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A fisherman with many rods setup will never go hungry. A fisherman with only one rod will go hungry almost every night.
/r/seduction27/07/26 05:00 PM
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I always go with the bareback test. If a girl truly is into you and trust you 100% completely then the relationship in the bedroom goes from condom to complete rawdog at that point you got a girl that's wife material.
/r/seduction19/07/26 09:18 AM
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My coach Uncle always said fat on men is the fastest pussy drying machine on the planet
/r/seduction15/07/26 06:14 AM
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/r/seduction01/07/26 05:57 AM
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Any girls that says the usual you're a nice guy but I only wanna be friends is a great opportunity for you to "counter" soft reject them with something like I'm only interested in intimate relationship with women so we shake hands and part ways. This shows you actually have some steel between your legs and you're willing to burn that bridge and never see them again. While 99% of the time that will be the case there is that slim 1% chance you might get her interested as you're seen more assertive…
/r/seduction01/07/26 05:52 AM
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Or any social media for that matter because even for the sake of argument she was gonna chat with you on the social platform she's being slammed by literal 100's DM's and trying to find your ass is like a needle in a haystack Make her put her money where are mouth is. Say you deleted all your social media app because its negative toxicity with proof of your socialess phone and that phone number digits are the only way you and her can communicate. She'll be put into a forced position to either de…
/r/seduction01/07/26 05:31 AM
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Tinder should be your last resort not your first port of call
/r/seduction26/06/26 11:53 PM
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My buddy have to move back home to parents due to job loss (tech) and he gets laid all the time, either he makes an excuse that his home is being remodeled and has a hotel already booked for the night or they go back to her place.
/r/seduction26/06/26 02:19 PM
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Difference between a man who has a chance with 9s and 10's with ones who don't have a chance in hell are ones who still have dignity and honor and don't resort to banging 4-5's just because they have blue balls.
/r/seduction25/06/26 09:16 PM
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I watched all the James Bond and Mission impossible films, i'm ready to be a super secret spy now.
/r/seduction15/06/26 11:07 PM
2

Currently too fat which is pretty much 100% anti pussy magnet
/r/seduction12/06/26 07:33 PM
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fetlife and feeld is literally 95% male to 5% female ratio, unless you're looking like Brad Pitt, having a 6 pack and driving around in a lambo good luck getting anything from those websites
/r/seduction05/06/26 05:15 PM
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Knew a dude who had drunken threesome with his blood cousin and niece. No he's not from Alabama
/r/seduction05/06/26 05:14 PM
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You can be shredded 6 packs but with the face of steve buscemi still get no bitches. But steve buscemi gets bitches despite his fugly face because he's famous actor. Food for thought
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:53 PM
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Not necessarily true. you can refrain for casual sex or one night stands and go with dedicated monogamous partners who are fully and regularly tested
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:37 PM
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Hoes and whores are prostitutes who fuck for money Sluts are girls who fuck for purely pleasure
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:36 PM
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Only protects against HPV, there's no viable herpes vaccine yet
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:34 PM
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Nope, visual inspection for sores or bleeding is the worst kind of herpes and warts testing. A chick's mouth may see "clean" but she can still shed the herpes/warts virus called asymptotic or invisible shedding
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:33 PM
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Sorry homie visual inspection is the worst kind of herpes and warts testing. A chick's pussy may see "clean" but she can still shed the herpes/warts virus called asymptotic or invisible shedding or somes hit
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:32 PM
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What retard in the history of casual sex answers yes I'm dirty full of Aids, no they lie through their teeth about being "clean"
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:31 PM
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If she truly is the "village Bicycle" and everybody on the block has had their "turn" with her the you have to be under the assumption she's carrying just about every STD not protected by Condoms (HPV, HSV, etc) that just the statistical cold hard facts. Condoms protect a lot but don't protect against areas not covered so shit like herpes or crabs is still gonna get you. If you can live with a life time of itchy scabby herpes then by all means go to pound town, if not stick with monogamous partn…
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:31 PM
1

Girls can smell fear and desperation like blood in the water from miles away like sharks
/r/seduction01/06/26 03:43 PM
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actually imagine a boxers made of rubber
/r/seduction30/05/26 07:37 PM
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You can take precaution against genital herpes HSV2 with special body condoms that cover the areas that condoms don't protect
/r/seduction29/05/26 09:58 PM
2

Either date women much shorter than you almost oompa loompa status or convince taller women you give great cunnilingus ...standing up
/r/seduction29/05/26 09:50 PM
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Because everybody across all spectrum and political alignments, seduction community, every colored pill, manosphere, feminists, liberals, conservatives, etc agree LOOKS is the foot in the door if not an entire door opener. I don't care how charismatic or rich you are, if you look like Frankenstein's monster or hunchback of notre dame you ain't getting laid without paying an arm and a leg for it.
/r/seduction19/05/26 04:44 PM
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You're just a meal ticket and a warm shoulder to lay her head on rare lonely Saturday night. If she had kind of interest in your she would've at least sucked your dick already by now.
/r/seduction11/05/26 07:23 PM
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Lemme guess that fattest guy just happens to be your floor manager boss driving around in a Ferrari while you're driving around in a Kia or Hyundai
/r/seduction11/05/26 07:20 PM
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all of us men have a hard red line in that none of us would bang a 3 or below rated chick Yet we forget women have their own hard red lines as well so if you're 3 or 4 looking ass thinks he has a ice cream chance in hell then your deluding yourself. Hit the gym, get plastic surgery, do whatever it takes to elevate your own ranking first before complaining about getting no action
/r/seduction11/05/26 07:19 PM
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I agree it'll take YEARS before you reach your ideal body shape and financial money goal so what are you supposed to to in the meantime? Just jerk it to pornhub for the next 10 years? There's nothing wrong with dating 5's and 6's as a "temporary" girlfriend until you upgrade your life then you can upgrade your girlfriend.
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:43 PM
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The thing is most of us who are way to overweight, underpaid/broke, etc has an ice cream's chance in hell of landing a 9 or a 10 in our current non-idealized state in life. So of course we are gonna work on better ourselves. Get in shape at the gym, work hard at the company for promotion, etc but in that long journey for improvment doesn't mean we don't have to live like sexless monks. We can still get "temporary" girlfriends who maybe a 6 or a 7 on a good day somebody to keep our bed warm.
/r/seduction20/04/26 09:43 PM
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That hairy dude that bothers everyday woman for clicks?
/r/seduction20/04/26 06:18 PM
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Outside of "warm" referrals (female relatives, female co-workers, etc) giving you dating leads and blind dates. Cold approaches is an average man's only means at legitimate relationship. All those tech online shit like Tinder or Hinge doesn't work.
/r/seduction20/04/26 05:40 PM
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For men a women's physical attraction is everything. For women it ranges anywhere from 33% to 66% in their calculations. No matter how you slice it even with 33% physical stats failed that leaves you a 66% test score which in my schools is still a fail.
/r/seduction14/04/26 07:12 PM
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Women can smell desperation and fear like sharks can smell blood hundreds of miles away
/r/seduction07/04/26 08:38 PM
1

Maybe socialize in a setting that suits your interests and needs like anime or gaming conventions?
/r/seduction05/04/26 09:20 PM
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Your her back up dick in case the current guy she's seeing doesn't work out
/r/seduction18/03/26 07:52 PM
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What's the pro 1st date move? Eating her pussy like you're at a all you can eat buffet?
/r/seduction11/03/26 04:04 AM
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Well the reverse of that "myth" is true it would be insanely hard if no impossible with a huge beer gut and no money in the bank to land a 9 or 10 girl. The truth like most things in life is somewhere in between the 2 extremes.
/r/seduction09/03/26 07:01 PM
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Easiest way is to hit the gym and hit the wallet. 6 Figure income dudes with 6 packs makes seduction on easy difficulty
/r/seduction09/03/26 03:59 PM
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Seducing a woman has lotta similarities with being a salesperson. If you can't get the client at least somewhat interested in the first 15 mins of talking then that Sales or girl is lost. Customers who are on the fence you gotta be strategic and tactical in a way to finally convince them to sign the dotted line (most ladies are in this category btw). Finally always be closing (always try to get her digits)
/r/seduction05/03/26 04:42 PM
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Most women don't approach because of society and cultural expectations that it always the man that makes the first move. And if they want to approach its because they literally want the man in front of them to drill them later that night and with the hints said man is giving off (face it we're easy to read our horniess is like a giant advertising billboard) its almost no risk for her to show sexual interest.
/r/seduction03/03/26 04:01 AM
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"I have a boyfriend" is the official language of all women that she's not interested in you regardless of her actual relationship status. Be proud you shot your shot and got rejected king move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction24/02/26 04:36 PM
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Shit like this is why most FWB doesn't work one side or both sides of the relationship wants it to stop being about friends.
/r/seduction18/02/26 05:37 PM
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Bars and clubs are called "meat markets" for a reason as its the lowest hanging fruit for strangers to find partners and/or hook up. The loud music isn't conductive for meaningful conversation so the entirety of seduction is all physically eye based. Suffice to say the male "competition" is pretty high so you got dudes bringing their "A" game such as expensive clothes/watches, being absolute peak body physique, having huge bank rolls, etc. Not to say its impossible to get laid with bars/clubs bu…
/r/seduction18/02/26 04:30 PM
1

How about you invest that $10k and turn it into $100k and see where it really takes you
/r/seduction16/02/26 10:49 PM
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Good looking is an instant "foot in the door" but looks alone won't get the panties off for the ladies. You gotta also have personality and cash.
/r/seduction12/02/26 03:33 AM
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Just look at average looking celebrity men with smoking hot wives? What do they have to "compensate" for average looks? Money, power and fame. Now obviously unless you star in a hit movie fame is out of reach but money and power is still a reachable albeit a high goal for most of us average men.
/r/seduction10/02/26 10:42 PM
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Your first mistake was thinking 1st base automatically means homerun with a girl. Lotta of girls have no sex on the 1st date rule unless the dude is insanely hot.
/r/seduction27/01/26 11:30 PM
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If you're still ugly then fatten up your wallet, money has always been the great equalizer in men.
/r/seduction22/12/25 09:35 PM
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He was either too big or too small happens a more often that you think
/r/seduction15/12/25 08:35 PM
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The deal aint sealed until they sign on the dotted line You didn't score until you jizzed inside her or condom (lotta big or small dick dudes have had girls stop mid sex)
/r/seduction15/12/25 08:35 PM
1

Look at all your parents, I guarantee you 95% of your mommy and daddies has an age gap averaging 5-10 years
/r/seduction13/12/25 01:15 AM
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Or have cash and/or looks preferably both
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:09 PM
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When you put a woman on a pedestal the only direction she can look is down at you
/r/seduction17/11/25 03:49 PM
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Hard PG-13 toeing the line to Rated R region is the key to getting her all interested and worked up but that shit only works if she has mutual attraction to you in the first place.
/r/seduction17/11/25 01:02 AM
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Cosplay as a Warhammer 40k sister of battle and ask him to corrupt you like a dirty Slaneesh cultist
/r/seduction13/11/25 07:08 AM
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The issue most guys here have is that they are never their "true selves" in the first couple dates. They always put on a "persona" of a more perfect fake version of themselves a man that is without any faults, weaknesses or vulnerabilities. Women can see through that fake ass bullshit Kardashian style of "acting" right away and its why they themselves seem distant and non commital they don't know the "real" you. If you act 100% like your true self from day 1 you WILL get a response whether its p…
/r/seduction11/11/25 10:56 PM
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That's the challenge with women. ALL of them have minimum number of dates + does this dude checkmark most boxes criteria. Like if you checkmark ALL her boxes date #1 don't be surprised if she takes you home tonight or jumps on your dick 2nd date. Other times you can checkmark all her boxes but she's gonna stick to her 10 dates before access to pussy rule. Or you checkmark some boxes and slowly checkmark others as you date more and more and its been 3 months before she gives you access to her bed…
/r/seduction09/11/25 06:04 AM
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Mark Manson said it best: you force the prospect into a yes or no decision the faster she gets to an answer the faster you get into her bed or onto the next chick if she says no. You spending months in the "maybe" zone is a giant time waste for both you and the girl.
/r/seduction04/11/25 10:13 PM
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Physical and sexual are rarely mutually exclusive often times they come in pairs. Physical attractions gets your foot in the door, the sexual attraction after its what gets her to remove her panties.
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:36 PM
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Just because she sounds hot doesn't mean she is hot, make sure the mask comes off and you do a full assessment before sleeping with her
/r/seduction31/10/25 06:43 PM
1

You give me any American women and 9 out of 10 times they be pumped/dumped/abused and have grown wiser to the world of men who see them as nothing but a wet hole and pretty face on 2 legs.
/r/seduction31/10/25 04:34 AM
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Its almost like the more honest and truthful you are with a women the higher likely she'll invite you over to her house tonight
/r/seduction30/10/25 11:40 PM
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That just tells her that you're either desperate for sex or a fuck boy either way she's ghosting you or she's gonna give you blue balls for a month to see how you react. Women instinctively know when sex is your #1 goal or youre desperate for any kind of pussy its like blood in the water for sharks for them. If you can somehow push sex as your 2nd or hell 3rd goal suddenly getting laid becomes way easier even if it seems like a paradox
/r/seduction30/10/25 05:13 AM
2

Tall white dudes approaching latinas is like shooting fish in a barrel
/r/seduction26/10/25 01:14 AM
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Its easy: Be attractive Don't be unattractive
/r/seduction23/10/25 03:59 PM
12

Good guy, bad guy doesn't matter the man with the looks always get the ladies. I know a dude who gotten laid plenty of times with the pick up line "nice shoes, wanna fuck?" just because he's 6'5" with a face of a Calvin Klein model.
/r/seduction14/10/25 07:09 PM
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Fake confidence leads to real confidence is a real and documented proven strategy but the issue is all the other parts of you that you "fake". Once you banged couple times and are going steady that's when "mask" comes off and the real you comes out and the real man she sees vs the one she got seduced by could be a night and day difference to the point she stops liking you. Then she goes with another guy who fakes his confidence and repeats the same vicious cycle.
/r/seduction13/10/25 04:20 PM
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Lowering your standards increases your odds of getting one night stand tail just saying. Dudes who wait, approach and get rejected constantly by 8,9,10s wait all year until they get lucky with a single 8 and then repeat another long cycle. Guys who strike out with 8-10s who go for back up average or above average 5-7 can get consistent pussy.
/r/seduction13/10/25 01:01 AM
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A confident salesman whose willing to walk away (see madmen) will always get a lot more sales then a desperate begging salesman praying the next meeting is a close.
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:30 PM
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Oh no my steak too juicy and my lobster too buttery
/r/seduction30/09/25 03:28 PM
4

Pursing women is like trying to catch slippery fish with your bare hands the more strength and the harder you squeeze the more likely the fish will slip from your fingers. It's all about applying the right kind of pressure its a combination of instinct and timing.
/r/seduction29/09/25 06:03 PM
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With handsome man many women will throw caution to the winds and actually jump his bones on a first date that's the world pretty boys live and we ain't in it.
/r/seduction20/09/25 08:52 PM
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Because many of us are afraid of blowing the whole opportunity by trying to hard to get in her pants the 1st date because the risk of us being labeled playboy or pump and dump by the girl is to great and she breaks it off for us. Prisoner's dilemma theory dictates the safe move is not to try and initiate sex on the first date.
/r/seduction16/09/25 06:23 PM
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This can happen in the realm of reality....if OP was millionaire driving around in a Ferrari sporting a Rolex watch then at that point it ain't seduction its straight up gold digger or sugar daddy situation.
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:45 PM
0

Its amazing how men are perceived as "bad boys" just for standing their grounds, upholding their beliefs and willing to go against the grain causing disrupting to harmony just to send a message. you guys are confusing bad boys with the boys who have confidence coming out of both ends of their genitals
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:11 AM
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Pushing 40 y/o here. Been in both situations both loving dedicated relationship phase for couple years and year or 2 of just one night stands. Having loveless meaningless sex with some random bar club floozie with a condom that doesn't feel to great vs a hot passionate love making with a women bareback and her letting you a bust a nut raw inside her. I'd pick the relationship woman every time.
/r/seduction04/09/25 06:13 AM
1

Hit the gym to get in shape, make more money, becoming charming to everybody then landing 9's and 10's is nothing but cake walk (except those chicks who have height requirements)
/r/seduction03/09/25 03:19 PM
0

If a rule existed then ugly ass celebrities wouldn't be able to marry supermodel have medicore looking kids.
/r/seduction03/09/25 03:18 PM
1

Whichever one is more sane and mentally stable. Dated both types before. The guarded one ended when she threw a knife at me. The open and friendly one ended when she let 5 guys run a train on her at a party I wasn't at.
/r/seduction20/08/25 06:06 AM
2

I hate the term "nice guy" because it implies being polite and courteousness means you will never get laid. Manners Maketh Man The proper term should be weak men. Men who avoid conflict at all costs, who are afraid to voice their opinion even if its goes direct conflict with the girls' position (politically, ethically, religiously, etc) men who are willing to change their mind more times then they change their underwear in hopes of girl liking them. A lot of times you gotta be willing to voice y…
/r/seduction17/08/25 12:29 AM
2

