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Yeah basically girls with low self-esteem tend to do this.
/r/seduction04/02/15 01:07 PM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy deals with your problems. Might want to read it. EDIT: Also might want to read up on Attachment Theory. And throw in Six Pillars of Self-esteem for good measure. Knowledge really is power.
/r/seduction04/02/15 01:06 PM
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Six Pillars of Self-esteem, Nathaniel Branden
/r/seduction31/01/15 07:19 PM
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I think the best course of action is to find a therapist.
/r/seduction30/01/15 09:40 PM
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You have no idea how much pain and suffering women like you used to be cause...
/r/seduction28/01/15 12:39 PM
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Thanks man. :/
/r/seduction17/01/15 05:13 PM
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I respectfully disagree. Went for a kiss seven times with a girl last week until I got it. However, you must to be able to gauge how she's feeling about you. I can see many people not being able to "sense" where the girl's at - how comfortable she is, and that can cause problems. In my experience, there are two kinds of "no".
/r/seduction15/01/15 12:52 PM
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Yeah, I got involved with a girl with low self-esteem. Got attached as well. Sure enough, it ended. You can't solve other people's problems. So I bought her Six Pillars of Self-esteem as parting present. I think I did good.
/r/seduction06/01/15 09:43 AM
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The guy that wrote this book, Nathaniel Branden was very close to Ayn Rand and basically led her "cult" of objectivism. Then he decided it was a bit too hardcore for him and distanced himself from it. He has decades of experience in therapy and has written a number of books on self-esteem. His writing style is very concise and, to me, beautiful - you can clearly see when reading the book that the writer is a brilliant man. You know how everyone recommends starting with Models? Well I would go so…
/r/seduction30/12/14 08:21 AM
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I would add Six Pillars of Self-esteem by Nathaniel Branden to this list. That book will give you rock solid inner game. Also, Models and No More Mr. Nice Guy. Then I would watch some of the videos about kino and stuff like that. But don't be intimidated by all of this. It's not that hard.
/r/seduction29/12/14 10:49 AM
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Deontological ethics vs consequentialism. The battle rages on.
/r/seduction29/12/14 10:34 AM
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At one point one of the more attractive ones just walked up and stood there facing me. But she didn’t dance or move. She didn’t look at me too, so I took that as a sign that she wasn’t interested. After a minute she left without saying a word. So my question is, what was I supposed to do? This is exactly what happened to me just hours ago. I was also completely confused - clearly I'm clueless when it comes to club game. But now I know and won't make the same mistake again and neither should you.…
/r/seduction10/12/14 09:57 AM
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Thanks man. I really appreciate you responding in detail.
/r/seduction04/12/14 08:39 AM
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If you really have low self-esteem, you might want to read Six Pillars of Self-esteem by Nathaniel Branden.
/r/seduction29/11/14 06:46 PM
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This is a superb analogy.
/r/seduction23/11/14 08:40 PM
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The problem is not being romantic, the problem is that you're not the romantic type and are trying to act like someone you're not. Ask yourself this: do you want her to like you for who you are or for who you pretend to be? Even if you manage to trick her, you'll have to act around her. Now, I don't mind romance - write love letters, give flowers, recite poetry whatever - just do it because it's YOU. (and expect to get rejected and be fine with it)
/r/seduction14/11/14 03:57 PM
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Generally, hooking up periscopes to secondary power sources (diesel engines, hydrogen fuel cells etc.) aboard nuclear submarines. Stuff like that.
/r/seduction26/10/14 07:37 PM
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Maybe ask her directly? Polarize and all that. I mean, you're in engineering college, so you should know that failure is always an option. XD I say go ahead and fail spectacularly. Outcome indendence.
/r/seduction21/09/14 07:35 PM
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Hehe, thx. And good luck to you too... drunk. XD
/r/seduction18/09/14 12:57 PM
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So differentiating between constructive criticism and ad hominem is the problem? Yep, that does pose a problem.
/r/seduction18/09/14 11:17 AM
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man, who wouldn't wanna be your friend XD
/r/seduction18/09/14 11:11 AM
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And what type would that be? (just curious)
/r/seduction18/09/14 11:05 AM
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If she appologized, then ask her out again. It's not desperate, it's persistent. If she says no again, then you'll know for sure that she isn't interested.
