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She is not concerned. It might happen. And BTW each time it happened, the families decided to keep the child they raised, not the one they birthed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:00 AM
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Why would she think she needs to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:52 AM
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That you and your partner have equal access to the information concerning the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:30 AM
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How isn't it relevant? The law is not about your personal interest as a man. It is supposed to be fair and to cater for all potential cases. So is a woman allowed to steal your DNA and test ir without your knowledge or consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 12:33 AM
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If you have doubts, you can decide to run a test with the consent of your partner. If your partner refuses, you hire a lawyer. And it is the same procedure whether the person who has a doubt is a woman or a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:26 PM
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You did not answer my question. Is a woman allowed to test the DNA of a potential father without his consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:23 PM
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Because you aren't considering the situation where a former girlfriend comes and steals your DNA behind your back to test if the baby she had without your consent is your own. If you see it from this point of view you'll understand that it is normal that they should get your consent before performing a paternity test. It's your DNA, no-one has the right to collect it/use it without your consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 11:35 AM
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In your country.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 12:05 PM
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Did you use the word "meet" in one of your latest comment? Meeting is a lot more than just making eye contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 11:17 PM
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You've heard of something called street harassement, mate? Why the fuck would I have to stand all those interruptions on the street and everywhere when I am perfectly happy with my Long-long-LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 07:36 PM
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It's not because people have eyes that they use them to look for a lover when they walk the streets. Most people are deep in their thoughts, thinking of where they are going and not really seeing whoever is around them. What you do is a total waste of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 07:18 PM
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Doesn't mean they use them to look for a lover on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 06:50 PM
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Instant attraction? Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 06:34 PM
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It's weird that you think that a woman who walks down the street to do her stuff might be interested by a random stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 06:23 PM
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The rest of the chapter tells about how she (as a man) asked the other men whether this lack of eye contact between men was a sign of respect. They agreed. I've read many times stories of men getting into a fight because the other man maintained eye contact for too long as if to provoke him. No need to be the Queen of England. So, I don't see why you are surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 05:56 PM
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The rest of the chapter tells about how she (as a man) asked the other men whether this lack of eye contact between men was a sign of respect. They agreed. I've read many times stories of men getting into a fight because the other man maintained eye contact for too long as if to provoke him. No need to be the Queen of England. So, I don't see why you are surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 05:56 PM
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Despite what TRP preaches, It's me (a woman) saying that it happens all too often. very few people actually get hit on randomly on the streets during the day. Not remotely true. There is something called street harassment which is real. Also we get hit on everywhere: on the public transportation, at the supermarket, at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 03:04 PM
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But it would be cool to do the filtering instead of being filtered. That's not what happens. What happens is that you become a target for people you don't know. Like this woman in France - in the news 2 weeks ago - who called the network company only to find out later that the man who had come to her place to fix the problem dug into her customer record, found her mobile phone number and started texting her that she was good looking and stuff. She escalated the case to the company to make him st…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 10:07 AM
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Something you would expose yourself to, once a week to have a bit of fun. Not something that happens to you against your will whenever you leave home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:14 AM
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It would be bliss... As a woman, you couldn't walk down those streets invisibly. You were an object of desire or at least semiprurient interest to the men who waited there, even if you weren't pretty. But that night in drag, we walked by those same stoops and doorways and bodegas. We walked by those same groups of men. Only this time they didn't stare. On the contrary, when they met my eyes they looked away immediately and concertedly, and never looked back. It was astounding, the difference, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:09 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 06:09 PM
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It exists only in the head of the person who claims to be in the Friendzone when in reality that person can pretty much leave anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 12:33 PM
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Dictionaries have to reflect what native speakers want to convey. Native speakers shouldn't check the dictionaries lol. On the contrary, everybody should check the dictionary, especially when dealing with people who like to manipulate concepts to promote their own agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 06:48 AM
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Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:58 PM
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You terpers really have a problem with the words in the dictionary, right? Stop pulling my leg, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:58 PM
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I don't accept the synonym list. I don't care, mate. That's in the English dictionary. That's the one we use as a reference in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:56 PM
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Who cares about power? We are talking of what the word means.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:48 PM
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It doesn't fit better; it's the same thing! Synonyms for misogynist noun woman-hater, misanthrope, [...], sexist source: http://www.thesaurus.com/browse/misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:46 PM
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So how can you be so good at your work and in the same time need to be reminded of a stupid acronym like AWALT, or even more believe in it? How can you master reaching an understanding with your stakeholders and respecting their point of views and at the same time put up with the amount of garbage that one can read in TRP. I know the project manager code of conduct and I know that it is the absolute opposite of all this TRP shit. How is this remotely possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:41 PM
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No, we care for both reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:31 PM
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So someone who is not in touch with his own environment or the people he deals with. You said you were a project manager, right? I wonder if this is the right line or work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 01:23 PM
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I am not accusing you. You said you were sexist (as if it was a better adjective!). I am just highlighting what the dictionary says.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:30 AM
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typically
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:29 AM
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They come from the official dictionaries. Please address your complains to whoever publishes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:27 AM
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And to clarify about gender roles, the idea women don't need to change, are perfect creatures, is in fact a delusional gender role. You need to do some reading about gender roles. What the fuck does gender role have with any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 09:26 AM
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No you fit both. And, no, most of you don't know them because I keep reminding terpers in this sub that misogyny is not hate of women, it is prejudice. Women are this and women are that IS gender-based prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 09:21 AM
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AWALT is a guideline, and a reminder. Do you also have a tag on your collar with your name in case you get lost? FFS, who needs this kind of reminder?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 08:14 AM
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Don't forget that misogyny is mostly prejudice against women, not just hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 08:03 AM
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misogynist mɪˈsɒdʒ(ə)nɪst/ noun 1.a person who dislikes, despises, or is strongly prejudiced against women. sexist ˈsɛksɪst/ adjective 1. relating to or characterized by prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 08:00 AM
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BS. Women deserve to be with whoever they are attracted to and who is attracted to them. They aren't attracted to you; your problem, not theirs. You are the one who can fix your own problem. They don't have a problem; they don't need being fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 10:24 PM
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You don't want the same thing. You want to force women into a specific situation so you get what you want. You want something that is not consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:20 PM
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And then you want people to have empathy for your sad little life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:06 PM
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And when you sleep with someone else, she doesn't know if you use a condom. If there is absolutely no trust, don't get involved with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 06:49 PM
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So come on. You know the divorce stats and the top divorce reasons. Let's no go there once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 06:45 PM
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If there's such an agreement in place then I don't see why there would be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 10:41 AM
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People use contraceptives these days. Use 2 and you are guaranteed to have no child against your will.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 10:40 AM
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Is it a problem if the woman is also having someone on the side while staying in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 09:55 AM
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it's very rare for a woman to have sex with a random guy for sex's sake. No it's not. Some women are into NSA and some aren't And men feel just as much devastated as women when they find out their partner had someone on the side. man's actions and behaviours are almost identical That's what men believe too, especially terpers who say: don't listen to what she says, watch what she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 09:52 AM
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Why does it feel bad Are you a human or an alien?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 09:40 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 09:34 AM
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The post is about women, yes. The comment above makes it sound as if women have a different behaviour from men when it comes to partnrr's cheating. I am just pointing out that the behaviours are identical and so it doesn't bring any insight to your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 09:34 AM
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So it's a problem for everybody, not just women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 09:19 AM
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Why is it a problem for women when the man will feel just as much cheated if she strays?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 09:00 AM
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It's definitely not about resource exclusivity since the relationship often fails (and the woman leaves) even when the man claims it didn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 08:38 AM
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Downvoting is against the sub rules. Last remark before notifying the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 08:20 AM
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Downvoting is against the sub rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 06:59 AM
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Oh no no you DO complain. Otherwise you wouldn't call them CC riding sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 03:18 AM
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Cheating is the cause of divorce in 55% of cases and women initiate 70% of divorces. Men cheat and everybody knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 03:17 AM
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Irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 04:00 PM
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Oh, no, You did it again!! :P
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 01:00 PM
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And males cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 11:28 AM
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If it's evolutionary and we are all submitted to some forces, then why do you complain about people's behaviour, especially women? Why do you call them sluts and other slur words when all they do is obey those incredible overpowering forces coming from the dark ages? WHY?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 10:46 AM
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This is ridiculously naive. Well that worked fine for me, my whole life and also a looooooot of people I know. Better than some naive people who claim that they have be lied to their whole life. what evolution then it's obvious that that's wrong Some people here keep refering to evolution while at the same time they keep complaining about the way women behave. If evolution is overshadowing everything we do, then we should accept that women behave the way they do because of evolution. End of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 10:43 AM
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No we don't. We just fall in love with someone. There is no laundry list of requirements or comparing the qualities of Mr X and Mr Y.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 10:10 PM
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I like that. Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 05:17 PM
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Mating markets? Yeah, that happens in just about every species on the planet. Male-led courtship? Ditto. I think you guys call it a market because of the way people date in America. The rest of the planet doesn't date this way. We don't windowshop, touch the goods and evaluate their weight like on a market. We don't make appointments with complete stangers to check if we could be a match. For us, dating means that we like someone we already know and want to take it to the next level (i.e. be an …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:51 PM
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And in mine as well. Since this is how I experience sexual desire for someone. Which is different from being horny which I believe is what you refer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:44 PM
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Have replied in the other thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:41 PM
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He is a professor of philosophy. Why do you expect science? To sum up, there is no doubt that sexual desire is an emotion, and even a very typical one. I think you mix up sexual desire with horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:41 PM
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Sexual desire IS an emotion. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-the-name-love/200811/is-sexual-desire-emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:24 PM
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Sexual desire IS an emotion. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-the-name-love/200811/is-sexual-desire-emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:23 PM
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Why don't you answer my questions instead of downvoting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:21 PM
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And a woman's attractiveness does not trigger feelings and emotions in a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 03:04 PM
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Why do you use information about patient/doctor relationship in a psycho-analysis in a discussion about romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:59 PM
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Is there a patient and a shrink in your romantic relations to women (I am assuming you are a heterosexual man)? I don't understand the connection between psychotherapeutic intervention techniques and relating to you girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:38 PM
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Your post is total bullshit. Romantic relationships are not about breaking someone else's frame or having an opponent. Relationship is about building rapport. We create our relationships by what we do and how we think. To be influential in any relationship we need rapport. Rapport is the quality of a relationship of mutual influence and respect between people. It is not an all-or-nothing quality that you have or not - there are degrees of rapport. A person does not have rapport until they build …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:56 PM
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How about women who die in domestic "accidents" after she repeatedly fails to "give" him a son? That's also jealousy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 08:02 AM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:37 PM
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It has been argued that the "low status" in which women are viewed in patriarchal societies creates a bias against females. [...]This is attributed by scholars to the fact that women were deemed "property" within those societies Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_infanticide
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:45 PM
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I think women are jealous to a point of their daughters (and vice versa) OMFG. You really think that those women are so shallow and stupid that they commit female infanticide out of jealousy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:42 PM
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Ewwww Mmmm ok Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 10:52 AM
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What does that have to do with the subject at hand? What does that prove if a gender manages to oppress the other one? What matters is that now that the western mentalities have changed, women are able to take their lives into their own hands and shape their future without depending on another person. It's nothing new for whoever is familiar with the Maslow hierarchy of needs. I also have office colleagues, friends and family connection through marriage with Muslim people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 09:10 PM
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No you don't respect women or feminism. Because otherwise you would not have come up with a sentence that suggests that men feed women. No, muslim feminists aren't any different from the west. They want to take charge of their own destiny and not be a second class citizen... just like feminists in the west. You sound like you have never met a single muslim person in your whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 03:52 PM
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bite the hand which feeds them What women want is to feed themselves and not rely on someone else to feed them. Pull that shit in Afghanistan and the tribal elders will stone you to death. Because you think there are no feminists in Afghanistan and other muslim countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 01:23 PM
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Poor thing. All those stupid leftist people with fake degrees conspiring against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:56 PM
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How about you discuss my concerns instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:52 PM
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Don't forget to provide the corresponding studies. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 06:31 PM
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you can't give me one piece of evidence that possessiveness = insecurity You're sure? Possessiveness Stems From Insecurity The behaviour of a person with a possessive personality has very little to do with feelings of love. Instead these behaviours are brought to life through the negatives influences of insecurity and doubt. Low self esteem drives a lot of possessive people to perform actions that a reasonable person would never perform, but this possessiveness can also be an indicator that ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:32 AM
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You have a doubt. Pay for it. It's cheap and easy to get it done. I don't see what's preventing from doing it and why the state should get involved. The rest of us aren't interested in giving our DNA to the state. There are enough opportunities in our lives for our personal information to be stored against our will. Forcing people who haven't asked for anything to mandatorily give a sample of their DNA to the state just because they are having a baby is unethical. Why would you want to have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:06 AM
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I am also suspicious of people who want the state to interfere with their personal lives. Why would I want the state to be feel entitled to a sample of my DNA and those of my family members just because we are having a baby? I am sure the state committee on ethics would have something to say about a general practice whereby the vast majority of people's DNAs are kept into a database for a reason that is not essential to the gouvernance of the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 09:56 AM
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Why don't you read the thread first?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 05:10 PM
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That's what I said. Since you only bang them...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 05:09 PM
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No, they were married. He was her 2nd husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 05:03 PM
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No but you can talk about your partner/boyfriend/girlfriend. That's something that people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:59 PM
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What you bang them and none of them ever goes to a social event with your friends and/or your family? Well that's odd. Most people introduce some of their partners to their families and friends. So usually your acquaintances know if you are meeting someone or not. But if you just bang them, I guess it is a good idea to keep it a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:56 PM
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Yes I can imagine that's how it works for most people (having a very vague idea of the partner's count). Now the previous person claimed they were the exact same group for a long period of time. I also specified I was not talking of ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:53 PM
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This thread of messages is not about being a slut. It's about revealing your sexual past to a new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:49 PM
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I think you have to stop seeing everything through the lenses of someone who had a sexless mariage. It's not because someone is not a fashion model that s/he is going to end up in a sexless mariage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:47 PM
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That's not how it goes. The way it goes is "Hey do you remember going to Paris with your boyfriend A and doing so and so?". Another day, "This reminds me of that party we had at your boyfriend's place... hmm no, not this one, the other one, the one with the house on the hill". So eventually, if there are enough discussions and photo albums leafed together, facebook pictures, etc..., one may start to get an idea of his/her partner romantic past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:41 PM
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How is that a terrible situation? She has decided that being good looking is NOT the MOST important feature to look for in a life partner. I thought that RP people would rejoice seing a woman make this kind of decision. Apparently not. As a woman, it's bad to select a partner based on his good look but its also bad to select him for somethings else than his look.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:21 PM
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I know him. They had a little girl together. They are happy. She gets what she wants out of the relationship and so does he. Edit: And I have no say in what other people do with their life. I always find it strange that some people want to meddle with other people life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:08 PM
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So when you have a boy/girl friend (not a ONS) or a date, you don't introduce him/her to your friends or mention him/her in conversations when having a discussion with your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:51 PM
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If you have a parallel secret life, that's a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:34 PM
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Come on, your friends become her/his friends. Eventually someone will tell her/him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:16 PM
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she won't be able to do better on the open market if she ends it with her Lothario. Or she decides that she no longer wants to get involved with a potentially cheating husband; so she gets a divorce and looks for a lover who is less good looking and less likely to stray. I know a couple of women who did this. One of the cheating husbands went on cheating until he met a woman much older than him and filthy rich. Since he married her, he have stopped having something on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:15 PM
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You are taking it all too seriously. TBP guys don't want to ruin anything; they are not even an organised group; they are just making fun of terpers. Also when I read the appaling nasty stuff terpers write about women, i feel terpers have no right to complain about what other people write about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 05:05 PM
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What you call background fear we call it anxiety. No one likes anxiety. People get sick when they live in 24/7 anxiety. You think they trust you? No they are just afraid of what you might do if they ever fucked with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 04:58 PM
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I don't think it's hate. I think it's more "WTF?" which in all honestly I tell myself quite often when I visit TRP sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 09:57 AM
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Yeah, terpers are such a dangerous group, everybody has to conspire against them./s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 07:24 AM
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What did you say that should have made mr change my mind? People don't die of a lack of sex. And masturbation is always a possibility. So what are your arguments in favor of your stance apart from pointing a finger at me and yelling "looooook, feeeeeemale, no empathy!!!!"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 01:21 AM
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You are wrong. Fear is the result of uncertainty in a relationship, uncertainty about how things are going to turn up. If they trusted you, then they would not experience fear. To fear someone, there must either be a set of angry/ dangerous events or a continuous feeling of doom and danger in your immediate proximity. That's unhealthy for people surrounding you. I don't inderstand why you'd want people to feel like that around you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 12:57 AM
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See, you decided that i don't understand you because I am a woman when in reality I disagree with you because I am an individual with a different opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:47 PM
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You don't build trust by putting fear in people's heart. There is no trust if you can become angry and menacing at a moment's notice. People don't relax around you; they are constantly on the lookout for something that'll suddenly go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:45 PM
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I am not a man. That's right. It was absolutely necessary for a man to have sex, the pope and the cardinals would be allowed to have sex and to marry. The beauty of the body is that it can adapt to a lot of situations; and when you don't have sex, your body produces less hormones which in turn lessens your need to have sex. See, there is absolutely no obligation to have sex isnyour life; it's not like air, water or food as you want to make it sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:41 PM
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It's not a disease, you don't have cancer, you are not dying, you just aren't having sex... That's all. Plenty of people around the world don't have sex without it making the 8 o'clock news. You have a first world problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:10 PM
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's stupid if it costs you your job...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:06 PM
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That blue thing got laid? You must be kiddin' me!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:05 PM
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Not everybody lives in the US right? You see meaningless sex has no importance for me. The only sex that I value is with someone who matters to me. So i can go a looooooooooong time without having sex with someone. Do I have sexual urges? Sure and I attend to them. But i don't see not having sex with a person as something so terrible that i'd have to shed a tear each time someone tells me he isn't having any.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:04 PM
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So you lied, you've seen an ugly girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:51 PM
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Most men can ask the service if a sex worker if having sex is so important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:50 PM
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That are against their code of conduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:49 PM
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What? horrible facial features, crossed eyes, boyish body (no breast, butt or hips), short legs and long torso, hairy arms and legs, a hint of a moustache, ...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:45 PM
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You have misconceptions about what a therapist can do. Yeah, one can visit a sex worker as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:41 PM
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Fear is not a choice; lack of feeling is not choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:37 PM
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Mixed up to streams on my smartphone. A woman can be unattractive and not-fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:35 PM
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The way you described it made it sound like it was a big problem. Therapists != whores. I am sure a man can find a whore if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:32 PM
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Yeah, you don't know them because they are invisible to your eyes and you don't notice them. So we went from "they don't exist" to "they do but it's different".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:30 PM
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Well people who think that this is such a big problem should see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:27 PM
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Not really. It can be fear of the other person's body or of the physical act, being afraid of pregnancy or STI/STDs, past traumatic experience (not necessarily sexual), not being sufficiently attracted to anyone, feeling asexual, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:23 PM
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You said you don't know any virgins; i told you I do and demonstrated that being a virgin is not a problem; it's something that happens to a lot of people. It's not a curse or something that needs anyone's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:17 PM