The big 3: dude's physical characteristics, dude's finances and dude's personality.
/r/seduction13/08/25 06:07 PM
13

I always said to my friends I strand you on a desert island with the hottest girl on the planet who will give you sex 24/7 but i give her the most annoying personality on the planet. Then I give you a gun with one bullet. I bet within the week you either shoot the hottest girl on the planet or put the gun to your own mouth because no amount of sex from a 10 is worth the mental breakdown of dealing with an annoying personality.
/r/seduction06/08/25 10:31 PM
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Women can smell desperation miles away like sharks can smell blood in the water at great distances. If a girl gets even a smallest scent that you're desperate for sex and it instantly shuts her down.
/r/seduction31/07/25 04:37 PM
1

No we're both kinda right, my example is when 2 dudes are presented the woman will always go for the more attractive one just like if we were presented with 2 ladies most of us would go for the one that's most appealing. Frankieddrunkie example is different because its a one dude approaching without any competition
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:37 PM
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The girl already decided which of the 2 guys she was gonna fuck from the 1st moment she saw them both. Sometimes that's how simple it is, no amount of word play, seduction techniques or gifts will convince that same girl to change her mind and fuck the other guy
/r/seduction28/07/25 02:38 PM
2

Talking to a girl like a normal human being like you would talk to other professionals in professional industry convention of your occupation and suddenly getting laid is 10x easier because the girls doesn't sense lies or ill attempt at getting into her panties
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:05 AM
0

She's jumping on your dick on the next date.
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:24 PM
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The "quality" of the product is just as important as the sales pitch to sell it. Now the lesser quality that product is the higher sales skill is required to sell it vs a quality product so high customers COME to you to buy it. 10 years ago My uncle was a b2b computer salesman back in the old country. His product were slick linux installed workstation that was both robust and cheap AF. But it was a hard sales pitch because linux is notoriously hard to learn and use especially to your common man …
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:17 PM
2

Imagine if make up, plastic surgery and filters disappeared tomorrow. There would be a mass reckoning among womenhood.
/r/seduction11/07/25 09:55 PM
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Any place where the the women are expected to be hit on: bars, clubs, big parties, concerts, etc. We call these places meat grinder for a reason because you're competing with every other dude there Now any place where women don't typically expect to be hit on is also a challenge. These places are often called "day game". Places like Library, book stores, malls, outdoor nature, etc. Women's "guard" is general down but at the same time they might just be there to exercise, buy a book, do yoga, etc…
/r/seduction20/06/25 01:52 AM
1

If you're under 5'8, doesn't matter how ideal your body fat percentage is. I've never seen fat rich 5'8" that doesn't have a supermodel wife or gf
/r/seduction17/06/25 03:11 AM
5

Impossible to tell you what the most attractive male body is as its highly subjective based on the women. Some chicks like skinny emo boys to women who like jacked up arnold schwarzenegger looking mofos. But I can tell you almost unanimously no chicks like fat morbidly obese men. And the "dad bod" is a minority population of women and besides you have to actually work to have a "dad bod" aka muscle beneath the fat to pull it off so it takes work in the gym to even get a dad bod.
/r/seduction17/06/25 03:10 AM
0

Following content creator or any online personality influencers when it comes to picking up women is like asking Freddy Kruger on tips on babysitting children.
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:42 AM
5

So go to the gym, go outside socialize and go live your life?
/r/seduction09/06/25 10:53 PM
12

Poon tang is for closers.
/r/seduction08/06/25 08:33 PM
2

Instructions unclear, resumed my Claire Obscure Expedition 33 save file before my date arrived and now she's pissed we can't leave until I finish this long boss battle.
/r/seduction08/06/25 08:32 PM
45

I think all camps of teachers and strategy can agree up on "kino" aka getting physical. There's is no better test then finding an excuse to engage her physically whether its through dance, laughing arm touch, etc to see if she's interested in you.
/r/seduction01/06/25 03:19 AM
14

There's a reason why attractive women are other attractive women's kryptonite because it signals to attractive women that the dude must have something "special" to be able to pull that kind of high tier women. Paid off my hotter cousins or nieces to wingwomen for me once in a while.
/r/seduction31/05/25 12:04 AM
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I have even a worse one. One time I matched with what I thought was some white blonde hair chick. To my surprise I see a very light skinned black girl. I would've normally walked away but my curiosity had to know. I asked if her blond white girl pic was her. she said yes and she was 3/4 white and admitted to photoshopping herself as Aryan just to get more right swipes on Tinder since black chicks have it the hardest on dating apps.
/r/seduction29/05/25 06:24 PM
0

I've been on Finasteride for 10 years starting from college and only had an occasional issue with getting it up and that's definitely result into getting into middle age old man status.
/r/seduction28/05/25 05:37 PM
1

Most dudes think women like the arnold schwarzenegger buffed out the max physique and will eat or inject anything to achieve that figure. In reality roided out juice muscle monkeys is only attractive to the smallest sliver of the women population. Just being in shape and having some muscle (6 packs helps hint hint) is more than great by most women's standards.
/r/seduction28/05/25 05:35 PM
5

Whole lotta average men think they deserve to bang Taylor Swift or Rihanna
/r/seduction28/05/25 06:39 AM
2

Majority of those 9 million women fell hard for some Chad or Tyrone whose is at least a 7 on the attractive scale. Girl gets knocked up, chad/tyrone leaves for cigs and never comes back then Girl starts bitching about how she can never find a good man to take care of her and her bastard child.
/r/seduction23/05/25 12:41 AM
1

Women's empathy levels are almost telepathic. Like they can filter the fake feelings and persona bullshit of pick up fuck boys and sense their true intentions. So when you boys complain about shit tests, her waiting an entire month before giving you a blowjob or her juggling multiple men while seeing you is the reason why.
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:49 PM
3

Let see what male pornstar typically looks like: 6'+ feet tall, handsome, 7+ inch big dick thick, muscled toned with 6 packs bad boys who don't take shit from anyone and isn't afraid to take what he wants. Nearly all ladies on the planet get their panties wet at the above description and would let that pornstar bad boy slide it in raw on the first date.
/r/seduction20/05/25 10:07 PM
0

There should be a club/bar policy if there's a dude that's a serial date interceptor/clock blocker unless he's dropping rolls every night should be banned from said institution....or all the dudes he's cockblocked one night take him out back and teach him a lesson in bros before hoes code.
/r/seduction14/05/25 11:11 PM
3

If you have some money to splurge, Eastern europe. If you have a LOT of money to burn then Western Europe.
/r/seduction11/05/25 11:11 PM
22

Professional women traveling to conventions are often already have partners or already married so they're looking to take wild cheat ride. Last convention women I banged, we're both pretty hammered and got pretty irresponsible and didn't use protection. A year later I check her social media to see if she was attending the convention again and I see she's got a baby and got me wondering if its mine?
/r/seduction11/05/25 07:25 PM
3

Looks is not the end all be all if it weren't the case how come fat rich dudes are landing literal supermodels? Dick size is important but its a double edge sword. No 5'1" wants a 9 inch monster going inside her no matter how much lube is used. Lotta girls have a strict no sex/bj/kiss rule until after X number of dates rule. Completely agree, reveal some but keep the rest a mystery to reveal later. You being molested by your Catholic Priest in 4th grade is not something you should be dropping on…
/r/seduction07/05/25 10:57 PM
3

Step 1: Be Attractive. Step 2: Don't Be Unattractive
/r/seduction05/05/25 09:32 PM
0

A bit of liquid courage give you the idgaf boost.
/r/seduction30/04/25 06:41 PM
5

We talk about dick size all the time and make jokes about it but has anyone really spoken about pussy size? Some women are tighter than than vice grip and anything beyond 6 inches is uncomfortable while other women aka size queens can swallow a whole mandingo 14 incher like it was nothing.
/r/seduction30/04/25 03:37 AM
1

There a solution to the fog of war mystery between man and women when women ask a man to come over. If the women has no interest in sex what so ever just say its her "time of the month" BAM all smooth moves and talks about plowing her field just went out the window.
/r/seduction28/04/25 03:35 AM
1

Do you truly know if short king doesn't have a lot of money or are you just assuming so? Even if he was broke he could be a pre med student or law student that has "potential" to make a lot of money in the very near future. One can't just judge a book by its cover from just social media postings.
/r/seduction21/04/25 06:35 AM
3

The day makeup runs out is the day we achieve true gender equality.
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:42 PM
4

I could go on about the lore of Warmhammer 40k to a college chick who could give a rat's ass about the emperor of mankind. But as long as i'm hot enough and charismatic enough; she'll listen to every word I say and dress up as a Adepta Soroitas and ride my dick.
/r/seduction08/04/25 08:49 PM
8

That women want sex just as much if not more than the guy its she is willing to wait muuuuccchhhh longer before dropping her panties while dudes would drop their jeans on the 1st date THATS why men have always been at a disadvantage in the dating wars since the dawn of time our desperation for sex.
/r/seduction27/03/25 03:46 PM
3

They thought you were a good choice but they found somebody better later that night, happens all the time OP don't take ghosting up the ass like so many do and just move on.
/r/seduction17/03/25 08:34 PM
16

I hate the term "nice" guy because it implies you have to be a mean fuck head to get laid. Also hate the term "bad boy" because it implies being a no rules following kind of guy get you lot of pussy. The term "nice" should be replaced with weak because that is the most true definition. A weak man is never confrontational, always a "yes" man, compromises at the first sign of trouble and is always of afraid of losing a girl's interest, etc. The term "bad" boy should be replaced with confident man.…
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:51 PM
2

Those are the still somewhat "hot" older women who can still attract guys until they find out she's a single mother then either stays long enough to tap that and leave or getting ready to become step daddy
/r/seduction11/03/25 06:42 AM
2

Post wall women who are divorced and/or with children are like shooting fish in a barrel
/r/seduction11/03/25 03:07 AM
3

Find a friend that's attractive by general standards but one that's not your "cup of tea" so the relationship is strictly platonic. I know guy friend who has a hot black friend he uses as a wingwomen and that shit works since he has no attraction to the darker female what so ever and she has no interest in white dick so its mutually beneficial
/r/seduction10/03/25 09:32 AM
14

Professional Coach < Professional Wingman < Female Wingman Something about having an attractive women friend as a wingman is like kryptonite to other hot chicks.
/r/seduction10/03/25 09:19 AM
2

"And men don't need women to pretty themselves up and look good to be attracted to them." Is also a counter point I heard in some dumb conversations as well.
/r/seduction07/03/25 07:24 PM
7

Careful hunting in college because word quickly spreads around that you're just a playboy looking for pussy.
/r/seduction06/03/25 05:02 PM
2

Those 2 fall under husband material imo
/r/seduction01/03/25 11:07 AM
9

Looks, money, husband material. These are the 3 key factors women look for in a man. For small % women its mostly money for others is mostly looks but majority of women have a somewhat proportionate mix of the three. We men constantly joke or bitch that we wouldn't dare date a 4 or 5 unless Hitler put a gun to our heads yet fail to realize women have base standards they would never compromise on.
/r/seduction28/02/25 09:15 PM
2

Tanning is way bad for you, it ages you insanely quick that you look older than your age, your brown skin is horribly mismatched with your pasty white parts, skin cancer chances are too high, etc etc.
/r/seduction28/02/25 12:32 AM
3

I've never seen anybody criticized for not having tattoos but tattooed people have seen never ending comments and complaints of why they ruined their bodies or how shite their tattoo quality is.
/r/seduction27/02/25 04:31 AM
1

It was scientifically proven that the alpha wolf behaviors do not show anywhere in humanity.
/r/seduction26/02/25 08:48 AM
2

Don't get jealous of dudes who have the balls to risk their money at the pussy blackjack tables and winning it big while you're sitting at the bar on the side with jealous eyes.
/r/seduction26/02/25 08:48 AM
6

The only thing worse than Captain save a hoe is being captain of the titanic
/r/seduction26/02/25 12:18 AM
1

That's like saying having blue balls suck take a hammer ot them
/r/seduction26/02/25 12:12 AM
58

There's an old saying Better to Remain Silent and Be Thought a Fool than to Speak and Remove All Doubt
/r/seduction24/02/25 04:53 PM
13

Lets not beat around the bush here Nice guy is just a kind way of saying a weak man. Also there's a big difference between showing your vulnerability and revealing something personal intimidate about you vs trauma dumping that Father Patrick touched you in the no no areas as a kid.
/r/seduction24/02/25 04:47 PM
-3

If you talk to her like you don't give a shit whether she rejects you, jumps on your dick tonight or just stringing along is the key. If she perceives your i dont give a fuck attitude then it at the very least gets her attention regardless if she's attracted to you or not.
/r/seduction23/02/25 09:45 PM
1

Something about having woman wingman is like kryptonite to ladies it makes you suddenly that much more attractive.
/r/seduction20/02/25 07:18 PM
-3

Why would i want to bring children into a dying world? I don't want my kids/grandkids having to fight in the resource water wars for the last remaining drops of fresh water on this planet.
/r/seduction20/02/25 07:17 PM
1

For cats, bring fancy feasts in one hand and cat nip on the other For women bring diamond necklace on one hand and a Prada bag in another.
/r/seduction20/02/25 07:10 PM
2

I've had several dozen one night stand no emotion no love and condom protected sex. Then I had handful of dedicated partner girlfriends that truly loved the man i was that let me go rawdog but a nut deep inside her every night. Casual sex is like fast food, it hits the spot and somewhat delicious. Dedicated partner sex is like 5 course meal at a fancy restaurant.
/r/seduction20/02/25 07:02 PM
8

When a women comes into YOUR place to netflix and chill it sure as hell to watch crime documentaries, she wanted dick that night OP. Now I'm pretty hazy about the rules when she invites you to HER place.
/r/seduction20/02/25 04:28 PM
1

The problem with dressing with current trends is that its often short lived and you're throwing money at Fashion budget furnace "keeping up". A moderately priced custom tailored suit always timeless and as the ZZ top song says: 'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp-dressed man
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:47 AM
0

Fancy way of saying I like you only as a friend
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:09 AM
2

Every girls has her own "speed" from first date to fucking. Some "fast" girls put out on the first night. Others won't even so much as touch your dick until 3 months into the relationship. See this entire thread is all over the place with the proper "wait" time some saying they'll ditch the girl if no pussy action by the 5th date other said they'd wait for months. Women know all men desire sex and its that control access to sex is why men always are at the disadvantage in the dating war.
/r/seduction19/02/25 03:25 AM
10

Dating apps is like walking 300 miles just to buy a bottle of pre packaged milk, there's no odds of being damaged or hurt and most likely sold out by the time you get to the store. Approaching in real life is like milking an actual cow, there's a lot of shit involved, you can and most likely get hurt but odds of getting milk are much higher.
/r/seduction18/02/25 04:49 PM
66

So that's what I been doing wrong all these years. My usual customary greeting of "hey bby want sum fuk" always seems to give the wrong impression
/r/seduction16/02/25 08:21 PM
3

Come here gesture only works if you're so handsome her panties are fully soaked by the time she reaches you otherwise you gotta work the seduction talk game.
/r/seduction12/02/25 11:04 PM
-1

Be hot Don't be not hot /s But honestly just a wink and smile to dudes your attracted to is more than enough
/r/seduction12/02/25 10:58 PM
-5

Yes if you qualify for her minimum standards then "game" can assist you in closing the "deal"
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:23 PM
10

The issue brown guys have in White Europe is the mass tidal waves of immigrants "refugees" just flooding the country and all the negatives that come with it: destroying the social net, skyrocketing the crimes rates, etc. Its safe to assume brown man are at a disadvantage at the starting line. That being said I've seen hundreds of these rich "oil" arabs just slaying it with supermodel snow bunnies in Europe so you gotta act like you have both money and social status and even the brownest of brown…
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:44 PM
-15

Looks, height, ethnicity, race, money, status, clout, etc. ALL of these factors MATTER. If you don't meet her minimum standards of the previously mentioned, no amount of "game", coaching or books is gonna convince a 9 to go out with your 5 looking ass.
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:41 PM
1

That's why I think 95% of these "coaches" are full of shit
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:39 PM
0

Homie typing and speaking aren't even in the same league hell they aint even the same sport.
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:38 PM
9

Got 70-90% and above across the board on medium difficulty (don't agree with the time limit (slow typer) and long response penalties. acting like a sarcastic comedian seems like easy mode for shit tests. Channel your inner Dave Chappel or Eddie Griffith people.
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:43 AM
1

If you look like hunchback of Notre dame no amount of KINO touching is gonna convince a woman to sleep with you
/r/seduction10/02/25 08:32 PM
2

Unless you're literally Brad Pitt tier or have literal millions (at that point you wouldn't be bothering with dating apps as women naturally come to you) With dating apps the only winning move is not to play
/r/seduction10/02/25 07:12 AM
1

