault or males fault.	/r/MensRights	11/03/15 04:06 PM
34	Guy is expelled from high school and lost his scholarship because a girl misheard him Yea. It reached batshit levels of insanity immediately. I'm wondering if it's true. Still, giving good and reasonable advice to the kid is still good to do. I very much disagree with pointing to his post, though. Using it as a post for this sub. This kid could potentially take his own life and we're capitalizing on this?	/r/MensRights	09/03/15 03:43 AM
2	TIL Sexual abuse by nuns is just as prevalent as priests. Sexual abuse by nuns has gone largely unaddressed and unreported in part because of cultural biases about gender roles and sex. It seems to receive less publicity and scrutiny than abuse committed by priests that sweet sweet karma doe	/r/MensRights	27/02/15 10:01 PM
-1	I'm a feminist who wants to bring greater services to male survivors of violence, including shelter. Who's with me? Frankly, this is also poor rhetoric. This is the second loaded question in this discussion and is right after your last one. Actually, it's not even a discussion anymore because you're not acknowledging my arguments. Strange that you would ask me that question given that I'm hitting you with more meaning than you can respond to.	/r/MensRights	27/02/15 03:06 AM
-1	I'm a feminist who wants to bring greater services to male survivors of violence, including shelter. Who's with me? Yea.. In the end a word is a word. Definitions can change over time but extending a charitable kindness will never stop being good. There's no point in pinning a meaning to someone to justify vilifying them. It's short-sided and immature. I have to continually remind myself that hurt people hurt people when I'm in this sub. But I think it's important because I truly believe that there are some real problems with how men are understood. It's just that the general male public seems to be too spun …	/r/MensRights	27/02/15 02:23 AM
2	I'm a feminist who wants to bring greater services to male survivors of violence, including shelter. Who's with me? Hey OP. Just want to say that if you believe in being a good and just person and still choose to call yourself feminist, that's alright with me. I believe that words don't define a person, their behavior does and if you want to go out there and actually do some good for men who really do need it, more power to you. I wish there were more like you. It will very likely be way more good than those you see here spouting negativity and stubborn hate will ever actually do.	/r/MensRights	27/02/15 02:02 AM
-1	I'm a feminist who wants to bring greater services to male survivors of violence, including shelter. Who's with me? Instead of answering my question, you provided inflammatory rhetoric. Do you believe social truths or definitions to be absolute and unchanging? Do you believe that exceptions do not exist?	/r/MensRights	27/02/15 01:55 AM
-1	I'm a feminist who wants to bring greater services to male survivors of violence, including shelter. Who's with me? It seems like your argument is this: Feminism is evil. OP claims to be Feminist. Therefore, OP is evil. You're failing to realize that definitions aren't always the same for every person. This is basic empathy and understanding. Shitty stuff happens to all kinds of people under the guise of all kinds of purposes. Do you believe that MRAs are incapable of being shitty people in the name of MR? You certainly seem to believe all feminists are shitty people.	/r/MensRights	27/02/15 01:21 AM
1	What are some REAL problems that women face in the western world today? You gave me no content worth responding to. You've just conceded one of the points you made. Your other point is that you were victim to random violence. I'm sure that sucked but what does that have to do with the rest of this thread? Also, I actually think it's a straw man and you can tell I thought so by the edit I made, which the timestamps show I did right after posting.	/r/MensRights	26/02/15 09:29 AM
2	What are some REAL problems that women face in the western world today? Woah.. ad hominem. Belittling their problems does very little for you. In fact, it kills your credibility. You're not even trying to imagine what it would feel like to live in a world where your safety required you to always be wary, to not be alone with strangers, not be drunk with strangers, or have to constantly watch your drinks in public. Edit: Actually, I think that's a straw man.	/r/MensRights	26/02/15 06:14 AM
0	What are some REAL problems that women face in the western world today? My wife told me that she has had to actively rule out the possibility of being raped just so she could go to the bar or hang out at a house party. She doesn't complain about it, it's just something she's had to do. I don't live like that. I've never lived like that. I've heard other women say they have to do the same. I've never heard a man say that they have to do that. That seems like real gender issue that women deal with.	/r/MensRights	26/02/15 05:43 AM