/r/seduction18/09/14 11:04 AM
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We're totally incompatible. 1. I'm an agnostic atheist and dislike faith, spirituality and all that. 2. I'm more of a consequentialist (and some times even nihilistic) 3. I dislike whiskey - prefer cocktails. Hilariously incompatible. XD But it just confirms your point.
/r/seduction18/09/14 10:54 AM
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But you know exactly what you did wrong. You're clearly learning, and should be applauded for that.
/r/seduction18/09/14 10:31 AM
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That's not very nice of you.
/r/seduction13/09/14 06:21 PM
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Well, uhm, I had a very immature girlfriend. XD
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:37 PM
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Ask to see her jewelry. Ask to smell her perfume. Hold her while you smell her. Then when you pull away, let the arm linger. Tell her you know palm reading and then start making stuff up. If you're walking together, walk slightly into her so that your arms touch. If you spot something interesting, turn her to face it by pushing her (gently) on the small of her back. You can then move the hand to her hip, and say "You smell nice." Or whatever. But don't lie. (this doesn't sound like a good one, b…
/r/seduction14/08/14 08:54 AM
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But the problem here then becomes reading her intentions and that comes with experience. Did she really have a shitty day or is she just messing with you? I do what I feel is right. I'm not afraid of failure of misjudging her intentions because I then learn from my mistakes. I learn to better judge future girls and people in general. Does this make sense?
/r/seduction14/08/14 08:35 AM
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I have the knowledge from Models and I kinda fuse it with my own personality This.
/r/seduction14/08/14 08:29 AM
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It does help.
/r/seduction12/08/14 10:02 PM
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You don't have to be high energy. Think of it this way, if you pretend at being high energy (and you're not) and succeed, you will probably attract high energy people. You'll be drained by them and will have to pretend to be something you're not. Sooner or later, they will pick up that you're not genuine, and the attraction will be lost. Look up James Marshal videos on yt. He's pretty low energy and is still very successful. There is style to outer game.
/r/seduction12/08/14 09:07 AM
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I guess the point is you can laugh for different reasons. If the reason is because you're nervous and filling that "void", then you should stop yourself. If there's something funny going on you should laugh. We should differentiate between the two.
/r/seduction11/08/14 09:31 PM
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Great one. I think Eddie Izzard does this pretty well. But you have to watch the whole shows and look when he gets stuck.
/r/seduction11/08/14 06:50 PM
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You have to calibrate these. Can't just ask with a straight face.
/r/seduction10/08/14 03:33 PM
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Good catch.
/r/seduction06/08/14 06:28 PM
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I have found that this happens to girls more often.
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:34 AM
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This essentially happened to me a couple of months before. I was studying "game" so much, from many different authors and coaches looking for patterns and commonalities and comparing them to reality and my experience - fitting it with my personality and style of seduction. Everything went well, but the girl was convinced I was some sort of a womanizer (I really am not - don't have the time lol) and was afraid she couldn't hold my attention; afraid I was just going to move on to the next girl aft…
/r/seduction30/07/14 10:42 AM
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Sounds like a plan. I'll try this.
/r/seduction28/07/14 12:53 PM
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This is basically what's happening to me. She approached me - and I'm kinda grateful for that, skipping the approach anxiety and all that stuff. And now, she has no idea what to do (I suspect she's inexperienced). I've had girls before and when I escalated, they... escalated back, if you know what I mean. But not this girl - she just seems to stand there; she's not resisting or anything, but she's not participating either. It just seems weird to me. Either she's has no problem with me doing what…
/r/seduction28/07/14 08:56 AM
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Thanks, one person. I guess I'll just push on.
/r/seduction27/07/14 10:45 PM
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hmm... Start with Dungeons and Dragons or some other tabletop game with a group that focuses on role-playing. If it you can find a group with girls in it, even better. When you get comfortable with that, join a theater group or take basic acting lessons. Look yourself in the mirror when you practice acting - watch your body language.
/r/seduction03/05/14 07:51 PM
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