If she's asking for $2,000 Prada or Gucci shoes then tell her you want to see other people lol
/r/seduction08/02/25 08:51 PM
1

You give me the hottest girl on the planet and she will give you book worth of stuff she would like to change about herself and her life.
/r/seduction07/02/25 03:55 AM
8

I remember one dude who was falsely accused of rape back in my college of 50k student and anybody with ovaries knew of the dude. Yes extreme example but it proves my point.
/r/seduction04/02/25 04:23 PM
56

Careful doing the seduction game in college as word gets around faster than covid. Pretty soon every girl will know you as the gigolo fuck boi who bangs anyone with a heartbeat.
/r/seduction04/02/25 05:59 AM
4

Texts are like creamer in coffee or sugar in cake there's a right amount and there's the wrong amounts along with the quality of said amount.
/r/seduction04/02/25 05:56 AM
35

Having deep emotional connection with a significant other that you can bareback bust a nut inside every night is 10x better than sleeping with 100 women with cold emotionless condom sex.
/r/seduction31/01/25 10:50 PM
2

Just like how Doyle Brunson's super system is the poker bible for players Manson's Models should be considered the bible for seduction players
/r/seduction31/01/25 02:26 AM
2

Look at Chinese dudes in youtube nearly all of them are wearing height boosting insoles or straight up hidden platform shoes. If women boost their attractiveness with make up and fake tits why can't guys use height booster to even the playing field? Just don't be greedy in your height boost so something like 2-3 inches max and pursue chicks shorter than 5'3". That way when the clothes and more importantly shoes come off she might get bit confused but its not outright deception.
/r/seduction27/01/25 04:38 PM
1

Get in shape should be top of this list. If you're a sweaty fat ass there's aint no way in this reality are you gonna pull a 9 or a 10 unless you're driving around in a Ferrari and paying her tuition but that's going into sugar daddy arena. If men's have minimum physical standards you bet your ass women do as well and being fat is easily one of the most easily fixable physical situations (now ugly face on the other hand that's a different story and lotta dudes go plastic surgery route)
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:55 AM
2

That's probably the reason why the most jacked man in the world with an ugly face is still a hard sell unless he happens to be rich to compensate. Might want to visit a beauty clinic and get a professional opinion.
/r/seduction23/01/25 08:24 PM
3

Because smoke signals and carrier pigeons went out of style 100 years ago.
/r/seduction23/01/25 08:01 PM
1

Assuming you have a fit muscle body, where would you say you rate your face on the beauty scale?
/r/seduction23/01/25 07:43 PM
3

Bars and clubs or better known as "meat" markets are often the easy due to access requiring only a entry fee but the highest requirement for attraction since its mostly physical due to loud music. The trade off is the some of the hottest girls in the city. Something like social stranger group events like meetups is great but the quality of strangers is the entire range from 1 to 10s so your experience may vary.
/r/seduction23/01/25 04:23 PM
22

As an Asian man I've had much more successes by uninstalling all dating apps and going out there into the real world meeting real women then I had swiping endlessly thousands of times with no matches. Especially non-Asian women like White and Latina girls.
/r/seduction23/01/25 03:40 AM
-2

Never compliment a girl's beauty because she's been told that shit 100x a day her entire life. Like others were saying compliment her fashion style, make up, etc.
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:22 PM
6

Zenyatta, "One who fears loss has already lost."
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:52 AM
3

I would sooner do some cheesy pick up lines then ever think about using these.
/r/seduction18/01/25 06:49 PM
15

Talk about politics you better believe it'll redline all her emotions
/r/seduction15/01/25 05:58 PM
1

She wanted it strictly benefits and you pushed your luck and wanted more. She wasn't into that and cut ties, OP story is a dime a dozen. At least he didn't do something fucked up like take off the condom and secretly knock her up in an attempt to force the relationship into something more serious that i read in some fucked up reddit confession posts.
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:45 PM
8

Watch out for meal or event "hoes" who are just using you as a meal ticket for fancy restaurants or expensive events.
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:15 PM
7

WOPR, “A strange game. The only winning move is not to play.”
/r/seduction05/01/25 05:51 PM
-6

Raw dog fingering a girl with god know what kind of skin to skin STDs is pretty brave and stupid OP
/r/seduction04/01/25 10:34 PM
5

Apps are like slot machine tricking dudes into thinking they can score "jackpot" with a decent 6+ rated cutie if they cough up the dough for dating app premium "front of the line" service. NO wait that's a disservice to slot machine because slot machines have to pay out once in a while based on actual statistical odds and regulated by the Vegas gaming commission. A dude could pay a dating app the highest tier and not get a single date for years.
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:12 AM
18

Any women that's punctual is already waifu wife material in my eyes
/r/seduction02/01/25 10:41 PM
0

I don't know where the myth that dudes 6'0" and taller are the only ones getting gf or getting laid because 6 feet and taller guys are only like 14% of the male US population. There's plenty of chicks 5'4" and shorter in this country and short kings can still kill it in the dating scene.
/r/seduction02/01/25 04:32 PM
1

There's famous comedians uglier than sin with hot smoking supermodel girlfriends. If you excel in any of the personality, financial or physical categories it can make up for deficits in the other 2.
/r/seduction28/12/24 07:40 PM
2

2nd easiest way to a woman's heart or bed after looks and money just saying
/r/seduction27/12/24 08:55 PM
3

I would kinda of disagree. There's different kinds of "rizz" and Elon has huge political conservative rizz that righty women would jump on his dick for the opportunity.
/r/seduction27/12/24 07:07 PM
5

Ignoring Elon's massive massive wealth he has one thing that most of us dude doesn't. Instant opinion about him the moment the man walks into the room. If the girl is a heavily leftist liberal then Elon is basically Hitler Satan incarnate and it would take a miracle from God to get her to fuck Elon Musk. If a girl is a uber conservative, her panties are instantly moist and wet and she would Elon hit that without a condom. If a girl is pretty "neutral" about Musk she knows he's world famous and r…
/r/seduction27/12/24 06:58 PM
8

Personality is only 1/3 of the total women attraction equation. The other 2/3 involve physical beauty and financial standing.
/r/seduction26/12/24 04:53 PM
4

That was because in your dad and grandpa's eras your mom and grandma were in the pre independent feminist movement where woman's goal was to look pretty and act like trophy wife for men who were paid great wages everything from CPAs to highly paid blue collar jobs when this country still made stuff (economics of this is probably best discussed in a econ subreddit) Post feminist movement encouraged women to be independent strong dont need no men mentality so go to college and get good paying jobs…
/r/seduction23/12/24 01:47 AM
-2

Its amazing the difference between potential lover and potential rapist is depending on the time of day, the location .....and how handsome the man is.
/r/seduction18/12/24 04:10 PM
11

It's a freaken Mad Max Desert wasteland, all the women in their 30's and older are either: single mother with kids, divorced with kids, divorced no kids but bitter, single the whole time and wanting babies right away and poking holes in your condom. Post wall 30+ y/o women constant bitch men 30+ y/o constantly going for younger women in their 20's because they're cradle chaser or some shit. Its not only because younger women are hotter but for all the reasons mentioned above.
/r/seduction16/12/24 10:10 PM
3

Be hot, flash lotta cash and be life of the party or lower your standards taking home a plain jane or land whale. Bars & clubs are loud, crowded as fuck and shit tons of competition especially hotter dudes. not conductive for deep thought and conversation so everything is all judge by a book's cover "superficial"
/r/seduction14/12/24 09:18 AM
1

Do the legendary triangle, focus on one eye then the mouth then the other eye and rinse and repeat.
/r/seduction12/12/24 08:40 AM
11

There were many moments when I was in a committed relationship having hot sexy sex every other night that i wished I was alone just playing COD with the friends and would've paid prince's ransom for that situation. There are moments in my single life where I've hadn't any action would love to have a gf just blowjob me in my sleep then ride me until i woke up from cumming. The grass will ALWAYS be greener on the other side.
/r/seduction21/11/24 04:53 PM
14

There's dudes with pics of their Lambos and constant vacation photos of far off exotic places in their Insta photo gallery and they got all kinds of bitches wanting to ride their dick just so they can have a taste. It's one extreme example but it drives home the point that a fascinating and alluring profile is all it takes.
/r/seduction18/11/24 05:03 PM
7

There's a reason why September-October is known as "cuffing season" where new couples get together and huddle down at home during the harsh winter months. That being said the opportunities out there may get lower during the winter months but there still opportunities none the less. Plenty of dudes still get action just gotta know where to look. Once pro tip is to be engaged in snow activities like snowboarding or skiing because ski report and towns is still buzzing with activity.
/r/seduction18/11/24 04:57 PM
1

You pass her physical minimum standards category but the personality area is where you're falling flat with women.
/r/seduction16/11/24 07:22 PM
-1

These pump and dump girls still wear the scars of those fuck boys years ago and have their defensive on max. That's why they give dudes shit test, wait weeks or even months before touching his dick hell you'd be lucky to go to 3rd base within 3 months, have dudes pay for everything so in case things don't work out she got free food and events out of it, etc. No amount of PUA tactics, physical/psychological escalation, gifts, etc will accelerate her rate of panties being removed lot of girls have…
/r/seduction15/11/24 09:15 PM
1

Take a hard introspective look within yourself and ask why even plain janes are rejecting you. Now I doubt you have some fugly face, I'm gonna guess you're either too fat and/or shorter than average height. Both are fixable either by losing the weight or inserting some heel extender to artificially boost your height.
/r/seduction15/11/24 06:55 PM
1

Nice guys will never say no, change their ethics/politics/philosophy just to copy the girl and all around a push over in life. Confident men has hard red lines that would put their foot down when women cross, not afraid to show their real politics whether its MAGA or Biden and willing to walk away if the only thing the girl offers is her beauty and nothing else.
/r/seduction15/11/24 02:18 AM
1

Sometimes when you got major blue balls and haven't gotten laid in a long time you just lower your standards just a bit and take home that plain jane.
/r/seduction15/11/24 02:15 AM
6

Lets face it ONS, FWB, casual have all one thing in common, you have to use condoms because there's not enough trust between partners. When you have a dedicated girlfriend that you get to bareback fuck and creampie every night of the week is 3x better than a week load of new random slut to bang every night.
/r/seduction15/11/24 02:13 AM
1

Bad news OP, looks are very important. Good news OP, Looks isn't the end all be all. All the fancy clothes and being shredded muscle in the world isn't gonna help your ass if your face looks like that dude from the goonies. Us men aren't solely judged for our looks, if anything our money finances and the ability to provide is just as important. That's why you see ugly rich dudes with smoking hot models all the time. Op should either learn to get rich or research plastic surgery because the no ha…
/r/seduction13/11/24 07:27 PM
3

There's light shit testing just to weed out to see if you're a fuck boy just wanting a one night stand vs constant shit testing to see if you're truly "the one"
/r/seduction12/11/24 04:28 AM
0

Reading every single book about scuba diving isn't gonna make you an expert scuba diver the moment that cold ass water hits your ass and the crushing weight of deep sea as opposed to somebody who learn it the hard way going to the ocean with his scuba gear everyday
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:33 AM
5

That's the Coke Cola secret formula for seducing women. you don't know if she's in her hoe phase wanting a quick lay or wanting boyfriend material long term relationship. Every men since the dawn of time from Casanova to your modern day PUA coaches has grappled with this women riddle. Those who can tell what phase a women's at get laid so much their balls are drier that the Sahara desert, those that can't are jacking off to pornhub on a Saturday night.
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:03 PM
1

I think the biggest misconception here for dude just looking for lot of pussy to lay in the shortest amount of time is that using the same Rico Suave strategies used for one night stand will obviously get shot down for women only interested in long term relationships. Women have phases in their life that are either "hoe" phase (e.g. bang new dude from bar every night) to girlfriend phase (steady loyal BF for 3 years). The trick is to know which phase the women is in during the first couple dates…
/r/seduction04/11/24 05:02 PM
7

If a girl doesn't like your true personality then its probably for the best that she rejected you, lying and "acting" just to get her to be your gf will only lead to pain and hardship.
/r/seduction03/11/24 06:33 PM
4

Think about how many job applications you got rejected before you found one that accepted you.
/r/seduction03/11/24 06:40 AM
1

There's one school of thought that all PUA, regular dating coaches, life coach, etc agree upon that's kino escalation get some way to touch her physically (dance, palm reading, etc) and judge her reaction.
/r/seduction03/11/24 04:17 AM
1

Mark Manson summed up here either you polarize a girl get her to commit to a yes or no or you forever stay in the middle "maybe" zone and eventually she gets bored and finds another guy.
/r/seduction03/11/24 04:16 AM
91

Hell Mark Manson's Models book half of it is to drive the point that you have to be non needy, don't give a hint of desperation, ooze maximum confidence. You gotta act 100% your true self even at the risk of the girl flat out rejecting you. That sometimes means disagreeing with her political opinions, putting your foot down if she crosses some of your hard red lines, etc.
/r/seduction02/11/24 04:47 PM
12

There's a reason why women are often compared to cats. Women can't stand the fact she's not the center of your universe. Mark Manson spoke this in the best way you are demonstrating to the woman in question that you are non-needy which leads to confidence which leads to looking sexy.
/r/seduction02/11/24 03:49 AM
1

Minigolf baby!
/r/seduction01/11/24 08:45 PM
2

You're gonna be in a real bad spot when you blew all your money on girls just to sleep with them only to end up nearing retirement and only a couple bucks in your retirement account.
/r/seduction01/11/24 04:20 PM
1

People have already discussed psychological way to overcome shyness and gain confidence. AS for the physiological there's always the liquid courage option with alcohol and there's pharmaceutical drugs or natural plant based pills that "suppresses" your emotion to the point you could be told your mother died and you have no reaction.
/r/seduction31/10/24 03:36 PM
3

By buying a Calendar
/r/seduction27/10/24 04:39 AM
205

Step 1) uninstall Tinder Step 2) go out into real life
/r/seduction27/10/24 04:37 AM
19

All women know that all men want sex at the end of the day. The massive difference is what priority does men put sex. If the man putting sex as #1 goal then he comes off as a desperate virgin or one of those sleazy playboy fuck boys who pump and dump. Either way majority of women aint looking for that kind of "action". Now on the flip side if sex is the very low if not lowest priority on a man's agenda then he's already way better candidate than those previously mentioned.
/r/seduction17/10/24 09:23 PM
4

Because off the hhhhuugggeee gender ratio inbalance. From what I understand there's like 15 dudes for every 1 legitimate girl on any dating website. So your odds from the starting gate before any other factors like looks or money is considered is little over 6% chance of success. Now you only swipe on hot girls like every other dude on Tinder and you see just how much of a slot machine crapshoot it becomes statistically With all do respect if you're that hot and rich as OP claims he is, he shoul…
/r/seduction16/10/24 08:38 PM
4

I don't think women shit testing is black and white but rather how she applies the shit test and often. If she casually shit test you once in a while to gauge your temperament and personality is one thing. Vs her shit testing you every date and testing your patience is an entirely another matter.
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:32 PM
3

I ask if she's wanting something non-committal like FWB if she's not down for that i'll say its cool we can revisit this at a later time and GTFO to the next girl cause i'm not gonna wait 6 months jerking it to pornhub with blueballs just because the girl can't make up her damn mind.
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:02 PM
-6

I'm sure some college grad sociologist and economists could explain it better but i'll give the spark notes. Dating back in your father or grandfather days Early 1980's and back was MUUUCCCCHHH easier! Why? Is because women back in the day were mostly traditional housewives in America, before the 1980's women in the office workplace was unheard of. So the highest education pre 1980's women got were high school education and afterwards all they had to do is look pretty and attract an older man wi…
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:43 PM
-2

Dating isn't a fight between man vs women nor is it a a man trying to sell himself as attractive to a women like a sleazy used car salesman. The answer is somewhere in between. I would argue dating is more like a job interview where the employer (woman) has the upper hand as she has holds most of the cards men want (gf status, sex, etc). Men on the other hand is at a disadvantage but not completely unarmed he has (money, husband material, his dick, etc). So in the date or "interview" both sides …
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:23 PM
14

Women don't sleep with their UNATTRACTIVE friends but they sure are sluts for the hot ones.
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:16 PM
-1

To make enough money to travel the world first class for the rest of my life. My dick will stop working eventually no matter how many dick pills taken so getting laid or dates is a short term goal for me.
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:08 PM
2

I try to avoid fat chicks because they're super clingy as hell and understandable so because they know they're bottom of the barrel when it comes to selection of women at a bar or club so when they land the occasional rare cute guy they're gonna hold onto him for dear life.
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:07 PM
1

Trading insta is the job interview equivalent of being asked to come in to talk vs getting her number is pretty much landing the job
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:04 PM
24

Women with either stuffed bras or fake titties, more paint on their face than the mona lisa, photoshopping the crap out of their tinder pics and they accuse us of deceit for adding couple inches to our height lol?
/r/seduction10/10/24 02:36 AM
13