0	What are some REAL problems that women face in the western world today? I don't think it's a valuable criticism to drop the 3rd world problems card when someone mentions 1st world problems. Solving 1st world problems is progress and we should never think to not progress. Though, I do think we should focus more on bringing the "lagging" parts of the world up to speed but.. such is life. Also, the other day, I told my wife about the post about a guy who was drugged and raped in his house by his student. She said that if she were in his shoes, it would likely not have …	/r/MensRights	26/02/15 02:21 AM
0	What are some REAL problems that women face in the western world today? I'd say safety is a real issue for women people. Totally agree. I just take issue with this language in your comment that I initially replied to: in context of your question they have no real serious problems Just because violence happens to both sexes doesn't mean that neither sex has no real serious problems. Or maybe I'm not understanding this context you mentioned?	/r/MensRights	26/02/15 01:43 AM
4	What are some REAL problems that women face in the western world today? How can we trivialize all the problems that women face in the western world and then expect to be taken seriously ourselves? Some of these responses are fucking ridiculous.	/r/MensRights	25/02/15 11:36 PM
1	What are some REAL problems that women face in the western world today? I dunno.. I'd say safety is a real issue for women. There are predators out there and these predators tend to be bigger and stronger than their "prey".	/r/MensRights	25/02/15 11:33 PM
23	Dear Daddy, Thank you for working so hard for us... I'm really glad to see it in this sub because it's something positive. It's something that eases the negativity we all take on when we read about bad things happening to men just for being men. Personally, I try really hard to ensure that the things I see here do not spin me into a bitter person and something like this really helps.	/r/MensRights	25/02/15 09:54 PM
15	'She has no right to be supported for life': Judge tells ex-wife of millionaire racehorse vet to get a job in landmark divorce case. It was. I believe mens rights are very important and fighting for them is a just cause. It's just that the sub can be soooo intensely negative. It was refreshing to see some positivity.	/r/MensRights	23/02/15 06:50 PM
40	'She has no right to be supported for life': Judge tells ex-wife of millionaire racehorse vet to get a job in landmark divorce case. A happily married man in /r/mensrights? Hate to break it to you but you don't belong here. We accept only the most embittered of poor disregarded souls. At the very minimum, you have to have been robbed of everything by an evil ex-wife and shit on by the system. Sorry buddy.	/r/MensRights	23/02/15 06:31 PM
2	An attractive young lady intends to have sex with a player on each of the 17 hockey teams. She texts nudes of herself with an invite for sex. Two 19-year-old males face felony charges including sex with a minor. Who's the sexual predator? You're behaving like a child.	/r/MensRights	21/02/15 05:13 PM
1	An attractive young lady intends to have sex with a player on each of the 17 hockey teams. She texts nudes of herself with an invite for sex. Two 19-year-old males face felony charges including sex with a minor. Who's the sexual predator? Just because I have beef with the butthurt in this sub doesn't mean I'm a female.	/r/MensRights	21/02/15 09:06 AM
-19	An attractive young lady intends to have sex with a player on each of the 17 hockey teams. She texts nudes of herself with an invite for sex. Two 19-year-old males face felony charges including sex with a minor. Who's the sexual predator? Don't worry, this sub is kind to unrealistic and impractical ideologies. You guys downvote me as though I'm wrong.	/r/MensRights	21/02/15 06:05 AM
0	Planned Parenthood Comes out in Support of Routine Infant Circumcision Holy crap. I am actually upset now. I wasn't before, but now I am. You sit there at your computer and tell people what is right and what is wrong as though they're absolutes. And then you speak about ethics? Princess? Entitled twat? How is that not inflammatory? You say you want to have a discussion, but you forget that it's important to not insult the other person. Attack the argument, not the person. This is no longer a friendly dialogue and it was not me who broke that agreement.	/r/MensRights	19/02/15 04:53 AM
-2	Planned Parenthood Comes out in Support of Routine Infant Circumcision Excuse me, Are you a doctor? Have you gone to school for this? On what grounds do you stand to tell me what is right and what is wrong? I have not expressed what I would do either way other than to consult someone who is educated and informed. Why am I not surprised that I'm in the negatives for saying that I'd prefer to consult an actual doctor and not some person on the internet.. How am I, a male, supported here? It's really hard to believe that this sub cares about supporting other men.	/r/MensRights	19/02/15 04:39 AM