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Sorry; it sounded like you worried about your own situation. Who cares that it is stigmatised? Why care about what some unknown folks think about something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:13 PM
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That she is a virgin and not obsessing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:11 PM
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I know three good looking women who are virgins. One because her jewish family forces her to date exclusively jews and she is not interested in any of her suitors - she is 35; the other over is 24 and is not interested in anyone she knows and as to the last one, it's complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:57 PM
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Nobody is telling you to admit it publicly. Just stop imagining in your head that people can see through you and guess your personal state. The worse you can do is obsessing over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:51 PM
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By whom? You think I have the time to think of who is getting sex or not. It's in your head. You think people know how much or little sex someone is having. The reality is nobody knows what their acquaintances and friends do at home between their bedsheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:39 PM
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The average American loses his or her virginity at age 17. Virgins make up 12.3 percent of females and 14.3 percent of males aged 20 to 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:12 PM
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The average American loses his or her virginity at age 17. Virgins make up 12.3 percent of females and 14.3 percent of males aged 20 to 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:11 PM
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Why don't YOU lower your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:08 PM
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No, there are women who just unattractive and no amount of make up will change that or weight loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:06 PM
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Yeah, you sound like an abusive person. Have had someone like you in my family. Life next to that person was unbearable for all of us. Moved out of my folks place as soon as I was old enough to live by myself. What I like about my life partner is that he is the opposite of that. I don't live in fear next to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 03:02 PM
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WTF? Edit: FYI, downvoting is illegal on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 01:37 PM
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You want a woman to consider you like god or her father? No one wants to fuck god or one's father.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 08:16 PM
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Fear is not compatible with trust. You aren't looking for a romantic relationship. You try to establish dominance over another person. They will fear you but they will never love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 07:27 PM
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Companionship, support, affection and an outlet for my desire to make someone happy and complete.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 11:38 AM
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Because a romantic relationship is about building rapport. Rapport can be defined as (Buskist and Saville, 2001), “a positive emotional connection”. It is essentially about encouraging someone to like you! It is about building relationships through a sense of trust and confidence in each other, establishing good communication and identifying common beliefs and knowledge. When you use dread game, you don't build a rapport because you don't inspire trust and confidence. You deliberately build fear…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 09:05 AM
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I agree with what user/wtknight said. You like to talk about hypergamy but it is not that systematic. When it comes to romantic relationships, some people are reachers and some people are settlers. Some are reachers, but actually struggle to find satisfaction in a relationship where the other person is better looking and/or higher social or financial status because they are insecure and the other one being the better one keeps them on their toes. Some are deliberate settlers because e.g. they fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 08:57 AM
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The fornix http://www.pickupasia.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/AFEandPFE.jpg (probably NSFW)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 05:57 AM
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4 days ago in the European news: women slut-shaming facebook groups uncovered. At least 2 groups featuring 50.000 men posting stolen nude pictures of their conquests online without the women's consent and slut-shaming them. It is said that similar groups exist on other platforms. Link to the article (french): http://m.levif.be/actualite/international/babylone-2-0-quand-des-hommes-s-echangent-des-photos-de-leurs-conquetes-a-leur-insu/article-normal-595257.html What is wrong with these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 12:34 AM
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Well terpers downvote me. So we are even. Oh I am not angry. Just adapting my speech. So Ok, I'll keep trying even though you wrote you can't tolerate it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 03:21 PM
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Well you aren't (yet?) her serious suitor; so you deserve nothing and especially nothing that she "gave for free" (using your words) until she makes up her mind. But with your attitude, she is bound to make a decision not in your favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 03:15 PM
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You are nobody until you both agree you have something interesting for one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 03:07 PM
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You come across as very aggressive with everybody. I just adapt and talk to you the way you talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 03:02 PM
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You keep comparing what you do/don't get with what other guys got... For free, you say. You think you deserve what they got.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 03:01 PM
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You are free to walk away. The other guys are none of your business. Why do you think you deserve something based on some past relationships unrelated to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:55 PM
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I am just as aggressive as you are in your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:51 PM
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Which attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:14 PM
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No. Her being a slut is her business even more so when she is not involved with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:14 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:12 PM
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That's what you wrote. Reason why she is slut shamed: she said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:11 PM
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How is that your fucking business? She doesn't want to fuck you, that's her constitutional right. You have no say in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:10 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:07 PM
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Yes, you think that a man is entitled to slut shame a woman because she said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:07 PM
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No. I say the cervix lifts when a woman is aroused and so her vagina gets deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:06 PM
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FFS, What does giving sex even mean? Do you have sex with people you are not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:04 PM
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But you consider that slut shaming women who aren't interested in you a decent behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:02 PM
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You slut shame women (without actually knowing whether they are sluts) because you have to work hard to get them to sleep with you? What kind of passive-aggressive shitty behaviour is that? I do hope they keep giving you opportunities to slut shame them; you obviously don't deserve anyone's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 01:56 PM
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The sluttier you are, the less slut shaming remarks you receive? Doesn't compute, mate. Did you skip your logics classes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 12:19 PM
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Not what his fair is saying. I am not using a strawman argument; I am referring to someone who claims to be a terper. If he is not a terper, why don't the true terpers intervene? Silence means assent. You don't want non-RP people to believe that he is a genuine terper, then call him out. you are going to have to agree that "feminists" are genocidal maniacs that want to kill all men because there are a few crazy woman that said something edgelordy. What does that have to do with the subject at ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 04:37 PM
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I don't see that he is trolling. And I don't see any terper preventing him from speaking or highlighting that his opinion is not RP-compliant. Maybe terpers should have a certification process so us non-RP understand what is or not a true RP message.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 04:30 PM
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Maybe you want to ask user/KoennonTiger what he wrote in the following entry (deleted now) about feeling entitled to NOT respecting a woman's space, and getting access to her body. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/5mgi73/why_is_the_concept_respect_women_received_in_such/dc3tdv6/ You can check with user/lurfly if you don't believe me. EDIT - Apart from downvoting my entry, do you have something to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 10:00 AM
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Maybe you want to ask user/KoennonTiger what he wrote in the following entry (deleted now) about feeling entitled to NOT respecting a woman's space, and getting access to her body. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/5mgi73/why_is_the_concept_respect_women_received_in_such/dc3tdv6/ You can check with user/lurfly if you don't believe me. EDIT - Apart from downvoting my entry, do you have something to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 09:59 AM
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So women are a hive mind but RP men aren't? What a surprise! LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 09:51 AM
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Government funds birth control because of the economic impact of unwanted pregnancies. Can you say the same of the lack of brothel? Unintended Pregnancy and Its Adverse Social and Economic Consequences on Health System: A Narrative Review Article Unintended pregnancy is among the most troubling public health problems and a major reproductive health issue worldwide imposing appreciable socioeconomic burden on individuals and society. Governments generally plan to control growth of births (especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 03:14 PM
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Why is it a problem? In many countries, people more and more often live together without being married and provide a stable durable environment to children conceived out of wedlock. Furthermore, more and more countries offer the same rights to couples whether they are married or not. http://www.vox.com/2014/4/20/5632028/in-france-and-sweden-most-kids-parents-arent-married
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 09:57 AM
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I don't see why there is a link between children being conceived and raised OOW and being a tax payer burden and lack of a stable environment for the child. In France, 56% of children are born and raised OOW but only 17% don't live one of their parents. http://www.vox.com/2014/4/20/5632028/in-france-and-sweden-most-kids-parents-arent-married
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 08:55 AM
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about women, not envious of men Aren't they called Chad or the assholes vs the Nice Guy (TM)? but it is the women who are screwing him over, are the ones who are especially annoying and problematic What? Why? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:34 PM
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Is this the fitness sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 11:30 PM
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That's ridiculous. No woman can read the amount of demeaning words, verbal abuses and violent comments against women without feeling sick in their stomac. There is absolutely no way for anyone to think that beyond those nasty words and dirty minds, there is a soul to be saved. So, no, don't expect empathy from people you call sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 09:43 PM
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You can tell me Why you Should have empathy for someone that hates you. No YOU tell ME. Because that's what I asked in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 08:58 PM
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What a load of BS!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 07:57 PM
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So they do what you do. Big deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 07:33 PM
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Also, I am not the person who posted this picture online and called the fornix "a vital pleasure zone" : http://www.pickupasia.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/AFEandPFE.jpg (probably NSFW)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 07:08 PM
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It's not because YOU don't know that rest of us don't. You learn every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 06:43 PM
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Why would I have empathy for someone who thinks I am a slut, a walking vagina or a child? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 05:45 PM
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Nuance has another meaning? Well I am all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 08:39 AM
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Well, darlin', to begin with, please explain the nuance in the AWALT acronym. nuance (ˈnjuːɑːns/) noun a subtle difference in or shade of meaning, expression, or sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 08:02 AM
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unable to register nuance LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 07:25 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 04:47 PM
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I think you already saw my other entry but the vervix is supposed to lift (the technical term is ballooning) when the woman is arousedd. that's why you aren't supposed to be able to touch the cervix if she is "ready" (her being ready or not does not necessarily depend on anything you do btw - just sayin'). Edit: sorry mixed up with another user. I meant this : http://www.pickupasia.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/AFEandPFE.jpg (probably NSFW)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 01:38 PM
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I personally think it matters for women who like deep penetration. http://www.pickupasia.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/AFEandPFE.jpg (probably NSFW)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 01:30 PM
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If you can touch the cervix, it means she is not aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 01:26 PM
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Not the cervix, the fornix. http://www.knowyourbody.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/Vaginal-fornix-Image.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 01:25 PM
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It's not the cervix, it's the fornix (also called the deep spot) that they want stimulated. http://www.knowyourbody.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/Vaginal-fornix-Image.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 01:24 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duty_to_rescue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:01 PM
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Some info here: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duty_to_rescue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:01 PM
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Yes, in certain US states. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duty_to_rescue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:01 PM
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Many countries have a legal disposition called 'duty to rescue' whereby one is supposed to help people in danger. So, yes, you might be expected to intervene. Edit: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duty_to_rescue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 03:08 PM
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Why exactly are you asking me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:59 PM
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The divorce rate is greater than that, still people get married every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:31 PM
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Don't care. The study is not about this and the % is something you came up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:25 PM
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90%. So AF/BB is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:21 PM
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It's not about the top x%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 05:01 PM
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Nope, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 04:14 PM
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That's not what the study says.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 02:53 PM
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From the actual study: It does not necessarily follow, though, that the trade-off that women do make will be obtaining the best possible investment from one man, while cuckolding him with a man with superior genes. Based on the extant studies of genetic cuckoldry, only a small minority of women actually sire children with men other than their regular mates—perhaps 10 - 12% (see Baker and Bellis, 1995; Cerda-Flores, Barton, Marty-Gonzalez, Rivas, and Chakraborty, 1999). Assuming that these figure…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 02:52 PM
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That's not how it reads. Your problem, mate. And again, the rest of your comment is irrelevant for the same reasons I stated in my last comment. My comment is not irrelevant. Maybe this conversation is about women's desire. But why would you want to change a woman's desire when she has no problem finding a partner while you - as a male terper - believe that you are entitled to certain level of attractiveness in a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 10:05 AM
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Yep, shows that "we are distant cousins so we MUST behave the same social organisation as chimps'" is not a good enough argument. I deliberately talk about what I know; if you know better, why don't you share instead of complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:22 AM
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My 2nd paragraph is not personal. You identify as a terper and terpers say that they wouldn't touch a fat/ugly women with a ten feet pole; still you expect other people (women namely) to change their dating behaviour and date people they aren't attracted to not for their own benefit but for the benefit of those who can'g get laid. If you have a problem having a satisfying romantic life, ask yourself what you can change about yourself; don't ask other people to change for your benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:05 AM
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Nobody is telling you to marry. I am not married despite being with the same person for over a decade. You can be with someone you aren't married to and who has a good job she is passionate about. The existence of the relationship industry would disagree with you. This is marketing and BS internet content marketing. It doesn't mean that all couples are DB couples. r/theredpill, r/asktrp, r/marriedredpill, r/askmrp. Now that's helpful. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 07:53 PM
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in exchange for his commitment and her access to his resources. I don't know if that's true. But if this is what you fear, why not pair up with someone who has a good job and is passionate about it? Why do terpers insist that a woman must be a SAHW? Why? you don't know what goes on behind closed doors. I agree with you. But there's no more reason to believe that they are having a dead bedroom marriage than thiunking that they are having sex 3 times a day, right? But for women, the carousel is ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 07:38 PM
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Women fuck guys they don't want all the time Oh yeah? I thought we were picky. Now we fuck people we don't like? average likeable guys would be getting sex all the time There are a lot average likeable guys in my environment whom I don't find the least attractive who are married or involved with women who are crazy about them. I am telling no lies when I am telling you that having feelings for someone has a direct influence on the quality of a sexual intercourse for a woman. Even men say that se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 07:14 PM
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Thank you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 06:58 PM
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Thanks for your response. Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 06:48 PM
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But bad sex with a hot guy is better than good sex with an average guy. NO, you are very wrong. Yes, it's not about the sex; it's about what goes on in your mind when you have sex with someone you really like. The brain is the largest sex organ. When you click with someone on an emotional level, all you sensations are magnified. So if he is good looking and a dick, this just doesn't happen. So that's bad sex for us. BEcause for us, bad sex is better than no sex. So keep fucking whoever you are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 06:46 PM
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The difference between a job and a relationship is that you can live without a relationship whereas having a job to pay the bills is mandatory. Now, if you think you can lower your criteria to get a partner, why don't you start with your own requirements and date fat ugly women instead of asking the other half of the planet who did not ask for your help to artificially change their dating behaviors in order to cater for your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 06:31 PM
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You must have missed the post where women explained that no-sex is better than bad sex. So, no, no woman ride the cock carousel because it is better than being lonely. Close to 70% of divorced/widowed women do not remarry; see, they aren't afraid of being lonely. Also people are attracted to who they are attracted; it does not make sense for anyone to force oneself into a relationship with someone they are not attracted to as a means to get more options. Otherwise terpers would enter into relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 06:26 PM
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You are going to have to decide whether it is easy for women to have access to sex or not and whether women are happy to ride the cock carousel or not because you can't have it both ways and contradict yourself just as a means to serve the message of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 03:35 PM
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Maybe, but who wants more non-options?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 10:56 AM
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they were actually attracted to a larger pool of men, they would have a much easier time romantically because there would be more options I thought women already had more options than they could use.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 09:12 AM
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EDIT: new wikipedia link https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alpha_(ethology) Because at this stage, there is no more reason to believe that the structure of our society is closer to the chimps' rather than to the structure of the bonobos. Studies have that the human genome is equidistant from the bonobos and the chimps (http://www.livescience.com/20940-unraveling-bonobo-genome-secrets.html). Yet those 2 species have 2 completely different social organisations. Alpha/beta are chimps social roles. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 08:40 AM
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From the Guardian: For the entire 18 months, Ned went unchallenged, living and working in several US states. In fact, Ned is so successful that when Norah reveals herself, in the late stages of some of her experiments, many of Ned's new friends and colleagues refuse to believe that he is a woman: 'Hey, great joke, buddy!' When the penny finally drops, only a few admit they were worried that Ned was, well, a bit gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 01:00 PM
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Yes. That's what you meant when you said women outnumber men in college. So men were once favored. Does that make you mad? Can you believe that now that they aren't, the trend swung into the other direction and that we have reached a natural state where women get the place they always deserved?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 01:46 AM
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Do you realize that blocking a group means you favor the group which is not blocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 01:11 AM
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You said that women outnumbering men in college shows that women are favored. Do you believe that in the past when men outnumbered women, it was a sign that men were favored?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 12:52 AM
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What does that even prove? It's not women's fault if girls outnumber boys in college. When it was the other way round, you believed it was because boys deserved their seats, right? Well now boys have fallen behind. And according to my part time experience as a project management professional (PMP) teaching college students PM methodology, boys are the ones who don't take their studies seriously, interrupt the classes when they don't miss them and don't deliver their papers on time. So stop telli…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 01:38 PM
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Yes it is about eliminating gender bias i.e. not believing that someone brings less to the table because she is a woman. Nothing else. The US doesn't mirror anything. The EU continent (except for the UK) doesn't allow you to work in an IT position if you don't have a 5 years degree specialized in IT after your A-level. No one calls himself an engineer without this degree. There is a european process called the Bologna process that defines degrees equivalence across countries because having a deg…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 07:22 AM
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Maybe in the US it is legal to give better marks to a woman, not in Europe. We don't have positive discrimination. Over here the pressure is not on the marks, it is on campaigns to modify people's perception of IT jobs namely that it is not a male only / geek only occupation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 06:28 AM
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You said that companies have changed their hiring practices 10 years ago under the pressure. I am demonstrating that 2 years ago the CEO of one of the biggest IT companies acted publicly as of there was no such pressure. You don't see what Satya Nadella's reaction has got to do with what we are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 01:21 PM
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10 years? Not at all. When did Satya Nadella Microsoft CEO go on stage and told women that they shouldn't ask for a raise; that they should trust their karma? Barely 2 years ago, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 08:39 AM
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This pressure is a very recent development because the word is out now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 08:17 AM
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So what you are saying is that you think it is right to discriminate according to gender. You think that because a person is a women she is likely to put in less hours of work regardless of her actual behavior on the job. Well I have a breaking news for job: this is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 08:14 AM
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We are talking of graduates. People right after their engineering degree. No you aren't supposed to have worked beforehand. You sit for a 4 hour exam every week. Why would you believe that a woman would get a better mark because she is a woman? I do remember us girls were the hard working ones while boys barely work on the assignments we were given.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 08:09 AM
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Why would they run to the Guardian when it's yesterday's news? There are thousands of articles on the subject all over the web. You think it's a breaking news because you personally never looked into the subject. Enter "sexism tech industry" in your favorite search engine. You can also search "UK tech wage gap". Have fun browsing those pages you never knew were available online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 10:16 AM
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Yes it is illegal in most of the Western world; still discrimination at work does exist. Non poaching agreement between Apple, Google and other companies in the Silicon Valley did happen even though it is illegal. You want me to provide evidence? Sorry I don't steal corporate documents to display them on the internet. How about you start believing serious studies available online?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 10:01 AM
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Because there is the sexist view that it is a male occupation and that women bring less to the table. Also women don't know they were offered a lower pay. They have no way of knowing or comparing with other workers' wages. Edit: tech workers are white collars; they get paid a monthly lump sum; there's no hourly rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 09:06 AM
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Yearly internships are mandatory. I studied software engineering for 5 years, women represented 10% of the students (8 women for 80 students). We were subjected to a 4 hour exam every friday morning. The top ranking students (3 top seats) were always occupied by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 09:03 AM
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If the consequence is that they aren't gonna be with someone with your mindset, they must be throwing a party now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 06:34 AM
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Of course. Have worked in tech my whole life. First as a software engineer, then in various managerial position. I have seen the wages of many tech workers, hired them myself. Women are always offered lower salaries. And it's not because they were on maternity leave or work part time. It start right after they graduate. Two new graduates from the same engineering school, she gets a lower offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 06:31 AM
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Of course i am right: you have a problem, not the people who make their own decision about their own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 03:43 AM
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Wtf? Who are you to say that these are the only good reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 03:22 AM
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Tech wage gap is real. 9% in Uk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 02:49 AM
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This is ridiculous. No one pays child support for a child who is not his own. The cost you mention is not yours, the risk is not yours. You have no stake in those situations. You are being jugemental for no good reason. And you giving so much toughts to other people's life choice and claiming that their lives are a mistake is unreasonnable and plain unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 02:43 AM
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Why does a situation that doesn't involve you personally trigger this kind of reaction on your part? You don't know those women. Maybe there are perfect reasons for their situation. Maybe they are happy with it. Maybe it was a deliberate choice. Why not just say you aren't interested and move on? You are making yourself unhappy by caring too much about situations that do not impact you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 01:56 AM
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You can make a blanket statement for all the single moms whom you don't know but I can't do thr same for terpers. I'd have to know you personally? The irony! Everybody has preferences. I don't see a problem with expressing them. I have a problem with the fact that terpers use demeaning words for no good reason. How about you just say you aren't interested instead of calling them a waste of men's time? Because using demeaning words tells something about you: it shows that a mundame situation both…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 01:36 AM
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I saw a tv program on the subject last night. Japanese women don't complain about men not approaching. They are actually the same opinion as the men in Japan: that it's not worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 06:00 PM
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No, it's the other way round: THEY don't want you. You - on the other hand - are so thirsty, you wouldn't let an opportunity to get laid pass you by.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 04:41 PM