Playing too safe in your actions and answers means you'll never get a 2nd date or laid. An example I'm very politically moderate with some conservative opinions which grinds gears with a lotttta women in Los Angeles who are liberal feminist. So one date girl gets all political asking me about my thoughts on abortion (i'm all for it about choice) and next question was about gender pay gap. I told her that gender pay gap is not so black and white and that there's huge grey area regarding that and …
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:40 PM
4

You don't have to be a world poker champion to be able to somewhat read another girl's intentions. Look at the basics of positions, is she directly facing you while talking to another direction and doing some other action? If she is facing you does she have her arms crossed or her arms are in motion? Take one step forward, does she take a step back, stand still, or take one forward to get closer? Big one is what lot of these "pros" call it KINO where you find an excuse to physically touch her li…
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:17 PM
4

Never oneitis one chick on text, wise man have several texts going at the same time so if one leaves you on read or ghosts no biggie you got 3 other potential girls still actively engaging.
/r/seduction08/10/24 05:11 PM
37

Show me a man who has the bravery of letting his vulnerable nuts hang out there for the world to hurt and I'll show you a man been kicked in the nuts a 1,000+ times and have gotten used to the pain.
/r/seduction08/10/24 05:10 PM
3

Somebody else whether its a girl or friend cannot mend or fix that is broken mentally internally (unless its loneliness) within you that "fix" has to come within one's own actions or with the help of a outside professional e.g. therapist. No amount of love and sex from another women can fix past trauma, ptsd, mental disorder, etc.
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:56 PM
2

As the ole saying goes don't worry about chasing women, when you chase money and get enough of it women then start to chase you.
/r/seduction06/10/24 01:42 AM
5

Best advice for Tinder: uninstall that time sink of miserable app and go out there in the real world.
/r/seduction02/10/24 11:16 PM
139

Asperger speak bluntly and straight without shred of diplomacy or finesse hence why they seem like complete asshole from the getgo. Mark is preaching about being 100% truthful about your words, thoughts and feelings basically laying it all out there with your nuts out vulnerable to be kicked if the analogy makes sense. Cause you showing your vulnerability is super attractive in a woman compared to all the stone cold emotionless neutral response she gets from other guys on 1st dates. That being s…
/r/seduction02/10/24 10:35 PM
2

Correlation does not imply causation
/r/seduction02/10/24 10:30 PM
2

Oh believe me buddy I've had my share of ex gf who were socio or straight up psychopaths that would gaslight, manipulate, guilt trip, and every other psychological or physiological tactic under the sun to keep me under her heel. The analogy I describe previously pertains to the first couple dates where its widely accepted women have the advantage in most situations. Since they control how fast or how slow the relationship progress e.g. sex.
/r/seduction02/10/24 10:28 PM
25

Lot of men assume dating is lot like a job interview where the woman (employer) has huge advantage over the man (prospect) where the worker has some "wiggle" room in terms of negotiation e.g. salary, hours, etc. In reality its more like a Mob loan shark (woman) and the man (borrower) has virtually no room for negotiation its either pay up or get your legs broken.
/r/seduction02/10/24 03:49 PM
8

Until you seal the deal in her bedroom until then anything before that all bets are off and there's no guarantees in this world cept death and taxes. I've had dates with women were they were hanging onto my every word and giving me the "fuck me" eyes all night only to get a peck on the cheek for the 1st 5 dates before she let me onto 2nd base. Then there's 1st dates were the woman was neutral in her responses and was a pretty cold reception and later that night I was knocking boots in her bedroo…
/r/seduction01/10/24 06:28 AM
2

6 feet tall, single, childless, muscular & white dude that's rich with his private boats and successful businesses. That's a win for majority of women despite his older age at 55, lot of women in their 20's would swipe right on him because they see him as a golden meal ticket or sugar daddy. There's a reason why dudes are saying money is the ultimate cheat code here.
/r/seduction30/09/24 05:18 PM
1

The perfect soulmate is a female XX chromosme clone of you and she doesn't exist
/r/seduction29/09/24 07:50 PM
2

If you really need a crutch in fear approach use that make up remover app in your phone and see what she really looks like without the help of L'Oreal or Estee Lauder it makes these god like hottie women look "mortal" if that makes any sense.
/r/seduction29/09/24 12:14 AM
6

As the old proverb goes, "He who travels alone travels quickest"
/r/seduction27/09/24 10:50 PM
10

Its usually of 2 scenarios: One scenario the "playboys" who banged hundreds of women over the years hit their 50's and have a lot of regret not pursing "the one" to have children with and FOMO really kicks them in the nuts when he see his bros with happy successful families while he's in his lonely cold apartment. 2nd scenario is dude hits his 50's and still living it up banging hot college 20 year old and will plan to until his dick stops working or he dies.
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:03 PM
3

A wise man has multiple fishing poles at the same time
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:45 AM
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I just be brutally honest and say I'm here at this Bar solo to talk to interesting women and enjoy the nightlife. Lot of chicks are taken aback cause they were expecting some neutral answer and it gets them either really interested or if i'm not up to par with their standards gets them to quickly reject me. Mark Manson always said that the big goal in pursing women get them to commit to a decision of yes or no in the fastest time possible having her in a neutral maybe ground for hours or days (i…
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:41 PM
3

I wasn't responding to OP facetiously and truly sincere in my recommendation.
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:50 PM
2

There's a reason why there's that stereotypical jokes about 40 year old doctor or lawyer dating a 20 year old cheerleader or marrying a 26 year old trophy wife as a common joke on the internet because most stereotypes is based on truth.
/r/seduction17/09/24 02:05 AM
12

You banging them with a condom or bareback? Cause sex with a million different women with a condom doesn't even compare to raw dawging and jizzing inside a girl bareback.
/r/seduction16/09/24 05:32 PM
5

Abraham Lincoln once said good things come for those who wait but things left by those who hustle. What i'm saying is there's a golden locks "sweet spot" in the speed in which you should try to get a women to bed. Try to aggressively and to quickly to bed her especially on the first date and she's gonna think you're just another playboy fuck boi wanting to pump and dump her ass. Try to play too passive, safe and take things slowly she's gonna get all kinds of mixed signals either you're not inte…
/r/seduction15/09/24 07:30 PM
2

The first 1-5 dates with any new girls is pretty much like a job interview both sides are figuring out if they're a match for each other so us men are the job seekers we keep applying until we get a position while women are the employers they hold all the keys and doors.
/r/seduction11/09/24 05:13 PM
2

OP you mind sharing your Tinder pics with us with blacked out or removed eyes for privacy? I gotta know what at top 10% of the tinder male population looks like.
/r/seduction10/09/24 03:03 AM
10

Good looks is only enough to get your foot into her door it takes a more factors outside of physical attractiveness to get into her bedroom after
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:46 PM
6

My best friend since High School has been mid as fuck, average height, average face, average dick, etc. That being said he's one of the funniest motherfuckers that keep with the likes of old schools comedic legends like George Carlin or Richard Pryor. Not to mention he's a well paid programmer (not doctor or lawyer money mind you) So he's got both personality and money working for him and he's able to "compensate" for the lack of any value in the beauty dept. and is able to pull consistent 7-8's…
/r/seduction06/09/24 11:52 PM
1

Dunno if ELO score is maintained or if it "decays" due to your absence. I'm sure if you consult with swiperhelper subreddit they can help you.
/r/seduction06/09/24 11:47 PM
1

Deleting or resetting your apps isn't gonna reset your ELO score since they track it by your Android or iPHone unique hardware ID. The only way to do a "true" reset is to get a virgin phone and install the app again. Also if you have to use tinder or hinge premium which at this point is mandatory then you're truly fucked cause they have your bank info and any new profile they'll just reinstate your crap ass ELO score.
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:56 PM
0

I don't believe in "leagues" and staying out of it. If leagues were the case then fat & ugly rich men wouldn't be able to bang fashion models. If leagues concept existed hot and broke as fuck men wouldn't be able to bang fashion models. If leagues were in effect mid looking but the funniest comedians in the world wouldn't be able to bang fashion models. The only problem we have in this sub is the vast majority of us is mid as fuck so we don't stand out financially, physically or personality.
/r/seduction29/08/24 04:24 PM
2

With my old buddy Jack Daniels
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:32 PM
4

I agree with you that looks aren't the end all be all that being said there's no way in ice cream chance i hell a morbidly obese sweaty neckbeard is gonna land a 9 or a 10 unless he's a billionaire and/or is the funniest motherfucker on the planet.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:45 PM
40

Gym and looks isn't the end all be all but its sure as hell a foot in the door especially when it comes to women's minimum physical standards.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:22 AM
7

Show me a man who slept with a 100 women and I'll show you a man who has been rejected 10,000 times, provided that man is somewhat decent looking, has some money in his wallet and doesn't have a personality of a wet paper towel.
/r/seduction23/08/24 03:48 AM
-1

Difference between online dating and real life dating is like the difference between a slot machine and the stock market, with the right moves the stock market/real life is much better odds.
/r/seduction23/08/24 03:40 AM
2

Sticking your dick into your buddy's family's tree's female holes without asking for permission first is the quickest way of getting your ass kicked and losing a long time friend forever.
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:52 PM
12

Gym is a very controversial setting on this subreddit. One group thinks just like work, the gym should be off limits. Once you strike "out" with that girl you're still gonna see her ass daily whenever you go the the gym. The other group swears on seducing gym bunnies because they've had moderate success doing it. I'm on the opinion in the middle like if I see a girl I like and she's giving me obvious signs like looking my way, smiling when I smile at her, ready to engage in conversation after a …
/r/seduction17/08/24 02:56 AM
3

Went from morbidly obese to about 13% body fat (to a point Abs are barely visible) Holy shit its night and day difference. Like women actually respond attentively and engage in deep conversation even if its topic they have no interest in Lot of people here hate this cold cruel hard fact: but physical attraction is your foot in the door upon first contact.
/r/seduction16/08/24 07:38 PM
2

If there was ever a coalition of men unanimously agreeing never lower our standards it would take a lot of power from women all over the world.
/r/seduction15/08/24 03:12 AM
1

Its been statistically proven that women have higher standards. How man times have your friends or yourself lowered your personal standards and took home a fat whale and/or below average chick because you haven't gotten laid in a while? Now a women will go years without any dick action until the right men who meets all her minimum standards comes around.
/r/seduction14/08/24 05:52 PM
15

People in the comment said you're tall slavic white dude so i gotta ask how you rate yourself in the face category cause by all definition you should be slaying it with both British and Greek girls.
/r/seduction13/08/24 12:03 AM
0

If she's sleeps with you on a 1st date, Either she's a turbo slut or you were just that handsome and charming she broke her own no sex after 3 dates rules and made an exception with you.
/r/seduction10/08/24 08:09 AM
1

She's looking for something serious and she's afraid once she gives up the pussy the dude will pump/dump/ghost her ass like so many other good candidate dudes have done to her in the past.
/r/seduction10/08/24 08:07 AM
1

Don't go on multiple dates and fuck couple of times only to break it to her that this only casual and nothing serious because not only you wasted your own time, you wasted hers as well and nobody is happy in that scenario. From day 1 on the 1st date you lay it out plainly that this is gonna be casual and strictly casual. If she says no thanks, you pay for the drinks or dinner then you part ways then you find a new girl to seduce.
/r/seduction10/08/24 08:05 AM
85

My go to conversation starter works in any scenario whether its a seduction, talking with random dudes as a company social, talking with people on a bus stop, etc. "You know what this reminds me of (insert some memory here)" I go to a sports bar during basketball game and talk to random dudes and whoever is scoring the most during the game I always mention this reminds me of Michael Jordan and it ALWAYS gets the conversation started. If i'm talking to a rando girl at bar after the introduction i…
/r/seduction10/08/24 08:02 AM
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If she's the one that ghosted YOU then you better get the hint and move on, she's no longer interested. Now if the text conversation just died off after several dates and bedroom fun could mean you were just a temporarily dick she needed in her point in her life. If its the later scenario how do you know if she's in her dating period, slut period or maybe she's already taken with a boyfriend already? If you were that interesting in person and in bed that relationship would've kept going till tod…
/r/seduction10/08/24 07:53 AM
6

Better question like so many others have said is why aren't you talking to multiple girls and going on multiple dates? having "oneitis" for a one girl more often than not leads to disappointment and failure. By casting fishing rods you dramatically increase your odds of success with one or several girls. The flip side to this equation is I can bet good money the one girl you're texting is talking to multiple other dudes at the same time.
/r/seduction10/08/24 07:49 AM
-1

The real challenge is if you're still able to pull 18 y/o when you're 40.
/r/seduction07/08/24 06:59 AM
69

Gonna so no way jose on the tanning advice. Look everybody knows tanning prematurely causing aging and extended exposure to UV rays dramatically increases your chances of skin cancer. Now and days I don't think people give a flying fuck if you're tanned or not
/r/seduction07/08/24 06:41 AM
1

Dating a co-worker is fastest way of turning your workplace into living hell when the relationship goes south and OP desperately seeking a new job.
/r/seduction29/07/24 09:39 PM
1

Here's the another analogy what's the first company you think of when unknown women sell their titty and coochie pics online for cash? Onlyfans right? Well what's the first company you think of when you think of online dating? Tinder of course. Imagine you spent 50% of that effort energy you spent on tinder instead on real life. I bet you have couple of number and bed close stories to share here vs the 1 lousy date on Tinder that went nowhere.
/r/seduction15/07/24 03:44 PM
2

Are you of ethnic color? Then its like the mount everest of approaching. Are you Japanese or White descent? Then you got a great shot.
/r/seduction12/07/24 03:33 AM
10

Homie you 6'3" that's like insta smash for a lotta chicks in real life provided you're face is above average.
/r/seduction11/07/24 01:29 AM
37

Lost the fat and got pretty lean mean at the gym. Literally a game changer like higher tier of women who would indulge me for a conversation as a common courtesy as I'm doing my seduction moves then GTFO with some bullshit excuse like her friends are calling her over are now giving me some serious attention post getting fit. Every women has a minimum physical health standard and no amount of funny as jokes and puns is gonna change her mind to get in bed with your fat ass.
/r/seduction07/07/24 08:15 AM
8

What % of your approaches lead to number closes then what % of top of that led to bedroom closes? What's your success rates with different races?
/r/seduction02/07/24 01:31 AM
5

Look I say this without any shade or beef OP but do you have a small dick?
/r/seduction01/07/24 01:35 AM
2

Some dude like raiding the mummy's tomb, it ain't my kind of bag but let the haters judge OP, you do you.
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:45 AM
0

typically no most women will have higher body counts then most men its just statistical facts since women can get laid easier and have seasons of "slut mode" while us dudes treat the rare female who gives us a time a day all our love and attention.
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:06 PM
1

I would argue 33% of its RNG She could've been fired from work, her childhood cat just died, she got pumped and dumped by some smooth talker the night before, insert your shitty life event here. That's 33% against you before she even takes a looks at you physically and determines if your the kind of guy she wants.
/r/seduction17/06/24 01:36 AM
2

My brown semi rich engineering friend in his mid 40's consistently gets some young 21 year old snow bunny on a Saturday night. Granted he drops cash like Santa drops presents on Christmas but my point still stands age and ethnic race really doesn't matter if you got the skills and/or cash.
/r/seduction16/06/24 05:02 AM
7

Cool beans brother keep on hitting and quitting it
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:55 PM
18

But you're still going bareback inside her pussy, precum alone is enough to get her knocked up.....
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:45 PM
13

I think there's a fine line between 100% condoms with unknown rando one night stands vs trusted partners like gf or FWBs
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:44 PM
36

I've had plenty of women who were on the pill that i trusted to bust a nut inside, then again these were girls all under 25 who still wanted to play around and ride the cock carousel for couple more years.
/r/seduction14/06/24 07:48 PM
4

If memory serves me correctly it started off as strangers and a one night stand and the sex was so good she left him her number and things took off as FWB since then.
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:25 PM
184

Word to the wise about FWB, make sure the girl can be 100% trusted. My buddy who been FWB with this late 20's business professional cutie was banging without a condom bareback for couple years. The relationship was strictly friendship level as buddy wanted to play the field some more but FWB girl kept pushing for serious relationship and marriage as her ovaries material clock was ticking. One day bam she hits him with a positive pregnancy test and baby trapped him into a marriage he didn't want.
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:57 PM
1

We all have human needs both emotional and physical. That being said during my Oprah Fat phase, I've been known to ONS cute but still considered pretty fat like they would be a club/bar 5.5 at best. I of course never told a soul and that shit is going with me to the grave.
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:54 PM
20

Each girl is vastly different depending on her type personality. If she's introvert you gotta be more subtle and gentle. If she's an extrovert you gotta be loud, action physical, etc. If she's a pyschopath you gotta be able to run faster than her.
/r/seduction13/06/24 08:22 PM
25

Visually first, you gotta meet her minimum physical expectations Then mentally, gotta give a mental sexual 'massage' of sorts Then physically, learn to eat pussy like a fat guy at a buffet and make her come
/r/seduction13/06/24 07:58 PM
1

There's literal fetish and subreddit dedicated to dudes banging chicks on her red river days.
/r/seduction09/06/24 11:32 PM
14