1	Planned Parenthood Comes out in Support of Routine Infant Circumcision Non-anesthetized circumcision. shudders Those poor babies. I just looked it up and I think it can be considered a confident truth that it is a traumatic level of pain. All the vital signs mirror that of traumatic bodily harm. Not to mention the evident higher rate of emotional trauma during yearly vaccinations for those that were not anesthetized. Sheesh. I see that the general medical consensus is that the benefits outweigh the risks, but I'm sure that that is only for patients who are anesthet…	/r/MensRights	19/02/15 02:24 AM
0	Planned Parenthood Comes out in Support of Routine Infant Circumcision newborns are much more sensitive to pain Is this verified as true? How could we even know?	/r/MensRights	19/02/15 01:24 AM
1	Long distance friend of mine wore a sweater reading "Meninism" to school. He sent me this screen cap of some girl on Twitter at his school. That is one of the manliest hands I've ever seen on a female. This smacks of satire.	/r/MensRights	05/02/15 04:03 AM
0	Female pay gap? condescending bull shit only hurts your persuasiveness I actually totally agree with you on this. But then, I'm not trying to persuade you. It's obvious you don't allow change in your person. It's kinda fun talking to you though. To someone like you. It's like interacting with a caricature. If I was to draw your person, you'd be like a Picasso only not as artful. Or interesting.	/r/MensRights	20/12/14 03:16 AM
2	Female pay gap? Sorry fellow but I think /u/leopoldvonleopoldson might be too busy talking into an echo chamber and mistaking the reflections as positive reinforcement.	/r/MensRights	20/12/14 03:12 AM
1	Female pay gap? You're dumb. I'm dumb. We're all just a bunch of dummies. But especially me because of my liberalist agenda.	/r/MensRights	19/12/14 11:20 PM
1	Female pay gap? They are burdened by their own choice Disproportionate, as it's used in the article you sourced, is an important modifier for the word "burden", i.e. males are not as present in the house as females. Is that due to women's choice as well? in that we know there would be a reduction in these deaths if more doctors were men Holy craziness. Why would you blame just women when it's both genders who are not choosing the doctor lifestyle? What are you talking about, it's women that choose to work much …	/r/MensRights	19/12/14 09:15 PM
2	Female pay gap? Your uname makes me think that /r/redditarmy is leaking. So what? This is reality. Doesn't matter to the people who die in ER waiting rooms why women aren't working. Your original reply is about changing reality with your ideas. For you to dismiss women being "disproportionately burdened" by saying "So what? This is reality" shows a lack of any attempt for outside perspective. It's becoming clear that your agenda is all that matters to you. Yes there are people dying in ER rooms but it's not the…	/r/MensRights	19/12/14 08:20 PM
1	Female pay gap? Ok. To continue with your misuse of your first source... The long surgical wait times and lack of family physicians that plague the Canadian health care system are largely blamed on the paucity of doctors. That means we don't have enough doctors. Much of the problem is blamed on a decision by provincial governments in the early 1990s to slash medical-school enrolment More support for lack of doctors Dr. Robert Ouellette, president of the Canadian Medical Association, said medical schools need to…	/r/MensRights	19/12/14 07:52 PM
2	Female pay gap? Did you read the first source? There's all kinds of language that doesn't seem to support your logic. Dr. Mark Baerlocher, the study’s lead author, acknowledged he is tackling a thorny issue, but stressed he does not favour curbing the number of female physicians. Instead, the study calls for greater increases in medical-school enrolment to offset the phenomenon. .. The survey found that women, on average, provided 30 hours a week of direct patient care, compared to 35 from men, a result of fema…	/r/MensRights	19/12/14 07:33 PM
6	Female pay gap? Is this a joke? One: you're using the daily mail to support this ridiculous statement. A publication well known for bias and political agendas. Two: Do you really believe this level of social control is a good thing? You say "We really need to limit women in medicine" but who do you mean by "we"? You think women would support that purpose? Probably not, so you likely just meant just men. Wtf? How is this not closed thinking?	/r/MensRights	19/12/14 02:06 PM
2	'Barry One' to Lena Dunham: 'Why Didn't You Clear My Name? Why Did You Wait?' Well, Yea... It is possible that what you say happened is the truth. So is the possibility that he's actually being earnest. Rape is terrible, just like being a victim of false claims of rape is.	/r/MensRights	11/12/14 06:11 PM