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I know about this condition because my mum had a massive stroke. She suffered from left hemiplegia and died after 3 years. The doctors were very honest with us right away. Once the brain is injured, the patient's health keeps declining and his/her character changes, s/he becomes a different person, short-tempered, even nasty sometimes. It's very difficult for the family, especially if they decide to become the live-in caretaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 03:55 PM
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There is no cure when you experience a massive stroke. About half the people who survive the stroke die within the next 12 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:57 PM
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No I don't. How about you tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 02:36 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 02:33 AM
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Where did u get that from? I am making no point. I am answering a remark. I don't know where he is getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 02:25 AM
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http://countrydigest.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/Population-of-France-by-year.png
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 01:21 AM
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Nope. It's enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 01:04 AM
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Now society matters? Ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 01:04 AM
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No, i thought sport's club, hicking club...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:48 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:47 AM
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No we're above. 2.something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:47 AM
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I said there are things that work for each person. And a romantic encounter is the intersection of each person want and need. If one person is not confîortable with the other person's interests, why should s/he put the other person's interest above his/her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:46 AM
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Well you know better. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:43 AM
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A club is a social group. For the rest, it happens but that's bot the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:42 AM
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If it works for u then why do you complain? I am not making rules, I just say what I believe is socially acceptable for romantic interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:41 AM
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A lot of woman don't lust for men this way. Yes, you might be good looking and well built but that's hardly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:39 AM
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Which part of "it takes two to tango" didn't you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:37 AM
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Well, I don't do ONS; the experience doesn't seem good enough from my perspective. A lot of women don't do NSA sex because our experience is that not all sexual intercourses are equal and usually NSA sex is not worth the trouble. Good look treating people as a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:36 AM
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The post is but not this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:25 AM
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Most people meet their spouse at school, university, work or social groups, not on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:24 AM
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We are fine in France.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:21 AM
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Why does the guy matter and not her? I do what I an comfortable doing every step of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:21 AM
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Never had any problem having a boy friend. I am always amazed that someone can have a romantic interest into a total stranger. This seems totally fake. Also who talked about months?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:20 AM
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Oh, I don't make social rules. There have always been rules in all social groups from the dawn of humanity. You like to believe that proposing sex right away to a stranger is socially acceptable. You live in a free country (i guess); who is stopping you from doing it? Not me. Now don't expect that people who have been raised to believe that certain social interactions require a right timing and a right setting aren't going to laugh in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:16 AM
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I do well in Europe. Thank you for your concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:06 AM
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It takes two to tango. If the other person is not into it, go and find another partner. What's holding you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:05 AM
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Why force a connection that does not exist? What's the rush?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:04 AM
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Yes. That's how most people meet their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:01 AM
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This is not a thread about ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:00 AM
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Downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 07:07 PM
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Wtf mate? My partner and I have been in a 10+ year LTR. We get along just fine and the circumstances of us getting together are none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 07:05 PM
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Well they must live in a different country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 05:19 PM
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You don't have to be her friend. You can be nice, brilliant, funny, interesting, make her laugh. No one said you have to be her friend. There is a happy medium between being a friend (someone who appears neutral sexually) and someone who approach women with obviously sex on his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 05:18 PM
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No. My sex drive is fine and way above average since it is boosted by the dopamine agonists that I take for a medical condition. Women like to be admired for their beauty but also their intelligence and plenty of other features that they like to display when in good company. So what's your point? If I don't think the way you do, then there's got to be something wrong with me? Is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 05:08 PM
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Oh no, I know some women are. But if they were the majority of women, men wouldn't complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 05:03 PM
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We totally agree. But I don't think that there is a way to assess whether you are truly asexual without a detailed medical checkup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 05:02 PM
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Not maybe. Definitely since it happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 03:22 PM
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I did not use the word "immediately". I have never shown signs of attraction "immediately" because I was never "immediately" into someone. But I did show them and approached the guy when eventually I felt the attraction. Not everyone is into someone right away. Maybe you are but don't expect everyone to behave like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 03:19 PM
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So why do they complain that women claim they feel objectified?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 03:16 PM
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That's what the other person is saying. He just likes her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 03:15 PM
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I am a heterosexual woman. I don't approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:32 PM
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"Express your sexual interest (even if it's not in crude words) early" What do you expect by doing that? That they are going to reciprocate right away? They've just met you (not on the street) and you hope that they are experiencing love at first sight. Or that they are imediately going to sleep with you. Is that it? How often does this kind of thing happen in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:27 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:21 PM
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That's what I was saying. There is no sign of attraction on her part but you are willing to make a move. Well good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:19 PM
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You are the one who believe women have the power. It is in your head. We don't feel powerful. We just say what we want and so do men. If you don't want what the other wants, you can leave. If you don't leave, that's your problem, not hers. It's not the sexual attraction that is creepy, it's acting like it is OK to approach a stranger to let them know that their body is desirable. That is what is creepy. How about you control yourslef?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:17 PM
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That's why women complain in female forums and call them pigs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:12 PM
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Don't talk about Robin Williams. Ask the 60+% men who remarry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:11 PM
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Someone asked about how do I get to know her if I don't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:11 PM
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What would happen if you wanted to sleep with him directly I don't do that. Nobody HAS to play my game. You are free to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:51 AM
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"Supposed to" in case you want to get involved in an LTR. If you are after a ONS, A/ that was not the subject of this thread B/ good luck surviving in your circle of friends after such a deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:48 AM
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About you stay on sexism and explain to me how it is not a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:43 AM
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I don't know a couple where the woman does not work. One salary is just not enough for a family to live on. And seing that most people meet at university or at work, they are both bound to be in the same line of work and wage bracket. Also the reason why women now don't stay into unhappy marriages is that they have a job and can afford to support themselves. Your theory that women divorce rape men is false. There is no other reason for a man to stay in an unhappy marriage and cheat on his wife i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:41 AM
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This is a study conducted by a university and the researchers felt it was important to differentiate the reasons. Why do you act like they mean the same thing? Who is arguing in bad faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:19 AM
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We don't even have any information about assets or children. Maybe they don't have children, maybe she works and has as good a job as him. Why did he stay instead of leaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:18 AM
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The first time I met him? No, I didn't. I don't know about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:15 AM
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Yeah, Pennsylvania State University people are pretty dumb; they don't even realise that different words have the same meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:14 AM
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Was there any reason he stayed in the relationship and cheated on her instead of leaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:10 AM
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What about her? Did he like talking to you? Did she seem to like you? Because that's what matters; that why you are supposed to hang out together in the first place; not because you wanted to fuck her to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:08 AM
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If you want to experience rejection, yeah, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 10:39 AM
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I don't know. But it won't work by annoying women on the street when they are just going about their own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 10:37 AM
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I suppose you'd do that if you misread the signs or if you are into self-punishments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 10:32 AM
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Usually people who are not creeps approach people they have met a few times and learn to appreciate through social activities in their mutual social circles. It's not unsollicited if both persons realise they appreciate this other person's company. That's how I and all my female friends have met our partners. Not by being accosted by strangers who want to compliment our sex appel on the street on our way to work. Why those people would think that I am interested in knowing that they appreciate m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 10:25 AM
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Well most people get together with people they meet in their social circles. They don't approach strangers on the street. Once you see someone a few times in a social setting and get to appreciate that person (not just her tits and ass), then you can approach and ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 10:20 AM
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Because approaching a person just because she has (a) nice ass/tits/face is not dehumanizing for the person on the receiving end of the unsollicited approach, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 09:12 AM
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Oh yes it is unethical and yes it disqualifies people from getting the same opportunity as other people from different groups. For instance, hiring companies usually post their hiring practices along with job description and they do insist that they are equal opportunity employers and that they do not discriminate whether it is based on sex, religion, age or other stuff because otherwise they would be sexist/racist/etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 08:40 AM
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But the vast majority of people do agree on it. EDIT Also Trump publicly apologized for his locker-room talk. So I believe he himself understands that his attitude was inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 08:07 AM
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Where did you read that? All I am saying is that one should approach a person based on the features that this very person displays, not some features that s/he supposed should display because s/he is a woman or gay or black or a redhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 07:55 AM
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Why? I thought you guys selected according to one's political program? Is your presidential election about fake orange suntan and weird haircut now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 07:53 AM
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See, if a woman divorces a man because SHE cheated, she is not going to claim that she wants to divorce because if cheating but because she no longer loves him. So, no, infidelity means the other person cheated. For your next argument, you would need the ratio of each reason compared to the total number of divorces to make this kind of assessment. Also, these figures aren't about single moms. I don't see why you bring single moms in this string of comments. Finally, about 70% of women do not mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 07:50 AM
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There is no such sign. You could feel asexual but in reality, just be sick with an endocrine disease, such as Crohn disease or a have a tumour or experience a hormonal imbalance. You would know if the disease develops when you are in an adult; you wouldn't know if the onset of the disease was prior to your puberty. There is a famous House MD episode on this subject (mostly famous among the ranks of the asexual folks on internet).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 06:32 AM
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No, she is a person who lives in Europe and is on PPD in the middle of her night on a smartphone when she can't sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 05:55 AM
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I am blocking now following your other nasty comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:39 AM
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Doctors an priest don't teach socially awkward people that a woman who says no means yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:27 AM
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Watch the video and see how it is described and how everyone laughs when he reckons he forced himself into her after she said no. See the reaction of the audience as if it was a normal thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:26 AM
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Why does it matter? They were pua coaches + one students and they were convicted of rape. And according to the daily beast there many other women who were raped in that flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:23 AM
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An offshoot? This is virtually the same company. Now, why does it matter? Why are you nitpicking? They were PUA instructors. So the story is just the same. 2 instructors and one of their students raping a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:21 AM
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Yes daily mail and also the other link to daily beast. And you can search their name on internet. They worked as coaches at RSD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:05 AM
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He was teaching and telling his students he raped his girlfriend. The video is on youtube. I already posted a link in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:04 AM
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Yes they were. Read the first paragraph of the following article. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3801449/Pickup-artists-guilty-rape-woman-finds-blog-men-bragged-attacking-online.html You're in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:02 AM
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Read the report, there was a coach and a student.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:58 AM
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Yeah I watched it. At the time, I also read the reactions of the terpers on TRP sub. They were very disappointed he confessed and angry that countries would revoke his visa. Apparently terpers sere of the opinion that grabbing random women on the street and choking them or drawing their head to his crotch while yelling Pikachu was not a form of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:56 AM
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Rapists who invited a student for a hands-on session to show him how its done. Rapists who work in the same company as another PUA coach who was banned from Australia, Japan and UK for promoting sexual assault. Third coach from the same company explaining in a video on youtube that he raped his girlfriend. That's a lot of coincidences, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:49 AM
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Too bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:43 PM
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She said no. Watch the reaction when someone writes that he shouldn't go past her soft no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:42 PM
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Did you watch the video where he explains she said no and he forced himself into her and the audience laughs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:39 PM
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Read the reaction when someone mentions it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:37 PM
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Incompatible: yell at each other, keep fighting, disagree on important stuff onnthe relationship, sex is no longer satisfactory, despise or hate the partner Grew apart: hardly talk to one another, don't like doing the same thing, have grown into different people wanting different things Lack of communication: can't discuss without getting into a fight, indifference to the other person Loss of love: self explanatory Hamstering? You are in denial, mate. Why would anyone want to stay in a marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:35 PM
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There is no consensus on eugenics. There is a consensus on sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:25 PM
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Yep and in case of a soft no, he writes "LMR".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:23 PM
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What? He went on TV and confessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:20 PM
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The moment you associate negative features to a person based on the appartenance of that person to a specific gender, you are being sexist. And sexism is bad since governments and supranational organisations have comprehensive programs to fight against sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:19 PM
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It IS sexist and sexism IS bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:10 PM
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Making out is not a consent to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 11:05 PM
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These are Julian Blanc's mates. Julian Blanc is the PUA coach who was banned from entering Japan and UK for teaching sexual assault on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:57 PM
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The top comment of the thread tells a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:45 PM
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According to a Pennsylvania State University study, these are the top 10 reasons why women divorce: Infidelity Incompatible Drinking/Drug Use Grew Apart Personality problems Lack of communication Physical or mental abuse Loss of love Not meeting family obligations Employment problems Source: http://www.yourtango.com/experts/cindy-holbrook/top-10-reasons-why-women-divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:35 PM
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Those guys worked with RSD; that's the company where Julien Blanc, the PUA coach who was banned from entering Australia,Japan and several European countries for promoting sexual assault. When Blanc was banned, several newspapers mentioned that there were Videos on Youtube showing Blanc and his partner teaching rape to the students. I also remember reading TRP sub during the affair and noted that terpers took Blanc's side until he appeared on TV to apologise. Edit: one of the videos https://youtu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:31 PM
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Women are calling off the relationship for a reason. Guys like you like to pretend that women initiate divorce as if it was a fantasy on her part, as if there was no underlying reason for wanting out of an unsatisfactory relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:21 PM
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a guy is less likely to get a divorce than a woman What does this sentence mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:16 PM
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No it would be your fault if you had ended up in prison. Plenty of people grow up just fine without a father by their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:10 PM
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Oh yes. http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/09/21/pickup-artists-on-trial-for-rape-ring.html
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:05 PM
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Stopping being loyal to them means leaving the marriage; it doesn't mean staying in it and cheating on them. There are valuable things in a marriage other than just sleeping together. Why would you continue benefiting from those other things if the marriage is over?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 09:33 PM
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Whether you start seeing other people before or after divorce, does it really matter I think from a legal point of view, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 08:20 PM
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If she doesn't want to have sex with you than she already doesn't care about you That's not true. Even people who divorce can still care very much for each other. Or you don't understand what caring about someone else means. I assure you it looks very exciting Maybe the blog makes it look very exciting. In reality, not being able to live one's life openly and hiding who you truly are are a form of dissociation and is soul damaging in the long run. Ask for instance gays who are still in the close…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 07:33 PM
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Having a double life and constantly lying to your family about your whereabouts is a sad way to live. And if you hope that your wife doesn't care if you sleep with someone else, then it's even worse; it's not that she just doesn't want to have sex with you, in reality it means she doesn't care for you. Is that what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 06:11 PM
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If she guesses or finds clues that you are cheating, or your best friend lets it slip or the rumour that you are having an affair slowly gets to her or if your clandestive lover tells her or just threatens you to tell her... Having a double life is no way to live. My opinion is that you better fix your marriage one way or another... Also, there are plenty of good reasons why someone would temporarily not want to have sex; it's not necessarily as you claimed a manipulation. I had a small tumour t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 06:10 PM
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Yes, the children will for sure no longer respect a cheating father.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 05:41 PM
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She'll deprive him of sex. Deprive? Not at all. After he has cheated, he can go wherever he wants to get sex. Is she expected to sleep with him after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 05:39 PM
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I don't think this is necessarily true but cheating isn't going to make to make the whole situation any better, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 05:38 PM
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If there was a breach of contract (dead bedroom), why don't [generic] you just walk away and lead your life as a single person instead of staying with the spouse? If the contract is broken, I don't see why the common life should continue and why the future cheater should expect his/her spouse to continue taking care of him/her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 05:30 PM
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Such as...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 01:53 AM
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You didn't? but men shouldn't be expected to do traditionally female chores
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 01:37 AM
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Women don't like being hit on by compleye strangers. You should go and visit women only forums. There are pictures and everything; those who complain are good looking girls. They aren't jealous or looking for your attention. A tank top? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 12:43 AM
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This argument is not about me and my boyfriend or about doing it my way. It's about you thinking that chores is a woman's responsibility. If he was doing them when he lived on his own, there is no reason, they would all end up in my lap, now that we live together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 12:39 AM
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You should read again the subject of the post; it's not about PUA or anything else. It's about being asked out by a complete stranger. It means being selected solely for your appearance. I don't want to have a date with a stranger who thinks that I'd like to go out with him just because I have a nice body. Why would I want to do that? Why do you think I would want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 12:35 AM
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OP is talking about perfect strangers who hit on women based on their appearance. Of course, it is dehumanising. Does anyone hit on you because of the size of your penis? No of course. So why do you compare 2 radically different situations? The first situation screams "I don't care who you are or what you want; you are just a body to me and I would love to fuck you". That's the definition of objectification. Why can't you see it is a problem for the person on the receiving end of this kind of ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:53 PM
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Well he had a job and cleaned his apartment before we moved in together. And I had a job and cleaned my apartment before we moved in together. Now that we live together I don't see why housework should be my sole responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:44 PM
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Who juges you (as a man)? If they aren't strange women, what does it have to do with this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:05 PM
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Do strange women stop you on the street to tell you about you height, your muscles or your penis size?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 05:09 PM
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What? Those guys don't have mirrors in their home? Are they so disconnected from reality that they can't see the adverts on the streets, on the telly and everywhere that tell you how to look good, smell good, how you get all the girls by splashing some deo on your toned body? If the retail marketing and advertising industry couldn't manage to influence those guys' brains, well I am sorry but I think they are a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 07:46 AM
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I think the fact that there are 7 other reasons totally unrelated to sexual attraction means that you cannot say that women divorce due to lack of sexual attraction (as OP initially claimed).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 05:24 AM
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The keyword here is "possible"; because they can also mean something totally unrelated to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 11:50 PM
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Link to the surveys?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 06:17 PM
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Then why marry? Why make a pledge? If you can't respect that, then don't marry. If you think she will stop fucking you, and you will cheat on her, then don't marry. It simply isn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 06:11 PM
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Maybe. Maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 06:03 PM
2

Well you seemed very knowledgeable. Now you don't know? After the wife has proved he is a cheater, you bet he doesn't get to see the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 05:43 PM
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Thanks but my own sister is a family lawyer. If your wife will not fuck you, why not get a divorce instead of cheating on your wife? If you decide to cheat, then yes that's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 05:04 PM
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How about you send us the detailed methodology and the results of your own personal study, Mr Genius?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 09:35 AM
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Straight women do not divorce due to a lack of sexual attraction. According to a Pennsylvania State University study, these are the top 10 reasons why women divorce: Infidelity Incompatible Drinking/Drug Use Grew Apart Personality problems Lack of communication Physical or mental abuse Loss of love Not meeting family obligations Employment problems Source: http://www.yourtango.com/experts/cindy-holbrook/top-10-reasons-why-women-divorce If the reason was loss of sexual attraction, then you'd find…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 08:36 AM
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Because nowadays women have jobs. So they can afford to leave their husbands and support themselves when they are dissatisfied with their marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 08:31 AM
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What terpers and those guys have in common is a difficult access to sex and the belief that men are superior to women. For the rest, I don't know: I tend to believe that poverty and being discriminated is what make them potential criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 04:50 PM
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My dad was one of those men. Life was unbearable for everyone living in the house except for my older brother took after him. I was so happy when I moved away for university. After graduating, I made sure I would never have to go back there other than for very short visits. I would never let a controlling man in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:33 PM
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Me? Nah, never. I don't understand why a woman would surrender part of her rights as a person and a citizen to please a selfish batard who hasn't managed to got through his head that women are people too. RPW is a form of stockholm syndrom. Don't understand why any woman is her own mind would adhere to an ideology which makes her a second class citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:04 PM