You're a handsome tall white guy, 90% of us would give our entire forutne and left nut to be in your position. Ditch the dating app and use real life because I'm sure you'll be slaying pussy by the hundreds.
/r/seduction08/06/24 10:29 PM
4

It sounds good on paper having lots of anonymous partners for condom sex but in reality without any feelings or emotional connection all you're doing is just fulfilling your carnal desires and lets face it condom sex sucks. As opposed to a dedicated partner who actually cares and loves you and you get it slide it in raw dog bareback every night and she lets you jizz inside her is a world of difference.
/r/seduction06/06/24 05:32 PM
119

But on the flip side WARM leads will save you time and money
/r/seduction05/06/24 10:57 PM
1

How would you judge your physical attractiveness scale on a 1-10 scale? Like a real honest number. Because if you fat and/or ugly that might be something to work on first through the gym and with help of a doctor. If you're at least above average in looks then its psychological that's going on.
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:22 PM
9

This is some cold hard ass reality shit but All women have a "minimum" physical health standards. I don't care how charming or funny personality you have you will NOT get your foot in her door unless you at least match her minimums. The only thing that could "compensate" for your lack of physical healthiness is maybe money but none of us is millionaires to attract gold diggers. Many PUAs sell students seduction programs with illusions of grandeur. That somehow your overweight, monkey faced ass c…
/r/seduction04/06/24 03:21 PM
-1

Today's plastic surgery these days borders on sci-fi, a fucking 5 can be turned into a 9 overnight. Combined that with make up technology that is pretty much photoshop at this point. And studies put as high as 33% of all women have gotten cosmetic surgery. True genetic "beauty" is thing of the past when every hunch back and plain Jane can turn themselves into Taylor Swift overnight. Unless she shows me her child pictures that shows she was naturally pretty back then I will always assume a 9 or a…
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:46 PM
1

While we all would like some closure with a straight rejection that scenario if far from reality where women who date multiple guys in one week and choose the best one and ghost the rest. Same goes for employers where they interview many candidates and only choose one and good chunk don't even bother to give you a rejection email. Pursing women is like pursing a job you shrug your shoulders and move on with your life because time is too precious to care about past shit.
/r/seduction29/05/24 07:39 AM
657

Learn to eat pussy like a fat guy at a buffet
/r/seduction28/05/24 08:26 AM
1

There's no such thing as a man who has a 100% batting average with the ladies but that being said there's rare % of dudes who has a 99% hitting average those dudes are either extremely handsome or extremely rich or both.
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:11 PM
0

This is why despite many "schools" of seduction many often in conflict with each others on methodology there's one thing everybody can agree upon: never put all your chips on one girl. Always always keep several on the back burner so if couple ghosts or rejects you then you still have several more pending ones ready to go.
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:50 PM
0

Dude who are truly genetically attractive and God's 1% chosen children would laugh their ass off at the idiot chick who passed up the golden rare opportunity to date a Calvin Klein tier model and hit the next hot chick they see usually with a 75% success batting average. These dudes do not live in the same world as us "normal" guys
/r/seduction21/05/24 11:14 PM
2

Her friends didn't think you were "good enough" but she wanted you regardless of their opinion so this was all just an act for said friends.
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:35 AM
1

It may not feel like but its better to have approached and be flat out rejected then it is to let her go and wondering if she was "the one" for the rest of your life. If OP met the chick's minimum physical standards she would've at least given the curiosity to "play along" with the first approach the fact she says fuck off meant she was either a) having a really shitty day b) OP was physically repulsive to her c) both
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:17 AM
1

The difference of having 8 hours of sleep and firing on all cylinders vs 4 hours of sleep and operating on zombie mode is the crucial difference between your odds of getting a phone number close instead of striking out on a Saturday night.
/r/seduction19/05/24 08:59 PM
55

Word of advice from somebody who was staring down the barrel of a 12 gauge from a jealous husband. Don't mess around with married chicks no matter how hot they are.
/r/seduction19/05/24 04:35 AM
17

Oh that's what I was doing wrong chasing women in a hockey mask and a machete at night.
/r/seduction16/05/24 07:53 PM
5

Cold approach absolutely fucking works....if you meet her minimum physical standards. If you fall below those beauty standards is why you get neutral responses and she gives off leave me the fuck alone vibes.
/r/seduction13/05/24 05:44 PM
1

You had your shot but your schedule prevented you from closing. Other guy didn't know your history and saw an open girl ready for approach of course a rando like you butting in randomly form his point of view makes you look like an ass. The amount of bar room brawl scars and club fight broken bones in my younger dumber youth has taught me getting into a fist fight over pussy is not worth it. Just move on OP.
/r/seduction13/05/24 05:41 PM
2

Racial preference != Racism
/r/seduction12/05/24 08:43 AM
35

Very few men can actually find validation in sleeping with many women unless he has to be verrrry shallow.
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:06 AM
9

A platonic female friend is the great weapon in your battle to get a date, gf and/or laid. She'll vouch for you to her friends and hook you up on a blind date. She'll promote you and be your secret wingwomen. I have a platonic female latina friend that I have no sexual interest or feelings what so ever and she has connected me with some of my best white or Asian GFs
/r/seduction11/05/24 09:29 PM
1

The difference between cold approaching a stranger girl and her putting you on blast on social media for being a creep vs her giving you her number in the first 5 mins of talk is how attracted she is to you before you speak your first word.
/r/seduction11/05/24 09:16 PM
1

You forgot the 6th pillar, finances. Most women aren't gold diggers but they aint messing with no broke broke (sorry for using a Kayne song but it drives the point)
/r/seduction10/05/24 04:15 PM
-1

TL; DR: maxed out finances and somehow my overweight, self doubting, video game playing, no text game ass can land supermodels. /s
/r/seduction10/05/24 04:35 AM
2

Gold, fur pelts, etc there was always a form of currency no matter what time period
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:37 AM
3

Dudes who complain about older dudes who are able land hottie 18-21 year old are only complaining because they can't land hottie 18-21 year old chicks themselves. You see the internet giving Leonardo DiCaprio shit all the time for dumping his gf when she hits 25 but last time i checked he's still making millions of dollars and headlining the latest blockbuster movies.
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:27 AM
1

Women's preferences in Men hasn't changed since the caveman days. Tall height, handsome face, lots of money are still desired traits women want today just as they wanted back in 700 BC its just the culture and ideologies has evolved with the passing of time. Since we're living in a digital post social media invention, post covid, post PC SJW, etc era so everything is a lot harder today then it was in your Dad and Uncles time where they could just roll up onto a club on a Saturday night and numbe…
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:01 AM
3

Its better to be rejected and close the chapter than it is to be ghosted just wondering "what if?"
/r/seduction28/04/24 03:46 AM
25

Her next text will be if really want to meet up with her you gotta subscribe to her OF to prove you're not some fuck boy.
/r/seduction27/04/24 04:41 AM
13

It's like the animal channel bro, you gotta rip off your boxers and twirl your dick in a helicopter fashion to show your interest in the female for mating /s IF there's one thing all PUA schools of thought agree upon is PHYSICAL escalation. Kissing will be the ultimate physical escalation but if you hit that point you either have her in the bag or your just gambling. Many place is safer with activities ie dancing, ice skating, etc or party games like palm reading as an excuse to just touch her p…
/r/seduction22/04/24 11:09 PM
18

It's always better to put your true intentions out there on Day 1 and get rejected so you can move on then being placed in the painful friend zone and have that lingering thorn at your side for several years only for nothing to come out of it. As for breaking out of the friendzone that's like a 1 in 100 chance and you have better odds putting it on a random number on a roulette table than that friendzone paying out to girlfriend ode.
/r/seduction19/04/24 12:37 AM
3

My friend said the best deep sea divers in the world didn't become that by reading books about diving but rather diving themselves, making mistakes, learning, improving and conquering.
/r/seduction18/04/24 04:32 AM
4

Nice guys often "act" a personality that is not their true selves and women can pick up on that shit like sharks with blood in the water. If you want to avoid the nice weak guy status you just gotta lay your true "self" out there the this is who i am take or leave it. Say the off colored sexual joke, speak your mind about politics and economy, remove any and all masks because she wants to know the real you before she will let you into her bed.
/r/seduction17/04/24 06:11 PM
1

I wouldn't fuck around in a non western nation that is NOT friendly the the USA right now given the current geopolitical "cold war" climate Between USA and CCP. Cause if you get into trouble there's not gonna be a fair trial or lawyer for you. Its to the work camp gulags where you will never be seen again.
/r/seduction15/04/24 07:43 PM
15

Of course 9s and 10's don't magically come to your door and start sucking your dick
/r/seduction12/04/24 07:20 PM
44

Chasing tail is like trying to grab a slippery fish with your bare hands, the harder you try and the more you squeeze the higher chance the fish will easily slip through your fingers. Now using your analogy, instead of trying to grab fish. You just stand there doing nothing until the fish get used to your presence in the water and many just come up to your legs thinking you're some hairy tree. Then bam, you whip out that net and you gotten way more fish doing less work vs your ass chasing fish a…
/r/seduction12/04/24 04:20 PM
2

Asking a girl out who is on job "duty" is often challenging that's why there some dating guru rules who recommend against trying to hit on "hired help" because they're there to act friendly and cute for the tip money not necessarily because she's attracted to you. Roll the dice if you want but just be warned if she rejects you now that store is completely off limits to you because everything you come in you don't want to have that awkward silence with the same cashier girl for your shopping need…
/r/seduction09/04/24 09:43 PM
32

The Greatest Trick the Devil Ever Pulled Was Convincing the World He Didn’t Exist The 2nd greatest trick women have pulled is convincing all men that women were as valuable as gold or silver when half the population is women.
/r/seduction09/04/24 09:33 PM
3

Bros before hoes, you do not want to throw away 10 years worth of friendship just because a hot piece of 9 rated tail came between you and your homie. Just tell him you were also interested in her and you let him shag her because he was there first but next time with a baddie it'll be your turn.
/r/seduction09/04/24 09:27 PM
1

Unfortunately with current state of American/Canadian culture you hanging out with your white lady friend is gonna turn heads. Opinions will be varied ranging from you just stereotyping a meme about black actors/athlete always getting white wives all the way to seeing you as a traitor to your own race. Not to mention if you do marry a white wife and have a biracial kid that kid is going to feel like an outsider. Not black enough to belong to AA group and looks completely black to white people. B…
/r/seduction09/04/24 09:09 PM
3

Romeo schwarzenegger AI, "I need your phone #, your panties and you to get into this car trunk if you want to live"
/r/seduction09/04/24 04:58 PM
34

Turns out if you handsome looking and/or rich enough chicks wanna ride your disco stick regardless if your in college 20's, career 30's, mid life crisis 40's, etc etc. In other news Water is wet.
/r/seduction08/04/24 04:06 PM
2

Yeah if you photoshop yourself into a marvel body builder 6 pack, fake owning a lambo/mansion/yacht and bullshit that you're 6'5"
/r/seduction06/04/24 12:45 AM
6

This is the oldie but goodie from the old PUA school. I don't remember if it was Mystery or some other PUA coach but he suggested to learn the basic of palm reading as a great way to escalate physical kino.
/r/seduction05/04/24 03:20 PM
1

I mean in my experience I see dudes in their 30's,40's hell 50's in hot young clubs on Saturday slaying and number closing chicks that are barely legal. Granted they're throwing cash around like its going out of fashion which will attract the gold diggers but the point still stands. If you want quality women over 30 then you would hit up fancy wine bars instead.
/r/seduction02/04/24 11:09 PM
1

Girl version of the job interview, she and her friend are gonna grill you gently to see what kind of person you are. Prepare for some light shit tests and the works.
/r/seduction02/04/24 03:37 PM
4

Sometimes you gotta travel where the action is
/r/seduction01/04/24 04:55 PM
32

Clubs and bars are often "meat factories" since everybody is there to hook up in one way or another but those places are often the easiest to get with a chick since its a setting that most facilitates it vs some day game at a coffee shop, physical activity group like salsa dancing or etc.
/r/seduction01/04/24 12:45 AM
5

You rolled the dice and you lost against the pussy casino no point in throwing "good money after bad" just move onto a different game.
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:57 PM
1

Well not all "old" strategies are outdated and worthless some still stand the test of time lol.
/r/seduction26/03/24 07:20 PM
1

Couldn't tell you i'm an older millennial and i've laid pipe on some younger Gen-Z through natural outside seduction but have no clue how gen-z boys handle business.
/r/seduction26/03/24 04:02 PM
2

Market space is dominated by "alpha" classes which I believe include some form of seduction in them. I guess young dudes these days want the whole package everything from motivation to succeeding in work all the way to getting laid. Personally I don't really know but i could give a fuck about dropping $10k for a "alpha" class
/r/seduction26/03/24 03:19 PM
2

Dating apps is like applying for jobs online, you have to apply thousands of times, get only a half dozen interviews and MAYBE get lucky and land that one job. Going outside is like getting a warm referrals from a friends who already works at different companies and the interviews are just lining up.
/r/seduction26/03/24 11:49 AM
0

Take her to Ross /s
/r/seduction26/03/24 11:43 AM
10

A whole lotta factors went into the "death" of celebrity PUAs. The biggie as most here were saying is the me too movement it put a whole generation of women on "edge" and in defensive mode to any slick Romeo that approaches them. One could argue it bred the newest generation of uber feminist or as the online degatory term "feminazi" comes from who condition to think all men are guilty until proven innocent. Then there's the actual tactics and strategies of PUA itself. It worked "back then" becau…
/r/seduction26/03/24 11:32 AM
7

If confidence was the end all be all, ugly dudes could just charm woo their way into a 9 or 10's panties. Confidence is only part of the equation, your physical and financial attributes also play a big part in her ultimate test.
/r/seduction25/03/24 07:07 PM
45

Looks and money gets your foot into her door and into her bed. How you act after couple rumps in the bedroom in subsequent dates when the "horniness" of the relationship dies off and its slipped into a same ole routine. That's when she thinks is this the man I would like to spend the rest of my life with? (aka husband material). If that answer is no then no amount of cash, looks, dick size, height, etc will keep her around.
/r/seduction14/03/24 10:39 PM
1

She suspects you as a fuckboy just wanting quick pussy, so she's doing the usual i'm not ready for sex yet shit test. That time "delay" to sex could be a week, a month or even several months
/r/seduction14/03/24 09:22 PM
24

Rejection is like getting kicked in the nuts its hurts the first couple hundred kicks but with enough time your nuts gets used to it.
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:14 AM
4

Growing up without a father or Daddy just wasn't all there to upbring her in the first place. coupled with couple of first relationships with "bad boys" and now you have a girl who thinks toxic bad boys is the norm.
/r/seduction12/03/24 06:20 PM
31

A girl doesn't know your personality, your finances, your politics, your skeleton in the closet, etc etc. All she has to go on is purely the pics you post on your dating app. Combined with the fact that there's 10 dudes to every 1 girl means your odds of landing a half decent girl is worse than casino slot odds. There's a reason why people kept shouting about how the top 20% of men get the 80% of all the women on dating sites because its god damn truth.
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:34 AM
9

Lost the weight which improved my looks marginally and got a better paying job hence better finances. My rejection rate went from like 99% to 95% its not that big of improvement but still progress.
/r/seduction01/03/24 10:38 PM
7

My friend got hooked onto oxycotin and other painkillers introduced by his girlfriend. He OD one day and was buried at 23 when he was in the prime of his life. i'm sure if you were to revive my buddy right now he'd tell you he rather live a sexless relationshipless lonely life and live then go through the turnmoil of a druggie hot girlfriend only to end up 6 feet under.
/r/seduction16/02/24 11:55 PM
1

The true "game" master, all others are pale imitations
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:57 AM
1

If you're going for your own Race of asian girls, there's something really wrong in your process. Or..... Ok OP stop beating around the bush, let me guess you're going or white girls right? Well White women statistically are the lowest rate of both interracial dating and marriage. So you're fighting an "up hill" battle here.
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:56 AM
18

He's watching fitness bro videos of dudes clearly on gear lol.
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:55 AM
3

Those "hard 9's" have been filter and photoshopped to hell and back that its barely recognizable from the original women lol.
/r/seduction14/02/24 11:22 PM
13

True god given beauty is like 1% of the entire female population like these girls looking smoking hot without any makeup on. For all other "mortal" women they rely heavily on make up, plastic surgery and photoshop to look hot to the "male gaze" but do realize in the end these "fake" hot women are mortal flesh and blood human beings like you no better or worse.
/r/seduction14/02/24 07:32 PM
3

Yep if it gets shitty between you and the girl now your mutual friendship is at stake.
/r/seduction14/02/24 06:03 PM
65

I'm sure OP would've been introduced by mutual friends eventually since they were all at the same party. But this drives the point that "warm" referrals like Op and mutual friends will make seduction 100 times easier than some cold approaches where both you and the girl are completely strangers with no mutual connections.
/r/seduction12/02/24 05:44 PM
1