2	Incredibly well written and insightful article by a disillusioned ex radical feminist [x-post from /r/TrueReddit] It was your assertion that "absolute truth" was in the thoughts she presented. I disagree, but we are different people and so, see things differently. If you have some valid concerns with her thinking, why not respond to her? She seems like she might be open to reasonable discussion.	/r/MensRights	26/11/14 10:09 PM
1	Incredibly well written and insightful article by a disillusioned ex radical feminist [x-post from /r/TrueReddit] The ethics and morals of murder is not subjective. They are. Was attempting to murder Hitler WRONG? It's not so easy to say. I agree with you on this. Though, this gets into the tricky moral quandary of "Murder one person and you can save several people's lives." However: The problem I have with SJWs is that they claim to own the absolute truth and what is right From reading the article, I believe 100% that this person is not even close to claiming to "own the absolute truth". She seems instead …	/r/MensRights	26/11/14 07:51 PM
9	Incredibly well written and insightful article by a disillusioned ex radical feminist [x-post from /r/TrueReddit] What an awesome article. Critical, yet charitable. Second, treat people as individuals. For instance, don’t treat every person who belongs to an oppressed group as an authoritative mouthpiece of that group as a whole. People aren’t plugged into some kind of hive mind. Treating them like they are, besides being essentialist, also leads to contradictions since, obviously, not all people agree on all things. This kind of thinking is something I often see absent right here in /r/MensRights	/r/MensRights	26/11/14 06:42 PM
3	I Thought I Was A Feminist Until I Started Dating A Men’s Rights Activist Which logical fallacy?	/r/MensRights	18/11/14 11:18 PM
5	I Thought I Was A Feminist Until I Started Dating A Men’s Rights Activist to dismiss all MRAs as power-hungry patriarchs is as foolish as calling all feminists bra-burning misogynists Awesome.	/r/MensRights	18/11/14 11:08 PM
2	Self-righteous. Narrow-minded. Why I quit the feminist Fawcett Society. The Fawcett society is a political group in the UK who once campaigned for the rights of women. In my opinion it has turned into a hate group against men. Isn't this website known for producing content, heavy-handed editing, and general disreputable "journalism" for the purpose of political agendas? How can this source be trusted?	/r/MensRights	16/11/14 04:03 PM
0	You know what? I see so much negativity in this sub. Is it actually detrimental to our goal? Anger and hatefulness are not the same thing. Anger is a legitimate response to injustice. It can lead to hate but it can also lead to action. I have no arguments against that statement, I wholeheartedly agree. No movement or group should be above criticism (no, not even us) Again, big ups for the ideas I'm reading here. If we're trying to maintain a long-term positive effect on society, we must be able to self-analyze and be comfortable with the possibility of being wrong. Only until someone ad…	/r/MensRights	01/11/14 03:37 AM
0	You know what? I see so much negativity in this sub. Is it actually detrimental to our goal? just because someone makes up a new definition for feminism doesn't make that definition valid. Funny that you use that reasoning to justify this: As it should be. and this: They see feminism as having power and influence and they want access to that, so they lie to themselves about what feminism is to justify joining and supporting a hate movement. Since popular feminism has changed over the years with multiple generations. Which would mean that if someone was raised by a traditional feminist, …	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 07:13 PM
5	Anita Sarkeesian on the Marysville school shooting Couldn't they use the exact same logic you just used to say the same thing about MRAs? At what point is this a hateful circle jerk?	/r/MensRights	25/10/14 06:09 AM
1	Feminist explains "Four Things All Men Can Do" during YMCA's 'Week Without Violence': She claims that people saying "violence is an equal opportunity offender" are simply "terrorising women" by "detai Goddammit. I spent at least afucking hour on trying to put together a goddamn cogent and hopefully helpful response, continually referencing back to what you said just sos I wouldn't missappropriate your language or fucking whatever and I fucking lost it to some goddamn keyboard pressing. I'm not going to write it all again but I'm goddamn close to convinced that you are under 35yrs and buying into this lost/self-victimization BS.	/r/MensRights	15/10/14 02:48 AM
1	Feminist explains "Four Things All Men Can Do" during YMCA's 'Week Without Violence': She claims that people saying "violence is an equal opportunity offender" are simply "terrorising women" by "detai Goddammit. I had a what I thought was a hugeass fucking reply for you and I fucking hit some keyboard combination shit that fucking ruined the page. FUCk!!!	/r/MensRights	15/10/14 02:38 AM
