Sapphire_Jizz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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37	Dating is destroying my self esteem and confidence.. If I like you enough to sleep with you on a regular basis, and enjoy it, then I want a relationship. I remember some saying about how you can't deposit sex into a guy and automatically get a relationship in return 🤔	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/19 04:31 AM
3	Dealing with his mother...... Some ideas for reading you can do to deal with manipulative people / situations: When I Say No, I Feel Guilty No More Mr. Nice Guy (or Gal) read up on how to deal with shit tests / fitness tests If she brings up secrets, it could be as simple as saying "I would prefer not to hear it as I'd rather not keep secrets from [my SO]."	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/19 10:45 PM
1	I hope I’ve found the right place May be late but, just want to ask a couple questions about your relationship.. What do you think are the strengths and weaknesses of your relationship? How do you think he'd answer this same question? Does he take the lead in general? How do you feel about his leadership (or yours, when applicable)? What do you think he'd say about it, if asked? How is your love life? Again, what do you think he'd say about it, if asked? Thanks!	/r/RedPillWomen	20/10/18 11:25 PM
1	Genuine question Can I ask how long you've been together? I'm single	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/18 12:59 AM
25	Genuine question while they're just enjoying the whole ride? The point is to vet potential mates to find one who won't be lazy and take everything for granted while you preoccupy yourself with carrying the relationship. A quality man will be provide, protect, and lead his clan in a positive direction -- it's what they're literally designed to do. A good portion of it may go on behind the scenes, or he may not talk about it, so... and they don't seem to expend the same energy working to please you? ... is how it …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/18 09:45 PM
1	FR: Came in her mouth, she wasn't happy Nice! Did you cum in her mouth? Did she make it clear that she would swallow? How was the status of that elephant during tonight's encounter?	/r/askMRP	22/06/18 08:53 AM
5	He said he feels like I don't like him. Did he elaborate any further? Did he give any examples of things that you do which give him that feeling?	/r/RedPillWomen	21/05/18 08:53 PM
3	First post. I need advice on husband hesitant about having kids. I guess I would still take care of him but the kid/s will be priority. That is one thing that will change for sure. You should tell him that, then. Make sure he knows where he can expect to stand if he has kids with you.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/18 12:53 AM
1	[Update] The talk is coming Sir, delete this post and read the side bar. You're in her frame. You don't have a frame.	/r/askMRP	25/02/18 10:51 AM
5	How to approach sex when dating This comment is the truth. Allow me to point out: But I don't want to have sex with someone who doesn't respect me enough to not pressure me when I've already tried to keep things from escalating too fast in polite and subtle ways. And men want a woman who is passionate about them; this approach you take is the opposite of that. Men will pick up on this and drop the courtship. Also: How do you keep a man you want to continue dating from getting frustrated to the point that they walk away? I've t…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/18 06:38 AM
1	I left the house You're correct, years of established behavior patterns, unwritten rules, and dealing with the consequences of rambo actions must all be considered. 99 times out of 100 new guys should not go rambo. Nothing is in place for it to be beneficial. That being said (I guess I like this phrase), occasionally being a bit cavalier, even if early in the journey, might be a good thing. It shakes the foundations a little bit. It stirs the hamsters. It reminds her, and the fledgling RP newbie himself, that he…	/r/askMRP	15/02/18 11:17 PM
3	I left the house Legendary stuff from jack10 here. He's totally correct of course. However, I believe that there is a time and a place in a relationship to simply leave for a while, without ceremony or feelz-conscientousness. Follow your gut sometimes, fuck outside considerations and calculations. If that means betraying a bit of butt-hurt as you remove your presence, so be it. If that means occasionally autistically going from 100 to 0 with your attention in response to sex-denying, frigid, harpy behavior, so b…	/r/askMRP	15/02/18 10:07 PM
10	Secret Phone - Part 2 At some point she burped, smelled his cum, and smiled to herself. fucking dying here man	/r/askMRP	10/02/18 05:54 AM
12	post divorce children contact shenanigans Continue to ghost her and text only regarding custody logistics. Right here, OP. You must totally ignore this. And all of her other desperate shenanigans.... pretend none of them ever happened. Because they didn't, in a way. They change nothing. They're desperate and baseless. They're hamster-fueled frame bait designed to fuck your mind. When you message her as per usual regarding the logistics, give no indication that you've been affected by her messages, or that you've even read them at all. I…	/r/askMRP	06/02/18 07:00 PM
6	Question on telling wife (fat wife in Dubai update) Man, you need to consult at least one very good divorce attorney in OK before you initiate ANYTHING re: divorce. Don't even mention divorce to her or anyone that might tell her / any of her family till you've had thorough consultations and you're as ready as you can be. She was a SAHM for a lot of years, but has a good college education. This is a convert contract with yourself: "my wife is college educated so she'll be able to get a good job and thus I won't have to pay as much!" There are no g…	/r/askMRP	02/02/18 08:21 AM