A women doesn't know how wealthy you are, what kind of personality you have, etc. All they have to go upon from initial contact is physical characteristics and whether the dude meets a physical 'minimum standard' just to get his 'foot in the door if that makes sense. But then your personality after that is what "gets you the job" if the analogy makes any sense.
/r/seduction08/02/24 08:36 PM
5

Yep if there's one thing all PUA, colored pills, feminist, alpha male school, democrat, republican, etc can agree upon is the concept of hyper-gamy. Average looks can be compensated with above average finances. Same goes for average finances can be compensated with above average looks.
/r/seduction08/02/24 04:25 AM
8

I prefer to send her smoke signals or carrier pigeons
/r/seduction06/02/24 05:22 PM
20

I thought OP meant literal USA states cause that also is a big difference when talking to a California 7 vs a Oklahoma 9
/r/seduction29/01/24 08:35 PM
4

Obese Fat is the ultimate pussy repellent
/r/seduction29/01/24 08:57 AM
2

Depends if you kept your physical appearance up and your finances are upper income bracket. Think James Bond or the most interesting man in the world still banging college 20 year olds.
/r/seduction27/01/24 05:40 AM
5

Grabbing a girl you just met on the first date by the waist and kissing her is great way to bed...or maced in the face and kicked in the balls.
/r/seduction15/01/24 06:22 AM
0

One would think approaching 30+y/o women would be like shooting fish in a barrel /s
/r/seduction27/12/23 08:04 PM
-1

No isn't some automatic pussy shutter if anything it engages their fight or flight sub-conscious attitude. Depending on the subject matter and how you play your cards right that 'no' could lead into the bedroom. That being said if you have no interest in the women in the volunteer group, nobody is holding a gun to your head, just quit.
/r/seduction18/12/23 09:40 PM
188

Lose the fucking weight. Society gives obese women sexy titles like "curvy" "voluptuous"and fat pets names like "chonky". But fat men are ridiculed and persecuted with no room for sympathy.
/r/seduction06/10/23 06:43 PM
1

America is a melting pot of hundreds of different races, ethnicity, religion, etc and quite frankly its a cluster fuck. Our Polish guy goes back to Poland and starts hitting on Polish chicks there's a sense of commonality. Comparing Apples to oranges here.
/r/seduction19/09/23 05:05 PM
35

Above average East European moves back home and surprised girls of his similar ethnic and/or national background wants his dick. In other news water is wet lol.
/r/seduction19/09/23 03:25 PM
6

If you got no money and got no looks then you better be the most funniest and charming motherfucker that ever lived.
/r/seduction15/08/23 06:51 AM
9

Wayne Gretzky, "You miss with every girl you don't approach"
/r/seduction11/08/23 09:34 PM
2

Either i'm testing you before i fuck you or 1st base is free, all other bases must be earned.
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:40 AM
1

It won't magically remove their panties and get you into their bed but it is a "foot in the door" if that makes any sense
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:59 AM
8

Stop putting the pussy on the pedestal. Work on yourself whether its physically, financially, mentally or all of the above. Once you excel in one or all of those categories girls tend to "drop" onto your lap.
/r/seduction07/10/22 09:48 PM
1

I remember one dude found a way to leash train and walk his cat on the street. Lets just say pussy attracts pussy.
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:09 PM
4

OP has a case of oneitis
/r/seduction25/09/22 08:29 PM
3

Tinder is the poster child of fucked up gender ratios. From what I understand the ratio now is 1 women for every 9 guys. And that population of women is infested with instahoes, catfishers, scammers and hookers. Tinder is like climbing mount everest for a cup of coffee compared to real life dating.
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:49 PM
1

We average to below average height dudes will stop wearing height inserts if women stop wearing make up. Fair deal I say.
/r/seduction05/09/22 08:16 PM
1

Then you better tell those millionaire 50 year olds who seem to be banging a new 20 year old every week that its too late for them and to pack up their bags.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:35 AM
2

I'd agree but it's still a pretty big factor
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:09 AM
0

Men's physical attributes isn't the end all be all but its one of the bigger factors that used by women. No amount smooth talking is gonna change the fact that you look like Jabba the Hutt with triple chin and already sweating after walking 30 feet.
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:32 PM
3

No shade but Maybe you got an ugly face?
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:31 PM
10

Approaches are like slot machine sooner or later it's gonna pay out
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:26 PM
4

Hey baby did the asphalt hurt when you ascended from hell?
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:25 PM
1

Clubs are called meat markets for a reason. Its almost 90% all visual attraction for these girls since you can't make conversation in a loud ass club.
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:48 AM
1

3rd world country ones, they didn't get raised on that holiest thou holy attitudes like 1st one country ones and are humble
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:22 AM
2

I have a different take on Mark Manson's interest/demographic. If you focus solely on one thing then you're a one trick pony. Its better to be jack of all trades then a master of none in the fields that way you seem like a more well rounded guy who is into many different (more importantly areas she's into) categories
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:07 AM
1

Women don't want to fuck nice guys, they want to fuck good guys.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:17 AM
0

Chicks in their 30s know their eggs are about to dry up soon so they wanna hook up with any decent man at that point
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:32 AM
1

They're more like strongly encouraged guidelines. As people stated locations like the gym where 99% of girls want to work out then gtfo or workplace where if shit hits the fan you're gonna have to find another job is reasons why. Time, money and effort are better spent approaching women in locations where your "odds" are significantly better (lounge, hobby setting, bars, etc). That being said there will be moments where the rare opportunity comes up in these supposed no fly zones (gym, work, etc…
/r/seduction25/07/22 06:15 AM
1

Of course its long holding over the icon and pressing the delete/uninstall button
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:08 PM
2

Dating a co-worker is the DMZ no fly zone of dating imo. If things goes far south and really shitty with your co-worker; finding a new job is significantly harder than it is finding a new girl (unless you work in high demand industries like computers)
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:04 PM
1

The world would be a drastically different place if make up ran out tomorrow.
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:50 PM
2

Hit it and quit it
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:58 PM
2

He who travels alone travels quickest to bed with a woman.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:06 AM
9

Try hitting up health fitness nuts they're all about the calorie and carb counting. I bet they prefer cowgirl cause its more exercise lol.
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:21 PM
3

For #6: Meeting women at work is a very risky. Its 100x easier to find new women then it is to find a new job because things went south with a girl co-worker you were dating.
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:24 PM
2

The reason is 2 fold. 1: Studies have shown among women, White women has the LOWEST % of interracial relationship (dating & marriage). 2: In terms of beauty in the western world, White women is seen on top of pretty category (look at all the TV, movies, fashion shows, etc white girls majority of the time get top billing) So you got a case of high demand and low supply which results higher "barrier to entry" for white women. Just because your Black, Asian, Latino, blue, green, purple, etc doesn't…
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:01 AM
9

For women getting into relationships is like buying a car, huge commitment so they want to do their due diligence (test drive, background history, etc). For men getting into relationships is like going through a McDonald's drive thru.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:19 PM
31

Online dating is a slot machine for guys, a guaranteed paycheck for girls. Just uninstall Tinder, Hinge, bumble, etc the countless hours of swiping is for efficiently used for real life game.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:05 PM
5

Same reason why employers don't even bother sending a response from unqualified candidates.
/r/seduction03/06/22 11:28 PM
-5

Just introduce yourself and you wanted to talk if they reciprocate then buy them drinks.
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:23 PM
-1

Ugly, poor and fatasses still ain't gonna get that hot blonde no matter how confident they come of as. Not unless they work on getting richer, skinnier or prettier (plastic surgery is a thing)
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:52 AM
8

Half the people on this sub are like, "I said all the right words, inner game and high # of approaches. Why won't women go out with me?!?" They don't mention they're 40% body fat and obese lol.
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:56 PM
1

Cause you got time to respond online, in real life you gotta be suave on the spot
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:37 PM
12

Women don't judge a man solely by money (other than gold diggers but that's another topic). They judge men on 3 criteria: 1. Looks 2. Wealth 3. Personality. You admitted yourself you're poor as fuck and average/below average in looks so either your the funniest motherfucker in the world or you better start to hit the gym and work on getting that dollar.
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:50 PM
2

You have too much oneitis and taking things up the ass. Don't think of pursing girls like getting a date or laid. Think of pursing girls like applying for jobs, you ain't got time to bitch and complain about that one perfect job that turned you down cause you got bills to pay and mouths to feed so you move onto the next company.
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:27 PM
1

Best case scenario she's a instahoe turbo slut and you become one of her many man booty calls. If you're looking for a serious relationship tell her you're not interested and cut it off. Worst case scenario she's a "dinner whore" whose just "dating" you so you can pay for her fancy dinners and drinks at a club. While Chad and Tyrone are DPing her ass in the club restroom. If you just wanna get laid, play it by ear and see if she actually fucks you after a couple dates.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:54 PM
1

Good day to you then miss.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:49 AM
3

The only friend-zone i will accept from a girl is friends with benefits other than that I bid them a good day.
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:34 AM
-1

If she truly liked you, she would've already slept with you within 100 texts lol
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:56 AM
2

Go to your doctor and get your testosterone levels checked if you're below average he'll give you teste cream and make you work out. Boom your rock hard at the sight of a girls ass, you're welcome OP
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:14 PM
1

I don't have any experience but unless this is some VERY famous pornstar we're talking about here fucking $5k for pussy is overcharging imo.
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:00 PM
1

I heard stories of semi famous instagram hoes who prostitutes themselves to rich millionares for the weekend getting that kind of money. So in nevada brothel case no lol.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:18 PM
1

No I'm saying that not you
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:45 PM
1

Comparing online dating dating apps to real life approaches is like comparing cryptocurrency to the actual stock market.
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:31 PM
1

It's legal in Nevada at licensed brothel s
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:21 AM
2

Controversial opinion but people lets keep an open mind and open debate. OP have you considered hiring an escort? There seems to be deep rooted psychological issues that'll take years of therapy but if the biggest elephant in your room is just getting laid and having female companionship. Don't think of yourself as a loser having to buy pussy, you're literally suicidal right now and if getting your dick wet is the only thing keeping you from jumping off a bridge then do what has to be done. I wa…
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:55 AM
1

YW
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:30 PM
1

She wants to be fuck buddies and you want an relationship and the top of that you guys live to far from each other. Break it up and move on there's plenty of other girls in the sea.
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:17 PM
1

Define Casual OP, as in fuck buddies or just staying platonic friends? If its fuck buddies, hey by all means get to tapping that ass. If its just platonic friendship then tell her you're not interested in listening to her relationship issues and being a shoulder to cry on over a glass of wine. You only 2 objectives in life: Getting a relationship and getting pussy or just getting pussy. Anything else is a time waster.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:38 PM
0

The unwritten Rule of dating state is the guy CANNOT be shorter than the girl. Look in real life of all the couples and you'll see that the man is at least EQUAL if not just a bit taller (or lot taller) than the girlfriend. Yes a lot of you are gonna point out the rare couple where the guy is shorter or you have a cousin that's a midget. This is the exception to the rules and norm. Stop worrying about your 5'10" ass and start hitting on girls who are shorter than 5'9"
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:29 PM
13

Have you tired sacrificing a goat in the temple of Zeus and asking for some pussy?
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:21 PM
2

I have a brilliant strategy to the number-close paradox that gets put on women when they get asked that. I have business cards. I tell them hey I want to continue this conversation over dinner or drinks and hand them my number to call/text me when they're available. It's the best of both worlds. 1. It gives the girl an out, if she isn't interested into the trash bin my business card goes. 2. It flips the power dynamic for the first time in your history its the women who makes the first text/call…
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:20 PM
1

I don't know about "many" but a good chunk would aka size queens.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:16 AM
1

Women have always been the gatekeepers to sex since the dawn of time. While men have been the gate keepers of relationships since the dawn of time. This meant Women have always had the homefield advantage in beginning of relationships. Men promise, beg, prove to the women that they will commit to a relationship in return they hope to have sex with her. Women aren't that dumb cause they know once they "give it up" the man's gonna high tail it out of there. How many women in your life (aunts, cous…
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:59 AM
0

This could be summarized in less words. Basically you showed interest and she is either busy, unsure or uninterested. Whatever the case maybe, stop ONEitis a single girl and move on. If anything put her in the maybe pile to revisit a month or 2 later.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:31 PM
3

Everybody likes movies, everybody likes TV shows, everybody likes food etc etc
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:39 AM
5

ummm fuck her?
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:59 PM
1

Are most of your number and fuck closes with girls who are of equal and shorter height?
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:58 PM
1

I use the business approach like I would do at a conference. Like Hello My name is Acid in my eyes, I wanted to introduce myself and my company that sells female condoms. (obviously cut out the female condom company but you get the idea)
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:58 PM
0

Lol there only like 0.0001% of women on this planet that can be rated a 9/10 without the use of makeup and cosmetic surgery. Wait till the make up comes off and I guarantee you she'll be a 7 at best.
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:53 PM
6

Look banging your cousin or niece aint cool OP
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:16 PM
5

That's because most guys gauge their success on how much money they got and how much pussy they get laid. Gandhi, Nikola Tesla, Andy Warhol, etc etc were all famous people who left their mark on history and died virgins. I don't think there's a single human on the planet that would claim these people to be "losers"
/r/seduction04/05/22 09:37 PM
1

There's a fine line between buzzed and hammered. If you don't have any self control then alcohol isn't the way for you.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:12 PM
2

Liquid courage alcohol. I'm being serious, something about being slightly buzzed and losing some of your inhibitions makes talking to girls a lot easier.
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:47 PM
19

Women's have a amazing 6th sense for when a dude's just looking for pussy. They are emotionally and empathetic superior to us men after all. They can sense bulls balls and desperation a mile away so even if you think you're acting like a romantic romeo, most chicks will know better. Stop putting the pussy on the pedestal and show genuine emotion and attraction to her and she'll respond back.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:49 PM
1

If she's just a booty call for you then she's gonna give you all kinds of shit test and not put out for a month. You really wanna go down that rabbit hole?
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:47 PM
1

Is your ultimate goal getting laid or having a gf? If its gf, Have you tried the opposite with warm approach? I'm sure you have buddies, associates, etc that trust and like you. Who would be glad to introduce you to their cousin, niece, etc (as long as you're willing to do the same for them when they become single)
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:35 PM
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Here's my take on this. 1: Body health, if you're a lard fat ass focusing on going to the gym first and getting fit before hitting up hot girls because most high value girls don't like fatties. 2: Be yourself but keep the quirkiness and weird shit down to a minimal. Yeah talk about your warhammer 40k stuff but don't fucking talk about it all night! 3: A women's pussy is like a foot size "perfect fit". There's a reason reddit has forums for small and big dick problems. <4 inch small dick dudes ar…
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:49 AM
0

Because for 99.99% of men out there getting sex takes time, effort, beauty and skill. For all women getting laid is one swipe away. What's more impressive a guy who does record time on a casual easy hill or a guy who makes the world record for shortest time climbing mount everest?
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:58 PM
2

Take her to Denny's. If she likes you she won't care, if she doesn't she will care.
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:06 PM
3

Is she happens to be high educated with a career that also happens to be pretty? Boom you just found yourself a high value women, they're unicorns but they do exist.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:33 PM
3

Tinder and other dating sites are just digital pussy casino. Hoping you keep paying for monthly subscription like a sucker for women who half of them are just bots anyways lol. Delete that shit and hit up real life women.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:07 PM
1

Hit on her outside of work. That's the true test on whether or not she's just flirting with you for bigger tips or she's actually interested in you.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:07 PM
1

Physical features despite popular belief by men is not the end all be all for attracting girls. If that was the case butt ugly ass rock stars and comedians wouldn't be able to get a date let alone laid. Your average looking guy has 2 key things that makes him irresistible. #1 personality, he's probably hella funny and the life of the party anywhere he goes. He demonstrates dominance and authority by guiding the party life. -2 You didn't mention it but your average looking friend is also probably…
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:05 PM
13

I feel as the smoking hot 9s/10s just a infinite loop between the gym and the bar/club scene.
/r/seduction19/04/22 11:54 PM
2

PUA classes are like the late nite get rich quick scheme commercials, they're selling you the dream that your overweight ugly ass can pull Victoria Secret Fashion supermodels.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:44 AM
5

I keep getting downvoted for saying this but I'll say it again idgaf. Never ever date a co-worker. Its easier to find another women then it is to find another job.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:39 AM
1

This sub is for picking up women OP not current relationship advice. You should go to /r/relationship_advice/ ask their opinion instead.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:39 AM
1

There's being the dude who attends $1,000 pua class and has a shelves worth of PUA books using shit like the mystery pullout method or some shit to attract women only to go home empty handed on a saturday night with blue balls. Then there's dudes who approach women with the upfront truth, no bs, no lies of what they are and what they want. They get rejected hundreds of times but I guarantee you these dudes pull waay more number closes then PUA mystery men.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:33 AM
1