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What is a pink pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 10:39 PM
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Doesn't mean that we don't care if our partner cheats or that we recommend cheating. It just happens that we are not jugemental when our president cheats because we consider it's private matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 10:38 PM
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Don't need more option. Am fine with the current array.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:31 PM
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What? French person here. We don't juge if someone we aren't involved with is having an affair but we do care very much if we find out our spouse did. Downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:29 PM
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You're kidding, right? If dread was a good thing, it wouldn't be called dread. It's like saying having stress in your life is good because once upon a time, it helped you escape the sabre-toothed lion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 12:33 AM
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Thanks for the warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 02:30 PM
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You know full well you guys are too thirsty to decide anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 01:34 PM
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Who cares when women are the ones selecting the winner? #TRPinside
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:27 AM
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Terpers say they get offended because women supposedly mistreat them but women should be OK with the same kind of treatment by terpers. Is that what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 01:46 AM
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If you think treating me like less than a complete person is going to get you laid and bring out in me the cool girlfriend features, you gotta a bigger problem than finding a girl. And for the record, I am a person not a walking experiment, not a dummy designed to help you get whatever you think you are trying to achieve with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 01:15 AM
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No idea. I don't understand the concept of having as many different partners as possible in the shortest possible time. So I can't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 07:31 PM
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Not in Europe, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 01:25 PM
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Well I live and have travelled across and worked in Europe and AFAIK, cat calling is perceived by women as a nuisance and certainly not as a first step towards sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 01:23 PM
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No, according to the RP. The 80/20 rule is already supposed to be the current state of things, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 07:18 PM
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How is that different from now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 03:52 PM
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It's a man who wrote the blog post that is quoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 02:57 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 02:37 PM
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You're getting it backwards mate. It's the man who shouldn't marry if he thinks that all his domestic life will be fully taken care of by his wife while he sits on the couch and drinks a beer in front of the telly. He should keep living with his mum. This way he won't be disappointed and left by the woman in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 09:45 PM
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No, men don't notice what you wear. Some women even take advantage of that by pretending that they are wearing an old outfit when in reality they keep buying new clothes and hide it from the spouse. The only men who do notice your shoes, your dress or your haircut are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 09:40 PM
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In the past, a single income was enough to feed a family and put a roof over their head. This is no longer possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 05:19 PM
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Women wanna look good for men Not true. Beyond a basic level of attractiveness, most men can't even notice that you are wearing a new dress or got a new haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 05:16 PM
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Maybe you should have read the article before commenting: The wife doesn’t want to divorce her husband because he leaves used drinking glasses by the sink. She wants to divorce him because she feels like he doesn’t respect or appreciate her, which suggests he doesn’t love her, and she can’t count on him to be her lifelong partner. How is that being a horrible human being?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 02:58 PM
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There is no sex if I have to give my best at work during the day and then start another workday the minute I come home in the evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 02:53 PM
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/matthew-fray/she-divorced-me-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink_b_9055288.html
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 08:46 AM
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One study involving 20.000 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 07:12 PM
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It's not age-related. You should let it happen when you feel ready to have sex and have found the person you can trust and whom you like enough to open up to him/her and feel vulnerable in his/her presence. You should only do it when the conditions are met that you know it's gonna be a nice experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 10:07 AM
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Oh yeah? Nature or chicken hormones?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 06:04 AM
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How do you know? You think spouses who beat their wives do not exist? And spouses who cheat on their partners? Or spouse who don't help with the households and believe that their wifes have the best day ever by cleaning the house and looking after the toddlers after a full working day? Why do you think that women who initiate divorces necessarily lie about the reasons why they divorce while it is proven that those trends (cheating, beating, handling the bulk of the household responsibility to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 11:08 AM
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So why did you put words in the mouth of the other person in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 09:05 AM
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Women end over 70% of relationships That's true but it's funny how people who bring up this number consistently forget to give the reasons why divorce is initiated: - Lack of commitment of the spouse: 73% (62% of ex-spouses said that they wished their partner had worked harder to save their marriage) - Too much arguing: 56% - Spouse infidelity: 55% - Lack of equality: 44% - Marrying too young: 46% - Domestic violence: 29% http://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/marriage/the-8-most-common-reasons-for-…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 09:03 AM
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You accused someone of being insincere while in reality you were the insincere one by putting words in their mouth as a way to avoid answering their question. There was no loaded question in this exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 08:51 AM
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No he didn't. He asked you why you are angry with women having sex. He doesn't ask about your opinion regarding men having sex. So why are you angry with the female subset of the population having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 09:05 AM
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That's not what he said. And you still haven't answered the question. I also want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 08:44 AM
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Exactly. Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 07:15 AM
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Where did you get the idea that GFE is just for men who can't get a girlfriend? That's not true. You should watch the movie and the TV serie. Rich guys ARE the regular customers because GFE is a very expensive service. So those guys can actually have easy access to sex in their everyday life (per your RP beliefs) and that's not what they seek when they buy a GFE. Which leaves us with intimacy and commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 06:06 AM
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Where did I say you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:12 PM
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Still, women initiate divorce twice as often as men with spouse infidelity being the cause in 55% of the divorces. Therefore i believe that women are less and less into mending their marriage after they've been cheated upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:11 PM
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I would say that the woman would be more likely to be able to successfully salvage her marriage. The reason for this Comes down to your first myth. This is what you want to believe and then you act surprised when you read that 2/3 of divorces are initiated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:05 PM
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If this is what a man wantsor needs, he shouldn't get married. Why make a pledge when you know full well that you will be unable to respect the promise you made? Why are you surprised when she divorces you after finding out you sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:10 PM
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Menstruation is a sign that she's physically an adult The end of puberty for a woman is when she gets her menstruation, not when she reaches her final height.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 04:59 PM
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Nope. A girl usually gets her first period between 10 and 16 years old (about 2 to 2 1/2 years after she starts puberty.) Menstruation is a sign that she's physically an adult and is able to get pregnant. You may want to talk to your doctor if your daughter doesn’t get her first period by the time she's 16. Also: Growth Spurts: From Boys to Men The peak growth spurt for boys happens later than it does for girls. It occurs around six months after pubic hair development. When it does, your son's s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 04:43 PM
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It has nothing to do with makeup and more with the age boys end puberty. Women end puberty at the latest by 15 whereas men end puberty later, when they are 19 and late bloomers by 22 or even 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 04:23 PM
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Agreed. I came here to say this. Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/16 10:05 AM
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Because women are self-centered, arrogant, and want to be the most attractive woman in the world Terpers lift because they are self-centered, arrogant, and want to be the most attractive man the world. FFS, what's wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/16 09:43 AM
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I am saying that your brain does not need to acknowledge a repressed feeling for that feeling to have a negative impact on your health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/16 02:44 AM
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People who experience severe anxiety and panic attacks are not aware of their underlying feelings in the first place. There is a whole field of science that connects diseases to actual negative experiences that were not acknowledged by the patient. A specialist of this medical field is Christian Fleche.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/16 02:15 AM
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Leave Chad and men out of this story. This has nothing to do with a woman sex life. Women have an accute sense of the flaws of their bodies. That's what they check when they look in the mirror. That's why most of them go through life being on a diet or planning the next one. That's why female magazines are full of diet plan advice. Yes, there are campaigns and groups that try to tell women to accept their bodies as they are but those very movements do exist because women do dislike their own bod…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 11:57 PM
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You obviously don't understand women psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 11:36 PM
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Keeping your feelings inside is not a good idea. Studies show that it affects negatively one's health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 06:34 PM
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No. All women think they are too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 06:22 PM
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It's actually the opposite. Women find themselves fat even when they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 05:26 PM
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www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/father-s-day-2014-study-shows-men-are-more-emotionally-sensitive-than-women-they-re-just-also-better-9532945.html
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 05:20 PM
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Still, I don't think getting rid of sexual reproduction is a smart thing to do either. In the long term, it will probably lead to accumulation of genetic defects and and eventual extinction of such species of men Who says we are removing anything? We'd be adding. The wife can conceive but she has a weak heart and pregnancy is dangerous for her, then there is a solution: the conceived baby is carried in the man's womb. What kind of defect are you talking about? Women already give their oocytes; a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 11:08 AM
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"if she enjoys sex without commitment she's damaged goods and mentally broken" = misogynistic The above opinion is based on reason. No, it's not. It's a sweeping statement, a generality that has no valid ground. Enjoying NSA sex doesn't objectively make you a damaged good or mentally broken. It's not because you provide a reason in your sentence that your sentence is no longer a misogynistic statement. If the reason you provide is false or has no valid ground then you are back to square one. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 10:59 AM
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You might think it is not but people who have a different experience will call you a misogynist because their experience does not match yours. :) And they have every right to make that statement because your view is based on someone belonging to a certain group (men, women, jew, black, white, muslim, etc), not on a actual fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 10:33 AM
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Who said it is some form of oppression? It can be extremely painful and scary and messy but no, it's not a form of oppression unless someone forces you to have a child when you clearly did not want to. I just think that with the ability for men to carry a child in "their" womb and give birth comes a new paradigm about how society approaches the idea that a couple gets pregnant, about wage equality, about who gets the parental leave, etc... It sort of levels out the field and stops the gender war…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 10:28 AM
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To do it the right way, you'd have to have met a sample of women/men/people/black large enough to be able to say that without this being a lie. That's how stats work. So if you are not in a position to survey a large number of people, you are prejudiced. Also if you approach a person and don't give them a chance to prove they aren't who you think they should be per your personal experience, you are beinf unfair. So you are the bad person in this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 09:46 AM
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There is no woman in this story. Men complain about not being able to do what they want with regards to parenthood without women; from then on, they will be. Ins't that great?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 09:41 AM
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Misogyny is the idea that someone is X or Y that are not based on facts or experience but simply because she is a women. If you say "My ex-wife was a slut and my ex-wife is a woman therefore all women are sluts", that's misogyny even if your past experience with your ex-wife is real. If I say "A man raped me therefore all men are rapists", that's misandry even if I was truly raped by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 09:25 AM
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Through male pregnancy. Thanks to a uterus transplant, a man's body will be able to host a fertilized egg, carry the baby to term and give birth. They will also be able to breastfeed the baby. That's only like 5 years away. I. Can't. Wait. https://www.yahoo.com/beauty/surgery-could-give-men-wombs-1302360099545142.html
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 09:15 AM
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This has been discussed in several posts on this sub before. Misogyny is not just hate (or dislike) of women. It's prejudice against women, the idea that someone is X or Y simply because she is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 08:57 AM
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So if I had a negative experiences with some men, I should feel entitled to treating you badly because you are a man? Is that what you are saying? If I was raped, then "all men are rapists" is OK by you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 08:31 AM
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And misogyny is prejudice against women. Preconceived idea about someone because she is a woman. Homophobia is prejudice against homosexual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 07:55 AM
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For the only reason that she is a woman, yes. Works with gay, black, jew, you-name-it. That's what prejudice is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 07:37 AM
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No but they are prejudiced. Read the definition of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 06:19 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 06:33 AM
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3rd and 4th heneration BC pills are more dangerous than previous generation. Danish doctors recommend women stick with 2nd generation. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/11630581/Newer-contraceptive-pills-raise-risk-of-blood-clot-four-fold.html https://laegemiddelstyrelsen.dk/en/news/2015/2nd-generation-contraceptive-pills-associated-with-the-lowest-risk-of-blood-clots
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 09:10 AM
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One person with whom you become intimate => +1. Is there another way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 08:25 PM
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Unless someone dates half a person, I don't see how you can discount a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:08 PM
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I don't think you can tell us how we count our Ns.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:00 PM
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Traditionally in the past, parents took an active role in helping their children seek a partner. Never heard of that. Unless OP is talking of arranged marriages. But that hasn't been around in the western world for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:53 PM
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I keep saying that the dating market shows symetry in the way the market participants approach relationship with people from the other gender. But you terpers keep screaming "no, no, that's not true. Women are this and men are that. It's totally different".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:50 PM
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As a woman, I am lying to people about my n-count; I am lying to myself and you know better? That's nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:46 PM
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I don't know about men. I know that as a woman, I get very much repulsed by a very good looking man with a terrible personnality. I know I am not the only one. Why? Well everybody knows that if you are good looking, people tend to hand out stuff to you on a silver plate. Now if you have an easy life due to your good looks but still manage to act in a shitty way towards people, then you're a certified bastard. So good looks+shitty personality = first class sob. I know I am not the only one thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 01:58 PM
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When you are attractive women will flirt with you Not really. When they find you are physically attractive but have a shitty personality, then will immediately think you are an asshole. The more physically attractive, the bigger the asshole, BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 01:36 PM
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This is ridiculous. This kind of research surveys does not require you to disclose your identity. Why would a woman be lying? So, yes, women most probably are presented on average with more opportunities to have sex than men. But that doesn't mean that those opportunities are perceived as appealing. Would you take every opportunity to eat some food presented to you at a party if that food was less than savory? Only, if you were absolutely starving, right? Well the thing is that we aren't starvin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 01:16 PM
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puts the blame for any sexual shortcoming solely on men This is what you don't get. We aren't saying that the man is responsible for bad sex. Bad sex happens because - as a women - you aren't into the man you are having sex with. NSA sex with a stranger does not provoke the kind of brain storm that creates the level of physical attraction that yields good sex. That's why we abstain until we find someone we truely desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 01:06 PM
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Sure. It must be your girlfriend's fault if your mates - who have so much respect for you- can't prevent themselves from sleeping with your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 10:25 PM
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Why? The initial message says "If you think it's easier to survive on your own instead of with another partner CONTRIBUTING".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 10:23 PM
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Men can't control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 10:19 PM
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That doesn't prevent them from sleeping with your girlfriend. It takes 2 you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 09:27 PM
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So your mates don't respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 09:12 PM
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Why would you be cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 08:18 PM
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Since you are sharing a house, you have to compare your current situation with the situation where you share the same house with the same people AND your partner contributing to your cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 07:18 PM
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Are you comparing the situation of 2 working people living on their own with the situation of 2 people living together but supported by one single salary? Why would you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 01:51 PM
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Yeah? Compare that with getting ill while living on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 12:05 PM
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Not true. It's easier when you are a couple, life is less expensive when you share fixed expenses like rent and utilities, there are hardships and problems and project that are easier to deal will when 2 people are tackling them together. It's easier to deal with the occasional fatigue or illness when you have someone to lean on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 11:17 PM
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You're jumping to conclusions. OP's study talks about unmarried women; it doesn't say that these women don't enter relationships and don't have children out of wedlock. In France 65% of children are born out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 06:08 PM
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Some of my friends didn't tell me that they were fighting at home and were considering getting a divorce. They kept this info secret until they actually separated. My friend discovered that she was having a miscarriage while staying at my house. She didn't tell me and I only found out when I cleaned the room after she left. People have boundaries. They don't tell you everything that happens to them or that they do. This is not hiding. They do what they want with their life and they don't necessa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 11:45 PM
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Regardless, the vast majority of people don't discuss their sex life with their parents. I don't understand why this is new to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 11:37 PM
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Sleeping with someone is typically not the kind of stuff you share with your dad. Unless it is supposed to have a lasting impact on how you lead your life (e.g. marriage, pregnancy).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 11:13 PM
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Most people don't put their whole life on display. I don't see why anyone would feel obliged to share every single detail about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 11:10 PM
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for the same reasons RPers claim to keep their mouths shut in public: because even if you don't think it's a problem, other people do and that affects you. Exactly! I came here to say this. Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 03:03 PM
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In French you say "une vierge" for a virgin women or "un vierge" for a virgin man. So your comment that it is a feminine noun in French is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 11:51 AM
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And you shown you have no clue what your talking about. Not that is shocking or anything. As if you did then you would known a woman would pick the man with greater amount of resources over that of the more physically attractive man. I am with user/Donotevencare on this one. It's your own prejudice that prevents you from understanding that a woman would prefer to have the ability to earn her own resources and select a partner whom she likes instead of resorting to marry a random with resources a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 02:09 PM
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How is that related to PPD and the current thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 10:58 PM
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You compare what happened in this elevator with people who demonstrate against one of them being killed? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 05:59 PM
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I am not sure I agree with the ladder theory. I believe in the idea that things are more fluid between the different relationship states as is demonstrated in the "when Harry met Sally" movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 11:54 AM
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I suppose you'd have to be friend with her first. I think that how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 11:43 AM
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Of course it is allowed, as long as you don't behave like an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 11:31 AM
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Looks like you don't know shit about TRP stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 11:30 AM
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Men whose mothers suffered through 9 months of pregnancy, several hours of accute pain giving birth and more than 20 years putting up with their son's shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 11:29 AM
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Well now that we have power tools and machines to lift heavy stuff, I suppose all men are going to become prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 10:17 AM
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As long as you don't react close to where I live...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 10:11 AM
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Dread game? Negging? No, not where I live. Otherwise I'd still be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 10:10 AM
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Do I need to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 09:14 AM
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Oh they do say it. You don't know your classics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 09:13 AM
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I thought terpers claimed women had no empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 09:12 AM
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You're pulling my leg? The former one, of course. You are most likely not qualified to say it is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 09:11 AM
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Allow me to laugh when you think that mid-life crisis starts when you are 30 or that you don't get men's attention past that age. On the subject of who loves more, that's not what terpers believe or claim to believe. Looks lile you need to rehearse the terpers body of knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 09:09 AM
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How is it wrong? Men and women are completely different, attracted to different things, show and expierience love in different ways. What is implied is that a man love MORE his woman than the other round. Which is unfounded. How is it 'wrong'(and what would it change if it is wrong)? If you don't like the name, subsitute "wall" with "midlife crisis", because those are the same things. What does midlife crisis have to do with men supposedly no longer hitting on you because you are pushing 30 or e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:50 AM
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Do you read TRP sub or not? What I wrote is their message.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:40 AM
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Loads of stuff. Lack of empathy, AWALT, no woman loves a man the way a man loves a woman, woman stop maturing at 18, the wall, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:38 AM
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That's what terpers say on TRP sub. That women lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:36 AM
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Then blame it on your mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:35 AM
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Aren't you a terper?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:31 AM
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So how can you go 'round telling women lack empathy (and men don't) when you recognize your lack of emotional intelligence? EDIT: punctuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:20 AM
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Wow, you don't know what EQ is? How about you google it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:19 AM
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Yeah you come to conclusions, just that they are the wrong ones. Aren't your little touches gonna be lost since AWALT?/s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:12 AM
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And so you terpers decided to become the bigger manipulaters and deceivers? You decided it was such a bad experience in the first place that you thought it would be a good idea to do it to other people. And you came up with the AWALT message so you had an excuse for your shitty behaviour. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:06 AM
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I knew a girl who had a profile on sugar-daddy.com. You don't have to be exceptionally good looking to make money in this business.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:02 AM
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Because you have to sleep with the sugar daddy. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 07:59 AM
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I have never come across evidences of high IQ for terpers but I am pretty sure you guys have low EQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 07:54 AM
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Yeah, you are trying to define use cases and write an algorithm, just that life is not a set of business logics; it's a lot more complicated than that. At one point you start acting like robots operating on a narrow subset of flawed preconceived ideas. That's when you sound off and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 07:50 AM
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Mate you are over-reacting because you finally realise that there are patterns to recognize terpers. Also anyone who uses negging or dread game is an asshole. I'd be very happy to categorize those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 05:00 AM
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Patterns you can detect: negging, dread game, kino escalation, isolating a woman from a group shortly after you just 'met' the woman. I read "the game" and TRP as a self defense guide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 11:58 PM
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If your job is somehow related to social media, you have to be social and release your actual identity online. Otherwise you aren't credible. And too bad if your house gets burglarized when you are away on vacation. That's part of the package.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 04:07 PM