4	How can I strike a balance between "open and honest" with STFU? The real question you're asking is: should I tell him the whole truth? Well... does he have any idea of the full truth? Or just some nebulous idea of "my wife was abused by X person while she was a kid" and not much else? (based on your post it sounds like this is the case -- he's mostly clueless). What might happen if he knew everything? ... would he divorce you? Would he have gone through with marrying you if he knew prior to the wedding? I don't want to annoy him or disgust him by sharing too…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/18 07:34 AM
1	RPWomen - Make sure you invest time in RPMen AMAP ! lol you're gonna get banned	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/18 10:20 AM
–	Simple Questions Anyone can be friends with anyone.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/01/18 08:52 PM
5	[FR] Six months of work and DL4 issues This OP, this. She's playing the fuck out of you and she probably isn't even aware that she's doing it... it's not a totally conscious thing on her part. It's a combination of the patterns that have developed over the course of your relationship, the fact that you've been an unattractive beta fuck and how she's manipulated your non-existent frame, and last but not least her inherent female solipsism absolving her of blame and responsibility ("everyone's wrong, it can't be me, I'm such an angel, …	/r/askMRP	01/01/18 08:36 PM
4	Made A Cake. Sure, I'd like to see it. Just be careful not to post stuff that could doxx you if that's a concern.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/12/17 09:16 PM
-2	Made A Cake. Pics or it didn't happen	/r/RedPillWomen	15/12/17 08:57 PM
1	Talk about previous LTR? You're in her frame my dude. So, can it be a good idea to just tell wife " you've always said I should be myself, well here I am, like it or not" when she asks why I've changed so much etc? This is DEERing and posturing at outcome independence ('like it or not') without actually being so. OI -- indeed, almost everything -- is communicated through congruent action and frame, not by saying it. ("Man, I could use a good fuck right now") Don't use words like this. Just fuck her. Overt vocal communic…	/r/askMRP	13/12/17 07:55 AM
2	Friend is making a huge mistake... Should I even say anything? the feminazi's got wise to the foreign girls a long time ago and got the politicians to pass a law - you only get 2 shots (lifetime) to try for a K-1 fiance's visa now. Fucking American cunts are truly terrified of any and all competition ROFL that's insane. I never even thought that would be a thing but it makes perfect sense. God forbid if betas' resources are outsourced by foreign tail. Another example of how oppressed the feminists are by our evil patriarchy of a government right? /s	/r/askMRP	15/11/17 08:12 AM
2	Question for those whose wife had/has cheated. I'm gonna propose a bit of a different angle here. Nothing revolutionary, you've probably thought about it yourself at some point. This path will almost certainly lead to divorce. Heregoes: You must prepare for divorce starting now. Get a timeline together, start speaking with attorneys, research everything -- custody / child support, fault / no-fault, financials, logistics for everyone involved. You must own your shit completely... sounds like you're getting to that point, so that's good. When …	/r/askMRP	07/11/17 10:06 AM
11	x-post from ask/trp: how to encourage my partner to focus on me LESS I think you've answered your own question in this post. I believe I've pieced it together – let me know. First of all, this seems like a temporary situation. Once things iron out and he gets in the groove of his new career path, his anxiety will alieviate and he'll be able to focus more on his job. Naturally, he'll vest less in you, so you may not have to say anything. Continue to be a great partner to him... I'd avoid covert manipulation tactics like: be a more neutral presence in his life (i.e…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/11/17 08:26 AM
8	Approaching Men: the Art of the Bad Excuse. I agree with Rivkariver, these examples are too subtle and a bit awkward. Example 1 comes across as a sort of awkward compliment, even more so if you deliver it with a flirty tone because there's nothing really romantic about being associated with good coffee. Honestly, if a girl said this to me I would think she was teasing me or joking around (and not in a flirty way, more of a shit-testy way). Example 2 is also a bit awkward... if I'm understanding you correctly you mean something like being …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/17 07:23 PM
5	Need help brothers. Shave my beard...shit test? You're in her frame my dude.	/r/askMRP	10/10/17 11:38 PM
1	Women with higher SMV than you Perhaps this is too forward, but how is your sex life? Is he fulfilled in that aspect? Are you? Is he attracted to you, and vice versa?	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/17 08:23 AM
3	Male shit tests In other words, men will put women in situations where they have to choose a certain course of action. They will observe these actions and draw conclusions about her character. Because watch what they do, not what they say.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/17 05:31 AM
13	[Advice] Looking for insights as to where I went wrong with seemingly interested man I agree with this assessment. At the end of the day, you're treating him like a close friend rather than a romantic interest. And, yes, you rejected him twice. As a guy, I'd have 'taken the hint' by that point as well and assumed you weren't interested. This situation makes me think of a phrase tossed around on the RP subs from time to time: "if a woman really wants to fuck you, she'll do everything in her power to make that happen." Don't take this at literal face value, by the way -- this is m…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/17 07:41 PM