-2	Feminist explains "Four Things All Men Can Do" during YMCA's 'Week Without Violence': She claims that people saying "violence is an equal opportunity offender" are simply "terrorising women" by "detai Secret? They are publicly saying they are feminists. That is absolution. For you to say that "Feminist" absolutely denotes "hate for men" means that we will not reconcile our difference in opinion because we have different definitions for that word. Well it's a bit tricky for various reasons including that you probably don't want to lose your friends but you certainly could find out I feel a pressure to prove I'm not fighting you. Is it possible that the language you've chosen functions to make …	/r/MensRights	14/10/14 11:47 PM
-2	Feminist explains "Four Things All Men Can Do" during YMCA's 'Week Without Violence': She claims that people saying "violence is an equal opportunity offender" are simply "terrorising women" by "detai No. I'm not a troll. I may be new and different but I am sincere.	/r/MensRights	14/10/14 10:47 PM
-3	Feminist explains "Four Things All Men Can Do" during YMCA's 'Week Without Violence': She claims that people saying "violence is an equal opportunity offender" are simply "terrorising women" by "detai You just used the quotation formatting but changed my language. No bueno. Tsk, tsk.. Anyway.. I'm not trying to hate on you. I'm trying to come together with you and others here. Read my other comment. I'm not wanting to further some emotional/victimization BS story in my head. I just want to challenge what I believe are negative thought-habits that are accepted as true and just in this subreddit. I hope that you can read what I say and try to read into what I think instead of quickly labeling a…	/r/MensRights	14/10/14 10:17 PM
-4	Feminist explains "Four Things All Men Can Do" during YMCA's 'Week Without Violence': She claims that people saying "violence is an equal opportunity offender" are simply "terrorising women" by "detai In the language you just used, there is no uncertainty. You don't know these people and yet you are sure that, because they called themselves feminists, they were at least secret man-hating people. I cannot prove your assertion to be false but only because I cannot read minds and so could not know. Given my experience with humans, I strongly believe that at least one of them was without hate or malice for others. Still though, I cannot be 100%. Yet, despite never having met them yourself, the la…	/r/MensRights	14/10/14 08:54 PM
-2	Feminist explains "Four Things All Men Can Do" during YMCA's 'Week Without Violence': She claims that people saying "violence is an equal opportunity offender" are simply "terrorising women" by "detai I would not leap to say that at all. That's a silly conclusion. I guess it's possible I've just had the random luck of having personally met and worked with a few thoughtful, balanced women who call themselves feminists. So to me, it's smacks emotionally charged and unfair for the word "feminist" to be cussed here as it is all the time. The extent that it is focused on here seems almost obsessive and unhealthy. I subscribed when I first joined reddit but dropped it quickly because of the strong …	/r/MensRights	14/10/14 07:33 PM
-5	guess what guys! If you are a foster father or a grandfather and want to be a primary care giver you are automatically denied, great job Australia! It's them damn feminists. They're all out to get us with their man-hate. I hate them all. I know this is all true because it's reaffirmed to me here daily.	/r/MensRights	14/10/14 07:14 PM
-4	Feminist explains "Four Things All Men Can Do" during YMCA's 'Week Without Violence': She claims that people saying "violence is an equal opportunity offender" are simply "terrorising women" by "detai Just want to be clear, you're saying that all women--every single one--who are feminists are like this?	/r/MensRights	14/10/14 07:03 PM
-11	Feminist explains "Four Things All Men Can Do" during YMCA's 'Week Without Violence': She claims that people saying "violence is an equal opportunity offender" are simply "terrorising women" by "detai This is what that person's idea of Feminism looks like.	/r/MensRights	14/10/14 03:41 PM
-1	A voice for men takes white knight stance in a strawman argument. Comments section closed. The publication is gone the way of atheism + etc. I'm a dude, and I truly care about men's rights but I'm so bothered by the way you use the word "feminists". I see it used as a derogatory word here so often and I'm tired of it. It reads to me as though you actually believe that all feminists are the same, that they believe the same thing and that they only act as one unit, with one goal in mind, making you and other men victims. Do you believe that people who call themselves any label are not individual and possibly even dissenting in their be…	/r/MensRights	09/10/14 10:30 PM
0	Lena Dunham, Anti-Feminist This Feminism you speak of, how is the authority of who's in and who isn't truly decided? Is there voting? I ask because I'm curious and you seem to know.	/r/MensRights	02/10/14 06:53 PM