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I disagree. When someone starts to dig in you personal life and posts your personal details on line and people tell you they know where you live and what your family looks like and they will come to your house and rape you or murder you, that's enough for one to feel threatened. Especially when all you did (not talking about Richards here) when all you did was express your right to free speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:35 PM
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10+ years. We don't want kids. In France we have a partnership contract that is not a marriage. I don't see why we would need to get married. Of course, he proposed but we are happy the way we live today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:10 PM
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How so? I saw the video. She was very calm. Did not call anyone names. I honestly don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:07 PM
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Woman here. I don't care either way. It's just a name; it's not important. I am in a (long) LTR and use my partner's name because it is shorter and easier to remember than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 02:51 PM
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Yeah...Why do you talk about security online?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 02:38 PM
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A woman getting undercut in France. right. That is impossible. Just being curious. Why do you think that this is impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 02:36 PM
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That's your problem mate. Not my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 02:33 PM
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I am not getting what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 02:23 PM
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I think she is some kind of security consultant who got famous outing a major security problem. I don't believe she needs to be told about passwords. Death threats have nothing to do with security.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 02:15 PM
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Watson also is a crazy turbo cunt All she said was "Guys... dont do that". How is that crazy? Why does that qualify her being a cunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 02:11 PM
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Oh, yeah, I wouldn't be surpised if that came from terpers; although honestly you latest comments on this thread made me believe you might be one of them. I don't see how you cannot understand that a woman might not want to be alone with a stranger in his room at 4:00 AM
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 01:08 PM
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Did that happen here? I was answering your question "Is there a reason an adult can't say "not interested" then move on with her life?". That is the reason why we say "don't do that" because women are afraid this may take her to a violent place if the guy doesn't take rejection well. Now you are moving the goalpost and bringing a situation where you are using my belief that people should not be racist to try and get me to condone the fact that the guy had supposedly every reason to feel allowed …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 12:51 PM
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Because sometimes when the adult is told she is not interested, the adult gets verbally violent, tells her she is a bitch/cunt/[insert your favorite insult] or worse. I have seen nasty things happen in a train when a woman was not left alone after turning down the man. I know not all men do that; but then those who do don't have that written on their forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 12:06 PM
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Yes there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 12:02 PM
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She seemed bewildered that it a woman would use a public podium for an hour to bemoan unwanted attention from a tech geek. It's probably because you are not aware that it is a known recurring problem experienced by women working in the tech industry and attending tech conferences. http://www.inc.com/kimberly-weisul/totally-unacceptable-environment-women-tech.html
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 12:02 PM
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Do you want me to point you to discussions on this forum where men say "if a man is interested in talking to you (=a woman), it means he wants to fuck you"? You guys have to decide if that is the case or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 11:52 AM
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How does he know all this before he approaches her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 07:56 PM
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How exactly do you know she has "99.9999% chance of rejecting you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 03:19 PM
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Women need to be prepared for the inevitability that ... Women also need to understand that when ... Women need to understand that ... Women should expect that men ... And men need to understand that this happens to women a shitload amount of times every day. That a woman would like to interact normally with people without having to check each and every second whether a simple hello is not triggering an unwanted sexual interest because watching your words and where you go and what you do every s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 02:23 PM
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BP men and women believe that the man shouldn't proceed with an uninvited approach, an uninvited touch, or an uninvited kiss. In essence, men need to be afraid/ashamed of their sexuality when they are around women. I did not understand how you deduced from the first sentence that men need to be ashamed or afraid of their own sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 01:59 PM
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Because men never leave the free weight and weight machine section. They don't ever properly stretch, hardly do cardio, and am not mentioning yoga or pilates classes. Leave your corner of the gym and visit the other rooms. You might find women there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 01:33 PM
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More fertile? Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 01:28 PM
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I don't have a problem with men claiming that I 'took' their machine but clearly I have observed some guys looking at you like you don't belong there. The thing that bothers me most is when they have no consideration for others (ignore the rules) and don't unload the machines after they have used them. So you end up unloading a shitload of weight before you can start your own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 01:24 PM
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I hate when people make small talk with me at the gym, I can only imagine what women get It used to be a problem. But the last years, I have seen most people wear headphones, do they things and ignore other people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 01:20 PM
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If they did want it, they can make this decision later when sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 10:55 AM
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Ok but it's not my fault if you don't know the compliance escalation ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 09:03 PM
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Actually, I think it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 09:01 PM
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I wasn't aware of that. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:27 PM
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And having a strategy to touch them in a way that they don't expect from a total stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:21 PM
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Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:20 PM
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Even once is too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:00 PM
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What do these have to do with approaching a complete stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:00 PM
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Sorry, I can't quote kino escalation with strangers as described in "the game".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 05:24 PM
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Come on. We know it's used more often than just in dead bedroom situations. It's a way of controlling the behaviour of your s.o./plate(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 05:23 PM
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That's how your spouse builds frustration and resentment as she keeps putting up with your shitty conduct each time you play your little childish game instead of behaving like an adult. Expect a divorce some sunny day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 05:05 PM
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Start another thread if you want to talk about something else than "divorce rape (tm)".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:57 PM
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I don't have any problem since I am in a 10+ year LTR. Don't project your problems on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:55 PM
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The subject is about divorce. So you are off track by bringing up something unrelated to divorce, IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 03:51 PM
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Read the link i posted. Women approach all the time in a very obvious way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 03:46 PM
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Divorce court.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 03:44 PM
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Divorce court.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 03:44 PM
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Flirting with the waitress in front of your girlfriend, so your girlfriend understands you might leave her in case she does not give you want you want, is a nasty thing to do. Normal people speak to their S.O. Instead of threatening them of withdrawing their affection in order to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 03:37 PM
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Women hook up with guys they are interested in, not with guys who think that have to make an imposition of themselves or play mind tricks to force a woman in a relationship. I remember this thread on a reddit sub where women were clearly displaying their interest for men but men missed them because they were too stupid to read the signs. If I find it, I will post again. So if no woman approached you it is either because you can't read the signs or they were not interested. EDIT: here is the link…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 03:34 PM
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You don't see the connection with dread game? Is that what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 03:29 PM
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Basic PUA stuff. Touching a woman with the idea that if she couldn't say No to the first physical touch, she will feel obligated to accept further, more pressing, closer physical approaches i.e. Escalating. That's just taking advantage of someone's discomfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 03:14 PM
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Threatening someone that you are going to do X if they do or don't do Y. You don't see what is wrong with threatening someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 03:11 PM
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It's not about rape. It's about respecting the boundaries of the person you are talking to. If i don't want to be touched by you, don't touch and don't try to escalate, don't play games with me. And don't fool yourself into thinking that if I say no, i am actually teasing you and meaning yes. And if you can't read the body language of someone, don't interact with that someone, don't corner them into a place where they don't want to be. And I don't care if it means you aren't going to have sex, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 01:47 PM
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No no you're wrong; teaching negging, dread game, telling people that it is OK to touch a woman without her consent when you first meet her, pretending that when she says no it mean yes, tractics to overcome LMR... all this is equally nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 12:29 PM
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It's clear to me that it's more tolerable to complain about men than women This is what this thread is about: demonstrate that it is the case. So we are waiting for your arguments. neither type of sites (i.e. sites complaining about men or women) are going to survive a legal challenge. I don't have a problem with that. Naming the O'Reilly Factor proves nothing, because O'Reilly is right-wing and is far more willing to call-out anti-male bias than the regular media would be. I don't know. I hope …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 12:22 PM
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I hire the one who is the best fit for the job regardless of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 08:09 PM
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Misogyny is not a thing. Yeah, they invented a word from a greek root that has no meaning. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 05:11 PM
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From experience, they care when I out them on public transportation and all the people in the bus/train stare at them in disgust. That also what women do in public transportation in India. You go girls! How exactly does the way I think make you uncomfortable? This is a place where people debate. If you are uncomfortable, I don't see what's preventing from leaving this discussion. Thanks for the chat, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 05:04 PM
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Yes it is. The fact that you care is not part of it. Any ideology or system of beliefs can be associated an -ism or a -ny if it advocates it whether a physical body is attached to it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 04:57 PM
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In my opinion, there isn't: revenge porn sites triggered the same kind of rejection from the media as this site.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 01:57 PM
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If TRP advocates a misogynistic behaviour (which it does) then it is misogynistic. Don't care if there aren't any body attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 01:55 PM
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Misogyny : dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women. If he doesn't hire her because she is a woman regardless of her skills, that's prejudice against a woman, i.e. Misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 11:00 AM
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Already discussed on PPD, being misogynistic does not just mean hating women. Misogyny : dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 10:57 AM
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I don't know and I don't think it is relevant. What is important here is that the media reacted by taking position against the site clearly saying that it was a revenge site, which goes against the OP's declaration that the site was acceptable because the posts were written by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 09:48 AM
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Under my control? Right but is it also under the control of a girl who is 12 and being oggled because men can get away with staring at whatever they find appealing? How about we teach people manners for a change instead of saying "this is life; deal with it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 09:15 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 09:10 AM
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The site no longer exists in its original form (forum where women can post true or fake stories about their ex-BF) as it was referenced as a hate site. The site has received criticism as a "reputation management system" which provides a venue for anonymously posting false, malicious or fraudulent profiles of men without an adequate means to correct them.[5] A September 2006 article in the Miami New Times elaborated on a fabricated profile created to demonstrate that the "website is dangerous".[6…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 07:27 AM
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It makes people uncomfortable. That's why it is not polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 07:04 PM
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No. The TV doesn't tell you if you look good. Something that looks good on someone you see on the TV may not flatter your body. Ergo TV is not a feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 07:02 PM
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Wtf? Do you stare or not? And you don't need to display anything to be oggled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:57 PM
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As a woman, you don't need feedback. You read magazines, watch TV. Our eyes are trained. The vast majority of us just KNOW. It's different for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:56 PM
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Very obviously staring at women like you have been deprived for months is something you should feel ashamed of. I hope someday someone teaches you polite manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:52 PM
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Funny. I came here to post this: http://motto.time.com/4524837/trump-assault-locker-room/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:49 PM
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Have you looked at the picture? Does this baby look like both his parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:43 PM
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Ha! As if... In my experience, they ALL feel ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:42 PM
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You don't need to dress like a whore to be oggled these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:40 PM
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I don't get upset, I just make sure all the people on the bus/train/street know how disgusting you are so everyone starts staring as you and make you feel ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:37 PM
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http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/ampp3d/how-white-baby-can-born-4145688
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:28 PM
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Black people have physical features that are different from white people; it's not just a matter of skin colour.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:25 PM
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Oh come on; unless she's blind, she knows that she's hot when she looks in a mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:21 PM
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You know that sometimes white people have a black baby because one of their ancestors was black?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:18 PM
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I disagree. I look like my mom and my sister looks like my dad. My boyfriend and his brother look like his dad and his other brother looks like his mum. It's not as black and white as you claim. Now where is the official source?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:01 PM
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Source of this assertion, please. From a proper news website, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 09:06 AM
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It just means that you need to make sure that the other person has the same perception of what is about to happen or what has happened. If you think it is a NSA hookup, do they also believe it or are you unvoluntarily leading them on. It's not uncommon in a FWB relationship that one develops feelings for the other partner as a result of having sex together. This is the same thing here. This sentence has nothing to do with providing emotiobnal support. Are we still on the same page? That's all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 08:25 AM
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TRP and TRUMP detractors don't understand what locker room talk is. Apparently a laaaaaaaarge number of people don't understand what locker room talk is then, even people from the Republican side and people and corporations which until last week supported Trump. You guys who get it must definitely feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 08:10 AM
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I don't care if Bill had or has multiple affairs. I am not in their lives or in their bedrooms. Maybe she is OK with it. Maybe they have an agreement (or not). That's their private life. Sexual harassment and assault is a different matter. But then again, that's Bill Clinton's problem. I don't see why this should prevent Hillary Clinton from running for POTUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 08:01 AM
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that's why they don't have kids together I am lost. Who is Chelsea Clinton?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 07:56 AM
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What?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 10:34 PM
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So why do you complain when it shows you are delusional and have poor judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 06:31 PM
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Then it's your fault if you ever get divorce-raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 06:01 PM
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I'm attracted to who I'm attracted to Agreed. This is all I am saying. No more, no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 03:37 PM
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How do you choose lower the SMV scale if you don't settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 01:39 PM
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There are countries where you don't have the talk. Not everyone dates the way the americans do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 01:37 PM
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It was a relationship if you honestly believed it was a relationship even if the other partner did not tell you he was looking for a ONS or a FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 10:33 PM
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Yeah, he can turn out to be someone you did not expect and you can decide to walk away from that person. But I insist that there is no strategy because attraction is not something you control. Unless you consciously decide to settle for someone you don't love but then don't come complaining that you are unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 10:26 PM
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You don't choose. Attraction is not about choosing. Being attracted to someone is something that happens to you when you are doing something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 06:31 PM
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Whatever. You seem to think we have a list of features that we consciously verify to decide whether we are interested into someone. This is not how it works. Attraction is not something you try to assess with an algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 06:28 PM
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According to my friend who is the mom of two Millenials, they are not interested in sex. She said they told her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 04:48 PM
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SMV has no meaning for me. I make my own money and insist on paying half the costs of the household even when/if my salary is lower than his. I don't want to have anything to do with a cheater or someone who thinks I am not enough. I'd rather be by myself if he is not up to my expectations. So he'll have to go no matter what his SMV is supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 04:45 PM
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Yes, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 04:18 PM
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I don't know where you live but in my country (France), middle class households cannot afford to feed and put a roof over their children and attend to their needs if parents aren't both employed. The time when a whole family could live decently on a single pay are long gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 09:42 AM
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It's not expected of women to be programmers... ...in your country. In Indonesia, it is exclusively a female occupation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 06:51 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 08:08 PM
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No she leaves him when he cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 08:07 PM
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55% of divorces occur because the other partner has cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 08:07 PM
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Do you at TRP have a chart that tells terpers to watch out for their own abusve behaviours towards women such as dread game and negging and controling your woman? Or do you teach your members how to be abusive and controlling and nasty? Maybe you should start policing your own people instead of trying to teach other people a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 01:39 PM
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You have absolutely no reason to be angry at this poster. The chart is targeted at women. It tells women to watch out for their male partner behavior and actions. It tells those women, if your partner acts this way, you aremost probably in an abusive relation. MORE IMPORTANTLY, This poster DOES NOT SAY "all men are abusive". Comparing this to the offensive AWALT stuff that's posted on TRP sub, I think you should avoid complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 12:59 PM
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Maybe. Who cares? All we say is that without a better body, he already fits the reqs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 12:43 PM
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Why is it sexist? If you don't do any of the things listed on the chart to your wife/girlfriend, you are off the hook. How is that against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 04:26 PM
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The example that is so unspecific that it is subject to various interpretation? You are the one not in this in good faith. You're just sorry that I did not fall in the trap you laid out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 02:34 PM
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Pointed what out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 02:13 PM
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I want women to be happy. How do you know there are happy (or not) if you ignore them? You want them to be miserable. Where did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 02:12 PM
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Yes. So why do you want to rub it in? If my partner feels guilty because something fell through, I don't need to make him feel bad or worse than he feels already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 02:03 PM
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It's full of excellent advice to keep your woman [...] in her proper place. So happy to read that you find it useful. It just shows I was right with regards to your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:59 PM
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If one party breaks it, you probably want them to feel guilty so they don't do it again. Not in my world. In my world, you ask what happened. If there are no damages/negative outcomes, you congratulate each other that you had a narrow escape and help the person who feels guilty for the situation and decide that we should make sure this does not happen again. There is usually enough problems with life; you don't need to add drama to your life on top of everything else that happens already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:56 PM
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Giving a woman an allowance is domestic violence! Giving a woman an allowance means that you don't let her know how much money is at the disposition of the household. It means you control the money and tell her how much she is allowed to spend as if she were a child. Ignoring a woman is domestic violence. If you deliberately ignore what she says and thinks and act as if her opinion does not matter, it is emotional abuse whichever way you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:47 PM
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It's not because other people do it that you should feel entitled to act as a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:41 PM
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And you decided to stress one small part of the chart; not stuff that are very obvious and advocated by TRP such as play mind games or make her afraid or threaten to leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:29 PM
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she had to ask her husband's permission before she did those things, Depends on the intent. Does he demand that she does that so he can give her his permission? Potential abuse Does she freely ask the husband to schedule each other's availability and household's organisation? Probably no abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:17 PM
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we're honest that RP is for men's power at the expense of women. So happy to see we do agree about something!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:12 PM
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I updated my comment. Please read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:10 PM
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You examples are not clear. Give me clearer examples. For example, Make him happy opens the way to thousand of different situations that could be detrimental to the person who observes her partner request or just plain normal acceptable situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:06 PM
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I can certainly return the same compliment. AWALT, ain'it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:05 PM
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It is not a misandrist organisation. There are many field research associated with the Duluth Model. The PUA asshole (as I label him) is not the only one who can confirm this is a working model.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 12:51 PM
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If a man has to ask his wife permission to buy things or see his friends, how does that not fit your chart's definition of emotional abuse? If the goal is to align the schedules (e.g. who has time to pick up the kids from school) or manage the expectations of both partners with regards to their availability, that's not emotional abuse. I am really surprised that this question comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 12:48 PM
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This has nothing to do with dread games or emotional abuse. This is just checking whether the partner hoped you'd spend the evening together or whether he has some conflicting plans with yours own or whether something is needed for diner. This has absolutely nothing to do with what we are discussing here. EDIT: This is being considerate to your partner. How does this situation map to what's in the chart?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 12:28 PM
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I don't know in what king of LTR or marriage you've been.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 12:19 PM
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Julien Blanc seems to believe it is a valid definition. The charity NGO which uses the de Duluth model as an input believes it is a valid definition. Come to think of it you are the only one who thinks it is not a valid definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 12:17 PM
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Again it is not MY definition. It's called the Duluth Model. And your mate Julien Blanc whose partners are convicted rapists is happy to teach the model to his students.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 11:17 AM
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It absolutely does. So TRP Advocates for Emotional Abuse. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 11:13 AM
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Does your movement advocate to do to women some of the stuff listed on that chart? Yes or No?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 10:45 AM
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Sorry mate, this is not a good enough argument. Even if women also do it, it is also abuse. And if we are to discuss about things that men do that are OK but aren't OK if they are done by women, a few things come to my mind like having a high N-count for instance. Terpers are the ones who claim that relationships between a man and a woman aren't symetrical. That some stuff done by a man are natural stuff, but women shouldn't be entitled to doing the same stuff because biology or god knows what e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 10:33 AM
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Why would you consider it a piece of propaganda while all these offensive and disparaging messages against women are displayed out there on your sub? You want me to accept that I stopped maturing at 18 and I should be submitted to dread game so I am shown who is the boss and that I am a hypergamous gold digger but at the same time you can't stand a chart extracted from a well-known emotional abuse model that some guys from your side routinely use as a teaching board? What's wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 10:15 AM
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I don't know a single girl in real life that was a virgin after the age of 16. I know several who were a virgin well into their twenties. It's not uncommon. You need to be really close to people IRL for them to tell you the actual truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 10:09 AM
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It is NOT MY chart. And I am not the person using it to teach to abuse other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 09:58 AM
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Of course it is emotional abuse. This is the poster that was designed by a domestic abuse charity. This poster was routinely used by pick-up artist and RSD coach Julien Blanc (the PUA coach who was prevented from entering several countries after videos of his courses leaked on the internet) in his seminars to teach his audience dread game. It was meant to help women identify when they are being abused. But Blanc posted the chart saying it was a 'checklist' for 'how to make her stay.' Source : ht…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 09:32 AM