5	Maintaining frame This post is garbage my dude. You should add some context, clean up formatting and punctuation, and ask a more focused question.	/r/askMRP	15/09/17 08:51 PM
4	Input sought Some women -- either through life experience (i.e. they're actually whores or engage in sugar-daddy-type arrangements) or otherwise -- are fully aware of the transactional nature of sexual relationships. They accept it... probably bitterly; indeed, the pill is a bitter one to swallow. The majority of women are naturally redpilled to an extent and do recognize the transactional nature of many relationship dynamics. But there's nothing romantic or special about this, so they allow their own hamste…	/r/askMRP	14/09/17 10:52 AM
6	FR- Lots of progress, lots of fuck ups You need to get your shit together and divorce her. You're a mess, she's a mess, the difference is you're self-aware and she'll probably be lost in a sea of solipsism and feelz over realz for the rest of her life. So, it's on your to make your life and your child's life infinitely better by getting 1000 miles away from this whore, and making yourself into a better man. Contact divorce attorneys in your area, get your ducks in a row, and prepare for war. The more dumb stunts you pull, like fuckin…	/r/askMRP	10/08/17 09:48 PM
17	Text tweaks Memes to the rescue	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/08/17 06:48 PM
3	3 [FRs]- Setting a boundary, IDGAF, and saying "No" Solid FR, grats on the progress, keep it up. One small thing struck me, however, when reading this: ...and took the soda from me. I then told her I wanted a kiss and so I went in and right before our lips touched I whispered "with a little tongue". And she complied. You spoke, instead of simply not speaking and leading with actions. Don't say "I want to kiss you" before kissing her... just kiss her. Don't say "...with a little tongue," just make it a tongue kiss. The words felt like negotiated d…	/r/askMRP	05/08/17 05:36 AM
5	Question about A&A A&A is a form of flirting. It's fun. It conveys wit and intelligence, which are attractive traits. It can make her forget whatever the fuck she's currently hamstering about and lift her mood. It can get people in your frame. It makes people laugh, including yourself. It can totally transform the conversation -- turning a boring, undesirable topic into something far more interesting... maybe even sex. Those are all good reasons to use it.	/r/askMRP	22/07/17 09:15 AM
1	Fat Feminists HATE HATE HATE Guys Learning Game Replying so i can revisit this comment and its wisdom in the future.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/17 10:36 AM
9	Looking for some advice. Situation is complicated. For all intents and purposes for now and the near future, your marriage is over. She has shown you her true self over the course of your first year of marriage and it's ugly. That being said, you're a fucking mess with zero frame and it is entirely your fault that you've let this shitty person ruin your life. You must fix yourself before you can proceed with any of the bullshit that involves her. Use the sidebar. It's too early to decide if you'll divorce her yet... I would give yourself at leas…	/r/askMRP	09/07/17 09:53 AM
1	I need help Have you floated the idea of a threesome by her?	/r/askMRP	11/05/17 12:54 AM
5	[FR] Progress on shit test management, and premature MAP phase 4 shock statement. There are two massive things going on here that are preventing you from seeing anything other than single pine needle in a massive redwood forest. Actually there are three. You are approaching EVERYTHING involving your wife in the most autistic way imaginable. This is because.... You have no frame, thus hers is de facto. And you fall right in line. You're... well... clueless too, so you have to autistically follow Homer McDonald's book to a tee in order to function in any capacity that isn't tot…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/04/17 06:52 AM
2	To threesome or not to threesome? If you DO decide to go through with it... You have to have a diamond frame. Do not show any doubt, hesitation, or guilt. If your wife gets a mere whiff that you're having second thoughts, her hamster will take it and build a nuclear bomb. You must be focused, calm, fun, and totally in the moment if you do go through with it. Have a nice, flirty lunch. Get the women talking and bonding over common interests. Treat your wife like your wife (you know what that entails), treat the other girl like a …	/r/askMRP	12/04/17 10:09 PM
5	Confirmed. She's cheating Congrats sir. Keep us updated on your progress.	/r/askMRP	11/04/17 06:27 AM
1	Need your advice on emotionally cheating wife. We really do have a pretty good family life, despite our currently fucked up relationship. I'm pissed, just don't want to make a hasty decision that will forever change my kids lives. Sir, your kids' lives have already been inextricably changed. Your relationship with your wife will never be the same. I highly, highly doubt your "previously fucked up relationship" will improve; rather, I imagine it will only worsen. Yeah, you guys can be courteous roommates with each other when dealing with your…	/r/askMRP	06/04/17 10:52 AM
2	Why is the "moderation" for this sub such beta male sissy's? 1/10 up your game son	/r/askMRP	27/03/17 03:35 AM
7	Blowjobs are a "special treat" Glorious. This sums up 90% of MRP. Now if we could just print your post on billions of pamphlets and air-drop them all over the world.	/r/askMRP	04/03/17 02:23 AM
4	How do I address when she does something annoying Sir, I advise deleting this post, reading the entire side-bar over the course of 1-3 months, then coming back here if you still have this issue. Godspeed.	/r/askMRP	02/03/17 03:15 AM
