Sandylees Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Wife Says she doesn't know what she wants to do. I think he was delirious. 😃 It's exceedingly immature and narrow minded to lump ALL nurses in one category, starting as their character is concerned.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/23 08:44 PM
3	Wife Says she doesn't know what she wants to do. The nursing profession is notoriously known for cheating, Like police officers too.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/23 08:41 PM
1	divorced men of reddit, for those of you with grown children who are cently divorced, do you stay in constant contact with your ex about things unrelated to your children? I'm in. 8 month relationship with a newly divorced man and I feel disrespected by the emotional connection he maintains with her I think this is a boundary You set boundaries for yourself. He's clearly okay with her drunk calls, otherwise he would hang up. You need to decide if you wavt to stay with him. I also suspect, its not just the drunk calls and they talk at other times, which you don't like.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/23 01:29 AM
1	It's my fault I know right.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/23 01:17 AM
5	It's my fault Ive threatened to kill myself This is manipulative behaviour. You need to seek therapy	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/23 01:16 AM
2	I am a 30 year older man Recently separated and trying to understand my chances at finding love Before you start dating, spend some time on your own. You need to adjust to being a single dad and supporting your kids through the split. It's a lot for them to deal with and they really don't need to meet any woman you date for a long while. At least a year. Ensure that you maintain or develop a strong relationship with your kids and that it's not about looking for a new love to help with your kids. Don't rush to live with anyone.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/21 03:35 PM
1	Perspective It's best to marry a woman who has the same work ethic as you. If she shows signs of being allergic to work, it's time to exit stage left. If you make a joint decision for her to be a SAHM, that could end up being a big problem if you divorce. I'm no fan of SAHM or SAHD. It gives the one earning way too much power. Men - teach your daughters the value of working and being financially independent so she doesn't have to depend on a man to support her.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/21 03:20 PM
1	My marriage is over , how do I move on Taking into account your cheating and the flaws you say she has, it's probably the right thing even though it might not seem like it now. Spend some time on your own, maybe consider therapy to discover who you are and what you want our of life. This includes career, family, where you want to live etc. Don't be pushed into anything you don't want to in life, or you'll regret it and be resentful. If you don't want to get married again, don't be pressured. Same as kids. Don't be pressured and take …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/21 03:05 PM
2	Dating You need to be by yourself for a while and be happy in your own company. Have all the fun you want as long as your honest, but make sure you're careful and don't create a baby while you're at it or you'll have many years of regret.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/21 01:46 PM
1	Looking for opinions You're not being petty. She's being too greedy trying to have her cake and eat it.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/21 11:12 PM