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"I guess so..." Doesn't sound like "i am against it" too me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 12:05 AM
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http://edition.cnn.com/2016/09/29/politics/donald-trump-howard-stern-iraq-war/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 11:42 PM
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He was in favour of the Iraq war.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 11:03 PM
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It just shows you have no idea how a woman's mind works. Being a good looking smart fun guy with a nice personality is sexy and attractive... even if he sports dad's bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 10:56 PM
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Not really. Men have shorter life expectancy because of biology. the study by the Roswell Park Cancer Institute [...] argues that the cellular mechanisms that allow young men to grow and develop male characteristics also accelerate the aging process later in life. This cellular mechanism, referred to as the mTOR pathway, results in age-related diseases in men, such as cancer, hypertension, type II diabetes, and osteoporosis. In comparison, this study elaborates that women do not experience these…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:17 AM
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because they are ageing faster/will die sooner and try to balance that by having a younger woman as a mother for their children. (see study & link below) That's your personal comment, right? Not an actual part of the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 07:37 AM
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I am not doing anything. Just telling you that the NGO apply this rule because it matches their field experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:45 PM
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Hmmm... No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:43 PM
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A lot of women don't sleep with guys with whom they don't have an emotional connection. End of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:38 PM
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This is irrelevant; they compared the behavior of people who got the loan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:34 PM
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Not being a social retard is also minimum requirement. Not good enough for wanting to fuck him even when he is good looking. A lot of women aren't into NSA sex and will expect more from a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:29 PM
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A large number of women don't do casual sex. So they don't care about the hot man sexually objectifying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:08 PM
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OP, the last 2 sentences don't match. You need to start your last sentence with the word Some.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:01 PM
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Looks don't get you through the door. It is basic requirement but in the vast majority of cases is not enough on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 10:59 PM
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There is no shame in applying for a loan otherwise noone would own cars or houses in the developed countries. And again it is not about who is asking, it is about the behaviour of those who were loaned money, how they spent it and whether they did repay it. And based on these information, charity businesses found out that micro loans awarded to women were more beneficial to the borrowers family and the local economy. There is no bias. It is a well known truth among NGO agencies which fight pover…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 10:53 PM
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Give him the same treatment that... What? Why? That a very unattractive behaviour, this way of keeping tabs for all the stuff your girlfriend did with other guys and when and how long and how soon. So narrow minded and small.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 10:21 PM
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You are looking for excuses. Do you understand that the study compares loans given to men (and how they spend it/repay it) vs loans given to women (and how they spend it/repay it), NOT whether one of the genders needs it more than the other? Do you understand that those micro-loans programmes take place in countries where people are poor, have nothing and starve and don't have the luxury to spend money on frivolous things? The thing is you can't accept the truth and even when given evidence of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 10:14 PM
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What does that have to do with myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 10:02 PM
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http://www.yourdoctorsorders.com/2014/11/weight-regain-after-diets-is-it-that-bad/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:52 PM
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Hmmmm...no, that's not so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:52 PM
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And in poor countries men have to act like idiots who squander the money on stupid stuff instead of looking after family? Is that what you are saying? Because you have to decide whether one's maturity level is situational or whether it is something we are born with and can't change. But you can't have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:49 PM
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I don't know. Sometimes people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:45 PM
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Birth control pills side effects affect a lot more people than 1 in 10000. Everybody has the right to have some preference. But just don't tell people that it is easy to be non-fat when you have no idea of the number of reasons a person might be fat despite ticking all the right boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:27 PM
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The leptin mecanism is not dependant on the carbs intake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:22 PM
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I don't need advices. I am in a 10+ years LTR. I don't think women need advices. I am just trying to say that you guys send conflicting messages between those who say a woman should put out to demonstrate interest and those who say she shouldn't to prove her value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:20 PM
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I am thin and workout nearly every day and lose weight and keep fit easily since they fixed my hormonal imbalance. But that's beside the point. Not every body's body reacts like mine. Studies demonstrate keeping the weight off is not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:59 PM
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The study reports that the 95% failure rate within 5 years is experienced with all diets even the paleo type.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:56 PM
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You realise there are MDs in this show?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:54 PM
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Which guys? Half of you say 'wait', the other half claim they can't wait. How about you post the official way to start dating a new lover? Because you guys seem to have opposite ideas as to how a woman should react when she develops some interest into a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:53 PM
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Yeah you say she needs to make him wait and your friend from the same tribe says that making him wait shows she is not worthy of his attention. How about you guys get together and get your story straight because from my window, it seems like there is no right way to start dating a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:48 PM
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Well I know a poor good looking man who married a rich older fat woman for her money. Before her, he would bring a different girl to our group social events and was known for cheating on his girlfriends. He hasn't strayed once since he married her money. It just depends on who owns the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:44 PM
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Don't care. If you are short, most desirable women will want nothing to do with you sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:51 PM
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The biggest loser participants had a retarded diet? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 05:49 PM
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What is being humored is not the fact that those guys are short, it is the fact that they are trying to pretend they aren't. Take for instance the French president Nicolas Sarkozy (top right on the picture), he was always ridiculed for his height but only because he himself could not stand to be short. The latest French president François Hollande is the same height but noone cares or jokes about it because Hollande himself doesn't care that he is short. Oh and this has nothing to do with femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:53 AM
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That's something you like to tell yourself for some reason I don't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:49 AM
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If you're trying to lose weight and keep it off, this sounds discouraging. But it’s important to point out that this very small group — only 14 people — and their unique and severe weight-loss regimen doesn’t necessarily apply to most people managing their weight. These participants were diagnosed with severe (morbid) obesity and their rate of weight loss was extremely rapid — much faster than that observed for many bariatric surgery patients. This part? This is an example that shows that your r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:39 AM
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I told you that this were not necessarily retarded diets. You can read this article about the Biggest Loser contestants who gained back all the weight they lost and then some more. Once you are on a diet, your resting metabolic rate gets low and then it nevers gets back up again. So it gets easier to put on weight. http://www.today.com/health/biggest-loser-contestants-gain-again-why-weight-keeps-coming-back-t90261
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:41 AM
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he knows how to eat That's not how it works. Source : http://www.today.com/health/biggest-loser-contestants-gain-again-why-weight-keeps-coming-back-t90261 Previous research has shown that people who lose weight show a drop in their resting metabolic rate (RMR) — which is the number of calories needed daily to meet the body’s needs. RMR is basically the same as what we call “metabolism.” At a higher weight, there is more body mass to maintain, and so more calories are needed. With weight loss, me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:38 AM
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You said the cause was that they did not know how to eat. That's why it is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:33 AM
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Having constant cravings and a slow metabolism is not a problem? A metabolism that gets increasingly slower as you continue dieting is not a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:29 AM
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Who said they did not know how to eat? How said they did not follow their doctor's prescription?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:27 AM
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95% doesnt know how to eat. Why? You know how that number got measured?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:22 AM
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No. It is a LOT MORE complicated than that. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leptin Leptin is the hormon that regulates your appetite. It is stored in the fat cells. When you lose weight, the leptin level drops in a non linear fashion. The leptin level drops faster than your actual weight. This in turn increases your hunger and lowers your metabolism. That's why it is difficult to get a good result in terms of weight loss the long run and why cravings increase. That's the short version. It gets a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:13 AM
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Source : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leptin Leptin (from Greek λεπτός leptos, "thin"), the "satiety hormone",[a] is a hormone made by adipose cells that helps to regulate energy balance by inhibiting hunger. [...] Dieters who lose weight, particularly those with an overabundance of fat cells, experience a drop in levels of circulating leptin. This drop causes reversible decreases in thyroid activity, sympathetic tone, and energy expenditure in skeletal muscle, and increases in muscle efficienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:12 AM
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Says someone who doesn't know that 95% of all diets fail within a 5 year horizon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:06 AM
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The way the body works is so much more complicated than that. Ask someone with a lazy thyroid if they get results on the scale from starving themselves. Ask people with a weird cortisol level. Ask someone on birth control or someone whose body built insuline resistance while trying fad diets. Also I think you definitely want to check how your fat cells leptin works when you try to diet and what it does to your cravings and how it triggers OCD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:05 AM
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A woman who's been pumped and dumped 10 times knows what's up. So what is she supposed to do? Stay at home and watch the telly and never come close to another man until she dies because it did not work the previous times? Do you stop interacting with women because you have been turned down 40 times? No? Why? You should know by now what's up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 07:44 AM
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don't want to waste your time getting to know some girl when she's just going to string you along What if she needs to get to know you before anything? So, I say yeah, go ahead, act fast so it will be easier for her to turn down your offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 07:21 AM
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Exactly. Easier to spot, easier to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 07:18 AM
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Also makes things easier for women to know they should avoid you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 07:17 AM
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It has nothing to do with genders but with who has the money. If you go to poor african countries, you'll find that in beach and vacation resorts, a lot of rich older women come and visit with the sole purpose of spending their money on local poor young men and getting "entertained".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:49 AM
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Not a good analogy since a cup size has no meaning if you don't take into account the length of the band. http://www.veggieboards.com/photopost/data/778011/7/70/701ddcec_dscale.jpeg Hashtag Bra101
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 09:30 AM
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Is it OK if she implements the same strategy without telling you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 05:23 AM
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LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 05:18 AM
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How would that be different from the situation where a woman upgrades her husband because of hypergamy? I thought this was a mean behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 09:46 PM
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That does not mean men don't do these things ever, like be solipistic, be Machiavellian, be immature, it's however not their natural tendency to act like this. It's just the opposite. It is men's nature to be immature. Look at third world countries and the state of micro-loans. It is demonstrated that when receiving those loans, men spend them on themselves or squander them on unnecessary goods; on the other hand, women spend those loans on improving their family lives and generating an income f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 07:36 AM
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LOL. I don't even know the moderator.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 05:35 PM
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Likewise I was talking to someone else in the first place and yet you decided it was a good idea to send me a comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 11:08 PM
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Why is intent important? What is important is that someone thinks they are entitled to take advantage of you in a vulnerable moment. And there are plenty of ways of being vulnerable, not just because you passed out as a result of drinking alcohol. You can be vulnerable because you are an old person and have no physical strength. You can be vulnerable because you are bedridden and unconscious (yes, some women have been raped while they were unconscious in a hospital bed). What is important is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 12:54 PM
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This is not what OP said That's what half the comments say. Randomly passing out isn't the same thing as intentionally being intoxicated anyhow How is it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 12:03 PM
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It depends if in your country, being married gives you rights you don't get when you are unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 10:35 AM
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TIL I learnt that if - for some reason - as a woman, I suddenly feel dizzy and pass out as I walk outside my home, instead of helping, men will most likely try to take advantage of me because they can and that will be my fault. What a sad world we live in!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 10:05 AM
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Jews in 1941 Germany Going out at night for a woman is equivalent to being a Jew in Nazi Germany? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 08:55 AM
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I am not the moderator. This is a public discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 02:42 AM
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Who accuses you of having no life experience? I was just quoting the sentence that you left here as a response to one of my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 01:27 AM
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The scenario is that 2 men rape a woman after defeating that boyfriend and forcing him to watch. You think there is no physical violence involved in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 09:09 PM
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That's not the scenario the OP is talking about, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 08:17 PM
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You've seen the face of women who have experienced a rape? If they fight back, they usually get punched in the face and even knocked out. Their assaulter may also try to kill her so the woman can't report him to the police. Making out with a rapist? You must be kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 08:08 PM
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Wrong. I just said that if feminists said that men die earlier because of biology then feminists were right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 08:01 PM
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What a load of BS! How about you reply to my message instead of conveniently repeating the ideas and the slogans that someone else fed you when you got brainwashed on the TRP sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 07:02 PM
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Because he feels like she's a part of him and he's getting violated too Yeah, right. Does he also feel repeatedly punched in the face like she is? A rape is not just someone introducing something in your holes. It's a fucking fight for survival. How one could feel turned on by one's partner fighting for her life is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 03:55 PM
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two have established themselves as superior and better at protecting the woman than him. Do you think in these scenarios the instinctual reaction of the woman is to abandon her boyfriend and go with the rapists? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:35 AM
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Well if you want to go your own way, just go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 06:21 AM
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Which man hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 11:39 PM
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How would you know when you "avoid personal contact with women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 05:21 PM
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You know how I live?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:41 PM
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You're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:30 PM
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Yeah, we all know that you prefer women who don't take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:28 PM
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Usually true except in certain cases. That's what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:26 PM
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Life experience doesn't mean being experienced in bed. It means being able to cope with life hardships. Degree, money, independance mean she won't be a burden for you but a partner who is able to help you achieve certain things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 01:52 PM
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It seems both sides were willing to agree that feminism was emerging to be problematic in recent months(years?). No. I have not seen any recent trend or event that would render feminism to be problematic lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 12:28 PM
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No one wants ugly low value men, so they don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 04:55 PM
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Does going through multiple women necessarily put a dent in men's psyche?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 11:43 AM
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Yep. This is what I call being at ease with your own sexuality. This is a trait that's very attractive in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 07:05 AM
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Right, if you are going to reduce people to molecules, you might as well fuck any pile of molecules. Also reducing anything to just water is plain stupid, not a technicality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 12:12 AM
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When it is your fault, you don't complain that the milk got spilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 04:21 PM
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something that can somehow be rectified. Is that what you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 04:19 PM
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And the feminists are right! the study by the Roswell Park Cancer Institute [...] argues that the cellular mechanisms that allow young men to grow and develop male characteristics also accelerate the aging process later in life. This cellular mechanism, referred to as the mTOR pathway, results in age-related diseases in men, such as cancer, hypertension, type II diabetes, and osteoporosis. In comparison, this study elaborates that women do not experience these age related diseases until later in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 04:01 PM
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Also funny how it is a given from the onset that the STEM gap is due to societal pressures, and something that can somehow be rectified. It is and it can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 03:54 PM
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WTF are talking about? Women also have needs, physical and sentimental. Is it difficult to understand that everyone is looking for ways to feel loved and comforted. Why exactly do you have to reduce the search for a partner to seeking a good dick? What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 05:12 AM
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If it happened the way you describe it, they are guilty and you are the victim. Who is "you" in the last sentence? Me? I do not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 05:07 AM
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Sounds the men were shitty lays and were thinking with their lower brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 12:18 AM
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Why don't you go and fuck some other kind of water molecules e.g. Some men who agree with your twisted way of approaching dating. After all, men are also just water molecules. PS: in reality, we are NOT composed of just water molecules.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 11:38 PM
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Feminists and special snowflakes think that it is not a competition. It's not the place to play mind games, lie and deceive. You got it all wrong in your approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 11:33 PM
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It's not a bloody competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 11:28 PM
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"Shame on you for trusting me" is against the societal rules of western democraties. Lying, deceiving and generally speaking taking advantage of other people is punished by our laws. Believing that the person who has been conned is responsible for what happened displays a lack of empathy and is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 11:26 PM
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That's a little story you guys tell yourselves because you think that helps you get away with the shitty behavior towards women that TRP claims you are entitled to display but the truth is that society does not tolerate this kind of behavior on then part of the person who lie and manipulate to get their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 11:06 PM
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You get angry when a women leads you on or divorce rape you. But when the roles are reversed and then it is again her fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 10:59 PM
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Well i partially disagree with you on this one. I value one's intend with regards to one's N-count: if your N-count is the result of coming across too many assholes who lead you on and pump and dump you when you thought that you were starting a relationship then the N-count is not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 06:31 PM
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That's beside the point. I could ask you how you would know the N-count of a girl you are interested in if she doesn't want to tell you. Same difference. If I have a chance to know (and a co-worker told me he did regularly) that a guy paid for sex, I would want nothing romantic from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 06:14 PM
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They were asked a question. They just gave their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:46 PM
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Going to visit hookers is just perceived as unattractive from a woman POV. As far as I am concerned, i understand that for some guys, it is the only way to acquire sex. But if I hear a guy who's interested in me has been visiting hookers, I won't touch him with a 10 feet pole. Major turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:39 PM
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No. I am a lurker there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:35 PM
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In their minds, true justice and balance would be for a Low SMV man to die a virgin, or to commit to a post-wall woman with a high N count out of desperation for sex. They see prostitution offering a way for Low SMV men to still get carefree easy sex as some kind of oddity, injustice. That's why they hate it so much. In their ideal world, Low SMV men should live either without sex, or only sex with Low SMV women. Wrong. The truth is we don't GAF about people we don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:10 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:05 PM
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Reverse this scenario and i believe that if women see a pic of a good looking guy with the same expression, they will overlook him Very first time I ever hear of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 01:22 PM
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If it was casual then she knew from the start they weren't into her. Seems like she moved on and now has a different interest. Why still bring up a closed case from the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 01:19 AM
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That's not what I asked. How do you know a woman is bound to long for a past relationship when that relationships are clearly ended? Why should we trust you guys that you don't long for past relationships when you guys keep telling us that you don't think with your brain because of your level of testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 01:17 AM
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found out they weren't interested in her. Or she found out that he was an asshole, not good in bed, a cheater, a violent man, or he was being abusive... Who knows why a relationship ends?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 12:34 AM
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How do you derive all these info about the past men in her life? Maybe they died or she now hates them or they cheated on her or took advantage of her. There are plenty of potential reasons why their relationship is now over. And ALL you can think about is that at some stage in the past she had sex with someone else than you? Then she shouldn't trust you either because at some point in the past you were attracted to another woman and who knows how your lower brain is going to react if a woman fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 10:51 PM
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Hmmm... Not in my experience. I've already provided some info in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 10:31 PM
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boyfriends turning into incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:33 PM
2

Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:32 PM
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Most people live in apartments these days. There usually is no outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:32 PM
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It really depends on which school/university you end up at.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:12 PM
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I went to a software engineering school. 40 hours/week in classes (mandatory attendance), Plus several homeworks on computer including software programs, exams every week. College was really about studying for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:05 PM
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But isn't Erasmus just a student exchange programme thoughout Europe? So basically, it just means studying abroad for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:43 PM
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I used the words "exact situation". So a woman leading on her partners and taking advantage of many men is... a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:32 PM
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So, imagine you find the perfect virgin woman, when do you consider sleeping with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:29 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:21 PM
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Thanks for letting me know. You shouldn't have. Far from me the idea of diverting you from all the fun you get from discussing with someone who is genuinely interested in your senseless messages. Have fun too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:06 PM
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Good. So we are done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:56 PM
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You know what? Spill it out or end this thread. This whole thing doesn't make any sense and you are getting creepy. I would hate to draw the mods attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:50 PM
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I would feel the same in the exact situation with the genders reversed. It would be considered disgusting, yes. I should note that I don't know any woman displaying this level of promiscuity. You probably live in America and are going to tell me about your fraternity/sorority parties but I consider this is a local american problem, there is no equivalent to the frat/sorority/spring break phenomenon in Europe AFAIK.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:48 PM
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Says who? Me and my female friends. We were a large group of friends (men and women, married couples also single people) from different countries working in different tech companies in this big technopole. We used to meet every friday eve at the local pub. There was this guy who used to turn up every week during happy hour with a different girl. You should have seen the disgust on the face of all the women. He was clearly leading on the women he was fucking (details provided by the girls) and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:11 PM
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Well most likely the fathers will teach their daughters that they have to put out for their boyfriends right away for fear of them turning into incels. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:07 PM
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So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 11:58 AM