2	To Game or Not To Game I think you should start fucking other women. If she has zero interest in any form of intimacy, then she doesn't get to complain if you get your needs met elsewhere.	/r/askMRP	26/02/17 03:36 AM
33	(Serious) Why Shouldn't Women Perform Sex Work? You can't make a ho a housewife...	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/17 05:20 AM
5	Was this a shit test and did I pass? This is a case of her venting her feelz in a very indirect, round-about way, but they were obviously intended for you. Also, this was a shitty comfort test. She wants more kids (for whatever reason), it probably isn't gonna happen, she's well past the wall and gaining weight, she'll likely be infertile in ~5 years. Ho boy, life is hard. I'm sure 3 more kids will make everything better, right? You failed her shitty comfort test. The root problem is that you're caring too much about her emotions; …	/r/askMRP	16/02/17 11:54 PM
3	How to get out of Rambo mode as a newbie Don't let her handle important document related shit again. Do it yourself or have someone close that you trust do it instead of her (e.g. her father in this case). She's just a teenager. You've got to be the adult: lead the family, take control of important things.	/r/askMRP	15/02/17 06:13 AM
3	How to hold frame with shit test from wife that causes major disturbance in everyday life? Having flashbacks to LifeChoiceReflector's posts?	/r/askMRP	14/02/17 10:45 AM
1	she isn't going to get me a present and it's going to be my fault. Why does she owe you a present?	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/02/17 12:10 AM
5	[FR] The Emotional Rollercoaster Great FR and some serious progress. I have a critique of your thinking, though: You're still wrapped up in her frame (which is a-OK being only 2-3 months in). You're still playing the 'nice guy' / 'problem fixer' / 'captain-save-a-ho' role and I don't think you're aware that it's still coming out, despite you being aware of your life-long nice guy syndrome and having this catharsis with her. Toward the end of your post you're taking ownership for basically everything... which is exactly what you…	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/02/17 12:02 AM
4	FR - Main event & on my way out Congrats on making the right choice. Keep us updated with your progress, let us know how the divorce plays out, etc. Good luck.	/r/askMRP	30/01/17 05:27 AM
4	Crossing boundaries She probably doesn't treat anyone in the whole wide world with as much consistent disrespect as you. Not her Mom, not the random bitches she hates, not the mailman, not the barista, not even an ant. You've allowed -- enabled -- her to do this. How would you treat anyone other than your wife if they acted like your she did toward you? Don't over-think this, take your initial gut reaction. When she behaves as such, treat her as if she was any other fucking person in the world, because that's what …	/r/askMRP	28/01/17 11:52 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - January 17, 2017 Thanks again, I will check it out... I certainly need to improve myself and my life	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/01/17 12:00 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - January 17, 2017 Thanks for this info, definitely interesting and i agree that you should expand this into its own post on r/marriedredpill What is the name of the last system you describe -- the one that we can try in a few hours?	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/01/17 06:31 AM
8	What's your favorite excuse for disciplining wife? Seriously? You don't need a plausible reason to do anything to your wife. No need to manufacture a scenario where she fucks up so that you feel... okay... with smacking her ass somewhat hard and repeatedly. Just tell her that she has been naughty -- doesn't actually matter if she has or hasn't. If she asks "what for?" or tries to get into the role-play of it... tell her something kinda funny and retarded like "the meatloaf was too juicy." Have fun -- that's what this is supposed to be. Or feed h…	/r/askMRP	10/01/17 08:00 PM
8	Halfway between loving The Red Pill and getting bummed out about it Some guys might find your professional accomplishments attractive and valuable. Most guys do respect some women. In fact, a majority of western men are not even aware that TRP exists and do not subscribe to its beliefs. However, AMALT is still true -- men don't prefer frigid, harpy-ish, out-of-shape women for sex or relationships. They prefer sweet, submissive, fit, and sexually available women. What's important is that your accomplishments matter to you. This is probably the biggest rule of eve…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/12/16 07:18 AM
2	GF is starting to gain weight. What to do? Have you read the sidebar my friend? If not, do so.	/r/askMRP	16/12/16 10:59 PM
2	Suspect wife is starting emotional affair Truth	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/12/16 08:41 AM
5	Deadlock And no, I won't do "next". There's more than my life at stake. Two kids do at least live with a father. That's a weak negotiating position, I know, probably she knows to. But it doesn't mean I can't have sex outside of that arrangement should I choose so. You're fucked dude.	/r/askMRP	10/12/16 11:21 AM
13	Fell for my housemate/friend, feel crushed, how can I get over it and not ruin our friendship? You got roommate-zoned.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/16 11:40 PM
3	I trust me with the nuclear codes ...a particularly nasty fight. The details don't matter. I've seen more positive progress in my home life in the last three weeks than I have in the last year. Why must you spare us the juicy details sir? In all seriousness though, when the man is truly ready to issue the final ultimatum... when he's finally had enough and has come to terms with dumping his wife... all pretenses of "gaming" disappear when the ultimatum is given. It's pure congruence. Pure selfishness (or rather, self-interest). …	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/11/16 10:38 PM