Invite them over to the bar that scans the ID barcode for legitimacy. At least you know then she's 21
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:28 AM
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She was mirin and smiling at the handsome chad behind you lol. If you get the "look" from a girl across the bar/club, check your immediate surroundings. Are they any taller males of Higher SMV then you? No Did you give her a smile and wink check and she reciprocated? Yes Then your odds of approach are very good
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:58 PM
1

Then that's some internal psychological issues bro. You need a psychiatrist for that or you go back to having a steady girlfriend then.
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:50 PM
1

100% agree with Mark Mason the god master of dating here. Don't say the 2nd part 'if you're not interested that's okay to' that shit makes you sound like a pussy. Just keep the 1st part and if she's interested she WILL reach out to you. If not, she'll ghost you. During this time you should be out on the hunt for other chicks in the meantime.
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:35 PM
1

Unfortunately no its been several months but if you specifically ask for the booster shot i'm sure the ones they offer are just as good as the one I got. They'll probably offer you the stupid weak version of a steroid cream or pill but you have to be insistent on testosterone shot.
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:12 PM
1

If there's a middle ground between natural food that boosts testosterone and absolutely illegal anabolic steroids then this booster testosterone shot that legal is a "middle ground"
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:04 PM
1

Maybe get with a steady girl who wiling to get tested so you can fuck her raw dog bareback?
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:33 PM
1

Women came straight from work to do their cardio set and to gtfo. They're hot, sweaty, no makeup, not feeling sexy and last thing on their mind is getting hit on. It doesn't help every dude stares at her yoga pants hugging ass everytime he walks by her treadmill.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:33 PM
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I'm mid 30's and have the same problem as you OP. Talk to doc and blood test shows i'm like 40% below average testosterone levels! Doc put a testosterone booster shot, told me to work out a lot more and start fucking like a bunny. Holy shit it was a world of difference, girls in mini skirts and I have to hide my boner with my hat. Or my 23 y/o cousin sits on my lap and i had to smack my growing boner because that's nasty.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:50 PM
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Hey bby nice legs, what time they open? /s In all seriousness I don't do any cheesy pick up lines or witty one liners cause hot women have heard them all and sick and tired of it. I just say hi My name is John Doe and I thought I introduce myself or something along those lines. Women love it when men take the direct approach it shows power and dominance.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:16 PM
3

College is one of those very grey areas. Some dude like college because its fertile ground for good approaches but other dudes counteract that if you approach too many women you'll be known as "that guy"
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:49 PM
1

So you got a 9-5 job that pays well and you're having trouble landing women? Stop being a cheap skate and use that cash. Upgrade your car, your clothes, etc. Take her to fancier dates and expensive concerts. Most women aren't gold diggers but a dude's finances are a VERY big factor and if you could that you can "provide" then dating shouldn't be a problem.
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:22 PM
1

OP your "elo" analogy makes sense if the dude was a giga chad 10/10 who lands supermodels but wants an easy lay with a very cute girl 8. Average guys like us who are 5's/6's using your example would be chicks who are 3's/4's these girls are fat chicks with faces that need a paper bag over them.
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:17 PM
3

Then stop oneitis this girl bro her ass juice isn't worth the squeeze. Put her number on the maybe pile and move on to other girls who actually give a half a damn about being on time.
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:10 PM
1

Idk honestly you'll have to compare that with other field reports of dudes who pick up chicks at Starbucks
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:07 PM
1

You make it clear from the beginning that this will be a friends with Benefits relationships and nothing more. If she's cool then show her penis town if not you keep it platonic friendship.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:55 PM
1

What % of those number closes ended up being dates?
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:52 PM
1

Yeah you came off as a little bitch there OP. The girl could've had a big work project and needed to stay even longer. Your response shows her that you were only interested in sex and not boyfriend material. Smart move was to play it neutral and say shit like looks like hey if work is taking longer we can take a rain check. You put her number on the maybe pile and move onto to the next chick. There's a slim chance she might contact back maybe next week or month but by then you already numbered c…
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:50 PM
1

Girls go to starbucks just wanna get in, get coffee and gtfo. Picking the location of your battles is half the fight. Now if you tell me that you number closed or bed closed 12 chicks do the Starbucks routine then keep at it but for me I prefer the path of least resistance and that's usually in very "social" areas ie bars, clubs, parties, etc.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:45 PM
1

So OP how do you initiate conversation with other men strangers at some friend's party? You don't know the guys name, his interests, his history, etc? Probably goes with so what bring you to John Smith's Party? See that basic ass shit yet gets the conversation going.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:37 PM
1

No single mothers, nothing of value was lost. Honestly you dodged a bullet there OP, move on to the next chick.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:32 PM
4

Location is just as important as strategy of attack. Are you trying to day game approaching girls at cafes, parks, etc? Those are a bit harder since girls aren't exactly "in the mood". Or are you approaching girls in social scenes like bars, clubs, concerts, etc?
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:31 PM
10

Never ever open with a girl's beauty, she's been complimented about her beauty about 2 dozens times that day alone. Girls wanna be attracted ADDITONAL to their beauty not just their beauty alone if that makes any sense.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:12 PM
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Experience, experience, experience gotta get out there and have your balls figuratively kicked by rejection many times in order to go pro. Now if the girls literally right there and you'll never see her again, Alcohol is a double edged sword here. You gotta drink enough to gain confidence but not to the point where you're seeing double if you catch my drift.
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:55 PM
2

Comparing dating in the middle east where anything sexual is repressed and women's virginity are worth more than gold to Western dating scene where women are free to gangbang 5 dudes at one night and not worried about getting stoned or beheaded. Its apple to orange comparison here.
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:49 PM
1

There is strength in numbers but he who travels alone travels quickest.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:46 AM
5

OP you are dumb as hell, that chick is a gay friend's wingwoman tricking straight dudes into letting the gay guy slide his dick up their ass and after ass rape the girl will ghost you lol.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:45 AM
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Too many catfishers, bots, scammers, hookers, Onlyfans, etc online. These online dating services won't do squat about it because if they truly removed all of these and left with "real" girls the gender ratio would be like 5,000 dudes to one chick.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:43 AM
1

A good female friend hooks you up with her girlfriends. Bad female friend are just using you as a shoulder to cry on when chad tyrone pumped and dumped her ass for the 100th time yet again.
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:50 PM
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Its the easiest way to gain some semblance of the "girlfriend" experience without the pain and struggle of approaching women is to simp aka pay for her Onlyfans, whatever porno stream cam, etc. These guys are so terrified that they don't have the courage to to go a strip club or a hooker to give you an idea. Simps are just the symptoms of an bigger generation problem with Zoomer kids and young adults who grew up in a PC SJW environment where having testicles automatically makes you the bad guy a…
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:42 PM
1

I googled RSD and one of the top result was is RSD a mental illness LOL
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:23 PM
1

"trust me babe I have all the growth in the right place winks" Dodging and reflecting insults, shit test and mind games is the name of the game with some of these chicks. Personally I don't waste my precious time on these chicks and rather pursue women that are genuine and authentic
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:41 PM
2

Biggest mistake here wasn't hitting on other ladies while you were pursing this one. Stop being oneitis.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:03 PM
1

Now, I ain't sayin' she a gold digger But she ain't messin' with no broke n---(can't finish this without getting banned)
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:42 PM
1

If your a light skin Indian, 6 foot and rich as fuck then external aint a factor here, your head game needs fixing.
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:16 PM
1

Hey man you're right Karan Singh Grover 5'11", handsome, rich and famous of course women throwing themselves. I know couple Indian dudes who are killing it with white women. They're rich programmers with money to burn, they're 6' tall and very light skinned Indian.
/r/seduction11/04/22 03:24 PM
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I'm sure the interracial dating percentage are a bit higher since many chicks go through a "black" phase, "Indian" phase, "white" phase but most research focus on marriages since those are easily researchable (ie marriage certificates and records)
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:57 PM
1

Here you go https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2017/05/18/1-trends-and-patterns-in-intermarriage/
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:53 PM
1

That's Anecdotal evidence, I'm just stating statistics. By all means don't let it stop you from pursing white women.
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:24 AM
2

Tell me do you "neg" a company that's interviewing you for a job? Fuck no? Then why the fuck would you insult neg a girl on a first date of all things. Playful insults are reserved for couple who are going steady OP
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:54 PM
1

It's the reverse pump and dump, she found another hotter guy that's better in bed than you and is gently rejecting you. Just be fucking happy you closed the deal and move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:51 PM
1

I can't even remember what the girl said what the reason was let alone remember wtf she looked like. Move on OP
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:46 PM
1

People dont like to discuss race since it's a political hot button topic in this country. Women have racial preferences and thats NOT racist. If you make peace with the fact you're Indian facing a mountain high uphill battle pursing white/latina women then you're good. You ever see that black or asian chick and you're like "DAMN she sexy I dont normally date black chicks but I gladly hit that?" You have to be that "damn" in other race girls eyes if that makes any sense
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:41 PM
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Plz dont be a rapist Is he a "player" whose gonna ghost me after sex? He not a doctor or lawyer so I wonder how much he makes? Ah that girl is so much prettier and has that Versace bag I cant afford He's coming on to strong, he's looking for a quick lay God I look so fat Plz dont be a rapist Etc
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:31 PM
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First dates are called interview dates for a reason. Your resume might've gotten you in the door but the HR manager (girl) didnt like what you were offering so like most businesses the girl will just ghost you. Move on and apply for other girls. Btw 4 hour distance is a major fucking issue. She's not gonna wait around all day for your ass to take her to dinner or fuck her.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:15 PM
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30s to 40s is where many men enter the "james bond" period of their lives of they're single and childfree. They got their shit together, have a good job, lots of money in bank, physically fit, drive a great car, etc. If you haven't hit any of this then start working on yourself first.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:11 PM
2

You know how you talk like a normal human being with other dudes at a bar? Try talking the same way with a girl.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:06 PM
2

I'm live in LA like you OP and women's standards are muuuccchhh higher. LA is the highest cost of living in the country and your finances are just as important to a girl as much as your looks. If your place is in the middle of the ghetto Compton and your car is some 1992 Honda accord, your chances with girls 8+ is an ice cube chance in hell.
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:59 PM
2

Yeah it's like driving across state lines for a big mac rather than focusing on making prime rib at home
/r/seduction10/04/22 04:26 PM
3

That's cause with casual sex you have to use a condom. You have a dedicated partner whom you trust then sex bareback raw dog is so much better.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:11 AM
2

Sounds like oneitis syndrome. If you know for certain her answer is no for any serious relationship then don't waste your time. Besides a 10 in a beach time is like a 6-7 in a major city. If your goal is to get a gf then pursue different girls then. In about a year from now when you're taking your big city girl that's an 8 out on dinner you won't even remember that average looking country girl.
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:51 AM
2

You're either a FWB or a casual lay for convenient dick. Gotta make your intentions CLEAR. Say shit like I wanna get steady and if this shit don't work out we shake hands and agree to bounce. You put her at a decision (a very common salesman tactic btw)
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:47 AM
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The only kind of oneitis i get is if I already sealed the deal with the girl and we're officially bf and gf. Until then every girl I approach is just another job application I'm submitting my resume for.
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:37 AM
1

Have you successfully changed a hiring manager's mind after he or she rejected your job application? No? What makes you think a girl gonna change her mind after the 1st rejection?
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:35 AM
1

Pursuing a girl is identical to pursing that sale from a customer. You know those guys who could sell ice to Eskimos? Well they're the averaging looking dudes who seem to be landing 9/10s by some miracle.
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:21 AM
1

Its very hard and rare to get number or date close from "hired help" chicks at her workplace, nice job OP. But remember if you misinterpret her customer service for tips as "flirting" then you lost access to that doughnut shop well at least during her shift lol.
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:15 AM
0

He's 6'5" blue eyed blonde hair white guy that's a lotta chicks willing to throw her number at him. How about getting some dude average height and decent looking face applying your techniques and show videos of that?
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:11 AM
1

Unless you're willing to fly to Italy to seal the deal all these DMs chat with chicks across the planet means jack squat. The real test is if you can DM insta models who are in the same city, get a number close then a date then to bed.
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:05 AM
1

There's only 3 people I need validation from. The guy who looks back at me in the mirror, God and my cat. I read models too but Mark Manson should've had a chapter about having a "you" day. A day where you're not adding construction materials to your "better life" per say (hitting the gym, getting more education, making more money, etc etc). Like a cheat day during a diet, you gotta have i don't feel like doing shit today and gonna chill.
/r/seduction10/04/22 01:56 AM
11

Comparison is the thief to joy. Do you honestly think some Brad Pitt or George Clooney looking mofo gonna date you're above average cute to pretty chicks? Hell the fuck no, they're slamming 9/10 fashion models and snorting coke off their tits. Also how do you define yourself as "average" btw? If its your physique then hit the gym till 6 pack. If its job/money go back to school and get a better career. If its your face and/or height fucking break your legs and get plastic surgery! That last part …
/r/seduction10/04/22 01:54 AM
11

Show me a man who slept with 1,000 women and I'll show you that the same man who has been rejected 1,000,000 times
/r/seduction06/04/22 07:51 PM
1

Never shit where you eat: Work, apartment, church, etc
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:45 PM
2

Brad Pitt in a dirty mechanic jumper is still gonna land 9/10s
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:44 PM
7

She's either: A) Truly engaged and you should drop it B) Not engaged and wants to reject gently so still drop it
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:43 PM
0

Too much work, I'd just chat up girls in real life.
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:41 PM
3

This is one few cases I agree with those shifty PUA coaches about these situations. Waitresses, baristas, sectary, etc. are classified as "hired help" they're only nice to you because their job/tips depend on it. You truly want to approach this girl then you gotta talk to her when she's not on the clock AKA any social setting that isn't her workplace.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:55 PM
5

How about idgaf, in about 3 months the girl that rejected me will be a distant memory. In about a year her face will be wiped from my Brain hard drive.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:48 PM
1

From what I understand of the Tinder population or any dating app there is literally 9 dudes for every girl. Statically speaking your odds of even matching with a girl before other factors is 10% now factoring in looks, personality and money and that 10% becomes something like 0.01% The amount of time spent swiping and chatting just to land a date with one girl, you could've gone out with a dozen women in real life in the same time frame.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:31 AM
1

Going to meetup social for people in the same industry as you. (ie accounting meetups, doctor get togethers, lawyer drinking socials, etc) There is a strong incentive to establish friendships if not connections because of the potential networking opportunities.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:24 AM
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Best example of not giving a fuck is your political beliefs. You chat with a girl and can tell she leans heavily on one side of the political compass and in fact the complete opposite of what you believe in. Now most dudes are gonna be pussies and lie by agreeing with whatever politics comes out of a girls mouth in hopes of getting in her pants. But dudes who don't give a fuck will be like "while i respect your opinion I still believe (insert political take here). If the girl rejects him for his…
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:21 AM
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Lemme guess that "friend" was ugliest/fattest? I'm also gonna guess all of OP's friends were chatting up all the girls in the club EXCEPT the ugly fat friend? Well there's your mistake there OP, you needed one of your homies to take one for the team and start chatting up the ugly whale so she doesn't get left out.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:05 AM
0

PUA bootcamp teach you to act fake and phony to trick girls into thinking you're the type of person that you're truly aren't. Sure the techniques and concepts taught at bootcamps "may" get you phone numbers and dates but sooner or later all that lying and acting is gonna reveal the real "you". So now you wasted your time, her time, your money. That's why I like Mark Mason theory of cut through the bullshit and show women this is who I am take it or leave it theory. You disqualify women who just …
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:52 AM
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Yes all your time investment shouldn't be towards one girl because she sure as hell isn't reciprocating the time back. Like a fisherman, you don't cast just one fishing rod, you cast as many fishing rods as you can afford.
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:24 AM
12

There's plenty of pussy in the sea gents. Faster you let go of oneitis the better your life will be.
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:08 AM
1

What gives you better odds? Gambling on a slot machine (dating apps) or approaching irl girls (counting cards on blackjack)
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:47 AM
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Instructions unclear, threw a fishing net at a hot girl then got maced and kicked in the balls. I'm now awaiting bail.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:56 AM
7

You don't approach your first job interview by giving vague answer and iffy intentions about wanting the job. You do that HR is gonna move onto the next candidate. So wtf would you do the same god damn thing on a first couple dates? You come at straight and respect like you would with a HR hiring manager and you might actually get the girl and/or job.
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:12 PM
1

OP forgot to mention he's above average and cute in sexual market value lol
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:29 PM
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Boys eyes will slowly drift over to the ass and titties. Men eyes will be on the the girls eyes 100% of the time
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:31 AM
2

Old time wisdom of spreading one's bets
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:40 AM
5

She had her chance, if she's interested she fill out an application and take a ticket like the rest of the girls.
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:54 PM
1

Eastern European and Russians are the hottest ladies on the planet....until they hit the wall and turn into babushkas
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:49 AM
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Getting a girl out of the friendzone is like climbing mount everest just to pick up the morning paper, it just aint worth it.
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:05 AM
6

This is one of Mark Manson's Models tenets. You could bullshit a girl into thinking your somebody else but sooner or later your real you gonna come out.
/r/seduction07/12/21 10:27 PM
2