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So what? Women also don't like men who sleep around with the only goal to bang as many different women par week as possible. We also have disgusting names for those guys when you are not around. I don't see that you guys care that we do. Liekwise I don't see why we should care that you guys tell a lot of shit about women who sleep with many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 11:54 AM
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as a general rule, men get more "attractive" as they age; while women get less "attractive". Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:33 AM
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The vast majority of woman can't have a cellulite free body without working out regularly. Being obese is not the only condition that happens to one's body when one doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:10 AM
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The BMI is not a good indicator of lack of cellulite or stretchmarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:07 PM
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Maybe. I don't know. I know a couple of guys who don't work out at all and have ripped bodies. I suppose the amount of testosterone your body has been exposed to plays a significant role.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:00 PM
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When I was her age, my body responded the same way to physical exercise. I was always extremely slim and a couple of sessions per week did the trick. The same regimen doesn't work any more; it actually stopped working a few months after I got my first software engineering job. It gets worse as you get older and your metabolism slows down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:30 PM
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She must be young and/or have a good metabolism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:18 PM
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So she works almost every day and she has a nice body, a body she wouldn't achieve without working out almost every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:10 PM
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And when they undress, you'll find jiggly fatty bits, cellulite, stretch marks, water retention, nasty skin...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 05:38 PM
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nice tits, a round ass, and a pretty face You forgot cellulite and signs of water retention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:52 PM
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It's not about being a fitness model. It's about maintaining your body. Even if you (I imagine you are a man) don't work out and if you eat a normal diet, your testosterone fuelled hormonal system maintains your lean body mass. This is not the case for women. A woman who does not work out has her hormonal system working against her as she ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:23 PM
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This is yet another thread where some prejudiced men tell women how their body works. The truth isthat it is actually very difficult for a woman to maintain one's figure without working out. Sure some women have good genes but the consensus is that women's hormonal system helps the body store fat so the body is ready to feed the foetus in case of pregnancy. So women naturally carry some stubborn fat in their body and it gets particularly worse when a woman is on birth control pills, and of cours…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 03:19 PM
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I make small talk at the supermarket with other customers. I once helped a man chose tampons for his young daughter; last week, I helped a Japanese student who was visiting the country for 3 months select some products from the shelves. That's me being polite to other customers and the staff but I won't be interested into being approached for sex or relationship. I only date men from my social circles after knowing them for a while though common activities. So I am not interested in being approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:38 AM
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Stopped reading after this "mediocre intelligence and weak women, which is most women in society."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:46 AM
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Upvoted!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:42 AM
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So you had a little adventure. You realise that it is a totally different experience from being exposed against your will on a daily basis to people who comment your body parts out loud on the street and make you feel unsafe?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 06:21 PM
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I was interested. Now I am getting annoyed. If you have something to say, do say it. If by chance I didn't read it, I am sure there are plenty of participants willing to read about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 03:17 PM
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If you wanted to tell me, you would already have provided an answer instead of writing these lengthy messages that don't provide any added value. And I did not downvote you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 02:51 PM
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I have never seem any of you guys blaming yourselves. Honestly. And I don't see why I should blame myself when I was trusting a partner whom I was already living with for several years and with whom I was having absolutely no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 02:49 PM
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Same reason some guys are into boobs/butts/legs/you name it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 01:15 PM
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There is no evidence he got the money. He got access to my money via online banking using the actual codes that I stupidly didn't keep away from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 01:12 PM
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Ok you've been saying that several times. My ex stole by money. We weren't even married. He emptied all my accounts and spent the money without telling me. Now he is my ex but I still don't hate men despite what happened. So this is my story. What happened to you that makes so angry at women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 12:58 PM
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That's because Scotty doesn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 12:51 PM
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Someone can put something in your mouth even when you are fully clothed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 11:49 AM
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Yeah, make sure you call the support to let them know you were stabbed by your sexbot. I am sure they are going to have a good time trying to reproduce the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 10:42 AM
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Why the need to keep flipping the gender? Why not just obese hairy fat chick? Because there is very little chance that you'll fear the isolated encounter with an obese hairy fat chick. If we flip the gender and you are confronted with someone who is physically stronger than you and then you are closer to what us women experience. Women don't care if they are being approached by a man or a woman; for them they are both the same kind of experience although most probably less frightening with a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 10:29 AM
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I think /u/[deleted] should make an appointment with an endocrinologist instead of suggesting that she hasn't met the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 10:01 AM
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Software programs aren't bug free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 09:58 AM
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Exactly. And I am convinced that online dating was modeled after those formal dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 09:39 AM
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No. You are the one who claim I am talking of sexual desire. Tell me what sexual desire is and then tell me what objectification is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 09:37 AM
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it usually takes place within social groups, common activities, hanging out together one on one after you discover an attraction for each other What's the difference with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 09:34 AM
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What? No, never.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 03:09 AM
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That's the American way of dating. In the rest of the world, people get involved with other members of their social circles and that they learn to appreciate through common activities. We don't sit and have a one on one talk; we just keep bumping into each other and end up discovering that we are attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 03:08 AM
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Objectification does not happen in this context. The second someone speaks to you as a person, it becomes attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 02:54 AM
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Just using OP's line.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 02:26 AM
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Go on, tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 02:19 AM
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You're projecting: you imagine that the person who objectifies you is attractive. Anyone could objectify you, including a gay obese hairy biker. See if you like being in the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 02:16 AM
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No they don't. Btw, in one of the couples, it's the wife who is filthy rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 02:08 AM
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My opinion is that its the terpers who live in a Disney fantasy and should get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 10:01 PM
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I know exactly 2 millionaires. Their partners are pretty normal with wrinkles and gray hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:47 PM
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Asking for your opinion in the context of being objectified by a random person on the street. NOT who is asking for your opinion ON THIS FORUM. Being objectified doesn't mean you are dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:46 PM
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It's the opposite. When you're objectified, you have no power, you aren't even a person. Who is asking for commitment? Who is asking for your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:19 PM
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Do you also want to be desired by people you aren't attracted to (old, fat, ugly, gay... take your pick) who are physically stronger than you and won't leave you alone whatever you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:39 PM
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That's because most women of your age don't have the capacity to. What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:29 PM
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Any people or just HB9?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:26 PM
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Would you like to be objectified by someone you aren't attracted to? For instance, would you like a group of gay men to follow you down the alley and start making comments about your nice little ass? How would you like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:25 PM
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Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:21 PM
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From old fat ugly women? You'd love that? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:20 PM
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Another argument - which Is extremely weak and self-defeating - is that women refrain from sex because they are not guaranteed sexual satisfaction. Firstly, this is pathetic, as it paints a picture that most men are sexually incompetent, and also suggests that getting a woman to orgasm is some incredible feat of sexual endeavour, rather than the norm. Who said that women experience bad sex because her male partner is incompetent? We are just saying that a lot of women don't appreciate NSA sex be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 03:40 PM
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That's why the female body (actually the pituitary gland) produces a high concentration of prolactin hormon while the woman is nursing, prolactin which inhibits the sexual desire and stops the ovulation. The prolactin should go back to a normal level after the woman is done nursing but if doesn't then she is prescribed some dopamine agonists which are by the way are known for the sex addiction they develop in people who take them regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 02:08 PM
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Again you don't get it. An ordinary Chad won't do. She has to really like that special Chad to enjoy the encounter. So being a Chad is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 08:19 PM
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Chad is usually shitty in bed You don't understand that for a woman the most important sexual organ is the brain. As a woman ,if your mind and heart are really set onto a man, your brain will send the right kind of tingles to your vagina so that any lay with said man will turn out to be a great sexual experience. So basically, if you are really into Chad, there is not lousy-lay Chad. I know it is different for guys, that's why guys don't know what bad sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 07:24 PM
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Then why don't you just accept something you can't change instead of complaining about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 07:15 PM
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Let me correct you: women can have bad sex whenever they want. Having good sex is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 03:46 PM
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The problem is that women only find men who are 8+ to be attractive leaving most men out of the realm of casual sex I don't understand. What are those women supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 03:24 PM
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yet feminists do what they can to fight against getting more men into college. How do they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 03:03 PM
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If i find out he made an unplanned machine stop without advising the guy in charge of production, you bet he's gonna be fired. Now what does that have to do with the story?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 01:21 AM
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On which page of the book is this documented? Also TRP claims is not just AF:BB, so if I al going to read the WHOLE book, I am expecting that you read it too and that it covers "TRP claims", not just one isolated claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 01:11 AM
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What else?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 12:25 AM
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Wtf is a woman woman? What is a "woman like her"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 09:01 PM
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What is the book supposed to demonstrate? I just got hold of a copy and need time to read it. What does it say exactly that supports the RP views? Please provide details so I can confirm later on that whether your are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 09:00 PM
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Because this advice doesn't work. Not wearing slutty dresses does not protect one from rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 03:37 PM
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You are the one claiming that it works on all women. How about you perform your study and let us know? As far as the studies I referenced to are concerned, they are "actual" studies, whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 03:25 PM
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Do you read road rage stats before starting your car in the morning? Do you read the average number of rainy days per month in september before deciding to take an umbrella in the morning or do you check the weather forecast of the day? I don't need statistics. I talk to the guy whom I want to date because I can't stop thinking about him and I take it from there. I do not date statistics; I date a specific man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 03:22 PM
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Providing actual studies that demonstrate that terpers attract women you are supposed to stear clear of is bragging? What's wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 03:13 PM
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Data, references to actual studies that demonstrate without a doubt the quoted part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 03:10 PM
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If you believe that a woman is a child, that she is inferior to you in many ways, if you play dread games with her, no statistics about a woman N-count is going to save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 03:09 PM
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How so? (LOL)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 02:55 PM
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I beg to differ. Sleeping around for the sake of fucking the largest number of people of the opposite sex during your waking hours is unattractive for both genders. Having a hugh N-count because you kept getting involved with motherfuckers who take advantage of you is a different story. Concerning statistics, you can read as many stats you want; if you are a shitty partner, she will leave you whether she has a low or a high N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 02:49 PM
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You obviously haven't read what I posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 02:45 PM
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We have already discussed that before. TRP attracts the kind of women that you guys (supposedly) do not want. The kind of tactics that the Red Pill advises, and their whole philosophy, is aimed to work and attract women who are promiscuous, don't care about commitment, have daddy issues, are sexist and think that men should pay for dates, that play mind games, like to drink a lot and think that life is all about "live fast, die young". Given that TRP actually hates this kind of women but their b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 02:33 PM
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To bad because being at ease with your own sexuality is damn sexy for a man. I don't date statistics. I date a man whom I know well enough to develop some feelings for him and take our relationship to the next level; someone I know well enough to realise he is a reasonable person who will make our relationship work. You guys need those statistics because you are trying to crack the code to dating a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 02:15 PM
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You mean a man who has fucked a lot of women. That's not what it means. I would have said "a man with a large number of partners". I just mean someone who doesn't question his own sexuality in the light of other people's sexual practises especially when it concerns his partner(s). Some people really don't care if they only had a few LTRs. They don't care if they sexuality is the vanilla type. Why would I give to her what she wants(commitment/love/resources/attention) when the other fuckers got t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 02:07 PM
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A man who doesn't feel threathened in his sexuality doesn't care about the N-count of his partner. There is absolutely no difference in having X sexual intercourses with Y partners or Y/2 partners. In both cases, your vagina is the same. As long as your partner is STD free and is honest in her approach to dating and getting to know you, there is no reason to look down on her. And as a woman, my most valuable asset is not my vagina. My love for him, my time, my attention, my dedication to my part…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 08:01 AM
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Have you actually read what I posted?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 02:37 PM
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Not to my knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 02:34 PM
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The surprise factor comes from the fact that you have idealized a certain image of women in your head because most probably you have had little actual contact with women. It's like earthlings fantasizing that aliens are little green men. And when you meet one or two women and get disappointed because who you met doesn't match the image you had in your head, then you start believing that the specimen you met is a representative of all the women, which - of course is - false. Talking about the WaW…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 09:57 AM
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What requirements? You've been told to be yourself, your best self, not someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 07:18 AM
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And then RP guys accuse women of having laundry list of requirements with regards to who they date. For the record, dating is not conducting or attending a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 07:14 AM
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Oh, and asking you out doesn't mean I want to marry you. It means I just want more time to get to know you as a person and FIND OUT if I really like you. That's the American way of dating. In Europe, you only date people (one at a time, otherwise it is cheating) you already know you like and want as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 07:12 AM
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Why? You know her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:11 PM
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If he is 23, his mother is an old hag NOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:17 PM
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In your own words, she must be an old hag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 05:04 PM
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I honestly did not get what you were trying to say. But personality is NOT about understanding how a screwdriver works. You should get hold of a dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:04 PM
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There is no child in my story. We don't want children. We don't do illogical things. We don't mind play games, we don't throw plates on the wall. We've been together for longer than 10 years and aren't married. Noone is forcing us to do anything we don't want to do for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:38 AM
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I hope it was a sarcastic comment (/s). Sadly enough, it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:34 AM
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/s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:20 AM
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Yeah that's right, you heard about it. Maybe you should let the experts who know that feeling first hand talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:15 AM
1

Still it would be preferable if every guy who doesn't have the potential to be alpha was castrated, and same went for girls who are ugly or fat or just average-looking. Prevent them from having babies by getting their tubes tied. That would be unethical. There are already stories of people being sterilized against their will. This ended up in massive lawsuits in some countries. Not workable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:10 AM
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Not a good idea. Legalize prostitution or provide sex assistance for people who cannot get laid the same way there are professionally trained assistants for disabled people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 09:57 AM
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FFS, what future benefits are you talking about? His money is his money and mine is mine and I am free to use mine as I want and that includes supporting the both of us through the bad times. For the record, there is something called love that helps act in a selfless way towards each other. Obviously you've never experienced this feeling, otherwise you would not approach a relationship like some cost-benefit analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 09:41 AM
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Well for the moment you are very young. Your perspective on life will change as you get older. Of course that doesn't excuse the nasty words you use to talk about women in general and your mother more specifically if she is still alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 09:37 AM
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The whole time this happened I was deeply scared. He walked right up to me, pulled his knife and started acting like he was going to stab me in the stomach. I was less than like 30 cm away from him. I instinctively took a step back and yelled really loud so everyone around me knew there was something wrong. I was lucky someone interviewed. It was really close. I was shaking after. It was not confidence, it was survival instinct talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 09:32 AM
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So, in your idea, how old is not too old for a woman? And how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:43 AM
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I am in a 10+ year LTR. We both have a career in a similar line of work and regardless of our individual earnings, we contribute equally to the lifestyle we have chosen for ourselves. We both have been in situations where one was without a job for some months, each time each one of us was happy to provide for the other. Maybe it does not work for some people but we are reasonable people and we make it work. It is not because there are some outdated lifestyles out there, that one has to conform t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:39 AM
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The way I dress: covered but showing perfect body shape and enhancing best assets. In my case, long lean legs and tight bum in skinny jeans with high heeled ankle boots, long sleeve tight fitting shirt highlighting long slim arms, slim waist and nicely shaped boobs (not too big, not too small). Usually in dark matching colors. Kind of conservative (as covered) but sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:01 AM
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LOL. If that was true, no woman over 35 would ever get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:51 AM
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I really like the line about personality being knowing how a screwdriver works. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:39 AM
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In a public place, with a lot of people around, I have no problem doing that. I used to sing and I now have a loud voice that I use for dangerous situations like that time when a guy I did not know bumped into me on the street downtown and when I protested, pulled out a knife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:33 AM
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For the record, I have asked guys out and some have said no. As to the rest, it is normal that a person gets involved with someone that person finds attractive. When I say attractive, I am not talking of a laundry list of features that should be matched, I am talking of being instinctively attracted to someone, like in your heart and in your guts. When you talk about those low quality guys that are left unmatched, are you suggesting that women should get involved with guys they aren't attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:06 AM
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Dude on the street isn't drinking but men are more dangerous and physically stronger than women. So that makes me vulnerable as a woman. Actually I am always vulnerable as a women whether I am drunk or not. So apparently I should retreat to my home because otherwise I might get raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 03:09 AM
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[ my age - 5 years .. my age + 10 years ]
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:41 AM
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What signs exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:35 AM
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You have high standards... for yourself. You can't imagine doing the menial tasks at home, so you settle for someone who will be forced to do the housework while you can leave the house and go to work and get paid for that. And for the record, i don't have high standards. I am just expecting to share my life with someone who can relate to me because we have similar background, experiences, common understanding of what we want to do with out lives, etc... I am not expecting anyone of us to be mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:34 AM
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That's not what this thread says. It says a woman should make sure that they aren't vulnerable when a man who has expressed sexual interest is around her because he might rape her. So I guess that includes random men who approach her on the street or in odd places. She should make sure she stays away from them, not give them her number, not even talk to them because they have shown sexual interest and most probably are dangerous and she might get raped. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:57 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:37 AM
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No. For me what works is "at least as (funny, strong, educated, ...) as me" in the domains that I find relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:35 AM
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Every man could be a rapist Exactly! That's why you don't talk to men who approach you on the street. That's why you should tell them to fuck off or at the very least to ignore their attempt to communicate with you. Finally the truth is being told. Halleluia!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:12 AM
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Why did you go to the bar and got drunk? Why didn't you stay at home? You know very well that the world is full of violent men who once inebriated are willing to kick the shit out of you for no reason whatsoever. You obviously were looking for it. And why didn't you leave the place after he bumped right into you and gave you a nasty look? Why did you instead stayed and kept drinking? You know the MATURE thing to do is to avoid confrontation, avoid the danger, WHEN you've seen warning signs that …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:00 AM
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She was angry that she was being used for sex and dumped right after. From her perspective, this was not going to be a one night stand. She expected this to see him again and to have a relationship with him. So while she was 100% willing to have sex with him, she wasn'r willing to have a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 12:49 AM
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Basically you guys are saying that women should consider that all men are potential rapists. #AMALT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 12:44 AM
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So if you are in a bar celebrating with your friends and get drunk and someone corners you and beats you up really badly (breaks some bones, leaves you unconscious) "for absolutely no other reason than having an appearance that indicates that [you are] a fighter-type-of-guy". And you can't escape or retaliate because you are too drunk. Then that's your fault and you don't call the police to report the event and get the guy behind bars and you just take responsibility. Did I get that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 03:40 PM
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The thing I found interesting is that the wife is not angry at her husband but at the other women calling her "Fucking bitch". My sister who is lawyer and also deals with divorces tells me that in the vast majority of cases, women are persuaded that the person responsible for the breakup is the other woman and not their cheating husband. They believe that if the other woman went away, their mariage could be easily mended. Apparently women do that very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 03:30 PM
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That's how a woman unwillingly ends up with a high n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 06:37 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 06:14 AM
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So she is supposed to save herself for you? And exactly how does she know that she is supposed to wait for you and not someone else she was attracted to and who seemed a good partner even before she met you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 03:19 AM
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That's offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 01:33 PM
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What does that have to do with the discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 12:00 PM
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Why is the information needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 09:47 AM
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Doing the laundry does not require a feminine touch. It's not rocket science either; She wouldn't have to redo it if you tried harder in order to make sure the clothes dry faster and can be folded away without requiring ironing. Looks like you are looking for an excuse so you don't have to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 02:23 AM
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I have no idea. Divorce rape(TM) does not exist in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 02:10 AM
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It's not just old-fashioned men that don't do housework. As to learning to hang the laundry properly, your girlfriend is right. There is a way to do it properly so the laundry dried faster vs taking longer to dry and developing a funny smell. You don't want to wear those smelly clothes and you don't that smell to invade your wardrobe and transfer to other clothes. You'll be forced to wash again the clothes. It is not because it is "just" laundry that there is not a proper way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 01:59 AM
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If he doesn't mind me being taller than him by 15+ cm (10 to 12 cm heels+curly hair) i.e 189+ cm then we are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 12:51 AM