4	Don't unload your problems on your wife Yep, not even one's own mother can provide true emotional and moral support. Learned that one the hard way, then found the pill a short time later and it all made sense. Female solipsism is quite a beast.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/11/16 10:22 PM
1	I don't deserve you... Had to be done	/r/askMRP	05/11/16 11:56 PM
2	Went to strip club and told wife. Beta feelz coming on. She said she didn't want to talk to me for a while. Then I said ok and started cooking breakfast. The silent treatment is actually a gift. See: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2qygv7/i_love_the_silent_treatment/	/r/askMRP	15/10/16 08:54 PM
1	Went to strip club and told wife. Beta feelz coming on. Some combination of hamstering, projection, and solipsism.	/r/askMRP	15/10/16 08:48 PM
0	Need advice Hi! Have you read the side-bar? On the right ---> If not, check it out	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/16 07:11 AM
2	GF confirmed for AWALT okay.png	/r/askMRP	07/10/16 12:45 AM
1	So tempted to talk, not act, plus more I one-hundred-fucking-percent agree with this post. Just why, OP? What do you really want? What are you afraid of?	/r/askMRP	06/10/16 08:34 PM
2	D- On a shit test, I think If you want me to act otherwise you'll need to convince me. So you think the hypothetical married Chad would ask her to DEER to him the reasons she feels how she feels? Okay.	/r/askMRP	28/09/16 07:08 PM
1	D- On a shit test, I think You're entirely consumed by a DEER mindset. Shit, you're DEERing to us: The store I went to is 3 blocks away. The supermarket you go to is a 15 minute drive each way. Also, no one said you HAD to ask us all for permission. (I did NOT say that, that's DEERing, I know.) You may not have said that to her, but you're also entirely in her frame. All she has to do is toss out a meek shaming tactic and you completely fold. Maybe not obviously in that moment -- you manage to blurt out an odd negative in…	/r/askMRP	28/09/16 06:55 PM
1	Does growing up with a sister diffuse some blue pill dispositions? This is awesome actually... You should expand your thoughts on being active in the PTA, defending your son from the FI, and being the boss parent at your school into its own comprehensive post. I'm sure 97% of fathers are barely involved (not to mention still plugged-in) in their kid's school life and, honestly, it can seriously fuck kids up, especially boys, if they are just left to the whims of school systems saturated by females -- staff, teachers, moms, lunch-ladies, the list goes on... and …	/r/askMRP	13/09/16 10:20 PM
1	FR: On The Road Again I am going to go against the grain here and say this: Some people simply are the way they are, and that aspect of a person will never really change UNLESS they recognize that aspect as being negative and genuinely want to change it for themselves as well as others. But, honestly, a lot of the time, people aren't even fucking aware of it, so how could they ever decide to change it. You're smart, so I'm sure there are flaws of your character and personality that you've realized and thought about c…	/r/askMRP	13/09/16 08:46 AM
6	Preparing my Plan B - executing a clean break. Advice from those who've been there? This is amazing advice	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/09/16 06:04 PM
3	Short trick for you, to become more feminim Someone submit his pic to Photoshop Battles	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/16 01:47 AM
2	Therapy or divorce showdown... I agree with the other initial impressions -- you seem to lack frame. Your frame is to hate your wife's frame. And for good reason, it seems pretty shitty. You should give more details -- how much of the sidebar have you read? Approximate dread level? How long implementing the Red Pill? Are you a boring fuck... or do you have cool hobbies, interests, and activities outside of the house? Seems like your wife is a boring fuck. Anyway, as for the counseling. I would lay it straight, as it seems you…	/r/askMRP	29/08/16 05:23 AM
1	Log: 15 Year Anniversary tonight Your "R,R, & R" section is actually more hamster-y than the "my own hamster" section. Reason being? First list, you're actually being selfish. You're actually in YOUR OWN FRAME. It's a shitty and angry frame, but it's yours and it's true for you. You then some-fucking-how think that your original selfish thoughts are bad (they aren't, you're still a huge nice guy) and you transform them to mold to your wife's frame and, by extension, the feminine imperative. Don't get me wrong, obviously there a…	/r/askMRP	25/08/16 08:33 PM
2	Help me get divorced the right way Damn son. I'd start researching divorce laws and policy in your state of residence. Visit several divorce attorneys to discuss your situation. Slowly and covertly stash away cash for the divorce. Do you think she would divorce you first? Why are you two under the same roof at this very moment?	/r/askMRP	13/08/16 05:07 AM
24	Wife Returns to a Main Event I nominate this for Shit Test Response of the Year: "you need to stop being a huge bitch, or you need to get the hell out of my house. Your choice. I don't care. But I am not living with this anymore. You have the maturity level of a 12 year old. You need to grow up and control your emotions and treat me with respect and love. If you don't want to do that, I will go talk to a divorce attorney tomorrow. I will spend as much money as it takes to have my kids and get you out of this house. I spent …	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/08/16 11:13 PM
4	Shit test: Are you disappointed we didn't have sex? Your head is in the right place but saying this would actually be awful. It's DEER-ish, tit-for-tat-ish (you're stupid so I'm gonna go play on the other playground!!!11), way too overt... you don't tell someone you're busy, you simply are busy. Actions communicate 1000% better than words	/r/askMRP	31/07/16 08:12 PM