Do I get jealous of Michael Jordan when I play basketball? Do I get butt hurt of Wayne Gretzky when I hit the ice? Comparison is the thief to joy. I know I'll never pull as many numbers as some dude whose 6 feet tall and has a face that belong in a fashion catalog. But I don't worry about that I just worry about my own shit.
/r/seduction15/08/20 09:12 PM
2

Best program is going out there and learning by doing and making mistakes. You could read a hundred books about sucba diving but that doesn't make you a master diver.
/r/seduction28/07/20 10:51 PM
2

This year it's tough for a lotta people strictly speaking dating wise. Because all the bars and clubs are closed and not too many chicks are keen on meeting up after tinder because of covid concerned.
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:49 AM
3

Tinder kinda sucks asian most guys. Fixed that for you. Stop using that ok Cupid race study from 12 years ago back (before tinder) when online dating was considered pathetic.
/r/seduction27/07/20 11:22 PM
1

Go to /r/rateme and get some honest feedback on your beauty
/r/seduction20/12/19 09:00 PM
1

I prefer the goldenlock middle between chasing and pursued.
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:49 PM
1

You say not deformed but I'm guessing you're average or below average in face department. Since you got cash why not plastic surgery? Also 6 packs on a ultra skinny guy is like a screendoor on a submarine.
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:48 PM
1

That 3 month period was an outliner, I gained like 30 pounds during that time so it was a huge factor
/r/seduction19/12/19 09:50 PM
1

Dry spells flucate erratically for me. Anywhere between a week to longest I had was 3 months.
/r/seduction19/12/19 09:12 PM
1

I want to survive my sexual encounters not die by them!!
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:52 PM
3

Mark Manson said majority of girls will be the netural position. You gotta ask and act in such a way that makes them decide they're gonna get with you or reject you. Think of all the time spent on texting, meeting and money on this oneitis chick you put your effort into? You could've dated/slept with many women in that same time span if you had girls "come" to a decision of whether or not to get with you. My advice put her on the "maybe" pile and engage her from time to time while you actually g…
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:49 PM
1

Then if you pass for a white girl then you shouldn't have any problems with Asian men.
/r/seduction09/11/19 10:32 PM
1

I'm gonna cut the bullshit and say it. Are you more white looking or latina looking? Cause if you're the former then you shouldn't have a problem but if you're the latter then yeah it's a factor. I know dozens of Asian dudes and they all Chase that white tail but very rarely do they pursue the senioritas.
/r/seduction09/11/19 10:22 PM
1

Your daughter is your wingman? Also average age range of your number closes?
/r/seduction08/11/19 06:07 PM
2

No but those are huge factors. Not gonna say poor 40s with kids have no chance but they have drastic less odds then those who don't have kids.
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:41 PM
3

There's specific antiviral condoms to use for that.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:42 PM
3

Is this a tinder, bumble, etc text? Then yeah you gotta play text Shakespeare with her. Is this texting after a physical open and number close? Then yeah keep that shit to a minimum flirt and focus on texting for the next date.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:41 PM
22

Show me a man who has slept with over a 100 women and I'll show that same man has been rejected 100,000 times.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:22 PM
1

I think girls fantasize about taking boy cherry.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:21 PM
3

That's the basis of Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:20 PM
5

Didn't bother to read your life story there OP. You can't kill your ego but you can suppress it with alcohol.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:19 PM
1

Models by Mark Manson should be the Bible.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:18 PM
2

I use Tinder with all the bells and whistle options when I'm sick as a dog and can't game in real life. Tinder should be a crutch to your dating not the sole means.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:17 PM
3

30-40s should be the prime time of a man's life where he's killing it with the ladies. Provided that he's fit, child free and relatively (think BMW not mansion) wealthy. I personally know couple 40 y/o who is ask I described above able to land girls in their 20s.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:15 PM
1

I recognize your words from Mark Manson and if memory serves me correctly he address weight issues as a big factor.
/r/seduction06/11/19 11:22 PM
0

There's a fine line between dad bod and fat ass
/r/seduction06/11/19 11:21 PM
0

15% is like still good, I'm talking about dudes with 30%+
/r/seduction06/11/19 05:54 PM
0

How high of a body fat is a big difference
/r/seduction06/11/19 05:38 PM
4

You're asking "interview" question that is both boring and can be answered in one word. Ask hypothetical shit like if you could bang any celebrity who would it be? See that shit may piss off a lotta women but it generates emotional reaction that these "safe" shit you shovel at them like where you from? What kind of work? How much tax return did you get last year? Read models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction06/11/19 05:11 PM
1

Approach Introduce yourself Converse like a normal human being Get rejected or digits Secret sauce: act like you don't give a fuck after every rejection.
/r/seduction05/11/19 08:39 PM
1

It's recommended to not try pick up on hired gun (bartenders, baristas, waitress, etc)
/r/seduction05/11/19 09:28 AM
1

Pua coaches provide "some" nuggets of helpful tips but it's inheritenly biased since it's based on their experiences. Some white dudes pick up strategy isn't gonna work well with an Eskimo dudes.
/r/seduction05/11/19 09:26 AM
1

If aren't getting at least 1-2 no/fuck off response per club/bar/insert location here then you're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction05/11/19 09:23 AM
3

If you are in your 30s-40s, single, child free, relatively wealthy and healthy body. You can be closing 20y/o like no tomorrow.
/r/seduction05/11/19 12:26 AM
1

I don't know the science but from what I understand fat cells developed as a child stay there into adulthood. Yes by losing weight you "shrink" those fat cells but it's still there. Hence the name baby fat.
/r/seduction04/11/19 10:10 PM
1

You have baby face fat caused when you were an obese child. Look into fat loss surgery for the face.
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:40 PM
2

So basically you have face fat. Face fat is first to come and last to go. This sub doesn't like to admit it but being fat is a major girl repellent. Stop wasting time in bars and clubs. Every free time you have should be at the gym or eating healthy. Get fit, get laid.
/r/seduction04/11/19 05:06 PM
1

Real life.
/r/seduction04/11/19 12:30 AM
6

Just don't, everyone knows you don't shit where you eat that includes (work, church, gym, etc)
/r/seduction04/11/19 12:29 AM
2

Online should be used as an accessory to your dating not your primary
/r/seduction01/11/19 02:33 PM
2

To summarize, approach and don't give a fuck except your own wellbeing (work out, hygiene, etc)
/r/seduction15/08/19 02:32 AM
5

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Wayne Gretzky
/r/seduction08/06/19 12:40 AM
1

So Reddit rules #1 and #2?
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:23 PM
1

Ask for her opinion on pineapple on pizza and tell her that her answer will influence your attraction to her.
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:40 PM
7

Man with attractive physical characteristics /w no bio > decent man with great bio > below average man with a bio worthy of a Pulitzer prize.
/r/seduction25/05/19 11:36 AM
1

Either she legit swiped wrong or she's shit testing you. I guess you can be all suave and say some shit like best things in life happens due to small mistakes.
/r/seduction23/05/19 05:40 PM
5

Step 1: hit the gym Step 5: bang the girl Step 6: profit?
/r/seduction17/05/19 04:57 PM
1

I silently think in my head for approaches, I don't give a fuck. Repeat until digit close or rejection.
/r/seduction05/03/19 05:56 PM
1

This isn't a black and white rule guys. Just like how there's horrible dating/pua coaches to great ones. There's horrible female dating gurus who teach based on their experiences vs actual female PHD in sex psychology that can give great insight (better than most PUA coaches I'm willing to bet).
/r/seduction04/03/19 10:59 PM
90

TL,DR: Don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction24/02/19 07:30 AM
1

Thats like 90% of pickup!
/r/seduction15/02/19 01:48 AM
1

With the physical or the conversation?
/r/seduction14/02/19 06:03 PM
1

/r/rateme and /r/amiugly, should take opinions on female comments. Most dudes will harshly rate other dudes.
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:07 AM
3

Anywhere from 50-99% is physical attraction with women. PUA coaches convince ugly mofos all you have to be charming and that beer belly and balding head don't matter. Now if you pass her physical test and you start to open your mouth is another story.
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:02 AM
86

Women the ultimate wingman
/r/seduction06/02/19 01:05 AM
1

Op was really pushing a meeting and showing neediness, in suprised it actual result in meeting. If you guys were OP how would you have handled her excuses for not wanting to meet today?
/r/seduction05/02/19 09:25 PM
8

This just doesn't apply to girls and seduction but how yo should interact with everybody in life.
/r/seduction02/02/19 06:08 PM
6

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Wayne Gretzky
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:47 PM
1

Uninstall Snap, approach game in real life. Most of these social media sluts are only pandering to get followers from thirsty dudes.
/r/seduction27/01/19 05:08 PM
1

Do I get butt hurt or depressed when a job offer comes back with a no? Nope! I keep applying and drive full steam ahead.
/r/seduction18/01/19 11:07 PM
1

Depends on the amount of widow's peak. To much (ala 90s Bruce Willis) is unattractive.
/r/seduction15/01/19 02:58 PM
1

Club game is 90% physical and 10% etc since the damn club is too loud to hold a long conversation (a lot of bars too fall under this category). You either rock it physically or find someplace quieter.
/r/seduction15/01/19 04:46 AM
-2

Don't forget receding hairlines, widow's peaks, etc. Either shave that shit or start a hair regrowth program.
/r/seduction15/01/19 04:45 AM
1

Back then it might work but nearly all women wouldn't want to pursue a man with 5 children unless his name was Jeff bezos
/r/seduction09/01/19 09:23 PM
23

Too many suggestions, I'll go with the easiest and offer the girl krill oil.
/r/seduction08/01/19 03:34 PM
5

No your penis may not go anywhere near that pineapple whore for the fear of contracting pineappleitis
/r/seduction08/01/19 04:18 AM
16

Still though if she likes pineapple on pizza dump her. We don't pursue savages.
/r/seduction07/01/19 06:27 PM
21

What's your opinion on pineapple on pizza. Your answer determines if we're a match.
/r/seduction07/01/19 04:47 PM
3

You got oneitis to the extreme and still in the "honeymoon" phase of the relationship. Give it a couple months when the cracks in her personality and relationship start to show up and you're gonna want to jump ship.
/r/seduction07/01/19 04:45 PM
5

Dunno from what I heard it's either east Asian or white that's preferred due to the highly racist nature of Japan. Stick to gaming foreigners on japan
/r/seduction05/01/19 09:03 PM
2

Light skinned to pass for East Asian?
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:46 PM
3

Are you white or Asian?
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:40 PM
1

Balancing act between confident and douche
/r/seduction05/01/19 03:56 AM
1

Just bullshit her your meeting up with old female friends. It'll make her move her schedule around if she's into you.
/r/seduction04/01/19 08:04 PM
1

Most likely way more guys then girls and tinder would never relet numbers cause they want guys to think they have a chance. Get off tinder and do real life.
/r/seduction04/01/19 07:05 PM
1

Also if anybody has new places nobody ever thought before here's the place to say it.
/r/seduction03/01/19 05:14 PM
1

Well take your chance when you give a 2 week notice.
/r/seduction03/01/19 04:30 PM
1

What part of never hit on women at work or gym is not clear to you?
/r/seduction03/01/19 04:24 PM
1

You have a typical coffee approach? I just go up and say hi my name is...
/r/seduction03/01/19 04:12 PM
1

Definitely: gym, work, and church are your no for zones.
/r/seduction03/01/19 04:11 PM
2

Don't have oneitis, have multipleitis.
/r/seduction31/12/18 09:38 PM
1

Number 12 is the most important in getting laid. Cats are women magnets
/r/seduction29/12/18 08:11 PM
1

Well of course but that's just a jist of it.
/r/seduction29/12/18 04:36 AM
1

TL, DR: be your respectful self and play the numbers game by hitting on every chick there, don't have oneitis
/r/seduction28/12/18 06:32 PM
5

Fuck that noise, put that into an investment account and just go out and talk to chicks like a human being
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:38 PM
1

I guess the point of this video is to do both?
/r/seduction28/05/18 05:39 PM
18

Its better to ask and get rejected then to regret not knowing.
/r/seduction19/05/18 06:14 PM
5

And you number closed I take it? ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ
/r/seduction20/04/18 11:55 PM
2

I walked up to a girl and shouted 'nice cans doll' and ran away only for her to chase and tackle me like a line backer. Obviously this is a joke but I'm curious as to what real world complement you guys gave?
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:39 PM
31

Tommy devito from Goodfellas, "Sure, mom, I settle down with a nice girl every night, then I'm free the next morning"
/r/seduction05/09/17 05:27 PM
11

We talking about seduction or sales? Then again what's the difference
/r/seduction15/08/17 11:20 PM
4

No just play the game normally, there's no pleasure derived from enemies unable to fight back
/r/seduction16/06/17 10:07 PM
3

For the germophobes thoughts on kissing random chicks with the risk of contracting HPV-1 aka cold sores??
/r/seduction12/06/17 03:23 AM
5

Yoga, hiking, dancing, insert your not home hobby here
/r/seduction06/06/17 09:45 PM
41

Once you go orc you never go back
/r/seduction06/06/17 07:07 PM
8

Sadly not video games looking at my local meet up groups
/r/seduction06/06/17 07:06 PM
6

Since she so focused on the physical how about she shows her make up free face for judgement?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/17 05:57 AM
1

Kind of like a buffet
/r/seduction13/05/17 02:27 AM
15

You do that I'm sexy and know it face that kid did to Moana
/r/seduction04/04/17 08:48 PM
0

Hey you guys make the world a cleaner place mad respect
/r/seduction30/03/17 06:31 PM
8

Astronaut go big or go home
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:06 PM
0

So this is libel?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/17 10:43 PM
2

HSV-1 aka cold sores is insanely common and most likely you along with the majority of the population is infected. Now HSV-2 is the dick and vaj's version of that and just because there isn't symptoms doesn't mean no possible infection (see asymptomatic herpes). Only real way to prevent HSV-2 is to have yourself and your partner tested and only bang each other if both of you are clean. Condoms protect somewhat against herpes like a umbrella full of holes protect against rain.
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:10 AM
6

I totally misinterpreted that title about the penis in the vagina
/r/seduction03/11/16 08:41 PM
5

Just hop on a CSGO all talk server and enjoy the bitching from squeakers as you own them
/r/seduction22/10/16 05:02 AM
48

So saying hey bby u want some fuk? Isn't gonna cut it?
/r/seduction13/10/16 07:25 PM
1

Soooooooo use cute puppy?
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:19 PM
25

Dem .87 babies always ruining statistics
/r/seduction05/09/16 01:55 PM
1

Just mildly interesting
/r/seduction18/08/16 07:06 PM
1

Lol subscribing to social skills and seduction. Ops post shows up next to each other each slightly tailored to the subreddit
/r/seduction18/08/16 05:02 PM
4

You can try the same tactic but with political subject . At the end if the night youll be kicked in the balls or have a phone number to continue the debate
/r/seduction17/08/16 05:17 PM
2

Cute one will do things in bed the hot one would never considered doing
/r/seduction12/08/16 04:36 PM
-5

It's a mecca of STD so rub some coconut oil on your junk after the deed , heard it fights Herpes and hpv
/r/seduction22/06/16 02:31 AM
1

What about polyurethene?
/r/seduction10/06/16 04:29 AM
1

Do you use it every time before entering pound town?
/r/seduction10/06/16 01:58 AM
1

Hep b is for hepatitis b not herpes. Please don't tell me you been banging away thinking your bullet proof against herpes
/r/seduction09/06/16 10:32 PM
3

Hey bby u want sum fuk?
/r/seduction09/06/16 09:02 PM
0

Yeah CDC.gov
/r/seduction09/06/16 08:52 PM
1

Most people think HPV or HSV is just blisters or warts that come and go I once a while is is mostly true but bring infected with the virus means your chances of other diseases (HIV, cancet, etc) is multiplied
/r/seduction09/06/16 07:28 PM
1

Remember folks depression lies to you
/r/seduction25/05/16 04:42 PM
1

You mention you're from India, so would your caste be a factor?
/r/seduction17/04/16 08:17 PM
4

"so I brought her to my mom's bed" wait what?!?
/r/seduction22/03/16 09:50 PM
1

You're like op, everytime I try eye fuck someone I look bug eyed like gollum looking at the one ring
/r/seduction29/02/16 05:48 PM
63

A master has failed more time than a beginner has tried
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:15 PM
1

Were you looking like a rapist at the time?
/r/seduction22/11/15 04:18 AM
2

OP if you waited 3 more years, you could've been a wizard!!
/r/seduction04/09/12 06:03 PM
5

So what you're saying is...Practice makes perfect???
/r/seduction01/09/12 09:01 AM
2

Just gift these Korean girls with pylons and they'll be all over you.
/r/seduction26/07/12 11:38 PM
9

It feels like I'm wearing nothing at all, nothing at all, nothing at all.
/r/seduction13/06/12 01:34 PM
2

Cause she's Jewish?? Damn people these days getting all antisemitical in here.
/r/seduction25/05/12 05:41 AM
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