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Men are held to a rigid standard of masculinity, and it has led to "feminine" qualities being seen as bad and weak. This is the problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:21 AM
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Because I don't want to date someone who thinks self-expression and uniqueness are turn-offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:12 AM
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Well I don't have blue hair, piercings, or tattoos, but I don't want to date the kind of man who dislikes those things lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:13 PM
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It's crazy because republicans oppose all of the things you listed. They'll never end the draft, they're pro-circumcision because religion, and they want mothers to have custody because traditional gender roles. A lot of men will vote against their own interests because they're tired of using pronouns or whatever. I understand that the economy sucks and people are desperate for something to change but I don't understand these guys who talk about men's rights and yet they are socially conservativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:38 PM
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As a woman who isn't very conventionally attractive and has a lot of "guy hobbies," I think it's the opposite. Sometimes I feel like every guy is looking for a model and they don't care if their partner has anything in common with them or even has a good personality. I can't imagine dating someone that I didn't share hobbies with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:27 PM
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I wasn't trying to be rude, just explaining my thoughts. Not everyone has to be into the same things and that's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:09 PM
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My male friends are my favorite people in the entire world. I love that I can go to them for advice and they can rationalize what I'm saying. I like that I can hang with them in a call for hours even if we're both being pretty quiet and they won't get annoyed because they're just doing their own thing. Most of all, I like that they like spending time with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:01 PM
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I once had a redpill former friend ask me what makes women more appealing than men if we aren't fulfilling traditional gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:50 PM
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That's really sweet and wholesome. Like I said, I'm still figuring out what I want, plus it would make my life easier if I could date people who don't have a dominant side. But as of right now it's all I know 🤷‍♀️ I dated a vanilla guy for years and we rarely had any kind of intimacy. He didn't like foreplay or even kissing. In my experience, doms are all about turning their partner on. That's one of the things I like about them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:44 PM
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That's really interesting. The thing is, being into kink feels natural for me, at least in a sexual way. I can't imagine fantasizing about anything other than being dominated. I don't think I could do anything about that even if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:46 AM
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Once this guy left them, they became shell of a person and just see men as a car ride. They do not invest deeply in men from that point. What do you think can be done about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:14 AM
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I guess I've always viewed kink as a way to express my femininity and softness on my own terms. Highly "traditional" vanilla relationships tend to revolve around the man's wants and needs. Kinky relationships give the (usually male) dom a sense of control, but it's just for fun, and it's for the enjoyment of both partners. I do have some reservations about getting into an actual D/s relationship, though. Kink can be explored outside of a 24/7 dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:09 AM
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That's actually a very thoughtful response 😊 to be completely honest, I'm still figuring out what I want. I've always seen myself as submissive in just about every way, but I recently met a guy who is younger than me and more on the subby side, and I kinda like that about him. That being said, I don't think this is necessarily about being dominant or submissive. I would LOVE to have a soft caregiver dom who plays Animal Crossing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:54 AM
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I had just been passed up for a promotion, let me fantasize about a cute lil cottagecore life where I don't have to compete with anyone. Also for what it's worth, I typically don't look for partners on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:40 AM
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The idea that some women get the ick over a man being cute or vulnerable for a brief moment makes me so sad. All I want is to find someone who is cute and vulnerable at times, and now lots of men are afraid to show that side of themselves :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:24 AM
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I'm sure this isn't the only reason, but the redpill stuff isn't exactly helping guys' chances. I've gone out with men who spoke about women like they genuinely hate us, and stopped seeing them over it. Why would I want to date someone who hates me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:18 AM
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Really? I didn't expect a redpill guy to like the idea of a woman ordering food for a man. Thank you though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:28 PM
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Yeah so, I lived this except the guy was very open about not finding me attractive. It worked fine for years but eventually I decided I needed more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:48 AM
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I'd like to say I'd cook him something, but realistically I don't know this guy well enough to use his kitchen. I'd order something for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:40 AM
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I'd actually be relieved because I have a strong preference for non-penetrative sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:35 AM
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I talk to every new person with the intention of getting to know them in a more serious way. Sometimes there are compatibility issues, but we have chemistry and I know they can at least be a caring friend. When that happens, I tend to keep them around (with their full knowledge of course) and play with them online occasionally. Now that I think about it, I actually get the most out of those relationships, emotionally. They're the sweetest guys who either live far away, are ENM, or just aren't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:33 AM
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I would absolutely stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:18 AM
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I actually prefer guys who have dad bods and don't make a ton of money because then I don't constantly feel like they're out of my league. But in terms of behavior, I do have high standards. Emotional intelligence is important. So is consistency. So are manners. And as a very emotional person, if I can't rely on a man to either 1) help me rationalize my thoughts or 2) comfort me, it's just not going to work. I don't think that's unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:15 AM
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I should have added, "and seems stable/safe to be around." I've gone on a few dates over the past few years with guys who didn't mind. One was a conspiracy theorist who got into physical fights all the time. The other one was a Tate fanatic who basically called me a slut for not wanting to go out again that same week (I was working full-time; he told me i probably had dates lined up with other dudes). It's rough out here, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:39 PM
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Maybe I just don't get out enough then 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:02 PM
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OP thinks it basically disqualifies us, so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:45 PM
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Chubby woman here; it's incredibly frustrating to see that having my body type is considered to be on-par with being an awful person. I'm just hoping to find a bigger guy who doesn't mind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:39 AM
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