4	Don't want to f*ck this up. How to proceed. Dude, she wants the dick. Lay some pipe. If she's giving you starfish, or is being weird about it, whatever -- go a bit caveman and bust a nut. DON'T be caught up in her moods or quirks, don't focus on her if she isn't into it. If she gives you soft-no's or LMR, try to cruise through those as if they were another playful shit test (which they are). Hard no? Hey, no skin off your teeth. Continue to hang-out with her if you want. Or go do something productive. When you think like this, you're in h…	/r/askMRP	22/07/16 08:07 PM
1	Slow Learner Keeps Screwing Up Run.	/r/askMRP	22/07/16 02:12 AM
5	Wife If she fucked this guy, she wouldn't have mentioned anything to you. If she was actually sexually attracted to this guy and anything happened (even just a kiss) she wouldn't have mentioned anything to you. You will probably never know the exact truth unless you talk to the guy. Or press your wife really hard. I think there are two likely scenarios here. Scenario 1: this is some weird humble-brag by your wife to the people in her life about how some respected colleague hit on her cuz she's just t…	/r/askMRP	18/07/16 06:53 AM
3	Just started, she wants cake You want to be the leader of your household? Part of being a leader is giving your crew appropriate levels of autonomy. You cannot directly control others. You cannot force them to change. You can only control and change yourself. You may state your preferences, or try to offer guidance, but at the end of the day, she decides exactly what she puts in her mouth. (e.g. I prefer your hair longer... I would love a blowjob... Lets try a different delicacy for your Birthday, like some fruit with fresh…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/07/16 09:10 PM
4	Lost my cool and got Emotional question? (Help Me Masters) You should read the side-bar, hold-off on moving in with her, and report back later	/r/askMRP	12/07/16 03:04 AM
1	Thank you?... That Johnny Napalm, he's still got it!	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/07/16 10:10 AM
3	How to AM or A&A this? Could do a sort of pressure flip, e.g.: Her: "Pack for our move tonight." You: "Gotcha hun. Suck my dick before bed." in the same tone but obviously an AM-ish tease. Possible AA: Her: "Pack for our move tonight." You: "Holy shit I TOTALLY forgot about that! Thank god you remembered! You're smart! Have you applied to MENSA yet?" Use my ideas at your own risk.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/06/16 04:55 AM
1	Has this come up? I'm at a loss RIP cad...	/r/askMRP	30/06/16 04:21 AM
2	I've read quite a lot already the past 2 weeks, but I finally need to write this shit out and get my stupid questions out of the way. You need to completely quit drinking. Have you done that?	/r/askMRP	29/06/16 06:09 AM
6	Getting out of a beta mess: Wait for SMV-increase to get out of agreed dead bedroom or instigate now to show her I'm a man after all? Amazing OP, this is it	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/06/16 01:49 AM
3	Husband No Longer Passionate Sounds like a sub-optimal situation for sure. Thing is... the overall gist of your post is a mix of the following: Victim puke Emotional plea to internet strangers to sympathize with you and validate your position Damsel-in-distress-type cry for help (I just have no idea how to fix this, someone please tell me what to do!) Not blaming or criticizing you here, just be aware that, ultimately, the information you provided is thin and makes it difficult to give you good advice. For example: Also, my…	/r/askMRP	23/06/16 06:09 PM
1	Should I End my Marriage for Trivial Reasons: UPDATE ayy lmao	/r/askMRP	22/06/16 12:17 AM
4	How do you manage a newborn in the house? I'm not an expert on babies or kids (I have none) but "moving out" of the master bedroom and into the detached garage is a horrible idea. Your wife is marginalizing the fuck out of you. That blows. And yes: her innate female solipsism prevents her from understanding anything from outside of her perspective -- especially at this time with a newborn baby and hormones in spades. So your solution is to put the essentially put the nail in the marginalization coffin yourself by ... totally removing yo…	/r/askMRP	21/06/16 01:36 AM
7	If a woman is supposed to be submissive, are her needs less important? I wish I was much more stupid I wish this sometimes, too. I want to turn off my brain and just do the things that I know I need to do. Be a robot. Fuck (my) fear and anxiety and hamstering.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/16 09:01 AM
1	MRP - reboot advice sheet lol	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/06/16 10:29 AM
6	Growing up with an Alpha father. Introspection with questions and observations about The Red Pill. Has anyone else who's discovered The Red Pill gone through this sad phase when they realize men think like this? That this is just how things are? The majority of western men (i.e. at least 50%) are basically beta and have been conditioned not to think like Red Pill guys. Fully-awakened RP guys are a very slim portion of the male populace. AMALT is still true, though, and even the most beta to omega of men will experience the occasional "glitch in the matrix," i.e., they'll have a gut feeling th…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/16 09:12 PM
10	Guidelines for RPW dating? I think you're getting ahead of yourself. First dates aren't a "husband interview session." Consider approaching a first or second date as a chance to have a fun and pleasant time and get to know someone who you're interested in. I think you're too caught up in the "theory, principles, and rules" of The Red Pill, and not focused on being a quality, fun, attractive version of yourself that can take a bit of a risk and go on a first date. No amount of reading or monk-mode'ing can replace the actua…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/16 02:23 AM