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No, I meant what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 12:26 AM
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This is not a good idea to pretend to be someone else or just dumber than you really are. You can pretend and change your personaligty for a while but you can't do that 24/7 for an extended period of time. It will eventually show and your partner will start wondering who he got involved with. You will eventually resent your partner for spending your time pretending to be someone you are not. This is a recipe for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 11:26 AM
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It didn't? As a man’s marriage becomes less stable, his levels of testosterone rise. With divorce, his testosterone levels rise even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 11:23 AM
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Men contemplate suicide after a breakup even when they do not experience any of the divorce related problems because they were not married in the first place and did not have children. So this is not enough to explain why they do contemplate suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 11:21 AM
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You can use work as an excuse to not work around the house. When you have time, that excuse is no longer valid. When they have the time, instead of helping with the households, men prefer to hang out with their mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 10:56 AM
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Apparently, the opposite takes place: She states that there is ample evidence that men in committed romantic relationships have lower levels of testosterone than single men. As a man’s marriage becomes less stable, his levels of testosterone rise. With divorce, his testosterone levels rise even more. According to Fisher, increased levels of testosterone can decrease levels of vasopressin and oxytocin – the very chemicals responsible for male-female attachment. http://rapidbreakuprecovery.com/the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 09:30 AM
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This thread is about breaking up, not divorcing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:51 AM
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/s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:42 AM
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I hire people according to their profile, not their gender. It is unethical to do otherwise. Office banter and lunches are not activites tracked by the supervisors. That's your personal time; you can do pretty much what you want as long as it doesn't exceed office regulations. Just don't log it as work. Unless you are a senior manager or work in sales or hold any senior position that requires you to attend social gathering as part of your job, it is against regulations to use lunch time as a wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:22 AM
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where you are bitchy to one another. I have been a team leader and then a manager supervising large teams for many years. In my experience, women aren't more bitchy than men. how much is unusual? At the forming stage of the team, we do some building exercises (woods meeting, team lunch). Later on when the teams are formed and work together, there is no reason to perform any team building unless there is a significant event or trend that needs to be addressed. But it definitely isn't something yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:05 AM
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Maybe they think they are doing chores, when they come home, sit on the couch and watch the game while having a beer and vaguely lift their feet as you sweep the floor. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:47 AM
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We don't need your lessons about office time. We also work in offices. Btw, I am a project manager, if my teams spent an unusual amount of time doing team building stuff, i'd be fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:40 AM
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When men spend a lot of time in the office, it is a sign they work really hard and when they spend less time doing the chores, it is s sign of efficiency. Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:18 AM
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I am not following you. People want to date people they are attracted to. What are they supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 08:58 PM
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That's not true: one can have no libido and still work very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 08:36 PM
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we can make women less hypergamous if we give them drugs, medications or hormones supplements to make their sexuality closer if not identical to men's both quantitatively and qualitatively So guys have a problem and create a problem for the society and so you want to give a medical treatment involving drugs to women? How about you feed your shit to men who can't get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 06:40 PM
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we can make women less hypergamous if we give them drugs, medications or hormones supplements to make their sexuality closer if not identical to men's both quantitatively and qualitatively So guys have a problem and create a problem for the society and so you want to give a medical treatment involving drugs to women? How about you feed your shit to men who can't get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 06:39 PM
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What were you implying?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 12:41 PM
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My (?) country is gonna fail because women are allowed the same freedom and rights as men? Not because of global warming or wars or energy shortage, just because of women being free to be who they are. You cannot be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 09:38 PM
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That's not the real world. That's some fantasy in your head. Wanting to tell people how to live their life is a very bizarre fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 09:21 PM
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This comment made me feel sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 09:12 PM
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How do you know it is empathy and not love? And what is the problem if they fell in love with these guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 09:11 PM
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some visual examples of "savior" women "saving" unattractive men" Are you talking about pity sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 08:55 PM
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When I give clothes to the red cross or when I participate into marches against terrorists attacks (I live in France close to Nice where a act of terrorism took place a few weeks ago) or do other random acts of generosity for the less fortunate than me, there is no sexual feelings or intentions involved. What does sex have to d with feeling grateful for what life has brought you and wanting to give back to the people who have a harder life than you. What does sex have to do when your friend and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 08:45 PM
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I've illustrated the reasons You provided reasons? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 08:35 PM
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they’re worried about immediate personal implications. That's also not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 08:31 PM
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Women are perfectly capable of taking care of the kids once the husband has served his purpose So why do you complain when the divorce judge gives the custody of the kids to the (ex-)wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 08:29 PM
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It is limited if you are racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 10:24 AM
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You guys are the ones who connect sex with everything in your life. Us women are more compartmentalised in our thinking. We can have empathy for someone without the sex being in the way. Of course, if said low-quality unattractive man is insulting me because of my gender, don't expect any empathy on my part. Also triggering empathy into someone's heart doesn't get you laid, whether you're a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 10:23 AM
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And evolutiionary psych would have put into the hands of terrible selfish bitchs (aka the women) the task of looking after the welfare of the family? You are so deep into your prejudices (aimed at making you terpers feel better) that you don't see how your beliefs are wrong and on so many levels. Anyway the deeper in your shit you are, the easier it is for us to spot you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 09:18 AM
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So what I read on your board about terpers wanting to take the world and wanting to open the eyes of every men on the planet about how women are terrible human beings is wrong? Maybe you guys should make sure that you come up with a unified message so we can all understand where you stand. Because with all the conflicting rules and messages, it's getting difficult you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 09:15 AM
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That's exactly what I said. Some guys really have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 08:20 AM
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No. People should be responsible for their own act. Remember that thing about agency and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 06:49 AM
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We are talking of sick spouses, not dying ones. I did not bring up the terminal cases. I said very ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 06:46 AM
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Who talks about dying? We are talking about a very sick partner, bedridden and who needs care. As a side note, it makes me sick when I see that some people on this board see everything in life as a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 06:44 AM
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Men 6 times more likely to leave a sick partner: http://www.yourtango.com/200943948/men-6-times-more-likely-leave-sick-partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 10:50 AM
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Men are the ones known to walk away from their partners when their partner get really sick and bedridden and unattractive as a result of their illness. Not the other way round.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 02:10 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 01:55 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 01:43 AM
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I want a man whom i am attracted to who is also nice. If I am not into him, it really doesn't matter if he is nice or "nice": nothing romantic will happen between us. Although if he values my friendship, I'd rather he'd be nice than "nice".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 01:42 AM
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Yeah I know you always come back to this silly explanation that your movement caters for men's goals, which gives uou sn excuse not the answer the comment. Now my comment was not about defending the women. I was highlighting that the consequences of your actions reinforce the current state of the dating market and more specifically the stuff you hate about the way women date. The more they fall for terpers, the more they are driven away from you guys. Obviously your movement is not scalable. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 10:27 AM
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To me being consistency means that if you believe something is bad then your action would guide you towards making sure that that something doesn't happen. For instance, a woman with a high N-count is not a desirable partner, so if I meet a desirable partner then I shouldn't do anything that impacts her N-count. Traditional patriarchy values the virginity of a woman and dictates rules that ensure her virginity is preserved; this is a virtuous circle. TRP values a woman's virginity or low N-count…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 11:26 AM
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There is no sexual strategy in TRP that teaches a man to lie about being interested in you as a person in order to fuck you. This is what you guys claimed in the thread about women not being able to detect that you are terpers. That we will never be able to guess that you are terpers. You also say never to disclose your intentions or your beliefs. Please tell me you've at least skimmed the sidebar.. And maybe some consistency would be good so we don't have to hear different messages from you guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 10:40 AM
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Imagine I meet two or three of you guys who tell me you like me and be interested in me as a person when in reality you guys are just trying to fuck me. You play your little games to get me to sleep with you and as you guys claim in a different thread, there is no way for me to detect that you guys are terpers. And if I put out for you, all of sudden my N-count is upped by 3 which by the standard of the terpers does no longer qualify me as a reliable partner. And all this is my fault because I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 09:26 AM
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What does control have to do with this? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 08:18 AM
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But then you approach women who are not promiscuous and you play your mind games to get them to sleep with you and turn them into promiscuous women and then you tell them it's their fault if they fell for you. In reality you have no respect for the women you approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 04:37 AM
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If women choose to be reserved, that is their own choice. Ultimately it is only yourself who decides how you should behave. Nobody is forcing it upon you. It clearly shows you have no idea what you are talking about. Honor killings exist because women are told by patriarchal societies that they carry the honor of the family. Women have to be nice and quiet and chaste and simply perfect because if she is not perfect, then she brings shame and the dishonor upon the family. You are delusional if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 12:28 PM
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Don't even fuck him. It's better to stay away alltogether as nothing good can come out of being involved with a man with those beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 03:53 PM
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Why get involved with an RP man to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 03:25 PM
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No, it's perceived as a bad behaviour. There was this guy where I worked who was known for sleeping around with female staff members and it was perceived as a huge problem by senior management.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 09:29 PM
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Women who enjoy sex have a lot of sex with the same guy Or with some guys who lie to her, make her believe she matters when in reality they are using her for sex and then dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 09:23 PM
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This is not what this sentence means. It means you are trying too hard and people can feel how desperate one is when one looks for love. It's very unattractive. Everything those people do is about being involved with someone, the smallest event is interpreted as a sign. Those people are really annoying and even drive potential people away by their behaviours. What this sentence means is "get busy with your life; do things that you are interested in and while you are busy doing those things, you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 10:08 AM
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Banning or punishing people who question your ideas is actually one of the warning signs that one may be involved with an unsafe group/cult: Ten warning signs of a potentially unsafe group/leader. [...] -No tolerance for questions or critical inquiry. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 09:53 AM
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If the N-count mattered so much, then TRP followers would make sure that their behaviour does result in maintaining a low N-count for the women they date. Instead, the opposite happens: women are being played and used as plate and then are criticized for falling for your games. She is not a victim of your nasty approach to dating; she is guilty for trusting you and making bad decision. You guys have no empathy for the people you desire. You use them as tools for your short-term benefit. TRP is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 02:19 AM
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10+ years LTR. No mind game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 07:16 PM
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Maybe but TRP doesn't like when women play mind games and test you with their shit tests. So you can imagine that when you guys come up with your own list of mind games, those who try to be fair when dating find your little games disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 07:02 PM
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I don't play mind games with the guy who is likely to be the one and I expect him to act the same. If he plays mind games or pretends to be someone he is not, then I am not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:56 PM
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If you need a framework that lists all the test cases and tells you how to react to each of them, then you aren't adaptable. Being adaptable means being able to face a new unforeseen situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:52 PM
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Because dating is about developing feelings for someone, allowing yourself to be vulnerable; it's not going into a business meeting and playing mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:33 PM
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It's not hard to adapt at all. If that were true you wouldn't need algorithms supposedly describing people behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:30 PM
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Men don't have that luxury, they have to earn that value. Like there aren't any woman on the surface of the earth who needs to provide for herself and put a roof over her head and food in her plate? Where do you live to believe this? A woman who takes 9 months off to have a baby is hurting everyone within the workplace To begin with, no woman gets a 9 months maternity leave to have a baby. Also, if a company does not know how to handle the change and the replacement of staff that's sick or must …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 10:30 AM
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This is clearly more acceptable for women. They won't lose their job or lose too much respect over it. Try also when a woman shifts blame to a colleague or one of her employees. If she appears cute and innocent, people will take her side. Compare that with men being angry, pushy or pissed off at other people. This is clearly more acceptable for men that it is for women. If a man gets angry, he shows assertiveness, if a woman at work acts the same, she is a bitch. Guess which of the behaviours (t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 09:09 AM
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However, the advantages of being seen as cute, innocent, and worthy of protection, I think, are usually grossly underestimated. Why would anyone look at hiring someone perceived as innocent and worthy of protection? /u/cryogenetik is right. Irrespective of their actual profile, women are perceived in the job market as bringing less competence to the table than men with the same experience/education and are offered lower salaries for the same functions. Here is a study that demonstrates the biais…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 08:28 AM
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Because the beliefs that those guys put in your brain make you a bad person with a natural negative bias against half the population just because of their gender. Because if you believe in negging women, in touching them without their approval, in breaking their personal boundaries, you are acting as an asshole and are doing things that you would not tolerate other people to do to yourself, you are becoming a bully. Because monitoring and overthinking what girls tell you in order to detect shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 12:17 AM
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No because I don't want to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 12:02 AM
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I said "in this kind". IT = computer stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 11:58 PM
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A therapist doesn't tell you what to do. You're in charge, s/he just helps you. I have been going some sales but mostly for large IT packages so people's feelings aren't important in this kind of sales process.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 04:17 PM
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We are not talking about work, are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 04:01 PM
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Who is talking about sport?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:58 PM
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Yeah, bad advices : you teach them dread game, PUA tell them that women want to be touched even when the women say no because that's part of being a woman and teasing to say no when she means yes. You tell them to neg a woman they've never spoken to before, that women should acknowledge strangers on the street who approach them but ignore their male friends whom they know... Good luck creating the next generation of socially awkward casanovas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:58 PM
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Well I don't believe that we are predictable. And i don't believe in those recipes. I believe in restoring confidence in someone who is socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:51 PM
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Like India for instance where female babies are killed after they are born or gang raped. Or North Africa maybe? Pfff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:36 PM
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Sometimes friends and families are part of the problem. It's not always obvious at first sight, and you only find out when you dig in whatever happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:34 PM
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Yeah but you can't just have a plan for everything. Sometimes shit happens and you have to find in yourself the resources to address and clean the mess or to grab an opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:30 PM
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Maybe in your country, women have some place to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:25 PM
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I used to be like you. A couple of life accidents happened to me, then I realised I had lived in the fear of something like would happen to me. Then I realised I had survived and you know what doesn't kill u makes you stronger. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:24 PM
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Therapy would make you try and express how you feel about approaching a woman, why do you feel this way, are there any other situations where you felt this way, what triggered this feeling the first time, ah someone made fun if you and what would happen if you approached her, and so on and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:20 PM
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Yes i said that on your sub, guys are looking for lessons to help them get laid, not find their wife. That's what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:15 PM
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Maybe in your country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:13 PM
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I've been approached by guys many times but i know strangers are not interesting because for me the most important sexual organ is the brain. There's a wow effect to sleeping with someone with whom I have a deep connection that I can't experience in a NSA hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:06 PM
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I just know. We are having s casual conversation, i don't need to be on my guard like for instance when I am at work in a business meeting with a client How do I know it's too much thinking? When you make a conscious effort to process and weight everything the person tells you or when you question what s/he says when in fact there is nothing to gain from being right because it's only a casual conversation. Overthinking can lead to OCDs even more so if you replay conversations in your head after …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 02:57 PM
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That's not what I meant. All i am saying is that if you plan everything, you leave very little to the surprising things that life can offer. I am a project manager for large IT projects so I know what planning is about but I don't believe in planning your every moment. So far, i have been under the impression that (good) things happen when you least expect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 02:46 PM
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With a friend, i am relaxed and just listening. Sometimes i don't agree with him/her and express what's on my mind. But by default it's a relaxed attitude because of the friendship. The other attitude you describe can be described as wired or overthinking/over analyzing. Not a good sign in terms of mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 02:36 PM
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There are a hundred stories of women who have been abandoned, cheated upon, replaced by a younger model, molested, beaten, threatened, killed by their spouse. People of all gender suffer. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 02:28 PM
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Yes it is. This is called poisoning the well. Leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 02:07 PM
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Nothing has changed since last week. You're still nasty. I am still not reading your comments and am still not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 02:07 PM
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What does that have to do with anything in this thread? Can you focus on the subject of the discussion instead of making personal attacks or is it too much to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 02:04 PM
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Just get your story straight with the other guys because this is not what they say on that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 01:50 PM
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I don't date strange men. I have only ever dated guys that I've known for a while because they are part of my social circles. That's how we date in France. Dating means there are already feelings involved and you want to take it to the next level and become intimate. There are no strangers in our stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 01:48 PM
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When I was a kid on Earth, that's also what I heard. When I grew up and came across lots of nice men, I decided AMAP was untrue. Then I came across the RP AWALT message and how terpers defend this message. If AWALT is valid, then maybe I should start believing again in AMAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 01:45 PM
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No. You can have no plan and still be the best person you can be, instead of just being yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 10:57 AM
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You can't always get it for free. Sometimes it means talking about very personal or embarrassing stuff, digging in your past and putting it on the table for everyone to see. You don't necessarily want your friends to see your dark side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 10:21 AM
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My female friend specifically went to speak to therapist to help her understand what she was doing wrong when dating guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 10:11 AM
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No one is entitled any advice. I don't give dating advice. TBP guys don't give any either. All i am saying is get advice from whoever does that professionally. Yeah your personal views on women that you call reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:50 AM
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Not what you said. Read your own entry. Being sane and grounded is not the same as believing in your ability to perform and being motivated. Also i'm sure you've never seen a therapist IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:45 AM
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I disagree. The worst advice is telling your mates to put fear in the heart of their spouse as a mean to control them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:43 AM
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They do help you with pretty much anything. In Billions, she helps them with their performance on the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:39 AM
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They do help you with pretty much anything. In Billions, she helps them with their performance on the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:39 AM
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No I didn't. You guys do tell that to your mates on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:36 AM
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They don't whine about men joining TRP. They find your cult distasteful and your ideas offensive. And yes they don't offer alternatives because there is no such thing as a magic bullet to bed as many HB8-10 women as possible. Also I don't see what can be worse than your nasty rants about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:35 AM
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That's what you guys tell the clueless guys that show up on your boards. How is that strawman. A coach works with you; he learns who you are and provides help tailored to what you experience. He does NOT throw the same ill-devised advice you guys provide to everyone after they've been on your boards for 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 08:30 AM
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No. You're the ones saying "you should lift", "you should hold your frame". You guys are the ones saying he is doing something wrong. You are the one pointing fingers, shaming them and telling them they are betas or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 08:26 AM
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So? Edit: i didn't say there is something wrong with u. I said "get some help".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 08:18 AM
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Are we discussing lack of instant success here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 08:05 AM
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No, your coach is not a stranger. And your coach doesn't tell you that you should lift. If you ever decide to lift, it'll be your own decision and your own responsibility, not because some idiot tells you all women fall for men who lift or worse. No coach or therapist in his/her right mind would encourage playing mind games or overthinking every situation in your life to hold frame and make sure you have your spouse under your thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 08:03 AM
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Even actors, entrepreneurs, athletes go to therapy to maximise their performance. There is nothing wrong with visiting a therapist when you feel the need to improve yourself. I suggest you watch the TV series "Billions".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:50 AM
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It's not about understanding what the other guys do, but what you are doing wrong, what makes you unhappy. There is no feedback in a therapy session. No one is telling you what to say or do or believe in a therapy. The only material is your personal experience. You meet with someone who helps you put words on situations which are making you unhappy and make you look at them from a different perspective. The therapist is someone who is on your side, (s)he is not judgemental, shows empathy and all…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:46 AM
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Yes. Did I misunderstand your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:30 AM
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That's not what they claim. They say that barring outliers, all women are like that. I am just mirroring their claim. If AWALT help them avoid the dating pitfalls, then we should have AMAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:29 AM
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We aren't supposed to have a plan for all the situations you are likely to encounter. You're supposed to be socialised and learn as you go how to deal with other people around you. If you need a plan for basic human interactions then I definitely suggest therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:27 AM
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Coaching is a hands on activity. It's different from reading a self help book with universal "truths". It is the same process as talking to a therapist where you analyse your actions and beliefs as you tell about actual situations you have been through.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:23 AM
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It's the same as being good with your team members when you are a team leader. Some people are natural leaders, some need coaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 06:48 AM
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The blue pill is a bunch of people making fun of TRP. It is not supposed to be taken as a set of guidelines or anything. See it as anything but RP theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 06:46 AM
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Well a lot of women feel insulted by AWALT. I don't see how this is a problem for RPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 06:43 AM
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