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People with psychopathic personality traits use different personas depending on what they want from the different people in their lives. They switch out the mask as needed. Not every case manifests in extreme violence and criminality. People high in psychopathic traits can be functional members of society, and many become very successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:58 PM
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And they still have plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:40 PM
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Every divorce lawyer I spoke to told me that split custody is standard now. Asking for more time can look shady, and it’s risky even with just cause. The men here complaining about custody and divorce have no personal experience with either. If a man wants equal time, there aren’t many judges around today that will deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:48 AM
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How could anyone know that if they don’t try? Courts today, at least here in Tx, seem pretty set on 50/50 shared custody. My ex had a record of domestic violence, multiple recent DUIs, our kids refused to be alone with him, and still my attorney wouldn’t stop warning me that judges automatically assume that a parent fighting for primary custody is being unreasonable. After 15,000 in court costs, they finally understood the day he failed a breathalyzer immediately after picking up the kids. If da…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:25 AM
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The average child support payment is $5,150/year or $430/month. The reality is that women aren’t likely to benefit financially from receiving primary physical custody. Most of the men paying child support aren’t paying anywhere near enough to support the child, so the mother definitely isn’t profiting from it. Over 35 percent of custodial mothers receiving child support were impoverished 16-18 months following the divorce while only 10.5 percent of all non-custodial fathers (those paying child s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:52 AM
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If a person is considering entering into a marriage, they should make an effort to understand the basic laws that might effect them in the future. The laws for alimony are different in every state, but they aren’t hard to find. The people these laws apply to are usually successful with above average income. They’re usually not oblivious to divorce law when they enter into the marriage contract, and if they fail to educate themselves then that’s on them. The knowledge isn’t hidden from anyone. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:04 AM
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In 51% of child custody cases, both parents agree for the mother to be the custodial parent. In general mothers are more likely to seek primary custody and less likely to abandon their children. Lots of men go AWOL. Of course the courts will award the majority of parental rights to the parent that’s present in the children’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:30 AM
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one in nine full-time stay-at-home parents are fathers, up from one in 14 in 2019. The further you go back the less common it was, and the ones that are staying home now are still married, so they’re not getting any alimony. Alimony is already extremely rare and becoming less common every year anyway. It’s a non issue. The majority of families today are struggling with two incomes, so having a full time stay at home parent isn’t an option. They’ll never have to worry about alimony. Why hyper foc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:17 AM
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Because it’s an insurance policy to protect stay at home parents. It provides financial security to the spouse that crippled their own earning potential in order to devote all of their time and attention to the healthy development of their children. Men that can easily afford to support a family on their own income usually prefer it. It makes his own life easier and benefits his children. It’s valuable to the family as a whole, but if the marriage ends, the wife is going to be much less valuable…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:06 AM
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Are you aware of how rarely anyone, male or female, is actually awarded alimony after divorce? When it is granted, it’s usually when one spouse was a full-time homemaker, so of course more women are going to receive it than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:43 AM
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Yes definitely. I’m a 34 yr old female with a pretty face and a decent body somewhere between slim and average. Also a divorced mom with 2 teenagers and a low stress job that supports a frugal lifestyle. Im definitely drawn to a particular type physically, and in my experience that type is pretty much always attracted to me as well, which I acknowledge makes me privileged in dating. My type: Usually 10-15 yrs older than myself, shaved or completely bald head with a nice full beard (any color), a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:12 PM
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All I’m saying is that girls should have a few at least years of life experience before settling down. If children are important they should focus on that before early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:27 AM
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Of course men do . I know that’s always been the case. I read “created to be his help mate” when I was young, and wanted the to be a trad wife, so I settled early, married a traditional man, and did everything by the book. It didn’t work out well at all, although I’m happy with my current partner and children. It’s just very sad that the the kids aren’t safe with their actual father, who is currently in the Philippines looking for his next victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:48 PM
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I never would have described it that way if Ihadn’t just a read a thread where super bitter men were complaining about single moms choosing to pass on the genes of criminals drug addicts. Just speaking their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:35 PM
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That’s exactly the the way I’ve seen it described by angry rp men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:29 PM
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That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:46 PM
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No, but it does imply that they don’t actually care about the number of women becoming single mothers the way that many of them claim. I think I get it now though. It’s a good strategy for taking advantage of young girls and then placing the blame on them afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:24 PM
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Ok I think I get it now. It does benefit all of them including the betas, because they think they’ll get to BB the desperate single mom after her life has been destroyed. And all the single mom hate satisfies the angry degenerates who deluded themselves into believing they could have had a shot if she hadn’t been such a whore. I guess scratching the hate itch is better than nothing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:46 PM
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Exactly! Then when the women that fall for it are 26 year old single moms with no education or job experience they’ll call them worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:34 PM
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I’m not complaining that it’s tough. 99% of women can easily get married by 20, but is that really a good idea for most people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:31 PM
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There’s a lot of time between 18 and 35 and a lot of the men here are really pushing the idea that younger and younger women are considered less desirable. Like each year chips away her worth. I don’t see how that’s not a recipe for awful decisions. It has nothing to do with having a hoe phase or party years. It’s about maturing beyond the level of a high schooler before choosing the man that will eventually father your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:01 PM
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Ok, but I thought RP men despised single mothers, so why spread these ideas that pressure very young women to start families?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:41 PM
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I agree that it’s normal and healthy to start relationships while young. The problem is rushing to find a husband while young based on a fear of losing value with each passing day. I don’t see how that could possibly lead to good decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:30 PM
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But they don’t have to learn the hard way and ruin their lives in order to learn. Western society has spent decades trying to discourage very young women and girls from making hasty sexual decisions that lead to children they’re not prepared for. RP men seem to encourage it, then demonize the women after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:17 PM
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No but it does make confident claims about what average men are looking for in a relationship, and a lot of easily influenced girls will read it, because they’re searching for it, just like you did. A lot of the guys here make claims that would completely backfire if they had any real on influence on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:49 PM
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Right I get that, but a lot of girls won’t, especially young impressionable teens who have low self esteem because they already feel like they’re not getting enough attention from the boys they like. Many men here do make statements about what women should do. It just seems like it would work against the mens interests if women actually took it to heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:34 PM
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Are guys that were caught off guard by divorce and aren’t sure wtf happened really the best ones to be giving advice? And aren’t there other other completely different categories of RP men with different goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:25 PM
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It’s buried in the comments of this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12mx663/practically_no_men_are_obsessed_with_sex_they/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:00 PM
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As a woman that spent ten years in an extremely abusive marriage, this is actually a good take. As bad as he was, I’m most angry with myself for getting involved in the first place and for staying so long. Although I didn’t stay for superficial reasons. I was religious and read “Created to be his Help Meet” and truly believed that if I kept showing what a good wife and mother I was, he’d become a better husband and father. Now I’m an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:19 PM
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Exactly. It’s not worth the risk. It’s funny considering how a lot of the men here seem to be trying to convince women that they should give more guys a chance. They’re doing the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:57 PM
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There’s a guy on another thread right now comparing being rejected for sex by a woman to being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:43 PM
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Sound like you want women to go around pity fucking losers who can’t get laid. Why would they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:06 PM
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But for what reason? Abuse, infidelity, addiction, etc. The reason for initiating the divorce matters. Obviously an abusive alcoholic would rather keep his family together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:42 AM
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Did you?
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 08:44 PM
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