8	12 year marriage flip, captains log week 2 She's taking runs at you to try and pull you into her shitty frame -- you're just a beta bitch that she can easily control with her arsenal of manipulation, sex-weaponization, gaslighting, etc., right? That's her frame. My husband is my punching bag. It's a pretty miserable frame, and it drags everyone down. So, she comes at you with the classic moves and you refuse to engage. Rather, you tell her frame to fuck off. That shit is irrelevant now. There is no spoon. She also sees that you're now bu…	/r/askMRP	24/05/16 02:07 AM
2	The Tipping Point… what next? I'm no expert, nor is the solution to your sex problem jumping out at me plain and clear, but a couple random thoughts: Are you gaming her? More importantly, are you spending fun time with her? Playing a fun card game, going out to a show with her, gardening together, whatever the fuck -- some fun activity that lets you organically game her and enchant her and be not a boring fuck with her? I guess the term for this would be quality time where you lead her both in the activity, lead her in game,…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/05/16 03:46 AM
2	I need some insight. The other comments are spot on and should get your started down the right path. I'll chime in with something smaller, though-- Dude, get your fucking digital life under control. You speak as if this girl is the NSA or something and just by default has access to every number you come across, every picture you put on social media, etc. Maybe you're a technological retard, but it isn't that hard to reign in your shit, get a password on your phone, fine-tune privacy settings, whatever. Also, read th…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/05/16 06:37 PM
13	Not sure what to do about sexual turn downs, possibly manipulation? How much of the side-bar materials have you read? Anywho, the TL;DR of your lack-of-sex-with-wife issues are as follows: You lack frame You come off as a desperate, needy bitch You lack outcome independence (not even faking it til you make it) You're trying to negotiate desire You fail to lead your wife both in and out of the bedroom, hence she feels shitty Having sex with you probably sucks If you do not understand any of the above, then you haven't read enough of the side-bar to be employing T…	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/04/16 09:47 AM
2	[Epic FR] 12 Months of MAP Progress Amazing FR. Very inspiring. This belongs on the wiki. Looking forward to more FR's and thoughts. Cheers.	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/04/16 09:11 PM
7	Don't want to visit GF's parents for a week I give you permission to stay home and not go.	/r/askMRP	18/04/16 05:20 PM
0	Slept with 100 women, what next. Get tested for STD's?	/r/askTRP	16/04/16 09:20 AM
1	An Analysis of My Weekend. This, OP	/r/askMRP	05/04/16 12:45 AM
1	The superficial alpha. Okay	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/04/16 01:58 AM
3	Loneliness You say: Yes, I understand that he "isn't responsible for [my] feelings," Then say: I'm beginning to feel resentment as well because when I explain that time with him is an emotional need, not only did he not make more of it, he made less. He isn't responsible for your feelings, yet you've convinced yourself that his presence is crucial to your feelings. Why do you have to be around him to have good feels? Consider trying to reach a point where you're perfectly happy being single, totally on you…	/r/askMRP	12/03/16 06:04 AM
5	[FR] It never stops Awesome field report. I remember reading another comment of yours a while back where you were describing your blue pill past. You said something to the effect of: "I did all this work on our new house, jobs X, Y, and Z , all labor intensive, and I believed that these would add-up to 'check marks in my column,' which could then be 'cashed-in' later for sex, fun, whatever, from the wife." Of course, as we now know, these are massive convert contracts. Your wife was also complicit in the convert-co…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/02/16 11:06 PM
0	I just don't care about my wife troll post i give it a 4 out of 10	/r/askMRP	10/01/16 03:19 AM
3	She's Letting me go LOL this is one of the best things I've read in months	/r/askMRP	06/01/16 09:04 PM
0	She's Letting me go Dude, vamp is a monstrous piece of work. At least she's finally realized she can't make you happy, has told you so, and is acting on it by leaving. I know it's fucked up, but you actually do deserve a woman who's interested in making you happy. Congrats. Post updates.	/r/askMRP	06/01/16 08:30 AM
4	Cheated - Deserve the Beating to Come Not much to say, but I'll echo what others have said about your guilty conscience and whether you should tell your wife. Do not tell your wife for now. Only consider telling her once you have all your shit together, are thoroughly owning your shit, and have solved your mental issues (self-destructive, addictive behaviors, etc.) . If you tell her now or in the near future you will probably destroy your family and get divorce raped. Prepare for these things first, then decide.	/r/askMRP	04/01/16 07:35 AM
2	FR: 1.5 months of trying to unplug This post will either be entirely rejected by OP, or it will mind-fuck him and totally shift his mental paradigm.	/r/askMRP	31/12/15 11:20 AM
1	Possible silent shit test? Neither of us have enough information about OPs overall situation, or the instance with the kid, to correctly say what's happening. We're both making huge assumptions. But maybe our respective POVs can help him out.	/r/askMRP	21/12/15 06:48 AM
3	Possible silent shit test? "you need to make the kid get outta bed and clean it." A basic yet thoroughly retarded and disrespectful compliance test. Mental exercise: flip the script here. You're playing Legos with your kid, you both clean up when done, and later you notice that your kid left some random straggler Legos under the couch. You go to your wife without a second thought and say: "make the kid get outta bed and clean up the Legos under the couch." How would she respond to that? Would she lose her shit? Would she …	/r/askMRP	21/12/15 05:07 AM
14	How to mate guard (if at all) when you aren't around? http://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/ tl;dr -- if she wants to fuck around, she will. There's nothing you can do. Also, she isn't/never was/never will be yours, it's just your turn with her.	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/12/15 12:46 AM
1	Update from Vamp's Husband I don't have anything revolutionary to say, just a couple small suggestions: She's giving you some comfort-tests masked as shit-tests, ("Do you ever think of anyone but yourself?"), and your answers are too logical and dead-pan. You're missing an opportunity to either agree and amplify ("You mean I'm not the only person on the planet!?"), or whatever more dynamic and interesting response you can muster other than just straight-answering with "sometimes." Your words are kinda cold and uninspired …	/r/askMRP	05/12/15 05:09 AM
1	Coming up on a year of separation I still wish there was a way to implement a course correction. Why do you want to stay married to her?	/r/askMRP	04/12/15 03:08 AM
5	Coming up on a year of separation How exactly is this borderline adding value to your life?	/r/askMRP	04/12/15 02:22 AM
1	Thank You I second this -- please give us updates down the road! Thanks to both of you for posting.	/r/askMRP	22/11/15 12:38 AM
3	She's on to me at every turn, like she knows of the matrix better than I ever realized Stop giving a shit? You're 1000% in her frame. How about stepping out of it for a day a living your life for yourself. Surely you don't derive all of your happiness and fulfillment from this bitch... do you?	/r/askMRP	20/11/15 05:46 AM
6	drunk for 10 years (including cheating), cleaned up, implemented MRP, but have a problem I'm not an expert, but I think there a two issues here, and solving both won't be easy. First issue, your SMV isn't high enough to warrant her giving you her best in the bedroom. She knows that she doesn't need to do these kinky things with you, because you aren't going anywhere (she even feels comfortable not ghosting this ex of hers... she's more outcome-independent than you are and has at least one branch to swing to. AWALT). You're still in her frame with these issues; too focused on how she…	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/11/15 03:33 AM
4	Wife needing advice This is going to be long, but I think it can help. Take my words as you see fit, I am not in a LTR or marriage. You begin with: "something is definitely wrong because we're both unhappy." Solipsism. You're projecting your own feelings on to him. Is he unhappy? Have you asked him, or has he told you as much? He might be actually finding some happiness on his own for the first time in years as he works to be the man he wants to be. Not only that, you're speaking in "we" terms here and relinquishin…	/r/askMRP	13/11/15 10:44 PM
3	Indian Girls I'm not even Indian, just some random white dude, but I want to say that I find the whole sex/dating/marriage culture of Indians to be really fascinating. Thanks for the informative post OP.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/15 06:43 AM
4	Covert contract - sex for another baby, ovulating, & initiating I'm not in a marriage or LTR so take my words as you like. The massive problem here is that you're entirely in her frame. You're focusing too heavily on your dead-bedroom, you're far too attached to the outcome of any sexual encounters with her, you're STILL engaging in covert contract / desire-negotiation thinking (exploiting her to desire to get pregnant for some 'guaranteed' sex, trying to bait out some BJ action by calling out the starfish sex, etc.) Think about this for a second -- you're F…	/r/askMRP	05/11/15 03:39 AM
3	Being beta has my wife wanting divorce. Ready to take the red pill, but could use some pointers. She accepted, we talked, and it was the most productive conversation we’d had since everything started. Can we get details on this conversation? What was said, things agreed on, etc.? Also, are you lifting? If not, start tomorrow. Three times a week minimum. How old are your kids? What would you objectively put your SMV at? Your wife's?	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/08/15 04:36 AM
1	Massive shit test...stumbled. Need recovery help. Agreed, do keep us posted	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/08/15 04:10 AM
9	How to get my wife out of her sexual shell? I'm not married or in a LTR so take my words as you like. Your wife's shortcomings in the sack are likely part of a network of extremely deep-seated issues. Issues that probably developed during childhood and adolescence, and then continued to evolve as her life went on. Obviously, they haven't just ... gone away... or been dealt with... how would she/you/both of you even properly 'deal with them'? I don't think anyone currently has the answer to that question. Second, this issue of hers is also…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/08/15 10:07 AM
-2	Wife admits she was just trying to make me lose frame [FR] Great post Strategos. Congrats on successfully holding frame. I've been following your submissions and I'm enjoying your journey. One thing I wonder: yes, your wife may be BPD, but at what point do you think it would be appropriate (or even viable) to try to get her to adjust her overall behavior and thought patterns to avoid frequent unproductive shit like this? How would you go about it if you were to try? Convince her to see a therapist? Try to adjust her behavior yourself? In couples counsel…	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/01/15 01:01 PM